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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and we are actually in

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Speaker 2: the Bachelor Mansion.

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Speaker 1: Today with one of our favorite people, christ the Sutter.

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Speaker 2: First, you know, I forget that you're the first bachelorette ever.

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Speaker 3: Ever, Wow, how did you feel?

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Speaker 1: How did you feel about Jim? Do you think she

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Speaker 1: did well?

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Speaker 3: I think she did amazing. I mean, please tell me

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Speaker 3: that you agree.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I think she did a great job.

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Speaker 5: Amazing. I love her, like love her. We talked like

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Speaker 5: I went on the show and gave her some advice

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Speaker 5: and we stayed in touch.

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Speaker 1: What was that advice? What was the what was the

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Speaker 1: one thing you said to her that you thought stuck?

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Speaker 5: So I don't know that it's stuck, but the one

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Speaker 5: piece of advice that she was going into fantasy suites.

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Speaker 5: And you know, if you watch the show, everyone out there,

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Speaker 5: you know that she had a hard time thinking about

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Speaker 5: the fantasy suites. She didn't want to be intimate with

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Speaker 5: more than one person or before she chose her final guide, right,

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Speaker 5: or they chose each other. And so my advice was

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Speaker 5: just two do what she felt was right for her.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, screw the producers. Screw the show, do what's right

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Speaker 3: for her.

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Speaker 5: And also, like in my my season, what happened on

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Speaker 5: the Bachelor was I was the runner up. I hate,

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Speaker 5: I hate using that term, but it's what I want.

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Speaker 5: And two days before the.

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Speaker 4: Fun to think of new terminologying of how everything falls

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Speaker 4: in line, Like we need to think of specialty terminology

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Speaker 4: for the Bachelor because that just doesn't feel like a f.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was number too, but I don't be number two either.

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Speaker 5: So I get to the Bachelorette and I'm having all

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Speaker 5: these feelings for Ryan, but because of what happened to

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Speaker 5: me on the Bachelor, I didn't want.

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Speaker 3: To give into it.

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Speaker 5: So he was like professing his love, like giving me

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Speaker 5: letters and writing that he loved me and all of

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Speaker 5: these things.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't give him anything.

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Speaker 5: And to this day I do regret it that I

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Speaker 5: didn't give him any racilation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: I feel like like fantasy Suite now is just kind

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Speaker 2: of it's part of the show and it's normalized as

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Speaker 2: it should be.

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Speaker 1: But for your season, was there like a stigma.

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Speaker 2: Around especially a woman like going to the fantasy suites

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Speaker 2: or a woman bringing three guys into the fantasy suites.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, So.

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Speaker 5: I had a stigma on me, not just fantasy suites,

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Speaker 5: the entire season, like a cloud over my head from

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Speaker 5: the get go. When I was announced because it was

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Speaker 5: a woman, twenty five guys, so literally I was called.

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Speaker 3: Every name in the book.

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Speaker 5: I feel like in the press they were like, she's

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Speaker 5: going to look like a slut, She's you know, all

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Speaker 5: the things right, and it's crazy.

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Speaker 4: It was crazy in print that would be like Sutter.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, it's so all good. But yes, at that

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Speaker 5: point in time, I was called everything. So there was

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Speaker 5: a stigma on me before I even started the show,

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Speaker 5: and so going into it, I mean there was a

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Speaker 5: there was a moment where Jamie blythe who if you

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Speaker 5: like literally he smiles and it's.

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Speaker 3: Like he's a toothpaste commercial where it's.

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Speaker 1: Like, actually, I actually I actually could picture.

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Speaker 3: Him and you probably you might know him. He's from Chicago.

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Speaker 2: You're from Chicago, from Chicago, but I know who he is.

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Speaker 2: He's got like blondish hair.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, he played basketball anyway, So he were on

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Speaker 5: this group date and he asked if he could kiss me,

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Speaker 5: And this is probably the third day in or something

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Speaker 5: like people kiss everybody the first night in these days, right,

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Speaker 5: and you hadn't kissed anyone yet. I hadn't kissed anyone yet.

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Speaker 5: And he was very, very, very slow.

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Speaker 4: But you also probably had the public's judgment of you

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Speaker 4: in the back of your mind when you're making these

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Speaker 4: decisions about intimacy and SIGs.

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Speaker 3: Thank you exactly. So he asked if he could kiss me,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, maybe on the cheek.

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Speaker 2: And now she's proud exactly right, they're still calling her

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Speaker 2: yeah right, you know they were not.

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Speaker 5: Just filming, but no, So I had it in the

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Speaker 5: back of my mind about the fantasy fantasy suites. I

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Speaker 5: totally understand where Jones coming from. I mean, the fact

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Speaker 5: of the matter is she has an entire family, grown children,

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Speaker 5: grandchildren who are going to be watching this show. And

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Speaker 5: as opposed to like when you're young, you're going on

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Speaker 5: the show and you're thinking about your parents and your

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Speaker 5: totally respect that she was trying to be more conservative

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Speaker 5: and honor the people who had told her prior like

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Speaker 5: this is going to be scary watching you, and that

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Speaker 5: she should go her own path because it worked out, Yes, right,

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Speaker 5: did exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So your season of The Bachelorette was how many

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Speaker 1: years ago?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: So we filmed well in two thousand and two, two

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Speaker 5: thousand and February two thousand and two.

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Speaker 1: I think it's okay, so almost so twenty something nears.

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Speaker 5: So we celebrated our twenty first wedding anniversary about a

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Speaker 5: week ago.

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Speaker 3: For it nothing, I like, what did we do?

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Speaker 5: I think, Oh, we went to lunch in this cute

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Speaker 5: little town called Littleton, like downtown, and then just walked

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Speaker 5: around and shopped nice.

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Speaker 3: But I think we had a hockey game.

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Speaker 1: We did.

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Speaker 5: We went to a hockey game. We watched our son

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Speaker 5: play hockey. Nowhere else we'd want to be in the

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Speaker 5: world besides watching our daughter dance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're was that the last time you were

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Speaker 2: on reality TV?

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Speaker 5: So I went on and did Dancing with the Okay,

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Speaker 5: first season of Dancing with the Stars.

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Speaker 3: There were six of us.

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Speaker 4: It was the first season ever.

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Speaker 5: First season ever. I was the very first one ever

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Speaker 1: You're the first season of Dancing with the Stars as well.

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Speaker 4: Wow, So how has it changed since that? Dancing with

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Speaker 4: the Stars, so many more people, more budgets and more

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Speaker 4: everything budget.

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Speaker 5: There's on your season, Rachel Hunter, like supermodel, Joey McIntyre,

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Speaker 5: the block.

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Speaker 3: Huh a Vander holy.

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Speaker 5: Field listen, I was a dancer, okay. I danced for

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Speaker 5: the Miami Heat. Was I a ballroom dancer?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: But I was a dancer okay. And Evander Holyfield beat

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Speaker 3: Woxer, who else? Oh Seinfeld? Kelly, Kelly Monico, Who's soap opera?

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Speaker 3: And then John John O'Hurley.

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Speaker 5: I was like, what's the last name, John O'Hurley? He

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Speaker 5: was Seinfeld's like, what's the character Newman?

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Speaker 3: No, not Newman? He's uh tall, gray like gray hair.

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Speaker 1: He had the catalog.

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Speaker 3: He had the catalog on Seinfeld.

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Speaker 4: Like, if you should know anything.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, John Easton coming out with the wind, Jay Bierman.

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Speaker 3: So those it was six of us.

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Speaker 5: So even though I was the first one kicked off,

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Speaker 5: I got to sixth place, there.

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Speaker 2: Came in fifth or six one of them. Okay, we tied, well,

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Speaker 2: I was, you were probably much better than I was.

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Speaker 2: I was like, the worst it's ever done. The show's true.

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Speaker 2: So then okay, so now we see the trailer comes

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Speaker 2: off for Special Forces.

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Speaker 1: It's rumored to be like one of the most intense.

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Speaker 2: Reality shows or shows out there. How'd you make the decision.

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Speaker 3: To do it?

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Speaker 5: At first, I was like, you've got to be kidding,

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Speaker 5: No way I'm doing that. Do you know my husband,

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Speaker 5: he's a firefighter exactly. He wanted to be in the military.

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Speaker 5: He's colorblind, like, couldn't do it anyway. He would be

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Speaker 5: perfect for the show. Like really, at that point in time,

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Speaker 5: I was fifty one years old. I'm you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: I did it kind of for that reason.

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Speaker 5: So I've been a stay at home and work mom

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Speaker 5: for almost eighteen years, and I have poured myself into

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Speaker 5: my children and my family life, and I kind of

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Speaker 5: wanted to get back to me, you know, because when

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Speaker 5: you become a mom, you it's all about your kids

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Speaker 5: and your family. For a lot of women, I feel

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Speaker 5: like and that was me. I just felt like, I'm

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Speaker 5: anticipating what it's going to feel like when my kids

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Speaker 5: know who I'm going to be when they're gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: and I don't know what I want to do with

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Speaker 2: This oh I go on.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I just wanted to challenge myself. I

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Speaker 5: wanted to show myself that I can do hard things

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Speaker 5: that I wanted to meet new people.

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 5: It's a once in a lifetime opportunity to really learn

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Speaker 5: about what the military goes through and gain even more respect.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I already have respect for them, but but

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Speaker 5: they do for all of us. So I'm really thankful

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Speaker 5: that they asked me. I'm grateful for the opportunity. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: at first, I was like, uh, hell.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so did you did you and your family like

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Speaker 2: sit down once you said okay, I'm gonna do this,

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Speaker 2: did you sit down and watch?

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Speaker 5: So I watched all the time, and yes, the kids

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Speaker 5: watch the show with their friends like Max's hockey buddies.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure are going to be like, awesome, Holy crap,

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Speaker 3: what is your mom doing? Or just laugh at me along.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be laughing to myself. Let's be honest.

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Speaker 4: Did you feel any pressure about the fact that anyone

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Speaker 4: from Bachelor Nation that's done it up until this point

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Speaker 4: has made it all the way to the end?

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Speaker 3: Hell? Yes, I totally agree.

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Speaker 1: Are you aware that everyone's been really good? Definitely aware?

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Speaker 4: She didn't already known.

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Speaker 3: I knew going into it, And yes there is pressure.

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Speaker 4: Around Taylor, Cameron, and Nick Bayel are the three people

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Speaker 5: It right, and then me and Ali are on this

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Speaker 5: season coming up, and so yes, there's a lot of

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Speaker 5: pressure I feel like, but I feel like it's similar

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Speaker 5: in a way to what everyone thinks is pressure coming

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Speaker 5: when it when it comes to.

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Speaker 3: Me and Ryan staying married. So a lot of people

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Speaker 3: are like, do you feel pressure just came here?

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Speaker 5: I'm like, no, because we're happy and we're married and

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Speaker 5: we're going to work it out and we're committed.

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Speaker 4: Did you do any like physical training when you found out?

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Speaker 3: I ran more.

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Speaker 4: They don't like change the weight per person, Like Joe

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Speaker 5: So Cam Newton and I are carrying the same weight,

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Speaker 5: But I think that the reason that they don't is

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know what, Yeah, but you're not really joining

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Speaker 1: It's like they could just be.

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Speaker 3: True story, they could, but they don't.

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Speaker 1: Anything you could tease about it? Is there anything else?

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Speaker 5: I mean the tease is just to watch the trailer,

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Speaker 4: Trailer is intent. The trailer is intent.

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Speaker 5: The trailer is intense, and they're putting out more trailers

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Speaker 4: I did that? You know going into it? What was

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Speaker 4: You have an issue with a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: YEA being very deliing for sure.

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Speaker 5: I actually had a big, huge fear of water before

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Speaker 3: I taught swimming lessons too. I was a lifeguard for years.

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Speaker 3: What snorkeling is about, Like you want to go see

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Speaker 3: What like the on the planet, Like I can zero

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Speaker 4: Well, and swimming open water is so different. Like I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you have all your clothes on, you know,

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Speaker 5: it's not like you have a swimsuit on and no shoes.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they're not putting in you in like wetsuits and flippers.

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Speaker 1: My last special forces question and then we'll move on,

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Speaker 1: was it did you have?

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Speaker 2: Was there any benefit from doing a show like The

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Speaker 4: Good question.

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Speaker 5: I think so just being around the cameras, because there

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Speaker 4: And actually think about that.

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Speaker 4: Just like being able to desensitize to them really quickly.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and like the interviews and stuff like that. But

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Speaker 5: you didn't do a lot of interviews, but the interview

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Speaker 4: Feel a lot easier at that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just know how it works.

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Speaker 4: Well, should we talk about why we're here today? So

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Speaker 4: we're here today the Bachelor Mansion. We're celebrating the holidays

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Speaker 4: with iHeart. What are your plans for the holidays?

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Speaker 1: Before? Before you yeah, talked to you. This. This is

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Speaker 1: our second year in a row at the Bachelor of Mansion.

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Speaker 2: I've now been to the Bachelor Mansion more after years

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Speaker 4: Again, I actually never came here because we didn't film

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Speaker 3: Whose season were you on.

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Speaker 4: Matt James? Okay, yeah, so we were a COVID season.

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Speaker 4: So last year is the person had ever come in here.

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Speaker 4: It's weird because it's not furnished or like set up

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Speaker 3: Completely different holidays.

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Speaker 4: So happy for.

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Speaker 3: Them and their new baby girl soon. Anyways, so she's

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Speaker 3: ready to pop. She looks like she is Andy Dorfmann

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Speaker 3: pastor you date?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh yeah, I know Pastor Day.

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Speaker 5: I know. So we're just gonna hang in Denver, you know,

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Speaker 3: We miss our community, our friend the mountains.

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Speaker 1: So do you have a Christmas movie that you watch

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Speaker 3: I love elf.

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Speaker 5: We don't not like the traditional like I was just

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Speaker 5: what are your like traditions that you love? And she's like,

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Speaker 3: I guess it's like a European thing, yes, like suits

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Speaker 4: She's really look like trash and her Jammy's about jams.

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Speaker 5: I mean Ryan calls me pajama Mama, so I'm always

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Speaker 3: We don't really do that. We'll put them on, but watch.

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Speaker 1: Just didn't get me anything for Christmas, Joe.

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Speaker 4: Joe can never wait until my birthday until Christmas to

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Speaker 2: Did you.

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Speaker 4: This year?

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Speaker 2: So for for our listeners, we we are traveling starting

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Speaker 3: Yes, and where are you going?

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Speaker 1: On question?

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Speaker 4: We're going to Chicago?

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Speaker 3: Amazing Number two questions What did you get her that

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Speaker 1: I got her.

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Speaker 2: A Beory hoodie that you wanted, an over size hoodie.

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Speaker 2: And then I got her quarters of the Teel quarters

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Speaker 3: Out by the way because you got them for Serena,

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Speaker 1: Know I have I have great fashion sense.

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Speaker 3: Yes, of course you do.

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Speaker 2: And then I got her a coffee mug that said

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Speaker 4: he was like, you watched that show gossip Girl, right,

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Speaker 4: isn't that?

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Speaker 3: It's which is a gossip girl?

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Speaker 4: Like you asked me a week ago? He goes, have

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Speaker 4: you ever seen gossip Girl before? And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I watched it and he was like great, thank God

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Speaker 4: because I'm getting But I did bring you a Christmas

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Speaker 4: gift and I'm waiting till Christmas to give it to you.

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Speaker 1: Believe it or not.

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Speaker 3: Did you bring it?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, and I shipped some things to his parents' house,

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Speaker 4: which so we'll get it in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's it. Trista that's all. That's all we need

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Speaker 1: for you today. Thank you so much though for taking

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 2: We are going to hang out more and Trista before

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Speaker 2: we let you go, anything you want to plug sure.

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Speaker 4: Plug away.

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Speaker 3: Of course we talked about special courses, So for everyone

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Speaker 3: out there, watch season three on Fox on January eighth.

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Speaker 4: Can you stream it?

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Speaker 3: I think so? Yeah for sure? And then Almost Famous

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Speaker 3: Ogs my podcast with I Heart Yes.

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Speaker 2: Tune in and to our listeners, Thank you guys so

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Speaker 2: much for tuning into Better Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it and make sure you download and subscribe.

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Speaker 4: Thanks so much for listening. Happy holidays, Bye bye,