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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached

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Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here

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Speaker 2: beeB, Hi Cheeky's, I just want to say that your

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Speaker 2: new podcast pictures are beautiful. You look so gorgeous. You

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Speaker 2: so much. I relate to you so much. I also

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Speaker 2: lost my mom. It's going to be twelve years this year.

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Speaker 2: It feels like yesterday. But every time you talk about

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Speaker 2: but I always get super emotional. I'll be listening to

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Speaker 2: all good. I love it, love it. I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to bring up something. You know, I have a group

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Speaker 2: like it feels like if I'm bragging, you know, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I have such a great relationship, and then knowing they don't.

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Speaker 2: So how should I.

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Speaker 1: Go about that? Should I care?

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Speaker 2: Should I continue, you know, talking about how amazing it

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Speaker 2: I don't know, what do you think? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I love this question. Thank you, Mama, sit Mosa,

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Speaker 1: thank you for all you guys. Oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 1: me so inspired. AnyWho, Okay, so in regards to your question,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I don't think there's anything wrong with

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Speaker 1: I used to be that way. I used to be

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Speaker 1: Like you have to know that your magic is your magic,

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Speaker 1: that was a mouthful. I'm sorry, but I just needed

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Speaker 1: to explain it. Please keep us updated, you know we

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Speaker 1: love updates. And I love that you finally left a

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