WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Too Hot To Be Homeless

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you hate when your parents want to check in

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<v Speaker 1>on your relationship all the time and they thrill you,

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<v Speaker 1>just grill you with all these invasive questions like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going with you two?

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<v Speaker 2>Which hotel is the wedding at again?

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<v Speaker 1>Why won't you let me meet my Grandchild's annoying?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, wow, I'll admit sometimes we.

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<v Speaker 1>Go parent mode and ask probing questions to our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>that we've sent out on second dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, did you have a good time?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? And today we're going to reconnect with a couple

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<v Speaker 1>who came on our show a few months back, and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time they seem like a total mismatch. We

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<v Speaker 1>weren't even sure if they both liked each other. But

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<v Speaker 1>still they agreed to give it another chance, and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>they have a big update.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Play their original call and then get super like in

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<v Speaker 1>annoying and ask what's new when we do your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update update, next second date update?

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<v Speaker 2>What's the wildest thing that you've ever done on a

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<v Speaker 2>first date?

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<v Speaker 4>Who?

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<v Speaker 3>First date?

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<v Speaker 1>I know? For me, craziest first date was back in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty sixteen when me and the mystery person did something

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget dessert first, No dessert before the entrees,

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<v Speaker 1>even before the appetizer.

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<v Speaker 3>Shocked. Well, sir, you do know we haven't served.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was almost kicked out. I'm that much of

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<v Speaker 2>a wild coup playing this up for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone else who throws caution to the wind is Emily,

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<v Speaker 1>who emailed.

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<v Speaker 3>Us for help.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she says she can't believe what she did on

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<v Speaker 1>night one of meeting this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk to her about it. Emily, How you

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<v Speaker 2>doing good?

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<v Speaker 4>Good?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you you.

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<v Speaker 4>Real rebel like Jeffrey?

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<v Speaker 5>You're saying more?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I get it, Emily, I get it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Who did you go out with?

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<v Speaker 4>Where'd you mean him?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>So before I tell you what I did. He's really

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<v Speaker 6>hot and hall he has pattees on his forearm, and

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<v Speaker 6>like I noticed him right away because we just had

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<v Speaker 6>like this instant chemistry going on to like twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Where were you?

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<v Speaker 4>Where? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Where were you?

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<v Speaker 6>I met him at a bar?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? And does he have a name or yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>His name's Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So it sounds like Jason was so sexy that

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<v Speaker 1>he brought the wildness out of you.

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<v Speaker 6>I think so nice.

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<v Speaker 3>That is always a good thing if you can do

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<v Speaker 3>that to him, lady, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a feeling that things went pretty quickly if

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<v Speaker 4>you're counting the twenty minutes of eye contact you made

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<v Speaker 4>prior to him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, what happened with you and Jason?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, Like, I'm just at the bar and I decided

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<v Speaker 6>to approach him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, what'd you say? What was your line?

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, Hi, I've never met someone so

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<v Speaker 6>hot and paul at the same.

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<v Speaker 7>Time, hoping there's going to be some sort of smooth

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<v Speaker 7>line delivery, but you just went with brutal, awkward honesty.

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<v Speaker 2>And what happened?

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<v Speaker 6>So we were just hanging out, like we're having a

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<v Speaker 6>great time, and I go ahead and I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>would you like to come home with me?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Dad?

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<v Speaker 6>After one drink, I was like, would you like to continue,

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<v Speaker 6>like having more drinks at my place?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure you're not playing too hard to get here?

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<v Speaker 1>And what did Jason say to that?

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<v Speaker 5>So he agreed?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Did he stay the night?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? But he actually stayed the entire weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>What I've had dates like that too, Yeah, with or

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<v Speaker 1>without permission.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 6>Leave wouldn't leave, but I didn't mind it, of course.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I have also hooked up with someone who is

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<v Speaker 4>maybe in between houses. Do you think that, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>a whole weekend?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, come on, he's too hot to be homeless.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I thought that we titled this one too hot

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<v Speaker 4>to be Homeless.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a good one. Write that one down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now tell us how so how did your weekend

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<v Speaker 1>long date with Jason end?

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<v Speaker 6>So he didn't leave until Monday morning, what was it like?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, at that point you act so you are

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<v Speaker 4>really getting to know this guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know, it was comfortable. It wasn't awkward, it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't weird, but that is always good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and like, hey, we never kiked it, but I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like we can do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So after he left Monday morning, have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>get in touch with him? What's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 6>She's left and she hasn't really been talking to me much,

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<v Speaker 6>like maybe once or twice.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just like really dry, like.

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<v Speaker 1>He needs to hydrate after the weekend long experience.

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<v Speaker 3>No, just I know what you mean. It's not the same.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't feel the same vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>Who stays the weekend and then right, because at first

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be like, well, you had a one night stand

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<v Speaker 4>and that's why this guy isn't calling.

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<v Speaker 2>You think might be right, But.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you see, Emily that you think

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<v Speaker 1>may have gone wrong or may have been a red flag?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so tell me that he was divorced.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you thinking maybe he's not actually divorced, he's still married.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know, because I have friends that have

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<v Speaker 6>been with guys that said they were divorced, but then

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<v Speaker 6>later found out that we were still married.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know what, I had divorce, But then he

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<v Speaker 3>would be like, well, it's not fine. We're separated.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we still live together and you know, have

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<v Speaker 4>a shared bank account.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're gonna Normally I wouldn't make predictions Emily on this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just gonna go ahead and guess that he's

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<v Speaker 1>currently hiding out in your crawl space.

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<v Speaker 2>As we speak.

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<v Speaker 4>He just has it left.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, still there. You know what, I could be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we're gonna play a song. We'll come back,

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call him.

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<v Speaker 1>Run.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do it right after this hold On.

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<v Speaker 3>Update.

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<v Speaker 4>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 4>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Right after you here part two, you've.

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<v Speaker 2>Heard of seven minutes in Heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, our listener, Emily says, that's child's play. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>do three whole days try and get me to come out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because she met a.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy named Jason at a bar, ended up taking him

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<v Speaker 1>home within the first hour of meeting, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>stayed the whole weekend. Oh my god, at her place,

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<v Speaker 1>watching movies and doing other stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure, what a great weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a great time. But after that, Jason seems

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<v Speaker 1>to be avoiding her calls and her text messages, and

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't know why. Emily, is there anything incriminating that

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't told us yet, Like you didn't stalk him

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<v Speaker 1>at his work or dress up like his mom and

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<v Speaker 1>show up at a family get together. Oh no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's worth a shot.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think this is on, Emily, Like, I think

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<v Speaker 4>you're right on something. Like he said he was divorced.

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<v Speaker 4>There's some sort of secret he's hiding that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to reveal.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to say it, but it sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>had like a kid free weekend and was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like my weekend.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, yeah, like if I find out that he's

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<v Speaker 6>married and has kids, like, it's just going to break

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<v Speaker 6>my heart, Like I want.

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<v Speaker 3>To have kids with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Deep breath.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, there's a lot of pressure on this phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, but let's just out his number right now, right, all.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, I'll be right here in the corner.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there, put yourself in the corner for a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do we all just look into the corner of.

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<v Speaker 2>Just just make sure you don't say anything until I

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<v Speaker 2>call you in. All right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hey, is this Jason speaking?

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<v Speaker 2>Just tall, sexy Jason with tattoos?

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<v Speaker 5>Who is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody who knows you?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>My my name is jeff I work on a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. What hey, Jason?

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<v Speaker 5>What Hi? Why are you guys calling me? How'd you

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<v Speaker 5>get my number?

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<v Speaker 1>We got a number from a girl who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show that met you recently. She's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not really sure what this is about right now?

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<v Speaker 1>What is this?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>This is this is a segment that we do called

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date Update, and it's where we help our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners get in touch with people after they've been on

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<v Speaker 1>a date together, and you.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys did a lot more than just a date, like

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<v Speaker 4>a whole weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about a girl named Emily.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah I remember that girl, but I would hope.

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<v Speaker 1>So why are we on the phone because she tolds you,

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<v Speaker 1>guys met at a bar and hung out the whole

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<v Speaker 1>weekend together. But after that, she's been trying to text

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<v Speaker 1>you and you're not responding at all, and she's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit confused on what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen. I didn't really ask for any of this to happen.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a fun with the girl, but I just

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<v Speaker 5>moved into the city. I'm not really used to all

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<v Speaker 5>this big attention like this.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. That's I don't know that this has anything

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<v Speaker 2>to do with the city.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's you know, I mean, she had.

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<v Speaker 2>A great time with you.

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<v Speaker 4>You could understand, like, yeah, if it was a one

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<v Speaker 4>night thing, I think she would have just chalked it

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<v Speaker 4>up as just that. But you guys spent a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of time together. You didn't leave till Monday morning, she said.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, when she asked me, I was surprised

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<v Speaker 5>for sure to come back with her to the house.

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<v Speaker 5>And then it turned into the weekend I'm not really

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<v Speaker 5>good at saying no to people, particularly the girls. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't have too much experience with that type of stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>so I just wasn't really sure what to do.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you talking about? I feel like you're putting

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<v Speaker 4>on this like country bumpkin shit thing, like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>came from a tiny town, doesn't even have a stoplight.

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<v Speaker 4>I can handle myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Why haven't you slept with four hundred people like a

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<v Speaker 1>real country person.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you're saying that you just didn't leave because you

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't tell her that you wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Works in the city.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I just wasn't really sure how to

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<v Speaker 5>get out of there. You know, even at one point

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<v Speaker 5>Saturday night, I think it was I told her I

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<v Speaker 5>really needed to leave, but she just kept asking to

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<v Speaker 5>watch movie after movie after movie. We watched so many

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<v Speaker 5>musicals that weekend. I don't even like.

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<v Speaker 1>To wait.

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<v Speaker 4>So you didn't want to stay with her for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>I did like her, I did want to spend time

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<v Speaker 5>with her, but I didn't know when or how necessarily

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<v Speaker 5>to say no so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually feel bad for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, but I do so.

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<v Speaker 1>But you haven't talked to her at all since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys last saw each other on little Monday.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we texted a little bit, but I don't really

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<v Speaker 5>want to talk to her on the phone because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>scared she's just gonna get me back into something again.

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<v Speaker 2>She's just going to lure you into another weekend long day.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a Harry Potter marathon at least three days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm actually worried about him in the city now.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It was the first bar that I went into since

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<v Speaker 5>I moved here, and it crossed me to go home

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<v Speaker 5>with her. I wasn't sure what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I those are good odds for you should go out

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<v Speaker 1>to the bars more often. But before we can get

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<v Speaker 1>you there, I do have to let you know some

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<v Speaker 1>news that's probably gonna scare you a little bit. But uh,

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<v Speaker 1>actually Emily's on the other line listening right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's ready to talk to you. Oh boy, Yeah, Emily, there,

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<v Speaker 1>are you still being tall and cute?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm okay. How are you? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 6>I was just worried you haven't been talking to me much.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's I'm sorry about that. I've been a little busy,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, with moving in and here and everything, so oh,

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<v Speaker 5>do you need to handle that?

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<v Speaker 4>Take advantage of the poor boy she knows?

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<v Speaker 2>Say no, Jason, do you need a hand? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I guess I could use some help.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Jason, I'm uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there like a surgery where we can insert a

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<v Speaker 4>backbone into Jason?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worry, Jason. I'm really worried for you, dude, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't say no to anything? Do you accept phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls from people that are like, hey, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to sign up for a monthly subscription to like random services?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you say?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, where I'm from, people are generally just, I guess

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit more polite with each other and talking

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<v Speaker 5>to everybody and everything and sir, with all due respect.

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<v Speaker 5>It sounds like some of the women that listen to

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<v Speaker 5>your show are a little loose. And you know, my

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<v Speaker 5>mom told me about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Decade.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you step out of women who listened? But the

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<v Speaker 2>women who work on the show that I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the guy who went home with a person an

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<v Speaker 4>hour into meeting them and spent all weekends like I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going pot and kettle here.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true. Sounds a little bite a bunch of floe.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't say no. I already told you that I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to shame other people.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't want to, Emily.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's not necessarily ready to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with you. Not that he's not interested,

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<v Speaker 1>he just needs a little time.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's not what I'm hearing. I'm hearing somebody

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<v Speaker 6>that wants to hang out so little try.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, this whole city thing is crazy to me. You

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<v Speaker 5>guys are talking, so this is all going so fast.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a whole lot on a sexual talk and

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<v Speaker 5>all these terms and nonsense here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just like the show Sex and the City.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a true picture of what's happening right now.

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<v Speaker 4>And except for those ladies are like eighty, we're not

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<v Speaker 4>far off.

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<v Speaker 1>And in keeping with the speed of what's going on, Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>we would like to send you out on another date

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<v Speaker 1>with Emily and will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Only say yes if you actually want to.

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<v Speaker 5>Jason, Well, you know, I don't want to be rude.

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<v Speaker 5>If she sees so much in me, you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 5>I could give it another go. It's this is a

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<v Speaker 5>lot right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, Emily, what's your reaction to hearing that?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, obviously I want to spend more time with him,

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<v Speaker 6>and I think it's kind of fun that you can't

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<v Speaker 6>say no to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, Emily, you're listen, you're a nice girl and everything,

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<v Speaker 5>but maybe we could take things a little bit slower

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<v Speaker 5>than we have did.

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<v Speaker 4>If any couple needs a safe word, it's that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's solid yes from Emily, no matter what he says.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, well, thank you very much then, guys. You

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<v Speaker 5>know I'm new here, but sounds like you have a

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<v Speaker 5>good show. You're generous people, so thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not going to last.

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<v Speaker 4>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's been a few months, but now Emily

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<v Speaker 1>and Jason are both back to tell us what's been

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<v Speaker 1>going on in their wild city lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the show, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>How you been you guys doing.

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<v Speaker 1>We're good.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm worried that you're captive right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like you guys are still together.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, it's been good. We've been going exclusively

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<v Speaker 5>on it for the last couple of months. Here.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Emily, how's that going for you? Emily?

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<v Speaker 6>What I mean? I'm not complaining. He's cute and I

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<v Speaker 6>do whatever I want and he just kind of goes

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<v Speaker 6>with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, relationship, I mean, are you worried that that will

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<v Speaker 4>get old?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean obviously we realize you have a hard time

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<v Speaker 6>saying no. So we've been working on like having some boundary.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, oh really yeah, So I actually, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 5>been waiting to brag about this a little bit. Here.

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<v Speaker 5>The other night, you know, Emily wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 5>and get enchiladas, but I wasn't in the mood, so

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<v Speaker 5>I actually, you know, I said, no, we did not

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<v Speaker 5>go out and get that Mexican food.

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<v Speaker 2>Emily, did you make him sleep on the couch after that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's really good.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like you guys are you know, you're helping

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<v Speaker 4>him and it's working in your relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know there was the other time too. She

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<v Speaker 5>the other week, we wanted to go see a movie

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<v Speaker 5>and I thought it might be a little bit too

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<v Speaker 5>scary for me, so yeah, I suggested The Minions instead.

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<v Speaker 5>We went and thought it was good that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Not quite as except as.

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<v Speaker 4>The No Da antiladas.

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<v Speaker 2>But Emily, look, they've created a monster here.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so proud of him. I mean, you know, baby

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<v Speaker 6>steps and he's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well so far, okay, like you have an actual baby

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<v Speaker 1>that you're teaching.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it's nice.

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<v Speaker 4>I would give him. Toddlers are pretty good at saying no.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, it's been good. She's been good for me.

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<v Speaker 5>She's been helping me get out like comfort zone, especially

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<v Speaker 5>in the city.

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<v Speaker 4>To see like jumping off of curbs like I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but Jason, would you like to as a thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>donate a couple thousand dollars to the Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning Foundation. Oh mah, yeah, we still have

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<v Speaker 1>some work to do, but best of luck you two,

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<v Speaker 1>and keep us updated on how your relationship goes.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Okay, good to talk to you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Is a cute Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning