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Speaker 1: the call, and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 2: Drunk Mind, Sober Thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I feel like

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Speaker 1: last week my energy was a little off.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what was wrong with me.

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Speaker 1: Last week. I just felt like I was tired. I

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Speaker 1: think I was hung over. I got drunk. I got

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Speaker 1: real road drunk the night before, so yesterday I got

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Speaker 1: drunk during the day. Oh so I have a lot

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Speaker 1: of energy today, so it's gonna be a damn good episode.

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Speaker 1: Today was kind off last week too, Yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: felt like it wasn't you know?

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Speaker 2: You have it just been off alike? Yeah, it's just

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Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, it's a lot going on. So what's up?

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Speaker 1: What you been up to this past week? Give the

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Speaker 1: girls an update? A good update?

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Speaker 3: What kind of good update? On my post to give?

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Speaker 3: What the fuck you think I've been doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh? You are mad sassy today asking bitch, what do

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Speaker 2: you think I've been doing?

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Speaker 3: You know I even doing I've been doing the same

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Speaker 3: shit you've been doing.

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Speaker 1: Oh oops, just having a moment, probably so because you

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Speaker 1: real fucking sassy. My goodness, Well, I got great. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my periods started today.

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Speaker 2: Thank god.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to see nobody to Heaven this week.

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Speaker 1: So what you well, my period has started. Sound very

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Speaker 1: happy about that. I hung out with an old friend yesterday.

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Speaker 1: We had a pool day. No, it wasn't nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: That's the homie cool.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you said that, girl, that's my homie.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: I definitely me and him have never had sex. He

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Speaker 1: just he's just cool. But yeah, I finished a half

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Speaker 1: a bottle Costume Goes yesterday. I was fucking drunk as fuck.

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Speaker 1: I got home at like midnight and I slept so

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Speaker 2: Y'all, Like, thank god, hangout. I know.

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Speaker 1: I feel absolutely great today. Like I woke up, my

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Speaker 1: periods started. It was just a glorious morning. Your Yes,

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Speaker 1: the first day I thought lo I did, I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh shit, y'all. We got to go to playing paths

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Speaker 1: poor mins, go to playing Parenthood episode.

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Speaker 2: We was gonna go to playing Parenthood on the Patreon.

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Speaker 2: Bitch was gonna be litting that hole. And I would

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Speaker 2: have had to go with you because you gonna be

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Speaker 2: able to drive y'all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, not that I know I'm dead, you know, sir, Oh,

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Speaker 1: only because.

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Speaker 3: I had to draw somebody before. I remember, No, you

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Speaker 3: do remember?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, yeah, Well, good thing. I don't have

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Speaker 1: to send Like I said, I'm don't gotta send nobody

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Speaker 1: to heaven. So they brothers and sisters up there, still

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Speaker 1: chilling up there with bottom tails. So what I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's just not the time right now.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I had a good week. Just

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Speaker 1: want to thank y'all again for everybody to be tuning

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Speaker 1: in every week. Thank you to the Patreon listeners. If

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Speaker 1: y'all haven't signed up for the Patreon, make sure y'all

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Speaker 1: signed up for that. We do bonus content every week

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Speaker 1: on there. Make sure y'all get y'all merch and all

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Speaker 1: that good stuff.

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Speaker 2: And I've been going good. Oh somebody saw some money

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Speaker 2: from me cast Oh you got mad at me? To

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Speaker 2: that ship was How did somethbody? How did that happen?

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Speaker 1: I have no fucking clue. I don't have no clue.

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Speaker 1: They sold three hundred and eighteen thos. That's a weird amount.

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Speaker 1: It is, right, that's start of like a carnal.

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Speaker 3: And I was so fucking mad because it was right

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Speaker 3: after you send me the money from the Patreon my

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Speaker 3: Patreon money, Beach.

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Speaker 2: So why did you already ass Beach? So today like

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Speaker 3: So it's funny how I ended up finding out because

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Speaker 1: So I had left the money in there, but I

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, let me go to the nail shop.

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Speaker 3: I needed to refil. I go to the nail shop, Beach.

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Speaker 3: I get to the nail shop, I'm done. I'm about

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Speaker 3: He said, it's the Klan.

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Speaker 2: The shame. I know I have money over here. Who

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Speaker 1: I have another account. Oh two others. I tried it,

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Speaker 1: so I thought we were relating again. I missed twice,

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Speaker 3: I could not believe that. She So I'm mad at FIRS.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god. So I just give my

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Speaker 3: trying to call the number that's on cash up Beach.

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Speaker 3: They ain't even got no representatives. That shit real good off.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, cash up.

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Speaker 1: If you got something going on in cash up, it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I prefer Zell I do too.

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Speaker 2: I don't keep money in my cash app at all.

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Speaker 3: I so, yeah, they supposed to be getting back to me.

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Speaker 3: I feel like they probably gonna give me my money bag.

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Speaker 1: these scammers. Man, y'all stealing from people. That shit ain't right. Man,

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Speaker 1: Honey, this is gonna be a good episode. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how long does it take you to get ready?

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Speaker 3: Get ready hour and a half.

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like when it be stuff that I

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Speaker 2: Why can't you be there at seven?

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Speaker 3: Don't don't fucking do this on the show Beach because

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Speaker 2: Your ass is not Yes, I'm very punctual. Yes I am.

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Speaker 1: You'll be like, Okay, I'm gonna be the I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Bitch, don't do that.

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Speaker 3: Well, and me and you have got into it over

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Speaker 2: So what's te Why do you do that? Why do

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Speaker 2: I do do that. I do that to you. I

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Speaker 5: God dammit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this is what I'll say. You do this, honestly.

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Speaker 1: I'll say this now.

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Speaker 3: I'll be like fifteen minutes late to stuff, or maybe

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Speaker 3: sometimes thirty minutes late, but you wait, wait, wait, wait

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Speaker 3: wait now, and then I'll tell you. I'll text you

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Speaker 3: and be like, hey, I'm onna.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait now, can I defend myself?

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Speaker 2: I've God damn it.

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Speaker 1: So I'll say this now if you I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like if we're going somewhere like

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Speaker 1: But no, I'm not even I'm not even honestly really

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Speaker 2: I'll say that you do that, you started it all.

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Speaker 2: Why can't you be there at seven or seven or five? Sometimes?

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Speaker 3: I'll get there when I get there, because what the

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Speaker 1: Exact no, And I agree with that. That's how I

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Speaker 1: No, And not only that, that was during a time

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Speaker 2: I'm right, let's come on, we don't want I am.

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Speaker 2: I was always on time. Look, I'm I'm this.

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Speaker 3: This is something I'm working on in twenty twenty, taking accountability. See,

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Speaker 3: l I'd be late and I'm cool with that. I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying you also be late.

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Speaker 2: I don't be late like that.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if you late like that, You're not

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Speaker 2: You're not always on.

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Speaker 4: Time, baby, Baby, I'm not when, but I'm always on time,

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Speaker 1: So I'm saying, okay, So I'll say this to the

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Speaker 2: I am not a late person.

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Speaker 1: I actually and I'm very impatient when I want things done.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's why you're getting so upset because

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Speaker 2: I do be impatient, but I be ready to go,

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Speaker 3: Gonna be doing nothing. Would be crazy about it too.

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Speaker 3: You be impatient and ready to go so you can

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Speaker 3: home and watch TV, watching Netflix.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be on time, bitch. I got to be.

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Speaker 1: If I told myself I'm supposed to be watching Netflix

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Speaker 1: aby eleven pm, that's what the fuck I need.

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Speaker 2: To do if I cannot be laid. I was reading

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Speaker 2: your NAT chart the other day, wet.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna talk about that later because you have

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Speaker 3: a lot of things in coming. I think that's why

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking dead.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So, so who do you think is more punctual

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Speaker 1: to us too?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: Definitely you for sure, But if you want to talk

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Speaker 2: Your ass are punctual. I am pretty punctual.

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Speaker 1: When people describe me, they will never say they will say,

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Speaker 1: They will say funny, flaky, beautiful, and punctual, funny.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful, and flaky. No, you'll be flaky too.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what my favorite thing is. I love

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Speaker 1: when a motherfucker be like, man, I ain't gonna go no.

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Speaker 3: More planning on going anyway, y'all. Lex loves to say

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Speaker 3: she's gonna come do something. Then you call her today

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Speaker 3: up and you'll be like, she'd be like.

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Speaker 2: Girl, I'm just gonna stay. I ain't even. I don't even,

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Speaker 2: I just ain't gonna come no more.

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Speaker 1: Or she'll come up with some excuse as to why

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Speaker 1: she can't come, And I roll my eyes every time

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Speaker 1: because I just know ya ass me knowing when you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be flake, Well, I'll say this, that's one thing

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Speaker 1: you can't say about me, Beach, I ain't flaky.

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Speaker 3: If I say I'm gonna come somewhere, I always show up.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's why a lot of people in

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Speaker 2: But one thing about you, because.

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Speaker 3: They know if I say I'm gonna come, they know

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna come. I'm probably just gonna be late, but

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Speaker 3: it ain't never knows that in their mind, like, oh,

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Speaker 3: maybe she not gonna come.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember when one night you was going somewhere

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Speaker 1: and I couldn't go. Well, I was gonna go with you,

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Speaker 1: but one of your friends flightd on you.

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Speaker 2: You were so fucking mad. I think you stopped being

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Speaker 2: friends with her after that.

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Speaker 6: But what was the situation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she could have got into a car accident. How

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Speaker 1: she getting no car accident when she ain't got no cars?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I hope she don't listen to this.

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Speaker 3: Ain't yeah, okay, so lies So anyways, it was this

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Speaker 2: It was his birthday and I forgot.

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Speaker 3: I think we were supposed to go out the night before,

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Speaker 3: the next night and Lex and my friend Keiki had

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Speaker 3: Kiki was busy. So I end up eating up my

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Speaker 3: other homegirl who said she was gonna go out the night.

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Speaker 2: Prior to, and she was like, okay, I'll come with you.

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Speaker 3: We had actually went out to eat early and I

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Speaker 3: was telling her she was like, yeah, I'll come with

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Speaker 3: you whatever. I call her when it's time to start

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Speaker 3: getting ready, and she's like, Drea, I don't want.

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Speaker 2: To go anymore.

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Speaker 3: Okay, bitch, Well why you ain't say that when we

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Speaker 3: was out eating four hours ago?

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Speaker 2: You could have said that.

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Speaker 3: Then you could have been like, mmm, I don't really

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Speaker 3: want to go, but you said you was gonna come,

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Speaker 3: and so I'm calling you an hour two hours before

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Speaker 3: it's time to start getting ready, and now you like,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to go no more.

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Speaker 2: So Beach, what the fuck? Now?

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Speaker 3: I gotta pull up to the club. And I feel like,

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Speaker 3: you know, as a woman, you too, as a woman,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 2: How awkward it is yourself. Yeah, that's work Like, even

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Speaker 2: though I'm going to.

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Speaker 3: Meet this nigga, Yeah, it's like, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: He gonna be talking to other people, mingling with other people.

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Speaker 3: I want to have my girls with me. So I

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Speaker 3: had to end up going by myself. And I definitely

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Speaker 3: cut her off because of it, because of that situation,

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Speaker 3: but it was thing that happened before that that was

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Speaker 3: flaky ass people like don't tell me that you're gonna

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Speaker 3: do something or that you're gonna come somewhere any and

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Speaker 3: don't come right.

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Speaker 7: I mean, if I could like it sounds like you know,

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Speaker 7: both of y'all can work on some things, like you're

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Speaker 7: punctual when it comes to you.

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Speaker 6: When it comes to you, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean I mean about yeah, yeah, But I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm not flaky, like when dra needs something, as far

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Speaker 1: as like going out.

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Speaker 2: I ain't never flaked on you to day. I had

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Speaker 2: something to do.

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Speaker 1: I was planning on going the night before you decided

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Speaker 1: that or whatever happened. Something happened, but I had already

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Speaker 1: had plans the next night already. That's why you wasn't

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Speaker 1: tripping on me. I never agree read to go night two.

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Speaker 1: I agreed on night one, God damn it. But when

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Speaker 1: it comes to the club, shit, I never leave you

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Speaker 1: hanging cause I know the benye beansby were dressed.

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Speaker 2: I don't never miss a night. The fuck she like

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Speaker 2: we going to the club, I'll be like, bit y'all,

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Speaker 2: mo my weight she putting? Really you know it? You

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Speaker 2: fu say Maria, you said Lex need to work off.

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Speaker 7: I'll just say Lex, you're punctual when it comes to you,

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Speaker 7: just just on it and drell. You could be on time,

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Speaker 7: but as long as you show up, fuck it.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 6: But why does it take y'all so long to get ready?

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Speaker 2: You know what?

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Speaker 3: For me now that lately, honestly, since we haven't been

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Speaker 2: For me, it used to be my makeup it takes

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Speaker 1: Like when I'm getting ready ready, it takes me about

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Speaker 1: But honestly, like if I have to be somewhere at seven,

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Speaker 1: I do get up around like four thirty, and I'll

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Speaker 1: to leave time to take pictures because I know I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be wanting to, you know, take a little video,

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Speaker 1: my time getting read Well.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I forgot about that part.

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Speaker 1: She'd be late, and it'll be seven o'clock. She's still

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Speaker 1: in her room in the mirror.

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Speaker 3: I can definitely be taking pictures. Can He said that too,

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Speaker 3: He was like, bitch, every time you late somewhere, And

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Speaker 3: then I get on Instagram, I'd be like, I knew

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Speaker 3: you just posted a picture.

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Speaker 2: Be late.

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Speaker 1: So let us know how y'all feel about people being,

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Speaker 1: you know, late on time?

442
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Speaker 2: Does it don't.

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Speaker 3: Bother me long as you're not super late and as

444
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Speaker 3: long as I'm not by myself?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.

446
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Speaker 3: Like, if I'm already with a group of people and

447
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Speaker 3: then licks it's thirty minutes late or an hour late,

448
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Speaker 3: that shit not about to bother me because I'm already

449
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Speaker 3: with with people. I'm waiting on you for thirty minutes

450
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Speaker 3: an hour alone.

451
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Speaker 2: Daddy's annoying.

452
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so let us know how y'all feel. Are you

453
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Speaker 1: a punctual person or are you not?

454
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Speaker 2: Okay?

455
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Speaker 1: So real quick, I wanted to talk to y'all about

456
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Speaker 1: something called better Help Now. I think we've all been

457
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Speaker 1: going through stuff, especially now with the quarantine going on.

458
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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, I felt like at one point,

459
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Speaker 1: I'm just like existing, like I just kind of wake

460
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Speaker 1: up and I'm just kind of floating around, and I

461
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Speaker 1: just like, damn, what is my purpose? And I started

462
00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,240
Speaker 1: being really hard on myself and feeling like bad about

463
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Speaker 1: self about myself. I felt like I wasn't reaching my goals,

464
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So there's this app, a

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Speaker 1: program called Betterhelp. It'll help you assess your needs and

466
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Speaker 1: match you with your own licensed professional therapists. When I

467
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Speaker 1: tell y'all, I feel like we don't talk about this

468
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Speaker 1: enough in the black community, like people using therapy and

469
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Speaker 1: talking to someone like they feel like it's so taboo,

470
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Speaker 1: or they feel like, oh, only crazy emotional people need therapists.

471
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Speaker 1: But I feel like therapy for black people is really important.

472
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Speaker 1: I really want to make this like a normal thing,

473
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Speaker 1: even like people of color period.

474
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Speaker 2: You know, it's not just black people that listen to

475
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Speaker 2: the podcast.

476
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Speaker 1: But the good thing about it is how convenient it is.

477
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Speaker 1: You do it on your phone, your computer, and you

478
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Speaker 1: can start communicating with a therapist in less than twenty

479
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Speaker 1: four hours. So once you sign up and get everything going,

480
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Speaker 1: you can literally have your therapy section the next day.

481
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Speaker 1: So it's better than I feel like doing a normal

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Speaker 1: therapy session, Like you got to book somebody like six

483
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Speaker 1: weeks out from now, you know how much could happen

484
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Speaker 1: in six weeks. I feel like when I'm going through something,

485
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Speaker 1: I want to talk to somebody right now.

486
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So that's a good thing

487
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Speaker 2: about it.

488
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Speaker 1: You can send your a message to your counselor at

489
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Speaker 1: any time, you'll get timely and thoughtful responses, and you

490
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Speaker 1: can schedule weekly video and phone sessions. So, like I said,

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Speaker 1: with the quarantine going on, it's not like you have

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Speaker 1: to go to somebody's office waiting to lobby and do

493
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Speaker 1: all that stuff. So the thing about better Health that

494
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Speaker 1: I like, like I said, is just the convenience for me.

495
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Speaker 1: I can do it in the privacy of my own home.

496
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Speaker 1: I can still be quarantine. So what we gonna do

497
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Speaker 1: for y'all is if you want to start living a

498
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Speaker 1: happier life and you or if you want to just

499
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Speaker 1: try therapy and you've never tried it before and you're

500
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Speaker 1: kind of nervous about it. As a listener, you'll get

501
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Speaker 1: ten percent off your first month by visiting betterhelp dot

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Speaker 1: com slash poor Mind. So make sure y'all sign up

503
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Speaker 1: and get a little therapy session. And I feel like

504
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Speaker 1: therapy is so good and not many people talk about it,

505
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Speaker 1: but so many people have been using better Health that

506
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Speaker 1: they're actually recruiting an additional counselors in like fifty states,

507
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Speaker 1: Like this is a really popular. I think not a

508
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Speaker 1: lot of people talk about it, so yeah, over woman

509
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Speaker 1: and people use this and it's really effective.

510
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Speaker 2: I love it. I know Drea likes it.

511
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Speaker 1: So yeah, check out betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds

512
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Speaker 1: and get ten percent off and get your therapy session

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Speaker 1: started today. Okay, Okay, so I'm gonna let you bring

514
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Speaker 1: in this next topic because okay, you.

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Speaker 2: Know you love to serve up the pot I do.

516
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Speaker 3: I love to start up pot of But yes, okay,

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Speaker 3: you know, as y'all all know, maybe y'all don't you know?

518
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Speaker 3: Yesterday was ari birthday and she dated money.

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Speaker 2: Bag Yo her.

520
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Speaker 1: A lambo truck, a lambo pussy, that shit crazy pussy.

521
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Speaker 3: So he bought her a lambo truck for her birthday.

522
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Speaker 3: And of course, you know, Twitter was on fire when

523
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Speaker 3: shit happened. I seen so many people talking about it

524
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Speaker 3: on Twitter all day yesterday, and I just seen so

525
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Speaker 3: many niggas being so negative about the situation and just

526
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Speaker 3: saying things like you know, I would, I don't care

527
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Speaker 3: how good a beach pussy is. I'll never buy a

528
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Speaker 3: beach of lambow truck in if you could.

529
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Speaker 2: I'm dad, you know, I'll just be.

530
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Speaker 3: Trying to understand why every time a black woman gets

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Speaker 3: something nice or get something lookxeurious. Here come all these

532
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Speaker 3: hayten ass black men always talking shit and talking down Like,

533
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Speaker 3: I don't understand. It's like you should be wanting to

534
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Speaker 3: see your fellow people living well and getting nicely.

535
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Speaker 1: I think it's more so of a like I said,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a jealousy thing.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, now you're Nigga being jealous of her?

538
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Speaker 2: Absolutely absolutely.

539
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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times men see these

540
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Speaker 1: women living these fabulous life just off the based on

541
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Speaker 1: how they look, so they don't understand that. They feel like, Oh,

542
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Speaker 1: I'm out here hustling, I'm grinding, and all the bitch

543
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Speaker 1: gotta go do is get her ass done. It's the

544
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Speaker 1: world that we living in nowadays. And who's to say

545
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Speaker 1: they talking about, Oh, he ain't even been with that

546
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Speaker 1: girl for a year. This could be the best nine

547
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Speaker 1: ten months of his life. Y'all don't know what the

548
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Speaker 1: fuck going or what she's done. That means it's seeth good.

549
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Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is it doesn't matter. It's not

550
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Speaker 1: a tip for tap. When you love somebody and you

551
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Speaker 1: got money, you want to do for them. I don't

552
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Speaker 1: even have money, But when I fuck with somebody, I

553
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Speaker 1: don't mind getting them gifts and doing nice things for

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Speaker 1: the money.

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Speaker 2: I say this all the time.

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Speaker 1: This may be against my ministry, but I know for

557
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Speaker 1: a fact, when I get like a life partner and

558
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Speaker 1: I'm making hell of bread, I'm damn why wouldn't I

559
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Speaker 1: buy my man a car?

560
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Speaker 2: But that's not against your ministry.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we just always kind of preach about,

562
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Speaker 3: you know, dating guys who are going to make.

563
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Speaker 2: Sure you okay. I'm sure you and I be having

564
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Speaker 2: you out here struggling.

565
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Speaker 3: But I've never said that once I get a certain

566
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Speaker 3: level of money, I'm not gonna spend money on my nigga.

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Speaker 2: I ain't never said.

568
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Speaker 3: I ain't already haven't spent money on any new to

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Speaker 3: the listener. I just said last week, how I sent

570
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Speaker 3: a nigga edible arrangement.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's still good.

572
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Speaker 1: That's still good saying that's good.

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Speaker 2: And I bought a nigga gifts before, Like you know.

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Speaker 6: What I mean, you don't talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Why would I? Why would you?

576
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Speaker 3: But it be for a nigga to worthy, not just

577
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Speaker 3: no random ass niggas.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie I checked my nigga like exit,

579
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Speaker 1: I was daying, Like I had a whole weekend plan,

580
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Speaker 1: Like we went at the time. You know, I didn't

581
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Speaker 1: have a lot of money, but like I got us

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Speaker 1: this nice ass hotel in Dallas. We was like at

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Speaker 1: the top floor, we went out to eat. I pay

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Speaker 1: for the whole fucking weekend. Like I don't mind doing

585
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Speaker 1: stuff like that, but I feel like when, like now, now,

586
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Speaker 1: say it was the other way around, say it was

587
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Speaker 1: already and she bought him a Lambeo truck, they would

588
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Speaker 1: be rinting and raving about that.

589
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Speaker 2: They would probably because.

590
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Speaker 6: Cardi b gave all set half a million dollars. It

591
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Speaker 6: was the same shit.

592
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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, okay, I can agree with that, but I

593
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Speaker 1: feel like, what's the problem with doing nice stuff for

594
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Speaker 1: your spouse?

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Speaker 7: Like wrong with it, But I feel like it really

596
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Speaker 7: does go back to what she was saying. I feel

597
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Speaker 7: like people have this mentality of.

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Speaker 6: Like, I mean, ari, no disrespect, I don't know this girl,

599
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Speaker 6: but what did she do?

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Speaker 2: Right? You feel me?

601
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Speaker 7: So like when you see somebody, it's perceived. When she

602
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Speaker 7: doesn't do anything, yeah.

603
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Speaker 2: It's perceived.

604
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Speaker 1: But like people always just want to say, oh, she's

605
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Speaker 1: just the baby mama. But this girl has had a

606
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Speaker 1: hair company before she did booking.

607
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Speaker 2: She gets paid, She makes money on her own.

608
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Speaker 1: Every time this girl posts on Instagram, she's probably getting

609
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Speaker 1: paid about five ten thousand dollars per post.

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Speaker 6: A lot of money.

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Speaker 1: So, you know what I'm saying, It's not like she's

612
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Speaker 1: just a broke, regular ass girl not making no money.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, but even if she was, what's wrong

615
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Speaker 1: with seeing black women be spoiled?

616
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?

617
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Speaker 1: I feel like it's all You know how many times

618
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Speaker 1: I get online and I see like white girls or

619
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Speaker 1: somebody posting like they g waggon or something that a

620
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Speaker 1: man done about them, and it's no smoke.

621
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Speaker 2: But as soon as a black woman posts her getting

622
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Speaker 2: a bag, they be like, who are you fucking damn?

623
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Speaker 2: Why can't my nigga that I am in a relationship

624
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Speaker 2: with do something nice for me?

625
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Speaker 1: I just don't get why it's a problem people talking about, Oh,

626
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Speaker 1: I would never buy my bitch of lamboat.

627
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Speaker 2: You ever had one?

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Speaker 1: You can one you can't, But too maybe you never

629
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Speaker 1: had somebody in your life that made you want to

630
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Speaker 1: do those things right. You know what I'm saying, like,

631
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Speaker 1: you can't ever you just never say never, cause I

632
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 1: feel like different people bring out different You know a

633
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: lot of shit I used to say I would have

634
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Speaker 1: never did and hunt and I'm almost thirty hours. I

635
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: did a lot of sheep that I said I would

636
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Speaker 1: never do when I was younger.

637
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Speaker 2: Right, So you know what I mean, You're right.

638
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 3: She never say that you're never gonna do certain sit

639
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Speaker 3: because it's like once you get in certain situations feeling shage,

640
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 3: then I've seen a lot of people on the internet

641
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 3: tool saying like, oh, it's probably ringed, it's probably least

642
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 3: do y'all all do know? And I just wanna give

643
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Speaker 3: the people some game real quick, because I have list

644
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Speaker 3: a car before you do. Know that to Lisa Car,

645
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 3: you have to have really good credit, right, and leasing

646
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Speaker 3: a car is actually smart if you don't want to

647
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Speaker 3: keep a car, if you're a person who likes to

648
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 3: change your cars up and get different sit every years,

649
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 3: it's smarter. To Lisa Car, cars depreciate, right. Property is

650
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 3: what you need to be worried about. Cars depreciate, So

651
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Speaker 3: only in the car really don't mean she right, because

652
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,199
Speaker 3: once you take that ship off the lot. It's not

653
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Speaker 3: worth what it was.

654
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Speaker 2: When you body exactly.

655
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Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, if somebody is

656
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Speaker 3: leasing the car, who fucking cares as long as they're

657
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 3: paying a car. No, for the time being, it's there, right,

658
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 3: and you still have the option to buy when your

659
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 3: lease is up right, and.

660
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Speaker 1: Only that is like shit, two years from now, she

661
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: probably want the new version. On top of that, she

662
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: won't upgrade her ship.

663
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 3: And on top of that Talisa Limbo truck that's like

664
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 3: four thousand dollars a money.

665
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 2: That's the expensive ass car.

666
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 3: So even if that nigga is leasing me so well,

667
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 3: he's still paying four thousand dollars a month for these

668
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 3: beach to drive these cars.

669
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 2: You better speak on it.

670
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, though, it's like people just be so

671
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 3: negative all the time, and I just don't understand it.

672
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 3: That's why so many people just don't receive their blessings

673
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 3: in life and don't be you know, in a good

674
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: position and do and can't do well for.

675
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 2: A long time, you know what I mean. They might

676
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: do well for a little bit, then they'll hit a roll.

677
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: But because you a hater, right right, So how do

678
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: you feel about his is what his baby mama was saying.

679
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 3: Whole corner you ain't see on Twitter today. I said, oh,

680
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 3: I thought a bitter host is, but like, let me

681
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 3: stop playing because she's.

682
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, she would love mama. I don't want no

683
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 2: beef and I ain't fighting because you want to be

684
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 2: stupid on this guy. Damn, I know I can't now

685
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 2: how you You ain't contradicting yourself. Put on another episode,

686
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: you say you always got my bad. I do got

687
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 2: your bag, but you gonna get what you deserved with

688
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 2: that one. She looked like she bite motherfuckers for.

689
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 6: The listeners who didn't know what she say.

690
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 2: Oh so she was basically saying that. She was like,

691
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: I'm a herman. No, that's what she said.

692
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,360
Speaker 1: She said, I'm a herman and I got feelings. So yeah,

693
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: I feel some way about him buying that whole lambo truck.

694
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: She was like, he only know this whole for nine months.

695
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: I've been fucking with this nigga for years. He went

696
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: and got him an industry beach. Now I will say this,

697
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: I feel like she said she I'm herman.

698
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: It sounded very bitter. I'm not gonna lie, ya know,

699
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: we don't like to talk about it.

700
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: Well, no, I'll say this, I don't think it was bitter,

701
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: but yeah, you don't know. I think it was, like

702
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: you have to realize. I like to look at it

703
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: from it from both point of views. Now, I don't

704
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: feel like she should have been calling Aria bitch and

705
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: calling Ario hole. Now, that seemed bitter. But when it

706
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: comes to money, yeah, I would feel some type of

707
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: white too. As a woman, my feelings would be hurt.

708
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: I think that's what more so than it was, her

709
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: feelings are hurt. But to me, what I'm saying is

710
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: bitter about it. It's fine to be a woman and

711
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: to have feelings. We all have feelings.

712
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 3: We all feel some type of way about sheet sometimes

713
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: especially as it's pertaining to a nigga that you fucking

714
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 3: we especially I would assume your baby daddy he.

715
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: Ain't in a position like that yet exp we don't know.

716
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 3: But it's just like going public and talking about it

717
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: is to me what makes it look bitter, because it's like,

718
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 3: that's fine to have those emotions and have those feelings,

719
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 3: but why are you putting it on a public platform

720
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 3: for people to see. You wanted to start a pie

721
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 3: like you wanted to start up some drama, and to me,

722
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 3: that's some bitter bitch she right. I just feel like,

723
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: you know, it ain't nothing wrong with buying your girlfriend

724
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 3: a car and getting her lambo.

725
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: That's not the problem. But I feel like maybe she

726
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: feels like, well, I need a car. Not saying that

727
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: she needs a lambo, but who knows what her She's

728
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: no what I'm saying, but I hope that she has

729
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: a car. That's what I'm saying. If I was somebody's

730
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: baby mama, not it have a car. I'm not saying

731
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: that she doesn't have a car.

732
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: Sorry y'all started laughing. I just said, I know, I know, I.

733
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: Know what you're talking about, but I would feel some

734
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: type of way if I didn't have a car and

735
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: my baby daddy was out here buying bit just car,

736
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: because you know what I'm saying. So we don't know,

737
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: we don't know what her situation is and why she

738
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: felt that way. And let me just say that because,

739
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: like I said, you always need to make sure you

740
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: take care of home first. So as long as he's

741
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: taking care of his kids and his baby mama, it's

742
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: not a problem. But like I said, something is going

743
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: on to where she feels some type of way about

744
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: that car.

745
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 3: But I also and this is probably going into another

746
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 3: topic like we always do, but I just feel like

747
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 3: women have to understand too when you get out of

748
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: a relationship with a nigga, even if y'all got a

749
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 3: baby together, as long as he taking care of his kids,

750
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: he don't all younsing long is he doing for his

751
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 3: son or his daughter?

752
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 2: Rights all that mattered.

753
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 3: He's not obligated to do for you because y'all lay

754
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: down and had a baby together.

755
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 2: If y'all not fucking with.

756
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 3: Each other, all right, but you should make sure that

757
00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 3: what she did say in her post too, that they

758
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 3: was just fucking with each other nine months ago. So

759
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 3: apparently he was just fucking with her and then he got.

760
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: But why he was with mag now you know what, well,

761
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: we ain't gonna even get in glad my good sister

762
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: got out of that whole miss because she is you know,

763
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: I love the stallion soul girl.

764
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: She in the water playing with college period.

765
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: So but no, I just feel like not saying that

766
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: he needs to take care of his baby, mama, but

767
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: you should make sure that your children are living up

768
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: to the standard as you are, they have somewhere nice

769
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: to live, they have make sure that they have somewhere

770
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: to travel around with their mom. They should be.

771
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 3: I agree with that, But at the end of the day,

772
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 3: just being a person that's on the outside looking in,

773
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 3: I would assume that she probably do have a car.

774
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 3: It just ain't a limbo truck. So she feels some

775
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 3: type of way. And if that's the case, then that

776
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 3: childish because he not with you no more, so he

777
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: don't owe you a lambo.

778
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: No.

779
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: I agree with that, But like I said, I get

780
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: I get it because I'm.

781
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: Not gonna lie if I had a kid for you

782
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: know how, I.

783
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 3: Don't get it because I literally would not give a fuck.

784
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 3: Like I literally can see myself being the type of

785
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 3: person if I had a baby with a nigga and

786
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 3: then me and a nigga not together no more long

787
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 3: as me and my kid is straightening, he doing what

788
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 3: he needs.

789
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 2: To do for my kids.

790
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: But but to right, I see, I get what you're saying,

791
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 3: But to.

792
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: Me, it seems how I'll be able to give me

793
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 2: another nigga.

794
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: Right, I feel like for her, I feel like she

795
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: still has feelings for him, and I think that's a big.

796
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: That's a big thing too. So yeah, I know I'm

797
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: going back to what I'm just saying. I just feel

798
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: like I feel like, yeah, she was a little bitter

799
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: for the ari comments, but her feelings is like, well,

800
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like her feelings were hurt.

801
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 2: And as a woman, it's normal, like yeah.

802
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: Like if I had a baby with a nigga, you know,

803
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: like we be putting our lives on the line to

804
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: have a baby. Having a baby is just not having

805
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: a fucking baby. You know how many black women died

806
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: during childbirth. That's a big fucking deal to lay down

807
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: and have a child by someone. So the fact is

808
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: you've been holding this nigga down for years, probably only

809
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: got little stuff here and there from him, and then

810
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: you see he with a girl for nine months and

811
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: she get a Lambeau truck, got a big ass chain.

812
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would feel some type of way. How could

813
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: you not. I'm not saying that I wouldn't feel no

814
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 2: type of way. But it's like beach, sometimes you just

815
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 2: gotta keep sheep playing it. Now, I agree with that.

816
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: It's like if that nigga don't fuck with you no more,

817
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 3: and he moved on to another beach. He don't move

818
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: down to another beach, find you another nigga and do

819
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: you like. But don't be on the internet crying about

820
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 3: this sheet because you look bitter.

821
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: No, I that's just the facts of the situation.

822
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: I will say this, I think the reason, but you

823
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: never know. You know how niggas be with their baby mama,

824
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: who's the same that he's still gonna be texting U do.

825
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, you ain't the

826
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 2: one he claiming you nice. I do agree with.

827
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 3: That, you're not the one he claiming So that show

828
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 3: fault if you falling into that trapping the bullshit that

829
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: he feeding you and you still fucking on him when

830
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 3: he with this girl.

831
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do just feel like, like I said, I

832
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: just feel like I think there's some emotion still there.

833
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 2: But I do agree like you always supposed to.

834
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: I ain't never let a nigga see me sweat ever,

835
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: not his bitch either, I be damn either.

836
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,280
Speaker 3: I swear to God, I will say no nigga walking

837
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 3: God's green aren't thinking it would say they don't see

838
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 3: me sweet, And we can't never say that they see

839
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 3: me sweat because I just don't.

840
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: I was I will dig my own grave and bury

841
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: myself before I have another bitch name in my mouth

842
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: on like social media. So I will say, ladies, if

843
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: you're going through a situation like something like that, just

844
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: always remember to keep it playing, Just keep it playing,

845
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: just keep it cool.

846
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like you can say ship about people,

847
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 3: you can say shit about stuff.

848
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 2: But keep it in. But even if you're gonna say

849
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: something publicly, just keep it que que.

850
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: Don't be saying no ship that make you seem like

851
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: you're a bitter ass beach like I just I don't know, Okay, Okay,

852
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: So that's all Alvis, Okay, So we're gonna get into

853
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: the hey then hey, I don't know we're about to.

854
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: So Morn said, I was about to try, but I

855
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: can't do I'm dead. Marin said he's gonna do us

856
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: a beat, y'all. So we're gonna come out with the

857
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 1: bed song for y'all, and that's gonna be all period.

858
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 6: We're gonna do it, man, We're gonna do it.

859
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 2: Maren freaking am on the beat. I can't wait to

860
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 2: say that track. Freak.

861
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 6: You need you need to get some dick.

862
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody said, oh my gosh, somebody said Marine voice.

863
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: Marin's voice made her squird. How does that make you feel? Marine?

864
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: I mean, hey, man, I don't know what to say

865
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 3: to that sexy Marin Maren. They be getting so mad

866
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 3: it is. I was on the YouTube channel the other day.

867
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 3: Somebody had left the comment and they was like, the

868
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 3: dude boys songs. The dude has a really really nice voice.

869
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Why y'all don't be showing him, y'all

870
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,439
Speaker 2: be trying to hide him. I responded, and I said,

871
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: because he's our engineer. He's not a co host. I'm dead.

872
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 2: They be mad Marine, and we don't show you a

873
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 2: man at a salute to the.

874
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 6: But I gotta understand, like I'm here to help this, y'all.

875
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: I am, damn.

876
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 3: But we love freaking we love freaking in but it's like,

877
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 3: y'all don't understand how difficult it would be to have

878
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 3: like our camera person have the angle on this. And

879
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 3: if you turning into Marine every time, then we say something, Look.

880
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: We're working with it. We're just trying, y'all. God damn,

881
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: be grateful.

882
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 6: I appreciate.

883
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,479
Speaker 3: And we're not trying to hide him. We always tag

884
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 3: him all the time, So y'all can follow him.

885
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 2: The ladies love Freaky Ill freym got his own little

886
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: fan base. We're gonna make you a shirt. Okay. So

887
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: we're gonna talk about kitty maintenance today.

888
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about all good things of taking care

889
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: of your vagina. So you go first, cause I know

890
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: you the kitty queen that guardfield be slickily shine.

891
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 6: Right.

892
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: Okay. So I just feel like number one, you need

893
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: to make sure that thing.

894
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 6: Okay, man, I agree with that.

895
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 2: Make sure that thing don't stank.

896
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 3: Make thank I mean think of thinking they can just

897
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 3: rice some summer's even down, bitch.

898
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 2: No, that's just gonna mask. You don't need the mask.

899
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: You need to get rid of it, okay, Okay, So

900
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: how do we get rid of the stanky pussy? If

901
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: your pussy you need to go to the doctor.

902
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: Oh okay. So you can't give advice on that, No,

903
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 2: I can't. I'm sorry. I can't help you with it.

904
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 3: If you're gonna need to go to your local gnacologies,

905
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 3: So I can't help you with it. But if you're

906
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 3: pussy sank on some real ship off for real, if

907
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 3: your pussy sank, you do need to go to the doctor, Okay,

908
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 3: because your pH is off. Number one, your pH might

909
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: be all for number two, you might have an STD.

910
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 3: Them the only two reasons why your pussy was saying. Honestly,

911
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 3: if your pH is off, you know your doctor can't

912
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 3: prescribe you some antibiotics or whatever. And also, but you know,

913
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 3: it is a lot of home remedies that you could

914
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,959
Speaker 3: do for like your pH to be balanced or whatever.

915
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 3: Like I like to use T tree oil suppositories. Recently,

916
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 3: I've been reading up on boric acid suppositories, but I'm

917
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: not really one hundred percent sure about them yet, so

918
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 3: I'll get back to y'all.

919
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 2: Back to y'all on that. That's why I haven't promoted

920
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 2: it or yet.

921
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 3: Okay, so those are two things that supposedly you could

922
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: do to kind of keep your pH balance. You can

923
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 3: also use apple cider, vinegar and peroxide down there.

924
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: You can use it for the wounds and ship. Yeah,

925
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: like if it goes.

926
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 3: No bork acid is to kill rats, but bitch just

927
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 3: be putting in maybe al right, But that's why I

928
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 3: said that. That's why I said, I'm still kind of

929
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 3: on the fence about But apparently it's only lethal if

930
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 3: you ingested.

931
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha, okay, so let me I'll give a few

932
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: a few tips as well. I'll mostly talk about the

933
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: the cosmetology side of it, how to have a pretty kitty.

934
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 2: So my thing is is one I feel like, ladies,

935
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: please wax.

936
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: I think waxing is so much better than shaving because

937
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: when you shave, you have to do it so frequently,

938
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: and that's what causes your skin to be dark. Those

939
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: dull razors on your skin, that's causing ingrown hairs, It's

940
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: causing razor bumps, and it's making your kouchie dark.

941
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: And we don't like that. We want to you know,

942
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 2: you want your koochie to match the rest of your body.

943
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

944
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: What if they can't afford to wave? So if you

945
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: can't afford to wax, Yeah, waxing is expensive. So people

946
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: who can't afford waxing. I feel like if you are shaving,

947
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,720
Speaker 1: you need to use the proper products. Don't be shaving

948
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: down there with soap, Use shaving cream. Make sure you

949
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: use a fresh razor every single time. You need to

950
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: use a new razor every time you shave your pussy.

951
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: It needs to be a sharp, sharp, sharp razor. I

952
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: do not recommend shaving, but if you have to shave,

953
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: those are the tips that I give you exfoliate. People

954
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: think just because you're shaving, you can exp you don't

955
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: have to exfoliate and do that. No, you need to

956
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: make sure you're not getting ingrown hairs because a lot

957
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: of times when you're shaving, you're messing up that first

958
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: layer of skin. So your skin is gonna try to

959
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: heal itself, so it's gonna skin is growing over your pores,

960
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: so when that hair tries to come out, that's what's

961
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 1: causing ingrown hairs. So you need to get that dead

962
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: skin off and make sure you're exfoliating, especially if you wax.

963
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 1: Please exfoliate your COUCHI y'all, like that's like that's the

964
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: best thing I can say. Exfoliate your kuchie, Like you

965
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: have to exfoliate your kuchi, y'all.

966
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 3: I have like this little brush, and maybe I could

967
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 3: put the link to like my Amazon storefront on this episode,

968
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 3: so y'all can go to the link and buy the brush.

969
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 3: But it's like this little brush that I use in

970
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 3: the shower. They specifically like to make sure that you

971
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 3: don't get ingrown here after you get your wax. Wax

972
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 3: I don't shake.

973
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wax as well.

974
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 3: But and another thing too, if you can't going back

975
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: to you know what I had asked you about. What

976
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 3: if you can't afford to get waxies, go on Amazon

977
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 3: to buy your x kid.

978
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: It's hard to whack yourself. I waxed myself during the

979
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: break and it was really hard.

980
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: I mean, it is hard, but it's kind of like

981
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 3: if you can't afford to pay forty dollars every you

982
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 3: know a few weeks to go and get a wax,

983
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 3: that is an alternative because it's like you could just

984
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 3: do it at home and that little one bag of

985
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 3: wax might last you for a little mini So and.

986
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,720
Speaker 1: I would suggest not to do the loot the wax

987
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: that you have to melt, because that's hard. Try to

988
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: get the wax strips that are the paper, yes, because

989
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you cannot. They're hard wax. You try

990
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 1: to do that ship yourself, you're gonna fuck your shit up.

991
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: What you mean, because it's one, it's messy. You don't

992
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: want to try to lay the strip down and you

993
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: get it on your clip and it's just messy.

994
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: You gotta make sure it's the right temperature.

995
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: I just suggest do not use hard wax if you

996
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: are not a professional, know, get the strip wax on

997
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: the paper.

998
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 2: Like please, That's why I use Yeah like that. Yeah,

999
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: so yeah, make sure you ex foliate and always moisturize.

1000
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: So there are certain moisturizers out there that are specifically

1001
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: for ingrown hairs, like you're pin Waxinger. I know they

1002
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 1: have an ingrown hair serum that I use that works

1003
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: really fucking well.

1004
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 3: I used the PFB Brightening roll on serum that I've

1005
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 3: talked about so many times on the show.

1006
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 2: And I'll put that It's on my Amazon store, so yeah,

1007
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 2: we'll put the link in the bios. So, yeah, it

1008
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: makes you. But it's like a chemical peel for time.

1009
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 2: So have you ever like bleached your butthole or bleached

1010
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: your vagina?

1011
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 3: No, but I actually was thinking about it like three

1012
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 3: years ago and me and like this is before you

1013
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 3: moved here, and some of the girls I was cool with,

1014
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 3: We thought about having like an anal bleaching party. I'm

1015
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 3: dead and like bleaching each other's assholes.

1016
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 1: I think I would want a professional to do that,

1017
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: but they have kids you could buy. Yeah, I just

1018
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: want to trust you in my booty hole. You might

1019
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: try to slide something in there.

1020
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so you know what, maybe I'll try to.

1021
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: Bleach my asshole in these next couple of weeks and

1022
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: I'll let y'all know how it goes. But yeah, matenance

1023
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: for the kiddy xfoliate, trot to wax if you can.

1024
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: If you can't, and you have to shave, make sure

1025
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: you use a fresh rasor every time you shaving cream.

1026
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: Don't be shaving down there with soap. And uh yeah,

1027
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: take care of y'all.

1028
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:23,959
Speaker 6: Kitty.

1029
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 2: What about kitty rejuvenation? Kitty rejuvenation.

1030
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm Garfield looks very good for her age, so I've

1031
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: never had to do anything to like agree, I've never

1032
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: had to do anything like as far as like cosmetically,

1033
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: like surgically or go and get like any like laser

1034
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: treatments on it because Garfield still got her you know,

1035
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: she's still pretty puffy down there, she's got her fat.

1036
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 2: She's real good. Yeah.

1037
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 3: I agree about the same thing with mine too. I

1038
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,240
Speaker 3: just feel like kitty rejuvenation is something that that's a conversation.

1039
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 2: Maybe we can't revisit after wick one of us have

1040
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:56,359
Speaker 2: a kid.

1041
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, we don't have kids, because then maybe

1042
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 3: it will be like a difference in my vagina, or

1043
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 3: I'll feel like it's a difference to where I need

1044
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,240
Speaker 3: to go get it back, tightened up or rejuvenated.

1045
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: But for now that thing ain't be snapping back. All

1046
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: these dicks be taking I'm dead. Okay, So now we're

1047
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: gonna get into the bop up the week? Do you

1048
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: please say you got a bop?

1049
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: This week? I got a bob and I hate you

1050
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 2: because you ain't. I did not have one in two weeks.

1051
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 2: On the week before, I wasn't even here period, Diamond

1052
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: was here, Diamond was I wasn't here. Oh get sassy.

1053
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: First of all, you need to shut up.

1054
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: It is last week I didn't have a vibe. But

1055
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 3: then I agree with Marine because I forgot about.

1056
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah album. So excuse me that my.

1057
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: Mind went blank and I forgot. I forgive you, thank you.

1058
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 3: So this week I have so this week my bop

1059
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 3: is Deeper by Summer Walker.

1060
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: Now you took mine, that's all right, don't worry, I

1061
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: have another. What do you know? So Deeper by Summer

1062
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 2: Walker is my box this week. I love that fucking song.

1063
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: It's just such a good song.

1064
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: And to me honestly, probably the only good song all right,

1065
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 3: except for the one with Party next Door.

1066
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: I like the whole project, y'all know, Yeah, I do,

1067
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: I do. I'm a Summer Walker stand though, so I'm

1068
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1069
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a staying too. But I'm just not

1070
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 2: gonna lie. It just wasn't giving. It just wasn't giving me. No,

1071
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: it wasn't like over it. Yeah, it wasn't giving what

1072
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: over it was giving. And it's just not what I expected. Yeah,

1073
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 2: that's what I said at easy on Her, I do.

1074
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 2: I get it.

1075
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go easy on it because I still love

1076
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 3: Summer I fuck with Summer Walker, but yeah, I honestly those.

1077
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: Two songs kind of you know, so Deeper Deeper by

1078
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,959
Speaker 1: Summer Walker. And let me just add this is totally

1079
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: off topic, but to me, her nose settled and it.

1080
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: Looks very nice. It does. It looks very good now,

1081
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: Like at first I was kind of like, but it's

1082
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 2: settled down there. Okay, bad.

1083
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: So my bop of the week is by Snow Allegra.

1084
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: She just dropped a single call Dying for Your Love,

1085
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: and that whole is amazing.

1086
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 2: I like she had to grow on me. At first.

1087
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: At first I wasn't feeling it, but I was like, Okay,

1088
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: mama got something I like, super talented, So yeah, that's

1089
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: my bop of the week.

1090
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 2: Snow Allegra Dying for Your Love. I love it.

1091
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: I think it's a very like I don't know, she

1092
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: just hits it with her lyrics every time. She's a

1093
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: fucking lyrics relatable. I don't know if she's writing or

1094
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: somebody else is writing for her, but whoever is doing

1095
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: it is doing a damn good child because they beget

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00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: me and my feelings.

1097
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'll be in my fields.

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00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, shout out to snow Allegra Dying for Your Love.

1099
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: That's the bop of the week.

1100
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 2: What you got Maria in Man.

1101
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 7: My buff of the week goes to the Hollie RP

1102
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 7: Juice World Legs Never Die Well.

1103
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 6: They released his album and the song on there that.

1104
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 7: I really fuck with the most as bad energy.

1105
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,959
Speaker 6: Okay yeah, RP Juice World, Long Live Juice World.

1106
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 7: Had the pleasure to meet Juice World.

1107
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 2: Damn that shit crazy Yeah, very crazy.

1108
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 7: And also if I could do an honorable mention, definitely

1109
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 7: just want to shout out little Marlowe.

1110
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was gonna say that too. That's it.

1111
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 2: That's just sad. That's very said. Twenty twenty has been

1112
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,399
Speaker 2: a hell of a year man. Yeah he was only

1113
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 2: twenty seven.

1114
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:17,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1115
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: Remember he had that song with Gucci Maine and on

1116
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 3: the Quality Control album.

1117
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: It was like the twenty seventeen.

1118
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 3: Quality Control Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that Soing with

1119
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 3: Gucci Maine and I think maybe it was a little

1120
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: baby too, but that was my song, like and then

1121
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:31,919
Speaker 3: soaking Wet.

1122
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 2: That was all something that was Oh that was his Ah, damn,

1123
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 2: that shit fucked up. There was a ball.

1124
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: Shout out to you know, I'm gonna be I don't

1125
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: know all these rappers, you know, he like an Atlanta list.

1126
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, see I didn't know.

1127
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: Damn, so well that was my baba the wig won't

1128
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: we He was only like twenty seven, damn. Yeah, I

1129
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: knew he was twenty seven, but I didn't know what

1130
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: song he had. You know, I don't be keeping up

1131
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: with like the rap music. Yeah, so yeah, but damn

1132
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: that shit is fucked up. Yeah. Rest in peace to

1133
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: him and prayers to all his friends and his family

1134
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: and all them. So Okay, so we're getting to the

1135
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: question segment this week, y'all listen to me.

1136
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 2: Please. I love y'all.

1137
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: I love y'all so much. Seriously, y'all get to a minimum.

1138
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: Y'all literally give me air and my lungs. I'll be

1139
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: having some bad days. I'll be having some bad days sometimes,

1140
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: like a lot of times, I just like look at

1141
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: the numbers of poor minds. I read y'all's messages and

1142
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: it literally like wakes me up in the morning and

1143
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 1: gets me started.

1144
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 2: But let me say this, y'all.

1145
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: I ask y'all, when y'all sending y'all questions, please try

1146
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: to keep it to a paragraph. Y'all be sending like

1147
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: three page long and we be trying to get through it,

1148
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: and were trying to get through everybody. We are so behind.

1149
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: Trust me, were gonna catch up on everybody's emails. I

1150
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 1: promise you that, But like I said, please try to

1151
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: keep it to one or two paragraphs. Okay, So if

1152
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: you want your question to answered on the show, make

1153
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 1: sure you email us that ask poor Minds at gmail

1154
00:48:59,000 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: dot com.

1155
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 2: So you're gonna go first, Go ahead, okay.

1156
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 3: Insecure season four, I'm trying to win Insecured season four, Hey,

1157
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 3: Drea and Lys. I love the show and y'all are

1158
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 3: one of my favorite podcasts to listen to. Sorry, if

1159
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: this is long, I'm.

1160
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 6: Dead, you might wanna take your mask off for this one.

1161
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 2: I'm dead.

1162
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 3: All I'm gonna say is y'all be knowing the shit long,

1163
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 3: so stop typing these long ass messages anyway. But I

1164
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 3: need y'all's help. I have a friend who I've known

1165
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 3: for about eleven years. We've been through our fair share

1166
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,240
Speaker 3: of toxic dudes together, but y'all, I'm tired of the ghetto.

1167
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 3: She has shown a lot of growth over the years

1168
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 3: and every aspect of her life except for the men

1169
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 3: that she deals with and how she deals with them.

1170
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 3: We had an argument about three months ago where she

1171
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 3: informed me she was back mixing with this one LBN

1172
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 3: little Broken Nigga shout out to Drea up and she

1173
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 3: tried to make it seem like he was in a

1174
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,919
Speaker 3: one sided relationship with her and she doesn't care. I'm

1175
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 3: just like, I'm not policing, y'all. Pussy, But we're damn

1176
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 3: near thirty. What did you gain from fucking with him again?

1177
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 3: You're still giving him time and energy and pussy If

1178
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 3: you're not committed or not. He got everything he wants.

1179
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 3: Why are we still letting niggas drive our car? In

1180
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 3: twenty twenty, y'all, I was dragging her ass until I

1181
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 3: realized I'm bothered.

1182
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:24,879
Speaker 2: I'm really bothered by.

1183
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 3: Her being back with him, and it's only because she

1184
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 3: puts the blame on me, like I have to save

1185
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 3: her and my ass try to save her every time

1186
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 3: she does things like getting overly intoxicated, leaving me to

1187
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 3: take care of her, posting things on social media about

1188
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 3: me not being there to stop her bad decision making

1189
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,399
Speaker 3: the secondhand embarrassment.

1190
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 2: It's really not cute or fuddy.

1191
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 3: I finally got fed up with her putting me in

1192
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 3: awkward places and predicaments and never never taking accountability for

1193
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 3: herself and these men y'all. In our last combo, I

1194
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 3: told her she needed therapy and I needed her to

1195
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 3: be cold, and I don't need her to be depending

1196
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 3: upon me because I don't have the mental capacity for it.

1197
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 3: She taught me to pay for her therapy sessions like

1198
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 3: I'm one of the dudes, only she only getting bubblegum

1199
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 3: and dick from and I was highly offended. Recently, she

1200
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 3: has been reaching out after I cut off communication, and

1201
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 3: I really don't know if I'm ready to be her

1202
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 3: friend again or if we'll ever be friends again. I

1203
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 3: have been discussing things with my therapists and realized I

1204
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 3: do miss my friend, But how can how can I

1205
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 3: tell if we've really just grown apart? How can I

1206
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 3: stop playing super saber hole and separate our dating life

1207
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 3: discussions if she never steps out of the wanting a

1208
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 3: BDB side of dating? Do y'all think this is a

1209
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 3: friendship that could be that should be rekindled? Signed feeling

1210
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 3: like Issa and Moley.

1211
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 2: I'm dead.

1212
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: So I feel like one thing I had to learn

1213
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: because I feel like me Andrea went through this. You

1214
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: cannot police your friends pussy like let people do. What

1215
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: I mean, the only time, like I feel like you

1216
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: should give your friend advice is when they asked for it.

1217
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,959
Speaker 1: Like if you see your friend doing something and fucking

1218
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 1: with a nigga, she don't got no business fucking with you.

1219
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 1: Just really got to mind your business, you know what

1220
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like we grown women, I feel like sometimes

1221
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: we overstep our boundaries. But you can't want more for

1222
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: somebody if they don't want more for themselves. So like

1223
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: for example, like at the time when I moved out here,

1224
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: I was fucking with this nigga who was just like

1225
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: not doing shit for me and not helping me, and

1226
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: it would make me mad when Drea would be like, Lex,

1227
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 1: stop doing that.

1228
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1229
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 1: But it's like you wanted more for me, but at

1230
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: the time, I didn't want more for myself because I

1231
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: didn't see what I needed, you know what I'm saying.

1232
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: So it's like when you're dealing with your friends and

1233
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: guys that they're dating and things that they're going through,

1234
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: unless they ask you for advice, you really just, unfortunately

1235
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: kind of gotta keep your mouth shut.

1236
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 3: And I feel like as far as your friend go

1237
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: herbing and fucked up predicuments with niggas and you know,

1238
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 3: trying to place the blame on you again, like going

1239
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 3: back to what Lick said, we were in a position

1240
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 3: like that too, and I just feel like she definitely

1241
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 3: got to accept accountability. I feel like me and Lex

1242
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 3: got into a good position, got into a better position

1243
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 3: with our friendship when I started realizing it, like Okay, yeah,

1244
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 3: she gave me certain advice and I listened to certain

1245
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 3: advice that she was telling me, and I feel like

1246
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 3: because I and I felt like because I did.

1247
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: That's why things weren't favorable for me.

1248
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 3: But at the same time, you gotta you gotta be

1249
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 3: a grown ass woman and accept the fact that like, Okay, yeah,

1250
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 3: you listen to your friend, but ultimately decisions be yours

1251
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 3: to make. So if some shit fucked up sheit going

1252
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 3: on in your life and she ain't going away that

1253
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 3: you wanted to go, beat you out of look in

1254
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 3: the mirror and be like, Okay, well, what did I

1255
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 3: do wrong?

1256
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 2: What was my part in this situation?

1257
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 3: Because all this person did was tell me their opinion

1258
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 3: and give me the advice, right, But the decisions that

1259
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 3: I decided to take and things that I decided to

1260
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 3: do on my own was my decision. So you have

1261
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 3: to take accountability for sometimes shit being fucked up in

1262
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 3: your life and she not going away that she wanted

1263
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 3: to go. It's not your friend fault because ultimately decisions

1264
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 3: is always yours, right, Amaze.

1265
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: And Also, I think if you miss your friend, I

1266
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 1: think I think it's not a problem you talked about

1267
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: that you do therapy. Maybe y'all should try to go

1268
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: to therapy together. I feel like therapy is not just

1269
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 1: for you know, couples and you know people by themselves. Like,

1270
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 1: you can do therapy with your friend if you feel like,

1271
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's a relationship that you want to say, go.

1272
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 2: To betterhelp dot Com. You know, slash poor minds. Y'all

1273
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 2: can do.

1274
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not even being funny, like y'all can use

1275
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: the poor Mind's discount and y'all can do y'all therapy together.

1276
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: Y'all can do a via zoom or y'all can be

1277
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: together doing it. I think that it's a good idea

1278
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: to do therapy together. Yeah, because I'm not apposed to

1279
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: do it.

1280
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 2: I haven't. I don't feel like I've had to do

1281
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 2: therapy with any of my friends.

1282
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 3: But I'm not apposed to it, and honestly, sometimes I

1283
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 3: feel like it could make your friendship and stronger and better.

1284
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: So did you want to read this one? Yeah? I

1285
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 2: read it because I'm not. I just want to get

1286
00:54:56,040 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 2: it over with. Here goes nothing again. This ain't nothing

1287
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: sis this alone one. But this is our girl. So yes,

1288
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:05,479
Speaker 2: but you are girl.

1289
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 3: Hey, ladies, I want to ask you to help me anonymously.

1290
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 2: I wrote this.

1291
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,760
Speaker 3: I wrote to you a while back about a crazy situation,

1292
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 3: and your simple advice made me laugh and realize what

1293
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 3: I needed to do, and I figured I write in again.

1294
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 3: This story is long, and I know you hate long emails,

1295
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 3: so I'll try to keep it as.

1296
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,959
Speaker 2: Short as possible, since you did not try that hard.

1297
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 3: I grew up in a two parent household with my

1298
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:37,240
Speaker 3: older sister and religious parents. Never missed the meal, always

1299
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 3: had nice things, always taking care of. Even though my

1300
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 3: parents were strict as hell, I didn't miss or needed anything.

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00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 3: When I was twenty two, a random man sent me

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00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 3: a message on Facebook telling me he was looking for

1303
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 3: me for a while and his search may be over.

1304
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 3: He was looking for lost family. I was curious and

1305
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 3: I did end up calling him when he told me

1306
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 3: a lot of things about my family members on my

1307
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 3: mom's side of the family, and he said I am

1308
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 3: your real father. I confronted my mom immediately on it,

1309
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 3: and she said, you know, people like the start sheet

1310
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 3: and catfish online. I know who he is, but I

1311
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 3: never slept with him. Of course, I believed my mother

1312
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 3: over the stranger. He insisted my mother was lying and said,

1313
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 3: let's meet and take a DNA test please. I know

1314
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 3: you're my daughter. So I did, and I didn't tell

1315
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 3: my mom. A week later, I found out the stranger

1316
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 3: was indeed.

1317
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 2: My father, and my mom like, ooh, it is too hot.

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00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 3: I immediately called my mom and dad one speaker and

1319
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 3: confronted her very upset and told him everything. My dad

1320
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 3: that raised me is the only man I called dad.

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Speaker 2: By the way, let's call my biological father Pony.

1322
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 3: So my mom has no choice but to admit sleeping

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00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 3: with Pony, and my dad was heartbroken and this was

1324
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:50,359
Speaker 3: the cause of my parents' divorce. Oh wow, So I'm

1325
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 3: feeling guilty about that. I'm mad at my mom for

1326
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 3: lying to me. My sister immediately trousies and hated me

1327
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 3: for even investigating and stopped talking to me. It was

1328
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 3: and still is amiss, even almost thirteen years later. I

1329
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 3: haven't spoke to my sister since then.

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Speaker 2: Damn for thirteen years.

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00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:10,280
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, girl to enerject, but damn, my parents got divorced,

1332
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 3: and my mom treats me like the black sheep because

1333
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 3: I was the one who exposed her.

1334
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 2: Well.

1335
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 3: I told my mom a few months ago that I

1336
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 3: wanted us to go to therapy together or we couldn't

1337
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 3: speak ever again because our relationship is too toxic and

1338
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 3: we need professional help. She said no, so she basically

1339
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 3: told me she didn't want to speak again so for

1340
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 3: a few months.

1341
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 2: So a few months ago, my sister and I tried

1342
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 2: to talk.

1343
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: And I have a niece that I swear in her

1344
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: ten years of life, I've seen her about five times.

1345
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: My sister is really upset with me for exposing my

1346
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: mom and can't get over it.

1347
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 2: But we tried to talk.

1348
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 3: I spoke to some family in another state who told

1349
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 3: me that my mom told them that she and my

1350
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 3: dad got divorced because my dad was abusing her.

1351
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 2: She lied again to make herself look innocent.

1352
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 3: I immediately told him the truth about Pony being my

1353
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 3: real father, and I texted my mom and pretty.

1354
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 2: Much called her the scum of the arts for doing that.

1355
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 3: I know I was wrong, but I was so angry

1356
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 3: for her trying to make my dad look bad to

1357
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 3: cover up her life. She screenshot to text to my sister,

1358
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 3: who then cursed me out, saying she never wants to

1359
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 3: speak to me again and I can never speak to

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00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 3: my niece again. My mom has always bad mouthed me

1361
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 3: to my sister, and according to my sister's husband. She

1362
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 3: tells my sister not to talk to me and tells

1363
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 3: my niece I'm ugly and I'm a bad person. Oh

1364
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 3: my niece is ten. So all this to say, I

1365
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 3: do wish that I could get my sister to understand

1366
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 3: my side. Sisters are supposed to be close and sisters

1367
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 3: are supposed to be best friends. I've never had that

1368
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 3: because of my mom. She got what she wanted. So

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00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 3: I guess my question is do I try to savage

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00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 3: what we have, savage what I have with my sister,

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00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 3: or do I just let it go because I know

1372
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 3: she's going to have my mom in the back of

1373
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 3: her head talking smack about me.

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Speaker 2: PS.

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Speaker 3: I know your show is supposed to be fun and lighthearted,

1376
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 3: but I did want to write in because I know

1377
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 3: you guys do touch on family topics and tough discussions.

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00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 2: So if you were in my what would you do

1379
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 2: well for me?

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Speaker 1: Being that I have a sister, and me and my

1381
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: sister are super fucking close, and I have two nephews,

1382
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 1: and I couldn't imagine my sister telling me I couldn't

1383
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: see my nephews again. I think that for you and

1384
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,439
Speaker 1: your sister to have a relationship, which I do think

1385
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 1: is worth pursuing and trying to salvage. I think that

1386
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to let this situation with your mom go,

1387
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: Like you have to. You have to find some way

1388
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: in your heart forgive your mom for lying about you

1389
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 1: know who your real biological father was, Like, you have

1390
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: to let that whole situation needs to be dead it

1391
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: cause you and your family are never going to come

1392
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: together and have a relationship if you can't let it go.

1393
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 2: So you need to make sure you're over that and

1394
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 2: let that shit completely go.

1395
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like, yeah, I feel like, you know,

1396
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: you only get one sister or you know, I don't

1397
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: know how many sisters and siblings that you have, but

1398
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 1: you only get one family. So I feel like any

1399
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: time that anything goes, I feel like anything can be salvage.

1400
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: I feel like anything can be fixed. Nobody died, you

1401
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Nobody killed nobody, It's just family troubles.

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01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: All families have secrets. You know, I'm sure your mom

1403
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: wasn't happy about that. You know that that's how the

1404
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: secret came out. But you know, shit's fucked up and

1405
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 1: shit happened. So I feel like if y'all can all

1406
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: get in a position to really forgive. If you can

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01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 1: forgive your mom and she can forgive you and your sister,

1408
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: y'all really all have to forgive each other. And I

1409
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: think maybe you and your soil, I mean, it is

1410
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: a therapy episode. Fuck it, you and your sisters should

1411
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: try to go to therapy. I always tell people, if

1412
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: you have a relationship with somebody that you care about,

1413
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: but y'all can't ever get on the same page, go

1414
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: to fucking therapy.

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01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 2: Bruh, Like it's not the way.

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01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 3: Y'all go to therapy and you can't you feel like

1417
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,439
Speaker 3: you can't work it out or can be selfish, Okay,

1418
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 3: then cool, right, it's okay to walk away at that point,

1419
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 3: But don't. I'm a firm believer too, Like, when you

1420
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 3: love people and you care about people, don't give up

1421
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:03,920
Speaker 3: on or relationships with people until you've literally exhausted.

1422
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 2: All of your own.

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01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: And I feel like one thing with therapy is like

1424
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: you can really see a person's other side, because when

1425
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking to somebody, we're most likely arguing, and I'm

1426
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: not trying to hear what you're trying to say. I'm

1427
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: trying to project and let you know how I feel,

1428
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: so you know, but when you're I know, I'm dead.

1429
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 1: So when you're in therapy with somebody, you actually sit

1430
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: there and that person is not being so emotional, but

1431
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: they're really telling you how they feel, so you can

1432
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: really see where they're coming from, cause they're not telling

1433
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: you this because they're trying to go off on you

1434
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: and make a point. They're really just telling you how

1435
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: they feel. Like therapy is just the whole nother world.

1436
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: So I feel like you and your sister it's definitely

1437
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: something that could be salvage there. But you have to

1438
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: make sure that you're over the situation with everything with

1439
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: your dad, and hopefully if you and your sister can

1440
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: come around, you know you and your mom will come

1441
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: around as well.

1442
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 2: So good luck with that sister. That's crazy, Yeah, I agree.

1443
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 2: I just think y'all definitely need to try to go

1444
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 2: to therapy.

1445
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 3: To me, that's the obvious answer to everything, because I mean,

1446
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 3: I would never be a person that agrees and feels

1447
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 3: like you should just cut.

1448
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 2: Off your mom and not talk to your mom no more.

1449
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 2: But I do understand why your mom is upset because

1450
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 2: it's like I'm dead, but she was wrong for lying

1451
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 2: to you.

1452
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 3: So I mean, at the end of the day, what

1453
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 3: she's supposed to do, keep your keep, keep the truth

1454
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 3: a secret to save her, Like, oh, you gotta say

1455
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 3: what you gotta say, you gotta do what you gotta do.

1456
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 3: But I feel like as your mom, she should be

1457
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 3: able to forgive you. So maybe that's another reason why

1458
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 3: y'all need to go to therapy, because your mom obviously

1459
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 3: needs to mature a bit, because she's obviously very immature

1460
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 3: to be upset with you if I said, and then

1461
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 3: to be trying to infiltrate your your sister mine with

1462
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 3: bullshet and make you try to make your sister I'll

1463
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 3: fuck with you, but then your sister also kind of

1464
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 3: weak too. Well, don't get me wrong, I ain't a

1465
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 3: therapy so trying to get inside week a week in

1466
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 3: the mind too to be a lot on y'all mom

1467
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 3: to like a fit her because I'll say hard to

1468
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 3: not fuck with you, right, because I love my mom

1469
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 3: to dead. I'm not gonna lie.

1470
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: If my mom told me to stop talking to my sister,

1471
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm like fucking crazy, I will never stop talking. And

1472
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: if my sister told me stop talking, my mom looking

1473
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: at the same way, there's nothing in this world that

1474
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: can come between you know, me and my relationship with

1475
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: my family.

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01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: So I agree with Dre. I feel like y'all should

1477
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 2: probably go to therapy.

1478
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 1: But I always feel like family, especially sisters, like I

1479
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: am obsessed with my sister, I'm obsessed with my mom.

1480
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 2: I love my family.

1481
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: I love my nephews just so much. So I feel

1482
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 1: your pain because I could not. I'm going through it

1483
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 1: already because I can't see my nephews because it's quarantine mass,

1484
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: So I can only imagine how you feel not even

1485
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: be able to FaceTime them or talk to them. So yeah,

1486
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: I think it's definitely worth salvaging. You know, you only

1487
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: get one family, so uh yeah. So make sure y'all

1488
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 1: emails y'all's questions to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1489
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:55,480
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Speaker 2: Yes, thank you. Read the third question. I'm tired. Oh

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01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 2: I got to sing? No, I'm not.

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01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 3: I'm why she did me today? This home said, Oh,

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01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 3: you can read the first two. I'm gonna read the

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01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 3: last week and y'all to go to the house.

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Speaker 2: I got a good song today. I'm just sing a

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01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 2: little bit. This has been on my No. No, why

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01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 2: you're not gonna that's my favorite song? Well, I'm gonna

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01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 2: sing this, but you read a question so you can

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01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 2: at least sing my favorite. I want to sing this

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Speaker 2: song because this is how I feel right now. Please, no,

1514
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 2: God damn it. Can I sing my goddamn song?

1515
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 5: You made me want to leave, use the one them

1516
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 5: with and start a new relationship with you.

1517
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 2: This is what you do. I think of Manning and

1518
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 2: all my things coming along with you make me, You

1519
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 2: make me. I just want to give them a little bit.

1520
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 1: That's all you gonna do, you boy, anything came between

1521
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 1: us and you would like my best friend on the

1522
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: one of you sur running talk to and me and

1523
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 1: my squirrel was having problems.

1524
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 2: I used to say, it'll be okay, so just lett

1525
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 2: all nice things. I ship there. And when I go

1526
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 2: home and I in my head down and I seen

1527
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 2: nothing about with you?

1528
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 1: How you make me want to leave the one on

1529
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: it and start a new relationship.

1530
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, beautiful, beautiful that's.

1531
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:53,919
Speaker 5: How I feel right now. You know, we'll talk about

1532
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 5: it next week. We'll talk about it next week. Thank

1533
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 5: y'all so much.

1534
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 2: Until I am h