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Speaker 1: They tell them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs

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Speaker 2: on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: It's like writing in our diaries, except we say him aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call him blogs. Jason, you got one?

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Speaker 3: I do? I take it away, Thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 2: So I think I was the most cringed out I

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Speaker 2: could ever be by my boyfriend recently, Mike. So he's

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Speaker 2: a big Facebook market place person, right, Like, we're always

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Speaker 2: finding hidden gems and going and picking them up, you know,

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Speaker 2: and all this crazy stuff.

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Speaker 3: Well, anyway, so when are they hidden gems? Are they

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Speaker 3: really hidden gems?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: It's hit or miss really with him, Usually the ones

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Speaker 2: that he sends me on ends up being the duds.

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Speaker 2: But then you know, the ones that he finds and

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Speaker 2: goes himself, they're usually you know, the good stuff. But anyway,

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Speaker 2: so he went to go pick up a tool for something,

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Speaker 2: and so we go and he ends up that he

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Speaker 2: wants to buy it, and he starts, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: trying to lower the price, like now we're haggling, Now

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Speaker 2: we're negotiating, and my skin started crawling, like I'm very

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Speaker 2: much not that person. Like if you tell if I know,

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Speaker 2: like going that you're asking X amount of dollars for

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Speaker 2: this item.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm preparing to do.

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Speaker 2: Like like if you're selling something for fifty dollars right

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Speaker 2: and I'm showing up to buy you know, your wig

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Speaker 2: for fifty.

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Speaker 3: Dollars because I need a wig.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not gonna be like I got forty in

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Speaker 2: this envelope right here, like I'm here, like I should

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Speaker 2: just take it right, Like you should be good with that,

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Speaker 2: Like no, like you listened it for fifty dollars, Like

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Speaker 2: who am I to tell you what your goods are worth?

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Speaker 1: What you know?

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Speaker 3: Don't well, Vinyl, it's a negotiation.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody on Facebook marketplace puts their best price.

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Speaker 1: And the other thing is unless you said I will

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Speaker 1: pay you fifty dollars when I arrive. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like you keep it open ended because you got to

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Speaker 1: look at it because pictures don't always do a justice.

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Speaker 1: So you might show up and you might be like, ah,

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Speaker 1: this isn't or there's just ratch on here I didn't

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Speaker 1: see before, or he just doesn't look as good or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then you I think that I think you can

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Speaker 1: negotiate once you get there, unless you've agreed to a

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Speaker 1: price already yeah.

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Speaker 3: The guy was not having it.

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Speaker 2: He was very much like I got, well, you didn't

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Speaker 2: mention anything about the price like in our messages, right,

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Speaker 2: like mind you. I was messaging this guy, so now

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Speaker 2: he thinks that like I'm up to something funky, right,

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Speaker 2: because he didn't respond to Mike in the right amount

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Speaker 2: of time, so Mike blocked him. But Mike still wanted

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Speaker 2: the item. So then I had to message this guy

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Speaker 2: and be like hi, with like your item please. So

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Speaker 2: he very much was like not having it like he was.

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Speaker 2: He was like whatever, and they ended up like he

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Speaker 2: ended up coming down. But I wanted to run out

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Speaker 2: of the building like my fight or flight, Like I

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Speaker 2: was like out the door, like smoke on my heels,

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Speaker 2: like out the door. It was so cringe to me.

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Speaker 2: I just can't do it, and I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: My dad's the same way. Like if you ever need

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Speaker 2: someone to like barter over a vehicle price, like take

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Speaker 2: Jim Brown, like he will he stands on business. He

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Speaker 2: will come in. He will get you a deal, right

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Speaker 2: or as much as he can. Like I'm just not

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Speaker 2: that person, Like okay, that's what it is, signed all right, cool,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know it's so cringed.

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Speaker 1: Man, I hear you because it is kind of a

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Speaker 1: form of confrontation in some ways, But I mean it's

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Speaker 1: that's what negotiation is. I mean, the worst the worst

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Speaker 1: case is the person tells you know, and then you

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Speaker 1: can decide whether you want to still buy it or not.

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Speaker 1: But again, I don't think that unless you said when

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Speaker 1: I get there, i'll pay you this, then I don't

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Speaker 1: necessarily think that you you can't at least try and negotiate.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like a garage sales are on marketplace

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Speaker 1: or eBay. I don't think people put their very best price.

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Speaker 1: I think they put like a price and they'd sell

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Speaker 1: to you for less if you in some cases.

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Speaker 4: But don't you like kind of handle that before you

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Speaker 4: get there. I don't want to negotiating in the parking

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Speaker 4: lot of best buyer wherever they're standing right the gas station,

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Speaker 4: like I want to do this negotiation part which I

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Speaker 4: hate negotiating too, so I understand, but I'd rather do

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Speaker 4: a via messages like let's let's settle on the price here.

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Speaker 2: You know that would if I had to do it,

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Speaker 2: that would work best for me, Like I want to

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Speaker 2: show up you face to face and know what I'm paying, Like,

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Speaker 2: we're not doing this standoff.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could try it, but again, like you

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Speaker 1: got to see the item. Yeah, yeah, you can point

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Speaker 1: stuff out like I guess I would expect someone to

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Speaker 1: do that. I would if I was selling something on

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Speaker 1: Facebook Marketplace, I would expect them to negotiate with me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would. I would definitely do it in person.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm the spot.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I'm the worst because I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: only brought forty dollars.

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Speaker 3: Take a leave, bro, that's all I got.

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Speaker 4: You know, I's a atm across the trend.

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Speaker 3: Take the money out and you hold it in your hands.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I'm here, Like, I'll take it. I'm standing here.

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Speaker 3: Let me crace up your hands, you know.

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh, there's other people that are looking at it,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, you're lying, like.

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Speaker 1: Lying. I think there's a way to do it, though,

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Speaker 1: because I don't think you do it that way. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I would, because that just says to

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Speaker 1: the person that I was coming here to screw you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: exactly makes sense. So I don't know that you necessarily

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Speaker 1: do that. Because if I show up and I say, well,

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Speaker 1: I only have forty and I and the price at fifty, well,

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Speaker 1: that means that I decided, without even looking at it,

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Speaker 1: that I was going to pay less. I think what

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Speaker 1: you do is you show up and you look at

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Speaker 1: the item and you go, hey, you know what I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Would you take forty for this because

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Speaker 1: you know whatever? Or maybe maybe the price is fair.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the price is actually fair, But I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's worth trying. Because again, if you were selling I

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Speaker 1: don't know whatever, If you were selling something, would you

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Speaker 1: put just the would you put the actual price up there?

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Speaker 1: Would you go plus ten or plus twenty just to

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Speaker 1: see if you could get it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I would probably go higher for sure, because you want

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Speaker 2: to shoot for the stars. You can always come down.

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Speaker 2: You can't go up, right, I guess I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but that's.

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Speaker 3: Just not for me.

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Speaker 2: Like he'll be like when he sends me to go

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Speaker 2: get something, he'll be like, oh, it's thirty five, but

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Speaker 2: ask if he'll take thirty. And then I'll be like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they took thirty. But I don't even ask. I just

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Speaker 2: I just take five dollars on of my.

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Speaker 1: He was like kid.

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Speaker 3: I just oh yeah. So Jason co