Speaker 1: Don't you hate when your parents want to check in
Speaker 1: on your relationship all the time and they thrill you,
Speaker 1: just grill you with all these invasive questions like, so,
Speaker 1: how's it going with you two?
Speaker 2: Which hotel is the wedding at again?
Speaker 1: Why won't you let me meet my Grandchild's annoying?
Speaker 2: Well, wow, I'll admit sometimes we.
Speaker 1: Go parent mode and ask probing questions to our listeners
Speaker 1: that we've sent out on second dates.
Speaker 3: Oh, did you have a good time?
Speaker 1: Yes? And today we're going to reconnect with a couple
Speaker 1: who came on our show a few months back, and honestly,
Speaker 1: at the time they seem like a total mismatch. We
Speaker 1: weren't even sure if they both liked each other. But
Speaker 1: still they agreed to give it another chance, and apparently
Speaker 1: they have a big update.
Speaker 2: So we're going to.
Speaker 1: Play their original call and then get super like in
Speaker 1: annoying and ask what's new when we do your second
Speaker 1: date update update, next second date update?
Speaker 2: What's the wildest thing that you've ever done on a
Speaker 2: first date?
Speaker 4: Who?
Speaker 3: First date?
Speaker 1: I know? For me, craziest first date was back in
Speaker 1: twenty sixteen when me and the mystery person did something
Speaker 1: I'll never forget dessert first, No dessert before the entrees,
Speaker 1: even before the appetizer.
Speaker 3: Shocked. Well, sir, you do know we haven't served.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was almost kicked out. I'm that much of
Speaker 2: a wild coup playing this up for you.
Speaker 1: Someone else who throws caution to the wind is Emily,
Speaker 1: who emailed.
Speaker 3: Us for help.
Speaker 1: Well, she says she can't believe what she did on
Speaker 1: night one of meeting this guy.
Speaker 2: So let's talk to her about it. Emily, How you
Speaker 2: doing good?
Speaker 4: Good?
Speaker 5: How are you you.
Speaker 4: Real rebel like Jeffrey?
Speaker 5: You're saying more?
Speaker 3: Okay, I get it, Emily, I get it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Who did you go out with?
Speaker 4: Where'd you mean him?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 6: So before I tell you what I did. He's really
Speaker 6: hot and hall he has pattees on his forearm, and
Speaker 6: like I noticed him right away because we just had
Speaker 6: like this instant chemistry going on to like twenty minutes.
Speaker 2: Where were you?
Speaker 4: Where? Wait?
Speaker 2: Where were you?
Speaker 6: I met him at a bar?
Speaker 2: Okay? And does he have a name or yeah?
Speaker 6: His name's Jason.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it sounds like Jason was so sexy that
Speaker 1: he brought the wildness out of you.
Speaker 6: I think so nice.
Speaker 3: That is always a good thing if you can do
Speaker 3: that to him, lady, Yeah.
Speaker 2: What did you That's right.
Speaker 4: I have a feeling that things went pretty quickly if
Speaker 4: you're counting the twenty minutes of eye contact you made
Speaker 4: prior to him.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what happened with you and Jason?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 6: Well, Like, I'm just at the bar and I decided
Speaker 6: to approach him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, what'd you say? What was your line?
Speaker 6: And I was like, Hi, I've never met someone so
Speaker 6: hot and paul at the same.
Speaker 7: Time, hoping there's going to be some sort of smooth
Speaker 7: line delivery, but you just went with brutal, awkward honesty.
Speaker 2: And what happened?
Speaker 6: So we were just hanging out, like we're having a
Speaker 6: great time, and I go ahead and I was like,
Speaker 6: would you like to come home with me?
Speaker 4: Oh? Dad?
Speaker 6: After one drink, I was like, would you like to continue,
Speaker 6: like having more drinks at my place?
Speaker 1: Are you sure you're not playing too hard to get here?
Speaker 1: And what did Jason say to that?
Speaker 5: So he agreed?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Thing?
Speaker 4: Did he stay the night?
Speaker 6: Oh? But he actually stayed the entire weekend.
Speaker 1: What I've had dates like that too, Yeah, with or
Speaker 1: without permission.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they wouldn't.
Speaker 6: Leave wouldn't leave, but I didn't mind it, of course.
Speaker 4: Okay, I have also hooked up with someone who is
Speaker 4: maybe in between houses. Do you think that, I mean
Speaker 4: a whole weekend?
Speaker 6: Oh, come on, he's too hot to be homeless.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought that we titled this one too hot
Speaker 4: to be Homeless.
Speaker 2: I think that's a good one. Write that one down.
Speaker 1: Okay, now tell us how so how did your weekend
Speaker 1: long date with Jason end?
Speaker 6: So he didn't leave until Monday morning, what was it like?
Speaker 4: I mean, at that point you act so you are
Speaker 4: really getting to know this guy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, it was comfortable. It wasn't awkward, it
Speaker 6: wasn't weird, but that is always good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like, hey, we never kiked it, but I
Speaker 3: feel like we can do anything.
Speaker 1: So after he left Monday morning, have you tried to
Speaker 1: get in touch with him? What's happened since then?
Speaker 6: She's left and she hasn't really been talking to me much,
Speaker 6: like maybe once or twice.
Speaker 5: It's just like really dry, like.
Speaker 1: He needs to hydrate after the weekend long experience.
Speaker 3: No, just I know what you mean. It's not the same.
Speaker 3: You don't feel the same vibe.
Speaker 4: Who stays the weekend and then right, because at first
Speaker 4: I'd be like, well, you had a one night stand
Speaker 4: and that's why this guy isn't calling.
Speaker 2: You think might be right, But.
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you see, Emily that you think
Speaker 1: may have gone wrong or may have been a red flag?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so tell me that he was divorced.
Speaker 4: Are you thinking maybe he's not actually divorced, he's still married.
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know, because I have friends that have
Speaker 6: been with guys that said they were divorced, but then
Speaker 6: later found out that we were still married.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, I had divorce, But then he
Speaker 3: would be like, well, it's not fine. We're separated.
Speaker 4: I mean we still live together and you know, have
Speaker 4: a shared bank account.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna Normally I wouldn't make predictions Emily on this,
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna go ahead and guess that he's
Speaker 1: currently hiding out in your crawl space.
Speaker 2: As we speak.
Speaker 4: He just has it left.
Speaker 2: Yeah, still there. You know what, I could be wrong.
Speaker 2: That's why we're gonna play a song. We'll come back,
Speaker 2: We'll call him.
Speaker 1: Run.
Speaker 2: We're gonna do it right after this hold On.
Speaker 3: Update.
Speaker 4: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 4: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing.
Speaker 4: Right after you here part two, you've.
Speaker 2: Heard of seven minutes in Heaven.
Speaker 1: Yeah, our listener, Emily says, that's child's play. Well, I
Speaker 1: do three whole days try and get me to come out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she met a.
Speaker 1: Guy named Jason at a bar, ended up taking him
Speaker 1: home within the first hour of meeting, and then he
Speaker 1: stayed the whole weekend. Oh my god, at her place,
Speaker 1: watching movies and doing other stuff.
Speaker 3: I'm sure, what a great weekend.
Speaker 1: They had a great time. But after that, Jason seems
Speaker 1: to be avoiding her calls and her text messages, and
Speaker 1: she doesn't know why. Emily, is there anything incriminating that
Speaker 1: you haven't told us yet, Like you didn't stalk him
Speaker 1: at his work or dress up like his mom and
Speaker 1: show up at a family get together. Oh no, no,
Speaker 1: it's worth a shot.
Speaker 4: I don't think this is on, Emily, Like, I think
Speaker 4: you're right on something. Like he said he was divorced.
Speaker 4: There's some sort of secret he's hiding that he doesn't
Speaker 4: want to reveal.
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, but it sounds like he
Speaker 1: had like a kid free weekend and was.
Speaker 3: Like my weekend.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, like if I find out that he's
Speaker 6: married and has kids, like, it's just going to break
Speaker 6: my heart, Like I want.
Speaker 3: To have kids with him.
Speaker 2: Deep breath.
Speaker 4: All right, there's a lot of pressure on this phone call.
Speaker 2: Right now, but let's just out his number right now, right, all.
Speaker 5: Right, I'll be right here in the corner.
Speaker 1: Okay, there, put yourself in the corner for a second.
Speaker 3: Why do we all just look into the corner of.
Speaker 2: Just just make sure you don't say anything until I
Speaker 2: call you in. All right, here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, is this Jason speaking?
Speaker 2: Just tall, sexy Jason with tattoos?
Speaker 5: Who is it?
Speaker 4: Somebody who knows you?
Speaker 2: Sorry?
Speaker 1: My my name is jeff I work on a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. What hey, Jason?
Speaker 5: What Hi? Why are you guys calling me? How'd you
Speaker 5: get my number?
Speaker 1: We got a number from a girl who listens to
Speaker 1: our show that met you recently. She's been trying to
Speaker 1: get a hold of you.
Speaker 5: I'm not really sure what this is about right now?
Speaker 1: What is this?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 1: This is this is a segment that we do called
Speaker 1: a second Date Update, and it's where we help our
Speaker 1: listeners get in touch with people after they've been on
Speaker 1: a date together, and you.
Speaker 4: Guys did a lot more than just a date, like
Speaker 4: a whole weekend.
Speaker 2: We're talking about a girl named Emily.
Speaker 5: Yeah I remember that girl, but I would hope.
Speaker 1: So why are we on the phone because she tolds you,
Speaker 1: guys met at a bar and hung out the whole
Speaker 1: weekend together. But after that, she's been trying to text
Speaker 1: you and you're not responding at all, and she's a
Speaker 1: little bit confused on what's going on.
Speaker 5: Listen. I didn't really ask for any of this to happen.
Speaker 5: I had a fun with the girl, but I just
Speaker 5: moved into the city. I'm not really used to all
Speaker 5: this big attention like this.
Speaker 2: You know. That's I don't know that this has anything
Speaker 2: to do with the city.
Speaker 3: I think it's you know, I mean, she had.
Speaker 2: A great time with you.
Speaker 4: You could understand, like, yeah, if it was a one
Speaker 4: night thing, I think she would have just chalked it
Speaker 4: up as just that. But you guys spent a lot
Speaker 4: of time together. You didn't leave till Monday morning, she said.
Speaker 5: I mean, look, when she asked me, I was surprised
Speaker 5: for sure to come back with her to the house.
Speaker 5: And then it turned into the weekend I'm not really
Speaker 5: good at saying no to people, particularly the girls. I
Speaker 5: don't have too much experience with that type of stuff,
Speaker 5: so I just wasn't really sure what to do.
Speaker 4: What are you talking about? I feel like you're putting
Speaker 4: on this like country bumpkin shit thing, like, yeah, I
Speaker 4: came from a tiny town, doesn't even have a stoplight.
Speaker 4: I can handle myself.
Speaker 1: Why haven't you slept with four hundred people like a
Speaker 1: real country person.
Speaker 3: It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4: Like you're saying that you just didn't leave because you
Speaker 4: couldn't tell her that you wanted to go.
Speaker 3: Works in the city.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I just wasn't really sure how to
Speaker 5: get out of there. You know, even at one point
Speaker 5: Saturday night, I think it was I told her I
Speaker 5: really needed to leave, but she just kept asking to
Speaker 5: watch movie after movie after movie. We watched so many
Speaker 5: musicals that weekend. I don't even like.
Speaker 1: To wait.
Speaker 4: So you didn't want to stay with her for the weekend.
Speaker 5: I did like her, I did want to spend time
Speaker 5: with her, but I didn't know when or how necessarily
Speaker 5: to say no so hard.
Speaker 4: I actually feel bad for you.
Speaker 2: Now, but I do so.
Speaker 1: But you haven't talked to her at all since you
Speaker 1: guys last saw each other on little Monday.
Speaker 5: Well, we texted a little bit, but I don't really
Speaker 5: want to talk to her on the phone because I'm
Speaker 5: scared she's just gonna get me back into something again.
Speaker 2: She's just going to lure you into another weekend long day.
Speaker 3: There's a Harry Potter marathon at least three days.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm actually worried about him in the city now.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: It was the first bar that I went into since
Speaker 5: I moved here, and it crossed me to go home
Speaker 5: with her. I wasn't sure what to do.
Speaker 1: I those are good odds for you should go out
Speaker 1: to the bars more often. But before we can get
Speaker 1: you there, I do have to let you know some
Speaker 1: news that's probably gonna scare you a little bit. But uh,
Speaker 1: actually Emily's on the other line listening right now, and
Speaker 1: she's ready to talk to you. Oh boy, Yeah, Emily, there,
Speaker 1: are you still being tall and cute?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm okay. How are you? I'm good.
Speaker 6: I was just worried you haven't been talking to me much.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's I'm sorry about that. I've been a little busy,
Speaker 5: you know, with moving in and here and everything, so oh,
Speaker 5: do you need to handle that?
Speaker 4: Take advantage of the poor boy she knows?
Speaker 2: Say no, Jason, do you need a hand? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I guess I could use some help.
Speaker 3: No, Jason, I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: Is there like a surgery where we can insert a
Speaker 4: backbone into Jason?
Speaker 1: I'm worry, Jason. I'm really worried for you, dude, if
Speaker 1: you can't say no to anything? Do you accept phone
Speaker 1: calls from people that are like, hey, would you like
Speaker 1: to sign up for a monthly subscription to like random services?
Speaker 2: Do you say?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 5: Listen, where I'm from, people are generally just, I guess
Speaker 5: a little bit more polite with each other and talking
Speaker 5: to everybody and everything and sir, with all due respect.
Speaker 5: It sounds like some of the women that listen to
Speaker 5: your show are a little loose. And you know, my
Speaker 5: mom told me about that.
Speaker 3: Decade.
Speaker 2: Did you step out of women who listened? But the
Speaker 2: women who work on the show that I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: That's the guy who went home with a person an
Speaker 4: hour into meeting them and spent all weekends like I mean,
Speaker 4: I'm going pot and kettle here.
Speaker 3: That's true. Sounds a little bite a bunch of floe.
Speaker 5: I couldn't say no. I already told you that I'm
Speaker 5: going to shame other people.
Speaker 3: You didn't want to, Emily.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's not necessarily ready to go out
Speaker 1: on another date with you. Not that he's not interested,
Speaker 1: he just needs a little time.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's not what I'm hearing. I'm hearing somebody
Speaker 6: that wants to hang out so little try.
Speaker 5: Wow, this whole city thing is crazy to me. You
Speaker 5: guys are talking, so this is all going so fast.
Speaker 5: This is a whole lot on a sexual talk and
Speaker 5: all these terms and nonsense here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like the show Sex and the City.
Speaker 2: That is a true picture of what's happening right now.
Speaker 4: And except for those ladies are like eighty, we're not
Speaker 4: far off.
Speaker 1: And in keeping with the speed of what's going on, Jason,
Speaker 1: we would like to send you out on another date
Speaker 1: with Emily and will pay for it.
Speaker 4: Only say yes if you actually want to.
Speaker 5: Jason, Well, you know, I don't want to be rude.
Speaker 5: If she sees so much in me, you know, maybe
Speaker 5: I could give it another go. It's this is a
Speaker 5: lot right now.
Speaker 2: But okay, Emily, what's your reaction to hearing that?
Speaker 6: I mean, obviously I want to spend more time with him,
Speaker 6: and I think it's kind of fun that you can't
Speaker 6: say no to me.
Speaker 5: Oh, Emily, you're listen, you're a nice girl and everything,
Speaker 5: but maybe we could take things a little bit slower
Speaker 5: than we have did.
Speaker 4: If any couple needs a safe word, it's that.
Speaker 2: It's solid yes from Emily, no matter what he says.
Speaker 5: All right, well, thank you very much then, guys. You
Speaker 5: know I'm new here, but sounds like you have a
Speaker 5: good show. You're generous people, so thank you.
Speaker 2: You're not going to last.
Speaker 4: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: All right, it's been a few months, but now Emily
Speaker 1: and Jason are both back to tell us what's been
Speaker 1: going on in their wild city lives.
Speaker 3: Crazy.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to the show, guys.
Speaker 5: How you been you guys doing.
Speaker 1: We're good.
Speaker 4: I'm worried that you're captive right now.
Speaker 2: Sounds like you guys are still together.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's been good. We've been going exclusively
Speaker 5: on it for the last couple of months. Here.
Speaker 2: You know, Emily, how's that going for you? Emily?
Speaker 6: What I mean? I'm not complaining. He's cute and I
Speaker 6: do whatever I want and he just kind of goes
Speaker 6: with it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, relationship, I mean, are you worried that that will
Speaker 4: get old?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: Of course.
Speaker 6: I mean obviously we realize you have a hard time
Speaker 6: saying no. So we've been working on like having some boundary.
Speaker 5: Okay, oh really yeah, So I actually, you know, I've
Speaker 5: been waiting to brag about this a little bit. Here.
Speaker 5: The other night, you know, Emily wanted to go out
Speaker 5: and get enchiladas, but I wasn't in the mood, so
Speaker 5: I actually, you know, I said, no, we did not
Speaker 5: go out and get that Mexican food.
Speaker 2: Emily, did you make him sleep on the couch after that?
Speaker 2: That's really good.
Speaker 4: It sounds like you guys are you know, you're helping
Speaker 4: him and it's working in your relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And you know there was the other time too. She
Speaker 5: the other week, we wanted to go see a movie
Speaker 5: and I thought it might be a little bit too
Speaker 5: scary for me, so yeah, I suggested The Minions instead.
Speaker 5: We went and thought it was good that one.
Speaker 3: Not quite as except as.
Speaker 4: The No Da antiladas.
Speaker 2: But Emily, look, they've created a monster here.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I'm so proud of him. I mean, you know, baby
Speaker 6: steps and he's doing.
Speaker 1: Well so far, okay, like you have an actual baby
Speaker 1: that you're teaching.
Speaker 2: That's it's nice.
Speaker 4: I would give him. Toddlers are pretty good at saying no.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's been good. She's been good for me.
Speaker 5: She's been helping me get out like comfort zone, especially
Speaker 5: in the city.
Speaker 4: To see like jumping off of curbs like I'm scared.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Jason, would you like to as a thank you,
Speaker 1: donate a couple thousand dollars to the Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning Foundation. Oh mah, yeah, we still have
Speaker 1: some work to do, but best of luck you two,
Speaker 1: and keep us updated on how your relationship goes.
Speaker 5: All right, Okay, good to talk to you guys.
Speaker 4: Is a cute Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning