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Speaker 1: I couldn't get my passport because of unpaid child support.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a child, but now I'm finding out

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Speaker 1: the truth.

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Speaker 2: You know, you think you're just going on a little

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Speaker 2: vacated Cancun and all of a sudden, you've got a baby.

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Speaker 1: It happens like that sometimes, it kind of does you know,

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Speaker 1: trying to you know, I actually think maybe OP knew

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Speaker 1: he's just trying to jump ship. Maybe could cover OP. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I received this letter in the mail in a response

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Speaker 1: to a passport application I submitted almost a year ago.

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Speaker 1: I contacted my Department of State after months without a

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Speaker 1: response regarding my application and never heard anything since. Fast

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Speaker 1: forward today, I randomly received this letter stating they denied

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Speaker 1: my request because I owe child support payments. Yikes, yikes,

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Speaker 1: I am thirty two and have no knowledge of a

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Speaker 1: child whatsoever.

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Speaker 3: Hell, I'm not sure I've even.

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Speaker 1: Had unprotected sex, let alone with a stranger who I

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Speaker 1: would expect would notify me if a child that's potentially mine.

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Speaker 3: Nude, Yeah, come.

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Speaker 1: On, you're not raw dagon like your boys.

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Speaker 3: No comment. It's freaking me out.

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Speaker 1: And of course it happens on a Friday, when I

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Speaker 1: can't get closure until next week. Is it possible I

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Speaker 1: have a child and nobody has once ever tried to

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Speaker 1: contact me about my parental obligations. Is it possible the

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Speaker 1: government made an administrative mistake with the letter?

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Speaker 3: You know the government never makes mistakes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, my name is somewhat common, but they

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Speaker 1: attached my birth certificate and stuff, so it just seems weird.

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Speaker 3: There is an update, But John, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: I think my man is about to find a little

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Speaker 3: baby on his hands? You know what I mean? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nice, tryop, Yeah, nice, try buddy. Okay, there's an update. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get to it. So sure enough, I called the

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Speaker 1: Department of Health and Human Services the moment they opened

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Speaker 1: up today, because man, was hella nervous. And the first

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Speaker 1: thing they said is we get is called daily and

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Speaker 1: you're on the hook for ten baby. Oh god, let

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Speaker 1: me look you up and confirm. They even have an

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Speaker 1: automated option when you call that specifically outlines this exact scenario.

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Speaker 2: Wild if you have a form saying that you have

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Speaker 2: a child that you never knew existed, Press four.

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Speaker 1: In short, no kid in the passport center is terrible.

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Speaker 1: Just wanted to let anyone know if they were curious,

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Speaker 1: and I'm glad that I have some closure.

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Speaker 3: That sucks.

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Speaker 1: That what a frightening call, frightening letter to gain my god,

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Speaker 1: for real?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this has happened to you. Let me know. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Apparently there's a bunch of people. Apparently they have a

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Speaker 1: whole hotline to it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, drop drop your passport kids in the commence, guys, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, we'll see you soon.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend said it was just a gamer moment, but

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Speaker 1: I actually think he is sexist and homophobic.

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Speaker 3: It ain't no gamer moment, bully. Yeah, bro, you're just

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Speaker 3: the bigot. Stop it. Turn off the spigot. That was

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Speaker 3: the off position.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for all you listeners, please turn it off.

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Speaker 3: I twisted risk leitch. Just go click. It's a nifty

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Speaker 3: little Mormon trick. Have you seen that book? Mormon? I

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Speaker 3: haven't no great.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I had moved in together. He's a gamer,

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Speaker 1: but I never joined him for that because he's freaking lame.

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Speaker 3: It sucks. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have a desk job now, and by the end

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Speaker 1: of the day I'm sick of sitting at a computer

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Speaker 1: desk grinding away at something. So I first saw him

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Speaker 1: play after we moved in together. Ooh spicy watching him

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Speaker 1: push them buttons. Only he would push my buttons and

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Speaker 1: not the buttons of his video game.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna put some joy in your stick. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: put some squares in your circle.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit that X spot, that triple X, that

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Speaker 1: xx X game moment X is.

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Speaker 3: Your vagina gamers. Yeah there what else? Oh? Oh oh,

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Speaker 3: I know what station I want to play at. But wait, wait,

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Speaker 3: hold on, it's I'm really close. I have the first part.

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Speaker 3: There's the second part. Forget about that Xbox. I want

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Speaker 3: that xx Xbox. Damn it ak he vested me, ladies

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Speaker 3: and gentlemen. I was trying.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I know I have Box, but what

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Speaker 2: am I gonna do with the X What do I

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Speaker 3: I was gonna do X marks the box, but I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like Xbox this, how about this? Uh live and in person?

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Speaker 1: How about you touch my Wii my Wi stick?

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Speaker 3: That one was so bad it was fucking amazing.

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Speaker 2: Also, also, guys, we're gonna every every joke that whichever

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Speaker 2: one is bested, we're gonna give each other one thousand.

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Speaker 3: Dollars a thousand dollars. That's a real money.

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Speaker 2: This is certified, cified, you've ever seen in your whole life.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not prop money. Yeah, hit him with it,

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Speaker 1: hit him with him. So I first saw him play

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Speaker 1: after we moved in together, and what I heard definitely

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, gamers be saying, dude, have you ever been

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Speaker 3: in like an Xbox Live chat room. It's disgusting. It

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Speaker 3: is fucking filthy.

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Speaker 1: He was a lot of really sexist and homophobic insults,

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Speaker 1: like saying other players were bitches, which tame.

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Speaker 3: I'll give him.

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Speaker 2: That's the tamout like gamer lobby room talk of all time.

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Speaker 1: Then he started calling stuff gay or the f slur

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Speaker 1: and making suggestive and aggressive sexist comments if there was

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Speaker 1: a girl in the game yep, yep, yep.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like an Xbox Live jet room. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I told him how I felt, and he was

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Speaker 1: trying to say, it's just normal guy talk, bro.

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Speaker 3: Which is like locker room, but it's like freaking virtual bro. Dude,

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Speaker 3: I'm not cool enough for the locker room, so I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is how guys talk when women aren't around.

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Speaker 1: Now I know what normal guide talk is. Last two

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Speaker 1: places i've worked, I've been the only woman on the team,

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Speaker 1: and I'd go out with coworkers plenty and we'd often

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Speaker 1: get drunk enough they didn't give two shits if they

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Speaker 1: to mention, at all times I went walking up the

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Speaker 1: like the dudes talk to me like a dude. Brokes

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Speaker 1: didn't even realized that I was a girl browing they're

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Speaker 1: browing down. I know this shit isn't normal guide talk. Hell,

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Speaker 3: Wow. Wow Wow.

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Speaker 1: Like even in a room of all guys who like

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Speaker 2: Oh, they were saying if anyone said like bad shit,

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Speaker 2: they would like cut them out. Yeah, I thought I

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Speaker 2: if they, you know, said some slur or something, and

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Speaker 2: anyone tried to stand up to them, they'd be like, no, bro,

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Speaker 2: we're not singing.

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Speaker 3: They were all keeper supportive.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome, Okay, great, okay.

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Speaker 3: Wow. Now I feel like a total misunderstood that.

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Speaker 1: And NoP's basically saying chill guys don't attack people just

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Speaker 1: because of their gender sexuality.

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Speaker 3: Which is facts. Yes, the coolest among.

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Speaker 1: Us, no biggots ie, no biggots ice cold. I told

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Speaker 1: wasn't being a guy, he was being a bigot. He

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Speaker 1: all those times guys on the shop floor thought I

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Speaker 1: was a dude until I opened my mouth, and he

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Speaker 1: said he didn't think that happened, gaslighting.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't believe, he doesn't believe women.

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Speaker 1: And doesn't believe on I told him it did, and

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Speaker 1: literally all the guys that he thought were too rough

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Speaker 2: That's right, keep it consistent, okay all times, okay or not.

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Speaker 2: The choice is yours, but you have to choose one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: be a big at one hundred percent or zero percent.

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Speaker 2: He said he was way more respectful to me than

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Speaker 2: the guys at work ever were, and I told him

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Speaker 2: was moving out big nice guy energy over the fact

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Speaker 2: I'm such a nice guy, though, but he not.

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Speaker 1: He got really defensive, and I had my friend come

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Speaker 1: by with her truck that night. I'm renting a room

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Speaker 1: in a friend's sharehouse, and I'm not sure if the

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Speaker 1: relationship will survive. He's getting mad at me, saying I

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Speaker 1: overreacted majorly. I'm also upset too. I'm saying he needs

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Speaker 1: to fix that shit if he wants to repair our relationship.

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Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for moving out? You

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Speaker 1: absolutely are not psych got Gordon Ramsey moment where it's

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Speaker 1: like I lose. Your cooking does not deserve to be

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Speaker 1: in this kitchen, because it deserves to be in the

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Speaker 1: best kitchen in the entire world, in the trash of

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Speaker 1: that kitchen, because it's the worst thing I ever tasted.

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Speaker 3: Literally. The editors are the editors are just in world class.

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Speaker 2: We were watching an episode last night and there was

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Speaker 2: a guy that was like, did he finally come to

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Speaker 2: his senses? And he was like, guys, I'm a loser.

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Speaker 2: And that was the only clip that like, keep watching

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I love it. I love it. Gordon Ramsey

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Speaker 3: or the goat you are you can penetrate me the end, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and that's that's that's where we're ending.