Speaker 1: It gets no better than this. You are now in
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Speaker 2: Let's get straight to it.
Speaker 3: We're not gonna love you till you love yourself. They're
Speaker 3: not gonna support you till you support yourself. Make sure
Speaker 3: you love yourself first. Always support yourself first. Be your
Speaker 3: number one fan, your number one supporter.
Speaker 2: Be selfish.
Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, welcome to Perspectives live with Bank and Chanelle,
Speaker 4: and we have our amazing guests here. We are at
Speaker 4: the gallery Anderson Smith Art Gallery. Nice up here, y'all.
Speaker 4: And you know, we brought the squad with us, so
Speaker 4: we got Kodak in his Sunday best look at you,
Speaker 4: look at you, and then we got my boot Jojo
Speaker 4: fine and cute as eva. Hello, you said, and I
Speaker 4: mean and shas the man I'm in.
Speaker 5: The building, shouts the model. They said, I came to
Speaker 5: start some trouble, but we'll see.
Speaker 2: Let's see. Hey, We're gonna do a wellness check for
Speaker 2: how everybody feeling.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm amazing, amazing, Okay, just in case there
Speaker 4: was wonder run yea.
Speaker 2: How you feeling, man? They pay that I feel good.
Speaker 2: I feel the Friday.
Speaker 6: That's how you know, he gets too much paper.
Speaker 2: You ain't because what's the when they pay that shout a?
Speaker 2: I got the money? Hey, I got any Look at you?
Speaker 2: Look at you, Jo Joe? How you footing the baddest
Speaker 2: boat equitting the game?
Speaker 4: Hello, I'm good, I'm chilling. I feel good.
Speaker 6: It's Friday.
Speaker 4: You know what?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 3: What said?
Speaker 4: It's ninety Friday? Grease what you said?
Speaker 2: That song really gonna get somebody beat up?
Speaker 8: For real?
Speaker 2: You got a whole dude, somebody don't sing that part?
Speaker 2: You my girl?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 2: What about you? Shad a song? It's just a song.
Speaker 5: I'm feeling good. I'm feeling very demure, you know, very cutey.
Speaker 5: Be in the art gallery, so you know the bodes
Speaker 5: is fither.
Speaker 2: Moderator. What we're doing?
Speaker 3: Oh now, how the crowd feeling? How y'all feeling before
Speaker 3: we get started?
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, what we're doing, bro, get right to what
Speaker 10: we need we're writing. No, no, no, you gotta be
Speaker 10: as certain. You gotta get you gotta go, you.
Speaker 4: Gotta go get it. I approach men all the time.
Speaker 6: I have no problem with doing it like I have
Speaker 6: no problem with doing it like you can sit around
Speaker 6: and wait for them to come to you, and that's
Speaker 6: cool if that's what you prefer. But if I see
Speaker 6: something or somebody that I like, like, why gotta why
Speaker 6: can't I approach him? That's that's something I can't do.
Speaker 6: I like that, I mean because they like noah, no, no,
Speaker 6: I'm like why.
Speaker 4: Well, see, I have a different outlook on that because
Speaker 4: I don't think women are supposed to chase, right, and
Speaker 4: that's why a lot of these men are getting a
Speaker 4: little sassy or whatever. But if you like somebody, like
Speaker 4: I have seen a man that I liked right, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, ooh, I got my eye on him. Prime example,
Speaker 4: golf course yesterday, I spotted him when I walked in
Speaker 4: the dull you hear me? Asked thought people in the
Speaker 4: audience that was there. I say, oh, I'm getting his number,
Speaker 4: and it was like, oh, I spotted him out I
Speaker 4: pointed to him. I said, I gotta stop talking to
Speaker 4: y'all because I need to go introduce myself to the
Speaker 4: group of people. And guess who gave you their number?
Speaker 4: The one I was interested in. Because when you see me,
Speaker 4: you gonna look at me. I don't have to be
Speaker 4: assertive and be aggressive and approach you you're gonna look
Speaker 4: at me and want my you.
Speaker 2: Did, but you did initiate that situation.
Speaker 4: I walked up to five six million, and it.
Speaker 2: Was but you. You initiated that. You gave a couple
Speaker 2: of looks like, let me know you interested.
Speaker 4: Look. I shook his hand. I shook everybody handle and
Speaker 4: he grabbed tight.
Speaker 6: He was like, or did you grab.
Speaker 2: Ask him?
Speaker 4: You gave just like I did that to the whole group.
Speaker 4: It wasn't a single.
Speaker 2: Person, did you high Hey?
Speaker 4: No, I shout everybody hand. I asked everybody what they did.
Speaker 4: I told them what I did, so I made it
Speaker 4: like a networking move. But I knew I needed him
Speaker 4: to look at me because he was gonna want my number.
Speaker 2: Them you still had.
Speaker 11: To initiate that that chase. So you didn't chase him,
Speaker 11: but you put yourself in a position to get.
Speaker 12: What you want, in position you walk over.
Speaker 4: But I'm saying, but you don't say, hey, I'm such
Speaker 4: and such one man by itself or two man, Hey,
Speaker 4: I'm such and such. Nice to meet. You cannot get
Speaker 4: your number. No.
Speaker 6: Wait, that's confusing to men, though, because how how is
Speaker 6: the man supposed to know that you want him? If
Speaker 6: you're not showing that you want him energy.
Speaker 12: You got to show something energy.
Speaker 2: It's energy.
Speaker 5: You don't have to approach him, but let me have
Speaker 5: to show some sort of signs from across the room.
Speaker 4: He needs to show see the sign.
Speaker 11: Let me, let me, let me add to what they're saying, though,
Speaker 11: because like if if he always get approached like that,
Speaker 11: like if women is just nice to him all the time,
Speaker 11: what's gonna make you stand out? If all you're doing
Speaker 11: I'm saying hey, every woman saying hey, then what makes
Speaker 11: you special?
Speaker 4: You don't look at me? Did you see me? No,
Speaker 4: it's not the lou Guess what he asked me for
Speaker 4: my number. I didn't have to say nothing to him,
Speaker 4: but hello. But I shook his hand. Fourth out of
Speaker 4: the five people, its five men standing right there. I
Speaker 4: talked to every man and guess what. Before I walked away,
Speaker 4: he said, I'm gonna get your put it on my phone.
Speaker 4: I said, absolutely, so you said, I told him after
Speaker 4: he told me, you get what I'm saying. Like he
Speaker 4: could have said nothing, and I would have walked away
Speaker 4: and it would have just been I didn't get the number.
Speaker 4: So but when he said, oh, I gotta get your number,
Speaker 4: and I said absolutely. So that's me reassuring him that
Speaker 4: what he saw in me, I saw exactly in him.
Speaker 2: So if you stood in the corner all night just
Speaker 2: looking at him, every I ain't send in no corner.
Speaker 2: I'm saying, do you think that would have worked?
Speaker 4: I ain't, but I ain't never said it in no corner.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna walk past you and you gonna see me
Speaker 4: if I want you, and I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna say, I.
Speaker 3: Say, it's about women picking dudes, right, And I heard
Speaker 3: this on somewhere on somebody sent it was like.
Speaker 11: I said, I said it, huh, I said what you
Speaker 11: just said? What you're about to say? No, it was like,
Speaker 11: if you pick a dude, right, and he sees something
Speaker 11: you he don't like, he gonna he gonna exaggerate that.
Speaker 3: But if dude pick you, that mean he picked you.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So I'm willing to take whatever coach you because I
Speaker 3: already picked you.
Speaker 2: You you know what I'm saying. When you pick it's like
Speaker 2: like you said it get kund of Sassin and now
Speaker 2: it's like yeah.
Speaker 6: Right, yeah yeah, and that way it could go that
Speaker 6: way too, because I've also realized like, if you do
Speaker 6: approach a man like you approaching him so you you
Speaker 6: like him, he may not like you, Yes, may you
Speaker 6: the energy that.
Speaker 4: You want to like you?
Speaker 6: You approach and aproach you trying to you know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying, But I'm still gonna shoot my shot.
Speaker 2: I don't care.
Speaker 11: So thank going back to what you said, you said,
Speaker 11: so if a dude, if you if you approach a
Speaker 11: dude and it's something that he don't like about you,
Speaker 11: he gonna it's gonna be exaggerated and that makes him
Speaker 11: say so he's sassyf for not liking you back how
Speaker 11: you like him?
Speaker 4: No, so I'm not saying he's sass if he didn't
Speaker 4: like me back. But a lot of men like I
Speaker 4: have a lot of homeboys, right, and women are flying them,
Speaker 4: getting them, playing tickets and doing different stuff like taking
Speaker 4: them to dinner, walking up to them like, oh, you're
Speaker 4: amazing number.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to give me one second.
Speaker 13: Brittany said she got one line for y'all.
Speaker 12: A man who choose this, that's it.
Speaker 4: Right a man, but a man have to choose you.
Speaker 4: So like if I would have walked up to those
Speaker 4: five men and nobody said anything to me that just
Speaker 4: wasn't for me. I wouldn't have felt no certain type
Speaker 4: of way because I didn't approach anybody. I spoke to everybody,
Speaker 4: but the one that I had my eye on actually
Speaker 4: just shook my hand a little tighter and said, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna grab your number. And then that's when I reassured
Speaker 4: him that yes, I'm interested in you as well, but
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna show the first level of interest because
Speaker 4: I want you to like me. I could have liked
Speaker 4: him and he could have not said anything. Dude, put
Speaker 4: myself in an area hold on.
Speaker 6: But there's sometimes you're in a situation like, for instance,
Speaker 6: with my career, I'm around a lot of celebrities, right,
Speaker 6: so not saying that I'm going to talk to these celebrities,
Speaker 6: but just saying like, that's the room that I'm in.
Speaker 6: If I see somebody, these men are already looking at
Speaker 6: women who look like us or just a beautiful woman
Speaker 6: in general, and they're already judging that woman. They're already
Speaker 6: looking at that woman like she just want to talk
Speaker 6: to me because X, Y, and Z. So he may
Speaker 6: not even approach you just off just because of that.
Speaker 6: He just may think like, oh, she on some bullshit
Speaker 6: just by the way you look, so he may not
Speaker 6: even approach you because of that. You can approach a
Speaker 6: dude and be like, oh, hey, I'm such or such,
Speaker 6: and he'd be like, yeah, nah, she she she trying
Speaker 6: to get my bread, or she just on some bullshit,
Speaker 6: you know, something like that, and dismiss you. And that's cool.
Speaker 6: But if I want to talk to you and I'm
Speaker 6: not on that, then I'm going to introduce myself. But
Speaker 6: I'm gonna say, hey, I think you c I like
Speaker 6: what you got going on. My name is Jojo. I
Speaker 6: would like to get to know you.
Speaker 4: I don't think there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 11: So really, it sounds like women are afraid, not not you,
Speaker 11: but most women are afraid of rejection in that moment
Speaker 11: because if, like say, the roles are reversed and it's
Speaker 11: a guy walking up to a group of five women
Speaker 11: that's walking into the lions, then if you walk into
Speaker 11: if you're walking up to five different dudes, you got five.
Speaker 2: Chances of walking away with something.
Speaker 11: If I'm walking up to five different women, shit, I
Speaker 11: gotta be real precise in how I'm moving that moment question.
Speaker 4: It depends on a group of women you walking with
Speaker 4: walking up to because some of these girls are being
Speaker 4: say take me and my friend. All you gotta do
Speaker 4: is have a little jewelry on a little ice, and
Speaker 4: especially if you got a little carter, they didn't see
Speaker 4: you walk out up. So it depends on who you walk.
Speaker 2: That's not what I want. I don't want the women.
Speaker 2: I don't want a woman to think like that.
Speaker 14: Somebody got something to say, like so Jojo, I don't
Speaker 14: think that you are wrong. I think that your approach
Speaker 14: it's probably just different from some of us that are
Speaker 14: a little bit older, Like I am never my dad
Speaker 14: was like, you don't approach me.
Speaker 4: That's how I was raised.
Speaker 14: But like Chanelle said, if I see someone that I'm
Speaker 14: interested in, I'm gonna walk past you, give you a
Speaker 14: little smile, give you a little razzle dazzle, and hopefully
Speaker 14: you will approach me. But if not, I'm moving on.
Speaker 2: So I just think that this.
Speaker 14: Depends on where you're coming from.
Speaker 15: Like, I don't think you're wrong.
Speaker 14: I just think that we're just different, Like it's just
Speaker 14: different generations.
Speaker 5: Because y'all just more modern, Like this is more modern,
Speaker 5: that's more a traditional way you're gonna put yourself like
Speaker 5: in a line of a man versus like approaching him
Speaker 5: that's more traditional but modern like all right.
Speaker 15: So y, like neither one is wrong.
Speaker 4: You just gotta do what works for you, you.
Speaker 14: Know what I'm saying, and jojo, I understand because you're
Speaker 14: in a street, but like that wouldn't work in my
Speaker 14: industry because that would be an hr situation.
Speaker 12: So you know, I.
Speaker 11: Also think it depends on what what type of man
Speaker 11: you're approaching, because, like I said earlier, if you're approaching
Speaker 11: a man who's used to getting that type of attention,
Speaker 11: then you approaching me and smiling at me, women smiling
Speaker 11: me all the time, you don't be a little bit
Speaker 11: more assertive than that if you were going to tie me. Also,
Speaker 11: I'm slow, so you like me, you got to tell
Speaker 11: me because I don't be getting I don't be.
Speaker 10: Catching a lot of a lot of men are slow.
Speaker 6: Your pass just.
Speaker 4: What I know.
Speaker 15: He might be nervous like that.
Speaker 6: You might intimidate him, like look at you, like you said,
Speaker 6: you're beautiful, but you may be intimidated.
Speaker 4: But I know, but that's not the man for me.
Speaker 4: If he's intimidated, so I don't even want him, So
Speaker 4: that exes him out of the bunch for me immediately,
Speaker 4: because see, I'm old school. I want a man that's
Speaker 4: going to be a protector of provider, that is going
Speaker 4: to lead the family. You can't be intimidated by me.
Speaker 4: You need to say see me as like, oh, oh
Speaker 4: my god, she has power for me too. Let me
Speaker 4: lead us in a great direction. So if you intimidated,
Speaker 4: you ain't my man.
Speaker 9: No facts, I was just gonna piggyback off what Chanelle
Speaker 9: said in the fact that I think that our age
Speaker 9: group is a little more traditional and allowing the man
Speaker 9: to be the role of being like the hunter in pursuit.
Speaker 9: So you put yourself in a position to where he
Speaker 9: saw that you were interested in him, and he was like, okay,
Speaker 9: well she is putting herself right here. Let me pounce
Speaker 9: on this and make sure that she know I want
Speaker 9: her to. I'm also not like, I'm not gonna approach
Speaker 9: a man and chase. I don't think that's the woman's role.
Speaker 9: Approaching a man and chasing is two totally different things.
Speaker 5: I approaching a man sometimes for them it takes away
Speaker 5: the chase. They feel like it's automatic.
Speaker 6: Oh she approached me, because if I get to know you,
Speaker 6: I shake your hand and we have a simple conversation.
Speaker 6: We had a bar, were having a conversation. We get
Speaker 6: each other's numbers. You're gonna want to know who the
Speaker 6: hell is that girl that walked up on me and
Speaker 6: got my number. Men do not get approached by so
Speaker 6: off rip. He's gonna be like, damn, like she came
Speaker 6: home on now she ain't she cool as fuck?
Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. They don't want to
Speaker 4: know more about me, And that's where the chase come. Now.
Speaker 6: It's like not going to hit her up and see
Speaker 6: what she got going on or whatever whatever. It could
Speaker 6: go either way.
Speaker 11: But also I think the definition of the chase is
Speaker 11: different because for me, if I feel like I got
Speaker 11: to chasing women, it's almost like I have to convince
Speaker 11: her a while I'm a good match. Whereas if like
Speaker 11: this has happened last week, last weekend and Teilgate, like
Speaker 11: the girl I met there, like I've known her for years,
Speaker 11: But I'm like, damn, you kind of bagged me because
Speaker 11: you just put yourself in a position. You put yourself,
Speaker 11: thank you, You put yourself in a position where it's
Speaker 11: like you are open to being pursued it's not you
Speaker 11: chasing me, but you're kind of letting those walls down
Speaker 11: and it's not as much restraint and you're letting me.
Speaker 11: You're letting the game come to you. So like in
Speaker 11: that moment, I feel like, damn, you kind of pulled me.
Speaker 13: All right, So that's good. So that was a good conversation.
Speaker 13: So it's gonna take us and the next thing. Y'all
Speaker 13: mentioned careers multiple times. So is there still an expectation,
Speaker 13: being that it's twenty twenty four going into twenty five,
Speaker 13: that women should prioritize family over career and has this
Speaker 13: change for men?
Speaker 2: Let's go with black Bank. You said what it is, then.
Speaker 4: You ain't paying attention over that is.
Speaker 13: There's still an expectation that women should prioritize family over career.
Speaker 3: That's what's the word. I'm trying to subjective. It depends
Speaker 3: on what type of dudes you is. You know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying me, You do what you want to do, baby,
Speaker 3: Just do whatever you want to be. You want to
Speaker 3: be the biggest hustle, to be the bigger hoest, You
Speaker 3: want to be the biggest white, be the biggest white.
Speaker 2: We in crewe control. Baby, do what you want to do.
Speaker 2: I just don't want all.
Speaker 4: I think it gets tricky for women now because women
Speaker 4: have been disappointed so much by men. So women are
Speaker 4: prioritizing career because they want to be financially situated. So
Speaker 4: it actually messes up a lot of the traditional ideals
Speaker 4: of relationship because now women are like, I'm the boss.
Speaker 4: So now we get a little arrogant, and we get
Speaker 4: a little cockier, you know, and so we take away
Speaker 4: sometimes that submissive component which some men. If you like
Speaker 4: a traditional man that's a provider, You don't want me
Speaker 4: to come into the house like nigga, you get your
Speaker 4: own socks. You get what I'm saying. You still want
Speaker 4: me to get that. But because women have been disappointed
Speaker 4: so much and men have let them down so much,
Speaker 4: they're not willing to not make sure they get to
Speaker 4: the bag. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Your question question like, how do women always say and
Speaker 3: we got a room full of women, I don't want
Speaker 3: to start no ship, but it's the time to start it.
Speaker 3: Women always say niggas gonna beat niggas. I just heard
Speaker 3: her one of them say that over it right, Me
Speaker 3: a gonna be men? Me and are men I thought
Speaker 3: I heard somebody say that they know they don't get
Speaker 3: don't beat me up, y'all. Ma'ma reaching up person. Look nah,
Speaker 3: but they say, men, all right, what's your outlook on men?
Speaker 2: First?
Speaker 4: I think they're amazing. I think they're the most beautiful
Speaker 4: creature that was created. But I also think they ain't
Speaker 4: ship sometimes.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you think man ain't ship? Give around? Applausea,
Speaker 2: you think man ain't ship sometimes?
Speaker 4: Let me answer the question.
Speaker 12: The other half.
Speaker 2: Let me let me land the plane. Let me land
Speaker 2: the plane. Okay.
Speaker 3: If you already know your brother, you helped your brother
Speaker 3: cheap your daddy, you know he wants ship. None of
Speaker 3: your uncles ain't ship. What makes you think you gonna
Speaker 3: find this?
Speaker 2: Make up? Make believe nigga, to.
Speaker 6: Make believe nigga though.
Speaker 3: A nigga that you think you he gonna be everything
Speaker 3: you dreamed of when you was a princess.
Speaker 6: That's what said that he has to have everything or
Speaker 6: he has to be let down.
Speaker 2: She said let down.
Speaker 4: So I mean you could be let down but not
Speaker 4: be perfect.
Speaker 3: If I let you down, right, I let you down
Speaker 3: with something you knew I was capable of.
Speaker 4: Well, no, so so the thing.
Speaker 2: Is that's who I am. That means you need to
Speaker 2: leave me.
Speaker 4: No, no, so so baby, But no, I'm saying, let y'all,
Speaker 4: I'm not saying it depends on situation, right. So I'll
Speaker 4: give you an example why I'm why I'm a hustler
Speaker 4: is as I got pregnant at fifteen, my son and
Speaker 4: dad begged for my kid. The whole world thought it
Speaker 4: was a bad idea. But because fifteen and in love,
Speaker 4: he beg and plead and crying. And he's never did
Speaker 4: nothing for that boy because I left him because he
Speaker 4: wasn't right. You get what I'm saying. So as soon
Speaker 4: as I left the child you begged for and pleading for,
Speaker 4: now my mama got to help me because I'm in
Speaker 4: a ninth grade. That's what I mean by let down promises.
Speaker 4: I was married before multiple times. I've been married four times.
Speaker 4: We already know this. You get what I'm saying. So
Speaker 4: judge judging mama, don't judge me. I'm still cute, So
Speaker 4: I'm looking for a husband. I'm right now, called me
Speaker 4: and went forward. I had a situation where a man
Speaker 4: begged me to start working. Don't work. Don't work helped
Speaker 4: me grow my business. And then when I helped them,
Speaker 4: when they did something I didn't like and I had
Speaker 4: an opinion about it, he said, oh, I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: pay your bills. Well, sir, you told me start working.
Speaker 4: How you're gonna hold my bill money on top of
Speaker 4: my head? And you begged me to not work. So
Speaker 4: that's what I mean. It's situational. I don't but I
Speaker 4: don't put that on the man in an audience because
Speaker 4: they never did anything to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but a lot of that goes back to you, though, because.
Speaker 4: When you married, they say, listen to your husband, be submitted.
Speaker 3: Did he did he have those qualities of a nigga
Speaker 3: that will stall you out once he told you not
Speaker 3: to work?
Speaker 2: Did you see that before he did that?
Speaker 4: I didn't see it because he had walked in providing.
Speaker 4: He had provided everything, so I didn't have a reason
Speaker 4: to think I wasn't gonna have We had money everywhere.
Speaker 4: You get what I'm saying. But the control component with
Speaker 4: the money, and that's what ended up happening.
Speaker 6: I think that when you say like a man like
Speaker 6: when people will be like, oh whatever, it's because of
Speaker 6: that reason, like a man let a woman down.
Speaker 4: It's not because that he's not perfect.
Speaker 6: But if you guys have certain boundaries and understandings within
Speaker 6: the relationship and you go out and just fucking blind
Speaker 6: sight her and do some whole other ship that she's
Speaker 6: she's not doing that she can definitely most definitely be doing,
Speaker 6: and you're doing it.
Speaker 4: It's like, well, damn, you just fucking cross me.
Speaker 6: Just like if you've had a homeboy to do some
Speaker 6: shit like that to cross you, you're gonna be You're
Speaker 6: gonna be good on that, man, just like how we
Speaker 6: feel if a nigga do some ship, we're gonna be
Speaker 6: good on this. Be across the boundary what it is.
Speaker 4: Okay, we got the audience, the audience trying to ask
Speaker 4: her something.
Speaker 1: Yea.
Speaker 16: So I'm just listening to I know that some of
Speaker 16: the things that the win women are saying and doing it.
Speaker 2: Please y'all don't jump on me. I'm just listen.
Speaker 16: It's a little contradictory because y'all want traditional values. Can't
Speaker 16: be approached traditionally, but you want to live a modern boss, lady,
Speaker 16: you can't. You can't hold on. You can't man be
Speaker 16: the boss of a man.
Speaker 2: Thank you a man. Now, this is what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: let me finish, Let me finish, Hold hold on a
Speaker 2: little bit. Go ahead, bro, No it's not gentleman, go ahead,
Speaker 2: go ahead.
Speaker 16: But like I was saying, like you want to be
Speaker 16: approached by the man, But when the man comes in,
Speaker 16: everything doesn goes that not you. When everything isn't exactly
Speaker 16: how you think it should be, then you're ready to
Speaker 16: tough tail and leave a man. When you're in a
Speaker 16: relationship with a man, y'all got to be team than
Speaker 16: opponents facts, y'all be looking for the wind the win.
Speaker 2: I gotta be one up on you.
Speaker 16: How you're gonna keep me straight? How you gonna how
Speaker 16: you're gonna keep me straight? How we gonna keep each
Speaker 16: other straight?
Speaker 4: But everybody is are we gonna do this together?
Speaker 2: I'm with you.
Speaker 4: So, But when you have a partnership and then the
Speaker 4: man doesn't do his side of the partnership, I'm not
Speaker 4: talking about a woman that's getting in a relationship. Oh
Speaker 4: make sure you pay all my bills, make sure you
Speaker 4: take care of me. What am I I I gonna get?
Speaker 4: I'm talking about when we decide that we are a
Speaker 4: Wii and you drop the ball on the Wii because
Speaker 4: you want to hang out to eight nine o'clock because
Speaker 4: now you ask me to start working to help build
Speaker 4: your business for you that you're trying to get off
Speaker 4: the ground and you're gonna take care of our household.
Speaker 4: But then inside your household, you're acting reckless and you're
Speaker 4: coming in doing anything. You got condoms in your car,
Speaker 4: in your pocket, and you get what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 4: what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about the that's
Speaker 4: just trying to use you, so.
Speaker 2: Doctor, hold on listen.
Speaker 11: But also it's also something to where I think I
Speaker 11: think women have to be more careful about who they
Speaker 11: choose as leaders for their household because a lot of
Speaker 11: women are going to whoever is going to pay those bills.
Speaker 11: So you didn't know what other qualities this man had
Speaker 11: as a leader, But as long as he was taking
Speaker 11: care of and paying your bills, that's all they needed.
Speaker 2: So he shows you after the fact that he was
Speaker 2: a fuck nigga. Let me let me finish, because he was.
Speaker 11: That was always him. But the other qualities never mattered
Speaker 11: until they mattered. You saw that he didn't.
Speaker 16: You can always you just can't look like smokey cruise ship.
Speaker 16: You can run them. You can beat a boss. You
Speaker 16: just can't look like you his boss. You know what
Speaker 16: I'm saying, You can't. My mom always said, my my
Speaker 16: husband is the head. Well my parents still my husband's ahead.
Speaker 16: That turns ahead.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: So so the boss part, right, So that's the part
Speaker 6: that I was stuck on. You said, women want to
Speaker 6: be the boss, you don't want to be traditional. Traditional. Well,
Speaker 6: to me, traditional is the man goes out and makes
Speaker 6: the money, and the woman stays home and she takes
Speaker 6: care of the house and she takes care of the
Speaker 6: of the kids.
Speaker 13: Correct.
Speaker 6: Okay, So if that's if that's way, hold on, though
Speaker 6: technically it is because the woman, like you said, she
Speaker 6: stays home while the man goes to work and make
Speaker 6: the money.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: So these women, some of them are saying the same thing,
Speaker 6: like they don't want to work, they want your money.
Speaker 6: It's traditional as hell.
Speaker 11: But that ain't you gonna take the bad side of tradition.
Speaker 6: Let me finish tradition ahead, let me finish. So you're
Speaker 6: saying like you want this traditional woman, and you got her,
Speaker 6: but you don't got her in the warm that you
Speaker 6: want her in. So you you bought up this, this
Speaker 6: this conversation or this topic.
Speaker 4: But you're not even hearing me out.
Speaker 6: So, like I was saying, you want her to be traditional,
Speaker 6: but she is being traditional.
Speaker 4: She's just giving you a little bit.
Speaker 6: More aggression and she's a little bit more not demure
Speaker 6: then you want her to be. But that's because that's
Speaker 6: because these women aren't taking no more bullshit. Because when
Speaker 6: they were traditional back in the day, these men were
Speaker 6: still out here cheating and had multiple families and multiple whatever, and.
Speaker 4: That's tradition, right.
Speaker 6: But now but now as they do it, the women
Speaker 6: ain't going and they standing up for it, and they
Speaker 6: talking their ship and they popping their ship and they
Speaker 6: gonna let you know a you're doing s y Z.
Speaker 6: Make sure you bring them money home. Make sure you
Speaker 6: bring the money home. And now they popping their ship
Speaker 6: and you upset about it.
Speaker 4: But now it's called you a gold digger. So that
Speaker 4: that's the term for the traditional woman in twenty twenty four. Oh,
Speaker 4: now she'll go there.
Speaker 3: Mean me, y'all trying to justify what women he's saying. Basically,
Speaker 3: what he's saying is you can't want to want granddaddy
Speaker 3: and you don't want to be grandma.
Speaker 2: You can't. Grandma went through a lot of ship to
Speaker 2: keep granddaddy. But you brought that bag, That's what he's saying.
Speaker 4: But I get it, you can't get it. Brought that bag.
Speaker 2: The niggas bringing that bag a question?
Speaker 3: No, No, the niggas who got the money got them
Speaker 3: A grandmama who ain't playing like that, she already locked it.
Speaker 3: If a typical nigga that's handling this business, it's a
Speaker 3: woman holding on to his leg, ain't letting him go.
Speaker 3: Give her damn what he do know? They know the
Speaker 3: other side of this ship. Yeah, hold on, that's a bullshit.
Speaker 2: What y'all talking about.
Speaker 3: These niggas who ain't ship, ain't got no money, and
Speaker 3: they still want to run ship and they want to
Speaker 3: do all this.
Speaker 2: You fuck up. Ain't got a dick.
Speaker 6: We got make me stand up.
Speaker 15: So like, we're talking about two totally different types of people,
Speaker 15: because at the end of the day, there are men
Speaker 15: that are willing to be what you need them to be.
Speaker 12: But listen, I'm a one man.
Speaker 15: I'm probably gonna get booed for this, but I'm keep
Speaker 15: it a buck. You can't talk to no man any
Speaker 15: kind of way and think you're gonna get a certain
Speaker 15: thing from them. And I say that because as the women,
Speaker 15: it is easier to be a boss when he knows
Speaker 15: that you're speaking to the spirit in him. Most men
Speaker 15: don't know how to provide because they didn't come from
Speaker 15: no providers. Most of these men are first generation. Take
Speaker 15: care of be this, decide to be a stand up man,
Speaker 15: be a good.
Speaker 2: This out of these things.
Speaker 4: And you're.
Speaker 15: Social media has look it ain't checking if you got it,
Speaker 15: and now out here trying to compete with that, and
Speaker 15: now how that you really want to do and you
Speaker 15: have to teach it. It has to be a safe place.
Speaker 15: And most of the time because we as women look
Speaker 15: at the stuff that's online. Now I'm not talking about Shanel.
Speaker 15: I'm not talking about you Jojo. I'm just saying in general,
Speaker 15: there are women that they see things and now you're
Speaker 15: comparing your whole like, oh, this is what I want.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to compare somewhere. You can.
Speaker 15: A lot of times the issue is you I can
Speaker 15: go and put on nice clothes and I can go
Speaker 15: do this.
Speaker 4: You close.
Speaker 15: You don't clean a bathroom, you barely clean your I'm
Speaker 15: just keeping it a buck. So now you feel like
Speaker 15: you want this high dollar man, but you low value.
Speaker 4: Women because you can't do the regular things. So my my.
Speaker 15: Issue, but my it is, it is that you feel
Speaker 15: like if you go because no, Channell, no, you know
Speaker 15: how to house do all of these things, but you
Speaker 15: just came out and felt like because I got a
Speaker 15: nice body, whether you pay for or that God gave
Speaker 15: it to you.
Speaker 4: I got nice clothes.
Speaker 2: To what.
Speaker 15: You don't deserve anything everything. These people who do got
Speaker 15: this mind of God. They work for it, just like
Speaker 15: you need to put some work in it. That's how
Speaker 15: I personally, Lord.
Speaker 2: Jesus, how y'all feeling? Y'all still with us? What we're doing?
Speaker 13: Moderator, So let's go with, are we living in the
Speaker 13: day and age where it's okay to be sexually experimental?
Speaker 2: Huh?
Speaker 12: Absolutely?
Speaker 2: Who came up with that question?
Speaker 4: Question? I came away question.
Speaker 6: I came up with that question.
Speaker 2: Okay, I did it?
Speaker 13: So again, are we living in the day and age
Speaker 13: where it's okay to be sexually experimental?
Speaker 6: Who cares tradition?
Speaker 12: No, this is an era you can.
Speaker 2: So let's start.
Speaker 13: We're going hold on, we're gonna start with We're gonna
Speaker 13: start with you go ahead.
Speaker 5: Has the model period? No, absolutely, this is definitely the era.
Speaker 5: You can try out a lot of ship. You can
Speaker 5: be yourself like, I'm all for all of that.
Speaker 4: I need you to give us a little bit more,
Speaker 4: try all of what. Let's hear it.
Speaker 5: Whatever you want to do, Like, so what you like
Speaker 5: to do? I like girls? So you know this is
Speaker 5: one of those erarors you can actually, right, I like
Speaker 5: bad bitches, don't right.
Speaker 4: I think that was a little rejection.
Speaker 5: I'm like, no, no, no, no, no no no, that was
Speaker 5: what was given.
Speaker 12: It was given, bad bitch.
Speaker 5: But this is an error where you can really experiment,
Speaker 5: like with no judgment.
Speaker 12: So that's just an example.
Speaker 5: Like I like women, so I can experience with experiment
Speaker 5: with women without being judged.
Speaker 17: So absolutely that my people back in the back. I
Speaker 17: told you I got them in here for y'all. Yeah
Speaker 17: you do.
Speaker 4: So what you think, Jojo?
Speaker 15: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I think like sex is sex.
Speaker 4: I mean I think that's what we're talking about.
Speaker 6: I feel like when you ask that question, I'm thinking
Speaker 6: sex with the partner, like sexual experiences with your person, Yeah,
Speaker 6: like with your person, Yeah, I think I think so.
Speaker 4: I think there are some things that men may not be.
Speaker 6: Willing to try with their women because they may feel
Speaker 6: like it's crossing certain lines or certain boundaries or whatever.
Speaker 6: But it's just like I personally feel like, if if
Speaker 6: you're not going to go and do these sexual things
Speaker 6: with your partner that they want to do, then they're
Speaker 6: going to want to wander off and do those things
Speaker 6: with other people. No, because say, for instance, you're with somebody.
Speaker 6: You're with a man and he constantly likes him, right,
Speaker 6: but you, as a.
Speaker 4: Woman, you don't want to keep going down there for hours.
Speaker 4: He might be a type of nigga that it takes
Speaker 4: hours for him to fucking come. You know what I'm
Speaker 4: saying that you may not want to do that shit.
Speaker 6: So if you don't, then he gonna go out and
Speaker 6: find little Tasha down the street and she's gonna get off.
Speaker 6: So I just feel like, in order to just stop
Speaker 6: all of that, you gotta you gotta please your partner.
Speaker 4: I don't with it to a certain extent. I got boundaries.
Speaker 4: You hear me, don't come over here telling me you
Speaker 4: want to sleep with a boy and I watch it
Speaker 4: and I'm not interested in nothing going in my butt
Speaker 4: that hurt. If you want to go in your butt,
Speaker 4: then stick it in my butt. But I'm willing to
Speaker 4: do everything else. You hear me.
Speaker 12: Everything.
Speaker 4: I am an open butt. I have had sex in
Speaker 4: every airport that I've ever been in, you hear me.
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna do some shit. Whatever you want to do, sir,
Speaker 4: let's go. Just don't bring no boy up in here,
Speaker 4: and you gonna try to bring no big old thing
Speaker 4: inside of my butt because I want to be able
Speaker 4: to ship at sixty And that's what y'all ain't thinking about.
Speaker 4: It Just gonna be into.
Speaker 2: The flo's gonna come out real smooth. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: all that you yeah?
Speaker 11: Because I feel like I feel like if you linkoling
Speaker 11: with your partner whoever you're in the bedroom with that
Speaker 11: ship that's between y'all. Like I feel like a lot
Speaker 11: of times too many people are worried about what people
Speaker 11: outside the bedroom got to say, what they got to
Speaker 11: do in the bedroom.
Speaker 2: That ship don't matter.
Speaker 11: Like the most influential person you know could be a
Speaker 11: fucking freak.
Speaker 2: You would never know that ship. Wow.
Speaker 11: And if you didn't know, why would you know? Why
Speaker 11: would it matter to you? Would it change your perception
Speaker 11: of that person? Probably not.
Speaker 2: It shouldn't because this nigga, If this nigga.
Speaker 11: A cure the incurable disease and you find out he
Speaker 11: liked the goddamn uh where two tuos in the bedroom?
Speaker 2: Who gives a fuck?
Speaker 6: I want to try.
Speaker 1: That?
Speaker 2: Don't matter. That's that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 11: That ship, what another what another motherfucker got going on
Speaker 11: in the bedroom, don't matter.
Speaker 15: What you hon on?
Speaker 2: What two twos?
Speaker 5: Your?
Speaker 11: I sleep naked, so I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 11: You were I sleep? If I sleep naked, you think
Speaker 11: I'm wearing anything to happen.
Speaker 4: I didn't say when you went to sleep?
Speaker 2: I said no, no, you guys, no.
Speaker 11: T shirt that I go to sleep, balls naked, crack
Speaker 11: on the sheet, your cover, Let me go back, let
Speaker 11: me go back to the model, hit the pillow.
Speaker 13: So is it your partner's responsibility to fulfill all your
Speaker 13: sexual needs?
Speaker 4: And it should be?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, I think so too. Just going back to
Speaker 6: what I said, because if my partner not doing it
Speaker 6: and I really want to do it, anybody, if you
Speaker 6: really want to do something and you and you want
Speaker 6: to do it with your partner, your partner steadily telling
Speaker 6: you no, no, no, they're trying to keep shame you
Speaker 6: and ship like you don't want to go do it
Speaker 6: with somebody else. That's just the reality of it. Like period,
Speaker 6: I'm trying to do all of it, to do.
Speaker 2: Everything all right, and then so let's move on.
Speaker 13: So bank, is it a woman's responsibility to help regulate
Speaker 13: a man's emotions?
Speaker 8: What you mean?
Speaker 13: Is it a woman? Which is not like a note
Speaker 13: in order for is it?
Speaker 2: Is it a woman?
Speaker 13: Is it your woman's responsibility to help manage your emotions?
Speaker 3: No, it depends on what type of emotion. You just
Speaker 3: got some bitch as emotion, you just a bitch. But
Speaker 3: if you got emotion that's going on through life, yes,
Speaker 3: she's supposed help you managing. Like I was just telling
Speaker 3: her over here. Women don't understand when you choose certain
Speaker 3: type of dudes. You really got to come on and
Speaker 3: be everything for this dude. Like like I say, dude,
Speaker 3: don't care about no amount of money when it comes.
Speaker 2: Down to the right long like, so are they provided?
Speaker 2: If a dude ain't provide for you and you ain't.
Speaker 3: The one for him, you don't mind doing for the
Speaker 3: for the one that give him something. That money came
Speaker 3: by that part, You know what I'm saying, like, if
Speaker 3: you make me feel like I can't even buy this
Speaker 3: what you're giving me, So this money don't mean she
Speaker 3: because I this shit feel better than anything.
Speaker 8: You get, know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So hey, yeah, she help me manage my emotions.
Speaker 12: I agree. I agree with that wholeheartedly.
Speaker 18: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think that hold on quick, we.
Speaker 2: Can go right here and then we'll come back.
Speaker 8: Go ahead.
Speaker 4: I agree with that. And man banked and talked about
Speaker 4: this before, Like, the biggest part of what I do
Speaker 4: with a man is I check on him. I check
Speaker 4: on him every day. I'm like, how are you? No,
Speaker 4: don't tell me the generic answer of I'm cool, No,
Speaker 4: how are you? For real? At two in the morning,
Speaker 4: if you up? While you up, babe, what's going on
Speaker 4: with you? Let me check on you? And I a
Speaker 4: lot of times put my hand on his heart and
Speaker 4: be like, tell me how your heart feel, Like, tell
Speaker 4: me what you really want to be inside? Like, if
Speaker 4: there's nothing else in the world that you can do,
Speaker 4: and we only got one day, what is it that
Speaker 4: we're gonna be When you check on your man and
Speaker 4: you and he generally know that you love him to death,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna love the fuck out of a nigga, you
Speaker 4: hear me, And that's when women be like men don't
Speaker 4: provide all of mine provide. But but like Bank said,
Speaker 4: it's because I'm giving them some that they're not gonna
Speaker 4: get from everybody else. Men need you. Men need to
Speaker 4: feel safe, and as a woman, you have to be
Speaker 4: their safe space. And if you are not, they're gonna
Speaker 4: search everywhere for it.
Speaker 6: So what I was gonna say, because I said, I agree,
Speaker 6: and what you said managing man's emotions, I think yes,
Speaker 6: women should do that because a lot of men do
Speaker 6: not know how to control their emotions. They don't even
Speaker 6: know that they have emotions, and if they do, they're
Speaker 6: taught in life to not have them. So it's like
Speaker 6: us being women and us having feelings and emotions and
Speaker 6: knowing what it feels like to be sad or depressed
Speaker 6: or you know, things like that, and us as women,
Speaker 6: like we go through so many things in life. We
Speaker 6: experienced so many, so many things backlash from just people,
Speaker 6: and it's like we we endure that. So as a
Speaker 6: woman with a man, we have to be there for
Speaker 6: them to help.
Speaker 4: Them navigate these emotions that they.
Speaker 6: Don't understand because they don't understand it. They feel like,
Speaker 6: oh I'm feeling like this, I'm gonna just shut the
Speaker 6: fuck up. No, like I'm here to help you navigate it.
Speaker 4: Almost like a therapy.
Speaker 6: So yeah, like be there for your man at all times.
Speaker 5: That I think y'all made some great points what you
Speaker 5: brought up therapy, So a lot of I think you
Speaker 5: should be there to be supportive of your man's emotions. Yes,
Speaker 5: but sometimes men come along with baggage, They come along
Speaker 5: with trauma that you had nothing to do with. So
Speaker 5: I cannot take on emotions and trauma that came from
Speaker 5: your childhood or your past relationships.
Speaker 12: So you need to seek therapy.
Speaker 5: You need to seek help because I can't take on
Speaker 5: that if you haven't, if you haven't addressed that issue yourself.
Speaker 13: There, I appreciate that what you think I said, No,
Speaker 13: but also I feel like it's a part of a
Speaker 13: big part of my personality.
Speaker 4: Like.
Speaker 11: Because I'm not a I'm a very even person, Like
Speaker 11: I'm never gonna be too mad or or or anything
Speaker 11: about that. But I just don't feel like I would
Speaker 11: need a woman to uh regulate my emotions about anything,
Speaker 11: because if I feel the type of way I'm gonna
Speaker 11: tell you, And that's how it is. I'm very straightforward
Speaker 11: on a lot of things. So in my life, me
Speaker 11: me personally, Let me me personally. I don't feel like
Speaker 11: we have to even talk about it. You know what
Speaker 11: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: If you've been around a person and it's your person,
Speaker 3: or you really love this person, you knowing something off
Speaker 3: with this person. So by you knowing some off of
Speaker 3: this person, you can do a gesture that I ain't
Speaker 3: got nothing to do it what's wrong, bab, Because most
Speaker 3: of time niggas don't like to tell you what's going
Speaker 3: on because they don't want you to stress with them.
Speaker 3: So you can do certain shit that just change my
Speaker 3: whole vibe to make me feel a whole nother way.
Speaker 3: And I could have just lost a whole half a
Speaker 3: million dollar last night on a plate. You never know,
Speaker 3: But you can do something like, damn, the world ain't
Speaker 3: over with. I got something right here that I ain't.
Speaker 3: You. You get a woman gotta give you some shit that
Speaker 3: you don't even know you need.
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. You know, I didn't even know
Speaker 2: I needed this.
Speaker 11: You know, you know what hold on bank, I had, Jojo.
Speaker 11: What you said just reminded me of some because we
Speaker 11: work together. So you see me, I think how I
Speaker 11: say that what I said? I say what I said
Speaker 11: because I'm the type of a person that's like, fuck it,
Speaker 11: I'm gonna figure it out. So what's telling you about
Speaker 11: a problem gonna solve if I haven't already.
Speaker 2: Solved the problem.
Speaker 6: But that's the problem.
Speaker 11: So if if I know we are fifty thousand dollars
Speaker 11: in debt and you ain't found out yet, my my
Speaker 11: job is to come up with fift thousand dollars, what
Speaker 11: I'm gonna tell you about the phone. I need to
Speaker 11: figure this problem out because as a leader, that's what
Speaker 11: I'm supposed to do. You're supposed to do whatever I
Speaker 11: need you to do, and that a part of your
Speaker 11: duty is not stressing about shit that I'm supposed to
Speaker 11: fix because at the end of the day, I'm going
Speaker 11: to fix whatever the problem is. So telling my girl
Speaker 11: about whatever issue is it's not solving the problem.
Speaker 4: That's what you.
Speaker 6: Agree, And that's why I'm saying, like that's what you think.
Speaker 4: We are here.
Speaker 6: We're we're not here to to look down on you,
Speaker 6: because that's what's going on. If we're partners that's exactly
Speaker 6: what we are. But if I know you can't help
Speaker 6: me with this, with this, you don't know that.
Speaker 2: I know you can't.
Speaker 3: You know that because even in my field, you don't
Speaker 3: know nothing about what I.
Speaker 4: Many things that that you don't know about women.
Speaker 2: You don't know it'll be better. I need.
Speaker 3: I need to build this house, this house. Get getting
Speaker 3: on my nerve. Man, I need to go put your
Speaker 3: put your boots on, and get your helm.
Speaker 4: No, I know what I can build it.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm talking about Okay, done thought, take the out
Speaker 3: put on.
Speaker 4: Let's take this model out. Because what the power of
Speaker 4: women is, I don't help you figure it out. If
Speaker 4: I love you, I'm putting them boots, songs, song and
Speaker 4: whatever I gotta put on to make sure it's good. Look,
Speaker 4: I have a whole construction degree because a nigga wanted
Speaker 4: to be a contract that not me. Talk to me
Speaker 4: about it. You can't talk to me about it.
Speaker 5: So from where y'all are coming from, I understand, because
Speaker 5: as a good woman, you're gonna automatically want to get
Speaker 5: in there with your men.
Speaker 12: You're like, all right, what's the problem. I'm here to help.
Speaker 5: But what they're saying is, as a man, you don't
Speaker 5: really want to put that on your woman, So you
Speaker 5: kind of just put that on your back, like all right,
Speaker 5: let me figure it out, because I don't want to
Speaker 5: put the stress on my woman. So even though they
Speaker 5: have a good woman and like she's gonna get in
Speaker 5: here with me, but as a man, you don't want
Speaker 5: to put that on your woman.
Speaker 3: No, baby, I don't want you to think about it,
Speaker 3: think about how to make me feel mushy, because I
Speaker 3: already feel fucked up out there coming.
Speaker 2: I want my blunts and ship rolled up. I want
Speaker 2: my ship, this ship.
Speaker 4: You feel like you know what food, you know what
Speaker 4: talking about?
Speaker 3: Let me just feel like I came to a castle
Speaker 3: that remind me that I'm a king through your actions.
Speaker 4: So what if you already doing that?
Speaker 6: Like what if you're already getting that, but and you're
Speaker 6: still having the like you still got other things going on.
Speaker 6: I'm all I'm saying is is I get I get
Speaker 6: exactly what you're saying. Nobody wants to put that on
Speaker 6: their woman, But in a partnership, it don't matter. That's
Speaker 6: what she's there for to help you in every way,
Speaker 6: not just to cook and clean and fuck and suck
Speaker 6: and emotional and all that that may be helping you,
Speaker 6: but we're just saying like that also causes problems because
Speaker 6: say you just lost fifty thousand whatever on the plug,
Speaker 6: whatever you was doing.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: We can feel that energy.
Speaker 4: When you come home.
Speaker 6: We can feel it, and we may ask you over
Speaker 6: and over and over what's going on, and you don't
Speaker 6: say nothing.
Speaker 3: You think that you want to be in this indictment.
Speaker 3: You don't know what I'm doing. You don't know what
Speaker 3: the fuck I'm doing? Who could have got?
Speaker 2: Bitch?
Speaker 3: Don't don't tell you know that you want to be
Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell I'm doing. Hold, don't
Speaker 3: know what this man doing?
Speaker 4: Well, when you put it like that, don't tell me
Speaker 4: about it. Don't you.
Speaker 2: Want to be nosy?
Speaker 4: Don't tell me?
Speaker 2: So we got a question. We got a question for
Speaker 2: right quick?
Speaker 12: Okay, y'all, how y'all doing? Hey?
Speaker 2: Drink so strong?
Speaker 6: Okay, So listen, it's twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: I just want to know why.
Speaker 8: Is love so conditional for women?
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 12: Like love is so conditional for y'all?
Speaker 2: Men love my conditions?
Speaker 19: And I want to know why you not already coming
Speaker 19: already as a woman already. Why I gotta do something
Speaker 19: to make you feel like you gotta be womanly?
Speaker 2: Thank you. I think I can do as a man
Speaker 2: to make you not be a woman. You're a woman.
Speaker 2: Hold On, I said that. I'm said that, thank you.
Speaker 5: I mean, let me get after you think women, let
Speaker 5: us know how you're ready, ladies.
Speaker 11: Hold on, let us lad ladies, ladies, all right, quick, ladies, ladies.
Speaker 2: I got a question. I got a question.
Speaker 11: If if the man that you're talking to said that
Speaker 11: you ain't making me feel manlessen, I'm mad like a bitch.
Speaker 2: Of that nigga.
Speaker 11: Like until like I'm saying, y'all saying, a man got
Speaker 11: to put you in your feminine energy. What if a
Speaker 11: nigga had if you had to put a nigga in masking,
Speaker 11: you know, bro, that's no, that's that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 11: That's not gonna fly with y'all.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: A lot of these dudes is in their feminine energy.
Speaker 3: But listen, he had to sit up, just said.
Speaker 6: You just said from the South Mississippi.
Speaker 19: So I'm like super traditional, I'm not controlling or I'm
Speaker 19: not any of those things. I'm a woman, so I
Speaker 19: know how y'all already is. So what I'm saying is
Speaker 19: like my grandma raised me.
Speaker 2: So it's like I be.
Speaker 19: More women than half of these women. Because y'all so conditional.
Speaker 19: You have to do so many things to make y'all
Speaker 19: feel soft and being y'all soft vibe.
Speaker 12: Absolutely. First question, absolutely.
Speaker 19: Not, you know second part question second, it's two points.
Speaker 2: It's two points.
Speaker 4: Part is what is sassy?
Speaker 2: What is sassy?
Speaker 4: Because you can't do what you want to.
Speaker 12: Do with me, all right, Like I said, absolutely not.
Speaker 5: A man does not have to do anything that make
Speaker 5: me to show up as a woman. I'm gonna show
Speaker 5: up as I am. However, you have to do things
Speaker 5: for me if you want me to show up like
Speaker 5: I'm not just showing up for anything. So we can
Speaker 5: say love is conditional, but I mean it's on both sides, okay,
Speaker 5: because men have their expectations, have their expectations of a relationship.
Speaker 4: I agree, just in general, I got something.
Speaker 3: Manet you, they gonna keep you until you do the
Speaker 3: wrong ship, then they gonna let you go.
Speaker 2: Other than that, niggas to deal with your ship forever.
Speaker 2: The women, but who.
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't have to.
Speaker 6: I got something to say because she said, why does
Speaker 6: a man have to put you in your female energy? Now,
Speaker 6: I can't speak for any other female in here, but
Speaker 6: I'm gonna speak for myself, and I'm gonna say this
Speaker 6: growing up, right, it's so many things that like a
Speaker 6: woman has to do and and and life, like people
Speaker 6: are always judging this woman.
Speaker 4: A woman is tough. It is the toughest species.
Speaker 6: On this fucking earth, and she has to be because
Speaker 6: she has emotions. But people are keep throwing ship this
Speaker 6: way and this way, and she's supposed to just keep
Speaker 6: handling it and handling it.
Speaker 4: Especially as a black woman.
Speaker 6: We go through so much different shit. So we's so tough.
Speaker 6: We're tough. We're tough, We're tough. We know, like this
Speaker 6: person is saying some bullshit, this person doing some bullshit.
Speaker 4: Then you got this nigga over here, he owns some bullshit.
Speaker 6: I gotta take care of these kids because I might
Speaker 6: be with a nigga who ain't taking care of them.
Speaker 4: So now I gotta be strong enough to take care
Speaker 4: of them too.
Speaker 6: So now I'm just super strong, and I done got
Speaker 6: this masculine energy that I have no idea where it
Speaker 6: came from. I didn't even know if it was a
Speaker 6: thing until people start saying, oh, she has masculine energy,
Speaker 6: Oh she has masculine energy.
Speaker 4: I'm over here thinking like, but what the fuck is that?
Speaker 6: But really, whole time, it's just me being so tough
Speaker 6: because I have to deal with the world. But I
Speaker 6: have to be strong not only for me, but for
Speaker 6: everybody around me. So now when I'm with this man,
Speaker 6: I'm tough and I'm tough, and I'm doing this and
Speaker 6: I'm working hard and I'm doing all this other shit.
Speaker 6: And when he comes in and he's like, I got you, baby,
Speaker 6: don't worry about it. You ain't gotta work that hard.
Speaker 6: You ain't gotta do all of that. I'll go pick
Speaker 6: the kids up, I'll go this, I'll go do this
Speaker 6: for you. And slowly that woman starts getting softer and
Speaker 6: softer and softer to where she feels like she can
Speaker 6: trust you. And now she feel like now she's in
Speaker 6: her feminine energy and she could love you on condition
Speaker 6: not so quick. It's a real thing.
Speaker 2: Nah ho ho ho ho ho. I got it. Go
Speaker 2: ahead and get in there. I gotta respond to that. Bro.
Speaker 3: Have y'all ever seen no women that just remain women regardless.
Speaker 3: Though I'm not talking about this what's going on. I'm saying,
Speaker 3: you got some women that have been sweet all my life,
Speaker 3: Like this lady has been a sweet lady all my life.
Speaker 3: Some women got it, some women don't.
Speaker 2: That's just what it is.
Speaker 4: But she may have it with you, But you don't
Speaker 4: know what kind of hell in termin.
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about.
Speaker 3: We all know women that like, that's a nice lady,
Speaker 3: don't you that you've been knowing all your life?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you see what I'm saying, like, this is a
Speaker 4: nice lady. But to me, But then I also them saying, oh,
Speaker 4: that lady's so sweet. I didn't seen her turn up
Speaker 4: on a situation where she may have had to turn out. Fact,
Speaker 4: that ain't the same thing. I'm saying.
Speaker 2: She out of character then though, right when she turned up,
Speaker 2: that's out of character sweet for sure.
Speaker 3: Okay, when you can when you get these women these
Speaker 3: days that out of character when they're.
Speaker 4: Being sweet, Where y'all mean, what do you mean?
Speaker 3: How if I gotta if I gotta get you in
Speaker 3: your feminine energy, I gotta get you out of characters
Speaker 3: because you already in your masculine well, I'm.
Speaker 4: Not coming to a man, but I will. I will
Speaker 4: be selective of who I give my time and energy to.
Speaker 3: But we had a conversation in our podcast, and then
Speaker 3: motherfucker went crazy too.
Speaker 2: Shu outside the shun nail. Our shit went crazy.
Speaker 3: But like a women say, like when women say, and
Speaker 3: y'all gonna chew me up, I don't care. I'm ready
Speaker 3: to get into it anyway, y'all gonna say, how can
Speaker 3: a woman's take he drove me to cheat on him?
Speaker 3: I never understood that, baby, you you being a cheater?
Speaker 3: You been would do it? Am I right or wrong?
Speaker 4: You wrong?
Speaker 3: That ain't no such make you bought? Can't nigga make
Speaker 3: you go outside of your character? If that's against your character,
Speaker 3: you're not gonna do it.
Speaker 2: Bro, that's a lot.
Speaker 3: That's just like saying That's just like saying a nigga saying,
Speaker 3: my wife made me go to punk parties.
Speaker 4: Bro, you wont to go.
Speaker 2: Cain't nobody drive you to do some shit you don't
Speaker 2: want to do.
Speaker 6: I don't think that's true.
Speaker 3: How you already want to circumstances just hand to persent itself.
Speaker 11: And you hadn't lost respect for this man? Yet hold
Speaker 11: hold on, you lost respect now you could be you.
Speaker 11: It's it's another It's all right. So let's use another example.
Speaker 11: If a nigga not a thief, you can't make a
Speaker 11: nigga a thief by leaving money out on the table.
Speaker 11: If you leave one hundred dollars on the table right now,
Speaker 11: I'm gonna take it because I'm a thief.
Speaker 2: No, I'm fucking with you.
Speaker 11: I'm fucking with you, but I'm not a thief, so
Speaker 11: I wouldn't take it. But it's another nigga that'll probably
Speaker 11: see that shit like she and not say nothing. But
Speaker 11: it's two different type of niggas. So my tripping, I'm I.
Speaker 4: Don't think you're tripping. I mean, women don't like that.
Speaker 4: I sometimes agree with men on some things, but I've
Speaker 4: never been faithful to nobody. I never have, so you know,
Speaker 4: me and my friends debate faithful And I mean I didn't.
Speaker 3: He didn't make you do it either, did it?
Speaker 7: Did?
Speaker 4: No? But I am not like that anymore. But see
Speaker 4: the thing about it, So like I always tell people,
Speaker 4: and I even always tell my friends, like people try
Speaker 4: to weaponize me with who I am as a person.
Speaker 4: You could never weaponize me because I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 4: who I am. I don't care if you create a
Speaker 4: group chat about it. I've never been faithful to a
Speaker 4: nigga before I'm working on it. I went to therapy.
Speaker 4: They did not make me cheat, but it was another
Speaker 4: nigga looking at me, and after a time and a time,
Speaker 4: I responded back the same thing that happens with men.
Speaker 4: Women go approach heese man, and approach heese man. They
Speaker 4: weren't even going look at the cheat on you that day.
Speaker 4: It wasn't malicious, tend to do it. It didn't happened,
Speaker 4: but it's you. I went to therapy to get it
Speaker 4: up out of me. And that's the reason that I
Speaker 4: won't commit to none of these men right now, because
Speaker 4: I steal my cheat and I don't want to do that.
Speaker 12: No mochus man, God got a bag, Okay, I feel So.
Speaker 20: I got a couple things to say first or foremost,
Speaker 20: shout out, shut out, a big bang shut out coda,
Speaker 20: because y'all speaking is some real shit.
Speaker 8: The ladyes y'all speaking is some real shit too.
Speaker 20: But at first and foremost, I just want to say,
Speaker 20: as a real man, right, we go through shit right
Speaker 20: like they were saying, you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 20: if I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars, I'm not going
Speaker 20: to tell you I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars. But
Speaker 20: as my woman, like Big Bank was saying, you should
Speaker 20: know something is wrong with me, so you should be there.
Speaker 8: That cansole me regardless. You should have.
Speaker 20: To know what I'm going through to know that I'm
Speaker 20: going through something to be there for me, you know
Speaker 20: what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: Then, on that how what you were saying, like with the.
Speaker 20: Like when you said that you hadn't been faithful, right,
Speaker 20: nobody drove you to do that. As a man like
Speaker 20: Big Bank was saying, well, we make that choice that
Speaker 20: you my woman, I'm gonna stick with you until you
Speaker 20: make it that to the point where that that's that
Speaker 20: you feel me. And so as a man, if you
Speaker 20: make me comfortable, if you my peace, I'm gonna stick
Speaker 20: beside you. But as soon as you throw me off,
Speaker 20: then you gotta slide. And so for men, I feel
Speaker 20: like that's why we are so logical and y'all are
Speaker 20: emotional because y'all act on impults or act on oh damn,
Speaker 20: you made me feel this type of way, So I'm
Speaker 20: about to go do this. But as a man, it's
Speaker 20: like you made me feel this type of way. Does
Speaker 20: this really affect me? If it don't affect how I move,
Speaker 20: how I make my money, then fuck it. I'm gonna
Speaker 20: stick besides you, and I'm gonna do what I gotta
Speaker 20: do because you my peace, and that's what I stick beside.
Speaker 20: So as a man, it's like you mine. I'm gonna
Speaker 20: hold you down until you show me that I don't
Speaker 20: need to do that no more, and then I'm gonna
Speaker 20: go do my thing.
Speaker 4: Well, I never got caught, so nobody never felt no
Speaker 4: certain type of way. His emotions was intact. I was
Speaker 4: at home, weint on him at six am, and he
Speaker 4: ain't never know I got in at five. So guess what,
Speaker 4: I never got caught. Better, You never gonna feel no
Speaker 4: certain type of way. You ain't gonna feel crazy or nothing.
Speaker 4: All right, just putting that out.
Speaker 6: There, period.
Speaker 2: Hey, let me ask you all a question.
Speaker 13: Hold on, hold it down right, quick, life, hold it
Speaker 13: down right quick? Okay, go ahead, I'm gonna ask you
Speaker 13: all a question.
Speaker 3: Do y'all think women do y'all think men should cater
Speaker 3: to all your emotions.
Speaker 6: No, I don't think he should cater to all of
Speaker 6: our emotions, but I think that he should acknowledge that
Speaker 6: I am having an emotion.
Speaker 3: But what if you just emotional? Motherfucker every day? So
Speaker 3: I put the knowledge it every day?
Speaker 4: Like when you say emotional every ding something wrong?
Speaker 2: It's pitched again? Now she got a problem like that?
Speaker 2: Like what what's wrong with her today?
Speaker 4: That?
Speaker 2: Like like that?
Speaker 7: Cash?
Speaker 3: Should I always every day?
Speaker 6: Well, it depends if you if you see she has
Speaker 6: a problem and you ain't never check on her. The
Speaker 6: first day she had a problem, Well guess what. The
Speaker 6: next day she's gonna have a problem. For the day
Speaker 6: after that, she's gonna have a problem. Is she gonna
Speaker 6: have a problem unless.
Speaker 4: You ask her what the problem? Sometimes women do that.
Speaker 6: They gonna be mad as hell all the way up
Speaker 6: until you be like, baby, what's wrong?
Speaker 2: So you're gonna create all these issues and expect your man.
Speaker 4: Issues. Y'all gotta understand that women come on issues. Niggas
Speaker 4: come on issues every day.
Speaker 2: Is not.
Speaker 4: Niggas come with y'all got baby mamas want to call
Speaker 4: in the middle of the night, y'all want to then
Speaker 4: sleep with the dancers, y'all sleep with the nursing.
Speaker 13: No that we we like that look so look real
Speaker 13: dope conversation. We got one more. She wanted to address
Speaker 13: the pannel after that, and we're getting ready. That way
Speaker 13: we can close us on out.
Speaker 4: Hold on, go ahead, okay, I want to.
Speaker 18: Oh so let's start back from the beginning. I think
Speaker 18: we got the characteristics and what they do naturally as
Speaker 18: a person, and you can avoid a lot of this
Speaker 18: ship Like a lot of the stuff is like immature
Speaker 18: that y'all talking about, Like, oh, address this emotion and
Speaker 18: that like you're supposed to already know that from your parents.
Speaker 18: That's what your mother is for. She's an example for
Speaker 18: you as the wife. Your father is an example as.
Speaker 4: A no no no no.
Speaker 2: No no.
Speaker 11: No.
Speaker 4: But guess what you man come with most of the emotions.
Speaker 4: So that means but most of y'all ain't had no mama.
Speaker 4: I've but people that ain't had no mama, they started
Speaker 4: taking care of the South at twelve.
Speaker 3: Let me ask you question, do y'all really want the
Speaker 3: truth or a lot you could believe the truth?
Speaker 12: I want the truth. Okay, We're going to the truth.
Speaker 3: That's cap Thank you, baby, thank you, queen.
Speaker 2: No real truth.
Speaker 4: You can truth, but you have to live in reality.
Speaker 6: You gotta open up your big ass eyes and see
Speaker 6: what the fuck going on and realize that motherfuckers out
Speaker 6: here is fucked up. Okay, they grew up and they
Speaker 6: grew up with no mama, and they grew up with
Speaker 6: no daddy, And you're trying to tell me just because
Speaker 6: they ain't have no mamma and no daddy and what's
Speaker 6: saw to how to be raised as an individual, that
Speaker 6: they don't deserve no love. And they fell in love
Speaker 6: with you, and you're supposed to just be like, I'm
Speaker 6: good on buddy, because he don't know how to love
Speaker 6: you properly. No, because if I love you, I'm gonna
Speaker 6: I'm gonna deal with that bullshit, that that trauma that
Speaker 6: you came then I'm gonna try to help you figure
Speaker 6: it out.
Speaker 2: That man. I think.
Speaker 3: I think, really, man, I think really the best relationships
Speaker 3: it's the nigga who can tell the best lies.
Speaker 2: Man, because you tell the truth truth like the truth
Speaker 2: cheth truth.
Speaker 4: Thank you crazy hell well truth.
Speaker 12: Truth.
Speaker 2: She gonna be motherfucking mind.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 4: I agree with you, though I agree. Watch your talk
Speaker 4: some of the best relationships are because the women have
Speaker 4: been lied to the best because I know some of
Speaker 4: those people and they have no idea that their husbands
Speaker 4: do what they do because their husbands make sure that
Speaker 4: they don't find out. But I just feel like, don't
Speaker 4: let me find out. But also I prefer you to
Speaker 4: tell me the truth because I don't want to have
Speaker 4: to go to the clinic and get appeal every goddamn
Speaker 4: thirty days. I gotta take the rest of my life
Speaker 4: because you out here doing some whole ship. Let me
Speaker 4: decide what I'm going to do with my motherfucking life.
Speaker 4: And that is the problem with these men that want
Speaker 4: to keep lying to you. And I have homegirls that
Speaker 4: now got ship that they can't fucking get rid of
Speaker 4: because a nigga want to lie. And that's when you
Speaker 4: get your motherfucking head blown off.
Speaker 2: The truth damn.
Speaker 4: Okay, I give you then and figure it out, Okay.
Speaker 3: But we just sat there and say you that's the
Speaker 3: case every woman should use coming with every man, because
Speaker 3: every woman.
Speaker 2: Says like it's contradicting. I can't here, you can't hear
Speaker 2: what they're saying on the panel. Hold it down, hold on,
Speaker 2: Hold on one second. Y'all. Hold up, Hold up, Okay.
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying this is contradicting though, like we saying,
Speaker 3: especially in ALLOUTA. You meet a dude at this big
Speaker 3: old age were at right now and he having most
Speaker 3: you think he got hold And when I meet you today,
Speaker 3: offen to get rid of all my whole. Just go ahead,
Speaker 3: you're gonna get rid of like if you're good enough,
Speaker 3: you're gonna get rid of the little strack.
Speaker 4: No she what she's said and asking you to get
Speaker 4: rid of all your whole.
Speaker 12: We're not making clear that you got hold.
Speaker 4: Just don't lie.
Speaker 2: How am I line? When you the reason why you
Speaker 2: wanted me? Because I am?
Speaker 21: Hold up, don't nobody won't nobody that nobody else don't
Speaker 21: want bank. That's okay, And it's a shortage on these
Speaker 21: kind of niggas.
Speaker 6: Listen, talk about it. Man, What you mean bank? Not
Speaker 6: the problem that you got holes. It's a problem that
Speaker 6: you meet a girl. I know you don't, but I'm
Speaker 6: just saying what the problem is you meet the girl.
Speaker 6: The problem is is that the man who has holes
Speaker 6: meets the girl who he really want, Like he might
Speaker 6: just want her to fuck her, right, but he has
Speaker 6: to tell her exactly what he needs to tell her
Speaker 6: to fuck her.
Speaker 4: So now you're gonna tell I ain't got no hold.
Speaker 3: I don't understand that. You ain't gotta tell the women
Speaker 3: ship they going. You ain't gotta tell them ship there
Speaker 3: Like we had a conversation after we fucked, like, so
Speaker 3: you in a relationship.
Speaker 2: Like this, be real man Like, I don't get to
Speaker 2: know you till I fuck to you.
Speaker 3: That's what's sucking it up, be falling us first, you
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: We we got them for about a month straight. Now
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to know you know what all?
Speaker 2: You like this bitch man like? We don't we what
Speaker 2: not compatible?
Speaker 3: We don't agree on ship but you already now you're
Speaker 3: already into something.
Speaker 4: But see that's that's but that's why I don't operate
Speaker 4: like but you but as women, you bank has a
Speaker 4: balid point. Women everybody been with a man before they
Speaker 4: get to know that man. And so what I that's
Speaker 4: the thing one thing that I will not do. I
Speaker 4: will go my last long term relations ship. I didn't
Speaker 4: sleep with him for four months, but I allowed him
Speaker 4: to sleep with whoever. I used to post on Instagram
Speaker 4: like Oh, he left me in the hotel for twelve
Speaker 4: hours because he wanted to go get a dig suck,
Speaker 4: but he always came back. And I knew I wasn't
Speaker 4: providing the service. So I can't tell you don't get
Speaker 4: the service if I'm not willing to provide it. But
Speaker 4: I made him get to know me first. I made
Speaker 4: him tell me all kinds of things about him, and
Speaker 4: him know things about me, and he he always tell
Speaker 4: people like I just wanted to fuck the bitch, but
Speaker 4: she made me get to know her, and then I
Speaker 4: liked her. Dude, after I fucked, I tried to get
Speaker 4: rid of Did you miss her?
Speaker 2: Alright? What you think about that?
Speaker 12: Which part? What we talking? Anything? Go back to your point,
Speaker 12: say what you just said.
Speaker 2: My point was I really kind of forgot what I said.
Speaker 12: Oh you said no no no no no no no no.
Speaker 4: No no what you said?
Speaker 12: You said, you're getting to know a bitch?
Speaker 4: Y'all? Fuck?
Speaker 12: Why are you waiting until after you know her to try.
Speaker 3: To get it know at It ain't no man, listen, bro,
Speaker 3: I ain't talking about me personally, I'm saying in general,
Speaker 3: and we all.
Speaker 2: Know people just can't to be truthful. Man, I'm sick
Speaker 2: of y'all.
Speaker 3: You meet a motherfucker, man, women, men, whoever, you know,
Speaker 3: if you're gonna give her, get him some pussy of
Speaker 3: if he you're gonna suck her. You already know that
Speaker 3: when you first meet a person. I always tell that
Speaker 3: when I first if I was single. I'm just speaking hypothetic.
Speaker 3: I see a woman, I'm not thinking about. Nothing goes
Speaker 3: on with her. Besides I want.
Speaker 2: To sleep with her. That's just anyway. Anyway, that's because
Speaker 2: it's the first thing.
Speaker 3: Is physical attraction, right, So that's that's gonna be like damn.
Speaker 2: I kind of like that.
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm thinking about off the rip, I
Speaker 3: ain't thinking about can she read?
Speaker 4: You read?
Speaker 2: If your asspact? You think I can? If you can read, okay,
Speaker 2: we'll figure that later this ship.
Speaker 4: Hen why.
Speaker 2: You she can't? She can't read? She can suck men
Speaker 2: big yeah, yeah, that count.
Speaker 4: She could count. She don't gotta read, but she knows
Speaker 4: her number. No but you.
Speaker 6: But you gotta beware though, because there are some crazy
Speaker 6: ass bitches out here that you can fuck and don't
Speaker 6: know nothing about her unless you know. Now she's stalking you.
Speaker 6: Now she's doing some all types of crazy ship. You
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like you have Like when I'm saying,
Speaker 6: as a woman, if you just gonna suck a girl,
Speaker 6: like let her know what's going on, if you got
Speaker 6: a situation, let her know, if you just trying to.
Speaker 4: Suck her, let her know.
Speaker 6: And everybody scared because it's like, oh, if I say something,
Speaker 6: she may not be willing to fuck. But let her
Speaker 6: make that decision because then you're gonna ultimately fuck yourself up.
Speaker 4: Now she's pulling up on you, and you're like, damn, bitch.
Speaker 2: I'm about to say, that's how to make good decisions.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put this.
Speaker 11: It's not even that serious, like, yeah, I got a
Speaker 11: girl that I'm already fucking.
Speaker 6: That you fucking if you have a situation, you have.
Speaker 11: A situation that they got ship to do with you.
Speaker 3: Most men, and I'm gonna put this claim out there
Speaker 3: for men, most men be actually thinking they like the
Speaker 3: women at first.
Speaker 6: It's crazy.
Speaker 11: I don't believe what they do until they shows, until.
Speaker 3: Their mask come off. Because everybody come in a relationship
Speaker 3: with a mask on.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't give a fuck who you is.
Speaker 3: You not pulling up your regular self first day shout
Speaker 3: and I start seeing late on in life and how
Speaker 3: you really? How you really?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I still like you.
Speaker 6: Because you had a mask on, but like you just
Speaker 6: think somebody just gone.
Speaker 3: Like that's how you're gonna get authentic, your authentic self, though,
Speaker 3: You're gonna get your authentic person when you draw the
Speaker 3: line this who I am time.
Speaker 4: I think that it takes time.
Speaker 3: To If it takes time, are you mad at me?
Speaker 3: Because I don't like when you show me you. I'm saying,
Speaker 3: like a woman to say a nigga didn't because she
Speaker 3: waited six months down the line he finally found out
Speaker 3: who she was.
Speaker 2: He'd be like, Bro, I can't deal with this. How's
Speaker 2: he wrong?
Speaker 12: He's not.
Speaker 2: I wasn't even dating you.
Speaker 4: He's not wrong.
Speaker 3: That's what happens most of the time. But niggas don't
Speaker 3: even know that. I just cracked the cold to night.
Speaker 3: Niggas don't even know that what to be. He don't
Speaker 3: know how to say it. But I really like her brother,
Speaker 3: But I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. No, you don't, Bro, you
Speaker 2: don't like her.
Speaker 11: That's the truth, though, bro, like you most of these
Speaker 11: people be me and these people bro having six day
Speaker 11: all the good ship in.
Speaker 3: The beginning, you know what I'm saying, the butterflies, and
Speaker 3: she looked good. She got by some eight good outfits.
Speaker 3: She don't want somem eight good bags.
Speaker 4: She don't know.
Speaker 3: Now this shit started. Now she gotta repeat this ship.
Speaker 3: I've seen that jacket before.
Speaker 2: I see that. You try to reap it. You try
Speaker 2: to you know what I'm saying, And it ain't what
Speaker 2: you said it was, so we both was lying.
Speaker 4: If she did not she didn't want eighteen good outfits.
Speaker 4: You and slider jacket in y'all ain't nigga to the
Speaker 4: mall or nothing to get a little sweater at that point,
Speaker 4: because if you and seen me eight or ten times,
Speaker 4: that's over a month of good out Okay, But when
Speaker 4: I got when I when I have to buy that sweater,
Speaker 4: that would make me feel a way like that ship together.
Speaker 4: So you really just at that point at that point.
Speaker 3: If you will from the man, one more question, y'all
Speaker 3: before we go. It's a dude wrong for acting like
Speaker 3: he got money when you know, all women that's all
Speaker 3: they want your hero.
Speaker 2: Listen, we're from a town of Vaness's I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't blame them niggas because these niggas ain't got
Speaker 3: no money. They can't get no plussy, they can't get
Speaker 3: no woman. So are you mad at the nigga for
Speaker 3: fortraying he got money trying to get game?
Speaker 2: It's a game. We both playing the game, right.
Speaker 4: What's the guy? Hold on? Wait?
Speaker 6: What is the woman pretending to have? So the men
Speaker 6: pretending to have money, what's she pretending to have?
Speaker 2: The woman is pretending to be uh, what do you say?
Speaker 2: A nourisher? Because she really not.
Speaker 4: You don't give a fuck about her being a nurse.
Speaker 3: She pretended she got six, but she really don't. She
Speaker 3: pretended a lot in the beginning that mask so my mask,
Speaker 3: kids don't really oma what did some that? We're both lying.
Speaker 4: But let me tell you something. If you broke your
Speaker 4: dick shouldn't even be able to get hold Like if
Speaker 4: you ain't got nothing to offer and your ship together,
Speaker 4: God should be like limb dick.
Speaker 2: The hardest I'm trying to fuck up on something.
Speaker 6: She you're talking about, say that I was just about it.
Speaker 3: You motherfucker can't do that, but it's all I got.
Speaker 13: It work, So bank Cocho for waiting no more has
Speaker 13: has something for you?
Speaker 2: A Coco? What's up?
Speaker 4: Thank you know?
Speaker 1: I love you?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 4: You sound and real. You're making men.
Speaker 22: Sound real selfish, right because at the end of the day,
Speaker 22: like when it comes to being truthful about stuff like
Speaker 22: if you got you got hold, Like like they said, women,
Speaker 22: we're gonna fuck you if we want to fuck you,
Speaker 22: regardless of what we're gonna do it, you can tell
Speaker 22: me on it.
Speaker 2: For what you tell me.
Speaker 22: You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be mad for
Speaker 22: a minute. But if I want to fuck.
Speaker 2: I'm a fuck. You understand what you're saying.
Speaker 22: So what happens is when y'all lying, like when guys
Speaker 22: lie to us.
Speaker 4: Going back to her question.
Speaker 22: Just acting No, not just the money, the fucking bitches,
Speaker 22: all kinds of stuff like anything a man is lying for,
Speaker 22: Like you don't want to tell us because you're scared
Speaker 22: you're gonna lose, not scared, whatever the reason is, you're
Speaker 22: not being honest about what you're doing. When they were
Speaker 22: talking about you know, men messing around, like tell me
Speaker 22: the truth. I'm like, you should now tell me the truth.
Speaker 22: You know what I'm saying. Let me let me, give
Speaker 22: me the choice to choose what I want to deal with.
Speaker 22: You know you don't tell the truth. Why because you
Speaker 22: don't want to lose the bit.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm gonna tell the truth.
Speaker 22: But look, it's going back to her when she was
Speaker 22: she was asking, why do men have to come in
Speaker 22: the door trying to build us up and make us
Speaker 22: feel away? And the reason a lot of times is
Speaker 22: because we are fucked up from previous niggas.
Speaker 4: Doing shit like that.
Speaker 22: So we guarded all of us fucked up niggas come
Speaker 22: into relationships fucked up too, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 22: And y'all, y'all don't come in as y'all true self.
Speaker 22: We not coming there and fully hear everybody fucked up.
Speaker 22: So at the end of the day, you got it,
Speaker 22: like she was saying, like it's all chot. We all
Speaker 22: gotta learn if you fuck with somebody, this who you
Speaker 22: want to be your person, whatever you gonna go through
Speaker 22: whatever with that person, you're gonna be honest with that person.
Speaker 22: But if you not shit, you gonna get what she
Speaker 22: was saying, you gonna keep fucking up people.
Speaker 4: They going into relationships guarded.
Speaker 2: I agree with that coda that what you got.
Speaker 11: Nah, I was about to say, it just depends on
Speaker 11: the on the degree of fucked up because your your
Speaker 11: shit burnt down. I ain't finna goddamn bill this whole
Speaker 11: house up. You feel me, I'm not about like your shit.
Speaker 11: If your shit fucked up.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 11: It's too much to deal with because it's gonna be.
Speaker 11: It's another woman that's Justine Stein that's not as fucked up.
Speaker 11: So why am I put up with your ship that
Speaker 11: another nigga did when I'm trying to build or I'm
Speaker 11: gonna live nothing to it another nigga actually affect my house?
Speaker 2: You feel me? But it's so many see the thing
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 3: And then, like you said, it may do sound selfish,
Speaker 3: and you're right, but I'm just speaking for I ain't
Speaker 3: speaking for the dudes that y'all pick over, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It's a lot of dudes out there
Speaker 3: that that y'all speak up, but y'all don't like them.
Speaker 3: Y'all want to go fuck with the niggas who you
Speaker 3: know it ain't ship and think you're gonna make them that.
Speaker 2: And then when he turned that girl just talking about
Speaker 2: this nigga he want to say no more.
Speaker 3: If you if you could convince your nigga to beat
Speaker 3: the nigga that's in your mind.
Speaker 2: You not gonna like him. I guarantee you that I agree.
Speaker 2: If you could convince your.
Speaker 3: Nigga to go for half of the ship, that damn
Speaker 3: he can go for this joke. Yeah, none, you turn
Speaker 3: it to you ain't got no spine. I know a
Speaker 3: bunch of good dudes out here, man that's really looking
Speaker 3: for wise like this is a good man, got a
Speaker 3: shit together, but he can't found him. Got the money,
Speaker 3: got everything, but brouh, I ain't fuck with the whole bro.
Speaker 4: Five O four three three eight having what a man
Speaker 4: in a back?
Speaker 3: No, but I'm just keeping it real. How many men
Speaker 3: you y'all know, Like I know a lot of dudes,
Speaker 3: be like, Bank, I want to be married, bro, I
Speaker 3: want to have kids. I want to do all that, Bro.
Speaker 3: But it's just like I got to move out of
Speaker 3: Atlanta or something.
Speaker 6: And women feel the same exact way. Huh, women feel
Speaker 6: the same way.
Speaker 13: All right, So real quick, she got another question for you, Bank,
Speaker 13: and then we're gonna move on to the left.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 18: I wanted to answer your question when he was like
Speaker 18: it's okay for man to like fines or I'm from
Speaker 18: Atlanta too, So it depends on finis becuz.
Speaker 12: Hood nigga for this and green nigga for thiss is different.
Speaker 18: Like hood nigga, he can not have real money, legal money.
Speaker 4: He gonna make that shit happen for you. So if that.
Speaker 18: Nigga like you enough, he'ple can bill gatesmorrow.
Speaker 3: Nah facts, what's the green nigga for this nigga who
Speaker 3: got damn staying that mama ain't got.
Speaker 4: Now he's sweet. Anybody can get over him.
Speaker 18: That's the tricks the nigga that like they give his
Speaker 18: money out, but he really going to work a regular job.
Speaker 2: That ain't no getting finished. He getting he's getting into it.
Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, hold on, No, she just made a point.
Speaker 3: She said, leading with the money, right, I hate, she said,
Speaker 3: leading with the money, dudess, leading with money.
Speaker 2: I'm old school. I'm a South nigga.
Speaker 3: We you know, we believe in You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: put in my pocket, give me something.
Speaker 2: I'm down there trying to get two bringing some food.
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. I ain't tell you I'm going to
Speaker 2: give your money back.
Speaker 3: I'm that kind of nigga, I'm trying to see if
Speaker 3: you we if we partners.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's on your south side Atlanta.
Speaker 2: One we don't know, like so oh for sure. Shout
Speaker 2: out to the woman that feed.
Speaker 11: Niggas about your last night.
Speaker 3: She said, you can't if a dude lead with his money.
Speaker 3: Man most of the time, he finished, cause nigga ain't
Speaker 3: trying to get nobody.
Speaker 6: Most dudes money anyway.
Speaker 5: But this is you need to give the what you
Speaker 5: said or something right because of those things.
Speaker 2: They're literally leading.
Speaker 4: You lead with your money.
Speaker 15: You put up like you know, we know too many
Speaker 15: people that work all week to make it look like
Speaker 15: they're doing something on the weekend.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: But if you led with that and you're mad, then now.
Speaker 15: This girl has aectations of these things from.
Speaker 4: You who you really mad at because you.
Speaker 15: You start and then this is the thing, try to
Speaker 15: with your money, and then a second she asks you
Speaker 15: for some second she said, hey, this is because my nigga, that's.
Speaker 2: What you had.
Speaker 15: You You being mad at her sound stupid because you
Speaker 15: put out bait to catch what you was fishing for
Speaker 15: total versus the women who actually ain't doing none of
Speaker 15: those things. And would like to have a high value
Speaker 15: man that kind of got this, you know, not kind
Speaker 15: of really got their stuff together.
Speaker 2: But most of them don't.
Speaker 15: But what happens is that, I mean, you not looking
Speaker 15: at her. She don't like the dime. And I'm gonna
Speaker 15: say this, but this is the truth. Most of the
Speaker 15: people that you're really looking for, you the upgrade for them,
Speaker 15: and not just financially. I'm saying you're the upgrade for
Speaker 15: them to want life to be different.
Speaker 4: That's that's the part we be looking at her.
Speaker 15: I was like, oh, well, you know, yeah, she c man,
Speaker 15: you know, she don't do this, this and that. Well
Speaker 15: I guess what if she had somebody that was willing
Speaker 15: gonna pay for her to get her time into a cup,
Speaker 15: breast lifted her booty, none and.
Speaker 4: All of those things.
Speaker 2: Guess what she gonna be lowyal to you.
Speaker 15: She gonna graise your children, She's gonna do all of
Speaker 15: these things.
Speaker 2: You don't want to.
Speaker 15: Fix nobody, but you want to be fixed, like I
Speaker 15: think I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna fix my all right, all right, so look y'all,
Speaker 2: we do all snapped out. So look, look, go with
Speaker 2: the last question of the night. It is the we
Speaker 2: got an election coming up.
Speaker 13: So here's this question, right, do men and women make
Speaker 13: decisions differently under pressure?
Speaker 2: How should this be valued in leadership?
Speaker 13: Let's go with do men and women make decisions differently
Speaker 13: under and if so, how should this be value leadership?
Speaker 2: We'll start with you, Kodak.
Speaker 11: I do believe men and women make decisions under pressure differently.
Speaker 11: I believe politically is different than like socially. So like
Speaker 11: we're talking about if we only got fifty dollars, then
Speaker 11: we need to figure out which bill need to get
Speaker 11: paid first. That's different. Then you know, if we're gonna bomb,
Speaker 11: I ran or some shit. But it just it is different.
Speaker 11: It is different. I feel like just being in clutch situations.
Speaker 11: That's why a lot of times, that's why the man
Speaker 11: is the leader in of the house in most situations,
Speaker 11: in most traditional senses, the man is gonna lead because
Speaker 11: he can make better decisions in that moment. Now, I
Speaker 11: do believe in a successful family unit, then a positive
Speaker 11: decision can be made with the input of women because
Speaker 11: you can see something from a different perspective, then I'm
Speaker 11: gonna see it and that's gonna help make the best
Speaker 11: decision because I mean again, I work with Jojo, so
Speaker 11: it's almost like we do make some of these decisions.
Speaker 11: I'd be like, fuck them folks all the time, and
Speaker 11: Joe's were like, well, no, we can't say fuck them
Speaker 11: folks because that's your boss. And so whereas I would
Speaker 11: be very brutish in the situation, she will come with tack.
Speaker 11: Like I think a perfect example like last week with
Speaker 11: the homecoming, I'm like, fuck it, put everybody in the room,
Speaker 11: we're gonna put them together. JoJo's like, no, we're gonna
Speaker 11: get a list, we're gonna put it together, we're gonna
Speaker 11: call names off. And I'm like, you're right. I wouldn't
Speaker 11: even thought to do it like that, even though it
Speaker 11: sounds like some simple ship, simple shit to do. Whereas
Speaker 11: in the beginning I did say niggas is slow, I'm niggas.
Speaker 6: You stupid.
Speaker 2: Joe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that.
Speaker 6: When you say under pressure, I think that women me
Speaker 6: who's that? I think women make good decisions under pressure.
Speaker 6: I think that we can think rationally and we know
Speaker 6: how to dig into that emotional side as well, which
Speaker 6: is something that most men can't do. Like most men
Speaker 6: are gonna go straight, business straight, corporate straight. This is
Speaker 6: what we need to do, and they're gonna like try
Speaker 6: to like grab the dick a little bit too, you
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. So it's just like, but as
Speaker 6: a woman, she can she can go in with with
Speaker 6: elegance and she can literally diffuse a situation better than
Speaker 6: a man. I feel like, with a simple smile for real,
Speaker 6: it's all to take because y'all niggas so easy.
Speaker 2: But yeah, go ahead, bank. Uh what question?
Speaker 13: Do men and women under pressure?
Speaker 2: Thank you? Men and women make decisions better under pressure?
Speaker 2: It depends. It depends on what type of decision on
Speaker 2: I feel like if it's it's situational, we're talking about
Speaker 2: familiar decisions.
Speaker 3: Like it's like business relationship, what what type of decision?
Speaker 2: Damn?
Speaker 6: Underpressure?
Speaker 13: Anything under pressure? So somebody come up in here right now.
Speaker 13: Who who's gonna react calmly? A man or woman?
Speaker 3: I think a man gonna add more calm than a woman,
Speaker 3: but some women be calm though. It depends on what
Speaker 3: the man coming in here doing. He coming in here
Speaker 3: with waving a gun, they gonna panic and run out
Speaker 3: from that.
Speaker 13: He coming in on it, that's the right decision, huh,
Speaker 13: he coming in on that? So who's gonna who's gonna
Speaker 13: act calmly underressure? Wh're gona get us out of here
Speaker 13: the way we need to get out of here.
Speaker 2: It's left up to the man, right for that.
Speaker 5: Well, that's different I think honestly men, because women, a
Speaker 5: lot of times we react based on the emotion, thank you,
Speaker 5: So if we're being honest, So if if somebody came
Speaker 5: in here waving a gun, I think, you know, men
Speaker 5: will be to control the situation a little better and
Speaker 5: we might panic a little more because that's just how
Speaker 5: we handle situations. So just naturally, I do think men
Speaker 5: are better leaders and they react better under pressure. But again,
Speaker 5: like you said, it depends on what pressure we're talking about.
Speaker 5: We at the house political okay, if we're talking business
Speaker 5: and it's a little different, we're talking about the household.
Speaker 5: We know women kind of we handle the kids a
Speaker 5: little different. We handle kids a little better. So it
Speaker 5: just depends on what kind of pressure we talking about.
Speaker 2: Exactly.
Speaker 11: I think if a guy came in here with a gun,
Speaker 11: I think that falls under the protector the protect the umbrellas.
Speaker 11: So men, I feel like would probably handle that situation.
Speaker 3: But I'm running out back, Nah, but I feel like,
Speaker 3: I guess that's the Kamala Harris And that's a Kamala
Speaker 3: Harris question basically, like what she if her dude pissed off?
Speaker 2: What she got? Damn wake up and bomb someone? Correct?
Speaker 2: I believe so, Chanelle, what you think you? I know,
Speaker 2: if my.
Speaker 3: Wife was the president and I pissed off, everybody gotta go.
Speaker 6: No, I don't think so.
Speaker 4: I don't know. You know, see, I hate to talk
Speaker 4: about like political stuff like that's not really just like
Speaker 4: my my thing that I prefer to talk about. And
Speaker 4: I believe men should be the leaders in my personal opinion,
Speaker 4: I'm I mean, I'm not gonna talk about who I
Speaker 4: voted for or whatever. But you know, in a situation
Speaker 4: where if it's in business under pressure, I think women
Speaker 4: will help you make a clearer decision. But women are
Speaker 4: very emotional, so I don't I think she can help
Speaker 4: you make the best decision when two when the two
Speaker 4: come together, I don't think it's a standalone situation. I
Speaker 4: think if it's me and you in a room and
Speaker 4: it's some pressure, we gonna figure out how to make
Speaker 4: this make sense. The same way he just kind of
Speaker 4: said with them in business, they was discussing something he
Speaker 4: had one way, and Jojo simply came, well, no, what's
Speaker 4: Gorna doing like that? And ultimately it was her helping
Speaker 4: him as a collective, so it was a team. Yeah.
Speaker 6: So ultimately you might listen to the man like if
Speaker 6: it's too in a situation, you'd be like, okay, what
Speaker 6: we're gonna do? Goddamn? And he said now we're gonna
Speaker 6: blow this ship up, he'd be like, whoa hold on, Now,
Speaker 6: we can't do that, but this is what it's gonna
Speaker 6: cause it's gonna happen from this is gonna this. I
Speaker 6: think about that, and that's what we.
Speaker 11: Like more rational, right, but also to like count of that,
Speaker 11: sometimes the ship needs to get blown up too.
Speaker 6: And then if he say that and he's like, nah,
Speaker 6: but this ship really needs to get blown up, and
Speaker 6: I'll be like, blow that ship up.
Speaker 11: Baby, cause like today I told you what I told you,
Speaker 11: You text me that ship today, I like, shit, fuck
Speaker 11: she folk that ship.
Speaker 3: More al the story, man, I don't think I could
Speaker 3: be a man without a woman at the bottom line.
Speaker 3: So however, whatever we love y'all, but still y'all, I'm
Speaker 3: at all right real quick, yo, what let me say this.
Speaker 3: Let me say this right here. Do women tell their
Speaker 3: friends when they tripping? Please answer that, yes, okay, all right,
Speaker 3: all right, all right, that's a good question.
Speaker 2: But do you come around this dude with her acting
Speaker 2: like she wasn't tripping?
Speaker 8: No, huh.
Speaker 3: So listen if you if you was tripping, right, we
Speaker 3: was in a relationship and you was tripping. I feel
Speaker 3: like me you was into it, and she told you
Speaker 3: in the car that you was wrong. She not finna
Speaker 3: let me know that she told you. She let me
Speaker 3: know that you're.
Speaker 4: Wrong, my friend, She's gonna tell me.
Speaker 2: And and you're not gonna go on me that you're
Speaker 2: wrong either.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm a geminized I'm gonna just come make it better.
Speaker 4: But I'm not really gonna apologize all the time. I'm
Speaker 4: just gonna come try to figure out how to fix
Speaker 4: it without the actual apology. You know, Gemini is a
Speaker 4: little crazy.
Speaker 6: Well why does it matter if her friends too?
Speaker 2: Not tell me?
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, just say fencing, Like, when a
Speaker 3: woman is right, you know, they got to be right
Speaker 3: for a whole year about that one thing. So I'm
Speaker 3: always right about everything. When I'm right one time, and
Speaker 3: it's intuition ship?
Speaker 2: How how accurate do y'all think intuition is? So?
Speaker 3: Why ask me then? If you already know some ship
Speaker 3: and you thought of it, why ask me?
Speaker 11: Hold hello, bank, hold on? If the intuition is that accurate,
Speaker 11: why y'all keep running in to the niggas?
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 4: Because you guess what you are?
Speaker 2: Hold now we're cooking. Now we're cooking.
Speaker 15: No, you already found could But guess what a lot.
Speaker 4: Of women want to see if they can't figure out
Speaker 4: how to.
Speaker 12: Change change exactly.
Speaker 4: They already know you're fucked up, but they like, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna fuck this ship out of him. I'm gonna change
Speaker 4: so you think.
Speaker 3: So you should be mad at you pussy cause your
Speaker 3: pussy can't change this man.
Speaker 4: Pussy get lonely too, like the little dicks get lonely.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, she said, women feel as if though
Speaker 3: around she can find meet you today, and you drink beer.
Speaker 3: I don't like beer, though, girl. She's telling a friend
Speaker 3: to leave, but it now he's gonna be a fucking
Speaker 3: beer drinker for the rest of his life. But you
Speaker 3: thinking I can love him enough and then I can
Speaker 3: say it in a way he'll stop drinking beer.
Speaker 2: That never happens.
Speaker 3: You gotta ask yourself if I can I live and
Speaker 3: love this person if he don't change nothing.
Speaker 2: About him forever.
Speaker 6: The problem is.
Speaker 2: That's what you gotta do. That's how you pick your partner. Man.
Speaker 3: You look at a person up and down? Can I
Speaker 3: love this person just like this?
Speaker 2: With el? Anything you do extra after that is extra?
Speaker 4: I agree?
Speaker 3: But come on, I get plad of mic please. Somebody
Speaker 3: get blad of mic. Better, get plaud of mic please.
Speaker 4: But let me tell you before she say something. The
Speaker 4: issue is this, you don't get to meet that person
Speaker 4: because everybody lying in the beginning. That's so you getting
Speaker 4: down the line. Ain't nine months, nigga, finest you for
Speaker 4: a whole year?
Speaker 2: How intuition intuition package that ship is one hundred percent?
Speaker 1: What the.
Speaker 2: Broke that intuition broke?
Speaker 4: And just be lying percon accurate.
Speaker 15: I just said on thousand percent.
Speaker 6: Say that I said it's a thousand percent accurate? Are
Speaker 6: you sure did?
Speaker 2: Don't be lying intuition? No, no, no, don't.
Speaker 4: Lie and say that you're gonna stop drinking beer.
Speaker 2: Don't.
Speaker 6: This is where when she comes into play. No, no, no,
Speaker 6: this is where the intuition come into play. It's like, Okay,
Speaker 6: I'm drinking beer and I'm dealing with this nigga whos
Speaker 6: drinking beer? Are We'll leave him, girl, he ain't gonna
Speaker 6: stop drinking beer. Yeah, but he told me that he
Speaker 6: was gonna stop.
Speaker 4: Like, I trust him. I know he gonna stop.
Speaker 2: I was gonna try. I'm addicted.
Speaker 6: No, but listen, but you keep doing it and keep
Speaker 6: doing it, but you lie about it.
Speaker 4: That's where then t wish you keep coming in.
Speaker 6: You like, I know this nigga drinking this fucking beer.
Speaker 3: But if we having a conversation and I tell you
Speaker 3: stop cutting me off, stop cutting me off, women all say, well,
Speaker 3: that's just I'm just I'm sorry. I don't be trying
Speaker 3: to do it on purpose. I'm understand everything that goes
Speaker 3: on with a woman. A man has to understand. But
Speaker 3: when a dude got a defect about him, it's.
Speaker 2: It's like change it. No, change it, brother, It's not
Speaker 2: hold up. You can I can say.
Speaker 3: It, don't come it. Everything that I say that I
Speaker 3: don't like about you as a woman, you'd be like
Speaker 3: except me for who I am, absolutely and everything that you.
Speaker 2: Say you like me. That's which is everything.
Speaker 3: I gotta fit, I gotta be like, I need to go,
Speaker 3: I need to change for my baby.
Speaker 2: But it's huh, go ahead.
Speaker 15: The intuition thing is true, it is it don't lie
Speaker 15: to us. We lie to ourselfs because our intuition will
Speaker 15: have already told us exactly.
Speaker 4: What it was.
Speaker 15: And then we'll say, okay, I heard this, because can
Speaker 15: I just be honest? And most of the time we
Speaker 15: don't trust ourselves. We know our intuition be right, but
Speaker 15: we don't trust ourselves because we did pick the last
Speaker 15: that didn't do right.
Speaker 6: Trust him. We're not trusting ourselves trying to trust him right.
Speaker 2: We're trying.
Speaker 15: We're trying to get past our trust issues right. So
Speaker 15: that's how we are rationalized with our intuition. And then
Speaker 15: the sad part is is that's why what they say
Speaker 15: hindsight is.
Speaker 4: Twenty twenty made me feel like this was some is off.
Speaker 15: That's something that's off, was off before you had says
Speaker 15: and still kept doing it. But this is the thing
Speaker 15: that don't mean her intuition wasn't right. That means she
Speaker 15: didn't trust herself enough and that.
Speaker 2: I gotta guy, hold hold on, hold on, So I.
Speaker 3: Gotta be the fall guy because you know that your
Speaker 3: intuition one hundred percent correct. But you went against yourself
Speaker 3: for a nigga that you know you already know because God,
Speaker 3: whoever the intuition.
Speaker 2: They told you, So you you mad?
Speaker 4: You yess what? Yes? What you feeling?
Speaker 2: Hold on listen? But that's but that's not I'm like,
Speaker 2: but that's how a woman.
Speaker 3: That's how woman remains bitter because she's not accusing the mirror.
Speaker 3: She gotta be like, hey, man, you knew that ship
Speaker 3: was wrong. You knew it from the beginning. Nigga was
Speaker 3: a fuck nigga bro eat that.
Speaker 4: But to the next day the intuition might be right,
Speaker 4: but guess what some of you niggas be coming fucking
Speaker 4: the ship out of us, God damn it. And sometimes
Speaker 4: and then the one that's gonna do your right, this
Speaker 4: big and the one that's gonna do your wrong, did
Speaker 4: this big beating up beating that thing.
Speaker 2: So tell what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So sometimes we know you ain't shit, we know you
Speaker 4: ain't right, but that thing is thanking, So we be like, girl,
Speaker 4: he gonna change, Girl.
Speaker 11: He gonna listen, what what what you what you're talking about?
Speaker 2: That's not but that's not intuition. That is hindsight.
Speaker 11: Of course, it's easy to say you made the right
Speaker 11: decision after you realize you made the wrong decision.
Speaker 4: You was already wrong.
Speaker 2: You picked, you picked it.
Speaker 6: It's not that.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 11: Yeah, no, no, I understand what you said. Hold bank,
Speaker 11: I play, I play. I play a lot of fantasy
Speaker 11: football this year. Right, So if I start a quarterback
Speaker 11: and I'm like, man, he ain't gonna be shipped, but
Speaker 11: let me put him in. Let me start him this week,
Speaker 11: he throw four interceptions.
Speaker 2: She I already knew, but you know what that was.
Speaker 11: That's not intuition, that's hindsight because I didn't go with
Speaker 11: the thought that I knew was right.
Speaker 2: I kept that nigga in there. No, man, don't understand.
Speaker 2: I just it's just way.
Speaker 4: We had somebody over there. I want to talk the top.
Speaker 4: Just stop lying, bro, what's the lie?
Speaker 2: Bro? Hold up? Hold up?
Speaker 3: HELDO heard women say, why did you say that nigga?
Speaker 3: Like I ain't saying nothing, Well, why you do it
Speaker 3: to me like that.
Speaker 2: Fish? That's how I do it.
Speaker 4: That's a lie.
Speaker 3: What you mean if a nigga basically what she just said,
Speaker 3: if a nigga ain't gotta say nothing. He just treats
Speaker 3: you how you want to be treated and fuck you
Speaker 3: how you want to be fucked tomorrow When that nigga
Speaker 3: don't answer whatever he's doing, he could be being s
Speaker 3: for real. Now it's like you tripping, like flipping out.
Speaker 3: She thinking, she flipping out because you don't win ghosts.
Speaker 2: Ain't went got they by being business.
Speaker 3: You know this, okay, but then you're you're concoct the
Speaker 3: whole move in your head that now you calling me
Speaker 3: and you shifting our energy that it wasn't even.
Speaker 4: That that's them. He switched up my intuition.
Speaker 6: I know what the fuck you doing If I'm sucking
Speaker 6: with a nigga like and I'm a and I'm accusing
Speaker 6: him for about something, I already know what's going on.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna say something if I don't know what's
Speaker 6: going on. Us as women, we gonna know.
Speaker 4: No, knowing that we're gonna have to say something.
Speaker 6: We're no.
Speaker 3: No, you don't know ship if you knew that, and
Speaker 3: you'll know a lottery number, like if women can catch
Speaker 3: what you're doing, no, like a woman fucker need.
Speaker 2: A house, A motherfucker tell you a second.
Speaker 3: You're probably stopped by the store right there and got
Speaker 3: your rubbles and you went down there.
Speaker 2: I know it. You're probably that's a lot you need.
Speaker 6: God damn, that's a lot.
Speaker 4: That's a lot.
Speaker 2: If you could come up, you got a whole movie.
Speaker 2: And women really believe that.
Speaker 3: I'd have seen women sit around and think of something
Speaker 3: in their pestimistic mind and be for real mad at
Speaker 3: you about some ship that you ain't even.
Speaker 6: I don't know nothing about that. Yeah, that's some different ship.
Speaker 6: That's most like if you around somebody for a long.
Speaker 2: Ass, it's most of them.
Speaker 3: Because some women out of relationships and nigga, you can
Speaker 3: suck around the spream Saint cloonne that fuck nigga had on.
Speaker 21: Now you him, let me ask you this, now you him, let.
Speaker 6: Me ask you a questions.
Speaker 2: But they just said everybody's unhealed.
Speaker 6: Bank huh, bank huh.
Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 8: Go ahead.
Speaker 6: Sean says, you know you better than you know yourself.
Speaker 2: Yes, so myself. She knows me.
Speaker 6: So if you start moving funny and in some off,
Speaker 6: she gonna know it.
Speaker 2: Listen you if.
Speaker 3: Something I'm being off in the past, man, something's gonna
Speaker 3: stay off, bro, it's just what it is.
Speaker 2: Once once you.
Speaker 3: Once, women do not gotta understand. Stop telling niggas you forget,
Speaker 3: forgave them because you don't answer the question.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 3: If something is off, something's gonna always be off because
Speaker 3: women have all the emotions just like a just like
Speaker 3: women do, So something's gonna always be off if I'm
Speaker 3: not carrying to your feelings in that moment. Regardless, you
Speaker 3: got a lot of people, got expectations without commit unication.
Speaker 2: You could have wanted something to eat, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: You home it like your wama get mad? Where you at?
Speaker 3: That ship on my arm right here, it plunks against
Speaker 3: against some bank bank.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 4: I can't eat. That's a thing. Go bank.
Speaker 15: That's a thing.
Speaker 4: That's a thing.
Speaker 2: You got it.
Speaker 6: You that's a thing.
Speaker 2: What's the thing like?
Speaker 6: You can't go get no food without bringing no food?
Speaker 2: I get it. And let's sitting in my way, sook. Yes,
Speaker 2: that's cold, because y'all are it ain't consideration that I
Speaker 2: make sure you're okay.
Speaker 3: You're but y'all say I want to protect it provided
Speaker 3: look ug, look uga, but you got to go food
Speaker 3: and meet with stone and plants and get some food
Speaker 3: and I come back home full.
Speaker 6: You may get that food bank gonna stress us out
Speaker 6: bank my food. Get that food.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're supposed to call her actually you want something,
Speaker 3: But do you know how many times that you do
Speaker 3: things and you don't call it actually?
Speaker 22: Right?
Speaker 6: Yeah, huh fo different about food, all.
Speaker 3: Right, I'm just talking about period, man, Dudes supposed to
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I guess I'm.
Speaker 2: Not talking the situation. I'm just accent period. Like most women.
Speaker 3: I have a lot of women women friends that are
Speaker 3: in here, we have a real conversation with off camera.
Speaker 2: They be legit, they beat, they beat. You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, saying the truth.
Speaker 3: Like you can have a friend that's a woman, that's
Speaker 3: a friend, right, she know all the real ship to
Speaker 3: me and know when she's not in a relationships. Soon
Speaker 3: as she get in a relationship, you turn into a
Speaker 3: fuck nigga too, because how dude doing her?
Speaker 2: Like damn sh you cool lab my little sister.
Speaker 3: Now you're in a relationship going through the ship that
Speaker 3: I'm putting the motherfucker through. Now I'm some bullshit, but
Speaker 3: you just understood it. When you want in a relationship,
Speaker 3: that's crazy. Right, huh do that happen? Yes, yes, thank you.
Speaker 3: Me and Seaney could be talking about something, she'd be yeah, yeah, man, yeah,
Speaker 3: you get with it.
Speaker 2: She get a nigga. She don't understand that.
Speaker 4: Even a son.
Speaker 3: I tell my wife this all the time. I hear
Speaker 3: you telling my kids shit that they shouldn't go forward.
Speaker 3: They with they girl, But you want me to go
Speaker 3: for it? You get what I'm saying, Like, oh, nah,
Speaker 3: she said that she ain't no good, But you don't
Speaker 3: saying that before.
Speaker 4: It's different, different, different, No.
Speaker 3: Live will been with his girl thirteen years. No, it's
Speaker 3: not something when the girl down there thirteen years that
Speaker 3: she ain't the same, That means you know, that means
Speaker 3: you know, you know, you know you're wrong. Women they
Speaker 3: played and I am just bashing women. I love women
Speaker 3: once again, especially Black women. I love women with everything
Speaker 3: in me. But what I'm saying is I get it though,
Speaker 3: because I actually talked and asked questions to the people
Speaker 3: that I'm not in relationship with, like they get it,
Speaker 3: but they just don't want.
Speaker 2: I can't let you know I get it because I
Speaker 2: might want to run it. Am I tripping?
Speaker 3: They get everything it is that we're trying to say,
Speaker 3: I see where you're coming from, but I can't see
Speaker 3: that because it's breaking cold. But but but then they
Speaker 3: get mad at the niggas they can't pimp. She say,
Speaker 3: women is the biggest pimp. The niggas they can't pimp.
Speaker 2: It's sessin.
Speaker 4: Just is what it is.
Speaker 15: This shit is nothing new. We do what we want
Speaker 15: to do, and that's just what it is.
Speaker 4: The niggas.
Speaker 15: It's just like y'all putting y'all put in to our pussy. Huh,
Speaker 15: you just said y'all putting niggas is putting y'all put
Speaker 15: it to your puss. Because whenever we want you to,
Speaker 15: y'all do, y'all gonna do it. We move how we
Speaker 15: want to move because we can move how we want
Speaker 15: to move because we women. It just is what it is,
Speaker 15: is what it is. Some women old school shit. We
Speaker 15: used to the old school shit. We used to women
Speaker 15: who men who do this, do this, do this, and
Speaker 15: do this, and we're trying to bring it to this century.
Speaker 15: It's just not gonna work like that. I'm old school.
Speaker 15: I'm nineteen eighty. When I was coming up, we dated
Speaker 15: niggas who did this, this this in the third, we're
Speaker 15: trying to brain this shit to this generation and it's
Speaker 15: just saying what it is. We gotta fine niggas. It's
Speaker 15: like a search in this generation. The bee, well, we
Speaker 15: used to a nigga being women know what's going on,
Speaker 15: and we play to y'all intelligence, y'all fall into it.
Speaker 4: It is what it is.
Speaker 15: It's point blank, we're not ignorant. Were not this And
Speaker 15: in the third we know what's going on.
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly what.
Speaker 15: I'm saying exactly.
Speaker 2: That's the problem.
Speaker 3: That's the problem when you when you when you go
Speaker 3: to dealing with a nigga who knows like, oh about going.
Speaker 15: For that exactly because you came up, but you ain't
Speaker 15: that way. You came up in the era we came
Speaker 15: up in that way back in the day. You ain't shit.
Speaker 15: You was in the streets. You're a fucking hole. It
Speaker 15: took you twenty years to say, Hey, I'm finna whoo
Speaker 15: whoo whoop, and I'm finna be this type of man.
Speaker 15: Forget what your woman stayed down with this shit because
Speaker 15: that's what she chose to do. You been, you been,
Speaker 15: nigga's been not nothing. Twenty fifteen ten.
Speaker 2: Craving.
Speaker 15: I'm saying it's shooting. I'm saying it took you to
Speaker 15: change when you was ready to change, and because she
Speaker 15: stayed down with you, that says, see it ain't it.
Speaker 15: This is not rocket science. The relationship shit really getting
Speaker 15: on my nerves to be honest, because this shit not
Speaker 15: rocket science. You either gonna fuck with who you wanna
Speaker 15: fuck with when you get spiritual, when you get to
Speaker 15: a certain level and when you start elevating, you attract
Speaker 15: a certain type of different nigga. Carry plant blank. We're
Speaker 15: gonna fuck with a low life nigga who ain't got
Speaker 15: shit going on. When you get to this level, you're
Speaker 15: gonna fuck with a nigga who got this going on.
Speaker 15: When you get to that level, you're gonna fuck with
Speaker 15: who got going on. When you get to a spiritual level,
Speaker 15: you're gonna do this and you're gonna fuck with that
Speaker 15: type of nigga. When you get to a spiritual level.
Speaker 15: Now you tied, you tied to this type of nigga.
Speaker 15: You tie this type of nigga. Use tied this type
Speaker 15: of nigga, and then you're gonna fuck with what you
Speaker 15: feel like it's in your element. When you get to
Speaker 15: when you level up, it's different level city.
Speaker 4: Shit.
Speaker 15: We fuck with different niggas at different experiences in our lives.
Speaker 15: Whatever we're going through, whatever traumatic experiences. A lot of
Speaker 15: us didn't have Mama's dadd it is. We out in
Speaker 15: the street this and in the third day, out in
Speaker 15: the street, So we fuck with what we know. When
Speaker 15: we get to that mental level where we have grown
Speaker 15: spiritually and mentally, then we start dealing with people that's
Speaker 15: on our level that elevate us and put us in
Speaker 15: a position. This relationship. Shit, it's not difficult. It's very
Speaker 15: simple shit, very simple facts.
Speaker 3: He let me ask y'all something. Do y'all feel Do
Speaker 3: y'all feel like it's not? But I feel like if
Speaker 3: it was easy, it wouldn't work. If it was easy
Speaker 3: to be with somebody that ain't your person, Bro, it
Speaker 3: ain't gonna be easy, bro, that's I think that's what.
Speaker 3: That's the miscommunication. A lot of people think they gonna
Speaker 3: get in a relationship and it's gonna be easy. You
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, You ain't gonna you ain't gonna
Speaker 3: go through nothing. That never happens. I agree that never
Speaker 3: happened because.
Speaker 6: You got to deal with something, though, like how long you're.
Speaker 2: Gonna deal with something? For the shit you're gonna deal
Speaker 2: with something forever? Relationship you said, that's a lot you
Speaker 2: ain't dealing with something with you.
Speaker 3: There's plenty things he don't like about you, just don't
Speaker 3: say it because you don't want to hurt your finish.
Speaker 4: It's plenty things why you just don't care.
Speaker 3: He just don't say it because he don't want to
Speaker 3: hurt your finish, and they can run you all the
Speaker 3: way down. I'm pretty sure if I if I, if
Speaker 3: I still around a person for more than a day,
Speaker 3: I can find every flaw that I want to find
Speaker 3: in that person because everybody got flawed.
Speaker 2: I can find something about everybody in the world that
Speaker 2: I don't like.
Speaker 3: Because we're different. So, but women feel like they gotta
Speaker 3: point out every little thing. So once you do that,
Speaker 3: you're basically showing me how you see me and how
Speaker 3: do you how do you want to want my respect?
Speaker 2: When I see you see me this way? Are you crazy?
Speaker 3: You better try to keep that ship to yourself or leave,
Speaker 3: because once you're done showed me who you see me.
Speaker 3: Ass that's how that i'ma I'm gonna I'm gonna beat that.
Speaker 3: Damn there in a shadow? Am my tripping? If you
Speaker 3: if you come out your mouth and tell me I
Speaker 3: see you as a no good ass nigga, you can't
Speaker 3: change that because that's how you see me.
Speaker 2: You can say little things to let me know. That's
Speaker 2: because because because because if if you ask.
Speaker 3: Me something like damn that you are you fucking that girl?
Speaker 3: And if I'd be like hell no or hell yeah, whatever,
Speaker 3: But if I'm not and I'm really not, and I
Speaker 3: feel like, damn, that's how you see me a nigga,
Speaker 3: that'll do that whatever whatever it is. So I'm not
Speaker 3: in my eyes, I mean in my heart, I'm not who.
Speaker 3: You don't see me the way I want you to
Speaker 3: see me? So how can I really respect you or
Speaker 3: love you properly?
Speaker 6: But what if you said that you're not fucking her
Speaker 6: and you is? Now how am I supposed to move.
Speaker 3: If i'm If I if I lie, then ship you
Speaker 3: probably see me like that. That's who That's who I am.
Speaker 3: I'm saying if if if.
Speaker 2: You do some ship and see me in a way
Speaker 2: that I am not, that just goes against my morals.
Speaker 2: How do you see me?
Speaker 3: How can I How can you tell me you love me?
Speaker 3: How can you tell me you're you're for me? Because
Speaker 3: I know how I would feel if I looked at
Speaker 3: a person that way.
Speaker 4: But most times bank women don't just come off and
Speaker 4: see you as no fuck ass nigga. Most times it's
Speaker 4: because you done did some bullshit to them for them to.
Speaker 19: See you as that.
Speaker 4: I am not gonna.
Speaker 2: Leave. Who finna go through that every day?
Speaker 3: But Gus, if you can't deal with it, don't try
Speaker 3: to act like you're don't try to hold up. Please
Speaker 3: let me get this off. Don't try to act as
Speaker 3: if though you're over something. Just say, baby, it's gonna
Speaker 3: take time. I'm trying to deal with this. Don't try
Speaker 3: to act like you over something. And then we argue
Speaker 3: about uh, who gonna uh why ain't come pump your
Speaker 3: gas when that ain't the argument. We're arguing about the
Speaker 3: ship that you're not heal from. But you don't know
Speaker 3: how you tell you told me that you over it,
Speaker 3: so you can't bring that ship back up. So now
Speaker 3: we just have a little nick picked bullshit about about
Speaker 3: that same ship.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know, a little therapy, don't hurt little therapy.
Speaker 4: Sit down with the mediator. You know, that's what therapists
Speaker 4: are you.
Speaker 3: But but most women, bro, I went to therapy before
Speaker 3: told the therapy. She knows she was talking about. You know,
Speaker 3: most women, if you don't take their side, they don't
Speaker 3: want to hear. They ain't up on their friends. I
Speaker 3: don't want to he that she's stupid.
Speaker 4: I wanna talk about stupid.
Speaker 2: Should I find that one friend that's gonna be my life?
Speaker 2: I ain't stupid, and I'm the one not tripping. Am
Speaker 2: I tripping?
Speaker 13: No?
Speaker 3: You don't even call you don't even call the homegirl
Speaker 3: who you know gonna check you when you wanna be
Speaker 3: right tonight? I want to be right tonight. I ain't
Speaker 3: calling it bitch, she's stupid. She don't know she gonna
Speaker 3: say she gonna always on the niggas side. But now
Speaker 3: she telling you the truth? Yeah, m hm, you I
Speaker 3: need to say, girl, he called me a bitch, but
Speaker 3: you left out.
Speaker 2: The part of what you said.
Speaker 4: I want to know what I'm wrong. Tell me?
Speaker 2: Can you take it?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 4: I can, and it don't matter if I could take
Speaker 4: it or not.
Speaker 2: Just tell me.
Speaker 3: But some dudes, and some dudes don't want to. Most
Speaker 3: dudes want to stay out of the caddy shit. So
Speaker 3: if I know what type of girl I got and
Speaker 3: what type of attitude she got, I know what I
Speaker 3: can say and what I could bring to her without
Speaker 3: her getting offended. So things going smooth. I ain't finna
Speaker 3: offend you like a woman can. Things to be going smooth.
Speaker 3: And you could just disrupt this ship. Damn they were
Speaker 3: just doing good for thirty minutes. Yea disrupt the piece
Speaker 3: for nothing.
Speaker 4: But her piece might get disrupted, but she'll come back down.
Speaker 2: Nah, baby, because at the end of the day, I can.
Speaker 3: I can get over this because I don't want you
Speaker 3: to feel I can tell you in a way to
Speaker 3: let you know I didn't like that, or I didn't before.
Speaker 2: I just talk at you.
Speaker 3: Most women don't like that you say certain thing in them. Hey,
Speaker 3: you ain't my dad, and now you're controlling. But this
Speaker 3: is what I want to I want to tell you this.
Speaker 3: I don't know how else to express myself to say, Hey,
Speaker 3: I don't like that ship, don't do that.
Speaker 2: Why are you talking to me like that? I don't know.
Speaker 3: So how do you do Either Either you're too aggressive
Speaker 3: or you emotional withdrawing.
Speaker 2: Either controller or your emotional with drawings. That's no middle.
Speaker 4: What do you do? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like if I just let you have it
Speaker 3: like ship, bab yeah babe, yeah yeah. So you're just
Speaker 3: gonna dismiss the conversation.
Speaker 4: You ain't gonna say nothing. That's the problem.
Speaker 12: Say nothing. That's a line.
Speaker 3: But if i'm if I'm backing forth with you now
Speaker 3: you're looking at me like I sound like a bitch
Speaker 3: nigga always. But they say, we gotta wrap it up, man,
Speaker 3: we can do this ship all night.
Speaker 4: Man.
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