Speaker 1: West Up, It's time for lips every time. Angela. I'm
Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire. Oh man, I never
Speaker 1: thought this would happen. Having from my deepest hair with us.
Speaker 1: I heard you were nervous and you said we gotta
Speaker 1: go light on you. Yeah, you know I had to.
Speaker 1: I was gonna research and see you. You know what
Speaker 1: you are you're talking about. But the truth, uh, I
Speaker 1: mean you know what it is. We have a good
Speaker 1: time now. We always had to show up at the
Speaker 1: tip of the day a right. So today's tip is
Speaker 1: how to make the best sex tape ever. I know
Speaker 1: you can give us some tips on things you need
Speaker 1: to do to make a great sex tape, some tips
Speaker 1: on how you gotta know how to hold the phone. Angles. Angles,
Speaker 1: angles are great, Yeah, I think, um, to make a
Speaker 1: good sex tape, you should switch it around. You know,
Speaker 1: sometimes you should hold the phone. Sometimes he shall hold
Speaker 1: the phone on. That makes a really good one. So
Speaker 1: you can't just put a stable and like and that's right,
Speaker 1: And that's what I was gonna say. Next, a stabilizer
Speaker 1: from a stabilizer. Yeah, and um, like get really close
Speaker 1: as close as possible, twig. Yeah, that makes a good
Speaker 1: sex tape. And the A and the guy should shave also,
Speaker 1: you think, yes, yeah, like you shouldn't manskap because it
Speaker 1: makes your dick look bigger. It's true. Um, I think
Speaker 1: that good sex makes a good sex tape. Correct, that's
Speaker 1: very true. You gotta show out. That would be my tip.
Speaker 1: Just make it good, you know, with Kim and tape.
Speaker 1: With Kim and Rag tape, everybody, Um said it was bad,
Speaker 1: but I didn't think. I thought it was good. It
Speaker 1: was kind of boring. I'm not gonna lie you think. So.
Speaker 1: Did you watch your habit? I watched some of it.
Speaker 1: It was she was a little dull. She was just
Speaker 1: laying there and then you know what I don't like.
Speaker 1: I don't like when people seem like they're putting on
Speaker 1: Like she didn't seem authentically right. She was like it
Speaker 1: seemed like she was you know how say stuff because
Speaker 1: you want to seem like you're doing a sex tape
Speaker 1: and you want to make somebody come me like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, suck me hard until you come. It didn't
Speaker 1: seem real to me, Like do people really say that
Speaker 1: like that? I say these things like that, but she
Speaker 1: didn't seem into it, and then he kept spitting on
Speaker 1: her pussy, so I kept thinking she was dry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's maybe that was just something that he likes. I
Speaker 1: don't know, it seemed dry because I didn't hear no
Speaker 1: squish and no macaroni and cheese. I'm saying now and go.
Speaker 1: Space was saying, if you're pussy dry, spit on my
Speaker 1: dick and put it in. I mean, yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: it is for. But don't you feel like then you
Speaker 1: didn't do your job if you have to spit. No,
Speaker 1: not necessarily, because the chick might just be whacked. She
Speaker 1: might just be one of those people. Wait, so her
Speaker 1: pussy is not wet, so she's whacked. I mean, maybe
Speaker 1: you're I mean, I'm definitely not whack because I'm going
Speaker 1: into easy, you know what I'm saying. So if I
Speaker 1: can't get you a roused, but I didn't roll with you.
Speaker 1: They always say that there's certain in a relationship. Somebody's
Speaker 1: a giver more than the other person. So you would
Speaker 1: say you're more of the giver. Definitely, definitely, you know,
Speaker 1: I'll go all out. So we were talking last week
Speaker 1: about four play and how a lot of times guys
Speaker 1: don't do enough for play and how important is that.
Speaker 1: That's if you don't give a funk about this, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's that means if you don't care,
Speaker 1: wild waste time with full play, if you don't care
Speaker 1: about the chick, you know, just sticking in the business.
Speaker 1: I think there's different kinds of four play, Like before sex,
Speaker 1: you could do a lot of making out and rubbing
Speaker 1: and things like that with all sucking, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, or spitting right, And I don't think the
Speaker 1: guy necessarily doesn't give a funk about you if he's
Speaker 1: doing that. I I mean, if if the guy is like,
Speaker 1: all right, come on, let's go upstairs, take your clothes off,
Speaker 1: all right, call them right there. That's just let's just
Speaker 1: get it. And all situations don't call for four play though,
Speaker 1: well I agree with that. Yeah, sometimes you're in the
Speaker 1: backroomtime you just want to just get crazy and be like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's just right, but you have to be
Speaker 1: that that is, the four players have to have happened
Speaker 1: some type of way, because when you get to that
Speaker 1: point where you need to get to it, then you
Speaker 1: run on the phone text messages that like that something
Speaker 1: stimulated your mind, the once you want to have sad No,
Speaker 1: And that's like, that's what I was saying, Like when
Speaker 1: I pull up to the house and I'm weaking already, right,
Speaker 1: just what to be a waste of time if you
Speaker 1: started trying to suck your toes and yeah, like but
Speaker 1: you know she might dry up. But are you a kisser? No?
Speaker 1: Not really really no, so you never feel like yeah,
Speaker 1: making out of so much. I mean, you know, I'll
Speaker 1: do it, you know what I'm saying, but not willingly. No, willingly.
Speaker 1: If you know, then I'll turn it to him. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's nice. He adapts to whatever situation. Robert Liquor. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what if she's like, hey, I just need I want
Speaker 1: you to suck me in my ass? Then she's getting
Speaker 1: all right? Would you do that to somebody that say,
Speaker 1: the first time you have sex? Or is that something
Speaker 1: you build up to? I mean, it depends on the person,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, some people, if you
Speaker 1: just try to suck them in their ass, they're gonna
Speaker 1: look at you like you crazy. I definitely look at
Speaker 1: you crazy, Like that's what used to what do you think?
Speaker 1: It's a difference between now and like and back when
Speaker 1: myb deep was you know, when you guys were out
Speaker 1: on the road all the time, and I'm sure it
Speaker 1: was a lot more private, Like there were times you
Speaker 1: could do things and you have to worry about it
Speaker 1: being on the ram, you have to worry about it
Speaker 1: being on Twitter. You don't have to worry about being
Speaker 1: on the blogs. And nowadays you feel like you gotta
Speaker 1: be careful, super careful, you know what I'm saying, because nowadays,
Speaker 1: like you don't have a chick and bring them over
Speaker 1: your crib and you think they're using the bathroom. They's
Speaker 1: sucking taking pictures right Snapchat, you go to the kitchen
Speaker 1: and now they got pictures in your bedroom. Is just crazy.
Speaker 1: So you don't got no defense after that, questions do
Speaker 1: you take take their phone? Oh god, oh my god.
Speaker 1: But you see, that's why you shouldn't be messing with
Speaker 1: girls that you gotta worry about things. Like some people
Speaker 1: bring but some people that you think that you know
Speaker 1: that you like cool and you build a report with them.
Speaker 1: Some people can really you and they'd be fucking psycho, Like,
Speaker 1: holy ship, I had no idea. She was like, you
Speaker 1: had some sychic experiences? Yeah, what's the most psychic thing
Speaker 1: a chick. Every dude go on fucking uh Twitter and
Speaker 1: post some of my private pictures. Damn like that, like
Speaker 1: you'd be sending out dick picks and everything Twitter. I'm
Speaker 1: super paradis is out there is out there. Dick picks
Speaker 1: aren't that interesting anyway, not at all. But when you
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend is bad. You don't put your face
Speaker 1: in it. Yeah, no, no face, no case. But when
Speaker 1: it's your girlfriend, your girlfriend knows your bathroom floor, she
Speaker 1: knows you, she knows your dick. Yeah, you know. I'm
Speaker 1: talking a live be dying for my Buddha sent me
Speaker 1: a dick pick, Jesus, I don't. I'm dick The mail
Speaker 1: he sent me dicking to me. He didn't send me
Speaker 1: a sick pick, but he sent me like a bol
Speaker 1: he sent thee yeah, like his boxers. And I'm just dying,
Speaker 1: like like just just just send it, just sending it.
Speaker 1: Because a guy sent out a pick, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: ask for it. Let's keep it real, dicks, Like, can
Speaker 1: you tell that's my man's dick if you get a picture,
Speaker 1: I mean if it was a guy, yeah, somebody that
Speaker 1: I'll been with, and let's he has like a very
Speaker 1: like noticeable birthmark or a certain type of I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna know, I'm gonna I would know, I would know,
Speaker 1: I would know, I could, I could tell dicks apart,
Speaker 1: you think you can identify your man's dick in a
Speaker 1: dick lineup, especially the yes, guys that I've been in
Speaker 1: serious relationships with. It for sure, not even I don't.
Speaker 1: You could put guys in the lineup that I've been
Speaker 1: with and I'll be like that one, that one, that one,
Speaker 1: for sure apart, I'm very up that you can. Thusies
Speaker 1: are like faces. They all look different. They have similarities,
Speaker 1: but they all look different. What's better? Like people was like, oh,
Speaker 1: she got a fat pussy. I'm always like, what is
Speaker 1: a fat pussy? What does that? Why do guys like
Speaker 1: fat pussy? Because they look good? They just look good
Speaker 1: and they feel like com so cushiony right when your hand.
Speaker 1: It's nice. And to have you ever seen a pussy
Speaker 1: even like, yes, yeah, of course definitely for sure? What
Speaker 1: makes the pussy ugly? Roast beef? Too much roast beef,
Speaker 1: A lot of hanging, a lot of hang time. What
Speaker 1: do you think much? As a man, I think pussy
Speaker 1: looked pretty in general like but like in my in
Speaker 1: my definition, pussy has like way too much hang time
Speaker 1: and like ys and maybe like um hair bumps. Maybe
Speaker 1: some guys like or too much hair or not the
Speaker 1: right you know, just hair bothering? You? Are you old school?
Speaker 1: You don't mind a little puff, but it got a
Speaker 1: smell clean, can smell like piss, like pussy out of here.
Speaker 1: You don't want pussy? Oh my god? Have you Have
Speaker 1: you ever woke up next to you because I know
Speaker 1: you had some fun times when you were younger and
Speaker 1: not even remember ship. No, I never did that really
Speaker 1: and been like damn, how did she get in here?
Speaker 1: I never did that. Have you ever sucked somebody and
Speaker 1: regretted it and been like, damn, she's terrible looking in
Speaker 1: the light. No, you're lying. Yeah, I don't regret, like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like if I did, I'm like,
Speaker 1: You're never just gonna do it again. You never had
Speaker 1: to sneak a chick past your friends like, oh man,
Speaker 1: I don't want to see Definitely, definitely, definitely like let
Speaker 1: me get whatever. Have you ever been so fucked up
Speaker 1: that you couldn't get hard? Damn? Don't lie because you Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you had stuff you couldn't get hard. I've been nervous.
Speaker 1: You've been nervous to the point where, like I probably
Speaker 1: what would make you nervous about somebody? I know guys
Speaker 1: getting nervous. I mean just like if he went somebody
Speaker 1: for the first time and you just you want to go,
Speaker 1: You're nervous, like, damn, I gotta get busy, I gotta
Speaker 1: show out so much. Just be nervous. I've had guys
Speaker 1: um for the first time have sex to me and
Speaker 1: I could tell they're nervous, like the shake it and
Speaker 1: they're like, damn, so that really I've had guys, Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't think I've had that experience. You just don't know,
Speaker 1: because he would say he played it off. But I've
Speaker 1: had guys that they finally get to sleep with me
Speaker 1: and they're like, I can't believe this, this is soul.
Speaker 1: I can't believe this is happening now. Stephanie, you were
Speaker 1: telling me about somebody that you know that hit you
Speaker 1: up and they were asking you about dating. They've never
Speaker 1: been in a relationship. Yeah, somebody hit me in the
Speaker 1: d M and he said that he never had a
Speaker 1: girlfriend before, and he's just wondering how a woman would
Speaker 1: feel about dating someone that's never had a girlfriend they have.
Speaker 1: How old were you when you had your first real
Speaker 1: girlfriend slash relationship? Because I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: guys they've dated and they fun girls, you know, but
Speaker 1: they don't consider somebody their girlfriend. And that's a whole
Speaker 1: another level. How old were you are you say when
Speaker 1: you were in your first real relationship? Damn nice? I
Speaker 1: mean you know, that's the hood. You know what I
Speaker 1: mean in the hood. You know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: hook up with somebody. Yeah, but I mean like a relationship, like, hey,
Speaker 1: that was a real relationship, Like I used to spend
Speaker 1: a night in a crib atten good lord? So you
Speaker 1: how were you when you lust your frativity? You don't
Speaker 1: want to know that were you? So I would assume
Speaker 1: it was an older girl. Was she aversion too? She
Speaker 1: probably was like sixteen? It's illegal. Wow? What was your
Speaker 1: first time? Like? It was fun? You know what you
Speaker 1: were doing and not. I definitely didn't know what I
Speaker 1: was doing, but you enjoyed it and I got that
Speaker 1: little tinkly special feelings, so I know, so it was
Speaker 1: going on. He probably lasted like two seconds five Do
Speaker 1: you only do it one time and that was it
Speaker 1: na every summer after that, every summer because it was
Speaker 1: because I was in Kimp. It was like a sleepaway kid.
Speaker 1: She must have been like a counselor somebody give him
Speaker 1: some paper so we get spit his gum out. We
Speaker 1: can you know we could hear that and the like
Speaker 1: he's holding it in his hand all right now, How
Speaker 1: aggressive do you think um a guy should be? We
Speaker 1: were talking about this earlier, right, and Stephanie likes her
Speaker 1: men aggressive. I do, they like my matter, But what
Speaker 1: do you mean aggressive? Like when their first meeting you, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, when their first meeting you, because you know
Speaker 1: they always say that persistence overcomes and sometimes you don't
Speaker 1: want to date somebody, but you end up like doing
Speaker 1: it because they're so aggressive. Like a guy will never
Speaker 1: hear from me if he's not aggressive with the calling
Speaker 1: me or texting me, because I'm not even if I
Speaker 1: like you a lot, I'm not going to reach out
Speaker 1: because I don't like rejection. What do you think I
Speaker 1: think that um aggressiveness can be a guest, a gift
Speaker 1: or a curse. It can help you and or it
Speaker 1: can hurt you. It just all depends on the situation
Speaker 1: and the whole um. There is a such thing as
Speaker 1: being too aggressive to the point where it's creepy and
Speaker 1: you're like what right? Or aggressive can be like oh
Speaker 1: and that night when you're actually lonely and like all right,
Speaker 1: let me hit this guy up. Yeah, the one that's
Speaker 1: been trying, let me finally give him a chance. So yeah, well,
Speaker 1: what do you think? How persistent? How aggressive are you
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating? I'm pretty aggressive, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm really aggressive, because I mean, you
Speaker 1: got to show the other person that you want to
Speaker 1: funk with him. You don't get fat to relax, I'm saying, mouth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like routinely, I curve. I curve even if if I'm interested.
Speaker 1: I curve at first, like just to see where it
Speaker 1: has had it out. Because if I curve you the
Speaker 1: first time and you're just like all right, whatever, you
Speaker 1: don't really want that, it's like you don't really you're
Speaker 1: not really trying, you know that. But if I curb
Speaker 1: you and you're like, no, no, you can't, you can't
Speaker 1: curb me, No, it's like I can't because we don't
Speaker 1: want to act like we just did it like so easily.
Speaker 1: You know, challenge though, right, definitely, definitely because there's no
Speaker 1: challenge at first. I think she's doing this with everybody
Speaker 1: pretty much. But does it matter to you? Yeah? It
Speaker 1: madness because what if you starting and start liking the person,
Speaker 1: You're gonna hold that against them for the rest of
Speaker 1: the relationship that they were so easy, right, Yeah, But
Speaker 1: they always say that sometimes you can meet somebody and
Speaker 1: hit it off right away, and what does she one
Speaker 1: of the homies back in the day, Does that matter
Speaker 1: because it seems like the circles are so small it
Speaker 1: doesn't really matter one of the homies or just somebody,
Speaker 1: you know. If it's just somebody I know, then't don't matter, right,
Speaker 1: But if he it depends on It depends on how
Speaker 1: the homie treated up right, right, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like if he was treating up like a piece of
Speaker 1: ship and really don't give a funk about it and
Speaker 1: he expresses that yeah, face daily. Honestly, if a woman
Speaker 1: got treated by that like that by anybody, they should
Speaker 1: not go next to the circle because the circle knows circle.
Speaker 1: But strange ship happens. Man, you fall in love. Sometimes
Speaker 1: they just change that. People change the girl up too,
Speaker 1: because you were kind of I'm sure you were kind
Speaker 1: of a slime ball as well, so she got to
Speaker 1: forgive you as well. I wouldn't say I was a
Speaker 1: slam boy, but you were a rapper or you are
Speaker 1: a rapper. I'm sorry, but I'm one of the good guys.
Speaker 1: This guy all right? Now, what if the first time
Speaker 1: you have sex with somebody is whack? Do they get
Speaker 1: a second chance? Yeah, they get a second chance because
Speaker 1: they could have been nervous. Right, do you ever feel
Speaker 1: like you've been whack? Probably? Do you know right away?
Speaker 1: Like how you know you'd be like, oh that versus terrible?
Speaker 1: Do you know right away? Like because after you to
Speaker 1: the bathroom and just be like you gotta cop of plea?
Speaker 1: What do you say? I don't say. I was about
Speaker 1: to say usually they don't see anything they said. I
Speaker 1: just want to explain what happened when my sex is whack.
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, we gotta do it again? How can
Speaker 1: a girl have whack sex? Though? Can not? But there's
Speaker 1: just there. Yeah, there's some times like you just don't
Speaker 1: like you just you just not it. It's just not there.
Speaker 1: It's just distracted. I can't say that I'll be even
Speaker 1: on wach sex in the past couple of years, but
Speaker 1: I know the best of us for sure. Why what
Speaker 1: was whack about it? I slept with this one guy
Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, and um, we were drunk.
Speaker 1: We were so drunk, and just nothing was working. Nothing
Speaker 1: was working, like like the liquor, like having me a
Speaker 1: little dried up. And then like we like kept hitting
Speaker 1: our heads have bared like it was just bad, bad,
Speaker 1: but we we tried again. It was It was a
Speaker 1: lot better the last few times, right, for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1: One of my friends were telling me she had sex
Speaker 1: with this guy was terrible the first time they had sex,
Speaker 1: and then like a couple of months later she did
Speaker 1: it again and she was like, Wow, it's amazing that
Speaker 1: it was so much better. I can't believe, you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't know I would ever give him another chance
Speaker 1: after that first time, because sometimes you only get one shot.
Speaker 1: I was in a serious relationship with somebody who the
Speaker 1: first time we had sex it was awful. It was
Speaker 1: so bad. He had to suck me like seven times
Speaker 1: for me to be sad and side God in the
Speaker 1: same night. It was like seven times, and it was
Speaker 1: just so bad and I curved him for three years
Speaker 1: after that, and we still friends, and I kind of
Speaker 1: will be like like, he will trying to be like, what,
Speaker 1: so can we hang out tonight? And I'll be like,
Speaker 1: my mother's calling me. I'll call you back, if you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But then we ended up the
Speaker 1: next time around. It was good, all right. Now, let's
Speaker 1: get some questions off at the Instagram. How do you
Speaker 1: deal with a long distance relationship where you can't see
Speaker 1: the distance ever being removed and you are both a
Speaker 1: different paths in terms of marriage and kids, but you've
Speaker 1: been together for more than seven years, so it's hard
Speaker 1: to let go. Let go and be friends. You just
Speaker 1: gotta see each of them more often. I don't see
Speaker 1: why it's impossible if you're in a long distance relationship
Speaker 1: and you'll decide you want to be together, what's impossible? Right?
Speaker 1: Like why can't somebody move? Yeah, the other person could move,
Speaker 1: or you can't get another person somebody. I was in
Speaker 1: a long distance relationship and I'll eventually moved. Yeah, somebody
Speaker 1: gotta move, that's it, or it's not gonna work and
Speaker 1: I didn't plan on moving, Or what about when you're
Speaker 1: dating like an athlete and he doesn't play in the
Speaker 1: same city that you're you're in. No, this is not personal,
Speaker 1: but I'm just saying you have to And if you're
Speaker 1: a year for that person and you guys care for
Speaker 1: each other and it's genuine, then you have to adapt
Speaker 1: to your situation. I had to make it work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that you could make it work. Which is, well,
Speaker 1: he's on the road a lot. He ain't gonna playing exactly,
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna forever. Out somewhere I heard was it
Speaker 1: for you to maintain a relationship being on the road
Speaker 1: all the time? Right? It was? It was kind of
Speaker 1: hard because you know, when you're in the music industry,
Speaker 1: people don't trust you, you know what, smad girl. So
Speaker 1: do you think a woman has to be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I have to understand what he does and every now
Speaker 1: and then she got to know what she's sawn it
Speaker 1: up for, you know what I mean? Like, come on,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean not just rapping, but you know,
Speaker 1: entertaining sports figures. You know, anybody travels, And yeah, I
Speaker 1: think he gets he should get a couple of passes. Damn,
Speaker 1: what about can she get some passes? Yeah, she could
Speaker 1: get That's what I last week that most guys wouldn't
Speaker 1: say that, But that's what I was saying last week.
Speaker 1: You know, Um, for for God to date me, he
Speaker 1: needs to understand my lifestyle that there I might there
Speaker 1: mayn't be times that I'm traveling a lot. There there
Speaker 1: might be times that I have to be out a
Speaker 1: lot in the nighttime. You know, like you have to
Speaker 1: just understand that to be in a relationship, even just
Speaker 1: dating me, like not even a serious relationship, would you
Speaker 1: rather be with the girl who's in the spotlight or
Speaker 1: somebody that nobody knows it's low key? Somebody that's low key.
Speaker 1: Of course, that's just the way I'm just like sometime
Speaker 1: it's fun to have like that power couple that I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, either or for me, but I would prefer
Speaker 1: somebody low key. I used to say that I prefer
Speaker 1: somebody low key, but right now, at this point in
Speaker 1: my life, I would prefer to date somebody dot and understand.
Speaker 1: You not understand my lifestyle. Who understands that there's groupies
Speaker 1: as male groups, says film group bees. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? All right, Listen, everybody, a male group is
Speaker 1: probably worse than female groups, even for guys like yes, yes,
Speaker 1: they want to smoke with you, they want to be
Speaker 1: out with you, they want to call you, they want
Speaker 1: to tell everybody you they big bro. Al right now.
Speaker 1: Healthy need had a question on Instagram. Um he was saying,
Speaker 1: teach women and give tips on giving good head, not
Speaker 1: that thirty second bullshit. You first, first, your first. You
Speaker 1: have to enjoy. You're good at what you enjoy doing.
Speaker 1: So if you enjoy giving head, you will be good
Speaker 1: at giving head. If you find pleasures necessarily though, you
Speaker 1: could enjoy it but not be good at it. I
Speaker 1: would think, and you know what a tip for the
Speaker 1: ladies giving you know, to have to give somebody a blowjob.
Speaker 1: That's a long blow job. You don't relax, don't go
Speaker 1: too fast, you get get yourself take You gotta switch
Speaker 1: it out and can't stay doing the same thing switching
Speaker 1: up from switching. Don't don't use both hands at the
Speaker 1: same time because you're gonna get tired. Use one hand,
Speaker 1: use the other one that made two at the same time.
Speaker 1: If it's gonna go yeah, hand, I'll start slow. You
Speaker 1: don't you know the ball? They only the hit you
Speaker 1: know you can have like they're like you. Because I
Speaker 1: want to know I want to know how true what
Speaker 1: they're saying is. So they're saying, switch it up. They're saying,
Speaker 1: um for the long haul, don't go too bad your
Speaker 1: time with it, don't use both hands at the same time.
Speaker 1: What else I would say? They're pretty accurate, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: just sell little guys like guys like when you start
Speaker 1: slow and then build it, build it up, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. That's patient and you can't leave the
Speaker 1: balls out. You have to get the ball from immediate thing.
Speaker 1: Some guys are ball people and some guys. Yeah, some
Speaker 1: guys don't want you to touch the balls. That's because
Speaker 1: they're too sensitive, because they're crazy. But what's your balls
Speaker 1: like having? They can touch you can touch you, but
Speaker 1: don't be Yeah, miss texticles are like Faberge eggs. You
Speaker 1: gotta treat help, be careful, and you know, you could
Speaker 1: go a little harder on the dick than the balls, don't.
Speaker 1: It's not the same. That's just saying because the last
Speaker 1: clip service that we did before with Miles, he was
Speaker 1: saying that guys like to have their balls like kind
Speaker 1: of I mean, not their balls there, I'm dick kind
Speaker 1: of rough, right, and they like to be nibbled on sometimes.
Speaker 1: He said that true, because I don't know if that's true.
Speaker 1: It depends on the person. Everybody likes what they like,
Speaker 1: a little nibbling, a little Yeah, depends on the person.
Speaker 1: What do you like if you feel teeth? How do
Speaker 1: you feel about that? He was like, that's cool, really not,
Speaker 1: it's always taught, you know, no teeth, not through the
Speaker 1: whole motion. But give me your hand right when you
Speaker 1: come in your mouth, and then you can kind of
Speaker 1: like with your teeth a little like greeves a little,
Speaker 1: a little graze. Yeah, I think that's never was about
Speaker 1: to put my hand in her, my hand, like, give
Speaker 1: me your hands. We got farm. But you don't go
Speaker 1: that far all right now. Another question that we had
Speaker 1: that people were asking was about would you be with
Speaker 1: a woman who didn't give head at all? She's childish? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't last long, really long. A man needs need. No,
Speaker 1: that was that important. Yes, sorry, it's it's a call
Speaker 1: to the whole situation. Yeah, what period. He just don't
Speaker 1: get n exactly. He gets a hand, jaw handed maybe
Speaker 1: ain't know what if she does, ain't know, and then
Speaker 1: she get a gold star. But you still got something
Speaker 1: to be at the choose between antal and oral both.
Speaker 1: You have to pick one or the other. I guess
Speaker 1: you know I like to do the access, so give
Speaker 1: me then I'll take it. Okay, so't it's greater than oral? Okay,
Speaker 1: Now Nadine gets said, who gets up for the rag?
Speaker 1: That's the question. Who is for the rag? Whose house
Speaker 1: is it? Yet? No matter whose it is, the man
Speaker 1: got to get up for the rag, sweethead. All right,
Speaker 1: the man gets up for the reg I think, let
Speaker 1: me stop getting up because I know, does you know
Speaker 1: I get a rag? Make a sandwird? You get a drag? Baby?
Speaker 1: I mean, when it's in my house and the guy's
Speaker 1: guests in my house and he's not really used to
Speaker 1: being there, I'm gonna be like, babe, you want some water,
Speaker 1: let me get you a rag. Right. But otherwise, you know,
Speaker 1: if it's somebody yours, if it's his house, what if
Speaker 1: you're at a hotel. If you're in a hotel, he
Speaker 1: gets it, you gotta go get it and make sure
Speaker 1: that what did make that don't come back with no
Speaker 1: yeah I did is disrespect and if if he did
Speaker 1: his job right, your dad in the battlem you can't
Speaker 1: get out. That's when he who sleeps in the wet spot.
Speaker 1: All right. Now here's another question from Elsie musician. How much,
Speaker 1: if any, difference in attraction and status did we choose
Speaker 1: the cute person with less over the beautiful physical person
Speaker 1: with status who has twisted motives? So what's more important
Speaker 1: to you somebody that is um good looking but doesn't
Speaker 1: have a lot, or somebody who is who has a
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of status and everything, but doesn't
Speaker 1: look that good but he has bad motives, so it
Speaker 1: doesn't even matter if he looks good. All right, listen,
Speaker 1: good looking but doesn't have a lot or a status,
Speaker 1: but not that good looking. I'm not really a look
Speaker 1: type of person. I think that my looks are good
Speaker 1: enough to compliment us in anyway. So I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: with the person that got to going on versus the
Speaker 1: person that look good. Okay, your attraction is more about
Speaker 1: what's got he's got it going on. That's more attractive
Speaker 1: somebody that is successful, because then you can learn from
Speaker 1: that person. You know what I'm saying. But are you going?
Speaker 1: You can always? You can always, you can always buff
Speaker 1: them rough edges. And you know, y'all know what money
Speaker 1: do to people? Would make them look better. You can
Speaker 1: always foush, you always buff them rough. I didn't feel
Speaker 1: about having a public relationship like posting your women on Instagram, AM,
Speaker 1: and I don't do it. I'm not into that. I
Speaker 1: don't do it because because it's like a million haters
Speaker 1: out there, people jumping out the woodwork. As soon as
Speaker 1: you post your girlfriend up, yeah everybody. What if she's like,
Speaker 1: why you don't want to post me? Yeah? And I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell why. It's like, because do you want this
Speaker 1: relationship to last or don't you? As soon as I
Speaker 1: post your pictures, you know it's over after that, Like
Speaker 1: it's tag me what about taking her out to the
Speaker 1: club and stuff like that? And I'll do that all day. Man,
Speaker 1: You're just not gonna put no pictures on anything, pictures
Speaker 1: because you're supposed to keep your relationship private. In order
Speaker 1: for it to work, you got to give it a
Speaker 1: fighting chance. At least get five years in before you
Speaker 1: start posting program. At least I agree with that. You know,
Speaker 1: I was public about my last relationship and I regret it.
Speaker 1: I totally regret it. I totally regretted. It was an
Speaker 1: embarrassing fund up situation. But do you think if he
Speaker 1: was the right guy, maybe it would have been on
Speaker 1: that wasn't really the right But I still I fee
Speaker 1: like we we have waited to do that. I feel
Speaker 1: like you should give it at least a year ever
Speaker 1: sale foundation, Like let us be exactly where if if
Speaker 1: we get any any negative reaction from people, we could
Speaker 1: just look at each other and be like, whatever, baby,
Speaker 1: we knew that was gonna happen. Yeah, that was my
Speaker 1: That's kind of leading into my question, like what if
Speaker 1: there's a marriage involved, like not relationship. You guys are
Speaker 1: married and I didn't want to post the wife for
Speaker 1: vice versa are married with kids and and don't post
Speaker 1: that ship at all and nobody knows. Is that weird?
Speaker 1: That's smart? That's smart because nobody's in your business. I mean,
Speaker 1: when you have a family and kids and everything, that's
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how you can hide it,
Speaker 1: but you don't. I don't feel like, but if a
Speaker 1: woman don't you feel offended, like damn, let these bitches
Speaker 1: know you have a Yeah, but if you're confident in
Speaker 1: your relationship, you don't need no post. What I'm saying like,
Speaker 1: you with your relationship, you don't need a post to
Speaker 1: put the standpoint. Like when I'm dating somebody and they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you don't never post me up on your Instagram, I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, this relationship is over. Now. What if you're
Speaker 1: dating somebody and you're dating somebody else, do you tell
Speaker 1: them what? And so if you're dating to people and
Speaker 1: you are you just with me or are you dating
Speaker 1: other people? What do you say? It depends on the
Speaker 1: type of relationship you have with that person. Like if
Speaker 1: you're trying to build something with the person, no, don't
Speaker 1: tell them you're sucking somebody else. But what if they
Speaker 1: find you don't believe? I think you should be honest
Speaker 1: from the gate because then you know, down the line,
Speaker 1: they'll they'll love you for that. Because listen now, having
Speaker 1: if you were dating a girl and she told you, okay,
Speaker 1: you know, but we're not in a relationship and yes
Speaker 1: I am dating somebody else, does that make you feel
Speaker 1: like I don't want to sunk with her anymore? Doesn't
Speaker 1: make you feel like, damn, I gotta try to win her. Yeah?
Speaker 1: You want her? Yeah? And then plus you respect the honesty.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, So you know, down the line,
Speaker 1: everything is about honesty and transparency open book. So if
Speaker 1: she asked you, and she asked me, and you would
Speaker 1: be like, well, yeah, I'm dating other people. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell the truth. Like what does she ask you specifics?
Speaker 1: Do you get into specifics? So you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to get into specific So last night when I
Speaker 1: try to call you and you didn't answer the phone, well,
Speaker 1: I was sleep, I was sleep. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I'll tell the truth. I told you be like, well
Speaker 1: I was sucking somebody else. I'm not gonna say I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say fucking, but I'm just gonna be like
Speaker 1: I was chilling with somebody. I'm not going to rub
Speaker 1: it in their face and be like, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I was sucking somebody. What makes your side to settle
Speaker 1: down with someone? What makes you decide to settle down,
Speaker 1: Like what makes you decide it has to be the person,
Speaker 1: Like if they that that person that fulfills your needs
Speaker 1: and they fulfill every aspect you know that you need,
Speaker 1: like you know, cooking and on your side, trying to
Speaker 1: build you up your back bone, and somebody that you
Speaker 1: don't want to let go, you have to settle down
Speaker 1: with him. So you have to Stephanie, what was you
Speaker 1: gonna say? Where was I We were talking about dating
Speaker 1: two different people and the competition aspect of it. I
Speaker 1: just feel like if a guy tells me like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sucking you and I'm sucking somebody else, it's more
Speaker 1: like for me, it's like I'm not good enough for you,
Speaker 1: like like you're bugging. I don't even want to focus
Speaker 1: you no more. Let me tell you something that just
Speaker 1: happened one of my friends, and I want to see
Speaker 1: what you think because we had this debate about it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So she met this guy, she started dating him, and
Speaker 1: then he told her that he had met a female
Speaker 1: before they met. She lives in another country and she
Speaker 1: was she was coming to visit but he didn't want
Speaker 1: to can but this this was before he met her,
Speaker 1: before he met my friend. And then he said he
Speaker 1: had a girl coming to visit. He wasn't going to
Speaker 1: cancel her trip, but he was just giving her heads out,
Speaker 1: just say, you know, this girl is coming to visit.
Speaker 1: This is before you have a friend. Really, she to
Speaker 1: stay in his house. She was staying with him and everything,
Speaker 1: and it was something that was pre playing. He was like,
Speaker 1: I can't make her cancer. The trip girl was coming
Speaker 1: from Hawaii and she had started dating this guy and
Speaker 1: he had a girl coming in from Hawaii and he
Speaker 1: told her, like, I have this friend that lives in
Speaker 1: Hawaii and we planned a month ago for her too,
Speaker 1: and she had probably been seeing for about two weeks
Speaker 1: and he was like, a month ago, we planned for
Speaker 1: her to come visit, and she's coming this week and
Speaker 1: she's staying with me. That happened to my friend. But
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, I appreciate your honesty. This is
Speaker 1: something that happened before me. What is he supposed to
Speaker 1: do for me? It's like, listen, I don't I'm not
Speaker 1: asking to counselor trip, but book her hotel and that's it.
Speaker 1: If you're gonna make a girl, she can't stay in
Speaker 1: your house and or you should like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to know that that's not your man. If it's not
Speaker 1: my man, it's like, no, no, it's a turn off.
Speaker 1: I'll probably stopped working with him. She did, Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: I'll stop working. He was like, you can have that
Speaker 1: and when you're done with and I just feel like
Speaker 1: there's so many men in the world you don't have
Speaker 1: to put up with things like that. You know, That's
Speaker 1: how I feel. What do you think having as a
Speaker 1: man in I want to hear this from a man's
Speaker 1: point of view, because I was like, well, he was honest.
Speaker 1: He told you the truth. He didn't have to. He
Speaker 1: could have just went missing and made up some excuse,
Speaker 1: but he did come to you and tell you the truth.
Speaker 1: This is something that he had planned before he even
Speaker 1: met her, and it is kind of respectable that. Okay,
Speaker 1: I did you know, make these plans with this girl.
Speaker 1: I don't want to treat her like ships. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, you know, I mean, what does that
Speaker 1: mean he has to cancel the trip? Right? If you
Speaker 1: like the girl, if you like to feel like if
Speaker 1: he doesn't cancel the trip, that he still has feelings
Speaker 1: for this girl. If he doesn't cancel the trip, he's
Speaker 1: still and you're and if you're like, oh, I understand,
Speaker 1: you're allowing him to to like somebody else. You're allowing
Speaker 1: him to stay with somebody, get to know somebody for
Speaker 1: however many days they're going to be there, and you know,
Speaker 1: so long for them to want them more. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, we haven't even known each other that long.
Speaker 1: But it's promoting a bad habit. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Early, I'm like a write bull. How fun.
Speaker 1: Don't call me no more because if you got hurt,
Speaker 1: what you need me for exactly? Like one good it
Speaker 1: was nice, But then maybe he'll be like, well, damn,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even tell that real ship. But often that
Speaker 1: happens when you like, yeah, I was honest, and now
Speaker 1: I could have just lied and everything would have been okay.
Speaker 1: She wouldn't never know. That's why people lie because we
Speaker 1: feel like it's easy to hurt you. And if you know,
Speaker 1: you know, if you don't know the truth, then it
Speaker 1: won't hurt you. So people lie. Yeah, but it's always
Speaker 1: going to come to the light anyway. Yeah, better the
Speaker 1: truth if the shoes on the other foot. For me
Speaker 1: and I started, I met somebody knew and I had
Speaker 1: and I really liked them. And I had this person
Speaker 1: coming from Europe or wherever they're coming from, and you know,
Speaker 1: I already planned it, but I like this new person. Um,
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna cancel it. I'm gonna curve the
Speaker 1: person coming from out of the country because you know what,
Speaker 1: that's not my problem. If you still want to come,
Speaker 1: then you come. But just know that I found somebody
Speaker 1: that I like, so I don't know hand to hang
Speaker 1: out with you. Yeah, because if a chick confronted me
Speaker 1: with that, she's gonna have to cancer that trip. And
Speaker 1: if she don't cance for the trip to you don't
Speaker 1: really funk with you like that. Yeah, but it's so
Speaker 1: early in one it's hard to say. But this we
Speaker 1: building the blocks. This is the building foundation. If you
Speaker 1: can't do something dramatic for me right now, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna do something dramatic for me down the line, you know.
Speaker 1: And it's early, like, let me see how you do this,
Speaker 1: and you know what, and if if the guy canceled
Speaker 1: the other girl for me, it shows like he's going
Speaker 1: beyond for me. You know, he's doing extra for me,
Speaker 1: he's doing more. But then at the same time, he
Speaker 1: doesn't know where your relationship is headed yet it's still
Speaker 1: super early. Yeah, so he just canceled the trip, give
Speaker 1: the other check excuse real quick, what happens? Check? And
Speaker 1: then you know even a bit and come later, she's
Speaker 1: never coming home, right all right, now, let's talk about this.
Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a email and they said she said
Speaker 1: the guy that she's been dating for the past ten
Speaker 1: years has been having her. He told her that his
Speaker 1: child support was seven fifty dollars a month, but she
Speaker 1: found out it's really only a hundred and twenty one
Speaker 1: dollars a month, and every two weeks she's been giving
Speaker 1: him two hundred dollars out of her paycheck to help. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: why is she giving him money to pay his shold support? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I asked her that and then she emailed me back
Speaker 1: and she said she said they did it over ten
Speaker 1: years and just this past year he's been having some
Speaker 1: financial issues, so I chose to help him. See me
Speaker 1: that he never asked me for help before. He took
Speaker 1: advantage of her kindness. But they've been together for ten years,
Speaker 1: so that's nothing to take lightly. No, no, and that's
Speaker 1: a good reason for her to help him. However, he
Speaker 1: should have kept one huney with her on how much
Speaker 1: it was. Once he inflated the price of with the
Speaker 1: with the child support was then he was betraying her
Speaker 1: and taking only a hundred seven dollars that you know,
Speaker 1: child child support goes by what you make. If you
Speaker 1: don't make nothing, you're only going to pay a buck.
Speaker 1: Would you ever ask a woman for help or with
Speaker 1: that being her for for your pride? Never would I
Speaker 1: ask so for help, not for money at least would
Speaker 1: you feel weird if a guy asked you for some
Speaker 1: money for some help, even if it's somebody, that's something, Um,
Speaker 1: it has happened to me, and I don't let them
Speaker 1: live it down. I know I might be a as
Speaker 1: soon as we got to argument. You forgot you all
Speaker 1: me a thousand dollars. I don't even let it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I just feel like, um, me myself as a woman,
Speaker 1: I don't even really feel comfortable with guys doing a
Speaker 1: lot for me because I've had guys do a lot
Speaker 1: for me, and they always, oh, if it wasn't for me,
Speaker 1: you would to have this, If it wasn't for me,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have got that. I don't like that, so
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really let guys do too much
Speaker 1: for me. I'll accept the gift here and there and
Speaker 1: things like that at a trip blah blah blah. But
Speaker 1: as far as the guy like paying my bills and
Speaker 1: doing things for me, nah, you said you don't let
Speaker 1: a girl even pay for dinner. It's hard for me.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying because I like to take
Speaker 1: care of people. So like if I'm at dinner or
Speaker 1: something like that, and you know the woman wants to pay,
Speaker 1: I really don't. What if she wants some need some
Speaker 1: money for something. What if she's like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm having some problems and I can't pay my rent.
Speaker 1: I hope somebody, Oh that's nice, not now ges. What
Speaker 1: if a guy asked you for some money, girl boy,
Speaker 1: but it's somebody that you love, they've had some hard
Speaker 1: times as of late. What g why are you looking
Speaker 1: at me? I just roll my eyes so hard. First
Speaker 1: of all, not to discredit any man and where they
Speaker 1: are in life or what they're doing, but just me
Speaker 1: personal and where I am in life and what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to put myself in the predicament to
Speaker 1: be around or be with somebody that's gonna need me financially,
Speaker 1: because even if you are going through hard time. First
Speaker 1: of all, I deal with grown man. I don't deal
Speaker 1: with children. So a grown man has something to fall
Speaker 1: back on. A grown man has saved, a grown man
Speaker 1: has invested. A grown man has put those blocks in
Speaker 1: order to wears the when he has a bad day
Speaker 1: where he has a bad time. Nobody knows it because
Speaker 1: he has something to fall back on. If you like, well,
Speaker 1: I just put a house. I spend all my money
Speaker 1: doing the down payment to do this is and that
Speaker 1: I just needed, you know, a couple of g This
Speaker 1: is where I come from. And I don't know if
Speaker 1: this is I don't know if this is just you
Speaker 1: know how I was taught, um, you know, and as
Speaker 1: a young adult. But when it comes time to make
Speaker 1: a significant financial purchase, you cannot spend your all on
Speaker 1: that significant financial person. You should have enough to make
Speaker 1: that significant financial purchase and have the same amounts still
Speaker 1: in savings or still at least at least close to
Speaker 1: the same all done. Now, I'm not gonna lie, but
Speaker 1: my house I had to put down. Your house is
Speaker 1: one point a lot of money I ain't have shipped
Speaker 1: for a little while. Yeah, sometimes you make those sacrifices. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you're not a man. You're a woman. You're a woman.
Speaker 1: Here's that catch twenty two. It's different for a woman
Speaker 1: than it is for a man. The same way a
Speaker 1: nigga to go out and sling his dick all over
Speaker 1: the United States and he's the man. But if I
Speaker 1: post think my pussy across Texas, I'm a hoe. Then
Speaker 1: if he went and spent his money on everything, on
Speaker 1: his home and everything and he don't have nothing else
Speaker 1: to back that up, if he down for three months,
Speaker 1: nah nab. I mean for me, I'm very independent, you know,
Speaker 1: I do everything for myself. But I'm very generous, you know,
Speaker 1: I um, I give, you know, I give what iut
Speaker 1: asking i'd like to buy my guy, and I agree
Speaker 1: definitely guy. As far as a guy like asking me like, hey,
Speaker 1: can you help me pay my rent as more? It
Speaker 1: just sound crazy. And I also felt like you should
Speaker 1: have some other people you could ask because I never
Speaker 1: had to ask him in like where's your homies? Where's
Speaker 1: your homies? That your father? But what if like he
Speaker 1: has family members that he had to help out and
Speaker 1: it was extraordinary? Said, if it was an extreme case
Speaker 1: and I had it and I really did this ship, listen,
Speaker 1: if it was a stream case and I had it
Speaker 1: and I really could be there to help him, then yes,
Speaker 1: but I gotta pay a hospital bright. But but if
Speaker 1: it's just some bullshit, then no, because you should be
Speaker 1: able to cover the bullshit. You should have something on
Speaker 1: the back burner for the bullshit. Yes and listen, jay
Speaker 1: Z said it. Most chains is cool the cop, but
Speaker 1: more important it's lawyer fees. You can't be out here
Speaker 1: spending your money on frivolous bullshit and then when some
Speaker 1: real ship come up, you're looking crazy. And as a
Speaker 1: man mistakes, that's true, but as a man, a grown
Speaker 1: as man ship be able to handle that having Like
Speaker 1: I had to ask my girlfrin, people ship happens, and
Speaker 1: people just make mistakes, especially financial mistakes. We all had.
Speaker 1: I've made financial mistakes. We've all made financial mistakes. Girl. However,
Speaker 1: there's that catch two. A man is supposed to have
Speaker 1: his ship together financially, and a woman is not supposed
Speaker 1: to be a home That's all right, So I have
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. If we're talking about money
Speaker 1: and all of that, what's the best gift you ever
Speaker 1: bought a woman? The best gift for ever board a woman?
Speaker 1: I would have to say a call d D Daddy.
Speaker 1: That's good, that's great. That it BMW. Yeah, that's nice,
Speaker 1: that's nice. That by my own BMW just now for
Speaker 1: my birthday myself. A BMW is a brand new one
Speaker 1: because you had one. That's clear, that one got ready,
Speaker 1: that one got a new one birth say, that's an investment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's definitely seen it. That's an investment into your future. Though,
Speaker 1: I would assume, like if you buy a woman a car,
Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, we're gonna be together fever for sure.
Speaker 1: I mean not forever. But you know we don't be
Speaker 1: together this weekend. You're gonna drive me around the d
Speaker 1: have other niggas in the car. You know what if
Speaker 1: you women to car you that's for a ride from
Speaker 1: the airport and she say, nae, that's why you gotta
Speaker 1: keep the call your name just joking, I'll just joking.
Speaker 1: But she will have some you did put it in
Speaker 1: her name, Noah, for sure. You said she'll have some issues.
Speaker 1: She don't have some missages. She don't pick me up
Speaker 1: for the motherfucker. Import Like they're still hard not to
Speaker 1: be paid. They could not be paid, they could get repoked.
Speaker 1: How honest are you with women when they ask you
Speaker 1: about like you know, things about your past and all
Speaker 1: of that. Are you a bedroom talker? You know how
Speaker 1: you lay down in the bed and they're like, you know,
Speaker 1: with guys, they tell you all they ship while they
Speaker 1: lay down with you laid up, man, you'd be like, man,
Speaker 1: I hate prodigy. Man, oh I don't, I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't do that. You know what I'm saying that
Speaker 1: I definitely don't. You know. As far as talk, we
Speaker 1: could talk about like, you know, excelling, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, and achieving more, but I won't talk about
Speaker 1: my personal business too much to just anybody that I'm
Speaker 1: laying in the bed with. How hard is it for
Speaker 1: you to trust somebody? It's really hard, you know that.
Speaker 1: It's like it's super hard because people have arterial motives,
Speaker 1: you know, so you know, you might tell somebody something
Speaker 1: and next thing, you know, like Tony, other people know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's just crazy. Would you ever write
Speaker 1: a book? Yeah? I was in the process of writing
Speaker 1: a book. You know what happened. I'm still writing it,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's it's going to
Speaker 1: be pretty good. Like what's it? So? Is it like
Speaker 1: a memoirs type of thing? It's just a book just uh,
Speaker 1: describing my you know, my first forty years of life.
Speaker 1: Just do it or not even or some like you
Speaker 1: know mom deep ship. But everything leading up to that
Speaker 1: and then beyond, what are some things about you that
Speaker 1: are going to be in that book that nobody knows
Speaker 1: yet that nobody knows. Uh how much I like art,
Speaker 1: you know, like you know, the paint and draw and
Speaker 1: stuff like that and stuff like that. Now that's a
Speaker 1: nice game. That's a tough for gift to give somebody
Speaker 1: if your day you pedro are artistic in other ways
Speaker 1: than what they're known for. Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: that's not surprising. Is that something you feel like you
Speaker 1: can make money off of painting and drawing? Pretty it's
Speaker 1: a hobby, you know what I mean? I know eventually
Speaker 1: if it's would be like, man, I bought this painting
Speaker 1: from hat. You can make so much money, you know,
Speaker 1: we can start a gallery. Are you good? Though, I
Speaker 1: would say, so, we got to see some work. I'll
Speaker 1: show you some work. I'll show you some work, you know,
Speaker 1: because I can say I paint and drawing it shouna
Speaker 1: be wacked. What about? What are some other things and
Speaker 1: what made you decide you should write a book? Because
Speaker 1: I'm sure proud of you writing his book, which, by
Speaker 1: the way, I enjoy that kind of sparked me off.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed that a lot that that spark that that's
Speaker 1: because I never thought about writing a book. So when
Speaker 1: he wrote a book, I was like, oh, shoot, I
Speaker 1: should write a book, especially because he probably said a
Speaker 1: lot of ship about you in there, and you were like,
Speaker 1: I gotta refute some of it. Yeah, at first I
Speaker 1: felt like that, but then after a while I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, that's his story, So I mean, I want
Speaker 1: to tell just my story and not have it being
Speaker 1: uh dictated by whoever wrote what, because we all have
Speaker 1: a different story. Like we can all talk about the
Speaker 1: way something happened and you'll recall it a different way
Speaker 1: than somebody else would recall it. But you know what
Speaker 1: it made his book grad was that I thought like
Speaker 1: he said things about himself that were like kind of
Speaker 1: embarrassing that you wouldn't necessarily want people to know. See, like, oh,
Speaker 1: he gotta be telling the truth if he's going to
Speaker 1: say about coming from the suburbs and you wrote his
Speaker 1: rhymes and stuff like that. Talking about all of that,
Speaker 1: The book was pretty good. It was. It pissed a
Speaker 1: lot of people, but it wouldn't have been a good
Speaker 1: book if it wouldn't have You know, it's supposed to
Speaker 1: do that. Are you concerned about pissing people off? Uh?
Speaker 1: Some fifty fifty and fifty fifty. I don't like to
Speaker 1: piss people off, you know. I'm kind of you know, confrontational, right,
Speaker 1: But in order for the book to be good and honest,
Speaker 1: you are going to piss some people off. Sure, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. The honesty is definitely going to
Speaker 1: piss a couple of people off. All right, Well, we're
Speaker 1: looking forward to that half fire along. Are you with it?
Speaker 1: I'm like ninety percent thing. Oh it's almost done. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The name of the book is called The Solid Partner,
Speaker 1: so it's going to be pretty good. Oh ship, you
Speaker 1: think you're the Solid Partner? Yeah, you have some wild time.
Speaker 1: You feel like you lived your life and like you're
Speaker 1: good now. You just everything's calm because listen, you used
Speaker 1: to be out and about in these streets. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie, and I don't want to. I don't want
Speaker 1: to say it. What now I was gonna say Back
Speaker 1: in the day, I was young, and I used to
Speaker 1: see him in the tunnel all the time, wilding out.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even old enough to be in there. Truthfully,
Speaker 1: of course, you weren't, but I used see him in
Speaker 1: the tunnel like every single week. Now where do you go?
Speaker 1: Do you say, Hey, I don't want to even go
Speaker 1: out because too much it be happening. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm like a homebody. I don't go out
Speaker 1: like that much. Only if every once in the blue moon.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because I get enough going
Speaker 1: out when I'm on the road on tour, and you
Speaker 1: have to when you get paid for it. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: on tool like ninety percent of the year, so right,
Speaker 1: let'skeep it and Stephanie, we don't go out if we
Speaker 1: don't have to. Yeah. No, I don't go out at
Speaker 1: all unless I'm booked. Right, It's like very rare for
Speaker 1: me to go out. You think that's just like one
Speaker 1: of my friend's birthdays or something like that. The clip
Speaker 1: scene is so different now than it used to be.
Speaker 1: You think that music like and everything the way it
Speaker 1: is nowadays is um You think like back in the
Speaker 1: nineties was way better. I wouldn't. I wouldn't say it
Speaker 1: was way but it's just different, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I think the kids are enjoying the music this out
Speaker 1: because we don't have ship like the Palladium, the tunnels.
Speaker 1: We don't have stuff like that anymore. Just suck it up,
Speaker 1: you know what. I don't know how the close scene
Speaker 1: was back in the days, but the music was definitely,
Speaker 1: definitely way better in the nineties. It was more substance,
Speaker 1: you know, it's more it was more hip hop. It
Speaker 1: was more of a variation, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Now it's just like one sound, right, that's it there
Speaker 1: in New York sound. Now, it's not a New York
Speaker 1: sound all. I don't think a lot of room for it.
Speaker 1: It's not a New York sound. It's just New York artists,
Speaker 1: uh emulated and the sound this out today and sound
Speaker 1: making it a little different, but it's still a trap sound.
Speaker 1: As far as women, what's city would you say has
Speaker 1: the best women? What city? If you had to say
Speaker 1: this city that women are happening looks definitely giving you
Speaker 1: a dirty look already, Like I have to say Madrid, Madrid.
Speaker 1: He left American as American women, and we're not doing
Speaker 1: it for him. Why Madrid though? Tell us why I've
Speaker 1: been in Madrid one time? Different like white girls they white.
Speaker 1: They seeing Spanish people are white, like that I'm Latino.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm I'm Latino. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: What's still happening about girls in Madrid? That we could
Speaker 1: bring some of that here? Mean the yeah, the whole
Speaker 1: it is just crazy, you know, the little what do
Speaker 1: you mean he's like to buy like, give it some
Speaker 1: specifics that we know, what are we doing wrong? Here? Friendly?
Speaker 1: A little bit more friendly, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: A little down to earth. Yeah, that's how I feel
Speaker 1: about the Southern man. I feel like the Southern man hospitality. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so nice and it's so cool understanding because here
Speaker 1: in New York, you know how y'all do if you
Speaker 1: try to kick it, and I feel like you'd be like,
Speaker 1: I feel like the men from New York are like,
Speaker 1: they want you to baby then they want they want
Speaker 1: another mother. They want you to do everything they mom
Speaker 1: did New York. New York want to be like, they
Speaker 1: want you to baby them. They want you to go
Speaker 1: get the rag, they want you to get the New
Speaker 1: York biggest. I lived in the South for ten years
Speaker 1: and the Southern hospitality is a real thing and a
Speaker 1: good Southern boy. It's amazing. It's a good thing. But
Speaker 1: I'm with a New Yorker now so now, but I
Speaker 1: like the New York because I'm Puerto Rican. You know,
Speaker 1: I like to get abuse. She likes to fight, choke
Speaker 1: me up, not physically, but she likes to argue. I
Speaker 1: don't really like you, dude, No, I don't. I haven't
Speaker 1: had to argue, haven't. I have issues with Stephanie where
Speaker 1: we'll go someplace and the whole time should be outside
Speaker 1: on the phone arguing, And then now when I sue,
Speaker 1: the end of the argument should be like where the
Speaker 1: fund is? You got right now? I'm coming there. But
Speaker 1: that was when I was in a bad relationship, a
Speaker 1: very bad relationship. I ever had an argument in months?
Speaker 1: Are you argue? Having? Like? Hey, god, no arguing. I
Speaker 1: changed the subject so I can't trap you into no
Speaker 1: damn argument. I try not to get into an argument.
Speaker 1: I try to switch the subject. You ever got into
Speaker 1: a fight with one of your boys over a chick? Nahas?
Speaker 1: I definitely never got into a fight with one of
Speaker 1: my homies because I'd be like, fuck it. I would
Speaker 1: like fun both of them, for both of them have fun.
Speaker 1: You don't ever have no like competitions like hai, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take this girl, because I remember being on the
Speaker 1: road back in the day, you know, when I was working,
Speaker 1: and I've seen all kind of crazy ship happened. You
Speaker 1: never had guys be like, Okay, I'm gonna take this
Speaker 1: girl from his room and oh yeah, they do the robbery.
Speaker 1: But you know, if you could do that with the
Speaker 1: the chick is not worth it anyway. That's a fact.
Speaker 1: You ever was wanting trains and stuff like that, You
Speaker 1: ever ran a train in the nineties, was running that.
Speaker 1: I've seen some incredible ship, Like really, I didn't even
Speaker 1: think a girl could take that much like niggers like crazy,
Speaker 1: that's a lot. That's soretness. She's dead right now. In
Speaker 1: my last her, she can't do a little more because
Speaker 1: she's hurt. Vagina. Yeah she saw from that. It's one
Speaker 1: RP to her. Would you participate in that though? Would
Speaker 1: you be on the line these days? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: I mean back then and you did, like of course
Speaker 1: you feel like you have to be first, or is
Speaker 1: it okay, let me get my first first, you know,
Speaker 1: because after that I'm out of there, right Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. You ain't gonna say, guys, are you trying
Speaker 1: to be number seventeen first, and did you ever look
Speaker 1: at those girls like if you ever saw them something
Speaker 1: like hey, you remember me? You all ran a train
Speaker 1: on me? Ever ran into them somewhere else? They act
Speaker 1: like they just regular, like nothing happened and what's up?
Speaker 1: Like I want to test. I used to want to
Speaker 1: talk to them and just ask them like why did
Speaker 1: you do that? Like you was d before Drake. You
Speaker 1: don't have a nothing nothing not that they did, not
Speaker 1: not to try to talk out of it, but to
Speaker 1: actually what did she get out of that? Like I'm curious,
Speaker 1: like going on in your mouth, like like you know exactly,
Speaker 1: like did you come. I fight with the thought of
Speaker 1: having two guys at once. I fight with that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you said that, it's the idea of it, especially when
Speaker 1: I think of too like bombs guys that I've already
Speaker 1: been with that the same time. But I couldn't. I
Speaker 1: could not get myself to go there. I could, but
Speaker 1: you could think about it and get way I think
Speaker 1: about it and getting gorge for sure, But as far
Speaker 1: as like taking that step to let two guys suck
Speaker 1: me at the same time, it's like that, No, I couldn't.
Speaker 1: I couldn't. God, God, knows. I couldn't, she said, knows,
Speaker 1: God knows. Like one guy is enough, Like that's enough?
Speaker 1: What the most girls you've been with at one time
Speaker 1: just too damn he wasn't having like kind of orgies?
Speaker 1: Did you enjoy that? Because some people say that it's
Speaker 1: just too much working, like too much thinking oh where
Speaker 1: am I going to come? No, I enjoyed. I enjoyed it,
Speaker 1: just to say that I did it, Like you, do
Speaker 1: you mean to be able to be like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: did that? Do you feel like whatever woman you're with
Speaker 1: needs to be able to have three somes? Because a
Speaker 1: lot of guys who say, oh, I can't be with
Speaker 1: a girl who doesn't like girls. I mean, I probably
Speaker 1: could be with a chick to like chicks maybe, but
Speaker 1: you know, I'm kind of selfish when one yeah that's
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, she's like, not me. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: I think they wouldn't dabbled in sharing is carrying it.
Speaker 1: But if you were with a girl and she was
Speaker 1: had another girlfriend with that bother, you now, as long
Speaker 1: as long as that other girlfriend is not fucking taking
Speaker 1: us some whales and involving a nigga without me knowing,
Speaker 1: you know, because that's the potential probably like right there,
Speaker 1: like okay, yeah, you gotta now, let's do exactly and
Speaker 1: that's definitely gonna happen probably like she could go on,
Speaker 1: but could she go like on a girl's vacation with
Speaker 1: just her? Like are we going to the Bahamas? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can do it. That's just give me free towns
Speaker 1: two weeks down back. I just feel like the less
Speaker 1: people involved in your sexual relationships to safer they are.
Speaker 1: That's true, you know what I mean, It's very true.
Speaker 1: You're bringing other people into the room, you're bringing in
Speaker 1: their germs and the and they're having their harpies. You understand. Hevy,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us on. I don't
Speaker 1: think he was going to really do it. It wasn't
Speaker 1: so bad. It wasn't bad at all. It wasn't I
Speaker 1: enjoyed it. We don't want you to go home again
Speaker 1: in trouble. We don't like that straight all that was listenings.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you