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Speaker 2: What's up y'all? It's your girl lex P And it's

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Speaker 4: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 2: Where drunk mind speaks sober th. We ain't got no

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Speaker 4: If y'all in the commerce from Louisiana, y'all know what

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not from Louisiana, neither mine, but but

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Speaker 1: Houston is like not far, but it's also not like close.

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Speaker 4: No, no Vent in Louisiana, it's the closest to Houston

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Speaker 4: I ain't call it chicken fried steak because it said

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Speaker 4: it's steak. It's cube steak and you beat it down

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Speaker 4: and you fried in chicken better. Oh it's so it's

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Speaker 4: Because no, it's not it's chicken fried steak because it's

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Speaker 4: Chicken fried steak don't taste the same, and a lot

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Speaker 4: You're supposed to use that cheap cube steak. It needs

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Speaker 1: They probably got a vegan version of it. They got

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Speaker 2: You know I fancy with that one, A right? I

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Speaker 1: Horror story with dirty rice. I never used to eat

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 1: it don't got dirty me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I thought it had dirty meeds.

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Speaker 4: So there's a difference between rice dressing and dirty rice.

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Speaker 2: No, it's nice to me, that's the same.

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Speaker 4: Well, exactly, I learned dirty rice is when you have

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Speaker 2: The what makes it dirty is the guts. Can we

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Speaker 2: look up? What is a gibletz? What is a what

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Speaker 2: makes giblet? Gravy, giblt, ghiblit, giblity? What is a giblet?

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Speaker 4: What is a gibt? We're gonna find out what is Yeah,

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Speaker 4: what is a ghiblit? Let's see, Okay, cause I feel

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Speaker 4: okay to what gabling a giblet going to a ghibli.

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Speaker 1: A giblet is the liver, heart, gizzard, and neck of

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Speaker 1: is cooked, and often used to make gravy, stuffing or soup.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, so that's what it is. The gizzard, that's what.

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Speaker 4: So if you put that in your rice, that's what

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Speaker 2: That's what makes it dirty. I want to get a

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Speaker 2: little rule, but I get it's all of that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I said, I never liked ghibli. I don't mind a

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Speaker 1: Giving a gravy has eggs? And me, bro that ship

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Speaker 1: is this? Well, let me not, Let me not disrespect

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Speaker 1: it is. But you know, like a little gizl. I

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Speaker 1: Don't they have fried only in my rice and in

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Speaker 1: my dressing. Some people actually eat gizzle.

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Speaker 2: I think they do fraued gizzards.

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Speaker 1: I have a question, and it's like, you know, roof

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Speaker 1: that we still eat to this day that's like slave food,

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Speaker 1: Like it comes from like back during slavery time, then

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Speaker 4: I'm not. It's a good educational moment. So there's a

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Speaker 2: all the g my frid We're gonna win something, were

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00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 2: gonna win us. We ain't gonna we leave it here

437
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: with something. I don't play that. But what do you think, Tay, Like,

438
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 2: how do you feel about that?

439
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 5: Like?

440
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: I just feel like so many people here in the States,

441
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 1: as far as Caucasian people, black people, all of us,

442
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: Like so many people are uneducated when it comes to

443
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 1: race in Anthony City. Yeah, I mean even I was

444
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 1: before I went to Howard because I'm from Chicago. I

445
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,159
Speaker 1: didn't really go to school or grow up with like

446
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: African people, or I knew Africans, but I didn't know

447
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: like about the Caribbean. I didn't really understand like Europe

448
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: and Asian all that stuff. I understood it in like

449
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: a geography sense, but like not about cultures that way.

450
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I got to Howard where I'm

451
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: seeing krim de la crem of black people all over.

452
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm learning about Granada and Saint Martine and all these

453
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: different ethnicities within being a black person. Yeah, that's where

454
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: I really learned about it. And then traveling more that

455
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,719
Speaker 1: helped me kind of understand the culture. But a lot

456
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: of these people just listen to anything. They don't really

457
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: do research. They're not studying, so they're never gonna know.

458
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: And when you listen to propaganda on TV, like, that's

459
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: gonna taint your whole image and what you think in

460
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: your thought process as well. So it's kind of like

461
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: you have to as parents, one have to educate your

462
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: children so that they know what's true, what's their culture,

463
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 1: where they came from, where, what the slave trade was,

464
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: how people got to where they were, how that started.

465
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: And then as you as an individual, you gotta take

466
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: time to understand that and educate yourself as well, to.

467
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 2: Do the research.

468
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 4: When I tell y'all, when I got to college, when

469
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 4: I got to Houston, I had met this black girl

470
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 4: and she barely spoke English and she was German, and

471
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 4: it blew my fucking mind. I said, what, Oh, I

472
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 4: thought she was lying. I was like, she was like, girl,

473
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 4: what are you talking about? Like, But that's I mean,

474
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 4: growing up in a small town, you just but you know,

475
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 4: you have to take it upon yourself to really educate

476
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 4: yourself because it you it would be so crazy the

477
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 4: things that you realize that people just don't know.

478
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, So being from Texas and like growing up in

479
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: a family where my mom's side of my family was

480
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: from Louisiana, like, I have a lot of creole people

481
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 1: on my granddad's side of the family. So I got

482
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: cousins who are like very fair skinned, very loose waves

483
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: here or whatever. So of course that would be like, oh,

484
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm creole. Oh I'm creole. So but I never thought

485
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: to like look into really what that necessarily.

486
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 2: Means, being creole.

487
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 1: And so for me, it really wasn't until I got

488
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 1: older and then I found out that my biological dad

489
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: was half Dominican, and then I'm like, well, what does

490
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: that mean? And so then I started finding out about

491
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: Afro Latino people and it's like, Okay, these people are

492
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: still black though the ship just dropped them off a

493
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: little bit, exactly, took the left of mind, busted a

494
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: rock exactly. And then even like becoming best friends, like

495
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: even me and Lynn and becoming her best friend and

496
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: like really kind of getting immersed in like Jamaican culture

497
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: because both of her parents are from Jamaica and just

498
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: even going to Jamaica so many times and realizing it's

499
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: Indian people that are in Jamaica.

500
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: It's Asian.

501
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: It's Chinese people and they were and they were born there. Yeah,

502
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: and they have the act every walk on it.

503
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's.

504
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 4: They're still Chinese, they're still Indian, but they're Jamaican.

505
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 2: There's a series on Hulu called Black Cake.

506
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: It's really good, and it's like the girl's father was

507
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: Asian and then her mother was Trinidadian and it talks

508
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: about like her story growing up there.

509
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 2: It's really good. If y'all haven't watched it, it's called

510
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: Black Cake. It's really good. Yeah, I'm gonna watch it too.

511
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: It's just very interesting, and I think it's so far

512
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: outside of what any of us can fathom. Because, if

513
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, I say this all the time,

514
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: I feel like here in America, I don't know sometimes

515
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: when it comes to like us as the black community here,

516
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: I be feeling like we not really as tapped in

517
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:22,679
Speaker 1: with our culture a.

518
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 4: Lot of them over I'm still, like I said, I'm

519
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 4: still be learning. I still be I'm very ignorant to

520
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 4: all this stuff because I didn't know any better, but

521
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 4: it's upon it to educate ourselves, because I'm not gonna

522
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 4: lie you saying that stuff about like the Chinese people

523
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 4: that are in Jamaica and they're Jamaican, but they're still Chinese.

524
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 2: Now.

525
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 4: I probably learned that maybe like a year and a half,

526
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: a year and a half ago, when I said, I

527
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 4: was like, what the fuck?

528
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 1: But you know, that's what I love though about, Like

529
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: every time I go to Jamaica with Lyn, like even

530
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: though they might have been brought there or they might

531
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 1: be immigrants, they're still so tapped into their culture. Yes, Yeah,

532
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: And it's the same thing in the like in other

533
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: areas of the world. I feel like it's only here

534
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: in America that like us as black people, because even

535
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: in the UK, like when we went to London, a

536
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: lot of the black people that live in London they

537
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: still be tapped into their African roots.

538
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's here.

539
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: Only here in America where we don't really be knowing

540
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: our ancestry and stuff. We gotta do DNA tests and

541
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: we gotta go do the research ourselves, and we have

542
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: to find out where we're from because in a lot

543
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: of other countries they be born into it.

544
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 2: Even though they're not in.

545
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: Their original country, they still know their culture.

546
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: I think it's just the way we were raised honestly,

547
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 4: with you know, thinking like America is the greatest country

548
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 4: ever and all that stuff. But I think it happen

549
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 4: to have because we do have culture. American culture is

550
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 4: a thing, especially Black American culture.

551
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: It's very real.

552
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 1: I mean, no, because they be tapping into it in

553
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: other Don't get me wrong. Why do you think people

554
00:27:54,720 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 1: in the UK started rappings going back? I mean, we

555
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:07,719
Speaker 1: were the first red in America, So we definitely have culture,

556
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to say that

557
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,880
Speaker 1: we don't, but I'm more so talking about like our

558
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: real route, knowing where we came from. We had to

559
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: we have American culture because we had to create that.

560
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: We didn't have shit else.

561
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: We ain't know nothing else about ourselves, so we had

562
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: to create some.

563
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 4: Shep Unless you were Cherokee, okay, you used to tell

564
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 4: people chore okay, but black people, a lot of black I.

565
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: Mean some people, we they all American. They was here.

566
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: Now, No, you're not wrong, but I'm just saying I

567
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: feel like we had to create shit. So for sure,

568
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,959
Speaker 1: we do have American culture. African Americans have culture, but

569
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: I be more so talking about like us going where

570
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 1: we came from. You didn't know where you came I mean,

571
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: I know you ended up doing your DNA ances Street

572
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 1: and then Estine you found out, but you didn't know

573
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: for like what twenty years where you were from. I

574
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: didn't know about my ancestry for a very long time,

575
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: and then even with me being adopted, I definitely didn't

576
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: know until I really started doing the research. I'm sure

577
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: you didn't know if I have like family.

578
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you probably.

579
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: Even with Sierra coming on the show and telling us

580
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: like she found out that her family is from Benig Yeah,

581
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's something she didn't probably know her whole life.

582
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: I bet they all got good knees out there too.

583
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 2: Tory and Raschard actually was just out there with Lauren.

584
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: Hugh, and I know she was on time for that.

585
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 1: It's time to get into topic number one. You're right,

586
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: so right, I'll be trying to have real in depth

587
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: it was man, okay, Typic Number one is being thick?

588
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 1: Really all egg does being thick? A Carvey come with

589
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: too many problems? And as a Carby woman, are there

590
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: times when you actually like to be skinny or wish

591
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: that you were smaller and tone down certain body parts.

592
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: I'll let you go first. Me. Yeah, I'm not a

593
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: stick as you.

594
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: But girls, however, however, you know, I don't necessarily I

595
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't say it come with too many problems. If anything,

596
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: I just feel like, how do I know you like

597
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: me for me? Or it's just because I'm fine as fuck,

598
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: like I'm.

599
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: Too thick, Like oh my god, I know it's real,

600
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: like what do you like? Do you like me? Or

601
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: do you like the cheese?

602
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know for me, it's honestly like,

603
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 4: it's not about being too thick, or I will sh

604
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: I was skinnier.

605
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: You know what the thing is, that's not all that.

606
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 6: Is.

607
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: It is all that, but it's not because that's what

608
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 4: people are intimidated by.

609
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 7: Fun This is.

610
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 4: It's not about it's being really thick all that and

611
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 4: does it come with a lot. What comes with a

612
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 4: lot is just having confidence about yourself, because it doesn't

613
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 4: matter if you're so thick and you so fine, or

614
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 4: if you're so skinny and petite and on my little

615
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 4: tiny ass, or if you just a thick, bulupcious big

616
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 4: ass woman. It's confidence that makes.

617
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: Big ass woman. I'm a big as woman.

618
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 4: It's a lot of big ass women out there and

619
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 4: I am one of them. I'm so he's so big

620
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 4: in time whatever she said, I'm the bigg bitch.

621
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 2: You tall? Yeah, I'm big and tall.

622
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 4: So I say all that to say what that? The

623
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: thing that intimidates people is your confidence. So when somebody

624
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter if you got a fifty two inch

625
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 4: ass or two inch ass, it doesn't matter.

626
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: But we specifically friends talking about being thick. Do you

627
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: ever feel like because you so thiep No, you walk

628
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: in the room and everybody like, damn that ass that?

629
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: Do it make you uncomfortable? It don't because I'll stay

630
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: it pired of people making comments about your body.

631
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 4: Okay, so I'll say this but pre BBL, when I

632
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 4: didn't have a big I was, I walk in the room,

633
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 4: people got something to say about me anyway. Like I said,

634
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 4: it's just about your confidence and who you are because

635
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 4: people are always gonna have something to say. The skinniest

636
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 4: I was even now to this day, I you know

637
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 4: I lost this way.

638
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: You know I'm healthier now.

639
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 4: People still be in the comments, Oh my god, lecture

640
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 4: tendies are growing back. Oh my god, Lexure getting too small.

641
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 4: Oh my god, lexture getting too big. I've realized people

642
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 4: are always gonna comment about my body, no matter bbl

643
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 4: or not thick or not skinny. When I was two

644
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 4: hundred pounds, they was talking about me. Now I was

645
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 4: one seventy. Around the bt Wars, I was one seventy.

646
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 4: Now I'm one seventy five. It don't matter. So I

647
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 4: just feel like being a woman comes with all of

648
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 4: that thick or not.

649
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So it don't matter. It don't matter.

650
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 2: You don't get talked about.

651
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: I don't know though, because I feel like some people

652
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: don't be getting talked about as much as others. I

653
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: really just think it depends. I think it depends on

654
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: if people just.

655
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 2: Be paying attention.

656
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: Some people that can lose weight gain weight, nobody cares. Yeah,

657
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: I think it just depends on if people have that

658
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: spotlight on you, and.

659
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: You do have to have confidence in yourself.

660
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: But regardless of having confidence, because I feel like I'm

661
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: a very confident person, but it still get annoying people

662
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: speaking on your.

663
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: Body all the time. All the time we.

664
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Speaker 1: Had did that breakfast club interview a few months ago

665
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: and somebody, it was like a few people that was like,

666
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: is Dreya pregnant?

667
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 2: And I'm like, Mitch weird.

668
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: The way it's the way saying never been there but facts.

669
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: But I mean maybe I was like a little bloated

670
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: that day.

671
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

672
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: Maybe y'all the way I was sitting in my posture

673
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: wasn't like the most flattering. But either way, like even

674
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: if I was, which clearly i'm not because that was

675
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: like five three four months ago, but even if I was, like,

676
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: let me announce you, let me speak on that actually,

677
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: just and that's what it is, like.

678
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 2: I just feel like people just get way too comfortable

679
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: and then it be like, oh, then it's.

680
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: The comments about how teer your body is. And then

681
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: if you be a little bloatey, then people think you pregnant.

682
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 1: Like it's just like please relax, Like.

683
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: Sometimes it gets a bit much.

684
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: If you lose too much weight, then people be talking

685
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 1: about you because I mean I saw obviously I saw

686
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: the comments and stuff too when you decided to lose

687
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 1: weight and the stuff people were saying, and it's just like,

688
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: why do y'all care so much with somebody else decides

689
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,839
Speaker 1: to do with they body, because.

690
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 2: Do you know, I mean, yes, you do know.

691
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 4: Obviously the commentary of that Santana episode about my body

692
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 4: were insane. Yeah, it got to the point to where

693
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 4: somebody asked me on Twitter. They were like, oh my god,

694
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 4: lexp are you pregnant? I said no, and can you

695
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 4: please stop comment on my body? She was like, bitch,

696
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 4: I'm just asking because you look pregnant whole and then

697
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 4: she screenshot it And when I was like turning to

698
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 4: the side, like singing with Santana and my belly was

699
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 4: poking out a little bit, bitch is vodka and beans.

700
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 2: Bitch, leave me the fuck alone.

701
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 4: But it's like, if I'm saying no, I'm not pregnant,

702
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 4: and even if I was pregnant, if I'm saying no,

703
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 4: why are you cursing me out right?

704
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 2: But the thing that's so crazy to me, it's like

705
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 2: if we.

706
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 4: If somebody did that to you, you would a lot

707
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 4: of people would crash the fuck out, crash out. It's like,

708
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 4: you know what, why can't we just stop commenting on

709
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:58,720
Speaker 4: people's bodies? Just leave just leave us, leave us alone

710
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 4: when it comes to our bodies. So when it comes

711
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 4: back to the question is being thick really all that?

712
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: Yes, I love my body. It's all that for me.

713
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 4: I every decision I have ever made with my body,

714
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 4: surgery wise, health wise, weight loss wise. Right now today,

715
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 4: when I look at my body, I was like, hmm,

716
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 4: that's a black queen right there.

717
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 2: I love it.

718
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 4: I love the way I look. But I do things

719
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 4: for me to make me happy. So yes, it is

720
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 4: all that for me. It don't need to be all

721
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 4: that for you. You know what I'm saying, because being

722
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 4: being for a lot of women is teeth. Being a

723
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 4: little thicker or a little heavier is a tea for you.

724
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 4: Whatever you feel confident in, that should be all that.

725
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: When I think of being like being too much, I

726
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: be thinking of like the girls who you can see

727
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: the cook on their booty.

728
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: You're talking about the shelf booty.

729
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, yeah, relate to that.

730
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 2: Though we can't speak on no, we can't.

731
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: We can't, But sometimes I think people try to speak

732
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: on us in a way where it's like they be

733
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: trying to act like we the shelf as shot, but

734
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: they do and even like sometimes I think like and

735
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: this is cybar but even like with with our faces

736
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: and stuff. People be trying to act like we have

737
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: just done so much? Can I be like, excuse me,

738
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: I can't.

739
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: Believe a thirty six year old queen.

740
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: I said this to Shape yesterday. How they be acting

741
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: like we love? I'm about to show it to times.

742
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: Please come on, shit, they do be acting like we

743
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 1: look like? How they be acting like me? Alas like this.

744
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: I said this to Shade the other day. I said,

745
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: this is how they be aching like me.

746
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 5: Ali.

747
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie because I've definitely done a little

748
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,720
Speaker 4: one two to the face, but it's.

749
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 2: Very tee that looks crazy. My face still moves, nothing

750
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 2: is frozen.

751
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: But either way, I just feel like, regardless, let people

752
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: do them. I see girls all the time who I

753
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: be like, you might have did a little much with

754
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: the body. But also if you have a body, no,

755
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to know who need you know? That's

756
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: what black web y'all do, so I can say far

757
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: far away. But I just feel like, if you happy

758
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 1: with that body and you think it look good, you

759
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: think them little legs look good with their books, that

760
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: you think that chicken fried leg look good with that

761
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: chicken fried ass, then.

762
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 2: Do you I agree?

763
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 4: I just think that people just need to let people

764
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 4: do what they do. But I'm like, I talked about

765
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 4: that on the.

766
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 2: Episode that we Love right the Stumble Hella, Yeah.

767
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 4: I talked about things that I've done with my face.

768
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 4: One thing about me is I don't deny anything. I

769
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 4: don't mind talking about things because I'm honest.

770
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: But one thing you can never tell me is like

771
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: face card is good exactly.

772
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: And the person that I go to that does my

773
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 4: injections tea very very professional shout to Helen as you

774
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 4: ret cosmetics.

775
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm always shout out to Helen.

776
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 4: The thing is, you cannot look at my face and

777
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 4: convince like I did too much because I know and

778
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 4: I see, I know what to do. I got this,

779
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 4: I got this. I don't need no advice. I never

780
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 4: overdo it because you know why. Also, I'm not surrounded

781
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 4: by yes men. I have an injector that tells me no.

782
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 4: I literally sheo. I was like, last time I went

783
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 4: to her, it was before the Tribal Queen's premier and

784
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 4: I was like, ooh do I.

785
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 2: Need She was like, girl, We're going to do this.

786
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 2: We're gonna do this.

787
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 4: We're leaving this alone and this is it and is

788
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 4: it and get your ass up out off my chair.

789
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 4: And then I have friends around me like, yeah, girl,

790
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 4: it's never okay, Ley, you don't need to do that. No,

791
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 4: you're because I'll ask y'all before. I'm like, you think

792
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 4: I need a little girl? No, you're good. So yeah,

793
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 4: I see myself in the mirror. But also I'm a

794
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 4: very expressive person. I can't do too much. I need

795
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 4: to wiggle these eyebros.

796
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 2: Same. Yeah, I don't know.

797
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: I think people just need to worry about them, But

798
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: I do feel like sometimes they can get a little over.

799
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: Like I do see people sometimes and I'd be like, oh,

800
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: you might went I'm not gonna lie, I be.

801
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 4: Having to somebody has said something about they have said

802
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 4: something about your lips or something. People always be saying

803
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 4: this girl has not touched her lips in years, first

804
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 4: of all, but second of all, you cannot look at

805
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 4: her face and say the lips is not tea. What

806
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 4: are y'all looking at to even be like you know

807
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. It be so like you are a

808
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 4: lot of that shit just be come from y'all. Just

809
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 4: be I hate to say this because I don't like that,

810
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 4: but like y'all really be hating, Like y'all really be like.

811
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,439
Speaker 2: Cause there's no way that somebody can be like, oh

812
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 2: this is too the lips is lippid. They look good.

813
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 2: Yeah you know me, Dre, I will tell you, I

814
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: know you would.

815
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: And then to be fair, I think we've all seen

816
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: people who have gotten like their lips overfield. Like a

817
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: lot of the time they'll have like lumps in the

818
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,479
Speaker 1: grate or they'll migrate and they kind of be here

819
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: and the lips are kind of like dukies or whatever.

820
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 2: My lips don't give that. They don't duck. They don't.

821
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: But also if you look back at old episodes, I

822
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: say this all the time. I have always had full lips,

823
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,240
Speaker 1: even before I ever got lip feelers. I just think

824
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: people just love to try to find a problem. I

825
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: say this all the time too. Black women are the esthetic.

826
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: We are the originals.

827
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: People want to look like us.

828
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: I hate the fact that like when people see beautiful

829
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: black women in twenty twenty five, they feel like, oh,

830
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 1: well you must have had X, Y and Z done.

831
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: It's no way you're just that pretty or you're just

832
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: that gorgeous, like no news slash. We be having good gens.

833
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: Surgery can't out work good genetio true, And that's another topic.

834
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: Surgery cannot outwork good genetics. Some people just have good genes.

835
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: If I show y'all photos of my family, like my

836
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: mom is seventy five years old, my mom does not

837
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 1: look seventy five. She don't have a Renkal insight. And

838
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: my mom has never gotten botox. I personally get both

839
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: hooks because I just like to me.

840
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 4: Snatched, but also what you you're on four K cameras

841
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 4: every week, you do a lot, like it's a little different,

842
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 4: but the genes.

843
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: But we don't get botox because we're wrinkled. I think

844
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: it's more so for prevention, yeah, like it's preventative mission. Yeah,

845
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: but either way whatever. Like my mom is in her seventies,

846
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 1: her and all her siblings, they look good. They don't

847
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: look like they're in their seventies. My mom, my biological mom,

848
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: is forty six. She looks like she's in her thirties.

849
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: People tell me and Lax all the time, we don't

850
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: look like we're in our thirties.

851
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 2: Like, I think you.

852
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: Can't out cheat good genetics and also just help taking

853
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: care of you.

854
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: And I also feel like that you do to take

855
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: care of.

856
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 1: Your skin, your body, working out, all of those things matter.

857
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 4: And then a lot of times, a lot of y'all

858
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:00,399
Speaker 4: don't even know the difference between feelers and botox. Oh gosh,

859
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 4: that's too much botox. Fillers and botox are too completely

860
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 4: different things.

861
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: They are.

862
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 4: So if somebody's like, oh, I get botox in my forehead, oh,

863
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 4: she didn't weigh too much. If somebody's getting botox in

864
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 4: their forehead and that's all they've done to their face,

865
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 4: you can't tell. It's just their forehead might be a

866
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 4: little shiny and smooth, bitch, that's literally it.

867
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: Now, Fellers you can definitely overdo fellers. We know that.

868
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 4: But if y'all can't tell the difference between both tooks

869
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 4: and fellers, shut up, girl, shut up.

870
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 2: Because we shouldn't even be having a conversation.

871
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, And like I said, I just think that, you know,

872
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 4: things get a little different when you're in front of

873
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 4: four K cameras and you got to talk to people

874
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 4: and being people faced and looking good.

875
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 2: It's like part of your job.

876
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,359
Speaker 1: I have a really good question for y'all, So how

877
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 1: do y'all feel both of it?

878
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 2: Because have you ever done anything time? Have you ever done?

879
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 2: Both times? I used to want implants?

880
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you would ever even though you

881
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: haven't it?

882
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 2: I don't know now I don't think so like I

883
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 2: feel like I'm too far gone.

884
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: But what about injactables? Maybe not like surgery, but what

885
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 1: about like bowtop? I would consider botox and fillers. Okay, okay,

886
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm not like in a rush to get it because

887
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: again I'm scared of needles, Like I have a b

888
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: of needles.

889
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 4: So, but I don't see anything on your face that

890
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 4: would need it, not that I'm mean. Yeah, see I

891
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: was needing it. I had a little laugh line and

892
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,919
Speaker 4: it was scary up there.

893
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 2: That's I felt too like.

894
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: I feel like when I would like make certain expressions,

895
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: I would have like what I'm gonna say, You get

896
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: it from your daddy, Oh my daddy. But that's not

897
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: my that's not my real dad.

898
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: You know that?

899
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, shout out to the daddy. Yeah, my real dad.

900
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: His skin is actually flawless, funny, he funny?

901
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: What he do video with the baby? Oh my little sister,

902
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 2: Oh okay, little in oh cut?

903
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: But would y'all how do y'all feel when people be

904
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: on the Internet, and they be like, oh, the girls

905
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: these days, what happened to natural beauty the women back

906
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: in the day. And then they be showing the pictures

907
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: of like the older women like me along and so

908
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: not late thing, etcetera, etcetera, and they'd be like, remember

909
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: when women halle beary.

910
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: They'd be like, remember when women was nineties fine and

911
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 2: they didn't do X, Y and Z. Women were so

912
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: beautiful back then.

913
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 4: Aesthetics have changed, right, The way we do our hair

914
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 4: is different, the makeup is different. Everything is different now

915
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 4: because guess what, thirty years from now, they're gonna be like, oh,

916
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 4: y'all two thousands fine, No more, y'all, ain't you know

917
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 4: every cause I'm telling you, when those women came out,

918
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 4: it was men complaining about.

919
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 2: Them, y'all, not nineteen seven is fine? No more, y'all

920
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 2: ain't wearing the.

921
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 4: Moo moods, like, but I don't think it will know

922
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 4: you was not even bored. But what I'm saying is

923
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 4: it was no social media, so it wasn't like a

924
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 4: collective community for people to like come to and be like, oh,

925
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 4: we all gonna get into this group and we all

926
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 4: gonna say this about women and we're all wanting to

927
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 4: agree it.

928
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 2: Wasn't that back in the day.

929
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: A nigga from Idaho and a nigga from Texas was

930
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: not conversing with each other in no goddamn group chat

931
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 1: on the internet.

932
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 4: But it doesn't matter though, because it was still happening

933
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 4: in the barbershops. All the Internet is is the barbershop

934
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 4: spread worldwide.

935
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 2: Child, they was still talking.

936
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 4: Trust me, all the internet is we took the salon talk,

937
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 4: the barbershop talk.

938
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 2: And then we'd have made it public.

939
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 4: But now so they can reach other people, we are

940
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 4: the same conversations are being repeated. We ain't invented the wheel.

941
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 4: Even with poor minds, this ain't nothing new. You think

942
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 4: that our grandmothers want to sit here and talk about

943
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 4: they so pikky they talk about our grandmothers. I guarantee

944
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 4: you had a conversation because Melvinder said she do on

945
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 4: fray at chick and like his grandmother used to, she

946
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 4: don't be dressing up for church like this is a

947
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 4: repeated conversation.

948
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: Baby.

949
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's not a repeated conversation, but I'm

950
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: just saying I feel like it's more so targeted to

951
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: the massies. Now like barbershop talk is cool because it

952
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: was like five niggas in the barbershop talking.

953
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 2: Yeah cool.

954
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: Now it's five hundred in a check. Bitches be wearing

955
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: moo moves. They don't wear lingerado modes? Do you want

956
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: to join? And then niggas be joining and that's what's

957
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:40,439
Speaker 1: going on. Literally, did y'all see the other day? Okay,

958
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: so y'all know how they had the app where the

959
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,439
Speaker 1: women could go find out about the dude, the tea app,

960
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 1: the tea app. They had the tea app and the

961
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,760
Speaker 1: women were going find out about the niggas that they did.

962
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: The niggas done created an app for them and now

963
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,240
Speaker 1: they can get on the app and find out at

964
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: the women. I was talking to somebody the other day

965
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: and they was like, first of all, I don't want

966
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,439
Speaker 1: to be on no app where only niggas could join

967
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 1: because they're gonna start doing something and exactly exactly why

968
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 1: would you eat?

969
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 2: But it's like, are we as.

970
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: A community and as a generation, are we really that

971
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: hurt and that fucked up? Where like niggas want to

972
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 1: get on the app to find out about the women

973
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: that they dating before they start dating them women want

974
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: to get on the app to find out about the

975
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 1: men that they dating before they start dating, it, before

976
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 1: you actually really get to.

977
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 2: Know the person.

978
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: This person may have had a scorned experience. Do you

979
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: really want to get on here and find out what

980
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: somebody is saying about this person. I just feel like

981
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: we were just so fucked up, and I get what

982
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: you're saying, but it was not like that twenty thirty

983
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: years ago.

984
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 2: It wasn't. I feel like everything is just a repeat.

985
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 2: You got to get that nigga, try, try them out,

986
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: try them out. Try yeah, baby girl, you got to

987
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 2: try that nigga out.

988
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 4: I do agree with that, but I, like I said,

989
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 4: I do think that things are just more magnified and

990
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 4: more out in the open. But I think that history

991
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 4: always just repeats itself. Now it's a little different because

992
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 4: of social media, yes, but I do think that these

993
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 4: are just repeated conversations and repeated experiences.

994
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

995
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 4: But I don't know how we got on this or

996
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 4: what's going on, but.

997
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: I will see.

998
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: It was just a good It was something that was

999
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: on my spirit. I don't even know how we got

1000
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: on this topic either. We were talking about surgery, and

1001
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: we were talking about surgery and stuff. But then I

1002
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: also just think our generation is fucked up. I'll be

1003
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: thinking about it all the time and I'll just be like,

1004
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: shit is fucked up when it comes to dating and stuff.

1005
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: I see why the girls in our age group is

1006
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: dating sixties and seventy year old men.

1007
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 2: He on his way out the dough anyways.

1008
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 4: And I also see why the women in our older

1009
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 4: generations have chosen to be single too and not having

1010
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 4: children anymore. You know, the birthrate is getting lower and

1011
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 4: lower the year. All right, one of them, Hey, same,

1012
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 4: you don't you want key? I had a mod on Earth.

1013
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 4: I don't want a birth for you, don't. I had

1014
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 4: a moment yesterday. And I'm not gonna lie to y'all.

1015
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 4: This past month and a half has been craziness for me.

1016
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 4: Every day I'm waking up pretty much at like six

1017
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 4: am doing stuff for poor minds. We have literally about

1018
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,240
Speaker 4: three or four meetings all the time.

1019
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm doing stuff.

1020
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 4: I'm still filming Love LEXP Now I'm creating content.

1021
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 2: I have a series.

1022
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 4: Going on on redoing my house that I've started, just

1023
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 4: you know, to pull in more income. And you know,

1024
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 4: like I said, outside of me doing this content for

1025
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 4: my house, I really bought a house in real life, so.

1026
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 2: I'm really doing stuff.

1027
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 4: So I just had a moment yesterday and I was

1028
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 4: just like, oh, my fucking god, what if I had

1029
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 4: a kid? Like I had to go get my feet

1030
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 4: and my nails done, not because it's a luxury, because

1031
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 4: I'm on camera. I have to have my and I'm

1032
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 4: just like, I don't feel like it. I want to

1033
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 4: go home and I want to go to sleep, but

1034
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 4: I gotta take this meet and then I gotta come.

1035
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 4: I gotta put this together. I gotta make sure this

1036
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 4: is good. I gotta make sure this is good. Oh,

1037
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 4: this person's come and do some measurements. Oh, this person's

1038
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 4: coming to fit. And I'm just like, oh my god,

1039
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 4: what if I had a fucking kid right now? And

1040
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 4: imagine you got a baby daddy that don't help, or

1041
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 4: a baby daddy that's bitter a baby or whatever's going on.

1042
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 4: That's why I said, you know what, I kind of

1043
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 4: get my career driven women just wait a little bit.

1044
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. There is no way I could

1045
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: have had a baby on my hip yesterday.

1046
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 5: No way.

1047
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 4: Like That's why I seriously give a shout out to

1048
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 4: the single moms out there, even if their kid is older.

1049
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 2: God for bid.

1050
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 4: It was a little lex p running around because God

1051
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 4: damn it, I used to give my mama hell. Oh

1052
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 4: I used to give my mama hell. And I'm just like,

1053
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 4: oh my god, I was awful as a child. I

1054
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 4: was awful. I didn't do nothing to help nothing. So

1055
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 4: I truly understand why the older women are often just

1056
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 4: to travel and live. I mean, of course I do

1057
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 4: want marriage and maybe one day of family, but it's

1058
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:57,879
Speaker 4: gonna be when I can.

1059
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,399
Speaker 2: Afford an anny. I can afford an in house miss

1060
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 2: and help. I need a village around me. Baby children

1061
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: are like.

1062
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 4: So I understand why people be opposing to not have them. Honestly,

1063
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 4: I mean.

1064
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: It's nothing wrong with happened. I mean I get both sides.

1065
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: I get both sides. I get where people be like,

1066
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 1: you know, my child motivated me. They put a different

1067
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: fire up under me and made me really want to

1068
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: go hustle and go giddy. I get that too. But

1069
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: I also understand why people be like fucking kids.

1070
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: And I get.

1071
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 4: I don't want how to be my motivation. I want

1072
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 4: to already have it.

1073
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 2: I was same same.

1074
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: I want to already have it, Like I want my

1075
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: children to be born into a life of and I

1076
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: don't care like all that bullshit people be talking about.

1077
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: I don't want my kids to be spoiled. I don't

1078
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: want them to be spoil fed. Is it not the

1079
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: point for me? That's the point. Like, I definitely want

1080
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: my kids to be spoiled. I don't want them to

1081
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: be no jerks or no bitchies. Like I don't want

1082
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: them to be out here just treating people bad in

1083
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:05,280
Speaker 1: any kind of way, or I thinking that they superior because

1084
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: they got money or because they live a certain lifestyle.

1085
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 2: But I don't want them to know struggle at all.

1086
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 4: You don't need to be like boosy and you don't

1087
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 4: know my struggle, so you can't.

1088
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: Feel they never gonna have to say they got it

1089
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 2: out the mud? What mud?

1090
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 4: Remember how Drake said, started from the bottom of it.

1091
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 4: Everybody was mad at here. It's never been mundy, been

1092
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 4: marble floor. Yeah, I have marble floors growing up, That's

1093
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. So like, what are we talking about?

1094
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 4: Like you don't know how to get it out the mud?

1095
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 4: You don't even know that.

1096
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I.

1097
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 4: Had an inside joke with my homegirl shout out to

1098
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 4: gin that was like my best friend in high school,

1099
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 4: I'll take another one too, And we used to say

1100
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 4: something like joking like, yeah.

1101
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 2: We gonna get out the hood. We finna get out

1102
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: the hood.

1103
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 4: My mom used to get so mad, but it was

1104
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 4: a joke, Like I think people knew I was joking,

1105
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 4: but she was like, you're not from the hood. You

1106
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 4: never had to She was like, stop saying that. It

1107
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 4: used to make her so mad, But now, like I said,

1108
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 4: now as an adult, like I get it. If you're

1109
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 4: or your dad or your parents together were busting, they

1110
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 4: ask to make sure you have a good life, and

1111
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 4: you on Facebook talking Mom, I'm finna.

1112
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: Get it out the hood. Shut up, girl. That's what

1113
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 2: my mom used to be like, girls, shut the fuck up. Yeah,

1114
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 2: I mean, but I feel like that's why.

1115
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: I've never like I really and truly can say like

1116
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I've ever just super struggled for

1117
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: real financially in life period, Like it was points where

1118
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't like financially stable or I wasn't rich, but

1119
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: I always had my parents regardless of anything. Like I

1120
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 1: think that I was talking to one of my friends

1121
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: about this the other day. I was like, finances is

1122
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 1: one of the number one reasons why friendships fall apart,

1123
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: and for me, I've never had that issue. I've never

1124
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: fell out with a friend of a financis. I've never

1125
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: asked any of my friends for money because I always

1126
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: could either ask my parents or the nigga that I

1127
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: was talking to, because my daddy raised me like that too.

1128
00:54:58,239 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: If you dealing with this.

1129
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,359
Speaker 1: Dude, then you shouldn't have to ask me for nothing.

1130
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: You should be able to ask him. I just feel

1131
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:09,399
Speaker 1: like I don't know the different levels and stuff in life,

1132
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:16,479
Speaker 1: but marble floors for my children here, because I feel

1133
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: like that's how not to say I grew up, because

1134
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I had marble floors. But I could

1135
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: always ask my parents for whatever. I never had to,

1136
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: like go to my friends and ask them for anything,

1137
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: which I'm very grateful for it because I feel like

1138
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 1: when you don't have to have those type of relationships

1139
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: with your friends, you get to have real relationships and

1140
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: really get to like see people true colors because it's

1141
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: not based off of like what people can do for

1142
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: you or what you could do for them.

1143
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 2: So shout out to the spoiled cheering out there. We

1144
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:48,439
Speaker 2: ain't mad.

1145
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 4: I ain't mad.

1146
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the point.

1147
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 4: Okay, so we gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna say that one.

1148
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 4: Now it's time to get into.

1149
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 2: The b boub about the bow? All right, my turn?

1150
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 2: So the bed topic today is to shave or not

1151
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 2: to shave? That is the question.

1152
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 4: Okay, So when we talk about shaving, I think we

1153
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 4: should talk about it on both sides. Okay, there's always

1154
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 4: a lot of emphasis on women's waxing, shaving, plucking, et cetera.

1155
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 4: But what about men?

1156
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 2: What about that meat?

1157
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 4: Do you like men to have a lot of hair

1158
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 4: down there? Would you prefer no hair? Or a manicured area?

1159
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 4: Has too much hair? Ever stopped you from giving head?

1160
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 2: How do you feel about it? I don't have no comment.

1161
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 2: I would like to know your thought. Why don't you

1162
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:49,720
Speaker 2: have no comments?

1163
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't because what I'm gonna say, I'm just I

1164
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,479
Speaker 1: would rather than I say this is poor minds.

1165
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 2: You were drunk mind speak so, but thought you better

1166
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:56,800
Speaker 2: say it.

1167
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 4: No.

1168
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I dated a dude with when I was younger,

1169
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: and he had shaved all of his pews off and

1170
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,320
Speaker 1: back then I thought it was a little weird because like,

1171
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: why would you be bald right there?

1172
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 2: Like this is a spaghetti dude with no sauce.

1173
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was strange. But as I get older, I

1174
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: can appreciate it. But I would prefer hair. Yeah, I

1175
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: feel like hairs would make you manly.

1176
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 2: So my thing is, I do like hair, but I

1177
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: don't think there's nothing wrong with a little trimmage, you know, like.

1178
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 4: They got the little the man escape the man escape

1179
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 4: a little bit and cleaned it up. But a bald

1180
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 4: they nothing now, know nothing, them balls just hanging and

1181
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 4: you know when they get hot, they say, I don't

1182
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 4: want to see that. Cover them up a little bit,

1183
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 4: put a little coat on that.

1184
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: Motherfucker. I need a little hair down there. I'm not

1185
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 2: gonna lie.

1186
00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,919
Speaker 1: I don't mind it being bald, but like also why

1187
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: why what? I don't mind it, but why, but like,

1188
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: why are you also shaving it all these Well?

1189
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 4: I think sometimes you know it does you know, it

1190
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 4: holds a little older.

1191
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 2: So sometimes men don't like this. Sometimes men don't like hair.

1192
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: I feel like if you hold a little older, you

1193
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 2: just musty.

1194
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: People be doing me musty people do be musky yeah, yeah,

1195
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 1: but if you shave it, that ain't a shaving problem.

1196
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: You still gonna be musty because must come from bowls.

1197
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: Their fold be musty.

1198
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 6: You know.

1199
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: I feel like the pores be musty. It be.

1200
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: As somebody who drink chlorophyll water all the time. It

1201
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: be what's coming at your pores that make you musty.

1202
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: Because I be working out and I be swiaze nothing,

1203
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say that.

1204
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna.

1205
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't smell as fresh as I did when I

1206
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: initially went into the gym. Yeah, but I'm not musty.

1207
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: Like I can still go to the grocery store. I

1208
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: can still okay after I leave the gym, And it

1209
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: ain't like them.

1210
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 2: But when I watched I just mean like not fresh.

1211
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 2: I don't mean funk. I mean like when their phone

1212
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 2: keep their fan. As a person who I ain't gonna like,

1213
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 2: my coochie is Harry. You don't know, crag, She don't

1214
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 2: know what I mean? What you ain't know? What do

1215
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 2: you say? It don't matter as a person. My coochie

1216
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: is Harry as fuck. Right now.

1217
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 4: I told y'all I've been going through it as far

1218
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 4: as like moving, I just ain't had time to go

1219
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 4: get a wax now.

1220
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 2: But I do prefer no hair down there. It just

1221
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 2: feels better. That feel right. It's very uncomfortable. It's I mean,

1222
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 2: it's hairy.

1223
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 4: And the motherfucker I said, I thought my wig misplaced

1224
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 4: was in my pants. But it's so bad down there, y'all,

1225
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 4: I said, good, good moving lit bitch.

1226
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 2: You don't want to tame it. You know what I'm

1227
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 2: going tomorrow. I'm gonna get a wax tomorrow. It's so bad,

1228
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 2: Old Lord Jesus, have mercy. They thought it was the

1229
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 2: Houston pitting Zoo. Bitch. They came up to me and said,

1230
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 2: is that that goddamn gorilla that went mission? It's bad monkeys.

1231
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 2: I don't like. I'm not mad.

1232
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 4: Like if a man wants to shave, I'm not mad

1233
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 4: at it because I know how I feel with a

1234
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 4: lot of hair down there, So I'm not mad at it.

1235
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 2: So if you do want to shave, cool it. Don't

1236
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: bother me. But I do like a little little hair

1237
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 2: down there. I love balls. I don't know what it

1238
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 2: is about balls. I do love balls.

1239
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 4: They're fun to play with, they're fun to juggle. They

1240
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 4: So if you got the right nigga.

1241
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 2: They smell so sweet. I do love balls. You know,

1242
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 2: people got their kinks that they like. I love a

1243
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 2: little ball, baby. I love to play. I played volleyball.

1244
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:03,439
Speaker 2: I love ball. Hey, okay, so how do you feel

1245
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 2: about I don't know. I just balls is cool? I ball?

1246
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: I guess ball till I fall a lot of d

1247
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: for my dog, all till I fall a lot of

1248
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 1: for y'all.

1249
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 2: Don't you know what I was?

1250
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 8: Why?

1251
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 2: Yes, but no, for real?

1252
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 5: Like balls be cool?

1253
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: I like a little ball to I do like balls. Okay,

1254
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 2: but let me but I.

1255
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 1: Don't shave this sheep bald. Don't because I'm gonna ask

1256
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: why did you have crabs?

1257
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 2: And we ain't talking about the juicy cut? They probably

1258
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 2: be juicy too, But why did you shave it? Ball?

1259
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I have question. Okay, that's fair.

1260
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 2: I have Well, why do you shave your coolie cat?

1261
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 2: I shave my coolchie because that's how my man liked you.

1262
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 2: But maybe that's how his woman. He's like you to

1263
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 2: be fresh like a baby, you know.

1264
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 4: But what if the woman he was dealing with before

1265
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 4: that liked it shaved and he just got in the

1266
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 4: habit of shaving it or blaxing or whatever.

1267
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 5: What do you like?

1268
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 2: Do you like your ball or does she like it ball?

1269
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 2: Because I don't give a fuck when she liked.

1270
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, what if he got used to it,

1271
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: he started to like, I just get something about that

1272
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: that does not rub me the right way?

1273
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 4: You like that friction you wanted to rub you the

1274
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 4: right way? You want that free want a little I'm

1275
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 4: not gonna lie. If I had sex with a man

1276
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 4: right now that had hairy balls, It's gonna sit on fire.

1277
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: But I don't want we fed us starting for as

1278
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 1: fib so if anything, I'm more cool with you shaving

1279
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 1: a ball, Okay, But you want something up here?

1280
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1281
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 2: Like why is it bald right there?

1282
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: It looks like a kool chiee, like between his legs, Kuchi.

1283
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 4: Niggas do be having that foopa. I don't care how

1284
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 4: in shape you are. Niggas got that fat right there

1285
01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 4: above that dick.

1286
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 2: That fatty upper deck. Yes, nigga having food as bitch,

1287
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 2: I don't care how in shape you are. It's a

1288
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 2: little thick right there.

1289
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas do be having that food to and like

1290
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: I feel like a little hair needs to be.

1291
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 2: Covered up that area and that dick. Okay, I feel

1292
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 2: y'all got mad at that. Keep it clean. A little

1293
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 2: trim is a little trim is fine, but don't make

1294
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 2: it bald. Though you're grown. We grown. Let that phone

1295
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 2: get in the little bit. Why ship before we have sex.

1296
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: I don't want that phone on me, but let that

1297
01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: phone get in there when you're going to watch your day.

1298
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 2: I'm talking about ina, yeah, but I mean, I mean

1299
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 2: I'm by any yeah.

1300
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 4: Because that's why I said, when you think about two

1301
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 4: meatballs and that spaghetti, you.

1302
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 2: Want a little sauce on there. If you see two spaghetti,

1303
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 2: if you see two.

1304
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 4: Meatballs in the spaghetti with no sauce, it looks funny.

1305
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 4: I'm not scared of a little phone me either. I'm

1306
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 4: to bring it here sweating.

1307
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: Because I love it with I don't love it when

1308
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 1: it's funky, but I'm not afraid of it.

1309
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 2: I want run from it either, right, I ain't no, really,

1310
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,479
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie like a man. Really, don't

1311
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 2: care if it's here, get face, because I'm the exact opposite.

1312
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 1: You like it ball, yeah, I don't want anything down there,

1313
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: nothing because one the hair is getting your mouth and

1314
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: your teeth and stuff, especially if you sucking balls done,

1315
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 1: I don't.

1316
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 2: Like right, and then like you said, it holds older

1317
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 2: and then it just looks I'm kempt.

1318
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 4: I just like a nice little and she the one

1319
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 4: that they did. I would be the girl before the total.

1320
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 4: I told you some women really prefer that.

1321
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 2: They say some niggas like the shavy because make it

1322
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 2: look bigger. I was, that's gonna be my last thing

1323
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 2: to say. I have never heard that.

1324
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they're saying. That's why some dudes like

1325
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: I should have probably said that first. I just thought

1326
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: about it because it looked bigger. But they don't feel big.

1327
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: It's still that same little meat you had before. I

1328
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: don't know.

1329
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 8: Part like the extra ah trying to that bush op

1330
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 8: the way, Yeah, that little man.

1331
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 4: Master p have a song called no I got that fire?

1332
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 4: Who said that that was juvenile? If you want that, well,

1333
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 4: let us know how y'all feel about it.

1334
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 2: The little wienie. Oh I need some wee excuse me.

1335
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 2: It's been a long time. It's been a long time.

1336
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 2: I haven't hassas in a long time either, but I

1337
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 2: am I know you vacation busting that thing oh sure

1338
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 2: it was. Yeah, I ain't gonna litto. My little sabbatical

1339
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 2: maybe coming to an end. So there's that. What are

1340
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 2: we drinking today? Okay, yeah, you know that's my favorite part.

1341
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: So this one we're gonna call the thirty somethings because

1342
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: it's my birthday. It's virgo season, so that means that

1343
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 1: standards are high, and so are the cocktails. This one

1344
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 1: has some campari that's a little bit of bitterness that's

1345
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 1: gonna give us some edge. We have some peach snaps

1346
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:48,479
Speaker 1: and pineberry syrup for some sweetness. We have a little

1347
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 1: bit of lemon for the zest, and then we have

1348
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: a sparkling rose for the celebration hunt so all together.

1349
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: And then we have some garnish of sliced strawberries and

1350
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: fresh peaches inside, and yeah, it kind of gives us.

1351
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: It's giving grown woman, all right, And this is the

1352
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 1: thirty sentence.

1353
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 2: So cheers, y'all. Cheers. I couldn't get my peach out.

1354
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 2: That was the delicious thank you time you tied. I

1355
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 2: was chasing, So now it's time to get into That's

1356
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 2: how I can have another ship. The Bob the boye

1357
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 2: ay the boy out about start Flicks really cutting up today.

1358
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 2: I'm just.

1359
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 1: To get into the bow the bow, the bow, bow bow,

1360
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: bow bow.

1361
01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 2: All right, So what is your bob flicks?

1362
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 4: My bob is actually an old school dam today, because honestly,

1363
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 4: I turned it on in the car on the way

1364
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 4: here and I was like, wow, honestly it's gone viral

1365
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 4: right now because Travis Scott redid it. But I was like,

1366
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 4: let me listen to the original Bad Boys by Shine

1367
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 4: featuring Barryton.

1368
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 5: He ate that up, Babby Shine, whoa man?

1369
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 2: Shine? No?

1370
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 5: Oh.

1371
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: So when I was in Jamaica a few months ago,

1372
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: I was listening to Bonnie and Shine and that's my

1373
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: fucking song too.

1374
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 2: On the telephone. Be HEARDing my voice told me to

1375
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 2: pick it up in my rose voice.

1376
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm telling you they need to make another I

1377
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 4: know Seane don't do that no more because he's a

1378
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 4: change man.

1379
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 2: He's a politician. He's a politician now. But that man

1380
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 2: being fine, he being fine. He looks like Obama. Show

1381
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:08,680
Speaker 2: him something that shine. That's all right, that's all right.

1382
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: That's what Deyla Ree said on Harlem Night. She said,

1383
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 1: I got a girlfriend so good you throw it up.

1384
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 2: It's like.

1385
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 4: Ahuse me, I wasn't even born again. I love people

1386
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 4: whose voice is so unique. Shine has such a unique voice,

1387
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 4: classic record.

1388
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 2: I mean that bass were getting closer. My play of Daisies,

1389
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:37,799
Speaker 2: Oh boo that's.

1390
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 4: In that hole was bumping so hard, bitch, I started

1391
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 4: swinging that motherfucker.

1392
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 2: Who it's too hard? Oh yeah, that's my bop of

1393
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:02,599
Speaker 2: the week Shine, Yeah, boy, that he did his big one.

1394
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 2: What burna Boy?

1395
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 4: Love shout out to burn up So burna Boy got

1396
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 4: this new song called Love And you know, I get

1397
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 4: my afrobeats bag sometimes and.

1398
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 5: I really like this song.

1399
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like a really feel good summer

1400
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:22,719
Speaker 1: song if you're going on a vacation with your boo.

1401
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 1: It's perfect for a little vibe, a little dinner vibe,

1402
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 1: a little getting ready vibe.

1403
01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:29,560
Speaker 2: I love it.

1404
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 1: I think it's a great song. I don't know Lex,

1405
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 1: how you feel. What you about to do now that

1406
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 1: you single again? Are you about to tap making a

1407
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: Nigeriam pool?

1408
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not gonna lie like I don't know

1409
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 4: what I want to do, because honestly, I've really been

1410
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 4: taking this time to really just chill and heal, and

1411
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,879
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna list y'all. My damns have been flooded

1412
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:57,760
Speaker 4: and the auditions aren't bad. I'm not you know, I

1413
01:10:57,840 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 4: don't know what I want to do, but I know

1414
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 4: what I want. I want to get married. So if

1415
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 4: you're not on that type of time and you're not

1416
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 4: giving me that all, y'all can stay away from me.

1417
01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 4: But I'm really enjoying my peace right now. So yeah,

1418
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 4: I'm not doing anything. I'm not looking for anything for

1419
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 4: the first time in a lone time, because usually I

1420
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 4: be out in the park and like I be looking

1421
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 4: for it. I think I'm just in such a peaceful

1422
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 4: place right now and it feels good, like I laid

1423
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 4: my head down every night, like, oh my god, I'm

1424
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 4: in my house and I'm.

1425
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 2: Just so consumed by that.

1426
01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 4: I'm so consumed with the way poor Minds is going

1427
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:34,640
Speaker 4: and you know, things with love lexp. I'm just so

1428
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 4: consumed with work and enjoying my circle and my people

1429
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 4: around me.

1430
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:41,640
Speaker 5: I don't I hope a.

1431
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 4: Man can come along that can find his way in

1432
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 4: my life and fit in, get in where you fit

1433
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 4: in or not.

1434
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 2: But I'm happy. So I don't know. I don't know.

1435
01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 2: I'm not I might dip back into it. I still

1436
01:11:54,560 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: can hit that huh huh breakfast. I can still shy you, nigga, Yeah,

1437
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:03,600
Speaker 2: what about you.

1438
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 1: I feel like my husband is on the way, so

1439
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 1: I just be being patient because I really do feel

1440
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 1: like he on the way. Because like, and this is

1441
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 1: why I say that, I've been passing all of these

1442
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:23,680
Speaker 1: tests with flying colors. Every Body, any anybody that I

1443
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 1: used to talk to that you could think of, has

1444
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,719
Speaker 1: popped vicar in my life in the past three four months.

1445
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 2: And I'll be carving all them niggas because I'm not interested.

1446
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:35,680
Speaker 2: And it's like.

1447
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 1: It's I mean, but younger me would have been like, oh,

1448
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 1: we can probably go on a trip, or oh, I'm

1449
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: sure he'll probably buy me some stuff or will go

1450
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:51,679
Speaker 1: on a few dates and it'll be fun, like something

1451
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: I occupy my time. I've really been cool when not

1452
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:58,720
Speaker 1: occupying my time and just spending time with myself and

1453
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: waiting because I rather their delayed gratification for like long

1454
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 1: time sustainability.

1455
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's what I want. I want a husband.

1456
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 1: So I've been passing my test with flying cooks like

1457
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: it been so meany like if I y'all don't even know,

1458
01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 1: Like it's just been so many guys that I used

1459
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 1: to talk to. They have just been popping back up

1460
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 1: in my life over the past few months, and I've

1461
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 1: just been like, yeah, anyways, pull on it.

1462
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 2: And that's what said said.

1463
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 4: She said, you know, you got to really be ready

1464
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 4: for the next step and you really got to let

1465
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 4: things go.

1466
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not I'm not worried about it. I just

1467
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: feel like it's on the way, and I feel like

1468
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:41,839
Speaker 1: I've been having a lot of people in my DMS

1469
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 1: to like my dms be kind of flooded too, But

1470
01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 1: I just don't be interested in any of those people,

1471
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 1: Like are you trying to get married.

1472
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 2: Type of time?

1473
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 4: My mom, Like I said, the people if not leaving,

1474
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:56,360
Speaker 4: it's been some like good potential, Like Okay, I'm not

1475
01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 4: mad at this, but I'm like, but do you.

1476
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,920
Speaker 2: Want to get married? Because if you're not looking for

1477
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 2: a wife and looking at seriously date, we can just

1478
01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 2: skip all this.

1479
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 1: Letsten, I don't want to go on a few dates

1480
01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 1: and then you end up telling me, well, I was

1481
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: just no Trauncy was super.

1482
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 4: Sho know, I was gonna fall in love. Your goal

1483
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,439
Speaker 4: should have been fall in love. Yeah, over s cargo

1484
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 4: and a little sangree.

1485
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 1: Then when is a nigga look at me, he should

1486
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 1: know he's gonna fall in love. If you don't know that,

1487
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 1: then you're not my kind. I be wanting to fall

1488
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,440
Speaker 1: deeply in love on the first dates and then subtracted

1489
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 1: as we go.

1490
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:32,720
Speaker 2: Truly, I don't want to I love. I want to add.

1491
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like I as I get the

1492
01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 1: older than I get, I realize I've always been delusional.

1493
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 2: I'm really a true love a girl. I'm glad you

1494
01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 2: finally came home to the dark side.

1495
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: But if you really think about it, I have always

1496
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:52,400
Speaker 1: been I'm delusional. I feel like delusion is the first

1497
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: step of being a real love.

1498
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 4: But you're Delusionale so like it was like but I

1499
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 4: think that's what I like to hear because I know

1500
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 4: you're a good woman and I knew you had it

1501
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 4: in you a good woman, I know. But know what

1502
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 4: I'm saying is is you were just so it would

1503
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 4: take you so much, And I'm just like, you know what,

1504
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:19,640
Speaker 4: fall in love with it? But you know why it

1505
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 4: would take me so much because everybody that I dated

1506
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:23,679
Speaker 4: was not the one.

1507
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying and being a lover girl you're

1508
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 2: gonna fall in love, I don't get me. I feel like,

1509
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 2: but you still have to have like you still have

1510
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: to have guards up. Though you still have to have

1511
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:37,640
Speaker 2: guards up.

1512
01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 1: You could be a lovely girl, but you can still

1513
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: have guards up because that's gonna stop you from falling

1514
01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: for the wrong niggas all the time. Like I feel

1515
01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:47,800
Speaker 1: like sometimes people just be falling and falling, and it

1516
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: be like you just keep falling and who gonna catch you?

1517
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,120
Speaker 2: As nobody. That's what being a love girl is.

1518
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 4: Though. You taking that risk and you're gonna fall and

1519
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 4: you're gonna hurt yourself, you're gonna break a leg, you're

1520
01:15:57,880 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 4: gonna scap me, and you're gonna break it on, but

1521
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:01,160
Speaker 4: you get batter up and you keep trying. That's what

1522
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:03,960
Speaker 4: being a little stretfully, I would never be that stupid.

1523
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 4: Well I'm not saying, but it's stupid some people just

1524
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 4: everybody is. No people love differently. No, I think that's dumb.

1525
01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: No, because falling for people and they're not giving you

1526
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:17,680
Speaker 1: signs that they want the same thing that you want,

1527
01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:20,320
Speaker 1: or they're not giving you reassurance or making you feel like.

1528
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:21,880
Speaker 2: Exactly not what we're talking about.

1529
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 1: But it is because I feel like the way you should.

1530
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: You could meet somebody and be like, oh, I'm head

1531
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 1: over heels. That's why I said, I subtract as I go,

1532
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 1: because I will meet you and be head over heels

1533
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: for you.

1534
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 2: Then as you start to show me who.

1535
01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:39,720
Speaker 1: You are, We're going to subtracts and subtracts, and then

1536
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what, Actually, I think that quote

1537
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: unquote lover girls they be falling and then a nigga

1538
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: will show them who they are and they still stay

1539
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 1: in love and be like, you know what, I'm gonna

1540
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 1: give it another shot. I'm going to give it another shot.

1541
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to give it another shot. And it's like, no,

1542
01:16:56,840 --> 01:16:59,640
Speaker 1: he already been showing you and you should have been

1543
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 1: subt No, I agree.

1544
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:02,879
Speaker 4: With that, But what I will say is like, sometimes

1545
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:04,680
Speaker 4: you know, we know that men will put on that

1546
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 4: job interview and their best person. But what I say is,

1547
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 4: even if they do find out the first time and

1548
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 4: they leave the first time, that shit will hurt you,

1549
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:15,639
Speaker 4: but you don't let it hurt you to the points where.

1550
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:18,559
Speaker 2: You're not gonna try again. That's what I mean. Again,

1551
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 2: some women don't. But what I'm but we talk about us. No,

1552
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying.

1553
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 4: Whether you leave on the first time or whether you

1554
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 4: leave on the sixth time, it don't matter.

1555
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 2: But you still keep trying. A lot of people out

1556
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 2: here giving up on love, right, And that's what I'm saying.

1557
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I've ever been that person.

1558
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 1: I just be cautious, like I be like, when somebody

1559
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: show me who they are, I'm going to take notes

1560
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 1: and I'm going to move accordingly.

1561
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 2: I think you stupid.

1562
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 1: It's fuck respectfully to love a girl, whatever you want

1563
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:51,760
Speaker 1: to call it, if you don't move accordingly when people

1564
01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 1: show you who they are and just.

1565
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:54,639
Speaker 2: Keep being like, well, I'm a lover.

1566
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: I just be falling in love and I just love

1567
01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 1: to love, and I love people. You stoopy because they

1568
01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:04,680
Speaker 1: keep showing you and you keep falling for it. It's

1569
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 1: okay to like somebody. I feel like I fall head

1570
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:12,439
Speaker 1: over heels for people on the first link Alike, I

1571
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:14,560
Speaker 1: don't cause I know, and you laughing because you know,

1572
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 1: like I be meeting people and I just look like

1573
01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: you cannot tell me. When I meet a nigga, I

1574
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 1: love him down if I like him. But as soon

1575
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:25,559
Speaker 1: as something ain't right, It ain't right. And that's how

1576
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I avoid further heartbreak. I think people

1577
01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 1: be avoiding the signs early on, and then later down

1578
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 1: the line they get their heartbroke and it'd be like, well,

1579
01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 1: I was just a lover girl.

1580
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 2: But it's like, no, you was avoiding the signs, you know.

1581
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just be feeling like you do

1582
01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 2: be mean. I hear you, but I also feel like

1583
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 2: you do be being stupid. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what'll we

1584
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:54,320
Speaker 2: on now? Did we go to the bop yet? We

1585
01:18:54,400 --> 01:19:00,679
Speaker 2: already did a bob? We sure did no else? Segment

1586
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:02,360
Speaker 2: of the week. If you want your email answered on

1587
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,360
Speaker 2: the call on the call on the show, make sure you.

1588
01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 4: Email us at Askpourminds at gmail dot com. If you're

1589
01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 4: a patren, I remember, make sure you put that in

1590
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:12,040
Speaker 4: the headline and we gonna double check it so you

1591
01:19:12,120 --> 01:19:14,760
Speaker 4: can skip the line and get your question answered on

1592
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:18,560
Speaker 4: the show. All right, let's see what we got today.

1593
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 4: It says, Hey, Lex Andrea, I have been watching you

1594
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,040
Speaker 4: guys for a while. Thank you for all the laughs

1595
01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:29,400
Speaker 4: and life advice. I am currently engaged and set to

1596
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:32,560
Speaker 4: get married next year. One of my bridesmaids is my

1597
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 4: best friend. She was in a relationship, and she gained

1598
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,920
Speaker 4: a lot of weight over the years. She has always

1599
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:40,479
Speaker 4: complained about how she looks pregnant in her pictures.

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01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 2: I want all of my bridemaids. I want all of

1601
01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:47,160
Speaker 2: my bridesmaids to look good and comfortable, especially since they

1602
01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:50,200
Speaker 2: will be wearing satin dresses. And we know you got

1603
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:52,120
Speaker 2: to have the teeth for the satin dress. Ship.

1604
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:56,360
Speaker 4: Oh, I lost my place. You gotta have the satin

1605
01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 4: dress and girdles do not mix. Oh, you can't wear

1606
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:02,639
Speaker 4: girdles with How can I advise her to lose weight

1607
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:05,800
Speaker 4: from my wedding without coming across as mean or insensitive?

1608
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: If she doesn't lose weight, should I exclude her from

1609
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 2: my wedding party?

1610
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 4: Not to be vain or anything, but if the rest

1611
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:14,000
Speaker 4: of the party are all of similar size, I don't

1612
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:15,680
Speaker 4: want my pictures to look off and I don't want

1613
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:17,920
Speaker 4: to hear her complaining about her weight during the wedding events.

1614
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:19,000
Speaker 2: Why I don't.

1615
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 1: It's very weird to me that people are always concerned

1616
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 1: about seeming mean, because just be honest. And I think

1617
01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 1: if you get to a point to where you're confident

1618
01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 1: in the things that you say, and your decision making process.

1619
01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: You're not gonna feel like people are gonna take it

1620
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 1: is mean because you could.

1621
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:46,360
Speaker 4: Be truthful and not be mean. One hundred Tell people

1622
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 4: how you feel, because it's not about what you say,

1623
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:49,120
Speaker 4: it's how you say it.

1624
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:51,080
Speaker 2: I do think it's about how you say it.

1625
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:53,799
Speaker 1: But I also just feel like people be so afraid

1626
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 1: to like hurt people's feelings. Like sometimes the things that

1627
01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: you're gonna say, it doesn't matter how you say.

1628
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 2: To be honest, sometimes it don't really even matter how

1629
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:03,640
Speaker 2: you say it.

1630
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:06,920
Speaker 1: If somebody is hearing something that they don't want to hear,

1631
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,920
Speaker 1: it's going to hurt their feelings. You have to be

1632
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:13,280
Speaker 1: okay with being the honest person that you are. If

1633
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: somebody asks you some sheit and you like, okay, this

1634
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 1: is how I feel about it. You ask me my opinion,

1635
01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 1: this is how I feel. I'm telling you how I feel,

1636
01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:26,040
Speaker 1: even if I try to say it in the lightiest, sincerious, calmest,

1637
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:28,720
Speaker 1: sweetest way that I can say. If you don't like

1638
01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:31,000
Speaker 1: the message that I'm giving you, it's still going to.

1639
01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:33,560
Speaker 2: Hurt your feelings because you not ready to receive it.

1640
01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 2: That's that's a word I'm not mad at that.

1641
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 1: That's how I feel in general about myself and a

1642
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: lot of people in general. Like I feel like you

1643
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:44,439
Speaker 1: could tell people stuff and people will take it the

1644
01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 1: wrong way, or they'll feel their feelings will be hurt

1645
01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: because they not ready to receive it. They take it

1646
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 1: as an attack, or they feel like they have to

1647
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 1: defend theyself. Nobody even talking about you are trying to

1648
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: make it an attack on you, especially if you ask

1649
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 1: me a question telling you how I feel about it.

1650
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 2: I feel like you have to just be real. You

1651
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:07,599
Speaker 2: have to be real.

1652
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 1: You have to tell people y'all honest opinions and either

1653
01:22:10,200 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 1: they're gonna receive it or they not. You can't be

1654
01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 1: afraid to do that. And if you are, just don't

1655
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 1: tell them. Be like, actually, I don't have no opinion.

1656
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:24,000
Speaker 4: And also I think with a situation, talk to her say, look, friend,

1657
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 4: I know you be complained about your weight. This is

1658
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 4: how the dress is gonna look. Pictures are getting posted.

1659
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:32,640
Speaker 4: It don't matter what angle what. So I'm letting you

1660
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,519
Speaker 4: know right now, just say that straight up. It ain't

1661
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 4: no edit me out, it ain't no. Don't post this.

1662
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:40,760
Speaker 4: I don't look good, so make sure you look how

1663
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 4: you want to look on my wedding, Dade, because at

1664
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 4: the end of the day, this is about me and

1665
01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:45,560
Speaker 4: not about you. So I just think I agree with

1666
01:22:45,640 --> 01:22:47,679
Speaker 4: what Drea said. You have to tell her how you feel.

1667
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 4: I think that you can't force nobody to lose weight

1668
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 4: because I don't even think it's about the weight thing.

1669
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 4: I think it maybe has to do with her confidence,

1670
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:55,799
Speaker 4: because let me tell you something, if you don't have confidence,

1671
01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 4: you're not gonna feel good at two hundred pounds or

1672
01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:58,519
Speaker 4: you're not gonna feel.

1673
01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:00,679
Speaker 2: Good at one fifty. You have to love yourself.

1674
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 4: So I think you need to have a conversation with

1675
01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 4: her because at the end of the day, you need

1676
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 4: to let her know the pictures is getting posted. Hun Now,

1677
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 4: if she's like, you know what, I'm fine with this size,

1678
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,640
Speaker 4: I feel good. I think it's more so because the

1679
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:15,400
Speaker 4: way it was giving it was worded a little bit,

1680
01:23:15,479 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 4: it sounds like you kind of have a problem with

1681
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 4: her weight too, because she's like, if she doesn't lose weight,

1682
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:25,639
Speaker 4: should I exclude her, exclude her from my wedding party. Okay,

1683
01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:27,719
Speaker 4: what if she doesn't lose weight but she feels fine,

1684
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:30,080
Speaker 4: and you posting the pictures I think you have more

1685
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:32,960
Speaker 4: of a problem with it than you're admitting to a

1686
01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:35,560
Speaker 4: little bit, just from the way things were worded, just

1687
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 4: a little bit. So I think you need to ask

1688
01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 4: yourself a question as well.

1689
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:43,560
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I don't know.

1690
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:47,080
Speaker 1: Like I said, just be honest about your feelings and

1691
01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:50,880
Speaker 1: how you feel, and you can try to say it

1692
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,680
Speaker 1: in as delicate of a way as you can, but

1693
01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 1: I would just be honest. Yeah, and if she don't

1694
01:23:57,920 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 1: receive ya.

1695
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 2: It's tricky, it is, but I feel like.

1696
01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:09,479
Speaker 1: If she don't receive it, will then after that then

1697
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:13,040
Speaker 1: you'll know how to move forward. I will say it

1698
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 1: in a nice way, but yeah, it's also your wedding.

1699
01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, if she have

1700
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 1: an attitude or be weird, like, just don't put it

1701
01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:20,760
Speaker 1: in a wedding. I just be feeling like I don't

1702
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 1: be the best person to ask for advice because I

1703
01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 1: really be feeling like everybody could go.

1704
01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:35,120
Speaker 2: Goodbye. All right, high ladies, k here. I love the podcast.

1705
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 1: Now y'all are really like my aunties for real, for real,

1706
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 1: with all the good gems y'all drop every show. So

1707
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:44,360
Speaker 1: I have a dilemma. I'm a fun to missize twenty

1708
01:24:44,400 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 1: eight year old woman dealing with a much older man.

1709
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 1: And I used to pull all the tricks out of

1710
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 1: my bag when it came to positions. But y'all my

1711
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:57,559
Speaker 1: check mee what But y'all, my chick mee light been

1712
01:24:57,640 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 1: popping on lately when it comes to riding him. Although

1713
01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 1: he hasn't been complaining, he does suggest I stay on

1714
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:06,480
Speaker 1: top longer.

1715
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 2: Although it's tiring. Now.

1716
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:12,200
Speaker 1: We both got billies. So what tips do y'all suggest

1717
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:14,280
Speaker 1: to keep things fun unless tiring?

1718
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:19,040
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not fun sized. I feel like you're a

1719
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 2: fun size and shape girly. Mm hmm, I.

1720
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 4: Ain't gotten no fu I ain't fun sized. I can walk,

1721
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 4: I can walk some miles now, but I ain't doing

1722
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 4: all that now. My knees don't work. My check knee

1723
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:33,640
Speaker 4: engine like.

1724
01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:35,800
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like I don't know, Like if your

1725
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 1: knees is not really working, then I feel like you

1726
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,439
Speaker 1: have to like learn how to rise it and like morse,

1727
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Speaker 1: I'll use your knee, like use your knees than your feet,

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Speaker 1: so like instead of like copping with your feet, you

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Speaker 1: gotta like be on your knees and kind of like.

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Speaker 2: Straddle cause I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's not gonna put pressure on your knees. Okay, but

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Speaker 1: you know I'm not gonna lie because you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: already in the bed.

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Speaker 2: The bed is patty.

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Speaker 1: Your knees are gonna be on the bed, and you're

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Speaker 1: just more so gonna be like riding and straddling versus

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Speaker 1: being like on your feet. You're hopping, and it's like

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Speaker 1: putting pressure on your legs, which I feel like more

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Speaker 1: most men prefer that. Yeah, when you using the knees

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Speaker 1: and you're on your feet, yeah, hopping, but I feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like learn how to use your knees. And then it's

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Speaker 1: also other positions you could do, like you could do

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Speaker 1: reverse cowgirl.

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Speaker 2: Where with that you don't even gotta use your feed.

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Speaker 2: You can really just kind of rock back and forth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's somebody with a bad knee though, because

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Speaker 4: I do this knee so motherfucking bad bitch.

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Speaker 2: What you can do if you still want.

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Speaker 4: To get off on the tippy toes is you gotta

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Speaker 4: have a sturdy headboard though. So what I do is

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Speaker 4: I get on my tippy toes so when I go

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Speaker 4: all the way down, I'm not going super low because

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Speaker 4: I'm on my tippy toes, so I'm not like if

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Speaker 4: you're flat foot and you're obviously gonna go lower, but

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Speaker 4: you gotta stay up on your tippy toes and you

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Speaker 4: grab the headboard and use it for a little support.

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Speaker 3: That.

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Speaker 4: Now, if you still want to get up on your

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Speaker 4: tippy toes, that works. And my need don't ever hurt

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Speaker 10: Because I don't had a little bit too much, girl,

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