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Speaker 1: It gets no better than this. You are now in

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Speaker 1: June to perspect Us with big.

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Speaker 2: Let's get straight to it.

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Speaker 3: We're not gonna love you till you love yourself. They're

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Speaker 3: not gonna support you till you support yourself. Make sure

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Speaker 3: you love yourself first. Always support yourself first. Be your

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Speaker 3: number one fan, your number one supporter.

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Speaker 2: Be selfish.

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Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, welcome to Perspectives live with Bank and Chanelle,

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Speaker 4: and we have our amazing guests here. We are at

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Speaker 4: the gallery Anderson Smith Art Gallery. Nice up here, y'all.

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Speaker 4: And you know, we brought the squad with us, so

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Speaker 4: we got Kodak in his Sunday best look at you,

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Speaker 4: look at you, and then we got my boot Jojo

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Speaker 4: fine and cute as eva. Hello, you said, and I

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Speaker 5: The building, shouts the model. They said, I came to

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Speaker 5: start some trouble, but we'll see.

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Speaker 2: Let's see. Hey, We're gonna do a wellness check for

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Speaker 2: how everybody feeling.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm amazing, amazing, Okay, just in case there

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Speaker 4: was wonder run yea.

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Speaker 2: How you feeling, man? They pay that I feel good.

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Speaker 2: I feel the Friday.

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Speaker 6: That's how you know, he gets too much paper.

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Speaker 2: You ain't because what's the when they pay that shout a?

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Speaker 2: I got the money? Hey, I got any Look at you?

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Speaker 2: Look at you, Jo Joe? How you footing the baddest

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Speaker 2: boat equitting the game?

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Speaker 4: Hello, I'm good, I'm chilling. I feel good.

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Speaker 6: It's Friday.

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 3: What said?

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Speaker 4: It's ninety Friday? Grease what you said?

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Speaker 2: That song really gonna get somebody beat up?

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Speaker 8: For real?

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Speaker 2: You got a whole dude, somebody don't sing that part?

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Speaker 2: You my girl?

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Speaker 2: What about you? Shad a song? It's just a song.

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Speaker 5: I'm feeling good. I'm feeling very demure, you know, very cutey.

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Speaker 5: Be in the art gallery, so you know the bodes

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Speaker 5: is fither.

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Speaker 2: Moderator. What we're doing?

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Speaker 3: Oh now, how the crowd feeling? How y'all feeling before

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Speaker 3: we get started?

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Speaker 10: Okay, okay, what we're doing, bro, get right to what

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Speaker 10: we need we're writing. No, no, no, you gotta be

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Speaker 10: as certain. You gotta get you gotta go, you.

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Speaker 4: Gotta go get it. I approach men all the time.

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Speaker 6: I have no problem with doing it like I have

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Speaker 6: something or somebody that I like, like, why gotta why

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Speaker 6: can't I approach him? That's that's something I can't do.

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Speaker 4: Well, see, I have a different outlook on that because

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Speaker 4: I don't think women are supposed to chase, right, and

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Speaker 4: group of people. And guess who gave you their number?

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Speaker 4: The one I was interested in. Because when you see me,

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Speaker 2: Did, but you did initiate that situation.

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Speaker 4: I walked up to five six million, and it.

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Speaker 2: Was but you. You initiated that. You gave a couple

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Speaker 4: Look. I shook his hand. I shook everybody handle and

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Speaker 6: He was like, or did you grab.

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Speaker 2: Ask him?

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Speaker 4: You gave just like I did that to the whole group.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't a single.

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Speaker 4: No, I shout everybody hand. I asked everybody what they did.

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Speaker 2: Them you still had.

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Speaker 11: To initiate that that chase. So you didn't chase him,

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Speaker 11: but you put yourself in a position to get.

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Speaker 12: What you want, in position you walk over.

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Speaker 4: But I'm saying, but you don't say, hey, I'm such

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Speaker 4: your number. No.

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Speaker 6: the man supposed to know that you want him? If

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Speaker 12: You got to show something energy.

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Speaker 2: It's energy.

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Speaker 5: You don't have to approach him, but let me have

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Speaker 4: He needs to show see the sign.

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Speaker 11: Let me, let me, let me add to what they're saying, though,

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Speaker 11: what's gonna make you stand out? If all you're doing

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Speaker 11: I'm saying hey, every woman saying hey, then what makes

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Speaker 4: my number. I didn't have to say nothing to him,

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Speaker 4: he said, I'm gonna get your put it on my phone.

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Speaker 4: I said, absolutely, so you said, I told him after

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Speaker 4: and it would have just been I didn't get the number.

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Speaker 2: So if you stood in the corner all night just

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, do you think that would have worked?

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Speaker 4: I ain't, but I ain't never said it in no corner.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna walk past you and you gonna see me

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Speaker 4: if I want you, and I'm.

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Speaker 3: Say, it's about women picking dudes, right, And I heard

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Speaker 11: I said, I said it, huh, I said what you

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Speaker 11: if you pick a dude, right, and he sees something

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Speaker 3: But if dude pick you, that mean he picked you.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So I'm willing to take whatever coach you because I

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Speaker 2: You you know what I'm saying. When you pick it's like

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Speaker 6: Right, yeah yeah, and that way it could go that

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Speaker 6: the energy that.

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Speaker 4: You want to like you?

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Speaker 6: You approach and aproach you trying to you know what

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, But I'm still gonna shoot my shot.

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Speaker 11: say so he's sassyf for not liking you back how

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Speaker 4: No, so I'm not saying he's sass if he didn't

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Speaker 13: Brittany said she got one line for y'all.

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Speaker 12: A man who choose this, that's it.

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Speaker 4: Right a man, but a man have to choose you.

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Speaker 4: So like if I would have walked up to those

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Speaker 6: He just may think like, oh, she on some bullshit

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Speaker 6: But if I want to talk to you and I'm

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Speaker 6: not on that, then I'm going to introduce myself. But

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Speaker 6: what you got going on. My name is Jojo. I

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Speaker 4: I don't think there's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 11: So really, it sounds like women are afraid, not not you,

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Speaker 11: but most women are afraid of rejection in that moment

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Speaker 11: because if, like say, the roles are reversed and it's

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Speaker 11: that's walking into the lions, then if you walk into

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Speaker 11: if you're walking up to five different dudes, you got five.

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Speaker 11: If I'm walking up to five different women, shit, I

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Speaker 11: gotta be real precise in how I'm moving that moment question.

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Speaker 4: It depends on a group of women you walking with

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Speaker 4: especially if you got a little carter, they didn't see

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Speaker 2: That's not what I want. I don't want the women.

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Speaker 14: Somebody got something to say, like so Jojo, I don't

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Speaker 4: That's how I was raised.

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Speaker 14: But like Chanelle said, if I see someone that I'm

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Speaker 2: So I just think that this.

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Speaker 14: Depends on where you're coming from.

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Speaker 15: Like, I don't think you're wrong.

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Speaker 14: I just think that we're just different, Like it's just

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Speaker 5: Because y'all just more modern, Like this is more modern,

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Speaker 5: that's more a traditional way you're gonna put yourself like

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Speaker 5: that's more traditional but modern like all right.

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Speaker 15: So y, like neither one is wrong.

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Speaker 4: You just gotta do what works for you, you.

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Speaker 14: Know what I'm saying, and jojo, I understand because you're

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Speaker 12: So you know, I.

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Speaker 11: Also think it depends on what what type of man

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Speaker 10: Catching a lot of a lot of men are slow.

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Speaker 6: Your pass just.

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Speaker 4: What I know.

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Speaker 15: He might be nervous like that.

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Speaker 6: You might intimidate him, like look at you, like you said,

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Speaker 4: But I know, but that's not the man for me.

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Speaker 4: If he's intimidated, so I don't even want him, So

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Speaker 4: because see, I'm old school. I want a man that's

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Speaker 4: You need to say see me as like, oh, oh

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Speaker 9: No facts, I was just gonna piggyback off what Chanelle

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Speaker 9: So you put yourself in a position to where he

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Speaker 9: well she is putting herself right here. Let me pounce

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Speaker 9: her to. I'm also not like, I'm not gonna approach

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Speaker 9: a man and chase. I don't think that's the woman's role.

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Speaker 9: Approaching a man and chasing is two totally different things.

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Speaker 5: I approaching a man sometimes for them it takes away

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Speaker 6: Oh she approached me, because if I get to know you,

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Speaker 6: We had a bar, were having a conversation. We get

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Speaker 6: each other's numbers. You're gonna want to know who the

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Speaker 6: hell is that girl that walked up on me and

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Speaker 6: got my number. Men do not get approached by so

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Speaker 6: off rip. He's gonna be like, damn, like she came

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Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. They don't want to

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Speaker 6: It's like not going to hit her up and see

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Speaker 11: But also I think the definition of the chase is

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Speaker 11: to chasing women, it's almost like I have to convince

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Speaker 11: her a while I'm a good match. Whereas if like

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Speaker 11: this has happened last week, last weekend and Teilgate, like

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Speaker 11: the girl I met there, like I've known her for years,

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Speaker 11: But I'm like, damn, you kind of bagged me because

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Speaker 11: you just put yourself in a position. You put yourself,

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Speaker 11: thank you, You put yourself in a position where it's

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Speaker 11: like you are open to being pursued it's not you

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Speaker 11: chasing me, but you're kind of letting those walls down

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Speaker 11: and it's not as much restraint and you're letting me.

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Speaker 11: You're letting the game come to you. So like in

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Speaker 11: that moment, I feel like, damn, you kind of pulled me.

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Speaker 13: All right, So that's good. So that was a good conversation.

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Speaker 13: So it's gonna take us and the next thing. Y'all

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Speaker 13: mentioned careers multiple times. So is there still an expectation,

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Speaker 2: Let's go with black Bank. You said what it is, then.

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Speaker 4: You ain't paying attention over that is.

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Speaker 13: There's still an expectation that women should prioritize family over career.

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Speaker 3: That's what's the word. I'm trying to subjective. It depends

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Speaker 3: I'm saying me, You do what you want to do, baby,

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Speaker 3: Just do whatever you want to be. You want to

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Speaker 3: be the biggest hustle, to be the bigger hoest, You

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Speaker 3: want to be the biggest white, be the biggest white.

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Speaker 2: We in crewe control. Baby, do what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: I just don't want all.

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Speaker 4: I think it gets tricky for women now because women

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Speaker 4: it actually messes up a lot of the traditional ideals

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Speaker 4: So now we get a little arrogant, and we get

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Speaker 4: sometimes that submissive component which some men. If you like

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Speaker 4: a traditional man that's a provider, You don't want me

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Speaker 4: to come into the house like nigga, you get your

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Speaker 4: own socks. You get what I'm saying. You still want

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Speaker 4: me to get that. But because women have been disappointed

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Speaker 4: so much and men have let them down so much,

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Speaker 4: they're not willing to not make sure they get to

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Speaker 4: the bag. You get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Your question question like, how do women always say and

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Speaker 3: we got a room full of women, I don't want

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Speaker 3: to start no ship, but it's the time to start it.

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Speaker 3: Women always say niggas gonna beat niggas. I just heard

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Speaker 3: I heard somebody say that they know they don't get

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Speaker 3: don't beat me up, y'all. Ma'ma reaching up person. Look nah,

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Speaker 3: but they say, men, all right, what's your outlook on men?

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Speaker 2: First?

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Speaker 4: I think they're amazing. I think they're the most beautiful

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Speaker 4: creature that was created. But I also think they ain't

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Speaker 4: ship sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think man ain't ship? Give around? Applausea,

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Speaker 2: you think man ain't ship sometimes?

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Speaker 4: Let me answer the question.

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Speaker 12: The other half.

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Speaker 2: Let me let me land the plane. Let me land

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Speaker 2: the plane. Okay.

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Speaker 3: If you already know your brother, you helped your brother

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Speaker 3: cheap your daddy, you know he wants ship. None of

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Speaker 3: your uncles ain't ship. What makes you think you gonna

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Speaker 3: find this?

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Speaker 2: Make up? Make believe nigga, to.

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Speaker 6: Make believe nigga though.

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Speaker 3: A nigga that you think you he gonna be everything

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Speaker 3: you dreamed of when you was a princess.

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Speaker 6: That's what said that he has to have everything or

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Speaker 6: he has to be let down.

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Speaker 2: She said let down.

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Speaker 4: So I mean you could be let down but not

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Speaker 4: be perfect.

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Speaker 3: If I let you down, right, I let you down

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Speaker 4: Well, no, so so the thing.

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Speaker 2: Is that's who I am. That means you need to

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Speaker 2: leave me.

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Speaker 4: No, no, so so baby, But no, I'm saying, let y'all,

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying it depends on situation, right. So I'll

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Speaker 4: give you an example why I'm why I'm a hustler

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Speaker 4: is as I got pregnant at fifteen, my son and

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Speaker 4: dad begged for my kid. The whole world thought it

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Speaker 4: as I left the child you begged for and pleading for,

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Speaker 4: now my mama got to help me because I'm in

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Speaker 4: a ninth grade. That's what I mean by let down promises.

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Speaker 4: I was married before multiple times. I've been married four times.

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Speaker 4: We already know this. You get what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 4: judge judging mama, don't judge me. I'm still cute, So

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Speaker 4: I'm looking for a husband. I'm right now, called me

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Speaker 4: an opinion about it, he said, oh, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 4: pay your bills. Well, sir, you told me start working.

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Speaker 4: How you're gonna hold my bill money on top of

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Speaker 4: my head? And you begged me to not work. So

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Speaker 4: that's what I mean. It's situational. I don't but I

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Speaker 4: don't put that on the man in an audience because

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Speaker 4: they never did anything to me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but a lot of that goes back to you, though, because.

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Speaker 4: When you married, they say, listen to your husband, be submitted.

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Speaker 3: Did he did he have those qualities of a nigga

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Speaker 3: that will stall you out once he told you not

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Speaker 3: to work?

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Speaker 2: Did you see that before he did that?

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Speaker 4: I didn't see it because he had walked in providing.

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Speaker 4: He had provided everything, so I didn't have a reason

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Speaker 4: You get what I'm saying. But the control component with

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Speaker 6: I think that when you say like a man like

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Speaker 6: that reason, like a man let a woman down.

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Speaker 4: It's not because that he's not perfect.

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Speaker 6: But if you guys have certain boundaries and understandings within

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Speaker 6: sight her and do some whole other ship that she's

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Speaker 6: and you're doing it.

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Speaker 4: It's like, well, damn, you just fucking cross me.

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Speaker 6: Just like if you've had a homeboy to do some

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Speaker 6: gonna be good on that, man, just like how we

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Speaker 6: feel if a nigga do some ship, we're gonna be

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Speaker 6: good on this. Be across the boundary what it is.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we got the audience, the audience trying to ask

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Speaker 4: her something.

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Speaker 1: Yea.

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Speaker 16: So I'm just listening to I know that some of

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00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 16: the things that the win women are saying and doing it.

441
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: Please y'all don't jump on me. I'm just listen.

442
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 16: It's a little contradictory because y'all want traditional values. Can't

443
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 16: be approached traditionally, but you want to live a modern boss, lady,

444
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 16: you can't. You can't hold on. You can't man be

445
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 16: the boss of a man.

446
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 2: Thank you a man. Now, this is what I'm saying,

447
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 2: let me finish, Let me finish, Hold hold on a

448
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:41,680
Speaker 2: little bit. Go ahead, bro, No it's not gentleman, go ahead,

449
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: go ahead.

450
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 16: But like I was saying, like you want to be

451
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 16: approached by the man, But when the man comes in,

452
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 16: everything doesn goes that not you. When everything isn't exactly

453
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 16: how you think it should be, then you're ready to

454
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 16: tough tail and leave a man. When you're in a

455
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 16: relationship with a man, y'all got to be team than

456
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 16: opponents facts, y'all be looking for the wind the win.

457
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,959
Speaker 2: I gotta be one up on you.

458
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 16: How you're gonna keep me straight? How you gonna how

459
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 16: you're gonna keep me straight? How we gonna keep each

460
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 16: other straight?

461
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 4: But everybody is are we gonna do this together?

462
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 2: I'm with you.

463
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 4: So, But when you have a partnership and then the

464
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 4: man doesn't do his side of the partnership, I'm not

465
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 4: talking about a woman that's getting in a relationship. Oh

466
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 4: make sure you pay all my bills, make sure you

467
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 4: take care of me. What am I I I gonna get?

468
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 4: I'm talking about when we decide that we are a

469
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 4: Wii and you drop the ball on the Wii because

470
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 4: you want to hang out to eight nine o'clock because

471
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 4: now you ask me to start working to help build

472
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 4: your business for you that you're trying to get off

473
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 4: the ground and you're gonna take care of our household.

474
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 4: But then inside your household, you're acting reckless and you're

475
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 4: coming in doing anything. You got condoms in your car,

476
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 4: in your pocket, and you get what I'm saying. That's

477
00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 4: what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about the that's

478
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 4: just trying to use you, so.

479
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 2: Doctor, hold on listen.

480
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 11: But also it's also something to where I think I

481
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 11: think women have to be more careful about who they

482
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 11: choose as leaders for their household because a lot of

483
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 11: women are going to whoever is going to pay those bills.

484
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 11: So you didn't know what other qualities this man had

485
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 11: as a leader, But as long as he was taking

486
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 11: care of and paying your bills, that's all they needed.

487
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 2: So he shows you after the fact that he was

488
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 2: a fuck nigga. Let me let me finish, because he was.

489
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 11: That was always him. But the other qualities never mattered

490
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 11: until they mattered. You saw that he didn't.

491
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 16: You can always you just can't look like smokey cruise ship.

492
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 16: You can run them. You can beat a boss. You

493
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 16: just can't look like you his boss. You know what

494
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 16: I'm saying, You can't. My mom always said, my my

495
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,439
Speaker 16: husband is the head. Well my parents still my husband's ahead.

496
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 16: That turns ahead.

497
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 4: Okay.

498
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 6: So so the boss part, right, So that's the part

499
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 6: that I was stuck on. You said, women want to

500
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 6: be the boss, you don't want to be traditional. Traditional. Well,

501
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 6: to me, traditional is the man goes out and makes

502
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 6: the money, and the woman stays home and she takes

503
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 6: care of the house and she takes care of the

504
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 6: of the kids.

505
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 13: Correct.

506
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 6: Okay, So if that's if that's way, hold on, though

507
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 6: technically it is because the woman, like you said, she

508
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 6: stays home while the man goes to work and make

509
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 6: the money.

510
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 4: Okay.

511
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 6: So these women, some of them are saying the same thing,

512
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 6: like they don't want to work, they want your money.

513
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 6: It's traditional as hell.

514
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 11: But that ain't you gonna take the bad side of tradition.

515
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 6: Let me finish tradition ahead, let me finish. So you're

516
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 6: saying like you want this traditional woman, and you got her,

517
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 6: but you don't got her in the warm that you

518
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 6: want her in. So you you bought up this, this

519
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 6: this conversation or this topic.

520
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 4: But you're not even hearing me out.

521
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 6: So, like I was saying, you want her to be traditional,

522
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 6: but she is being traditional.

523
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 4: She's just giving you a little bit.

524
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 6: More aggression and she's a little bit more not demure

525
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 6: then you want her to be. But that's because that's

526
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 6: because these women aren't taking no more bullshit. Because when

527
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 6: they were traditional back in the day, these men were

528
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 6: still out here cheating and had multiple families and multiple whatever, and.

529
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 4: That's tradition, right.

530
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 6: But now but now as they do it, the women

531
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,239
Speaker 6: ain't going and they standing up for it, and they

532
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 6: talking their ship and they popping their ship and they

533
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 6: gonna let you know a you're doing s y Z.

534
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 6: Make sure you bring them money home. Make sure you

535
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 6: bring the money home. And now they popping their ship

536
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 6: and you upset about it.

537
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 4: But now it's called you a gold digger. So that

538
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 4: that's the term for the traditional woman in twenty twenty four. Oh,

539
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 4: now she'll go there.

540
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 3: Mean me, y'all trying to justify what women he's saying. Basically,

541
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 3: what he's saying is you can't want to want granddaddy

542
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 3: and you don't want to be grandma.

543
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 2: You can't. Grandma went through a lot of ship to

544
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 2: keep granddaddy. But you brought that bag, That's what he's saying.

545
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 4: But I get it, you can't get it. Brought that bag.

546
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 2: The niggas bringing that bag a question?

547
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 3: No, No, the niggas who got the money got them

548
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 3: A grandmama who ain't playing like that, she already locked it.

549
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 3: If a typical nigga that's handling this business, it's a

550
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 3: woman holding on to his leg, ain't letting him go.

551
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 3: Give her damn what he do know? They know the

552
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 3: other side of this ship. Yeah, hold on, that's a bullshit.

553
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: What y'all talking about.

554
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 3: These niggas who ain't ship, ain't got no money, and

555
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 3: they still want to run ship and they want to

556
00:26:59,480 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 3: do all this.

557
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: You fuck up. Ain't got a dick.

558
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 6: We got make me stand up.

559
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 15: So like, we're talking about two totally different types of people,

560
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 15: because at the end of the day, there are men

561
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 15: that are willing to be what you need them to be.

562
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 12: But listen, I'm a one man.

563
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 15: I'm probably gonna get booed for this, but I'm keep

564
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 15: it a buck. You can't talk to no man any

565
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 15: kind of way and think you're gonna get a certain

566
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 15: thing from them. And I say that because as the women,

567
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 15: it is easier to be a boss when he knows

568
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 15: that you're speaking to the spirit in him. Most men

569
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 15: don't know how to provide because they didn't come from

570
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 15: no providers. Most of these men are first generation. Take

571
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 15: care of be this, decide to be a stand up man,

572
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 15: be a good.

573
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 2: This out of these things.

574
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 4: And you're.

575
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 15: Social media has look it ain't checking if you got it,

576
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 15: and now out here trying to compete with that, and

577
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 15: now how that you really want to do and you

578
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 15: have to teach it. It has to be a safe place.

579
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 15: And most of the time because we as women look

580
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 15: at the stuff that's online. Now I'm not talking about Shanel.

581
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 15: I'm not talking about you Jojo. I'm just saying in general,

582
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 15: there are women that they see things and now you're

583
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 15: comparing your whole like, oh, this is what I want.

584
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 4: I'm trying to compare somewhere. You can.

585
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 15: A lot of times the issue is you I can

586
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 15: go and put on nice clothes and I can go

587
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 15: do this.

588
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 4: You close.

589
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 15: You don't clean a bathroom, you barely clean your I'm

590
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 15: just keeping it a buck. So now you feel like

591
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 15: you want this high dollar man, but you low value.

592
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 4: Women because you can't do the regular things. So my my.

593
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 15: Issue, but my it is, it is that you feel

594
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 15: like if you go because no, Channell, no, you know

595
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 15: how to house do all of these things, but you

596
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 15: just came out and felt like because I got a

597
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 15: nice body, whether you pay for or that God gave

598
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 15: it to you.

599
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 4: I got nice clothes.

600
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: To what.

601
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 15: You don't deserve anything everything. These people who do got

602
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 15: this mind of God. They work for it, just like

603
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 15: you need to put some work in it. That's how

604
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 15: I personally, Lord.

605
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 2: Jesus, how y'all feeling? Y'all still with us? What we're doing?

606
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 13: Moderator, So let's go with, are we living in the

607
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 13: day and age where it's okay to be sexually experimental?

608
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: Huh?

609
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 12: Absolutely?

610
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: Who came up with that question?

611
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 4: Question? I came away question.

612
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 6: I came up with that question.

613
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I did it?

614
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 13: So again, are we living in the day and age

615
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 13: where it's okay to be sexually experimental?

616
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 6: Who cares tradition?

617
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 12: No, this is an era you can.

618
00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: So let's start.

619
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 13: We're going hold on, we're gonna start with We're gonna

620
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 13: start with you go ahead.

621
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 5: Has the model period? No, absolutely, this is definitely the era.

622
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 5: You can try out a lot of ship. You can

623
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 5: be yourself like, I'm all for all of that.

624
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 4: I need you to give us a little bit more,

625
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 4: try all of what. Let's hear it.

626
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 5: Whatever you want to do, Like, so what you like

627
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 5: to do? I like girls? So you know this is

628
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 5: one of those erarors you can actually, right, I like

629
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 5: bad bitches, don't right.

630
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 4: I think that was a little rejection.

631
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 5: I'm like, no, no, no, no, no no no, that was

632
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 5: what was given.

633
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 12: It was given, bad bitch.

634
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 5: But this is an error where you can really experiment,

635
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 5: like with no judgment.

636
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 12: So that's just an example.

637
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 5: Like I like women, so I can experience with experiment

638
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 5: with women without being judged.

639
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 17: So absolutely that my people back in the back. I

640
00:30:53,160 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 17: told you I got them in here for y'all. Yeah

641
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 17: you do.

642
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 4: So what you think, Jojo?

643
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 15: Yeah?

644
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 6: I think like sex is sex.

645
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 4: I mean I think that's what we're talking about.

646
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 6: I feel like when you ask that question, I'm thinking

647
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 6: sex with the partner, like sexual experiences with your person, Yeah,

648
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 6: like with your person, Yeah, I think I think so.

649
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 4: I think there are some things that men may not be.

650
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 6: Willing to try with their women because they may feel

651
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 6: like it's crossing certain lines or certain boundaries or whatever.

652
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 6: But it's just like I personally feel like, if if

653
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 6: you're not going to go and do these sexual things

654
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 6: with your partner that they want to do, then they're

655
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 6: going to want to wander off and do those things

656
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 6: with other people. No, because say, for instance, you're with somebody.

657
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 6: You're with a man and he constantly likes him, right,

658
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 6: but you, as a.

659
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 4: Woman, you don't want to keep going down there for hours.

660
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 4: He might be a type of nigga that it takes

661
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 4: hours for him to fucking come. You know what I'm

662
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 4: saying that you may not want to do that shit.

663
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 6: So if you don't, then he gonna go out and

664
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 6: find little Tasha down the street and she's gonna get off.

665
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 6: So I just feel like, in order to just stop

666
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 6: all of that, you gotta you gotta please your partner.

667
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 4: I don't with it to a certain extent. I got boundaries.

668
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 4: You hear me, don't come over here telling me you

669
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 4: want to sleep with a boy and I watch it

670
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 4: and I'm not interested in nothing going in my butt

671
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 4: that hurt. If you want to go in your butt,

672
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 4: then stick it in my butt. But I'm willing to

673
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 4: do everything else. You hear me.

674
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 12: Everything.

675
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 4: I am an open butt. I have had sex in

676
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 4: every airport that I've ever been in, you hear me.

677
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna do some shit. Whatever you want to do, sir,

678
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 4: let's go. Just don't bring no boy up in here,

679
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 4: and you gonna try to bring no big old thing

680
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 4: inside of my butt because I want to be able

681
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 4: to ship at sixty And that's what y'all ain't thinking about.

682
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 4: It Just gonna be into.

683
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 2: The flo's gonna come out real smooth. Yeah, all right,

684
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 2: all that you yeah?

685
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 11: Because I feel like I feel like if you linkoling

686
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 11: with your partner whoever you're in the bedroom with that

687
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 11: ship that's between y'all. Like I feel like a lot

688
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 11: of times too many people are worried about what people

689
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 11: outside the bedroom got to say, what they got to

690
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 11: do in the bedroom.

691
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: That ship don't matter.

692
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 11: Like the most influential person you know could be a

693
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 11: fucking freak.

694
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 2: You would never know that ship. Wow.

695
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 11: And if you didn't know, why would you know? Why

696
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 11: would it matter to you? Would it change your perception

697
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 11: of that person? Probably not.

698
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 2: It shouldn't because this nigga, If this nigga.

699
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 11: A cure the incurable disease and you find out he

700
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 11: liked the goddamn uh where two tuos in the bedroom?

701
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: Who gives a fuck?

702
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 6: I want to try.

703
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: That?

704
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: Don't matter. That's that's all I'm saying.

705
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 11: That ship, what another what another motherfucker got going on

706
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 11: in the bedroom, don't matter.

707
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 15: What you hon on?

708
00:33:58,920 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 2: What two twos?

709
00:33:59,880 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 5: Your?

710
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 11: I sleep naked, so I don't know what you're talking about.

711
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 11: You were I sleep? If I sleep naked, you think

712
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 11: I'm wearing anything to happen.

713
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 4: I didn't say when you went to sleep?

714
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: I said no, no, you guys, no.

715
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 11: T shirt that I go to sleep, balls naked, crack

716
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 11: on the sheet, your cover, Let me go back, let

717
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 11: me go back to the model, hit the pillow.

718
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 13: So is it your partner's responsibility to fulfill all your

719
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 13: sexual needs?

720
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 4: And it should be?

721
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, I think so too. Just going back to

722
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 6: what I said, because if my partner not doing it

723
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 6: and I really want to do it, anybody, if you

724
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 6: really want to do something and you and you want

725
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 6: to do it with your partner, your partner steadily telling

726
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 6: you no, no, no, they're trying to keep shame you

727
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 6: and ship like you don't want to go do it

728
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 6: with somebody else. That's just the reality of it. Like period,

729
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 6: I'm trying to do all of it, to do.

730
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 2: Everything all right, and then so let's move on.

731
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 13: So bank, is it a woman's responsibility to help regulate

732
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 13: a man's emotions?

733
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 8: What you mean?

734
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 13: Is it a woman? Which is not like a note

735
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 13: in order for is it?

736
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:17,959
Speaker 2: Is it a woman?

737
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 13: Is it your woman's responsibility to help manage your emotions?

738
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 3: No, it depends on what type of emotion. You just

739
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 3: got some bitch as emotion, you just a bitch. But

740
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 3: if you got emotion that's going on through life, yes,

741
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 3: she's supposed help you managing. Like I was just telling

742
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: her over here. Women don't understand when you choose certain

743
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 3: type of dudes. You really got to come on and

744
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 3: be everything for this dude. Like like I say, dude,

745
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 3: don't care about no amount of money when it comes.

746
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: Down to the right long like, so are they provided?

747
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 2: If a dude ain't provide for you and you ain't.

748
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 3: The one for him, you don't mind doing for the

749
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 3: for the one that give him something. That money came

750
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 3: by that part, You know what I'm saying, like, if

751
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 3: you make me feel like I can't even buy this

752
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 3: what you're giving me, So this money don't mean she

753
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 3: because I this shit feel better than anything.

754
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 8: You get, know what I'm saying.

755
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,959
Speaker 2: So hey, yeah, she help me manage my emotions.

756
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 12: I agree. I agree with that wholeheartedly.

757
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 18: Yeah.

758
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 4: I think that hold on quick, we.

759
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 2: Can go right here and then we'll come back.

760
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 8: Go ahead.

761
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 4: I agree with that. And man banked and talked about

762
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 4: this before, Like, the biggest part of what I do

763
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 4: with a man is I check on him. I check

764
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 4: on him every day. I'm like, how are you? No,

765
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 4: don't tell me the generic answer of I'm cool, No,

766
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 4: how are you? For real? At two in the morning,

767
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 4: if you up? While you up, babe, what's going on

768
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 4: with you? Let me check on you? And I a

769
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 4: lot of times put my hand on his heart and

770
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 4: be like, tell me how your heart feel, Like, tell

771
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 4: me what you really want to be inside? Like, if

772
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 4: there's nothing else in the world that you can do,

773
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 4: and we only got one day, what is it that

774
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 4: we're gonna be When you check on your man and

775
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 4: you and he generally know that you love him to death,

776
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 4: I'm gonna love the fuck out of a nigga, you

777
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 4: hear me, And that's when women be like men don't

778
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 4: provide all of mine provide. But but like Bank said,

779
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 4: it's because I'm giving them some that they're not gonna

780
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 4: get from everybody else. Men need you. Men need to

781
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 4: feel safe, and as a woman, you have to be

782
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 4: their safe space. And if you are not, they're gonna

783
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 4: search everywhere for it.

784
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 6: So what I was gonna say, because I said, I agree,

785
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 6: and what you said managing man's emotions, I think yes,

786
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 6: women should do that because a lot of men do

787
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 6: not know how to control their emotions. They don't even

788
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 6: know that they have emotions, and if they do, they're

789
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 6: taught in life to not have them. So it's like

790
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 6: us being women and us having feelings and emotions and

791
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 6: knowing what it feels like to be sad or depressed

792
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,720
Speaker 6: or you know, things like that, and us as women,

793
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 6: like we go through so many things in life. We

794
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 6: experienced so many, so many things backlash from just people,

795
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 6: and it's like we we endure that. So as a

796
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 6: woman with a man, we have to be there for

797
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 6: them to help.

798
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,720
Speaker 4: Them navigate these emotions that they.

799
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 6: Don't understand because they don't understand it. They feel like,

800
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 6: oh I'm feeling like this, I'm gonna just shut the

801
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 6: fuck up. No, like I'm here to help you navigate it.

802
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 4: Almost like a therapy.

803
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 6: So yeah, like be there for your man at all times.

804
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 5: That I think y'all made some great points what you

805
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 5: brought up therapy, So a lot of I think you

806
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 5: should be there to be supportive of your man's emotions. Yes,

807
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 5: but sometimes men come along with baggage, They come along

808
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 5: with trauma that you had nothing to do with. So

809
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 5: I cannot take on emotions and trauma that came from

810
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 5: your childhood or your past relationships.

811
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 12: So you need to seek therapy.

812
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 5: You need to seek help because I can't take on

813
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 5: that if you haven't, if you haven't addressed that issue yourself.

814
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 13: There, I appreciate that what you think I said, No,

815
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 13: but also I feel like it's a part of a

816
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 13: big part of my personality.

817
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:53,839
Speaker 4: Like.

818
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 11: Because I'm not a I'm a very even person, Like

819
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,800
Speaker 11: I'm never gonna be too mad or or or anything

820
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 11: about that. But I just don't feel like I would

821
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 11: need a woman to uh regulate my emotions about anything,

822
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 11: because if I feel the type of way I'm gonna

823
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 11: tell you, And that's how it is. I'm very straightforward

824
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 11: on a lot of things. So in my life, me

825
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 11: me personally, Let me me personally. I don't feel like

826
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 11: we have to even talk about it. You know what

827
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 11: I'm saying.

828
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: If you've been around a person and it's your person,

829
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 3: or you really love this person, you knowing something off

830
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 3: with this person. So by you knowing some off of

831
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 3: this person, you can do a gesture that I ain't

832
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 3: got nothing to do it what's wrong, bab, Because most

833
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 3: of time niggas don't like to tell you what's going

834
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 3: on because they don't want you to stress with them.

835
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 3: So you can do certain shit that just change my

836
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 3: whole vibe to make me feel a whole nother way.

837
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 3: And I could have just lost a whole half a

838
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 3: million dollar last night on a plate. You never know,

839
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 3: But you can do something like, damn, the world ain't

840
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 3: over with. I got something right here that I ain't.

841
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 3: You. You get a woman gotta give you some shit that

842
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 3: you don't even know you need.

843
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. You know, I didn't even know

844
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: I needed this.

845
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 11: You know, you know what hold on bank, I had, Jojo.

846
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 11: What you said just reminded me of some because we

847
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 11: work together. So you see me, I think how I

848
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,479
Speaker 11: say that what I said? I say what I said

849
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 11: because I'm the type of a person that's like, fuck it,

850
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 11: I'm gonna figure it out. So what's telling you about

851
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 11: a problem gonna solve if I haven't already.

852
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: Solved the problem.

853
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 6: But that's the problem.

854
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 11: So if if I know we are fifty thousand dollars

855
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 11: in debt and you ain't found out yet, my my

856
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 11: job is to come up with fift thousand dollars, what

857
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 11: I'm gonna tell you about the phone. I need to

858
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 11: figure this problem out because as a leader, that's what

859
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 11: I'm supposed to do. You're supposed to do whatever I

860
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 11: need you to do, and that a part of your

861
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 11: duty is not stressing about shit that I'm supposed to

862
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 11: fix because at the end of the day, I'm going

863
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,439
Speaker 11: to fix whatever the problem is. So telling my girl

864
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 11: about whatever issue is it's not solving the problem.

865
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 4: That's what you.

866
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 6: Agree, And that's why I'm saying, like that's what you think.

867
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 4: We are here.

868
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 6: We're we're not here to to look down on you,

869
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 6: because that's what's going on. If we're partners that's exactly

870
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 6: what we are. But if I know you can't help

871
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 6: me with this, with this, you don't know that.

872
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: I know you can't.

873
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 3: You know that because even in my field, you don't

874
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 3: know nothing about what I.

875
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 4: Many things that that you don't know about women.

876
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 2: You don't know it'll be better. I need.

877
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 3: I need to build this house, this house. Get getting

878
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 3: on my nerve. Man, I need to go put your

879
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 3: put your boots on, and get your helm.

880
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 4: No, I know what I can build it.

881
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm talking about Okay, done thought, take the out

882
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: put on.

883
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 4: Let's take this model out. Because what the power of

884
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 4: women is, I don't help you figure it out. If

885
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 4: I love you, I'm putting them boots, songs, song and

886
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 4: whatever I gotta put on to make sure it's good. Look,

887
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 4: I have a whole construction degree because a nigga wanted

888
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 4: to be a contract that not me. Talk to me

889
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 4: about it. You can't talk to me about it.

890
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 5: So from where y'all are coming from, I understand, because

891
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 5: as a good woman, you're gonna automatically want to get

892
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 5: in there with your men.

893
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 12: You're like, all right, what's the problem. I'm here to help.

894
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 5: But what they're saying is, as a man, you don't

895
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 5: really want to put that on your woman, So you

896
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 5: kind of just put that on your back, like all right,

897
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 5: let me figure it out, because I don't want to

898
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 5: put the stress on my woman. So even though they

899
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 5: have a good woman and like she's gonna get in

900
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 5: here with me, but as a man, you don't want

901
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 5: to put that on your woman.

902
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: No, baby, I don't want you to think about it,

903
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 3: think about how to make me feel mushy, because I

904
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: already feel fucked up out there coming.

905
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 2: I want my blunts and ship rolled up. I want

906
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: my ship, this ship.

907
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 4: You feel like you know what food, you know what

908
00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 4: talking about?

909
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,720
Speaker 3: Let me just feel like I came to a castle

910
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: that remind me that I'm a king through your actions.

911
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 4: So what if you already doing that?

912
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 6: Like what if you're already getting that, but and you're

913
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 6: still having the like you still got other things going on.

914
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 6: I'm all I'm saying is is I get I get

915
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 6: exactly what you're saying. Nobody wants to put that on

916
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 6: their woman, But in a partnership, it don't matter. That's

917
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 6: what she's there for to help you in every way,

918
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 6: not just to cook and clean and fuck and suck

919
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 6: and emotional and all that that may be helping you,

920
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 6: but we're just saying like that also causes problems because

921
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 6: say you just lost fifty thousand whatever on the plug,

922
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 6: whatever you was doing.

923
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

924
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 6: We can feel that energy.

925
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:45,919
Speaker 4: When you come home.

926
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 6: We can feel it, and we may ask you over

927
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 6: and over and over what's going on, and you don't

928
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 6: say nothing.

929
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 3: You think that you want to be in this indictment.

930
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,359
Speaker 3: You don't know what I'm doing. You don't know what

931
00:43:56,400 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 3: the fuck I'm doing? Who could have got?

932
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: Bitch?

933
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 3: Don't don't tell you know that you want to be

934
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell I'm doing. Hold, don't

935
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 3: know what this man doing?

936
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 4: Well, when you put it like that, don't tell me

937
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 4: about it. Don't you.

938
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: Want to be nosy?

939
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 4: Don't tell me?

940
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 2: So we got a question. We got a question for

941
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: right quick?

942
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,919
Speaker 12: Okay, y'all, how y'all doing? Hey?

943
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: Drink so strong?

944
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 6: Okay, So listen, it's twenty twenty four.

945
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: I just want to know why.

946
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 8: Is love so conditional for women?

947
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:46,479
Speaker 2: Thank you?

948
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 12: Like love is so conditional for y'all?

949
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:50,760
Speaker 2: Men love my conditions?

950
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 19: And I want to know why you not already coming

951
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 19: already as a woman already. Why I gotta do something

952
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 19: to make you feel like you gotta be womanly?

953
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: Thank you. I think I can do as a man

954
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: to make you not be a woman. You're a woman.

955
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: Hold On, I said that. I'm said that, thank you.

956
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 5: I mean, let me get after you think women, let

957
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 5: us know how you're ready, ladies.

958
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 11: Hold on, let us lad ladies, ladies, all right, quick, ladies, ladies.

959
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 2: I got a question. I got a question.

960
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 11: If if the man that you're talking to said that

961
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 11: you ain't making me feel manlessen, I'm mad like a bitch.

962
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 2: Of that nigga.

963
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 11: Like until like I'm saying, y'all saying, a man got

964
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 11: to put you in your feminine energy. What if a

965
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 11: nigga had if you had to put a nigga in masking,

966
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 11: you know, bro, that's no, that's that's not gonna happen.

967
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,439
Speaker 11: That's not gonna fly with y'all.

968
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 2: Listen.

969
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,479
Speaker 3: A lot of these dudes is in their feminine energy.

970
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: But listen, he had to sit up, just said.

971
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 6: You just said from the South Mississippi.

972
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 19: So I'm like super traditional, I'm not controlling or I'm

973
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 19: not any of those things. I'm a woman, so I

974
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 19: know how y'all already is. So what I'm saying is

975
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 19: like my grandma raised me.

976
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 2: So it's like I be.

977
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 19: More women than half of these women. Because y'all so conditional.

978
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 19: You have to do so many things to make y'all

979
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 19: feel soft and being y'all soft vibe.

980
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 12: Absolutely. First question, absolutely.

981
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 19: Not, you know second part question second, it's two points.

982
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: It's two points.

983
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 4: Part is what is sassy?

984
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 2: What is sassy?

985
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 4: Because you can't do what you want to.

986
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 12: Do with me, all right, Like I said, absolutely not.

987
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 5: A man does not have to do anything that make

988
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 5: me to show up as a woman. I'm gonna show

989
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,479
Speaker 5: up as I am. However, you have to do things

990
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 5: for me if you want me to show up like

991
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 5: I'm not just showing up for anything. So we can

992
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 5: say love is conditional, but I mean it's on both sides, okay,

993
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 5: because men have their expectations, have their expectations of a relationship.

994
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 4: I agree, just in general, I got something.

995
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 3: Manet you, they gonna keep you until you do the

996
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 3: wrong ship, then they gonna let you go.

997
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 2: Other than that, niggas to deal with your ship forever.

998
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: The women, but who.

999
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't have to.

1000
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 6: I got something to say because she said, why does

1001
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 6: a man have to put you in your female energy? Now,

1002
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 6: I can't speak for any other female in here, but

1003
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 6: I'm gonna speak for myself, and I'm gonna say this

1004
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 6: growing up, right, it's so many things that like a

1005
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,439
Speaker 6: woman has to do and and and life, like people

1006
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 6: are always judging this woman.

1007
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 4: A woman is tough. It is the toughest species.

1008
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,240
Speaker 6: On this fucking earth, and she has to be because

1009
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 6: she has emotions. But people are keep throwing ship this

1010
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 6: way and this way, and she's supposed to just keep

1011
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 6: handling it and handling it.

1012
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 4: Especially as a black woman.

1013
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 6: We go through so much different shit. So we's so tough.

1014
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 6: We're tough. We're tough, We're tough. We know, like this

1015
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 6: person is saying some bullshit, this person doing some bullshit.

1016
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 4: Then you got this nigga over here, he owns some bullshit.

1017
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 6: I gotta take care of these kids because I might

1018
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 6: be with a nigga who ain't taking care of them.

1019
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 4: So now I gotta be strong enough to take care

1020
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 4: of them too.

1021
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 6: So now I'm just super strong, and I done got

1022
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 6: this masculine energy that I have no idea where it

1023
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 6: came from. I didn't even know if it was a

1024
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 6: thing until people start saying, oh, she has masculine energy,

1025
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:28,879
Speaker 6: Oh she has masculine energy.

1026
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 4: I'm over here thinking like, but what the fuck is that?

1027
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 6: But really, whole time, it's just me being so tough

1028
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 6: because I have to deal with the world. But I

1029
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 6: have to be strong not only for me, but for

1030
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,479
Speaker 6: everybody around me. So now when I'm with this man,

1031
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 6: I'm tough and I'm tough, and I'm doing this and

1032
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 6: I'm working hard and I'm doing all this other shit.

1033
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 6: And when he comes in and he's like, I got you, baby,

1034
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 6: don't worry about it. You ain't gotta work that hard.

1035
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 6: You ain't gotta do all of that. I'll go pick

1036
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,399
Speaker 6: the kids up, I'll go this, I'll go do this

1037
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 6: for you. And slowly that woman starts getting softer and

1038
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 6: softer and softer to where she feels like she can

1039
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 6: trust you. And now she feel like now she's in

1040
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 6: her feminine energy and she could love you on condition

1041
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 6: not so quick. It's a real thing.

1042
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: Nah ho ho ho ho ho. I got it. Go

1043
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,439
Speaker 2: ahead and get in there. I gotta respond to that. Bro.

1044
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 3: Have y'all ever seen no women that just remain women regardless.

1045
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 3: Though I'm not talking about this what's going on. I'm saying,

1046
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 3: you got some women that have been sweet all my life,

1047
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 3: Like this lady has been a sweet lady all my life.

1048
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 3: Some women got it, some women don't.

1049
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: That's just what it is.

1050
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 4: But she may have it with you, But you don't

1051
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 4: know what kind of hell in termin.

1052
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about.

1053
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 3: We all know women that like, that's a nice lady,

1054
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,919
Speaker 3: don't you that you've been knowing all your life?

1055
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, you see what I'm saying, like, this is a

1056
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 4: nice lady. But to me, But then I also them saying, oh,

1057
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 4: that lady's so sweet. I didn't seen her turn up

1058
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 4: on a situation where she may have had to turn out. Fact,

1059
00:49:58,560 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 4: that ain't the same thing. I'm saying.

1060
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: She out of character then though, right when she turned up,

1061
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 2: that's out of character sweet for sure.

1062
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 3: Okay, when you can when you get these women these

1063
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 3: days that out of character when they're.

1064
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 4: Being sweet, Where y'all mean, what do you mean?

1065
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 3: How if I gotta if I gotta get you in

1066
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 3: your feminine energy, I gotta get you out of characters

1067
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 3: because you already in your masculine well, I'm.

1068
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 4: Not coming to a man, but I will. I will

1069
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 4: be selective of who I give my time and energy to.

1070
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 3: But we had a conversation in our podcast, and then

1071
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 3: motherfucker went crazy too.

1072
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 2: Shu outside the shun nail. Our shit went crazy.

1073
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 3: But like a women say, like when women say, and

1074
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 3: y'all gonna chew me up, I don't care. I'm ready

1075
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 3: to get into it anyway, y'all gonna say, how can

1076
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 3: a woman's take he drove me to cheat on him?

1077
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,240
Speaker 3: I never understood that, baby, you you being a cheater?

1078
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,959
Speaker 3: You been would do it? Am I right or wrong?

1079
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: You wrong?

1080
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 3: That ain't no such make you bought? Can't nigga make

1081
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: you go outside of your character? If that's against your character,

1082
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 3: you're not gonna do it.

1083
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 2: Bro, that's a lot.

1084
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 3: That's just like saying That's just like saying a nigga saying,

1085
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,760
Speaker 3: my wife made me go to punk parties.

1086
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 4: Bro, you wont to go.

1087
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: Cain't nobody drive you to do some shit you don't

1088
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: want to do.

1089
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 6: I don't think that's true.

1090
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 3: How you already want to circumstances just hand to persent itself.

1091
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 11: And you hadn't lost respect for this man? Yet hold

1092
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 11: hold on, you lost respect now you could be you.

1093
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 11: It's it's another It's all right. So let's use another example.

1094
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 11: If a nigga not a thief, you can't make a

1095
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 11: nigga a thief by leaving money out on the table.

1096
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 11: If you leave one hundred dollars on the table right now,

1097
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 11: I'm gonna take it because I'm a thief.

1098
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 2: No, I'm fucking with you.

1099
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 11: I'm fucking with you, but I'm not a thief, so

1100
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 11: I wouldn't take it. But it's another nigga that'll probably

1101
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 11: see that shit like she and not say nothing. But

1102
00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 11: it's two different type of niggas. So my tripping, I'm I.

1103
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 4: Don't think you're tripping. I mean, women don't like that.

1104
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 4: I sometimes agree with men on some things, but I've

1105
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 4: never been faithful to nobody. I never have, so you know,

1106
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 4: me and my friends debate faithful And I mean I didn't.

1107
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 3: He didn't make you do it either, did it?

1108
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 7: Did?

1109
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 4: No? But I am not like that anymore. But see

1110
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 4: the thing about it, So like I always tell people,

1111
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 4: and I even always tell my friends, like people try

1112
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,240
Speaker 4: to weaponize me with who I am as a person.

1113
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 4: You could never weaponize me because I'm gonna tell you

1114
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 4: who I am. I don't care if you create a

1115
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 4: group chat about it. I've never been faithful to a

1116
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,760
Speaker 4: nigga before I'm working on it. I went to therapy.

1117
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 4: They did not make me cheat, but it was another

1118
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 4: nigga looking at me, and after a time and a time,

1119
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 4: I responded back the same thing that happens with men.

1120
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 4: Women go approach heese man, and approach heese man. They

1121
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 4: weren't even going look at the cheat on you that day.

1122
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 4: It wasn't malicious, tend to do it. It didn't happened,

1123
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 4: but it's you. I went to therapy to get it

1124
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 4: up out of me. And that's the reason that I

1125
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 4: won't commit to none of these men right now, because

1126
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 4: I steal my cheat and I don't want to do that.

1127
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 12: No mochus man, God got a bag, Okay, I feel So.

1128
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 20: I got a couple things to say first or foremost,

1129
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 20: shout out, shut out, a big bang shut out coda,

1130
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 20: because y'all speaking is some real shit.

1131
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,399
Speaker 8: The ladyes y'all speaking is some real shit too.

1132
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 20: But at first and foremost, I just want to say,

1133
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 20: as a real man, right, we go through shit right

1134
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 20: like they were saying, you know what I'm saying, like,

1135
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 20: if I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars, I'm not going

1136
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 20: to tell you I'm in debt fifty thousand dollars. But

1137
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 20: as my woman, like Big Bank was saying, you should

1138
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 20: know something is wrong with me, so you should be there.

1139
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 8: That cansole me regardless. You should have.

1140
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 20: To know what I'm going through to know that I'm

1141
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 20: going through something to be there for me, you know

1142
00:53:58,600 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 20: what I'm saying.

1143
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 8: Then, on that how what you were saying, like with the.

1144
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 20: Like when you said that you hadn't been faithful, right,

1145
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 20: nobody drove you to do that. As a man like

1146
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 20: Big Bank was saying, well, we make that choice that

1147
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 20: you my woman, I'm gonna stick with you until you

1148
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 20: make it that to the point where that that's that

1149
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,319
Speaker 20: you feel me. And so as a man, if you

1150
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 20: make me comfortable, if you my peace, I'm gonna stick

1151
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 20: beside you. But as soon as you throw me off,

1152
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 20: then you gotta slide. And so for men, I feel

1153
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 20: like that's why we are so logical and y'all are

1154
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 20: emotional because y'all act on impults or act on oh damn,

1155
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 20: you made me feel this type of way, So I'm

1156
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 20: about to go do this. But as a man, it's

1157
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,359
Speaker 20: like you made me feel this type of way. Does

1158
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 20: this really affect me? If it don't affect how I move,

1159
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 20: how I make my money, then fuck it. I'm gonna

1160
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 20: stick besides you, and I'm gonna do what I gotta

1161
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 20: do because you my peace, and that's what I stick beside.

1162
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 20: So as a man, it's like you mine. I'm gonna

1163
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 20: hold you down until you show me that I don't

1164
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 20: need to do that no more, and then I'm gonna

1165
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:03,359
Speaker 20: go do my thing.

1166
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 4: Well, I never got caught, so nobody never felt no

1167
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 4: certain type of way. His emotions was intact. I was

1168
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 4: at home, weint on him at six am, and he

1169
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 4: ain't never know I got in at five. So guess what,

1170
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 4: I never got caught. Better, You never gonna feel no

1171
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 4: certain type of way. You ain't gonna feel crazy or nothing.

1172
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 4: All right, just putting that out.

1173
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 6: There, period.

1174
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: Hey, let me ask you all a question.

1175
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 13: Hold on, hold it down right, quick, life, hold it

1176
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 13: down right quick? Okay, go ahead, I'm gonna ask you

1177
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 13: all a question.

1178
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:40,479
Speaker 3: Do y'all think women do y'all think men should cater

1179
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 3: to all your emotions.

1180
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 6: No, I don't think he should cater to all of

1181
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 6: our emotions, but I think that he should acknowledge that

1182
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 6: I am having an emotion.

1183
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 3: But what if you just emotional? Motherfucker every day? So

1184
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 3: I put the knowledge it every day?

1185
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 4: Like when you say emotional every ding something wrong?

1186
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 2: It's pitched again? Now she got a problem like that?

1187
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 2: Like what what's wrong with her today?

1188
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 4: That?

1189
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 2: Like like that?

1190
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 7: Cash?

1191
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:11,240
Speaker 3: Should I always every day?

1192
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 6: Well, it depends if you if you see she has

1193
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 6: a problem and you ain't never check on her. The

1194
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 6: first day she had a problem, Well guess what. The

1195
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 6: next day she's gonna have a problem. For the day

1196
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 6: after that, she's gonna have a problem. Is she gonna

1197
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 6: have a problem unless.

1198
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 4: You ask her what the problem? Sometimes women do that.

1199
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 6: They gonna be mad as hell all the way up

1200
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 6: until you be like, baby, what's wrong?

1201
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 2: So you're gonna create all these issues and expect your man.

1202
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 4: Issues. Y'all gotta understand that women come on issues. Niggas

1203
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 4: come on issues every day.

1204
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 2: Is not.

1205
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 4: Niggas come with y'all got baby mamas want to call

1206
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 4: in the middle of the night, y'all want to then

1207
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,760
Speaker 4: sleep with the dancers, y'all sleep with the nursing.

1208
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 13: No that we we like that look so look real

1209
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 13: dope conversation. We got one more. She wanted to address

1210
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 13: the pannel after that, and we're getting ready. That way

1211
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 13: we can close us on out.

1212
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 4: Hold on, go ahead, okay, I want to.

1213
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 18: Oh so let's start back from the beginning. I think

1214
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 18: we got the characteristics and what they do naturally as

1215
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 18: a person, and you can avoid a lot of this

1216
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 18: ship Like a lot of the stuff is like immature

1217
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 18: that y'all talking about, Like, oh, address this emotion and

1218
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 18: that like you're supposed to already know that from your parents.

1219
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 18: That's what your mother is for. She's an example for

1220
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 18: you as the wife. Your father is an example as.

1221
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 4: A no no no no.

1222
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 2: No no.

1223
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 11: No.

1224
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 4: But guess what you man come with most of the emotions.

1225
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 4: So that means but most of y'all ain't had no mama.

1226
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 4: I've but people that ain't had no mama, they started

1227
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 4: taking care of the South at twelve.

1228
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 3: Let me ask you question, do y'all really want the

1229
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 3: truth or a lot you could believe the truth?

1230
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 12: I want the truth. Okay, We're going to the truth.

1231
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 3: That's cap Thank you, baby, thank you, queen.

1232
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: No real truth.

1233
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 4: You can truth, but you have to live in reality.

1234
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 6: You gotta open up your big ass eyes and see

1235
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 6: what the fuck going on and realize that motherfuckers out

1236
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 6: here is fucked up. Okay, they grew up and they

1237
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 6: grew up with no mama, and they grew up with

1238
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 6: no daddy, And you're trying to tell me just because

1239
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 6: they ain't have no mamma and no daddy and what's

1240
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 6: saw to how to be raised as an individual, that

1241
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 6: they don't deserve no love. And they fell in love

1242
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 6: with you, and you're supposed to just be like, I'm

1243
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 6: good on buddy, because he don't know how to love

1244
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 6: you properly. No, because if I love you, I'm gonna

1245
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 6: I'm gonna deal with that bullshit, that that trauma that

1246
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 6: you came then I'm gonna try to help you figure

1247
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 6: it out.

1248
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: That man. I think.

1249
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 3: I think, really, man, I think really the best relationships

1250
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 3: it's the nigga who can tell the best lies.

1251
00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 2: Man, because you tell the truth truth like the truth

1252
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 2: cheth truth.

1253
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 4: Thank you crazy hell well truth.

1254
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 12: Truth.

1255
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: She gonna be motherfucking mind.

1256
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: Man.

1257
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 4: I agree with you, though I agree. Watch your talk

1258
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 4: some of the best relationships are because the women have

1259
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 4: been lied to the best because I know some of

1260
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 4: those people and they have no idea that their husbands

1261
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 4: do what they do because their husbands make sure that

1262
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 4: they don't find out. But I just feel like, don't

1263
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 4: let me find out. But also I prefer you to

1264
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 4: tell me the truth because I don't want to have

1265
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 4: to go to the clinic and get appeal every goddamn

1266
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 4: thirty days. I gotta take the rest of my life

1267
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 4: because you out here doing some whole ship. Let me

1268
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 4: decide what I'm going to do with my motherfucking life.

1269
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 4: And that is the problem with these men that want

1270
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 4: to keep lying to you. And I have homegirls that

1271
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 4: now got ship that they can't fucking get rid of

1272
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 4: because a nigga want to lie. And that's when you

1273
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 4: get your motherfucking head blown off.

1274
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 2: The truth damn.

1275
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 4: Okay, I give you then and figure it out, Okay.

1276
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 3: But we just sat there and say you that's the

1277
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 3: case every woman should use coming with every man, because

1278
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 3: every woman.

1279
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 2: Says like it's contradicting. I can't here, you can't hear

1280
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 2: what they're saying on the panel. Hold it down, hold on,

1281
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 2: Hold on one second. Y'all. Hold up, Hold up, Okay.

1282
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying this is contradicting though, like we saying,

1283
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 3: especially in ALLOUTA. You meet a dude at this big

1284
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 3: old age were at right now and he having most

1285
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 3: you think he got hold And when I meet you today,

1286
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 3: offen to get rid of all my whole. Just go ahead,

1287
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 3: you're gonna get rid of like if you're good enough,

1288
01:00:58,680 --> 01:00:59,959
Speaker 3: you're gonna get rid of the little strack.

1289
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 4: No she what she's said and asking you to get

1290
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 4: rid of all your whole.

1291
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 12: We're not making clear that you got hold.

1292
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 4: Just don't lie.

1293
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 2: How am I line? When you the reason why you

1294
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 2: wanted me? Because I am?

1295
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 21: Hold up, don't nobody won't nobody that nobody else don't

1296
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 21: want bank. That's okay, And it's a shortage on these

1297
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 21: kind of niggas.

1298
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 6: Listen, talk about it. Man, What you mean bank? Not

1299
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 6: the problem that you got holes. It's a problem that

1300
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 6: you meet a girl. I know you don't, but I'm

1301
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 6: just saying what the problem is you meet the girl.

1302
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 6: The problem is is that the man who has holes

1303
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 6: meets the girl who he really want, Like he might

1304
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 6: just want her to fuck her, right, but he has

1305
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 6: to tell her exactly what he needs to tell her

1306
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 6: to fuck her.

1307
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 4: So now you're gonna tell I ain't got no hold.

1308
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 3: I don't understand that. You ain't gotta tell the women

1309
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 3: ship they going. You ain't gotta tell them ship there

1310
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 3: Like we had a conversation after we fucked, like, so

1311
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 3: you in a relationship.

1312
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 2: Like this, be real man Like, I don't get to

1313
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 2: know you till I fuck to you.

1314
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 3: That's what's sucking it up, be falling us first, you

1315
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.

1316
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 2: We we got them for about a month straight. Now

1317
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to know you know what all?

1318
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 2: You like this bitch man like? We don't we what

1319
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 2: not compatible?

1320
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 3: We don't agree on ship but you already now you're

1321
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 3: already into something.

1322
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 4: But see that's that's but that's why I don't operate

1323
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 4: like but you but as women, you bank has a

1324
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 4: balid point. Women everybody been with a man before they

1325
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 4: get to know that man. And so what I that's

1326
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 4: the thing one thing that I will not do. I

1327
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 4: will go my last long term relations ship. I didn't

1328
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 4: sleep with him for four months, but I allowed him

1329
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 4: to sleep with whoever. I used to post on Instagram

1330
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 4: like Oh, he left me in the hotel for twelve

1331
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 4: hours because he wanted to go get a dig suck,

1332
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:11,439
Speaker 4: but he always came back. And I knew I wasn't

1333
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 4: providing the service. So I can't tell you don't get

1334
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 4: the service if I'm not willing to provide it. But

1335
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 4: I made him get to know me first. I made

1336
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 4: him tell me all kinds of things about him, and

1337
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 4: him know things about me, and he he always tell

1338
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 4: people like I just wanted to fuck the bitch, but

1339
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 4: she made me get to know her, and then I

1340
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 4: liked her. Dude, after I fucked, I tried to get

1341
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 4: rid of Did you miss her?

1342
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 2: Alright? What you think about that?

1343
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 12: Which part? What we talking? Anything? Go back to your point,

1344
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:42,959
Speaker 12: say what you just said.

1345
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 2: My point was I really kind of forgot what I said.

1346
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 12: Oh you said no no no no no no no no.

1347
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:48,919
Speaker 4: No no what you said?

1348
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 12: You said, you're getting to know a bitch?

1349
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 4: Y'all? Fuck?

1350
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 12: Why are you waiting until after you know her to try.

1351
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 3: To get it know at It ain't no man, listen, bro,

1352
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 3: I ain't talking about me personally, I'm saying in general,

1353
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 3: and we all.

1354
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,439
Speaker 2: Know people just can't to be truthful. Man, I'm sick

1355
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 2: of y'all.

1356
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 3: You meet a motherfucker, man, women, men, whoever, you know,

1357
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 3: if you're gonna give her, get him some pussy of

1358
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 3: if he you're gonna suck her. You already know that

1359
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 3: when you first meet a person. I always tell that

1360
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 3: when I first if I was single. I'm just speaking hypothetic.

1361
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 3: I see a woman, I'm not thinking about. Nothing goes

1362
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 3: on with her. Besides I want.

1363
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 2: To sleep with her. That's just anyway. Anyway, that's because

1364
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 2: it's the first thing.

1365
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 3: Is physical attraction, right, So that's that's gonna be like damn.

1366
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 2: I kind of like that.

1367
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm thinking about off the rip, I

1368
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: ain't thinking about can she read?

1369
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 4: You read?

1370
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 2: If your asspact? You think I can? If you can read, okay,

1371
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:56,600
Speaker 2: we'll figure that later this ship.

1372
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 4: Hen why.

1373
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: You she can't? She can't read? She can suck men

1374
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 2: big yeah, yeah, that count.

1375
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 4: She could count. She don't gotta read, but she knows

1376
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 4: her number. No but you.

1377
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 6: But you gotta beware though, because there are some crazy

1378
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 6: ass bitches out here that you can fuck and don't

1379
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 6: know nothing about her unless you know. Now she's stalking you.

1380
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 6: Now she's doing some all types of crazy ship. You

1381
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like you have Like when I'm saying,

1382
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 6: as a woman, if you just gonna suck a girl,

1383
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 6: like let her know what's going on, if you got

1384
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 6: a situation, let her know, if you just trying to.

1385
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 4: Suck her, let her know.

1386
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,680
Speaker 6: And everybody scared because it's like, oh, if I say something,

1387
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 6: she may not be willing to fuck. But let her

1388
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 6: make that decision because then you're gonna ultimately fuck yourself up.

1389
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 4: Now she's pulling up on you, and you're like, damn, bitch.

1390
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 2: I'm about to say, that's how to make good decisions.

1391
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:49,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put this.

1392
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 11: It's not even that serious, like, yeah, I got a

1393
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:54,520
Speaker 11: girl that I'm already fucking.

1394
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 6: That you fucking if you have a situation, you have.

1395
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 11: A situation that they got ship to do with you.

1396
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 3: Most men, and I'm gonna put this claim out there

1397
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 3: for men, most men be actually thinking they like the

1398
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 3: women at first.

1399
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 6: It's crazy.

1400
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 11: I don't believe what they do until they shows, until.

1401
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 3: Their mask come off. Because everybody come in a relationship

1402
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 3: with a mask on.

1403
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't give a fuck who you is.

1404
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 3: You not pulling up your regular self first day shout

1405
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 3: and I start seeing late on in life and how

1406
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 3: you really? How you really?

1407
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. I still like you.

1408
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 6: Because you had a mask on, but like you just

1409
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 6: think somebody just gone.

1410
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 3: Like that's how you're gonna get authentic, your authentic self, though,

1411
01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna get your authentic person when you draw the

1412
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 3: line this who I am time.

1413
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 4: I think that it takes time.

1414
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 3: To If it takes time, are you mad at me?

1415
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,439
Speaker 3: Because I don't like when you show me you. I'm saying,

1416
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 3: like a woman to say a nigga didn't because she

1417
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 3: waited six months down the line he finally found out

1418
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 3: who she was.

1419
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 2: He'd be like, Bro, I can't deal with this. How's

1420
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 2: he wrong?

1421
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 12: He's not.

1422
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 2: I wasn't even dating you.

1423
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 4: He's not wrong.

1424
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 3: That's what happens most of the time. But niggas don't

1425
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 3: even know that. I just cracked the cold to night.

1426
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 3: Niggas don't even know that what to be. He don't

1427
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 3: know how to say it. But I really like her brother,

1428
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 3: But I don't know what it is.

1429
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. No, you don't, Bro, you

1430
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 2: don't like her.

1431
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 11: That's the truth, though, bro, like you most of these

1432
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 11: people be me and these people bro having six day

1433
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 11: all the good ship in.

1434
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 3: The beginning, you know what I'm saying, the butterflies, and

1435
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 3: she looked good. She got by some eight good outfits.

1436
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 3: She don't want somem eight good bags.

1437
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 4: She don't know.

1438
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 3: Now this shit started. Now she gotta repeat this ship.

1439
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 3: I've seen that jacket before.

1440
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 2: I see that. You try to reap it. You try

1441
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 2: to you know what I'm saying, And it ain't what

1442
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 2: you said it was, so we both was lying.

1443
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 4: If she did not she didn't want eighteen good outfits.

1444
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 4: You and slider jacket in y'all ain't nigga to the

1445
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 4: mall or nothing to get a little sweater at that point,

1446
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 4: because if you and seen me eight or ten times,

1447
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 4: that's over a month of good out Okay, But when

1448
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 4: I got when I when I have to buy that sweater,

1449
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 4: that would make me feel a way like that ship together.

1450
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:16,600
Speaker 4: So you really just at that point at that point.

1451
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 3: If you will from the man, one more question, y'all

1452
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 3: before we go. It's a dude wrong for acting like

1453
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 3: he got money when you know, all women that's all

1454
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 3: they want your hero.

1455
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 2: Listen, we're from a town of Vaness's I don't.

1456
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 3: I don't blame them niggas because these niggas ain't got

1457
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 3: no money. They can't get no plussy, they can't get

1458
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 3: no woman. So are you mad at the nigga for

1459
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 3: fortraying he got money trying to get game?

1460
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 2: It's a game. We both playing the game, right.

1461
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 4: What's the guy? Hold on? Wait?

1462
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:56,200
Speaker 6: What is the woman pretending to have? So the men

1463
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 6: pretending to have money, what's she pretending to have?

1464
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: The woman is pretending to be uh, what do you say?

1465
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 2: A nourisher? Because she really not.

1466
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 4: You don't give a fuck about her being a nurse.

1467
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 3: She pretended she got six, but she really don't. She

1468
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 3: pretended a lot in the beginning that mask so my mask,

1469
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 3: kids don't really oma what did some that? We're both lying.

1470
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 4: But let me tell you something. If you broke your

1471
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 4: dick shouldn't even be able to get hold Like if

1472
01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 4: you ain't got nothing to offer and your ship together,

1473
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 4: God should be like limb dick.

1474
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 2: The hardest I'm trying to fuck up on something.

1475
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 6: She you're talking about, say that I was just about it.

1476
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:47,719
Speaker 3: You motherfucker can't do that, but it's all I got.

1477
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 13: It work, So bank Cocho for waiting no more has

1478
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:54,480
Speaker 13: has something for you?

1479
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 2: A Coco? What's up?

1480
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 4: Thank you know?

1481
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 1: I love you?

1482
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 2: Right?

1483
01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:59,799
Speaker 4: You sound and real. You're making men.

1484
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:02,719
Speaker 22: Sound real selfish, right because at the end of the day,

1485
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 22: like when it comes to being truthful about stuff like

1486
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 22: if you got you got hold, Like like they said, women,

1487
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:09,680
Speaker 22: we're gonna fuck you if we want to fuck you,

1488
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 22: regardless of what we're gonna do it, you can tell

1489
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:12,560
Speaker 22: me on it.

1490
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:13,639
Speaker 2: For what you tell me.

1491
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 22: You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be mad for

1492
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,080
Speaker 22: a minute. But if I want to fuck.

1493
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm a fuck. You understand what you're saying.

1494
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 22: So what happens is when y'all lying, like when guys

1495
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 22: lie to us.

1496
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 4: Going back to her question.

1497
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 22: Just acting No, not just the money, the fucking bitches,

1498
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 22: all kinds of stuff like anything a man is lying for,

1499
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 22: Like you don't want to tell us because you're scared

1500
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,040
Speaker 22: you're gonna lose, not scared, whatever the reason is, you're

1501
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 22: not being honest about what you're doing. When they were

1502
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,680
Speaker 22: talking about you know, men messing around, like tell me

1503
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 22: the truth. I'm like, you should now tell me the truth.

1504
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:44,679
Speaker 22: You know what I'm saying. Let me let me, give

1505
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,680
Speaker 22: me the choice to choose what I want to deal with.

1506
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 22: You know you don't tell the truth. Why because you

1507
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:50,760
Speaker 22: don't want to lose the bit.

1508
01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm gonna tell the truth.

1509
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 22: But look, it's going back to her when she was

1510
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 22: she was asking, why do men have to come in

1511
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 22: the door trying to build us up and make us

1512
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 22: feel away? And the reason a lot of times is

1513
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 22: because we are fucked up from previous niggas.

1514
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 4: Doing shit like that.

1515
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 22: So we guarded all of us fucked up niggas come

1516
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 22: into relationships fucked up too, you know what I'm saying.

1517
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 22: And y'all, y'all don't come in as y'all true self.

1518
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 22: We not coming there and fully hear everybody fucked up.

1519
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 22: So at the end of the day, you got it,

1520
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 22: like she was saying, like it's all chot. We all

1521
01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:23,560
Speaker 22: gotta learn if you fuck with somebody, this who you

1522
01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 22: want to be your person, whatever you gonna go through

1523
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 22: whatever with that person, you're gonna be honest with that person.

1524
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 22: But if you not shit, you gonna get what she

1525
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 22: was saying, you gonna keep fucking up people.

1526
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:35,000
Speaker 4: They going into relationships guarded.

1527
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,839
Speaker 2: I agree with that coda that what you got.

1528
01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:39,760
Speaker 11: Nah, I was about to say, it just depends on

1529
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 11: the on the degree of fucked up because your your

1530
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 11: shit burnt down. I ain't finna goddamn bill this whole

1531
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 11: house up. You feel me, I'm not about like your shit.

1532
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 11: If your shit fucked up.

1533
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1534
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 11: It's too much to deal with because it's gonna be.

1535
01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 11: It's another woman that's Justine Stein that's not as fucked up.

1536
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 11: So why am I put up with your ship that

1537
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 11: another nigga did when I'm trying to build or I'm

1538
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 11: gonna live nothing to it another nigga actually affect my house?

1539
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: You feel me? But it's so many see the thing

1540
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:04,640
Speaker 2: about it.

1541
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 3: And then, like you said, it may do sound selfish,

1542
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 3: and you're right, but I'm just speaking for I ain't

1543
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 3: speaking for the dudes that y'all pick over, you know

1544
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It's a lot of dudes out there

1545
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 3: that that y'all speak up, but y'all don't like them.

1546
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 3: Y'all want to go fuck with the niggas who you

1547
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 3: know it ain't ship and think you're gonna make them that.

1548
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 2: And then when he turned that girl just talking about

1549
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:22,639
Speaker 2: this nigga he want to say no more.

1550
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 3: If you if you could convince your nigga to beat

1551
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:26,679
Speaker 3: the nigga that's in your mind.

1552
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:29,759
Speaker 2: You not gonna like him. I guarantee you that I agree.

1553
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:31,839
Speaker 2: If you could convince your.

1554
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 3: Nigga to go for half of the ship, that damn

1555
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 3: he can go for this joke. Yeah, none, you turn

1556
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:40,720
Speaker 3: it to you ain't got no spine. I know a

1557
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 3: bunch of good dudes out here, man that's really looking

1558
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 3: for wise like this is a good man, got a

1559
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 3: shit together, but he can't found him. Got the money,

1560
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,599
Speaker 3: got everything, but brouh, I ain't fuck with the whole bro.

1561
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 4: Five O four three three eight having what a man

1562
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:56,719
Speaker 4: in a back?

1563
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 3: No, but I'm just keeping it real. How many men

1564
01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 3: you y'all know, Like I know a lot of dudes,

1565
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:03,800
Speaker 3: be like, Bank, I want to be married, bro, I

1566
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 3: want to have kids. I want to do all that, Bro.

1567
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:07,560
Speaker 3: But it's just like I got to move out of

1568
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 3: Atlanta or something.

1569
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 6: And women feel the same exact way. Huh, women feel

1570
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 6: the same way.

1571
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 13: All right, So real quick, she got another question for you, Bank,

1572
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 13: and then we're gonna move on to the left.

1573
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 5: Right.

1574
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 18: I wanted to answer your question when he was like

1575
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 18: it's okay for man to like fines or I'm from

1576
01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 18: Atlanta too, So it depends on finis becuz.

1577
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 12: Hood nigga for this and green nigga for thiss is different.

1578
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:35,839
Speaker 18: Like hood nigga, he can not have real money, legal money.

1579
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 4: He gonna make that shit happen for you. So if that.

1580
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:41,440
Speaker 18: Nigga like you enough, he'ple can bill gatesmorrow.

1581
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 3: Nah facts, what's the green nigga for this nigga who

1582
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 3: got damn staying that mama ain't got.

1583
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 4: Now he's sweet. Anybody can get over him.

1584
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 18: That's the tricks the nigga that like they give his

1585
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 18: money out, but he really going to work a regular job.

1586
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 2: That ain't no getting finished. He getting he's getting into it.

1587
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, hold on, No, she just made a point.

1588
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 3: She said, leading with the money, right, I hate, she said,

1589
01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:10,719
Speaker 3: leading with the money, dudess, leading with money.

1590
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 2: I'm old school. I'm a South nigga.

1591
01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 3: We you know, we believe in You know what I'm saying,

1592
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,679
Speaker 3: put in my pocket, give me something.

1593
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 2: I'm down there trying to get two bringing some food.

1594
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. I ain't tell you I'm going to

1595
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 2: give your money back.

1596
01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 3: I'm that kind of nigga, I'm trying to see if

1597
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:26,440
Speaker 3: you we if we partners.

1598
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's on your south side Atlanta.

1599
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 2: One we don't know, like so oh for sure. Shout

1600
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 2: out to the woman that feed.

1601
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 11: Niggas about your last night.

1602
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 3: She said, you can't if a dude lead with his money.

1603
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 3: Man most of the time, he finished, cause nigga ain't

1604
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 3: trying to get nobody.

1605
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 6: Most dudes money anyway.

1606
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 5: But this is you need to give the what you

1607
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:09,560
Speaker 5: said or something right because of those things.

1608
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 2: They're literally leading.

1609
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 4: You lead with your money.

1610
01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 15: You put up like you know, we know too many

1611
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 15: people that work all week to make it look like

1612
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 15: they're doing something on the weekend.

1613
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 2: Right.

1614
01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 4: But if you led with that and you're mad, then now.

1615
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 15: This girl has aectations of these things from.

1616
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:28,400
Speaker 4: You who you really mad at because you.

1617
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 15: You start and then this is the thing, try to

1618
01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 15: with your money, and then a second she asks you

1619
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:37,799
Speaker 15: for some second she said, hey, this is because my nigga, that's.

1620
01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 2: What you had.

1621
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 15: You You being mad at her sound stupid because you

1622
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 15: put out bait to catch what you was fishing for

1623
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,600
Speaker 15: total versus the women who actually ain't doing none of

1624
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 15: those things. And would like to have a high value

1625
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 15: man that kind of got this, you know, not kind

1626
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 15: of really got their stuff together.

1627
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:53,840
Speaker 2: But most of them don't.

1628
01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 15: But what happens is that, I mean, you not looking

1629
01:15:56,880 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 15: at her. She don't like the dime. And I'm gonna

1630
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 15: say this, but this is the truth. Most of the

1631
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:06,360
Speaker 15: people that you're really looking for, you the upgrade for them,

1632
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 15: and not just financially. I'm saying you're the upgrade for

1633
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 15: them to want life to be different.

1634
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 4: That's that's the part we be looking at her.

1635
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 15: I was like, oh, well, you know, yeah, she c man,

1636
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 15: you know, she don't do this, this and that. Well

1637
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 15: I guess what if she had somebody that was willing

1638
01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 15: gonna pay for her to get her time into a cup,

1639
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 15: breast lifted her booty, none and.

1640
01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:25,800
Speaker 4: All of those things.

1641
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 2: Guess what she gonna be lowyal to you.

1642
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 15: She gonna graise your children, She's gonna do all of

1643
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 15: these things.

1644
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:30,559
Speaker 2: You don't want to.

1645
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 15: Fix nobody, but you want to be fixed, like I

1646
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 15: think I'm.

1647
01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:41,719
Speaker 2: Gonna fix my all right, all right, so look y'all,

1648
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 2: we do all snapped out. So look, look, go with

1649
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:46,600
Speaker 2: the last question of the night. It is the we

1650
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 2: got an election coming up.

1651
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 13: So here's this question, right, do men and women make

1652
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 13: decisions differently under pressure?

1653
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:54,720
Speaker 2: How should this be valued in leadership?

1654
01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:59,440
Speaker 13: Let's go with do men and women make decisions differently

1655
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:04,080
Speaker 13: under and if so, how should this be value leadership?

1656
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 2: We'll start with you, Kodak.

1657
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 11: I do believe men and women make decisions under pressure differently.

1658
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 11: I believe politically is different than like socially. So like

1659
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 11: we're talking about if we only got fifty dollars, then

1660
01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:20,599
Speaker 11: we need to figure out which bill need to get

1661
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 11: paid first. That's different. Then you know, if we're gonna bomb,

1662
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:28,280
Speaker 11: I ran or some shit. But it just it is different.

1663
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:31,720
Speaker 11: It is different. I feel like just being in clutch situations.

1664
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 11: That's why a lot of times, that's why the man

1665
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 11: is the leader in of the house in most situations,

1666
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,479
Speaker 11: in most traditional senses, the man is gonna lead because

1667
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:42,559
Speaker 11: he can make better decisions in that moment. Now, I

1668
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:50,160
Speaker 11: do believe in a successful family unit, then a positive

1669
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 11: decision can be made with the input of women because

1670
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 11: you can see something from a different perspective, then I'm

1671
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 11: gonna see it and that's gonna help make the best

1672
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 11: decision because I mean again, I work with Jojo, so

1673
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 11: it's almost like we do make some of these decisions.

1674
01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 11: I'd be like, fuck them folks all the time, and

1675
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:08,559
Speaker 11: Joe's were like, well, no, we can't say fuck them

1676
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 11: folks because that's your boss. And so whereas I would

1677
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:19,679
Speaker 11: be very brutish in the situation, she will come with tack.

1678
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:21,600
Speaker 11: Like I think a perfect example like last week with

1679
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 11: the homecoming, I'm like, fuck it, put everybody in the room,

1680
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:26,439
Speaker 11: we're gonna put them together. JoJo's like, no, we're gonna

1681
01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 11: get a list, we're gonna put it together, we're gonna

1682
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 11: call names off. And I'm like, you're right. I wouldn't

1683
01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 11: even thought to do it like that, even though it

1684
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:37,719
Speaker 11: sounds like some simple ship, simple shit to do. Whereas

1685
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 11: in the beginning I did say niggas is slow, I'm niggas.

1686
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 6: You stupid.

1687
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 2: Joe.

1688
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that.

1689
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 6: When you say under pressure, I think that women me

1690
01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:06,200
Speaker 6: who's that? I think women make good decisions under pressure.

1691
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:11,120
Speaker 6: I think that we can think rationally and we know

1692
01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:15,479
Speaker 6: how to dig into that emotional side as well, which

1693
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:19,840
Speaker 6: is something that most men can't do. Like most men

1694
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 6: are gonna go straight, business straight, corporate straight. This is

1695
01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 6: what we need to do, and they're gonna like try

1696
01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:28,760
Speaker 6: to like grab the dick a little bit too, you

1697
01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:30,639
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. So it's just like, but as

1698
01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 6: a woman, she can she can go in with with

1699
01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 6: elegance and she can literally diffuse a situation better than

1700
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 6: a man. I feel like, with a simple smile for real,

1701
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:45,360
Speaker 6: it's all to take because y'all niggas so easy.

1702
01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, go ahead, bank. Uh what question?

1703
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:58,799
Speaker 13: Do men and women under pressure?

1704
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 2: Thank you? Men and women make decisions better under pressure?

1705
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 2: It depends. It depends on what type of decision on

1706
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 2: I feel like if it's it's situational, we're talking about

1707
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 2: familiar decisions.

1708
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 3: Like it's like business relationship, what what type of decision?

1709
01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 2: Damn?

1710
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 6: Underpressure?

1711
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:20,320
Speaker 13: Anything under pressure? So somebody come up in here right now.

1712
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:24,000
Speaker 13: Who who's gonna react calmly? A man or woman?

1713
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:27,439
Speaker 3: I think a man gonna add more calm than a woman,

1714
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 3: but some women be calm though. It depends on what

1715
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:31,599
Speaker 3: the man coming in here doing. He coming in here

1716
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 3: with waving a gun, they gonna panic and run out

1717
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:34,920
Speaker 3: from that.

1718
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 13: He coming in on it, that's the right decision, huh,

1719
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 13: he coming in on that? So who's gonna who's gonna

1720
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 13: act calmly underressure? Wh're gona get us out of here

1721
01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 13: the way we need to get out of here.

1722
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:46,760
Speaker 2: It's left up to the man, right for that.

1723
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 5: Well, that's different I think honestly men, because women, a

1724
01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:54,879
Speaker 5: lot of times we react based on the emotion, thank you,

1725
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 5: So if we're being honest, So if if somebody came

1726
01:20:57,840 --> 01:20:59,720
Speaker 5: in here waving a gun, I think, you know, men

1727
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:02,080
Speaker 5: will be to control the situation a little better and

1728
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 5: we might panic a little more because that's just how

1729
01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 5: we handle situations. So just naturally, I do think men

1730
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:11,320
Speaker 5: are better leaders and they react better under pressure. But again,

1731
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 5: like you said, it depends on what pressure we're talking about.

1732
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:17,799
Speaker 5: We at the house political okay, if we're talking business

1733
01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:20,760
Speaker 5: and it's a little different, we're talking about the household.

1734
01:21:20,920 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 5: We know women kind of we handle the kids a

1735
01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 5: little different. We handle kids a little better. So it

1736
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 5: just depends on what kind of pressure we talking about.

1737
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:28,519
Speaker 2: Exactly.

1738
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 11: I think if a guy came in here with a gun,

1739
01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:33,360
Speaker 11: I think that falls under the protector the protect the umbrellas.

1740
01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 11: So men, I feel like would probably handle that situation.

1741
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:45,680
Speaker 3: But I'm running out back, Nah, but I feel like,

1742
01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 3: I guess that's the Kamala Harris And that's a Kamala

1743
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 3: Harris question basically, like what she if her dude pissed off?

1744
01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 2: What she got? Damn wake up and bomb someone? Correct?

1745
01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 2: I believe so, Chanelle, what you think you? I know,

1746
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 2: if my.

1747
01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 3: Wife was the president and I pissed off, everybody gotta go.

1748
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 6: No, I don't think so.

1749
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:13,240
Speaker 4: I don't know. You know, see, I hate to talk

1750
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 4: about like political stuff like that's not really just like

1751
01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:20,120
Speaker 4: my my thing that I prefer to talk about. And

1752
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:25,280
Speaker 4: I believe men should be the leaders in my personal opinion,

1753
01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:28,560
Speaker 4: I'm I mean, I'm not gonna talk about who I

1754
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 4: voted for or whatever. But you know, in a situation

1755
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 4: where if it's in business under pressure, I think women

1756
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:41,599
Speaker 4: will help you make a clearer decision. But women are

1757
01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 4: very emotional, so I don't I think she can help

1758
01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:49,639
Speaker 4: you make the best decision when two when the two

1759
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 4: come together, I don't think it's a standalone situation. I

1760
01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 4: think if it's me and you in a room and

1761
01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 4: it's some pressure, we gonna figure out how to make

1762
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 4: this make sense. The same way he just kind of

1763
01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 4: said with them in business, they was discussing something he

1764
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:08,880
Speaker 4: had one way, and Jojo simply came, well, no, what's

1765
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:11,839
Speaker 4: Gorna doing like that? And ultimately it was her helping

1766
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 4: him as a collective, so it was a team. Yeah.

1767
01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 6: So ultimately you might listen to the man like if

1768
01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 6: it's too in a situation, you'd be like, okay, what

1769
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 6: we're gonna do? Goddamn? And he said now we're gonna

1770
01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:23,679
Speaker 6: blow this ship up, he'd be like, whoa hold on, Now,

1771
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 6: we can't do that, but this is what it's gonna

1772
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:29,080
Speaker 6: cause it's gonna happen from this is gonna this. I

1773
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 6: think about that, and that's what we.

1774
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 11: Like more rational, right, but also to like count of that,

1775
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:38,720
Speaker 11: sometimes the ship needs to get blown up too.

1776
01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 6: And then if he say that and he's like, nah,

1777
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 6: but this ship really needs to get blown up, and

1778
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:44,719
Speaker 6: I'll be like, blow that ship up.

1779
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 11: Baby, cause like today I told you what I told you,

1780
01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 11: You text me that ship today, I like, shit, fuck

1781
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 11: she folk that ship.

1782
01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:58,559
Speaker 3: More al the story, man, I don't think I could

1783
01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 3: be a man without a woman at the bottom line.

1784
01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 3: So however, whatever we love y'all, but still y'all, I'm

1785
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:14,320
Speaker 3: at all right real quick, yo, what let me say this.

1786
01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 3: Let me say this right here. Do women tell their

1787
01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:24,559
Speaker 3: friends when they tripping? Please answer that, yes, okay, all right,

1788
01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:26,479
Speaker 3: all right, all right, that's a good question.

1789
01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:31,679
Speaker 2: But do you come around this dude with her acting

1790
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:32,679
Speaker 2: like she wasn't tripping?

1791
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:35,880
Speaker 8: No, huh.

1792
01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 3: So listen if you if you was tripping, right, we

1793
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:41,679
Speaker 3: was in a relationship and you was tripping. I feel

1794
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:44,280
Speaker 3: like me you was into it, and she told you

1795
01:24:44,320 --> 01:24:46,679
Speaker 3: in the car that you was wrong. She not finna

1796
01:24:46,760 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 3: let me know that she told you. She let me

1797
01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:49,799
Speaker 3: know that you're.

1798
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:54,559
Speaker 4: Wrong, my friend, She's gonna tell me.

1799
01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:57,200
Speaker 2: And and you're not gonna go on me that you're

1800
01:24:57,240 --> 01:24:57,760
Speaker 2: wrong either.

1801
01:24:57,920 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 4: Well, I'm a geminized I'm gonna just come make it better.

1802
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:02,599
Speaker 4: But I'm not really gonna apologize all the time. I'm

1803
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:04,719
Speaker 4: just gonna come try to figure out how to fix

1804
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:07,680
Speaker 4: it without the actual apology. You know, Gemini is a

1805
01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:08,480
Speaker 4: little crazy.

1806
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 6: Well why does it matter if her friends too?

1807
01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:11,800
Speaker 2: Not tell me?

1808
01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, just say fencing, Like, when a

1809
01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:18,080
Speaker 3: woman is right, you know, they got to be right

1810
01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:22,599
Speaker 3: for a whole year about that one thing. So I'm

1811
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:26,040
Speaker 3: always right about everything. When I'm right one time, and

1812
01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:27,360
Speaker 3: it's intuition ship?

1813
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:33,519
Speaker 2: How how accurate do y'all think intuition is? So?

1814
01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 3: Why ask me then? If you already know some ship

1815
01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:39,600
Speaker 3: and you thought of it, why ask me?

1816
01:25:39,720 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 11: Hold hello, bank, hold on? If the intuition is that accurate,

1817
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:48,360
Speaker 11: why y'all keep running in to the niggas?

1818
01:25:48,520 --> 01:25:49,040
Speaker 2: Thank you?

1819
01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 4: Because you guess what you are?

1820
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 2: Hold now we're cooking. Now we're cooking.

1821
01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:59,280
Speaker 15: No, you already found could But guess what a lot.

1822
01:25:59,120 --> 01:26:01,880
Speaker 4: Of women want to see if they can't figure out

1823
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:02,559
Speaker 4: how to.

1824
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:04,320
Speaker 12: Change change exactly.

1825
01:26:04,439 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 4: They already know you're fucked up, but they like, I'm

1826
01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:13,120
Speaker 4: gonna fuck this ship out of him. I'm gonna change

1827
01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 4: so you think.

1828
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:17,519
Speaker 3: So you should be mad at you pussy cause your

1829
01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 3: pussy can't change this man.

1830
01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:22,639
Speaker 4: Pussy get lonely too, like the little dicks get lonely.

1831
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, she said, women feel as if though

1832
01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:32,160
Speaker 3: around she can find meet you today, and you drink beer.

1833
01:26:33,640 --> 01:26:35,880
Speaker 3: I don't like beer, though, girl. She's telling a friend

1834
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:37,799
Speaker 3: to leave, but it now he's gonna be a fucking

1835
01:26:37,840 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 3: beer drinker for the rest of his life. But you

1836
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:42,960
Speaker 3: thinking I can love him enough and then I can

1837
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:44,840
Speaker 3: say it in a way he'll stop drinking beer.

1838
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 2: That never happens.

1839
01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:49,640
Speaker 3: You gotta ask yourself if I can I live and

1840
01:26:49,680 --> 01:26:51,879
Speaker 3: love this person if he don't change nothing.

1841
01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:52,719
Speaker 2: About him forever.

1842
01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:53,720
Speaker 6: The problem is.

1843
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 2: That's what you gotta do. That's how you pick your partner. Man.

1844
01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:58,240
Speaker 3: You look at a person up and down? Can I

1845
01:26:58,280 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 3: love this person just like this?

1846
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 2: With el? Anything you do extra after that is extra?

1847
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:04,920
Speaker 4: I agree?

1848
01:27:05,600 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 3: But come on, I get plad of mic please. Somebody

1849
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:12,759
Speaker 3: get blad of mic. Better, get plaud of mic please.

1850
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:16,800
Speaker 4: But let me tell you before she say something. The

1851
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:20,639
Speaker 4: issue is this, you don't get to meet that person

1852
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:24,479
Speaker 4: because everybody lying in the beginning. That's so you getting

1853
01:27:24,479 --> 01:27:27,240
Speaker 4: down the line. Ain't nine months, nigga, finest you for

1854
01:27:27,240 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 4: a whole year?

1855
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 2: How intuition intuition package that ship is one hundred percent?

1856
01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:39,120
Speaker 1: What the.

1857
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:42,559
Speaker 2: Broke that intuition broke?

1858
01:27:42,640 --> 01:27:45,879
Speaker 4: And just be lying percon accurate.

1859
01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:47,920
Speaker 15: I just said on thousand percent.

1860
01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 6: Say that I said it's a thousand percent accurate? Are

1861
01:27:52,200 --> 01:27:53,160
Speaker 6: you sure did?

1862
01:27:55,120 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 2: Don't be lying intuition? No, no, no, don't.

1863
01:27:58,280 --> 01:28:00,280
Speaker 4: Lie and say that you're gonna stop drinking beer.

1864
01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 2: Don't.

1865
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:04,320
Speaker 6: This is where when she comes into play. No, no, no,

1866
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:06,000
Speaker 6: this is where the intuition come into play. It's like, Okay,

1867
01:28:06,080 --> 01:28:08,040
Speaker 6: I'm drinking beer and I'm dealing with this nigga whos

1868
01:28:08,080 --> 01:28:09,880
Speaker 6: drinking beer? Are We'll leave him, girl, he ain't gonna

1869
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 6: stop drinking beer. Yeah, but he told me that he

1870
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:12,759
Speaker 6: was gonna stop.

1871
01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:14,679
Speaker 4: Like, I trust him. I know he gonna stop.

1872
01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:16,559
Speaker 2: I was gonna try. I'm addicted.

1873
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 6: No, but listen, but you keep doing it and keep

1874
01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:20,000
Speaker 6: doing it, but you lie about it.

1875
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:21,680
Speaker 4: That's where then t wish you keep coming in.

1876
01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:24,639
Speaker 6: You like, I know this nigga drinking this fucking beer.

1877
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:27,519
Speaker 3: But if we having a conversation and I tell you

1878
01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:31,240
Speaker 3: stop cutting me off, stop cutting me off, women all say, well,

1879
01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:33,720
Speaker 3: that's just I'm just I'm sorry. I don't be trying

1880
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:37,080
Speaker 3: to do it on purpose. I'm understand everything that goes

1881
01:28:37,120 --> 01:28:40,000
Speaker 3: on with a woman. A man has to understand. But

1882
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:42,280
Speaker 3: when a dude got a defect about him, it's.

1883
01:28:42,280 --> 01:28:45,720
Speaker 2: It's like change it. No, change it, brother, It's not

1884
01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:48,400
Speaker 2: hold up. You can I can say.

1885
01:28:47,560 --> 01:28:52,960
Speaker 3: It, don't come it. Everything that I say that I

1886
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:55,160
Speaker 3: don't like about you as a woman, you'd be like

1887
01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:59,599
Speaker 3: except me for who I am, absolutely and everything that you.

1888
01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:02,839
Speaker 2: Say you like me. That's which is everything.

1889
01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:05,640
Speaker 3: I gotta fit, I gotta be like, I need to go,

1890
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 3: I need to change for my baby.

1891
01:29:07,479 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 2: But it's huh, go ahead.

1892
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 15: The intuition thing is true, it is it don't lie

1893
01:29:14,240 --> 01:29:18,160
Speaker 15: to us. We lie to ourselfs because our intuition will

1894
01:29:18,200 --> 01:29:20,680
Speaker 15: have already told us exactly.

1895
01:29:20,200 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 4: What it was.

1896
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 15: And then we'll say, okay, I heard this, because can

1897
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:28,400
Speaker 15: I just be honest? And most of the time we

1898
01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:31,120
Speaker 15: don't trust ourselves. We know our intuition be right, but

1899
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 15: we don't trust ourselves because we did pick the last

1900
01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:34,880
Speaker 15: that didn't do right.

1901
01:29:35,280 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 6: Trust him. We're not trusting ourselves trying to trust him right.

1902
01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:39,960
Speaker 2: We're trying.

1903
01:29:40,160 --> 01:29:42,840
Speaker 15: We're trying to get past our trust issues right. So

1904
01:29:43,120 --> 01:29:46,000
Speaker 15: that's how we are rationalized with our intuition. And then

1905
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:49,040
Speaker 15: the sad part is is that's why what they say

1906
01:29:49,400 --> 01:29:50,200
Speaker 15: hindsight is.

1907
01:29:50,120 --> 01:29:53,360
Speaker 4: Twenty twenty made me feel like this was some is off.

1908
01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:57,800
Speaker 15: That's something that's off, was off before you had says

1909
01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:00,000
Speaker 15: and still kept doing it. But this is the thing

1910
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,320
Speaker 15: that don't mean her intuition wasn't right. That means she

1911
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:08,440
Speaker 15: didn't trust herself enough and that.

1912
01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:10,120
Speaker 2: I gotta guy, hold hold on, hold on, So I.

1913
01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 3: Gotta be the fall guy because you know that your

1914
01:30:12,439 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 3: intuition one hundred percent correct. But you went against yourself

1915
01:30:15,400 --> 01:30:18,240
Speaker 3: for a nigga that you know you already know because God,

1916
01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:19,760
Speaker 3: whoever the intuition.

1917
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,880
Speaker 2: They told you, So you you mad?

1918
01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:28,519
Speaker 4: You yess what? Yes? What you feeling?

1919
01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:31,320
Speaker 2: Hold on listen? But that's but that's not I'm like,

1920
01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:32,200
Speaker 2: but that's how a woman.

1921
01:30:32,320 --> 01:30:36,839
Speaker 3: That's how woman remains bitter because she's not accusing the mirror.

1922
01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:39,439
Speaker 3: She gotta be like, hey, man, you knew that ship

1923
01:30:39,560 --> 01:30:41,479
Speaker 3: was wrong. You knew it from the beginning. Nigga was

1924
01:30:41,479 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 3: a fuck nigga bro eat that.

1925
01:30:43,400 --> 01:30:46,680
Speaker 4: But to the next day the intuition might be right,

1926
01:30:46,760 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 4: but guess what some of you niggas be coming fucking

1927
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 4: the ship out of us, God damn it. And sometimes

1928
01:30:52,160 --> 01:30:55,080
Speaker 4: and then the one that's gonna do your right, this

1929
01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:57,559
Speaker 4: big and the one that's gonna do your wrong, did

1930
01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:00,200
Speaker 4: this big beating up beating that thing.

1931
01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:01,719
Speaker 2: So tell what I'm saying.

1932
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:04,880
Speaker 4: So sometimes we know you ain't shit, we know you

1933
01:31:05,000 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 4: ain't right, but that thing is thanking, So we be like, girl,

1934
01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 4: he gonna change, Girl.

1935
01:31:10,000 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 11: He gonna listen, what what what you what you're talking about?

1936
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:17,480
Speaker 2: That's not but that's not intuition. That is hindsight.

1937
01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:19,840
Speaker 11: Of course, it's easy to say you made the right

1938
01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:22,360
Speaker 11: decision after you realize you made the wrong decision.

1939
01:31:23,439 --> 01:31:24,439
Speaker 4: You was already wrong.

1940
01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 2: You picked, you picked it.

1941
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:27,519
Speaker 6: It's not that.

1942
01:31:32,400 --> 01:31:32,679
Speaker 2: Listen.

1943
01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:38,599
Speaker 11: Yeah, no, no, I understand what you said. Hold bank,

1944
01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:40,559
Speaker 11: I play, I play. I play a lot of fantasy

1945
01:31:40,560 --> 01:31:42,879
Speaker 11: football this year. Right, So if I start a quarterback

1946
01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 11: and I'm like, man, he ain't gonna be shipped, but

1947
01:31:45,120 --> 01:31:46,840
Speaker 11: let me put him in. Let me start him this week,

1948
01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:48,320
Speaker 11: he throw four interceptions.

1949
01:31:48,479 --> 01:31:50,200
Speaker 2: She I already knew, but you know what that was.

1950
01:31:50,240 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 11: That's not intuition, that's hindsight because I didn't go with

1951
01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:54,439
Speaker 11: the thought that I knew was right.

1952
01:31:54,720 --> 01:32:00,679
Speaker 2: I kept that nigga in there. No, man, don't understand.

1953
01:32:00,720 --> 01:32:02,479
Speaker 2: I just it's just way.

1954
01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:07,400
Speaker 4: We had somebody over there. I want to talk the top.

1955
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:10,080
Speaker 4: Just stop lying, bro, what's the lie?

1956
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:11,360
Speaker 2: Bro? Hold up? Hold up?

1957
01:32:11,439 --> 01:32:15,599
Speaker 3: HELDO heard women say, why did you say that nigga?

1958
01:32:15,640 --> 01:32:17,599
Speaker 3: Like I ain't saying nothing, Well, why you do it

1959
01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:18,280
Speaker 3: to me like that.

1960
01:32:19,920 --> 01:32:21,920
Speaker 2: Fish? That's how I do it.

1961
01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:24,880
Speaker 4: That's a lie.

1962
01:32:25,080 --> 01:32:27,760
Speaker 3: What you mean if a nigga basically what she just said,

1963
01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:30,559
Speaker 3: if a nigga ain't gotta say nothing. He just treats

1964
01:32:30,600 --> 01:32:33,160
Speaker 3: you how you want to be treated and fuck you

1965
01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:35,320
Speaker 3: how you want to be fucked tomorrow When that nigga

1966
01:32:35,360 --> 01:32:37,400
Speaker 3: don't answer whatever he's doing, he could be being s

1967
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:41,439
Speaker 3: for real. Now it's like you tripping, like flipping out.

1968
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 3: She thinking, she flipping out because you don't win ghosts.

1969
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:44,880
Speaker 2: Ain't went got they by being business.

1970
01:32:45,120 --> 01:32:49,000
Speaker 3: You know this, okay, but then you're you're concoct the

1971
01:32:49,040 --> 01:32:52,160
Speaker 3: whole move in your head that now you calling me

1972
01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:54,120
Speaker 3: and you shifting our energy that it wasn't even.

1973
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:57,959
Speaker 4: That that's them. He switched up my intuition.

1974
01:32:59,520 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 6: I know what the fuck you doing If I'm sucking

1975
01:33:01,040 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 6: with a nigga like and I'm a and I'm accusing

1976
01:33:03,479 --> 01:33:06,519
Speaker 6: him for about something, I already know what's going on.

1977
01:33:06,760 --> 01:33:09,559
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna say something if I don't know what's

1978
01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:14,679
Speaker 6: going on. Us as women, we gonna know.

1979
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:15,080
Speaker 4: No, knowing that we're gonna have to say something.

1980
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 6: We're no.

1981
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 3: No, you don't know ship if you knew that, and

1982
01:33:20,200 --> 01:33:23,040
Speaker 3: you'll know a lottery number, like if women can catch

1983
01:33:23,280 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 3: what you're doing, no, like a woman fucker need.

1984
01:33:27,200 --> 01:33:28,639
Speaker 2: A house, A motherfucker tell you a second.

1985
01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 3: You're probably stopped by the store right there and got

1986
01:33:30,479 --> 01:33:31,840
Speaker 3: your rubbles and you went down there.

1987
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:34,360
Speaker 2: I know it. You're probably that's a lot you need.

1988
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:35,720
Speaker 6: God damn, that's a lot.

1989
01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:37,920
Speaker 4: That's a lot.

1990
01:33:38,439 --> 01:33:41,839
Speaker 2: If you could come up, you got a whole movie.

1991
01:33:43,120 --> 01:33:44,320
Speaker 2: And women really believe that.

1992
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 3: I'd have seen women sit around and think of something

1993
01:33:47,080 --> 01:33:50,160
Speaker 3: in their pestimistic mind and be for real mad at

1994
01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:53,120
Speaker 3: you about some ship that you ain't even.

1995
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:55,920
Speaker 6: I don't know nothing about that. Yeah, that's some different ship.

1996
01:33:56,040 --> 01:33:58,599
Speaker 6: That's most like if you around somebody for a long.

1997
01:33:58,439 --> 01:33:59,280
Speaker 2: Ass, it's most of them.

1998
01:33:59,320 --> 01:34:01,680
Speaker 3: Because some women out of relationships and nigga, you can

1999
01:34:01,760 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 3: suck around the spream Saint cloonne that fuck nigga had on.

2000
01:34:04,160 --> 01:34:07,200
Speaker 21: Now you him, let me ask you this, now you him, let.

2001
01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:07,719
Speaker 6: Me ask you a questions.

2002
01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:10,360
Speaker 2: But they just said everybody's unhealed.

2003
01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:14,360
Speaker 6: Bank huh, bank huh.

2004
01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:15,320
Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question.

2005
01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:15,799
Speaker 8: Go ahead.

2006
01:34:17,400 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 6: Sean says, you know you better than you know yourself.

2007
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:23,040
Speaker 2: Yes, so myself. She knows me.

2008
01:34:23,320 --> 01:34:27,800
Speaker 6: So if you start moving funny and in some off,

2009
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:30,320
Speaker 6: she gonna know it.

2010
01:34:30,520 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 2: Listen you if.

2011
01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 3: Something I'm being off in the past, man, something's gonna

2012
01:34:35,520 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 3: stay off, bro, it's just what it is.

2013
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:38,040
Speaker 2: Once once you.

2014
01:34:38,120 --> 01:34:41,200
Speaker 3: Once, women do not gotta understand. Stop telling niggas you forget,

2015
01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:43,639
Speaker 3: forgave them because you don't answer the question.

2016
01:34:44,439 --> 01:34:44,719
Speaker 2: Huh.

2017
01:34:44,920 --> 01:34:48,479
Speaker 3: If something is off, something's gonna always be off because

2018
01:34:48,520 --> 01:34:51,000
Speaker 3: women have all the emotions just like a just like

2019
01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:54,080
Speaker 3: women do, So something's gonna always be off if I'm

2020
01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:58,000
Speaker 3: not carrying to your feelings in that moment. Regardless, you

2021
01:34:58,080 --> 01:35:00,439
Speaker 3: got a lot of people, got expectations without commit unication.

2022
01:35:01,520 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 2: You could have wanted something to eat, but I don't know.

2023
01:35:03,640 --> 01:35:10,760
Speaker 2: You home it like your wama get mad? Where you at?

2024
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:13,439
Speaker 3: That ship on my arm right here, it plunks against

2025
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:14,599
Speaker 3: against some bank bank.

2026
01:35:15,240 --> 01:35:15,599
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

2027
01:35:17,720 --> 01:35:22,599
Speaker 4: I can't eat. That's a thing. Go bank.

2028
01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 15: That's a thing.

2029
01:35:23,439 --> 01:35:23,880
Speaker 4: That's a thing.

2030
01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 2: You got it.

2031
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:25,120
Speaker 6: You that's a thing.

2032
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:26,080
Speaker 2: What's the thing like?

2033
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:28,880
Speaker 6: You can't go get no food without bringing no food?

2034
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:33,519
Speaker 2: I get it. And let's sitting in my way, sook. Yes,

2035
01:35:33,960 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 2: that's cold, because y'all are it ain't consideration that I

2036
01:35:39,560 --> 01:35:40,679
Speaker 2: make sure you're okay.

2037
01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:43,520
Speaker 3: You're but y'all say I want to protect it provided

2038
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:49,639
Speaker 3: look ug, look uga, but you got to go food

2039
01:35:50,000 --> 01:35:53,120
Speaker 3: and meet with stone and plants and get some food

2040
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:55,400
Speaker 3: and I come back home full.

2041
01:35:56,439 --> 01:35:59,080
Speaker 6: You may get that food bank gonna stress us out

2042
01:35:59,120 --> 01:36:01,040
Speaker 6: bank my food. Get that food.

2043
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:08,439
Speaker 3: Okay, you're supposed to call her actually you want something,

2044
01:36:08,479 --> 01:36:10,439
Speaker 3: But do you know how many times that you do

2045
01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:12,080
Speaker 3: things and you don't call it actually?

2046
01:36:12,320 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 22: Right?

2047
01:36:13,320 --> 01:36:20,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, huh fo different about food, all.

2048
01:36:20,680 --> 01:36:23,120
Speaker 3: Right, I'm just talking about period, man, Dudes supposed to

2049
01:36:23,240 --> 01:36:26,240
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I guess I'm.

2050
01:36:26,080 --> 01:36:28,679
Speaker 2: Not talking the situation. I'm just accent period. Like most women.

2051
01:36:28,760 --> 01:36:31,200
Speaker 3: I have a lot of women women friends that are

2052
01:36:31,240 --> 01:36:33,360
Speaker 3: in here, we have a real conversation with off camera.

2053
01:36:33,439 --> 01:36:35,479
Speaker 2: They be legit, they beat, they beat. You know what

2054
01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:36,519
Speaker 2: I'm saying, saying the truth.

2055
01:36:36,920 --> 01:36:39,160
Speaker 3: Like you can have a friend that's a woman, that's

2056
01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:41,439
Speaker 3: a friend, right, she know all the real ship to

2057
01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 3: me and know when she's not in a relationships. Soon

2058
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:45,280
Speaker 3: as she get in a relationship, you turn into a

2059
01:36:45,320 --> 01:36:47,680
Speaker 3: fuck nigga too, because how dude doing her?

2060
01:36:48,360 --> 01:36:50,639
Speaker 2: Like damn sh you cool lab my little sister.

2061
01:36:51,920 --> 01:36:53,720
Speaker 3: Now you're in a relationship going through the ship that

2062
01:36:53,760 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 3: I'm putting the motherfucker through. Now I'm some bullshit, but

2063
01:36:57,200 --> 01:36:59,760
Speaker 3: you just understood it. When you want in a relationship,

2064
01:36:59,800 --> 01:37:04,880
Speaker 3: that's crazy. Right, huh do that happen? Yes, yes, thank you.

2065
01:37:06,000 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 3: Me and Seaney could be talking about something, she'd be yeah, yeah, man, yeah,

2066
01:37:09,280 --> 01:37:09,840
Speaker 3: you get with it.

2067
01:37:09,960 --> 01:37:11,479
Speaker 2: She get a nigga. She don't understand that.

2068
01:37:11,600 --> 01:37:12,160
Speaker 4: Even a son.

2069
01:37:12,200 --> 01:37:13,960
Speaker 3: I tell my wife this all the time. I hear

2070
01:37:14,000 --> 01:37:16,840
Speaker 3: you telling my kids shit that they shouldn't go forward.

2071
01:37:16,960 --> 01:37:18,960
Speaker 3: They with they girl, But you want me to go

2072
01:37:19,080 --> 01:37:25,760
Speaker 3: for it? You get what I'm saying, Like, oh, nah,

2073
01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 3: she said that she ain't no good, But you don't

2074
01:37:28,040 --> 01:37:28,759
Speaker 3: saying that before.

2075
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:35,080
Speaker 4: It's different, different, different, No.

2076
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 3: Live will been with his girl thirteen years. No, it's

2077
01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:43,360
Speaker 3: not something when the girl down there thirteen years that

2078
01:37:43,479 --> 01:37:45,960
Speaker 3: she ain't the same, That means you know, that means

2079
01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:48,840
Speaker 3: you know, you know, you know you're wrong. Women they

2080
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:51,639
Speaker 3: played and I am just bashing women. I love women

2081
01:37:52,000 --> 01:37:54,679
Speaker 3: once again, especially Black women. I love women with everything

2082
01:37:54,800 --> 01:37:57,200
Speaker 3: in me. But what I'm saying is I get it though,

2083
01:37:57,400 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 3: because I actually talked and asked questions to the people

2084
01:38:00,360 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 3: that I'm not in relationship with, like they get it,

2085
01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:04,720
Speaker 3: but they just don't want.

2086
01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:07,800
Speaker 2: I can't let you know I get it because I

2087
01:38:07,920 --> 01:38:09,799
Speaker 2: might want to run it. Am I tripping?

2088
01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:12,880
Speaker 3: They get everything it is that we're trying to say,

2089
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:15,200
Speaker 3: I see where you're coming from, but I can't see

2090
01:38:15,240 --> 01:38:18,280
Speaker 3: that because it's breaking cold. But but but then they

2091
01:38:18,360 --> 01:38:20,960
Speaker 3: get mad at the niggas they can't pimp. She say,

2092
01:38:21,040 --> 01:38:23,559
Speaker 3: women is the biggest pimp. The niggas they can't pimp.

2093
01:38:23,600 --> 01:38:24,400
Speaker 2: It's sessin.

2094
01:38:28,360 --> 01:38:29,240
Speaker 4: Just is what it is.

2095
01:38:29,800 --> 01:38:32,559
Speaker 15: This shit is nothing new. We do what we want

2096
01:38:32,600 --> 01:38:34,320
Speaker 15: to do, and that's just what it is.

2097
01:38:34,920 --> 01:38:35,519
Speaker 4: The niggas.

2098
01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:41,120
Speaker 15: It's just like y'all putting y'all put in to our pussy. Huh,

2099
01:38:41,160 --> 01:38:44,320
Speaker 15: you just said y'all putting niggas is putting y'all put

2100
01:38:44,400 --> 01:38:46,080
Speaker 15: it to your puss. Because whenever we want you to,

2101
01:38:46,200 --> 01:38:48,600
Speaker 15: y'all do, y'all gonna do it. We move how we

2102
01:38:48,720 --> 01:38:50,800
Speaker 15: want to move because we can move how we want

2103
01:38:50,840 --> 01:38:53,439
Speaker 15: to move because we women. It just is what it is,

2104
01:38:54,840 --> 01:38:57,439
Speaker 15: is what it is. Some women old school shit. We

2105
01:38:57,720 --> 01:38:59,800
Speaker 15: used to the old school shit. We used to women

2106
01:38:59,840 --> 01:39:02,479
Speaker 15: who men who do this, do this, do this, and

2107
01:39:02,560 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 15: do this, and we're trying to bring it to this century.

2108
01:39:04,800 --> 01:39:07,679
Speaker 15: It's just not gonna work like that. I'm old school.

2109
01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:11,360
Speaker 15: I'm nineteen eighty. When I was coming up, we dated

2110
01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:13,720
Speaker 15: niggas who did this, this this in the third, we're

2111
01:39:13,800 --> 01:39:17,160
Speaker 15: trying to brain this shit to this generation and it's

2112
01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 15: just saying what it is. We gotta fine niggas. It's

2113
01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:23,600
Speaker 15: like a search in this generation. The bee, well, we

2114
01:39:23,800 --> 01:39:26,920
Speaker 15: used to a nigga being women know what's going on,

2115
01:39:27,560 --> 01:39:30,840
Speaker 15: and we play to y'all intelligence, y'all fall into it.

2116
01:39:31,000 --> 01:39:31,880
Speaker 4: It is what it is.

2117
01:39:32,280 --> 01:39:35,240
Speaker 15: It's point blank, we're not ignorant. Were not this And

2118
01:39:35,320 --> 01:39:37,439
Speaker 15: in the third we know what's going on.

2119
01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:41,160
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly what.

2120
01:39:41,160 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 15: I'm saying exactly.

2121
01:39:42,600 --> 01:39:43,280
Speaker 2: That's the problem.

2122
01:39:43,520 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 3: That's the problem when you when you when you go

2123
01:39:45,000 --> 01:39:47,719
Speaker 3: to dealing with a nigga who knows like, oh about going.

2124
01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:51,439
Speaker 15: For that exactly because you came up, but you ain't

2125
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:53,559
Speaker 15: that way. You came up in the era we came

2126
01:39:53,680 --> 01:39:56,080
Speaker 15: up in that way back in the day. You ain't shit.

2127
01:39:56,960 --> 01:40:00,360
Speaker 15: You was in the streets. You're a fucking hole. It

2128
01:40:00,439 --> 01:40:04,040
Speaker 15: took you twenty years to say, Hey, I'm finna whoo

2129
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:06,559
Speaker 15: whoo whoop, and I'm finna be this type of man.

2130
01:40:06,840 --> 01:40:08,960
Speaker 15: Forget what your woman stayed down with this shit because

2131
01:40:09,000 --> 01:40:12,120
Speaker 15: that's what she chose to do. You been, you been,

2132
01:40:12,400 --> 01:40:15,559
Speaker 15: nigga's been not nothing. Twenty fifteen ten.

2133
01:40:17,720 --> 01:40:18,080
Speaker 2: Craving.

2134
01:40:18,160 --> 01:40:21,720
Speaker 15: I'm saying it's shooting. I'm saying it took you to

2135
01:40:21,880 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 15: change when you was ready to change, and because she

2136
01:40:24,600 --> 01:40:27,800
Speaker 15: stayed down with you, that says, see it ain't it.

2137
01:40:28,200 --> 01:40:32,360
Speaker 15: This is not rocket science. The relationship shit really getting

2138
01:40:32,360 --> 01:40:35,120
Speaker 15: on my nerves to be honest, because this shit not

2139
01:40:35,280 --> 01:40:37,320
Speaker 15: rocket science. You either gonna fuck with who you wanna

2140
01:40:37,360 --> 01:40:39,720
Speaker 15: fuck with when you get spiritual, when you get to

2141
01:40:39,800 --> 01:40:42,639
Speaker 15: a certain level and when you start elevating, you attract

2142
01:40:42,680 --> 01:40:45,280
Speaker 15: a certain type of different nigga. Carry plant blank. We're

2143
01:40:45,320 --> 01:40:47,320
Speaker 15: gonna fuck with a low life nigga who ain't got

2144
01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:49,800
Speaker 15: shit going on. When you get to this level, you're

2145
01:40:49,800 --> 01:40:51,560
Speaker 15: gonna fuck with a nigga who got this going on.

2146
01:40:51,680 --> 01:40:54,080
Speaker 15: When you get to that level, you're gonna fuck with

2147
01:40:54,120 --> 01:40:56,439
Speaker 15: who got going on. When you get to a spiritual level,

2148
01:40:56,720 --> 01:40:58,439
Speaker 15: you're gonna do this and you're gonna fuck with that

2149
01:40:58,520 --> 01:41:00,320
Speaker 15: type of nigga. When you get to a spiritual level.

2150
01:41:00,360 --> 01:41:02,360
Speaker 15: Now you tied, you tied to this type of nigga.

2151
01:41:02,360 --> 01:41:03,960
Speaker 15: You tie this type of nigga. Use tied this type

2152
01:41:03,960 --> 01:41:06,120
Speaker 15: of nigga, and then you're gonna fuck with what you

2153
01:41:06,280 --> 01:41:08,600
Speaker 15: feel like it's in your element. When you get to

2154
01:41:08,640 --> 01:41:10,599
Speaker 15: when you level up, it's different level city.

2155
01:41:10,680 --> 01:41:10,920
Speaker 4: Shit.

2156
01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 15: We fuck with different niggas at different experiences in our lives.

2157
01:41:15,520 --> 01:41:18,519
Speaker 15: Whatever we're going through, whatever traumatic experiences. A lot of

2158
01:41:18,640 --> 01:41:21,160
Speaker 15: us didn't have Mama's dadd it is. We out in

2159
01:41:21,240 --> 01:41:23,160
Speaker 15: the street this and in the third day, out in

2160
01:41:23,200 --> 01:41:26,400
Speaker 15: the street, So we fuck with what we know. When

2161
01:41:26,439 --> 01:41:28,639
Speaker 15: we get to that mental level where we have grown

2162
01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:32,280
Speaker 15: spiritually and mentally, then we start dealing with people that's

2163
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:34,600
Speaker 15: on our level that elevate us and put us in

2164
01:41:34,680 --> 01:41:38,559
Speaker 15: a position. This relationship. Shit, it's not difficult. It's very

2165
01:41:38,720 --> 01:41:41,320
Speaker 15: simple shit, very simple facts.

2166
01:41:41,479 --> 01:41:44,560
Speaker 3: He let me ask y'all something. Do y'all feel Do

2167
01:41:44,680 --> 01:41:48,680
Speaker 3: y'all feel like it's not? But I feel like if

2168
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:51,599
Speaker 3: it was easy, it wouldn't work. If it was easy

2169
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 3: to be with somebody that ain't your person, Bro, it

2170
01:41:53,439 --> 01:41:56,160
Speaker 3: ain't gonna be easy, bro, that's I think that's what.

2171
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:58,400
Speaker 3: That's the miscommunication. A lot of people think they gonna

2172
01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:00,640
Speaker 3: get in a relationship and it's gonna be easy. You

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, You ain't gonna you ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: go through nothing. That never happens. I agree that never

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Speaker 3: happened because.

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Speaker 6: You got to deal with something, though, like how long you're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna deal with something? For the shit you're gonna deal

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01:42:11,840 --> 01:42:15,920
Speaker 2: with something forever? Relationship you said, that's a lot you

2179
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Speaker 2: ain't dealing with something with you.

2180
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:21,360
Speaker 3: There's plenty things he don't like about you, just don't

2181
01:42:21,360 --> 01:42:22,639
Speaker 3: say it because you don't want to hurt your finish.

2182
01:42:22,640 --> 01:42:24,000
Speaker 4: It's plenty things why you just don't care.

2183
01:42:24,880 --> 01:42:26,080
Speaker 3: He just don't say it because he don't want to

2184
01:42:26,120 --> 01:42:27,560
Speaker 3: hurt your finish, and they can run you all the

2185
01:42:27,600 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 3: way down. I'm pretty sure if I if I, if

2186
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:34,280
Speaker 3: I still around a person for more than a day,

2187
01:42:34,479 --> 01:42:36,800
Speaker 3: I can find every flaw that I want to find

2188
01:42:36,880 --> 01:42:38,320
Speaker 3: in that person because everybody got flawed.

2189
01:42:39,120 --> 01:42:41,439
Speaker 2: I can find something about everybody in the world that

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01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:42,120
Speaker 2: I don't like.

2191
01:42:42,160 --> 01:42:46,120
Speaker 3: Because we're different. So, but women feel like they gotta

2192
01:42:46,200 --> 01:42:48,360
Speaker 3: point out every little thing. So once you do that,

2193
01:42:48,479 --> 01:42:50,479
Speaker 3: you're basically showing me how you see me and how

2194
01:42:50,560 --> 01:42:52,639
Speaker 3: do you how do you want to want my respect?

2195
01:42:52,720 --> 01:42:56,000
Speaker 2: When I see you see me this way? Are you crazy?

2196
01:42:56,479 --> 01:42:58,400
Speaker 3: You better try to keep that ship to yourself or leave,

2197
01:42:58,640 --> 01:43:00,439
Speaker 3: because once you're done showed me who you see me.

2198
01:43:00,680 --> 01:43:03,519
Speaker 3: Ass that's how that i'ma I'm gonna I'm gonna beat that.

2199
01:43:03,640 --> 01:43:07,120
Speaker 3: Damn there in a shadow? Am my tripping? If you

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01:43:07,280 --> 01:43:10,040
Speaker 3: if you come out your mouth and tell me I

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01:43:10,160 --> 01:43:13,639
Speaker 3: see you as a no good ass nigga, you can't

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01:43:13,720 --> 01:43:15,760
Speaker 3: change that because that's how you see me.

2203
01:43:16,200 --> 01:43:18,160
Speaker 2: You can say little things to let me know. That's

2204
01:43:18,320 --> 01:43:20,080
Speaker 2: because because because because if if you ask.

2205
01:43:20,120 --> 01:43:22,360
Speaker 3: Me something like damn that you are you fucking that girl?

2206
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:25,679
Speaker 3: And if I'd be like hell no or hell yeah, whatever,

2207
01:43:26,080 --> 01:43:28,600
Speaker 3: But if I'm not and I'm really not, and I

2208
01:43:28,720 --> 01:43:31,200
Speaker 3: feel like, damn, that's how you see me a nigga,

2209
01:43:31,200 --> 01:43:35,040
Speaker 3: that'll do that whatever whatever it is. So I'm not

2210
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:38,000
Speaker 3: in my eyes, I mean in my heart, I'm not who.

2211
01:43:40,280 --> 01:43:41,600
Speaker 3: You don't see me the way I want you to

2212
01:43:41,680 --> 01:43:44,840
Speaker 3: see me? So how can I really respect you or

2213
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:45,639
Speaker 3: love you properly?

2214
01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:49,160
Speaker 6: But what if you said that you're not fucking her

2215
01:43:49,240 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 6: and you is? Now how am I supposed to move.

2216
01:43:51,479 --> 01:43:53,600
Speaker 3: If i'm If I if I lie, then ship you

2217
01:43:53,680 --> 01:43:55,800
Speaker 3: probably see me like that. That's who That's who I am.

2218
01:43:56,240 --> 01:43:58,280
Speaker 3: I'm saying if if if.

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01:43:57,760 --> 01:43:59,960
Speaker 2: You do some ship and see me in a way

2220
01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:02,479
Speaker 2: that I am not, that just goes against my morals.

2221
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:05,200
Speaker 2: How do you see me?

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01:44:05,280 --> 01:44:07,000
Speaker 3: How can I How can you tell me you love me?

2223
01:44:07,320 --> 01:44:09,920
Speaker 3: How can you tell me you're you're for me? Because

2224
01:44:09,960 --> 01:44:11,640
Speaker 3: I know how I would feel if I looked at

2225
01:44:11,640 --> 01:44:12,320
Speaker 3: a person that way.

2226
01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 4: But most times bank women don't just come off and

2227
01:44:15,200 --> 01:44:18,000
Speaker 4: see you as no fuck ass nigga. Most times it's

2228
01:44:18,080 --> 01:44:21,320
Speaker 4: because you done did some bullshit to them for them to.

2229
01:44:21,439 --> 01:44:22,280
Speaker 19: See you as that.

2230
01:44:22,680 --> 01:44:23,760
Speaker 4: I am not gonna.

2231
01:44:25,600 --> 01:44:27,080
Speaker 2: Leave. Who finna go through that every day?

2232
01:44:27,160 --> 01:44:36,559
Speaker 3: But Gus, if you can't deal with it, don't try

2233
01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:38,760
Speaker 3: to act like you're don't try to hold up. Please

2234
01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:40,840
Speaker 3: let me get this off. Don't try to act as

2235
01:44:40,960 --> 01:44:43,280
Speaker 3: if though you're over something. Just say, baby, it's gonna

2236
01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:45,760
Speaker 3: take time. I'm trying to deal with this. Don't try

2237
01:44:45,800 --> 01:44:47,519
Speaker 3: to act like you over something. And then we argue

2238
01:44:47,520 --> 01:44:51,880
Speaker 3: about uh, who gonna uh why ain't come pump your

2239
01:44:51,920 --> 01:44:53,560
Speaker 3: gas when that ain't the argument. We're arguing about the

2240
01:44:53,560 --> 01:44:56,400
Speaker 3: ship that you're not heal from. But you don't know

2241
01:44:56,439 --> 01:44:58,400
Speaker 3: how you tell you told me that you over it,

2242
01:44:58,520 --> 01:45:00,360
Speaker 3: so you can't bring that ship back up. So now

2243
01:45:00,439 --> 01:45:03,200
Speaker 3: we just have a little nick picked bullshit about about

2244
01:45:03,320 --> 01:45:04,080
Speaker 3: that same ship.

2245
01:45:04,479 --> 01:45:11,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know, a little therapy, don't hurt little therapy.

2246
01:45:11,520 --> 01:45:14,600
Speaker 4: Sit down with the mediator. You know, that's what therapists

2247
01:45:14,600 --> 01:45:16,040
Speaker 4: are you.

2248
01:45:16,160 --> 01:45:18,840
Speaker 3: But but most women, bro, I went to therapy before

2249
01:45:19,479 --> 01:45:21,920
Speaker 3: told the therapy. She knows she was talking about. You know,

2250
01:45:22,040 --> 01:45:24,479
Speaker 3: most women, if you don't take their side, they don't

2251
01:45:24,479 --> 01:45:25,840
Speaker 3: want to hear. They ain't up on their friends. I

2252
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:26,920
Speaker 3: don't want to he that she's stupid.

2253
01:45:27,360 --> 01:45:28,519
Speaker 4: I wanna talk about stupid.

2254
01:45:28,560 --> 01:45:31,160
Speaker 2: Should I find that one friend that's gonna be my life?

2255
01:45:32,439 --> 01:45:35,400
Speaker 2: I ain't stupid, and I'm the one not tripping. Am

2256
01:45:35,439 --> 01:45:35,920
Speaker 2: I tripping?

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01:45:36,439 --> 01:45:36,479
Speaker 13: No?

2258
01:45:37,000 --> 01:45:39,200
Speaker 3: You don't even call you don't even call the homegirl

2259
01:45:39,240 --> 01:45:40,880
Speaker 3: who you know gonna check you when you wanna be

2260
01:45:41,000 --> 01:45:43,720
Speaker 3: right tonight? I want to be right tonight. I ain't

2261
01:45:43,760 --> 01:45:46,599
Speaker 3: calling it bitch, she's stupid. She don't know she gonna

2262
01:45:46,640 --> 01:45:48,360
Speaker 3: say she gonna always on the niggas side. But now

2263
01:45:48,479 --> 01:45:52,640
Speaker 3: she telling you the truth? Yeah, m hm, you I

2264
01:45:52,760 --> 01:45:54,560
Speaker 3: need to say, girl, he called me a bitch, but

2265
01:45:54,680 --> 01:45:55,439
Speaker 3: you left out.

2266
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 2: The part of what you said.

2267
01:45:59,000 --> 01:46:00,519
Speaker 4: I want to know what I'm wrong. Tell me?

2268
01:46:01,920 --> 01:46:02,560
Speaker 2: Can you take it?

2269
01:46:02,640 --> 01:46:02,800
Speaker 3: Though?

2270
01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:05,599
Speaker 4: I can, and it don't matter if I could take

2271
01:46:05,600 --> 01:46:05,800
Speaker 4: it or not.

2272
01:46:05,960 --> 01:46:06,360
Speaker 2: Just tell me.

2273
01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:10,960
Speaker 3: But some dudes, and some dudes don't want to. Most

2274
01:46:11,040 --> 01:46:13,720
Speaker 3: dudes want to stay out of the caddy shit. So

2275
01:46:13,840 --> 01:46:15,680
Speaker 3: if I know what type of girl I got and

2276
01:46:15,720 --> 01:46:17,280
Speaker 3: what type of attitude she got, I know what I

2277
01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:18,760
Speaker 3: can say and what I could bring to her without

2278
01:46:18,760 --> 01:46:21,920
Speaker 3: her getting offended. So things going smooth. I ain't finna

2279
01:46:21,960 --> 01:46:25,759
Speaker 3: offend you like a woman can. Things to be going smooth.

2280
01:46:25,760 --> 01:46:28,320
Speaker 3: And you could just disrupt this ship. Damn they were

2281
01:46:28,400 --> 01:46:36,000
Speaker 3: just doing good for thirty minutes. Yea disrupt the piece

2282
01:46:36,080 --> 01:46:36,559
Speaker 3: for nothing.

2283
01:46:36,680 --> 01:46:40,040
Speaker 4: But her piece might get disrupted, but she'll come back down.

2284
01:46:40,240 --> 01:46:42,519
Speaker 2: Nah, baby, because at the end of the day, I can.

2285
01:46:42,760 --> 01:46:44,920
Speaker 3: I can get over this because I don't want you

2286
01:46:45,040 --> 01:46:46,960
Speaker 3: to feel I can tell you in a way to

2287
01:46:47,080 --> 01:46:49,439
Speaker 3: let you know I didn't like that, or I didn't before.

2288
01:46:49,479 --> 01:46:51,760
Speaker 2: I just talk at you.

2289
01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:55,120
Speaker 3: Most women don't like that you say certain thing in them. Hey,

2290
01:46:55,120 --> 01:46:57,280
Speaker 3: you ain't my dad, and now you're controlling. But this

2291
01:46:57,479 --> 01:46:58,720
Speaker 3: is what I want to I want to tell you this.

2292
01:46:58,760 --> 01:47:01,680
Speaker 3: I don't know how else to express myself to say, Hey,

2293
01:47:01,680 --> 01:47:03,000
Speaker 3: I don't like that ship, don't do that.

2294
01:47:03,439 --> 01:47:04,880
Speaker 2: Why are you talking to me like that? I don't know.

2295
01:47:05,360 --> 01:47:08,280
Speaker 3: So how do you do Either Either you're too aggressive

2296
01:47:09,080 --> 01:47:10,800
Speaker 3: or you emotional withdrawing.

2297
01:47:12,800 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 2: Either controller or your emotional with drawings. That's no middle.

2298
01:47:16,360 --> 01:47:18,519
Speaker 4: What do you do? I don't know.

2299
01:47:18,640 --> 01:47:20,280
Speaker 3: I feel like if I just let you have it

2300
01:47:20,600 --> 01:47:23,479
Speaker 3: like ship, bab yeah babe, yeah yeah. So you're just

2301
01:47:23,520 --> 01:47:24,679
Speaker 3: gonna dismiss the conversation.

2302
01:47:25,120 --> 01:47:27,200
Speaker 4: You ain't gonna say nothing. That's the problem.

2303
01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:28,960
Speaker 12: Say nothing. That's a line.

2304
01:47:29,360 --> 01:47:32,240
Speaker 3: But if i'm if I'm backing forth with you now

2305
01:47:32,280 --> 01:47:33,880
Speaker 3: you're looking at me like I sound like a bitch

2306
01:47:35,960 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 3: nigga always. But they say, we gotta wrap it up, man,

2307
01:47:38,200 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 3: we can do this ship all night.

2308
01:47:39,320 --> 01:47:39,479
Speaker 4: Man.

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01:47:40,640 --> 01:47:42,400
Speaker 7: I appreciate y'all. Y'all had a good time. I know

2310
01:47:42,479 --> 01:47:50,320
Speaker 7: we're talking in circles. Yeah, shanel what we're doing, y'all listen.

2311
01:47:50,479 --> 01:47:53,799
Speaker 7: We're doing this again next month in a different state. Okay,

2312
01:47:54,280 --> 01:47:57,320
Speaker 7: so make sure y'all pay attention. This thing about to

2313
01:47:57,400 --> 01:47:57,760
Speaker 7: be big.

2314
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Speaker 4: Okay. We appreciate you guys coming to make sure you

2315
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Speaker 4: watch the episode and post it on your instagrams, into

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Speaker 4: into stories all that great stuff, and tell them bank

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Speaker 4: perspectives with bankers.

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Speaker 2: Now we let are y'all here. Y'all got your last words.

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01:48:16,000 --> 01:48:19,320
Speaker 5: Look, I appreciate y'all coming out listening to us. We're

2320
01:48:19,320 --> 01:48:21,200
Speaker 5: gonna do this a little bit more. But again, I

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Speaker 5: appreciate y'all shassa model, follow me, connect with me. I'm

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01:48:25,040 --> 01:48:27,679
Speaker 5: trying to connect with everybody a little bit more. And so, yeah,

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01:48:28,960 --> 01:48:29,719
Speaker 5: I had a good time.

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01:48:30,240 --> 01:48:33,439
Speaker 6: You know, everybody always y'all, even though y'all had a

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01:48:33,479 --> 01:48:35,120
Speaker 6: whole bunch of shit to say about everything I had

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01:48:35,160 --> 01:48:35,360
Speaker 6: to say.

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01:48:35,439 --> 01:48:36,400
Speaker 4: But it is what it is.

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Speaker 6: But follow me on social media underscore Jojo alonzo j

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Speaker 6: O j.

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Speaker 18: O A L O N.

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Speaker 2: And so I thought you said you working on that

2332
01:48:43,560 --> 01:48:46,080
Speaker 2: ship though Jojo work I am.

2333
01:48:46,280 --> 01:48:47,000
Speaker 12: I just talked shit.

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01:48:47,600 --> 01:48:52,719
Speaker 2: You look crazy. You know you'll look crazy. Yeah, okay,

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01:48:52,840 --> 01:48:57,920
Speaker 2: that's good. That's good. That's the first step. Yeah, yeah,

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01:48:59,800 --> 01:49:02,120
Speaker 2: this was cool. This is cool. I'm a little high

2337
01:49:02,320 --> 01:49:06,320
Speaker 2: right now. I feel good. A lot of high. Speak

2338
01:49:06,360 --> 01:49:10,800
Speaker 2: up a little bit Kodak. Yeah, uh nah, this is cool.

2339
01:49:11,320 --> 01:49:11,960
Speaker 2: This is cool.

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01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:16,080
Speaker 11: I feel good right now. Happy Friday, y'all. Follow me

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Speaker 11: on Instagram, Big on me, call y'all. Tune into our

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Speaker 11: show on the radio ninety six point one to beat

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Speaker 11: Joge on Big Homie Show, seven pm the midnight mo

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Speaker 11: Day through Thursday.

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01:49:24,479 --> 01:49:26,800
Speaker 2: You're supposed to say that, I know, I know, I

2346
01:49:27,000 --> 01:49:27,720
Speaker 2: know you have to.

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Speaker 3: I want to give a shout out to uh to

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Speaker 3: Anderson man, y'all give give a handclup dog and he.

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Speaker 2: And nah real set Jones. I love you court Stone,

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Speaker 2: I love y'all.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate y'all perspective with Bank and Seaniel live, We

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Speaker 3: live very much.

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Speaker 2: I wish I had Blair talking, but she didn't want

2354
01:49:50,280 --> 01:49:51,840
Speaker 2: saying that. You bet that shoot birds at me.

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Speaker 4: And one more thing, y'all. I a book that comes

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Speaker 4: I have a book for release party tomorrow. So follow

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Speaker 4: is where it's at the place called Benk and Bougie

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Speaker 4: right off of Howard Meal. But if y'all follow me

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Speaker 4: on Instagram Seanelle Knard, that's s h A U n

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Speaker 4: E l l k E n n A r D.

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Speaker 4: I know that's real long. But tomorrow is from seven

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Speaker 4: to nine. We're doing it big. We're talking about the

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Speaker 4: book and I mean Amazon number one.

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Speaker 12: Seller, a.

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Speaker 2: Right grin now.

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Speaker 3: We really appreciate y'all. Man, Thank y'all again. Man, And

2369
01:50:33,800 --> 01:50:36,240
Speaker 3: for the record, I wouldn't be a man without a woman.

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01:50:36,439 --> 01:50:39,000
Speaker 3: So that's just what it is we love women. We're

2371
01:50:39,040 --> 01:50:40,960
Speaker 3: not bias. We're just trying to understand each other and

2372
01:50:41,080 --> 01:50:44,200
Speaker 3: really trying to just say something that might spark y'all mind,

2373
01:50:44,560 --> 01:50:45,360
Speaker 3: cause it ain't.

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Speaker 8: Us as y'all.

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Speaker 13: Alright, on that note, go ahead and uh crank up.

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Speaker 13: Appreciate everybody for coming out takes or whatever. After follow

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Speaker 13: everybody else on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Do all that.

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01:50:57,400 --> 01:51:02,200
Speaker 1: Another fa episode of Perspective with Big Bank. Follow on

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Speaker 1: Instagram at Big Bank at Yo Yo Yo.

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Speaker 2: Don't miss an episode of Perspective with Bank.

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Speaker 3: Perspective with Bank or production of The Black Effect Podcast

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Speaker 3: Network and our executi producers are Dollar Bishop, Chanel Collins

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01:51:15,280 --> 01:51:16,320
Speaker 3: and produced by Aaron A.

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