WEBVTT - Episode 33 Ft. Havoc From Mobb Deep 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:11.560 West Up, It's time for lips every time. Angela. I'm 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:14.720 Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire. Oh man, I never 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:17.760 thought this would happen. Having from my deepest hair with us. 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:22.000 I heard you were nervous and you said we gotta 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:24.439 go light on you. Yeah, you know I had to. 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:26.439 I was gonna research and see you. You know what 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:31.520 you are you're talking about. But the truth, uh, I 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:32.800 mean you know what it is. We have a good 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:34.360 time now. We always had to show up at the 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:37.440 tip of the day a right. So today's tip is 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.879 how to make the best sex tape ever. I know 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:42.559 you can give us some tips on things you need 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.320 to do to make a great sex tape, some tips 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:50.440 on how you gotta know how to hold the phone. Angles. Angles, 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.320 angles are great, Yeah, I think, um, to make a 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.080 good sex tape, you should switch it around. You know, 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:59.680 sometimes you should hold the phone. Sometimes he shall hold 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.960 the phone on. That makes a really good one. So 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:04.080 you can't just put a stable and like and that's right, 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:06.520 And that's what I was gonna say. Next, a stabilizer 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:13.399 from a stabilizer. Yeah, and um, like get really close 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:17.200 as close as possible, twig. Yeah, that makes a good 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.759 sex tape. And the A and the guy should shave also, 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:25.360 you think, yes, yeah, like you shouldn't manskap because it 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:29.319 makes your dick look bigger. It's true. Um, I think 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:32.560 that good sex makes a good sex tape. Correct, that's 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:36.080 very true. You gotta show out. That would be my tip. 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.440 Just make it good, you know, with Kim and tape. 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:42.960 With Kim and Rag tape, everybody, Um said it was bad, 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:44.640 but I didn't think. I thought it was good. It 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:46.640 was kind of boring. I'm not gonna lie you think. So. 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.480 Did you watch your habit? I watched some of it. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.320 It was she was a little dull. She was just 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:52.920 laying there and then you know what I don't like. 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:54.720 I don't like when people seem like they're putting on 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:59.000 Like she didn't seem authentically right. She was like it 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.000 seemed like she was you know how say stuff because 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.320 you want to seem like you're doing a sex tape 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.440 and you want to make somebody come me like, oh 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:08.640 my god, suck me hard until you come. It didn't 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:10.799 seem real to me, Like do people really say that 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:14.440 like that? I say these things like that, but she 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.960 didn't seem into it, and then he kept spitting on 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.600 her pussy, so I kept thinking she was dry. Yeah, 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:23.520 that's maybe that was just something that he likes. I 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:25.520 don't know, it seemed dry because I didn't hear no 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:34.320 squish and no macaroni and cheese. I'm saying now and go. 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:36.440 Space was saying, if you're pussy dry, spit on my 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.679 dick and put it in. I mean, yeah, that's what 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:40.880 it is for. But don't you feel like then you 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.840 didn't do your job if you have to spit. No, 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:48.720 not necessarily, because the chick might just be whacked. She 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:51.280 might just be one of those people. Wait, so her 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:54.200 pussy is not wet, so she's whacked. I mean, maybe 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:59.519 you're I mean, I'm definitely not whack because I'm going 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.800 into easy, you know what I'm saying. So if I 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.200 can't get you a roused, but I didn't roll with you. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.920 They always say that there's certain in a relationship. Somebody's 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.240 a giver more than the other person. So you would 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:12.760 say you're more of the giver. Definitely, definitely, you know, 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:15.560 I'll go all out. So we were talking last week 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.840 about four play and how a lot of times guys 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:21.480 don't do enough for play and how important is that. 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:23.160 That's if you don't give a funk about this, you 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:28.480 know what I'm saying. That's that means if you don't care, 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:30.960 wild waste time with full play, if you don't care 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:35.440 about the chick, you know, just sticking in the business. 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:39.080 I think there's different kinds of four play, Like before sex, 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.480 you could do a lot of making out and rubbing 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.760 and things like that with all sucking, you know what 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:47.680 I mean, or spitting right, And I don't think the 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.720 guy necessarily doesn't give a funk about you if he's 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:54.400 doing that. I I mean, if if the guy is like, 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.920 all right, come on, let's go upstairs, take your clothes off, 0:03:57.040 --> 0:04:01.720 all right, call them right there. That's just let's just 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:05.880 get it. And all situations don't call for four play though, 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:07.920 well I agree with that. Yeah, sometimes you're in the 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.720 backroomtime you just want to just get crazy and be like, 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:17.160 you know, it's just right, but you have to be 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:19.719 that that is, the four players have to have happened 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:20.920 some type of way, because when you get to that 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.440 point where you need to get to it, then you 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:28.359 run on the phone text messages that like that something 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.440 stimulated your mind, the once you want to have sad No, 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.440 And that's like, that's what I was saying, Like when 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:36.600 I pull up to the house and I'm weaking already, right, 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:40.960 just what to be a waste of time if you 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:46.400 started trying to suck your toes and yeah, like but 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:50.720 you know she might dry up. But are you a kisser? No? 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:59.000 Not really really no, so you never feel like yeah, 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:01.880 making out of so much. I mean, you know, I'll 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.760 do it, you know what I'm saying, but not willingly. No, willingly. 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:10.200 If you know, then I'll turn it to him. Okay, 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:15.360 that's nice. He adapts to whatever situation. Robert Liquor. Yeah, 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.479 what if she's like, hey, I just need I want 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:22.680 you to suck me in my ass? Then she's getting 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:29.000 all right? Would you do that to somebody that say, 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:30.680 the first time you have sex? Or is that something 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.279 you build up to? I mean, it depends on the person, 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.000 you know what I'm saying. Like, some people, if you 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:36.640 just try to suck them in their ass, they're gonna 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:39.000 look at you like you crazy. I definitely look at 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:48.000 you crazy, Like that's what used to what do you think? 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.520 It's a difference between now and like and back when 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.280 myb deep was you know, when you guys were out 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:54.520 on the road all the time, and I'm sure it 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:58.040 was a lot more private, Like there were times you 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.520 could do things and you have to worry about it 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:01.359 being on the ram, you have to worry about it 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.000 being on Twitter. You don't have to worry about being 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:06.159 on the blogs. And nowadays you feel like you gotta 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:10.000 be careful, super careful, you know what I'm saying, because nowadays, 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.640 like you don't have a chick and bring them over 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:15.360 your crib and you think they're using the bathroom. They's 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:21.159 sucking taking pictures right Snapchat, you go to the kitchen 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:24.160 and now they got pictures in your bedroom. Is just crazy. 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:27.359 So you don't got no defense after that, questions do 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:31.920 you take take their phone? Oh god, oh my god. 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:34.800 But you see, that's why you shouldn't be messing with 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.080 girls that you gotta worry about things. Like some people 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:41.800 bring but some people that you think that you know 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:45.039 that you like cool and you build a report with them. 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:49.600 Some people can really you and they'd be fucking psycho, Like, 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.760 holy ship, I had no idea. She was like, you 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.920 had some sychic experiences? Yeah, what's the most psychic thing 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:02.520 a chick. Every dude go on fucking uh Twitter and 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:06.240 post some of my private pictures. Damn like that, like 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:13.360 you'd be sending out dick picks and everything Twitter. I'm 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:17.400 super paradis is out there is out there. Dick picks 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:20.840 aren't that interesting anyway, not at all. But when you 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.960 have a girlfriend is bad. You don't put your face 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:25.800 in it. Yeah, no, no face, no case. But when 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:29.440 it's your girlfriend, your girlfriend knows your bathroom floor, she 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:34.320 knows you, she knows your dick. Yeah, you know. I'm 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.920 talking a live be dying for my Buddha sent me 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:39.960 a dick pick, Jesus, I don't. I'm dick The mail 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:44.120 he sent me dicking to me. He didn't send me 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.480 a sick pick, but he sent me like a bol 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:54.600 he sent thee yeah, like his boxers. And I'm just dying, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:58.480 like like just just just send it, just sending it. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.239 Because a guy sent out a pick, I'm not gonna 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:03.720 ask for it. Let's keep it real, dicks, Like, can 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:06.960 you tell that's my man's dick if you get a picture, 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.880 I mean if it was a guy, yeah, somebody that 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.640 I'll been with, and let's he has like a very 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:16.360 like noticeable birthmark or a certain type of I'm not 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.000 gonna know, I'm gonna I would know, I would know, 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:22.440 I would know, I could, I could tell dicks apart, 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:27.400 you think you can identify your man's dick in a 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:31.440 dick lineup, especially the yes, guys that I've been in 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:35.200 serious relationships with. It for sure, not even I don't. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:38.839 You could put guys in the lineup that I've been 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:42.280 with and I'll be like that one, that one, that one, 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:47.960 for sure apart, I'm very up that you can. Thusies 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:51.239 are like faces. They all look different. They have similarities, 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:55.280 but they all look different. What's better? Like people was like, oh, 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.840 she got a fat pussy. I'm always like, what is 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:59.320 a fat pussy? What does that? Why do guys like 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:02.559 fat pussy? Because they look good? They just look good 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:06.920 and they feel like com so cushiony right when your hand. 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:10.000 It's nice. And to have you ever seen a pussy 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:15.960 even like, yes, yeah, of course definitely for sure? What 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:20.400 makes the pussy ugly? Roast beef? Too much roast beef, 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.199 A lot of hanging, a lot of hang time. What 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:27.120 do you think much? As a man, I think pussy 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:32.360 looked pretty in general like but like in my in 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:35.640 my definition, pussy has like way too much hang time 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:39.400 and like ys and maybe like um hair bumps. Maybe 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:42.840 some guys like or too much hair or not the 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.600 right you know, just hair bothering? You? Are you old school? 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.439 You don't mind a little puff, but it got a 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:55.560 smell clean, can smell like piss, like pussy out of here. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:10:00.960 You don't want pussy? Oh my god? Have you Have 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:02.520 you ever woke up next to you because I know 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:05.160 you had some fun times when you were younger and 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:08.800 not even remember ship. No, I never did that really 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:10.400 and been like damn, how did she get in here? 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:14.040 I never did that. Have you ever sucked somebody and 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.480 regretted it and been like, damn, she's terrible looking in 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:23.120 the light. No, you're lying. Yeah, I don't regret, like 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:24.800 you know what I'm saying. Like if I did, I'm like, 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:26.920 You're never just gonna do it again. You never had 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:28.760 to sneak a chick past your friends like, oh man, 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:42.120 I don't want to see Definitely, definitely, definitely like let 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:47.400 me get whatever. Have you ever been so fucked up 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:54.640 that you couldn't get hard? Damn? Don't lie because you Yeah, 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:59.880 so you had stuff you couldn't get hard. I've been nervous. 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:03.120 You've been nervous to the point where, like I probably 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:06.319 what would make you nervous about somebody? I know guys 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:10.120 getting nervous. I mean just like if he went somebody 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:12.520 for the first time and you just you want to go, 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:17.800 You're nervous, like, damn, I gotta get busy, I gotta 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.800 show out so much. Just be nervous. I've had guys 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:22.719 um for the first time have sex to me and 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:24.840 I could tell they're nervous, like the shake it and 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:31.280 they're like, damn, so that really I've had guys, Yes, 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.880 I don't think I've had that experience. You just don't know, 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:37.360 because he would say he played it off. But I've 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:39.319 had guys that they finally get to sleep with me 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:41.480 and they're like, I can't believe this, this is soul. 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:45.120 I can't believe this is happening now. Stephanie, you were 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:47.760 telling me about somebody that you know that hit you 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:51.400 up and they were asking you about dating. They've never 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.120 been in a relationship. Yeah, somebody hit me in the 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.480 d M and he said that he never had a 0:11:56.480 --> 0:12:00.480 girlfriend before, and he's just wondering how a woman would 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:04.120 feel about dating someone that's never had a girlfriend they have. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.080 How old were you when you had your first real 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:09.320 girlfriend slash relationship? Because I feel like a lot of 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:12.679 guys they've dated and they fun girls, you know, but 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:15.920 they don't consider somebody their girlfriend. And that's a whole 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.679 another level. How old were you are you say when 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:24.000 you were in your first real relationship? Damn nice? I 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:25.640 mean you know, that's the hood. You know what I 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.080 mean in the hood. You know what I'm saying. You 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:30.840 hook up with somebody. Yeah, but I mean like a relationship, like, hey, 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:32.840 that was a real relationship, Like I used to spend 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:38.160 a night in a crib atten good lord? So you 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.840 how were you when you lust your frativity? You don't 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:48.040 want to know that were you? So I would assume 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:49.960 it was an older girl. Was she aversion too? She 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:56.280 probably was like sixteen? It's illegal. Wow? What was your 0:12:56.280 --> 0:13:01.199 first time? Like? It was fun? You know what you 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.040 were doing and not. I definitely didn't know what I 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:07.160 was doing, but you enjoyed it and I got that 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.400 little tinkly special feelings, so I know, so it was 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:12.959 going on. He probably lasted like two seconds five Do 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:14.719 you only do it one time and that was it 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:18.960 na every summer after that, every summer because it was 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.600 because I was in Kimp. It was like a sleepaway kid. 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.959 She must have been like a counselor somebody give him 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:28.360 some paper so we get spit his gum out. We 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:29.800 can you know we could hear that and the like 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:36.280 he's holding it in his hand all right now, How 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.160 aggressive do you think um a guy should be? We 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:42.160 were talking about this earlier, right, and Stephanie likes her 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:45.240 men aggressive. I do, they like my matter, But what 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.360 do you mean aggressive? Like when their first meeting you, Like, 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.000 you know, when their first meeting you, because you know 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:52.560 they always say that persistence overcomes and sometimes you don't 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.520 want to date somebody, but you end up like doing 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:58.240 it because they're so aggressive. Like a guy will never 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:01.480 hear from me if he's not aggressive with the calling 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.840 me or texting me, because I'm not even if I 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:05.400 like you a lot, I'm not going to reach out 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:09.199 because I don't like rejection. What do you think I 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:13.679 think that um aggressiveness can be a guest, a gift 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.080 or a curse. It can help you and or it 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.040 can hurt you. It just all depends on the situation 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:20.640 and the whole um. There is a such thing as 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.040 being too aggressive to the point where it's creepy and 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:31.080 you're like what right? Or aggressive can be like oh 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:34.680 and that night when you're actually lonely and like all right, 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:36.520 let me hit this guy up. Yeah, the one that's 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.520 been trying, let me finally give him a chance. So yeah, well, 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.120 what do you think? How persistent? How aggressive are you 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:45.840 when it comes to dating? I'm pretty aggressive, you know 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.680 what I'm saying. I'm really aggressive, because I mean, you 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:50.360 got to show the other person that you want to 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:56.840 funk with him. You don't get fat to relax, I'm saying, mouth. Yeah, 0:14:56.880 --> 0:15:00.640 Like routinely, I curve. I curve even if if I'm interested. 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:03.880 I curve at first, like just to see where it 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:05.240 has had it out. Because if I curve you the 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.040 first time and you're just like all right, whatever, you 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:09.280 don't really want that, it's like you don't really you're 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:12.360 not really trying, you know that. But if I curb 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.120 you and you're like, no, no, you can't, you can't 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:19.640 curb me, No, it's like I can't because we don't 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:21.960 want to act like we just did it like so easily. 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:28.720 You know, challenge though, right, definitely, definitely because there's no 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:31.840 challenge at first. I think she's doing this with everybody 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:35.080 pretty much. But does it matter to you? Yeah? It 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:37.960 madness because what if you starting and start liking the person, 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.000 You're gonna hold that against them for the rest of 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:44.360 the relationship that they were so easy, right, Yeah, But 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.120 they always say that sometimes you can meet somebody and 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:51.480 hit it off right away, and what does she one 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:53.840 of the homies back in the day, Does that matter 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:58.400 because it seems like the circles are so small it 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.800 doesn't really matter one of the homies or just somebody, 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:05.840 you know. If it's just somebody I know, then't don't matter, right, 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:10.520 But if he it depends on It depends on how 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:13.400 the homie treated up right, right, you know what I'm saying, 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:16.040 Like if he was treating up like a piece of 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.960 ship and really don't give a funk about it and 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:26.520 he expresses that yeah, face daily. Honestly, if a woman 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:30.040 got treated by that like that by anybody, they should 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:33.720 not go next to the circle because the circle knows circle. 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:38.280 But strange ship happens. Man, you fall in love. Sometimes 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:41.040 they just change that. People change the girl up too, 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:42.720 because you were kind of I'm sure you were kind 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:44.920 of a slime ball as well, so she got to 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:48.240 forgive you as well. I wouldn't say I was a 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.440 slam boy, but you were a rapper or you are 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:57.680 a rapper. I'm sorry, but I'm one of the good guys. 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:00.520 This guy all right? Now, what if the first time 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:02.280 you have sex with somebody is whack? Do they get 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.240 a second chance? Yeah, they get a second chance because 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.560 they could have been nervous. Right, do you ever feel 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:12.000 like you've been whack? Probably? Do you know right away? 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:13.879 Like how you know you'd be like, oh that versus terrible? 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.840 Do you know right away? Like because after you to 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.120 the bathroom and just be like you gotta cop of plea? 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:24.000 What do you say? I don't say. I was about 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:26.639 to say usually they don't see anything they said. I 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:31.920 just want to explain what happened when my sex is whack. 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:35.600 I'm like, listen, we gotta do it again? How can 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:37.960 a girl have whack sex? Though? Can not? But there's 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:41.160 just there. Yeah, there's some times like you just don't 0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:46.320 like you just you just not it. It's just not there. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:49.160 It's just distracted. I can't say that I'll be even 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.080 on wach sex in the past couple of years, but 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:54.480 I know the best of us for sure. Why what 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:57.760 was whack about it? I slept with this one guy 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:01.240 a couple of years ago, and um, we were drunk. 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:05.200 We were so drunk, and just nothing was working. Nothing 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:08.359 was working, like like the liquor, like having me a 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:12.240 little dried up. And then like we like kept hitting 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:17.160 our heads have bared like it was just bad, bad, 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:19.840 but we we tried again. It was It was a 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:23.240 lot better the last few times, right, for sure. Yeah. 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:24.760 One of my friends were telling me she had sex 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:27.240 with this guy was terrible the first time they had sex, 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:29.240 and then like a couple of months later she did 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:31.000 it again and she was like, Wow, it's amazing that 0:18:31.040 --> 0:18:33.000 it was so much better. I can't believe, you know, 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:35.359 I didn't know I would ever give him another chance 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:38.800 after that first time, because sometimes you only get one shot. 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:42.000 I was in a serious relationship with somebody who the 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:44.639 first time we had sex it was awful. It was 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:48.000 so bad. He had to suck me like seven times 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:52.119 for me to be sad and side God in the 0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:54.800 same night. It was like seven times, and it was 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:58.720 just so bad and I curved him for three years 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:05.560 after that, and we still friends, and I kind of 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:07.320 will be like like, he will trying to be like, what, 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:09.120 so can we hang out tonight? And I'll be like, 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:12.800 my mother's calling me. I'll call you back, if you 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:15.399 know what I mean. But then we ended up the 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:18.760 next time around. It was good, all right. Now, let's 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:22.000 get some questions off at the Instagram. How do you 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.480 deal with a long distance relationship where you can't see 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:27.960 the distance ever being removed and you are both a 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:30.280 different paths in terms of marriage and kids, but you've 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:32.360 been together for more than seven years, so it's hard 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:36.399 to let go. Let go and be friends. You just 0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:39.880 gotta see each of them more often. I don't see 0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:42.879 why it's impossible if you're in a long distance relationship 0:19:42.920 --> 0:19:45.480 and you'll decide you want to be together, what's impossible? Right? 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:49.440 Like why can't somebody move? Yeah, the other person could move, 0:19:50.440 --> 0:19:55.240 or you can't get another person somebody. I was in 0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:58.000 a long distance relationship and I'll eventually moved. Yeah, somebody 0:19:58.000 --> 0:20:00.080 gotta move, that's it, or it's not gonna work and 0:20:00.080 --> 0:20:02.480 I didn't plan on moving, Or what about when you're 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:05.760 dating like an athlete and he doesn't play in the 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:11.000 same city that you're you're in. No, this is not personal, 0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:13.680 but I'm just saying you have to And if you're 0:20:14.760 --> 0:20:16.639 a year for that person and you guys care for 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.040 each other and it's genuine, then you have to adapt 0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:21.280 to your situation. I had to make it work. Yeah, 0:20:21.320 --> 0:20:23.600 I think that you could make it work. Which is, well, 0:20:23.760 --> 0:20:27.520 he's on the road a lot. He ain't gonna playing exactly, 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:35.040 he ain't gonna forever. Out somewhere I heard was it 0:20:35.080 --> 0:20:36.920 for you to maintain a relationship being on the road 0:20:36.960 --> 0:20:39.480 all the time? Right? It was? It was kind of 0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:43.120 hard because you know, when you're in the music industry, 0:20:43.760 --> 0:20:48.360 people don't trust you, you know what, smad girl. So 0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:50.280 do you think a woman has to be like, Okay, 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:52.400 I have to understand what he does and every now 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:55.440 and then she got to know what she's sawn it 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:57.800 up for, you know what I mean? Like, come on, 0:20:57.920 --> 0:21:00.720 you know, I mean not just rapping, but you know, 0:21:00.960 --> 0:21:05.199 entertaining sports figures. You know, anybody travels, And yeah, I 0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:08.440 think he gets he should get a couple of passes. Damn, 0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:11.080 what about can she get some passes? Yeah, she could 0:21:11.080 --> 0:21:15.840 get That's what I last week that most guys wouldn't 0:21:15.840 --> 0:21:18.040 say that, But that's what I was saying last week. 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:21.399 You know, Um, for for God to date me, he 0:21:21.440 --> 0:21:23.600 needs to understand my lifestyle that there I might there 0:21:23.680 --> 0:21:26.080 mayn't be times that I'm traveling a lot. There there 0:21:26.119 --> 0:21:28.239 might be times that I have to be out a 0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:30.840 lot in the nighttime. You know, like you have to 0:21:31.119 --> 0:21:35.080 just understand that to be in a relationship, even just 0:21:35.200 --> 0:21:38.080 dating me, like not even a serious relationship, would you 0:21:38.119 --> 0:21:39.800 rather be with the girl who's in the spotlight or 0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:43.000 somebody that nobody knows it's low key? Somebody that's low key. 0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:46.320 Of course, that's just the way I'm just like sometime 0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:50.160 it's fun to have like that power couple that I mean, 0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:53.520 you know, either or for me, but I would prefer 0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:56.160 somebody low key. I used to say that I prefer 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:59.240 somebody low key, but right now, at this point in 0:21:59.280 --> 0:22:03.320 my life, I would prefer to date somebody dot and understand. 0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:07.440 You not understand my lifestyle. Who understands that there's groupies 0:22:07.480 --> 0:22:09.879 as male groups, says film group bees. You know what 0:22:09.920 --> 0:22:12.760 I mean? All right, Listen, everybody, a male group is 0:22:12.760 --> 0:22:17.080 probably worse than female groups, even for guys like yes, yes, 0:22:17.320 --> 0:22:18.920 they want to smoke with you, they want to be 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:21.280 out with you, they want to call you, they want 0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:26.280 to tell everybody you they big bro. Al right now. 0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:29.160 Healthy need had a question on Instagram. Um he was saying, 0:22:29.200 --> 0:22:31.119