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Speaker 1: I have no regrets. I want to divorce my husband

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Speaker 1: right after the wedding. He did the unthinkable, but said

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Speaker 1: it was just a prank.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole.

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Speaker 3: Pranks near weddings the perfect way to solidify your divorce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's like, Hey, we're about to commit

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Speaker 1: to each other for life, and you know, have this,

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Speaker 2: Why don't we throw it all away for a few laughs.

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Speaker 3: Well, I also think it's a test of the strength

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Speaker 3: of the marriage. Like if you can prank your fiance

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Speaker 3: and she still wants to marry you, then that's.

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Speaker 2: A good marriage.

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Speaker 3: Those who prank to a crank test, Yeah for life?

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Speaker 3: Crank for life? Oh yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I female twenty seven, and my husband, male twenty

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Speaker 1: nine have been together for three years. In those three years,

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Speaker 1: I have never known him to be selfish. Occasionally immature, yes,

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Speaker 1: but even that was rare. These problems arose when those

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Speaker 1: stupid cake smashing videos got popular and my husband thought

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Speaker 1: they were hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, no, I have no idea where this

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Speaker 2: is going.

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Speaker 1: I've never thought that they were funny, and he knows that,

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Speaker 1: yet he was always showing me the videos of these

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Speaker 1: poor wives getting the happiest day of their life ruined

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Speaker 1: by their asshole partner for some cheap laughs. He also

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Speaker 1: knows I have a history with cake smashing.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I wonder what it goes deep? What if

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Speaker 2: she was like, you know, these are.

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Speaker 3: Expensive laughs, Like a cake is like five hundred dollars

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Speaker 3: for a wedding.

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that, like all the time and effort,

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Speaker 1: like picking the flavors and everything. And also like I

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Speaker 1: wonder if she was, like she's had a history of

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Speaker 1: cake smashing. Maybe she was like an assassin, like a

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Speaker 2: Back in the day, she was a cake assassin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like maybe maybe she feels like so much guilt

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Speaker 1: because people she was like, you could hire her, she

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Speaker 1: would go cake you at your wedding, And she has so.

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Speaker 2: Much runs so deep.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he ruined so many weddings that now she went,

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Speaker 3: she went good. She vowed to never have it happen,

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Speaker 3: never smash another cake. And then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 3: she's the one who's getting smashed.

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Speaker 1: And maybe this is karma just shoving her sweet ass.

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Speaker 2: In the way, sweet ass in the cake. That's right.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, my family does the cake smashing thing. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is a family affair. Oh, I remember it. I remember it.

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Speaker 1: It was my seventeenth birthday and I pleaded with my

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Speaker 1: mom not to do it. She promised, and I trusted her. Idiot,

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Speaker 1: Why would you trust your own mother.

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Speaker 3: Especially if it's a family tradition. Come on, bro, it's

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Speaker 3: a tradition runs deep, too deep.

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Speaker 1: I had my hair and my makeup all nice and

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Speaker 1: right as I blew out my candles, and my mom

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Speaker 1: pushed my head into the cake and one of the decorations,

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Speaker 1: and the cake ended up slicing open my forehead.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, bro, this is way too much like also,

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Speaker 3: have you seen The Dark Night?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know when he has the pencil and he

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Speaker 3: is like, oh yeah, how do you like?

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Speaker 2: Most cakes have candles.

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Speaker 3: There's like, I'm just saying, there's no way there hasn't

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Speaker 3: been a candle stuck into someone's eyeball from a cake smash,

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Speaker 3: and that's hot wax.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh hey, I got a new idea now. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't bad enough to go to the hospital, but enough

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Speaker 1: for some substantial bleeding. My birthday was ruined, and after

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't come out of my room. My mom still

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, dude, she's bleeding. Bro worst mom of the

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Speaker 3: Not only am I gonna slice your forehead, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: shame you for like taking some recovery time.

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Speaker 1: What sorry for not bleeding all of my party casts.

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine blood just cushing out of the port? Hey,

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Speaker 2: I think that's the appropriate thing to do.

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Speaker 3: That's like, if you're gonna be the best hose possible

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Speaker 3: exactly your guests, let the blood be shed.

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Speaker 2: Let the blood be shed.

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Speaker 1: I told him if he ever did something like that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's trauma.

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Speaker 3: There's like, yeah, there's like decades of trauma just instilled

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Speaker 3: in each of these cakes. Baked into the cake. Is trauma.

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Speaker 3: The trauma cake, the trauma cake. Now that's that's sweet

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Speaker 1: He started laughing, but I was being for real though,

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Speaker 1: he was really not taking me serious. Now skip to

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Speaker 1: a few days ago when my wedding happened. Everything was perfect.

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Speaker 1: I was happy, he was happy.

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Speaker 2: Oh god. I was excited for our new lives as newlyweds.

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Speaker 1: I felt like a princess. In my poofy white dress

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the makeup for the dwdding dress.

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Speaker 3: Bro wedding dress, what ten grand. It's like, it's crazy

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Speaker 3: it gets in. I've actually I was in when I

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Speaker 3: US or Canada. Two international flights, Yeah, two international flights

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Speaker 3: easier and way cheaper.

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Speaker 2: And also they do great work.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Wow, thank this is a I'm taking notes

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Speaker 3: You're welcome. Don't get your wedding dress in the US,

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Speaker 3: go to Vietnam and staff with us. Yeah, new service. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we will not ruin your wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. Oh yeah, yeah, there's no chance.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you know this show we only

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What we'll do is will twenty three and meters your

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Speaker 2: And dig up your family dirt.

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Speaker 1: We did have someone offer for us to officiate their wedding.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, who so one of one of one of

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Speaker 1: the commenters on YouTube like, legitimately, we should do that.

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Speaker 2: Wait, why shouldn't we do that? We could? Why don't

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Speaker 1: App comment below if you would like us to officiate.

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Speaker 1: We have to have some sort of competition for people,

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Speaker 1: like who wants it?

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Speaker 2: Let me just go?

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Speaker 1: I want to, like sol sold, We're gonna have like

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Speaker 3: No, I would love to do we officiate the wedding

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Speaker 3: and then we like, we like interview people with their

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Speaker 3: stories about the bride and groom.

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Speaker 2: That's true, It's pretty good. Would be so fun. That'd

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Speaker 3: The crazy stories about the bride and groom, and then

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Speaker 3: we release it in podcasts for them afterwards.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty good. Predu ser Riley, how do you feel

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Speaker 1: about that? You just you just want the bride's maids?

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Speaker 1: We we all know.

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Speaker 2: It, dude, We should so totally do that. Yeah, we

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Speaker 3: Riley put a note to find that comment and respond

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Speaker 1: It's in Uh, it was it recent analytics. It was

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Speaker 1: Do if you get licenses to officiate, it's like twenty

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Speaker 1: four hour minister doctor. Let's do it easy. I have

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Speaker 1: a friend at the debt. We get to the cake

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Speaker 1: cutting part, and as I turned to him, he scoops

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Speaker 1: up a huge chunk of wedding cake. No, and smashes

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Speaker 1: it all over my face. Bro, she had a trauma cake.

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Speaker 2: She is now reliving that trauma. She doesn't have a

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Speaker 3: But all right, to be fair, that is better than

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Speaker 3: headfirst into the cake, that is true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's better the way of.

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Speaker 3: The classy ways to throw cake at your loved ones.

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Speaker 3: I think, uh, picking it up and putting it in

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Speaker 3: is like more elegance.

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Speaker 2: What if you got if you got a T shirt

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Speaker 1: You want to leave the original cake pristine, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So you have two cakes secretly made, a T shirt

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and then it goes like super slow motion

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that might be worth it, that'd be worth worth

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Speaker 2: It should be in slow motion, almost like a thousand

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Speaker 1: At me, and then he says you should see your

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Speaker 1: Other people in the crowd, mostly my family, are also

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Speaker 2: I push it away.

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Speaker 3: So the person walking away is being more extra than

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Speaker 3: the person throwing literal cake into your face. Bro, Like,

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Speaker 3: throwing cake at someone's face is the definition of extra.

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Speaker 1: Literally, after after decades of cake torture, my god, I

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Speaker 3: Did imagine the Uber driver taking her up? Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: She's like, oh no, I don't know what ops is

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Speaker 3: can't get into this Uber.

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Speaker 2: You got kick all of here. The cleaning fees I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna have to deal with for this. Come on, bro,

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Speaker 2: you gotta get out of here.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she just keeps getting denied her Uber

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Speaker 1: I promised, I get into the Uber and I drive away.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 3: Bro, it's the wedding. Of course there's going to be emotions.

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Speaker 3: And also it's the trauma cake.

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Speaker 1: It's the trauma cake. This is supposed to be the

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Speaker 1: And not only that, he ruined a five hundred dollars cake,

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Speaker 1: D're worth thousands of He basically is ruined thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 2: Did he keep their wedding dresses? Oh yeah, my mom

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Speaker 2: for wed for what reason? Memories? But I guess I

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Speaker 2: keep it. Just keep it? Why not because it's just

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Speaker 2: so expensive? Yeah, if you ever needed to get out caught.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, oh no.

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Speaker 3: They could, so fuck you. Yeah, keep you this wedding

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Speaker 1: The same you're you're you're building my trauma cake. Right now,

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Speaker 1: we need to Baker's put down your ovens.

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Speaker 3: If your parents still have the wedding dress, that means

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Speaker 1: someone in the comments got to have your wedding dresses,

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Speaker 1: right Your mom doesn't have Riley.

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Speaker 3: I was about I was about to call my mom,

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Speaker 2: Very convenient, excuse bro. They're so cute. They're like, that

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Speaker 2: That's oh look at that, and I mean, look, look, look, look,

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Speaker 3: So that's where my parents are in love. I think

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Speaker 1: We got a lot of adoption requests from from your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my parents are sick.

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Speaker 1: Sam just has like thirty siblings by the end of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we're going to officiate all the weddings and

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Speaker 1: I am ready to let you. Oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 3: So like, I think she is not the a hole

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Speaker 3: because she made it very clear beforehand. Ye she did

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Speaker 2: Maybe I would, I would, I don't think. I don't

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Speaker 3: So like I think from a like a like someone

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Speaker 3: it's an a whole move to like cake trauma one

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Speaker 1: It's like thirty layers deep. Now you got like lemon

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Speaker 3: You should just not have a cake at her next wedding,

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Speaker 3: just no cakes?

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Speaker 2: Pie?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what can we do instead? What's a dessert that

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Speaker 3: is cookie? Cookie? Cookies?

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Speaker 2: You can't get it's so unsatisfying.

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Speaker 3: Just yeah, if you have cookie no, just no nothing

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Speaker 3: with icing brownie bies, hearts.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't think she's an asshole, just because

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Speaker 3: you're at your wedding. I don't know why. It totally

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Speaker 3: ruins the makeup too, Yeah it does. Yeah anyway, but

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Speaker 3: it's like a thing. But if you say beforehand, like hey,

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Speaker 2: Cake trauma, the cake trauma should be respecting it's it's

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Speaker 1: Now our e s p E c t find out

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Speaker 1: what it means to me. It means no cake in

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Speaker 1: my fucking face. Yeah, that's what it means.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: A quick question though, so, uh, there's like walking out

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Speaker 3: Now if you walk out on the web, did they

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Speaker 3: because with at the cake eating part, they've already been.

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Speaker 1: So she of the wedding. Essentially she's already been married. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's technically married.

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, he's getting annulled. I think within like a

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. We're just like, yeah, basically exiting annulling.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she said it was super word to her,

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Speaker 3: so I think, like, I mean, if you can't respect her, yeah,

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Speaker 3: with her cake trauma, then you don't have the wedding all. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: if you can't respect your significant other at the wedding,

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Speaker 3: then it's not looking good for the rest of your marriage.

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Speaker 1: What are you guys? Do you think? Op, he's gonna

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Speaker 1: going to leave him or stay with him?

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Speaker 2: I think she's gonna leave.

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Speaker 1: Believe producer leaving? All right, Well, let's find out update.

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Speaker 1: I decided to speak to him bright and early this morning.

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Speaker 1: I am leaving him called it. Damn, I honestly did.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think she was gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you don't walk out of a wedding and then

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Speaker 2: You know you're walking out of that relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some of you might be happy about that, and

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Speaker 1: he did. He told me he just thought it was

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Speaker 1: since it was a tradition in my family that I

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Speaker 1: my family. Then he told me he's sorry that I

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Speaker 1: took it as disrespect.

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Speaker 2: Okay, buddy, you.

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Speaker 3: Said the fakest apology ever. I'm sorry you feel offended, babe?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just thought it'd be so lef.

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Speaker 3: You know, I was just trying to win brownie points

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Speaker 2: Way, she's looking fine baby? Is she single now? Or like,

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Speaker 2: what's it deal with your dad? Like what's going on there? Bruh?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that would be crazy. I told him

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Speaker 1: that he shouldn't be saying that he's sorry. I took

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Speaker 1: it that way. Correct, he should be apologizing for hurting me. Yes,

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Speaker 2: All of his apologies have been back fad. They're so fake,

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Speaker 1: I also reminded him that I don't have a good

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Speaker 1: just stuff cake in my face all the time. Also,

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Speaker 1: why would you want to win points with her?

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Speaker 2: Bro? My god, because she's looking fine?

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Speaker 1: Baby?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 1: I told him he knew I was already the black

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Speaker 1: should I have to apologize just because you can't take

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Really doubling down on the asshole noss. My guy just

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Speaker 3: doesn't get it. That's okay again, we always say this,

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Speaker 3: but red flag like like you didn't see these red

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Speaker 2: She was looking at life through red velvet color glasses.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you can't blame her. I blew up and I

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Speaker 1: told him, are you serious? If it was me who

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Speaker 1: for a few seconds and just apologized to me. I

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Speaker 1: and that something like that is unforgivable. Marriage means you

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Speaker 1: stick by me, Yet you showed you a obviously do not.

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Speaker 1: It's not about you ruining my dress, or my hair

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Speaker 1: or even the cake. It's about how you knew how

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Speaker 1: I would feel about this. This is a test.

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Speaker 2: System.

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Speaker 1: Yep, Yeah, there it is you told me about this

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Speaker 1: riley in Bali. Right here we go, maybe alert this

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Speaker 1: content is too fire.

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Speaker 2: You must stop at once for national security. The slot

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Speaker 1: Oh man, it's not about you ruining my dress, or

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Speaker 1: my hair or even the cake. It's about how you

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Speaker 1: knew how I felt about this and the trauma that

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Speaker 1: I had connected and you didn't care. He then tried

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Speaker 1: not apologizing, because my family was telling him how dramatic

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Speaker 1: I was and how I was hurting them by leaving

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Speaker 1: the wedding for a joke. He said he loves me

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to break up over this nonsense

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Speaker 1: and that I should just come home.

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Speaker 2: Dude, he's not even apologizing even he's quadrupling down.

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Speaker 1: My god, I told him I wasn't coming home, and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even about the cake anymore. It's just because

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Speaker 1: I cannot be with a man who won't apologize when

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Speaker 1: the blame. He starts cursing me out at this point,

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Speaker 1: but after about a minute of hearing him scream at me,

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Speaker 1: I hung up. Good for you, Good for you. I

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Speaker 1: alone because I can't take jokes and I'll never be

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Speaker 1: able to keep a man with my attitude. You'll never

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00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,120
Speaker 1: be able to keep a child with that attitude.

446
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 3: How about that, mom, emancipated? I guess emancipated is when

447
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,199
Speaker 3: you're younger. But I'm just going to divorce myself from

448
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 3: this fand.

449
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 2: Verry divorcing you mom, that would be a redit story.

450
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: I divorce my mom even saying that my clock is

451
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 1: running out fast for having babies, I guess, and when

452
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: it did, no one will want me and I'll be alone.

453
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 2: Ah. My sister was telling mother mother of the Year award.

454
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 1: Okay, the sister is worse. My sister was telling me

455
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm a disgusting b word for hurting his brother and

456
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 1: wasting his time. Bro that she wishes that he would

457
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: have broken up with me two years ago when he

458
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: first wanted to. Oh geez, so now I guess I

459
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,959
Speaker 1: know how he wanted to break up with me, my God.

460
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,479
Speaker 1: What I also know is that he was cheating on

461
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 1: me for six months with his ex who wanted him back,

462
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: but then she dropped him because he stayed with me.

463
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: The thing is, I had a good relationship with his sister,

464
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: and she knew that he was cheating on me. I

465
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: guess she put everything out on the table since I

466
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 1: was leaving anyways, I blocked most of my family and

467
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: I blocked all of his family. I also blocked him,

468
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: and I am getting the annulment. My friend said I

469
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: could stay with her for a few months I get

470
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: back on my feet, and I told her I really

471
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: appreciated it. So yeah, that's the end. I'm crying while

472
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm typing this. I wasted three years on a man

473
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: who never really cared about me. I've lost what little

474
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: relationship I had with my family, and now I only

475
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 1: have the few friends that I've been blessed with. I'm

476
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: going to have to pick up the rest of my stuff.

477
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 1: I also told him before I blocked him, if he

478
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: broke anything of mine that I would bring him to court.

479
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: Thank you for all the kind words and encouragement. I'm

480
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 1: going to go to sleep now since I haven't done

481
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 1: so in twenty four hours.

482
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 2: Woo doozy, doozy.

483
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 3: It's crazy that the family knew all the shit that

484
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 3: Opie's husband was doing, like the.

485
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 2: Cheating with the ex, Like and you're not going to

486
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: say anything nothing, saying nothing, and also like that just

487
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: makes the husband look worse. Oh, one hundred percent.

488
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 3: Like that's like I know, like the sisters just trying

489
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 3: to twist the knife, but that just makes your your

490
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:58,959
Speaker 3: brother look terrible.

491
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like, yeah, I should have left him

492
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: for that. You're right, thanks? Yeah, thanks pal.

493
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think op just be glad that this cake

494
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 3: smash thing happened because there was a lot beneath the

495
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 3: surface that I guess you didn't know about that you

496
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 3: should have laughed him over.

497
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: It's one hundred true. Yeah, this is a blessing. Imagine

498
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: she stayed the marriage for three more years.

499
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 2: Wow.

500
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 3: Terrible and awful, terrible, but uh wow, I would love

501
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 3: to know from you guys. I mean I guess, like,

502
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,199
Speaker 3: do you think op made the right decision? Yeah, like

503
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 3: leaving how she did? Is there anything that you would

504
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 3: have done differently?

505
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: And have you had your own you know, any of

506
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: your wedding stories if you've seen someone walk out, how

507
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: to walk out yourself, like any sort of like wedding

508
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: disaster scenarios that you've been through.

509
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I there's someone close to me.

510
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: Uh oh how close I can I will not give

511
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 3: the uh friendship or relation, but.

512
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 2: They Uh no, I probably shouldn't. It's too it's it's

513
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: too deep. It's too deep.

514
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 3: But I have I have a you have a spicy

515
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 3: one I had. There's I mean, we could even bring

516
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 3: her on at some point, maybe crazy, it's my, it's my,

517
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 3: I'll say it off the thing. But yeah, let us

518
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 3: know your stories stories. Uh am I the asshole for

519
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,119
Speaker 3: going no contact with my dad? If he doesn't go

520
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: to my wedding into.

521
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: This next story, let's do it depends does he did

522
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 1: he abandon you and the wedding?

523
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: I think uh, I think that's that that could be

524
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: on the table.

525
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like, what what would he leave the

526
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: wedding for? The music is bad for his job, for

527
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: his job? Food was like mid.

528
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, music, Yeah, music's bad. Food was mid What if

529
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: that's the only reason. It's like, hey, just the food.

530
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 3: Any hotties there? Oh, no babes, no babe bridesmaids. Yeah, dude,

531
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 3: you should have had a hotter friends. Opie knows all

532
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 3: about that. Ken Yeah, yeah, he loves bridesmaids. Riley runs

533
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 3: to the maids.

534
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 2: He does so.

535
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 3: My twenty six female father fifty nine male is a

536
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 3: slightly known musician in my home country. Slightly slightly known

537
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 3: due to his career. He missed out on most of

538
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 3: my milestones while I was growing up. School plays, a

539
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 3: few birthdays, and both my high school and college graduations

540
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: to name a few.

541
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 2: That's a lot of events.

542
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 3: It's a lot mostly events. He was informed of months

543
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 3: in advance and canceled on me either weeks or days before.

544
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 2: Oof big yikes.

545
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: He always apologized for doing so, but never really seemed

546
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 3: to feel guilty. I remember we almost had a fight

547
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 3: because I didn't want to watch a video he had

548
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: missed my high school graduation to film. So he's like,

549
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 3: He's like, daughter, check out my sick new music video.

550
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 3: I got this crazy riff going on. It is so

551
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 3: worth of baking. Dad, you didn't come to my high

552
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 3: school graduation. I don't care about this.

553
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: But these riffs, Sally, come on, They're sweet.

554
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 3: It hurt me so much as a child that I

555
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 3: stopped expecting him to show up. It still bothered me

556
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: when I got older, but at that point I understood

557
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: that it was his job and I should be grateful.

558
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 3: He even had one dang cheez. I'm getting married early September.

559
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 3: My fiance twenty eight mail and I have been planning

560
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 3: his wedding for a year and a half. The date

561
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 3: was decided and invitations were sent months ago. Almost every

562
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 3: guest has already rsvpede. I've reminded my father of the

563
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 3: date several times this past year, and he kept assuring

564
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: me that he had blocked the entire week of the

565
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 3: wedding and would be there.

566
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: M m hm, okay, I don't know.

567
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 3: I think country music, Dad, home country. It's not a

568
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 3: country music.

569
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 2: It's just his.

570
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 3: It's just the home country, home country music, Dad. He

571
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 3: might be too famous.

572
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 1: Country roads take me far away from wherever my daughter is.

573
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 3: A couple of days ago, my father called to inform

574
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 3: me that he had to schedule a concert for my

575
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: wedding day. Bro or maybe twist. I'm gonna be your

576
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 3: wedding band and the concerts at your wedding.

577
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: See, why don't we do that? Why don't we do that.

578
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: That would actually be a good Ye, that is the

579
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: obvious solution. Yeah, but alas that's probably not what's gonna happen.

580
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: He apologized and said he'd make it up to me

581
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: with a gift.

582
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 3: I don't want a gif. I want my father to

583
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 3: come to my wedding. So I told him that either

584
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: he figured out a way to reschedule, which I know

585
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 3: he could probably do if he tried, or I'd cut

586
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 3: ties with him. I mean, we're at that point, really

587
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 3: at that point. What followed was one of the biggest

588
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 3: fights we've ever had. He called me ungrateful, spoiled, and

589
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 3: selfish for giving him that kind of ultimatum and expecting

590
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 3: him to change his work schedule for my own benefit,

591
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: which he asked me to do many occasions before.

592
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 2: So like, he's asked.

593
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: Her to change her work schedule many times, but he's like, no,

594
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 3: I'm not going to change mine. Bro Oh my god,

595
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 3: he yelled, and I held myself not to yell back.

596
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: We're still fighting over this.

597
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 3: Most of my family is on my side, though both

598
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 3: my mom divorced for my dad and my fiance have

599
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 3: warned me not to make any moves I might regret.

600
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 3: My sister twenty female is on my father's side, which

601
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 3: doesn't surprise me. I love my father and I really

602
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 3: don't want to stop talking to him, but I'm done

603
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: with him expecting to be able to miss out on

604
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: my life with no consequences. That being said, I'd be

605
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: lying if I said I don't feel guilty. Just writing

606
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 3: this all down has made me feel like a huge brat.

607
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 3: So am I the asshole? And there are some edits,

608
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 3: but so far, what do you think is OP the ashole?

609
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: No? Is OP the asshole?

610
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: I think that OPI is not the asshole because it's

611
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: just like it just reaches a point. And also, like

612
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: your wedding day that is like the most important day,

613
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And.

614
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 3: It's built up over like a lot of time, Like

615
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: you know, he's missed so many things before and maybe

616
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: it's felt like it was like smaller and inconsequential, But

617
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 3: this is something that's really important to Ope that she said, hey,

618
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 3: this is really important to me, please make this and

619
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 3: gave him a ton of time to figure out how

620
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: to make it and he still just didn't show up.

621
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: It feels like the last story a lot too, because

622
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: it's like it's like that attitude of like, hey, I

623
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: don't care like you should.

624
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: You should adjust to me.

625
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: I'm not going to apologize, Like it's that same mentality.

626
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like that's not a mentality that builds

627
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 3: strong relationships, no, or builds healthy relationships. So maybe it's

628
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 3: on a relationship that you need to have in your life.

629
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: Why Daddy, there are some edits.

630
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 3: Oh so, my mom and my fiance are one hundred

631
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 3: percent on my side. They told me to be careful

632
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 3: because they know I don't really want to go no contact. Also,

633
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 3: my mom has barely spoken to my father in almost

634
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 3: twenty years, and my fiance is with me because we

635
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 3: love each other, not because who my father is. My

636
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 3: father is not a struggling artist. He's been in the

637
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: line of work since before I was born. I wouldn't

638
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 3: consider him rich, but he lives more than just comfortably.

639
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 3: If I thought he couldn't afford to reschedule a concert,

640
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 3: I wouldn't blame him for not being able to come

641
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 3: to the wedding. And yes, he paid child support and

642
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 3: provided for both me and my sister. I do have

643
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 3: other people who can walk me down the aisle, my stepdad,

644
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 3: which would make my dad furious, so I might do

645
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 3: it procurely out of pettiness, and at least two of

646
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 3: my friends who would be more than willing to My

647
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 3: father isn't paying for any part of the wedding.

648
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 2: He offered to, but I declined.

649
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 3: I don't live with him anymore, and both me and

650
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 3: my fiance have good jobs. When I was younger, I

651
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 3: told myself that once I didn't need his money anymore,

652
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 3: i'd never ask for it again. My sister isn't the

653
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 3: golden child. He missed many of her milestones too. And

654
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 3: here is the update. So hey, guys, A lot has happened,

655
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: but I'll try to keep it short. My father wasn't

656
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 3: neglectful in the traditional sense. My parents' divorce when I

657
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 3: was seven years old, and my mom had primary custody

658
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: of me and my sister, but we still went to

659
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: his place several times a week. My mother is a

660
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 3: teacher and couldn't raise us on her salary alone, so

661
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 3: he was our main financial supporter even after the divorce.

662
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 3: Because of all this, he seems to believe he was

663
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 3: the best father. Ever, whenever we fought, he always insisted

664
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: I was wrong and ungrateful. Those same arguments were used

665
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 3: whenever I demonstrated I was upset over him missing out

666
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 3: on my milestones.

667
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 2: In his head.

668
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: For instance, I couldn't get angry if he missed my

669
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: high school graduation or if he didn't pay attention to

670
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 3: any of the projects I developed in college, because he

671
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 3: was the one paying for the education. I decided to

672
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 3: stop complaining about this when I was younger, having realized

673
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be able to get him to see my side.

674
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 3: This wedding incident felt like a turning point, though, especially

675
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: since he wasn't paying for anything this time. It made

676
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 3: me accept that he doesn't care how much which he

677
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 3: contributed anymore, but still believes I don't have the right

678
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 3: to be upset. I now realize there's no winning this.

679
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: If he doesn't come, I'll be devastated. If he does,

680
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 3: I'll always remember I had to force my own father

681
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 3: to come to my wedding. At this point, I'm not

682
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: even sure which is worse so rough A few days ago,

683
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 3: I had a discussion with my father over the phone

684
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 3: in which I express all of the above and more,

685
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 3: and as expected, he called me dramatic, accused me of

686
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 3: alienating myself, and berated me for talking to him the

687
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: way I did. I hung up on him. This is

688
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 3: how our fights have gone since I was a teenager,

689
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 3: and it never solves anything. We haven't spoken since I

690
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 3: sent him a long text basically saying I didn't want

691
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 3: to hear from him until he was ready to both

692
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 3: give me a sincere apology and own up to the

693
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 3: status of our relationship being his fault. This is all

694
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 3: wishful thinking. I really don't think either are going to happen.

695
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 3: I love my father and I know he loves me

696
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 3: to bits, but I can't do this anymore. He's been

697
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 3: around my entire life and still barely knows me for

698
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: who I am. It's his turn to make that effort.

699
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 3: Right now, I'm trying to muster up excitement for my wedding.

700
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: I lost most of it these past weeks. My fiance,

701
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: my mom, and my friends are all trying to cheer

702
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 3: me up, and it's starting to work. I'm definitely feeling

703
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 3: a lot better than last week. I'm really grateful to

704
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 3: have them in my life. So that's it for now.

705
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,720
Speaker 3: Thank you all for your support on my previous post.

706
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: It's the same thing, same thing, different relationship. Yeah, like first,

707
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 1: in the first story, it was it was the husband

708
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: or husband to be and in this case, the father

709
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: just like will not take acknowledgment of his actions or

710
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: like realize that what he's doing is wrong.

711
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: And the thing is not like that this in similar

712
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 3: last story. It's not that like it's any one thing

713
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: that he's missed has been super super important. It's the

714
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 3: combination of everything. Ye, Like yes, like missing a wedding

715
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 3: is super super important. But what makes it worse is

716
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 3: he's missed every big event of her life. Yeah, basically

717
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 3: since she was a kid, and so now missing the

718
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 3: wedding it seems like the culmination of him just saying

719
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 3: like repeatedly to her through his actions, I don't care

720
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 3: about being involved in your life.

721
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:15,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent.

722
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: Like it would maybe be a different situation if he

723
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: had like never done that before and like the you know,

724
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: Coachella of his country or like so whatever big event was, like, Yo,

725
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: we're going to have you a headliner.

726
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 3: This is the only day you can do it. But

727
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 3: now I want to know, like what's this music sound like?

728
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 2: Because he got some bangers? Is it good? What? What

729
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 2: genre is it? Yeah? I Riley, do we got do

730
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: we got any info?

731
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 3: Also, this would be a great way to subtly like say, like, yo,

732
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 3: you should check out my dad's music.

733
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 2: That would be evil genius. Market genius, evil genius.

734
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: We've had a story like this before, we suspected with

735
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: the book book with the book.

736
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 2: Hmmm, find it the tea isn't there.

737
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,439
Speaker 1: I'll give him that his points in their favor that

738
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: it's not just a marketing ploy.

739
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 2: All right, Well yeah, pretty rough?

740
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: Is it okay? If he drops bangers though?

741
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean if it's it's well I don't

742
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 3: know if it could Kanye present day, but two thousand

743
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 3: and eight Kanye, Yeah, I feel like that's worth missing.

744
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 2: A wedding was forgiven. I'll forgive it. Oh my god.

745
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: But Sam, you're gonna have to forgive me because we're

746
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 2: gonna throw down this next story. That's right,