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Do you guys when 10 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: it comes to holiday stuff and going to families homes 11 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: and a lot of you are locals, some of you 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: have to travel. I would have to go if I 13 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: were dating someone and this person wanted to come home 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,639 Speaker 1: with me for Christmas, we'd have to go to Arizona, right, 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: and so there would be a sleeping arrangement question. And 16 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: I wonder how this works during the holidays because I 17 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: read this. I don't know if this is from Reddit 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: or what, but a husband says that he was told 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: by his in laws no, and I guess they're married. 20 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: So this is really strange to me. No sleeping in 21 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: the same bed as your wife when you visit us, 22 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: which is strange so then when the tables were turned 23 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: and the same couple came to stay with he and 24 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: his wife, he then enforced the same rule for his 25 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: in laws, and he said that they can't sleep in 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: the same bed. He explains that during his visits he 27 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: felt excluded and his bomb with his wife was restricted, 28 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: so this time he wanted them to get a taste 29 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: of their own boundary. His own parents were surprised, but 30 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: says that it's about fairness and reversing a rule that 31 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,639 Speaker 1: always made him feel second class, which is a strange 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: thing to do. I don't think I would flex on 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: my in laws. I don't think I would if that's 34 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: their rule and their old school in some way, which 35 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: is strange because we're married. I guess I could see 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: it if you were dating, but being married, that's a 37 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: weird thing. I probably wouldn't turn it around on them 38 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: when they came to my house that I don't really 39 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: need the smoke. But I wonder did you guys have 40 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: rules or do you have rules as unwed people when 41 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: they come When when a man or a woman comes 42 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: and stays at your house for a holiday, did they 43 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: get to stay in your room? What are the sort 44 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: of the boundaries, like is there is there a threshold 45 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: like if you date for a year or if you 46 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: live together, then we look the other way. I mean, 47 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: how does it work well at Helena's house? 48 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: You know, I'm only I've only had two boyfriends, and 49 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: really the first one I don't count no more so 50 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: when two, you know, we'd come by. We could stay 51 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: in my room, but it was like, I don't know, 52 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: I feel like there's this unspoken rule of respect, like 53 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: no frisky business while we're there, so you know, it 54 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 2: was almost like you know, you sleep on your side 55 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: of the bit, I'll sleep in. 56 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: Mind, don't touch me, like even now, you're not no 57 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: freaky business, like if you go to your sister's house. 58 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 2: No, And maybe it's because we live so close, like 59 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 2: if you if you really did freak you just go home? 60 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 3: Like why are you. 61 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 1: So yeah? 62 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: No, no, not at not now, But. 63 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: That's kind of funny you live down the street, Like 64 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: just go home. I have to come over here to 65 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: do it, right. I've often thought that, like can you 66 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: really not go? You know, so I'm in my in 67 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: law's house or whatever, Like can I really not go 68 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: two or three days over Christmas? Like with you know, 69 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: nieces and nephews running around and you know, some some 70 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: weird uncle dresses stand there or something. Did I really not? 71 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: I really can't not for three or four days, like 72 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: you know, destroy my wife. Like I got a like, 73 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean so eloquently some people 74 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: like to some people like that. You know, yeah, I mean. 75 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,119 Speaker 4: Your family's house is not a horny place, you know, No, 76 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 4: it's just not. I mean it has been out of 77 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 4: necessity if you're like a high schooler. 78 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: But no, right, like when you lived there and you 79 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: didn't have a choice, you know, yeah, it's like scary, 80 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: but I know it was scary. Yeah it was scary. 81 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: But I don't know, like, wait, when you first started dating, 82 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: shame didn't you calin have to Like, wasn't there some 83 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: attempt to stay in separate rooms or he slept on 84 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: a couch or something. 85 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 4: Well I'm trying to think, because he's he's been to 86 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 4: both our cabin and our house. I think when we 87 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: stayed at our house, I mean, we already lived together, 88 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 4: so I think it was just kind of like they 89 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 4: set him up the same place they set Jason up, 90 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 4: which is in our basement that's finished. So they have 91 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 4: like their own area. But I think the last time 92 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 4: I ended up just sleeping down there on the couch 93 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 4: with him, but we didn't do anything. And then I 94 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 4: think at the cabin we had the same room too. 95 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 4: I think my mom's just not she's no dummy. 96 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 3: You know. 97 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 4: We live in the same home. So yeah, but our room, 98 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 4: like my room is right across from my sisters and 99 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 4: near my parents, and we don't have locks. So I 100 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 4: typically don't even stay upstairs, you know, if I have 101 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 4: a guy with me, because I don't want to set 102 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 4: that example for my sister, and it just it's a 103 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: respect thing, you know. 104 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was gonna say, she's still in college and 105 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: it has been with the guy for a while, but 106 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: I mean she's younger, so I assume you got live 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: together at least I assume then she can't necessarily bring 108 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: this guy home and do whatever. 109 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 4: He gets put down in the basement where we put 110 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 4: all the men. Yeah, and her bedroom is two floors up, 111 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 4: so yeah, but our floors creaked. It's built in the 112 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 4: nineteen twenty so, like you know, the creaky wood floors 113 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 4: we have those. There's not a lot of sneak in 114 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 4: in our house. 115 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: But there is a set standard of like when she 116 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 2: brings her guy home, she's upstairs, he sleeps downstairs, that 117 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 2: you need to be upstairs. 118 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think neither of us would be like 119 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 4: can we please, like I don't know, it's yeah, but no, 120 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 4: they're not sitting in the same room. 121 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: And that's my rule too, okay for the they need to. 122 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: It's kind of funny when there are rules that are 123 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: like like when I was in college and I would 124 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: come home and my mom was like, all right, well 125 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: see at midnight, like what I am? Like, you're trying 126 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: to you're proposing yet right, you're proposing a curfew, Like 127 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,119 Speaker 1: I don't live here anymore, Like what are you gonna 128 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: do on Wednesday when I go home? And you have 129 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: no idea? And my mom's thaing was like, well, I 130 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: can see you now, so I I have to deal 131 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: with that. But when you're gone, I just I don't know, Jesus, 132 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: take the wheel. I don't know what you're doing. I 133 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: don't have to see it, so it doesn't matter. But 134 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: that she tried to hold that one up for a while, 135 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: and then finally I'm like, Mom, I have insurance, like 136 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: a I have a four oh, one, k okay, Like 137 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and I'll see you when I 138 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: see you, you know. But it's it's a respect thing, 139 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: like even to this day, I mean as a single person, 140 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: like if I'm if I don't know, link up with 141 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: the divorce lady I went to high school with or whatever, 142 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: which is kind of what That's what things have come 143 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: to now is I was actually having this conversation with 144 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: someone last night that like, at my age, having never 145 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: been married, what's happening now is people that I've dated 146 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: have gotten married, had kids, gotten had a whole life, 147 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: gotten divorced, and now I run into them, you know, 148 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: at the Starbucks or whatever, and it's like, oh, hey, 149 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: I oh, I'm not married anymore. And then you go 150 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: back and do the same stuff that you were doing 151 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: fifteen twenty years ago. But even now, I would be 152 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: nervous to do that in my house, one because of 153 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: respect for my parents and two because I it would 154 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: just be so awkward if they walked in and you're, 155 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 1: you know, doing whatever you do. Yeah, like I don't. 156 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 4: Just knowing that they're there is like Sahara does it 157 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 4: for me? So oh, you know what I mean, Like 158 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 4: I put my Chestney bell On. Yeah, you know, I'm 159 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 4: locking this whole thing up. 160 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: What does this text always have a problem with my 161 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: mom because she wants grandchildren. But whatever me and my 162 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: wife go and stay at her house is no hanky panky, no, 163 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,239 Speaker 1: nothing like that. She doesn't make us stay in separate rooms, 164 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: but she's adamant that there should be nothing going on 165 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: in the room. I think that's funny because she complains 166 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: about no grandchildren. Well, I mean, dude, you could there 167 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: are other places, Like I don't know your right where 168 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: you live. I don't know, Pauline. I suppose at this 169 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: point Martin Martina probably spends more time at your house 170 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: than you do with hers. 171 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 3: Right, that is very true. Yeah, see we don't obviously 172 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: have the eight blocks away, so I'm not sleeping over 173 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 3: It's amazing. But I also feel like the average couple 174 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 3: has like sexy time, what maybe once a week if 175 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 3: that so? Like if you're right, friend, if at Christmas 176 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: time or Thanksgiving, like this urge at your mom's house 177 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 3: is just like it's. 178 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: That to me is like hold on, like maybe we 179 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: should go to Theaye or something. 180 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 3: And why like why now? 181 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 4: Why are you turned on at my mom's house, you know, 182 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 4: with you, that's where I'm gonna make me say, let's 183 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 4: get a divorce, right, like, hello, I'm leaving you. 184 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: Like can you just do this like when we're. 185 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: Home in private? Right? Yeah. I didd a girl once 186 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: who we stayed at her house. This is in college, 187 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: and like she it did something for her, Like the 188 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: idea of getting caught did something for her, because oh 189 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: well she was because we were in separate rooms and 190 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: I was trying to be respectful and whatever, and then 191 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: here she is sneaking into the whole time, I'm going like, dude, 192 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 1: you need to go, and like I was probably the worst. 193 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: You know, She's trying to get it on, and I'm 194 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: like get out of here because I'm not I'm not 195 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: looking for that, Like I'm not looking. I'm not looking 196 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: for mister whomever to walk in and see me doing 197 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: stuff to his daughter that I didn't that I didn't initiate, 198 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: like and it was and then how do you do that? Like, well, 199 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: you know something's going on. He walks in and you're 200 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: like no, but she made me like no one's gonna 201 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: believe that, but I think I think it did something 202 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: for her. The idea that she might get caught. But like, 203 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: it's one thing to want to get caught, it's another 204 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: thing you want to get caught by your own parents. Like, yeah, 205 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,199 Speaker 1: that's a different level. Yeah, I don't know, Jason, you 206 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 1: don't you don't drive out to Mantino and see what 207 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: you can do. Absolutely not. If my parents are even 208 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: in the vicinity, I don't think I could ever get 209 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: in the mood. Absolutely not. Right, right if they called, 210 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: they were on the highway, like in the same county, 211 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: You're like, all right, forget about it here. Yeah, I'm like, 212 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm good, you're heading like here, we're in different counties. Yeah, exactly, Yeah, 213 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 1: you're right. I don't I don't get it, Pauline, it's yet. 214 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: I think we can wait. It's I'm gonna be here 215 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 1: for three days, like it's it's it'll be fine. 216 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 217 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: And then and then, like the other issue is even 218 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: if you don't get caught, like what if there's some evidence, 219 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: you know, and then you have to like you gotta 220 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: figure out you got to conceal that, you know, because 221 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: it's like you don't need your you don't need your 222 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: meme all going in there and cleaning up you know, whatever, yeah, 223 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: which is which is why I advocate for a hotel. 224 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: I always advocate for a hotel. But that offends people, 225 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: like sometimes if I if I came to town and 226 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: told my mom, like I'm staying in a hotel, I mean, 227 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: she wouldn't have it like she would be it'd be done. 228 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 229 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: I think you could just wait and get them right. 230 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: We've come we've come to a quorum, we've come to 231 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:31,599 Speaker 1: a conclusion that that's what to do.