1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Spreading in with that Atilly and Tanya Brad and I 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast 3 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: Hello Everybody talking about just because this like cocky smirk 4 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: on her face in the intro place every time the 5 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: two times, it's just it's so good, Like it's so good, 6 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: you look so smagg over there. I haven't seen him 7 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: forever across the world ever. Like I literally feel like 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: I haven't seen you in one year, three sixty five days. 9 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: I know, well, it hasn't been that long days, it has, 10 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: no but it did feel like a very long time 11 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: since I saw you last. No, it's been like over 12 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: a week. That's a long time, but I know, I 13 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: yeah it is. And I think because I was seventeen 14 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: hours ahead in Japan, it really felt distant. I felt 15 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: I felt the distance. I really did, because especially sometimes 16 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: when I would like need you, I knew were like 17 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: on a different time schedule, so I was like, I 18 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: really have to figure this out on my own, don't I. Yeah, 19 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. I feel like you were very 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 1: busy though there was a lot going on via Instagram stories. 21 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: There was so much going on in the last like 22 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: two weeks. I don't even know, Like I don't even 23 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: think I could recap it all because there's so much 24 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: that's happened. Well, you almost hit a home run during 25 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: the softball game yesterday, so that's high like we should 26 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: talk about. It's called an in house home run inside 27 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: the park home. Yeah, I've kept you kept saying in house, 28 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: and I'm like, who told her it was called I'm 29 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: sure they probably didn't. I'm sure they Yeah, but it 30 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: was really like kind of crazy, explained where you were 31 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: and what you were doing. Okay, So we did this 32 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: softball game with the Jonas brother So it's like kiss 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: FM and the Jonas brothers versus this high school that 34 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: one like the obviously their their school voted them this 35 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: contest that kissed was having to play against them, so 36 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: we went to their cool and um, I only I 37 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: only went up to bat because so Joe brought Sophie 38 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: so if he was there, and she was like, please bat, 39 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: like that would just make my day. And I was like, 40 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: you know what, sure, why not, Like I'll embarrass myself, 41 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: I'll probably strike out whatever people were striking out, like 42 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: it wasn't a big deal. So I stepped up to 43 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: the plate. And I hit this ball and it literally 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: just like flies so high in the sky. I was 45 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: like staring at it, and I was like, I guess 46 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: I just run, so so I start running and then 47 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: I like get this athletic like adrenaline in me, and 48 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm just gonna go all the way. So 49 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: I'm like running around these bases and Everybody's like Tanya stop, 50 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: they were telling I was wanting him like Tanya just 51 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: kept no One told her to stop. They told me 52 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: to stop, and I just like kept on going. I 53 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna get a home run. I've never 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: never I'm the least athletic person that you could ever 55 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: meet on the planet. So this was truly like a 56 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 1: magical variance you're at at tennis, though you're not that. 57 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: I treated it like a tennis ball. That's kind of 58 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: how I held the bat like a tax bracket. Like 59 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: it was a great hit. I know, like like Joe 60 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: came up tween, he was like, I'm not gonna lie. 61 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: I was really impressive, and so if you got video 62 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: of it, I was like, this is the best ever. 63 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: I imagine if you had just stopped on third, it 64 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: would have just been like a solid I know it 65 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been almost home run, you know what I mean? Okay, 66 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: well it was right, which is not as impressive as 67 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: almost home run. Triples are actually more rare than home 68 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: runs in baseball. And you hit it, you're lefty and 69 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: you hit it to left field, which is also like 70 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: can you believe was pure athleticism, just like like you've 71 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: been trained. I'm actually so mad because I feel like 72 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: if I would have just booked it after I hit 73 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: it and I ran a little faster, I think I 74 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: could have done it a little more swinging of the 75 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: arms a little just are agility, I feel like I 76 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: could have done Yeah. Well, it was a thrill to 77 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: watch want of stories and I'm on an athletic high thing, 78 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: like I really feel like my chat pupp in my 79 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: chest a little bit, you know later or something. Maybe 80 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: I don't know what else I gottn't mean, But what 81 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: I really wanted to actually talk about today was vagina 82 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: shaving the greatest see in the history of broadcaster? Was 83 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: that a segment? No, because I don't want to forget 84 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: because the last time I forgot, and so I haven't 85 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: shaved my vaginas am I allow to say this since 86 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: like two thousand and twelve or thirteen, maybe I've been 87 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: waxing for as long as I can remember, and I'm 88 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: doing laser hair removal now, and to do that you 89 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 1: have to shave it first. Like okay, it seems like 90 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: it switched over to laser. Yeah, I'm starting. I did 91 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: my first session, so we'll talk about that after the Okay, okay, 92 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing my second one a two weeks, so you 93 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: can preprep me for that. But so I get in 94 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: a shower and I like, um, how do women do this? 95 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: Like I need to everybody that's listening that shaves their 96 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: own vagina like, props to you. It was so hard. 97 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: I had to get a mirror to put underneath me 98 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: to like get back there, Like how do you shave 99 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: back there? I was like truly in a whole another 100 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: in awe of people that shave themselves. I, as a waxer, 101 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: applaud you. And so I texted Becca and I was like, 102 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: how have you been doing this for so many years? 103 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: And how often do you do it? I just I 104 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: feel well, first of all, I do it like every 105 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: couple of days, But I also I am not like 106 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: that detail like I'm not going to the places where 107 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: you needed a mirror for every single time, but you 108 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: have to do that for laser. You have to get 109 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: like every every every last hair. Yeah, particle here, Um, 110 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: I like particles are right? Was not the person to ask, um, 111 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's a more thorough like thorough So how 112 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: often do you do a thorough job, like I would 113 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: say once a week a thorough job? Do you need 114 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: a mirror? No? I just kind of guess. I mean, 115 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: I probably miss some spots, but I wasn't awe. I 116 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: was like, Becca, I am going to really applaud you 117 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: because I haven't done it myself. And since I can remember, 118 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: and I'm realizing why I don't do it myself, I think, 119 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: I that's how I feel about you waxing though, like 120 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm in awe of the fact that you 121 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: are numb to the pain. Look at this or it 122 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: isn't all of each Okay, tell me about the laser though. 123 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: That was the easiest thing I could possibly do. I 124 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: like blinked and it was over. Okay. I don't trust 125 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: you because you also told me that's how waxing was, 126 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: and no, it was not painful. It's not painful. It's 127 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: a like you feel it a little bit. But I'm 128 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: telling you, it's the fastest thing I have ever experienced. 129 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: There's such a lie every single other person who's told 130 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: me it's like rubber bands popping. Really, come with me? 131 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: Will you come with me in my next appointment? Just 132 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: might actually like book an appointment and get it done. 133 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: I want to get it done. I'm tired of shaving, 134 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: but I don't want to wax. I don't like paying 135 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: down there. Well, here we go. Okay, this would be 136 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: really cute. Make an appointment after me. We can go 137 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: in together. Where are you going? Seven? Right here in London? Okay, okay, great, done? 138 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: December nine. It's my next appointment. Okay, I'll see what 139 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: I can do. Speaking of fans, you now have one 140 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: as a neighbor. I do she listens to the podcast? 141 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: I met her yesterday Aaron Linn No, no, no, no, 142 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: she just moved in. So you know how cheeks to 143 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: live next door to me. I mean, now have a 144 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: new neighbor. And um I saw them moving in this 145 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: weekend and I was like thinking, like what should I 146 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: get them, you know, to like welcome them into the building. 147 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: And then yesterday, I was going to my garage and 148 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: this girl's like Tanya, and I was like, like, in 149 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: my mind, I was like, she does she worked? I horror, like, 150 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, like have I met her through 151 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: something at some point? And I'm like going through my 152 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: head and she goes, I'm a huge scrubber and I 153 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: was like, no way, that is so crazy, I know. 154 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: And she was super cute and she's like I just 155 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: moved in here with my boyfriend. This is so crazy. 156 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: And she's like like apologize. She's like this must be weird, 157 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, that's fine. We're just we're sharing 158 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: a wall now. So now I feel like I need 159 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 1: to give her some sort of like face mask or 160 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: like some gloves or something to like welcome her into 161 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: the building because she likes a scrubber, you know what 162 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: I mean. Medical I was like, gloves, Tanya set ground rules. 163 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure this person is lovely and everything, but she's 164 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: super cute, but you wouldn't want someone like posting on 165 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: the Facebook group, Oh my gosh, Tanya brought a boy 166 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: home last night. You know, Like I wonder, like I'm 167 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: sure she wouldn't cross that line, but bringing that up no, 168 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: I don't think she is probably the underlying rules of okay, 169 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: but you know, I don't know. Things can get rolly 170 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: in that Facebook group right when somebody is on the 171 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: trail of a new dude. All bets are off. She 172 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: seems super chill, she seems like a homie. Are you 173 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: gonna she's gonna be a receiver of all your neighborly gifts? Yeah, 174 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: And like I've actually really pumped because Aaron and I 175 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: are going to make little um, we're making Christmas cookies 176 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: for our neighbors. So I'm going to make sure we 177 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: can put like a little like syringe or something on hers. 178 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: That should be easy. Artists that you are maybe not 179 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: a syringe, maybe like a one of the heart that 180 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: okay cut um, Well that's fun. Yeah, and you've just 181 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: been gone. Wait, tell me about your trip. Is it 182 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: romantic over there? It is magical. They're really It's literally 183 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: at the top of my list. Like if people are say, 184 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: where is your favorite places you've ever been, Japan is 185 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 1: up there because they have everything. They have the city, 186 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 1: there's always stuff to do, everything's so clean, everyone's so nice, 187 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: Like even if there's obviously a massive language barrier, they 188 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: are willing to help you to get to where you 189 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: need to go. It was just really cool. They have 190 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: warm toilet seats but days everywhere. It's just true that 191 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: it's so clean. It's so clean. And then and then 192 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: you can go to the countryside and they were like 193 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: the leaves were still like all different colors, orange and 194 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: red and yellow. It was just stunning, and there's beautiful 195 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: temples everywhere. I didn't know what to expect, like what 196 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: to expect either. I was kind of I was excited 197 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: because I've never been before, but I was like, all right, 198 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: you know, I didn't have any expectations at all. And 199 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,719 Speaker 1: everyone kept saying like Japan's my my favorite place I've 200 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: ever been. And I was like, I don't get why. 201 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 1: The food was a maze thing. Yeah, it was awesome. 202 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: How were you there a week? Anyway? There just for 203 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: fun or was this a working or what? Well? I 204 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: went with this travel company called Nokin Snap and basically 205 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: this sounds like sponsored, but it's just the coolest thing ever. 206 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: They um basically create an itinerary for you, so it's 207 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: like a like a like a trip planning. Yeah, so 208 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 1: you just say where you want to go. They give 209 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: you suggestions on place, like things you should see, visit, 210 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: like attractions. They give you restaurants you should go eat, 211 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: hotels where you should stay, how to get from one 212 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: place to another. It was just they handled everything. But 213 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: it was amazing. Yeah, it was awesome. I don't know 214 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: Haley who's half Japanese but doesn't speak Japanese but wanted 215 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: so badly to be able to communicate. She understand no, 216 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: but like she knew a few, like like phrases that 217 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: were enough. She knew how to say, like I don't 218 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: speak Japanese, so that got into like a cab or something. 219 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: They knew that we were not. Did you pick up 220 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: any Japanese can Hi is yes? Hi? Hi is yes um? 221 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: That could be confusing. Yeah, that was it though, really 222 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: picked up a lot over there. Oh already got because 223 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm this or something is thank you. I heard that 224 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 1: a lot because they're very They're very nice, and I 225 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,599 Speaker 1: feel like I here already got the A lot he 226 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: got though when you're where I don't know why. When 227 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm like at the Parmer's Market, I don't know why 228 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: have I heard that so much? A we got though? 229 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: I don't know why your restaurants actually could be when 230 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: you walk in, yeah, they say something. We had jinkle 231 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: ball over the weekend and our staff holiday party for 232 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: the Secret Show. There was talk of time, you're bringing 233 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 1: someone to the Secrets Holiday party, but that did not happen. 234 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: When choose you chose songs, or he wasn't available, or 235 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: you just didn't ask. Um kind of a little combo 236 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: of all of the above. It was like a kind 237 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: of like I knew I knew his plans for the weekend, 238 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: so I and then like the week kind of got 239 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: away from me, and then I was like thinking about 240 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: it so much that then I was like, um, I 241 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: just kind of want to go. And then we made 242 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 1: plans for that night because our party was during the day, 243 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: which was a little bit different, you know, like for 244 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: what we normally do. So I had plans with him 245 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: that night after. So it's kind of like two tiered 246 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: do you have a few drink ease at the party. 247 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: I got so wasted I could telling your story. You 248 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: could you really good? I told I was like, she's 249 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: so drunk, and she's like, how do you know. She's 250 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: like I feel like that's just Tanya, and I'm like, no, 251 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: that's yeah. Because The party was from one to five, 252 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: and so I feel like we always just like all 253 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: kind of get drunk together and Mark doesn't because Mark 254 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: doesn't drink, but I've never been drunk. Everybody else gets 255 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: like pretty saucy, and so we're but we ended up. 256 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 1: So then I had dinner with him at eight thirty, 257 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: and so I was like, well, I don't want to 258 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: go home and just like hang out at my apartment 259 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 1: until dinner, being drunk at home, like I'll probably pass out, 260 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like there's a lot of 261 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: probability not not getting to dinner, and so like I'll 262 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: just like stay and everybody like hung out. Got another 263 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: drink with Tory, and I was like, I need to 264 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: stop drinking because I saw myself starting to like sway. 265 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 1: So then I like start pounding waters, like just like 266 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: pounding waters. Um. I don't think that worked at all. 267 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: And then I had two more drinks at dinner, so 268 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you were on a good one. 269 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: I was on a good one. Like Sunday came and 270 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: I literally was like, I don't think I can move 271 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: off of my couch like good. I didn't get off 272 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: my couch until two thirty PM. That's good for you. You 273 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: You needed that. You had a lot of going on. 274 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: I loved the stories that Sierra did of you and 275 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: her husband Eric. It was really funny because we were 276 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: just like literally honed in together, like in every corner. 277 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: It's actually really funny. Ryan walked up to me and 278 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: he was like, I was standing with Sierra's husband and 279 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: she's like is he goes, is this the dude? And 280 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: I was like, your husband. But in all fair fairness, 281 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: he was kind of turned to the side, So I 282 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: mean yet because he just saw a male figure next 283 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: to me, not necessarily a face. So did the guy 284 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: that you're dating know that? Like after the party, did 285 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: you say like, oh, yeah, I was gonna bring you 286 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: but yeah, um a lot. And you know, it's funny though, 287 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: when I at the end of the party, like there's 288 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: a part of me that was happy to be there 289 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: alone because it's such a nice time to like bond 290 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: with like our coworkers and their significant others. And there 291 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: was a lot of people that that I hadn't met before, 292 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: and like there's something really just kind of special and 293 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: fun about that. And I feel like this new guy, 294 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm still getting to know him, so he's not like 295 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: it's not like my co workers are meeting like my 296 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: husband or you know, like something like that. Like I 297 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: don't know. So there's after I left, it kind of 298 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: was like I was kind of happy that I was 299 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: there alone. You know that makes sense? Yeah, is said 300 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: guy still the leader in the car race? He's still 301 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: the leader in the car rate car race? But can 302 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: I tell you guys something. There's this song on Camiric 303 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: Cabeo's new album that's called should Have Said It, And 304 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like I'm living that those lyrics 305 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: right about those lyrics. So there are a few men 306 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: from my past that have been coming in strong, coming 307 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: back around in the in the picture, and it's so 308 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: funny because it's like that's saying, well, I guess I'm 309 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: not when it rains it pours, because I hate that 310 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: because it's like it's not like it's pouring, but do 311 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's like you're happy, you've 312 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: got something kind of going on, and then these other 313 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: people come back that you used to have the feeling 314 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: or like you used to have this like you know, 315 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: connection to and then it kind of makes you second 316 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: guess everything. You're like, well, shoot, are you second guessing 317 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: with any of them? There's one that I'm like, well, 318 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, do I know about this one? I mean, 319 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: put put that one out there forever. And I was drinking. 320 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: That's how I knew you were drunk. That was the 321 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: one that I was really chorus, So you want me now? 322 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: That's funny because he didn't give a back then coming 323 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: back around. So sorry because there's no room in my 324 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: bed and I'm all good now someone else is getting 325 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: all of me. You wanted me so desperately. You should 326 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: have said it. I want you to. We just on 327 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: a segment where you read like, yeah, that's really good. 328 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: It's so funny because I was listening to the album 329 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, I've never felt more seen by 330 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: a song in this moment of life. But yeah, it's 331 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 1: really weird. It's plenty of guys coming around, and they 332 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: should have said it then. If they would have said it, 333 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 1: then who knows what might happened now? Too late one 334 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 1: of these guys, because I feel like he's really been 335 00:17:55,040 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: coming in hot on your Instagram. I know it's the 336 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: weird I'm telling you, it's the weirdest thing. Like I'm like, 337 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: have you ever talked like had any like connection with him. 338 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: You know what's funny. I think I kissed him on 339 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: New Year's on a New Year's maybe, Like, how do 340 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 1: you not know if that happened. I'm pretty sure I 341 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 1: did because I was in New York. It was like 342 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: I was there for the ball drop and I was 343 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: at like some club and I think he performed, and 344 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: I'm I'm like ninety it was him, and we all 345 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: were like kind of going around like kissing each other. 346 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, kissing orgy. Yeah, but we were like all 347 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 1: outside on this rooftop. So there was like maybe ten 348 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 1: of us and we were all just kind of going 349 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: around like whopping here. I'm pretty sure he was one 350 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: of them, So he's coming back around. Should have said it. 351 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 1: He was not onto the top of my mind for this, 352 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, it's the one guy you're thinking about. There's 353 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 1: a bunch of others, aren't there, just like you should 354 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: have said it. Yeah, it's very strange. All right, let's 355 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: take a break. I have a game we can play 356 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: if you want to. Yeah, yeah, I love games. 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I so I'm keeping things just a 406 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: little sanzy with this new guy because I'm just trying 407 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 1: to like, you know, figure it out szy in terms 408 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: of like talking about him, all right, And I've told 409 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: Ryan this, but at the party, I was like, so 410 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: like saucy, and he was asking me about him, and 411 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 1: I just literally whip out my phone and start show 412 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: him photos, like just like going through like a like 413 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: an album of photos showing Ryan like why did I 414 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 1: do that? That's weird? Like I'm like, cut, It's like, 415 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,959 Speaker 1: he's a good looking dude. I was like, thanks, he is. 416 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: He's cute. Look really cute together. Thank you so much. 417 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 1: I feel the same. Hey. By the way, scrubbing In 418 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: Live is coming to San Francisco. We need everybody to 419 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: get their tickets now at Marines Memorial Theater. This is 420 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: February one. Ring in February Rebecca Antonia Live. Tickets are 421 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 1: on sale now at Ticketmaster dot com ring in February. 422 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: It's gonna be a fun night. It is gonna be 423 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: a really fun night. And it's also so February first 424 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: is like close enough to the beginning of the new year, 425 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: so you know we're going to have all of our 426 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: whole like visions by that time, and we can really 427 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 1: kind of like dig in and hone in and like 428 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: plan a new year together. Yeah, doesn't that sound like fun? 429 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: It sounds like a great time. Speaking of I just randomly, 430 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: I was just I'm obviously a little bit jet lag, 431 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: but I was up last night and I saw that 432 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick season of The Bachelors on Netflix. Randomly. You 433 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: have to Anyways, I watched the first episode and there's 434 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 1: this girl if I can't remember her name from l A. 435 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: She got sent home the first night, the first HROs ceremony. 436 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: But she's like I make vision, but shows her like 437 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: cutting out her vision board. I was like, that would 438 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: be don you on the show. I think you'd make 439 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: it further than the first time. Thank you so much. 440 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: But you have to watch Jason Mesnick season. You're gonna 441 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: fall in love with him and understand why I'm like 442 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: so obsessed with him. He has Ben Higgins and kind 443 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: of Peter Pilot Pete vibes. For sure. It's so funny. 444 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: I never realized that. And look he's still married to 445 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: the girl he chose. Well kind of choke. Yeah. Um, 446 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: So this game is called do you know me? It's 447 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: a board game. It's really yeah, it's kind of fun. Yeah. Um. 448 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: We played this in the Morning Show, and this is 449 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 1: the kind of thing you might be playing with your 450 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: families this holidays. Reason because I guess it's kind of 451 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: a big deal this year. Uh, did you pull out 452 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: a card and you say it does Blank? So and so? Like, 453 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 1: for example, did Blank have a cat when they were 454 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,360 Speaker 1: a kid? That's not one of them. I just made 455 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: it up. And then we all go around and guess 456 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 1: whether you did or not, and whoever gets it right 457 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: gets a point. So what was that? So start with Tanya. 458 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 1: I've chosen a card here, and we'll all debate as 459 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: to whether or not she has ever done this. Has 460 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: Tanya ever done it in a car? Yes? Okay? Beck 461 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 1: was gonna say yes, Easton, Yes, Okay, I'm gonna say no. 462 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: Just to be a contrarian, I'm gonna say no. And 463 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 1: Tanya's thinking about it right now, I know the answer. Okay, 464 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,880 Speaker 1: please do never ever done it in a car? I'm 465 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: sure I prefer the bed. Yeah, I mean we all 466 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 1: prefer the bed. Like wow, like no sexual acts or 467 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 1: sex in general, sex in general. I've made sexual acts 468 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 1: in a car. Okay. I've given road Head a lot 469 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: of saying, but that does not count, right, I would 470 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,360 Speaker 1: say that does not count. I would say this implies 471 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,360 Speaker 1: the full act in the car. Thank you very much. 472 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 1: All right, question for Becca? Has Becca ever thrown up 473 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: in public? I'm going to answer this with full knowledge 474 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: of yes, throw this one out. I just know her well. Yeah, 475 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: but we now know we know what to say now 476 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: because you said you wanted I talked about this too 477 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 1: publicly for it too and like it was a video 478 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: taped too aggressive. Let me pick another card here. Has 479 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: Becca ever bought a pregnancy test? I'm gonna go ahead 480 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 1: and say no, okay, no Eastern. Yes, But for someone else, 481 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: I'm also saying no on that one, Becca. No. Okay, 482 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: there we go. I'm in lead by the way where 483 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: we're going and were going to Easton? All right, let's 484 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: go to Easton. Has Eastern ever had a crush on 485 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: a friend's sibling. I'm gonna say yes. I'm gonna say 486 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: yes too. Well, then i'm gonna say no. I don't 487 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 1: have a good reason for it. I'm just gonna say no. 488 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: Eastern Yes, I remember this. Who was she I had 489 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: a crush on and then dated my friend's older sister. Wow, 490 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 1: like a guy friend. I knew that. I was like, 491 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 1: he's like fully talked about this past. I think I'm 492 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 1: actually winning this. You are tied. Now we're tied. This 493 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: was Andy's are no, no no, my friend Ryan from 494 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: high school older sisters. These cards have gotten less interesting. 495 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a good one for me. Have 496 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: I ever lied on my resume? I'm gonna say yes. 497 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say no, even though my gut says to 498 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: say yes. I'm gonna go with no. S yes. But 499 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: it's more of an embellishment than a lie. Exactly. That's 500 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 1: where I was. Just it's either a liar, it's not 501 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: a lie. An embelliment is a lie, Okay, okay, because 502 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: not the truth. So I definitely have Yeah, Yeah, for sure, 503 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: I was rooting for your Well. One was more of 504 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: an embellishment. One was to say, when it lifted education, 505 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: the University of Wisconsin, which is true, but I didn't 506 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: graduate from there, but there's an implication that you did 507 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: when you put it on a resume, So that's of 508 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: an embellishment. But also when I first moved here was 509 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 1: trying to get acting work. I literally made up movies 510 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: that didn't exist. So when when I actually applied for 511 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: this job back in the day, I literally took what 512 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: it was like, like on the website, what it said 513 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: that the job required, and I put all those things 514 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: like in my resume. And then when I got the job, 515 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: I literally was like, like, I don't know how to 516 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: do half of this stuff, like what it was like, 517 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:12,439 Speaker 1: red carpet reporting, exporting audio from blot blow to blow, 518 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: all this stuff. And I was just like, I guess 519 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna learn, and I'm going to do it fast. Well, 520 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,360 Speaker 1: all of that stuff is teachable, That's okay. I mean 521 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 1: it's not that big of a risk. You could almost 522 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: learn it, you know, you go into some store or 523 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 1: something and learn it before you get the job. Yeah, 524 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 1: can you make sure to bleep my curse word? I 525 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,199 Speaker 1: always do. Just felt one of the main parts of 526 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 1: my job on this podcast, especially on some of the 527 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: other ones taking a little raunchy. It's really you know, 528 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: around your sailor anyway. So I don't know if that 529 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: game was that great, but I was. Okay. I hope 530 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: you enjoyed it. If you're still listening, we have somebody 531 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: we're going to call in surprise. I can give you 532 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: more details on that in a second, but I don't 533 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 1: want to give too much away because it's kind of funny. 534 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: Oh there was something else I wanted to talk about 535 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: two with you with me. I feel like it was 536 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:05,479 Speaker 1: something in the Pop Cultures site. Guys, time has got 537 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 1: a big weekend. She's gonna be starting to watch some 538 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: of the Netflix. Yeah, I'm like getting into then Oscar's possibility. 539 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm start like getting in on all 540 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 1: that stuff. What's what are your tops for the weekend. 541 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to watch Marriage, a marriage story this weekend 542 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: and Irishman. The Irishman is three and a half hours. 543 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: I've been watching it a little. It's like, you know 544 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 1: what they say, if you have to eat an elephant 545 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: one bite at a time, and that's what I've been doing. 546 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: I've been watching like twenty minutes at a time and 547 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 1: trying to get through The Ironman for weeks now, and 548 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: it is good. I do enjoy I don't know the 549 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: Tanya will like. I like those kind of mafia movies. 550 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. That's tiniest thing. It's like good Fellas. 551 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 1: These are good movies, but I don't know the time. 552 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: And you know how hard it is that I'm gonna like, 553 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put the marvelous Mrs maisl on the back 554 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 1: burners that I can like start watching these movies. Story 555 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: is a brief two hours and seventeen minutes brief. So 556 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: it's a movie and not a show a Netflix, which 557 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: is kind of great that these Oscar nominated movies are 558 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: on potentially Oscar nominated movies are on Netflix. It's a 559 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 1: real time samer. Yeah, is that what you wanted to 560 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 1: talk about? About? That wasn't it? What was it? It's 561 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: gonna drive me nuts? Why don't we take a break? 562 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 1: And what was it? This is what happens in like 563 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: a we don't see each other and then like b 564 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: I don't write things down and my brain is just 565 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: like a blob. All right? Pop culture? Is it a 566 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 1: music thing? Like that Camila album? New music? You're into 567 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: something with the Jonas Brothers. Couldn't be a TV show 568 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: that you're into because Masal's back. Um, lots of good 569 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: shows Netflix, Disney Plus. Is it a movie thing we 570 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: just talked about. Movies didn't seem to ring any bells. 571 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't know if any bells 572 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: can be wrong in my head right now. Is it 573 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: a book you're reading, something motivational, something you really enjoyed 574 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 1: and really got you all dialed in. How's your workbook going? 575 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys, I'm going to be a 576 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 1: new woman. We know it's really just in the next week, goodbye, 577 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: say goodbye to her because I'm coming in hot. I 578 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: almost feel like you should do this workbook. Like I 579 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: know you don't want to call in the one and 580 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: you don't believe in all that stuff, But like I 581 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 1: do you not believe in it? I just I'm telling you. 582 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in therapy without having to go, 583 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: like I can do therapy is set. It's like essentially 584 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: just doing the comfort of my own home. I'm like 585 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: knee deep into a journal. I just worked on all 586 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: my dating patterns and related it back to my parents. 587 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: It was mind blowing, mind blowing, mind blowing. I'm down 588 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 1: to do that. I saw an interesting post on the 589 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: Facebook group and it was, um, you know, because we 590 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: talked about our faith a lot on the podcast, and 591 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: someone said, is there anyone else who's not religious in 592 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: this group? Um, do you sometimes feel left out or 593 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: like you're not a part? And I thought it was 594 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: a very fascinating post because you know, we talk about 595 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: it because it's part of our lives, a very important, 596 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: important part of our lives. But I thought it's so 597 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: interesting to think of how much we talk about it 598 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 1: and people are just like just like skip right over 599 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: it because it's a different belief. And I was thinking 600 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: how crazy it is, and in like a very eye 601 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 1: opening way that we're all so different and we all 602 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: have such a different story. And I'm just gonna say, like, 603 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: I see you, and I like I hear you what 604 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: you're saying, because there's a lot of times when people 605 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: are talking about something that maybe is not a part 606 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: of my life or it isn't important in my life, 607 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 1: and I just kind of like blow over it. So 608 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: I never obviously want I know that we talked about 609 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 1: it because it's our stance in our foundation, but I 610 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 1: also I hear and see the people who don't, you know, 611 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 1: believe the same things or whatever. Yeah, what, I'm still 612 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 1: just trying to figure out what that I wanted to 613 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: talk to you about. But I thought it was. I 614 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: mean it was. It is fascinating, and I think, like, actually, 615 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: what I've been getting a lot, a lot of more, 616 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: a lot of more, a lot more messages lately about 617 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: um people just kind of reaching out and being like, 618 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: thank you so much for like saying some of the 619 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: things that you do, just because I feel like we 620 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: can be emotional, like just in general, just as human beings, 621 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 1: like a lot of people, some people very emotional and 622 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: some people not so emotional. This girl wrote me and 623 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: she was like, I ended things with a guy that 624 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: I did for three weeks and I cried for three 625 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: days and she's like I didn't feel She's like I 626 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: thought embarrassed and ashamed that I did that, but she's like, 627 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 1: you know, when you open up about crying over someone 628 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: that you did it for like a month and a half, 629 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: like it makes me feel better. And I was like, 630 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: you know what, that makes me so happy, because like 631 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: who cares if it's at least you're feeling something you 632 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: know what I mean, like at least you're feeling. I 633 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 1: think that's one of the great things about you is 634 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: you're very open about every aspect of your life that 635 00:33:55,440 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: some people would be embarrassed by, like shaving still well 636 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: collapsed everybody that's doing it out there. Really I want 637 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: to be brave like um. But yeah, I don't know. 638 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: I've just been feeling like very um connected to like 639 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,879 Speaker 1: our listeners lately. Like I think maybe it was something 640 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: in the Facebook group that that struck me. But like, 641 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, I've just been feeling like very connected 642 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 1: and like very emotional, like lovy community like way. Like 643 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about the live shows because I feel 644 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 1: like it's going to be something like really special. It's 645 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: going to be like the Facebook group come to life. Yeah, 646 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: Like it's weird because even my neighbor that I met, 647 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 1: like I whenever I meet anybody that is like a scrubber, like, 648 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: I feel wildly connected to them in a weird way. 649 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, because it's it is like a unique 650 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: community that we've built and it's it's something that's very 651 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 1: special and it's different. So I think that's very normal 652 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 1: that I get. I pretty much. If I get on 653 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: the Facebook group and I you know, scroll for a 654 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 1: while and read the post, I cry almost every single time. 655 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: I know, Like there was the one about the girl 656 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: who said her friends and say she looked beautiful, and 657 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: then everybody started like like chiming and how beautiful she looked, 658 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 1: and I was like, what, It's so nice. It does that. 659 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: It is a unique situation. I think. I just love 660 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 1: that what I think what I was trying to say 661 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: with that post, no matter what background you come from, 662 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: or what you believe in or what your life is like, 663 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: there's someone in the group who is able to say like, 664 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: oh yeah, me too, and they can relate and bond 665 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,080 Speaker 1: over something. And I think that's what makes it so 666 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,360 Speaker 1: special is that there's someone for everyone in the group, 667 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,240 Speaker 1: and there's people who are looking for their their Tanya 668 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: or their Becca and they are able to find that 669 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,919 Speaker 1: person in the in this group and have the connection 670 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: because of the podcast, which is so cool, so cute. 671 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: There's a lot of comments on that post that you mentioned. 672 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: It is very interesting. I don't feel like you guys 673 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: are heavy handed with it or over the top of it. 674 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 1: I feel like you know, it comes and go it's 675 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,720 Speaker 1: just kind of part of the tapestry of the show. 676 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,840 Speaker 1: And that seems to be the general consensus is that 677 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 1: it's not too much. No no, no, no, it's just right. 678 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: I never want to apologize for talking about what's important 679 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 1: to me and like expect well, and I think that 680 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 1: the thing that you have to Like also, a lot 681 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,799 Speaker 1: of times people are asking us our opinions or like 682 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 1: how would you handle this or what would you do? 683 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times we lean on 684 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: our faith, Like I lean on my faith for so 685 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 1: many different aspects of my life, whether it's dating, relationships, 686 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: work stuff, you know, Like I always lean that way. 687 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: So I think it just comes natural for us to 688 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: talk about it, right. Yeah, I wasn't saying like, oh, 689 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,399 Speaker 1: we talked about it too much. I was just saying 690 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,439 Speaker 1: it wasn't fascinating. It was interesting because I have never 691 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: thought of that perspective of someone who's like, oh, I 692 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: don't have faith, is not like the foundation that's important 693 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 1: to me or what I lean on. But I think 694 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: you can take when we talk about our faith, put 695 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: that into whatever your foundation is and just replace it 696 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 1: and base it off of that. Um. But yeah, I 697 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 1: mean the responses were very much like. Some of them 698 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: were like oh yeah, same and talked about their background 699 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 1: with growing up in the church, or like how they 700 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: found God later in life. Whatever it is. But I 701 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,880 Speaker 1: just love that the group is like such a community 702 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 1: for everyone. It is. I'm just feeling very like warm 703 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 1: and fuzzy. Might be the time of year, I'm not 704 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 1: too sure. Well, it sounds like a good opportunity to 705 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: call someone that's lost two that coming up next. I 706 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: love that. That's it? Do we know? Well, you know what. 707 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: I love to talk about periods. Nothing to banish your sentence. 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Yeah, 754 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: it's like and it's like a little different paintings that 755 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 1: people have sent her of her dog Q And I 756 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: was like I wrote her and I was like I 757 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 1: need to do a wall of Phoebe because I have 758 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: a ton of photos of Phoebe and I want to 759 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,240 Speaker 1: frame them and put them on like a little section 760 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 1: of different shapes and sizes, And I was thinking frame 761 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 1: Bridge is the perfect company to do it. You know 762 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,319 Speaker 1: why frame Bridge is the perfect company to do that 763 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 1: for you? Why Because it's so easy. 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I just came up with this idea 789 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: in my head and I think it's quite It's gonna 790 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 1: be quite good. So we're going to do a vision 791 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 1: board party on the next podcast as to prepare what 792 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,839 Speaker 1: we want the podcast to be in So we'll think 793 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,759 Speaker 1: of a word that we want for the podcast that 794 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: will be just our theme, like it'll be everything that 795 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: we an. Every decision we make about the podcast needs 796 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: to filter through this word. So we'll come up with 797 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: that word, and then we'll come up with some like 798 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 1: just maybe some points, maybe a three P for pc A, 799 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: perhaps guests that we want to have, and we'll make 800 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 1: a little vision board for the podcast and where we 801 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 1: want to take this show on the road. Yeah, so 802 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 1: it'll be like all those things that will do next 803 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 1: week and then mark out the suggestion to add a 804 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 1: little like remembering. The first half of the podcast is 805 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: saying goodbye to second half is looking like that. I 806 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 1: love that thanking and all that it has brought into 807 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,160 Speaker 1: our lives, the people that it brought and the people 808 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 1: that I left behind. But you know what, but you 809 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: know what, all of those people had a purpose, had 810 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 1: a purpose in the days of our lives. It all happens. 811 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: Everything that happens is to your greatest benefits exactly true. 812 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 1: So we'll have a little a little little morning party 813 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:19,319 Speaker 1: for nineteen and then bring in the visioning. I love it. 814 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 1: This is really good. I just remembered my dream last night. 815 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 1: Mark and I were doing the podcast for some reason, 816 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 1: it's just us what we were doing in a s 817 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 1: MR one, and so we were really having to talk 818 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: like very sore chewing things. You know, we were like 819 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:40,839 Speaker 1: opening things like oh so typing like an unwrap a podcast. 820 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: Yeah that makes me so uncomfortable. So fast should we 821 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 1: do one, yes, yr podcast where we just talk like 822 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 1: I don't think I can do it. Actually I don't 823 00:43:55,880 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: think I could. Yeah, my open the bottle. It sounds 824 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: like a bad like four an hour or something like 825 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 1: she was like one of those people you called her 826 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:18,359 Speaker 1: like talk like gypsy Rose blenchard the bottle. I think 827 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna starch waxing you. I don't think I could 828 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: do a full podcast like the compliment you give time 829 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 1: to during the break. Oh her eyebrows right, Thank you 830 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,879 Speaker 1: so much for noticing, because nobody on the morning show 831 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,359 Speaker 1: notice my eyebrows. And I got them done, like two, 832 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,399 Speaker 1: I got them in around things. Just get them done. 833 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 1: This is a new technique. I got them laminated. Have 834 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 1: you heard of that? It's like basically a perm for 835 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,280 Speaker 1: your eyebrows. So like I used to have droopy eyebrows, 836 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 1: like the hair kind of drooped down, and now they 837 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: are standing straight up because that's like the bushy look 838 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: is like cool right now, I love it. So that's 839 00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: that I got that done. Like, so now they're going 840 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 1: to stay like this. For a few weeks, I was 841 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 1: noticing that they were a little bush here. Thank you 842 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: so much. It helps. It makes me look more awake, right, 843 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 1: no more droopy eyebrows making me look like I'm sleepy. 844 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 1: Where did you go to get those done. This girl 845 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 1: named Lisa on the Olympic. I can give your number. 846 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 1: Who did you like? Who did you gave me the idea? Yeah, 847 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 1: you know when it comes from somebody, So Haley shout out. Haley. 848 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: My makeup artist was like, she's always been telling me 849 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,439 Speaker 1: that my my eyes are droopy, but she just thought 850 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: it was like my actual eyes. And then she was like, Eureka, 851 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,720 Speaker 1: it's the hair on your eyebrows. They just drooped down. 852 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,280 Speaker 1: So she's like, if you got them laminated, and because 853 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 1: when she brushes them up and does like the gel, 854 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: they look I look very awake. So henceforth got an 855 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,080 Speaker 1: appointment the next day and here I am time to 856 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: three point thank you. You should try it. I'm into 857 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,439 Speaker 1: that you don't really droop those gonna say every time, 858 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 1: like when people get lash lifts, and then I guess 859 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 1: laminated brows, like the lash lift never works something because 860 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: I have such thick to rate eyelashes and I have 861 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 1: so many of them, and I always say, my eyelashes 862 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 1: are really stubborn, so you might need to leave it 863 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: on a little bit longer. And they're like, girl, I've 864 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 1: done all of the eyelashes and then it's done. And 865 00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: they're like, oh yeah, wow, they really are stubborn. What 866 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,399 Speaker 1: it would look like? You look so awake. I feel 867 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: like I already have like a high arch to my brow, 868 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 1: and everyone's always like, lay off the boat dog, but 869 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 1: they look fluffier your eyebrows, Like yeah, yeah, I mean already. 870 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: I don't think it would do anything bad. I just 871 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 1: might not be noticeable. So another appointment together that I 872 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 1: wasn't gonna do it, and she didn't tell you. They 873 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 1: just do it at a Kinko. They just put your 874 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: face down the laminating machine and interesting, rightly Kinko FedEx 875 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:53,360 Speaker 1: right now, FedEx ruined it. This from Emily and this 876 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 1: is so sweet that the subject line in the email 877 00:46:55,920 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 1: was easton must read wholesale crocs. Oh and then she said, Okay, 878 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 1: we lied. We're not selling holes crocs, but we need 879 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: your help on a way bigger situation. We are three 880 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 1: sisters who are the best of friends. We share much 881 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,719 Speaker 1: love for this podcast. We are all Tanya's, but we 882 00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: love beccat To. Our baby sister is turning eighteen and 883 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: becoming a modern woman on December eleven, which is tomorrow 884 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 1: as we record this. We are so proud of who 885 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 1: she has become and no will make her birthday such 886 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 1: a special one if she'd get a phone call from 887 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:28,920 Speaker 1: you guys, especially Eastern Wow. Katie Beth is obsessed with Easton. 888 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 1: She wants to name her child Easton and hopes he 889 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,520 Speaker 1: grows out to be just like him. She loves crocs 890 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 1: and even coined the phrase oh my Crocs because oh 891 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 1: my God was not allowed in her house growing up. 892 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,320 Speaker 1: Our parents have recently become foster parents the two kiddos 893 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: after having us begged them for years. My sister Jordan 894 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,479 Speaker 1: and I are both out of the house, but Katie 895 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: Beth is still home and as much of a blessing 896 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 1: as those new editions are, Katie Beth has had to 897 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: make the most amount of sacrifices and changes to her life, 898 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: so she's the only siblings still living at home. We're 899 00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,000 Speaker 1: so proud of her selflessness and wanted to show her 900 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,440 Speaker 1: how amazed we are by her through you. So can 901 00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,839 Speaker 1: we give her a little call? So what do you think? 902 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,719 Speaker 1: Should should we have Easton call her? Yes? Should you 903 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 1: like a crank? Crank? We love a crank call? What 904 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 1: do you think? But like, what's believable? Like this time 905 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: of year, say something about cross or should you just 906 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,399 Speaker 1: say can you read this Eastern calling and just hear 907 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: what her reaction is? Oh? That could be good. I 908 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,560 Speaker 1: mean I'm down. What do you want to do? I'm 909 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: torn because I kind of like you pretending you're like, um, 910 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: somebody like from the Hollywood Foreign press and like trying 911 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 1: to do like some recon on the movies that are 912 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 1: nominated this year or something like that. Do people not 913 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,960 Speaker 1: do that? I'm just like, I'm just like hitting up people, 914 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 1: like if you had to vote for one of the 915 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 1: best movies, who would you know? People don't do that. 916 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,279 Speaker 1: It hasn't happened to me. What does happen to me? 917 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 1: What crank calls are we getting? I'm getting those Chinese 918 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: people a lot, but I don't think that would be 919 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: you could make that work. What if you're just I'm 920 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 1: your Amazon package? Oh yeah, what if you said I 921 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,720 Speaker 1: have a delivery for you, um from Crocs and wanted 922 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: to see if you're at home for delivery. We're gonna 923 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,279 Speaker 1: say you have delivered. Then she asks further, you can 924 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 1: say it's Crocs. It kind of gives it away a 925 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 1: pair of Crocs. I don't want to set her up 926 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,279 Speaker 1: to think she's going to be getting crocs and then 927 00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: not get the Amazon package. Evastated. If that were you, 928 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,800 Speaker 1: I've been that situation. Let me tell you it's cut wrenching. 929 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,399 Speaker 1: All right, Easton, go ahead, you got a dial, Let's 930 00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: go ahead and give it a shot. I'm nervous. Now, 931 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,399 Speaker 1: what's I'm sorry? What's the name? Her name is Katie Beth? 932 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 1: Katie Beth? And I just slacked you? And what's my 933 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:35,600 Speaker 1: name again? Your name? All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna 934 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: pick up the phone and called it. Called it all right, 935 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 1: Here we go. You're gonna be lined twelve, everybody line 936 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:52,399 Speaker 1: twelve tomorrow. How is this Katie Beth? Yes? How their 937 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 1: my name is? My name's Duke. I'm calling from on 938 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:59,640 Speaker 1: Track Services. We deliver Amazon packages and uh dog gone. 939 00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,479 Speaker 1: I just cannot seem to find your house? Is yours? 940 00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 1: The one with the big girl straps in the front? 941 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: Oh no? Is this? Wow? Easton? Listening to HCT are 942 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 1: your legendary for that? You know, if there's someone that 943 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 1: they'll remember me for, it's glad. I'm glad. Hey, Katie Beth, 944 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: thanks for listening to the podcast. Oh no problem. And 945 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 1: I loved it, but I understand you have a very 946 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: special day coming tomorrow. Yes, I do. It's Wednesday, right, yes, 947 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:54,919 Speaker 1: and Wednesday is your birthday? Oh my goodness, five, it's 948 00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 1: special becoming a modern woman like her sister said, and 949 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: speaking of her sister, is can we bring them into 950 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:07,479 Speaker 1: the conversation? Hello? Is this Jordan's or Emily An? Okay, 951 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,640 Speaker 1: Emily on? Hold on, let me get Jordan in too. 952 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 1: We have the whole family, I know, holding Jordan, Are 953 00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 1: you there? Okay, I'm here, everybody's on now here. We 954 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: are the whole fam' not real to Tanya Easton. Mark 955 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 1: Easton called Katie Bath and tried to be a delivery person. 956 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 1: But you didn't buy it for a second. Yeah, did 957 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:54,320 Speaker 1: you cry, Katie Bath? No? I didn't cry. Wait where 958 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:59,320 Speaker 1: do you live? Where's the accent from a little? Oh? 959 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 1: I was trying to do a regional, so you think 960 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:16,800 Speaker 1: I was someone from regional. It's like trying to lie 961 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,840 Speaker 1: and tell her that make up a really good excuse, 962 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,200 Speaker 1: but I couldn't think of anything spur at the moment. 963 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 1: I was like, she may know, but I hoped she wouldn't. 964 00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 1: She was like answer every single phone called, you get here. 965 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,800 Speaker 1: I have the worst wire in the whole entire world, 966 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:44,520 Speaker 1: my worst quality. Honestly answer every call you get. It 967 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: was the day before your birthday, you know. Yet after 968 00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 1: I was like today or two more it because like 969 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: tomorrow obviously we can answer every phone, and then I 970 00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: get it for every call that I can't. But and 971 00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,200 Speaker 1: this is better. This is a lot. I'm just feel 972 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 1: to be turning eighteen years old. It's crazy. My mom 973 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 1: was just telling me. She was like, if you're going 974 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 1: to break any ll break up today, but till I'm 975 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,319 Speaker 1: not What does an eighteen year old? What does an 976 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,800 Speaker 1: eighteen year old enjoy? Like? What do you like to watch? 977 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,319 Speaker 1: What do you like to do? Like? I haven't hurt 978 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:24,800 Speaker 1: your voice? I don't know. I'm not like an average 979 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: eighteen year old. Probably I really am a baby, Like 980 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,279 Speaker 1: I hang out with my mom all the time. I mean, 981 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:35,960 Speaker 1: who wants to be in average eighteen year old? Like? Nobody? No? Thanks? Well, 982 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,800 Speaker 1: I like I want The Bachelor a lot like I 983 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,800 Speaker 1: do Paget. It's for one of my hobbies that always 984 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:47,680 Speaker 1: put watching the Bachelor. Okay, what the season of the 985 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:54,080 Speaker 1: Bachelor for you? Becca? You? Oh yes, we loved you. 986 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 1: Thank you? So much that feels like so long ago. 987 00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:00,560 Speaker 1: Is that how you discovered the podcast? That's how? So 988 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,239 Speaker 1: this is Jordan's I'm the oldest sister and I'm the 989 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 1: one who discovered it. I started listening in September and 990 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 1: I'm all the way I've like binged it and listened 991 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 1: to the one with Danielle Jonas is the one that 992 00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:17,319 Speaker 1: I'm on right now. That's a that's a you know 993 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 1: what I listened to listen She's working out all the time. 994 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, but that was very say that. I 995 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,839 Speaker 1: was in the car with Katie best but never I'm 996 00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 1: kind of behind, but I was listening to the one 997 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: with Hilary Duff and I just happened to be we 998 00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 1: We were on our way to uh the Jonas Brothers 999 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,960 Speaker 1: comister and like a sister's day, and Katie Bess was 1000 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: with me and like her she was like this nice 1001 00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 1: favorite episode. She was like crying, laughing listening to Easton. 1002 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:51,280 Speaker 1: She loved it so much. She's like, probably her life 1003 00:54:54,000 --> 00:55:04,040 Speaker 1: may may be the only person who loves crocs as 1004 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,520 Speaker 1: much as you do. It's not more. I do love 1005 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 1: that is so funny. Favorite pair. Oh my, I don't 1006 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,080 Speaker 1: know if I have a favorite pair. I have like 1007 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,839 Speaker 1: four or five differ parents that like I wear out 1008 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:21,680 Speaker 1: a lot, like I love it. Like we call them 1009 00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:26,120 Speaker 1: giblets in Alabama. I don't know, but yeah, the little 1010 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 1: charm things. Yes, I love this, Like that is what 1011 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,720 Speaker 1: I love to go through and like kicks out and stuff. 1012 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: I have one one crop question for you. Do you 1013 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:39,000 Speaker 1: just strap front or strap back? So strap front all right, 1014 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,759 Speaker 1: casual mode. I like it. I just have like a 1015 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: curious I'm curious to I have questioned what okay, what 1016 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,560 Speaker 1: um like a sort of outfit do you wear with 1017 00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 1: your crocs? Thing? One time? Go to like this chart changing. 1018 00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 1: We have a banquet that like stress up for an hour. 1019 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: You're like a dress. And like some crocs just like 1020 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:07,520 Speaker 1: white cross so I wear them sometimes Alabama chic. But 1021 00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:12,760 Speaker 1: why was there? Are we talking like the standard style 1022 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:18,359 Speaker 1: or like more like heel version. Oh no, no, no 1023 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:29,959 Speaker 1: standard style cross face. I mean I'm just I'm just 1024 00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: like I just don't think I could ever physically put 1025 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,960 Speaker 1: my foot into a croc. Wow, They're so comfortable, but 1026 00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 1: like so is the grounds, Like why are you still 1027 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 1: above crocs? Not? I'm not above anything. I just uh, 1028 00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 1: I feel like my feet would have an allergic reaction. 1029 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: So many people onto crocs tiny and that's my goal. 1030 00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:56,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you in a pair turned me. I 1031 00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 1: don't know. If you don't know, you need to get 1032 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 1: a white pair so that you can get whatever like 1033 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 1: giblets you want, then you can customize them. Do you 1034 00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 1: hear this pitch, Tanya? Yeah, I can put. I've got 1035 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,200 Speaker 1: a Jonas Brothers sticker on my computer. I quite like it. 1036 00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 1: They're well, Katie, Beth. Your sisters wrote us a very 1037 00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:23,160 Speaker 1: sweet note about the sacrifices and changes to your life 1038 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: you've made after you added a few more kids to 1039 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,160 Speaker 1: the family. And they love you and they're proud of 1040 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 1: you and how selfless you are, and they're amazed by you, 1041 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 1: and they can't believe the little angel girl is turning eighteen. 1042 00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:37,280 Speaker 1: So happy birthday. Thank you so much. Happy birthday. Y'all 1043 00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,200 Speaker 1: are the best sisters. I'm shocked that all three of 1044 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 1: you identify as Tanya as though three and one family. 1045 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:48,520 Speaker 1: I know that's a lot of energy. Parents, really is 1046 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:58,479 Speaker 1: my parents? Can that's going right? There? Said to think 1047 00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:07,880 Speaker 1: about the esophia kids, Mark, what about my what I 1048 00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:18,280 Speaker 1: say about my uvula? You thought that so much in 1049 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:22,000 Speaker 1: my life because this is so something I would say 1050 00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 1: without its doubt. I still don't know where your uvula is. No, No, 1051 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 1: it's like the thing, what did I think it was? 1052 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:47,959 Speaker 1: That's a common mistake. Yeah, we've all been there. Wow. Well, 1053 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 1: happy birthday Katie, Beth and um, Emily, Ane and Jordan. 1054 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for being such great sisters. It's the best 1055 00:58:54,680 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 1: having sister. So thanks. Scrubbing in live coming through Alabama. 1056 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:08,600 Speaker 1: Will see you there, Yeah, see you there. Well, we'll 1057 00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:25,040 Speaker 1: thank you. Thank you. Native creates safe, simple, effective products 1058 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: that people use in the bathroom every single day. They 1059 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:32,000 Speaker 1: create products with trusted ingredients and trusted performance. If you're 1060 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,480 Speaker 1: not convinced, check out the nine thousand five star reviews 1061 00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 1: from their customers. 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Our conversation was great. We 1098 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,200 Speaker 1: had a good banter. He asked me from my Snapchat 1099 01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 1: and I gave it to him, which is kind of 1100 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,440 Speaker 1: funny that there's like a new intermediate step. You're not 1101 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:52,840 Speaker 1: just going don't give my number after snapchat, maybe text someday. 1102 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 1: On Halloween we talked all night and that you randomly 1103 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 1: stopped messaging me and we haven't had any communication since, 1104 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 1: except for the fact that he watches all my snapchats stories. 1105 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:03,200 Speaker 1: I liked him. I don't know where things went wrong anyway, 1106 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 1: I gave up hope. Here's the weird part. After hearing 1107 01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 1: time to talk about Hinge, I downloaded that too, and 1108 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 1: I really liked it. But one day I was on 1109 01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 1: it and I see this guy on that app too. 1110 01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 1: I haven't liked his profile because I want to see 1111 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,280 Speaker 1: if he messages me first, But every time I go 1112 01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: on there, his profile shows up. Is this fate telling 1113 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 1: me to give things another shot and message him? Or 1114 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,000 Speaker 1: do I give up because he hasn't reached out to me. 1115 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,680 Speaker 1: I've never been kissed. I'm so lost with this stuff. 1116 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: I feel like whatever you guys have to say, maybe 1117 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,760 Speaker 1: give me some some guide and some reassurance on what 1118 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:36,520 Speaker 1: to do. Congrats on the two Pete. I feel like 1119 01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna have very different opinions on this start. You 1120 01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:43,520 Speaker 1: know you go ahead, please, my lady. I only say 1121 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:48,040 Speaker 1: this because he you've already talked, he's seen your snapchat, 1122 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 1: he still watches your stories, and I think if he 1123 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:55,080 Speaker 1: wanted to reach out and talk to you, he would 1124 01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 1: do so, because I think that's a general idea of 1125 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,920 Speaker 1: knowing if someone's into you, that they'll reach out and 1126 01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,560 Speaker 1: try UM. And I think because you're eighteen and you 1127 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,760 Speaker 1: are on this app, you will have so many more 1128 01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:13,680 Speaker 1: options to to talk and floor and chat with people 1129 01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:18,280 Speaker 1: who don't make you feel insecure or make you question things. 1130 01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:21,920 Speaker 1: So I would say, move onto something new. Okay, are 1131 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 1: you going to say should have said it? No? No, no, 1132 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,880 Speaker 1: But I'm pulling up. There is a there's a lyric 1133 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: that I really just want to hone in on. Give 1134 01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,320 Speaker 1: me one second, if you don't mind. I'm coming to 1135 01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 1: find that people have these realizations. They all come back around. 1136 01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,160 Speaker 1: It could be a few months, it could be a 1137 01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,680 Speaker 1: few years, it could be even longer than that, but 1138 01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:50,520 Speaker 1: they all come back around. So what I suggest you 1139 01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:52,920 Speaker 1: do is like him so that you can open the 1140 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:55,520 Speaker 1: door to a conversation to let him reach out to you. 1141 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,480 Speaker 1: So because on hands, you have to like their things 1142 01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:00,560 Speaker 1: to open the combo. So like him so that he's 1143 01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: you're still in his like zeitgeist and let him come 1144 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,800 Speaker 1: to you. Because Camira Cabeo said it best. She said, 1145 01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:10,520 Speaker 1: isn't it something that I get more when I'm giving 1146 01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,680 Speaker 1: you nothing? Isn't it magic that when you stop looking 1147 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:18,439 Speaker 1: for it it happens. Basically, she was after this guy 1148 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,760 Speaker 1: for so long, and then she moved on, started doing 1149 01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:22,560 Speaker 1: her own thing and then this guy all of a 1150 01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,680 Speaker 1: sudden comes back in from nowhere and it's happening to 1151 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:31,120 Speaker 1: me currently. So what I'm telling you, Eva is to 1152 01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,640 Speaker 1: keep the door open, but let him come to it 1153 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:39,240 Speaker 1: on his own times time time. Sure, yeah, like I 1154 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: don't see there's no harm in liking it, But I 1155 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,439 Speaker 1: definitely don't think you should reach out first, But keep 1156 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,160 Speaker 1: the door open. Keep it open, keep a bunch of 1157 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:50,880 Speaker 1: doors open. Maybe like another photo, maybe watch his snapchat, 1158 01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 1: just kind of be in there, just let this marinate 1159 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,840 Speaker 1: in that gray. Of the two options she gave, is 1160 01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,600 Speaker 1: this fate telling me to give it another shot? Or 1161 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:00,280 Speaker 1: do I give up? You're saying kind of either. You 1162 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 1: kind of just live your life and what's meant to 1163 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 1: be will be. This is from Lauren. My boyfriend wants 1164 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 1: to be sans Christmas. I've been needed my boyfriend almost 1165 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,000 Speaker 1: the year and now we met before Christmas last year, 1166 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:12,720 Speaker 1: so this is gonna be our first holiday season together 1167 01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,280 Speaker 1: as a couple. I'm Jewish, I've never celebrated Christmas and 1168 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,200 Speaker 1: was really looking forward to the fun things I've never 1169 01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 1: experienced before. I knew on our first date that he 1170 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,040 Speaker 1: didn't love the holidays. He told me it's because his 1171 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:23,720 Speaker 1: dad passed away when he was twelve, but it's about 1172 01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 1: hard for him ever since. I can't begin to understand 1173 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,160 Speaker 1: what that must be like. But I genuinely thought that 1174 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:30,040 Speaker 1: if I brought some cheer back into this time of year, 1175 01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,080 Speaker 1: that he might start having fun again. I guess that 1176 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:33,920 Speaker 1: was wrong because we got into a fight over it, 1177 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 1: and he's basically saying he wants to skip Christmas altogether. 1178 01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to be selfish, but I also don't 1179 01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 1: know how to best handle a boyfriend that's grieving. I've 1180 01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: never dealt with lost like that before, and I want 1181 01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:44,880 Speaker 1: to help. I don't think avoiding the holiday is the 1182 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 1: best way to deal with his emotions, but how can 1183 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:48,360 Speaker 1: I talk with him about it and be sensitive to 1184 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:53,200 Speaker 1: how he's feeling. That's a tough one that's maybe above 1185 01:05:53,240 --> 01:06:00,520 Speaker 1: your pay grade. I just read the I thought reading 1186 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,920 Speaker 1: the headline says my boyfriend wants to Christmas, and I 1187 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,240 Speaker 1: thought it meant I wants to break up with her. 1188 01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 1: This is tough. I feel like Dean Angler can relate 1189 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 1: to this. He does not like holidays because of the 1190 01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:15,080 Speaker 1: trauma with his family in the past, and it brings 1191 01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:16,560 Speaker 1: him all back to that he doesn't have a family 1192 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:18,840 Speaker 1: to celebrate it with really, and so he does not 1193 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:20,360 Speaker 1: look forward to any of these days. And I feel 1194 01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:22,600 Speaker 1: like it's kind of a similar situation. I think that 1195 01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:25,480 Speaker 1: there's I totally I have a lot of empathy for 1196 01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: people that have a hard time with the holidays because 1197 01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:29,760 Speaker 1: of situations like that, because I think it can be 1198 01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:34,320 Speaker 1: really hard because everybody's so extra happy and the commercials 1199 01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,640 Speaker 1: are like everybody's singing and there's music playing everywhere, and 1200 01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:38,800 Speaker 1: it's like it reminds you of something that's so dark, 1201 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 1: you know. Um, But I do think there's a way 1202 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 1: to kind of tiptoe into it, like gently and gracefully 1203 01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:48,640 Speaker 1: and maybe like suggests you guys get a tree, like, 1204 01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:50,560 Speaker 1: you know, just say like I've never I've never done 1205 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:51,920 Speaker 1: this and I'd love to go get a tree, Like 1206 01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:53,320 Speaker 1: would you want to do it with me? And kind 1207 01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:55,440 Speaker 1: of give him the option to go with you or not, 1208 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,640 Speaker 1: and if he says no, then don't harp on it, 1209 01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:00,080 Speaker 1: and then like maybe go get a Christmas to be 1210 01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:01,960 Speaker 1: with your girlfriend and decorate it with your girlfriend and 1211 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:03,320 Speaker 1: just kind of like let it be there. I don't 1212 01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:07,280 Speaker 1: know if she just said they didn't live together, right, um, 1213 01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 1: but just kind of like let it be in your 1214 01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:10,320 Speaker 1: place then so he sees it when he comes over, 1215 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,920 Speaker 1: and just kind of like tiptoe into the things. Just 1216 01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,000 Speaker 1: because it's your first Christmas together, I mean it's gonna 1217 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: be your last. I think you can kind of like 1218 01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 1: baby steps, baby steps, take it slowly. Yeah. I was 1219 01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:24,680 Speaker 1: gonna say, be like gentle to his insensitive to his 1220 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 1: emotions and his feelings. But also like if you want 1221 01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:32,200 Speaker 1: to celebrate in Christmas, if that's something you're excited about, 1222 01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,360 Speaker 1: I don't think you should not do it all together, 1223 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:35,919 Speaker 1: but I think you should do it in a way 1224 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 1: that's sensitive to what he's going through. It's hard to 1225 01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:42,880 Speaker 1: even relate to something like this because I don't like 1226 01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:46,360 Speaker 1: the holidays are such a joyful, happy time, but I think, 1227 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,800 Speaker 1: you know, introducing a new like version of what the 1228 01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,640 Speaker 1: holidays can be to him, I think is really special. 1229 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,720 Speaker 1: And being able to say, like, we have these memories 1230 01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,280 Speaker 1: together now, and it doesn't always have to be the 1231 01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:03,440 Speaker 1: memories of what was sad and lost, but more what 1232 01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 1: you've gained and our love. Yeah, and like maybe you 1233 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,840 Speaker 1: could even suggest, like you guys going to get some 1234 01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:13,520 Speaker 1: sort of like ornament together that reminds him of his dad, 1235 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 1: and that can be like on the tree every year, 1236 01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:17,840 Speaker 1: and that can be like something special that like he 1237 01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:19,200 Speaker 1: thinks about him, you know what I mean, Like kind 1238 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,160 Speaker 1: of just try and turn it into a little bit 1239 01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 1: of try and turn it into a positive of like 1240 01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 1: remembering him and having something like special maybe like a 1241 01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 1: like a crystal angel ornament or something. Yeah, it sounds 1242 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:32,680 Speaker 1: like a pretty good relationship otherwise. So I hope you 1243 01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:34,519 Speaker 1: guys can make it through this and be sensitive to 1244 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,400 Speaker 1: each other's needs. And it sounds like you guys can 1245 01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 1: work together on this. I think that was a good advice. M. 1246 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:47,320 Speaker 1: Danielle Jonas sent you something hold On, hold on whole 1247 01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 1: that says thank you appreciated President from Danielle Jonas. There 1248 01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:59,800 Speaker 1: it is handwritten note EXO Danielle Jonas. I hope you 1249 01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:01,680 Speaker 1: and joy some of my favorite pieces from the New 1250 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 1: Beginnings collection. Yeah, I love a Daniel Jonas. Thank you 1251 01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:12,839 Speaker 1: so pretty. Peverridge Farms sent over a bunch of cookies. 1252 01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:16,880 Speaker 1: We're so excited to be working with you. Here's a 1253 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:18,960 Speaker 1: reminder to say something yourself with some of our favorite 1254 01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:23,880 Speaker 1: Milano cookies. Congratulations on your People's choice Sword cookies are 1255 01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: bombed them away from me. This bracelet is so pretty. 1256 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:29,680 Speaker 1: Did we get the same thing, but just I got 1257 01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: necklace and you got the version. Yeah, so gord I 1258 01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:41,960 Speaker 1: love a friendship. Uh piece? Yeah, could not find Okay, 1259 01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 1: you guys do that. We're gonna go to our white 1260 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:46,400 Speaker 1: elephant party in the other room. So we gotta wrap 1261 01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:52,880 Speaker 1: this up next week. Let's say goodbye. We'll say hello 1262 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:55,320 Speaker 1: to No, we're not gonna say hello, we're gonna say hi. 1263 01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:04,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's right. Watch out beep beep. You 1264 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:05,880 Speaker 1: know when you're jet lied and there's a lot of 1265 01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:10,840 Speaker 1: energy around the type of desks. Get back on the 1266 01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:14,160 Speaker 1: West coast. But yes, there's no time like the present.