Speaker 1: Right now. It's a second date update. So this is
Speaker 1: Paulina in Torrents lean into this. She says that it's
Speaker 1: so weird that she's gone out with this guy five
Speaker 1: times and then he wanted to be exclusive and she
Speaker 1: said okay, and now he's unavailable. So Paulina tell me
Speaker 1: about him asking about the exclusivity. What did he say?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, okay. So it started because we met on bumble, right.
Speaker 2: I really liked him. I thought he had really cute dimples. Honestly,
Speaker 2: I thought he was out of my league.
Speaker 3: I liked I think dimples are cute, right, I was
Speaker 3: really cute, so cute, he had great bone structure.
Speaker 2: Anyway, we went to dinner and I asked him why
Speaker 2: he swiped right on me? What do you think about me?
Speaker 2: And he was like, well, I thought you were really
Speaker 2: hot and I thought you were out of my league.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, great, we both have self low
Speaker 2: self esteem here. This is greatly.
Speaker 4: I like that we're both out of each other's that's great.
Speaker 2: We'll deal with our issues next. Anyway, So, like, we
Speaker 2: really ate it off. We had really great chemistry, great
Speaker 2: physical chemistry. We hung out like five times. We went
Speaker 2: out five times. And then one day we're just walking
Speaker 2: from my apartment. We're going to get some breakfast, and
Speaker 2: he said to me he wants to be exclusive because
Speaker 2: quote word for word, he said, he's so into me,
Speaker 2: and so I agreed.
Speaker 4: I was like, cool, I really like storybook.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like we've been out five times. Yeah, so over since then,
Speaker 2: and then things just got really different. He switched up.
Speaker 2: It's like short text back, never available to hang out,
Speaker 2: and it's.
Speaker 1: Like it's just like because he now he got you,
Speaker 1: so he's not investing. It's so weird. You're out of
Speaker 1: my league. You're so hot every I can't stop thinking
Speaker 1: about you. I want to be with you so badly.
Speaker 1: And then.
Speaker 3: Crickets, it's where you playing hard to get before.
Speaker 2: I don't think so, because I mean I don't think
Speaker 2: I'm a game player. I don't like it. I don't
Speaker 2: resonate with it. So you know, when he he asked me,
Speaker 2: he asked me to be exclusive, I was in no run.
Speaker 1: That's the thing that, Yeah, it's just so weird. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm I I got it, Like you want to know
Speaker 1: what up to? Like, bro, what the w T W
Speaker 1: T hold on one sea? I'm gonna We're inna w
Speaker 1: TM in a second. Right, hold on, hold on, We're
Speaker 1: gonna try and get this guy, Caleb. What up, Caleb?
Speaker 1: You're gonna full court press and then back off.
Speaker 4: W T.
Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacrest on Air on Air
Speaker 1: with a Ryan Seacrest. Seacrest with you in the morning,
Speaker 1: Sis and Tanya in the back room, back room. It's
Speaker 1: a second date up that you guys are dating. It
Speaker 1: sounds juicy. You just Mikayla, you might want to listen.
Speaker 1: So far, I think this guy Caleb is rude. Mikayla
Speaker 1: be think I think so too. I mean, guy goes
Speaker 1: to her, Oh Hi.
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: Jen? You're doing? Come on in? We'bout do a second date. Update.
Speaker 1: That door that I mean, that is like a vault door.
Speaker 1: It's like from some sort of heist movie. So heavy?
Speaker 1: Are there bank deposit box in that room? No, seriously,
Speaker 1: it's got one of those big dial door openers where
Speaker 1: you gotta spin it around like a wheel.
Speaker 4: Yes, it almost like when you try to be quiet,
Speaker 4: more quiet.
Speaker 1: It's like open the door. Let's just listen. Let's just
Speaker 1: open the door the door. Listen. Let's the size this door.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like I'm watching safe Crackers on the
Speaker 1: prices right.
Speaker 5: Why is it so loud?
Speaker 1: You would think like at a radio station, But that's
Speaker 1: not even a m it doesn't have a microphone. Anyway,
Speaker 1: let's get to it. Second date update. Everybody's gathered around
Speaker 1: the studio. Oh, I know it might be loud.
Speaker 5: It might be bad because heavy, because there's people on
Speaker 5: in desks right outside there, and maybe it's to sound proof.
Speaker 1: We don't want to disturb them. No, we don't want
Speaker 1: them to disturb us. Okay, well the door was disturbing
Speaker 1: us more than them. Let me get Paulina. So, Paulina, look,
Speaker 1: so you told us a story. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: sounds rude to me. Let's see if there's a good
Speaker 1: excuse here. But you go out with this guy, you
Speaker 1: meet him on Bubble's name is Caleb. You go five times,
Speaker 1: he wants to be exclusive, then he's unavailable all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, when you say yeah, cool, let's do it.
Speaker 1: After he pursues you hard, it sounded like, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: here's the trick. You got to be very quiet because
Speaker 1: we're going to talk to him right now and see
Speaker 1: we can find out why like, why is he laying
Speaker 1: off all of a sudden the gas? Okay, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: here we go, Caleb, how are you, bro.
Speaker 4: Good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm doing well. Thank you for coming on the air
Speaker 1: with us. My name is Ryan Seacrest. I've got some
Speaker 1: friends here. It's Cisan and Tan. Yeah, Cale the air
Speaker 1: with this this morning. Good. So anyway, I was calling
Speaker 1: about a woman that you met on bumbl named Paulina.
Speaker 1: Does that sound familiar?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, tell me about Paulina on you. I mean
Speaker 4: we have been out and you know, she's great. I'm
Speaker 4: not really sure what you want me to.
Speaker 1: Yay, forgive the intrusion. So you went out a few
Speaker 1: times and then you guys are just seeing each other?
Speaker 1: Is I mean, are you dating each other exclusively?
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know, Like that's kind of a
Speaker 4: tough question. Where we've been out for sure?
Speaker 1: Got it? Did you have a conversation about just seeing
Speaker 1: each other and no one else?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you ask her that?
Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, I mean we had talked about that idea.
Speaker 4: I don't I don't really know where kind of things
Speaker 4: stand right now, but yeah, we we talked around.
Speaker 1: That idea around it. You didn't commit to it.
Speaker 4: No, I don't think so. I think it was just
Speaker 4: a conversation to kind of see where each other.
Speaker 1: Was at as somebody you'd like to date exclusively.
Speaker 4: Oh uh, yeah, it's you know, it's I think we met.
Speaker 4: She's great. I think things just moved a little fast
Speaker 4: for me, got it?
Speaker 1: And what do you mean by that?
Speaker 4: I mean, look, I just noticed that she follows like
Speaker 4: a ton of wedding accounts on Instagram, like like a lot,
Speaker 4: And I don't know, I hadn't really noticed that before,
Speaker 4: and I guess it just kind of scared me a little.
Speaker 5: We'll throw with that.
Speaker 3: Do you follow a lot of wedding accounts? Sure?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like you know, that kind of signals
Speaker 4: what someone wants, probably and they want like this big,
Speaker 4: elaborate wedding.
Speaker 1: And I mean, Caleb, you've just started going out with
Speaker 1: there like five times after bumble, I think to me,
Speaker 1: can I give you my unexpert opinion, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you really don't want to commit to her.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Look, it's just I don't know if I want to
Speaker 4: commit to anybody, right, It's not something.
Speaker 1: That transparent in that communication.
Speaker 4: Well, no, because I've never seen the Instagram before, right,
Speaker 4: and to see someone who follows that many accounts, it's
Speaker 4: just like, oh, this is on your mind a lot,
Speaker 4: and it's not.
Speaker 1: You don't really want to go out with her again
Speaker 1: or much or what?
Speaker 4: No, no, No, she's great. Like when I first met her,
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my gosh, like you're You're incredible.
Speaker 4: I think I just thought it would be good to be,
Speaker 4: you know, honest about how I feel about this stuff.
Speaker 1: And were you honest with her?
Speaker 4: I mean I was honest in that I think she's awesome.
Speaker 4: I think she's a great person. I think now that
Speaker 4: I've seen the Instagram posts, I'm feeling a little like
Speaker 4: we should probably have another talk.
Speaker 1: Okay, So given the opportunity to have that talk, would
Speaker 1: you be honest with her?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely great.
Speaker 1: Paulina is on the phone with us right now. Paulina,
Speaker 1: what is your reaction to Caleb.
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 2: Caleb Hi, Look, I'm kind of confused. I don't really
Speaker 2: know what to say. I've been following those accounts for years,
Speaker 2: not just when we started dating. So I feel like
Speaker 2: you're kind of like have this little paranoid assumption that
Speaker 2: I want to marry you.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Look, I get that, and I don't This isn't like
Speaker 4: an insult or anything. It just like it usually means
Speaker 4: if someone follows that many accounts that they really want,
Speaker 4: you know, this big, elaborate wedding, and it just feels just.
Speaker 3: Assume that, Caleb, what accounts do you follow?
Speaker 1: Do you follow like a narcissistic that she wants to
Speaker 1: marry you all of a sudden. I'm just saying.
Speaker 5: And also could just be inspell like cute photos and
Speaker 5: images and stuff like she might just want a small wedding,
Speaker 5: but a beautiful.
Speaker 3: Well just so you know, girls, we've been planning our
Speaker 3: weddings since we were five years old.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we they do that.
Speaker 4: But you know what I'm saying, I get that. It's
Speaker 4: just I just wanted to be I just felt a
Speaker 4: little scared because it's like I don't even know if
Speaker 4: I ever want to get married.
Speaker 3: Okay, well there it is.
Speaker 1: That's the truth. I don't understand that.
Speaker 4: I mean, we should talk about this before we get
Speaker 4: too far along, right, if our if our values aren't aligned,
Speaker 4: you know, what's what's the point. You know?
Speaker 1: It's like, so have you so fast? I mean, Caleb, Paulina,
Speaker 1: are you sure Paulina that he's the dude for you.
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, now, I don't really know. Maybe not,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like this is all way
Speaker 2: too soon to be talking about this, and this is
Speaker 2: all just kind of gotten really blown out of proportion.
Speaker 1: Caleb. Let me just say this, just in Pauline's defense,
Speaker 1: Like I follow extreme sports accounts, right, doesn't mean I'm
Speaker 1: gonna ride a bike off the cliff. I mean, you
Speaker 1: know we know that for sure, right, So it doesn't
Speaker 1: mean I'm jumping off of a cliff in a kight.
Speaker 4: I get it. It's just you know, my parents went
Speaker 4: through a really bad divorce and so it just that
Speaker 4: kind of talk just makes me on edge, you know.
Speaker 4: And I just wanted to be up front that.
Speaker 1: But you weren't upfront.
Speaker 3: You were, you know, ignoring her text messages and replying
Speaker 3: with short answers and you were about to ghost her
Speaker 3: and and that's why we're here, So you were not front.
Speaker 4: Yeah no, but I want to be that great. Okay,
Speaker 4: So you're at what what what's the.
Speaker 1: Next step here, Pauline? In your mind after hearing all
Speaker 1: of this candor from Caleb.
Speaker 2: I mean, like, yes, I'm getting married is something I
Speaker 2: want to do ultimately, But I don't know that I
Speaker 2: want to marry you because I don't know you well
Speaker 2: enough yet.
Speaker 1: It's so really so heavy light.
Speaker 4: Like light up, dude.
Speaker 2: I just feel like this is all way too soon
Speaker 2: to be talking about this and now and now you know,
Speaker 2: well now, I'm like, I don't want to necessarily be
Speaker 2: with somebody's so avoidant and so narclusistic to things that,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I like this girl wants to marry
Speaker 2: me because she follows wedding into instagrams like I follow
Speaker 2: furniture instagrams. I'm i' obsessed with furniture.
Speaker 4: I just don't know.
Speaker 2: I think I should probably, I think I should probably
Speaker 2: just text you about this on the side.
Speaker 4: Honestly, you guy, you guys do that.
Speaker 1: Guys do that from Cale. Yeah, we need some non avoidant,
Speaker 1: candid Caleb in the text, right, Good luck to you guys, cringing.
Speaker 1: It was difficult. He's too heavy. Chill