WEBVTT - Should You Bring Flowers To A First Date?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>It's DJ env Charlamagne the gud We are to breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>club Nowhew just joining us.

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking about this guy I've been trending on social media.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>He was trending because he went on a date and

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<v Speaker 2>it didn't go as planned. He was damn there crying.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's see what he said.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just left the restaurant after waiting thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 5>for a day to show, and apparently I got stood up.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what to say. I'm trying to do

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<v Speaker 5>everything right to be a gentleman. I brought flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been consistent talking with this girl for two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get to know what she likes.

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<v Speaker 5>But she doesn't like I made plans. I picked the

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<v Speaker 5>restaurant the day of the time. I've done everything to

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<v Speaker 5>be just the kind of guy that the value somebody's

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<v Speaker 5>signed like. I just I'm just looking for my first

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just looking for the one that I guess he's

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<v Speaker 5>out there from me. Ladies, tell me what is that

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<v Speaker 5>you wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>And we're asking eight hundred and five eight five one

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<v Speaker 3>oh five one, what's your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Willie D doesn't feel like this guy should have brought

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<v Speaker 2>flowers at all. Thought that was the first red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>First red flag, second red flag is all that damn crime. Look, man,

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<v Speaker 1>don't know women want a dude like that leading them.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a lot of women who was in

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<v Speaker 1>the comments or the dumb meant section making these suggestions

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<v Speaker 1>that we should show this guy some sympathy. Poor guy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's bad. Those same women would not date that guy

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<v Speaker 1>under any circumstances. Bringing. Bringing flowers to a woman on

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<v Speaker 1>the first date is a red flag. She probably saw him,

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she didn't show up. She probably saw him

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<v Speaker 1>from a distance. Had one of her friends who work

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant, you know, put him on FaceTime or

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<v Speaker 1>something and be like that show show, let me see

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<v Speaker 1>what this dude like.

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh girl? And she probably called one of her friends

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<v Speaker 1>cause it's crazy. He got some goddamn flowers, a whole

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<v Speaker 1>bouquet of flowers. Yeah, flowers is that bad?

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<v Speaker 6>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>I think it depends on what kind of flowers.

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<v Speaker 5>Like.

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<v Speaker 7>It's a first date, so I do agree with Williams.

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<v Speaker 7>A first date, you know what I mean? So I

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<v Speaker 7>might be moving kind of fast, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 7>it's a bad gesture. But I just wouldn't bring a

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<v Speaker 7>dozen roses. Maybe maybe some two, some lilies.

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<v Speaker 2>Some sun something, just you know, because you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's something nice. I think the starts the date off

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<v Speaker 2>in the positive direction. You come pick up or she

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<v Speaker 2>come here, you go madys as a bouquet of flowers.

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<v Speaker 7>It can't be roses is very sentimental. Romance especially depends

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<v Speaker 7>on what color.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, This ain't no prime date, bro, it's saying prome.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just a regular date.

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<v Speaker 5>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've been talking to this chick for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks. I'm trying to get to know it. It

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<v Speaker 1>is very important that you're not spook a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you first meet. Yeah, you know, after they dated for

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<v Speaker 1>a while and they really know each other and she

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<v Speaker 1>understands him, he understands her. You know. He can buy

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<v Speaker 1>roses anytime. It's great, but you gotta be very careful

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<v Speaker 1>because women can easily get spooked.

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<v Speaker 4>You think flowers, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>Can spook a woman because.

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<v Speaker 4>They roses will I think a little back of.

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<v Speaker 1>Sun flowers isn't roses. Flowers?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but roses there.

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<v Speaker 7>Different colors mean romantic, Like red means romance means love,

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<v Speaker 7>I thought means love and romance.

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<v Speaker 4>I forgot what white and all that means.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like some.

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<v Speaker 4>Tulips, some lily.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So if rose is cool, it's diamond stud it rains.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool, flowers crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>You can get flowers for ten dollars fifteen dollars at Walmart.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell no, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Gonna change the situation right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, whether you've got a door right, yeah, and the

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<v Speaker 2>gentleman comes to pick up your daughter, you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>them to come with some flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, I want them to come with the right attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more important. So we're trying to learn each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's more important that that that you know you

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<v Speaker 1>you learn each other and watch each other manner hysms,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and and get familiar with one another. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing. I think, you know, like, it

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<v Speaker 1>ain't even where you where you take them. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>about fancy restaurants and and and and gifts and all

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of stuff. It's about the human connection. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what it's about. It's not about all that other stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>And this is where we get confused that you don't

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<v Speaker 7>think the flowers help to open up the human connection.

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<v Speaker 4>No, damn A lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something. You have to really think

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<v Speaker 1>when you're doing this, when you're dealing with a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like get out of your feelings. You

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<v Speaker 1>got to get out of your emotions and think to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>if I do this, how can she how how might

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<v Speaker 1>she interpret it? And you got to take out the

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<v Speaker 1>as much wigger room for interpretation as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>She might say, Damn, nobody ever gave me tulips before.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, this is special, this is nice, something that

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<v Speaker 1>nobody ever gave me tuolips before.

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<v Speaker 7>This dude is a cornball, Tanya, Yes, what's up to

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<v Speaker 7>talk to us with flowers on the first day?

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya?

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<v Speaker 4>What you think?

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, guy, listen, Yes, flowers on the first day.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, it's fine. It's not like it's a big fill.

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<v Speaker 8>He did everything right. It's just the only thing that

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<v Speaker 8>I felt that he did wrong is he's whining about it.

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<v Speaker 8>A woman does not want to hear a man whine.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but the flowers, I don't see nothing wrong with it.

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<v Speaker 6>This wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

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<v Speaker 6>Bro?

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<v Speaker 8>Just brew from the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 4>From the Bronx. What what you bring on that first day?

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<v Speaker 3>Bacon?

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<v Speaker 7>Egg, and cheese and cheese, bacon, egg and cheese, a

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<v Speaker 7>box of backwood, a box cutter.

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<v Speaker 8>I want to ask you that question with the flowers.

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<v Speaker 6>I think what he is wrong about that.

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<v Speaker 8>I think you can give a girl flowers any time

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<v Speaker 8>you feel like that's how you feel about it one

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<v Speaker 8>day school. It doesn't about him. And if you're a

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<v Speaker 8>ladies man, you're gonna do that anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why the bodega cell flowers, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And the flowers is cheap at the bodega.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop hanging up on people.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, who's this you know this morning?

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<v Speaker 8>Can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 3>I can hear you.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your thoughts mind, Susie?

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<v Speaker 4>What you think about flowers on the first day? Susie,

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<v Speaker 4>I think that that was a good jest, like four three,

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<v Speaker 4>hold of that Geechee and yourself. You know, we were romant,

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<v Speaker 4>were romantic from the.

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<v Speaker 7>On the mask already know, yeah, talking man, But I

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<v Speaker 7>think like that was my thing for him to do,

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<v Speaker 7>was to bring the flower.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that was her all? Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>I agree? See, we were romantic in the low country.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. Willie just made all the

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<v Speaker 4>floors in Texas lose money.

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<v Speaker 1>This morning, say I'm I'm I'm a romantic guy too,

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<v Speaker 1>but I believe that romance have to be earned. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not just giving them any chick romance, Like, yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have a conversation first, let me see if you

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<v Speaker 1>are deserving, just like a woman shouldn't give any man romance.

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<v Speaker 1>I think all that that's levels to it, and and

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<v Speaker 1>and if and if it don't work out, whatever's left

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<v Speaker 1>is better than whatever left.

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<v Speaker 3>Rod, what's your thoughts, Rod?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I will.

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<v Speaker 3>Will you did?

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<v Speaker 1>Man?

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<v Speaker 6>First off? First off, you gotta set up the date.

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<v Speaker 6>There's something that you want to be doing yourself. If

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<v Speaker 6>somebody don't show up, you can still do you. Number

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<v Speaker 6>two never Shunty's much better nowadays as far as women

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<v Speaker 6>appreciate it like that, they gotta you gotta make a work.

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<v Speaker 1>To earn that.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you gotta you gotta get out there and use.

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<v Speaker 8>Your mouth piece.

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<v Speaker 6>At first she would say about something, and then after

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<v Speaker 6>that you could aculate to get get us and get flowers.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think we should, uh let let women dictate

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<v Speaker 7>how we move as romantics, meaning that if I'm the

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<v Speaker 7>type of person that like to bring a woman flowers,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna just bring the woman flowers.

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<v Speaker 4>Now she messed that up. Then we don't go, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you won't go no further than the flowers in this day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Yeah, but you see how it ended for

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<v Speaker 1>him crying on the internet. See see, so we could

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<v Speaker 1>say all this stuff that we want to, but but

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<v Speaker 1>if we look at that, we've looked at these situations

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<v Speaker 1>in general, this this is usually the result. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there is a such thing as a guy being too

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<v Speaker 1>kind too fast. Too kind too fast is a red flag.

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<v Speaker 7>And I think this is the thing that what that

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<v Speaker 7>lady said about the wine and is important because I

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<v Speaker 7>feel like he had a sense of entitlement, you know

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<v Speaker 7>what I mean, even though he did get stood up,

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<v Speaker 7>like what if something happened, like do your mind, don't

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<v Speaker 7>even go to maybe something.

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<v Speaker 3>But it seems like this, it seems like he's been

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<v Speaker 3>stead up numerous times.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, That's what I'm saying a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>these guys. I heard some people saying that, well, you see,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what happens when you do guys stuff, do

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like this, the guys they end up being mass murderer,

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<v Speaker 1>serial killers and rapists and all this kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Because people pick on them, bully them. Let me tell

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<v Speaker 1>you something, man, If being rejected is going to make

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<v Speaker 1>you that you're a chump, you a sucker. Anyway, Look, man,

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<v Speaker 1>the greater there have been greater men than us who

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<v Speaker 1>have been rejected and picked themselves up, dust themselves off,

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<v Speaker 1>and kept it moving. You get rejected, man, you keep

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<v Speaker 1>it moving. And if you aw that what you think

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<v Speaker 1>you are, then it's her loss anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>But we'll take some more calls eight hundred and five

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<v Speaker 2>eighty five one o five one. But really, I will

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<v Speaker 2>say that's that's today's society.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's part of the problem, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Because before you know, you get rejected, what your pops

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<v Speaker 2>or or your family tell you do you go back

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<v Speaker 2>out there and try and get suck it up. Same

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<v Speaker 2>thing if you get into a bully. Let's say you

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<v Speaker 2>got a problem with a bully, what did your pops do?

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<v Speaker 2>You go fight that bully. If you lose, you go

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<v Speaker 2>fight him again. You go fight him again. All you

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<v Speaker 2>learn if he's making fun of you, learn how to

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<v Speaker 2>make fun of him back. It was never to the

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<v Speaker 2>point where you gotta go cry because your family wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>gonna allow it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I feel like a lot of times we put

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<v Speaker 3>gloves hand.

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<v Speaker 2>We hear massides these kids with gloves where they feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's the end of the world when they get

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<v Speaker 2>talked about, feel like it's the end.

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<v Speaker 7>Of the world, when they get dissed on a date.

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<v Speaker 7>The only thing I don't agree with is that whole

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<v Speaker 7>bully thing. I always thought that was a lie. Somebody

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<v Speaker 7>beat your ass good one time, you ain't going back

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<v Speaker 7>and put you to go back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well, the thing about it is that if you

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<v Speaker 1>fight a bully, typically, if you fight a bully and

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<v Speaker 1>you fight back, you usually don't have to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>that because bullies don't like resistance. Bullies like easy targets.

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<v Speaker 1>They like soft targets. And this is why it's important

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody bullies you iportant to stand up for yourself

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, because if you don't, you're teaching them

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<v Speaker 1>that it's okay to belly.

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<v Speaker 7>So you don't think that man stood up for himself

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<v Speaker 7>on the internet by whining like that, No, no, stop

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<v Speaker 7>playing with me.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he laid down for himself and he did

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<v Speaker 1>himself for a huge disservice. And no woman, no woman,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really a boy. Something would want appro create with

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<v Speaker 1>a dude like that, what is he gonna teach his

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<v Speaker 1>boy to cry harder? Look, Dad, your cry was weak.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at my cry? Dad. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>All that No man, get on up out of here

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<v Speaker 1>with the woman.

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<v Speaker 4>They stop all that crime.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, stop all that, and not just him, all you

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<v Speaker 1>other dudes, you newscasters. I've been seeing news. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to say this for a long time. You news

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<v Speaker 1>casters out here. All this damn crime. Stop all that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about, specifically black men.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop all that damn crime.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, it's a time and a place for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not one of those dudes who subscribe to the

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<v Speaker 1>concept that men should not cry. I'm not that dude.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a time and place for everything, and we

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<v Speaker 1>have to learn to control our emotions. If that's two

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<v Speaker 1>things that a man must control in order to operate

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<v Speaker 1>at his optimum, it is his emotions and his penis.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta learn to control that. If you can do that, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you can.

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<v Speaker 3>Rule eight hundred five eight five one oh five. One

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<v Speaker 3>will take some more calls.

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<v Speaker 2>It's to breakfast Clogo morning, the breakfast club, the breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 4>Your morning's will never be the same morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody is DJ NV, Charlamagne, the gud. We are the

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<v Speaker 2>breakfast club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking

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<v Speaker 2>about this video that went viral about this man that

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<v Speaker 2>we're on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>It was his first day.

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<v Speaker 2>He brought flowers. He got stoed up, he was crying.

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<v Speaker 2>Will he d said, well, he shouldn't have brought flowers.

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<v Speaker 2>Flowers is too early. You don't understand why, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>we're taking your calls. Eight hundred five, eight five, one

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<v Speaker 2>oh five. One of course WILLI did is our guest

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<v Speaker 2>co host this morning Me shit, good morning, me shit,

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<v Speaker 2>good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your thoughts? Misha like he was wrong for bringing

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<v Speaker 3>her flowers?

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<v Speaker 6>It was nothing wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Or you don't see nothing wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 8>No, flowers are not expensive and it's a good gesture.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I think as long as they're not roses, I

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<v Speaker 7>think it's cool. What if you would have brought her

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<v Speaker 7>brought her a pair of red bottoms? That's a little

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<v Speaker 7>too far, that's wow. I like sweet flowers seven to

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<v Speaker 7>ten dollars bottoms of a committed might be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>but what woman ain't going to accept those red bottoms?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>But I wouldn't do that. That's it, that's doing too much.

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<v Speaker 7>Because I'm a woman. I'm looking at do you do

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<v Speaker 7>this all the time? You just randomly give people red

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<v Speaker 7>bottom flowers a.

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<v Speaker 1>Little randomly, just give people flowers.

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<v Speaker 7>Flowers are different tho, because you can just give them

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<v Speaker 7>a person just because you want to light up their life.

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<v Speaker 1>Flowers are a sentimental gesture. Being sentimental to a woman

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<v Speaker 1>should be earned. It should be something earned. If you

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<v Speaker 1>give her to give it to her too fast, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to appreciate it. The same thing with you

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<v Speaker 1>don't pay for the meal, give it to it too fast.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not you don't pay for the meal, pay for

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<v Speaker 1>the meal. That's you know what I'm saying. I would,

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<v Speaker 1>I would do that. I mean, I mean, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm old school in the sense that that that that

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<v Speaker 1>I do believe that men pay for everything. Women are

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<v Speaker 1>h paragamut. You know what I'm saying, Like, I believe

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<v Speaker 1>in that. Mad you know, I'm cool with that. I

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<v Speaker 1>have no problem with that.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was going on, good morning morning, Matt, what's

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<v Speaker 3>your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Brother?

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<v Speaker 8>Hey, so, first of all, everybody flowers, I'm not vering

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<v Speaker 8>her flowers on the first day, and first of all,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not thinking. And then if we're gonna go to

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<v Speaker 8>a coffee that or something like, it's a talk and

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<v Speaker 8>get to go each other in the pumping space if

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<v Speaker 8>you're safe, and that's it. Before I got married, every

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<v Speaker 8>day that I had we went to Barnes and Nobles.

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<v Speaker 8>We could see what kind of books you're in, and

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<v Speaker 8>if you want a coffee, I got your head the

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<v Speaker 8>stone bus. That ain't nothing bee, and then.

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<v Speaker 4>I liked going to Night's Day afterwards. I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>honest with you. I think that's more. I think going

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<v Speaker 4>to Barnes and Nobles is very intimate.

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<v Speaker 3>But you but you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy also said he was talking to her for

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<v Speaker 2>the last two weeks. I guess on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess he was. He gave the initial conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>He said he was feeling around to see what she liked,

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<v Speaker 2>but she didn't like, so he was already doing the

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<v Speaker 2>initial conversations.

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<v Speaker 7>I hope some of y'all keeping notes, because I you know,

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<v Speaker 7>even though Willie did, I think bringing a woman flowers

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<v Speaker 7>on the first day is cool, but also that Bonds

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<v Speaker 7>and Nobles thing is dope. Meeting a woman that bonds

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<v Speaker 7>and nobles and y'all just having a conversation that bonds

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<v Speaker 7>and noble, y'a can talk about what kind of books

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<v Speaker 7>y'all like and stuff like that. That's that's cool and

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<v Speaker 7>it's very cost effective. What's the moral of the story, Oh,

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<v Speaker 7>the moil of the story?

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<v Speaker 5>Man?

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<v Speaker 7>I really want y'all to listen to me, because you

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<v Speaker 7>know everybody's looking for somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>I understand that, So please listen to me. Please, are

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<v Speaker 4>y'all listening?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, just because you haven't found the right person doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>mean you will not mistake