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Speaker 1: Second date, up date.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been on the way to a date

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Speaker 2: and had something happen that almost seems unbelievable and you

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Speaker 2: have to tell your date, Hey, sorry that I'm late,

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Speaker 2: but a cobra bit me on the subway ride over

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Speaker 2: and I had to have a homeless.

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Speaker 1: Guy suck out the poison.

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Speaker 2: Had that exact story happened to me several times? Actually,

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Speaker 2: lots of subway snakes around here lately.

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Speaker 1: The city really should do.

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Speaker 3: Something about not Google search that term.

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Speaker 2: I bring it up because one of our listeners said

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Speaker 2: he had a crazy thing happened to him on the

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Speaker 2: way to his date, and he's pretty sure it's the

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Speaker 2: reason he's not getting a call back.

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Speaker 1: His name is Ted, So Ted, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, guys man. How are you doing today?

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Speaker 5: Do we need to suck out any venom out of

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Speaker 5: like a fire or anything.

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Speaker 4: She's very eager to do it, So, no poison.

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Speaker 1: Different situation that happened on the way to your date?

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Speaker 1: What was it?

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Speaker 4: It's completely unbelievable. It's a little long, so let me

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Speaker 4: just jump right into it. I was going to go

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Speaker 4: on a date with a girl named Amy. We met online,

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Speaker 4: like you typically do nowadays. And we've been talking for

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Speaker 4: a while. I mean, we had great conversation. We really

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Speaker 4: liked each other.

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Speaker 3: So you're excited, you're looking.

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Speaker 4: To so pumped up for this date. So I'm driving

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Speaker 4: there and I get a call from my mother and

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Speaker 4: she said, Honey, I'm stuck. I'm stranding downtown. My tire

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Speaker 4: is blown and I don't have uber or any of

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Speaker 4: those stuff like that, So could you come get me?

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Speaker 2: So you told us.

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Speaker 4: No, I want to stay in the will.

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Speaker 1: But you're on the way to a date.

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Speaker 4: Though, Yes, but it's my mother. What kind of guy

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Speaker 4: would I be if I left my mom's stranded?

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Speaker 3: It's true? Okay, So is it gonna make you super late?

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Speaker 3: Did you call your date and let her know?

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Speaker 4: Well, that's the thing. Me and Amy had been planning

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Speaker 4: this date for weeks and I did not want to

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Speaker 4: mess this up. So I had a choice to make.

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Speaker 4: So I could just pick my mom up and drop

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Speaker 4: this date. Or I could take mom with me.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we put that in the option.

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Speaker 1: That should not be in the option.

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Speaker 3: Do I feel like you went with option B?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, laughing, there we go.

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Speaker 3: Let us know.

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Speaker 4: So here's what happened. Man, I have to take my

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Speaker 4: mom with me. It's gonna sound bad, but I made

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh yeah, that's not bad.

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Speaker 1: You leave her in the car.

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Speaker 3: It's like dogs. You can't do that.

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Speaker 2: You crack the window for crack the window, turn on

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Speaker 4: I did, but we were like separate. So when I

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Speaker 4: My mom agreed. She understood what was going on.

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Speaker 5: But did it change like how you acted knowing that

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Speaker 4: Oh totally. And Amy can see that I'm completely distracted,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she probably thought you were checking out some older

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Speaker 4: Back on my God. Luckily she didn't think that. But

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Speaker 4: she just came out and said, hey, is something Okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, you can tell you were off and bro, she

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, did you confess?

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Speaker 3: I'm pard of that.

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Speaker 4: I said, my mom's here at the restaurant and I

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Speaker 5: Up, funny you and you were conscious about it.

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Speaker 3: It's not like you sat down with your mom. I

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Speaker 4: So so what happens, Well, what do you expect? Amy's

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Speaker 5: We had to get Amy back on the phone just

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Speaker 4: She does because Amy invited my mom to come back

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Speaker 1: Now I am cringing over here.

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Speaker 2: Everybody else thinks of It's like the sweetest story ever.

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Speaker 2: If my mom was on a first date with me,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if it was an emergency, a sweet

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Speaker 2: story that would be the end of the romances. Are

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I know this is gonna sound nuts, but my mom

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Speaker 4: the perfect wingman. Oh my god, she made me sound

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Speaker 4: to me, I wanted to date me, oh.

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Speaker 3: Mom, but okay, so get a little over the top though.

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Speaker 5: Did she ask your date questions or did it turn

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Speaker 5: into like a presentation about you, mom?

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Speaker 1: She may steal your date.

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Speaker 4: It turned into like a power point about me and

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Speaker 4: how great her son is.

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Speaker 2: You think that he dresses well? You should see him kiss.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like there's an okay amount of time

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Speaker 3: but not like hours.

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Speaker 1: It could be all wholesome and zero romance exactly. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you think it went? Overall?

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Speaker 4: We ended up having a really great time. At the

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Speaker 4: end of the day, I actually hug Amy. I don't

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Speaker 4: want to kiss her or make out with her in

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Speaker 4: front of my mother. Yeah it was nice, and Amy

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Speaker 4: said she had a great time. But then I get

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Speaker 4: a text the next day out of nowhere. She says,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I didn't really feel a romantic spark, and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, of course she didn't feel a romantic spark.

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Speaker 4: I was on a date with you, and my mother like, yeah, weird.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you feel like you didn't get a fair shot

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Speaker 5: to show her the romantic spark.

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Speaker 1: Serious, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: If she gives me another chance, I really think I

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Speaker 2: Okay, I like this, Yeah, thank you, Crazy, We're gonna

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Speaker 2: at least attempt to get you a second date here.

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Speaker 2: Maybe your mom needs to show up on all of

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Speaker 2: your break down more often less often.

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Speaker 1: I guess it didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: Well, but it didn't work for him, But let's try

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Speaker 2: and come back and get you your second date. Update

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Speaker 2: with any right after this thank you second date update.

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Speaker 8: Stay tuned to TLC the Learning Channel Let's Learn. Coming

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Speaker 8: up next, Cake Horse and at nine Super Quick Weddings

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Speaker 8: followed by the Divorce Horse.

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Speaker 2: And you know what's missing from that lineup is the

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Speaker 2: new TLC dating show Wing Moms, premiering Wednesdays at nine Central,

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Speaker 2: eight Pacific.

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Speaker 1: I definitely watched the episode.

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Speaker 3: Your Mom, Jeff watch.

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Speaker 2: Out held Hands while watching that show, because if you

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Speaker 2: missed the first part. Real quick our listener Ted had

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Speaker 2: to bring his mom along on his first date because

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Speaker 1: Tire emergency situation.

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Speaker 2: Mom ends up eating dinner with Ted and his date Amy. Afterwards,

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Speaker 2: he gets a text from Amy saying she had a

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Speaker 2: nice time but just didn't feel the romantic spark there.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I think it's really important to note that his date,

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Speaker 5: Amy is the one that invited the mom over to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that makes it romantic, you're but the

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Speaker 2: fact that she said she didn't feel a romantic spark

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Speaker 2: that sucks. But I would be worried if she said

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Speaker 2: she did feel the romantic spark with the mom there.

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Speaker 2: That's why Ted would like to do a redo without

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Speaker 1: Of his face.

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Speaker 2: That's why he's here for a second chance, because he

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Speaker 4: Ted, It did not. It didn't go that far.

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Speaker 5: Hey, have you told your mom that Amy said that

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Speaker 5: it's not gonna work?

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Speaker 3: Is your mom disappointed?

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Speaker 1: She's kind of invested.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't alle she was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please don't involve your mom this much in your

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Speaker 3: Know, I wonder you just know she will insert herself

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Speaker 2: Really, it's projecting about how our relationship with our moms are.

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Speaker 2: call Amy right now. Hello, Hi, is this Amy?

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Speaker 1: Hey.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry to bother you, but you're on the radio

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Speaker 2: right now. No, yeah, I know. It's kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and we're

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Speaker 2: doing this segment. It's called a second Date Update. One

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's really cute.

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Speaker 5: There's a really cute reason he really likes you.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, Brooke, coming on a little strong here, because well, yes,

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know this is a lot.

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Speaker 2: That I'm telling you right now, but I just want

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Speaker 2: He's worried that that may have been the reason that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so well, uh, this is You're right, this is

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Speaker 5: He did say, I mean, he really applauded how cool

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Speaker 5: Like you sounded like super flexible that night, super understanding,

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Speaker 5: which was totally awesome.

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Speaker 7: Oh thanks, I mean I'll make of a jerk. Oh

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Speaker 7: your mom's here. We'll just let us sit in the

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of people would do that.

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Speaker 6: A nice night and it was really cool and right,

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Speaker 6: but you can you can understand why there wouldn't be

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Speaker 3: It wasn't able to put his moves on, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Like that was the text that you sent to him,

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Speaker 1: Wait, mom, text.

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Speaker 3: Did you get that text before? After you texted about

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Speaker 5: Okay, so he went and are you thinking he went

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Speaker 7: I wasn't true at the time, but then they just

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Speaker 7: It turned into a complete presentation, her telling him to

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Speaker 1: How okay? Now this is sounding more like my mom.

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Speaker 3: You're not wrong. He is going to be mortified.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, Well, because the part of this that you

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Speaker 3: I'm dying on the inside for Ted right now.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know it.

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Speaker 4: so embarrassed. Oh, I had no idea that my mom

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Speaker 2: Did you talk to your mom that you got the

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Speaker 4: I'm sure I mentioned it, but I didn't go into

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Speaker 3: Phone plan? There is as we shame you for it

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Speaker 5: Oh no, they're just jealous and your's reading your text.

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Speaker 4: Apparently she did because I never gave her Amy's phone numbers,

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so Amy, Amy, Ted didn't tell this

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Speaker 1: She did that totally on her own.

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Speaker 4: Amy. I am so sorry that my mom, who likes

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Speaker 7: Didn't she she called me a bitch.

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Speaker 6: Why aren't you apologizing for that?

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Speaker 4: Of course, I'm sorry my mother did that. You are

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Speaker 4: The bottom line, my mom just wants the best for me. Ultimately, Yes,

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Speaker 4: did she go too far? Absolutely, Sometimes she gets fired

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm kind of going to gives the.

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Speaker 1: Tells you that you're gonna get used to somebody's That's

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Speaker 2: Most women don't get along with their boyfriend's mothers.

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Speaker 1: Brook.

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Speaker 5: I get along with her well, but you don't.

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Speaker 1: Call each other the B word every once in a while,

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Speaker 3: I love my mother in law. I just need a

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Speaker 7: I mean it's I guess it's better to find out

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I do think the mom probably had really

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Speaker 5: I think you.

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Speaker 2: Were the one who was on the mom's side and

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Speaker 3: I think that the good thing.

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Speaker 5: I think that the good thing is is that this

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Speaker 3: Not in a relationship with Mom. You're in a relationship

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Speaker 1: And if you're going to deal.

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Speaker 2: With the mom, if she comes back at the Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: Meet up with him one more time.

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Speaker 2: We'd love to pay for that second meet up if

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Speaker 7: I think everything is moving super fast.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how about just yes to a date, not to Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess if we can promise that Mom won't

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Speaker 4: In no, she won't, she.

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Speaker 2: Won't, No, no, no, Ted is leaving her on the

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Speaker 4: Ted is getting his mom triple a.

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Speaker 2: Amy, I think he made a good chow there, giving

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm so happy. Thank you guys, and thank you Amy.

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Speaker 4: I can't wait to talk to you alone.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I thought you were saying that about Alexis.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her too. It's looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: You think she was just being nice there at the

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Speaker 2: many of these where the person says yes, but then

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they're actually going to go out.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think they'll go out again, but really yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I just think this is always going to be in

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Speaker 2: the future with the mother. At some day it's going

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Speaker 2: to come up again. How do you ever recover from

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Speaker 2: you? You have to have an unbelievably amazing relationship with the dad,

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Speaker 2: balance friends with the father. He did seem like a

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Speaker 3: His mom did something right. Yeah, raise a good guy.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 2: It worked out, she said, yes, and maybe it'll work

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Speaker 2: out for you no matter who your parents are.

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Speaker 1: Just email the show.

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Speaker 2: We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and

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Speaker 2: podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning