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But as the more modern 11 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 2: versions of social media have been obsessive parts of our 12 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: everyday lives, Facebook and Twitter and Instagram and Tumbler pinion 13 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: us every time someone likes for comments on one of 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: our posts, their magic of creating bridges is sometimes overpowered 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: by their capacity to help us burn them. As the 16 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: technology changes in our networks grow wider, we are broadcasting 17 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: our thoughts and feelings just to chosen friends or limited 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: groups of strangers. Anymore, whole new category now has access 19 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 2: to us friends of friends of friends, people we know 20 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: but don't really know. The very active friending can now 21 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 2: come with the weighty expectations sometimes for funny content or 22 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: motivational quotes, or other times for emotional support or debate. 23 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter anymore if we have only met once 24 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 2: at a party, or haven't spoken since middle school, or 25 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: have never even met at all. Suddenly we might find 26 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 2: ourselves going back and forth in a comment thread about 27 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 2: anything from Nickelodeon nostalgia to Black Lives Matter, and we 28 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 2: feel entitled to each other's participation in all of it. 29 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: At the same time, that feeling of safety and vulnerability 30 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 2: we had with platforms like instant Messenger and the early 31 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 2: blogging site live journal has all but evaporated. It's hard 32 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: to feel comfortable enough to assess a vulnerability or empathy 33 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 2: in the quick fire world today's platforms have created. Knowing 34 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: all of this, a lot of critics, some of them 35 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: former proponents, argue that social media just isn't the place 36 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 2: to try to talk about important things. It's true that 37 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: we can't hear each other, tones, that we can't see 38 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: each other's faces. Empathy is certainly harder to muster than 39 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: when you're typing into a screen instead of looking into 40 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: someone's eyes. Online conversations are undoubtedly hard, but that doesn't 41 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: mean they're impossible. For those of us who have lived 42 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: much of our lives online, giving up on the possibility 43 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 2: of empathetic, empathic connection via technology doesn't feel like a 44 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: real option. Hey, welcome to the black Out to Us podcast. 45 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 2: I'm your host Rod joined us. Always find my co 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: host Kim Karen. 47 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 3: That's right. 48 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, you know you're part of the show too. 49 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 3: I am Miam and you do. 50 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 2: The excerpt from is from the book The Future of Feeling, Building, Empathy, 51 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 2: and the Tech Obsessed World by Kitlyn you Golic Phillips, 52 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 2: And it's near the beginning of the book, which you's 53 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: just kind of getting ready to talk about. The topic 54 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 2: kind of gets in a bunch of other areas later 55 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: in the book. But I think that's essentially the crux 56 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: of a lot of the at least the way that 57 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: I feel from social media a lot of times is 58 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: that in the bigger you circle gets and if everyone 59 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: use it differently, you know, not saying everybody has a 60 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: big friend group or has a lot of people who 61 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: are fine, you know, like I'm interested in your opinions, 62 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: you know, like I get that a lot, and I'm 63 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: not knocking it necessarily, but yeah, you do find yourself 64 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: interacting with people you would never have interacted with before. 65 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: You find yourselves with people feeling more familiar than they 66 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: are to you. And it could be because they consume 67 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: you at that rate. It could be because you consume them 68 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 2: at that rate. But that's not necessarily a relationship there, 69 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: because when you tweet or say something or put someone 70 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: on your tumbler, you're putting it out there to the world, 71 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: but the way it comes across it can feel like 72 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 2: it's to me. It can feel like, you know, what 73 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: you did was for me, and it it can become 74 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: a relationship in our head. And I really liked the 75 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 2: part about how having all of these extra connections to 76 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 2: people actually makes it easier to burn bridges because you 77 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: have a lot less connection to those people. Now, yeah, 78 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: there's no investment. Yes, there's no investment in getting rid 79 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: of you because you were never really here in the 80 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 2: first place. So you know, it's easy to block, mute, 81 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: go on someone's page and argue with them. You know, 82 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 2: you see all the time people that laugh and commiserate about, Hey, 83 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 2: I was kicked out of this group, I was banned 84 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: off of this, this person blocked me this, you know, 85 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: because it's like on both sides of that, whether it's 86 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: the person going I blocked that bitch, haha, or the 87 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 2: person going I'm blocked by that bitch, it's all kind 88 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: of the same vibe of like, this was never a 89 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 2: real relationship. So of course it's easy to just throw 90 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 2: that away because we have so many qu relationships that 91 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 2: aren't real anymore, partially because of social media. 92 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 4: Yes, and it's also one of those things to where 93 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 4: social media gives people the illusion of a closeness that's 94 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 4: not there. And I will continue to say that have 95 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 4: I met people online that I have real function and 96 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 4: relationships with? 97 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 3: Yes? 98 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 4: Have I met people online that I would not have 99 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 4: met in my real life if it had not been 100 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 4: for social media. Yes, social media is a beautiful thing, 101 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 4: like it can be something beautiful, something wonderful. A lot 102 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 4: of people have found a lot of great and positive communities, 103 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,239 Speaker 4: even our community, because of social media. 104 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 3: But it also, like you say, allow people to. 105 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 4: Be around you that you normally would not have ties with, 106 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 4: You probably wouldn't even talk to, I have no association 107 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 4: with whatsoever. 108 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 3: And so yes, I agree, it's easy to burn that bridgement. 109 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 4: I didn't know you, I didn't put it any in you, 110 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 4: and you actually didn't put any any investment in me. 111 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 4: And also because it gives the illusion of closeness, a 112 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 4: lot of people end up getting hurt because how you 113 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 4: view the relationship and how the other person view the 114 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 4: relationship may not be the same, right, And so that's 115 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 4: when a lot of conflicts and a lot of a 116 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 4: lot of hurt feelings and things are involved. 117 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 3: The people don't want to admit that. 118 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 4: It's like you might think, oh, yeah, you know I 119 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 4: DM this person, you know we did this. No, we 120 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 4: haven't met, but we're close, and then they do something 121 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 4: and next thing you know, your feelings are hurt and 122 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 4: you don't really understand why the person is responding like this. 123 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 4: But nobody ever asks themselves do I actually know this 124 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: person or do I know their representative? Yeah? 125 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: Like, one of the things I think about is life 126 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 2: in general is fraught with this. 127 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 3: Right. 128 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 2: It's not that this only exists on the internet or 129 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 2: social media that That's not what I'm trying to say 130 00:06:58,520 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: at all. 131 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,239 Speaker 5: But it's about capacity. 132 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: A human mind and a human being and just for 133 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: the allotment of time, resources and a bunch of other 134 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: shit that happens in our lives. We only have so 135 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: much time to give. So now the time that used 136 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: to be for let's say ten organic relationships in each 137 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 2: person's life. You know, let's say ten. It's probably much 138 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: less than that. But let's say you know the kind 139 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: of people you see enough to call friend. And even 140 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: if you have a huge circle social circle in real life, 141 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 2: it's not going to be you managing one hundred and 142 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: twenty relationships every day. 143 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: Right. 144 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: But if I log into my Facebook account, if I 145 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: log into my Twitter account, I'm that that the amount 146 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: of potential interaction is so much bigger. I have two 147 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 2: thousand and eighty five Facebook friends. I just look to see. 148 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: I can't manage two thousand relationships. 149 00:07:58,800 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 3: I have. 150 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 5: A lot of Twitter followers, don't I lose count? 151 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: I have shit. I almost sad thirty six thousand Twitter followers. Now, 152 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 2: I don't know thirty six thousand people. I couldn't name 153 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: thirty six thousand people. I can't manage thirty six thousand relationships, right, 154 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: And even if it was say a tenth of those people, 155 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: I can't manage that many relationships in my real life. 156 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: I feel like I have a handful of friends and 157 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: family that I connect with and talk to on a 158 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: regular basis. But through social media, we almost don't have 159 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 2: as much of a The bar to get in is 160 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 2: lower because it's just hit this button, you know, create 161 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 2: an account, hit this button. 162 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 5: And I think it does make us disposable. 163 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 4: You know. 164 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 2: And I think it also makes people extremely entitled, you know, 165 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 2: because what we're seeing is people feel like, because I 166 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 2: have so many choices, the people I follow to have 167 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: all the same opinions, I expect them to always be entertaining, 168 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 2: or I expect them to always be educational, or and 169 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: it's like we're picking television channels that are human beings 170 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 2: in their real lives. And you know, you may follow 171 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 2: someone for, oh, this is a lawyer and they're a 172 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 2: great resource on reproductive this, that and the other, reproductive 173 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 2: justice and civil rights. But also that person might like 174 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: talking about pretty little liars, right, you know. And you'll 175 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: see sometimes this happens to almost everybody. Why are you 176 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 2: talking about this? I didn't get upset. 177 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 4: They like, I, this is not what I tuned in for. 178 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 4: And you're like, bitch, you following me? 179 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: It's not reverse, right, And I think it it has 180 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: done something to us that makes people a bit more 181 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 2: expendable feeling. And I think also people measure a lot 182 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: of their value based off of who they have interacted with, 183 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: who they have and who they've had bad interactions with. 184 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: Like there's people that are like this motherfucker got me blocked. Haha, 185 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 2: ain't not the best. You know, I'll see y'all, y'all 186 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 2: getting so and so out the pain. You know, it 187 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: is that kind of feeling, And I don't know, you know, 188 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 2: at the core of all of this is a human 189 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: being on the other side of the screen somewhere that 190 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: is receiving what you're putting out. And I really really 191 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 2: love what she said about how the platforms don't convey everything. 192 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 4: No, they can't. There's no way that they can do that. 193 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 4: And also is one of the things to where I'm 194 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 4: not even gonna lie. I am so grateful and so 195 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 4: thankful that a lot of my youth was spent offline, 196 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 4: because I think that if all your interactions with a 197 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 4: lot of people are online, there is some social things 198 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 4: that you know, you don't tune, you don't get adjusted to, 199 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 4: and for some people it's a shock when they go 200 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 4: and actually have to. 201 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 3: Interact with real people versus people online. People. For the 202 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: realize those are two different things. 203 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 4: Interaction with people online has a particular set of rules 204 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 4: that only apply online. These motherfucking rules don't apply no 205 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 4: goddamn where else, no else. 206 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 3: Okay. Then you go into the real world and real 207 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 3: people are. 208 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 4: Like looking at you like something's wrong with you because 209 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 4: you're still interacting and you're still responding the way you 210 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: would online. Online, particularly if you get wrapped up into 211 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 4: a lot of the negativity, is very aggressive. 212 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 3: It's very mean spirited. 213 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 4: It's very I don't give anybody the benefit of the doubt, 214 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 4: it's I jump in everybody shit. You take that to work, 215 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 4: it's a motherfucking problem because you're dealing with real people 216 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 4: that you have got to talk to, You've got to 217 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 4: get along with. You can't block a mute or or 218 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 4: you know, put on polls for forty days your coworker 219 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 4: just sitting beside you. That's impossible. You have to learn 220 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 4: how to tune these skills, and for some people it's 221 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 4: for some people that's hard to do nat anyway, even 222 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 4: before social media. But for some people, I think it's 223 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 4: made it harder. So I'm glad that I know how 224 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 4: to read people and hone them skills and understand that 225 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 4: online is about fighting and battling and winning and champions 226 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 4: and shit like that. But in real life sometimes you 227 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 4: got to take the al to keep the peace, and 228 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 4: nobody wants to do that shit. 229 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: Also, you know what else it is people can be 230 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 2: one way in life and then because they do understand 231 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: real life rules, but then you go online and retreat 232 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: into this area where it's not real life rules. You know, 233 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: Like I said, me and about to talk about this 234 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 2: shit a lot, you know, And one of the things 235 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 2: she had sent me was someone had a tweet that said, basically, 236 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: social media is not an accurate depiction of what many 237 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 2: people are experiencing. Many of us use these platforms to 238 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 2: escape the trauma, to pain, to stress, to hurt, et cetera, 239 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 2: of what we're during an everyday life, and so sometimes 240 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 2: we're gonna post other shit to survive the shit that 241 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 2: really that's really trying to kill us. And you know 242 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: a lot of people you know are probably retweeting that 243 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 2: like yeah, But the thing that you know, me and 244 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: Boss saying is like, and that's not good, Like to 245 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: we're not creating a safe place as much as we're 246 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 2: creating a fictional place that allows us to avoid any 247 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 2: work that allowed healing, anything that would tell us to 248 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 2: get some actual, real safety, because online safety isn't safety. 249 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 2: You know, it reminds me of you know, I never 250 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 2: bring this ship up because on social media, because it's 251 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 2: social media and you don't want to you know, you're 252 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 2: going to the place. It's like I told I said 253 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 2: the VASI like, it's like you going to the hater's 254 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 2: party and you're standing in the middle of the room 255 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: like do we really have to keep hating? 256 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 3: And yes, it's party. 257 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 2: Like you turned down the music and say, hey, everybody, 258 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 2: I hate to stop the party, but do we really 259 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 2: need to be and everybody's like, get. 260 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 6: The fuck out, bitch, yes, oh hate Hey hey, So 261 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 6: that was the thing I was saying to her, and 262 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 6: that's what I would pick up from that kind of tweet. 263 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 2: It is like a lot of people will retweet that 264 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 2: like yes, but it's actually like no, that's that false 265 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 2: illusion of safety, which isn't real. By the way, is 266 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 2: not necessarily a good place, is not good escapist. It's 267 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 2: not actually fixing anything or solving anything. It's not encouraging 268 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: you to do that. It's just people co signing everybody regardless. 269 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: You can find your own circle to co sign. It 270 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: doesn't matter what your opinion is. And I'm like, it's 271 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 2: just people co signing you. That's not necessarily something that 272 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: is adding to your life. And I think that's one 273 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: of the things I think people should be cautious of 274 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 2: and worry of. Is this this idea of we did something. 275 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 2: It's people going, I stay with so and so, but 276 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 2: no one's standing with them. They actually still in their 277 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: house by theirself. We need to protect so and so, 278 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 2: but all you did was send a picture of a 279 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: kiddie cat, you know, Like you didn't actually protect them. 280 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 2: You didn't actually do anything, you know. And and and 281 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 2: it's that kind of thing that I feel like the 282 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 2: escapism of it can can be weird because we can 283 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: just block and mute everybody we don't like, and we 284 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: can't and it's almost to them to us whether then 285 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: they don't exist anymore. Like I got rid of that 286 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: person off my page, that opinion, and that person does 287 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: not exist to me anymore. And it's like, well, that's 288 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: not how life work. That person still exists. Their opinion 289 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 2: is still out there, whether it goes challenged or unchallenged, 290 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: and they're gonna find their likely their like person or 291 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: whatever and their people, and they're gonna and they're gonna 292 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: group up. 293 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. And also I think that. 294 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 4: Online has also created a lot of the political division 295 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 4: that we have today because the division that we have, Yeah, 296 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 4: people who have never agreed on everything, But there used 297 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 4: to be a time where even Republicans and Democrats would 298 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 4: actually it was certain topics that everybody agreed on, regardless 299 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 4: of quote unquote. 300 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 3: What side of the hour you on. That was like, yeah, 301 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 3: we agree on. 302 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: This, well not even the topics the facts. Yes, it 303 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 2: was a time where you could be like, this is happening, 304 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 2: you know, and even I guess, depending on. 305 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 3: The topic, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that was depending 306 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: on There used. 307 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 2: To be like a floor for certain things like okay, 308 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: we do see blank is happening. Now your solution may 309 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 2: be different than our solution. Right, we agreed this is happening. 310 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 2: Now we're at the point where it's like we don't 311 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 2: even agree that's happening. 312 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 4: Yes, And I don't care when anybody says social media 313 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 4: has has made that divide wider. It's like before okay, 314 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 4: we say it's a problem, we agree to it. It's 315 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 4: a problem. We might not have the same solutions to 316 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 4: the problem, but at least we were willing to come 317 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 4: to talk to come and talk and compromise about it 318 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 4: to try to get it resolved. 319 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 3: Where now it's it's like it's a problem. 320 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 4: One side is going, Okay, let's try to fix the 321 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 4: other side is going, fuck it. 322 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 3: I'm not fixing shit because. 323 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 4: You're here, And it's like, if you're here, I'm not 324 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 4: doing anything. 325 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, But I just think on a personal level, 326 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 2: we are we're losing something, you know, And maybe I'm 327 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 2: not even saying it's all to the bad, but we 328 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 2: are losing something. And I think people only think of 329 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 2: the side of the thing they're on, but they never 330 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 2: think about how like when you go, man, these hate 331 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: mongers have been able to group up online and find 332 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 2: each other in a way that the Internet has really 333 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 2: made possible. And it's sad because these groups are forming 334 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 2: and they're doing a bunch of fucked up shit to people, 335 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 2: and they're they're threatening each other people in they're doing this, 336 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,199 Speaker 2: and we go that's bad, But then we're also like, 337 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 2: but my group's fine, you know, my group of people 338 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 2: that we don't do that. But maybe we team up 339 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 2: and harass people when we think they've said something we 340 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 2: don't like. Maybe we spend all day obsessing over media 341 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 2: and turning everybody that creates media into some raving, fucking 342 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 2: like socialo path that wants to harm us. You know, 343 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 2: maybe we're overstating harm in our communities. Maybe we're comparing 344 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: everything to violence and savagery. I was reading. I don't know. 345 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 2: I think it's still up. But Chimamanda she made she 346 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 2: wrote a post last night about I think three different 347 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 2: people or two different people. She uh, she's a prominent 348 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 2: feminist intellectual. Right, we've talked about her before. She got 349 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 2: in some hot water with her thoughts on trans women 350 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: and saying how it was she was trying to express 351 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 2: how the experience of transform was different from cis gender women, 352 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 2: and people was not trying to hear that at that time. 353 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if they're still they may 354 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 2: still not be trying to hear it, right, I think 355 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 2: it even if you listen to trans women and trans 356 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 2: women will tell you some of the things she was 357 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 2: saying and be like this is why blah blah blah. 358 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 2: But but you know, it's also a very intellectual discussion 359 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 2: because it's an academic discussion, and academic discussions really shouldn't 360 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 2: take place in social media now, because academic discussions require 361 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 2: a certain amount of it's not even objectivity, it requires 362 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 2: an amount of I can get this wrong in an 363 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: offensive way, and it would require you to come back 364 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: and meet and debate it right and point out the 365 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: flaws of my logic. And that is not necessarily good 366 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:34,919 Speaker 2: for the public to consume. No, even if you know, 367 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 2: like I said, not I'm not necessarily caving for her, 368 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: but just saying like I remember that situation and thinking 369 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 2: like maybe those discussions happen all the time at academica. 370 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. 371 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: But once that shit gets to Facebook, it is not 372 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 2: going down the way you thought. And there was a 373 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 2: lot of fighting. It emboded a lot of people who 374 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: are very transphobic to use her as a launching point 375 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 2: for like much more transphobic shit that they wanted to say. 376 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 4: Even if that's not what she meant. That's how they 377 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 4: didn't take it right. 378 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: It didn't matter. It was once it's out of the room, 379 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: it's side of the room. But she wrote this thing 380 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: about some people who she knew and met in real life, 381 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 2: but then they went to the Internet and used the 382 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: tools of the Internet to basically like come at her 383 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 2: in ways that in ways that you know, I say 384 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: this all the time, Like I'm not saying everyone on 385 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: the Internet is a narcissist, because that's ridiculous. Narcisist aren't 386 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 2: that bigger percentage of the population. What I am saying 387 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: is that every tool that makes someone a narcissist makes 388 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 2: someone better at the Internet. Yes, So think about what 389 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 2: I think of. Look up, look up trace of a narcisism. 390 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 2: Look up how social media works. It's like you can 391 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 2: lay those shits on top of each other. It's like 392 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 2: someone traced the paper. Because it's really like cutting people off, 393 00:20:55,320 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: forming groups, you can influence, controlling the narrative, line the people, 394 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,879 Speaker 2: you know, attacking folks, gaslighting folks, like things that make 395 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 2: people really good at social media, just it fucking you know, 396 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 2: it really fucking works for narcissists. So, and I think 397 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 2: occasionally you may run into someone that's either a narcissist 398 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 2: or they're cool with you in person. But the allure 399 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: of social media and social media like and love and 400 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 2: shit is so strong. It's hard for people to put 401 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 2: the temptation off. I experienced it sometimes when you know 402 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 2: me and you talk about this privately, where sometimes people 403 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: will want me to to like they'll think certain things 404 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 2: impressed me, while I'm like, that's not the kind of 405 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: person I am. 406 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're like, oh, you don't know me. 407 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 2: Right where it's like did you you know I sent 408 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 2: you this, I did that, I did that, and I'm like, 409 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 2: you don't need. 410 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 3: To do any of that and requiring no, I'm. 411 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 2: Sorry, I didn't want to disagree with you, but hey, 412 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 2: you're not required to agree with me that. That's not 413 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 2: the kind of person that I'm not gonna become mean 414 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 2: to you. I'm not gonna find you. 415 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,199 Speaker 3: But they're not interacted with so many different people. 416 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: I've had people that we have a disagreement and they 417 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 2: completely stop fucking with me because they're expecting me, I 418 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: think on their side, they're expecting me to hold some 419 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: type of grudge and be like I'm fuck you looking 420 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 2: forever like well, I'm like, no, we disagree. Me and 421 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: my friends disagree. It's fine. 422 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, yeah, I'm not gonna brun a fucking house 423 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 4: down because we disagree. 424 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 2: Right, But but but honestly that might in some way, 425 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,679 Speaker 2: it might make me the weird person online, because that 426 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 2: is the way of online, like oh no, no, now 427 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 2: I'm burning your house down. Oh we disagreed. Everyone who 428 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: saw that disagreement, we don't like you anymore. If you 429 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 2: on my side, we're looking at everything you do from 430 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: now on. We're gonna find you're post. We're gonna laugh 431 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: at them, we're gonna pick at you. I'm not that person. 432 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, me and that person didn't agree on that. 433 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 2: Unless it's like some constant shit where it's like we 434 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,679 Speaker 2: don't get along, then I'm just like, I don't want 435 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: to mess you anymore. It's not even and now I 436 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 2: need to burn you. You know, we've had people that 437 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 2: say shit about the show, and you know, fans will 438 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: be like I was ready to ride on them, man, 439 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 2: we should have. And I'll be like, we don't do 440 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: that here. Yeah, that that you're allowed to not like 441 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 2: the show. You're allowed to. You may even in soul 442 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 2: to disrespect us. We might respond, I don't expect nobody 443 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: carrying no water from me outside of us, because you 444 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 2: ain't me. I handle it the way I want you 445 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: as an adult. So, but I feel like that's almost 446 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 2: the opposite of shit. Now, it's it's we're gonna do 447 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 2: this together. Hey, everybody who follows me, let's all go 448 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 2: do blank. Let's find this person. Let's say this to 449 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 2: that person. 450 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 4: We're not involved. They don't know what happened. They have 451 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 4: no they have literally no personal investment. They're just taking 452 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 4: your word and whatever you said is right. 453 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 2: And it's partially just entertainment. 454 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 3: You know. 455 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 2: I watched somebody over the last couple of weeks on 456 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,879 Speaker 2: social media where they were going back and forth with 457 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: this person, and it was it was borderline like it 458 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 2: could have been a health melt down for all that 459 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 2: we know, but it was like sparked by something where 460 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,199 Speaker 2: they were right about it, Like it wasn't like they 461 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 2: were wrong. But it was like a lot of the 462 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 2: people that were tuning in were tuning in like I 463 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 2: love mess. They weren't tuning in like I want the 464 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: best for you. What do you need from us? It 465 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: was like, how can we harass this person? How can 466 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: we make this entertainment? How can we Hey, I'm gonna 467 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,439 Speaker 2: follow everything he does and send it to you, which 468 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: may be some type of trigger for you. For all 469 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 2: I know. But I'm gonna keep you going until you 470 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 2: burn the fuck out, regardless of what your life is like, 471 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 2: because I don't have to deal with your actual life. Nope, 472 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 2: and so I. 473 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 3: Will consume you to there's nothing else. 474 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 2: To, nothing but bones, like they don't give a fuck, 475 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 2: and I think, but the mistake is it feels like 476 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 2: they give a fuck when you're on the other side. Oh, 477 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 2: they're sending me everything. This person says, Oh, they're doing this, 478 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 2: But think about real life. In real life, right, if 479 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 2: Karen saw means spending a week obsessing on somebody that 480 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 2: I felt had done me wrong, and she's seen me 481 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 2: tweeting about it constantly, she's seen me doing all this shit, 482 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 2: she probably come in the other room and like, you, like, 483 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 2: what's up? 484 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 3: Like like like like turn that motherfucker off? What is 485 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 3: going on? 486 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,479 Speaker 2: Yes, Like you spend a lot of time in your 487 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 2: phone lately. Is everything all right? 488 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Because I won't you check 489 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 3: on you. 490 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 2: I saw what you were posting. You know, maybe let's 491 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 2: go outside and put out the phone for a little 492 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 2: bit that But but we don't have the ability to 493 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,239 Speaker 2: do that on social media because it sounds mean if 494 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 2: I go, hey, you should go outside and blow off 495 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 2: from steam. This this, this seems to be really getting 496 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 2: to you. You know, No, they don't want to hear that. 497 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: Now I'm part of the problem. What you want to 498 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 2: hear And what everybody's gonna say is get on, let's go. 499 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 5: We we're doing it again. 500 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 2: And it's like, I don't think we really have the 501 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 2: tools or the ability to care for each other in 502 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 2: the ways that the internet promises will care. Because what 503 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 2: I find funny is all of us goff at the 504 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 2: Facebook commercials and the Twitter commercials were like, we're about 505 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 2: bringing everyone together and we're doing this. We go, ah, bullshit, 506 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 2: we know we know your site. You're not doing that. 507 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 2: That's bullshit. Yeah, it's a terrible site. But then you 508 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: ask people, well how come you know, like, like what 509 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: do you use it for? And it's like, well, I 510 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 2: use it for us to be together and I found 511 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 2: friends and family. 512 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 3: Same thing the commercials say. 513 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 2: It's like the commercials are working then, because you do 514 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:31,640 Speaker 2: believe that's possible, but you have to understand that. But 515 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 2: then you laugh at the idea of them promoting it 516 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 2: that way because you know it's actually not. 517 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 4: Yes, and well, people don't fail to realize. People complain 518 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 4: about all these sites, but you know who is the product? 519 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 3: Us? We are. We are the product because. 520 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,439 Speaker 4: If something is free, which means it's something that you 521 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 4: are not paying for a service for them to provide. 522 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 3: Most social media platforms are free. 523 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 4: If they are free, that means you, the person posting 524 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:01,679 Speaker 4: and tweeting and facebooking and instagra and snapchatting, you are 525 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 4: the product. 526 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 2: Yup. So I just like I said, she wrote that essay, 527 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 2: I think it's gonna get swept. It's not gonna change 528 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 2: anyone's mind if you're a person that already hates her 529 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 2: and things, especially if you want the people that because 530 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: that was what struck out to me in this essay, 531 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 2: and this part was like she broke down, like the 532 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 2: how And this is what I say out the time. 533 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 2: When you think you're righteous, you can do some evil shit, 534 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 2: Yes you can, but no one can tell you you 535 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 2: not right. 536 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 4: Right. And the thing is, if you are a righteous 537 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 4: person and you truly about righteousness, you will actually examine it. 538 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 4: It's not that those things don't cross your mind. You go, 539 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do that. 540 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 3: That's not right. 541 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 2: And especially you know I talk about this all the time, 542 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 2: where I try not to move out of anger because 543 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 2: my anger always feels right. Yes, I've never been angry 544 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 2: and thought what I was doing was wrong. I've calmed 545 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 2: down later and thought I could have handled that better 546 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 2: or differently, or I thought I handled that. But it's 547 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 2: never been in the middle of me being angry. It's 548 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 2: always been after And so I tried not to be 549 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 2: moved to anger or move in anger. But the point 550 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 2: I was making was in this let's say she's writing, 551 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 2: she talks about how like these people in addition to 552 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 2: like one of them being behind the scenes and and 553 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 2: like really trying to like smooth up to her, so 554 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 2: like behind the scenes it was like hey, sis, hey 555 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 2: we're good, we're friends. But then on Twitter it was 556 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 2: basically fuck you, you ain't shit, and you know, basically 557 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 2: throw your name through the mud. And then writing years 558 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: later like to try to make amends, and she was like, 559 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 2: I'm not responding to this person anymore because like, you 560 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 2: burn this bridge because it was so tempting. It was 561 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 2: easier to do that than to reach out to me. Right, 562 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 2: you could have done the same private reaching out then 563 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 2: before going off about it for days on Twitter, at 564 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 2: joining in with this frenzy. I thought you were different 565 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 2: than that because we were friends, which is something I 566 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 2: think a lot of people don't understand because what a 567 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 2: lot of people think is is having principle. I see 568 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 2: it as joining the freight. You know, we talked before 569 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 2: on this show where there's people that are that either 570 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 2: professional friends or friend friends that have gotten hot water 571 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: on social media. I've never jumped in that ship, you know. 572 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: I well know you're thinking I'm not jumping in it 573 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 2: to defend you necessarily, because I wouldn't really do that either. 574 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 2: But I'm not jumping in it to get like, oh 575 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 2: I want to get some because to me, I consider 576 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,959 Speaker 2: that being a phony ass individual. I wouldn't do that. 577 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 2: Like if you've really like if think of somebody if well, shit, 578 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 2: we have an example, if you know, when Elon got 579 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 2: in all that ship at that Thanksgiving and they still 580 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 2: try to bring it up year after year. I never 581 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: was like I want to go after Elon because I 582 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 2: was like, at the same time, that dude did a 583 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 2: lot for our show, you know, at the same time, like, 584 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 2: even if I have disagreed with him about something, I've 585 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: never felt like and now to take this man down 586 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: now to personally insult this person. And I've seen people 587 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 2: who obviously wanted to join in on the pal on 588 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 2: burn that bridge, fuck them forever, blah blah blah. That's 589 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: that's their right. But it feels like to me, like, well, 590 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 2: that's kind of funny because you didn't feel that way 591 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 2: before this, or you either felt that way the whole time, 592 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 2: faked like y'all was friends and faked like y'all was cool, 593 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 2: and then it was like, Oh, I can finally say 594 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 2: everything I hate about this person, you know what I mean. 595 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: And I'm not talking about people that work for him 596 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 2: or had some personal shit. I'm talking about just just 597 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 2: people that saw it as like a frenzy and I 598 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 2: want to join in. Yes, Like back to me feels inauthentic. 599 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 4: Yes, people on the outskirts and those are the people 600 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 4: will Oh, you don't really know, I have no idea, 601 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 4: You're just coming alone because it is thing to talk about. 602 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I thought it was interesting to see SHEI 603 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 2: minda give her side of these stories or whatever, and 604 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 2: obviously people are gonna debate it, and I'm not I 605 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 2: don't know enough of the actors in this to really 606 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 2: debate it or pretend that I care that much. But 607 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: some of the stuff she said was so on point 608 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 2: for just the environment of social media, and I'm like, 609 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 2: sadly it won't reach those people, no, because this is 610 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 2: the first time she's even tried to set any sort 611 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 2: of the record straight on it. And you know, and 612 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: like any human being, I can get house just too much. 613 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 2: But you know, she brings up her parents died during 614 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 2: the pandemic, and people were rejoicing. People were saying like 615 00:31:53,720 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 2: this is proof that like this is like justice, the 616 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: setting ship right. Someone was calling her murderer. Someone was 617 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 2: uh trying to say she like tried to blackball their career, 618 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 2: when when she's like, that's not true. Somewhat, people were 619 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 2: like the same people that say words are violence and 620 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 2: shit like that were saying stuff like we should get 621 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: them macheties and come after you. So like it's that 622 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: kind of thing where you know, she talks about one 623 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 2: of the people she befriended, like took pictures from her 624 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 2: inside her house and like was gonna post or posted 625 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 2: them on social media, was going to and she had 626 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 2: to be like, no, don't do that. This is my 627 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 2: house is private, right, Why are you doing this? And 628 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 2: you know, because people feel like it's some cloud it's 629 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: cloud chasing kind of shit, you know, like look at me. 630 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 2: But but my point just you got it after this. 631 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 2: But my point being online is what they were catering 632 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 2: to because the emails and stuff probably weren't of the 633 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 2: same tone at all. It was very amicable and stuff. 634 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 2: It was just like but once you get online, it 635 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 2: is different. 636 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, And you know, and like I said, I realized 637 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 4: that and I will continue to say this. 638 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 3: Everybody has their. 639 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 4: Different standards on friendship and what friendship is and what 640 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 4: they think about friends and how they classify them. And 641 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 4: I've said it before, but some people have very very 642 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 4: low standard in friendships. And there are some things that 643 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, there's certain things where I just want 644 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 4: to talk to you. 645 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 3: I just want cheer with you. 646 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 4: Turn everything fucking off. We want to be able to 647 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 4: joke and laugh and have a good time and I 648 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 4: could be myself and nothing is repeated. 649 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 2: And honestly, I'm kind of the opposite where I forget 650 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 2: to do that. Like I go out hang out with people, 651 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 2: now I'll go I should have taken a picture of something, 652 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 2: because I do like I'm like, I'm you know, I'm 653 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 2: not one hundred percent, and why would I do that? 654 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 2: Like I do like the like, hey, we out put 655 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 2: it on Instagram. It's beautiful, this is dope. 656 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 3: But everybody is an agreeance. 657 00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just one of these things where it's 658 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 2: like it is a difference between like that and maybe 659 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: just kind of we're doing this for the internet, you 660 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 2: know or whatever. But yeah, it was some of these 661 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 2: bars in this thing I just thought was like amazing. 662 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 2: But yeah, she said, in certain young people today, like 663 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 2: these two from my writing workshop, I noticed that I 664 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 2: find increasingly troubling a cold blooded grasping, a hunger to 665 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 2: take and take and take, but never give, a massive 666 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 2: sense of entitlement and inability to show gratitude and ease. 667 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 2: With this honesty and pretension and selfishness that is couching. 668 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 2: The language of self care that's a huge one, and 669 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 2: expectation always to be helped and rewarded, no matter whether 670 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:47,400 Speaker 2: deserving or not. Language that is slick and sleek but 671 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: with little emotional intelligence, an astonishing level of self absorption, 672 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:57,959 Speaker 2: an unrealistic expectation of puritanism from others, an overinflated sense 673 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 2: of ability or of talent, there's any at all that's shade. 674 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 2: And the inability to apologize. 675 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 3: That's the biggest one right there. 676 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. I asked that question a couple of years ago 677 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 2: on my Facebook, like when's the last time you apologize? 678 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 2: And almost everybody who had apologized that only apologize to 679 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 2: children and their own. 680 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 4: That speaks loudly. Yeah, yeah, everybody fucks up, everybody. 681 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 2: Like I saw someone was tweeting last night a thread 682 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 2: about forgiveness, and it reminded me of some of the 683 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 2: stuff we said on the show. But they were kind 684 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 2: of like, yeah, people keep talking about forgiveness like it's 685 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: just easy and dah dah da da. And one of 686 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 2: the things that made me think was like, yeah, but 687 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:40,279 Speaker 2: if you were thinking about your child, you would not 688 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 2: talk about how long it took you to forgive them, 689 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 2: because you don't. That's not that's not a function. When 690 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 2: you're talking about your child, who you love pretty much unconditionally, 691 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 2: you can you can forgive them without a thought because 692 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 2: they're like, I love you, I understand you, I knew 693 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 2: you were gonna make mistakes. I forgive you doesn't mean 694 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 2: we won't try to make better decisions. Doesn't mean I'm 695 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 2: not gonna talk to you, doesn't mean you're ain't gonna 696 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 2: get in trouble. But of course I forgive you, you know, 697 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 2: because we can do that with children, We can do 698 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 2: that with our own children. We can't really do that 699 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 2: with everybody else. And that and it made me think 700 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 2: of us. But she said that truly and fully without justification. 701 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 2: Oh soe an inability to apologize truly and fully without justifications. 702 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 2: A passionate performance of virtue that is well executed in 703 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 2: the public space of Twitter, but not in the intimate 704 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 2: space of friendship. My nigga, when I tell you, like, 705 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 2: like I was reading this at like three in the morning, 706 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,919 Speaker 2: I was like, I want to get out of bed 707 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,479 Speaker 2: and just be like preach because like some of this ship, 708 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,800 Speaker 2: like I said, I don't know about the interpersonal workings, 709 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 2: because this is just her side of ship, and I 710 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 2: don't really get into the other people's side of shit. 711 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm sure they you know, you know, if this is 712 00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 2: true about them, then they would It's obvious what they're 713 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 2: gonna be saying. If it's not true, then they're you know, 714 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,319 Speaker 2: then then that means everything she says a lie, which 715 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 2: is but the stuff I could relate to about social media. 716 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 2: I was like, yes, that, you know, I've experienced that, 717 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 2: like a person that can't They can talk a good 718 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:22,439 Speaker 2: game about emotions and responsibility and empathy and all this shit, 719 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 2: but when it's. 720 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,320 Speaker 3: Time time to soot you, you don't get it. 721 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:33,479 Speaker 4: And like for me, I am an adult, but there 722 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:38,800 Speaker 4: are some things in life I view kind of almost 723 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 4: childlike and innocent, and. 724 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 3: I have been hurt because of that. But that's life 725 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 3: and that part of me. 726 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 4: I never want to let go because I am, you know, 727 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 4: very depending on the situation, I'm quick to forgive. 728 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 3: I'm quick to let stuff go. I don't like to 729 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 3: hold things to the to my heart. 730 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 4: I don't like to be way down because life is 731 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 4: too short for me to weigh be weighed down by 732 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 4: some bullshit that don't matter. 733 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 3: That person done moved on with their. 734 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 4: Lives and they ain't thinking that fucking twice about the 735 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 4: bullshit that I've shackled myself to the ground about. 736 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 3: They ain't talk twice about me, and I'm up. 737 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 4: Here mad and upset and in my own head and 738 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 4: thinking about them, and you know, then you go ask them, 739 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 4: But like, oh, I didn't even think twice about that. 740 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:25,360 Speaker 4: So I've wasted months, days, years, decades sometimes mad and 741 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 4: upset about something and having this person giving this person 742 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 4: power over me, because literally, you give a person power 743 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 4: over you if they enter a room and your whole 744 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 4: attitude changes. So I refuse to give you that much power. 745 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 4: You will not dictate how I feel about a situation 746 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 4: just because you walked into the room. 747 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 2: And I think, also, what if you Okay, take that 748 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 2: same thing, But what if you were lying? Like what 749 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 2: if you like, what if I actually didn't do the 750 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 2: thing and you've been mad at me for decades according 751 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: to online and then probably email me behind the scenes 752 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 2: and be like, yeah, I might have handled that bad. 753 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 2: I was actually wrong. You've been nothing but good to me. 754 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 2: And I do know that you These are not things 755 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 2: that you believe that I said you believe I think 756 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,719 Speaker 2: that's what That's what she's saying happened to her, which 757 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,359 Speaker 2: to me is much worse. Yes, you know what I mean, 758 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 2: because at that point, it's not about moving to forgiveness. 759 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 2: It's like you slighted me in a but you didn't. 760 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,880 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You like, I'm here to 761 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 2: testify in your downfall because it's gonna get me attention. 762 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 2: That's a scary fucking thing. 763 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 4: But it's real, yes, And so people will use real 764 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 4: intelligent emotions and manipulate them so that they can duplicate 765 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 4: it to trick people into believing them. Like for me personally, 766 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 4: that's something that I would never do, but I know me, 767 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 4: you know, But yes, people, that's the thing. 768 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 3: People can mimic these things. 769 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 4: People can take these things and almost like cut copy 770 00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 4: paste because they've seen somebody else do it. Just because 771 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 4: you've seen somebody else do it does not mean that 772 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 4: you can you can duplicate it. But people will eventually 773 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 4: find out. 774 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,240 Speaker 2: That this isn't real, because I mean, you hope, because 775 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,240 Speaker 2: I mean, I think people are so lazy they won't 776 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 2: find out. I think also people like these groups of 777 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,360 Speaker 2: ganging up on people. There's a social capital to it, 778 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,399 Speaker 2: and I don't want to give it up. I don't 779 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 2: want to lose my position in the group by going Guys, 780 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,840 Speaker 2: I actually think y'all are going way too hard or 781 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 2: overstating what happened, you know, Like I said in that 782 00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 2: Sarah Schulman's book where she talks about overstating harm, there's 783 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 2: a social connection to overstating harm, and there's a reward 784 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 2: system for overstating harm because part of what we get 785 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 2: rewarded with now is attention. What's gonna give me the 786 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 2: most attention? Hey, y'all, I think Karen spoke, or I go, hey, y'all, 787 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,800 Speaker 2: I think Karen said some anti black shit and she 788 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 2: hates black people. People gonna come run into that second one. 789 00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and they will. And I think that people 790 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 3: have a tendency to do that. 791 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 4: And I know, oh, for me, this is probably a 792 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 4: big reason why most of my life, even as a child, 793 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 4: I've always been a loner because I don't got to 794 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 4: be a part of the group. I don't have to 795 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:11,800 Speaker 4: be a part of the clique. I don't have to 796 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 4: be a part of the club. I'm okay with being 797 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 4: on my own. I'm okay with being separated. So a 798 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 4: lot of those pressures that people have with being a 799 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 4: part of y'all, this ain't right. And they'd be like, 800 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,800 Speaker 4: what's something wrong with you, bitch? Beat it okay? 801 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 2: And I mean, I wouldn't call you a loner. I 802 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 2: don't think you are. I think you've just learned to 803 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 2: set better boundaries Because there was a time where you 804 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 2: wanted to sign up for everything and do everything and 805 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:34,760 Speaker 2: be and everything. 806 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I was trying a lot of time. 807 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 2: So like, I think you just set up boundaries over 808 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 2: the course of your life now that you may to 809 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 2: you like, I think you may feel like you're a 810 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 2: loner now, but you're not really. I don't think you're 811 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,759 Speaker 2: necessarily alone. I think you just found this balance of 812 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,240 Speaker 2: boundaries and like, I'm just not doing everything for everybody. 813 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 7: But you used to do. 814 00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,200 Speaker 2: For everybody. Doing too much, she says. People who ask 815 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,600 Speaker 2: you to educate yourself while not having actually read any 816 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 2: books themselves don't know, while not being able to intelligently 817 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 2: defend their own ideological positions, because by educate they actually 818 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 2: mean parrot what I say, flat and all nuanced, wish 819 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:15,839 Speaker 2: away complexity. 820 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 5: Like I said, she had bars throughout this. 821 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 2: I can't speak to the personal nature or this, but 822 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 2: I was just reading this shit last night, Like, yep, 823 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 2: that is absolutely what the fucking be feeling like. People 824 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 2: who will the words violence and weaponize like tarnished pitchforks, 825 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,800 Speaker 2: people who depend on obfuscation, who have no compassion for 826 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,799 Speaker 2: anybody genuinely curious or confused, ask them a question, you're 827 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 2: told that the answer is to repeat a mantra, ask 828 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 2: again for clarity and be accused of violence. How ieronic 829 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 2: speaking of violence, that is one of these two who 830 00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 2: encourage Twitter followers to pick up machetes and attack me. 831 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,320 Speaker 2: So that part the last bar is probably about the 832 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 2: personal shit that she went through. So we have a 833 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 2: generation of young people on social media. You're so terrified 834 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 2: of having the wrong opinions that you have robbed themselves. 835 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 2: They have robbed themselves with the opportunity to think and 836 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 2: learn and to learn and to grow. 837 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, they're afraid to say anything. 838 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I tell people like take the shit offline. Yes, 839 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,879 Speaker 2: and I really do mean that because I think, while 840 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,839 Speaker 2: I may feel counterintuitive, online is not actually a great 841 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,400 Speaker 2: place for learning because it's like learning in a classroom, 842 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 2: but the classrooms run by like Gordon Ramsey, where you 843 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 2: say a wrong answer and then they come the professor 844 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,399 Speaker 2: kicks his chair from underneath the desk, flips over his desk, 845 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 2: runs up in your face until you get the fuck 846 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 2: out of the class. That's not a healthy learning environment. 847 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 2: You gotta go learn places with people who do this. 848 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 2: Everybody who does this actual type of work, especially those 849 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 2: who do the work offline. They may have an online presence, 850 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 2: but people who actually do the work and you talk 851 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,800 Speaker 2: to them, they don't move like this because they're like, 852 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 2: it's not just about how I appear online. It's like 853 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 2: when you talk to somebody that works in the area 854 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:10,359 Speaker 2: of police reform, police abolition and stuff, when you talk 855 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 2: to them in person, compared to what somebody who says 856 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: they want police reform of police accountability and stuff online, 857 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 2: the conversations are different. When it's like, oh no, I 858 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 2: have to go into the community and talk to these people. 859 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 2: It's a different conversation in Twitter, where it's like either 860 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 2: save the hashtag or shut the fuck up. 861 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 5: That's not necessarily a conversation. It's definitely not a learning environment. 862 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,799 Speaker 2: So for people who don't that do need to learn, 863 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 2: that may say the wrong thing as they're figuring it out, 864 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,640 Speaker 2: they may have some questions and they're not coming from 865 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,280 Speaker 2: a negative place. To deal with it without the assumption 866 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 2: of negativity behind it is important. But yeah, she says, 867 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 2: and I've spoken to young people who tell me they're 868 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 2: terrified to tweet anything that they read and reread their 869 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:57,880 Speaker 2: tweets because they fear they will be attacked by their 870 00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,919 Speaker 2: own The assumption of good faith is dead. 871 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, bar. 872 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,240 Speaker 2: What matters is not goodness but the appearance of goodness. 873 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 3: Of bar, which actually matters a lot. 874 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 2: We're no longer human beings. Where now angels jostling to 875 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 2: out angel one another. God help us. It is obscene. So, 876 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 2: like I said, it was part of this. When I 877 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 2: was just like, you know, like some of the state, 878 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 2: I was like, my name is Paul, and that's trying, y'all. 879 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,360 Speaker 2: But then some of it I was like, Yeah, that 880 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 2: that feels like how social media has become over time, 881 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 2: and that feels like we have lost a lot of 882 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 2: empathy and stuff if we ever had it in the 883 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 2: first place. The promises of social media and what they 884 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,839 Speaker 2: were gonna bring have not borne that few. 885 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 3: Right, A lot of people never. 886 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 4: Had empathy, They never had sympathy, Like this was not 887 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 4: a part of the character offline, right, But there are 888 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 4: people that these features quote unquote are part of their personality. 889 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 4: So for a lot of those type of people, online 890 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 4: could be very hard to navigate because you know, you're 891 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 4: reading these things and they are really affecting you, and 892 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 4: people who don't have that same connection that don't have 893 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,839 Speaker 4: that same feeling have atency not to understand you, like say, 894 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 4: and they mimic it. Because the thing is, if you 895 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 4: are a truly empathetic person, you can literally see both sides. 896 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 4: And a lot of people get angry with people that 897 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 4: are that are impacted because they just want to see 898 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,960 Speaker 4: their side and their side only, and they they're like 899 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:18,440 Speaker 4: fuck them. 900 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,040 Speaker 3: You be like, no, you know, really, you got. 901 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 4: To consider it, you know, because if you consider that, 902 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,400 Speaker 4: that means you have to look at them as a 903 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 4: whole ass human being, just like you look at yourself 904 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,319 Speaker 4: as a whole ass human being. And you know, when 905 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 4: you really analyze it, depending on situation, you really might 906 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,399 Speaker 4: not be as mad as mad and or you really might. 907 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 3: Realize it's not as important as you think it is. 908 00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 4: But you know, when you're mad and when you're angry 909 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:44,800 Speaker 4: and when you just you know, you don't see it 910 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 4: because you only see one side blindly. 911 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've learned to take a lot of that stuff 912 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 2: to the podcast or just offline because you can't. You 913 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,279 Speaker 2: it's like get down or lay down. If you're not 914 00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 2: laying down, then you know, then you know, if you're 915 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,360 Speaker 2: not getting down, then they're gonna lay you down. Uh anyway, Danica, 916 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 2: you're welcome. All right, let's get into the show. But 917 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 2: uh yeah, I thought it was a pretty good start, 918 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 2: you know, welcome back to the reader's block reading Rainbow segment. 919 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:45,359 Speaker 2: What do I want to start with? I did want 920 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 2: to say because I saw we got to email. I 921 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:48,799 Speaker 2: don't want to get a bunch of them, so let's 922 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 2: start uh there. But they did officially take away the 923 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 2: funding for the latter plantation group that runs it, so uh, 924 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 2: he did, right, the county did. So they haven't officially 925 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 2: announced what they're gonna do. It's an annual funding thing. 926 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 2: They do it every June thirtieth. 927 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,960 Speaker 3: I think that they've been doing it within the nineteen sixty. 928 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,879 Speaker 2: I think that's something like didn't they say thirty years 929 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 2: on the news? Yeah, thirty They've been doing a long time. Yeah, 930 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,239 Speaker 2: been doing like it was like thirty seven years or 931 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 2: some shit like that. I don't know, but they've been 932 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:26,239 Speaker 2: doing it in a long time. Because of the description 933 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:30,920 Speaker 2: of the Juneteenth event, which I absolutely do believe the 934 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 2: post that he posted about how it was going to 935 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 2: go down, I feel like all of that was in 936 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 2: the original thing but the description left up left a lot. 937 00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,960 Speaker 2: The description left a lot up to the audience, and 938 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 2: I get how and why some people found that to 939 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 2: be not just offensive, but they assumed the worst, because 940 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 2: I think assumption of the worst is what the internet 941 00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 2: runs on. And even though a lot of Plantation was 942 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 2: planning to do some like white sympathizing event, I can 943 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 2: see how people, especially in this day and age, took 944 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 2: it that way. I totally understand why he didn't apologize. 945 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 3: I get it. 946 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 2: I would have been angry as well, because it's almost 947 00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:20,719 Speaker 2: like you're accusing me of the worst thing you can 948 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 2: and for a person with my job, I can't think 949 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 2: of something that would make me more mad than you 950 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 2: basically saying I'm a coon and I just made some 951 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 2: I'm about to do some coon programming. So you know, 952 00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 2: he responded out of place of anger, I think, And 953 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 2: ultimately he's gonna pay the cost for that, because they 954 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 2: losing all their fun, they losing all the fund and 955 00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 2: they won't be mark or actually they were holding the funding, 956 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 2: and then they won't be renewing their contract. So if 957 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,399 Speaker 2: you would have handled it in a different way, if 958 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 2: he would have apologized, even if he didn't feel like 959 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 2: even if he felt like it was unfair what happened, 960 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 2: if he would have found a way to like ap guys, 961 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 2: he probably maybe still have that job or whatever, and 962 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 2: they still have that contract. So I thought that was, 963 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:13,759 Speaker 2: you know, sad news to hear they actually do still 964 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,759 Speaker 2: do weddings out there, which I didn't know until after 965 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,759 Speaker 2: the show. I wouldn't someone told me about it. I 966 00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,640 Speaker 2: was like, oh, for real, so they do still do 967 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,719 Speaker 2: weddings out there, which obviously is not him managing that, 968 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 2: but still it made me think about isn't it weird 969 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 2: that you can get married at Ladder Plantation. People are 970 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,400 Speaker 2: not going to protest that. No one seems to be 971 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,279 Speaker 2: upset that that's still happening. 972 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 3: There because they do not care. 973 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, I don't think anyone's going to necessarily 974 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 2: attend the event, but it was just a description with 975 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 2: viral but it just I don't know, like it is 976 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 2: still one of those things that's very frustrating because I 977 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 2: do think the event could have been a word earthWhile event. 978 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 2: But I also understand the sympathy. I have sympathy for 979 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 2: my folks within the community that are like, now you 980 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,360 Speaker 2: need to explain it to me slow, you know, like, 981 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,919 Speaker 2: what was you gonna do exactly? Because this don't sound 982 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 2: like it, you know, And I think because of his position, 983 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 2: you have an obligation to explain it to the community. 984 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 2: You don't get to go off as much as I 985 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 2: identify fifth and understood, you don't get to be the 986 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,399 Speaker 2: guy that he is at that job and then turn 987 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 2: around to these people who don't understand and be like, basically, 988 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,520 Speaker 2: I ain't gotta explain nothing, agreed. I think that's why 989 00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:39,279 Speaker 2: he lost that. 990 00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:44,360 Speaker 4: Yes, I agree, And you know, I think that it 991 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,360 Speaker 4: was one of those things where we talked about it 992 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 4: before you spawned out an anger. 993 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 3: You could tell that that was anger. It was like, 994 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,839 Speaker 3: y'all don't come up here. You don't do shit. 995 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,800 Speaker 4: You never set a fucking foot here, Nobody putting no 996 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 4: camera in my face, No nobody interviewed me, but y'all 997 00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:01,359 Speaker 4: writing this fucking bullshit hit hit peace and got people 998 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 4: hitting up our shit from all over across the country. 999 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 4: And half of y'all didn't even know this motherfucker existed 1000 00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,480 Speaker 4: until this happened. Yet the dude that. 1001 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 2: Did it, who came up with the event as a 1002 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 2: black man and I could see in the responses even 1003 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,439 Speaker 2: how and this is the thing we just talked about 1004 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 2: with the internet. You get grouped up, you create a narrative, 1005 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,960 Speaker 2: whether it's false or not, it has to be the 1006 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:30,719 Speaker 2: narrative or else you end up losing something because no 1007 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,160 Speaker 2: one wants to admit any fault. No one wants to 1008 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,239 Speaker 2: admit they got anything wrong. And one of the main 1009 00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,560 Speaker 2: things was white people came up with this program and 1010 00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,400 Speaker 2: to dishonor black people on June Team. And then you 1011 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 2: find out the truth, which is that this brother is 1012 00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 2: not about that. It's actually gonna be it's actually a 1013 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 2: program by him, and it's actually a program that was 1014 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 2: not about to empathize with the Master. It was really 1015 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 2: gonna be more you know, sarcastic and making fun of 1016 00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:05,839 Speaker 2: them and pointing out, you know, the the ugly evil 1017 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 2: mentality of these people. And what I saw in the 1018 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 2: comments was people saying, well, the white people who came 1019 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 2: up with this and then made you the face of it. 1020 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,239 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, because you can't. He just told 1021 00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,520 Speaker 2: you what it is, but we already made a narrative 1022 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 2: that it was something else. I'm now trying to align 1023 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 2: what you said with this because it don't seem like 1024 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,399 Speaker 2: you are coon. So I don't want to just say 1025 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,120 Speaker 2: that because you don't seem like that kind of dude. 1026 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 2: And but at the same time, I do want to like, 1027 00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,240 Speaker 2: I don't want this program. We already we already protesting, 1028 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:41,400 Speaker 2: so we gonna. 1029 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 3: We showed up with the times. 1030 00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 4: We're not redoing the signs, but the hashtag is already 1031 00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:48,840 Speaker 4: you know, we already got the hashtag. 1032 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 2: Tim, Well, let's add a comment to the sign to 1033 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,800 Speaker 2: keep it going. And so I think that's what what 1034 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,239 Speaker 2: I just went to. Like when I went after the 1035 00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,440 Speaker 2: show and started looking in a little bit further, I 1036 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 2: was just like, Okay, yeah, I see where this came from. 1037 00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 2: It was another thing that happened in two thousand and 1038 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:10,280 Speaker 2: nine where allegedly, which is it's weird to say allegedly, 1039 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 2: because it sounded like nobody did much research beyond this. 1040 00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:18,719 Speaker 2: It was all like we heard, but let's but it 1041 00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 2: reminds me of another story color on the show where 1042 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 2: there was an incident where there were kids on a 1043 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:27,040 Speaker 2: tour group and you know, the plantation. 1044 00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:27,680 Speaker 3: They like. 1045 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,920 Speaker 2: Like, you know, here's the field, here's this thing and stuff, 1046 00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 2: and so one of the things he did was tell 1047 00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 2: the black kids like, hey, if this was the eighteen 1048 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,799 Speaker 2: hundreds when this place was built, y'all would be over 1049 00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,759 Speaker 2: here with where the slaves are doing, like whatever, Like 1050 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:46,040 Speaker 2: y'all be working, and these white kids, white kids, y'all 1051 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:49,440 Speaker 2: step over here, y'all will be watching them. And to me, 1052 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,960 Speaker 2: that's an illustration of this is how it used to be. 1053 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 2: And I want you all to understand how fucked up 1054 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,120 Speaker 2: that was. But people, of course took that out of 1055 00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,960 Speaker 2: context and was like he he made those black kids 1056 00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,239 Speaker 2: feel like slaves. And it's like we've talked about this 1057 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:07,800 Speaker 2: on the show before when Governor Blackface Wife went to 1058 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,640 Speaker 2: the on the plantation tour and like handed some of 1059 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:12,879 Speaker 2: the kids from cotton, and people were like, why would 1060 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 2: you hand those black children cotton? And I was like, 1061 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't, you're doing this. It's a plantation that they're 1062 00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:24,320 Speaker 2: gonna be learning about slavery. There's not a good way, no, 1063 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 2: that they're gonna learn about slavery. It's not that she 1064 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 2: she didn't say y'all are now slaves. She didn't say, boy, 1065 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,120 Speaker 2: get over there, like it was like she's not trying 1066 00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 2: to transport them back. She's trying to make this real 1067 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:41,359 Speaker 2: and tangible to these children. But there's no untraumatizing way 1068 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 2: for black kids to learn about slavery, essentially, because if 1069 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,839 Speaker 2: you're a human being, it's gonna traumatize you a bit. 1070 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 2: And if we're being a thousand, the white kids should 1071 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 2: be traumatized a bit too, and if they not, it's 1072 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:57,759 Speaker 2: a traumatizing thing. 1073 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, and me, me and you were talking about this, 1074 00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:04,440 Speaker 3: and I am to the understanding of this. 1075 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,800 Speaker 4: When it comes to slavery and the history of America 1076 00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 4: and things that's going on. 1077 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:17,120 Speaker 3: Something somebody is doing something to educate people, and you 1078 00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:18,640 Speaker 3: have extremes on both sides. 1079 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 4: You have white people to go, I don't want to 1080 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,799 Speaker 4: learn it, and you got niggas to go, I don't 1081 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,200 Speaker 4: want to learn it, And both of these groups come 1082 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,879 Speaker 4: out every time something happens, and I'm in the middle. 1083 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, I want to learn about it. 1084 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:32,880 Speaker 3: It should exist. 1085 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,439 Speaker 4: But the thing is, if you're too busy protesting about 1086 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 4: something and you look to your left and you right, 1087 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,279 Speaker 4: and you're right, and you realize the clan member is 1088 00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 4: arguing the same thing you arguing, you might want to 1089 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 4: reconsider your position in where. 1090 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 3: You stand on things. 1091 00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:48,759 Speaker 2: I think once you already have it out there, it's 1092 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,520 Speaker 2: just impossible to put back because they were essentially saying, 1093 00:56:52,680 --> 00:57:01,480 Speaker 2: even to even to ridicule the white person in their perspective, 1094 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,239 Speaker 2: you can't tell the story, right, which I'm i you know, 1095 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,360 Speaker 2: my personal believer is like, I don't think I support that. 1096 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:11,440 Speaker 2: Like there is if you're gonna have something in there 1097 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,600 Speaker 2: and a white person's gonna be part of the narrative, 1098 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 2: and it's us being like, look how disgusting these motherfuckers were. 1099 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:18,360 Speaker 2: I'm fine with that. 1100 00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 3: I'm fine with it too. 1101 00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:23,040 Speaker 4: And the thing is, you cannot talk about American history, 1102 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 4: particularly when it comes to slavery and all that stuff, 1103 00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,760 Speaker 4: and exclude white people and a lot of people, a 1104 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 4: lot of black people only. 1105 00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 3: Won't slavery talk from the black perspective. 1106 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 2: And I'm just fine because it's still a black perspective. 1107 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 2: You have to understand, he's not teaching you, right, They're 1108 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 2: just having a white person voice. It's like having someone's 1109 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 2: voice a character, right, that's not that's not it's not 1110 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 2: anyway that that that's totally tangential to the point. My 1111 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 2: main thing I wanted to get to though, in that 1112 00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,640 Speaker 2: two thousand and nine incident. They interviewed this dude and 1113 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,520 Speaker 2: he was like cause, they were like, you know, you 1114 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 2: had the black kids in this area, you had the 1115 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,200 Speaker 2: white kids over here. You were teaching them this thing. 1116 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,480 Speaker 2: And he was like, loo, because it's a plantation. I'm 1117 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,320 Speaker 2: not trying to teach them to be politically correct. I'm 1118 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 2: teaching them the historical correctness, which is this is what 1119 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 2: happened here. Now. I'm not saying this is obviously wrong. 1120 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 2: I want them to understand it on a on a 1121 00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:17,800 Speaker 2: on a on a physical level, like, look at this shit. 1122 00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:18,480 Speaker 2: This is foul. 1123 00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 5: Do y'all not see as white children, how fucked up 1124 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 5: it is black kids that you know? 1125 00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 2: Because we you know, I think it's it's so interesting 1126 00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,160 Speaker 2: we think black kids are supposed to learn about slavery 1127 00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 2: through osmosis. We don't really want to teach them shit. 1128 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,560 Speaker 2: We just expect them to grow up and understand it, 1129 00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 2: get ambushed into this fucked up racist ass world and 1130 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:38,960 Speaker 2: be like well because and it's and you know, if 1131 00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 2: I'm being fed with black people, we don't. It's because 1132 00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 2: we love our kids, and we we know when we 1133 00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:47,240 Speaker 2: start teaching them this, the childhood is over. But if 1134 00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,280 Speaker 2: my job is to to teach kids. 1135 00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,320 Speaker 4: I gotta teach them right, and it is actually a 1136 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 4: disturbance to the children not to prepare them. 1137 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 2: I remember being a kid with my parents behd me 1138 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 2: these books and ship and then we do these school activities, 1139 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 2: and my black classmates always felt it always felt like 1140 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 2: they were getting blind sided. And to me, I was like, 1141 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 2: what like to me, I was it made me feel 1142 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,480 Speaker 2: weird because it was like, like, we go to James K. 1143 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,840 Speaker 2: Polk and they show us like the slave quarters and 1144 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,479 Speaker 2: this is back before I think even it was even 1145 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 2: really like comfortable, like it was breaking ground for them 1146 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,920 Speaker 2: to start being like, yes, and slaves stay here like 1147 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 2: before that they were it was workers and ship like that, 1148 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 2: and the house attendant stayed out here. 1149 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 5: And to me, as a kid that had read some books, 1150 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,480 Speaker 5: I'm like, so this was a slave state. 1151 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,320 Speaker 3: And you're saying that out loud and native they want 1152 00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:45,800 Speaker 3: to go yeah, like. 1153 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:47,439 Speaker 2: You know even tho I'm not saying it out loud, 1154 00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 2: I'm saying it internally, like when they're going and they 1155 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,640 Speaker 2: would make they would make corn cakes out here, and 1156 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:58,680 Speaker 2: I'm thinking, so that this is away from the house, 1157 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 2: so not the kitchen in the house, so this is 1158 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 2: what the black people did the work, because I already knew, right, 1159 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,000 Speaker 2: you know, But then I would listen to the language 1160 01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 2: that they told us as kids, and I was young. 1161 01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,880 Speaker 2: I was not some old ass kid. I was like 1162 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:18,120 Speaker 2: probably still grade school. And I was thinking to myself, like, so, 1163 01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 2: y'all not gonna tell these other kids what happened and 1164 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,880 Speaker 2: so and in that way, they think they're sparing us 1165 01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 2: because we all get back on the bus and go 1166 01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 2: ooh we got to try corn cakes. 1167 01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, we got to make lie soap. Yeah, we got 1168 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:36,720 Speaker 3: to go out here and pick apples. 1169 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:41,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. But I'm on the bus thinking like, y'all didn't 1170 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,480 Speaker 2: teach us anything. Really, y'all made it seem like we 1171 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 2: took a fun trip to James K. Polk's house, who 1172 01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 2: went on to become president. Isn't this a lovely moment? 1173 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 3: Right? You got out of school for a few hours. 1174 01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,320 Speaker 2: I left thinking we didn't even learn about nothing, you. 1175 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 4: Know, like. 1176 01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,439 Speaker 3: You disappointed. Everybody was like yay, Roger Man. 1177 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 2: So I don't know, man, I just thought it was 1178 01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:07,560 Speaker 2: kind of wild because like, a lot of motherfuckers just 1179 01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:11,040 Speaker 2: learned about Tosa. Agree, a lot of motherfuckers just learned 1180 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:15,440 Speaker 2: about June teenth, me, yeah, like and then to already 1181 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,880 Speaker 2: be like that's enough. We think we understand it better 1182 01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,400 Speaker 2: than the people that have been working in the field. 1183 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:21,600 Speaker 4: You know. 1184 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:22,920 Speaker 2: Like there was a professor fro John C. 1185 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 5: Smith that was like, nah, this is valid. 1186 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,440 Speaker 2: This is a valid presentation he was about to do, 1187 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:30,920 Speaker 2: and it was like, well, they he must not understand. 1188 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,720 Speaker 2: It's like, oh, he's a fucking professor. 1189 01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,200 Speaker 4: That's been doing this his whole life and he sees 1190 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 4: some value to it, right, academically and intellectually he sees 1191 01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,560 Speaker 4: some value. It's okay to disagree, but understand, this is 1192 01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 4: not No one's trying to hurt you with this. 1193 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,919 Speaker 2: This was this was just another thing. So I think 1194 01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 2: the imagination is so it's not even it's just that 1195 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,440 Speaker 2: what did my mind to say that the assumption of 1196 01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 2: good intent is gone? It's over? I think that's what 1197 01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,760 Speaker 2: it is. Is like it just creeped into real life 1198 01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,479 Speaker 2: because that dude thought the assumption of good intent would 1199 01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,439 Speaker 2: carry him. He said, Oh, but y'all know me. I'm black. 1200 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 2: I've been doing this job for a long time. If anything, 1201 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,959 Speaker 2: y'all think I'm too hard when it comes to this shit. 1202 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 2: In two thousand and nine, y'all said, chill. So he's 1203 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,240 Speaker 2: like I thought in twenty twenty one we could we 1204 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 2: could talk about some real shit, and everybody's like, nah, 1205 01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:23,520 Speaker 2: and take the fund in the way and get rid 1206 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,880 Speaker 2: of it. And I saw the news report and like 1207 01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:29,439 Speaker 2: the people leaven comments, even the like the Indo people, 1208 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:34,040 Speaker 2: even they sounded like, well, I just heard about the description, 1209 01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 2: so that's it. Even they didn't sound like they went 1210 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 2: into depth like it still don't sound like a single 1211 01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:42,240 Speaker 2: person reached out to him or went out there anything. 1212 01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,680 Speaker 2: It just sounded like everybody just was like, I don't know, 1213 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:48,760 Speaker 2: you sound like and maybe, like I said, if anything, 1214 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:52,160 Speaker 2: it points out to me, if you're gonna be doing 1215 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,000 Speaker 2: this work, you have to be sensitive to eat to 1216 01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,960 Speaker 2: the fact that people are very sensitive. Yes, so you 1217 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 2: can't just go But y'all know me, that's. 1218 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 4: Not that's not gonna that's not gonna cut it in. 1219 01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 4: You was talking about this last night. You're talking about imagination. 1220 01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 4: And the thing is, it's funny how everybody we we 1221 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,360 Speaker 4: want something new, we want something different. People show you 1222 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,439 Speaker 4: new and different things and niggas whose they goddamn minds. 1223 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,200 Speaker 4: It ain't what we we we did, and that's why 1224 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:20,640 Speaker 4: we get Martin Luther the King and and uh uh 1225 01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,000 Speaker 4: and like that, like we get that that checklist. 1226 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 3: It ain't white people that love that checklist. Niggas love 1227 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 3: that checklist. 1228 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,080 Speaker 4: Too, because once you try to think outside of the box, 1229 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,200 Speaker 4: present something different, try to do something outside of that. 1230 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,960 Speaker 4: Unless you explain it like perfectly, it's gonna get rejected 1231 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:35,600 Speaker 4: a lot of times. 1232 01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:37,760 Speaker 2: One of the things I thought was interesting too, is 1233 01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:44,360 Speaker 2: like he like, I want to see, uh, there's an 1234 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,400 Speaker 2: opportunity here for someone else to take over. And I 1235 01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 2: hope that is. I mean, we'll see what the city, 1236 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,160 Speaker 2: what the kindy allows, but I actually hope it's someone 1237 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,560 Speaker 2: that does the plantation towards more like what they have 1238 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,440 Speaker 2: in Mississippi and stuff like I hope they have. I 1239 01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,200 Speaker 2: hope it's one that's like ain't no fucking ain't nothing 1240 01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:03,800 Speaker 2: here fun like like we don't, we don't. This is 1241 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 2: not gonna be a space for uh Civil War re enactments. 1242 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,200 Speaker 2: We're not doing that, We're not. This is not a 1243 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:14,560 Speaker 2: place white people's weddings. This is not for anyone's weddings. 1244 01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,800 Speaker 2: It's not a place for If that happens, then something 1245 01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,320 Speaker 2: great will have come of this, and I'll and I'll 1246 01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:22,560 Speaker 2: straight up be like two bad niggas, but you know, 1247 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,160 Speaker 2: this is what happened to you, but something it happened 1248 01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:27,320 Speaker 2: and a good thing came of it. I think I'll 1249 01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:30,600 Speaker 2: be living if I'm here in a year and they're 1250 01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 2: still doing weddings, because then it's just like it was 1251 01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,040 Speaker 2: nothing changed, right, And that goes back to what this 1252 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 2: dude had humors and he paid the costs for humors, 1253 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,600 Speaker 2: but other than that, people just went back to night 1254 01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:42,960 Speaker 2: not giving a fuck, right, And. 1255 01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,520 Speaker 3: Then I'm it make me mad because it's like the 1256 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,960 Speaker 3: fun will you protested for? Then nothing? Nothing? 1257 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:52,120 Speaker 2: And and like what what what would have been hilarious 1258 01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 2: is that it seemed to me like there were white 1259 01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 2: people that, once they saw black people got mad, were 1260 01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 2: like fully so importing this event, to which I'm like, 1261 01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:05,360 Speaker 2: I don't think you understand what the event was gonna be. 1262 01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:08,360 Speaker 2: You was about to take your happy white ass out there, 1263 01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,760 Speaker 2: thinking they was gonna be like in the War of 1264 01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 2: Northern Aggression and you was. 1265 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 3: Gonna be know how They're like they mad, see what 1266 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 3: this is about? Dead? 1267 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 4: Right? 1268 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 2: And when they was like when this dude was ultimately 1269 01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,560 Speaker 2: the villain. What the fuck was you gonna what was 1270 01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:26,080 Speaker 2: you gonna say? You know what I mean, Like it's anyway. 1271 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:28,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, so we are up to date on that. 1272 01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,440 Speaker 2: Just wanted to put an update out there so the 1273 01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 2: people won't write that's one hundred emails and shit, and 1274 01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 2: yeah he lost it. I'm not, like I said, I'm 1275 01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:42,440 Speaker 2: not that upset by the loss of the contract or whatever. Cause, like, 1276 01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 2: once I heard about they still do the weddings out there, 1277 01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck the hope. 1278 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 5: Like, like I was talking to somebody about it. We 1279 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:49,800 Speaker 5: was on opposite side. 1280 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,400 Speaker 2: Of this, and I was just like, yeah, I just 1281 01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 2: really think that he was telling the truth in that 1282 01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 2: paper he wrote. I don't think he's gaslighting anybody. But 1283 01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,760 Speaker 2: then she was like, yeah, they still do weddings out there. 1284 01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 2: I was like, oh they do. Burn it down. Fuck them, 1285 01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:07,200 Speaker 2: it ain't that serious, Like like he obviously ain't got 1286 01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,200 Speaker 2: enough control to shut that down. Then I don't care. 1287 01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:13,440 Speaker 2: All right, let's talk about other things. There's a news 1288 01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:18,720 Speaker 2: there's a how much coronavirus news do we have? I 1289 01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:24,480 Speaker 2: want to say it's not that much. Yeah, I'm on 1290 01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 2: two things. I think I'll I wait, I'll just do 1291 01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:31,920 Speaker 2: it quick without playing the song. The UK is excluded 1292 01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,680 Speaker 2: from the EU's COVID Safe Travel List, but the US 1293 01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:37,919 Speaker 2: has been added to the Safety travel list. 1294 01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:40,840 Speaker 3: One nigga would have got back on the safety list. 1295 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,520 Speaker 3: We're gonna get booted right back off. But I'm glad 1296 01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 3: we own it for a while. 1297 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,760 Speaker 2: First of all, I don't want nobody traveling because that 1298 01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:49,960 Speaker 2: that Delta variant ain't no hole. 1299 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,920 Speaker 4: That that Delta gonna catch itself for Delta, bring his 1300 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:56,440 Speaker 4: ass on over here by the plane, Like, why are 1301 01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:57,600 Speaker 4: we fucking with this again? 1302 01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1303 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:03,200 Speaker 2: They goes off the list a ship whole country, but 1304 01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:07,760 Speaker 2: uh yeah, but the UK, I just feel like it's 1305 01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:10,160 Speaker 2: just we're they're actually just ahead of the curve because 1306 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:13,560 Speaker 2: eventually we're gonna get it too, Like eventually we're gonna 1307 01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,320 Speaker 2: have the Delta probably busting everybody's ass. 1308 01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,800 Speaker 4: People are vaccinating, tackling them one shot and unvaccinated people. 1309 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think it's gonna be getting a lot 1310 01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:25,960 Speaker 2: of people. So I don't know how long we'll be 1311 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 2: on that list. All right, let's get to other news. 1312 01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:34,520 Speaker 2: Kevin Hart says he's not bothered by cancel culture despite 1313 01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:40,360 Speaker 2: being canceled. Quote unquote multiple times, which means, yeah, probably 1314 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:44,000 Speaker 2: not canceled if it's been multiple times, you know, because 1315 01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 2: seems to be canceled then anyway. But yeah, he say 1316 01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,439 Speaker 2: he personally doesn't give a ship about cancel culture during 1317 01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:59,200 Speaker 2: his recent interview with The Sunday Times. When we get 1318 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:02,120 Speaker 2: to a point where life was supposed to be perfect? 1319 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:02,960 Speaker 4: What? 1320 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,280 Speaker 2: Oh? When do we get to a point where life 1321 01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:08,000 Speaker 2: was supposed to be perfect? Well, people were supposed to 1322 01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:12,000 Speaker 2: operate perfectly all the time. I don't understand. I don't 1323 01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:15,200 Speaker 2: expect perfection from my kids. I don't expect them from 1324 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 2: my wife, friends, employees, because last I checked, the only 1325 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,680 Speaker 2: way you grow up is from fucked up. And I 1326 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 2: don't know a kid who hasn't fucked up or done 1327 01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:24,920 Speaker 2: some dumb shit. 1328 01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:29,840 Speaker 8: So my thing is like. 1329 01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,439 Speaker 2: He kind of been one note since twenty eighteen, since 1330 01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:39,720 Speaker 2: being quote unquote canceled, and I think, you know, from 1331 01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:42,479 Speaker 2: Afar not knowing this man, it seemed like. 1332 01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,000 Speaker 5: He was personally very affected by that. 1333 01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:48,760 Speaker 2: It sounds like it did hurt him. I don't think 1334 01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 2: he likes that a lot of people don't like him 1335 01:08:51,160 --> 01:08:52,560 Speaker 2: or see him as a good person. 1336 01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 3: Because he wants to be liked by everybody. 1337 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 2: I think, deep down he does, and a lot of 1338 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:58,559 Speaker 2: this shit he's been doing is kind of like being 1339 01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,479 Speaker 2: a rebellion of that to be like, you know, look 1340 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:05,880 Speaker 2: at my next comedy station stand up special. It's about 1341 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,120 Speaker 2: how much I don't give a fuck. It's like, because 1342 01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,800 Speaker 2: you give a fuck, you're in the whole hour. Used 1343 01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:14,000 Speaker 2: to be the guy that definitely gave a fuck, and 1344 01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:16,519 Speaker 2: now you're doing no fucks giving, which is about you 1345 01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:19,080 Speaker 2: not giving a fuck. And you did that special and 1346 01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 2: what two more year? A year later, you're still talking 1347 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:24,000 Speaker 2: about it like that you don't like you? 1348 01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:24,960 Speaker 3: Do you care? 1349 01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 2: Man? And it says a lot too, because a lot 1350 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,599 Speaker 2: of his real life, I bet, is completely different than 1351 01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:33,320 Speaker 2: the online response to him. 1352 01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:35,880 Speaker 5: Yes, Like, if you're Kevin Hart, you're. 1353 01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:39,679 Speaker 2: Very rich, you're very successful, you're very famous, you're very 1354 01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:40,599 Speaker 2: well liked. 1355 01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,599 Speaker 3: You keep getting work through. 1356 01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:47,160 Speaker 2: All this shit, you stay employed, ye dude? Yeah, And 1357 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:51,320 Speaker 2: people in real personal life probably love him everywhere he goes. 1358 01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,800 Speaker 2: The stuff that you see online is very incongrowna with. 1359 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,360 Speaker 3: Real life, very small people. 1360 01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,439 Speaker 2: But I think he wants to be liked by everyone, 1361 01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 2: and nothing makes the internet feel better than being able 1362 01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,080 Speaker 2: to withhold that thing from you. Yes, And I think 1363 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:10,720 Speaker 2: that's what he's dealing with, because why the fuck else 1364 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:14,880 Speaker 2: is it still bothering you? Like, how is it still 1365 01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,799 Speaker 2: bothering you? This bad? That's what I would say, everything 1366 01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:19,680 Speaker 2: about it. It's like the Lady Duff protest too much. 1367 01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 2: Though he has moved on from the tobacco, the forty 1368 01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:25,479 Speaker 2: one year old says he will does not allow canceling 1369 01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,439 Speaker 2: to keep him down, even if he was in the wrong. 1370 01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:29,920 Speaker 2: If you allow it to have an effect on you, 1371 01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:33,800 Speaker 2: it will. Personally, That's not how I operate. During his 1372 01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 2: cover article with Men's Health back in March, he reflected 1373 01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 2: on the Oscar tobacco with the whole Oscar thing, that 1374 01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 2: was a big gap between what I thought the problem 1375 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,760 Speaker 2: was versus what the problem really was. What I thought 1376 01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,640 Speaker 2: it was, it wasn't and my approach to dealing with 1377 01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:50,280 Speaker 2: it because of the assumption that I had is just wrong. 1378 01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:55,519 Speaker 2: So wow, Anyway, I mean, good luck to him. I 1379 01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:56,160 Speaker 2: guess I'm. 1380 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,240 Speaker 4: Allow, but he'll be fine. I got new three men 1381 01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 4: in the baby. They call him something else become I think, you. 1382 01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:03,360 Speaker 2: Know, and deep down, like I said, not knowing this dude, 1383 01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:07,120 Speaker 2: but just my hunch, I think he know he wrong, 1384 01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:12,080 Speaker 2: But I think that that that that man shit, that ego, 1385 01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 2: don't won't let him be like I was wrong. I've 1386 01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,519 Speaker 2: already apologized, which is also another thing that we know 1387 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 2: he was He know he was wrong because he had apologized. 1388 01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,920 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, I'm sorry. He didn't apologize, he 1389 01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,040 Speaker 2: had stopped doing it in his act, which is to me. 1390 01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:33,960 Speaker 2: You know how people always say like, apologies don't mean anything, 1391 01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:38,559 Speaker 2: change the behavior means everything. Well, he's actually living proof 1392 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,719 Speaker 2: change of behavior. It doesn't necessarily mean everything to people 1393 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:44,800 Speaker 2: because they wanted the apology as well. 1394 01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,280 Speaker 5: But he had changed his behavior because. 1395 01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,599 Speaker 2: I really do truly believe deep down that man knows 1396 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,680 Speaker 2: I was wrong for that shit. It's not funny enough 1397 01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:55,439 Speaker 2: people hit me up to say, this is a real concern. 1398 01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:57,800 Speaker 2: You might be a good guy, you might not be 1399 01:11:57,880 --> 01:11:59,519 Speaker 2: a good guy. You might be joking. You may have 1400 01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 2: never done to to your children, but the idea of 1401 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:05,720 Speaker 2: hurting the child for being gay is not funny to 1402 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:07,760 Speaker 2: a lot of people, and a real life thing that 1403 01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,200 Speaker 2: happens to a lot of people. So maybe don't do 1404 01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:11,760 Speaker 2: that on stage. And he said, all right, I'm not 1405 01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,760 Speaker 2: doing those jokes no more. And because it came back up. 1406 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:18,400 Speaker 2: It's like he just said, well, fuck y'all in I 1407 01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 2: don't even do those jokes even since then. I mean, 1408 01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,679 Speaker 2: I don't follow the stand up, but I would really 1409 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,439 Speaker 2: wonder if he in his stand up has been doing 1410 01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:30,400 Speaker 2: anti gay jokes or if he just basically said, I'm 1411 01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,760 Speaker 2: gonna do jokes about the fact people got mad at me, 1412 01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:37,680 Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna do more jokes about picking on 1413 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:40,000 Speaker 2: gay people because I know that that's wrong. I wonder, 1414 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:40,599 Speaker 2: I just wonder. 1415 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,240 Speaker 4: I don't know, like I said, I don't know if 1416 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 4: he's had another one, but I know he had a 1417 01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:48,200 Speaker 4: big special that came out right when the coronavirus hit it, 1418 01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:50,519 Speaker 4: right in the middle of it, and it came out 1419 01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 4: like Netflix. 1420 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:55,639 Speaker 3: Yes, I watched that, and no, no, no, no jokes. 1421 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:57,920 Speaker 4: No. I think it was more about him and his 1422 01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:01,559 Speaker 4: family and his kids, him literally not giving the fuck. 1423 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,280 Speaker 3: And I mean I quite enjoyed it, and I'm not 1424 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:03,760 Speaker 3: gonna lie. 1425 01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:06,000 Speaker 2: I heard I heard good things. I mean, you know, 1426 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:09,120 Speaker 2: it always makes reviews of him, but also because people 1427 01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,040 Speaker 2: are coming at him and say he's not funny at all, 1428 01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 2: and of course he feels like he has to like 1429 01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:15,160 Speaker 2: he you know, shows you all the money and all 1430 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 2: the shit. But once again, that's him getting caught up 1431 01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 2: on the internet because if you're not funny, how he's 1432 01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:25,639 Speaker 2: doing a little too well for just to not be funny. 1433 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:26,360 Speaker 4: You know. 1434 01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:27,679 Speaker 2: A lot of that could be jealousy. 1435 01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:30,040 Speaker 5: A lot of that is just I don't like you, right, 1436 01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:31,920 Speaker 5: and some of us just style choice. 1437 01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 2: But it's always interesting because like the difference between Heart 1438 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:40,600 Speaker 2: and like say, Chappelle, is that Chappelle says, I'm against this, 1439 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,160 Speaker 2: and I make these jokes and I don't care if 1440 01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,200 Speaker 2: you get offended, and he just keeps making the same 1441 01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,840 Speaker 2: jokes yep, and he keeps making them more and more 1442 01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:50,439 Speaker 2: offensive to the point where you're like, oh, this nigga 1443 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 2: really doesn't care, like he like he make here in 1444 01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:56,040 Speaker 2: the in the opposite way, but he don't. But he 1445 01:13:56,360 --> 01:14:00,600 Speaker 2: really really wants to keep offending people and and just 1446 01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,720 Speaker 2: like beat you into submission with the fact that you 1447 01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 2: can't cancel him. Yep. Kevin Hart, I think he's sad. 1448 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:08,720 Speaker 2: It's really sad because I think a lot of men 1449 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:11,960 Speaker 2: are like this. I think there's more men like Kevin 1450 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:14,800 Speaker 2: Hart than they are like Dave Chappelle. I agree, you know, 1451 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:18,280 Speaker 2: I think there's more men who are kind of like 1452 01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:24,479 Speaker 2: followers and they don't want to be kicked out of 1453 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,760 Speaker 2: or seen outside the box of masculinity. And the defiance 1454 01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:33,479 Speaker 2: that he presents is one of I'm a man, y'all 1455 01:14:33,560 --> 01:14:35,200 Speaker 2: not gonna talk to me like this, you know, Like 1456 01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:37,800 Speaker 2: I think that my Kevin Hart is getting better, but 1457 01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:40,679 Speaker 2: I think I lost it at first, but I feel 1458 01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:43,160 Speaker 2: like this coming back. Okay, I'll let ja L be 1459 01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:47,000 Speaker 2: the judge. But but but like it's a lot of like, 1460 01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:50,360 Speaker 2: you know, I'm a man, You're not gonna talk to 1461 01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,519 Speaker 2: me like this. I made mistakes, you know, it's all right, 1462 01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,400 Speaker 2: you know whatever, and like and and instead of being 1463 01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:58,400 Speaker 2: able to say like, I'm sorry because I'm sorry, it's 1464 01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:02,800 Speaker 2: like almost outside the of manhood. It's like, y'all punk me, 1465 01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:06,320 Speaker 2: y'all bitched me, quote unquote y'all. You know, y'all, y'all 1466 01:15:06,439 --> 01:15:11,080 Speaker 2: hold me down almost the terms of course, there's no 1467 01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:14,200 Speaker 2: there's no terms. That's not yeah, I mean what I'm 1468 01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:15,960 Speaker 2: talking about. I mean that's how it would feel. 1469 01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 3: To him, because you know, the only emotions y'all do 1470 01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,600 Speaker 3: is laughter and anger. You don't get anything in between that. 1471 01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:22,720 Speaker 2: Right, And that's how this has felt to me for 1472 01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 2: a long time, because he doesn't really seem to have 1473 01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:29,960 Speaker 2: any intellectual argument to make. I've listened to interviews of 1474 01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:32,680 Speaker 2: him after this, when he went on NPR, and it's 1475 01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:36,160 Speaker 2: like there's no there there, there's nothing deep that he 1476 01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:39,599 Speaker 2: has to say about it. He just doesn't And he's 1477 01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:42,720 Speaker 2: getting a lot of sympathy because he's considered genuinely a 1478 01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:46,760 Speaker 2: nice guy, so many people that he's nice enough for 1479 01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:51,000 Speaker 2: people to say Kevin doesn't mean that, right, and that's 1480 01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:53,880 Speaker 2: just enough for people to go instead of going, Kevin 1481 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 2: doesn't mean that. So when I see Kevin, I'm gonna 1482 01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 2: tell him, hey, man, you shouldn't say that shit. You 1483 01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:00,599 Speaker 2: should probably apologize instead. They go, I know you don't 1484 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:05,240 Speaker 2: mean it, so fuck those people. You're the victim, not him, 1485 01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:07,400 Speaker 2: not them, you know, as opposed to like, man, you 1486 01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:09,400 Speaker 2: should I know you don't mean it, So just go 1487 01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:12,080 Speaker 2: ahead and apologize and don't worry about it. You know, 1488 01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 2: like your produde is gonna you're not gonna host the 1489 01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:18,080 Speaker 2: Oscars out of your pride about this, give a fuck, man, 1490 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,760 Speaker 2: Like you're not losing nothing anything to a certain type 1491 01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,720 Speaker 2: of person, a person like me and probably a lot 1492 01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:25,920 Speaker 2: of people that think, like me, I would have had 1493 01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:28,639 Speaker 2: a lot of respect for the shit. Mm hm, cause 1494 01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:31,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, what you said was fucked up. Yes, 1495 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:35,720 Speaker 2: you don't do that anymore, but an acknowledgement of like, hey, 1496 01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 2: I fucked up, man, you know what I'm saying. I 1497 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:40,759 Speaker 2: didn't mean it that way. I'm not trying to disrespect 1498 01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:42,599 Speaker 2: the community. But people are able to turn it into 1499 01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,599 Speaker 2: like a race thing. People are ever turn it into 1500 01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:48,040 Speaker 2: like other comedians get to do way worse than him 1501 01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:50,920 Speaker 2: type of thing. It turned into everything outside of just 1502 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:55,000 Speaker 2: But personally, do you feel any regret or remorse about 1503 01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:55,639 Speaker 2: what you said? 1504 01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:56,479 Speaker 4: Right? 1505 01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,880 Speaker 2: Do you think do you even see why you Why 1506 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,840 Speaker 2: did you stop doing those jokes? If they're so, you know, 1507 01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,120 Speaker 2: if it's so, don't matter? And you know, even he 1508 01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:08,120 Speaker 2: was like, didn't really have an answer for it, because 1509 01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:10,200 Speaker 2: I think the real answer would have been saying, because 1510 01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:12,439 Speaker 2: I knew them jokes was not they wasn't right no more, 1511 01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 2: And I stopped. 1512 01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:15,800 Speaker 3: Right because nothing else would make sense. Why did you 1513 01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:16,639 Speaker 3: get rid of him? Then? 1514 01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:21,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, like I said, it's super sad that he's 1515 01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:23,640 Speaker 2: stuck in that same cycle, and I hope one day 1516 01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:25,479 Speaker 2: he gets out of it, you know, because it's kind 1517 01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:28,960 Speaker 2: of ridiculous at this point, like it's like nobody's talking 1518 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,519 Speaker 2: about anything. And then he just comes up with, Hey, 1519 01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:33,479 Speaker 2: y'all just want to let you know. I still don't 1520 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,160 Speaker 2: give a fuck. It's like, we just wanted to know 1521 01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:37,439 Speaker 2: how your new movie was. I don't give a fuck. 1522 01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:38,240 Speaker 3: You can't. 1523 01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:40,719 Speaker 2: I don't care about being canceled. I mean I always 1524 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 2: get canceled. You can't stop me, Like Kevin, we just 1525 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:44,080 Speaker 2: how did. 1526 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 3: We get here? Yeah, because I'm thinking I'm thinking who 1527 01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 3: asked him that? 1528 01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:48,639 Speaker 4: Like you say, he has a bunch of new shit 1529 01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:50,600 Speaker 4: coming out, and they probably asking him about that. 1530 01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:52,160 Speaker 3: And he's like, I gotta be sure they know. 1531 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:54,080 Speaker 2: Don't you have a movie coming out Friday? 1532 01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:55,439 Speaker 3: You can't cancel me? 1533 01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:55,920 Speaker 2: All right? 1534 01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:59,240 Speaker 3: Damn Kevin, see y'all in theaters on Friday. 1535 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:06,800 Speaker 2: Extra extra, Let's see what else is happening? Secret recordings, 1536 01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:11,320 Speaker 2: leaked letters, explosive secrets rock the Southern Baptist Convention. 1537 01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:13,240 Speaker 3: Oh shit, what's happening? 1538 01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 2: Demands for political loyalty, disputes about racism, a fight between 1539 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:22,759 Speaker 2: conservatives and ultra conservatives. It sounds like current the basis 1540 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:25,360 Speaker 2: in the Republican Party. But it's actually the annual meaning 1541 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:29,920 Speaker 2: of the Southern Baptist Convention, where thousands gather Tuesday to 1542 01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:33,040 Speaker 2: vote on issues that will shape the massive denomination's future. 1543 01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:37,240 Speaker 2: It's so weird that that's church mm hmm, because that 1544 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:41,200 Speaker 2: feels almost like a political party or business like it's 1545 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:44,400 Speaker 2: the annual shareholders meeting, I mean Southern Baptist Convention. 1546 01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,719 Speaker 5: What will we be doing there deciding how we vote 1547 01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:48,400 Speaker 5: on the issues? 1548 01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:53,640 Speaker 3: You mean, like a democracy, y'all got representatives. 1549 01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:57,360 Speaker 2: It's like, now, how do we feel about in the 1550 01:18:57,479 --> 01:19:00,920 Speaker 2: state death tax, the heir inage tax? How do we 1551 01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:01,479 Speaker 2: feel about that? 1552 01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:02,120 Speaker 4: Like? 1553 01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:03,960 Speaker 2: What does that have to do with Jesus? Spell? You know, 1554 01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:06,080 Speaker 2: there's a lot of stuff between Jesus that we got 1555 01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:08,479 Speaker 2: to do, got to do with Jesus. More than sixteen 1556 01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:11,800 Speaker 2: thousand people are expected to attend the dominations in your meeting. Ah, 1557 01:19:13,920 --> 01:19:16,040 Speaker 2: but what's especially unusual about the meeting is the infighting 1558 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 2: at the highest levels of leadership that has become public 1559 01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:23,320 Speaker 2: in the recent weeks. Mm. The tea the wine is feeling. 1560 01:19:25,240 --> 01:19:26,880 Speaker 3: The unsweet tea got turned over. 1561 01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,839 Speaker 2: The great juice is finning, is feeling. 1562 01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:36,439 Speaker 4: Somebody knocked their body or Christ out the table, y'all 1563 01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:37,519 Speaker 4: might want to clean them up. 1564 01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:39,240 Speaker 5: Whoa this bitch is shaken? 1565 01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,880 Speaker 3: The last supper table, Yes, the last supper table. 1566 01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:46,120 Speaker 2: Russell Moore, who previously led to Southern Baptist Convention's public 1567 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:49,240 Speaker 2: policy arm, recently left his position and his church for 1568 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:51,360 Speaker 2: a new position at Christian to Day magazine on his 1569 01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:54,760 Speaker 2: way out of the two cent letters sent. Two letters 1570 01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 2: he sent to SBC leadership were leaked to the media, 1571 01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:01,680 Speaker 2: and it described a cultural of racism and mishandling of 1572 01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:06,760 Speaker 2: sexual abuse claims. Since his letters was lead, several leaders 1573 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:09,280 Speaker 2: call for third party investigation and the how leadership has 1574 01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:12,439 Speaker 2: responded to this, your sexual abuse within the churches? Yeah, 1575 01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:16,200 Speaker 2: I think they tabled that too. I think they decided 1576 01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:20,880 Speaker 2: like to extend that or some shit. The Washington Post 1577 01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:25,040 Speaker 2: interview dozens of employees, a dozen employees and as well. 1578 01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:26,840 Speaker 5: As five pastors. All of them said they could not 1579 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:27,679 Speaker 5: speak openly. 1580 01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:30,599 Speaker 3: You mean, like Jesus did. 1581 01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:32,120 Speaker 7: Hm? 1582 01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:34,639 Speaker 4: You mean. 1583 01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:38,600 Speaker 2: You got to do it behind closes. What kind of 1584 01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:41,439 Speaker 2: religious is to this? Ain't the Catholic religion in it? 1585 01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:44,599 Speaker 3: SBC? This is ain't no cult. What's happening here? 1586 01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:47,599 Speaker 2: SBC is full of and that's why one listen. One 1587 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:51,320 Speaker 2: reason I don't like when people say atheism is its 1588 01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:55,240 Speaker 2: own religion. It's like, okay, but you do know, we 1589 01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:58,280 Speaker 2: don't have any meetings where we get to like, uh, 1590 01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:01,240 Speaker 2: cover up sexual abuse within the that's not an age 1591 01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:02,960 Speaker 2: within the community. Like that's a that seemed to be 1592 01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:06,400 Speaker 2: a church thing. Can you leave us out of that one? 1593 01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:08,320 Speaker 2: They ain't really got nothing to do with us Like 1594 01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:11,719 Speaker 2: this it's the same. It's like, it's not the same. 1595 01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:16,519 Speaker 2: You believe in nothing, believing in nothing but not having 1596 01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:19,759 Speaker 2: an organization to cover up a bunch of mild seasons 1597 01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:23,600 Speaker 2: and influence political power. Not that it's not close to 1598 01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:27,320 Speaker 2: the same. You wish atheists were the same. Uh, The 1599 01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:30,160 Speaker 2: SBC is full of highly influential passes and Bible teachers. 1600 01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:30,680 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. 1601 01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:35,679 Speaker 5: One black pastor has decided to share. 1602 01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 2: His removal earlier this year from his job as director 1603 01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:43,160 Speaker 2: Information Technology. Taz Andrews, who also served as SBC pastor 1604 01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:45,719 Speaker 2: in Atlanta's, said that in March he polished a Facebook 1605 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,320 Speaker 2: post about one of the candidates running for SBC president, 1606 01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 2: Mike Stone, who's spoken a podcast against critical race theory 1607 01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:56,479 Speaker 2: and intellectual framework used to examine systemic races in the 1608 01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:59,960 Speaker 2: United States. Na MB, which poured one hundred and third 1609 01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:02,960 Speaker 2: million dollars in the SBC churches in twenty twenty, is 1610 01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:06,080 Speaker 2: a powerful force within the Convention because it decides how 1611 01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:08,560 Speaker 2: to distribute money to things such as relief efforts and 1612 01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:13,240 Speaker 2: church planners, generally with the expectation that recipients will remain 1613 01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:17,080 Speaker 2: Southern Baptists. On the podcast posted in March, Stone compared 1614 01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:20,479 Speaker 2: people who use CRT as a framework to Catholics, Methodists, 1615 01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:24,960 Speaker 2: and Pentecostals Christians with whom Baptists have major theological differences 1616 01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,720 Speaker 2: who cannot be in the SBC. So it was like 1617 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:32,080 Speaker 2: he basically like, if you preach critical race there, you 1618 01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,640 Speaker 2: might as well be a Catholic, a Methodist, or a Pentecostal, 1619 01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:36,720 Speaker 2: which apparently is insults. 1620 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:41,080 Speaker 4: Apparently it is, which I don't know. Yeah, because there 1621 01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:42,719 Speaker 4: used to be one group. Then all of a sudden, 1622 01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:45,760 Speaker 4: we agree about this. Nope, we don't agree about this, 1623 01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:48,240 Speaker 4: and everybody stopped breaking off into their own subsections. 1624 01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:51,840 Speaker 2: It's weird because on the outside looking in, I'm like, 1625 01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:56,479 Speaker 2: I thought y'all were pretty much all the same. I 1626 01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 2: didn't realize, like, what is the beef. Don't y'all all like, 1627 01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:02,240 Speaker 2: what's what's the difference in the beliefs? Really? You know 1628 01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:04,960 Speaker 2: what I mean? Because it's like it be little differences, 1629 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:09,960 Speaker 2: like we believe the Holy Ghost is a spirit? Yeah, yeah, 1630 01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:12,439 Speaker 2: the other you know, like like it he little shit 1631 01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:14,600 Speaker 2: and then it'd be like nigga fuck you. Then you 1632 01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:16,760 Speaker 2: know what. I'm like, Uh, what what you said? 1633 01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:17,759 Speaker 3: By my Jesus? 1634 01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,880 Speaker 2: So what what It's like? It's like I just pictured 1635 01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:22,920 Speaker 2: them all in the same church when it first started, 1636 01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:25,799 Speaker 2: and there's like, all right, and now for a selection 1637 01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:29,240 Speaker 2: from the choir, go ahead, this little light up mine. 1638 01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:31,200 Speaker 2: It's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa? 1639 01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:33,920 Speaker 3: Where did the drummer guitars come from? Where lugging? 1640 01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:38,599 Speaker 5: Are y'all clapping and dancing? 1641 01:23:39,080 --> 01:23:40,880 Speaker 3: Who bought this keyboard in here? Don't plug it? 1642 01:23:41,800 --> 01:23:44,000 Speaker 2: I'm starting my own church, y'all. Y'all going to hell. 1643 01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 2: Y'all are going to hell. 1644 01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,720 Speaker 3: Off the tambourines we are with? 1645 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:49,679 Speaker 5: What's merriment? 1646 01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:53,880 Speaker 4: Y'all didn't tell me that I had to read from 1647 01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:55,479 Speaker 4: him number one thirty five. 1648 01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:57,000 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have it. 1649 01:23:57,720 --> 01:23:59,280 Speaker 3: We out all the Calvinists. 1650 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:01,880 Speaker 2: Y'all come with me? Is me mister Calvin, I'm mad, 1651 01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:05,799 Speaker 2: and I'm out and leaving. We burning witches and everything 1652 01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 2: we're doing, we're wild on you out. 1653 01:24:08,439 --> 01:24:11,920 Speaker 4: What you mean to tell me that Jesus head was 1654 01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:12,760 Speaker 4: warmed up? 1655 01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:16,760 Speaker 2: I just feel like that was like this woman is 1656 01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:19,320 Speaker 2: a witch. Well, I say we burned at the steak. 1657 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:20,479 Speaker 2: I say we drown her. 1658 01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 5: What the fuck drowned? 1659 01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:26,519 Speaker 2: Burning the steak? That's it, bitch, you Pentecostal. Right, fuck 1660 01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:28,120 Speaker 2: out of my Get the fuck out of my chair. 1661 01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,639 Speaker 3: And then you have somebody else say, what would Jesus doing? 1662 01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:32,120 Speaker 3: Both of them groups tying on them? 1663 01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:35,280 Speaker 2: Right, you get the fuck out too. We ain't about 1664 01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:38,920 Speaker 2: no peace anyway. I didn't even realize you get insult 1665 01:24:38,960 --> 01:24:41,880 Speaker 2: somebody like that. Now, I gotta be careful, right, it's 1666 01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:43,400 Speaker 2: like all my Baptists all, I thought he was a 1667 01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:44,360 Speaker 2: Pentecostal nigga? 1668 01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:45,160 Speaker 3: What you call me? 1669 01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:48,400 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't. I just thought that was a 1670 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:51,479 Speaker 2: They put the Bible down, you gotta hit me with it. 1671 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:54,240 Speaker 3: They look around, they say, y'all know we ain't like them. 1672 01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:59,400 Speaker 5: Fammy science right, Well, I think that that actually does happen. Yeah, yeah, 1673 01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:02,160 Speaker 5: am design is black, so I know, yeah that. 1674 01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:04,600 Speaker 3: That's a completely broke off part. They do have a 1675 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,559 Speaker 3: black version and that and that's separate from the white version. 1676 01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:11,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that design I think is mostly it's just black people. 1677 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,800 Speaker 2: So I get why people say that that one was 1678 01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:18,960 Speaker 2: not about religion, that's about race. But I mean the 1679 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,960 Speaker 2: shit where it's like Catholics versus Methodists versus Pentecostals, that's 1680 01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:24,840 Speaker 2: that's weird to me. I'm sorry. Like it's like if 1681 01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:26,680 Speaker 2: you so, if you go to a town and they 1682 01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:29,600 Speaker 2: only got a Methodist church with you a Pentecostal, you 1683 01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:31,280 Speaker 2: just like, I guess I don't go to church here. 1684 01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:33,000 Speaker 3: I guess now we're gonna be zooming it up. 1685 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's man anyway, Like how can you tell you? 1686 01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:42,200 Speaker 2: You know, let me stop. It's like these niggas is 1687 01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:46,240 Speaker 2: passing around the So you don't go up to the front, 1688 01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:48,720 Speaker 2: kneel beneath before the priests and have him put the 1689 01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:50,000 Speaker 2: ship in your mouth. 1690 01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:52,479 Speaker 3: That no, some people do it in Unison. That it's 1691 01:25:52,520 --> 01:25:53,600 Speaker 3: all over the place, Like can you. 1692 01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:59,400 Speaker 2: Taste the cracker and be like this ship is unconsecrated. 1693 01:25:59,400 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 2: I'm kidding out of here. 1694 01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:03,880 Speaker 3: This is not the body of Jesus nah. 1695 01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:05,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it's all the body that you, but they 1696 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:13,720 Speaker 2: just taste it salt. Is this a Baptist church? Is 1697 01:26:13,800 --> 01:26:18,840 Speaker 2: this paprika? Is this welter is great? Don't you give 1698 01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:19,040 Speaker 2: me no? 1699 01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:19,800 Speaker 3: Welter is great? 1700 01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:23,080 Speaker 2: Honestly, man, I feel. 1701 01:26:22,840 --> 01:26:26,439 Speaker 5: Like to be down with the Black Baptist anyway, Like 1702 01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:27,240 Speaker 5: you come up in there. 1703 01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:31,120 Speaker 2: I smell fried chicken? Are we having chicken after this? 1704 01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:32,080 Speaker 3: And green bean? 1705 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:34,800 Speaker 2: Well? Shoot, you know what I'm I'm gonna be in 1706 01:26:34,840 --> 01:26:37,519 Speaker 2: here clapping on the ones and threes, sucking everything up. 1707 01:26:39,680 --> 01:26:42,519 Speaker 2: They definitely don't got that at the White church. No, No, 1708 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:44,640 Speaker 2: they don't get out in time enough to go to 1709 01:26:44,720 --> 01:26:47,160 Speaker 2: go to corral. But I'm saying, come on at the 1710 01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:47,800 Speaker 2: Black church. 1711 01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:48,800 Speaker 3: But I don't know. 1712 01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:52,320 Speaker 2: Don't tell them. Don't tell them, y'all, they're gonna start coming. Uh, 1713 01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:54,160 Speaker 2: they gonna come in there and jeans. 1714 01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:59,840 Speaker 3: And and you know how black fools niggas get offended you. 1715 01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:01,920 Speaker 3: How dare you walk in the house of guy with 1716 01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:03,479 Speaker 3: sniggers and jeans on you? 1717 01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:06,800 Speaker 2: That's how you knew that Bonnie argument was in bad faith, 1718 01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:09,400 Speaker 2: Cause niggas do give about people dressing up. 1719 01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:12,519 Speaker 4: Now they tell you to come as you are, But dad, 1720 01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:16,280 Speaker 4: they don't mean it at all, no, you let my 1721 01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:19,240 Speaker 4: mama catch you coming in there without a slip, without 1722 01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:21,439 Speaker 4: a bra, without stockings, without girl. 1723 01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:22,479 Speaker 3: And shit, lose her mind? 1724 01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, shit all, Oh, they don't look at her like 1725 01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:27,160 Speaker 2: she coming from the club. 1726 01:27:27,880 --> 01:27:29,680 Speaker 3: Look at her, look at her ass jiggling because she 1727 01:27:29,760 --> 01:27:31,959 Speaker 3: ain't got no girl. Wrong, Mama, I can't. 1728 01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:36,000 Speaker 2: Breath wearing that body con dress with in fine. 1729 01:27:35,760 --> 01:27:38,560 Speaker 4: They gonna have Jesus made it in this good, so 1730 01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:40,479 Speaker 4: they gonna have to see all the jiggling because I 1731 01:27:40,840 --> 01:27:43,280 Speaker 4: refuse to wear stockers in a thousand degree heat and 1732 01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:44,400 Speaker 4: I'm not wearing no slip. 1733 01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:47,960 Speaker 5: Karen just went back to her own childhood that, yes 1734 01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:48,320 Speaker 5: I did. 1735 01:27:48,400 --> 01:27:49,960 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, y'all. I'm sorry. 1736 01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:51,760 Speaker 2: That was some PTSD. 1737 01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,360 Speaker 3: Well it was church pt y'all got to forgive me. 1738 01:27:54,479 --> 01:27:58,719 Speaker 3: Forgive me, y'all. I started getting mad all over again forgetting. 1739 01:27:58,760 --> 01:28:01,720 Speaker 2: I'm grown and I can chew was now you don't 1740 01:28:01,760 --> 01:28:03,000 Speaker 2: even have to go to the church. 1741 01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:04,120 Speaker 3: And I don't even earn. 1742 01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:06,479 Speaker 2: I don't even know one's trying to make you go, Karon, 1743 01:28:06,479 --> 01:28:07,800 Speaker 2: I don't even know what it is from. 1744 01:28:07,840 --> 01:28:09,960 Speaker 4: They're not they're not, they're not youll. I'm sorry, nobody 1745 01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:11,800 Speaker 4: forceing me. I don't even think I own the girl 1746 01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:12,960 Speaker 4: and I've bront them bitches. 1747 01:28:13,000 --> 01:28:14,000 Speaker 3: That was the fuck that. 1748 01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:16,400 Speaker 5: I think everybody should go to church in their bondies. 1749 01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:19,280 Speaker 2: And then let's see how let's see how representative black 1750 01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:23,639 Speaker 2: Twitter is versus black offline people. Is black women should 1751 01:28:23,640 --> 01:28:25,559 Speaker 2: go to church and they bondis this Sunday, and let's 1752 01:28:25,640 --> 01:28:29,760 Speaker 2: just see. Let's just see. Let's see if they more 1753 01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:32,760 Speaker 2: like Monique or if they more like you know the 1754 01:28:32,880 --> 01:28:33,439 Speaker 2: rest of us. 1755 01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:36,519 Speaker 4: And if you see a black woman in her bonnet, 1756 01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:38,400 Speaker 4: she's been in the back frying the chicken and prepaying 1757 01:28:38,439 --> 01:28:39,880 Speaker 4: the food because she don't want her head to get 1758 01:28:39,880 --> 01:28:40,360 Speaker 4: in your food. 1759 01:28:40,400 --> 01:28:41,960 Speaker 3: That's about the only person that's probably not. 1760 01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:48,040 Speaker 2: A bond that's a plastic cafeteria cap. Yes, anyway, we 1761 01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:52,120 Speaker 2: got totally that's what we do. I forgot what was happening. 1762 01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:56,439 Speaker 3: But we were talking about them people division and yeah 1763 01:28:56,439 --> 01:28:57,200 Speaker 3: they racis. 1764 01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,680 Speaker 2: Yeah they're racist at the Southern Baptist Convention and uh 1765 01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:03,360 Speaker 2: they be fucking people in hiding and covering up. Uh So, anyway, 1766 01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:07,040 Speaker 2: and that's been our religious segment. 1767 01:29:11,080 --> 01:29:13,280 Speaker 3: That's that's about the most action you're gonna get over here. 1768 01:29:15,240 --> 01:29:17,519 Speaker 2: Alabama is among the worst stations in the US for 1769 01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:22,680 Speaker 2: chalmydia and gonnerriea ooh you wonder why wait, what does 1770 01:29:22,760 --> 01:29:23,080 Speaker 2: that mean? 1771 01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:24,320 Speaker 3: Her Alabama? 1772 01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:28,960 Speaker 4: What they like the Republicans, Daddy're like, Oh yeah, fucking abortion, 1773 01:29:29,320 --> 01:29:33,600 Speaker 4: fucking free condom, fuck contraceptive. No, we're not paying for shit. No, 1774 01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:36,680 Speaker 4: we want everybody to come back to work. Coronavirus. We 1775 01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:38,320 Speaker 4: didn't do shit for coronavirus. 1776 01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:40,120 Speaker 3: We've been open, bitch, come on back. 1777 01:29:40,760 --> 01:29:42,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm like when I read this OS, it's like 1778 01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:45,720 Speaker 2: coronavirus here to state because we can't get rid of shit. 1779 01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:49,400 Speaker 2: We do have treatments for chlamydia, gnaria and syphilists. What 1780 01:29:49,920 --> 01:29:53,760 Speaker 2: the jury's not out on those vaccines in medicuits, Like 1781 01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:56,559 Speaker 2: like if you hesitant to Troto's come on now. 1782 01:29:56,960 --> 01:30:00,360 Speaker 4: And the thing is a lot of people there, this 1783 01:30:00,479 --> 01:30:03,040 Speaker 4: is these are some of the poorest parts of the country. 1784 01:30:03,479 --> 01:30:07,599 Speaker 4: A lot of these counties and ours are you can't 1785 01:30:07,600 --> 01:30:10,720 Speaker 4: afford to go get your like normal permitative care. So 1786 01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:13,080 Speaker 4: something that they would have caught, they're not catching it. 1787 01:30:13,720 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 4: That if people can afford to go to the hospital, 1788 01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:18,680 Speaker 4: or they go once it's so bad, then sometimes it 1789 01:30:18,720 --> 01:30:19,600 Speaker 4: might be irreversible. 1790 01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:21,960 Speaker 2: Well, what's wild is that they're not the number one 1791 01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:25,560 Speaker 2: state in any of them. Oh, it's the culmination of 1792 01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:28,040 Speaker 2: being the top. 1793 01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:28,880 Speaker 3: Like, what is it. 1794 01:30:28,960 --> 01:30:35,080 Speaker 2: They're the eighth for chlamydia, they're third for god Rhea, 1795 01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:40,360 Speaker 2: and they're twelve for Syphilists. Wait, they're fifteenth for syphilists. 1796 01:30:40,880 --> 01:30:42,840 Speaker 2: So when you add all three of them up, they're 1797 01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:45,280 Speaker 2: the number one as far as. 1798 01:30:45,360 --> 01:30:46,559 Speaker 3: Being on all the posed. 1799 01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, but if you break it down to 1800 01:30:49,880 --> 01:30:56,040 Speaker 2: like ranking it by percentage of the population, Alaska's number one. 1801 01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:00,799 Speaker 3: Why well, there's probably the smallest pop lated state. 1802 01:31:00,880 --> 01:31:05,000 Speaker 2: Six two hundred and fifty four cases eight hundred, eight 1803 01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:08,400 Speaker 2: hundred and forty eight point one. I guess, so I 1804 01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:10,560 Speaker 2: don't know per for their whole population. I don't know 1805 01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:13,040 Speaker 2: if that's like a million or one hundred thousand or whatever. 1806 01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, this is that's wild. So like, yeah, Alaska's 1807 01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:22,600 Speaker 2: number one. What number you think North Carolina is for uh, chlamydia? 1808 01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:24,120 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1809 01:31:24,200 --> 01:31:27,000 Speaker 4: We probably might be up there too, because Republicans run 1810 01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:29,960 Speaker 4: everything and they won't strip everything down to about the 1811 01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:32,400 Speaker 4: fifteenth twenty six. 1812 01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,200 Speaker 3: Ah, I about to say we probably pretty high. 1813 01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:38,439 Speaker 4: So we mean you pretty much lucked out, you know, 1814 01:31:39,960 --> 01:31:43,120 Speaker 4: my niggah, something happened to you. It's gonna be me, 1815 01:31:43,240 --> 01:31:47,240 Speaker 4: myself and I and all the sex storys. 1816 01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:49,919 Speaker 3: Fuck that. Keep your dirty dickty yourself. 1817 01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:51,960 Speaker 4: Uh. 1818 01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:58,800 Speaker 2: Gon Aria, Mississippi's number one in Gonorria, Alaska, number two 1819 01:32:00,439 --> 01:32:02,400 Speaker 2: North Carolina, for gotten, real, where do you think we're at? 1820 01:32:04,640 --> 01:32:07,599 Speaker 3: It might be high? No, no, no, no, no, ten? 1821 01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:10,840 Speaker 5: Eight you were close, Yeah we're eight. 1822 01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:18,680 Speaker 2: And then for secondary, primary and secondary syphilis. Nevada's number one, 1823 01:32:20,000 --> 01:32:22,519 Speaker 2: you were thinking about it be high. Well, then again, 1824 01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:26,240 Speaker 2: I guess people probably well, actually, no, no, that actually 1825 01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,160 Speaker 2: makes no sense what I was about to say. Fuck everything. 1826 01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:31,200 Speaker 4: I just said, yeah, because they have like brothers and yeah, 1827 01:32:31,280 --> 01:32:32,720 Speaker 4: that would actually be more regulated. 1828 01:32:32,920 --> 01:32:33,920 Speaker 5: So I'm actually surprised that. 1829 01:32:35,680 --> 01:32:39,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's probably just and plus also people you 1830 01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:41,439 Speaker 2: can visit a brothels and not live there. So that 1831 01:32:41,800 --> 01:32:44,839 Speaker 2: nothing I said made sense in my This is y'all's 1832 01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:48,200 Speaker 2: internal view into my brain. Nothing. Everything I said when 1833 01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:50,240 Speaker 2: I was about to make that point thought it made sense, 1834 01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:52,000 Speaker 2: and before it made it to my mouth, my brain 1835 01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:54,280 Speaker 2: was like, no, none of that made sense, and I 1836 01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:56,880 Speaker 2: just wanted to hip y'all to what my thought process was. 1837 01:32:57,960 --> 01:33:01,160 Speaker 2: Nevada's number one New Mexico's number two. Where do you 1838 01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:05,519 Speaker 2: think North Carolina is on the sick syphilis map? Oh? 1839 01:33:06,800 --> 01:33:07,280 Speaker 3: Up there too. 1840 01:33:09,040 --> 01:33:14,080 Speaker 7: I'm gonna go fifteen, eighteen, really close, carry man, you 1841 01:33:14,200 --> 01:33:17,840 Speaker 7: kneeling this and the last I think the last one 1842 01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:19,680 Speaker 7: is congenital syphilis. 1843 01:33:20,920 --> 01:33:21,679 Speaker 3: What's the difference? 1844 01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:24,720 Speaker 2: Well, the first primary secondary syphilis. 1845 01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:26,759 Speaker 3: Oh, syphilis got levels number one, number two. 1846 01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:31,519 Speaker 2: Texas is different Texas number one and congenital syphilis, and 1847 01:33:31,680 --> 01:33:33,240 Speaker 2: the Vada is number four. So I don't know what 1848 01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:36,479 Speaker 2: the main difference is. It's not there's a lot less cases, 1849 01:33:37,600 --> 01:33:41,760 Speaker 2: it seems, and this is like per capita, I guess. 1850 01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:45,400 Speaker 2: But Texas number one, Where do you think North Carolina 1851 01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:47,640 Speaker 2: is in congenital syphilis? 1852 01:33:49,080 --> 01:33:50,800 Speaker 3: It sounds very contagious. 1853 01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:58,600 Speaker 2: Uh, I'm gonna go eight We are nineteenth, Okay, so 1854 01:33:59,280 --> 01:34:01,960 Speaker 2: we're eighteenth, and the last one now in nineteen. In 1855 01:34:02,080 --> 01:34:07,759 Speaker 2: that one, so and this is congenital syphilis? Is sibilist 1856 01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:11,160 Speaker 2: that is acquired by the fetus in the uterus before birth. 1857 01:34:11,960 --> 01:34:14,000 Speaker 4: Oh, that passed from the mother to the child. Okay, 1858 01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:15,639 Speaker 4: because that was like there got to be a difference 1859 01:34:15,680 --> 01:34:19,560 Speaker 4: for them to call it that. Okay, wow wow, So 1860 01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:21,280 Speaker 4: children literally are born with it. 1861 01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:27,400 Speaker 2: I guess so woa Rito Marino respond to In the 1862 01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:32,600 Speaker 2: Heights criticism, you can never do right, it seems, she says. 1863 01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:36,880 Speaker 3: Oh no maybe, no, no, no, no, no, just be quiet, 1864 01:34:38,040 --> 01:34:39,160 Speaker 3: just be quiet. 1865 01:34:39,320 --> 01:34:43,240 Speaker 4: I don't I don't say people understand saying nothing is 1866 01:34:43,439 --> 01:34:45,840 Speaker 4: always an option because a lot of times they don't 1867 01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:48,160 Speaker 4: even ask people about this. They volunteered this information. I 1868 01:34:48,200 --> 01:34:51,200 Speaker 4: don't know if she was asked specifically, but they volunteer 1869 01:34:51,200 --> 01:34:52,439 Speaker 4: this information, and you're. 1870 01:34:52,360 --> 01:34:55,160 Speaker 3: Like, nobody asks this though she was asked about it. 1871 01:34:55,280 --> 01:35:01,880 Speaker 4: Okay, right now, stupid, this is absolutely ridiculous. 1872 01:35:03,560 --> 01:35:09,280 Speaker 3: Yet get out of here. We are a dope and 1873 01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:10,480 Speaker 3: this is ridiculous. 1874 01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:13,280 Speaker 4: Keep the crap because I think a lot of people 1875 01:35:13,400 --> 01:35:15,880 Speaker 4: respond like this out of fear, because everybody is afraid 1876 01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:18,240 Speaker 4: now that they're gonna get counseled by social media. 1877 01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:19,960 Speaker 3: So everybody responds out of. 1878 01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:22,439 Speaker 4: Fear, like if y'all come at me, you know, I 1879 01:35:23,720 --> 01:35:26,120 Speaker 4: don't want to fuck up, so you know, you know, 1880 01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:28,000 Speaker 4: so a lot of times pople respond like this. 1881 01:35:28,120 --> 01:35:30,120 Speaker 3: A lot of times it's out of fear. Yeah, It's 1882 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:33,360 Speaker 3: like she's which is a valid, you know, fear for them, 1883 01:35:33,960 --> 01:35:34,760 Speaker 3: But well, do you. 1884 01:35:34,760 --> 01:35:37,240 Speaker 2: Want to hear the clip before you, Uh, have you 1885 01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:38,160 Speaker 2: heard it already or song? 1886 01:35:38,320 --> 01:35:38,360 Speaker 4: No? 1887 01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:43,960 Speaker 2: Okay uh? And she's white passes like you know, light 1888 01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:48,360 Speaker 2: light skinned, light skinned, latinix or like Latin up woman. 1889 01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:48,800 Speaker 3: Okay. 1890 01:35:49,720 --> 01:35:52,240 Speaker 8: Can we try for a second about that criticism about 1891 01:35:52,280 --> 01:35:53,840 Speaker 8: lyn Manuel that really upsets me? 1892 01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:56,280 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, for the people who don't people who don't 1893 01:35:56,320 --> 01:35:58,960 Speaker 9: know your your friend and ours living man weman Aroanda 1894 01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:00,879 Speaker 9: Social he also. 1895 01:36:00,800 --> 01:36:03,439 Speaker 5: Co produced, so you know what, take it back? 1896 01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:04,600 Speaker 3: You did bring it up. 1897 01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:06,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say a lot of times when people do 1898 01:36:06,200 --> 01:36:07,960 Speaker 4: these fucked up things, nobody asked them. 1899 01:36:08,040 --> 01:36:09,679 Speaker 3: They like, let me tell you my opinions. 1900 01:36:09,760 --> 01:36:13,080 Speaker 2: Like the original clip I saw was of the part 1901 01:36:13,160 --> 01:36:15,760 Speaker 2: where he started going, let me tell you about it, 1902 01:36:16,280 --> 01:36:20,439 Speaker 2: So I didn't realize she literally don't go like they 1903 01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:21,599 Speaker 2: was talking about some other ship. 1904 01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:23,760 Speaker 3: And she was like like sometimes they do ask them. Yeah, 1905 01:36:23,840 --> 01:36:24,639 Speaker 3: but a lot of times. 1906 01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:28,240 Speaker 2: This time you one hundred percent called that. That's my bad. 1907 01:36:28,640 --> 01:36:32,120 Speaker 2: I was wrong. Trying to get it to replay now, 1908 01:36:32,120 --> 01:36:32,880 Speaker 2: I don't want to play. 1909 01:36:33,240 --> 01:36:34,840 Speaker 3: She bought it up because she had something to say. 1910 01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:35,840 Speaker 3: She thought she was gonna be right. 1911 01:36:36,280 --> 01:36:38,840 Speaker 5: She thought about that thing and didn't she right. 1912 01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:41,519 Speaker 8: W tr for a second about that criticism about Lynn 1913 01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:42,920 Speaker 8: Manuel that really upsets me. 1914 01:36:43,280 --> 01:36:46,439 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, people who people who don't know your your 1915 01:36:46,479 --> 01:36:48,080 Speaker 9: friend and ours li Manuel Miranda. 1916 01:36:49,320 --> 01:36:49,920 Speaker 3: He also co. 1917 01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:53,360 Speaker 8: Produced my my documentary. 1918 01:36:53,479 --> 01:36:54,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, she. 1919 01:36:57,320 --> 01:36:59,640 Speaker 2: Also old enough to probably not give a fuck that 1920 01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:01,519 Speaker 2: they gonna be mad about this on the internet. 1921 01:37:01,600 --> 01:37:02,360 Speaker 3: I agree, But I. 1922 01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:07,160 Speaker 2: Can see a full blown, like Sharon Osborne style meltdown 1923 01:37:07,640 --> 01:37:11,680 Speaker 2: coming soon, like like we just like to like I 1924 01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:13,400 Speaker 2: don't know, a week away. 1925 01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:19,880 Speaker 3: From the turn around and say I'm racist? What's going 1926 01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:23,120 Speaker 3: to do with me? I'm okay, how can I be 1927 01:37:23,320 --> 01:37:28,400 Speaker 3: racist about anybody? How can I be racist about anybody 1928 01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:31,120 Speaker 3: or anything in my life? 1929 01:37:32,600 --> 01:37:34,160 Speaker 2: Like we're we're about to hit that. 1930 01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:39,280 Speaker 9: Afro Latino people in in the Heights, the movie adaptation. 1931 01:37:38,960 --> 01:37:42,320 Speaker 3: Of his whatever You Can Never Do Right. 1932 01:37:42,439 --> 01:37:45,240 Speaker 8: It seems this is the man who literally has brote 1933 01:37:45,320 --> 01:37:48,599 Speaker 8: Latino this and Puerto ricanness to America. 1934 01:37:48,840 --> 01:37:49,519 Speaker 3: I couldn't do it. 1935 01:37:50,240 --> 01:37:51,880 Speaker 2: I mean I would love to. 1936 01:37:51,960 --> 01:37:53,160 Speaker 3: Say you did, but I couldn't. 1937 01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:58,880 Speaker 2: What's the makeup of that audience is clapping. 1938 01:38:00,280 --> 01:38:03,880 Speaker 8: Has done that really single handedly, And I'm real to 1939 01:38:03,960 --> 01:38:08,000 Speaker 8: pieces and I'm proud that he produced my documentary, And 1940 01:38:08,240 --> 01:38:08,799 Speaker 8: so are. 1941 01:38:08,680 --> 01:38:11,799 Speaker 9: You saying that while you may understand where people's concerns 1942 01:38:11,880 --> 01:38:14,400 Speaker 9: come from the preps. It's misplaced and criticizing. 1943 01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:19,040 Speaker 2: Him in this That is a boy that he tried 1944 01:38:19,040 --> 01:38:22,360 Speaker 2: to open the emergency exit door for her to be like, yeah, 1945 01:38:22,360 --> 01:38:25,760 Speaker 2: I'm just saying like maybe the industry or Hollywood, but yeah, 1946 01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:29,439 Speaker 2: she was like, no, close the emergency door. I'm staying 1947 01:38:29,520 --> 01:38:30,040 Speaker 2: on the plane. 1948 01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:31,080 Speaker 3: Fuck that, honey. 1949 01:38:31,120 --> 01:38:32,760 Speaker 4: He was giving her a passchooting, and she was like 1950 01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:35,080 Speaker 4: she was, she took that pass shooting, throw it out 1951 01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:35,479 Speaker 4: the window. 1952 01:38:35,520 --> 01:38:37,680 Speaker 2: He's like, here's a life raft. She was like, I'm 1953 01:38:37,720 --> 01:38:39,240 Speaker 2: going down with this shift. Keep playing. 1954 01:38:39,320 --> 01:38:40,840 Speaker 3: No, I'm a punch hole in this raft. 1955 01:38:40,880 --> 01:38:42,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if you heard they got all to 1956 01:38:42,360 --> 01:38:44,679 Speaker 2: eat all you could eat shrimp on this ship. I'm 1957 01:38:44,720 --> 01:38:46,280 Speaker 2: going down with thee. 1958 01:38:46,120 --> 01:38:49,200 Speaker 3: With the buffet in the in the uh in the 1959 01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:52,120 Speaker 3: the guitar player, he's saying. 1960 01:38:52,439 --> 01:38:54,920 Speaker 8: Can't you just wait a while and leave it alone. 1961 01:38:55,560 --> 01:38:57,080 Speaker 3: There's a lot oh. 1962 01:38:58,760 --> 01:39:01,000 Speaker 2: Oh not the khall just wait a while and leave 1963 01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:01,559 Speaker 2: it alone. 1964 01:39:02,400 --> 01:39:05,479 Speaker 8: They're saying, can't you just wait a while and leave 1965 01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:09,520 Speaker 8: it alone. There's a lot of people who are Puerto Ricano, 1966 01:39:09,840 --> 01:39:14,040 Speaker 8: who are also from Guatemala, who are dark and who 1967 01:39:14,080 --> 01:39:16,800 Speaker 8: are also fair. We are all colors in Puerto Rico, 1968 01:39:17,680 --> 01:39:20,519 Speaker 8: and this is how it is. And I just it 1969 01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:22,560 Speaker 8: would be so nice if they hadn't come up with 1970 01:39:22,640 --> 01:39:24,760 Speaker 8: that and left it alone just for not if they 1971 01:39:25,479 --> 01:39:29,840 Speaker 8: not us, not we they Oh, I mean they're really 1972 01:39:29,960 --> 01:39:32,080 Speaker 8: they're really attacking the wrong person. 1973 01:39:35,600 --> 01:39:37,479 Speaker 2: Well, now they're probably gonna be attacking her. I don't 1974 01:39:37,520 --> 01:39:41,519 Speaker 2: know her online life is like, but oh, I can't 1975 01:39:41,600 --> 01:39:43,000 Speaker 2: think of a much worse answer than that. 1976 01:39:43,200 --> 01:39:46,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, she came in and set the building on fire. Yeah, 1977 01:39:46,800 --> 01:39:49,600 Speaker 3: like it. Because the way she was talking was like 1978 01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:52,840 Speaker 3: she was separate. She wasn't part of the group, even 1979 01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:54,200 Speaker 3: though she's claim she is. 1980 01:39:54,280 --> 01:39:55,479 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, But the way you were 1981 01:39:55,520 --> 01:40:00,760 Speaker 4: talking is almost like a separation. And and it was 1982 01:40:00,880 --> 01:40:04,760 Speaker 4: one of those things to where she wanted to defend him. 1983 01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:07,439 Speaker 4: And I can understand that because she was like, basically 1984 01:40:07,520 --> 01:40:10,160 Speaker 4: he helped me, blah blah blah blah blah. But even 1985 01:40:10,360 --> 01:40:13,200 Speaker 4: Stephen was trying to kind of coax her and to 1986 01:40:13,320 --> 01:40:17,120 Speaker 4: be like, hey, you know, I understand, but isn't it 1987 01:40:17,240 --> 01:40:18,680 Speaker 4: more industry. 1988 01:40:18,240 --> 01:40:22,400 Speaker 3: Thing, which is very valid, she was like Nope. She 1989 01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:25,640 Speaker 3: was like, they're not the problem. The problem. Basically the 1990 01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:26,920 Speaker 3: people complaining. 1991 01:40:26,560 --> 01:40:31,400 Speaker 2: Oh, you know what's crazy? She so she does have Twitter? Okay, 1992 01:40:31,439 --> 01:40:32,920 Speaker 2: because I was thinking, like, this is the kind of 1993 01:40:32,960 --> 01:40:34,720 Speaker 2: shit you say, Well, you old and you ain't got 1994 01:40:34,760 --> 01:40:36,680 Speaker 2: no Twitter, and you just be like these niggas like 1995 01:40:36,760 --> 01:40:38,599 Speaker 2: to find me in they don't like what I said, 1996 01:40:38,720 --> 01:40:40,600 Speaker 2: Come find me in person and tell me to my 1997 01:40:40,680 --> 01:40:42,120 Speaker 2: face because I'll never see it. 1998 01:40:43,000 --> 01:40:46,880 Speaker 5: But nah, that's that she actually does have it. 1999 01:40:47,080 --> 01:41:08,720 Speaker 2: And we have some breaking news. Okay, breaking news, breaking news. 2000 01:41:08,840 --> 01:41:11,439 Speaker 2: This is just in as of dateline thirteen minutes ago. 2001 01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:17,800 Speaker 2: Oh shit, she tweeted, I'm incredibly disappointed with myself while 2002 01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:20,240 Speaker 2: making a statement in defense of lynd Manuel Miranda on 2003 01:41:20,280 --> 01:41:23,560 Speaker 2: The Kobell Show last night, I was clearly dismissive of 2004 01:41:23,640 --> 01:41:26,120 Speaker 2: black lives that matter in our Latin community. It's so 2005 01:41:26,240 --> 01:41:28,519 Speaker 2: easy to forget how celebration for some is a lament 2006 01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:31,120 Speaker 2: for others. In addition to a plotting land for his 2007 01:41:31,200 --> 01:41:34,040 Speaker 2: wonderful movie version of in Nice, let me add my 2008 01:41:34,160 --> 01:41:37,479 Speaker 2: appreciation for a sensitivity and resolve to be more inclusive 2009 01:41:37,520 --> 01:41:41,439 Speaker 2: of the Afro Latino community going forward. See you can 2010 01:41:41,800 --> 01:41:49,200 Speaker 2: teach this old dog new tricks. Reader. Yeah, obviously it's Twitter. 2011 01:41:49,280 --> 01:41:52,120 Speaker 2: I don't expect the apologyic except but that's not the point. 2012 01:41:52,439 --> 01:41:58,080 Speaker 2: The point to the point is, uh, she knew she 2013 01:41:58,200 --> 01:41:58,680 Speaker 2: fucked up. 2014 01:41:59,000 --> 01:42:02,439 Speaker 4: Yes, some as soon as she got off stage or 2015 01:42:02,520 --> 01:42:05,639 Speaker 4: got home or left or somebody seen that livest somebody 2016 01:42:05,720 --> 01:42:07,760 Speaker 4: got ahold of her and with she. 2017 01:42:07,840 --> 01:42:08,719 Speaker 3: And West Side Story. 2018 01:42:09,080 --> 01:42:11,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, and they get ready to do Somebody saying this 2019 01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:13,320 Speaker 4: a documentary. Yeah, they get ready to like that's what 2020 01:42:13,400 --> 01:42:15,880 Speaker 4: she was there to promote. Yes, okay, that what she was. 2021 01:42:16,320 --> 01:42:20,519 Speaker 3: Somebody, somebody she came, someone was like, we do not 2022 01:42:20,640 --> 01:42:23,160 Speaker 3: want people protesting the ship that you were about to 2023 01:42:23,240 --> 01:42:24,160 Speaker 3: put out right. 2024 01:42:24,680 --> 01:42:27,400 Speaker 2: Somebody, well, ma'am, ma'am, what are you doing? 2025 01:42:28,520 --> 01:42:31,720 Speaker 3: Like we can't do this? And like I said, you 2026 01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:33,360 Speaker 3: talking about your ship. 2027 01:42:33,560 --> 01:42:36,640 Speaker 4: You could have kept this opinion to yourself and the 2028 01:42:36,720 --> 01:42:38,680 Speaker 4: people you were already talking to about it. 2029 01:42:39,360 --> 01:42:42,599 Speaker 3: But she was like, oh, why we're here, let's talk Stephen. 2030 01:42:43,280 --> 01:42:44,960 Speaker 3: I don't even think that was on his docket to 2031 01:42:45,040 --> 01:42:46,040 Speaker 3: talk about it, even. 2032 01:42:45,880 --> 01:42:48,920 Speaker 2: If probably you might have felt they was too hard 2033 01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:50,160 Speaker 2: on him, because that's possible. 2034 01:42:50,200 --> 01:42:53,360 Speaker 5: I'm not trying to write it completely. You know that 2035 01:42:53,439 --> 01:42:54,560 Speaker 5: shit is very anecdotal. 2036 01:42:54,640 --> 01:42:59,120 Speaker 2: It depends on what what criticisms you saw, especially when 2037 01:42:59,160 --> 01:43:01,840 Speaker 2: you come to social media, everyone sees something different, so 2038 01:43:01,920 --> 01:43:04,920 Speaker 2: you may have seen people being disrespectful blah blah. And 2039 01:43:05,680 --> 01:43:09,680 Speaker 2: my thing is you never cake for someone who's already apologized. 2040 01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:15,000 Speaker 2: Never oh that lesson so long ago, it was like, 2041 01:43:15,880 --> 01:43:18,080 Speaker 2: I ain't like if that nigga say you sorry, then 2042 01:43:18,120 --> 01:43:20,800 Speaker 2: I don't got nothing to say ship when someone says 2043 01:43:20,880 --> 01:43:22,800 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I learned from this, I'm gonna be better, 2044 01:43:22,800 --> 01:43:25,479 Speaker 2: and then you come behind them like fuck y'all. He 2045 01:43:25,520 --> 01:43:28,840 Speaker 2: shouldn't I had to do that, Like that's crazy. You 2046 01:43:28,960 --> 01:43:30,720 Speaker 2: say you sorry, you sorry, that's it. I ain't got 2047 01:43:30,800 --> 01:43:33,360 Speaker 2: nothing more fighting. Even if I thought you were right, right, 2048 01:43:33,680 --> 01:43:37,080 Speaker 2: I have no more dog in the fight. You say 2049 01:43:37,160 --> 01:43:39,800 Speaker 2: you wrong, then I'm gonna just take your opinion for it. 2050 01:43:40,160 --> 01:43:40,760 Speaker 2: Said you're wrong. 2051 01:43:41,040 --> 01:43:43,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. Other people say bitch, no, fuck up my money too. 2052 01:43:43,400 --> 01:43:45,720 Speaker 4: Because this is not a youth and this was a 2053 01:43:45,800 --> 01:43:47,519 Speaker 4: you project. They would let you sink. But for the 2054 01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:49,680 Speaker 4: fact that you have other actors that are attached to 2055 01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:51,800 Speaker 4: this and they like you. For some of them, that 2056 01:43:51,920 --> 01:43:53,680 Speaker 4: was like, nigga, no, ain't nobody looking for me in 2057 01:43:53,720 --> 01:43:54,439 Speaker 4: thirty five years. 2058 01:43:54,520 --> 01:43:54,960 Speaker 3: Shut up. 2059 01:43:55,120 --> 01:43:57,320 Speaker 5: And it's also that thing where you just feel bad 2060 01:43:57,439 --> 01:43:58,720 Speaker 5: that he had to feel. 2061 01:43:58,520 --> 01:44:01,840 Speaker 4: Bad, right, right, And that's understandable. But it's one of 2062 01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:04,639 Speaker 4: those things where that was not the time nor the place. 2063 01:44:04,720 --> 01:44:08,040 Speaker 2: But my point being like, there's no real accountability there. 2064 01:44:08,080 --> 01:44:10,040 Speaker 2: You just felt bad that your friend felt bad, right, 2065 01:44:10,320 --> 01:44:13,519 Speaker 2: there's no actual Like it's a difference between going I 2066 01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:16,360 Speaker 2: don't think they did something, which is you know, I'm 2067 01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:18,320 Speaker 2: not saying you should always say that, but even with that, 2068 01:44:18,400 --> 01:44:21,479 Speaker 2: it's like you said, if someone was saying, does colorism 2069 01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:24,080 Speaker 2: in this movie and you say I disagree? I mean, 2070 01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:26,000 Speaker 2: I look, I don't agree with you, but you can 2071 01:44:26,080 --> 01:44:30,000 Speaker 2: go what she disagrees. That's different than come on, man, 2072 01:44:30,200 --> 01:44:31,240 Speaker 2: can't y'all just wait? 2073 01:44:32,320 --> 01:44:34,679 Speaker 3: Like yeah, that is, let us get. 2074 01:44:34,600 --> 01:44:37,439 Speaker 2: Ours first, and let us get the big piece of chicken, 2075 01:44:38,160 --> 01:44:40,200 Speaker 2: and then y'all get the little piece of chicken. Damn, 2076 01:44:41,040 --> 01:44:43,880 Speaker 2: it's gonna trickle down. The colorism is gonna trickle down, 2077 01:44:45,000 --> 01:44:48,480 Speaker 2: Like just stop, what are you doing? I know people 2078 01:44:48,520 --> 01:44:50,080 Speaker 2: is waiting on the sidelne. 2079 01:44:51,840 --> 01:44:54,559 Speaker 3: She got off stage. They was like, no, ma'am, you're 2080 01:44:54,560 --> 01:44:55,840 Speaker 3: gonna have to apologize, ma'am. 2081 01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:58,080 Speaker 5: Right, Oh my goodness, I bet you. 2082 01:44:58,200 --> 01:45:00,040 Speaker 3: Somebody was pouted behind the scenes, going. 2083 01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:06,680 Speaker 2: Oh no, right, oh my goodness. Anyway, good luck, good 2084 01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:09,080 Speaker 2: luck to you, because they gonna I know they're gonna 2085 01:45:09,080 --> 01:45:10,880 Speaker 2: be in her man chins. That's wold. 2086 01:45:10,960 --> 01:45:13,160 Speaker 5: Thirteen minutes ago, we just covered the story is from 2087 01:45:13,240 --> 01:45:13,599 Speaker 5: last night. 2088 01:45:13,680 --> 01:45:16,360 Speaker 4: She was like, actually, all my bad, I actually got 2089 01:45:16,400 --> 01:45:18,519 Speaker 4: something to say. I was like, I was a lot 2090 01:45:18,560 --> 01:45:19,200 Speaker 4: of last line. 2091 01:45:19,240 --> 01:45:21,400 Speaker 2: I might add that to my whenever I do my 2092 01:45:21,520 --> 01:45:26,400 Speaker 2: faux apology. Ah see, you can teach this old dog 2093 01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:30,320 Speaker 2: new tricks. Rita. I'm out like I can't. I would 2094 01:45:30,360 --> 01:45:32,960 Speaker 2: love to do that. Yes, like Rod, you said some 2095 01:45:33,040 --> 01:45:36,040 Speaker 2: horrible things. Well see, you can teach this old dog 2096 01:45:36,439 --> 01:45:40,160 Speaker 2: new tricks. Sorry about that, everybody, It's like, well, no, 2097 01:45:40,320 --> 01:45:45,640 Speaker 2: Nigga is not a joke. We mad, Oh you think so. 2098 01:45:46,320 --> 01:45:48,240 Speaker 2: But I learned my lesson. Yes I did. 2099 01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:52,160 Speaker 3: In DDI, Yes I did. I learned it. 2100 01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:55,400 Speaker 2: We're horribly offended by what you said. I bet you were, 2101 01:45:55,840 --> 01:45:58,479 Speaker 2: but so glad I cleared that up. Anyway, moving on, 2102 01:46:01,200 --> 01:46:03,840 Speaker 2: we're not ready to move on, moving on, as I said, 2103 01:46:04,000 --> 01:46:07,639 Speaker 2: as I said, you see, you have taught this old 2104 01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:08,439 Speaker 2: dog new tricks. 2105 01:46:08,680 --> 01:46:11,439 Speaker 3: So so I'm gonna take my new tricks and go 2106 01:46:11,560 --> 01:46:12,880 Speaker 3: away over here, and I'm a business. 2107 01:46:13,040 --> 01:46:15,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that feels like a period on the sentence when 2108 01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:19,400 Speaker 2: you say that, you know when you add that old 2109 01:46:19,439 --> 01:46:21,679 Speaker 2: dog new tricks, like that's that that's very much aike 2110 01:46:21,880 --> 01:46:27,360 Speaker 2: and wrapping up old dogs new tricks. You caught us. 2111 01:46:27,720 --> 01:46:29,639 Speaker 2: Everyone should do that when they get caught us some ship. 2112 01:46:29,760 --> 01:46:32,320 Speaker 2: Now like, wow, we caught this person saying the N 2113 01:46:32,400 --> 01:46:33,840 Speaker 2: word old dog new tricks. 2114 01:46:36,240 --> 01:46:36,800 Speaker 3: Question mark. 2115 01:46:36,960 --> 01:46:39,919 Speaker 2: Oh damn, you got us, You got me forgiven? 2116 01:46:41,560 --> 01:46:42,360 Speaker 3: Yes, forgiven? 2117 01:46:42,520 --> 01:46:46,479 Speaker 5: All right, all right, let's get let's do some funk. 2118 01:46:46,760 --> 01:46:49,080 Speaker 2: I mean what I was gonna say, some guess the 2119 01:46:49,200 --> 01:46:53,080 Speaker 2: race and then we'll wrap this up. Okay, let me 2120 01:46:53,280 --> 01:47:12,840 Speaker 2: get some guess the race music, right, the right, the right, 2121 01:47:18,000 --> 01:47:27,240 Speaker 2: the right, Guess the race. You either know what we're 2122 01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:30,280 Speaker 2: playing or you don't. Let's get to it, right. A 2123 01:47:30,439 --> 01:47:32,960 Speaker 2: woman who poured a mix of boiling water and sugar 2124 01:47:33,040 --> 01:47:35,000 Speaker 2: over her husband and the act of vengeance after a 2125 01:47:35,120 --> 01:47:38,080 Speaker 2: family fight, has been found guilty of his murder. 2126 01:47:38,439 --> 01:47:38,760 Speaker 3: Oh no. 2127 01:47:39,720 --> 01:47:42,960 Speaker 2: Corina Smith fifty nine attacked eighty one year old Michael 2128 01:47:43,080 --> 01:47:47,719 Speaker 2: Baines while he was in bed in their home July fourteenth, 2129 01:47:47,840 --> 01:47:52,160 Speaker 2: twenty twenty. He suffered extensive burns and died five weeks 2130 01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:55,080 Speaker 2: later in the hospital. Ooh, that sound like exclusat. 2131 01:47:56,240 --> 01:47:58,680 Speaker 3: Oh, what kind of griss does she get? Did she did? 2132 01:47:58,760 --> 01:47:58,800 Speaker 4: She? 2133 01:47:58,920 --> 01:48:01,280 Speaker 3: Did she get the good gris? She got the harmony grits? 2134 01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:02,400 Speaker 3: What kind of grits did she get? 2135 01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:04,519 Speaker 5: They said there was sugar water. 2136 01:48:05,160 --> 01:48:06,559 Speaker 3: Oh, with sugar water went grits. 2137 01:48:06,760 --> 01:48:09,280 Speaker 5: No, I mean sugar and grits. 2138 01:48:09,360 --> 01:48:11,960 Speaker 2: What kind of care? She's a murderer. She's not. She's not. 2139 01:48:12,479 --> 01:48:13,600 Speaker 2: She's not a demon, she's not. 2140 01:48:14,000 --> 01:48:16,080 Speaker 3: I thought she was preparing grits and was like, take this. 2141 01:48:17,000 --> 01:48:22,320 Speaker 2: That's no, she's she did not murdering her husband of 2142 01:48:22,400 --> 01:48:24,759 Speaker 2: thirty eight years, but she was found guilty by a jerry. 2143 01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:27,639 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean nigga that got sugar water? 2144 01:48:27,840 --> 01:48:31,920 Speaker 2: I mean I guess he, I mean did burnt his 2145 01:48:32,000 --> 01:48:34,920 Speaker 2: skin off and must have stuck. Oh, must have been 2146 01:48:34,960 --> 01:48:36,320 Speaker 2: sitting in there thinking shit was sweet. 2147 01:48:36,800 --> 01:48:45,880 Speaker 3: Probably. I can't imagine you're waking up going what what 2148 01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:47,080 Speaker 3: do I smell like? Candy? 2149 01:48:47,760 --> 01:48:48,040 Speaker 4: She was. 2150 01:48:48,800 --> 01:48:58,760 Speaker 2: She was just boiling, boiling mad. She said she was 2151 01:48:58,840 --> 01:49:03,240 Speaker 2: also her her husband's care uh dad. She had been 2152 01:49:03,320 --> 01:49:05,679 Speaker 2: involved in a dispute with him and another family member 2153 01:49:05,760 --> 01:49:07,880 Speaker 2: prior to the killing. Shortly after midnight, she took a 2154 01:49:07,920 --> 01:49:10,760 Speaker 2: bucket from her garden bought up two kettles of water, 2155 01:49:10,880 --> 01:49:12,719 Speaker 2: mixed the water with three bags of sugar. 2156 01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:15,080 Speaker 3: Three bags? How could you? 2157 01:49:15,080 --> 01:49:18,479 Speaker 2: God damn, how could she possibly say she didn't kill 2158 01:49:18,600 --> 01:49:20,360 Speaker 2: him unless she's not a murderer. 2159 01:49:20,439 --> 01:49:23,439 Speaker 3: Did that ship glaze on him? Like sebmit? God damn? 2160 01:49:24,439 --> 01:49:25,160 Speaker 2: Now son came. 2161 01:49:25,600 --> 01:49:25,800 Speaker 4: Yes. 2162 01:49:26,400 --> 01:49:31,240 Speaker 3: I mean she literally made syrup, she made icing. God damn, 2163 01:49:31,280 --> 01:49:32,160 Speaker 3: three bags of sugar. 2164 01:49:32,479 --> 01:49:33,320 Speaker 2: We are going to hell. 2165 01:49:33,640 --> 01:49:35,680 Speaker 3: She made that ship like niggas makee kool aid. You've 2166 01:49:35,720 --> 01:49:37,280 Speaker 3: been like, god damn, this is too sweet. 2167 01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:38,760 Speaker 4: You know. 2168 01:49:39,120 --> 01:49:42,240 Speaker 2: The irony of this is that's the same ingredients to 2169 01:49:42,439 --> 01:49:47,880 Speaker 2: Wendy's icedy. Wow, it's three bags of sugar for two 2170 01:49:47,960 --> 01:49:50,599 Speaker 2: buckets of water. Auntie who knows? 2171 01:49:50,720 --> 01:49:51,920 Speaker 3: She may have previous to work there. 2172 01:49:52,880 --> 01:49:57,080 Speaker 2: She used her Wendy's training. She was She was previously 2173 01:49:57,160 --> 01:50:00,040 Speaker 2: known as Corina Bains. She then poured the liquid for 2174 01:50:00,120 --> 01:50:01,960 Speaker 2: him while he was sleeping, before running to a neighbor's 2175 01:50:02,000 --> 01:50:04,360 Speaker 2: house in tears and telling them, I've hurt him. I've 2176 01:50:04,439 --> 01:50:07,680 Speaker 2: hurt him really bad. I think I've killed him. Well, 2177 01:50:07,720 --> 01:50:10,840 Speaker 2: he is eighty one and your fifty nine, ma'am, not 2178 01:50:11,000 --> 01:50:15,120 Speaker 2: like eighty one year old people. But bounce back from 2179 01:50:15,200 --> 01:50:19,920 Speaker 2: that also, like you were crying at your neighbor's house 2180 01:50:21,040 --> 01:50:24,439 Speaker 2: with that premeditated ass playing you don't take the good 2181 01:50:24,479 --> 01:50:25,160 Speaker 2: ship boiling? 2182 01:50:25,400 --> 01:50:25,599 Speaker 4: Right? 2183 01:50:25,720 --> 01:50:29,120 Speaker 3: And did as sugar to it? Ma'am you melting his 2184 01:50:29,280 --> 01:50:30,400 Speaker 3: skin off with that shit? 2185 01:50:30,640 --> 01:50:33,040 Speaker 2: What was the sugar for? Anyway? To make it stick 2186 01:50:33,120 --> 01:50:33,400 Speaker 2: to him? 2187 01:50:33,560 --> 01:50:35,040 Speaker 3: Yes, to make him stick to the sheets. 2188 01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:35,439 Speaker 4: A parent. 2189 01:50:35,560 --> 01:50:38,200 Speaker 2: That's so evilly and evil and premeditating. 2190 01:50:38,360 --> 01:50:38,519 Speaker 3: Right. 2191 01:50:39,160 --> 01:50:42,720 Speaker 2: The police found her husband moaning in extreme pain. He too, 2192 01:50:43,240 --> 01:50:45,639 Speaker 2: he has significant what you would too? Wow, I can 2193 01:50:46,040 --> 01:50:50,839 Speaker 2: think that. You mean burns hurt everybody. 2194 01:50:50,840 --> 01:50:54,280 Speaker 3: Apparently she didn't know. Apparently I would not thank you for. 2195 01:50:54,600 --> 01:50:57,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, he changed on this. 2196 01:50:57,960 --> 01:50:59,519 Speaker 3: All she was trying to do is stick it to him. 2197 01:51:09,560 --> 01:51:13,800 Speaker 2: Oh, so he's just staying significant burns. So more than 2198 01:51:13,840 --> 01:51:16,040 Speaker 2: a third of his body died in the hospital in August. 2199 01:51:17,560 --> 01:51:20,360 Speaker 2: Smith changed her story initially, but then admitted what she did, 2200 01:51:20,560 --> 01:51:22,519 Speaker 2: but claimed it happened when she lost control. 2201 01:51:23,800 --> 01:51:24,439 Speaker 3: Lost control. 2202 01:51:24,520 --> 01:51:27,240 Speaker 4: You sat there, nigga, didn't you know how long it 2203 01:51:27,320 --> 01:51:29,800 Speaker 4: takes for water the fucking ball You sat there, Put 2204 01:51:29,920 --> 01:51:33,960 Speaker 4: two kettles of water, let it boil, put you three back. 2205 01:51:34,000 --> 01:51:37,200 Speaker 3: You made a fucking super syrup. You gotta smothered him 2206 01:51:37,360 --> 01:51:40,240 Speaker 3: like pancakes. Mothered him like pancake syrup and was like, 2207 01:51:40,439 --> 01:51:41,160 Speaker 3: my bad. 2208 01:51:41,200 --> 01:51:44,479 Speaker 2: You gotta go buy three bags of sugar. 2209 01:51:44,680 --> 01:51:46,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, fifteen pounds of sugar. 2210 01:51:46,520 --> 01:51:48,880 Speaker 2: You gotta go buy that. You don't even have that 2211 01:51:49,000 --> 01:51:51,920 Speaker 2: sitting around there. Most people, if I said, go get 2212 01:51:52,040 --> 01:51:54,920 Speaker 2: me fifteen pounds of sugar, they'd be like, from what store? 2213 01:51:56,200 --> 01:51:57,840 Speaker 2: You just gotta be premeditated. 2214 01:51:57,840 --> 01:51:59,479 Speaker 3: It's no way Sam's Club. 2215 01:51:59,600 --> 01:52:01,840 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I'm not saying they weren't in her 2216 01:52:01,880 --> 01:52:04,799 Speaker 2: house at the time. I'm saying she bought that sugar 2217 01:52:05,600 --> 01:52:08,679 Speaker 2: like a month ago, like she got. 2218 01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:10,640 Speaker 3: She got the kids mad because now I can't make 2219 01:52:10,720 --> 01:52:12,320 Speaker 3: kool aid like she used like. 2220 01:52:12,360 --> 01:52:14,080 Speaker 2: They was like, can I get some sugar? They're like, no, 2221 01:52:14,320 --> 01:52:20,960 Speaker 2: that is special sugar for me, that sugar alone. But yeah. 2222 01:52:21,840 --> 01:52:23,960 Speaker 5: She was found guilty as murder on Tuesday. 2223 01:52:25,920 --> 01:52:30,280 Speaker 2: Speaking after the hearing, they said she killed them in 2224 01:52:30,360 --> 01:52:33,640 Speaker 2: a brutal and painful way. She confessed the manslaughter for 2225 01:52:33,720 --> 01:52:38,240 Speaker 2: CPS fusic, except that actually deliberate and consider it so 2226 01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:40,840 Speaker 2: her centizen will be In July ninth, Karen guessed the 2227 01:52:40,960 --> 01:52:45,720 Speaker 2: race of Coriina Smith Black. Karen's going with Black. Let's 2228 01:52:45,800 --> 01:52:50,040 Speaker 2: check the chat room see what they believe. I bet 2229 01:52:50,120 --> 01:52:52,840 Speaker 2: he still tasted better than Aray's iced tea and sweet 2230 01:52:52,880 --> 01:52:57,120 Speaker 2: potato fries. But keep on listening to Medea if you 2231 01:52:57,160 --> 01:52:59,920 Speaker 2: want to, you are going to jail black as well 2232 01:53:00,200 --> 01:53:02,360 Speaker 2: as the hot ice. And she was making white white. 2233 01:53:02,439 --> 01:53:06,120 Speaker 2: I got a special sugar that's not race and of 2234 01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:09,080 Speaker 2: good and bad and happy and sad owl green with 2235 01:53:09,200 --> 01:53:15,240 Speaker 2: the hot sugar gras and good. Oh, she hoping them 2236 01:53:15,280 --> 01:53:17,559 Speaker 2: white women tells save her from the chair. White. Tyler 2237 01:53:17,640 --> 01:53:23,800 Speaker 2: Perry presents diabetes sugar water white black. She she yelled, big, Mama, 2238 01:53:23,880 --> 01:53:26,479 Speaker 2: your arm as the sugar diies melted into his skin. 2239 01:53:26,600 --> 01:53:36,160 Speaker 2: Black black, brown, sugar, baby white. I'm just glad y'all 2240 01:53:36,240 --> 01:53:38,479 Speaker 2: was as evil as us. Okay, y'all, don't ever let 2241 01:53:38,560 --> 01:53:39,400 Speaker 2: us feel too bad. 2242 01:53:39,479 --> 01:53:42,200 Speaker 3: No, thank y'all. Don't never let us get too hot. 2243 01:53:42,360 --> 01:53:43,840 Speaker 3: Highly I think too hot. 2244 01:53:44,439 --> 01:53:46,040 Speaker 2: This is the kind of This is the group thing 2245 01:53:46,160 --> 01:53:49,560 Speaker 2: we need. She uses the same amount of sugar in 2246 01:53:49,600 --> 01:53:52,080 Speaker 2: one picture of kool Aid creative black. The other kettle 2247 01:53:52,120 --> 01:53:55,520 Speaker 2: had grits to mix with the deadly sugar white. Diabetes 2248 01:53:55,520 --> 01:53:58,880 Speaker 2: on the inside, diabetes on the out side. Take he 2249 01:53:59,040 --> 01:54:02,639 Speaker 2: got the sugar to a whole another level. Yeah, dude, sweetie, 2250 01:54:02,840 --> 01:54:03,760 Speaker 2: the correct. 2251 01:54:03,479 --> 01:54:04,160 Speaker 3: Answer is. 2252 01:54:06,000 --> 01:54:20,720 Speaker 2: She was white cararaist Oh, I did many of you 2253 01:54:20,840 --> 01:54:21,679 Speaker 2: did get it though. 2254 01:54:26,320 --> 01:54:28,719 Speaker 4: I should have known if it win grits, they should 2255 01:54:28,720 --> 01:54:29,479 Speaker 4: have said clem a week. 2256 01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:30,880 Speaker 3: That would have been easy to figure out. 2257 01:54:31,080 --> 01:54:34,880 Speaker 2: There's a twenty like twenty two year age difference between them. 2258 01:54:34,920 --> 01:54:37,640 Speaker 2: Eighty one fifty nine, right, she. 2259 01:54:37,680 --> 01:54:38,960 Speaker 3: Still had a whole life to live. 2260 01:54:39,320 --> 01:54:43,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, you could get divorcee and like still got some 2261 01:54:43,520 --> 01:54:44,840 Speaker 2: you know, you still got some years. 2262 01:54:44,880 --> 01:54:45,040 Speaker 4: Man. 2263 01:54:45,120 --> 01:54:47,320 Speaker 2: You just now you're gonna be in jail forever and 2264 01:54:47,360 --> 01:54:51,800 Speaker 2: you're a murderer. Come on, that's sad. Let's go to 2265 01:54:51,880 --> 01:54:56,600 Speaker 2: the next one. Girl Power. We found out our boyfriend 2266 01:54:56,720 --> 01:54:59,200 Speaker 2: was seeing us both, so we had the secret plan 2267 01:54:59,280 --> 01:55:03,560 Speaker 2: to confront and it became BFFs oh shit. Two scoring 2268 01:55:03,680 --> 01:55:05,960 Speaker 2: strangers who claimed they discovered they had been dating the 2269 01:55:06,000 --> 01:55:08,920 Speaker 2: same man for eight months got their revenge by luring 2270 01:55:09,040 --> 01:55:12,520 Speaker 2: him to Turkey for a holiday, but ditched him once 2271 01:55:12,560 --> 01:55:15,160 Speaker 2: they landed to go on the Ultimate girl's trip instead. 2272 01:55:16,520 --> 01:55:16,720 Speaker 4: Ha ha. 2273 01:55:17,560 --> 01:55:20,120 Speaker 2: Christian Bishop says she received a voicemail out of blue 2274 01:55:20,160 --> 01:55:22,360 Speaker 2: at the end of March from the stranger, Sophie Miller, 2275 01:55:23,000 --> 01:55:27,080 Speaker 2: who revealed she had been dating her boyfriend Adam thirty four. 2276 01:55:27,680 --> 01:55:32,640 Speaker 5: For the entire eight month relationship. She was Barbara, just Shirley. 2277 01:55:32,840 --> 01:55:35,840 Speaker 2: Come on, let's talk the thirty eight year The thirty 2278 01:55:35,880 --> 01:55:38,920 Speaker 2: three year old initially refused to believe Sophie's revelation, but 2279 01:55:39,040 --> 01:55:42,880 Speaker 2: after the periportly FaceTime while Sophie twenty six was inside 2280 01:55:42,960 --> 01:55:45,959 Speaker 2: Adam's apartment, they began to plot their revenge. 2281 01:55:46,240 --> 01:55:49,320 Speaker 3: Oh, she's like, I'm here right now, Like, I'm not 2282 01:55:49,400 --> 01:55:50,000 Speaker 3: bullshiting you. 2283 01:55:50,320 --> 01:55:51,400 Speaker 2: Shot, that's a real one. 2284 01:55:52,480 --> 01:55:52,520 Speaker 8: Like. 2285 01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:56,440 Speaker 5: And then to have the gall to like to save 2286 01:55:56,560 --> 01:55:59,080 Speaker 5: the time to do the confrontation. That's wow. 2287 01:55:59,280 --> 01:56:00,240 Speaker 2: Wow's girl. 2288 01:56:00,280 --> 01:56:01,200 Speaker 3: You want me on teams? 2289 01:56:01,280 --> 01:56:03,120 Speaker 5: Let's go right like they. 2290 01:56:03,040 --> 01:56:07,440 Speaker 2: Came up with a group project. Christian revealed she knew 2291 01:56:07,520 --> 01:56:10,080 Speaker 2: what had been going on as soon as the pair 2292 01:56:10,120 --> 01:56:14,120 Speaker 2: of landed in Turkish soil in April second and moments later, 2293 01:56:14,120 --> 01:56:17,480 Speaker 2: a flabbergasted Adam was shocked further when Sophie made a 2294 01:56:17,560 --> 01:56:21,080 Speaker 2: surprise appearance. The two girls dumped their shared lover as 2295 01:56:21,400 --> 01:56:24,160 Speaker 2: arrivals before walking off together to Georgia City. 2296 01:56:24,560 --> 01:56:26,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, goddamn right, girl, let's go in Jordia's city. You 2297 01:56:26,960 --> 01:56:29,280 Speaker 3: want to take pictures and. 2298 01:56:29,360 --> 01:56:32,760 Speaker 2: This during the pandemic, so they meant that. Christian and 2299 01:56:32,880 --> 01:56:35,360 Speaker 2: engineer from Houston and Texas said, I found out about 2300 01:56:35,440 --> 01:56:37,960 Speaker 2: him cheating about four days prior to the trip. Sophie 2301 01:56:37,960 --> 01:56:40,320 Speaker 2: and I honestly had a phenomenal time. From the top 2302 01:56:40,440 --> 01:56:43,880 Speaker 2: moment we met. We instantly connected. Over the unfortunate circumstance. 2303 01:56:44,200 --> 01:56:46,680 Speaker 2: We became friends quite quickly after we met. 2304 01:56:47,480 --> 01:56:48,240 Speaker 3: We had lots of. 2305 01:56:48,280 --> 01:56:50,160 Speaker 2: Time to get to know each other and develop a 2306 01:56:50,200 --> 01:56:52,800 Speaker 2: friendship that came out of it. Fall really bonded over 2307 01:56:52,840 --> 01:56:54,560 Speaker 2: the eight day trip, and it's by far the happiest 2308 01:56:54,600 --> 01:56:56,880 Speaker 2: thing out of this unfortunate situation that I found a 2309 01:56:56,960 --> 01:57:00,480 Speaker 2: great friend. There was some shock when at first came out. 2310 01:57:00,520 --> 01:57:02,480 Speaker 2: Any person's going to take some time to process and 2311 01:57:02,560 --> 01:57:04,760 Speaker 2: learn from this. Sophie and I have strong people with 2312 01:57:04,840 --> 01:57:07,560 Speaker 2: strong morals, and we're taking this as a lesson learned. 2313 01:57:07,640 --> 01:57:10,360 Speaker 2: A girl's trip is evidently better than trying to travel 2314 01:57:10,400 --> 01:57:13,040 Speaker 2: along to a foreign country. As soon as she offered 2315 01:57:13,080 --> 01:57:14,800 Speaker 2: to join me, I was one hundred percent on board. 2316 01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:16,760 Speaker 2: I said, this is the start of something great. Let's 2317 01:57:16,800 --> 01:57:20,760 Speaker 2: do it. They Christin first met Adam on Hinge in 2318 01:57:20,800 --> 01:57:23,440 Speaker 2: August twenty twenty, and although they dated casually, at first, 2319 01:57:23,480 --> 01:57:27,080 Speaker 2: they eventually became exclusive, even playing the holiday together in Turkey. 2320 01:57:27,560 --> 01:57:32,040 Speaker 2: The pair had envisaged spending three days admiring high air 2321 01:57:32,080 --> 01:57:38,640 Speaker 2: balloons in Cappadocia before returning to Istanbul to enjoy the bazaars, 2322 01:57:39,520 --> 01:57:42,120 Speaker 2: But just four days before the twelve hour flight, Christmapher 2323 01:57:42,120 --> 01:57:45,280 Speaker 2: received a voicemail from an unknown woman who claimed I've 2324 01:57:45,280 --> 01:57:48,760 Speaker 2: been seeing her boyfriend Adam for nine months. CHRISTI said, 2325 01:57:48,800 --> 01:57:50,680 Speaker 2: shortly before the partner our trip, I learned that he 2326 01:57:50,840 --> 01:57:52,800 Speaker 2: was not just with me, he was another girl who 2327 01:57:52,800 --> 01:57:54,840 Speaker 2: had been in the mix since we met up. Damn 2328 01:57:55,800 --> 01:57:58,240 Speaker 2: from day once you find out you was the side 2329 01:57:58,360 --> 01:58:00,400 Speaker 2: check and y'all playing vacations right. 2330 01:58:01,520 --> 01:58:03,600 Speaker 5: She contacted me and left a voicemail. That's how I 2331 01:58:03,680 --> 01:58:04,080 Speaker 5: found out. 2332 01:58:04,200 --> 01:58:05,880 Speaker 2: She left me a short voicemail to the point that 2333 01:58:05,960 --> 01:58:08,040 Speaker 2: basically said, Hey, I've just learned about you. I've been 2334 01:58:08,120 --> 01:58:09,920 Speaker 2: dating this person for nine months and I thought you'd 2335 01:58:10,000 --> 01:58:11,560 Speaker 2: like to know about me. Give me a call if 2336 01:58:11,600 --> 01:58:14,160 Speaker 2: you have any questions. At the initial shock, I gave 2337 01:58:14,200 --> 01:58:15,760 Speaker 2: her a call and we chatted for a bit. It 2338 01:58:15,840 --> 01:58:18,280 Speaker 2: was clear very quickly she was telling the truth and 2339 01:58:18,400 --> 01:58:20,560 Speaker 2: we needed to talk some more to get to the 2340 01:58:20,560 --> 01:58:21,000 Speaker 2: bottom of. 2341 01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:23,400 Speaker 3: What was happening. The probably talked about personal features that 2342 01:58:23,480 --> 01:58:25,280 Speaker 3: he had, and she liked that. She's like, oh you know, 2343 01:58:25,680 --> 01:58:29,680 Speaker 3: oh yeah, so all right, care guess the race white? 2344 01:58:30,240 --> 01:58:34,120 Speaker 2: All right, Karen's going with white. Apparently, I don't think 2345 01:58:34,200 --> 01:58:35,560 Speaker 2: black women could put this behind him. 2346 01:58:35,560 --> 01:58:35,800 Speaker 3: All right. 2347 01:58:36,360 --> 01:58:44,280 Speaker 2: Let's see traveling had enough money to take his cheating 2348 01:58:44,280 --> 01:58:46,280 Speaker 2: ass on the trip, and they made friends with each other. 2349 01:58:46,640 --> 01:58:48,320 Speaker 2: White woman Instagram. 2350 01:58:49,440 --> 01:58:55,200 Speaker 3: What woman, oh white woman Instagram. 2351 01:58:55,240 --> 01:58:59,320 Speaker 2: Un based at turkeys, Becky, this is Shelley had money 2352 01:58:59,480 --> 01:59:02,760 Speaker 2: on four days. Noticed the catch flights not feelings. Uh, 2353 01:59:02,960 --> 01:59:05,800 Speaker 2: Sophie's choice white white. They went to Turkey, not Miami. 2354 01:59:05,880 --> 01:59:08,760 Speaker 2: White twenty first century, Sophie choice white. Neither of them 2355 01:59:08,800 --> 01:59:13,640 Speaker 2: wore bonnets to the airport. No, but they did work 2356 01:59:13,680 --> 01:59:16,840 Speaker 2: for Jonas, but no one judged them white. No, no 2357 01:59:16,960 --> 01:59:20,840 Speaker 2: such thing as blacks they wore. They wore baseball caps, 2358 01:59:20,880 --> 01:59:23,520 Speaker 2: but Monique didn't tap him on the shoulder them Man 2359 01:59:23,600 --> 01:59:25,720 Speaker 2: luis sitting setting these fools up. This is a plot 2360 01:59:25,760 --> 01:59:30,200 Speaker 2: twist from pure taboo. White's not like And then there 2361 01:59:30,320 --> 01:59:34,000 Speaker 2: was some ccisoring Eskimo sisters and Judd appatabo movie White. 2362 01:59:34,040 --> 01:59:36,680 Speaker 5: This is expensive, Get back, get get back, the whitest. 2363 01:59:36,800 --> 01:59:52,400 Speaker 2: It is white. Everyone got it right. It's sad that 2364 01:59:52,480 --> 01:59:55,000 Speaker 2: everybody knew that black people don't travel or get along 2365 01:59:55,160 --> 01:59:59,120 Speaker 2: like this. That's sad. We just got a couple of like, 2366 01:59:59,360 --> 02:00:02,120 Speaker 2: just you know, for the just for just a couple 2367 02:00:02,120 --> 02:00:04,280 Speaker 2: of blacks, just to be like we're different some of 2368 02:00:04,400 --> 02:00:05,280 Speaker 2: us and everything. 2369 02:00:05,680 --> 02:00:09,560 Speaker 5: Nope, everybody's like white black people would never. 2370 02:00:11,320 --> 02:00:14,040 Speaker 3: Uh traveling this ship. I mean niggas travel but it's 2371 02:00:14,120 --> 02:00:14,680 Speaker 3: like not like that. 2372 02:00:14,960 --> 02:00:17,680 Speaker 2: They blurred out his face and his uh and they 2373 02:00:17,800 --> 02:00:20,160 Speaker 2: changed his name for the article because he's not that important. 2374 02:00:20,360 --> 02:00:25,280 Speaker 2: But that I think this is him with uh with Kristen, 2375 02:00:27,160 --> 02:00:31,200 Speaker 2: and this is Kristin and Sophie hanging out uh doing. 2376 02:00:32,200 --> 02:00:33,640 Speaker 2: They do look like they had a good time. 2377 02:00:34,240 --> 02:00:35,680 Speaker 3: What the time of my life? 2378 02:00:35,920 --> 02:00:37,520 Speaker 5: They do like they had a good time. 2379 02:00:38,320 --> 02:00:39,600 Speaker 3: But that girl we spell his money. 2380 02:00:39,720 --> 02:00:42,720 Speaker 5: Let's go look at these locales. Okay, ain't they gorgeous? 2381 02:00:43,040 --> 02:00:46,000 Speaker 3: They like they have went to the mountains day. 2382 02:00:47,040 --> 02:00:47,920 Speaker 2: It's probably low key. 2383 02:00:48,240 --> 02:00:50,440 Speaker 3: Oh ship, that is a white woman's it's the ground 2384 02:00:50,480 --> 02:00:52,200 Speaker 3: page going through hill. They really do. 2385 02:00:52,760 --> 02:00:53,680 Speaker 2: Look at the pumpkins. 2386 02:00:53,880 --> 02:00:56,000 Speaker 3: A white woman in the ground. 2387 02:00:56,000 --> 02:01:02,080 Speaker 2: A picture of pumpkins. Yes, yeah, absolutely, Oh he ended 2388 02:01:02,160 --> 02:01:06,000 Speaker 2: up being on their flight home. There they're doing yoga 2389 02:01:06,080 --> 02:01:10,040 Speaker 2: with goats on them. Yeah, this is absolutely Uh, they 2390 02:01:10,040 --> 02:01:14,400 Speaker 2: are having the time of their lives hiking. Listen. Okay, 2391 02:01:15,280 --> 02:01:17,040 Speaker 2: it's probably for the better because you know, man, we 2392 02:01:17,120 --> 02:01:18,720 Speaker 2: go on vacation, we'd be like, I don't want to 2393 02:01:18,760 --> 02:01:20,360 Speaker 2: do all that ship you know. 2394 02:01:21,080 --> 02:01:23,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. Women are like, you know, like, let's go. 2395 02:01:23,960 --> 02:01:25,320 Speaker 5: Let's don't do goat yoga. 2396 02:01:25,560 --> 02:01:27,920 Speaker 3: Yes, I could have stayed in the house at home, nigga. No, 2397 02:01:28,080 --> 02:01:28,640 Speaker 3: I didn't drive it. 2398 02:01:28,720 --> 02:01:30,880 Speaker 2: This fly to look at you like she finally got 2399 02:01:31,600 --> 02:01:32,960 Speaker 2: somebody traveling. 2400 02:01:33,000 --> 02:01:33,280 Speaker 3: Buddy. 2401 02:01:34,800 --> 02:01:47,760 Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the bonus round. It's it's time. 2402 02:01:49,840 --> 02:01:54,880 Speaker 2: It's time, all. 2403 02:01:54,840 --> 02:01:57,000 Speaker 5: Right, bonus time, double the points, double the race. 2404 02:01:57,960 --> 02:01:58,080 Speaker 4: Uh. 2405 02:01:59,160 --> 02:02:03,160 Speaker 2: Apparently we got some chicken crimes. Oh shit, we got 2406 02:02:03,240 --> 02:02:07,120 Speaker 2: two different chicken crimes, different races. Okay, just let you know. 2407 02:02:07,520 --> 02:02:10,080 Speaker 2: First one is one race, the second one is a 2408 02:02:10,120 --> 02:02:13,080 Speaker 2: different race. Okay, let's do the first one. A brotherly 2409 02:02:13,240 --> 02:02:17,040 Speaker 2: argument over some chicken turned violent Monday evening when a 2410 02:02:17,080 --> 02:02:20,280 Speaker 2: Florida man allegedly threw a knife at his sibling. According 2411 02:02:20,280 --> 02:02:22,880 Speaker 2: to cops, will say, the airborne weapon got struck stuck 2412 02:02:22,920 --> 02:02:24,040 Speaker 2: in the victim's right leg. 2413 02:02:24,560 --> 02:02:25,920 Speaker 5: Oh Messiah. 2414 02:02:26,040 --> 02:02:31,960 Speaker 2: Harris Smith, nineteen is facing a felony aggravated battery charge 2415 02:02:32,200 --> 02:02:36,840 Speaker 2: in connection with the June fourteenth incident. Oh shit the Messiah, 2416 02:02:38,160 --> 02:02:40,640 Speaker 2: the victim who told police he did not want his 2417 02:02:40,760 --> 02:02:41,680 Speaker 2: brother prosecuted. 2418 02:02:42,000 --> 02:02:45,200 Speaker 5: We need to receive stitches, Harris. 2419 02:02:45,920 --> 02:02:47,840 Speaker 3: They was like, we don't care. We charging him anywhere. 2420 02:02:47,880 --> 02:02:48,400 Speaker 3: He attacked you. 2421 02:02:48,600 --> 02:02:51,040 Speaker 2: Harrismith, who was pleaded not guilty, was at least last 2422 02:02:51,120 --> 02:02:53,280 Speaker 2: night from County jail on was on with cognisance. Harris 2423 02:02:53,280 --> 02:02:56,240 Speaker 2: Smith was arrested earlier this year for allegedly pushing and 2424 02:02:56,320 --> 02:02:58,480 Speaker 2: threatening it to kill his mother doing an argument in 2425 02:02:58,520 --> 02:03:02,440 Speaker 2: their home. Subsequently decided not to pursue a misdemeanor domestic 2426 02:03:02,480 --> 02:03:05,040 Speaker 2: battery case against the six one, two hundred and fifty 2427 02:03:05,040 --> 02:03:11,480 Speaker 2: pounds teenager. So nineteen, that's the first one. The second one. 2428 02:03:11,560 --> 02:03:14,200 Speaker 2: A Florida woman is facing a domestic battery charge at 2429 02:03:14,240 --> 02:03:16,560 Speaker 2: the allegedly pelting their boyfriend in the face and chests 2430 02:03:16,640 --> 02:03:22,000 Speaker 2: with a plate of chicken. Investigators charge that Jennifer Booth 2431 02:03:22,640 --> 02:03:25,480 Speaker 2: forty three struck the fifty six year old victim with 2432 02:03:25,520 --> 02:03:28,560 Speaker 2: the chicken while the couple was eating last Wednesday night 2433 02:03:28,640 --> 02:03:33,240 Speaker 2: on the porch of their home in Bradington. Booth's companion, 2434 02:03:33,320 --> 02:03:36,920 Speaker 2: who cooked dinner, was not injured by the poultry folk Laide. 2435 02:03:38,480 --> 02:03:41,600 Speaker 2: He told police that Booth became violent during a verbal argument, 2436 02:03:41,640 --> 02:03:43,400 Speaker 2: picked up the paper plate of chicken and threw it 2437 02:03:43,480 --> 02:03:46,160 Speaker 2: in my face. After the man called nine one one. 2438 02:03:46,200 --> 02:03:49,600 Speaker 2: Booth was arrested and booked into the County jail. She 2439 02:03:49,760 --> 02:03:52,280 Speaker 2: was released Friday on five hundred dollars bond. Booth, who 2440 02:03:52,320 --> 02:03:55,800 Speaker 2: works at a Lakewood hospital, has three prior arrests, most 2441 02:03:55,880 --> 02:03:59,040 Speaker 2: recently for twenty fifteen domestic violence. According to a court 2442 02:03:59,120 --> 02:04:03,080 Speaker 2: filing that does not include case dispositions. Oh While Booth 2443 02:04:03,120 --> 02:04:05,920 Speaker 2: and the victims share a surname, a pre trial service 2444 02:04:06,000 --> 02:04:08,640 Speaker 2: report lists her marital status as single, while in the 2445 02:04:08,720 --> 02:04:11,960 Speaker 2: rest report identifies the victim as her boyfriend. Booth is 2446 02:04:12,000 --> 02:04:14,600 Speaker 2: an avid hunter whose Facebook page is stocked with pictures 2447 02:04:14,640 --> 02:04:18,320 Speaker 2: of her posing with animals she shot dead images that 2448 02:04:18,440 --> 02:04:22,160 Speaker 2: have that prompted online derision. One photo shows are holding 2449 02:04:22,200 --> 02:04:24,280 Speaker 2: the head of a giraffe kill during the twenty seventeen 2450 02:04:24,360 --> 02:04:26,720 Speaker 2: hunting South Africa. Oh No, what you described in a 2451 02:04:26,840 --> 02:04:29,920 Speaker 2: Facebook caption as one of the best days of my life, 2452 02:04:30,040 --> 02:04:33,640 Speaker 2: Karen guess the race of first Messiah Harrismith. 2453 02:04:35,520 --> 02:04:37,160 Speaker 3: Okay, so we guess the race of both. 2454 02:04:37,280 --> 02:04:39,040 Speaker 2: You guess the nurse of both. There's different races. 2455 02:04:39,200 --> 02:04:42,480 Speaker 3: Oh, Church's chicken black, all right, and of. 2456 02:04:42,520 --> 02:04:45,600 Speaker 2: Course, guess the race of Jennifer Jennifer. 2457 02:04:45,320 --> 02:04:47,680 Speaker 3: Booth unseasoned chicken breast white. 2458 02:04:47,960 --> 02:04:50,000 Speaker 2: All right. Let's check the chat room, see what they believe. 2459 02:04:50,080 --> 02:04:52,680 Speaker 2: First story is black, second story is white. It should 2460 02:04:52,720 --> 02:04:55,080 Speaker 2: have been a hate crime to throw unseased chicken at someone. 2461 02:04:55,520 --> 02:05:00,080 Speaker 2: First white, first black, too evil at white. Juwan, I 2462 02:05:00,120 --> 02:05:02,960 Speaker 2: said salt and pepper to taste white. So I guess 2463 02:05:03,000 --> 02:05:04,760 Speaker 2: he's going with both of them in the same race. 2464 02:05:05,120 --> 02:05:08,720 Speaker 2: One black, two colonizing white first June teenth Junie Budd. 2465 02:05:08,760 --> 02:05:13,840 Speaker 2: Second is colorless crickets. The story number one niggas fighting 2466 02:05:13,880 --> 02:05:18,080 Speaker 2: over fried chicken legs. Story number two payhanded Republican crackers. 2467 02:05:18,840 --> 02:05:22,000 Speaker 2: One everyone knows the Messiah is black. Two we ain't 2468 02:05:22,080 --> 02:05:23,800 Speaker 2: wasting no chicken white. 2469 02:05:25,240 --> 02:05:25,960 Speaker 5: Black Row says. 2470 02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:28,320 Speaker 2: One didn't want his brother charge and the other called 2471 02:05:28,320 --> 02:05:29,480 Speaker 2: the police on his girlfriend. 2472 02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:33,000 Speaker 5: The first is white and the second is white. Okay, 2473 02:05:33,160 --> 02:05:34,120 Speaker 5: I think those are the same. 2474 02:05:34,160 --> 02:05:34,360 Speaker 3: One. 2475 02:05:34,520 --> 02:05:38,680 Speaker 2: I think he meant black and white. Mule Skinner says, 2476 02:05:38,800 --> 02:05:43,240 Speaker 2: black second, cops won't kill me instead, white June says, 2477 02:05:43,360 --> 02:05:49,520 Speaker 2: niggas and crackers in that soup black white, Pope's and KFC. 2478 02:05:51,240 --> 02:05:53,320 Speaker 2: First one is black, second one is white, black and 2479 02:05:53,400 --> 02:05:56,880 Speaker 2: white versus black. All right, the correct answer is it 2480 02:05:56,960 --> 02:05:58,840 Speaker 2: seemed like everyone had the same thing. You all got 2481 02:05:58,920 --> 02:05:59,920 Speaker 2: it black and white. 2482 02:06:13,760 --> 02:06:14,040 Speaker 3: Wow. 2483 02:06:14,760 --> 02:06:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that's not a good day for chicken crimes 2484 02:06:19,040 --> 02:06:19,560 Speaker 2: in Florida. 2485 02:06:20,280 --> 02:06:20,600 Speaker 3: Chicken. 2486 02:06:21,080 --> 02:06:23,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it must have been chicken day, you know, just 2487 02:06:24,000 --> 02:06:26,840 Speaker 2: like at average we see you, Sunday is chicken day. 2488 02:06:26,840 --> 02:06:29,160 Speaker 2: It must have been chicken day. And then people started 2489 02:06:29,160 --> 02:06:33,680 Speaker 2: doing crimes. All right, let's get to the last thing. 2490 02:06:33,920 --> 02:06:37,040 Speaker 2: Let's talk about these swords, sword ratchetness. 2491 02:06:39,960 --> 02:06:45,320 Speaker 6: Than m. 2492 02:06:58,120 --> 02:07:00,840 Speaker 2: A man with a sword threat is a woman and 2493 02:07:00,960 --> 02:07:04,480 Speaker 2: the police. And this happened in the town Karen was 2494 02:07:04,520 --> 02:07:09,120 Speaker 2: born in, Coon Rapids. A coon rappids man. 2495 02:07:12,800 --> 02:07:13,480 Speaker 3: Look at the coon. 2496 02:07:16,960 --> 02:07:21,839 Speaker 2: That's the anthem of That's the anthem of Karen's hometown. 2497 02:07:34,960 --> 02:07:38,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, coon's rappids man threatened to kill a woman 2498 02:07:38,240 --> 02:07:40,520 Speaker 2: and to capitate the town's police chief with a sword. 2499 02:07:41,200 --> 02:07:45,600 Speaker 2: Ryan Patrick McAllister, right, forty one, was arrested for the threats, 2500 02:07:45,960 --> 02:07:48,880 Speaker 2: which allegedly happened at two point fifty pm while he 2501 02:07:48,920 --> 02:07:51,720 Speaker 2: stood in the street the day he's charged of going 2502 02:07:52,080 --> 02:07:54,760 Speaker 2: armed with intent, a felony punishable. About the five years 2503 02:07:54,800 --> 02:07:57,640 Speaker 2: in prison and harassment carrying weapons and the soily conduct 2504 02:07:57,640 --> 02:08:01,160 Speaker 2: with a misdemeanors, he just doesn't like law enforcement. 2505 02:08:01,440 --> 02:08:05,600 Speaker 5: Coon Rapids Police Chief Andy Kline said what. 2506 02:08:07,560 --> 02:08:07,600 Speaker 2: What? 2507 02:08:07,800 --> 02:08:08,120 Speaker 3: Andy? 2508 02:08:08,520 --> 02:08:10,920 Speaker 4: Are you sickly a police officer and didn't tell us 2509 02:08:11,040 --> 02:08:14,720 Speaker 4: Randolph Vintage? Andy Kline had this to say, Randolph, you 2510 02:08:14,800 --> 02:08:16,880 Speaker 4: might you might want to investigate your co hosts. 2511 02:08:17,200 --> 02:08:19,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean spells it different, but that could be 2512 02:08:19,800 --> 02:08:22,800 Speaker 2: as a typo in the article for we know, we know, 2513 02:08:23,320 --> 02:08:25,800 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. I mean he probably would have been 2514 02:08:25,880 --> 02:08:28,160 Speaker 2: real calm and collected about it. You know, he would 2515 02:08:28,200 --> 02:08:31,120 Speaker 2: have been he would have called everybody down and then 2516 02:08:31,800 --> 02:08:34,280 Speaker 2: made jokes that might have been a sarcastic joke. He 2517 02:08:34,440 --> 02:08:37,480 Speaker 2: just doesn't like most law enforcement. It's like, I don't 2518 02:08:37,480 --> 02:08:39,240 Speaker 2: know about this one, Andy Kline. 2519 02:08:39,040 --> 02:08:40,960 Speaker 3: And I'll be doing my fifteen minutes tonight at the 2520 02:08:41,000 --> 02:08:41,400 Speaker 3: local bar. 2521 02:08:42,080 --> 02:08:42,240 Speaker 7: Right. 2522 02:08:44,360 --> 02:08:46,440 Speaker 2: I've just put it on Facebook and I tagged him 2523 02:08:46,480 --> 02:08:49,400 Speaker 2: to it. Wow, that's an understate. 2524 02:08:49,600 --> 02:08:51,160 Speaker 3: I can't believe you. 2525 02:08:51,480 --> 02:08:53,640 Speaker 2: And I didn't know he was the fist all this 2526 02:08:53,760 --> 02:08:57,560 Speaker 2: time McAllister and the woman our acquaintance, client said, but 2527 02:08:57,680 --> 02:09:00,720 Speaker 2: it was unclear what sparked the altercation. Witnesses support MacAllister 2528 02:09:00,800 --> 02:09:02,320 Speaker 2: is standing the streeting at the house with the sword 2529 02:09:02,640 --> 02:09:07,280 Speaker 2: and yelling his threats. Mcallis surrendered to arrest without a 2530 02:09:07,360 --> 02:09:11,560 Speaker 2: physical struggle. So that's it, y'all. Thank you for listening. 2531 02:09:11,640 --> 02:09:15,520 Speaker 2: We appreciate you. We'll be back Saturday with your feedback, 2532 02:09:16,320 --> 02:09:19,840 Speaker 2: Boss Deeps Thursday, Nerd Office Friday for our premium people. 2533 02:09:19,880 --> 02:09:23,280 Speaker 2: So y'all still getting MOW and more podcasts, but everybody 2534 02:09:23,360 --> 02:09:24,680 Speaker 2: else will see y'all Saturday. 2535 02:09:24,800 --> 02:09:27,480 Speaker 3: Until then, I love you, h