WEBVTT - Perspektives with Bank LIVE 0:00:01.120 --> 0:00:04.760 It gets no better than this. You are now in 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.640 June to perspect Us with big. 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:11.240 Let's get straight to it. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.480 We're not gonna love you till you love yourself. They're 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.919 not gonna support you till you support yourself. Make sure 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.360 you love yourself first. Always support yourself first. Be your 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:22.079 number one fan, your number one supporter. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:24.800 Be selfish. 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:29.320 Hey, y'all, welcome to Perspectives live with Bank and Chanelle, 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.600 and we have our amazing guests here. We are at 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:38.919 the gallery Anderson Smith Art Gallery. Nice up here, y'all. 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:42.600 And you know, we brought the squad with us, so 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:46.360 we got Kodak in his Sunday best look at you, 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:51.280 look at you, and then we got my boot Jojo 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:55.480 fine and cute as eva. Hello, you said, and I 0:00:55.600 --> 0:01:00.680 mean and shas the man I'm in. 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:03.080 The building, shouts the model. They said, I came to 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:04.680 start some trouble, but we'll see. 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:08.440 Let's see. Hey, We're gonna do a wellness check for 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:09.360 how everybody feeling. 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:20.040 You know, I'm amazing, amazing, Okay, just in case there 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:21.959 was wonder run yea. 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:24.800 How you feeling, man? They pay that I feel good. 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:28.120 I feel the Friday. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:30.639 That's how you know, he gets too much paper. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:39.760 You ain't because what's the when they pay that shout a? 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.480 I got the money? Hey, I got any Look at you? 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.160 Look at you, Jo Joe? How you footing the baddest 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:46.199 boat equitting the game? 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:51.120 Hello, I'm good, I'm chilling. I feel good. 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:52.200 It's Friday. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:54.320 You know what? 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:54.560 You know? 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:55.360 What said? 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:58.040 It's ninety Friday? Grease what you said? 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:05.200 That song really gonna get somebody beat up? 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:06.320 For real? 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:10.120 You got a whole dude, somebody don't sing that part? 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:11.120 You my girl? 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:11.440 Uh? 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.520 What about you? Shad a song? It's just a song. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:20.000 I'm feeling good. I'm feeling very demure, you know, very cutey. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.160 Be in the art gallery, so you know the bodes 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:24.079 is fither. 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:28.200 Moderator. What we're doing? 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.000 Oh now, how the crowd feeling? How y'all feeling before 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:31.680 we get started? 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:42.720 Okay, okay, what we're doing, bro, get right to what 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:47.520 we need we're writing. No, no, no, you gotta be 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:51.240 as certain. You gotta get you gotta go, you. 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.520 Gotta go get it. I approach men all the time. 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:56.120 I have no problem with doing it like I have 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:59.160 no problem with doing it like you can sit around 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.119 and wait for them to come to you, and that's 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.960 cool if that's what you prefer. But if I see 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:08.040 something or somebody that I like, like, why gotta why 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.359 can't I approach him? That's that's something I can't do. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:14.480 I like that, I mean because they like noah, no, no, 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:15.240 I'm like why. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:18.560 Well, see, I have a different outlook on that because 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:22.040 I don't think women are supposed to chase, right, and 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:23.880 that's why a lot of these men are getting a 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:27.560 little sassy or whatever. But if you like somebody, like 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.320 I have seen a man that I liked right, and 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.320 I'm like, ooh, I got my eye on him. Prime example, 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:37.120 golf course yesterday, I spotted him when I walked in 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.360 the dull you hear me? Asked thought people in the 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.760 audience that was there. I say, oh, I'm getting his number, 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.200 and it was like, oh, I spotted him out I 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.000 pointed to him. I said, I gotta stop talking to 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:51.440 y'all because I need to go introduce myself to the 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.920 group of people. And guess who gave you their number? 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.480 The one I was interested in. Because when you see me, 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.080 you gonna look at me. I don't have to be 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:02.800 assertive and be aggressive and approach you you're gonna look 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:04.000 at me and want my you. 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:06.880 Did, but you did initiate that situation. 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:10.080 I walked up to five six million, and it. 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:13.880 Was but you. You initiated that. You gave a couple 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:15.920 of looks like, let me know you interested. 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.919 Look. I shook his hand. I shook everybody handle and 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:20.880 he grabbed tight. 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:23.280 He was like, or did you grab. 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:26.640 Ask him? 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:35.479 You gave just like I did that to the whole group. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:37.880 It wasn't a single. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:41.159 Person, did you high Hey? 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:47.560 No, I shout everybody hand. I asked everybody what they did. 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.680 I told them what I did, so I made it 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.520 like a networking move. But I knew I needed him 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:55.080 to look at me because he was gonna want my number. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:59.080 Them you still had. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:02.560 To initiate that that chase. So you didn't chase him, 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.640 but you put yourself in a position to get. 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.200 What you want, in position you walk over. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:09.920 But I'm saying, but you don't say, hey, I'm such 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:12.400 and such one man by itself or two man, Hey, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.240 I'm such and such. Nice to meet. You cannot get 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:15.200 your number. No. 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:19.240 Wait, that's confusing to men, though, because how how is 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:22.560 the man supposed to know that you want him? If 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.719 you're not showing that you want him energy. 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:27.039 You got to show something energy. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:27.880 It's energy. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.440 You don't have to approach him, but let me have 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:32.240 to show some sort of signs from across the room. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:35.520 He needs to show see the sign. 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.560 Let me, let me, let me add to what they're saying, though, 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.840 because like if if he always get approached like that, 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:44.680 like if women is just nice to him all the time, 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.360 what's gonna make you stand out? If all you're doing 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.159 I'm saying hey, every woman saying hey, then what makes 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:49.719 you special? 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:54.040 You don't look at me? Did you see me? No, 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.839 it's not the lou Guess what he asked me for 0:05:56.960 --> 0:06:00.360 my number. I didn't have to say nothing to him, 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:04.039 but hello. But I shook his hand. Fourth out of 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.480 the five people, its five men standing right there. I 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.799 talked to every man and guess what. Before I walked away, 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:12.320 he said, I'm gonna get your put it on my phone. 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:15.960 I said, absolutely, so you said, I told him after 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.479 he told me, you get what I'm saying. Like he 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.479 could have said nothing, and I would have walked away 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.520 and it would have just been I didn't get the number. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.960 So but when he said, oh, I gotta get your number, 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:29.560 and I said absolutely. So that's me reassuring him that 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:32.320 what he saw in me, I saw exactly in him. 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.400 So if you stood in the corner all night just 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.840 looking at him, every I ain't send in no corner. 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:39.520 I'm saying, do you think that would have worked? 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:41.960 I ain't, but I ain't never said it in no corner. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.440 I'm gonna walk past you and you gonna see me 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:45.680 if I want you, and I'm. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:46.520 Gonna say, I. 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:53.800 Say, it's about women picking dudes, right, And I heard 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.160 this on somewhere on somebody sent it was like. 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.080 I said, I said it, huh, I said what you 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:02.160 just said? What you're about to say? No, it was like, 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.440 if you pick a dude, right, and he sees something 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:09.200 you he don't like, he gonna he gonna exaggerate that. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.560 But if dude pick you, that mean he picked you. 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:13.200 You know what I'm saying. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:14.960 So I'm willing to take whatever coach you because I 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:15.800 already picked you. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:18.760 You you know what I'm saying. When you pick it's like 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:20.920 like you said it get kund of Sassin and now 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:21.920 it's like yeah. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:25.960 Right, yeah yeah, and that way it could go that 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.240 way too, because I've also realized like, if you do 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:32.080 approach a man like you approaching him so you you 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:36.920 like him, he may not like you, Yes, may you 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:37.720 the energy that. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:39.000 You want to like you? 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:41.640 You approach and aproach you trying to you know what 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:43.600 I'm saying, But I'm still gonna shoot my shot. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:44.040 I don't care. 0:07:44.200 --> 0:07:46.080 So thank going back to what you said, you said, 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.600 so if a dude, if you if you approach a 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:50.880 dude and it's something that he don't like about you, 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:53.640 he gonna it's gonna be exaggerated and that makes him 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:55.560 say so he's sassyf for not liking you back how 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:56.080 you like him? 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:59.080 No, so I'm not saying he's sass if he didn't 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.280 like me back. But a lot of men like I 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:04.000 have a lot of homeboys, right, and women are flying them, 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:07.320 getting them, playing tickets and doing different stuff like taking 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.760 them to dinner, walking up to them like, oh, you're 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.600 amazing number. 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.240 I'm not going to give me one second. 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.960 Brittany said she got one line for y'all. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:24.920 A man who choose this, that's it. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:26.880 Right a man, but a man have to choose you. 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:28.680 So like if I would have walked up to those 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:31.280 five men and nobody said anything to me that just 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.000 wasn't for me. I wouldn't have felt no certain type 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.480 of way because I didn't approach anybody. I spoke to everybody, 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.280 but the one that I had my eye on actually 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.880 just shook my hand a little tighter and said, I'm 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.959 gonna grab your number. And then that's when I reassured 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:49.640 him that yes, I'm interested in you as well, but 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:52.520 I'm not gonna show the first level of interest because 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:54.800 I want you to like me. I could have liked 0:08:54.840 --> 0:09:00.840 him and he could have not said anything. Dude, put 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.840 myself in an area hold on. 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:08.199 But there's sometimes you're in a situation like, for instance, 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:12.440 with my career, I'm around a lot of celebrities, right, 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:16.320 so not saying that I'm going to talk to these celebrities, 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.240 but just saying like, that's the room that I'm in. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.480 If I see somebody, these men are already looking at 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:26.440 women who look like us or just a beautiful woman 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:30.439 in general, and they're already judging that woman. They're already 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.720 looking at that woman like she just want to talk 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:35.040 to me because X, Y, and Z. So he may 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.679 not even approach you just off just because of that. 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.479 He just may think like, oh, she on some bullshit 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:42.679 just by the way you look, so he may not 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.839 even approach you because of that. You can approach a 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.720 dude and be like, oh, hey, I'm such or such, 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:50.200 and he'd be like, yeah, nah, she she she trying 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.120 to get my bread, or she just on some bullshit, 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:56.120 you know, something like that, and dismiss you. And that's cool. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:57.839 But if I want to talk to you and I'm 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.079 not on that, then I'm going to introduce myself. But 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.160 I'm gonna say, hey, I think you c I like 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.360 what you got going on. My name is Jojo. I 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:05.400 would like to get to know you. 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:06.880 I don't think there's nothing wrong with that. 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:10.000 So really, it sounds like women are afraid, not not you, 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.480 but most women are afraid of rejection in that moment 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:16.320 because if, like say, the roles are reversed and it's 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:20.080 a guy walking up to a group of five women 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.200 that's walking into the lions, then if you walk into 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.840 if you're walking up to five different dudes, you got five. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:28.160 Chances of walking away with something. 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:33.760 If I'm walking up to five different women, shit, I 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.560 gotta be real precise in how I'm moving that moment question. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:39.000 It depends on a group of women you walking with 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.439 walking up to because some of these girls are being 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:43.720 say take me and my friend. All you gotta do 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:46.000 is have a little jewelry on a little ice, and 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:47.920 especially if you got a little carter, they didn't see 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.079 you walk out up. So it depends on who you walk. 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:54.080 That's not what I want. I don't want the women. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:55.720 I don't want a woman to think like that. 0:10:57.640 --> 0:11:01.760 Somebody got something to say, like so Jojo, I don't 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:06.240 think that you are wrong. I think that your approach 0:11:06.640 --> 0:11:09.280 it's probably just different from some of us that are 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.800 a little bit older, Like I am never my dad 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:13.960 was like, you don't approach me. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:15.559 That's how I was raised. 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:19.320 But like Chanelle said, if I see someone that I'm 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:22.640 interested in, I'm gonna walk past you, give you a 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:26.440 little smile, give you a little razzle dazzle, and hopefully 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:30.120 you will approach me. But if not, I'm moving on. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:31.360 So I just think that this. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:33.720 Depends on where you're coming from. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:35.439 Like, I don't think you're wrong. 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.480 I just think that we're just different, Like it's just 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.680 different generations. 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.920 Because y'all just more modern, Like this is more modern, 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.520 that's more a traditional way you're gonna put yourself like 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:47.880 in a line of a man versus like approaching him 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:50.880 that's more traditional but modern like all right. 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.200 So y, like neither one is wrong. 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.400 You just gotta do what works for you, you. 0:11:57.320 --> 0:11:59.719 Know what I'm saying, and jojo, I understand because you're 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.160 in a street, but like that wouldn't work in my 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:04.760 industry because that would be an hr situation. 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:07.760 So you know, I. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:11.319 Also think it depends on what what type of man 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.400 you're approaching, because, like I said earlier, if you're approaching 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.480 a man who's used to getting that type of attention, 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:22.040 then you approaching me and smiling at me, women smiling 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.600 me all the time, you don't be a little bit 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:25.800 more assertive than that if you were going to tie me. Also, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.920 I'm slow, so you like me, you got to tell 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.480 me because I don't be getting I don't be. 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.200 Catching a lot of a lot of men are slow. 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:33.680 Your pass just. 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:36.319 What I know. 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:37.960 He might be nervous like that. 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:40.080 You might intimidate him, like look at you, like you said, 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:41.679 you're beautiful, but you may be intimidated. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.440 But I know, but that's not the man for me. 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:46.960 If he's intimidated, so I don't even want him, So 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:50.800 that exes him out of the bunch for me immediately, 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.560 because see, I'm old school. I want a man that's 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:56.400 going to be a protector of provider, that is going 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:59.240 to lead the family. You can't be intimidated by me. 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.320 You need to say see me as like, oh, oh 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.680 my god, she has power for me too. Let me 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:06.680 lead us in a great direction. So if you intimidated, 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:07.800 you ain't my man. 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.800 No facts, I was just gonna piggyback off what Chanelle 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:14.160 said in the fact that I think that our age 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.960 group is a little more traditional and allowing the man 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:20.160 to be the role of being like the hunter in pursuit. 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:22.840 So you put yourself in a position to where he 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.959 saw that you were interested in him, and he was like, okay, 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:29.000 well she is putting herself right here. Let me pounce 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:30.440 on this and make sure that she know I want 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:33.360 her to. I'm also not like, I'm not gonna approach 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:36.400 a man and chase. I don't think that's the woman's role. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.520 Approaching a man and chasing is two totally different things. 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:43.600 I approaching a man sometimes for them it takes away 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:45.600 the chase. They feel like it's automatic. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.520 Oh she approached me, because if I get to know you, 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:49.760 I shake your hand and we have a simple conversation. 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.079 We had a bar, were having a conversation. We get 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.920 each other's numbers. You're gonna want to know who the 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.599 hell is that girl that walked up on me and 0:13:56.640 --> 0:14:00.400 got my number. Men do not get approached by so 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:03.280 off rip. He's gonna be like, damn, like she came 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.120 home on now she ain't she cool as fuck? 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.920 Like you know what I'm saying. They don't want to 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:09.000 know more about me, And that's where the chase come. Now. 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:10.800 It's like not going to hit her up and see 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:12.720 what she got going on or whatever whatever. It could 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:13.280 go either way. 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:15.720 But also I think the definition of the chase is 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:17.800 different because for me, if I feel like I got 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.080 to chasing women, it's almost like I have to convince 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.640 her a while I'm a good match. Whereas if like 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:26.360 this has happened last week, last weekend and Teilgate, like 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.160 the girl I met there, like I've known her for years, 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.080 But I'm like, damn, you kind of bagged me because 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:34.000 you just put yourself in a position. You put yourself, 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.080 thank you, You put yourself in a position where it's 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:41.520 like you are open to being pursued it's not you 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:45.720 chasing me, but you're kind of letting those walls down 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:48.360 and it's not as much restraint and you're letting me. 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.960 You're letting the game come to you. So like in 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.000 that moment, I feel like, damn, you kind of pulled me. 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:58.960 All right, So that's good. So that was a good conversation. 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:00.960 So it's gonna take us and the next thing. Y'all 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:04.440 mentioned careers multiple times. So is there still an expectation, 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.880 being that it's twenty twenty four going into twenty five, 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:11.120 that women should prioritize family over career and has this 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:11.960 change for men? 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:16.480 Let's go with black Bank. You said what it is, then. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:20.360 You ain't paying attention over that is. 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:25.080 There's still an expectation that women should prioritize family over career. 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:32.200 That's what's the word. I'm trying to subjective. It depends 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:34.160 on what type of dudes you is. You know what 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:37.480 I'm saying me, You do what you want to do, baby, 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.200 Just do whatever you want to be. You want to 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:41.640 be the biggest hustle, to be the bigger hoest, You 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:43.240 want to be the biggest white, be the biggest white. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:45.840 We in crewe control. Baby, do what you want to do. 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:46.600 I just don't want all. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:52.120 I think it gets tricky for women now because women 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.920 have been disappointed so much by men. So women are 0:15:56.000 --> 0:16:00.720 prioritizing career because they want to be financially situated. So 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:04.520 it actually messes up a lot of the traditional ideals 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:07.600 of relationship because now women are like, I'm the boss. 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:09.840 So now we get a little arrogant, and we get 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:13.240 a little cockier, you know, and so we take away 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:17.480 sometimes that submissive component which some men. If you like 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:20.160 a traditional man that's a provider, You don't want me 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.240 to come into the house like nigga, you get your 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.240 own socks. You get what I'm saying. You still want 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.920 me to get that. But because women have been disappointed 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.880 so much and men have let them down so much, 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:33.480 they're not willing to not make sure they get to 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:34.840 the bag. You get what I'm saying. 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:40.880 Your question question like, how do women always say and 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:43.000 we got a room full of women, I don't want 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:44.920 to start no ship, but it's the time to start it. 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.120 Women always say niggas gonna beat niggas. I just heard 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:51.000 her one of them say that over it right, Me 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:54.240 a gonna be men? Me and are men I thought 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:57.120 I heard somebody say that they know they don't get 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:03.080 don't beat me up, y'all. Ma'ma reaching up person. Look nah, 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:06.800 but they say, men, all right, what's your outlook on men? 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:07.200 First? 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:10.920 I think they're amazing. I think they're the most beautiful 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:13.200 creature that was created. But I also think they ain't 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:13.960 ship sometimes. 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:17.760 Okay, do you think man ain't ship? Give around? Applausea, 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:20.680 you think man ain't ship sometimes? 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:23.360 Let me answer the question. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:25.480 The other half. 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:28.320 Let me let me land the plane. Let me land 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:30.119 the plane. Okay. 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:34.600 If you already know your brother, you helped your brother 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:37.200 cheap your daddy, you know he wants ship. None of 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:40.480 your uncles ain't ship. What makes you think you gonna 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:41.040 find this? 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:45.240 Make up? Make believe nigga, to. 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:46.840 Make believe nigga though. 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:49.359 A nigga that you think you he gonna be everything 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:51.480 you dreamed of when you was a princess. 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:56.159 That's what said that he has to have everything or 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:58.680 he has to be let down. 0:17:58.800 --> 0:17:59.680 She said let down. 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:01.600 So I mean you could be let down but not 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:02.280 be perfect. 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:04.480 If I let you down, right, I let you down 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:06.439 with something you knew I was capable of. 0:18:06.880 --> 0:18:08.640 Well, no, so so the thing. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.720 Is that's who I am. That means you need to 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:12.080 leave me. 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:17.600 No, no, so so baby, But no, I'm saying, let y'all, 0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:20.400 I'm not saying it depends on situation, right. So I'll 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:23.120 give you an example why I'm why I'm a hustler 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:25.800 is as I got pregnant at fifteen, my son and 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.479 dad begged for my kid. The whole world thought it 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:32.120 was a bad idea. But because fifteen and in love, 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:35.360 he beg and plead and crying. And he's never did 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:39.000 nothing for that boy because I left him because he 0:18:39.200 --> 0:18:41.160 wasn't right. You get what I'm saying. So as soon 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:44.080 as I left the child you begged for and pleading for, 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:46.480 now my mama got to help me because I'm in 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:49.919 a ninth grade. That's what I mean by let down promises. 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:53.479 I was married before multiple times. I've been married four times. 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:55.919 We already know this. You get what I'm saying. So 0:18:56.200 --> 0:18:58.879 judge judging mama, don't judge me. I'm still cute, So 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:04.080 I'm looking for a husband. I'm right now, called me 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:09.200 and went forward. I had a situation where a man 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:12.160 begged me to start working. Don't work. Don't work helped 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.639 me grow my business. And then when I helped them, 0:19:14.640 --> 0:19:16.600 when they did something I didn't like and I had 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:18.760 an opinion about it, he said, oh, I'm not gonna 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:20.879 pay your bills. Well, sir, you told me start working. 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.359 How you're gonna hold my bill money on top of 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:25.520 my head? And you begged me to not work. So 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:28.000 that's what I mean. It's situational. I don't but I 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.560 don't put that on the man in an audience because 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:31.760 they never did anything to me. 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:36.560 Yeah, but a lot of that goes back to you, though, because. 0:19:36.320 --> 0:19:39.800 When you married, they say, listen to your husband, be submitted. 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:44.840 Did he did he have those qualities of a nigga 0:19:44.960 --> 0:19:46.800 that will stall you out once he told you not 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:47.120 to work? 0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:48.399 Did you see that before he did that? 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:51.000 I didn't see it because he had walked in providing. 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:54.560 He had provided everything, so I didn't have a reason 0:19:54.960 --> 0:19:58.040 to think I wasn't gonna have We had money everywhere. 0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:02.439 You get what I'm saying. But the control component with 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:04.600 the money, and that's what ended up happening. 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:07.760 I think that when you say like a man like 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:11.879 when people will be like, oh whatever, it's because of 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:14.639 that reason, like a man let a woman down. 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:16.880 It's not because that he's not perfect. 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:23.080 But if you guys have certain boundaries and understandings within 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:26.840 the relationship and you go out and just fucking blind 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:30.440 sight her and do some whole other ship that she's 0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:33.560 she's not doing that she can definitely most definitely be doing, 0:20:34.080 --> 0:20:34.879 and you're doing it. 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:36.920 It's like, well, damn, you just fucking cross me. 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:38.760 Just like if you've had a homeboy to do some 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:41.320 shit like that to cross you, you're gonna be You're 0:20:41.320 --> 0:20:44.120 gonna be good on that, man, just like how we 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:46.000 feel if a nigga do some ship, we're gonna be 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.440 good on this. Be across the boundary what it is. 0:20:49.359 --> 0:20:51.640 Okay, we got the audience, the audience trying to ask 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:52.160 her something. 0:20:53.119 --> 0:20:53.280 Yea. 0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:58.159 So I'm just listening to I know that some of 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:01.359 the things that the win women are saying and doing it. 0:21:01.640 --> 0:21:04.280 Please y'all don't jump on me. I'm just listen. 0:21:06.119 --> 0:21:10.280 It's a little contradictory because y'all want traditional values. Can't 0:21:10.320 --> 0:21:15.159 be approached traditionally, but you want to live a modern boss, lady, 0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:20.040 you can't. You can't hold on. You can't man be 0:21:20.160 --> 0:21:22.600 the boss of a man. 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:27.920 Thank you a man. Now, this is what I'm saying, 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:31.920 let me finish, Let me finish, Hold hold on a 0:21:31.920 --> 0:21:41.680 little bit. Go ahead, bro, No it's not gentleman, go ahead, 0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:42.080 go ahead. 0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:44.480 But like I was saying, like you want to be 0:21:44.520 --> 0:21:47.080 approached by the man, But when the man comes in, 0:21:47.240 --> 0:21:52.280 everything doesn goes that not you. When everything isn't exactly 0:21:52.320 --> 0:21:54.800 how you think it should be, then you're ready to 0:21:54.800 --> 0:21:57.840 tough tail and leave a man. When you're in a 0:21:57.880 --> 0:22:00.800 relationship with a man, y'all got to be team than 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:05.640 opponents facts, y'all be looking for the wind the win. 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:07.959 I gotta be one up on you. 0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:10.520 How you're gonna keep me straight? How you gonna how 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.360 you're gonna keep me straight? How we gonna keep each 0:22:13.359 --> 0:22:13.879 other straight? 0:22:14.000 --> 0:22:16.480 But everybody is are we gonna do this together? 0:22:16.920 --> 0:22:18.120 I'm with you. 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:20.760 So, But when you have a partnership and then the 0:22:20.800 --> 0:22:24.320 man doesn't do his side of the partnership, I'm not 0:22:24.400 --> 0:22:27.080 talking about a woman that's getting in a relationship. Oh 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:29.000 make sure you pay all my bills, make sure you 0:22:29.040 --> 0:22:31.480 take care of me. What am I I I gonna get? 0:22:31.520 --> 0:22:33.760 I'm talking about when we decide that we are a 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:36.720 Wii and you drop the ball on the Wii because 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.000 you want to hang out to eight nine o'clock because 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:41.680 now you ask me to start working to help build 0:22:41.720 --> 0:22:44.120 your business for you that you're trying to get off 0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:46.879 the ground and you're gonna take care of our household. 0:22:47.000 --> 0:22:50.680 But then inside your household, you're acting reckless and you're 0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:53.320 coming in doing anything. You got condoms in your car, 0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:56.840 in your pocket, and you get what I'm saying. That's 0:22:56.880 --> 0:23:00.600 what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about the that's 0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:02.680 just trying to use you, so. 0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:06.760 Doctor, hold on listen. 0:23:08.320 --> 0:23:11.760 But also it's also something to where I think I 0:23:11.800 --> 0:23:14.680 think women have to be more careful about who they 0:23:14.760 --> 0:23:17.919 choose as leaders for their household because a lot of 0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:20.600 women are going to whoever is going to pay those bills. 0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:23.400 So you didn't know what other qualities this man had 0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:25.120 as a leader, But as long as he was taking 0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:27.359 care of and paying your bills, that's all they needed. 0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:29.560 So he shows you after the fact that he was 0:23:29.600 --> 0:23:35.880 a fuck nigga. Let me let me finish, because he was. 0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:39.280 That was always him. But the other qualities never mattered 0:23:39.400 --> 0:23:41.520 until they mattered. You saw that he didn't. 0:23:42.280 --> 0:23:49.160 You can always you just can't look like smokey cruise ship. 0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:51.199 You can run them. You can beat a boss. You 0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:53.320 just can't look like you his boss. You know what 0:23:53.320 --> 0:23:57.320 I'm saying, You can't. My mom always said, my my 0:23:57.440 --> 0:24:01.439 husband is the head. Well my parents still my husband's ahead. 0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:03.000 That turns ahead. 0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:03.760 Okay. 0:24:03.840 --> 0:24:06.920 So so the boss part, right, So that's the part 0:24:06.960 --> 0:24:09.000 that I was stuck on. You said, women want to 0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:11.440 be the boss, you don't want to be traditional. Traditional. Well, 0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:14.520 to me, traditional is the man goes out and makes 0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:17.040 the money, and the woman stays home and she takes 0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:18.480 care of the house and she takes care of the 0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:19.240 of the kids. 0:24:19.280 --> 0:24:19.639 Correct. 0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:23.240 Okay, So if that's if that's way, hold on, though 0:24:24.119 --> 0:24:28.760 technically it is because the woman, like you said, she 0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:32.040 stays home while the man goes to work and make 0:24:32.080 --> 0:24:32.560 the money. 0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:33.439 Okay. 0:24:33.480 --> 0:24:35.960 So these women, some of them are saying the same thing, 0:24:36.119 --> 0:24:40.080 like they don't want to work, they want your money. 0:24:40.720 --> 0:24:42.200 It's traditional as hell. 0:24:42.320 --> 0:24:45.919 But that ain't you gonna take the bad side of tradition. 0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:55.760 Let me finish tradition ahead, let me finish. So you're 0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:58.840 saying like you want this traditional woman, and you got her, 0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:01.120 but you don't got her in the warm that you 0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:04.159 want her in. So you you bought up this, this 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:06.600 this conversation or this topic. 0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:08.320 But you're not even hearing me out. 0:25:09.600 --> 0:25:13.280 So, like I was saying, you want her to be traditional, 0:25:13.880 --> 0:25:15.240 but she is being traditional. 0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:17.720 She's just giving you a little bit. 0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:23.320 More aggression and she's a little bit more not demure 0:25:23.920 --> 0:25:27.920 then you want her to be. But that's because that's 0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:31.080 because these women aren't taking no more bullshit. Because when 0:25:31.119 --> 0:25:34.040 they were traditional back in the day, these men were 0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:37.399 still out here cheating and had multiple families and multiple whatever, and. 0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:42.240 That's tradition, right. 0:25:42.600 --> 0:25:45.480 But now but now as they do it, the women 0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.239 ain't going and they standing up for it, and they 0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:48.760 talking their ship and they popping their ship and they 0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:50.720 gonna let you know a you're doing s y Z. 0:25:51.080 --> 0:25:52.760 Make sure you bring them money home. Make sure you 0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:54.320 bring the money home. And now they popping their ship 0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:55.360 and you upset about it. 0:25:55.400 --> 0:25:58.359 But now it's called you a gold digger. So that 0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:01.639 that's the term for the traditional woman in twenty twenty four. Oh, 0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:02.720 now she'll go there. 0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:11.320 Mean me, y'all trying to justify what women he's saying. Basically, 0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:14.359 what he's saying is you can't want to want granddaddy 0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:15.400 and you don't want to be grandma. 0:26:16.040 --> 0:26:17.920 You can't. Grandma went through a lot of ship to 0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:23.320 keep granddaddy. But you brought that bag, That's what he's saying. 0:26:23.359 --> 0:26:25.720 But I get it, you can't get it. Brought that bag. 0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:28.440 The niggas bringing that bag a question? 0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:34.640 No, No, the niggas who got the money got them 0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:39.040 A grandmama who ain't playing like that, she already locked it. 0:26:39.560 --> 0:26:43.240 If a typical nigga that's handling this business, it's a 0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:45.399 woman holding on to his leg, ain't letting him go. 0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:49.359 Give her damn what he do know? They know the 0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:53.480 other side of this ship. Yeah, hold on, that's a bullshit. 0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:55.240 What y'all talking about. 0:26:55.440 --> 0:26:57.640 These niggas who ain't ship, ain't got no money, and 0:26:57.680 --> 0:26:59.480 they still want to run ship and they want to 0:26:59.480 --> 0:26:59.840 do all this. 0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.000 You fuck up. Ain't got a dick. 0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:06.879 We got make me stand up. 0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:11.840 So like, we're talking about two totally different types of people, 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:14.960 because at the end of the day, there are men 0:27:15.080 --> 0:27:18.240 that are willing to be what you need them to be. 0:27:18.320 --> 0:27:20.360 But listen, I'm a one man. 0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:22.479 I'm probably gonna get booed for this, but I'm keep 0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.360 it a buck. You can't talk to no man any 0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:27.919 kind of way and think you're gonna get a certain 0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:30.560 thing from them. And I say that because as the women, 0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:33.480 it is easier to be a boss when he knows 0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:36.840 that you're speaking to the spirit in him. Most men 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:39.240 don't know how to provide because they didn't come from 0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:42.840 no providers. Most of these men are first generation. Take 0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:46.360 care of be this, decide to be a stand up man, 0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:47.240 be a good. 0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:48.280 This out of these things. 0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:48.879 And you're. 0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:55.200 Social media has look it ain't checking if you got it, 0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:59.359 and now out here trying to compete with that, and 0:27:59.480 --> 0:28:01.960 now how that you really want to do and you 0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:05.879 have to teach it. It has to be a safe place. 0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:09.720 And most of the time because we as women look 0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:12.680 at the stuff that's online. Now I'm not talking about Shanel. 0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:15.280 I'm not talking about you Jojo. I'm just saying in general, 0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.480 there are women that they see things and now you're 0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:21.360 comparing your whole like, oh, this is what I want. 0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.280 I'm trying to compare somewhere. You can. 0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:29.320 A lot of times the issue is you I can 0:28:29.359 --> 0:28:31.159 go and put on nice clothes and I can go 0:28:31.240 --> 0:28:31.480 do this. 0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:33.159 You close. 0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:36.680 You don't clean a bathroom, you barely clean your I'm 0:28:36.760 --> 0:28:38.840 just keeping it a buck. So now you feel like 0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:42.440 you want this high dollar man, but you low value. 0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:46.040 Women because you can't do the regular things. So my my. 0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:50.040 Issue, but my it is, it is that you feel 0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:53.760 like if you go because no, Channell, no, you know 0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:58.520 how to house do all of these things, but you 0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:00.720 just came out and felt like because I got a 0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.080 nice body, whether you pay for or that God gave 0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:03.560 it to you. 0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.280 I got nice clothes. 0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:08.600 To what. 0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:12.800 You don't deserve anything everything. These people who do got 0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:14.560 this mind of God. They work for it, just like 0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:16.240 you need to put some work in it. That's how 0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:18.760 I personally, Lord. 0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:24.000 Jesus, how y'all feeling? Y'all still with us? What we're doing? 0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:28.520 Moderator, So let's go with, are we living in the 0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:31.560 day and age where it's okay to be sexually experimental? 0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:32.880 Huh? 0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:33.680 Absolutely? 0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:35.200 Who came up with that question? 0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:38.800 Question? I came away question. 0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:40.560 I came up with that question. 0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:42.280 Okay, I did it? 0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.640 So again, are we living in the day and age 0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:48.040 where it's okay to be sexually experimental? 0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:53.080 Who cares tradition? 0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:56.360 No, this is an era you can. 0:29:58.160 --> 0:29:58.880 So let's start. 0:29:59.160 --> 0:30:02.800 We're going hold on, we're gonna start with We're gonna 0:30:02.800 --> 0:30:03.600 start with you go ahead. 0:30:04.080 --> 0:30:07.880 Has the model period? No, absolutely, this is definitely the era. 0:30:08.160 --> 0:30:11.520 You can try out a lot of ship. You can 0:30:11.520 --> 0:30:13.360 be yourself like, I'm all for all of that. 0:30:14.400 --> 0:30:16.160 I need you to give us a little bit more, 0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:17.840 try all of what. Let's hear it. 0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:20.360 Whatever you want to do, Like, so what you like 0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:24.640 to do? I like girls? So you know this is 0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:26.720 one of those erarors you can actually, right, I like 0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:27.959 bad bitches, don't right. 0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:31.840 I think that was a little rejection. 0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:36.120 I'm like, no, no, no, no, no no no, that was 0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:36.960 what was given. 0:30:37.000 --> 0:30:37.960 It was given, bad bitch. 0:30:38.040 --> 0:30:40.880 But this is an error where you can really experiment, 0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:42.600 like with no judgment. 0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:43.800 So that's just an example. 0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:48.000 Like I like women, so I can experience with experiment 0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:49.400 with women without being judged. 0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:53.120 So absolutely that my people back in the back. I 0:30:53.160 --> 0:31:00.520 told you I got them in here for y'all. Yeah 0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:01.560 you do. 0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:03.400 So what you think, Jojo? 0:31:04.720 --> 0:31:04.960 Yeah? 0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:08.800 I think like sex is sex. 0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:10.560 I mean I think that's what we're talking about. 0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:13.920 I feel like when you ask that question, I'm thinking 0:31:14.440 --> 0:31:21.080 sex with the partner, like sexual experiences with your person, Yeah, 0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:24.280 like with your person, Yeah, I think I think so. 0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:28.640 I think there are some things that men may not be. 0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:31.880 Willing to try with their women because they may feel 0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:35.160 like it's crossing certain lines or certain boundaries or whatever. 0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:41.080 But it's just like I personally feel like, if if 0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:44.360 you're not going to go and do these sexual things 0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:47.520 with your partner that they want to do, then they're 0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:50.080 going to want to wander off and do those things 0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:55.040 with other people. No, because say, for instance, you're with somebody. 0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:58.960 You're with a man and he constantly likes him, right, 0:31:59.160 --> 0:32:00.000 but you, as a. 0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.160 Woman, you don't want to keep going down there for hours. 0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:03.840 He might be a type of nigga that it takes 0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:05.360 hours for him to fucking come. You know what I'm 0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:06.800 saying that you may not want to do that shit. 0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:09.760 So if you don't, then he gonna go out and 0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:13.000 find little Tasha down the street and she's gonna get off. 0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:15.880 So I just feel like, in order to just stop 0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:19.560 all of that, you gotta you gotta please your partner. 0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:23.920 I don't with it to a certain extent. I got boundaries. 0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:27.520 You hear me, don't come over here telling me you 0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:29.760 want to sleep with a boy and I watch it 0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:32.680 and I'm not interested in nothing going in my butt 0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:34.960 that hurt. If you want to go in your butt, 0:32:35.000 --> 0:32:37.200 then stick it in my butt. But I'm willing to 0:32:37.320 --> 0:32:39.320 do everything else. You hear me. 0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:40.520 Everything. 0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:43.320 I am an open butt. I have had sex in 0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.040 every airport that I've ever been in, you hear me. 0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:49.000 So I'm gonna do some shit. Whatever you want to do, sir, 0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:51.640 let's go. Just don't bring no boy up in here, 0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:54.040 and you gonna try to bring no big old thing 0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:56.280 inside of my butt because I want to be able 0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:59.360 to ship at sixty And that's what y'all ain't thinking about. 0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:05.000 It Just gonna be into. 0:33:04.840 --> 0:33:08.640 The flo's gonna come out real smooth. Yeah, all right, 0:33:08.720 --> 0:33:11.520 all that you yeah? 0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:13.520 Because I feel like I feel like if you linkoling 0:33:13.560 --> 0:33:15.960 with your partner whoever you're in the bedroom with that 0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:19.040 ship that's between y'all. Like I feel like a lot 0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:20.920 of times too many people are worried about what people 0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:22.760 outside the bedroom got to say, what they got to 0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:23.520 do in the bedroom. 0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:24.320 That ship don't matter. 0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:28.240 Like the most influential person you know could be a 0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:28.920 fucking freak. 0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:30.840 You would never know that ship. Wow. 0:33:30.920 --> 0:33:32.640 And if you didn't know, why would you know? Why 0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:35.160 would it matter to you? Would it change your perception 0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:36.840 of that person? Probably not. 0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:40.120 It shouldn't because this nigga, If this nigga. 0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:43.280 A cure the incurable disease and you find out he 0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:46.200 liked the goddamn uh where two tuos in the bedroom? 0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:47.000 Who gives a fuck? 0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:51.240 I want to try. 0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:51.840 That? 0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:53.800 Don't matter. That's that's all I'm saying. 0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:56.160 That ship, what another what another motherfucker got going on 0:33:56.200 --> 0:33:57.440 in the bedroom, don't matter. 0:33:57.720 --> 0:33:58.320 What you hon on? 0:33:58.920 --> 0:33:59.840 What two twos? 0:33:59.880 --> 0:33:59.960 Your? 0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:02.320 I sleep naked, so I don't know what you're talking about. 0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:05.400 You were I sleep? If I sleep naked, you think 0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:06.640 I'm wearing anything to happen. 0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:08.320 I didn't say when you went to sleep? 0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:12.880 I said no, no, you guys, no. 0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:21.399 T shirt that I go to sleep, balls naked, crack 0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:25.200 on the sheet, your cover, Let me go back, let 0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:26.880 me go back to the model, hit the pillow. 0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:29.920 So is it your partner's responsibility to fulfill all your 0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:31.720 sexual needs? 0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:32.920 And it should be? 0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:36.560 Yeah, okay, I think so too. Just going back to 0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:39.080 what I said, because if my partner not doing it 0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:41.400 and I really want to do it, anybody, if you 0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:43.319 really want to do something and you and you want 0:34:43.320 --> 0:34:45.319 to do it with your partner, your partner steadily telling 0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:47.200 you no, no, no, they're trying to keep shame you 0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:48.880 and ship like you don't want to go do it 0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:53.120 with somebody else. That's just the reality of it. Like period, 0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.759 I'm trying to do all of it, to do. 0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:03.640 Everything all right, and then so let's move on. 0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:08.480 So bank, is it a woman's responsibility to help regulate 0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:09.600 a man's emotions? 0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:10.680 What you mean? 0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.360 Is it a woman? Which is not like a note 0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:17.360 in order for is it? 0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:17.959 Is it a woman? 0:35:18.120 --> 0:35:21.880 Is it your woman's responsibility to help manage your emotions? 0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:23.840 No, it depends on what type of emotion. You just 0:35:23.880 --> 0:35:26.239 got some bitch as emotion, you just a bitch. But 0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:28.600 if you got emotion that's going on through life, yes, 0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.239 she's supposed help you managing. Like I was just telling 0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:33.920 her over here. Women don't understand when you choose certain 0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:35.880 type of dudes. You really got to come on and 0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:39.279 be everything for this dude. Like like I say, dude, 0:35:39.360 --> 0:35:42.360 don't care about no amount of money when it comes. 0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:45.120 Down to the right long like, so are they provided? 0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:47.240 If a dude ain't provide for you and you ain't. 0:35:47.080 --> 0:35:50.200 The one for him, you don't mind doing for the 0:35:50.360 --> 0:35:52.000 for the one that give him something. That money came 0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:54.680 by that part, You know what I'm saying, like, if 0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:56.560 you make me feel like I can't even buy this 0:35:56.640 --> 0:35:59.520 what you're giving me, So this money don't mean she 0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.000 because I this shit feel better than anything. 0:36:01.640 --> 0:36:02.520 You get, know what I'm saying. 0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:04.959 So hey, yeah, she help me manage my emotions. 0:36:07.680 --> 0:36:09.839 I agree. I agree with that wholeheartedly. 0:36:09.960 --> 0:36:10.120 Yeah. 0:36:10.200 --> 0:36:11.880 I think that hold on quick, we. 0:36:11.920 --> 0:36:13.359 Can go right here and then we'll come back. 0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:14.080 Go ahead. 0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:16.760 I agree with that. And man banked and talked about 0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:19.000 this before, Like, the biggest part of what I do 0:36:19.080 --> 0:36:21.120 with a man is I check on him. I check 0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:23.680 on him every day. I'm like, how are you? No, 0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:27.239 don't tell me the generic answer of I'm cool, No, 0:36:27.400 --> 0:36:29.400 how are you? For real? At two in the morning, 0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:31.799 if you up? While you up, babe, what's going on 0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:34.120 with you? Let me check on you? And I a 0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:36.239 lot of times put my hand on his heart and 0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:38.759 be like, tell me how your heart feel, Like, tell 0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:40.839 me what you really want to be inside? Like, if 0:36:40.840 --> 0:36:42.880 there's nothing else in the world that you can do, 0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:44.840 and we only got one day, what is it that 0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.279 we're gonna be When you check on your man and 0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:50.439 you and he generally know that you love him to death, 0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:52.360 I'm gonna love the fuck out of a nigga, you 0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.120 hear me, And that's when women be like men don't 0:36:55.120 --> 0:36:58.239 provide all of mine provide. But but like Bank said, 0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:01.120 it's because I'm giving them some that they're not gonna 0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:04.200 get from everybody else. Men need you. Men need to 0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:06.759 feel safe, and as a woman, you have to be 0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:09.920 their safe space. And if you are not, they're gonna 0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:11.279 search everywhere for it. 0:37:12.680 --> 0:37:14.520 So what I was gonna say, because I said, I agree, 0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:20.880 and what you said managing man's emotions, I think yes, 0:37:21.000 --> 0:37:23.759 women should do that because a lot of men do 0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:26.640 not know how to control their emotions. They don't even 0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:29.600 know that they have emotions, and if they do, they're 0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:32.319 taught in life to not have them. So it's like 0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:36.799 us being women and us having feelings and emotions and 0:37:36.840 --> 0:37:39.600 knowing what it feels like to be sad or depressed 0:37:39.800 --> 0:37:42.720 or you know, things like that, and us as women, 0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:44.440 like we go through so many things in life. We 0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:48.360 experienced so many, so many things backlash from just people, 0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:52.640 and it's like we we endure that. So as a 0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:55.719 woman with a man, we have to be there for 0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:56.640 them to help. 0:37:56.480 --> 0:37:58.720 Them navigate these emotions that they. 0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:02.160 Don't understand because they don't understand it. They feel like, 0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:03.759 oh I'm feeling like this, I'm gonna just shut the 0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:06.799 fuck up. No, like I'm here to help you navigate it. 0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:07.560 Almost like a therapy. 0:38:07.960 --> 0:38:11.560 So yeah, like be there for your man at all times. 0:38:12.480 --> 0:38:15.560 That I think y'all made some great points what you 0:38:15.640 --> 0:38:19.080 brought up therapy, So a lot of I think you 0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:22.000 should be there to be supportive of your man's emotions. Yes, 0:38:22.680 --> 0:38:25.520 but sometimes men come along with baggage, They come along 0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:28.600 with trauma that you had nothing to do with. So 0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:31.960 I cannot take on emotions and trauma that came from 0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:34.160 your childhood or your past relationships. 0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:35.960 So you need to seek therapy. 0:38:36.000 --> 0:38:38.480 You need to seek help because I can't take on 0:38:38.600 --> 0:38:42.160 that if you haven't, if you haven't addressed that issue yourself. 0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:50.520 There, I appreciate that what you think I said, No, 0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:52.319 but also I feel like it's a part of a 0:38:52.320 --> 0:38:54.240 big part of my personality. 0:38:53.680 --> 0:38:53.839 Like. 0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:01.400 Because I'm not a I'm a very even person, Like 0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:05.800 I'm never gonna be too mad or or or anything 0:39:05.800 --> 0:39:08.759 about that. But I just don't feel like I would 0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:13.080 need a woman to uh regulate my emotions about anything, 0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:14.759 because if I feel the type of way I'm gonna 0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:18.400 tell you, And that's how it is. I'm very straightforward 0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:21.440 on a lot of things. So in my life, me 0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:24.279 me personally, Let me me personally. I don't feel like 0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:28.320 we have to even talk about it. You know what 0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:28.680 I'm saying. 0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:30.600 If you've been around a person and it's your person, 0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:33.040 or you really love this person, you knowing something off 0:39:33.040 --> 0:39:35.480 with this person. So by you knowing some off of 0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:37.399 this person, you can do a gesture that I ain't 0:39:37.400 --> 0:39:39.759 got nothing to do it what's wrong, bab, Because most 0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:42.239 of time niggas don't like to tell you what's going 0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:45.279 on because they don't want you to stress with them. 0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:47.640 So you can do certain shit that just change my 0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:49.719 whole vibe to make me feel a whole nother way. 0:39:50.120 --> 0:39:51.680 And I could have just lost a whole half a 0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:54.839 million dollar last night on a plate. You never know, 0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:57.520 But you can do something like, damn, the world ain't 0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:59.839 over with. I got something right here that I ain't. 0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:02.480 You. You get a woman gotta give you some shit that 0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:03.560 you don't even know you need. 0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:06.840 That's how I feel. You know, I didn't even know 0:40:06.960 --> 0:40:07.799 I needed this. 0:40:08.800 --> 0:40:12.360 You know, you know what hold on bank, I had, Jojo. 0:40:12.440 --> 0:40:14.120 What you said just reminded me of some because we 0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:16.400 work together. So you see me, I think how I 0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:18.479 say that what I said? I say what I said 0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:20.840 because I'm the type of a person that's like, fuck it, 0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:24.920 I'm gonna figure it out. So what's telling you about 0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:29.000 a problem gonna solve if I haven't already. 0:40:28.680 --> 0:40:29.520 Solved the problem. 0:40:29.640 --> 0:40:31.040 But that's the problem. 0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:36.320 So if if I know we are fifty thousand dollars 0:40:36.280 --> 0:40:38.719 in debt and you ain't found out yet, my my 0:40:38.880 --> 0:40:41.719 job is to come up with fift thousand dollars, what 0:40:41.760 --> 0:40:43.600 I'm gonna tell you about the phone. I need to 0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:46.319 figure this problem out because as a leader, that's what 0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:49.640 I'm supposed to do. You're supposed to do whatever I 0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:51.799 need you to do, and that a part of your 0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:54.200 duty is not stressing about shit that I'm supposed to 0:40:54.239 --> 0:40:56.319 fix because at the end of the day, I'm going 0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:59.439 to fix whatever the problem is. So telling my girl 0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:02.680 about whatever issue is it's not solving the problem. 0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:03.560 That's what you. 0:41:03.760 --> 0:41:06.440 Agree, And that's why I'm saying, like that's what you think. 0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:07.920 We are here. 0:41:08.040 --> 0:41:10.880 We're we're not here to to look down on you, 0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:14.040 because that's what's going on. If we're partners that's exactly 0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:15.640 what we are. But if I know you can't help 0:41:15.680 --> 0:41:17.480 me with this, with this, you don't know that. 0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:18.120 I know you can't. 0:41:18.440 --> 0:41:20.879 You know that because even in my field, you don't 0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:21.799 know nothing about what I. 0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:25.160 Many things that that you don't know about women. 0:41:26.680 --> 0:41:29.279 You don't know it'll be better. I need. 0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:31.080 I need to build this house, this house. Get getting 0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:32.799 on my nerve. Man, I need to go put your 0:41:32.800 --> 0:41:34.160 put your boots on, and get your helm. 0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:40.400 No, I know what I can build it. 0:41:40.640 --> 0:41:46.839 Okay, I'm talking about Okay, done thought, take the out 0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:47.120 put on. 0:41:48.400 --> 0:41:51.440 Let's take this model out. Because what the power of 0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:54.000 women is, I don't help you figure it out. If 0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:57.800 I love you, I'm putting them boots, songs, song and 0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.359 whatever I gotta put on to make sure it's good. Look, 0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:05.879 I have a whole construction degree because a nigga wanted 0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:10.319 to be a contract that not me. Talk to me 0:42:10.880 --> 0:42:13.279 about it. You can't talk to me about it. 0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:18.640 So from where y'all are coming from, I understand, because 0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:20.680 as a good woman, you're gonna automatically want to get 0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:21.399 in there with your men. 0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:23.680 You're like, all right, what's the problem. I'm here to help. 0:42:24.040 --> 0:42:26.120 But what they're saying is, as a man, you don't 0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:27.719 really want to put that on your woman, So you 0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:29.480 kind of just put that on your back, like all right, 0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:30.880 let me figure it out, because I don't want to 0:42:30.880 --> 0:42:33.560 put the stress on my woman. So even though they 0:42:33.560 --> 0:42:35.480 have a good woman and like she's gonna get in 0:42:35.480 --> 0:42:37.520 here with me, but as a man, you don't want 0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:38.279 to put that on your woman. 0:42:38.400 --> 0:42:39.960 No, baby, I don't want you to think about it, 0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:43.279 think about how to make me feel mushy, because I 0:42:43.360 --> 0:42:46.120 already feel fucked up out there coming. 0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:50.600 I want my blunts and ship rolled up. I want 0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.640 my ship, this ship. 0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:57.839 You feel like you know what food, you know what 0:42:58.280 --> 0:42:58.719 talking about? 0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.720 Let me just feel like I came to a castle 0:43:02.960 --> 0:43:06.080 that remind me that I'm a king through your actions. 0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:08.239 So what if you already doing that? 0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:10.440 Like what if you're already getting that, but and you're 0:43:10.520 --> 0:43:14.520 still having the like you still got other things going on. 0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.640 I'm all I'm saying is is I get I get 0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:18.680 exactly what you're saying. Nobody wants to put that on 0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:24.640 their woman, But in a partnership, it don't matter. That's 0:43:24.719 --> 0:43:28.120 what she's there for to help you in every way, 0:43:28.520 --> 0:43:31.120 not just to cook and clean and fuck and suck 0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:33.839 and emotional and all that that may be helping you, 0:43:34.040 --> 0:43:38.440 but we're just saying like that also causes problems because 0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:42.359 say you just lost fifty thousand whatever on the plug, 0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:43.120 whatever you was doing. 0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:43.720 You know what I'm saying. 0:43:43.960 --> 0:43:45.480 We can feel that energy. 0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:45.919 When you come home. 0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:48.319 We can feel it, and we may ask you over 0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:49.799 and over and over what's going on, and you don't 0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:50.239 say nothing. 0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:53.320 You think that you want to be in this indictment. 0:43:53.400 --> 0:43:56.359 You don't know what I'm doing. You don't know what 0:43:56.400 --> 0:44:01.920 the fuck I'm doing? Who could have got? 0:44:03.200 --> 0:44:03.480 Bitch? 0:44:03.560 --> 0:44:06.360 Don't don't tell you know that you want to be 0:44:09.200 --> 0:44:17.000 I don't know what the hell I'm doing. Hold, don't 0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:18.600 know what this man doing? 0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:22.279 Well, when you put it like that, don't tell me 0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:23.040 about it. Don't you. 0:44:26.400 --> 0:44:27.360 Want to be nosy? 0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:28.160 Don't tell me? 0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:29.920 So we got a question. We got a question for 0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:30.759 right quick? 0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:37.919 Okay, y'all, how y'all doing? Hey? 0:44:38.200 --> 0:44:39.040 Drink so strong? 0:44:40.000 --> 0:44:42.120 Okay, So listen, it's twenty twenty four. 0:44:42.160 --> 0:44:43.160 I just want to know why. 0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:45.200 Is love so conditional for women? 0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:46.479 Thank you? 0:44:47.120 --> 0:44:49.560 Like love is so conditional for y'all? 0:44:49.719 --> 0:44:50.760 Men love my conditions? 0:44:50.760 --> 0:44:53.000 And I want to know why you not already coming 0:44:53.120 --> 0:44:55.879 already as a woman already. Why I gotta do something 0:44:55.880 --> 0:44:58.000 to make you feel like you gotta be womanly? 0:44:58.280 --> 0:45:02.520 Thank you. I think I can do as a man 0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:05.160 to make you not be a woman. You're a woman. 0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:11.000 Hold On, I said that. I'm said that, thank you. 0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:14.359 I mean, let me get after you think women, let 0:45:14.400 --> 0:45:15.960 us know how you're ready, ladies. 0:45:15.760 --> 0:45:19.920 Hold on, let us lad ladies, ladies, all right, quick, ladies, ladies. 0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:22.680 I got a question. I got a question. 0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:26.520 If if the man that you're talking to said that 0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:29.880 you ain't making me feel manlessen, I'm mad like a bitch. 0:45:29.640 --> 0:45:30.240 Of that nigga. 0:45:30.760 --> 0:45:33.879 Like until like I'm saying, y'all saying, a man got 0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:36.400 to put you in your feminine energy. What if a 0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:38.640 nigga had if you had to put a nigga in masking, 0:45:38.680 --> 0:45:42.239 you know, bro, that's no, that's that's not gonna happen. 0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:43.439 That's not gonna fly with y'all. 0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:44.440 Listen. 0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:46.479 A lot of these dudes is in their feminine energy. 0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:50.640 But listen, he had to sit up, just said. 0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:54.200 You just said from the South Mississippi. 0:45:54.320 --> 0:45:57.759 So I'm like super traditional, I'm not controlling or I'm 0:45:57.800 --> 0:45:59.600 not any of those things. I'm a woman, so I 0:45:59.640 --> 0:46:03.839 know how y'all already is. So what I'm saying is 0:46:05.080 --> 0:46:06.799 like my grandma raised me. 0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:10.480 So it's like I be. 0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:14.520 More women than half of these women. Because y'all so conditional. 0:46:14.560 --> 0:46:16.319 You have to do so many things to make y'all 0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:19.640 feel soft and being y'all soft vibe. 0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:24.480 Absolutely. First question, absolutely. 0:46:24.000 --> 0:46:28.440 Not, you know second part question second, it's two points. 0:46:28.440 --> 0:46:29.000 It's two points. 0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:31.840 Part is what is sassy? 0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:33.280 What is sassy? 0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:34.520 Because you can't do what you want to. 0:46:34.520 --> 0:46:38.239 Do with me, all right, Like I said, absolutely not. 0:46:38.680 --> 0:46:40.880 A man does not have to do anything that make 0:46:40.960 --> 0:46:42.839 me to show up as a woman. I'm gonna show 0:46:42.920 --> 0:46:45.479 up as I am. However, you have to do things 0:46:45.520 --> 0:46:47.759 for me if you want me to show up like 0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:50.319 I'm not just showing up for anything. So we can 0:46:50.360 --> 0:46:54.280 say love is conditional, but I mean it's on both sides, okay, 0:46:54.280 --> 0:46:57.920 because men have their expectations, have their expectations of a relationship. 0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:00.279 I agree, just in general, I got something. 0:47:02.719 --> 0:47:06.040 Manet you, they gonna keep you until you do the 0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:07.640 wrong ship, then they gonna let you go. 0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:09.520 Other than that, niggas to deal with your ship forever. 0:47:10.400 --> 0:47:13.719 The women, but who. 0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:17.719 Okay, I don't have to. 0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:24.799 I got something to say because she said, why does 0:47:24.840 --> 0:47:27.600 a man have to put you in your female energy? Now, 0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:29.719 I can't speak for any other female in here, but 0:47:29.719 --> 0:47:31.719 I'm gonna speak for myself, and I'm gonna say this 0:47:33.920 --> 0:47:39.520 growing up, right, it's so many things that like a 0:47:39.600 --> 0:47:43.439 woman has to do and and and life, like people 0:47:43.480 --> 0:47:45.200 are always judging this woman. 0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:49.520 A woman is tough. It is the toughest species. 0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:52.240 On this fucking earth, and she has to be because 0:47:52.239 --> 0:47:55.359 she has emotions. But people are keep throwing ship this 0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:57.000 way and this way, and she's supposed to just keep 0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:58.520 handling it and handling it. 0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:00.200 Especially as a black woman. 0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:02.960 We go through so much different shit. So we's so tough. 0:48:03.320 --> 0:48:05.440 We're tough. We're tough, We're tough. We know, like this 0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.120 person is saying some bullshit, this person doing some bullshit. 0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:10.840 Then you got this nigga over here, he owns some bullshit. 0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:13.279 I gotta take care of these kids because I might 0:48:13.320 --> 0:48:15.000 be with a nigga who ain't taking care of them. 0:48:15.080 --> 0:48:17.440 So now I gotta be strong enough to take care 0:48:17.440 --> 0:48:17.880 of them too. 0:48:17.960 --> 0:48:20.279 So now I'm just super strong, and I done got 0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:23.319 this masculine energy that I have no idea where it 0:48:23.360 --> 0:48:24.920 came from. I didn't even know if it was a 0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:27.680 thing until people start saying, oh, she has masculine energy, 0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:28.879 Oh she has masculine energy. 0:48:28.920 --> 0:48:30.759 I'm over here thinking like, but what the fuck is that? 0:48:30.960 --> 0:48:33.280 But really, whole time, it's just me being so tough 0:48:33.480 --> 0:48:35.000 because I have to deal with the world. But I 0:48:35.040 --> 0:48:36.799 have to be strong not only for me, but for 0:48:36.880 --> 0:48:39.479 everybody around me. So now when I'm with this man, 0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.040 I'm tough and I'm tough, and I'm doing this and 0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:43.839 I'm working hard and I'm doing all this other shit. 0:48:44.160 --> 0:48:47.120 And when he comes in and he's like, I got you, baby, 0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:49.280 don't worry about it. You ain't gotta work that hard. 0:48:49.400 --> 0:48:51.120 You ain't gotta do all of that. I'll go pick 0:48:51.160 --> 0:48:53.399 the kids up, I'll go this, I'll go do this 0:48:53.440 --> 0:48:56.920 for you. And slowly that woman starts getting softer and 0:48:57.000 --> 0:48:59.279 softer and softer to where she feels like she can 0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:01.719 trust you. And now she feel like now she's in 0:49:01.760 --> 0:49:03.880 her feminine energy and she could love you on condition 0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:09.319 not so quick. It's a real thing. 0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:14.480 Nah ho ho ho ho ho. I got it. Go 0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:16.439 ahead and get in there. I gotta respond to that. Bro. 0:49:17.080 --> 0:49:20.680 Have y'all ever seen no women that just remain women regardless. 0:49:20.719 --> 0:49:24.359 Though I'm not talking about this what's going on. I'm saying, 0:49:24.360 --> 0:49:27.560 you got some women that have been sweet all my life, 0:49:27.640 --> 0:49:30.960 Like this lady has been a sweet lady all my life. 0:49:31.040 --> 0:49:33.320 Some women got it, some women don't. 0:49:33.480 --> 0:49:34.560 That's just what it is. 0:49:34.800 --> 0:49:36.719 But she may have it with you, But you don't 0:49:36.760 --> 0:49:38.440 know what kind of hell in termin. 0:49:38.320 --> 0:49:39.160 No, I'm talking about. 0:49:39.280 --> 0:49:42.440 We all know women that like, that's a nice lady, 0:49:42.800 --> 0:49:44.919 don't you that you've been knowing all your life? 0:49:45.360 --> 0:49:48.200 Yeah, you see what I'm saying, like, this is a 0:49:48.320 --> 0:49:53.200 nice lady. But to me, But then I also them saying, oh, 0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:55.680 that lady's so sweet. I didn't seen her turn up 0:49:56.000 --> 0:49:58.520 on a situation where she may have had to turn out. Fact, 0:49:58.560 --> 0:49:59.879 that ain't the same thing. I'm saying. 0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:02.520 She out of character then though, right when she turned up, 0:50:02.520 --> 0:50:05.200 that's out of character sweet for sure. 0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:07.600 Okay, when you can when you get these women these 0:50:07.680 --> 0:50:09.840 days that out of character when they're. 0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:15.120 Being sweet, Where y'all mean, what do you mean? 0:50:15.719 --> 0:50:17.480 How if I gotta if I gotta get you in 0:50:17.520 --> 0:50:20.239 your feminine energy, I gotta get you out of characters 0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:22.520 because you already in your masculine well, I'm. 0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:28.200 Not coming to a man, but I will. I will 0:50:28.360 --> 0:50:31.759 be selective of who I give my time and energy to. 0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:34.359 But we had a conversation in our podcast, and then 0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:35.640 motherfucker went crazy too. 0:50:35.760 --> 0:50:39.200 Shu outside the shun nail. Our shit went crazy. 0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:44.920 But like a women say, like when women say, and 0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:46.680 y'all gonna chew me up, I don't care. I'm ready 0:50:46.680 --> 0:50:50.040 to get into it anyway, y'all gonna say, how can 0:50:50.080 --> 0:50:53.399 a woman's take he drove me to cheat on him? 0:50:54.560 --> 0:50:57.240 I never understood that, baby, you you being a cheater? 0:50:57.800 --> 0:51:00.959 You been would do it? Am I right or wrong? 0:51:01.040 --> 0:51:01.520 You wrong? 0:51:02.320 --> 0:51:06.680 That ain't no such make you bought? Can't nigga make 0:51:06.680 --> 0:51:08.840 you go outside of your character? If that's against your character, 0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:09.960 you're not gonna do it. 0:51:10.000 --> 0:51:11.160 Bro, that's a lot. 0:51:11.239 --> 0:51:13.680 That's just like saying That's just like saying a nigga saying, 0:51:13.880 --> 0:51:15.760 my wife made me go to punk parties. 0:51:16.360 --> 0:51:17.279 Bro, you wont to go. 0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:21.200 Cain't nobody drive you to do some shit you don't 0:51:21.239 --> 0:51:21.640 want to do. 0:51:24.880 --> 0:51:25.799 I don't think that's true. 0:51:25.880 --> 0:51:30.040 How you already want to circumstances just hand to persent itself. 0:51:30.080 --> 0:51:32.200 And you hadn't lost respect for this man? Yet hold 0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:34.120 hold on, you lost respect now you could be you. 0:51:34.520 --> 0:51:37.520 It's it's another It's all right. So let's use another example. 0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:39.759 If a nigga not a thief, you can't make a 0:51:39.840 --> 0:51:41.720 nigga a thief by leaving money out on the table. 0:51:42.560 --> 0:51:44.319 If you leave one hundred dollars on the table right now, 0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:45.680 I'm gonna take it because I'm a thief. 0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:46.520 No, I'm fucking with you. 0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:49.520 I'm fucking with you, but I'm not a thief, so 0:51:49.520 --> 0:51:51.840 I wouldn't take it. But it's another nigga that'll probably 0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:55.799 see that shit like she and not say nothing. But 0:51:55.840 --> 0:52:00.239 it's two different type of niggas. So my tripping, I'm I. 0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:03.520 Don't think you're tripping. I mean, women don't like that. 0:52:03.680 --> 0:52:06.680 I sometimes agree with men on some things, but I've 0:52:06.719 --> 0:52:11.600 never been faithful to nobody. I never have, so you know, 0:52:11.800 --> 0:52:18.360 me and my friends debate faithful And I mean I didn't. 0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:22.000 He didn't make you do it either, did it? 0:52:21.040 --> 0:52:21.120 Did? 0:52:22.239 --> 0:52:29.520 No? But I am not like that anymore. But see 0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:34.080 the thing about it, So like I always tell people, 0:52:34.080 --> 0:52:36.279 and I even always tell my friends, like people try 0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:39.240 to weaponize me with who I am as a person. 0:52:39.760 --> 0:52:42.759 You could never weaponize me because I'm gonna tell you 0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:44.759 who I am. I don't care if you create a 0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:47.560 group chat about it. I've never been faithful to a 0:52:47.640 --> 0:52:50.760 nigga before I'm working on it. I went to therapy. 0:52:51.000 --> 0:52:53.160 They did not make me cheat, but it was another 0:52:53.200 --> 0:52:56.000 nigga looking at me, and after a time and a time, 0:52:56.200 --> 0:52:59.080 I responded back the same thing that happens with men. 0:52:59.400 --> 0:53:02.120 Women go approach heese man, and approach heese man. They 0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:04.520 weren't even going look at the cheat on you that day. 0:53:04.760 --> 0:53:08.840 It wasn't malicious, tend to do it. It didn't happened, 0:53:08.880 --> 0:53:11.920 but it's you. I went to therapy to get it 0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:13.960 up out of me. And that's the reason that I 0:53:14.040 --> 0:53:16.400 won't commit to none of these men right now, because 0:53:16.440 --> 0:53:18.840 I steal my cheat and I don't want to do that. 0:53:18.920 --> 0:53:23.000 No mochus man, God got a bag, Okay, I feel So. 0:53:23.160 --> 0:53:26.400 I got a couple things to say first or foremost, 0:53:26.640 --> 0:53:28.839 shout out, shut out, a big bang shut out coda, 0:53:28.880 --> 0:53:30.239 because y'all speaking is some real shit. 0:53:30.640 --> 0:53:32.399 The ladyes y'all speaking is some real shit too. 0:53:32.400 --> 0:53:34.160 But at first and foremost, I just want to say, 0:53:34.800 --> 0:53:38.520 as a real man, right, we go through shit right 0:53:38.880 --> 0:53:40.600 like they were saying, you know what I'm saying, like, 0:53:41.000 --> 0:53:43.440 if I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars, I'm not going 0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:45.160 to tell you I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars. But 0:53:45.200 --> 0:53:48.680 as my woman, like Big Bank was saying, you should 0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:51.359 know something is wrong with me, so you should be there. 0:53:51.400 --> 0:53:53.920 That cansole me regardless. You should have. 0:53:53.920 --> 0:53:56.040 To know what I'm going through to know that I'm 0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:58.600 going through something to be there for me, you know 0:53:58.600 --> 0:53:59.200 what I'm saying. 0:53:59.560 --> 0:54:02.480 Then, on that how what you were saying, like with the. 0:54:03.920 --> 0:54:05.839 Like when you said that you hadn't been faithful, right, 0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:08.279 nobody drove you to do that. As a man like 0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:11.040 Big Bank was saying, well, we make that choice that 0:54:11.080 --> 0:54:13.759 you my woman, I'm gonna stick with you until you 0:54:13.880 --> 0:54:16.719 make it that to the point where that that's that 0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:21.319 you feel me. And so as a man, if you 0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:24.320 make me comfortable, if you my peace, I'm gonna stick 0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:27.040 beside you. But as soon as you throw me off, 0:54:27.440 --> 0:54:31.320 then you gotta slide. And so for men, I feel 0:54:31.360 --> 0:54:33.719 like that's why we are so logical and y'all are 0:54:33.880 --> 0:54:38.120 emotional because y'all act on impults or act on oh damn, 0:54:38.200 --> 0:54:40.359 you made me feel this type of way, So I'm 0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:42.680 about to go do this. But as a man, it's 0:54:42.760 --> 0:54:45.359 like you made me feel this type of way. Does 0:54:45.400 --> 0:54:48.319 this really affect me? If it don't affect how I move, 0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:50.319 how I make my money, then fuck it. I'm gonna 0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:52.080 stick besides you, and I'm gonna do what I gotta 0:54:52.120 --> 0:54:54.920 do because you my peace, and that's what I stick beside. 0:54:55.280 --> 0:54:58.439 So as a man, it's like you mine. I'm gonna 0:54:58.440 --> 0:55:00.759 hold you down until you show me that I don't 0:55:00.800 --> 0:55:02.399 need to do that no more, and then I'm gonna 0:55:02.400 --> 0:55:03.359 go do my thing. 0:55:03.719 --> 0:55:06.319 Well, I never got caught, so nobody never felt no 0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:10.640 certain type of way. His emotions was intact. I was 0:55:10.719 --> 0:55:13.759 at home, weint on him at six am, and he 0:55:13.760 --> 0:55:16.600 ain't never know I got in at five. So guess what, 0:55:16.800 --> 0:55:19.279 I never got caught. Better, You never gonna feel no 0:55:19.400 --> 0:55:22.200 certain type of way. You ain't gonna feel crazy or nothing. 0:55:22.360 --> 0:55:24.320 All right, just putting that out. 0:55:24.160 --> 0:55:25.560 There, period. 0:55:26.880 --> 0:55:28.120 Hey, let me ask you all a question. 0:55:29.520 --> 0:55:32.320 Hold on, hold it down right, quick, life, hold it 0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:34.880 down right quick? Okay, go ahead, I'm gonna ask you 0:55:34.920 --> 0:55:35.480 all a question. 0:55:35.920 --> 0:55:40.479 Do y'all think women do y'all think men should cater 0:55:40.600 --> 0:55:42.239 to all your emotions. 0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:48.160 No, I don't think he should cater to all of 0:55:48.200 --> 0:55:50.880 our emotions, but I think that he should acknowledge that 0:55:50.960 --> 0:55:52.440 I am having an emotion. 0:55:53.160 --> 0:55:55.840 But what if you just emotional? Motherfucker every day? So 0:55:55.880 --> 0:55:57.040 I put the knowledge it every day? 0:55:58.280 --> 0:56:00.759 Like when you say emotional every ding something wrong? 0:56:00.840 --> 0:56:03.839 It's pitched again? Now she got a problem like that? 0:56:04.000 --> 0:56:06.280 Like what what's wrong with her today? 0:56:06.640 --> 0:56:06.719 That? 0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:07.919 Like like that? 0:56:08.000 --> 0:56:08.239 Cash? 0:56:08.239 --> 0:56:11.240 Should I always every day? 0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:13.680 Well, it depends if you if you see she has 0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:16.080 a problem and you ain't never check on her. The 0:56:16.120 --> 0:56:18.160 first day she had a problem, Well guess what. The 0:56:18.200 --> 0:56:19.759 next day she's gonna have a problem. For the day 0:56:19.760 --> 0:56:21.160 after that, she's gonna have a problem. Is she gonna 0:56:21.160 --> 0:56:22.520 have a problem unless. 0:56:22.239 --> 0:56:24.799 You ask her what the problem? Sometimes women do that. 0:56:24.840 --> 0:56:26.319 They gonna be mad as hell all the way up 0:56:26.400 --> 0:56:28.000 until you be like, baby, what's wrong? 0:56:28.120 --> 0:56:30.800 So you're gonna create all these issues and expect your man. 0:56:33.080 --> 0:56:35.680 Issues. Y'all gotta understand that women come on issues. Niggas 0:56:35.719 --> 0:56:36.719 come on issues every day. 0:56:36.840 --> 0:56:37.160 Is not. 0:56:39.000 --> 0:56:43.719 Niggas come with y'all got baby mamas want to call 0:56:43.760 --> 0:56:46.000 in the middle of the night, y'all want to then 0:56:46.160 --> 0:56:48.760 sleep with the dancers, y'all sleep with the nursing. 0:56:51.160 --> 0:56:56.399 No that we we like that look so look real 0:56:56.480 --> 0:56:59.600 dope conversation. We got one more. She wanted to address 0:56:59.640 --> 0:57:02.239 the pannel after that, and we're getting ready. That way 0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:03.239 we can close us on out. 0:57:03.760 --> 0:57:07.000 Hold on, go ahead, okay, I want to. 0:57:09.200 --> 0:57:13.120 Oh so let's start back from the beginning. I think 0:57:13.160 --> 0:57:17.440 we got the characteristics and what they do naturally as 0:57:17.440 --> 0:57:19.520 a person, and you can avoid a lot of this 0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:22.440 ship Like a lot of the stuff is like immature 0:57:22.480 --> 0:57:25.000 that y'all talking about, Like, oh, address this emotion and 0:57:25.080 --> 0:57:28.240 that like you're supposed to already know that from your parents. 0:57:28.680 --> 0:57:30.680 That's what your mother is for. She's an example for 0:57:30.760 --> 0:57:33.080 you as the wife. Your father is an example as. 0:57:32.960 --> 0:57:46.120 A no no no no. 0:57:34.400 --> 0:57:34.640 No no. 0:57:39.640 --> 0:57:39.680 No. 0:57:41.360 --> 0:57:44.040 But guess what you man come with most of the emotions. 0:57:44.200 --> 0:57:46.720 So that means but most of y'all ain't had no mama. 0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:49.760 I've but people that ain't had no mama, they started 0:57:49.800 --> 0:57:51.040 taking care of the South at twelve. 0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:56.560 Let me ask you question, do y'all really want the 0:57:56.560 --> 0:57:59.000 truth or a lot you could believe the truth? 0:57:59.040 --> 0:58:03.440 I want the truth. Okay, We're going to the truth. 0:58:03.560 --> 0:58:07.440 That's cap Thank you, baby, thank you, queen. 0:58:08.680 --> 0:58:11.680 No real truth. 0:58:12.160 --> 0:58:15.040 You can truth, but you have to live in reality. 0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:17.880 You gotta open up your big ass eyes and see 0:58:17.880 --> 0:58:20.560 what the fuck going on and realize that motherfuckers out 0:58:20.600 --> 0:58:24.000 here is fucked up. Okay, they grew up and they 0:58:24.040 --> 0:58:26.080 grew up with no mama, and they grew up with 0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:27.560 no daddy, And you're trying to tell me just because 0:58:27.560 --> 0:58:28.920 they ain't have no mamma and no daddy and what's 0:58:28.920 --> 0:58:31.040 saw to how to be raised as an individual, that 0:58:31.080 --> 0:58:33.520 they don't deserve no love. And they fell in love 0:58:33.600 --> 0:58:36.200 with you, and you're supposed to just be like, I'm 0:58:36.200 --> 0:58:38.720 good on buddy, because he don't know how to love 0:58:38.720 --> 0:58:40.960 you properly. No, because if I love you, I'm gonna 0:58:41.000 --> 0:58:43.320 I'm gonna deal with that bullshit, that that trauma that 0:58:43.320 --> 0:58:44.720 you came then I'm gonna try to help you figure 0:58:44.760 --> 0:58:46.120 it out. 0:58:46.320 --> 0:58:49.240 That man. I think. 0:58:49.280 --> 0:58:53.480 I think, really, man, I think really the best relationships 0:58:54.920 --> 0:58:56.800 it's the nigga who can tell the best lies. 0:58:56.880 --> 0:59:01.120 Man, because you tell the truth truth like the truth 0:59:01.240 --> 0:59:02.280 cheth truth. 0:59:03.840 --> 0:59:09.280 Thank you crazy hell well truth. 0:59:09.400 --> 0:59:09.680 Truth. 0:59:10.640 --> 0:59:13.240 She gonna be motherfucking mind. 0:59:13.280 --> 0:59:13.400 Man. 0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:17.040 I agree with you, though I agree. Watch your talk 0:59:17.160 --> 0:59:20.360 some of the best relationships are because the women have 0:59:20.520 --> 0:59:23.320 been lied to the best because I know some of 0:59:23.360 --> 0:59:26.240 those people and they have no idea that their husbands 0:59:26.240 --> 0:59:28.800 do what they do because their husbands make sure that 0:59:28.920 --> 0:59:31.560 they don't find out. But I just feel like, don't 0:59:31.600 --> 0:59:34.480 let me find out. But also I prefer you to 0:59:34.560 --> 0:59:36.720 tell me the truth because I don't want to have 0:59:36.800 --> 0:59:39.520 to go to the clinic and get appeal every goddamn 0:59:39.520 --> 0:59:41.280 thirty days. I gotta take the rest of my life 0:59:41.360 --> 0:59:43.680 because you out here doing some whole ship. Let me 0:59:43.840 --> 0:59:47.000 decide what I'm going to do with my motherfucking life. 0:59:47.200 --> 0:59:49.640 And that is the problem with these men that want 0:59:49.640 --> 0:59:52.160 to keep lying to you. And I have homegirls that 0:59:52.320 --> 0:59:54.680 now got ship that they can't fucking get rid of 0:59:54.840 --> 0:59:56.760 because a nigga want to lie. And that's when you 0:59:56.760 --> 0:59:58.560 get your motherfucking head blown off. 0:59:59.480 --> 1:00:00.320 The truth damn. 1:00:00.320 --> 1:00:04.120 Okay, I give you then and figure it out, Okay. 1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:07.440 But we just sat there and say you that's the 1:00:07.560 --> 1:00:11.480 case every woman should use coming with every man, because 1:00:11.600 --> 1:00:12.440 every woman. 1:00:12.240 --> 1:00:19.080 Says like it's contradicting. I can't here, you can't hear 1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:22.960 what they're saying on the panel. Hold it down, hold on, 1:00:22.960 --> 1:00:33.840 Hold on one second. Y'all. Hold up, Hold up, Okay. 1:00:31.960 --> 1:00:35.680 No, I'm saying this is contradicting though, like we saying, 1:00:36.360 --> 1:00:39.200 especially in ALLOUTA. You meet a dude at this big 1:00:39.200 --> 1:00:42.320 old age were at right now and he having most 1:00:42.400 --> 1:00:46.200 you think he got hold And when I meet you today, 1:00:46.440 --> 1:00:55.600 offen to get rid of all my whole. Just go ahead, 1:00:56.000 --> 1:00:58.120 you're gonna get rid of like if you're good enough, 1:00:58.680 --> 1:00:59.959 you're gonna get rid of the little strack. 1:01:00.160 --> 1:01:02.480 No she what she's said and asking you to get 1:01:02.560 --> 1:01:03.440 rid of all your whole. 1:01:04.960 --> 1:01:06.960 We're not making clear that you got hold. 1:01:07.240 --> 1:01:08.200 Just don't lie. 1:01:08.880 --> 1:01:11.600 How am I line? When you the reason why you 1:01:11.800 --> 1:01:15.200 wanted me? Because I am? 1:01:15.280 --> 1:01:18.600 Hold up, don't nobody won't nobody that nobody else don't 1:01:18.640 --> 1:01:25.440 want bank. That's okay, And it's a shortage on these 1:01:25.520 --> 1:01:26.440 kind of niggas. 1:01:29.920 --> 1:01:33.240 Listen, talk about it. Man, What you mean bank? Not 1:01:33.360 --> 1:01:35.760 the problem that you got holes. It's a problem that 1:01:36.560 --> 1:01:39.080 you meet a girl. I know you don't, but I'm 1:01:39.120 --> 1:01:42.360 just saying what the problem is you meet the girl. 1:01:46.320 --> 1:01:49.520 The problem is is that the man who has holes 1:01:49.800 --> 1:01:52.880 meets the girl who he really want, Like he might 1:01:53.040 --> 1:01:55.880 just want her to fuck her, right, but he has 1:01:55.920 --> 1:01:57.880 to tell her exactly what he needs to tell her 1:01:57.880 --> 1:01:58.440 to fuck her. 1:01:59.080 --> 1:02:01.520 So now you're gonna tell I ain't got no hold. 1:02:01.520 --> 1:02:03.240 I don't understand that. You ain't gotta tell the women 1:02:03.320 --> 1:02:06.240 ship they going. You ain't gotta tell them ship there 1:02:06.760 --> 1:02:10.440 Like we had a conversation after we fucked, like, so 1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:12.240 you in a relationship. 1:02:13.960 --> 1:02:18.320 Like this, be real man Like, I don't get to 1:02:18.360 --> 1:02:19.960 know you till I fuck to you. 1:02:20.880 --> 1:02:24.480 That's what's sucking it up, be falling us first, you 1:02:24.480 --> 1:02:25.040 know what I'm saying. 1:02:25.240 --> 1:02:28.440 We we got them for about a month straight. Now 1:02:28.480 --> 1:02:29.720 I'm trying to get to know you know what all? 1:02:29.760 --> 1:02:33.040 You like this bitch man like? We don't we what 1:02:33.200 --> 1:02:33.840 not compatible? 1:02:33.880 --> 1:02:36.560 We don't agree on ship but you already now you're 1:02:36.640 --> 1:02:37.880 already into something. 1:02:38.400 --> 1:02:42.760 But see that's that's but that's why I don't operate 1:02:42.880 --> 1:02:47.840 like but you but as women, you bank has a 1:02:47.920 --> 1:02:51.720 balid point. Women everybody been with a man before they 1:02:51.760 --> 1:02:54.560 get to know that man. And so what I that's 1:02:54.600 --> 1:02:57.280 the thing one thing that I will not do. I 1:02:57.360 --> 1:03:00.640 will go my last long term relations ship. I didn't 1:03:00.640 --> 1:03:02.680 sleep with him for four months, but I allowed him 1:03:02.720 --> 1:03:05.320 to sleep with whoever. I used to post on Instagram 1:03:05.360 --> 1:03:07.560 like Oh, he left me in the hotel for twelve 1:03:07.600 --> 1:03:09.160 hours because he wanted to go get a dig suck, 1:03:09.240 --> 1:03:11.439 but he always came back. And I knew I wasn't 1:03:11.480 --> 1:03:14.480 providing the service. So I can't tell you don't get 1:03:14.480 --> 1:03:17.040 the service if I'm not willing to provide it. But 1:03:17.400 --> 1:03:19.720 I made him get to know me first. I made 1:03:19.800 --> 1:03:22.520 him tell me all kinds of things about him, and 1:03:22.600 --> 1:03:25.200 him know things about me, and he he always tell 1:03:25.280 --> 1:03:27.320 people like I just wanted to fuck the bitch, but 1:03:27.400 --> 1:03:29.080 she made me get to know her, and then I 1:03:29.200 --> 1:03:31.000 liked her. Dude, after I fucked, I tried to get 1:03:31.080 --> 1:03:32.680 rid of Did you miss her? 1:03:33.280 --> 1:03:35.160 Alright? What you think about that? 1:03:35.960 --> 1:03:42.040 Which part? What we talking? Anything? Go back to your point, 1:03:42.120 --> 1:03:42.959 say what you just said. 1:03:43.000 --> 1:03:45.800 My point was I really kind of forgot what I said. 1:03:45.960 --> 1:03:47.720 Oh you said no no no no no no no no. 1:03:47.720 --> 1:03:48.919 No no what you said? 1:03:48.960 --> 1:03:50.520 You said, you're getting to know a bitch? 1:03:50.920 --> 1:03:51.360 Y'all? Fuck? 1:03:51.400 --> 1:03:53.520 Why are you waiting until after you know her to try. 1:03:53.400 --> 1:03:56.000 To get it know at It ain't no man, listen, bro, 1:03:56.400 --> 1:03:59.880 I ain't talking about me personally, I'm saying in general, 1:04:00.440 --> 1:04:01.280 and we all. 1:04:01.160 --> 1:04:04.439 Know people just can't to be truthful. Man, I'm sick 1:04:04.480 --> 1:04:04.880 of y'all. 1:04:05.640 --> 1:04:09.200 You meet a motherfucker, man, women, men, whoever, you know, 1:04:09.280 --> 1:04:11.400 if you're gonna give her, get him some pussy of 1:04:11.440 --> 1:04:13.480 if he you're gonna suck her. You already know that 1:04:13.560 --> 1:04:15.400 when you first meet a person. I always tell that 1:04:15.520 --> 1:04:19.160 when I first if I was single. I'm just speaking hypothetic. 1:04:20.320 --> 1:04:25.040 I see a woman, I'm not thinking about. Nothing goes 1:04:25.080 --> 1:04:26.920 on with her. Besides I want. 1:04:26.800 --> 1:04:31.720 To sleep with her. That's just anyway. Anyway, that's because 1:04:31.720 --> 1:04:32.560 it's the first thing. 1:04:32.480 --> 1:04:35.840 Is physical attraction, right, So that's that's gonna be like damn. 1:04:35.880 --> 1:04:36.760 I kind of like that. 1:04:37.200 --> 1:04:38.960 So that's what I'm thinking about off the rip, I 1:04:38.960 --> 1:04:41.320 ain't thinking about can she read? 1:04:46.960 --> 1:04:47.400 You read? 1:04:48.000 --> 1:04:51.720 If your asspact? You think I can? If you can read, okay, 1:04:51.960 --> 1:04:56.600 we'll figure that later this ship. 1:04:56.720 --> 1:04:57.720 Hen why. 1:04:59.720 --> 1:05:03.560 You she can't? She can't read? She can suck men 1:05:03.640 --> 1:05:05.960 big yeah, yeah, that count. 1:05:08.160 --> 1:05:11.240 She could count. She don't gotta read, but she knows 1:05:11.280 --> 1:05:12.560 her number. No but you. 1:05:12.600 --> 1:05:15.120 But you gotta beware though, because there are some crazy 1:05:15.160 --> 1:05:17.840 ass bitches out here that you can fuck and don't 1:05:17.840 --> 1:05:20.520 know nothing about her unless you know. Now she's stalking you. 1:05:20.720 --> 1:05:22.880 Now she's doing some all types of crazy ship. You 1:05:22.880 --> 1:05:25.120 know what I'm saying, Like you have Like when I'm saying, 1:05:25.120 --> 1:05:26.960 as a woman, if you just gonna suck a girl, 1:05:27.240 --> 1:05:28.960 like let her know what's going on, if you got 1:05:28.960 --> 1:05:31.560 a situation, let her know, if you just trying to. 1:05:31.560 --> 1:05:32.440 Suck her, let her know. 1:05:32.640 --> 1:05:34.680 And everybody scared because it's like, oh, if I say something, 1:05:34.680 --> 1:05:36.280 she may not be willing to fuck. But let her 1:05:36.360 --> 1:05:39.840 make that decision because then you're gonna ultimately fuck yourself up. 1:05:40.400 --> 1:05:42.640 Now she's pulling up on you, and you're like, damn, bitch. 1:05:46.440 --> 1:05:48.840 I'm about to say, that's how to make good decisions. 1:05:48.840 --> 1:05:49.400 I'm gonna put this. 1:05:51.240 --> 1:05:53.240 It's not even that serious, like, yeah, I got a 1:05:53.240 --> 1:05:54.520 girl that I'm already fucking. 1:05:55.480 --> 1:05:58.120 That you fucking if you have a situation, you have. 1:05:58.080 --> 1:06:01.880 A situation that they got ship to do with you. 1:06:02.120 --> 1:06:04.320 Most men, and I'm gonna put this claim out there 1:06:04.360 --> 1:06:07.400 for men, most men be actually thinking they like the 1:06:07.480 --> 1:06:08.200 women at first. 1:06:08.360 --> 1:06:09.160 It's crazy. 1:06:09.480 --> 1:06:16.760 I don't believe what they do until they shows, until. 1:06:16.560 --> 1:06:19.800 Their mask come off. Because everybody come in a relationship 1:06:20.800 --> 1:06:21.560 with a mask on. 1:06:21.640 --> 1:06:23.200 I wouldn't give a fuck who you is. 1:06:23.480 --> 1:06:26.160 You not pulling up your regular self first day shout 1:06:26.920 --> 1:06:29.520 and I start seeing late on in life and how 1:06:29.520 --> 1:06:31.040 you really? How you really? 1:06:33.320 --> 1:06:34.920 I don't know. I still like you. 1:06:35.880 --> 1:06:38.720 Because you had a mask on, but like you just 1:06:38.720 --> 1:06:40.320 think somebody just gone. 1:06:41.120 --> 1:06:44.000 Like that's how you're gonna get authentic, your authentic self, though, 1:06:44.000 --> 1:06:46.240 You're gonna get your authentic person when you draw the 1:06:46.280 --> 1:06:52.240 line this who I am time. 1:06:52.280 --> 1:06:53.280 I think that it takes time. 1:06:53.160 --> 1:06:55.160 To If it takes time, are you mad at me? 1:06:55.200 --> 1:06:58.439 Because I don't like when you show me you. I'm saying, 1:06:58.480 --> 1:07:01.000 like a woman to say a nigga didn't because she 1:07:01.120 --> 1:07:03.320 waited six months down the line he finally found out 1:07:03.360 --> 1:07:03.840 who she was. 1:07:03.880 --> 1:07:06.280 He'd be like, Bro, I can't deal with this. How's 1:07:06.320 --> 1:07:06.680 he wrong? 1:07:07.160 --> 1:07:07.560 He's not. 1:07:07.720 --> 1:07:08.840 I wasn't even dating you. 1:07:09.080 --> 1:07:10.200 He's not wrong. 1:07:10.920 --> 1:07:12.800 That's what happens most of the time. But niggas don't 1:07:12.800 --> 1:07:14.520 even know that. I just cracked the cold to night. 1:07:14.680 --> 1:07:16.360 Niggas don't even know that what to be. He don't 1:07:16.400 --> 1:07:18.200 know how to say it. But I really like her brother, 1:07:18.280 --> 1:07:19.320 But I don't know what it is. 1:07:19.520 --> 1:07:21.400 You know what I'm saying. No, you don't, Bro, you 1:07:21.440 --> 1:07:22.080 don't like her. 1:07:22.840 --> 1:07:27.200 That's the truth, though, bro, like you most of these 1:07:27.200 --> 1:07:30.240 people be me and these people bro having six day 1:07:30.560 --> 1:07:31.600 all the good ship in. 1:07:31.560 --> 1:07:33.360 The beginning, you know what I'm saying, the butterflies, and 1:07:33.560 --> 1:07:36.400 she looked good. She got by some eight good outfits. 1:07:36.400 --> 1:07:38.520 She don't want somem eight good bags. 1:07:38.520 --> 1:07:38.960 She don't know. 1:07:39.360 --> 1:07:41.640 Now this shit started. Now she gotta repeat this ship. 1:07:42.040 --> 1:07:43.120 I've seen that jacket before. 1:07:43.120 --> 1:07:45.760 I see that. You try to reap it. You try 1:07:45.800 --> 1:07:47.360 to you know what I'm saying, And it ain't what 1:07:47.440 --> 1:07:49.600 you said it was, so we both was lying. 1:07:51.320 --> 1:07:54.040 If she did not she didn't want eighteen good outfits. 1:07:54.080 --> 1:07:56.360 You and slider jacket in y'all ain't nigga to the 1:07:56.400 --> 1:07:59.240 mall or nothing to get a little sweater at that point, 1:07:59.360 --> 1:08:01.960 because if you and seen me eight or ten times, 1:08:02.000 --> 1:08:05.680 that's over a month of good out Okay, But when 1:08:05.720 --> 1:08:07.960 I got when I when I have to buy that sweater, 1:08:08.320 --> 1:08:11.680 that would make me feel a way like that ship together. 1:08:12.520 --> 1:08:16.600 So you really just at that point at that point. 1:08:16.320 --> 1:08:21.360 If you will from the man, one more question, y'all 1:08:21.400 --> 1:08:25.559 before we go. It's a dude wrong for acting like 1:08:25.600 --> 1:08:27.599 he got money when you know, all women that's all 1:08:27.640 --> 1:08:29.479 they want your hero. 1:08:32.280 --> 1:08:34.639 Listen, we're from a town of Vaness's I don't. 1:08:34.680 --> 1:08:36.760 I don't blame them niggas because these niggas ain't got 1:08:36.840 --> 1:08:38.760 no money. They can't get no plussy, they can't get 1:08:38.800 --> 1:08:40.760 no woman. So are you mad at the nigga for 1:08:41.040 --> 1:08:44.160 fortraying he got money trying to get game? 1:08:45.080 --> 1:08:47.599 It's a game. We both playing the game, right. 1:08:48.600 --> 1:08:50.400 What's the guy? Hold on? Wait? 1:08:54.320 --> 1:08:56.200 What is the woman pretending to have? So the men 1:08:56.280 --> 1:08:58.000 pretending to have money, what's she pretending to have? 1:08:58.160 --> 1:09:01.559 The woman is pretending to be uh, what do you say? 1:09:01.600 --> 1:09:03.160 A nourisher? Because she really not. 1:09:03.520 --> 1:09:04.960 You don't give a fuck about her being a nurse. 1:09:05.680 --> 1:09:09.680 She pretended she got six, but she really don't. She 1:09:09.880 --> 1:09:14.120 pretended a lot in the beginning that mask so my mask, 1:09:14.200 --> 1:09:19.519 kids don't really oma what did some that? We're both lying. 1:09:21.640 --> 1:09:23.679 But let me tell you something. If you broke your 1:09:23.720 --> 1:09:26.400 dick shouldn't even be able to get hold Like if 1:09:26.400 --> 1:09:29.000 you ain't got nothing to offer and your ship together, 1:09:29.280 --> 1:09:31.200 God should be like limb dick. 1:09:33.320 --> 1:09:37.240 The hardest I'm trying to fuck up on something. 1:09:37.800 --> 1:09:41.880 She you're talking about, say that I was just about it. 1:09:43.720 --> 1:09:47.719 You motherfucker can't do that, but it's all I got. 1:09:47.600 --> 1:09:52.680 It work, So bank Cocho for waiting no more has 1:09:53.000 --> 1:09:54.480 has something for you? 1:09:54.040 --> 1:09:55.519 A Coco? What's up? 1:09:55.880 --> 1:09:56.280 Thank you know? 1:09:56.320 --> 1:09:56.720 I love you? 1:09:56.800 --> 1:09:56.960 Right? 1:09:57.280 --> 1:09:59.799 You sound and real. You're making men. 1:09:59.640 --> 1:10:02.719 Sound real selfish, right because at the end of the day, 1:10:02.840 --> 1:10:05.240 like when it comes to being truthful about stuff like 1:10:05.280 --> 1:10:08.080 if you got you got hold, Like like they said, women, 1:10:08.120 --> 1:10:09.680 we're gonna fuck you if we want to fuck you, 1:10:09.720 --> 1:10:12.040 regardless of what we're gonna do it, you can tell 1:10:12.080 --> 1:10:12.560 me on it. 1:10:12.640 --> 1:10:13.639 For what you tell me. 1:10:13.920 --> 1:10:15.240 You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be mad for 1:10:15.280 --> 1:10:17.080 a minute. But if I want to fuck. 1:10:16.880 --> 1:10:19.080 I'm a fuck. You understand what you're saying. 1:10:19.479 --> 1:10:22.080 So what happens is when y'all lying, like when guys 1:10:22.120 --> 1:10:22.760 lie to us. 1:10:23.000 --> 1:10:24.840 Going back to her question. 1:10:25.920 --> 1:10:28.559 Just acting No, not just the money, the fucking bitches, 1:10:28.600 --> 1:10:31.000 all kinds of stuff like anything a man is lying for, 1:10:31.120 --> 1:10:32.719 Like you don't want to tell us because you're scared 1:10:32.720 --> 1:10:35.040 you're gonna lose, not scared, whatever the reason is, you're 1:10:35.080 --> 1:10:36.920 not being honest about what you're doing. When they were 1:10:36.960 --> 1:10:39.680 talking about you know, men messing around, like tell me 1:10:39.720 --> 1:10:42.080 the truth. I'm like, you should now tell me the truth. 1:10:42.160 --> 1:10:44.679 You know what I'm saying. Let me let me, give 1:10:44.680 --> 1:10:46.680 me the choice to choose what I want to deal with. 1:10:46.960 --> 1:10:49.920 You know you don't tell the truth. Why because you 1:10:49.960 --> 1:10:50.760 don't want to lose the bit. 1:10:50.840 --> 1:10:51.920 Oh no, I'm gonna tell the truth. 1:10:54.439 --> 1:10:56.360 But look, it's going back to her when she was 1:10:56.439 --> 1:10:58.519 she was asking, why do men have to come in 1:10:58.560 --> 1:11:01.040 the door trying to build us up and make us 1:11:01.040 --> 1:11:03.200 feel away? And the reason a lot of times is 1:11:03.240 --> 1:11:06.920 because we are fucked up from previous niggas. 1:11:06.360 --> 1:11:07.400 Doing shit like that. 1:11:07.720 --> 1:11:10.439 So we guarded all of us fucked up niggas come 1:11:10.439 --> 1:11:12.840 into relationships fucked up too, you know what I'm saying. 1:11:12.840 --> 1:11:14.880 And y'all, y'all don't come in as y'all true self. 1:11:15.120 --> 1:11:17.479 We not coming there and fully hear everybody fucked up. 1:11:17.479 --> 1:11:19.240 So at the end of the day, you got it, 1:11:19.360 --> 1:11:21.160 like she was saying, like it's all chot. We all 1:11:21.200 --> 1:11:23.560 gotta learn if you fuck with somebody, this who you 1:11:23.600 --> 1:11:25.760 want to be your person, whatever you gonna go through 1:11:25.760 --> 1:11:28.160 whatever with that person, you're gonna be honest with that person. 1:11:28.400 --> 1:11:31.559 But if you not shit, you gonna get what she 1:11:31.720 --> 1:11:33.400 was saying, you gonna keep fucking up people. 1:11:33.400 --> 1:11:35.000 They going into relationships guarded. 1:11:35.680 --> 1:11:37.839 I agree with that coda that what you got. 1:11:37.960 --> 1:11:39.760 Nah, I was about to say, it just depends on 1:11:39.800 --> 1:11:42.559 the on the degree of fucked up because your your 1:11:42.600 --> 1:11:45.080 shit burnt down. I ain't finna goddamn bill this whole 1:11:45.080 --> 1:11:48.920 house up. You feel me, I'm not about like your shit. 1:11:49.040 --> 1:11:50.120 If your shit fucked up. 1:11:50.000 --> 1:11:50.320 I'm not. 1:11:50.400 --> 1:11:52.559 It's too much to deal with because it's gonna be. 1:11:52.760 --> 1:11:55.240 It's another woman that's Justine Stein that's not as fucked up. 1:11:55.320 --> 1:11:56.840 So why am I put up with your ship that 1:11:56.880 --> 1:11:59.120 another nigga did when I'm trying to build or I'm 1:11:59.120 --> 1:12:01.920 gonna live nothing to it another nigga actually affect my house? 1:12:02.080 --> 1:12:04.240 You feel me? But it's so many see the thing 1:12:04.280 --> 1:12:04.640 about it. 1:12:04.640 --> 1:12:07.160 And then, like you said, it may do sound selfish, 1:12:07.240 --> 1:12:09.240 and you're right, but I'm just speaking for I ain't 1:12:09.280 --> 1:12:11.479 speaking for the dudes that y'all pick over, you know 1:12:11.479 --> 1:12:12.880 what I'm saying. It's a lot of dudes out there 1:12:12.880 --> 1:12:14.880 that that y'all speak up, but y'all don't like them. 1:12:15.320 --> 1:12:17.120 Y'all want to go fuck with the niggas who you 1:12:17.160 --> 1:12:19.280 know it ain't ship and think you're gonna make them that. 1:12:19.400 --> 1:12:21.240 And then when he turned that girl just talking about 1:12:21.240 --> 1:12:22.639 this nigga he want to say no more. 1:12:23.160 --> 1:12:25.439 If you if you could convince your nigga to beat 1:12:25.439 --> 1:12:26.679 the nigga that's in your mind. 1:12:26.520 --> 1:12:29.759 You not gonna like him. I guarantee you that I agree. 1:12:30.360 --> 1:12:31.839 If you could convince your. 1:12:31.720 --> 1:12:34.080 Nigga to go for half of the ship, that damn 1:12:34.120 --> 1:12:37.920 he can go for this joke. Yeah, none, you turn 1:12:37.960 --> 1:12:40.720 it to you ain't got no spine. I know a 1:12:40.720 --> 1:12:43.000 bunch of good dudes out here, man that's really looking 1:12:43.000 --> 1:12:44.800 for wise like this is a good man, got a 1:12:44.840 --> 1:12:48.559 shit together, but he can't found him. Got the money, 1:12:48.640 --> 1:12:50.599 got everything, but brouh, I ain't fuck with the whole bro. 1:12:50.920 --> 1:12:55.920 Five O four three three eight having what a man 1:12:56.120 --> 1:12:56.719 in a back? 1:12:57.160 --> 1:12:58.960 No, but I'm just keeping it real. How many men 1:12:59.040 --> 1:13:01.599 you y'all know, Like I know a lot of dudes, 1:13:01.720 --> 1:13:03.800 be like, Bank, I want to be married, bro, I 1:13:03.800 --> 1:13:05.720 want to have kids. I want to do all that, Bro. 1:13:06.000 --> 1:13:07.560 But it's just like I got to move out of 1:13:07.560 --> 1:13:08.439 Atlanta or something. 1:13:09.479 --> 1:13:12.360 And women feel the same exact way. Huh, women feel 1:13:12.360 --> 1:13:12.840 the same way. 1:13:13.360 --> 1:13:16.080 All right, So real quick, she got another question for you, Bank, 1:13:16.120 --> 1:13:17.400 and then we're gonna move on to the left. 1:13:17.960 --> 1:13:18.040 Right. 1:13:19.080 --> 1:13:20.760 I wanted to answer your question when he was like 1:13:20.840 --> 1:13:24.080 it's okay for man to like fines or I'm from 1:13:24.080 --> 1:13:28.240 Atlanta too, So it depends on finis becuz. 1:13:28.280 --> 1:13:31.960 Hood nigga for this and green nigga for thiss is different. 1:13:32.000 --> 1:13:35.839 Like hood nigga, he can not have real money, legal money. 1:13:36.200 --> 1:13:39.280 He gonna make that shit happen for you. So if that. 1:13:39.320 --> 1:13:41.440 Nigga like you enough, he'ple can bill gatesmorrow. 1:13:42.439 --> 1:13:45.439 Nah facts, what's the green nigga for this nigga who 1:13:45.439 --> 1:13:47.240 got damn staying that mama ain't got. 1:13:47.040 --> 1:13:49.000 Now he's sweet. Anybody can get over him. 1:13:49.080 --> 1:13:51.519 That's the tricks the nigga that like they give his 1:13:51.600 --> 1:13:53.960 money out, but he really going to work a regular job. 1:13:54.840 --> 1:13:59.080 That ain't no getting finished. He getting he's getting into it. 1:13:59.520 --> 1:14:05.840 I thought, yeah, hold on, No, she just made a point. 1:14:05.880 --> 1:14:08.840 She said, leading with the money, right, I hate, she said, 1:14:08.920 --> 1:14:10.719 leading with the money, dudess, leading with money. 1:14:10.960 --> 1:14:13.160 I'm old school. I'm a South nigga. 1:14:13.160 --> 1:14:15.400 We you know, we believe in You know what I'm saying, 1:14:15.400 --> 1:14:17.679 put in my pocket, give me something. 1:14:18.000 --> 1:14:20.840 I'm down there trying to get two bringing some food. 1:14:20.840 --> 1:14:22.360 I appreciate it. I ain't tell you I'm going to 1:14:22.360 --> 1:14:23.000 give your money back. 1:14:23.000 --> 1:14:24.880 I'm that kind of nigga, I'm trying to see if 1:14:24.880 --> 1:14:26.440 you we if we partners. 1:14:27.080 --> 1:14:31.599 No, no, no, it's on your south side Atlanta. 1:14:34.439 --> 1:14:40.000 One we don't know, like so oh for sure. Shout 1:14:40.040 --> 1:14:41.080 out to the woman that feed. 1:14:40.960 --> 1:14:45.599 Niggas about your last night. 1:14:50.600 --> 1:14:52.920 She said, you can't if a dude lead with his money. 1:14:52.920 --> 1:14:55.280 Man most of the time, he finished, cause nigga ain't 1:14:55.280 --> 1:14:55.920 trying to get nobody. 1:14:56.680 --> 1:14:58.280 Most dudes money anyway. 1:14:58.439 --> 1:15:01.120 But this is you need to give the what you 1:15:01.240 --> 1:15:09.560 said or something right because of those things. 1:15:09.240 --> 1:15:10.400 They're literally leading. 1:15:10.479 --> 1:15:11.439 You lead with your money. 1:15:11.520 --> 1:15:13.280 You put up like you know, we know too many 1:15:13.280 --> 1:15:16.240 people that work all week to make it look like 1:15:16.280 --> 1:15:18.280 they're doing something on the weekend. 1:15:18.360 --> 1:15:18.559 Right. 1:15:19.320 --> 1:15:22.000 But if you led with that and you're mad, then now. 1:15:21.880 --> 1:15:25.280 This girl has aectations of these things from. 1:15:25.120 --> 1:15:28.400 You who you really mad at because you. 1:15:28.120 --> 1:15:31.320 You start and then this is the thing, try to 1:15:31.320 --> 1:15:33.200 with your money, and then a second she asks you 1:15:33.280 --> 1:15:37.799 for some second she said, hey, this is because my nigga, that's. 1:15:37.680 --> 1:15:38.240 What you had. 1:15:38.560 --> 1:15:40.920 You You being mad at her sound stupid because you 1:15:40.960 --> 1:15:42.960 put out bait to catch what you was fishing for 1:15:43.720 --> 1:15:46.600 total versus the women who actually ain't doing none of 1:15:46.600 --> 1:15:49.160 those things. And would like to have a high value 1:15:49.600 --> 1:15:51.760 man that kind of got this, you know, not kind 1:15:51.760 --> 1:15:52.880 of really got their stuff together. 1:15:52.920 --> 1:15:53.840 But most of them don't. 1:15:54.120 --> 1:15:56.880 But what happens is that, I mean, you not looking 1:15:56.880 --> 1:16:00.320 at her. She don't like the dime. And I'm gonna 1:16:00.320 --> 1:16:03.040 say this, but this is the truth. Most of the 1:16:03.120 --> 1:16:06.360 people that you're really looking for, you the upgrade for them, 1:16:06.840 --> 1:16:10.120 and not just financially. I'm saying you're the upgrade for 1:16:10.160 --> 1:16:12.120 them to want life to be different. 1:16:12.520 --> 1:16:14.479 That's that's the part we be looking at her. 1:16:14.520 --> 1:16:17.040 I was like, oh, well, you know, yeah, she c man, 1:16:17.240 --> 1:16:19.040 you know, she don't do this, this and that. Well 1:16:19.080 --> 1:16:21.559 I guess what if she had somebody that was willing 1:16:21.560 --> 1:16:23.280 gonna pay for her to get her time into a cup, 1:16:23.320 --> 1:16:25.120 breast lifted her booty, none and. 1:16:25.080 --> 1:16:25.800 All of those things. 1:16:25.800 --> 1:16:27.240 Guess what she gonna be lowyal to you. 1:16:27.320 --> 1:16:29.320 She gonna graise your children, She's gonna do all of 1:16:29.320 --> 1:16:29.880 these things. 1:16:29.920 --> 1:16:30.559 You don't want to. 1:16:30.479 --> 1:16:37.080 Fix nobody, but you want to be fixed, like I 1:16:37.080 --> 1:16:38.040 think I'm. 1:16:37.920 --> 1:16:41.719 Gonna fix my all right, all right, so look y'all, 1:16:42.280 --> 1:16:44.000 we do all snapped out. So look, look, go with 1:16:44.040 --> 1:16:46.600 the last question of the night. It is the we 1:16:46.680 --> 1:16:47.880 got an election coming up. 1:16:47.920 --> 1:16:50.720 So here's this question, right, do men and women make 1:16:50.760 --> 1:16:52.360 decisions differently under pressure? 1:16:52.960 --> 1:16:54.720 How should this be valued in leadership? 1:16:55.520 --> 1:16:59.440 Let's go with do men and women make decisions differently 1:16:59.560 --> 1:17:04.080 under and if so, how should this be value leadership? 1:17:04.160 --> 1:17:05.200 We'll start with you, Kodak. 1:17:07.560 --> 1:17:11.519 I do believe men and women make decisions under pressure differently. 1:17:11.880 --> 1:17:16.120 I believe politically is different than like socially. So like 1:17:16.240 --> 1:17:19.080 we're talking about if we only got fifty dollars, then 1:17:19.120 --> 1:17:20.599 we need to figure out which bill need to get 1:17:20.640 --> 1:17:23.759 paid first. That's different. Then you know, if we're gonna bomb, 1:17:23.760 --> 1:17:28.280 I ran or some shit. But it just it is different. 1:17:28.640 --> 1:17:31.720 It is different. I feel like just being in clutch situations. 1:17:32.040 --> 1:17:33.960 That's why a lot of times, that's why the man 1:17:34.040 --> 1:17:36.280 is the leader in of the house in most situations, 1:17:36.680 --> 1:17:39.479 in most traditional senses, the man is gonna lead because 1:17:39.479 --> 1:17:42.559 he can make better decisions in that moment. Now, I 1:17:42.600 --> 1:17:50.160 do believe in a successful family unit, then a positive 1:17:50.200 --> 1:17:52.920 decision can be made with the input of women because 1:17:53.320 --> 1:17:55.720 you can see something from a different perspective, then I'm 1:17:55.720 --> 1:17:58.160 gonna see it and that's gonna help make the best 1:17:58.200 --> 1:18:01.479 decision because I mean again, I work with Jojo, so 1:18:01.520 --> 1:18:04.240 it's almost like we do make some of these decisions. 1:18:04.360 --> 1:18:06.720 I'd be like, fuck them folks all the time, and 1:18:06.800 --> 1:18:08.559 Joe's were like, well, no, we can't say fuck them 1:18:08.560 --> 1:18:16.000 folks because that's your boss. And so whereas I would 1:18:16.000 --> 1:18:19.679 be very brutish in the situation, she will come with tack. 1:18:19.760 --> 1:18:21.600 Like I think a perfect example like last week with 1:18:21.640 --> 1:18:24.000 the homecoming, I'm like, fuck it, put everybody in the room, 1:18:24.000 --> 1:18:26.439 we're gonna put them together. JoJo's like, no, we're gonna 1:18:26.479 --> 1:18:28.479 get a list, we're gonna put it together, we're gonna 1:18:28.479 --> 1:18:33.559 call names off. And I'm like, you're right. I wouldn't 1:18:33.560 --> 1:18:34.960 even thought to do it like that, even though it 1:18:34.960 --> 1:18:37.719 sounds like some simple ship, simple shit to do. Whereas 1:18:37.760 --> 1:18:43.040 in the beginning I did say niggas is slow, I'm niggas. 1:18:44.439 --> 1:18:45.080 You stupid. 1:18:45.920 --> 1:18:47.000 Joe. 1:18:49.840 --> 1:18:51.080 Yeah, I think that. 1:18:52.520 --> 1:18:59.559 When you say under pressure, I think that women me 1:19:02.200 --> 1:19:06.200 who's that? I think women make good decisions under pressure. 1:19:07.000 --> 1:19:11.120 I think that we can think rationally and we know 1:19:11.240 --> 1:19:15.479 how to dig into that emotional side as well, which 1:19:15.640 --> 1:19:19.840 is something that most men can't do. Like most men 1:19:19.880 --> 1:19:23.760 are gonna go straight, business straight, corporate straight. This is 1:19:23.760 --> 1:19:26.200 what we need to do, and they're gonna like try 1:19:26.240 --> 1:19:28.760 to like grab the dick a little bit too, you 1:19:28.800 --> 1:19:30.639 know what I'm saying. So it's just like, but as 1:19:30.680 --> 1:19:34.280 a woman, she can she can go in with with 1:19:34.400 --> 1:19:40.800 elegance and she can literally diffuse a situation better than 1:19:40.800 --> 1:19:43.360 a man. I feel like, with a simple smile for real, 1:19:43.400 --> 1:19:45.360 it's all to take because y'all niggas so easy. 1:19:45.880 --> 1:19:53.000 But yeah, go ahead, bank. Uh what question? 1:19:53.960 --> 1:19:58.799 Do men and women under pressure? 1:19:59.160 --> 1:20:02.360 Thank you? Men and women make decisions better under pressure? 1:20:02.439 --> 1:20:04.680 It depends. It depends on what type of decision on 1:20:06.400 --> 1:20:10.840 I feel like if it's it's situational, we're talking about 1:20:10.840 --> 1:20:12.639 familiar decisions. 1:20:12.080 --> 1:20:15.120 Like it's like business relationship, what what type of decision? 1:20:15.360 --> 1:20:15.599 Damn? 1:20:15.880 --> 1:20:17.320 Underpressure? 1:20:17.439 --> 1:20:20.320 Anything under pressure? So somebody come up in here right now. 1:20:21.280 --> 1:20:24.000 Who who's gonna react calmly? A man or woman? 1:20:25.560 --> 1:20:27.439 I think a man gonna add more calm than a woman, 1:20:27.920 --> 1:20:30.200 but some women be calm though. It depends on what 1:20:30.240 --> 1:20:31.599 the man coming in here doing. He coming in here 1:20:31.640 --> 1:20:34.400 with waving a gun, they gonna panic and run out 1:20:34.479 --> 1:20:34.920 from that. 1:20:35.360 --> 1:20:37.280 He coming in on it, that's the right decision, huh, 1:20:37.760 --> 1:20:40.040 he coming in on that? So who's gonna who's gonna 1:20:40.080 --> 1:20:42.040 act calmly underressure? Wh're gona get us out of here 1:20:42.240 --> 1:20:43.519 the way we need to get out of here. 1:20:45.000 --> 1:20:46.760 It's left up to the man, right for that. 1:20:46.840 --> 1:20:51.680 Well, that's different I think honestly men, because women, a 1:20:51.680 --> 1:20:54.879 lot of times we react based on the emotion, thank you, 1:20:54.960 --> 1:20:57.800 So if we're being honest, So if if somebody came 1:20:57.840 --> 1:20:59.720 in here waving a gun, I think, you know, men 1:20:59.760 --> 1:21:02.080 will be to control the situation a little better and 1:21:02.120 --> 1:21:03.920 we might panic a little more because that's just how 1:21:03.920 --> 1:21:07.479 we handle situations. So just naturally, I do think men 1:21:07.560 --> 1:21:11.320 are better leaders and they react better under pressure. But again, 1:21:11.400 --> 1:21:13.360 like you said, it depends on what pressure we're talking about. 1:21:14.400 --> 1:21:17.799 We at the house political okay, if we're talking business 1:21:17.880 --> 1:21:20.760 and it's a little different, we're talking about the household. 1:21:20.920 --> 1:21:23.360 We know women kind of we handle the kids a 1:21:23.360 --> 1:21:25.200 little different. We handle kids a little better. So it 1:21:25.240 --> 1:21:28.000 just depends on what kind of pressure we talking about. 1:21:28.120 --> 1:21:28.519 Exactly. 1:21:28.560 --> 1:21:30.160 I think if a guy came in here with a gun, 1:21:30.160 --> 1:21:33.360 I think that falls under the protector the protect the umbrellas. 1:21:33.400 --> 1:21:36.439 So men, I feel like would probably handle that situation. 1:21:36.479 --> 1:21:45.680 But I'm running out back, Nah, but I feel like, 1:21:46.400 --> 1:21:50.519 I guess that's the Kamala Harris And that's a Kamala 1:21:50.560 --> 1:21:53.720 Harris question basically, like what she if her dude pissed off? 1:21:53.720 --> 1:21:56.479 What she got? Damn wake up and bomb someone? Correct? 1:21:56.680 --> 1:22:00.360 I believe so, Chanelle, what you think you? I know, 1:22:00.400 --> 1:22:00.840 if my. 1:22:00.760 --> 1:22:04.200 Wife was the president and I pissed off, everybody gotta go. 1:22:06.360 --> 1:22:07.080 No, I don't think so. 1:22:07.680 --> 1:22:13.240 I don't know. You know, see, I hate to talk 1:22:13.280 --> 1:22:16.280 about like political stuff like that's not really just like 1:22:16.400 --> 1:22:20.120 my my thing that I prefer to talk about. And 1:22:21.840 --> 1:22:25.280 I believe men should be the leaders in my personal opinion, 1:22:25.600 --> 1:22:28.560 I'm I mean, I'm not gonna talk about who I 1:22:28.640 --> 1:22:31.920 voted for or whatever. But you know, in a situation 1:22:32.120 --> 1:22:36.320 where if it's in business under pressure, I think women 1:22:36.439 --> 1:22:41.599 will help you make a clearer decision. But women are 1:22:41.800 --> 1:22:46.479 very emotional, so I don't I think she can help 1:22:46.560 --> 1:22:49.639 you make the best decision when two when the two 1:22:49.720 --> 1:22:54.160 come together, I don't think it's a standalone situation. I 1:22:54.200 --> 1:22:56.080 think if it's me and you in a room and 1:22:56.120 --> 1:22:59.360 it's some pressure, we gonna figure out how to make 1:22:59.400 --> 1:23:02.479 this make sense. The same way he just kind of 1:23:02.479 --> 1:23:06.200 said with them in business, they was discussing something he 1:23:06.280 --> 1:23:08.880 had one way, and Jojo simply came, well, no, what's 1:23:08.920 --> 1:23:11.839 Gorna doing like that? And ultimately it was her helping 1:23:11.920 --> 1:23:15.280 him as a collective, so it was a team. Yeah. 1:23:15.320 --> 1:23:17.760 So ultimately you might listen to the man like if 1:23:17.800 --> 1:23:19.360 it's too in a situation, you'd be like, okay, what 1:23:19.360 --> 1:23:21.439 we're gonna do? Goddamn? And he said now we're gonna 1:23:21.439 --> 1:23:23.679 blow this ship up, he'd be like, whoa hold on, Now, 1:23:24.280 --> 1:23:27.000 we can't do that, but this is what it's gonna 1:23:27.040 --> 1:23:29.080 cause it's gonna happen from this is gonna this. I 1:23:29.160 --> 1:23:31.120 think about that, and that's what we. 1:23:31.760 --> 1:23:35.760 Like more rational, right, but also to like count of that, 1:23:35.840 --> 1:23:38.720 sometimes the ship needs to get blown up too. 1:23:40.000 --> 1:23:41.840 And then if he say that and he's like, nah, 1:23:41.880 --> 1:23:43.360 but this ship really needs to get blown up, and 1:23:43.360 --> 1:23:44.719 I'll be like, blow that ship up. 1:23:44.600 --> 1:23:47.960 Baby, cause like today I told you what I told you, 1:23:47.960 --> 1:23:50.000 You text me that ship today, I like, shit, fuck 1:23:50.320 --> 1:23:54.120 she folk that ship. 1:23:55.680 --> 1:23:58.559 More al the story, man, I don't think I could 1:23:58.600 --> 1:24:00.880 be a man without a woman at the bottom line. 1:24:02.200 --> 1:24:06.800 So however, whatever we love y'all, but still y'all, I'm 1:24:06.800 --> 1:24:14.320 at all right real quick, yo, what let me say this. 1:24:15.160 --> 1:24:19.280 Let me say this right here. Do women tell their 1:24:19.439 --> 1:24:24.559 friends when they tripping? Please answer that, yes, okay, all right, 1:24:24.640 --> 1:24:26.479 all right, all right, that's a good question. 1:24:27.600 --> 1:24:31.679 But do you come around this dude with her acting 1:24:31.720 --> 1:24:32.679 like she wasn't tripping? 1:24:33.800 --> 1:24:35.880 No, huh. 1:24:36.960 --> 1:24:40.040 So listen if you if you was tripping, right, we 1:24:40.040 --> 1:24:41.679 was in a relationship and you was tripping. I feel 1:24:41.760 --> 1:24:44.280 like me you was into it, and she told you 1:24:44.320 --> 1:24:46.679 in the car that you was wrong. She not finna 1:24:46.760 --> 1:24:49.080 let me know that she told you. She let me 1:24:49.120 --> 1:24:49.799 know that you're. 1:24:49.640 --> 1:24:54.559 Wrong, my friend, She's gonna tell me. 1:24:54.439 --> 1:24:57.200 And and you're not gonna go on me that you're 1:24:57.240 --> 1:24:57.760 wrong either. 1:24:57.920 --> 1:24:59.960 Well, I'm a geminized I'm gonna just come make it better. 1:25:00.240 --> 1:25:02.599 But I'm not really gonna apologize all the time. I'm 1:25:02.640 --> 1:25:04.719 just gonna come try to figure out how to fix 1:25:04.800 --> 1:25:07.680 it without the actual apology. You know, Gemini is a 1:25:07.720 --> 1:25:08.480 little crazy. 1:25:08.640 --> 1:25:10.559 Well why does it matter if her friends too? 1:25:11.280 --> 1:25:11.800 Not tell me? 1:25:11.840 --> 1:25:16.080 I'm just saying, like, just say fencing, Like, when a 1:25:16.120 --> 1:25:18.080 woman is right, you know, they got to be right 1:25:18.120 --> 1:25:22.599 for a whole year about that one thing. So I'm 1:25:22.640 --> 1:25:26.040 always right about everything. When I'm right one time, and 1:25:26.040 --> 1:25:27.360 it's intuition ship? 1:25:28.160 --> 1:25:33.519 How how accurate do y'all think intuition is? So? 1:25:33.640 --> 1:25:37.240 Why ask me then? If you already know some ship 1:25:38.000 --> 1:25:39.600 and you thought of it, why ask me? 1:25:39.720 --> 1:25:46.400 Hold hello, bank, hold on? If the intuition is that accurate, 1:25:46.400 --> 1:25:48.360 why y'all keep running in to the niggas? 1:25:48.520 --> 1:25:49.040 Thank you? 1:25:49.520 --> 1:25:51.800 Because you guess what you are? 1:25:52.840 --> 1:25:55.160 Hold now we're cooking. Now we're cooking. 1:25:55.439 --> 1:25:59.280 No, you already found could But guess what a lot. 1:25:59.120 --> 1:26:01.880 Of women want to see if they can't figure out 1:26:01.920 --> 1:26:02.559 how to. 1:26:02.520 --> 1:26:04.320 Change change exactly. 1:26:04.439 --> 1:26:07.360 They already know you're fucked up, but they like, I'm 1:26:07.360 --> 1:26:13.120 gonna fuck this ship out of him. I'm gonna change 1:26:14.280 --> 1:26:15.240 so you think. 1:26:15.320 --> 1:26:17.519 So you should be mad at you pussy cause your 1:26:17.520 --> 1:26:19.000 pussy can't change this man. 1:26:19.600 --> 1:26:22.639 Pussy get lonely too, like the little dicks get lonely. 1:26:23.520 --> 1:26:25.920 What I'm saying, she said, women feel as if though 1:26:28.200 --> 1:26:32.160 around she can find meet you today, and you drink beer. 1:26:33.640 --> 1:26:35.880 I don't like beer, though, girl. She's telling a friend 1:26:35.960 --> 1:26:37.799 to leave, but it now he's gonna be a fucking 1:26:37.840 --> 1:26:40.880 beer drinker for the rest of his life. But you 1:26:41.040 --> 1:26:42.960 thinking I can love him enough and then I can 1:26:43.000 --> 1:26:44.840 say it in a way he'll stop drinking beer. 1:26:45.600 --> 1:26:46.439 That never happens. 1:26:46.439 --> 1:26:49.640 You gotta ask yourself if I can I live and 1:26:49.680 --> 1:26:51.879 love this person if he don't change nothing. 1:26:51.680 --> 1:26:52.719 About him forever. 1:26:53.080 --> 1:26:53.720 The problem is. 1:26:53.680 --> 1:26:56.000 That's what you gotta do. That's how you pick your partner. Man. 1:26:56.200 --> 1:26:58.240 You look at a person up and down? Can I 1:26:58.280 --> 1:26:59.920 love this person just like this? 1:27:00.040 --> 1:27:03.400 With el? Anything you do extra after that is extra? 1:27:04.439 --> 1:27:04.920 I agree? 1:27:05.600 --> 1:27:10.040 But come on, I get plad of mic please. Somebody 1:27:10.040 --> 1:27:12.759 get blad of mic. Better, get plaud of mic please. 1:27:13.160 --> 1:27:16.800 But let me tell you before she say something. The 1:27:17.000 --> 1:27:20.639 issue is this, you don't get to meet that person 1:27:20.680 --> 1:27:24.479 because everybody lying in the beginning. That's so you getting 1:27:24.479 --> 1:27:27.240 down the line. Ain't nine months, nigga, finest you for 1:27:27.240 --> 1:27:27.960 a whole year? 1:27:28.080 --> 1:27:37.479 How intuition intuition package that ship is one hundred percent? 1:27:38.840 --> 1:27:39.120 What the. 1:27:41.240 --> 1:27:42.559 Broke that intuition broke? 1:27:42.640 --> 1:27:45.879 And just be lying percon accurate. 1:27:46.000 --> 1:27:47.920 I just said on thousand percent. 1:27:48.800 --> 1:27:52.200 Say that I said it's a thousand percent accurate? Are 1:27:52.200 --> 1:27:53.160 you sure did? 1:27:55.120 --> 1:27:58.479 Don't be lying intuition? No, no, no, don't. 1:27:58.280 --> 1:28:00.280 Lie and say that you're gonna stop drinking beer. 1:28:00.520 --> 1:28:00.760 Don't. 1:28:01.040 --> 1:28:04.320 This is where when she comes into play. No, no, no, 1:28:04.360 --> 1:28:06.000 this is where the intuition come into play. It's like, Okay, 1:28:06.080 --> 1:28:08.040 I'm drinking beer and I'm dealing with this nigga whos 1:28:08.080 --> 1:28:09.880 drinking beer? Are We'll leave him, girl, he ain't gonna 1:28:09.880 --> 1:28:11.960 stop drinking beer. Yeah, but he told me that he 1:28:12.040 --> 1:28:12.759 was gonna stop. 1:28:12.840 --> 1:28:14.679 Like, I trust him. I know he gonna stop. 1:28:15.200 --> 1:28:16.559 I was gonna try. I'm addicted. 1:28:16.680 --> 1:28:18.639 No, but listen, but you keep doing it and keep 1:28:18.680 --> 1:28:20.000 doing it, but you lie about it. 1:28:20.200 --> 1:28:21.680 That's where then t wish you keep coming in. 1:28:21.960 --> 1:28:24.639 You like, I know this nigga drinking this fucking beer. 1:28:25.120 --> 1:28:27.519 But if we having a conversation and I tell you 1:28:27.800 --> 1:28:31.240 stop cutting me off, stop cutting me off, women all say, well, 1:28:31.280 --> 1:28:33.720 that's just I'm just I'm sorry. I don't be trying 1:28:33.720 --> 1:28:37.080 to do it on purpose. I'm understand everything that goes 1:28:37.120 --> 1:28:40.000 on with a woman. A man has to understand. But 1:28:40.040 --> 1:28:42.280 when a dude got a defect about him, it's. 1:28:42.280 --> 1:28:45.720 It's like change it. No, change it, brother, It's not 1:28:46.000 --> 1:28:48.400 hold up. You can I can say. 1:28:47.560 --> 1:28:52.960 It, don't come it. Everything that I say that I 1:28:52.960 --> 1:28:55.160 don't like about you as a woman, you'd be like 1:28:55.160 --> 1:28:59.599 except me for who I am, absolutely and everything that you. 1:28:59.560 --> 1:29:02.839 Say you like me. That's which is everything. 1:29:03.520 --> 1:29:05.640 I gotta fit, I gotta be like, I need to go, 1:29:05.840 --> 1:29:07.280 I need to change for my baby. 1:29:07.479 --> 1:29:09.840 But it's huh, go ahead. 1:29:10.840 --> 1:29:14.200 The intuition thing is true, it is it don't lie 1:29:14.240 --> 1:29:18.160 to us. We lie to ourselfs because our intuition will 1:29:18.200 --> 1:29:20.680 have already told us exactly. 1:29:20.200 --> 1:29:20.880 What it was. 1:29:21.320 --> 1:29:25.000 And then we'll say, okay, I heard this, because can 1:29:25.040 --> 1:29:28.400 I just be honest? And most of the time we 1:29:28.439 --> 1:29:31.120 don't trust ourselves. We know our intuition be right, but 1:29:31.160 --> 1:29:33.920 we don't trust ourselves because we did pick the last 1:29:34.160 --> 1:29:34.880 that didn't do right. 1:29:35.280 --> 1:29:39.360 Trust him. We're not trusting ourselves trying to trust him right. 1:29:39.439 --> 1:29:39.960 We're trying. 1:29:40.160 --> 1:29:42.840 We're trying to get past our trust issues right. So 1:29:43.120 --> 1:29:46.000 that's how we are rationalized with our intuition. And then 1:29:46.120 --> 1:29:49.040 the sad part is is that's why what they say 1:29:49.400 --> 1:29:50.200 hindsight is. 1:29:50.120 --> 1:29:53.360 Twenty twenty made me feel like this was some is off. 1:29:54.439 --> 1:29:57.800 That's something that's off, was off before you had says 1:29:58.120 --> 1:30:00.000 and still kept doing it. But this is the thing 1:30:00.880 --> 1:30:03.320 that don't mean her intuition wasn't right. That means she 1:30:03.320 --> 1:30:08.440 didn't trust herself enough and that. 1:30:07.120 --> 1:30:10.120 I gotta guy, hold hold on, hold on, So I. 1:30:10.080 --> 1:30:12.400 Gotta be the fall guy because you know that your 1:30:12.439 --> 1:30:15.360 intuition one hundred percent correct. But you went against yourself 1:30:15.400 --> 1:30:18.240 for a nigga that you know you already know because God, 1:30:18.320 --> 1:30:19.760 whoever the intuition. 1:30:19.400 --> 1:30:21.880 They told you, So you you mad? 1:30:22.600 --> 1:30:28.519 You yess what? Yes? What you feeling? 1:30:29.160 --> 1:30:31.320 Hold on listen? But that's but that's not I'm like, 1:30:31.360 --> 1:30:32.200 but that's how a woman. 1:30:32.320 --> 1:30:36.839 That's how woman remains bitter because she's not accusing the mirror. 1:30:37.160 --> 1:30:39.439 She gotta be like, hey, man, you knew that ship 1:30:39.560 --> 1:30:41.479 was wrong. You knew it from the beginning. Nigga was 1:30:41.479 --> 1:30:42.920 a fuck nigga bro eat that. 1:30:43.400 --> 1:30:46.680 But to the next day the intuition might be right, 1:30:46.760 --> 1:30:48.920 but guess what some of you niggas be coming fucking 1:30:48.960 --> 1:30:52.160 the ship out of us, God damn it. And sometimes 1:30:52.160 --> 1:30:55.080 and then the one that's gonna do your right, this 1:30:55.200 --> 1:30:57.559 big and the one that's gonna do your wrong, did 1:30:57.760 --> 1:31:00.200 this big beating up beating that thing. 1:31:00.680 --> 1:31:01.719 So tell what I'm saying. 1:31:01.760 --> 1:31:04.880 So sometimes we know you ain't shit, we know you 1:31:05.000 --> 1:31:08.400 ain't right, but that thing is thanking, So we be like, girl, 1:31:08.520 --> 1:31:10.120 he gonna change, Girl. 1:31:10.000 --> 1:31:14.320 He gonna listen, what what what you what you're talking about? 1:31:14.479 --> 1:31:17.480 That's not but that's not intuition. That is hindsight. 1:31:17.560 --> 1:31:19.840 Of course, it's easy to say you made the right 1:31:19.880 --> 1:31:22.360 decision after you realize you made the wrong decision. 1:31:23.439 --> 1:31:24.439 You was already wrong. 1:31:24.640 --> 1:31:26.439 You picked, you picked it. 1:31:26.960 --> 1:31:27.519 It's not that. 1:31:32.400 --> 1:31:32.679 Listen. 1:31:32.880 --> 1:31:38.599 Yeah, no, no, I understand what you said. Hold bank, 1:31:38.880 --> 1:31:40.559 I play, I play. I play a lot of fantasy 1:31:40.560 --> 1:31:42.879 football this year. Right, So if I start a quarterback 1:31:42.920 --> 1:31:45.040 and I'm like, man, he ain't gonna be shipped, but 1:31:45.120 --> 1:31:46.840 let me put him in. Let me start him this week, 1:31:47.000 --> 1:31:48.320 he throw four interceptions. 1:31:48.479 --> 1:31:50.200 She I already knew, but you know what that was. 1:31:50.240 --> 1:31:52.880 That's not intuition, that's hindsight because I didn't go with 1:31:52.920 --> 1:31:54.439 the thought that I knew was right. 1:31:54.720 --> 1:32:00.679 I kept that nigga in there. No, man, don't understand. 1:32:00.720 --> 1:32:02.479 I just it's just way. 1:32:02.400 --> 1:32:07.400 We had somebody over there. I want to talk the top. 1:32:07.960 --> 1:32:10.080 Just stop lying, bro, what's the lie? 1:32:10.080 --> 1:32:11.360 Bro? Hold up? Hold up? 1:32:11.439 --> 1:32:15.599 HELDO heard women say, why did you say that nigga? 1:32:15.640 --> 1:32:17.599 Like I ain't saying nothing, Well, why you do it 1:32:17.640 --> 1:32:18.280 to me like that. 1:32:19.920 --> 1:32:21.920 Fish? That's how I do it. 1:32:24.320 --> 1:32:24.880 That's a lie. 1:32:25.080 --> 1:32:27.760 What you mean if a nigga basically what she just said, 1:32:27.840 --> 1:32:30.559 if a nigga ain't gotta say nothing. He just treats 1:32:30.600 --> 1:32:33.160 you how you want to be treated and fuck you 1:32:33.200 --> 1:32:35.320 how you want to be fucked tomorrow When that nigga 1:32:35.360 --> 1:32:37.400 don't answer whatever he's doing, he could be being s 1:32:37.600 --> 1:32:41.439 for real. Now it's like you tripping, like flipping out. 1:32:41.560 --> 1:32:43.519 She thinking, she flipping out because you don't win ghosts. 1:32:43.560 --> 1:32:44.880 Ain't went got they by being business. 1:32:45.120 --> 1:32:49.000 You know this, okay, but then you're you're concoct the 1:32:49.040 --> 1:32:52.160 whole move in your head that now you calling me 1:32:52.160 --> 1:32:54.120 and you shifting our energy that it wasn't even. 1:32:53.920 --> 1:32:57.959 That that's them. He switched up my intuition. 1:32:59.520 --> 1:33:01.040 I know what the fuck you doing If I'm sucking 1:33:01.040 --> 1:33:03.400 with a nigga like and I'm a and I'm accusing 1:33:03.479 --> 1:33:06.519 him for about something, I already know what's going on. 1:33:06.760 --> 1:33:09.559 I'm not gonna say something if I don't know what's 1:33:09.600 --> 1:33:14.679 going on. Us as women, we gonna know. 1:33:13.080 --> 1:33:15.080 No, knowing that we're gonna have to say something. 1:33:15.280 --> 1:33:18.160 We're no. 1:33:16.880 --> 1:33:20.200 No, you don't know ship if you knew that, and 1:33:20.200 --> 1:33:23.040 you'll know a lottery number, like if women can catch 1:33:23.280 --> 1:33:27.400 what you're doing, no, like a woman fucker need. 1:33:27.200 --> 1:33:28.639 A house, A motherfucker tell you a second. 1:33:28.680 --> 1:33:30.439 You're probably stopped by the store right there and got 1:33:30.479 --> 1:33:31.840 your rubbles and you went down there. 1:33:31.920 --> 1:33:34.360 I know it. You're probably that's a lot you need. 1:33:34.520 --> 1:33:35.720 God damn, that's a lot. 1:33:37.400 --> 1:33:37.920 That's a lot. 1:33:38.439 --> 1:33:41.839 If you could come up, you got a whole movie. 1:33:43.120 --> 1:33:44.320 And women really believe that. 1:33:44.320 --> 1:33:47.000 I'd have seen women sit around and think of something 1:33:47.080 --> 1:33:50.160 in their pestimistic mind and be for real mad at 1:33:50.160 --> 1:33:53.120 you about some ship that you ain't even. 1:33:52.880 --> 1:33:55.920 I don't know nothing about that. Yeah, that's some different ship. 1:33:56.040 --> 1:33:58.599 That's most like if you around somebody for a long. 1:33:58.439 --> 1:33:59.280 Ass, it's most of them. 1:33:59.320 --> 1:34:01.680 Because some women out of relationships and nigga, you can 1:34:01.760 --> 1:34:04.000 suck around the spream Saint cloonne that fuck nigga had on. 1:34:04.160 --> 1:34:07.200 Now you him, let me ask you this, now you him, let. 1:34:07.040 --> 1:34:07.719 Me ask you a questions. 1:34:08.160 --> 1:34:10.360 But they just said everybody's unhealed. 1:34:10.800 --> 1:34:14.360 Bank huh, bank huh. 1:34:14.479 --> 1:34:15.320 Let me ask you a question. 1:34:15.400 --> 1:34:15.799 Go ahead. 1:34:17.400 --> 1:34:19.280 Sean says, you know you better than you know yourself. 1:34:19.320 --> 1:34:23.040 Yes, so myself. She knows me. 1:34:23.320 --> 1:34:27.800 So if you start moving funny and in some off, 1:34:29.520 --> 1:34:30.320 she gonna know it. 1:34:30.520 --> 1:34:32.000 Listen you if. 1:34:31.880 --> 1:34:35.519 Something I'm being off in the past, man, something's gonna 1:34:35.520 --> 1:34:37.240 stay off, bro, it's just what it is. 1:34:37.360 --> 1:34:38.040 Once once you. 1:34:38.120 --> 1:34:41.200 Once, women do not gotta understand. Stop telling niggas you forget, 1:34:41.360 --> 1:34:43.639 forgave them because you don't answer the question. 1:34:44.439 --> 1:34:44.719 Huh. 1:34:44.920 --> 1:34:48.479 If something is off, something's gonna always be off because 1:34:48.520 --> 1:34:51.000 women have all the emotions just like a just like 1:34:51.080 --> 1:34:54.080 women do, So something's gonna always be off if I'm 1:34:54.120 --> 1:34:58.000 not carrying to your feelings in that moment. Regardless, you 1:34:58.080 --> 1:35:00.439 got a lot of people, got expectations without commit unication. 1:35:01.520 --> 1:35:03.519 You could have wanted something to eat, but I don't know. 1:35:03.640 --> 1:35:10.760 You home it like your wama get mad? Where you at? 1:35:10.800 --> 1:35:13.439 That ship on my arm right here, it plunks against 1:35:13.479 --> 1:35:14.599 against some bank bank. 1:35:15.240 --> 1:35:15.599 Mm hmm. 1:35:17.720 --> 1:35:22.599 I can't eat. That's a thing. Go bank. 1:35:22.680 --> 1:35:23.160 That's a thing. 1:35:23.439 --> 1:35:23.880 That's a thing. 1:35:24.000 --> 1:35:24.400 You got it. 1:35:24.479 --> 1:35:25.120 You that's a thing. 1:35:25.320 --> 1:35:26.080 What's the thing like? 1:35:26.160 --> 1:35:28.880 You can't go get no food without bringing no food? 1:35:30.360 --> 1:35:33.519 I get it. And let's sitting in my way, sook. Yes, 1:35:33.960 --> 1:35:39.439 that's cold, because y'all are it ain't consideration that I 1:35:39.560 --> 1:35:40.679 make sure you're okay. 1:35:40.800 --> 1:35:43.520 You're but y'all say I want to protect it provided 1:35:44.880 --> 1:35:49.639 look ug, look uga, but you got to go food 1:35:50.000 --> 1:35:53.120 and meet with stone and plants and get some food 1:35:53.920 --> 1:35:55.400 and I come back home full. 1:35:56.439 --> 1:35:59.080 You may get that food bank gonna stress us out 1:35:59.120 --> 1:36:01.040 bank my food. Get that food. 1:36:02.520 --> 1:36:08.439 Okay, you're supposed to call her actually you want something, 1:36:08.479 --> 1:36:10.439 But do you know how many times that you do 1:36:10.640 --> 1:36:12.080 things and you don't call it actually? 1:36:12.320 --> 1:36:12.439 Right? 1:36:13.320 --> 1:36:20.719 Yeah, huh fo different about food, all. 1:36:20.680 --> 1:36:23.120 Right, I'm just talking about period, man, Dudes supposed to 1:36:23.240 --> 1:36:26.240 I don't know, man, I guess I'm. 1:36:26.080 --> 1:36:28.679 Not talking the situation. I'm just accent period. Like most women. 1:36:28.760 --> 1:36:31.200 I have a lot of women women friends that are 1:36:31.240 --> 1:36:33.360 in here, we have a real conversation with off camera. 1:36:33.439 --> 1:36:35.479 They be legit, they beat, they beat. You know what 1:36:35.479 --> 1:36:36.519 I'm saying, saying the truth. 1:36:36.920 --> 1:36:39.160 Like you can have a friend that's a woman, that's 1:36:39.160 --> 1:36:41.439 a friend, right, she know all the real ship to 1:36:41.520 --> 1:36:43.360 me and know when she's not in a relationships. Soon 1:36:43.360 --> 1:36:45.280 as she get in a relationship, you turn into a 1:36:45.320 --> 1:36:47.680 fuck nigga too, because how dude doing her? 1:36:48.360 --> 1:36:50.639 Like damn sh you cool lab my little sister. 1:36:51.920 --> 1:36:53.720 Now you're in a relationship going through the ship that 1:36:53.760 --> 1:36:57.040 I'm putting the motherfucker through. Now I'm some bullshit, but 1:36:57.200 --> 1:36:59.760 you just understood it. When you want in a relationship, 1:36:59.800 --> 1:37:04.880 that's crazy. Right, huh do that happen? Yes, yes, thank you. 1:37:06.000 --> 1:37:09.160 Me and Seaney could be talking about something, she'd be yeah, yeah, man, yeah, 1:37:09.280 --> 1:37:09.840 you get with it. 1:37:09.960 --> 1:37:11.479 She get a nigga. She don't understand that. 1:37:11.600 --> 1:37:12.160 Even a son. 1:37:12.200 --> 1:37:13.960 I tell my wife this all the time. I hear 1:37:14.000 --> 1:37:16.840 you telling my kids shit that they shouldn't go forward. 1:37:16.960 --> 1:37:18.960 They with they girl, But you want me to go 1:37:19.080 --> 1:37:25.760 for it? You get what I'm saying, Like, oh, nah, 1:37:25.880 --> 1:37:28.000 she said that she ain't no good, But you don't 1:37:28.040 --> 1:37:28.759 saying that before. 1:37:31.040 --> 1:37:35.080 It's different, different, different, No. 1:37:37.960 --> 1:37:41.000 Live will been with his girl thirteen years. No, it's 1:37:41.000 --> 1:37:43.360 not something when the girl down there thirteen years that 1:37:43.479 --> 1:37:45.960 she ain't the same, That means you know, that means 1:37:46.000 --> 1:37:48.840 you know, you know, you know you're wrong. Women they 1:37:49.160 --> 1:37:51.639 played and I am just bashing women. I love women 1:37:52.000 --> 1:37:54.679 once again, especially Black women. I love women with everything 1:37:54.800 --> 1:37:57.200 in me. But what I'm saying is I get it though, 1:37:57.400 --> 1:38:00.320 because I actually talked and asked questions to the people 1:38:00.360 --> 1:38:02.920 that I'm not in relationship with, like they get it, 1:38:03.479 --> 1:38:04.720 but they just don't want. 1:38:05.520 --> 1:38:07.800 I can't let you know I get it because I 1:38:07.920 --> 1:38:09.799 might want to run it. Am I tripping? 1:38:10.240 --> 1:38:12.880 They get everything it is that we're trying to say, 1:38:13.040 --> 1:38:15.200 I see where you're coming from, but I can't see 1:38:15.240 --> 1:38:18.280 that because it's breaking cold. But but but then they 1:38:18.360 --> 1:38:20.960 get mad at the niggas they can't pimp. She say, 1:38:21.040 --> 1:38:23.559 women is the biggest pimp. The niggas they can't pimp. 1:38:23.600 --> 1:38:24.400 It's sessin. 1:38:28.360 --> 1:38:29.240 Just is what it is. 1:38:29.800 --> 1:38:32.559 This shit is nothing new. We do what we want 1:38:32.600 --> 1:38:34.320 to do, and that's just what it is. 1:38:34.920 --> 1:38:35.519 The niggas. 1:38:35.680 --> 1:38:41.120 It's just like y'all putting y'all put in to our pussy. Huh, 1:38:41.160 --> 1:38:44.320 you just said y'all putting niggas is putting y'all put 1:38:44.400 --> 1:38:46.080 it to your puss. Because whenever we want you to, 1:38:46.200 --> 1:38:48.600 y'all do, y'all gonna do it. We move how we 1:38:48.720 --> 1:38:50.800 want to move because we can move how we want 1:38:50.840 --> 1:38:53.439 to move because we women. It just is what it is, 1:38:54.840 --> 1:38:57.439 is what it is. Some women old school shit. We 1:38:57.720 --> 1:38:59.800 used to the old school shit. We used to women 1:38:59.840 --> 1:39:02.479 who men who do this, do this, do this, and 1:39:02.560 --> 1:39:04.479 do this, and we're trying to bring it to this century. 1:39:04.800 --> 1:39:07.679 It's just not gonna work like that. I'm old school. 1:39:08.240 --> 1:39:11.360 I'm nineteen eighty. When I was coming up, we dated 1:39:11.439 --> 1:39:13.720 niggas who did this, this this in the third, we're 1:39:13.800 --> 1:39:17.160 trying to brain this shit to this generation and it's 1:39:17.280 --> 1:39:20.200 just saying what it is. We gotta fine niggas. It's 1:39:20.280 --> 1:39:23.600 like a search in this generation. The bee, well, we 1:39:23.800 --> 1:39:26.920 used to a nigga being women know what's going on, 1:39:27.560 --> 1:39:30.840 and we play to y'all intelligence, y'all fall into it. 1:39:31.000 --> 1:39:31.880 It is what it is. 1:39:32.280 --> 1:39:35.240 It's point blank, we're not ignorant. Were not this And 1:39:35.320 --> 1:39:37.439 in the third we know what's going on. 1:39:39.040 --> 1:39:41.160 Exactly exactly what. 1:39:41.160 --> 1:39:42.160 I'm saying exactly. 1:39:42.600 --> 1:39:43.280 That's the problem. 1:39:43.520 --> 1:39:44.920 That's the problem when you when you when you go 1:39:45.000 --> 1:39:47.719 to dealing with a nigga who knows like, oh about going. 1:39:47.640 --> 1:39:51.439 For that exactly because you came up, but you ain't 1:39:51.520 --> 1:39:53.559 that way. You came up in the era we came 1:39:53.680 --> 1:39:56.080 up in that way back in the day. You ain't shit. 1:39:56.960 --> 1:40:00.360 You was in the streets. You're a fucking hole. It 1:40:00.439 --> 1:40:04.040 took you twenty years to say, Hey, I'm finna whoo 1:40:04.200 --> 1:40:06.559 whoo whoop, and I'm finna be this type of man. 1:40:06.840 --> 1:40:08.960 Forget what your woman stayed down with this shit because 1:40:09.000 --> 1:40:12.120 that's what she chose to do. You been, you been, 1:40:12.400 --> 1:40:15.559 nigga's been not nothing. Twenty fifteen ten. 1:40:17.720 --> 1:40:18.080 Craving. 1:40:18.160 --> 1:40:21.720 I'm saying it's shooting. I'm saying it took you to 1:40:21.880 --> 1:40:24.479 change when you was ready to change, and because she 1:40:24.600 --> 1:40:27.800 stayed down with you, that says, see it ain't it. 1:40:28.200 --> 1:40:32.360 This is not rocket science. The relationship shit really getting 1:40:32.360 --> 1:40:35.120 on my nerves to be honest, because this shit not 1:40:35.280 --> 1:40:37.320 rocket science. You either gonna fuck with who you wanna 1:40:37.360 --> 1:40:39.720 fuck with when you get spiritual, when you get to 1:40:39.800 --> 1:40:42.639 a certain level and when you start elevating, you attract 1:40:42.680 --> 1:40:45.280 a certain type of different nigga. Carry plant blank. We're 1:40:45.320 --> 1:40:47.320 gonna fuck with a low life nigga who ain't got 1:40:47.360 --> 1:40:49.800 shit going on. When you get to this level, you're 1:40:49.800 --> 1:40:51.560 gonna fuck with a nigga who got this going on. 1:40:51.680 --> 1:40:54.080 When you get to that level, you're gonna fuck with 1:40:54.120 --> 1:40:56.439 who got going on. When you get to a spiritual level, 1:40:56.720 --> 1:40:58.439 you're gonna do this and you're gonna fuck with that 1:40:58.520 --> 1:41:00.320 type of nigga. When you get to a spiritual level. 1:41:00.360 --> 1:41:02.360 Now you tied, you tied to this type of nigga. 1:41:02.360 --> 1:41:03.960 You tie this type of nigga. Use tied this type 1:41:03.960 --> 1:41:06.120 of nigga, and then you're gonna fuck with what you 1:41:06.280 --> 1:41:08.600 feel like it's in your element. When you get to 1:41:08.640 --> 1:41:10.599 when you level up, it's different level city. 1:41:10.680 --> 1:41:10.920 Shit. 1:41:11.920 --> 1:41:15.400 We fuck with different niggas at different experiences in our lives. 1:41:15.520 --> 1:41:18.519 Whatever we're going through, whatever traumatic experiences. A lot of 1:41:18.640 --> 1:41:21.160 us didn't have Mama's dadd it is. We out in 1:41:21.240 --> 1:41:23.160 the street this and in the third day, out in 1:41:23.200 --> 1:41:26.400 the street, So we fuck with what we know. When 1:41:26.439 --> 1:41:28.639 we get to that mental level where we have grown 1:41:28.800 --> 1:41:32.280 spiritually and mentally, then we start dealing with people that's 1:41:32.400 --> 1:41:34.600 on our level that elevate us and put us in 1:41:34.680 --> 1:41:38.559 a position. This relationship. Shit, it's not difficult. It's very 1:41:38.720 --> 1:41:41.320 simple shit, very simple facts. 1:41:41.479 --> 1:41:44.560 He let me ask y'all something. Do y'all feel Do 1:41:44.680 --> 1:41:48.680 y'all feel like it's not? But I feel like if 1:41:48.720 --> 1:41:51.599 it was easy, it wouldn't work. If it was easy 1:41:51.640 --> 1:41:53.439 to be with somebody that ain't your person, Bro, it 1:41:53.439 --> 1:41:56.160 ain't gonna be easy, bro, that's I think that's what. 1:41:56.280 --> 1:41:58.400 That's the miscommunication. A lot of people think they gonna 1:41:58.400 --> 1:42:00.640 get in a relationship and it's gonna be easy. You 1:42:00.720 --> 1:42:02.639 know what I'm saying, You ain't gonna you ain't gonna 1:42:02.680 --> 1:42:05.720 go through nothing. That never happens. I agree that never 1:42:05.800 --> 1:42:06.599 happened because. 1:42:06.439 --> 1:42:09.000 You got to deal with something, though, like how long you're. 1:42:08.880 --> 1:42:11.840 Gonna deal with something? For the shit you're gonna deal 1:42:11.840 --> 1:42:15.920 with something forever? Relationship you said, that's a lot you 1:42:17.640 --> 1:42:18.560 ain't dealing with something with you. 1:42:19.680 --> 1:42:21.360 There's plenty things he don't like about you, just don't 1:42:21.360 --> 1:42:22.639 say it because you don't want to hurt your finish. 1:42:22.640 --> 1:42:24.000 It's plenty things why you just don't care. 1:42:24.880 --> 1:42:26.080 He just don't say it because he don't want to 1:42:26.120 --> 1:42:27.560 hurt your finish, and they can run you all the 1:42:27.600 --> 1:42:31.400 way down. I'm pretty sure if I if I, if 1:42:31.439 --> 1:42:34.280 I still around a person for more than a day, 1:42:34.479 --> 1:42:36.800 I can find every flaw that I want to find 1:42:36.880 --> 1:42:38.320 in that person because everybody got flawed. 1:42:39.120 --> 1:42:41.439 I can find something about everybody in the world that 1:42:41.520 --> 1:42:42.120 I don't like. 1:42:42.160 --> 1:42:46.120 Because we're different. So, but women feel like they gotta 1:42:46.200 --> 1:42:48.360 point out every little thing. So once you do that, 1:42:48.479 --> 1:42:50.479 you're basically showing me how you see me and how 1:42:50.560 --> 1:42:52.639 do you how do you want to want my respect? 1:42:52.720 --> 1:42:56.000 When I see you see me this way? Are you crazy? 1:42:56.479 --> 1:42:58.400 You better try to keep that ship to yourself or leave, 1:42:58.640 --> 1:43:00.439 because once you're done showed me who you see me. 1:43:00.680 --> 1:43:03.519 Ass that's how that i'ma I'm gonna I'm gonna beat that. 1:43:03.640 --> 1:43:07.120 Damn there in a shadow? Am my tripping? If you 1:43:07.280 --> 1:43:10.040 if you come out your mouth and tell me I 1:43:10.160 --> 1:43:13.639 see you as a no good ass nigga, you can't 1:43:13.720 --> 1:43:15.760 change that because that's how you see me. 1:43:16.200 --> 1:43:18.160 You can say little things to let me know. That's 1:43:18.320 --> 1:43:20.080 because because because because if if you ask. 1:43:20.120 --> 1:43:22.360 Me something like damn that you are you fucking that girl? 1:43:22.600 --> 1:43:25.679 And if I'd be like hell no or hell yeah, whatever, 1:43:26.080 --> 1:43:28.600 But if I'm not and I'm really not, and I 1:43:28.720 --> 1:43:31.200 feel like, damn, that's how you see me a nigga, 1:43:31.200 --> 1:43:35.040 that'll do that whatever whatever it is. So I'm not 1:43:35.600 --> 1:43:38.000 in my eyes, I mean in my heart, I'm not who. 1:43:40.280 --> 1:43:41.600 You don't see me the way I want you to 1:43:41.680 --> 1:43:44.840 see me? So how can I really respect you or 1:43:44.920 --> 1:43:45.639 love you properly? 1:43:47.240 --> 1:43:49.160 But what if you said that you're not fucking her 1:43:49.240 --> 1:43:51.000 and you is? Now how am I supposed to move. 1:43:51.479 --> 1:43:53.600 If i'm If I if I lie, then ship you 1:43:53.680 --> 1:43:55.800 probably see me like that. That's who That's who I am. 1:43:56.240 --> 1:43:58.280 I'm saying if if if. 1:43:57.760 --> 1:43:59.960 You do some ship and see me in a way 1:44:00.160 --> 1:44:02.479 that I am not, that just goes against my morals. 1:44:04.320 --> 1:44:05.200 How do you see me? 1:44:05.280 --> 1:44:07.000 How can I How can you tell me you love me? 1:44:07.320 --> 1:44:09.920 How can you tell me you're you're for me? Because 1:44:09.960 --> 1:44:11.640 I know how I would feel if I looked at 1:44:11.640 --> 1:44:12.320 a person that way. 1:44:12.600 --> 1:44:15.120 But most times bank women don't just come off and 1:44:15.200 --> 1:44:18.000 see you as no fuck ass nigga. Most times it's 1:44:18.080 --> 1:44:21.320 because you done did some bullshit to them for them to. 1:44:21.439 --> 1:44:22.280 See you as that. 1:44:22.680 --> 1:44:23.760 I am not gonna. 1:44:25.600 --> 1:44:27.080 Leave. Who finna go through that every day? 1:44:27.160 --> 1:44:36.559 But Gus, if you can't deal with it, don't try 1:44:36.600 --> 1:44:38.760 to act like you're don't try to hold up. Please 1:44:38.840 --> 1:44:40.840 let me get this off. Don't try to act as 1:44:40.960 --> 1:44:43.280 if though you're over something. Just say, baby, it's gonna 1:44:43.320 --> 1:44:45.760 take time. I'm trying to deal with this. Don't try 1:44:45.800 --> 1:44:47.519 to act like you over something. And then we argue 1:44:47.520 --> 1:44:51.880 about uh, who gonna uh why ain't come pump your 1:44:51.920 --> 1:44:53.560 gas when that ain't the argument. We're arguing about the 1:44:53.560 --> 1:44:56.400 ship that you're not heal from. But you don't know 1:44:56.439 --> 1:44:58.400 how you tell you told me that you over it, 1:44:58.520 --> 1:45:00.360 so you can't bring that ship back up. So now 1:45:00.439 --> 1:45:03.200 we just have a little nick picked bullshit about about 1:45:03.320 --> 1:45:04.080 that same ship. 1:45:04.479 --> 1:45:11.160 Yeah, yeah, you know, a little therapy, don't hurt little therapy. 1:45:11.520 --> 1:45:14.600 Sit down with the mediator. You know, that's what therapists 1:45:14.600 --> 1:45:16.040 are you. 1:45:16.160 --> 1:45:18.840 But but most women, bro, I went to therapy before 1:45:19.479 --> 1:45:21.920 told the therapy. She knows she was talking about. You know, 1:45:22.040 --> 1:45:24.479 most women, if you don't take their side, they don't 1:45:24.479 --> 1:45:25.840 want to hear. They ain't up on their friends. I 1:45:25.840 --> 1:45:26.920 don't want to he that she's stupid. 1:45:27.360 --> 1:45:28.519 I wanna talk about stupid. 1:45:28.560 --> 1:45:31.160 Should I find that one friend that's gonna be my life? 1:45:32.439 --> 1:45:35.400 I ain't stupid, and I'm the one not tripping. Am 1:45:35.439 --> 1:45:35.920 I tripping? 1:45:36.439 --> 1:45:36.479 No? 1:45:37.000 --> 1:45:39.200 You don't even call you don't even call the homegirl 1:45:39.240 --> 1:45:40.880 who you know gonna check you when you wanna be 1:45:41.000 --> 1:45:43.720 right tonight? I want to be right tonight. I ain't 1:45:43.760 --> 1:45:46.599 calling it bitch, she's stupid. She don't know she gonna 1:45:46.640 --> 1:45:48.360 say she gonna always on the niggas side. But now 1:45:48.479 --> 1:45:52.640 she telling you the truth? Yeah, m hm, you I 1:45:52.760 --> 1:45:54.560 need to say, girl, he called me a bitch, but 1:45:54.680 --> 1:45:55.439 you left out. 1:45:55.320 --> 1:45:56.840 The part of what you said. 1:45:59.000 --> 1:46:00.519 I want to know what I'm wrong. Tell me? 1:46:01.920 --> 1:46:02.560 Can you take it? 1:46:02.640 --> 1:46:02.800 Though? 1:46:03.000 --> 1:46:05.599 I can, and it don't matter if I could take 1:46:05.600 --> 1:46:05.800 it or not. 1:46:05.960 --> 1:46:06.360 Just tell me. 1:46:07.520 --> 1:46:10.960 But some dudes, and some dudes don't want to. Most 1:46:11.040 --> 1:46:13.720 dudes want to stay out of the caddy shit. So 1:46:13.840 --> 1:46:15.680 if I know what type of girl I got and 1:46:15.720 --> 1:46:17.280 what type of attitude she got, I know what I 1:46:17.320 --> 1:46:18.760 can say and what I could bring to her without 1:46:18.760 --> 1:46:21.920 her getting offended. So things going smooth. I ain't finna 1:46:21.960 --> 1:46:25.759 offend you like a woman can. Things to be going smooth. 1:46:25.760 --> 1:46:28.320 And you could just disrupt this ship. Damn they were 1:46:28.400 --> 1:46:36.000 just doing good for thirty minutes. Yea disrupt the piece 1:46:36.080 --> 1:46:36.559 for nothing. 1:46:36.680 --> 1:46:40.040 But her piece might get disrupted, but she'll come back down. 1:46:40.240 --> 1:46:42.519 Nah, baby, because at the end of the day, I can. 1:46:42.760 --> 1:46:44.920 I can get over this because I don't want you 1:46:45.040 --> 1:46:46.960 to feel I can tell you in a way to 1:46:47.080 --> 1:46:49.439 let you know I didn't like that, or I didn't before. 1:46:49.479 --> 1:46:51.760 I just talk at you. 1:46:52.080 --> 1:46:55.120 Most women don't like that you say certain thing in them. Hey, 1:46:55.120 --> 1:46:57.280 you ain't my dad, and now you're controlling. But this 1:46:57.479 --> 1:46:58.720 is what I want to I want to tell you this. 1:46:58.760 --> 1:47:01.680 I don't know how else to express myself to say, Hey, 1:47:01.680 --> 1:47:03.000 I don't like that ship, don't do that. 1:47:03.439 --> 1:47:04.880 Why are you talking to me like that? I don't know. 1:47:05.360 --> 1:47:08.280 So how do you do Either Either you're too aggressive 1:47:09.080 --> 1:47:10.800 or you emotional withdrawing. 1:47:12.800 --> 1:47:15.559 Either controller or your emotional with drawings. That's no middle. 1:47:16.360 --> 1:47:18.519 What do you do? I don't know. 1:47:18.640 --> 1:47:20.280 I feel like if I just let you have it 1:47:20.600 --> 1:47:23.479 like ship, bab yeah babe, yeah yeah. So you're just 1:47:23.520 --> 1:47:24.679 gonna dismiss the conversation. 1:47:25.120 --> 1:47:27.200 You ain't gonna say nothing. That's the problem. 1:47:27.479 --> 1:47:28.960 Say nothing. That's a line. 1:47:29.360 --> 1:47:32.240 But if i'm if I'm backing forth with you now 1:47:32.280 --> 1:47:33.880 you're looking at me like I sound like a bitch 1:47:35.960 --> 1:47:38.200 nigga always. But they say, we gotta wrap it up, man, 1:47:38.200 --> 1:47:39.240 we can do this ship all night. 1:47:39.320 --> 1:47:39.479 Man. 1:47:40.640 --> 1:47:42.400 I appreciate y'all. Y'all had a good time. I know 1:47:42.479 --> 1:47:50.320 we're talking in circles. Yeah, shanel what we're doing, y'all listen. 1:47:50.479 --> 1:47:53.799 We're doing this again next month in a different state. Okay, 1:47:54.280 --> 1:47:57.320 so make sure y'all pay attention. This thing about to 1:47:57.400 --> 1:47:57.760 be big. 1:47:57.880 --> 1:48:01.200 Okay. We appreciate you guys coming to make sure you 1:48:02.080 --> 1:48:05.960 watch the episode and post it on your instagrams, into 1:48:06.439 --> 1:48:09.880 into stories all that great stuff, and tell them bank 1:48:10.160 --> 1:48:11.360 perspectives with bankers. 1:48:11.640 --> 1:48:14.800 Now we let are y'all here. Y'all got your last words. 1:48:16.000 --> 1:48:19.320 Look, I appreciate y'all coming out listening to us. We're 1:48:19.320 --> 1:48:21.200 gonna do this a little bit more. But again, I 1:48:21.280 --> 1:48:25.000 appreciate y'all shassa model, follow me, connect with me. I'm 1:48:25.040 --> 1:48:27.679 trying to connect with everybody a little bit more. And so, yeah, 1:48:28.960 --> 1:48:29.719 I had a good time. 1:48:30.240 --> 1:48:33.439 You know, everybody always y'all, even though y'all had a 1:48:33.479 --> 1:48:35.120 whole bunch of shit to say about everything I had 1:48:35.160 --> 1:48:35.360 to say. 1:48:35.439 --> 1:48:36.400 But it is what it is. 1:48:36.840 --> 1:48:40.000 But follow me on social media underscore Jojo alonzo j 1:48:40.120 --> 1:48:40.400 O j. 1:48:40.520 --> 1:48:41.640 O A L O N. 1:48:41.720 --> 1:48:43.519 And so I thought you said you working on that 1:48:43.560 --> 1:48:46.080 ship though Jojo work I am. 1:48:46.280 --> 1:48:47.000 I just talked shit. 1:48:47.600 --> 1:48:52.719 You look crazy. You know you'll look crazy. Yeah, okay, 1:48:52.840 --> 1:48:57.920 that's good. That's good. That's the first step. Yeah, yeah, 1:48:59.800 --> 1:49:02.120 this was cool. This is cool. I'm a little high 1:49:02.320 --> 1:49:06.320 right now. I feel good. A lot of high. Speak 1:49:06.360 --> 1:49:10.800 up a little bit Kodak. Yeah, uh nah, this is cool. 1:49:11.320 --> 1:49:11.960 This is cool. 1:49:12.400 --> 1:49:16.080 I feel good right now. Happy Friday, y'all. Follow me 1:49:16.160 --> 1:49:18.519 on Instagram, Big on me, call y'all. 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Man, And 1:50:33.800 --> 1:50:36.240 for the record, I wouldn't be a man without a woman. 1:50:36.439 --> 1:50:39.000 So that's just what it is we love women. We're 1:50:39.040 --> 1:50:40.960 not bias. We're just trying to understand each other and 1:50:41.080 --> 1:50:44.200 really trying to just say something that might spark y'all mind, 1:50:44.560 --> 1:50:45.360 cause it ain't. 1:50:45.200 --> 1:50:45.720 Us as y'all. 1:50:47.640 --> 1:50:51.040 Alright, on that note, go ahead and uh crank up. 1:50:51.040 --> 1:50:54.880 Appreciate everybody for coming out takes or whatever. After follow 1:50:55.160 --> 1:50:56.320 everybody else on Instagram. 1:50:56.479 --> 1:50:56.840 Do all that. 1:50:57.400 --> 1:51:02.200 Another fa episode of Perspective with Big Bank. 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