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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Ray is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Cassie.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Ray, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Cassie?

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Speaker 3: This has been like a week?

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Speaker 4: Okay, not a week.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds about right. It's a sweet spot for

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Speaker 5: getting ghosted. I know that sucks. Have you reached out

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Speaker 5: to her?

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Speaker 6: I have, just not like obsessively, but just like a text,

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Speaker 6: phone call and no answer. We'll tell us about the date, Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: there's a little bit to take in.

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Speaker 3: So I'll just try to explain as best as I can.

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Speaker 6: So, yeah, So Cassie and I went to this low

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Speaker 6: key neighborhood bar and grill and it was trivia night,

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Speaker 6: which is, you know, we weren't expecting it was actually

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Speaker 6: really competitive, and we weren't expecting that though. I guess,

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Speaker 6: you know, I could just say we sucked with spirit

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Speaker 6: and we named our we actually named our team quiz

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Speaker 6: tima aguilera.

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Speaker 3: She was awesome.

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Speaker 6: She came up with it, and we were really really terrible,

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Speaker 6: and but we made fun of ourselves like the whole time,

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Speaker 6: and and it was all honestly.

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Speaker 3: Like it was hilarious.

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Speaker 6: So, you know, we shared we shared fries, we had drinks,

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Speaker 6: and she was really easy to talk to, uh, funny,

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Speaker 6: super smart and and honestly, I was like, whoa, this

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Speaker 6: is really going great. And so we decided to just

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Speaker 6: get out of there and go to my place.

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Speaker 4: All right, Trivia will bond to people very clear, definitely.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: And so here's the you know the problem is that

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Speaker 6: when we walked out to my car, uh, on my

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Speaker 6: driver's side door, the words cheater was spray painted across

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Speaker 6: the door.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay have you lately? Are you a cheater? I?

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not, just like Also, also the windshield was cracked,

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Speaker 6: so yeah, Cassie was obviously freaked out.

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Speaker 3: And then she was like, dude, should I be here

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Speaker 6: And and I told her that's just my ex, which

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Speaker 6: is I'm telling you guys, it's just my ex's like really,

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Speaker 6: I'm single, literally single. We broke up a while ago,

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Speaker 6: and she's just been having a really hard time letting

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Speaker 5: Wait, so it wasn't a fluke Ray, this was like

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Speaker 5: your car was the target.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's why. And I didn't feed on her.

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Speaker 6: It's just like she just kind of thinks if I

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Speaker 6: talk to anybody new, it's I'm cheating.

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Speaker 4: Oh damn. Wow, Okay that sucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Honestly, I didn't want the end the night to

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Speaker 6: That, so I told her, you know, please, let's do

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Speaker 6: it do over and I'll deal with crazy and we'll

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Speaker 6: pick out where were left off. And I got her

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Speaker 3: She even thanked me. She's like wow.

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Speaker 6: She jokingly was like, hey damn, I'm getting like the

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Speaker 4: Kind of shook.

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Speaker 6: I saw that she was kind of shook.

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Speaker 4: So oh yeah, yeah, this is definitely why you're getting go.

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Speaker 4: How did everything end?

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Speaker 2: Inn?

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Speaker 4: After that?

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Speaker 6: I just we we really connected and I and I've

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Speaker 6: had it in days before and you know whatever, but

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Speaker 6: this one felt really real and I felt like she

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Speaker 6: really saw me, and we were making dumb trivia jokes

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Speaker 6: a whole night.

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Speaker 3: And anyways, it ended.

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Speaker 6: Like she just went home basically, and then obviously it

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Speaker 6: has to be the bandle thing, and it's not a great.

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Speaker 3: Look for me.

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Speaker 6: And she saw like she saw that I was embarrassed

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Speaker 6: and I was pissed, and I thought she understood, but

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Speaker 6: she even teased me and she said, your ex needs

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Speaker 6: like therapy and a color coloring book, and uh so

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Speaker 6: that's yeah, oh wow.

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Speaker 7: I mean, maybe it isn't the X thing, But is

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Speaker 7: there anything else that happened on the date that could.

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Speaker 4: A girl that is the kind of drama nobody? I know.

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Speaker 5: I know it's very but if I'm on a date

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Speaker 5: with somebody in their cars vandalized by their ex, the

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Speaker 5: last thing I'm gonna do is want to see them

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Speaker 5: again until I know she's gone. Yeah, all right, and

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry it sounded like it was good up until that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we probably know why you were getting ghosted. Then

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Speaker 2: let's see if we can get you another date, all right,

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Speaker 2: deem yourself. Yeah, we'll play a song Comeback Caller and

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Speaker 2: see if that is in fact the reason, and then

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can get you a second date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that would be awesome.

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Speaker 4: All right, We'll get your first a follow up, next.

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Speaker 1: First date follow Up Powered by the advocates injury attorneys.

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Speaker 2: I'm right in the middle of today's first day follow up,

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Ray is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Cassie. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him, even though we think we already know.

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Speaker 2: I tried to get him a second date. But first, Ray,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down what happened on your day

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Speaker 2: real quick?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we went to an alphain bar like trivia night.

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Speaker 6: We were really bad at it, but we laughed the

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Speaker 6: whole way through, and then kind of went outside and

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Speaker 6: found the words Cheeter written on my car and like

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Speaker 6: whinshields smashed and that's my ex. I didn't cheat on her,

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Speaker 6: but that kind of ruined the night. It's just my

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Speaker 6: ex is not getting over our long time ago relationships,

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Speaker 6: So not too long ago, but just long enough you

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Speaker 6: know where she should have been over it. And so

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Speaker 6: now seeing if you have a do over with this date,

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Speaker 6: you know, start fresh.

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Speaker 4: Well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be great.

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Speaker 4: I'll try to talk, try to see who knows.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's a different reason, Maybe you know maybe maybe

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Speaker 2: it had someone in your shirt.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, probably not though. Are you ready?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hell, hi, man, I speak to Cassie. Please, Yes, Cassie,

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Speaker 2: how are you? This is the Jewbil Show. It's a

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Speaker 2: radio show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Hi, Cassie. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my

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Speaker 4: name is Jubell. How are you. How are you doing?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Him, I think I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Great. Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 5: I have? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Sweet?

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Speaker 2: Guess what, Cassie, we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: somebody that you're ghosting. Yeah, you know the first day

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Speaker 2: follow up where if you're ghosting someone, they can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So is there anybody that you're currently ghosting?

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Speaker 3: I can think of the name. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: Say, I can say, yeah, we probably know we're probably

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Speaker 6: That is it?

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Speaker 3: Ray?

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Speaker 2: Yes? It is Ray? And Ray emailed us because he

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Speaker 2: really liked you. He told us about your date and

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Speaker 2: we think we know why you're ghosting him, but we're

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Speaker 4: So do you mind telling us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 7: Look, the date with Ray was really amazing. Honestly, hadn't

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Speaker 7: laughed like that in a while, but he probably filed

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Speaker 7: and I'm really freaked out by it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he said that you got back to his place

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Speaker 2: and like his car was vandalized and it said that's cheater.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we walk out and his ex has spray painted

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Speaker 7: I don't know, like I'm in some wrom calm, like

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Speaker 7: and he has a whole girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: And then and you know.

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Speaker 7: I tried to play it off because I could tell

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Speaker 7: I don't know, but they just kept calling and it

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Speaker 7: was her, right, That's what's so freaky. I'm like, are

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Speaker 7: me then sent me a message saying she's pregnant. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: like sent me a whole sonogram, started tagging me in

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Speaker 4: This is crazy.

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Speaker 7: Obviously, I've blocked her. I blocked her Instagram, I blocked

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Speaker 7: it sucked. I really did enjoy our date, but this

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Speaker 4: Is she really pregnant?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Cassie raised on the phone, by the way,

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Speaker 3: Oh man, Cassie, I didn't know she called you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 7: She said she said that you knocked her up and

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Speaker 6: Cassie, she's not and you guys, she's not. She's not pregnant,

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Speaker 6: I swear, and she she literally is not in my life.

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Speaker 6: She's just like I said, she hasn't let go and

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Speaker 6: I've been like very nice to her, and I just

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Speaker 6: I had no idea if she reached out to you.

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry, Like.

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Speaker 7: I just think you might need to be putting your

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Speaker 7: I feel like you need to set a boundary with

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Speaker 3: Stop grasping.

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Speaker 6: I didn't mean for you to be cooler than any

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Speaker 3: Like I was just being nice, like a normal dude.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to, didn't. I did say these things

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Speaker 4: Did you still talk to her right after you guys

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Speaker 7: Spray paint and broken glass and smashed up cars isn't normal.

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Speaker 3: I hotly make a light of this. I'm just I guess.

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Speaker 7: I'm unforgettable, you know, And you don't want to.

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Speaker 4: It's not his fault.

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Speaker 3: It's nice. It's not it, but it's nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Cassie, would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 2: with Ray? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Thank God?

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Speaker 6: For real.

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Speaker 3: I will not mess this up. I'll like, I'll shut

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Speaker 3: it all down.

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Speaker 6: I'll make sure.

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Speaker 3: She's out of my life completely.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'll go as far as like even getting a

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Speaker 6: restraining order, Like, I just want you to know, Cassie,

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Speaker 6: I had such.

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Speaker 3: An amazing time. You're beautiful, year, you make me laugh.

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Speaker 6: I've been on many dates before, and this is this

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Speaker 6: felt very special for me, and I'm literally like, so sorry,

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Speaker 6: what do you.

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Speaker 4: Think, Cassie. Don't mind, Cassie, that's no easy thing.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I really appreciate that because I really had

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Speaker 7: a lot of fun with you, Ray and that is

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Speaker 7: hard to find.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not gonna lie. This is really freaked me out.

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Speaker 7: And obviously I'll unblock you because that maybe it was

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Speaker 7: a little a little rational.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's fair. You didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 7: I just think that maybe there just needs to be

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Speaker 7: some time to law and maybe call me when this

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Speaker 7: drama's actually done.

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Speaker 3: Because I think that's fair.

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Speaker 7: She's so crazy, clearly that she's not understanding the dynamic

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Speaker 7: and she's not getting whether you're being too nice or not.

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Speaker 3: You're being perfectly farm I honestly don't know.

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Speaker 7: I just think you need to deal with this because

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Speaker 7: there's not room for both of us in your life.

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Speaker 3: I would love to see you again right, but end

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Speaker 3: this and then call me. So if I end this

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent, that's a yes.

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 3: You know I'm going to the courthouse today to guess

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Speaker 3: there's training order.

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