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Speaker 1: The Fred Show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the day.

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Speaker 2: Were you guys freaking out when X went town yesterday?

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of X people around here. No,

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Speaker 2: I think my ex is still hacked. I'm not even

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Speaker 2: I don't even bother to reclaim it. I'm like, whatever

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Speaker 2: are you gonna have?

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Speaker 3: But you're still selling laptops?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you want my laptop? Find it's on there.

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Speaker 2: It's like I didn't even bother.

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Speaker 3: I'm blocked. Bill.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's right, because I did get hacked not that

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Speaker 2: long ago. And then Jason tried to, you know, being

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Speaker 2: the the you know, justice for Fred guy he is.

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Speaker 2: He went after the hacker directly by dming him, saying

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Speaker 2: I know who you are. Yeah, I'm gonna beat you up. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: And then that got him blocked. I guess I can

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Speaker 2: unblock you now. I was just trying to sell my laptop, guys.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's weird anyway. I finally get it back, but I

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Speaker 2: never go on there anymore. I'm upset because I lost

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Speaker 2: my blue check mark. I'm upset because I can't use

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Speaker 2: the I used to have that like tweet deck software.

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Speaker 2: I gotta pay for that. I'm annoyed by the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: I just don't go there anymore. It's a lawless place.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, oh, yes it is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Nonetheless, it went down yesterday and Elon mus says it

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Speaker 2: was due to a massive cyber attack. The social media

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Speaker 2: site X had a big outage yesterday, thousands of people

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Speaker 2: in the US and the UK reporting problems. Many users

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Speaker 2: couldn't see post a load pages. The trouble started early

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Speaker 2: in the morning lasted for hours. Elon, who owns X,

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Speaker 2: said that it was caused by a massive cyber attack

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Speaker 2: that he claimed came from you Ukrainian IP addresses, but

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Speaker 2: experts say it's hard to know for sure without more proof.

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Speaker 2: Some people think the problem could have been a glitch

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Speaker 2: in the system, not an attack. Exit returned to normal

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Speaker 2: by late yesterday. The group dark Storm to credit, but

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Speaker 2: it can't be verified.

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Speaker 3: Dark Storm.

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Speaker 2: I do all their voiceovers for dark Storm. That hackers

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Speaker 2: another dark Storm production this, Yeah, where'd you find that?

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Speaker 2: And if you don't know that reference, then I don't

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Speaker 2: know if we can be friends. And I don't know

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Speaker 2: that's your mom man, You're right right, that's what When

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Speaker 2: I meet a new woman, I'm like tell me what

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Speaker 2: you downloaded on LimeWire, you know, and if and if

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Speaker 2: she doesn't know what that is, then I'm just not sure.

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Speaker 2: If you're a space person, if you're a space person, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're you're a big space person.

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Speaker 3: Out big space person.

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Speaker 2: Well, while Eli's messing around with X, could you give

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Speaker 2: him a ring and see if he could also go

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Speaker 2: up to the space and get those people wing Sunita. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 2: I guess there's a they're worried about their bone density

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Speaker 2: because they've been up their way too long. I think

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Speaker 2: it was supposed to be what was it a week

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Speaker 2: or four days. They've been up there for eight months?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, down they're losing their boned and you're

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Speaker 2: saying that, and then our president says they maybe they'll

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Speaker 2: fall in love or maybe they have fallen in love.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, and I know the answer.

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Speaker 2: I already know the answer from you guys, But like,

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Speaker 2: come on, I know you guys well enough to know.

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Speaker 2: But let's they've been up there for eight months. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what their marital status is, but you just

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Speaker 2: let's say I just got.

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Speaker 3: To get one in, like they got to get one in.

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Speaker 3: They've been up there for eight months.

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Speaker 2: Is it's not their fault?

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Speaker 3: You know? Are you allowed to do space? The final Frontier?

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Speaker 2: I mean, can you just do you do what you

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Speaker 2: got to do as long as no one knows he

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Speaker 2: was in space?

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Speaker 3: No, those two can't stand each other.

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Speaker 5: Right now, I'm telling you to be eight months in

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Speaker 5: with just the same person, whether you're like, you know,

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Speaker 5: sexually attractive to them or whatever. Like they could be

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Speaker 5: besties and they hate each other right now, I promise.

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Speaker 2: Napauline, I know what your answer would normally be, but like,

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Speaker 2: just for one second, if you could be objective, just

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Speaker 3: Hobby is in space? Okay?

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Speaker 2: The man was supposed to be out there for four days.

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Speaker 2: He is an astronaut, He is an American hero. He

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Speaker 2: is one of only hundreds of people to ever have

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Speaker 2: done this. And he's up there and he can't come

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Speaker 2: back for eight months because there's no ship that can

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Speaker 2: come get him. For eight months. He's up there with

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Speaker 2: this woman and he's you know, you find out when

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Speaker 2: he gets back that seven ships have come and gone

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Speaker 2: and he just didn't get on them. No, not that,

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Speaker 2: no problem. That he got it all with you know,

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Speaker 2: lovely Sunita. He got it on and it's like you

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Speaker 2: found out from another source. But dude, the guy just

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Speaker 2: had to, Like what are you supposed to do? Eight months?

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Speaker 2: He just needed some form of release. He had to.

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Speaker 2: He would never have done it if he'd been on

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Speaker 2: our earth. This sounds like the beginning of some sort

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Speaker 2: of excuse. You know, maybe maybe I wouldn't have done it,

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Speaker 2: but I was not on Earth at the time. Nobody

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Speaker 2: gets to say that, would you let him have a pass?

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Speaker 2: It's space.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't let him have a pass.

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Speaker 5: But I mean, if he did it, like I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: close my eyes like says it says like I'm blind,

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Speaker 5: Like that's what I was, because like I'd rather just

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Speaker 5: not know. Like whatever happened in space stays in space,

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Speaker 5: you know, right, So just don't tell me.

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Speaker 3: Let me live black. Any of you guys be truly

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Speaker 3: be upset. Now. I can argue, yeah, it's.

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Speaker 2: Unexpected, unexpected, but eight unexpected months. But you're just you're trapped.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing to do, there's nowhere else to go. You

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Speaker 2: have to you would have to. Plus what a great story.

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Speaker 1: Men go off to war for longer than that, or

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Speaker 1: they used to you you can keep it in your panting.

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Speaker 3: I think they still do.

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Speaker 1: Can you Well, I'm saying, like, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: I was drafted, But did you even do it up

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Speaker 1: there with the gravity.

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Speaker 6: And all that?

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Speaker 3: Or I don't know, but I think you. I think

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Speaker 3: you have to. I think you have to.

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Speaker 1: No, he hates the way she breathes up there, she

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Speaker 1: hates the way he choose.

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Speaker 3: No one's doing the dishes. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If I ever, if I ever go to the space

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Speaker 2: for an extended period of time, there's no way I'm

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Speaker 2: not getting it on in space.

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Speaker 3: There's just no way.

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Speaker 1: I sent you that TikTok about how dirty you are

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Speaker 1: when you're up there.

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Speaker 3: The person, It's just it is what it is.

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Speaker 2: How can you go to space and not I mean

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Speaker 2: people are looking up in dive bar bathrooms. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: in space. I'm in a space station once in a lifetime,

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Speaker 2: and then I'm up there for an additional seven and

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Speaker 2: a half months that I didn't anticipate. You think I'm

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Speaker 2: just not going to do anything for that period of time.

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Speaker 3: A dive bar bathroom sings hotter, yeah than like in a.

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Speaker 2: Floating looking I'm looking I am looking at you while

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Speaker 2: I'm cheating on you. I'm looking at the continent that

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Speaker 2: you're on while I'm cheating on you. I can see you.

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Speaker 2: What the hell it's sick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's sick.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's where you draw the line, right, Okay, do

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Speaker 1: a lot of thinking about me while you're up there, not.

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Speaker 2: The hepatitis that w looming in wherever the public places

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Speaker 2: that you get anyway, if you're into space, the total

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Speaker 2: lunar eclipse will flush the moon red on Thursday night

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Speaker 2: into Friday morning across the western hemisphere. That how romantic.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if they can see it from there. The

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Speaker 2: best views will be from North America and South America.

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Speaker 2: Lunar eclipses happened when the Moon, Earth, and Sun aligned

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Speaker 2: just so. The Earth casts a shadow that can partially

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Speaker 2: or totally blot out the Moon. During the partial lunar eclipse,

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Speaker 2: Earth's shadow appears to take a bite of the Moon.

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Speaker 2: The full Moon is covered during a total eclipse, and

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Speaker 2: blush is coppery red because of stray bits of sunlight

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Speaker 2: that are filtering through the atmosphere. So you'll be able

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Speaker 2: to see this. This is Thursday into Friday.

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Speaker 3: No, it's at night.

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Speaker 2: You can just look at him. Have you heard this

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Speaker 2: Moana controversy? There's mo Wana controversy.

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Speaker 3: No, there is.

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Speaker 2: In the Biggest Stories of the day, Mowana was based

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Speaker 2: on a boy named Bucky.

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Speaker 3: Maybe Maybe.

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Speaker 2: Lawyers for a New Mexico writer and animator say at

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Speaker 2: closing arguments Federal trou in La on Monday that his

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Speaker 2: a Polynesian princess, whose sequel was among the biggest hits

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Speaker 2: of last year. Buck Woodhall wrote a script whose various

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Speaker 2: titles have included Bucky the Surfer Boy doesn't quite have

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Speaker 2: the appeal of Mowana.

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Speaker 3: I mean it needed a little bit of work, I guess.

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Speaker 2: But it's about a teenager vacationing in Hawaii with his

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Speaker 2: ancient islands and interactions with demigods to save a sacred

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Speaker 2: part of the islands, whom a developer, well the Guy

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Speaker 2: that Disney's Mowana was stolen from his story of a

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Speaker 2: young surfer. The Federal jury deliberated for less than three

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Speaker 2: hours before deciding that the creators of Mowana and It

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Speaker 2: With that question settled, the jury of six women and

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Speaker 2: two men didn't have to consider this similarities between Bucky

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Speaker 2: and the twenty sixteen hit animated film from Disney. Apparently, though,

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Speaker 2: this guy had shared his work with the stepsister of

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Speaker 2: his brother's wife step sister of his brother's wife, who

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Speaker 2: worked for a different company on the Disney lot, but

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Speaker 2: the woman said during the two week trial that she

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Speaker 2: had never showed the idea to anybody at Disney. So

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Speaker 2: this dude had a similar idea, showed it to somebody

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Speaker 2: who does work on the Disney lot, but she didn't

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Speaker 2: give it to anybody, and he doesn't get any money.

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Speaker 7: Hmmm.

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Speaker 2: But this is why places like Disney and all these

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Speaker 2: late night shows and even like around I try not

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Speaker 2: to watch any stand up comedy.

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Speaker 3: I've said this a million times.

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Speaker 2: I'm so afraid I'm gonna tell someone's joke subconsciously like

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Speaker 2: that I didn't mean to tell, or God forbid you,

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Speaker 2: or I or somebody has the same idea as somebody else,

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Speaker 2: and then you say it, it's.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, you stole it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, because like I guess a lot of

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Speaker 2: these late night shows they won't take joke submissions, like

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Speaker 2: there's no place to send them. They don't want them

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Speaker 2: because if you sent your joke in and then it

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Speaker 2: gets used, you're gonna be like, well I sent it

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Speaker 2: any you used it. And it's like but but the

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Speaker 2: writers are saying, well, we don't even look at that stuff.

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Speaker 2: There is no way for you to do that. Otherwise

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Speaker 2: we'll pay you and then we'll use your joke or

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Speaker 2: we won't. But like that, I don't know. One of

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Speaker 3: Yes, really, you don't lie at the dentist.

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Speaker 3: I lie about flossing.

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Speaker 1: They can tell because you bleed. If they floss you

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Speaker 2: Nearly two thirds reported feeling guilty about their dishonesty. Imagine that,

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Speaker 2: Imagine imagine being so pure in your life, Jason, that

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Speaker 2: I mean that's the only reason why I take care

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Speaker 3: Well, there's that in it. The hard work.

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Speaker 3: It comes at you fast, yep. Ain't no game, chicklets.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, I've never heard it referred to that way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, people describe they called them panic lies at the

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Speaker 3: I've never heard anything so true. Yeah, I like sweat everything.

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Speaker 1: And that's okay because we need something fun in our life.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't drink that much, but I mean when

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Speaker 2: how many drinks a day do you drink? Well, one

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Speaker 3: What I'm like.

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Speaker 5: That's the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like how many days. I'm like, wow, if you

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Speaker 2: you were looking for? It's like, no, that's called binge drinking, sir,

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Speaker 3: stay or Go. Alissa is here morning, Alyssa. How are you.

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Speaker 2: Day?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. So little group therapy and stay

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Speaker 2: or go? What's going on with this? This is a

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 8: Well, so.

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Speaker 10: I have been dating this guy for six.

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Speaker 3: Months and.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, that's my longest relationship. So that's amazing. Basically that's

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Speaker 2: He's been with this guy for six months? What's wrong

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Speaker 11: I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm asking for your advice because.

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Speaker 10: How how often do you think people need to be

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Speaker 12: And after like the first couple of months, I'm like, okay, okay,

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Speaker 12: If I didn't reach out to him, you know.

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Speaker 2: Because he's saving lives, you mean presumably Okay, I understand.

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Speaker 2: I mean they like, you know, so you the guy's

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Speaker 2: But so this dude is not all that communicats it

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Speaker 12: Well, it's just like if I didn't reach out, Like,

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Speaker 2: Hear from him, maybe maybe you should text him and

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Speaker 2: say my gallbladder hurts or something like he said. Every

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Speaker 3: You can't fall, we can't fall apart.

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Speaker 12: We had six saying I'm running out of helmet.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So so you're upset because when this guy's working,

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Speaker 2: he doesn't communicate with you. Does he communicate with you

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Speaker 3: Well, so I brought it up.

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Speaker 12: To him and he just was like, oh, like we

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Speaker 12: Like I guess like he's like, oh, like I have

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Speaker 3: So he can't like, uh, did you just yawn? Are

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Speaker 2: I mean the guy could obviously communicate with you at

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Speaker 2: So so I don't know. I mean, is it how

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Speaker 2: I mean that's a long time. It's a relatively long

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Speaker 6: I've just never.

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Speaker 11: We didn't talk every day and I.

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Speaker 3: Text different.

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Speaker 12: He's like in a different kind of job, so it's

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Speaker 2: Well, I wonder, let me take some phone calls on this.

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Speaker 3: So I was just curious that he could have saved seven.

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Speaker 2: Lives in a period of time that it took her

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Speaker 3: I'd love to talk. I want to hear both sides

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Speaker 2: I want this guy to be like to call up

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Speaker 2: here and go, dude, she's hot and she you know,

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Speaker 2: I think you have to accept that if if you're

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Speaker 2: needs for these days or this much time. Then I

438
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Speaker 2: think you've got to make sure that you do when

439
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Speaker 2: when you're not working.

440
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Speaker 5: But then don't be in a relationship like I think

441
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Speaker 5: you can shoot a text every day. I'm sure he

442
00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,040
Speaker 5: talks to his mom, his grandma, whoever, the neighbor. Like,

443
00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 5: I'm sure he's texting somebody, like we're on our phones

444
00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 5: all the time. And I understand his job is like

445
00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:37,879
Speaker 5: crazy demanding. It's a whole different world that I do

446
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,399
Speaker 5: not understand. And I'm not comparing apples. Is apples to oranges?

447
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,720
Speaker 5: Or apples to apples? Okay, apples to oranges. I'm not comparing.

448
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 3: What do you mean? What are you trying not to compare?

449
00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,399
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say I sound like her.

450
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Speaker 2: Now are you comparing two things that are similar and

451
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Speaker 2: two things that are different? Now you mean apple to apples?

452
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:52,960
Speaker 3: Apples?

453
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Speaker 2: You're not comparing apples to Applescuse that would mean that

454
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 2: you're comparing two things.

455
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Speaker 3: Is the same? Correct? Well, my husband's where I'm not

456
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Speaker 3: high bud right, give me a second.

457
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Speaker 5: But my my husband's a fireman and they're twenty four

458
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Speaker 5: on right, so very similar. I'm assuming with the hours

459
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Speaker 5: twenty four on okay in a way right again, not

460
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Speaker 5: comparing what they do for a living as far as

461
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Speaker 5: their you know, demands, I don't know. But what I

462
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 5: am saying is he can still shoot me a text

463
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Speaker 5: even if he's about to go into a fire, you know,

464
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Speaker 5: let's just say coming up R and be about to

465
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Speaker 5: go into Hey, I don't see. I don't expect him

466
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Speaker 5: some right, but like I expect him to at least

467
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Speaker 5: hear from him once or twice a day would be nice.

468
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he does that for me.

469
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Speaker 9: Yes, I don't know if she's in an actual relationship.

470
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Speaker 9: And I think people sometimes get this confused, like we're

471
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Speaker 9: just dating.

472
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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

473
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Speaker 9: So you are if I want to go out on Friday,

474
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Speaker 9: I might hit you up and say let's go out

475
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Speaker 9: on Friday or let's go out you know, this weekend.

476
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Speaker 9: But we're not in a real relationship. We are just dating.

477
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Speaker 9: We are just friends. You are someone that I hit up,

478
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Speaker 9: and I think she may think she's in a relationship

479
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Speaker 9: with this doctor, but it's not get a relationship to me,

480
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Speaker 9: you're just talking.

481
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not trying to say that this is this

482
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Speaker 2: makes it right, But like one of my best friends

483
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Speaker 2: growing up was my doctor's kid. Okay, when I was

484
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 2: a little kid, and we used to joke about like

485
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 2: a little kids like he was. He was the least

486
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 2: tended to person of any I got more attention from

487
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Speaker 2: his father than he did because I was a patient.

488
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it wasn't and he was.

489
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Speaker 2: A great dad and he loved his kids, but it

490
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Speaker 2: was like I feel like, for a lot of doctors,

491
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Speaker 2: and if you're a doctor, i'd love to know if

492
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Speaker 2: you feel the same way, or if you're married to

493
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Speaker 2: a doctor, which I think we're about to talk to someone.

494
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Speaker 2: I feel like it's very common for people to feel

495
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Speaker 2: like they are second priority to the career. Absolutely, and

496
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Speaker 2: they joke all the time like doctor's kids are the

497
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Speaker 2: least cared for because they care for everyone else all

498
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Speaker 2: day and then they come home and their kids, like

499
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Speaker 2: I have a cough. It's like you're fine. I just

500
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Speaker 2: I'm not feeling with this, like you're fine, Like you're

501
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 2: you're fine. I'm looking at you, you're walking, everything is working.

502
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Speaker 2: But we used to joke about that, like my friend

503
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: Mark would be like, yeah, my dad probably knows more

504
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 2: about your health and well being than mine, because well,

505
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:57,920
Speaker 2: you pay to go there. Hey Mary, yes, very high,

506
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Speaker 2: good morning. So you are married to any r doctor?

507
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Speaker 3: Oh and perfect? This is amazing. So what is your

508
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 3: perspective when you hear this woman?

509
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Speaker 8: So granted they've only been together six months, and granted

510
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 8: I was with my husband through medical school and residency,

511
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 8: so we went through the whole process together. But you know,

512
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Speaker 8: if the in my opinion, if the if the boyfriend

513
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Speaker 8: was were really into her, then he would be contacting

514
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Speaker 8: her a quick text here and there. My husband and

515
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 8: I are able to to connect, you know, and he's

516
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 8: able to pick up a FaceTime to say good night

517
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Speaker 8: to our daughter. They rarely rarely work twenty four hours.

518
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 8: It's normally, like, you know, at twelve to fifteen hour

519
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Speaker 8: depending on the you know, the acuity of the hospital.

520
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Speaker 8: So so they just need to I just think that

521
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Speaker 8: they need to have that talk of you know, communication

522
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Speaker 8: at this point, and.

523
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Speaker 3: You've become you're just kind of used to this.

524
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Speaker 2: It's like I would imagine that now it's probably better

525
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Speaker 2: than it was during residency.

526
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Speaker 11: Absolutely, absolutely, yes, So.

527
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: This is just something you've become accustomed to. But so

528
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 2: for someone who's just encountering this, it could be really difficult.

529
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Speaker 8: Yes, absolutely, I think it's you know, not only is

530
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Speaker 8: it difficult for doctors to become doctors, but it's also

531
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Speaker 8: very difficult for their spouses or girlfriend just because you've

532
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Speaker 8: given up so much.

533
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Speaker 2: Yeah, people need to give you a lot of credit, Mary,

534
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 2: for sticking with someone through medical school and residency because

535
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Speaker 2: you know, and and God bless him for the work

536
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Speaker 2: that he does. But the fact of the matter is,

537
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Speaker 2: I don't think people realize just how how much you're

538
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Speaker 2: sacrificing as the spouse of that person. I mean, you're

539
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: basically saying, if you met the guy in the beginning

540
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Speaker 2: of medical school, hey, for like the next eight to

541
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Speaker 2: ten years, I'm not going to be your number one.

542
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Speaker 3: Yes, sir, why call me sir? But I don't deserve

543
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Speaker 3: that respect.

544
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Speaker 8: Sorry, it's a it's a it is a respect thing.

545
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Speaker 2: No, I don't know what you don't have to give

546
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 2: it to me. But Mary Hay, thank you so much

547
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 2: for listening. Have a good day.

548
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 3: Absolutely too logical.

549
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Speaker 2: I tried to date a girl who is in hercy

550
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 2: and she's a lovely girl. I liked her a lot,

551
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: but my thing with her was that like she'd be

552
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: you know, she'd have three. And this is not any

553
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 2: fault of hers, but she'd go three four days, you know,

554
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,120
Speaker 2: doing these wild like twenty on, four off whatever. It

555
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 2: was crazy. But then when she was free, it was

556
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 2: like I needed to be available. It's like, well, I'm

557
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Speaker 2: free on these days, so like you're giving that all

558
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 2: them and it's like, wait a minute, that's just not

559
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Speaker 2: how I roll. Like I don't I don't know, like

560
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: I'm not on I'm not on demand boyfriend, you know

561
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Speaker 2: what I mean?

562
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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know.

563
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Speaker 2: I needed a little more balance in this thing, because

564
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 2: then it's like, you know, two weeks from Friday, I

565
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 2: don't have to work at twenty four, so like we're

566
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Speaker 2: doing this and it was like I don't know what

567
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Speaker 2: I'm doing two weeks and what I got to wait

568
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 2: two weeks. But I also understood what she was going through,

569
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Speaker 2: and I just I think it for her either date

570
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 2: another person who has been through is going through the

571
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Speaker 2: same thing, can relate to that same thing. Or maybe

572
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Speaker 2: you're not going to be taken seriously as seriously in

573
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: a relationship until you until you're done living that lifestyle.

574
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Speaker 2: You know, I think you need to get because it's hard.

575
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Speaker 3: It's hard to.

576
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Speaker 1: He could, he could call or text her face time,

577
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Speaker 1: like she did say if he liked her, he would

578
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Speaker 1: be able to do it.

579
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 2: Because she's in a relationship. This girl disappear like even

580
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 2: this girl was. It might take her. It's six or

581
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 2: seven hours to that's not what she did exactly.

582
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Speaker 9: He is calling, probably on his way into a fire. Yeah,

583
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 9: girl is not in a relationship.

584
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: Facts if I if he wanted to, he would thank you.

585
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 3: Hobby would Yes.

586
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm so about to get this kitten out of the tree,

587
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: but first I wanted to say hi to you. Good morning, beautiful,

588
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: good morning beautiful. Yeah, hey, Kim, how you doing. You're

589
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 2: a nurse, so you get this like you get this field.

590
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Speaker 12: Yeah.

591
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Speaker 13: So I think overall, I think she needs to go.

592
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 13: I would say maybe first they need to have some

593
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 13: form of communication about what they could potentially do on

594
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 13: both sides. But just from hearing that little blurb of

595
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 13: her talking, it seems like the way that his lifestyle

596
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 13: and work life works is not going to fit her knees.

597
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 13: And that's okay, but she needs to understand that when

598
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 13: he's at work in the er, you don't know what

599
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 13: your day is going to turn out. You could have

600
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 13: a really slow day, or you could have a day

601
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Speaker 13: where you're not even going to the bathroom. So if

602
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 13: he has a day off, he might just be burnt out.

603
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 13: You know, he's making decisions all day long, and to

604
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 13: have your phone, you know, be blowing up all day.

605
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 13: I know, like when I have my days off, but

606
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 13: people are texting me, I'm like, my god, what do

607
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 13: you want now? Like I'm just overstimulated. And he might

608
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 13: just need time to just have a day to be

609
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 13: brought and just be a complete plug because of everything

610
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 13: that he's done the day before, the things that he

611
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 13: has seen, talk about that he's seen, and he needs

612
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 13: to be compressed.

613
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 2: You don't know, No, go ahead, but no, I've kim.

614
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: You could make the argument. You could make the argument

615
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 2: on the flip side. I mean, we've given this this

616
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 2: woman a hard time. Lovingly, we love her, she listens,

617
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: but word economy was not maybe her strength. But you

618
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: could make the argument that maybe this guy's not in

619
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 2: a place to be a partner either, you know, because

620
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: there is such thing as is he's going to have

621
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 2: to make it up somewhere else, right, Like I get it.

622
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 2: If he's working, maybe he can't communicate as much. But

623
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: when he's not working, if he wants to, her needs

624
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: matter too, right, So like, if when he's not working

625
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: and he's gonna have to put some effort and he

626
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 2: can't just get away with this, I'll call you when

627
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: I want. If in fact they're really in a relationship,

628
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 2: if they're just hooking up, like Keiky says exactly and

629
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 2: in the terms aren't there, well, then he's not trying

630
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 2: that hard.

631
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Speaker 3: He doesn't have to.

632
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 13: No, I agree, But I'm also saying too that like

633
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 13: if he had like a really rough day and he

634
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 13: needs to just like turn his phone off, that should

635
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 13: be okay too, but he should probably communicate that to

636
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 13: her as well.

637
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I agree, I need some time, but.

638
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 13: It sounds like his work life isn't going to be

639
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 13: able to see what she needs. And like I said before,

640
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 13: that's k two. They probably just need to have a

641
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 13: conversation that he needs to explain, you know, his day

642
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 13: and outs and what she's looking for and what's kind

643
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 13: of like a deal breaker for her.

644
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: Kim, thanks for being a nurse too and for listening.

645
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 2: Have a great day. I'm a little concerned about this

646
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 2: text right here, and the concern is within the first

647
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 2: five words, he says, Hi, Fred, I'm a neurosurgeon. Let's

648
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 2: just stop it right there. What are you doing listening

649
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 2: to this? I am extremely concerned you right, you are

650
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 2: way too smart for this. I don't need you thinking

651
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 2: about any of this smut when you're in someone's brain.

652
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 2: But this person says, I on, there's some typos here too,

653
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Speaker 2: So I hope you weren't actually operating when you wrote this.

654
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Speaker 2: Maybe it was siri, he was. Maybe he's in someone's head.

655
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 2: He's like, hey, Siri, text the radio station, he said.

656
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 2: I text between patients with my wife or operations. If

657
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: I'm late, I would at least call. I think he's

658
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: using it as an excuse. But dating a doctor does

659
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: require an amount of trust and independence on behalf of

660
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: the partner.

661
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do think that.

662
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 2: I think it's probably going to be different terms than

663
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: it would be if you dated.

664
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: I don't know one of us, for I'm so good

665
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: at dating a doctor.

666
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 3: Go me too.

667
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk to you, That's what I thought that.

668
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 2: I thought that, but I need like a little consistency

669
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 2: like I need. I don't know, a little like it

670
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: was just it was a little erratic. For me, and

671
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: it was like it was either all on or all off.

672
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 2: I need like a balance. We can do mostly off

673
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: and a little on, but I needed like I don't know,

674
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: I felt like we were either like don't call me

675
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 2: for a week, I'll talk to you later and then

676
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 2: and then when that person was free, it was like

677
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 2: I need all of your attention and like, but I

678
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,719
Speaker 2: wasn't getting any of your attention before, Like it was

679
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 2: it was hot or cold, and I can't blame this

680
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 2: girl for that, Like it totally isn't her fault. I

681
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: really admire what she was doing and the difficulty of it,

682
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 2: but I don't know.

683
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,719
Speaker 3: A little little you know, I don't know, Rachel.

684
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 2: Hi, you can't see the hand movement not making but

685
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 2: it was it was like a wishy, washy hand movement.

686
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 3: Rachel, what do you want to say? Good morning?

687
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 11: Good morning? Yeah, no, I was just calling. I did

688
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 11: a nurse. I know it's not a doctor, but it's

689
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 11: like the job is still demanding, so he works like

690
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 11: twelve hours shift a couple without the week, but like

691
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 11: he's still like on his way to wear touching me

692
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 11: in good morning takes or like when he's coming back

693
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 11: from work, he'll face timy.

694
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 13: You know.

695
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 11: So it's like what he wants to do, Like, if

696
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 11: you want to communicate with you, he will, you know

697
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 11: what I'm saying.

698
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 3: He wants you, he will want to exactly.

699
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 11: Like and then like he sends me like his monthly

700
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 11: scheduled because he gets that every beginning of the month,

701
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 11: So like I know when he's working, I know when

702
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 11: he's busy. I also have his location. I can see

703
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 11: him at the hospital.

704
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: So it's like somebody's will just stock the man as

705
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 2: long as he stocked the man, and then you know,

706
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: then he'll know for sure, I get it. No, I'm

707
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: messing with you, but no, it's it's probably difficult. Rachel,

708
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 2: thank you have a great day. That's me too, glad

709
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: you call. Oh wait here we go.

710
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 3: Hey, Nia.

711
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 2: Say, this woman's dating an r doctor for six months

712
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: and basically this dude will go days without communicating with her.

713
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: And he says it's because he's working, which is valid.

714
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: He says he's because he's a exhaust, which is valid.

715
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: He says it said he needs to, you know, sort

716
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 2: of do life things when he's not at the hospital.

717
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 3: Valid.

718
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: He's also in a relationship and that requires that he

719
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 2: needs to give a little.

720
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I hear you, right. I walk in the

721
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 7: medical field and for that doctor not to have just

722
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 7: one second to reach out to this young lady, he

723
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 7: is not into hall. Yeah, I'm speaking with experience. Once

724
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 7: a guy is not reaching out either testing you or

725
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 7: calling you. He has someone else he's doing that full.

726
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: Listen to too much. Okay.

727
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: Everybody who doesn't do it exactly right is cheating, according

728
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,719
Speaker 2: to Kiki and Nia apparently.

729
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 7: Yep, yeah, he has someone else he's doing it for.

730
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 7: I'm not you, so baby girl, just move on.

731
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: You okay, all right, Neia, Well thank you have a

732
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: good jest.

733
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 3: Na, thank you.

734
00:31:59,720 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 2: Guy.

735
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,959
Speaker 3: He doesn't have forty five minutes to hear the story.

736
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 3: You know that too? Yeah, it up? I thought I

737
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 3: was bad. She's go speed it up. Good morning, Hi,

738
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 3: good morning. No, what do you want to say? Welcome?

739
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 6: I oh so, I mean if she wants to, you know,

740
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 6: see how it goes.

741
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 11: Made me stay.

742
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 6: But honestly, dating someone in the healthcare is not for

743
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 6: the week. I work in healthcare, and honestly, like because

744
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 6: you know, I live with my husband and have kids,

745
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 6: like I kind of make myself interact with them. On

746
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 6: my days off. But honestly, I don't know that I

747
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 6: would like all ignore my sister's text messages, like we

748
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 6: have a group chat, my mom will text me, she'll

749
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 6: call me, and I honestly just I work night, so I.

750
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 11: Think it makes it even worse.

751
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 6: I definitely get like over stimulated.

752
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 4: I definitely need like a mental break, and I.

753
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 6: Have a you know, a six year old, so she's

754
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 6: still kind of neat.

755
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 13: You know, she needs me more than my fourteen year old.

756
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 6: And I don't know that I would communicate with anybody

757
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 6: if I didn't live with my husband, or if I

758
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 6: didn't have like a family, like I'll tell my but

759
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 6: I do tell my sisters like, hey, I'm like I've

760
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 6: just been I've had like a hard time at work.

761
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 4: I need a time out or sometimes I.

762
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 6: Don't, but they know that if I ignore them, it's.

763
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 4: Because I'm just like mentally checked out, and I think

764
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 4: they mentally checked out for my three days off, like

765
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 4: I I got off work this morning, gonna work, go

766
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 4: back to work tonight, and then I'll be off for three.

767
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 6: Days and then I still it still takes me till

768
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 6: seven pm tomorrow.

769
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 4: Night for me to even feel Okay, yeah, so you know, and.

770
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 11: So it's really really hard.

771
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 6: I think and my my husband, Like I had had

772
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 6: a conversation with my husband and tell him like, hey,

773
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 6: you know, I I step out of the room sometimes

774
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 6: like don't don't have family time and I have to

775
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 6: like go to the room by myself and kind of

776
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 6: just like take time for myself.

777
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 10: Yeah.

778
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: I get it at that, like you do. I appreciate

779
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: you Colling. And I'll tell you something. People's people's other

780
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: people's needs are important, but they can be so freaking annoying,

781
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: sometimes unbelievable.

782
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,520
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