1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You never know. It 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 1: could be yours, could be could be. Buckle up and 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for ye here It 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thanking FH You. My children are 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: inconvenient is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty one 11 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: years old. I'm a married woman, and I've been with 12 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: my husband for seven years. We met at a rap 13 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: concert while picking up our daughters, who were both sixteen 14 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: at the time. He and I started talking about how 15 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: we shouldn't have let our daughters go on chaperone. My 16 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: daughter and her friends came out first, and he got 17 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: my number before I walked away. We instantly clicked, and 18 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: he proposed a year after a year. After a year 19 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: of dat, our daughters didn't know each other, so they 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 1: demanded separate bedrooms. As we struggled to blend our families 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: after marriage. Right now we live with two twenty three 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 1: year old women, and he has a son that is nineteen, 23 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: and he comes and goes as he pleases. When he 24 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: breaks up with this girl, he's back on our couch 25 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: for a few weeks. All of our bedrooms, all of 26 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: our closets, and two storage rooms have been taken over 27 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: by grown children. My husband and I are a decent couple, 28 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: and my man works hard, and so do I. We 29 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: brought our children up in the church, and we made 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: sure they went to college. All three of them dropped out. 31 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Our girls smoke weed, and I'm sure our son does too, 32 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: but he's just better at hiding it. The girls smoke 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: on our backyard, and the neighbors used to complain, but 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: now they just accept it like we do. I talk 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: to my husband about us selling our house and downsizing 36 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: to a condo so these freeloaders won't have any space, 37 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: but he's got a soft spot for these grown, lazy women. 38 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: I want to redo our kitchen and din, but I 39 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: refuse to make our home nicer until the freeloaders leave. 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for them because they're a major inconvenience. 41 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: At this point, they have no way to take care 42 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: of themselves if we put them out. What can we 43 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: do to get these grown ups out of here? Wow, 44 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: this is a really sad letter. Smoking weed in the 45 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: backyard not working. This has got to stop right now. Okay, 46 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: and downsizing to a nice condo sounds really nice. And 47 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: I gotta ask where is their mother? She probably doesn't 48 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: let them take advantage of her space like you guys, 49 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: You and your husband have to present some sort of 50 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: united front. I know you said your husband has a 51 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: soft spot, but you all got to get this together 52 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: so you can talk to these entitle, spoiled kids. You 53 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: gotta let them know things are about to change. The 54 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: free rides over. You gotta set a deadline for them 55 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: to get it together and get out. They need jobs, 56 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: they need apartments so they can get out as soon 57 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: as possible. They should start looking now. You as parents 58 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: are enabling them. That's what you're doing. You have these 59 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: kids have no incentive to get out. They have free meals, 60 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: free room and boards. They can smoke weed whenever they 61 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: want to. You guys, don't say anything. I mean, what's 62 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: their incentive to leave? I mean, the sun does have 63 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: a place to live, so you definitely shouldn't be letting 64 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: him come and go as he pleases. I know you 65 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: love your kids. We all love our kids, but there 66 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: does come a time when we have to let go 67 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: so they can spread their wings and get started on 68 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: their own paths, on their own journey. They'll figure it out. 69 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: They will figure it out as we all did, and 70 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: they'll thank you later. All right, but you've got to 71 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: tell them to get out now. Set that deadline and 72 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: stick to it. You and your husband together as a couple, Steve. 73 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: All of us on this show that have adult children 74 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: know what this letters about and were sick of this 75 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: type of letter. Yeah, we feel for you, we understand you, 76 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: we empathize with you. But at the same time, I've 77 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: had to do some things. Now, let me tell you 78 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: something that ain't all ease because I'm all through this letter. 79 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: I had blended family all this here, so you know, 80 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: here we go. Y'all met at a rap concert. Both 81 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: of y'all sixteen year old daughters. Was at the concert. 82 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: Y'all met waiting on them to come outside. Your daughters 83 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: came out first with her friends. You all clicked. He 84 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: asked for your number before you walked away. A year later, 85 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: you all were married. Your daughters, who were both sixteen, 86 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: didn't really know each other, so they demanded separate bedrooms. 87 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: As we struggled to blend our families after marriage. Blending 88 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: the families not easy, especially the older they get, the 89 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: more opinionated they are, and they have personalities, and they 90 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: not necessarily would have been friends. They just became family. Thing. 91 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: With families, you don't get to pick your family. You 92 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: do get to pick your face. So when you throw 93 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: them into this situation, it is going to be some difficulties. 94 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: Right now, after seven years, you live with two twenty 95 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: three year old women, and yeah, as a son is nineteen, 96 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 1: come and go as he pleases. He break up with 97 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: his girlfriend, he's back on our couch for a few weeks. 98 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: All of our bedrooms, all of our closes, two stories 99 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: rooms have been taken up our grown children. My husband 100 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: and I have a decent couple, and my man works 101 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: hard and so do I. It's just so much going 102 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: wrong in this letter. First of all, they've been at 103 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: y'all's house way too long. Now I'm off for your 104 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 1: solution when we come back. But let me say this first. 105 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: We brought our children up in the church Okay, so 106 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: much for that, So much for that. I don't even 107 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: know why you put that in there. I don't know, 108 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if that was supposed 109 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: to change something. Because you bought them up in the church, 110 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: you can back them up in the church, and you 111 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: can bring them up in the club when they ain't 112 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: doing what they supposed to do. They ain't or what 113 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: they're supposed to do. And we made sure they went 114 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: to college. All three of them dropped out. Okay, so 115 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: now you're making adult decisions on your own, then it 116 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: is time for adult consequences when I come back to me. 117 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: This whole letter is about consequences and you have to 118 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: allow and I've learned this as a parent. You have 119 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: to allow for the consequences to occur. It's the only 120 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: way they're gonna learn. And it's not consequences that you inflict. 121 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: It's consequences that happen from their decisions. We'll go over 122 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: this when I come in. Hang on, Steve. We'll have 123 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up at twenty three 124 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour subject my children are inconvenient. We'll 125 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to 126 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, 127 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. And my children friends are inconvenient. Well, well, well, 128 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: well ain't they all? Sometimes your children get on your 129 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: last damn nerves. Oh they don't think they do, but 130 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: they do. And guess what the good news is they 131 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: children gonna get on they damn nerves too, nan nan. 132 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: So that's how I've been. I'll be looking at my 133 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: son when kids now, and he'd be talking to me. 134 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't even be listening ahead the time, when listening 135 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: whatever whatever, you was, that same damn problem, you tell me. So. 136 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: Now we got these couple that gotten married. They have 137 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: two daughters. At sixteen, they blended the family. They're having difficulties. 138 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: The daughters demanded each separate bed rooms. Uh, they struggle 139 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: with their marriage. They got a nineteen year old boy 140 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: that comes and go when he pleased. If he break 141 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: up with his girlfriend, he back on their couch for 142 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: a few weeks. All the bed rooms and closets and 143 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: storage is taken up by grown children. And you all 144 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: are decent couple, you and your husband. Y'all raised your 145 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: kids in church, which whatever, anyway, we made sure they 146 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: went to college. Now all three of the kids have 147 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: decided to drop out of college. This is where your 148 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: consequences have to begin. The one thing I've taught my 149 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: children is this, the older you get them more die 150 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: of the consequences. So you can make these mistakes at 151 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: a child, and then your parents are helping. But the 152 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: older you get, my man, the more die of the consequences. 153 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna stop the consequences from happening to you. 154 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: So once they decided to drop out of college, then 155 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 1: guess what they needed to develop then was a plan 156 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: of action since you don't want to go to college, 157 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: but they ain't had one, and you all didn't allow 158 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: them to have one because you all let them come 159 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: back to the home. Now all three of them then 160 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: dropped out, and now they smoking weed, and you sure 161 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: your son does too. He just that hiding it. The 162 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: girls smoke weed in y'all's backyard, and the neighbors used 163 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: to complain, but now they just accepted, like we do. 164 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: Really seem to me, like you need some rules at 165 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: your house. See, you can stay here, but these are 166 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: the rules at our house. You can't smoke weed in 167 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: the backyard. It's no longer acceptable, and if you smoke 168 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: weed in the backyard, we're gonna put you out. But 169 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: they ain't got no consequences, so they do what they 170 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: want to do. Now, you say you've talked to your 171 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: husband about selling your house and downsizing so you can 172 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: get rid of these freeloaders because they won't have any space. 173 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: But he got a soft spot for these grown lazy women. 174 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you don't. That's why you wrote the letter. 175 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: You want to redo your kitchen and then, but you 176 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 1: don't want to make the place nice until the freeloaders league. 177 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for them because they have a 178 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 1: major inconvenience. At this point, they have no way to 179 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: take care of themselves. This is where you and I 180 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 1: have some problems. They have no way to take care 181 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: of themselves. Well, that's not true. They do have a 182 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: way once they have to find a way. I'm gonna 183 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: repeat that, they do have a way once they have 184 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: to find a way. But as Shirley said, you've enabled them, 185 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: so now they ain't got to find a way. We're 186 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: in the backyard smoking weed. We got a roof over 187 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: our head, we got some need and we can get around. 188 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: So what do we need to do anything for if 189 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: we put them out? What can they excuse me? I'm sorry, 190 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: we have no way to take They have no way 191 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: to get care of themselves if we put them out. 192 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: What can we do to get these grown ups out 193 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 1: of here? First of all, you need to set a deadline. 194 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: That's for starters. You all have six months to find 195 00:10:55,400 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: a job. Whoever doesn't have a job will be stayin 196 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,359 Speaker 1: with the one that does have a job. But everybody 197 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: got six months to find a job. Secondly, you and 198 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: your husband stop cooking at home and y'all go out 199 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: to dinner. I don't care if it's to go up 200 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 1: and Popeyes. I don't give a damn. If it's to 201 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: go get salad at Wendy's Ball salad Ball, I don't 202 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: give a damn if it's go to Jermy Nicks, I 203 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: don't care what it is. Y'all need to stop cooking. 204 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: Starved their ass out. See stop making conveniences. Yeah, so 205 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: stop cooking, go out to dinner, set of day inline 206 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 1: and then they have to realize consequences. You have to 207 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: allow life to hand them what they're putting in. See 208 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 1: you get out of life what you put in. So 209 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: if you don't allow your kids to suffer consequences, Daddy, 210 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: can I baw some money? But what you need? And 211 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: then they tell me, I'm gonna know ibmation to give 212 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 1: you the money. It depends on what's happening in your life. 213 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now, for the most part, 214 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: I forced them to figure it out. I forced them 215 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: to figure it out. And you know what, they go do? 216 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: They go and figure it out because you know what 217 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: we all did. We all struggle to give our kids 218 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: a better life than the one we had. And in 219 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: that process, you all, we created a safety net for 220 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: them that we didn't have. And so now guess what 221 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: they do. They keep diving and laying in the damn net. 222 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: And that's all they do because they think they're smart 223 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: and they take advantage of the safety net. You have 224 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: to remove the net. I'm sorry. It's the only way 225 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: to make it happen and let them figure it out. 226 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: That's the only way to do it. Deadline, you gotta 227 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: get your ass out, that's right, Steve. Post your comments 228 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,439 Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram 229 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: and Facebook. 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