WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Valentine's Day Fork 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.239 Hey, we got a little Valentine's Day tree for you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:04.120 Will you be our sweetheart? Oh? 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:07.080 Wow, I have a Valentine See there we go. 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:10.320 It is your second and update. Thank you for finding 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:13.280 the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Apparently 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:16.680 something blew up on the comment section earlier this week. 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:18.840 Oh no, what did you no? 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:21.000 Not a problem we never got to talk about in 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.600 the awkward Tuesday the girl who got caught at the 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:25.720 library doing things? 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:26.040 You know. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:28.159 I just I forgot to look at the comments on 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.319 that episode, and there was fen Bay. I think I 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.000 should visit the library more often. Didn't know girls would 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:37.560 be that freaky there other people. I knew the minute 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:39.320 she said at the library, it was going to see 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:43.440 be something freaky. These book readers are getting crazy, I 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:43.960 will say. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.960 Every time I've gone to the library lately, it's been packed. Yeah, 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:48.640 I mean books are in. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:48.959 Yeah. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.800 I thought people were there to read, but apparently no, 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:51.720 you know. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:55.560 Okay Kiple, you thought that bar gosh, I'm doing it wrong. 0:00:56.080 --> 0:01:00.000 All right, here's your Valentine's Day edition of Your Second 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:00.840 did update. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.040 Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Second Date updates. 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.200 Sometimes it takes a bold move to make a first 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:12.360 date really stand out. Oh okay, what that means going 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:16.600 in for the kiss right when you meet your parents 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:20.399 along with you, or giving them your car at the 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:23.000 end of the night. It's a little thank you gift 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:24.200 for meeting up. 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:28.000 Signed the title over to you. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.920 Another bold move is to have your first date during 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:38.400 the most romantic holiday of the year, my Valentine. That's 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.200 what happened for one of our listeners, Melissa, who now 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:45.440 needs our help on Valentine's Day. So, Melissa, welcome to 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:45.840 the show. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:51.640 Hi, I'm so curious. Who would ask you out on 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:52.920 a first date around this time? 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:53.720 Oh? 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:58.480 Well, it was this guyman online. Actually all right, it's. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.080 Gonna sound silly. Did he hit any way safe? I 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.000 don't like you like that? 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.280 But see, I feel like he probably just forgot that 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.640 it was the holiday. I mean, he's a that's a 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:07.320 classic guy. 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.560 Go do a lot of like complicated question. Let's start 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.160 with an easy one. Does he have a name? 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:16.959 There is, Yes, his name is John. 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:19.720 Tell us about tell Us about the easy John. 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:26.960 He's really nice, He's so cute. Okay, I just thought 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.480 he was like a perfect gentleman. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.760 Oh really, what did he do that? Was so gentlemanly. 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:35.920 Okay, well, he definitely knew that it was Valentine's weekend 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:40.760 and he went above and beyond. Oh, booked this really 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:42.160 nice restaurant. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:45.400 So he didn't shy away from it. He was like, 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:48.200 I want to take you on a Valentine's date on 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.440 Valentine's weekend proper totally. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:51.240 Yeah. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:54.359 Okay, So how did it go? 0:02:55.160 --> 0:03:01.240 Well, so we get to the restaurant, but it is 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:02.280 so busy. 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:04.040 Oh did he have reservations? 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:05.360 Yes, he made a reservation. 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.000 Okay, okay, wow. 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:11.200 Man, a nice restaurant like reservations on Valentine's weekend. It's 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:13.480 very romantic, but it could put a lot of pressure 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.400 on both of them going into that day. Did you 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.200 feel that pressure energy at all? 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.160 I felt pressure going into it, but then once I 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:23.440 got there, he made me so comfortable. 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:25.880 Oh we did. Yeah. 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:26.400 How was it? 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:26.520 Like? 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:27.720 Did you have a good time with him? 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:32.120 I had a good time? Like no, no, no, I really 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.920 liked Tips. It was just that the atmosphere was so 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:40.120 insane and hectic, like we get seed at our table, 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.640 we get our orders in, our food comes out, and 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:46.080 we noticed there's only one fork, like the waiter's so 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.200 busy we have, but they never bring in another fork. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:52.200 So we're like, okay, I guess we share it? 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:53.640 Did you? Did you share it for? 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:56.560 We tried to share the fork, but that just like 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:59.480 took too long because then each person was waiting for 0:03:59.560 --> 0:03:59.960 the other person. 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:02.840 Seriously, you would take a bite from the fork and 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.040 then you'd pass the fork over to John, and then 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.760 he would take a bite from his meal. Well, you 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.600 can't make it like wait for one to finish. The 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:09.680 other person's gonna get cold. 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:12.880 He's a real gentleman, he'd wait for event gentleman. He 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:14.760 just go in the back like I do and steal 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:15.160 a fork. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:22.039 Station about this, I mean all the joking aside. Isn't 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:24.799 that like a weird way to go about your first 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:26.640 date sharing utensils? 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.000 Yes, but it was like sort of we had a 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:32.240 laugh about it. I switched over to a spoon. It 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.359 kind of made it a little bit and made it 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:37.239 low stakes because we were like, this is crazy, right. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.400 So he cut up your meat for you and then 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:39.720 you spooned it into your mouth. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.279 All right, let's get past the fork sharing. What what 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:45.800 other highlights happened during your restaurant date? 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:49.080 Okay, so this is where it got a little bit weird, 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:54.160 a weirder. We're finishing up our main course, and then 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:57.600 the host of the restaurant comes over and asked if 0:04:57.600 --> 0:04:59.920 he could speak to John, like away from the table. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.800 What that's weird. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.920 John goes over, has this long conversation. I could see 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:07.799 them talking. It looks like a little bit heated. 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:08.600 I couldn't hear what. 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:11.159 It's a little animated. 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.599 It lasted like five minutes. It's kind of long for you. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:18.920 Is the host a male or a female? A guy? Okay? 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:20.880 I was wondering if it maybe was an ex or something. 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:25.640 That's okay, not an ex. So what happened? 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.600 Well, okay, so when John comes back from the conversation, 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.040 he was like really upset and he was like, screw this, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.359 We're leaving. The host chases after and is like, you 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:37.320 still have to pay? Like I'm in the middle of it. 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:38.920 I'm confuseding like what's happening? 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:42.360 So you'reing, well, it sounds like they're being kicked out 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:46.280 of the restaurant, not dashing. They're like, you have to pay, 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.040 but hey, they're kicking me out of a restaurant. I'm 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:50.120 not paying either. Yeah, what happened? 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:52.200 Well, John told me to go out and like wait 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:53.760 in the car and that he would deal with it, 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:57.520 and he pays, he settles up. Okay, So when we're 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:59.599 on the car right home, I'm asking, like, what just 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:04.200 happened the crazy Apparently the host told John that we 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.120 were taking too long for our meal and there was 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:08.200 an hour limit. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:13.120 Oh they do that sometimes. Yeah, didn't John say it 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.080 only took so long because we had to share one 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:16.680 fork passing it back and forth. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:21.479 Probably that was probably, I mean, and I was supportive. 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:23.000 John was like really upset about it, and I was like, 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:26.159 I honestly too, that's ridiculous time on your day. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:28.960 Well that sucks. That puts like definitely a sour taste 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:30.800 at the very end of the day. Were you able 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.600 to end it on a happy note? 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.560 Yeah? I mean I he took me home again. He 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:38.120 was a perfect gentleman, walk me to the door that 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:41.200 he would call we should do it again? Really, so 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.960 he apologized for the restaurant thing, even though I could 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:46.159 tell he was still sort of heated by it and 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:47.360 it wasn't his fault. 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:50.159 Yeah, I mean, so you haven't heard anything from him 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:51.040 since this weekend? 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:55.159 No, does that feel like I don't know. Maybe he's busy. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:56.919 It's weird to do a whole Valentine's DA date and 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:58.320 then not text on Valentine's Day. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:03.640 Yeah, that build up and nothing embarrassed. Or maybe he 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:05.599 only has one cell phone that he shares with his 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.039 roommate back and forth, and so his roommate has the 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:11.560 cell phone this week. Yeah, so I don't know. There 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.640 must be an explanation. We're going to call the number 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.920 that you gave us, hopefully it's John, and we'll try 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:18.160 and get you your second date update right after this. 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:19.960 All right, all right, all right, hold. 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.840 On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:27.760 Two Meals, one spoon should be the title of our 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:28.920 second date today. 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:33.280 Man, you still shouldn't look that up on the internet. 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:37.040 Well, because our listener Melissa went on a Valentine's date 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:40.480 on the busiest weekend of the year, with couples packed 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:44.200 into nice restaurants. Their waiter was too busy to give 0:07:44.200 --> 0:07:48.440 them another fork. Sorry, so I said fork before, But 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:52.080 so they just shared one, which it's a little awkward 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:53.120 to do on a first. 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:54.440 Date and for a long meal. 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:56.960 Yeah, but it does sound like it helped break the 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:00.320 tension of having a pressure filled first date on a 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.040 holiday like and they. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.440 Actually got to taste each other's food. 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.040 Yeah. 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.480 The weird part though, was when the host came over 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:10.960 to the table during dinner, pulled her date John aside, 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:14.400 and they got into a heated conversation which Melissa couldn't hear. 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.840 All of it led to John saying, though, screw it, 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:17.520 We're gonna leave. 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:17.880 Dude. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:19.680 They basically got kicked out of the restaurant. 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.760 It's super often. Yeah, a lot of questions about that, 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:26.160 but apparently they were there for too long and the 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.320 restaurant was trying to turn as many tables as they 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:29.040 could that night. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:30.400 Oh my god, so rude. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:34.600 So yeah, almost ended in disaster. I mean it did, Melissa. 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:35.040 Do you think? 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:39.719 Yeah, maybe John's just embarrassed that that situation happened on 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:40.360 the first date. 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.439 Maybe I was also I was trying to think of 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.800 anything else weird happened. And I do remember that he 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.880 wanted to get to the restaurant early and I. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.640 Was like a little bit late getting ready. 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.280 Oh and he get you up right, like you guys 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:56.240 were in the same car. 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.760 Yeah, he picked me up Okay, too late. 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:03.560 Oh, so you're part of the reason that maybe the reservation. 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:04.920 Yep, yep got shifted. 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:07.440 Yeah okay, but if they only have you blocked out 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.680 for like an hour of eating, and you arrived twenty 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:11.440 minutes after your hour, like they might run. 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:13.640 Have you ever dated a woman like? Are we ever 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:14.160 on time? 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.880 I mean, come on, oh, you should pat it into 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:17.559 the reservation. 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.800 I don't know how I'm apologizing for this, but yeah, 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:22.560 I'm sorry. 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.800 Thank you. 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.800 Before you even get a kay, I would put myself 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:29.320 in choose. I don't think I would want to call 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:32.680 her back to really so embarrassed. You have all these expectations, 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:34.839 and now you're never gonna You're always gonna remember the 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:37.360 first day, yelling, storming out of the restaurant. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.040 We're gonna save this, Valancie. 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:42.120 Yeah, I can see if he is we're gonna save it, 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.760 or we're gonna blame John for not understanding what women 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.719 are really there is there will make him say I'm 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:48.240 sorry right when he gets on the phone. 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:50.640 It felt good when you said, do you feel. 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:51.319 Good about that? Melissa? 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:52.880 Yeah? I just want some answer. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.160 All right, let's get those I'm a child's number right 0:09:55.160 --> 0:10:07.480 now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for John. 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:10.640 This is John and John May. 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:13.320 My name is jeff from a radio show called Brook 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:17.000 and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, John, sorry for how 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.600 seductively my host tried to say that to you. But John, 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:22.720 it is Valentine's Day after all. 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:28.199 Dear John. Okay, John, it's just. 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:31.600 A Yeah, we're kind of a wacky fun show and 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:34.520 we do this wacky segment called second Date Update. 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:37.319 Okay, and we're. 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:39.680 Trying to help one of our listeners get back in 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:41.520 touch with you after you went on a date with 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.200 her named Melissa. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:45.320 Oh Man. 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.680 Yeah, we heard, we heard. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.040 I thought bold move on your part for going on 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:56.000 a first date on Valentine's Day weekend and like leaning 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:56.400 into it. 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:57.360 Yeah, that's a big deal. 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:57.800 Dude. 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.240 Melissa called you. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:04.320 She emailed us, and we reached out to her to 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.480 find out about how you two met and what you 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.520 guys did on your date. So we have a few 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:12.040 of the details. The information we're looking to get from you, though, 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.440 is why you're not reaching out to her after the date. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.360 She says, it's been a few days and got nothing. 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:26.080 Oh Man, because this is very embarrassing. You know, I 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:28.240 want to call her, and I know I know I 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:30.320 need to call her, but I've just been putting it 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.040 off because it's such an uncomfortable conversation. 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:40.760 You weren't physically attracted to her? No, No, it was 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.520 a bad guess. Sorry, I get three bad guesses. We 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:48.040 all get three bad guesses. That's my first strike. What 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.200 were you embarrassed about? 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:52.839 So I was really nervous about the date, and so 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:55.640 I really wanted it to be a good experience for her. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:12:01.000 But I waited too long to get dinners, and there 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:04.800 was no restaurants open, you know that had anything open 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:05.079 for me? 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:05.600 Wait? 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:08.720 She said that you had reservations and that you guys 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:10.120 went to this fancy restaurant. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:10.679 Yeah. 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:15.280 Yeah, well I might have done something a little weird 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.200 what I don't know if she told you. But so 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.680 at the restaurant, the way put me aside. Yeah, I 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:25.160 had like a he had like a little conversation with me. 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:27.680 Yes, she was mentioning that it got kind of heated 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:29.760 between you and the host, but she couldn't hear what 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:30.319 was happening. 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:35.760 Yeah, So basically what happened was the host he pulled 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.560 me aside and he was like, are you John, And 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:42.040 you know I told him that I was okay. But 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:45.080 so what happened? Was the actual John showed up? 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.840 Wait? Wait, wait what you took someone else's reservation that 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:49.839 was also named John? 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:51.120 Yeah? I did. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:53.959 How did you know there. 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:54.880 Was another John there? 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:55.320 Yeah? 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:57.720 Did you just go table for two for John? 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:03.480 What about Tom? What about Sarah? I met Kurt? How 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:04.200 did this happen? 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.640 So the day before, me and my friend went to 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.360 the restaurant and I told him to distract the host 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.400 and I went up to the reservation book and I 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.000 looked for another reservation. 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:17.839 John's brilliant. 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:20.800 And like it's such a generic name. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:24.760 Oh yeah, I can't tell if I'm flattered that you 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.560 put you You put energy to making sure you had 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.640 a table seriously, And it. 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.440 Makes sense because Melissa was saying you wanted to get 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.600 there early and she was running late. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.480 Yeah, I thought I could sneak it in there. 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:37.560 You know. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.959 Oh my god. Okay, hold on the server and me 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.720 has to ask, was John the table for one? 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.880 Which is why there was only one set of silverware 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:54.160 on the table? Yeah, that's right, figured it out, okay, John. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:58.080 Gosh, well you should have just asked John to join you. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:13:59.719 Yeah. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:05.360 Yeah, and you've been waiting to tell Melissa this. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:09.000 Yeah, I guess that's just too embarrassed to let her know. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.240 I had a great time on the day with her, 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.000 but I just was so ashamed of myself. 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:14.719 I guess. 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.160 I think it's kind of fun I think that she's 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:19.040 gonna think it's funny. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.160 All the women think that it's great that you took 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:25.120 someone else's reservation and stole it from another honest man. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:29.400 But that's okay. I wonder sure, I wonder how Melissa 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.960 would feel about that, though. Who actually is on the 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.040 other line listening to this conversation, dude? 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:36.080 Oh my, are you kidding me? 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:40.760 I'm serious? Yeah, she I think she's still there, Melissa, 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:41.200 you there? 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:46.360 Yeah, I'm curious. 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:47.080 That's what happened. 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.560 Oh my god, Hey Melissa. 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:52.920 Why wouldn't you just tell it? 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:54.880 Why did you have to make a big thing like 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:55.920 you made a reservation? 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:57.760 We could have gone anywhere. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.920 I know, just we clicked so well, and I just 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.760 wanted to make it special. And you know, I just 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:07.840 I guess I like you a lot, and. 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:10.320 When you're starting to vibe with someone online, you don't 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:12.600 want to lose that momentum and let it go like 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:16.480 two three weeks till the actual date exactly. You got 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.200 to get face to face as soon as possible. 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:21.760 Just sounds so understanding. You sound good, right. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:25.440 I mean, I guess I do see how much he 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:27.440 likes me to go through all that trouble. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.600 That is kind of sleek, yeah. 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:31.040 But also kind of sketch. That he wasn't going to 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:32.840 pay the restaurant bills they were leaving. 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:34.960 Remember that I. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:38.920 Was going to pay it, but I just didn't want 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.000 to get busted in front of her, so I just 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:41.800 had to get out of it. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:43.520 How to get her out? 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:46.400 That's sweet. If he commits crimes or makes mistakes, he 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:47.960 won't involve you in them. 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:52.160 That's chivalry. You say it's dead, and it's not just. 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:55.360 I promise every man should make so because of that, 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.600 I feel the ViBe's going on here. We'd like to 0:15:57.600 --> 0:16:00.040 send you guys out on another date, Melissa that we 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:00.680 would pay for. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:02.600 We can't get reservations for tonight though. 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:07.120 Yeah, and I promised two forks at the table. You 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:09.560 get your own utensils. What do you think, Melissa? 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.600 You know that is weird that that was happening, and 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:17.520 I had no idea, but I do think that it is. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:22.440 It's actually kind of really nice that you were like 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:24.960 freaking out so much about it and put all that 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:25.480 effort in. 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:28.920 So, yes, I would like to go on another date. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:31.760 Love is real. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.080 Look at that. If you are a little bit dishonest 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.920 on a first date and then admit to your dishonesty 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:38.400 later on. 0:16:38.760 --> 0:16:39.840 But it's all in the name. 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:40.360 Of love, Jeffy. 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:41.720 Yeah, yeah, it's fine. 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:42.880 As long as you say that. You don't have to 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:44.880 actually believe you. Just say that it's for love and 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.560 we can get you a successful relationship. Congratulations, guys, Thanks. 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.000 Valid, time's day. 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:52.480 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:54.480 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.360 Well, it's official. The hot new first date move is 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.800 stealing someone else's reservation and claiming it for yourself. 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:03.440 It's romantic. 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:09.000 Still the right effort is I mean, Brooke, if you 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.600 found out that your husband Michael did that for your 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:15.520 Valentine State and stole some other couple's table, would you 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:21.040 would your reaction be all, Michael, you're so conniving and manipulative. Sweet, 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:21.720 I love you. 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.840 Yes, I would be impressed. I am not even lying. 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:26.320 Okay, haven't been putting an effort. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:27.520 Yeah, we got into a. 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:29.520 Fight over how he hadn't planned anything, and so he 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:31.680 did finally play on something right. 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:35.400 Well, whatever, I just find someone with a generic name 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.359 like Michael at a reservation somewhere. Could be I had a. 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:39.600 Great date on Saturday night. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:45.040 There's like five mad Michael Fox. Well. The lesson that 0:17:45.080 --> 0:17:47.720 we're learning is it's okay to be dishonest on a 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.439