WEBVTT - A True Crime Special: The Tammy Sytch Interview 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:34.600 Hello everyone, you're look you are listening eyes up here 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:38.400 from the iHeart Radio Network or wherever you get your 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:44.519 podcast with me with my co host Chad Chad. Yesterday 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.199 was Christmas. Merry Christmas. How was your holiday? 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:48.239 What did you do? 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:50.159 What did you get? It? 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:54.080 Merry Christmas? I got a lot. I'm loving that. 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:57.800 This Christmas week has been very merry and full of cheer, 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:01.440 and I'm glad be spending it with you today. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:03.920 This very merry Christmas. 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:07.479 Treek today post Christmas Day. 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.080 Yes yeah, post Christmas Day, December twenty sixth, For those 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:12.839 who need to check your calendar. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.440 The twenty fifth is yesterday. 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:18.600 I get to tous sometimes a day it's okay in together. 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:19.839 I mean in the Queen's Kingdom. 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:23.040 I mean they must shower you with gifts and food 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.240 and all the trimming, so you know, I could see 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:26.080 how you get confused. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.520 I got some really good gifts. I got to go 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:34.640 to my great niece's house yesterday. They were hosting, and 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.959 all we had to bring was dessert, which was very easy. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:42.120 I didn't even have to cook, and I got some 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:47.480 good stuff. I really wanted a Donald Duck hoodie zip 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:52.000 up hoodie for our upcoming Disney trip. So I told 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:53.960 my husband, this is what I want. So I got that. 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:58.200 I got a cute women's eagle shirt because you know, 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:00.960 most of the men's shirts are balky, but this one's 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:04.120 really cute for I'm fitting love it. I got a 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:07.440 lot of good stuff. So it was a good day, 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:12.360 and my kids were happy with their presence. And you know, 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.840 just looking forward to the new year, and with twenty 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:18.000 twenty four has the bring for us, so it's good. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:21.320 You're gonna be super busy in twenty twenty four. So yeah, 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.880 really looking forward to it. You keep booking dates left 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:24.320 and right. 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:28.560 I mean so far there there have been several dates 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:32.240 that have come in, and I'm very grateful for the 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:36.320 opportunity to get out there and work, even in the 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:38.440 I think I mentioned this in the month of March 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:43.640 on book three weekends, so that doesn't really happen that often. 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:48.239 So and and if I play my cards right, there's 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.760 gonna be a lot more that's gonna get booked. So 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.120 as always, I'll keep everybody post it. But you know, 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:58.960 I just want to work now while I can, while 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:03.480 ECW is still hot, while people are still interested. I 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.359 don't want to be eighty three walking into a convey 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.960 I mean no disrespect to those who do, but like, 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.200 I don't want to do that. You know, I'll be 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:15.480 fifty two next year. I think I got a couple 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:19.000 of good years left in me, especially if I take 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:23.040 care of myself. So you know, I'm looking forward to it. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:24.239 A lot of good stuff ahead. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:26.440 Now, if you were fifty, if you were eighty three 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:30.560 going into a convention, would you still strut like like 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:31.480 Francine would? 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.680 I would try my damnedest. I would get my walker 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.160 and like every once in a while go like, pick 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.040 up my walker and do a little kick, a little shimmy, 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:39.720 little shake. 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.600 How about the leather pants? Could the leather pants still 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:43.360 be a thing? 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:47.160 My ass can fit into them? I would still rock them. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.520 But I mean, who knows what the hell I'm gonna 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:51.840 look like at eighty three. I hope I'm alive at 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:54.720 eighty three, you know I did. 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.480 I was this close. I wanted to get Liz a 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.920 pair of leather pants for Christmas. I told you sure time, 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:01.000 I want to see. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:02.400 I had them in the cart. 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.400 I just didn't pull the trigger because I was like, 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:05.960 where where's she going to wear them? 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.600 Well? You guys go to like comedy clubs and stuff. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.040 Yeah, I don't have anything like on a horizon, so 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:13.080 they just I buy them for. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:14.600 Them to sit, so she wears it. 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.200 Well, before I book something, you know, I will get them. 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:19.800 But I was like, I'm not not going to get 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.279 them for them to sit. I'll get them before we 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.760 do something. But I think leather pants are in my future, 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:24.920 not for me, but for her. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.000 I mean, they make your ass look like a peach. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:28.440 It's really nice. 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.159 I think that's why I would love to add them 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:32.440 to her repertoire. 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:36.560 There you go, So yeah, I love them. But yeah, 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.159 and that's another thing I was thinking of. I was like, man, 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:43.040 you know I need I want to lose some weight 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.440 because I think I had mentioned, like the birth control 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.760 that I'm one made me gain five pounds. So I'm 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:51.160 like kind of frustrated right now. So I'm kind of 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:56.359 holding off until next year to buy clothes for these 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.000 conventions and shows that I'm going for it because I'm 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.640 very hopeful that I can lose five to ten pounds 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.359 by then because I think I'll be off the pills 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.719 and hopefully once I'm off, I can drop the weight. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.560 But it's really frustrating, Like, you know, you work so 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.520 hard in the gym and you're doing your cardio and 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:16.240 you're you're lifting, and then you go on this scale 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:19.720 and you're five pounds heavier and it's not muscle. What 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:22.960 the hell is going on? So a little pissed off 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.680 about that. But I'm you know, I'm fighting a good fight. 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:30.960 I'm gonna get there and buy WrestleMania weekend. Hopefully my 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.640 body will be where it needs to be. I'll just 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.920 starve myself one I'll see what happened. 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.479 I mean, either way, you know, get the job done. 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.920 Whatever goes one way, the other root goes the other. 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:45.520 I don't really want to do that because I love food. 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:48.680 I mean, I ate yesterday, you know, because there's so 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:54.239 much good food on the holidays. But it's it's rough. 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.839 It's rough when a salad even blows you up. There's 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:00.400 something going on. I'm still seeing the gi I'm still 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:03.080 sitting in neurologies like there's so many things going on. 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.200 But anyway, we don't have to talk about that. We're 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:12.520 here for a reason today and we're diving into something different. 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:18.040 This was the suggestion by a friend, and it's kind 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:21.719 of like a I'd say it's a hot topic right 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:26.240 now because this just happened like within the month. But 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.680 we're gonna dive into an interview that we did in 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:33.480 two thousand and what was it twenty one? 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.080 Yes, you thought it was twenty one, yep. 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:40.640 With Tammy Sich. And I really think this was the 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.840 last interview that she did. I don't think she did 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:50.800 any others after us, before the unfortunate incident in Florida happened. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.040 So we're gonna go over this video. I don't think 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:57.360 we're going to watch the whole thing, maybe just certain 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:01.440 clips or whatever and go through some calm and just 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.600 you know, because it's almost two years. It is two 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:08.200 years since we talked to her last, right, wasn't this 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:08.479 at the. 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.640 End of the you know what, I'm actually going to 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:11.960 pull up the exact date. 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:15.520 So we have I'm thinking it was later in the year. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:19.800 So this is actually July of twenty twenty one, Okay, 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:24.120 so that was, you know a little over then two 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:24.640 years ago. 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.720 So yeah, because I knew we were planning to go 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:32.320 to Russel Caid together and that is the weekend of 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:36.880 Thanksgiving right in November, So this was like a couple 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.720 months before, and we sat down and we talked to her, 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:44.160 and you know, I got a lot of backlash from 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:48.160 fans and from viewers for even conducting this video. So 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.400 I can give my analysis. You can chime in when 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.120 you want to. We can break it down and go 0:07:55.200 --> 0:08:00.720 over my thought process, you know. But I just want 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:05.920 to say for the record, before we even start, I honestly, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:09.960 in my heart thought that she was on the street 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:14.720 and narrow and that she learned her lesson. And I'm 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:19.000 not justifying anything that happened in the past, what she 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:23.480 did before this. I'm not saying that's okay. What I'm 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:29.360 saying is I thought she was starting over, like with 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:34.520 a clean slate, and I truly and honestly believed that 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.599 she was going to be okay. So I want to 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:41.240 get that out there because there was so many comments. 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:45.480 We had almost four hundred comments on this video, and 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:50.360 there were so many comments telling me that, you know, 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:53.480 why are you sitting there talking to this person, Why 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.880 are you laughing with her? Why are you giving her 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:59.640 the time of day. I've known her for decades and 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:05.520 decad She's a dear friend. Even with that said, I'm 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:09.880 not justifying anything that she's ever done to don't take 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:16.640 it the wrong way. I still believe in my heart. 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.520 It's hard for me, this is hard for me to 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:25.840 even talk about because I wanted the best for her 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:29.000 and I did believe at that moment in my heart 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.160 that she was going to do the right thing. So 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:35.280 let me just say that before we get into it, Okay, 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.520 just wanted to make that clear because I got so 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:38.680 much backlash on this. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:42.960 Yeah, I remember at the time a ton on Twitter. 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:45.600 When we posted the interview, there was a ton of comments. 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.600 We weren't really posting a lot on YouTube at the time, 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:50.880 but we posted a preview of the episode. There was 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:54.520 a ton of comments on that not favorable and saying 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:56.360 why are you giving her a platform? 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.679 Why are you doing this? And you defended this is 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:00.880 my friend having a discussion. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.720 And as you'll see as we get through parts of this, 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.480 you know, it goes back and forth, and we'll talk 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:09.920 about it and see how you go back and forth 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:15.960 between your Barbara Walters esque questions and your friendly banter. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:19.880 I mean, and it's it's a great kind of you know, 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.440 almost split personality you have to go through to get 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:26.760 through this, you know, hour which we also do have 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:33.079 this hour in our iHeartRadio podcast library here, which we 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.160 will point in the direction of later. 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:38.680 On as well. So join us here as we start to. 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:42.640 Dive into this little interview, with stoppages along the way 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:43.120 to comment. 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:45.920 So, yeah, and let me really really quickly, if this 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.440 was just all doom and gloom, I don't think she 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:52.480 would have wanted to sit and talk to me, you 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.560 know what I mean, Like, if it was just me 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:58.240 just saying how horrible of a person you are and 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.400 blah blah blah, would you sit through that? 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:02.160 You know? 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:06.880 No, I don't think anybody would want to sit there 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:11.400 and be be rated by a friend or a colleague. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.400 So let me just you know, I was trying. I'm 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:18.040 not trying to make light of anything that she's ever done. 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:23.280 That wasn't the goal. I was just trying to, you know, 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:26.240 get the good out of her, you know, tell some 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:30.920 stories that maybe no one ever heard before, and you know, 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:34.280 people might be interested in learning because we all know 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:38.760 about the train wreck side. But there was so much 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:42.400 good that I've experienced with her, and that's what I 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.400 was trying to bring out. And I again, I'm not 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:53.360 trying to justify her having what aduis or killing somebody. 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:57.040 And this was before the gentleman died, so keep that 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:01.160 in mind as well. But the hate that I infuriated 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:04.120 me because this was just me sitting down with a friend, 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:08.000 you know, And you'll see how uncomfortable I am and 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:12.719 how I try to to bring back the fact we're 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.120 gonna be on the street and narratory. You're gonna be good, Tammy, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.120 You're you know, we're never going to go back to jail. Tammy. 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.160 You can run it and you'll see what I mean. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:23.640 But you keep that in mind as you're listening before 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:25.319 you judge me or throw stones at me. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.880 All right, So, Queen of Extreme, if you need me 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:32.520 to stop, raise your hand or say pause, or say idiot, 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:35.560 click the stop the video, and I will do whatever 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:38.240 you need. Or I will also tell myself idiot, stopped 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.720 the video. If I need to come, might I say 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:43.880 the chats are looking very nice in this way. 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:45.280 I'm not going to call you an idiot. I'm gonna 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:45.960 call you a schmuck. 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:47.440 Oh, schmuck, hey, schmuck. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:47.600 Oh. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:49.920 You know my daughter heard that on one of the 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.000 videos and she left. 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.240 She told me that was a naughty word. So I'm 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:55.840 not to say it in your house anymore. 0:12:57.040 --> 0:13:00.280 I think she did right, Yeah, because you had a 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.440 laugh once you heard you saying on another one of 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:03.520 the videos. 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:12.800 Nice, how are you? She's leaving already, She's gone, my son, 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.480 natural light, It'll make you ever vencent. 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:18.840 It will chase people off until I start talking. 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.720 So I just got to keep my mouth, sweetheart. It's 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.800 been it's been a hot minute since I've seen that face. 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:29.800 How are you? Yes? Well, first of. 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:32.520 All, get all dressed up. All my clothes are in storage, 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:34.079 so I'm gonna t shirt. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:36.359 You look beautiful as always. 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:38.400 Tomorrow to get some of it out. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.800 So listen, should we should we talk about the elephant 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:47.080 in the room vaguely? Because is this your first interview? Yes, okay, 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:51.040 so your first interview, first one since the vacation. I'm 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:54.679 I'm honored I choose me, although I did badger her 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:56.240 and I threatened her and told her I will never 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:56.960 speak to her again. 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:59.360 If she knows, Yeah, you did, he threatened me. She said, 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:01.840 I will never to you again. Lyss I absolutely have 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.720 to do. 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:04.360 You not know me? 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:04.600 Why? 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:04.800 Now? 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:05.320 My time? 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.000 I want to do it first. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:11.800 They're very they're very effective, so you know, everybody knows 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:16.640 the situation that you were in, right. Unfortunately, I asked, 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:20.520 was this time different than the others? Did you go 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:22.080 in with the different. 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.840 Well, this, this was totally different. I got a driving on. 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:28.960 A suspension and I'm suspended from the old DUIs. So 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.200 it's a mandatory six months in jail on New Jersey. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.320 And how long were you in there for? Well? 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.440 I did my six months for that, but that violated 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.440 the probation I was still on in Pennsylvania, so I 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.880 had to max out that time and that was matched 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.720 out to May twenty first, so I did just over 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.480 ten months and stuff. 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:51.720 But I'm all done with that probation in Pennsylvania. 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:51.920 Now. 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:53.080 They can't do anything else to me. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:55.640 That five years of them sending me back all the 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.720 time for sneezing in the wrong direction is done. 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:02.440 Oh sorry, okay, are you clearing? Okay? 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:08.440 I just sneezing in the wrong direction. That's why she 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:13.280 keeps going back to jail for sneezing in the wrong direct. 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:17.000 I mean, this is where it gets tricky. A lot 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:20.880 of the comments say that she's making light of this 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:25.960 whole situation. A lot if one word to go in 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.840 our comments section, and read the four hundred comments that 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:35.320 are there. A lot of people are saying it's like 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:39.480 a joke to her, she's not taking things seriously, and 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:43.440 you'll see as the as it progresses. I don't When 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.960 she said that, that triggered me because I'm like, look, 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.760 you don't go to jail for sneezing in the wrong direction. 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:57.080 You've done things that are not supposed to happen. You're 0:15:57.120 --> 0:16:01.680 breaking the ball. That's why you went to jail. So 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.400 that was my first thought that came up. And we're 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:08.920 only two minutes into this video, so now I'm like, Okay, 0:16:08.960 --> 0:16:12.240 I have to sit here for an hour and try 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:18.800 to figure out a way to get her to I guess, 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:24.800 have some remorse and not make it so light hearted. Right. 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:30.040 And for me, I'm nervous about this because she's my friend. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.000 I don't want to piss her off. I don't want 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:35.400 to upset her. But in the same token, it's like 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:39.360 tough love, like I'm trying to tell her this isn't 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:43.440 the right thing, Like you're screwing up and we need 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:47.200 to fix it. So right off the bat, that comment 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.480 triggered me. Just just letting you. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:52.760 Know, Yeah, my PM in Pennsylvania was horrible. And it 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:54.000 doesn't matter what I would do. 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.320 If I was a half an hour late for an appointment, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:58.200 she would violate me and stick me in jail. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.240 It was just bullshit. But I'm done with that. It's 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:01.120 all over done. 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:03.800 So you're done. You're done with PA. What about New Jersey? 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:05.200 Are you good in New Jersey? 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:05.920 Yeah? 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.399 I'm good here, You're good everywhere. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:09.399 I just can't drive. 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:13.440 I can't drive, Okay, we're good if I don't. 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:15.960 If I do, when I get pulled over, it'll be 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:17.240 another mandatory six months. 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:19.280 Well, we're not going to get pulled over again, right, 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:21.280 I just know we're not going to do that. We're 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:24.080 not gonna fuck around with all that stuff. That's done. 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:26.280 Well, the problem was last year I got a really 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.200 pretty Jaguar F type convertible and I had to drive it. 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.040 So yeah, yeah. 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:37.399 All right, you're smarter than this. 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:40.560 I know. That's why I'm not driving now. Uber is 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:41.240 my new best friend. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:46.120 Okay, well let's stop. So the comment that we got, 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:50.040 one of the comments that we got is for this time. 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:53.000 Mark great here timestamp when she said that Uber is 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.400 her new best friend. You know, she got some problems. 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:57.880 She did not stick to her words and yet did 0:17:57.920 --> 0:18:01.760 a horrible choice again by drunk driving with a suspended license. 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:05.680 That's addiction and that's hard to overcome. People have been 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:09.480 sympathetic to her, and she blew that all away. That 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:17.119 was the comment I just commented back. It's sad to 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:19.800 say you got a nice, pretty car and I had 0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:22.080 to drive it when you know you shouldn't be driving. 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:24.840 Wow, that's a chilling comment. 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:28.280 If anything, No, No, so right then and there, And 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:33.400 you can tell that I am trying without being a bitch, 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:36.400 I am trying to let her know, Like I mean, 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:37.200 can you see. 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:41.879 That or is it just me you are I've stayed 0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:48.040 very steadfast in my belief of your just strong stance 0:18:48.560 --> 0:18:51.080 as a friend in this whole entire process. 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:55.120 Then who loves this person and wants the best for them? 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:57.760 Yes, a friend that does not give up on another 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:02.520 friend and that you don't enable a friend. You give 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:07.000 a friend tough love, and you you try to steer 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:09.000 them in the right direction. This is what I see 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:14.840 as a friend of a friend. Okay, Okay. 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:19.560 The thing that that I've said over and over is 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:23.119 you have to learn from your mistakes. So if you 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:26.520 learned and you're moving on and you're you're being the 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:30.840 best you you can be. That's all anybody can ever ask. Correct, 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:36.080 when you went in jail this time? Yeah, uh, I 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:38.360 don't know what number it was, But when you went 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:41.119 in this time, and I love you, I can teach you. 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:47.160 Did you go in with a different mindset? Like, because 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:50.040 you know the first time, I'm sure you were scared shitless. 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:52.480 I mean I would be. I would be any time 0:19:52.560 --> 0:19:57.160 because it's not that bad. Give me, give me an 0:19:57.160 --> 0:20:00.160 example of Okay, give me an example. 0:20:00.359 --> 0:20:02.600 To be a lot worse on TV than it actually is. 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:05.400 So it's it's really not that bad. 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:10.399 As somebody who's never been to jail. I'm just gonna say, 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.280 I never want to go. So whether it's not that 0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:17.359 bad or it's really good, I never want to find out. 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:18.879 So that's just me saying that. 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:23.280 And the same with me and a lot of the 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:26.000 comments that we got, because people are still pulling this 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:29.480 video up now, a lot of the comments are saying, well, 0:20:29.920 --> 0:20:33.960 jail and prison are two different things. So if she 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:39.920 thinks jail was a party, prison is not, and she's 0:20:39.960 --> 0:20:42.960 going to learn the difference. That's now. These are people 0:20:43.040 --> 0:20:45.359 who are claiming they went to jail and went to prison, 0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:48.480 like fans that are saying, I've been there. It's not 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:53.280 you know again, why joke about it's not that bad? 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:58.600 Of course it is unless you're just this big, lazy 0:20:58.640 --> 0:21:01.640 sloth who likes to lay on a mattress that's this thin, 0:21:02.160 --> 0:21:06.320 eat junk and do nothing all day and be isolated. 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:08.960 If that's your thing, then I guess it's not that bad. 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:12.359 But it would It would tear me apart to have 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:16.080 to live like that for years and years. So I 0:21:17.320 --> 0:21:19.200 can't understand this logic at all. 0:21:19.640 --> 0:21:24.320 Yeah, continue, it's doable. 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:25.520 You can make it. Stop. 0:21:25.920 --> 0:21:30.440 Stop me, I'm gonna kill her. Give me an example 0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:34.440 of a typical day. Do you get woken up at 0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:39.359 the crack of dawn by a warden threatening you no, okay, 0:21:39.400 --> 0:21:39.959 what happened? 0:21:39.960 --> 0:21:41.920 Do you tell me you don't even have to wake 0:21:42.000 --> 0:21:47.800 up if you don't want to. But see, I'm diabetic, 0:21:47.880 --> 0:21:49.480 so they would come and wake me up before thirty 0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:51.160 every morning to do a sugar check and to give 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:52.800 me a sun four thirty every morning. 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:54.040 That's I had to do it. 0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:55.679 You know, it's a medical thing, so you have to 0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:57.960 do it. Then I'd go back to sleep for a 0:21:58.040 --> 0:22:02.000 couple hours, and then usually around eight o'clock is when 0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:03.679