WEBVTT - First Impression Rose Recipient Abigail Talks Night One 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:05.920 Happy New Year. I thought you should doe in a 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:12.399 ten second countdown. Chairs see you, Rachel, Chairs, Happy New Year. 0:00:12.440 --> 0:00:16.200 We hope ever had a great holiday. Yes, virtually clinking 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:21.000 our glasses together and raise a glass. If you're listening 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.560 to this now, happy New Years. You guys. We made it. 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:27.280 We made it to twenty twenty one. I know it 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:29.520 seems like we would never get here. We're here. And 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.319 just because it's another day year on the calendar, we're 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:36.720 still facing some of the things that we experienced in 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.040 twenty twenty. We know that. But if you're listening to this, 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:43.640 it means you made it and you're you're here, you're healthy. 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:47.560 We hope you had a happy holiday. And you've heard 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.880 me say before odd years or my years, so I'm 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:55.040 giving that to everybody, that energy to everybody else. It 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:57.680 is a new year. It is a new season in 0:00:57.720 --> 0:01:01.400 life and a new season the Bachelor. You know what, 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:03.960 we didn't even take a break. We're just straight in 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:07.200 it to win it once again. But Rachel, before we 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:11.400 even like get into everything, it's her one year anniversary 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:16.720 of doing the podcast together. Oh my gosh, you in 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:20.880 particular to my amazing co host, such a good friend, 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.280 I'm so glad that I spent this past year doing this. 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:26.039 We've had ups and downs throughout this entire Do I 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:28.600 call it a journey? I guess yes, that's what it is. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.360 But I'm so glad that we're in it twenty twenty one. 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:34.920 Hopefully this year is better than twenty twenty, even though 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.720 I feel like twenty twenty was such a growth of 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:41.480 a year. But yeah, yeah, I mean, And I want 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.479 to start because Rachel and I before we hopped on here, 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:47.400 we had a quick conversation of how we want to 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:51.280 approach the overall podcast and our conversations with each other 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:54.280 and our guests week by week, and there's a lot 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:58.280 that has transpired, and first and foremost, and Rachel, please 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:01.080 jump in here whenever you want. But to everybody listening, 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:04.160 thank you for sticking with us throughout this past year 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:07.040 and to still subscribing to Bachelor Happy Hour. We are 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:09.840 so incredibly thankful. We obviously could not be here and 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:13.200 do this without you and as much fun as we 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:16.360 have together and as enjoyable as it is, and it's 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.000 such a good outlet, like just for me personally to 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.079 be here and to talk with you all, it's hard 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:25.040 at times, because I think at the end of the day, 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.040 it's hard to differentiate like that. You know, this is 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:31.720 a job and we're watching a show to recap and 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:35.120 give our opinions on a reality TV show, and a 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.880 lot of times we're going to say things that you 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:40.400 maybe don't agree with or that you don't you know, 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:43.640 see eye to eye with us on and that's okay. 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:46.760 But as much as we love all the support that 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:50.040 we get, there's also a lot of hate and judgment 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.880 and negativity out there. And I know it's wayne on 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.520 both of us, but rich especially you too, and so 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.600 I just want to address it and then hopefully move 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.799 on and move forward from this. And so again, thank 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.400 you guys for listening. But keep in mind, we're recapping 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:10.880 a two hour TV show weekly that has thirty plus contestants, 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.560 that has drama, and we know a little bit behind 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:16.560 the scenes of stuff thatch down and so overall this 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:20.480 should still be a fun, light and enjoyable podcast for 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.680 you all to listen to. And it is a podcast, 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:26.680 so we do give our opinions, that's what it is. Yeah, 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:30.280 very well said Becca very well said I won't say much, 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:32.560 and partly for me not saying much is just the 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.880 fear of saying anything. That's how I feel like things 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.000 have gotten to that point. You know, Becca and I 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.040 will be the first to say we don't get everything right, 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.600 and honestly, that's not the point of the podcast. We're 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.680 not trying to, We're not trying to be right. We're 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:48.560 just trying to. You know, we're fans. We watch the show. 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:51.320 We watch it like you, guys. We have opinions just 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.200 like you do when you're sitting at home on the 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:56.240 couch watching it with your girlfriends or however you watch 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.360 the show, you have a strong opinions or maybe not 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:02.040 so strong as about people that you watch. And that's 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:06.640 what we're doing, but just recording it on a microphone, 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:09.680 putting it out there in podcast forum for you guys 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:13.000 to listen to, and please feel free to give your 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.359 opinions on what we say. We like constructive criticism and 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.760 we want to be better for you. But please understand 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.640 that we're not always going to say what you want 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:23.800 to hear. We're not always going to get it right 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.119 the way that you want us to. But this should 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:29.320 be a space where we can all talk about something 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:32.599 we have in common, which is this show. This franchise, 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:35.800 and we talk about the silliness of the show, the good, 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:39.480 the bad, the ugly, our past experiences on the show, 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.040 and what we think about the people who come and 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.400 go on the show. But it's just gotten to a 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:48.520 point where, and I know you feel this way too. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:52.400 It's like I feel like I can't be myself. I 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:56.120 feel muted. I feel like, Okay, I hear you, I 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:58.679 hear what you're saying, because it's not criticism that we're getting. 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:05.279 It's nastiness, it's negativity, it's judgment, it's a personal attacks 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:09.880 where that's not what podcasting should be, right. We're just 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:13.799 having a conversation about a show, a reality TV show. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:17.120 So you know, and I'm I'm know I'm assertive when 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:21.159 I talk, and I'm passionate and I'm very direct. But 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.760 that doesn't mean that what I'm saying is the truth. 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:26.000 It doesn't mean what I'm saying is fact. It just 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:29.200 means that this is what I think about it. Feel 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:32.320 free to disagree. That's okay. It makes that's becca and 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:34.520 I don't always agree. That's what makes this this whole 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:38.920 thing fun. So you know what, this is a historic season, 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.880 and I know we are both super excited about it, 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:45.480 excited about it. And this is something we have talked 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.560 about that we have won it since we have been 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:51.400 affiliated with this franchise, and that's diversity, and specifically we 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:55.040 have both talked about wanting to see the first black Bachelor. 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:58.080 And here we are season twenty five. It took twenty 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:02.000 five seasons, eighteen years. What is the Matchelor diversity campaign say? 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:09.679 And like forty however many contestants and now we're finally 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:13.680 here and I am myself and Becca want to be 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.520 in a place where you're excited to talk about a 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:18.760 moment we have waited so long for. And so I'm 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:22.479 hoping that you guys take this information, you receive this information, 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:24.760 and we can just get back to the basics of 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:28.400 having fun. Right now, we feel a little bit muted. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:31.480 We feel like we have to walk on xhells and 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:33.520 what it is that we're going to say, And it 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:37.000 shouldn't be that way. It really shouldn't, especially when we 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:40.920 are in such a great time with the franchise and 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:44.560 a historic time by having Matt James as our bachelor. 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:48.080 So with that being said, you know, did you have 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:51.159 a New Year's resolution? Becca? Oh? I have a whole 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:54.479 list for Rachel. I saw you put that on social 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:56.160 I think that's great. I wish I could take the 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:58.160 time to do a list. I think that's beautiful. But 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.600 you know what I realized about my resolue is a 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:04.320 lot of times they're so vague that they don't they're like, 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:06.760 it's harder for me, I think, to follow them year 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:10.000 by year. And so one of them now in twenty twenty, 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:12.240 oh my god, I didn't even know what year in 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:15.480 this in twenty twenty one is to be more precise 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:20.080 and direct and adamant with what I'm envisioning, with what 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.840 I want to manifest. And so that's one of the 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.240 main ones I would say. And then what was it? 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:29.480 What was it you told me last year? Babies? Right, well, babies, yes, 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.640 But I did I realized I'm not great at having 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:36.080 a New Year's resolution. I wish I like, I saw 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:37.960 your list, I thought that was fantastic, and I wish 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:39.360 I did something like that. So for me, I just 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:42.360 did a word a word or a matra. And I 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.480 stole this from Trista because her podcast, which you guys 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.280 would check it out. It's absolutely amazing. It is called 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:50.400 better and So my word is better. I want to 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.200 be better in all aspects of my life, and so 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.880 I'm saying that too because I want us to be 0:07:57.040 --> 0:08:00.520 better with our Bachelor Happy Hour community. You know, there 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.400 are ways that Becca and I can both be better, 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:04.480 there are ways that this podcast can be better, and 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.000 there are ways that you as an audience can be better. 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:11.280 So let's all collectively just be better in twenty twenty 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:15.960 one and beyond. So with that saying, I'm saying that 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:21.800 let's talk about this historic season and Matt James, let's 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.640 get right into it, break it down. We also have 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.200 a very very special guest coming on the show. You 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.200 know how we do it during during the season, we 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.160 bring you the best guest, We get them first, and 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:36.559 so we have none other than Abigail, the first Impression 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:40.360 Rose recipient, coming onto our show. But before we talk 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.320 to her, we're just going to dive a little bit 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:45.480 into things that stood out to us in this episode. Becca, 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:49.760 take it away. Oh my gosh, where to even begin. 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.360 I mean, yeah, as you said, like, this is probably 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:55.439 one of the most anticipated seasons that we've been waiting for, 0:08:56.320 --> 0:09:00.360 and I think overall, after watching the premiere, one of 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:04.880 the things that I really walked away with was And 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:06.800 I don't want this to sound bad, but I like, 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:11.760 I didn't have super super high expectations for Matt only 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:15.320 because I say that only because he's never done this before. 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:19.360 Like that's fair. He had no clue really what he 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:23.000 was walking into. And it's funny because you know, I 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.240 think he's talked to a handful of leads before he 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:28.959 left for his season, and one thing that he asked, 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.120 it's like, what do I expect? And I was like, look, 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:35.079 like it's gonna be a whirlwind. You're gonna meet so 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.839 many beautiful, incredible women. There's gonna be drama. But like 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:41.000 the parts that people don't see and don't think about 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:44.079 are the most grueling parts where it's like you're miked 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:48.160 up all the time. You're constantly in interviews, you're constantly 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:51.760 being whisked away to do press or you know, to 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:53.960 deal with the drama or this and that. Like there's 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:57.000 so much that you don't know, and you're constantly talking 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:00.199 about your same thoughts and feelings and emotions over over, 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.480 and so that's one thing that I was like, this 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:04.559 is gonna be really exciting, but it's gonna be so 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.240 draining because you don't fully know what you're getting into 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:11.000 and so and he didn't expect that, and so I 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.599 just was like, you know, he could really get in 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:17.480 front of the cameras and show up and not be 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:20.200 articulate and not give a lot of feeling and emotion 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:24.320 and depth there. And so after watching just him during 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:26.920 this night one and talking with his mom and Chris 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:31.160 and all of the women, I felt like, I actually 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.880 kind of like the fact that he's never done this before. 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.400 I found it a little bit more refreshing. I love 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.480 the fact that he was nervous, but I was very 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:43.760 pleasantly surprised overall at what he provided to me as 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:48.199 a viewer. I think that that's well said. I was 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.960 surprised at how nervous he was. I mean, I knew 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:52.679 it was I knew he was going to be nervous, 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.959 but we saw it, you know, like they can see 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:57.520 it because they're with them, and maybe his hands were 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:00.840 shaking or they were clamming or whatever, but you could 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.600 see how nervous he was, which I thought was endearing 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:05.800 and made me feel like he was taking it seriously. 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:09.280 One thing I did note is they really want us 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:14.800 to know how desirable Matt James is I said, I 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.120 mean to take the time to say, this is the 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:20.640 most applications we've ever had, and we've never seen a 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:23.480 response like this, and we're like, Okay, Bachelor Franchise, we 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:25.720 got it. You did a good job in picking Matt James. 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:29.760 He's wanted, clearly, He's an attractive man. He's tall, he's 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:33.360 a former athlete, he worked in New York. He's got 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:35.480 a hot best friend, you know what I mean. Like 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:39.800 he's like like he's like a catch. We got it. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:41.920 So I just thought that that was really funny that 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:46.959 they were like, oh, we've never seen a response like this. Okay, guys, like, 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.240 we got it. You don't have to justify why you 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:53.160 pick Mac James. We understand why he's the Bachelor. He 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.760 is a desirable man, which is whoever the lead is. 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:58.960 Another thing I known it that how he was really 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:02.400 nervous is that he had a lot of awkward laughs. 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:04.880 Did you notice that? Oh yeah, but I would have 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:08.160 laugh came. I think I did on my season. I 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.120 think we all we all have like our nervous quirks 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.319 or things that we say, and for him, it was 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:14.760 like laughter And I was like Okay, there was Actually 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.520 there was one point where he was literally maniacally laughing 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:20.040 in the room. I think it was he was when 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:22.880 he got to his home and he walks in and 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:27.080 he has like these three or four laughs, and I'm like, Matt, 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.520 what's who are you talking to? Casper the friendly Ghost? 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.800 Like what's happening here? You are you laughing with a camera? 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.760 Like what is that? Thing's funny? Matt? But I thought 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.200 I was like, oh, he's a little nervous, I think, well, 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.440 and like putting myself in his shoes again. I remember 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:43.360 the first time I checked into any hotel that we 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:45.839 were traveling too, and I walk in every time I 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:48.839 was blown away. I was like I didn't feel like 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:51.640 it was real. You know, It's like and this is 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:54.439 his first time ever doing this, and so I'm sure 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.000 he's like what do I do? Like obviously there's a 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.680 camera and I miked up, but like, do I talk 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:01.000 to myself? Do I laugh? Do I like embrace it all? 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.880 And jomp on the bed like he's it's just like 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:08.040 he's this little baby being born into this crazy, weird world. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:12.200 And absolutely it's but as you said, endearing, it's fun 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:17.240 because we're witnessing this new season through such a different lens, 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:22.640 I would say, but yeah, I love that he took 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:26.319 moments to kind of make it his own. And you 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:29.720 know there's the moment where right before the women pull up, 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:32.079 where he's like, wait, Chris, like, I've never done this? 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.720 Can we talk? And usually each season with the lead, 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:39.560 we see past bachelor's or bachelorettes come in. I mean, 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.280 I had you, Caitlin and Jojo with me to kind 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:45.880 of guide me and give me pointers. No one besides Chris. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.400 Were you surprised by that? Were you surprised that they 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.319 didn't have former leads, mail leads come in and chat 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:54.520 with him, especially someone who's never been through this before. Yes, 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.560 oh no, I was very shocked by that. I found 0:13:56.600 --> 0:14:00.719 that very strange, to be honest, and maybe chalk it 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.160 up to quarantine. And I don't know, but I thought 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:05.719 that they did at least have someone. I mean, we 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:09.160 obviously see him sit down with his mom, but she's 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:10.800 never done the show, so she can't really give him 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:14.240 pointers either. So right, the regulars like ben Nick, they're 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:18.000 always available, They're always there. Where were they? Somebody's got 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:21.480 to be somebody's spilette. He has a spilot's license. He 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:23.640 can find him a colon, Like, where was he in 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:27.640 a lot of recent news. Yeah, we're better not we 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:31.200 don't need he's got some things, he's got a figure out. Yeah. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:33.720 But um so I'm glad that he did take that 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:37.040 moment to be like, wait, Chris, buddy, give me a 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.680 few minutes here, I need some time to sit. Um. 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:43.240 And and then there was the moment to where oh 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:46.560 it was his when he like first walked in with 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:49.240 all of the women there, and he instead of giving 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.040 the typical toast, he chose to do a prayer, which 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:54.480 I thought was very special and and very him. It 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:57.080 seemed like very on brand with who he is and 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.480 true to who he is. And so I appreciate that 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.840 that he's taking moments like that too. Uh you know, 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:04.880 even though he's ever done this to still stand out 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:08.240 in that regard. I think it was the vibrator. I 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:11.480 think he thought, oh my god, is this the type 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.320 of women they're coming on this show where they're showing 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:18.560 me they're they're they're telling me about their sexual escapades 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:20.720 prior to coming on the show. Then try to give 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.160 me the vibrator, only to take it back because they're 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.960 going to continue to need it until they get to 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.040 the fantasy suite. He thought, my god, let's start this 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:32.040 off with a prayer. Lets the vibrator. He had the 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:34.920 girl showing up in the lingerie. He's like, oh Lord, 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:37.280 I don't know what to do. He said, Lord, bless 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.680 the situation. Let me let me just go ahead and 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:43.400 and taking some holy water and all the women. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.160 and I And then when he opened his eyes, that 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:47.760 dildo was staring him right in the face. Shine and 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:50.440 shine and bright. But what I actually thought the prayer 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.840 was beautiful. But what I wish is it was a 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:54.800 missed opportunity. Is in the middle of the prayer, I 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:56.720 wish I would have just started vibrating on the table. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:00.480 Oh my gosh. And it was. There's so many miss opportunities. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.160 He should have kept making references about like I'm a 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:07.160 stand up guy, and you know, unless I feel good vibrations, 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:12.000 I'm not gonna take that next step with you and hard. Yeah, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.000 oh gosh. They could have really played with that. It 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:18.320 could have been fantastic. But you know, maybe maybe who knows, 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.080 maybe it comes up later, or at least I would 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:25.120 hope one day we'll see um Limo rivals. I was 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:27.120 a little bored by them. I know, there's only so 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.560 much you can do in Ny mccolin, but I thought 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:33.560 I felt like Claire got better Limo arrived. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:36.560 well no one. I mean this I think is was 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:38.520 this the first season that no one showed up in 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:40.840 a costume? Did somebody show up in the costume? There 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:43.680 were the hooves? There was the hooves? That isn't that funny? 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:48.800 I was like girl girlfriend, she went home? Right? I mean, 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:51.560 how do you? I mean she and she was a 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:54.120 pretty girl, but it's like every time you look down, 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:57.480 it's like a girl walks in a lagerie and it's 0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.840 like you and your hooves. She would have been better 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.120 with like something on her hands, hooves, I guess the 0:17:03.200 --> 0:17:07.960 most it's an ugly name is costume. It's incomplete. She 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:09.760 would have been better in full costume. But just the 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.840 fact that she was like dress looking up with her dress, well, 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.760 they were big and harry. When you look somebody up 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:18.720 and down, you're like, okay, I'm looking at your head 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:21.560 to tell I'm working my way down and bam, And 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:23.840 it's a site. It's a site. You can't unsee that 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.640 you can't unsee the hooves. I loved that she went 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:28.960 for it. That would that would have totally been me. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:30.720 I would have felt so much more comfortable in the 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.520 hooves than the lingerie. They were house shoes. She was 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:38.800 literally wearing house shoes, hooved house shoes. Who were your 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:42.359 top three limo entrances or what were they? Oh gosh, 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:47.280 this is tough because as as a whole, they sucked. Sorry, 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.119 they just they weren't. I wasn't over the top of 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:53.040 the way. Um what stood out to me? I guess 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.480 the hoofs were talking about it. The vibrators stood out. 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:59.920 It broke the ice. Um. I interviewed Matt on Extra 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:03.560 and he said that he said he was so nervous 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.480 that when she did that, he just let out this 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:08.480 crazy laugh and it just kind of like released so 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:12.080 much nervous energy and then let her go. No, he 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.920 kept her. Oh dude, he thought he was He kept vibrations. Wait, 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:19.479 vibrations are the hooves hooves I'm talking about? He let 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:24.520 hooves go, healt the vibrator. Yeah, Like he laughed so hard, 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:27.560 it just like released all this nervous energy, similar to 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:30.399 what a dildo can do for you. Crazy enough and 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:33.600 so I thought, I thought, um, like that that stood 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:37.840 out to me. So hooves dildo. And I liked the 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.560 girl who came in the pickup truck because she bought 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:42.480 a piece of home with her and they had that 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:44.320 in common. And then to see them later in the 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:46.800 back of the truck he was rinking the sweet tea 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:49.760 in the picnic. That was that was cute. That was 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:51.920 one of my favorites too, because it was a piece 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:54.120 of home. I think it made him feel a little 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:58.520 bit more comfortable and smart girl because she can utilize 0:18:58.560 --> 0:19:01.600 it later and have that beautiful whole picnic. And I 0:19:01.720 --> 0:19:03.840 also loved how she's like, it's a stick, don't do 0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:08.080 me like that? I appreciated that. Um. I also really 0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:12.080 liked only because again, this is something Becca would have done. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:15.200 Is when m J came out of the car and 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:17.520 was going to open up the back and bring out 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.480 the pizza, that would have totally been me. I would 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:21.159 have locked the keys in the car. I would have 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.320 been locked out and like, well, damn it, I just 0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:26.080 ruined this entire entrance. UM. So, I thought that was 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:27.760 kind of cute and that was the best part of 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:31.320 her interests. The cheesy pizza thing. Yeah, the best part, 0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:34.480 but it was memorable, at least to me. I enjoyed that. 0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:39.040 I liked that part. And then, um oh, actually one 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:41.920 thing and this wasn't even a big moment, but I 0:19:42.000 --> 0:19:44.720 think her name was Piper. I liked what she said 0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:47.600 when she met him. Her last name is James Mindle. 0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:50.320 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's okay. Men men, I was 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:53.440 joining minne Agrees, but when Piper came out, she's like, 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:55.920 my dad wants me to keep my last name. He 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:58.000 wants all of his daughters to keep his last name. 0:19:58.040 --> 0:19:59.359 And so that is something that stuck out to me, 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:01.159 and I was like, that's what I've been saying all 0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:03.679 a long, girlfriend, And so I liked that moment too 0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:06.240 because I thought, you know, good for her for admitting 0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:09.439 that to him, and so a woman after my own heart. 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:11.840 I appreciated that. That was cute. I thought that that 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:14.400 was really cute. It felt like they have to change 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:17.920 it anyway. So perfect, No, it's absolutely perfect. She was cute. 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:21.680 What else stood out to you? I mean a funny 0:20:21.760 --> 0:20:25.680 moment to me was I loved that And I don't 0:20:25.720 --> 0:20:28.480 remember what the Dilzo girl's name is, but that she 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:31.480 interrupted the girl and tapped her on the shoulder with it. 0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:35.000 I thought that was funny. Now I have to say this, 0:20:35.200 --> 0:20:39.840 we have to have a conversation around the dildo. I'm shocked. 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:47.080 ABC a family station. This is still technically a family show. 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:50.760 It doesn't get risk gay until Fantasy Sweets. Really with 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:53.840 a couple of other occasions where you know it's gone 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:59.000 into the deep end. They started off the entire season 0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:03.960