WEBVTT - Dirty Rush: This S**t is Crazy- Sorority Rush is truly unhinged... but also kind awesome 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:04.280 Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:06.880 your hosts me Gia Judice. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:13.640 Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, everybody, this is Trista Setter. 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:17.120 I'm here with Joan Vassos. Is that how you pronounce 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:18.880 your name? I've never even said it out loud? 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.599 Yeah, you did it perfectly. Funny, you do it perfectly. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:24.680 It is that's funny. We don't do you know. 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:28.920 I'm like, that's so random. And Gabby, we are here 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:31.800 for Dirty Rush and we're so excited, and of course 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.440 we're in Tahoe. We were talking about how much fun 0:00:34.600 --> 0:00:37.160 it is to do these events. Have you done other 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.040 iHeart events for us? 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:42.440 I went to jingle Ball okay, yes, in La which 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.320 was so fun. But that is the only other iHeart 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:47.639 event and I am loving it here. I've never been 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:49.919 to Tahoe and I'm like, this is insane. 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:50.920 Isn't the most beautiful? 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:52.240 If I want to move here, I'm like on zillow, 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.639 you know, just like you or my husband, I guarantee 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:57.360 you every probably over place I go to. 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:58.640 I'm like, oh, this one looks nice. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:00.280 Five million dollars. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:03.440 I spent every vacation of my entire life with my 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.679 late husband, him deciding that we had to buy a place, and. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:08.640 Yeah, me too. 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:09.800 I'm not sending it to my fiance. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.560 I'm like, we could live here, you know, we just 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:14.319 got a house, but like, what about this one? 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:19.280 Yeah? I love it. I love it. Yes, Tahoe is amazing. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:23.640 So thank you for coming. I know we talked a 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:27.200 little bit about pickleball and you don't know a lot 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.039 about it, but I'm here to help. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.280 Thank you so much. You're such a giver. 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.160 She's just recruiting people to be in her. In her 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:37.360 I don't want to. 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:38.360 Get her to do it to you. 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:40.920 I want to get into it, but like I need 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:44.080 to take a lesson. I actually know what's going on. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:46.840 I just need to know, like the lingo and the roles, 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:47.559 and then. 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.080 I feel like, okay, it's just probably. 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:51.360 You have long legs. You look like an athlete. 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:53.160 Thank you so much. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:53.920 I want you on my team. 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:55.400 I do plates you. 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.440 Because I'm not going to be that good. Just pre 0:01:59.520 --> 0:01:59.880 warning you. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:03.240 Oh all right, back to dirty Rush. So we're going 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:06.960 to go through schools that we went to. Where were 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:08.160 you in college? 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:15.840 I went to Ole Miss Oh, so craziest rush place. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:17.000 it was wild. 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:18.200 And when did you graduate? 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:21.680 I graduated in twenty nineteen, so kind of before all 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:23.240 the like TikTok. 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.520 Stuff happened, dancing, the matching outfits and all that. 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:31.040 Yeah, and before like the whole like documentary came out 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:32.160 about Bama Rush. 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:36.639 I like was right before that. Yeah, experienced it before 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:37.840 you went oh no, no no. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:41.400 I was, like I graduated right before all graduated like 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:46.280 started becoming like such a social media craze, which I'm 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.120 kind of glad because I was just gonna ask you, Yeah, 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:50.800 I think it would have been too much ole Miss. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.120 I mean, the girls do not mess around. You guys 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:56.120 have probably seen like game day outfits. Ole Miss is 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:59.760 like next level girls being. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.160 Extra yeah in the best way. Yeah, And I love 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:02.720 that for them. 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:05.280 But I love it how people dress up for the 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:08.040 games and they make it. They make the Saturday is 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:11.160 like an event every Saturday during football completely it's it 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.760 is and and the sororities and fraternities are like such 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:15.680 a big part of it. They are they're not athletes, 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:18.160 but they are as big as you know, for the 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:19.880 football day, as any as the players are. 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:21.800 I mean, those are like the tenths you go to 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.760 so you like always have a little home to go 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:28.400 to that has food and everything you need except alcohol, 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:30.360 So you got to go to the frat tents for that, 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:32.639 but you know where to find out. 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:40.840 So I went to Indiana graduated in ninety one five, 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:44.160 graduating ninety five, and I was an alpha kai. What 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:46.840 were you? I was a pie fi Okay, amazing. I'm 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:48.760 going to write you down for my letters of recommendation 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:53.920 for my daughter. I'm just kidding. I just wrote down Joan. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:59.480 But I she might be going through it next year 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.000 because she's going next year. We don't know she's saying 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:02.480 in high school. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.400 It's just saying okay o exciting. 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.320 So I'm kind of right kind of reliving all of 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:09.720 this through her a little bit. 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:14.640 I'm getting nervous right now because it's a lot of pressure. 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:15.520 It's so much. 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:19.880 I went and I'm from Vermont, and I didn't know 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:23.479 like how sororities and fraternities were, and I knew rush 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:25.400 was going to be a big thing, but I didn't 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:27.440 know all of the stuff that went into it, so 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:31.479 I didn't have recommendation letters like I remember emailing people 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.320 desperately like before I went, like please write me a wreck, 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.240 Like here's my resume and I'm a good person. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:38.159 Here's a picture of me. 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:40.680 And I didn't I didn't get a lot. 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.360 So it's like really hard to. 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:44.800 Know. 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:47.840 They're like, oh, you know legacy, Sorry, I can't help. 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:55.120 I mean it's legacies, like the top houses are you 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.120 really have to be a legacy or you have to know. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.960 People when all the top houses you would. 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:04.240 Say, it's Katie, Ti, Dell, and Kyo. Those are like 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:07.719 the three top houses and Katie is like where like 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:11.200 Leanne Touey went. That's that's her sorority. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.080 So it was kind of crazy, is that sorry? The 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:20.280 blind Side No, the movie football Player, that is the mother. 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:23.560 The mother is Tety and so she was like a 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:24.400 huge donor. 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:25.960 And like like. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:27.640 When we would go through Rush, they put in like 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:31.280 very strict parameters, like the second year I was there, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.039 so you couldn't do like there used to be a 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:36.400 skit round where you would do like these crazy fun skits. 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.160 They took that out because they wanted to be like 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.360 a more even playing field and they made us wear 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:42.279 like specific T shirts. You could only wear the T 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:46.120 shirts until like Sisterhood and then you could or pref 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.120 and you could wear a dress, but. 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.760 Show no, they get. 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.640 Fined, like big fines, like fifty thousand dollars like fines, 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:56.520 and she would pay. 0:05:56.400 --> 0:06:00.720 It a thousand dollars fines. 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:02.400 I didn't know. I don't know how much it was, 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.960 but it was rumored that, like because they would wear 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.000 like light up shoes and that's against the rules, like 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:10.320 because you can't like try to like waite for adults. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.400 Like yeah, like they would like so we would have 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:13.960 to do the chance right and they'd be doing the 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.479 chants with their feet and they would be like in 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:17.440 light up shoes. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:18.719 It was crazy. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.120 Russia Ole miss was so insane. And when you were 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.680 the one like putting it on like our people, I 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:26.800 also don't know I'm allowed to say, but whatever, they 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.600 can come for me. They would go to the top 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.000 of the street and they would have us in the 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.320 house and if they could not hear us screaming at 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:36.320 the top of the street with the door shut. 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:38.800 Then we had to keep doing it and keep doing it. 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:39.440 My lord. 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:42.520 We loved. 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.760 We had so much fun. I mean, was like the 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:46.360 best week. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.320 It is like, well, so you do like rush prep 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:51.560 week and you go the week before school and you 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:54.160 have all themed days and that's when you really got screaming. 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:58.240 But Rush nights you would be up all night, like 0:06:58.520 --> 0:06:59.840 you'd be at the sorority house to. 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:03.880 Like, Yes, it's such a bonding time truly, and they 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.400 always put it right at like midterms. Yeah. 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.280 I was like, this is perfect because OLMOS is one 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:10.440 of the only schools and it doesn't. 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:13.000 Rush before I went there. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.240 Yeah, so that apparently it's like for girls who like 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:20.000 try to transfer something if they don't get this, I 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:21.360 don't know there is leasing to it. 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:24.760 Now I'm questioning myself if Indiana did. My brain doesn't 0:07:24.800 --> 0:07:29.640 work very well these days. But yes, that's that's crazy crazy. Yeah, 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:31.640 oh my gosh. I love all these crazy stories. No, 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.679 it's so many because I also don't remember so much 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.600 of my experience. I just have a bad memory anyway. 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:43.320 But what I do remember is Rush, so our different 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:47.600 I was in Alpha Kai yeah, and our story and 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:50.400 like all the sororities that Indiana and Indiana has a 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:54.120 massive Greek system and we would all do the skits 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:56.840 and so you're part of all the skits and I 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:03.120 remember that, like my mom was a buyer for sacks, 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.560 but maybe not at that time, like maybe it was 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:09.000 one of the Targets stores or whatever with their department stores, 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.880 and so she would have like stuff laying around the 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.880 house that like it was a sample. Yeah exactly. So 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.800 I had samples of sequin dresses. And I remember like 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:21.720 we did a skit and we needed dresses or something. 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.720 I'm like, oh, I got that. And just like just 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:28.240 the bonding time with your with your friends who were 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:31.680 like excited about the skits, whether it's dancing or singing 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:34.840 or talking or hosting or like just getting people excited. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.280 I just remember that as such a special time where 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:41.520 we all got to just bondh and have fun together. 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:42.240 It was so fun. 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:43.640 I made so many friends. 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:45.600 Yeah, I hated it at first, So did you. 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:48.680 Freshman year, I was like I didn't want pie Fi. 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:51.679 I want to find you, okay, And my gamma Kay 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.600 got me a recommendation letter from pi FI. 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.719 And because I was too scared to like dirty rush. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.120 Actually does actually dirty rush meaning you said I like 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:05.559 Ole miss Like, basically, if you're like being dirty Rush, 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:08.840 it means you're going outside of the rules of engagement 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:10.720 for potential new members. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:14.120 So like let's say like a Kappa was like, Hey, 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:17.560 come to my pregame. That is dirty rushing because they 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:18.480 are rushing. 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:19.280 You outsideide of the rush. 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:23.240 So the only time you're allowed to interact with the 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:27.520 sorority girls that are active members, it was during this 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.720 thing called the Care Walk, which is like a breast 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:34.360 cancer awareness walk. And so I was like scared to 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.040 like get in trouble, and so I stuck with my 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.760 gamma Ka. I was the only person that stayed with 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:41.200 our gamma Kai. All the other ones went to like 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:42.840 the girls that they were trying to. 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:43.720 Like rush for you. 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.240 Yeah, so they went to the different girls they knew 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:47.040 and the sororities. 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:50.320 What happens to those girls, Like if they're well. 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.760 They're okay because they're allowed to interact on that day 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.120 because you can't tell somebody what pace they can walk at, 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.120 like everyone they're gonna be out there, you can, I mean, 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:59.520 if you want to speed walk, speed walk. 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.160 So that was a dirty rushing. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.319 But that's why she was like, I thought it was 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:06.920 really nice for sticking with her. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:08.839 So she got me a wreck letter. 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:11.240 But I wanted to find you, and I almost was 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:14.080 like I was, I was like, I'm not running home 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:14.719 to pi Fey. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:16.520 Yeah, but I loved it. 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:17.440 You end up loving it. 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:18.480 Yeah, I ended up loving it. 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:19.960 I went to University of Maryland and I was a 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.240 Delta game. I graduated in eighty five. I didn't rush. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.439 I rushed when I was a sophomore, and I didn't 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.720 get DGI, so I just didn't take a bid from 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:32.040 the sorority that I got an offer from, which would 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:34.440 have been actually a great match for me, and I 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.920 maybe should have done that. But I rushed again the 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.880 next year without any guarantee, and I got DGI, which 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:40.679 was what I wanted. 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:42.199 But like, I'm not. 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:45.320 Positive like that was the end all I thought it 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:46.680 was at the time because I had a good friend, 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.880 I knew girls in that sorority. Yeah, and I felt 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:51.800 comfortable there, but I was. I got an offer from 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:54.160 Theta and it was a really good house, and my 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:57.280 best friend ended up going there becoming a Theta and 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.160 like she had a great college experience. So like I 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.040 think you can you might be surprised if you don't 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:07.880 get your first choice, that it may happen for a reason. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.679 Yes, yeah, I ended you loving it. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.200 And I met like so many of my best friends there, 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.320 and I had best friends and other sororities too, so 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.360 it was like fine, yeah, we all like sometimes we like. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.319 Crash each other's like date parties exactly. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.199 I love that it kicked out, but we're like no, 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:54.240 like I'm the d D, Like yeah, hello, it's yeah. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:41.040 Yeah, Okay. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:44.000 I want to go through some aspects of recruitment that 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:47.840 are really big today and just talk about our opinions. 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:54.000 So social media marketing, we've got hiring social media directors 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:57.199 to promote your sorority during work week. That's a thing. 0:11:57.559 --> 0:11:59.760 That's been a thing that has been a thing, but 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:02.800 it was just different. Like when I went through Rush 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:05.280 in twenty fifteen, it. 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:10.360 Was like like thirteen fifteen, fifteen, twenty fifteen, it was 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.760 like people was making they were making music videos, right, 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.640 and so they would hire like companies to basically make 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:16.280 music videos. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.200 It was different, but it was the same, and they'd 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.640 be on YouTube and Facebook and like, oh my gosh, 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.839 it was electric. It was like, I mean, it'll take 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.360 you back if you watch it. I mean it's like 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.920 girls like dancing around, Like I'm like, you know the 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:33.480 OG videos of like girls like frolicking around together, Like, 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.080 oh my gosh, I want to be a part of that. 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:36.240 Oh my god. 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:37.880 So that's been a thing. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.839 I wow, for a while, it really sold you. You 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:44.560 rush yeah, and you're like, oh my god, that's the 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:45.400 house I wanted. 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:47.880 You want to be part of a solreaty because of 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:49.440 their social media marketing. 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:50.839 Not necessarily, but there's ones I didn't want to be 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:51.200 a part of. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:54.559 Really. I was like, I don't think it can work 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:55.200 against them. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:58.880 Yeah, so it can, but like it's like everything in life, right, 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.559 like okay, Like I mean maybe. 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.560 That video attracted other types of girls and that it 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:06.000 worked out right each other. 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:09.080 I wouldn't have fit in at like tried all yeah, 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:12.640 like those aren't my girls, but they're beautiful and cute 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.320 and southern and proper. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:14.960 Yeah. 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.559 I was like from the Northeast, Like you know, I 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:21.040 wasn't totally Yeah, I'm not proper. I'm like I like 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:22.200 on the farm, you know. 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:29.400 So it's good to do right now, you're just stunning, Okay, 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.720 TikTok dances. I'm sure you all have seen the dances 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:35.280 on social media. They're they're full out routines. Is so true. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:38.839 The picking of the front girls is a big deal. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:45.679 I can't even imagine what goes down when they're auditioning, 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:48.840 Like who first of all is it the rush director 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:51.120 who's auditioning and she's the one who picks and it 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:52.720 is usual friend chair. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:55.040 That like is like a dance well at least for us, 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.520 it was like there was a chair that was assigned 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.880 by the rush person yea, or not a chair, but 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.000 like somebody that ran it. And she was like somebody 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.679 who did dance all through high school where was on 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:06.480 the dance team. 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.080 And she was like, I can. 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:11.200 Choreograph, yep, I can teach the girls all of this. 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:15.600 And then that's how it was decided. Or they choose 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:16.600 the cute girls and give you. 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.440 Something simple yep, like like our doorstacks. 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:20.560 They would what's that mean? 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:22.320 Oh so almoss, I love. 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:24.160 Me. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:27.240 They banned this, I think because they were actually dangerous. 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.240 But literally we would start so the bottom girls would 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.120 be on their hands and knees and we would climb 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.440 on top of each other, so we would stack all 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.400 the way up the door and so we would oh 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.000 my god, it like actually haunts me. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:41.560 Would be like flipping our freaking heads like rush proby. 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:43.120 I mean it was. 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:46.800 It was borderline demonic. But to where to God? 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.120 I have a video going on, people, I will show you. 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:51.120 After this this video from I have to go on 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.120 my Snapchat memories, but it is crazy. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:57.080 Gosh, oh, oh my god. 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:58.200 That's a doorstack. 0:14:58.360 --> 0:14:58.880 That's it. 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.880 Why didn't you it was like furniture to stand on 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:03.680 instead of because we did. 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:05.760 Once the girls were out of the house, we rushed, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:07.160 We rushed to the front. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.160 We all stepped up. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:13.800 So then we were like bye, goodbye, goodbye, goodbye from 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:17.480 that one hundred girls, I think nar Yeah, and then 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:21.000 you had girls like like behind like being like bye bye. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:21.960 Because they could they couldn't get that. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:22.840 It's crazy. 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:23.640 They couldn't be seen. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:25.200 Yeah, it was just insane. 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:26.840 I can't imagine how those top people got up. 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.400 There, and did they ever get They run and jump 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:29.920 on each other. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:33.840 Yeah, they're just stepping on sisters. Yeah, that's a message 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:34.320 you want to show. 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:35.360 Hold each other up. 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:37.040 Look at us. We step on each other. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.480 We hold hold each other. 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:44.160 It's all about the marketing. Yep, each other each. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:45.040 Other up exactly. 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.160 Okay. This is a big thing that I have seen 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.480 lately is sponsorships. Brands are partnering with sororities to promote 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.600 their brands, like Poppy with alex Earle. I remember seeing 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:59.080 her walking into her sorority house or during rush or whatever. 0:15:59.880 --> 0:16:05.280 I wonder it's kind of like the the football trend 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:09.040 of like paying the college athlete. I know, and I 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:10.480 don't know if I like it. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.640 I mean, guining brand sponsorships. 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.600 I mean I feel like, yes, good for them, but 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:21.480 also I don't know, there's something like kind of like. 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:24.840 It's true market like it are you talking like person 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.120 a person, like one person gets a brand new or 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:28.760 it's for the sorority as a whole sorority. 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:32.160 I think like Poppy will give you know, twenty cases 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:34.640 a poppy and they want you to show them holding it. 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:37.040 Well, I mean, I will say if they're making money 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.640 from it, if it goes to the sorority, and oh 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:42.080 they should be paying the sorority for if it helps 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.840 with maintenance and lowering people's dues. 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:45.000 True, I'm good with that. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:47.440 If it goes to philanthropy, I'm good with that, true story. 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:48.440 But if it's just. 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:52.560 Being I mean, because there's a brand like wanting exposure 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:54.080 and being like, well, we're sending all this stuff, so 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:55.040 just post it. 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:56.760 It's like, well, like. 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:58.960 You're getting a lot of like exposure from this, and 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:00.480 you know these girls are going to be so excited 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:02.000 about your products, they're going to go out and. 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:03.520 Buy them themselves. Totally agree. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:07.440 So I don't know, I feel like there are good 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.920 things that come from that. And like I know, our 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.600 dues were really high and then they started doing renovations 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:14.440 on our house and they like went up so much. 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.480 Remember last year, I was like, thank god, I'm leaving, Like, yeah, 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:18.640 these are crazy. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:20.199 It was like another tuition. 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:23.080 I mean, you're right, if someone smart in the in 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:25.720 the sorority house or at the university or whatever is 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:29.680 setting up brand deals for your actual house and you're 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:33.040 able to, like you said, give back to your philanthropy 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:37.119 or pay for dues or renovations or whatever. Great. So 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.600 it's an all group thing. But if there's one particular person, 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:43.680 I just don't know if that like would sit well 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:43.960 with me. 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:45.360 I didn't picture it that way. 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:52.680