WEBVTT - OG Fatherhood Feat. Dame Dash 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.240 Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:24.880 I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday mother, Happy Wednesday wife. How are 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:26.000 you feeling? I'm great? 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:26.479 How are you? 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:29.680 I am? 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:30.400 I'm good. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:34.000 I'm doing good, you know, mom life juggling being a 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.919 superstar and a mom trying to get people to pick 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:40.159 up my kid from school so I can interview the 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:41.480 biggest rock star of them all. 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.120 Agreed, Agreed, but all's well. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:45.600 How are you? 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.000 I'm great? You guys, if you are not following us 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:52.000 on YouTube, you should specifically now this is the time, 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.160 because bitches have leveled up today. 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.920 Okay, Actually I did a wrong thing and I started 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:01.520 to look at our our or comments on YouTube last night. 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:02.240 How would you do that? 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:05.520 I don't know. I was just curious. I was like 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:06.560 refraining from talking. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.280 Shit you this is what you do in the late night. 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:08.560 I know. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:11.560 I'm like you on Lipstick Alley, Like, why don't tell 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:12.360 me when I did that? 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:13.399 Secret? 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:17.120 Anyway, someone requested that we start showing our outfits. They 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:19.759 said they were fashion nistas. I mean, never show our outfits. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.280 So I just wanted to say, for whoever wrote that comment. 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:26.520 Did you get dressed specifically for this you didn't even 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:26.920 know me. 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:27.840 I get dressed every day. 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:28.520 What are you talking about? 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:29.840 I'd like to think that's for me. 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.560 Yes, we have our titties out and sometimes me and Erica. 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.520 Most of the time we always coordinate because we're spiritual, 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:39.000 which is wife's no. Oh my god, I'm okay. Let's 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:40.400 why should be introduce our guests. I was going to 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.760 tell about maur witchy incident over the weekend. It's really 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:45.319 not that intense. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:46.199 But what she's talking about. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:48.800 We were sitting in the somewhere and I had a 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:52.560 specific thought about a particular random person that we both know, 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.000 but it's not a very close person. It's someone who 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.880 lives in fucking Costa Rica. We do not talk to 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.280 him often. And I was like thinking of him, and 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.480 she turns and looks at me and goes, have you 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:07.680 talked to Gilly? And I said, stop right now, get 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:08.880 the fuck out of my head. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:10.600 I do not appreciate it, and she's like, what are 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:11.200 you talking about? 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:14.080 I was like, bitch, I was literally thinking about this 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.080 nigga right this very instant, and you said this to me. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.200 It scared me really bad. I mean not scared me, 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:21.920 like I knew we're connected and we're witches. 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:22.519 But that shit. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:24.600 I was like, this is this is on a different 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.320 level of connection. I was like, are we talking without talking? 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:29.720 Are we that close that we're talking without moving our mouth? 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:30.680 Yeah? 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:32.320 Yeah, so it's it's official. 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:32.840 We're witches. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:38.480 Anyway, we have a very special guest here today. 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:43.200 Who's blessed us with this poppin' ass studio setting because 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:48.600 he's Poppington, the rock star of all the og the 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:54.800 original best to ever do it second time on our show, 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.320 the Dad, the entrepreneur. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:01.679 The King, the mogul, the mogul. Damon, motherfucking dash. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.240 I like that one. I was expecting an applause out 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:04.480 there that. 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:08.239 We can have that later. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:10.200 How are you? 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:11.560 I'm good better now? 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.160 How are you? I miss you? Friend. Last time I 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.520 saw you was randomly in the backstages of Coach. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.800 Yeah. Yeah, you're having a ball. I was. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:23.600 He was escorting his daughters around like a good dad. 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:26.520 The good rock star dad that he is literally like. 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.520 His daughter's like we're leaving, Dad, He's like, I gotta go. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.280 They were really bossing his ass all over. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:33.120 Erica told me she's like, yeah, I saw Dave. It 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:34.400 was so cute. She was he was here with his 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.040 daughter and his daughter's son. They're making out. He was 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:40.720 acting I mean daughter's boyfriend and not daughter's son. 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:47.000 They were kissing. They were getting real. It was right 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:47.720 in front of your face. 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:49.720 Was Eric I saw because she was like, damn, was 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:51.640 acting so cool and they were just making out. I 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:54.160 was like, guess that's what his rock star dad's all about. 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:54.920 You just act cool? 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.880 Well, you know, Ava, But I have a thing with 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:02.640 my daughter's is I'm actually like a straight slave for them. 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:07.080 And the reason why is because if they get with 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:10.200 a guy, the guy has to treat them at least 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.880 as good as me or as me, or if not better. 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.320 And you know, she has someone that really respects her 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:20.599 and that actually does the right thing by her. So 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:23.400 you know they're in a relationship, you know what I mean. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.359 It's not like a hookup, even though if they're kissing, 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:28.880 I don't want to see that, but you know he's 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.800 doing and I know that. The reason why is because 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.760 she's seen our relationship Raquel's and I and the way 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:35.360 I treat her. 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.400 So she caught one a good one, you know. 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:41.480 But so he comes to Coachella, Like when I took 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:44.920 my daughter to Ava to Coachella when she was fourteen 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:49.080 years old. So then when Tulula turned fourteen, Ava leveraged 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.839 that and was like, you know, Tulula's fourteen, so we 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:53.400 all got to go to Coachella. So you got to 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:54.880 get the tickets, you got to get to the house. 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:57.040 And it was really nothing I could say to that, 0:04:57.480 --> 0:04:58.960 and I actually enjoyed it, you know. 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.160 So I got that off. I don't know if Tallula. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:05.960 Wanted to go as bad as maybe Ava, but she 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:08.239 got that off her bucket list. And I was able 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:11.800 to take both of my kids to Coachella when they 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:15.320 were a certain age and then together and then you know, 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:16.680 Ava graduated college. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:18.080 That's amazing. 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:21.680 Yeah, the good part about Ava is that I've taught 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.560 her a lot of my ideals, but she's like me 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.960 as a woman. But you know, I never have had 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:30.760 to feel that like pain of a daughter that's not 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:32.960 doing the right thing publicly, you know what I mean, 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:35.600 or just you know, sort of disrespecting or. 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.160 Growing or going through it. 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:40.400 She never went through it like that, and I appreciate that, 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.839 and I got to give a lot of those props 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.000 to her moms as well. But she's been classy she's 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:48.919 kept it classy and she's kept me proud, you know, 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:51.840 like she did it. She graduated college. And I didn't 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:53.880 care if she went to college, but she went. But 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:56.320 I'm proud, you know what I mean, she chose to go. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:58.800 I'm more so proud that she got to go to 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:02.000 college without debt, you know what I mean. So that's 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.760 where that pride comes in. But she had the discipline 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:07.000 to do it. She's in a proper relationship. You know, 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:08.400 she does a modeling one too. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:12.080 You know, both your kids are beautiful. First of all, 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:13.440 they're supermodels. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:15.719 Yeah, my two daughters. You know, I got Boogie and 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:18.000 Lucky and now baby Dustco as well. 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:18.720 Got boys. 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.680 Yes, all your kids, thank you. 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.040 We all make some beautiful kids. Yoh, I got some too, 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.800 Baby Dosco is ill. This is the first one I 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:31.040 was able to raise every single day and art detective 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.599 life where I never leave him, you know what I mean. 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:35.599 Like as soon as we've done here and right back there, 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:37.599 and I'm actually going to do an interview with my 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.599 daughter about our TV show and Love for a Living 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.320 about my children's amazing. 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:45.359 It's called in Love for a Living. 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.000 Yeah, I like that. Rocket and I are in love 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:48.520 for a living. 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:50.520 I like that. I want to be in love for 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:52.360 a living. I mean, I am in love with you. 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.839 Well, the trick about making money is doing something that 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:57.840 you would do for free, something you enjoy so much 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.480 that you actually get paid for it, and it never 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.520 feels like work. So you know, why would you create 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:06.240 a career that doesn't include the person you want to 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:07.800 be around the most. That means you're not going to 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:10.600 be around her or him when you're promoting and you're 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:11.640 all doing what you got to do. 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:13.960 So my model, even with. 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:19.480 My ex wife Rachel, I create businesses with them so 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.040 that you know, we can do it together and we 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.720 never leave each other. And you know, when there's a 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:27.880 dream that's made, I was there to help make it 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:30.960 come true because overall, that's what your man is supposed 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:32.800 to do. He's supposed to make your dreams come true. 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:34.920 If your man is not making your dreams come true, 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:35.680 he's not your man. 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:36.920 Do you hear that? 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:37.880 That's a fucking word? 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.160 Do you hear that? No, it's been I've I have 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:46.800 really loved watching the evolution of you and Roquel, because 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:49.520 I've known you now for almost ten years. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:50.640 I think more than that. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.640 No, I mean it was right right before I got pregnant. 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.720 That's when we first met. Yeah, like a year before that. 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:00.600 Yeah, so like eight eight nine years my daughter seven. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:05.640 Yeah yeah, and with the vitata, yeah yeah, that's the Veta. 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:06.760 She just like defriended me. 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.120 I don't know why she's around, I know, but she 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:10.600 never had She doesn't check any she don't. 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:11.800 She don't be going nowhere. 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:14.480 She would be on the ground, she don't. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:16.240 She's fighting people's rights. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:17.040 That's good. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:25.000 People. But I know, Rocky started off as your assistant 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:30.560 and then grew into being like the wife your Wifey. 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:31.280 She changed my life unsuspectedly. 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:33.800 In what ways did you think she changed your life? 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:38.720 Well, she became my muse, and I wanted different qualities 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:42.439 in a woman that I had prior to so before 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.280 in a very egotistical way. I was really into dating 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:49.240 famous women and models and all that other ship. And 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.720 you know, I was really, really completely and everyone knows 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:55.200 it's in love with Aleah. And even while she was alive, 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:58.600 the relationship was painful because she was always gone and 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:02.120 I was always gone. We both we're professionals, and again 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:07.360 we weren't working together. But you know, I forgot what 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:07.920 I was talking about. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:09.560 What we were talking about, well, just saying how like 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:11.320 how your expectations what. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:16.160 You so, you know, around the time I met Rocky, 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.400 it was like I just wanted a girl that was 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:21.440 beautiful in the morning. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.840 When she woke up like that, that was it. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.720 I was like, as long as when we wake up 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:32.920 she's gorgeous, you know, because that's when you spend the 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.120 most time. Like when you get into a relationship with somebody, 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:36.560 you got to wake up with them every day and 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.040 go to sleep with him. And it's not like you're 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.400 out and dressed up. It's how good you look when 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:44.040 you dressed down, And she's just perfect when she's dressed up, 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:48.160 you know what I mean. And then you know, it 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.400 was about her showing me the things that I wasn't 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:54.760 really able to do because I became successful relatively young. 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.520 So going to supermarkets and just walking around in the 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.600 street and walking dogs and one of the bars, just 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:03.960 regular shit was like a big deal for me. And 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:06.800 she enjoyed things. And because she didn't know who I 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.840 was when she met me, she never had any expectation, 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.320 so everything that I did is a surprise to her. 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.520 Or do there's no everyone else that I've ever met. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:18.560 It's just this is like an entitlement of everything being 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:22.360 big Willie no matter what you know. But her her family, 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.600 there's no entitlement. You know, they had no expectation. It's just, 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:32.120 you know, everything feels like appreciate it. So she's always 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:36.040 appreciated everything that a lot of people don't. And then 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:39.160 just like you know, wanting it, knowing like wanting a 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:42.920 girl that paints and it takes pictures and draws and 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:47.400 you know those kind of cooks you know, take does yoga, 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.880 you know, takes good care of herself. You know, when 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:53.640 someone takes good care of themselves, by default, they got 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.200 to take good care of you. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:55.400 You know. 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:58.360 So if you see a person a partner in their 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.840 house is dirty, then don't expect them to clean yours. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.240 If they don't cook for themselves, you can't expect them 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:07.000 to cook for you, you know. So if somebody doesn't 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:09.720 do something for themselves, it's rare they're going to be 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.679 able to do it for someone else. That's the reason 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.640 why when I work with people, they have to have 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:16.439 a dream and I have to see them working on it, 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.320 because the amount of work you put into your dream 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:22.280 is probably exactly the amount of work that you're putting into. Mind, 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:25.520 So if I see being lackadaysical about your own, I 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:28.920 know you being lackadaisical about mine, right, I. 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.200 Mean, then, even if you are putting more into my 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:33.520 shit than your own, how long will that last? If 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:36.040 you are not committed to yourself. There's something to be 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:40.720 said about someone more committed to the relationship than to themselves. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:42.320 I don't think that's healthy. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:46.440 Well, I find people that are totally like will commit 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.840 to other people's dreams versus their own, and that's not 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:50.680 the right relationship. 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:51.959 Do you But do you want that person? 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:53.440 Of course not. But I think I see that all 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.119 the time, and just in every aspect, not just relationships, 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:57.720 and as well. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:01.400 I think the thing about relationship of finding the perfect 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:05.800 partner is like with rocky things that people look at 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:09.600 in other relationships that I've had as faults, she finds 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:10.319 as strengths. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.199 You understand what I mean? 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:13.239 What are some examples. 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:17.400 She doesn't mind women around, She doesn't mind it at all. 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:19.880 Well, And when you say women around, are there just 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.520 women around in the house and the bathing suits and 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:25.439 all the cuttle pockets and the pool, are you interacting 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:27.880 with women? Are you just making three way kissing them? 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:28.160 Like? 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:32.160 What level of around is she accepting of? And the 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:33.800 people weren't prior to her. 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.640 The level of accepting when you guys were in the pool. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:41.160 I haven't announcement. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:49.040 I want to tell you, Dame, after that pool they so, 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.400 I know everyone hears this. If you're listening, if you're 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.680 a longtime listener, you know that I'm a three way 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:55.720 kissing bitch. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.839 I'd be three way kissing. 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:59.320 I don't know why it brings so much joy to 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:03.040 my heart does, but it's it's because of Dame. 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:05.640 I know you really didn't. You lit the fire in her. 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:11.200 Ever since, Dame, I have been three way kissing. Ever since, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.880 I have been on like a like a fucking manifesto. 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:21.520 Come everyone gather around you. You you no, we can't 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:24.720 do that. We did four too, I have you know, 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.400 I reserved the four for us. 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.080 I haven't taken that far, but I have three way 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:30.280 my fucking life away. 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:34.040 I wasn't expecting you to say all that. I see 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:35.520 what we're working with now. I appreciate that. 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:36.040 Yeah. 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:40.120 Last time, last time Erica and I went to the house, 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.800 we all went swimming, and. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:46.040 Why not Damon gave us. 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:49.800 What kind of show did you think you were on? 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:50.160 Dave? 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:52.200 I know, we're never rock star moms. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:53.680 The fun we're rock star moms. 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:56.440 We tell it like it is in the pool, and 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:58.360 then Rocky came and then we wait. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:06.920 Okay, let's we don't want to tell everybody. 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:09.280 So I thought it was lovely. 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:10.280 No, No, that was great. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:14.080 Anyway back to you. 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:21.560 Damn, I got out, Dame dash that's crazy was the 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:22.000 next question. 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:23.440 He that you hear that? 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:29.880 Guys, I've out, Damon. Damon started sweat. I'm sorry bringing 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:30.240 it back. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.960 So what you're saying you think previously in relationships have 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:35.760 you have you tried to fit into a box of 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.640 like what's like a normal I guess monogamous relationship would 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:40.000 look like. 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:44.000 I think I was always tried to put be put 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:48.400 in a box. No, Like, if you're attracted to a 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.000 man because women like him, and then you get with him, 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:54.120 you can't be mad at women still being attracted to him. 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:57.960 And you know, if he's a witty, humorous, flirtatious kind 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:01.960 of a guy or charming, you can't expect the person 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:02.960 to stop being charming. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:08.040 You know, how do you think you balance that though, like, 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:09.479 how do you I mean, obviously. 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:11.760 I know Rocky and I'm with Rocky every single day. 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.440 You guys get tired of each other. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.600 Never, That's the thing. I never get tired of being 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.280 around Rocky. You see, I don't be out. I got 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:22.280 what I'm looking for. I'm not out recruiting. I'm not 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:26.120 out recruiting, you know. And I don't disrespect our relationship 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:30.160 by lying. So, you know, we have a very honest relationship. 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:34.040 And it just so happens that she's one of the 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:37.600 most confident people I've ever met in my life because 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.480 it's not like an issue that has to be pushed. 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:44.440 She doesn't like dudes around me, Like she doesn't like dudes. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.520 I don't like dudes, you know what I'm saying. So 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:49.200 we have that in common. But she really does, like 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:52.040 she feels you know, she knows, I guess from being 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:55.840 around me. She knows every single thing a dude's not saying, 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.160 and what a dude is thinking, and what a dude 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.720 has the potential to do, you know, So she just 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:03.800 like cut all of that off completely. 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:05.880 So you know, I have. 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.200 Friends, and I have a lot and I have consistent 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.080 relationships with them, but they don't entail me being away 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:13.680 from my girl, but it doesn't entail my girl being 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.160 around a bunch of dudes, you know what I mean. 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:19.280 So it works out that way. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:22.320 So now that I know you guys, you guys just 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.400 had a baby, were not just how does dusk going 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.600 to year and a half? Year and a half times? 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.440 It's flying And essentially, I mean, I guess it's almost 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.120 like a second chance of fatherhood for you. Not that 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.360 like you needed a second chance, but like we said, 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:37.080 like this is the first so I. 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:40.880 Needed I needed a fifth chance. That was my fifth chance. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:46.880 I needed it, sorry fifth And I know, I know, Rocky, 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:49.640 you know, she really really wanted a child as well. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.080 That's all she wanted, right, She didn't care about anything 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.760 but having a child. And actually we went through IVF 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:58.920 and fairly far along in the pregnancy it went wrong 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:04.760 and you know that didn't work out, and a year 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.920 later we had a baby. I mean, we really had to. 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.720 Well yeah, and we're starting the process again today. Yesterday 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:18.199 she started taking the shows. I'm like, yo, I'm fifty one, man. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.800 If we're gonna do this, we gotta do this now. 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:24.040 But yeah, every relationship that I've had Prior to this one, 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.600 I've had to fight to see my children. My children 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:29.119 have been used to hurt me, which hurts them, and 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:31.720 my children haven't been able to have the luxury of 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:34.719 seeing both of us at the same time and enjoying 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:37.359 both of us at the same time and not seeing 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:41.680 me hurt because I missed them so much. So being 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:43.600 able to art detect the world where I can be 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:47.320 with my child every I've been with baby Dusco every 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:51.439 single day since he's been born, Like I've flown places 0:17:51.480 --> 0:17:53.440 and come back to New York and back and think 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:57.359 New York and back in the day Nicolett and I 0:17:57.480 --> 0:17:59.399 just because I can't be I can't do it. I 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:04.879 have a different option. And it's the best feeling in 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:10.080 the world. There's nothing better, you know, like just watching 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:13.520 your baby grow and being able to invest time and him, 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:15.320 be able to just be with both of us or 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:18.760 one of us and just pivot back like it's crazy 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:20.000 to be able. 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:21.520 I know that I've been. 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:24.879 I've been the person that's rocked him to sleep because 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:26.160 every day. 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:29.480 More than anyone. It's not like we swim three times 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:29.800 a day. 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:33.680 We went to the doctor yesterday and the doctor was 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:36.960 like he's at a four year old level. You know 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:38.919 the things he's doing. And I don't think, you know, 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:42.080 he's a super genius. I just I think every child 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:45.040 is a super genius if both parents can invest a 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:46.000 certain amount of time. 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:49.360