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Speaker 1: thought this would happen. Having from my deepest hair with us.

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Speaker 1: I heard you were nervous and you said we gotta

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Speaker 1: I was gonna research and see you. You know what

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Speaker 1: tip of the day a right. So today's tip is

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Speaker 1: how to make the best sex tape ever. I know

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Speaker 1: you can give us some tips on things you need

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Speaker 1: to do to make a great sex tape, some tips

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Speaker 1: on how you gotta know how to hold the phone. Angles. Angles,

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Speaker 1: angles are great, Yeah, I think, um, to make a

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Speaker 1: sometimes you should hold the phone. Sometimes he shall hold

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Speaker 1: from a stabilizer. Yeah, and um, like get really close

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Speaker 1: as close as possible, twig. Yeah, that makes a good

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Speaker 1: sex tape. And the A and the guy should shave also,

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Speaker 1: you think, yes, yeah, like you shouldn't manskap because it

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Speaker 1: makes your dick look bigger. It's true. Um, I think

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Speaker 1: that good sex makes a good sex tape. Correct, that's

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Speaker 1: very true. You gotta show out. That would be my tip.

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Speaker 1: Just make it good, you know, with Kim and tape.

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Speaker 1: With Kim and Rag tape, everybody, Um said it was bad,

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Speaker 1: Did you watch your habit? I watched some of it.

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Speaker 1: It was she was a little dull. She was just

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Speaker 1: They always say that there's certain in a relationship. Somebody's

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Speaker 1: But you see, that's why you shouldn't be messing with

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Speaker 1: to let go. Let go and be friends. You just

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Speaker 1: I didn't plan on moving, Or what about when you're

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Speaker 1: get That's what I last week that most guys wouldn't

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Speaker 1: That's a long blow job. You don't relax, don't go

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Speaker 1: know you can have like they're like you. Because I

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Speaker 1: just sell little guys like guys like when you start

424
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,719
Speaker 1: slow and then build it, build it up, you know

425
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: what I mean. That's patient and you can't leave the

426
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: balls out. You have to get the ball from immediate thing.

427
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 1: Some guys are ball people and some guys. Yeah, some

428
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: guys don't want you to touch the balls. That's because

429
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: they're too sensitive, because they're crazy. But what's your balls

430
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 1: like having? They can touch you can touch you, but

431
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: don't be Yeah, miss texticles are like Faberge eggs. You

432
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: gotta treat help, be careful, and you know, you could

433
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: go a little harder on the dick than the balls, don't.

434
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: It's not the same. That's just saying because the last

435
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: clip service that we did before with Miles, he was

436
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: saying that guys like to have their balls like kind

437
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: of I mean, not their balls there, I'm dick kind

438
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: of rough, right, and they like to be nibbled on sometimes.

439
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: He said that true, because I don't know if that's true.

440
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: It depends on the person. Everybody likes what they like,

441
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: a little nibbling, a little Yeah, depends on the person.

442
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: What do you like if you feel teeth? How do

443
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: you feel about that? He was like, that's cool, really not,

444
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: it's always taught, you know, no teeth, not through the

445
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: whole motion. But give me your hand right when you

446
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: come in your mouth, and then you can kind of

447
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: like with your teeth a little like greeves a little,

448
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: a little graze. Yeah, I think that's never was about

449
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 1: to put my hand in her, my hand, like, give

450
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: me your hands. We got farm. But you don't go

451
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: that far all right now. Another question that we had

452
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: that people were asking was about would you be with

453
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: a woman who didn't give head at all? She's childish? Yeah,

454
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't last long, really long. A man needs need. No,

455
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: that was that important. Yes, sorry, it's it's a call

456
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: to the whole situation. Yeah, what period. He just don't

457
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: get n exactly. He gets a hand, jaw handed maybe

458
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: ain't know what if she does, ain't know, and then

459
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: she get a gold star. But you still got something

460
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: to be at the choose between antal and oral both.

461
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: You have to pick one or the other. I guess

462
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: you know I like to do the access, so give

463
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: me then I'll take it. Okay, so't it's greater than oral? Okay,

464
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: Now Nadine gets said, who gets up for the rag?

465
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: That's the question. Who is for the rag? Whose house

466
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: is it? Yet? No matter whose it is, the man

467
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: got to get up for the rag, sweethead. All right,

468
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: the man gets up for the reg I think, let

469
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: me stop getting up because I know, does you know

470
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: I get a rag? Make a sandwird? You get a drag? Baby?

471
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: I mean, when it's in my house and the guy's

472
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: guests in my house and he's not really used to

473
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: being there, I'm gonna be like, babe, you want some water,

474
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: let me get you a rag. Right. But otherwise, you know,

475
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: if it's somebody yours, if it's his house, what if

476
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: you're at a hotel. If you're in a hotel, he

477
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: gets it, you gotta go get it and make sure

478
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: that what did make that don't come back with no

479
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: yeah I did is disrespect and if if he did

480
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: his job right, your dad in the battlem you can't

481
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: get out. That's when he who sleeps in the wet spot.

482
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: All right. Now here's another question from Elsie musician. How much,

483
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,959
Speaker 1: if any, difference in attraction and status did we choose

484
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: the cute person with less over the beautiful physical person

485
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: with status who has twisted motives? So what's more important

486
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: to you somebody that is um good looking but doesn't

487
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: have a lot, or somebody who is who has a

488
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of status and everything, but doesn't

489
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: look that good but he has bad motives, so it

490
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: doesn't even matter if he looks good. All right, listen,

491
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: good looking but doesn't have a lot or a status,

492
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: but not that good looking. I'm not really a look

493
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: type of person. I think that my looks are good

494
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: enough to compliment us in anyway. So I'm gonna go

495
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: with the person that got to going on versus the

496
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: person that look good. Okay, your attraction is more about

497
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: what's got he's got it going on. That's more attractive

498
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: somebody that is successful, because then you can learn from

499
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:44,479
Speaker 1: that person. You know what I'm saying. But are you going?

500
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: You can always? You can always, you can always buff

501
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: them rough edges. And you know, y'all know what money

502
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: do to people? Would make them look better. You can

503
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: always foush, you always buff them rough. I didn't feel

504
00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: about having a public relationship like posting your women on Instagram, AM,

505
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: and I don't do it. I'm not into that. I

506
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: don't do it because because it's like a million haters

507
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: out there, people jumping out the woodwork. As soon as

508
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: you post your girlfriend up, yeah everybody. What if she's like,

509
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: why you don't want to post me? Yeah? And I'm

510
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: gonna tell why. It's like, because do you want this

511
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: relationship to last or don't you? As soon as I

512
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: post your pictures, you know it's over after that, Like

513
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: it's tag me what about taking her out to the

514
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: club and stuff like that? And I'll do that all day. Man,

515
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: You're just not gonna put no pictures on anything, pictures

516
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: because you're supposed to keep your relationship private. In order

517
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: for it to work, you got to give it a

518
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: fighting chance. At least get five years in before you

519
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: start posting program. At least I agree with that. You know,

520
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: I was public about my last relationship and I regret it.

521
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: I totally regret it. I totally regretted. It was an

522
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: embarrassing fund up situation. But do you think if he

523
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: was the right guy, maybe it would have been on

524
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: that wasn't really the right But I still I fee

525
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: like we we have waited to do that. I feel

526
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: like you should give it at least a year ever

527
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: sale foundation, Like let us be exactly where if if

528
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: we get any any negative reaction from people, we could

529
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: just look at each other and be like, whatever, baby,

530
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: we knew that was gonna happen. Yeah, that was my

531
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: That's kind of leading into my question, like what if

532
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: there's a marriage involved, like not relationship. You guys are

533
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: married and I didn't want to post the wife for

534
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: vice versa are married with kids and and don't post

535
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: that ship at all and nobody knows. Is that weird?

536
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: That's smart? That's smart because nobody's in your business. I mean,

537
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: when you have a family and kids and everything, that's

538
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how you can hide it,

539
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: but you don't. I don't feel like, but if a

540
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,479
Speaker 1: woman don't you feel offended, like damn, let these bitches

541
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: know you have a Yeah, but if you're confident in

542
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: your relationship, you don't need no post. What I'm saying like,

543
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: you with your relationship, you don't need a post to

544
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: put the standpoint. Like when I'm dating somebody and they're like, oh,

545
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: you don't never post me up on your Instagram, I'm like,

546
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: all right, this relationship is over. Now. What if you're

547
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: dating somebody and you're dating somebody else, do you tell

548
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: them what? And so if you're dating to people and

549
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: you are you just with me or are you dating

550
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: other people? What do you say? It depends on the

551
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: type of relationship you have with that person. Like if

552
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: you're trying to build something with the person, no, don't

553
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: tell them you're sucking somebody else. But what if they

554
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: find you don't believe? I think you should be honest

555
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: from the gate because then you know, down the line,

556
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: they'll they'll love you for that. Because listen now, having

557
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: if you were dating a girl and she told you, okay,

558
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: you know, but we're not in a relationship and yes

559
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: I am dating somebody else, does that make you feel

560
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: like I don't want to sunk with her anymore? Doesn't

561
00:31:55,040 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: make you feel like, damn, I gotta try to win her. Yeah?

562
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: You want her? Yeah? And then plus you respect the honesty.

563
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, So you know, down the line,

564
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: everything is about honesty and transparency open book. So if

565
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: she asked you, and she asked me, and you would

566
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 1: be like, well, yeah, I'm dating other people. I'm gonna

567
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: tell the truth. Like what does she ask you specifics?

568
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: Do you get into specifics? So you know, I'm not

569
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: going to get into specific So last night when I

570
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: try to call you and you didn't answer the phone, well,

571
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: I was sleep, I was sleep. I'm not gonna lie.

572
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: I'll tell the truth. I told you be like, well

573
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: I was sucking somebody else. I'm not gonna say I'm

574
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: not gonna say fucking, but I'm just gonna be like

575
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: I was chilling with somebody. I'm not going to rub

576
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: it in their face and be like, yeah, you know,

577
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: I was sucking somebody. What makes your side to settle

578
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: down with someone? What makes you decide to settle down,

579
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: Like what makes you decide it has to be the person,

580
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: Like if they that that person that fulfills your needs

581
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: and they fulfill every aspect you know that you need,

582
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: like you know, cooking and on your side, trying to

583
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: build you up your back bone, and somebody that you

584
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: don't want to let go, you have to settle down

585
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: with him. So you have to Stephanie, what was you

586
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: gonna say? Where was I We were talking about dating

587
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: two different people and the competition aspect of it. I

588
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: just feel like if a guy tells me like, yeah,

589
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm sucking you and I'm sucking somebody else, it's more

590
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: like for me, it's like I'm not good enough for you,

591
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: like like you're bugging. I don't even want to focus

592
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: you no more. Let me tell you something that just

593
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: happened one of my friends, and I want to see

594
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: what you think because we had this debate about it. Okay,

595
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: So she met this guy, she started dating him, and

596
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: then he told her that he had met a female

597
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 1: before they met. She lives in another country and she

598
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: was she was coming to visit but he didn't want

599
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: to can but this this was before he met her,

600
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: before he met my friend. And then he said he

601
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: had a girl coming to visit. He wasn't going to

602
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: cancel her trip, but he was just giving her heads out,

603
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: just say, you know, this girl is coming to visit.

604
00:33:55,440 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: This is before you have a friend. Really, she to

605
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: stay in his house. She was staying with him and everything,

606
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: and it was something that was pre playing. He was like,

607
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: I can't make her cancer. The trip girl was coming

608
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: from Hawaii and she had started dating this guy and

609
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 1: he had a girl coming in from Hawaii and he

610
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: told her, like, I have this friend that lives in

611
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: Hawaii and we planned a month ago for her too,

612
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: and she had probably been seeing for about two weeks

613
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: and he was like, a month ago, we planned for

614
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: her to come visit, and she's coming this week and

615
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: she's staying with me. That happened to my friend. But

616
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, I appreciate your honesty. This is

617
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: something that happened before me. What is he supposed to

618
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 1: do for me? It's like, listen, I don't I'm not

619
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: asking to counselor trip, but book her hotel and that's it.

620
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: If you're gonna make a girl, she can't stay in

621
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: your house and or you should like, I don't want

622
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: to know that that's not your man. If it's not

623
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 1: my man, it's like, no, no, it's a turn off.

624
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: I'll probably stopped working with him. She did, Yeah, exactly,

625
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: I'll stop working. He was like, you can have that

626
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: and when you're done with and I just feel like

627
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: there's so many men in the world you don't have

628
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: to put up with things like that. You know, That's

629
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: how I feel. What do you think having as a

630
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: man in I want to hear this from a man's

631
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: point of view, because I was like, well, he was honest.

632
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: He told you the truth. He didn't have to. He

633
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: could have just went missing and made up some excuse,

634
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,919
Speaker 1: but he did come to you and tell you the truth.

635
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: This is something that he had planned before he even

636
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: met her, and it is kind of respectable that. Okay,

637
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: I did you know, make these plans with this girl.

638
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to treat her like ships. But at

639
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: the same time, you know, I mean, what does that

640
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: mean he has to cancel the trip? Right? If you

641
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: like the girl, if you like to feel like if

642
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 1: he doesn't cancel the trip, that he still has feelings

643
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: for this girl. If he doesn't cancel the trip, he's

644
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: still and you're and if you're like, oh, I understand,

645
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: you're allowing him to to like somebody else. You're allowing

646
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: him to stay with somebody, get to know somebody for

647
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 1: however many days they're going to be there, and you know,

648
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: so long for them to want them more. But at

649
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: the same time, we haven't even known each other that long.

650
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: But it's promoting a bad habit. Yeah, you know what

651
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Early, I'm like a write bull. How fun.

652
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: Don't call me no more because if you got hurt,

653
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 1: what you need me for exactly? Like one good it

654
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: was nice, But then maybe he'll be like, well, damn,

655
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even tell that real ship. But often that

656
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: happens when you like, yeah, I was honest, and now

657
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: I could have just lied and everything would have been okay.

658
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: She wouldn't never know. That's why people lie because we

659
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: feel like it's easy to hurt you. And if you know,

660
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,320
Speaker 1: you know, if you don't know the truth, then it

661
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: won't hurt you. So people lie. Yeah, but it's always

662
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,800
Speaker 1: going to come to the light anyway. Yeah, better the

663
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 1: truth if the shoes on the other foot. For me

664
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: and I started, I met somebody knew and I had

665
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: and I really liked them. And I had this person

666
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: coming from Europe or wherever they're coming from, and you know,

667
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: I already planned it, but I like this new person. Um,

668
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna cancel it. I'm gonna curve the

669
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: person coming from out of the country because you know what,

670
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: that's not my problem. If you still want to come,

671
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: then you come. But just know that I found somebody

672
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: that I like, so I don't know hand to hang

673
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: out with you. Yeah, because if a chick confronted me

674
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 1: with that, she's gonna have to cancer that trip. And

675
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,439
Speaker 1: if she don't cance for the trip to you don't

676
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: really funk with you like that. Yeah, but it's so

677
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: early in one it's hard to say. But this we

678
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: building the blocks. This is the building foundation. If you

679
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: can't do something dramatic for me right now, you're not

680
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: gonna do something dramatic for me down the line, you know.

681
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: And it's early, like, let me see how you do this,

682
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: and you know what, and if if the guy canceled

683
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: the other girl for me, it shows like he's going

684
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: beyond for me. You know, he's doing extra for me,

685
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: he's doing more. But then at the same time, he

686
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 1: doesn't know where your relationship is headed yet it's still

687
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 1: super early. Yeah, so he just canceled the trip, give

688
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: the other check excuse real quick, what happens? Check? And

689
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: then you know even a bit and come later, she's

690
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: never coming home, right all right, now, let's talk about this.

691
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a email and they said she said

692
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: the guy that she's been dating for the past ten

693
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 1: years has been having her. He told her that his

694
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: child support was seven fifty dollars a month, but she

695
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: found out it's really only a hundred and twenty one

696
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: dollars a month, and every two weeks she's been giving

697
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: him two hundred dollars out of her paycheck to help. Okay, wait,

698
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: why is she giving him money to pay his shold support? Yeah?

699
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: I asked her that and then she emailed me back

700
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: and she said she said they did it over ten

701
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: years and just this past year he's been having some

702
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: financial issues, so I chose to help him. See me

703
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 1: that he never asked me for help before. He took

704
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: advantage of her kindness. But they've been together for ten years,

705
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: so that's nothing to take lightly. No, no, and that's

706
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: a good reason for her to help him. However, he

707
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: should have kept one huney with her on how much

708
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: it was. Once he inflated the price of with the

709
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: with the child support was then he was betraying her

710
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: and taking only a hundred seven dollars that you know,

711
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: child child support goes by what you make. If you

712
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: don't make nothing, you're only going to pay a buck.

713
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 1: Would you ever ask a woman for help or with

714
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: that being her for for your pride? Never would I

715
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 1: ask so for help, not for money at least would

716
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: you feel weird if a guy asked you for some

717
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 1: money for some help, even if it's somebody, that's something, Um,

718
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: it has happened to me, and I don't let them

719
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 1: live it down. I know I might be a as

720
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: soon as we got to argument. You forgot you all

721
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: me a thousand dollars. I don't even let it. Yeah,

722
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 1: and I just feel like, um, me myself as a woman,

723
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: I don't even really feel comfortable with guys doing a

724
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: lot for me because I've had guys do a lot

725
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: for me, and they always, oh, if it wasn't for me,

726
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: you would to have this, If it wasn't for me,

727
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have got that. I don't like that, so

728
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really let guys do too much

729
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: for me. I'll accept the gift here and there and

730
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: things like that at a trip blah blah blah. But

731
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: as far as the guy like paying my bills and

732
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: doing things for me, nah, you said you don't let

733
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: a girl even pay for dinner. It's hard for me.

734
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying because I like to take

735
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 1: care of people. So like if I'm at dinner or

736
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: something like that, and you know the woman wants to pay,

737
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: I really don't. What if she wants some need some

738
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: money for something. What if she's like, oh, you know,

739
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: I'm having some problems and I can't pay my rent.

740
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: I hope somebody, Oh that's nice, not now ges. What

741
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: if a guy asked you for some money, girl boy,

742
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: but it's somebody that you love, they've had some hard

743
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: times as of late. What g why are you looking

744
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: at me? I just roll my eyes so hard. First

745
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: of all, not to discredit any man and where they

746
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: are in life or what they're doing, but just me

747
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: personal and where I am in life and what I'm doing.

748
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: I'm not going to put myself in the predicament to

749
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: be around or be with somebody that's gonna need me financially,

750
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: because even if you are going through hard time. First

751
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: of all, I deal with grown man. I don't deal

752
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: with children. So a grown man has something to fall

753
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: back on. A grown man has saved, a grown man

754
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 1: has invested. A grown man has put those blocks in

755
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: order to wears the when he has a bad day

756
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: where he has a bad time. Nobody knows it because

757
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: he has something to fall back on. If you like, well,

758
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: I just put a house. I spend all my money

759
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: doing the down payment to do this is and that

760
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: I just needed, you know, a couple of g This

761
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: is where I come from. And I don't know if

762
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: this is I don't know if this is just you

763
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: know how I was taught, um, you know, and as

764
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,399
Speaker 1: a young adult. But when it comes time to make

765
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: a significant financial purchase, you cannot spend your all on

766
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: that significant financial person. You should have enough to make

767
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:29,479
Speaker 1: that significant financial purchase and have the same amounts still

768
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: in savings or still at least at least close to

769
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: the same all done. Now, I'm not gonna lie, but

770
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: my house I had to put down. Your house is

771
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: one point a lot of money I ain't have shipped

772
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: for a little while. Yeah, sometimes you make those sacrifices. Yeah,

773
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 1: but you're not a man. You're a woman. You're a woman.

774
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: Here's that catch twenty two. It's different for a woman

775
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: than it is for a man. The same way a

776
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: nigga to go out and sling his dick all over

777
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: the United States and he's the man. But if I

778
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: post think my pussy across Texas, I'm a hoe. Then

779
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: if he went and spent his money on everything, on

780
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: his home and everything and he don't have nothing else

781
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: to back that up, if he down for three months,

782
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: nah nab. I mean for me, I'm very independent, you know,

783
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: I do everything for myself. But I'm very generous, you know,

784
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: I um, I give, you know, I give what iut

785
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: asking i'd like to buy my guy, and I agree

786
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 1: definitely guy. As far as a guy like asking me like, hey,

787
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: can you help me pay my rent as more? It

788
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: just sound crazy. And I also felt like you should

789
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: have some other people you could ask because I never

790
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: had to ask him in like where's your homies? Where's

791
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: your homies? That your father? But what if like he

792
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: has family members that he had to help out and

793
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 1: it was extraordinary? Said, if it was an extreme case

794
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: and I had it and I really did this ship, listen,

795
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 1: if it was a stream case and I had it

796
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: and I really could be there to help him, then yes,

797
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: but I gotta pay a hospital bright. But but if

798
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: it's just some bullshit, then no, because you should be

799
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: able to cover the bullshit. You should have something on

800
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: the back burner for the bullshit. Yes and listen, jay

801
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: Z said it. Most chains is cool the cop, but

802
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: more important it's lawyer fees. You can't be out here

803
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: spending your money on frivolous bullshit and then when some

804
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: real ship come up, you're looking crazy. And as a

805
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: man mistakes, that's true, but as a man, a grown

806
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: as man ship be able to handle that having Like

807
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: I had to ask my girlfrin, people ship happens, and

808
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: people just make mistakes, especially financial mistakes. We all had.

809
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: I've made financial mistakes. We've all made financial mistakes. Girl. However,

810
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: there's that catch two. A man is supposed to have

811
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: his ship together financially, and a woman is not supposed

812
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: to be a home That's all right, So I have

813
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. If we're talking about money

814
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: and all of that, what's the best gift you ever

815
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 1: bought a woman? The best gift for ever board a woman?

816
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 1: I would have to say a call d D Daddy.

817
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: That's good, that's great. That it BMW. Yeah, that's nice,

818
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 1: that's nice. That by my own BMW just now for

819
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: my birthday myself. A BMW is a brand new one

820
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: because you had one. That's clear, that one got ready,

821
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: that one got a new one birth say, that's an investment. Yeah,

822
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: it's definitely seen it. That's an investment into your future. Though,

823
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 1: I would assume, like if you buy a woman a car,

824
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,919
Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, we're gonna be together fever for sure.

825
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: I mean not forever. But you know we don't be

826
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: together this weekend. You're gonna drive me around the d

827
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: have other niggas in the car. You know what if

828
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: you women to car you that's for a ride from

829
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,919
Speaker 1: the airport and she say, nae, that's why you gotta

830
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 1: keep the call your name just joking, I'll just joking.

831
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: But she will have some you did put it in

832
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: her name, Noah, for sure. You said she'll have some issues.

833
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: She don't have some missages. She don't pick me up

834
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: for the motherfucker. Import Like they're still hard not to

835
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: be paid. They could not be paid, they could get repoked.

836
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: How honest are you with women when they ask you

837
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: about like you know, things about your past and all

838
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: of that. Are you a bedroom talker? You know how

839
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: you lay down in the bed and they're like, you know,

840
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: with guys, they tell you all they ship while they

841
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: lay down with you laid up, man, you'd be like, man,

842
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 1: I hate prodigy. Man, oh I don't, I don't. I don't.

843
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 1: I don't do that. You know what I'm saying that

844
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: I definitely don't. You know. As far as talk, we

845
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 1: could talk about like, you know, excelling, you know what

846
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 1: I mean, and achieving more, but I won't talk about

847
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: my personal business too much to just anybody that I'm

848
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: laying in the bed with. How hard is it for

849
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: you to trust somebody? It's really hard, you know that.

850
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: It's like it's super hard because people have arterial motives,

851
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: you know, so you know, you might tell somebody something

852
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: and next thing, you know, like Tony, other people know

853
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's just crazy. Would you ever write

854
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: a book? Yeah? I was in the process of writing

855
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: a book. You know what happened. I'm still writing it,

856
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's it's going to

857
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: be pretty good. Like what's it? So? Is it like

858
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: a memoirs type of thing? It's just a book just uh,

859
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: describing my you know, my first forty years of life.

860
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: Just do it or not even or some like you

861
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: know mom deep ship. But everything leading up to that

862
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: and then beyond, what are some things about you that

863
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: are going to be in that book that nobody knows

864
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: yet that nobody knows. Uh how much I like art,

865
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: you know, like you know, the paint and draw and

866
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: stuff like that and stuff like that. Now that's a

867
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: nice game. That's a tough for gift to give somebody

868
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: if your day you pedro are artistic in other ways

869
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: than what they're known for. Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so

870
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: that's not surprising. Is that something you feel like you

871
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: can make money off of painting and drawing? Pretty it's

872
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: a hobby, you know what I mean? I know eventually

873
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: if it's would be like, man, I bought this painting

874
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: from hat. You can make so much money, you know,

875
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: we can start a gallery. Are you good? Though, I

876
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,879
Speaker 1: would say, so, we got to see some work. I'll

877
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: show you some work. I'll show you some work, you know,

878
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: because I can say I paint and drawing it shouna

879
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: be wacked. What about? What are some other things and

880
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: what made you decide you should write a book? Because

881
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure proud of you writing his book, which, by

882
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: the way, I enjoy that kind of sparked me off.

883
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: I enjoyed that a lot that that spark that that's

884
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: because I never thought about writing a book. So when

885
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: he wrote a book, I was like, oh, shoot, I

886
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: should write a book, especially because he probably said a

887
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 1: lot of ship about you in there, and you were like,

888
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 1: I gotta refute some of it. Yeah, at first I

889
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: felt like that, but then after a while I was like,

890
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: you know, that's his story, So I mean, I want

891
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: to tell just my story and not have it being

892
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: uh dictated by whoever wrote what, because we all have

893
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: a different story. Like we can all talk about the

894
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 1: way something happened and you'll recall it a different way

895
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: than somebody else would recall it. But you know what

896
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 1: it made his book grad was that I thought like

897
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: he said things about himself that were like kind of

898
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: embarrassing that you wouldn't necessarily want people to know. See, like, oh,

899
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: he gotta be telling the truth if he's going to

900
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: say about coming from the suburbs and you wrote his

901
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: rhymes and stuff like that. Talking about all of that,

902
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: The book was pretty good. It was. It pissed a

903
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,399
Speaker 1: lot of people, but it wouldn't have been a good

904
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: book if it wouldn't have You know, it's supposed to

905
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 1: do that. Are you concerned about pissing people off? Uh?

906
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: Some fifty fifty and fifty fifty. I don't like to

907
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: piss people off, you know. I'm kind of you know, confrontational, right,

908
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: But in order for the book to be good and honest,

909
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: you are going to piss some people off. Sure, you

910
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. The honesty is definitely going to

911
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: piss a couple of people off. All right, Well, we're

912
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: looking forward to that half fire along. Are you with it?

913
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: I'm like ninety percent thing. Oh it's almost done. Yeah. Yeah.

914
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,240
Speaker 1: The name of the book is called The Solid Partner,

915
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: so it's going to be pretty good. Oh ship, you

916
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: think you're the Solid Partner? Yeah, you have some wild time.

917
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: You feel like you lived your life and like you're

918
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: good now. You just everything's calm because listen, you used

919
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: to be out and about in these streets. I'm not

920
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: gonna lie, and I don't want to. I don't want

921
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: to say it. What now I was gonna say Back

922
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 1: in the day, I was young, and I used to

923
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: see him in the tunnel all the time, wilding out.

924
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't even old enough to be in there. Truthfully,

925
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: of course, you weren't, but I used see him in

926
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: the tunnel like every single week. Now where do you go?

927
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: Do you say, Hey, I don't want to even go

928
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: out because too much it be happening. Yeah, I don't.

929
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm like a homebody. I don't go out

930
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: like that much. Only if every once in the blue moon.

931
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because I get enough going

932
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: out when I'm on the road on tour, and you

933
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: have to when you get paid for it. Yeah, I'm

934
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: on tool like ninety percent of the year, so right,

935
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 1: let'skeep it and Stephanie, we don't go out if we

936
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: don't have to. Yeah. No, I don't go out at

937
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: all unless I'm booked. Right, It's like very rare for

938
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: me to go out. You think that's just like one

939
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: of my friend's birthdays or something like that. The clip

940
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: scene is so different now than it used to be.

941
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 1: You think that music like and everything the way it

942
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: is nowadays is um You think like back in the

943
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: nineties was way better. I wouldn't. I wouldn't say it

944
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: was way but it's just different, you know what I'm saying.

945
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,879
Speaker 1: I think the kids are enjoying the music this out

946
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: because we don't have ship like the Palladium, the tunnels.

947
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: We don't have stuff like that anymore. Just suck it up,

948
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: you know what. I don't know how the close scene

949
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: was back in the days, but the music was definitely,

950
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: definitely way better in the nineties. It was more substance,

951
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 1: you know, it's more it was more hip hop. It

952
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: was more of a variation, you know what I mean.

953
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: Now it's just like one sound, right, that's it there

954
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: in New York sound. Now, it's not a New York

955
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: sound all. I don't think a lot of room for it.

956
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: It's not a New York sound. It's just New York artists,

957
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: uh emulated and the sound this out today and sound

958
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 1: making it a little different, but it's still a trap sound.

959
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 1: As far as women, what's city would you say has

960
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: the best women? What city? If you had to say

961
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: this city that women are happening looks definitely giving you

962
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: a dirty look already, Like I have to say Madrid, Madrid.

963
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: He left American as American women, and we're not doing

964
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: it for him. Why Madrid though? Tell us why I've

965
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: been in Madrid one time? Different like white girls they white.

966
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: They seeing Spanish people are white, like that I'm Latino.

967
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 1: You know, I'm I'm Latino. You know what I mean?

968
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: What's still happening about girls in Madrid? That we could

969
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 1: bring some of that here? Mean the yeah, the whole

970
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 1: it is just crazy, you know, the little what do

971
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: you mean he's like to buy like, give it some

972
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: specifics that we know, what are we doing wrong? Here? Friendly?

973
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: A little bit more friendly, you know what I'm saying.

974
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: A little down to earth. Yeah, that's how I feel

975
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: about the Southern man. I feel like the Southern man hospitality. Yeah,

976
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: it's so nice and it's so cool understanding because here

977
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: in New York, you know how y'all do if you

978
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: try to kick it, and I feel like you'd be like,

979
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 1: I feel like the men from New York are like,

980
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: they want you to baby then they want they want

981
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: another mother. They want you to do everything they mom

982
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 1: did New York. New York want to be like, they

983
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: want you to baby them. They want you to go

984
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 1: get the rag, they want you to get the New

985
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: York biggest. I lived in the South for ten years

986
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: and the Southern hospitality is a real thing and a

987
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: good Southern boy. It's amazing. It's a good thing. But

988
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm with a New Yorker now so now, but I

989
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: like the New York because I'm Puerto Rican. You know,

990
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: I like to get abuse. She likes to fight, choke

991
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: me up, not physically, but she likes to argue. I

992
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 1: don't really like you, dude, No, I don't. I haven't

993
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: had to argue, haven't. I have issues with Stephanie where

994
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 1: we'll go someplace and the whole time should be outside

995
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: on the phone arguing, And then now when I sue,

996
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: the end of the argument should be like where the

997
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: fund is? You got right now? I'm coming there. But

998
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: that was when I was in a bad relationship, a

999
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: very bad relationship. I ever had an argument in months?

1000
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: Are you argue? Having? Like? Hey, god, no arguing. I

1001
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,800
Speaker 1: changed the subject so I can't trap you into no

1002
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: damn argument. I try not to get into an argument.

1003
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: I try to switch the subject. You ever got into

1004
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 1: a fight with one of your boys over a chick? Nahas?

1005
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: I definitely never got into a fight with one of

1006
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: my homies because I'd be like, fuck it. I would

1007
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 1: like fun both of them, for both of them have fun.

1008
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: You don't ever have no like competitions like hai, I'm

1009
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: gonna take this girl, because I remember being on the

1010
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: road back in the day, you know, when I was working,

1011
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: and I've seen all kind of crazy ship happened. You

1012
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 1: never had guys be like, Okay, I'm gonna take this

1013
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: girl from his room and oh yeah, they do the robbery.

1014
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: But you know, if you could do that with the

1015
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: the chick is not worth it anyway. That's a fact.

1016
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: You ever was wanting trains and stuff like that, You

1017
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: ever ran a train in the nineties, was running that.

1018
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: I've seen some incredible ship, Like really, I didn't even

1019
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 1: think a girl could take that much like niggers like crazy,

1020
00:54:55,760 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: that's a lot. That's soretness. She's dead right now. In

1021
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: my last her, she can't do a little more because

1022
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: she's hurt. Vagina. Yeah she saw from that. It's one

1023
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: RP to her. Would you participate in that though? Would

1024
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: you be on the line these days? No? No, no,

1025
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: I mean back then and you did, like of course

1026
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: you feel like you have to be first, or is

1027
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: it okay, let me get my first first, you know,

1028
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: because after that I'm out of there, right Like, I

1029
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,439
Speaker 1: don't know. You ain't gonna say, guys, are you trying

1030
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: to be number seventeen first, and did you ever look

1031
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 1: at those girls like if you ever saw them something

1032
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 1: like hey, you remember me? You all ran a train

1033
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 1: on me? Ever ran into them somewhere else? They act

1034
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: like they just regular, like nothing happened and what's up?

1035
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: Like I want to test. I used to want to

1036
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: talk to them and just ask them like why did

1037
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: you do that? Like you was d before Drake. You

1038
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: don't have a nothing nothing not that they did, not

1039
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: not to try to talk out of it, but to

1040
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: actually what did she get out of that? Like I'm curious,

1041
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: like going on in your mouth, like like you know exactly,

1042
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: like did you come. I fight with the thought of

1043
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: having two guys at once. I fight with that, Yeah,

1044
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: you said that, it's the idea of it, especially when

1045
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: I think of too like bombs guys that I've already

1046
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: been with that the same time. But I couldn't. I

1047
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: could not get myself to go there. I could, but

1048
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: you could think about it and get way I think

1049
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 1: about it and getting gorge for sure, But as far

1050
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,439
Speaker 1: as like taking that step to let two guys suck

1051
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,720
Speaker 1: me at the same time, it's like that, No, I couldn't.

1052
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Speaker 1: I couldn't. God, God, knows. I couldn't, she said, knows,

1053
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: God knows. Like one guy is enough, Like that's enough?

1054
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 1: What the most girls you've been with at one time

1055
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: just too damn he wasn't having like kind of orgies?

1056
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: Did you enjoy that? Because some people say that it's

1057
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: just too much working, like too much thinking oh where

1058
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: am I going to come? No, I enjoyed. I enjoyed it,

1059
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 1: just to say that I did it, Like you, do

1060
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: you mean to be able to be like, yeah, I

1061
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: did that? Do you feel like whatever woman you're with

1062
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: needs to be able to have three somes? Because a

1063
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Speaker 1: lot of guys who say, oh, I can't be with

1064
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: a girl who doesn't like girls. I mean, I probably

1065
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: could be with a chick to like chicks maybe, but

1066
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: you know, I'm kind of selfish when one yeah that's

1067
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, she's like, not me. Well, you know,

1068
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: I think they wouldn't dabbled in sharing is carrying it.

1069
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: But if you were with a girl and she was

1070
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Speaker 1: had another girlfriend with that bother, you now, as long

1071
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: as long as that other girlfriend is not fucking taking

1072
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: us some whales and involving a nigga without me knowing,

1073
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: you know, because that's the potential probably like right there,

1074
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: like okay, yeah, you gotta now, let's do exactly and

1075
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 1: that's definitely gonna happen probably like she could go on,

1076
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: but could she go like on a girl's vacation with

1077
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Speaker 1: just her? Like are we going to the Bahamas? Yeah,

1078
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: you can do it. That's just give me free towns

1079
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Speaker 1: two weeks down back. I just feel like the less

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00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: people involved in your sexual relationships to safer they are.

1081
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: That's true, you know what I mean, It's very true.

1082
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: You're bringing other people into the room, you're bringing in

1083
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: their germs and the and they're having their harpies. You understand. Hevy,

1084
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Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us on. I don't

1085
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: think he was going to really do it. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: so bad. It wasn't bad at all. It wasn't I

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Speaker 1: enjoyed it. We don't want you to go home again

1088
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Speaker 1: in trouble. We don't like that straight all that was listenings.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you