1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Happy New Year. I thought you should doe in a 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: ten second countdown. Chairs see you, Rachel, Chairs, Happy New Year. 3 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: We hope ever had a great holiday. Yes, virtually clinking 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: our glasses together and raise a glass. If you're listening 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: to this now, happy New Years. You guys. We made it. 6 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: We made it to twenty twenty one. I know it 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: seems like we would never get here. We're here. And 8 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,319 Speaker 1: just because it's another day year on the calendar, we're 9 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: still facing some of the things that we experienced in 10 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. We know that. But if you're listening to this, 11 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: it means you made it and you're you're here, you're healthy. 12 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: We hope you had a happy holiday. And you've heard 13 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: me say before odd years or my years, so I'm 14 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: giving that to everybody, that energy to everybody else. It 15 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: is a new year. It is a new season in 16 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: life and a new season the Bachelor. You know what, 17 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: we didn't even take a break. We're just straight in 18 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: it to win it once again. But Rachel, before we 19 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: even like get into everything, it's her one year anniversary 20 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: of doing the podcast together. Oh my gosh, you in 21 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: particular to my amazing co host, such a good friend, 22 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm so glad that I spent this past year doing this. 23 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: We've had ups and downs throughout this entire Do I 24 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: call it a journey? I guess yes, that's what it is. 25 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: But I'm so glad that we're in it twenty twenty one. 26 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: Hopefully this year is better than twenty twenty, even though 27 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: I feel like twenty twenty was such a growth of 28 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: a year. But yeah, yeah, I mean, And I want 29 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: to start because Rachel and I before we hopped on here, 30 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: we had a quick conversation of how we want to 31 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: approach the overall podcast and our conversations with each other 32 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: and our guests week by week, and there's a lot 33 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: that has transpired, and first and foremost, and Rachel, please 34 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: jump in here whenever you want. But to everybody listening, 35 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: thank you for sticking with us throughout this past year 36 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: and to still subscribing to Bachelor Happy Hour. We are 37 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: so incredibly thankful. We obviously could not be here and 38 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: do this without you and as much fun as we 39 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: have together and as enjoyable as it is, and it's 40 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: such a good outlet, like just for me personally to 41 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 1: be here and to talk with you all, it's hard 42 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: at times, because I think at the end of the day, 43 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: it's hard to differentiate like that. You know, this is 44 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: a job and we're watching a show to recap and 45 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: give our opinions on a reality TV show, and a 46 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: lot of times we're going to say things that you 47 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: maybe don't agree with or that you don't you know, 48 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: see eye to eye with us on and that's okay. 49 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: But as much as we love all the support that 50 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: we get, there's also a lot of hate and judgment 51 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: and negativity out there. And I know it's wayne on 52 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: both of us, but rich especially you too, and so 53 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: I just want to address it and then hopefully move 54 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: on and move forward from this. And so again, thank 55 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: you guys for listening. But keep in mind, we're recapping 56 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: a two hour TV show weekly that has thirty plus contestants, 57 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: that has drama, and we know a little bit behind 58 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: the scenes of stuff thatch down and so overall this 59 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: should still be a fun, light and enjoyable podcast for 60 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: you all to listen to. And it is a podcast, 61 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: so we do give our opinions, that's what it is. Yeah, 62 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: very well said Becca very well said I won't say much, 63 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: and partly for me not saying much is just the 64 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: fear of saying anything. That's how I feel like things 65 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: have gotten to that point. You know, Becca and I 66 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: will be the first to say we don't get everything right, 67 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: and honestly, that's not the point of the podcast. We're 68 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: not trying to, We're not trying to be right. We're 69 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: just trying to. You know, we're fans. We watch the show. 70 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: We watch it like you, guys. We have opinions just 71 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: like you do when you're sitting at home on the 72 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: couch watching it with your girlfriends or however you watch 73 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: the show, you have a strong opinions or maybe not 74 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: so strong as about people that you watch. And that's 75 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: what we're doing, but just recording it on a microphone, 76 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: putting it out there in podcast forum for you guys 77 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: to listen to, and please feel free to give your 78 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 1: opinions on what we say. We like constructive criticism and 79 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: we want to be better for you. But please understand 80 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: that we're not always going to say what you want 81 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: to hear. We're not always going to get it right 82 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 1: the way that you want us to. But this should 83 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: be a space where we can all talk about something 84 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: we have in common, which is this show. This franchise, 85 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: and we talk about the silliness of the show, the good, 86 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: the bad, the ugly, our past experiences on the show, 87 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: and what we think about the people who come and 88 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: go on the show. But it's just gotten to a 89 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: point where, and I know you feel this way too. 90 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: It's like I feel like I can't be myself. I 91 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: feel muted. I feel like, Okay, I hear you, I 92 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 1: hear what you're saying, because it's not criticism that we're getting. 93 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: It's nastiness, it's negativity, it's judgment, it's a personal attacks 94 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: where that's not what podcasting should be, right. We're just 95 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,799 Speaker 1: having a conversation about a show, a reality TV show. 96 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: So you know, and I'm I'm know I'm assertive when 97 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: I talk, and I'm passionate and I'm very direct. But 98 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that what I'm saying is the truth. 99 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean what I'm saying is fact. It just 100 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: means that this is what I think about it. Feel 101 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: free to disagree. That's okay. It makes that's becca and 102 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: I don't always agree. That's what makes this this whole 103 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: thing fun. So you know what, this is a historic season, 104 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: and I know we are both super excited about it, 105 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: excited about it. And this is something we have talked 106 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: about that we have won it since we have been 107 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: affiliated with this franchise, and that's diversity, and specifically we 108 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: have both talked about wanting to see the first black Bachelor. 109 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: And here we are season twenty five. It took twenty 110 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: five seasons, eighteen years. What is the Matchelor diversity campaign say? 111 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:09,679 Speaker 1: And like forty however many contestants and now we're finally 112 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: here and I am myself and Becca want to be 113 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: in a place where you're excited to talk about a 114 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: moment we have waited so long for. And so I'm 115 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: hoping that you guys take this information, you receive this information, 116 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: and we can just get back to the basics of 117 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: having fun. Right now, we feel a little bit muted. 118 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: We feel like we have to walk on xhells and 119 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: what it is that we're going to say, And it 120 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: shouldn't be that way. It really shouldn't, especially when we 121 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: are in such a great time with the franchise and 122 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: a historic time by having Matt James as our bachelor. 123 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: So with that being said, you know, did you have 124 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: a New Year's resolution? Becca? Oh? I have a whole 125 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 1: list for Rachel. I saw you put that on social 126 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: I think that's great. I wish I could take the 127 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: time to do a list. I think that's beautiful. But 128 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: you know what I realized about my resolue is a 129 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: lot of times they're so vague that they don't they're like, 130 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: it's harder for me, I think, to follow them year 131 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: by year. And so one of them now in twenty twenty, 132 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, I didn't even know what year in 133 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: this in twenty twenty one is to be more precise 134 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: and direct and adamant with what I'm envisioning, with what 135 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: I want to manifest. And so that's one of the 136 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: main ones I would say. And then what was it? 137 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: What was it you told me last year? Babies? Right, well, babies, yes, 138 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: But I did I realized I'm not great at having 139 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: a New Year's resolution. I wish I like, I saw 140 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: your list, I thought that was fantastic, and I wish 141 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: I did something like that. So for me, I just 142 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: did a word a word or a matra. And I 143 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: stole this from Trista because her podcast, which you guys 144 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: would check it out. It's absolutely amazing. It is called 145 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: better and So my word is better. I want to 146 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: be better in all aspects of my life, and so 147 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm saying that too because I want us to be 148 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: better with our Bachelor Happy Hour community. You know, there 149 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: are ways that Becca and I can both be better, 150 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: there are ways that this podcast can be better, and 151 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: there are ways that you as an audience can be better. 152 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: So let's all collectively just be better in twenty twenty 153 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: one and beyond. So with that saying, I'm saying that 154 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: let's talk about this historic season and Matt James, let's 155 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: get right into it, break it down. We also have 156 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: a very very special guest coming on the show. You 157 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: know how we do it during during the season, we 158 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: bring you the best guest, We get them first, and 159 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 1: so we have none other than Abigail, the first Impression 160 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: Rose recipient, coming onto our show. But before we talk 161 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: to her, we're just going to dive a little bit 162 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: into things that stood out to us in this episode. Becca, 163 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: take it away. Oh my gosh, where to even begin. 164 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, as you said, like, this is probably 165 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: one of the most anticipated seasons that we've been waiting for, 166 00:08:56,320 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: and I think overall, after watching the premiere, one of 167 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: the things that I really walked away with was And 168 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: I don't want this to sound bad, but I like, 169 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: I didn't have super super high expectations for Matt only 170 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: because I say that only because he's never done this before. 171 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: Like that's fair. He had no clue really what he 172 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: was walking into. And it's funny because you know, I 173 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: think he's talked to a handful of leads before he 174 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: left for his season, and one thing that he asked, 175 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: it's like, what do I expect? And I was like, look, 176 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: like it's gonna be a whirlwind. You're gonna meet so 177 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 1: many beautiful, incredible women. There's gonna be drama. But like 178 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: the parts that people don't see and don't think about 179 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 1: are the most grueling parts where it's like you're miked 180 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: up all the time. You're constantly in interviews, you're constantly 181 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: being whisked away to do press or you know, to 182 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: deal with the drama or this and that. Like there's 183 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: so much that you don't know, and you're constantly talking 184 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 1: about your same thoughts and feelings and emotions over over, 185 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: and so that's one thing that I was like, this 186 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 1: is gonna be really exciting, but it's gonna be so 187 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: draining because you don't fully know what you're getting into 188 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: and so and he didn't expect that, and so I 189 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,599 Speaker 1: just was like, you know, he could really get in 190 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: front of the cameras and show up and not be 191 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: articulate and not give a lot of feeling and emotion 192 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: and depth there. And so after watching just him during 193 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: this night one and talking with his mom and Chris 194 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: and all of the women, I felt like, I actually 195 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: kind of like the fact that he's never done this before. 196 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: I found it a little bit more refreshing. I love 197 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: the fact that he was nervous, but I was very 198 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: pleasantly surprised overall at what he provided to me as 199 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 1: a viewer. I think that that's well said. I was 200 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: surprised at how nervous he was. I mean, I knew 201 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: it was I knew he was going to be nervous, 202 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 1: but we saw it, you know, like they can see 203 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: it because they're with them, and maybe his hands were 204 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: shaking or they were clamming or whatever, but you could 205 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: see how nervous he was, which I thought was endearing 206 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: and made me feel like he was taking it seriously. 207 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: One thing I did note is they really want us 208 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: to know how desirable Matt James is I said, I 209 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: mean to take the time to say, this is the 210 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: most applications we've ever had, and we've never seen a 211 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: response like this, and we're like, Okay, Bachelor Franchise, we 212 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: got it. You did a good job in picking Matt James. 213 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: He's wanted, clearly, He's an attractive man. He's tall, he's 214 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: a former athlete, he worked in New York. He's got 215 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: a hot best friend, you know what I mean. Like 216 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: he's like like he's like a catch. We got it. 217 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: So I just thought that that was really funny that 218 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 1: they were like, oh, we've never seen a response like this. Okay, guys, like, 219 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: we got it. You don't have to justify why you 220 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: pick Mac James. We understand why he's the Bachelor. He 221 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: is a desirable man, which is whoever the lead is. 222 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: Another thing I known it that how he was really 223 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: nervous is that he had a lot of awkward laughs. 224 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: Did you notice that? Oh yeah, but I would have 225 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: laugh came. I think I did on my season. I 226 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: think we all we all have like our nervous quirks 227 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 1: or things that we say, and for him, it was 228 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 1: like laughter And I was like Okay, there was Actually 229 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: there was one point where he was literally maniacally laughing 230 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: in the room. I think it was he was when 231 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: he got to his home and he walks in and 232 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 1: he has like these three or four laughs, and I'm like, Matt, 233 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: what's who are you talking to? Casper the friendly Ghost? 234 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: Like what's happening here? You are you laughing with a camera? 235 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: Like what is that? Thing's funny? Matt? But I thought 236 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, he's a little nervous, I think, well, 237 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: and like putting myself in his shoes again. I remember 238 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: the first time I checked into any hotel that we 239 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,839 Speaker 1: were traveling too, and I walk in every time I 240 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: was blown away. I was like I didn't feel like 241 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: it was real. You know, It's like and this is 242 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 1: his first time ever doing this, and so I'm sure 243 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: he's like what do I do? Like obviously there's a 244 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: camera and I miked up, but like, do I talk 245 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: to myself? Do I laugh? Do I like embrace it all? 246 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: And jomp on the bed like he's it's just like 247 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: he's this little baby being born into this crazy, weird world. 248 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: And absolutely it's but as you said, endearing, it's fun 249 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: because we're witnessing this new season through such a different lens, 250 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: I would say, but yeah, I love that he took 251 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 1: moments to kind of make it his own. And you 252 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: know there's the moment where right before the women pull up, 253 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 1: where he's like, wait, Chris, like, I've never done this? 254 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: Can we talk? And usually each season with the lead, 255 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: we see past bachelor's or bachelorettes come in. I mean, 256 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: I had you, Caitlin and Jojo with me to kind 257 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: of guide me and give me pointers. No one besides Chris. 258 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: Were you surprised by that? Were you surprised that they 259 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 1: didn't have former leads, mail leads come in and chat 260 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: with him, especially someone who's never been through this before. Yes, 261 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 1: oh no, I was very shocked by that. I found 262 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:00,719 Speaker 1: that very strange, to be honest, and maybe chalk it 263 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: up to quarantine. And I don't know, but I thought 264 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,719 Speaker 1: that they did at least have someone. I mean, we 265 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: obviously see him sit down with his mom, but she's 266 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: never done the show, so she can't really give him 267 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: pointers either. So right, the regulars like ben Nick, they're 268 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: always available, They're always there. Where were they? Somebody's got 269 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: to be somebody's spilette. He has a spilot's license. He 270 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: can find him a colon, Like, where was he in 271 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: a lot of recent news. Yeah, we're better not we 272 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: don't need he's got some things, he's got a figure out. Yeah. 273 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: But um so I'm glad that he did take that 274 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: moment to be like, wait, Chris, buddy, give me a 275 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: few minutes here, I need some time to sit. Um. 276 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: And and then there was the moment to where oh 277 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: it was his when he like first walked in with 278 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: all of the women there, and he instead of giving 279 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: the typical toast, he chose to do a prayer, which 280 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: I thought was very special and and very him. It 281 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: seemed like very on brand with who he is and 282 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: true to who he is. And so I appreciate that 283 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: that he's taking moments like that too. Uh you know, 284 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: even though he's ever done this to still stand out 285 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: in that regard. I think it was the vibrator. I 286 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: think he thought, oh my god, is this the type 287 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: of women they're coming on this show where they're showing 288 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: me they're they're they're telling me about their sexual escapades 289 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: prior to coming on the show. Then try to give 290 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: me the vibrator, only to take it back because they're 291 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: going to continue to need it until they get to 292 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: the fantasy suite. He thought, my god, let's start this 293 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: off with a prayer. Lets the vibrator. He had the 294 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: girl showing up in the lingerie. He's like, oh Lord, 295 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. He said, Lord, bless 296 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: the situation. Let me let me just go ahead and 297 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: and taking some holy water and all the women. Yeah, yeah, 298 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: and I And then when he opened his eyes, that 299 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: dildo was staring him right in the face. Shine and 300 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: shine and bright. But what I actually thought the prayer 301 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: was beautiful. But what I wish is it was a 302 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: missed opportunity. Is in the middle of the prayer, I 303 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: wish I would have just started vibrating on the table. 304 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. And it was. There's so many miss opportunities. 305 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: He should have kept making references about like I'm a 306 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: stand up guy, and you know, unless I feel good vibrations, 307 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take that next step with you and hard. Yeah, 308 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: oh gosh. They could have really played with that. It 309 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: could have been fantastic. But you know, maybe maybe who knows, 310 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: maybe it comes up later, or at least I would 311 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: hope one day we'll see um Limo rivals. I was 312 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: a little bored by them. I know, there's only so 313 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: much you can do in Ny mccolin, but I thought 314 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: I felt like Claire got better Limo arrived. Yeah, yeah, 315 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: well no one. I mean this I think is was 316 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: this the first season that no one showed up in 317 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: a costume? Did somebody show up in the costume? There 318 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: were the hooves? There was the hooves? That isn't that funny? 319 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: I was like girl girlfriend, she went home? Right? I mean, 320 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: how do you? I mean she and she was a 321 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: pretty girl, but it's like every time you look down, 322 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: it's like a girl walks in a lagerie and it's 323 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: like you and your hooves. She would have been better 324 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: with like something on her hands, hooves, I guess the 325 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: most it's an ugly name is costume. It's incomplete. She 326 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: would have been better in full costume. But just the 327 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: fact that she was like dress looking up with her dress, well, 328 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: they were big and harry. When you look somebody up 329 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: and down, you're like, okay, I'm looking at your head 330 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: to tell I'm working my way down and bam, And 331 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: it's a site. It's a site. You can't unsee that 332 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: you can't unsee the hooves. I loved that she went 333 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: for it. That would that would have totally been me. 334 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: I would have felt so much more comfortable in the 335 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: hooves than the lingerie. They were house shoes. She was 336 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: literally wearing house shoes, hooved house shoes. Who were your 337 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: top three limo entrances or what were they? Oh gosh, 338 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: this is tough because as as a whole, they sucked. Sorry, 339 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: they just they weren't. I wasn't over the top of 340 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 1: the way. Um what stood out to me? I guess 341 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: the hoofs were talking about it. The vibrators stood out. 342 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: It broke the ice. Um. I interviewed Matt on Extra 343 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: and he said that he said he was so nervous 344 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: that when she did that, he just let out this 345 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: crazy laugh and it just kind of like released so 346 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: much nervous energy and then let her go. No, he 347 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: kept her. Oh dude, he thought he was He kept vibrations. Wait, 348 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: vibrations are the hooves hooves I'm talking about? He let 349 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: hooves go, healt the vibrator. Yeah, Like he laughed so hard, 350 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: it just like released all this nervous energy, similar to 351 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 1: what a dildo can do for you. Crazy enough and 352 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: so I thought, I thought, um, like that that stood 353 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: out to me. So hooves dildo. And I liked the 354 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: girl who came in the pickup truck because she bought 355 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: a piece of home with her and they had that 356 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: in common. And then to see them later in the 357 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: back of the truck he was rinking the sweet tea 358 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: in the picnic. That was that was cute. That was 359 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: one of my favorites too, because it was a piece 360 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 1: of home. I think it made him feel a little 361 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: bit more comfortable and smart girl because she can utilize 362 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: it later and have that beautiful whole picnic. And I 363 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: also loved how she's like, it's a stick, don't do 364 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: me like that? I appreciated that. Um. I also really 365 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: liked only because again, this is something Becca would have done. 366 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 1: Is when m J came out of the car and 367 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: was going to open up the back and bring out 368 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: the pizza, that would have totally been me. I would 369 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: have locked the keys in the car. I would have 370 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: been locked out and like, well, damn it, I just 371 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: ruined this entire entrance. UM. So, I thought that was 372 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: kind of cute and that was the best part of 373 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: her interests. The cheesy pizza thing. Yeah, the best part, 374 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: but it was memorable, at least to me. I enjoyed that. 375 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: I liked that part. And then, um oh, actually one 376 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: thing and this wasn't even a big moment, but I 377 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: think her name was Piper. I liked what she said 378 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: when she met him. Her last name is James Mindle. 379 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's okay. Men men, I was 380 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: joining minne Agrees, but when Piper came out, she's like, 381 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: my dad wants me to keep my last name. He 382 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 1: wants all of his daughters to keep his last name. 383 00:19:58,040 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: And so that is something that stuck out to me, 384 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 1: and I was like, that's what I've been saying all 385 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: a long, girlfriend, And so I liked that moment too 386 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: because I thought, you know, good for her for admitting 387 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 1: that to him, and so a woman after my own heart. 388 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: I appreciated that. That was cute. I thought that that 389 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 1: was really cute. It felt like they have to change 390 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: it anyway. So perfect, No, it's absolutely perfect. She was cute. 391 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: What else stood out to you? I mean a funny 392 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 1: moment to me was I loved that And I don't 393 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: remember what the Dilzo girl's name is, but that she 394 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: interrupted the girl and tapped her on the shoulder with it. 395 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: I thought that was funny. Now I have to say this, 396 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: we have to have a conversation around the dildo. I'm shocked. 397 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: ABC a family station. This is still technically a family show. 398 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: It doesn't get risk gay until Fantasy Sweets. Really with 399 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: a couple of other occasions where you know it's gone 400 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: into the deep end. They started off the entire season 401 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: with this dildo, and yes there was a black box, 402 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 1: but we all know what it does, and all the 403 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 1: sexual innuendos are surrounded around this thing. It's setting a 404 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: tone for his season. I'm telling you, this is why 405 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 1: he had to dig deep on prayer Matt. Matt has 406 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: never done this before, and you and you want to 407 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: pop off his season with the dildo. The man's terrified, 408 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like like fall on your knees, 409 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: he said, Lauren Blood of Jesus, you know what I mean? 410 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: What do you think about this? Do you think people 411 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: are going to be receptive to the fact that what 412 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: are we saying? This is historic season and the first 413 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: seconds of the show are a sex toy. I don't well, 414 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: here's the thing, I like, I don't know how long 415 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 1: or strong I should say that the dildo or the 416 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: vibrators carried on throughout the season. Um, yeah, And I 417 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: don't know if they did that, because I mean, he 418 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: is a man that is very strong in his faith, 419 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: and I I'm trying to think of the last Bachelor 420 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: that's kind of been like at that level of his faith, Like, 421 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: was it. Ben's very talked about his religion a lot. Yeah. Yeah, 422 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: So I don't know if it's just like a one 423 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: and done to like really entice the viewers night one 424 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 1: and to hook you in, and or if it's going 425 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: to be something throughout the entire season. I think it 426 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: wasn't a dynamic episode. It really wasn't something. And this 427 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: is not taking away from Matt James. We all know. 428 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, we're big supporters here, but it was kind 429 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: of a straightforward episode. I think if the dildo was removed, Okay, well, 430 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: what are we talking about? The hoofs? Yeah, you know 431 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: the history of it. Yeah, there wouldn't have been the 432 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: drama between vibrator and who is it? Mauri? I think 433 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: we're not talking about Queen Victoria talk about anti climactic. 434 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 1: I mean, my guy, her props had more personality than 435 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: she did. I mean, the Queen has arrived. That's all 436 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: she said. That's all. I can't even I said, I 437 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: didn't want to talk about her, but I had to 438 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: talk about that. There was nothing to talk about. Yeah, 439 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 1: I'm so disappointed. She better come correct any other episodes. 440 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: I mean, she's like, I'm gonna say this and then 441 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to revert back, because it's like she was 442 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: made out to seem like I think a Karne on 443 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: Nick season with you, there will never be She's not. 444 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 1: She's not a Kren two point oh, Like Karinne had 445 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: these one liners and was witty. But I think Victoria 446 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 1: it just like, you know, it's like I'm the queen. 447 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm the queen, I have my crown, I have my scepter, 448 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: and that's that's about it. Like, yeah, I'm the queen 449 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: and you're the king and that was all, and you're 450 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,360 Speaker 1: a princess. When she said the Queen's arrived, bitches, I said, 451 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: oh my, that's that's your opening line. I knew we 452 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: weren't going to get much from her. Yeah, she's more 453 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: of a jester. I'm expecting more of her. I had 454 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: big actually thought she was going to be more of 455 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: a villain. She wasn't. The dildo was the villain. The 456 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: dildo was the thirty first girl. The Dildo had a 457 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: starring role in the first episode. Might as well have 458 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: been standing up there next to Matt James giving the speech. 459 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,480 Speaker 1: That was the start. That's why I think they made 460 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 1: it such a big part of the show, because without it, 461 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: there really wasn't much else to go with. Well, the 462 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: next exciting thing is the trailer for the remainder of 463 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: the season. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was really it. I mean, 464 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: and we see a little bit of the drama between 465 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: kid and Victor Queen let's just Queen Victoria if you will. 466 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, other than that, like it was pretty straightforward. 467 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: I mean, and we'll have abigailon to go into the 468 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: first impression Rows and that first kiss and all of 469 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: the good stuff that's yet to come. I can't I mean, 470 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: other than that, like should just get into it and 471 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: bring her on and try to get some tea out 472 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 1: of Abigail. Absolutely, we've got the one and only first 473 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: impression Rose here waiting for us to talk to her. 474 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: Let's bring her on, Well, Abigail, well come, we're so 475 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: excited to have you, and this is our first interview 476 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: podcasts for Matt season, and so I guess we're just 477 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: going to start it strong with you. So welcome to 478 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: Happy Hour. How are you? I'm good now? Thank you 479 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: so much for letting me come on. This whole thing 480 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 1: is super surreal for real, just because i've you have 481 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: watched both of you our guys this seasons and so 482 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,719 Speaker 1: now it's just super surreal to be on the other 483 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: side of it. You get it a little bit more now, 484 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: don't you. Abigail? Where are you calling in from? Where 485 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 1: are you based? So on a Beaverton right now? So 486 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 1: I grew up in the Oregon area. And then yeah, 487 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: so we actually rented out like a little airbnb for 488 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: our premiere party, just doing something with my family and friends. 489 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: So keeping it small, just say good for you. I mean, 490 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 1: there's nothing like premiere night, right, it's the whole world. 491 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: You've had this secret for months, you've known about it. 492 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,959 Speaker 1: We don't know how far you make it. We'll get 493 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 1: into all of that, but now you get to share 494 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: your experience with everyone. And so it's so great that 495 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: you've created this premiere party that you guys can watch 496 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: the whole show together, and obviously it's a big night 497 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: for you, So I think the question first will additionally 498 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 1: we have to ask, is were you a fan of 499 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: the show before you came on? Yeah? No, I definitely 500 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: have watched the show in the past. Like I said, 501 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: obviously know how both of your guys's journeys have gone, 502 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 1: and that If anything, I think it just kind of 503 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: made me want to, you know, just kind of see 504 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: could it work for me. But I think even watching 505 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: the show and being on the side of the audience 506 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 1: does not prepare you for what's on the other side 507 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: of the camera. I think I learned that really quickly. 508 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: It was a really good experience. Definitely, I have no regrets, 509 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 1: but I think it's just it challenges It challenges you 510 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: in a lot of ways that I think nothing can 511 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: prepare you for. Nobody can tell you how it's gonna go. 512 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, it was definitely a very wild experience for sure. Well, 513 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: and especially night one, when you're fresh out of the limo, 514 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,399 Speaker 1: you you know, you don't know what your connection with 515 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: the lead is going to be. You have all of 516 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 1: these lights and these cameras, and of course thirty plus 517 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 1: girls chattering away and already causing drama. What was your 518 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to put myself back into night one, and 519 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: I remember being so nervous, but overall throughout the entire evening, 520 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: Like what was your overall feeling, like, how did you 521 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 1: leave the next day? Feel like happy? Elated? Like I 522 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: think you got the first kiss? How was that for you? 523 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: I think that night I was definitely the most overwhelmed 524 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 1: I've ever been, just because there's just so much pressure. 525 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: On the first night, I think of just doing the 526 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 1: right thing, saying the right things. I mean, you're potentially 527 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 1: meeting your husband, and I think that's a lot of 528 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 1: pressure just to take a step back and say, okay, 529 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: are we compatible in any way? And then on top 530 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: of that, you have, you know, the three plus women. 531 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: They're all gorgeous and all have their own backgrounds and 532 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: stories that they're trying to share with Matt as well. 533 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 1: So it's very overwhelming. There was definitely a couple of 534 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: moments where I had to step away and go to 535 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,959 Speaker 1: the bathroom and just kind of breathe a little bit, 536 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: just because it is really overwhelming. But no, the next 537 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: day I was definitely writing because you know, just on 538 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: a high. I think I was just I think my 539 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: biggest thing is when I came into this, I really 540 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: thought I was just going to fall back kind of, 541 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: you know, into the shadows and not really make an impression, 542 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: just because I'm not usually kind of the loudest person, 543 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: or I didn't really have a gimmick when I came in, 544 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: and so I just really didn't think that Matt was 545 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: going to remember me and then just to have the 546 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 1: night that I did. Yeah, I was definitely rigging on 547 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 1: a cloud down the next day for sure. Yeah you are. 548 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,959 Speaker 1: And you are so right about the bathroom being your 549 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: safe list and absolutely is. You could have found me 550 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: in the bathroom with time or two grid my eyes out. 551 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: So you know, one of the things that has been 552 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 1: new with The Bachelor is that we get to meet 553 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: the women weeks before we actually see them on our 554 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: television screens, which I love this new thing that the 555 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise is doing. So we've heard about you just 556 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: from reading your bio, but now we're getting the chance 557 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: to meet you, and we learned probably more about you 558 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 1: the first episode than we do about a lot of 559 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: the other women. So I want to take this opportunity 560 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: for you to just kind of tell us a little 561 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: bit more about you, who you are and how in 562 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: the world you got on this crazy show. Sure, is 563 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: there like anywhere that you wanted me to start or 564 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: just kind of how I end just on a show? Well, 565 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: like a little tidbit about like maybe who you are, 566 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: because like the show is about love, so maybe you 567 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: know what led you to be here. You're stunning, you know, 568 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: like you easily see the connection between you and Matt 569 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: the first night, like effortless. So I know you have 570 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 1: no time. No, um, I gotta can't speak. I know 571 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: you don't have a hard time at all, you know, 572 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: attracting attention and having a lot of suitors. But how 573 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: did you end up on this show? You know? Give 574 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 1: us a little bit about like into your love life? Sure, um, 575 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: well it was pretty much not as a stand before 576 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: the show. I think I think a lot of people 577 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: can just kind of relate, you know, just being in 578 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: my shoes, being in there twenties. You are on the 579 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,479 Speaker 1: you know, the dating maps and you're trying to date around. 580 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: But I think what I just really struggled with is 581 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: it's so superficial and you know, just kind of doing 582 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 1: the same thing. And I was just getting the same results, 583 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: and I just wasn't happy with that. Um, you know, 584 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: I just really wanted to just kind of push myself 585 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: and have conversations with a man that I've never had before, 586 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: you know, whether that be about my background, about my 587 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: hearing loss. There was just so many things that I 588 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 1: just felt ready to finally talk about that I'd never 589 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: been able to talk about before in past relationships. And 590 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: so that's kind of why I just kind of took 591 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: that leap. I was like, you know, it's as crazy 592 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: it as I may seem, you know, the Bachelor. I 593 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: think that's just so out of my comfort zone. But 594 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: I think when Mac God announced as the Bachelor, you know, 595 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: obviously he's very handsome, you know, I was not concerned that, 596 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: you know, was I going to be attracted to him. 597 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: But I think there's just something about Math that just 598 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: comes across very genuine. You know. I've kind of heard 599 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: him speak a few times and just kind of how 600 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 1: compassionate he is. I knew that he was going to 601 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: be able to challenge me to have those conversations, and 602 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: so yeah, so I think that's why I was like, Noah, 603 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 1: I'll just go I'll be vulnerable have millions of people 604 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: watched me and you know that's totally fine, casual, natural. No, 605 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 1: I that's kind of how it why ended up, as 606 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, I just you know, I was just thinking, 607 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: if I do stuff being so far off my comfort 608 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 1: zone and like anything I've done before, so maybe I'll 609 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: get really good results out of it. I want to 610 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: ask you because you just mentioned you know, obviously you're 611 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 1: hearing impaired, and that is something that we saw fresh 612 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: out of the limo with you as you mentioned it 613 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 1: to him, and then when you sit down later in 614 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 1: the night you talk about it and open up a 615 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: little bit more about that with him. Was that something 616 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: going into that night and the conversation with him that 617 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: you had planned or did you want to first see 618 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: how your connection with Matt was, like if he was 619 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: reciprocating those you know, feelings or what made you finally 620 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: feel comfortable to share that with him. Yeah. No, I 621 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: knew going into it that night that I wanted to 622 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: talk about it, just because just kind of going back 623 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: gone what my dating has been like. Um, it's something 624 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: that I normally don't really say on a first date. 625 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 1: You know, it is a huge part of who I 626 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 1: am but you know, just kind of being a hidden 627 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: disability and you can't really see my coplacking plant when 628 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: I wear my hair down. And it's kind of a 629 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: scary thing just to bring up to somebody on a 630 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 1: first date because you really don't know how they're going 631 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: to take it. And I have been in kind of 632 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: uncomfortable situations. You know. One time I went to Top 633 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: Golf and it's really well there, and you know, I 634 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: was missing half the things that he was saying, and 635 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: I still couldn't bring myself just to tell him, like, hey, 636 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 1: this is my situation. It's just something that I've been 637 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: insecure about in the past. And when you're trying to 638 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: be attracted to a guy, you know, aarrying out your 639 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: insecurities is not always the first thing that you want 640 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: to do. But then kind of just going into this 641 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 1: whole process, I was like, you know what, I'm just 642 00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 1: gonna go all out. I'm just gonna lay it out 643 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: there and you know, and just see if you know 644 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: how he takes it. He knows it's something that he 645 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 1: wants to learn more about, is it something that he 646 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: wants to kind of see, you know what a relationship 647 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,800 Speaker 1: with a deaf person would be like, um, so you know, 648 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: that's why I did it the first night. And I 649 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: think that's why I was writing on such a high too, 650 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: just because it was something I had been so insecure 651 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 1: about and so to open up about it and not 652 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 1: to not only have him acknowledge it, but to actually 653 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: see it as a really attractive, you know quality, it 654 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: was just Yeah, it was just a really special moment 655 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, I just kind of came the full 656 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: circle for sure. Yeah. As a view where we definitely 657 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 1: I mean I personally thought it was a beautiful moment 658 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: because I understand, you know, on a first date it's 659 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: really hard to open up and get down and dirty 660 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: and and you know, air all of these personal things out. 661 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 1: It's never easy, let alone doing it in you know, 662 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: in front of millions of viewers. And so I want 663 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: to commend you and just say, like, it was so 664 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 1: beautiful the way that you embrace it and just opened up, 665 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: and I found it very inspiring. So thank you. As 666 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: a viewer, I appreciated that so much. Yeah, I'm cue, 667 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. Yeah, And what's great is you 668 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: did it and then you get the first impression row 669 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: so it's like I don't know if you end up 670 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: with Matt or not, but if not, it's like keep going, 671 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it gives you the 672 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: confidence to truly be yourself because it's it just makes 673 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: you your Like I said, you're already beautiful, but then 674 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: you tell your story and what you've overcome and who 675 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 1: you are, it's just like adds so much more to 676 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 1: the table, and in the most beautiful way. I do 677 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 1: have to ask you about this though. So you obviously 678 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 1: you've watch You said you're a fan of the show, 679 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: so you've seen the show before. Now we've seen some 680 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,319 Speaker 1: things this season, just in this first episode that we've 681 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 1: never seen before. So my question is, you know that 682 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 1: Matt's the Bachelor. You know, you've never seen him before 683 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 1: on any other franchise, So this you're really getting to 684 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 1: know him for the first time. He's going through this 685 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: whole experience with you, which I think is pretty cool 686 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: for the first time. So he stands up in front 687 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: of you and instead of giving the typical speech, which 688 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: he eventually does, he prays. Now, my question more is, 689 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: how did you rationalize the junktuposition of the dil do 690 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 1: being on the table and then focusing on his prayer 691 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: at the same I don't think he could even decipher 692 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 1: the difference there. That's a hot mess. Yeah, I know 693 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: the dil dol vibrator was dipressing that I saw when 694 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: I walked in, you know, after a meeting MAP, I 695 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: was just like, what did I get myself into? And 696 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: so when he comes in, you know, he starts off 697 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,399 Speaker 1: trying to give a speech, and then obviously he makes 698 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,840 Speaker 1: eye contact with the vibrator and told what he loses it, 699 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: But I think it just kind of lightened up the 700 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: mood definitely. But yeah, so he did open up with 701 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 1: a prayer. I thought it was no. I honestly it 702 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 1: was just like such a beautiful moment because I think 703 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,919 Speaker 1: we were all there. I think we were getting ready 704 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: to do with Toes, and in a way, I think 705 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 1: it was just I don't want to use the word superficial, 706 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 1: but I think a lot of times with TOES is 707 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,360 Speaker 1: just like, Okay, here's to the journey. And then he 708 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 1: goes off and talks to the women and you still 709 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 1: don't really know that much about him at that point, 710 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: and so you're kind of thinking, Okay, who is not Like, 711 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: what is he bringing to the table, and so the 712 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 1: fact that he opened up with a prayer, I think 713 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: I think he was just so vulnerable when he did that. 714 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm so genuine. I think it really just at the stage, 715 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: and I think girls just wanted to be on their 716 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 1: a game after that, because we were like, Wow, you know, 717 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: he's such a catch. The fact that he could stand 718 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: in fround a thirty plus women and do that. No, 719 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: I thought it was a super beautiful moment. I was not. 720 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: I don't think anyfs where expecting it for him to 721 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 1: do that. Okay, I gotta get down into it because 722 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: Limo entrances aside. We got to ask this because you 723 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: of course got the first impression Rose, which is a 724 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: very big deal in the history of the franchise. But 725 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: you also did get what I think is the first 726 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 1: kiss from mister Matt Janes. So I have to ask. 727 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 1: You have to dish, is he a good kisser? He 728 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 1: looks like he's a good kisser. He looks like he's 729 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: a good kisser. You can tell when Abigail, when you 730 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: guys were having your conversation, there was a moment where 731 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, he's gonna kiss her. He wants 732 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 1: to kiss her so bad, and then he kind of 733 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 1: pulled away and I was like, oh, he cannot leave 734 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,840 Speaker 1: this couch without kissing her. And then thank god he 735 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: went in for it. But you could tell on his 736 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: face the way he was looking at you, he just 737 00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 1: wanted to go in for that move. Yeah, were you 738 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: at such a gentleman? No, he's such a gentleman for sure. 739 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: If anything, I remember after the moment, I was like, 740 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: did I read that situation totally wrong? Because I kind 741 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: of remember we were leaning in and sometimes you're like, well, 742 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 1: did he mean to go for a hug or so 743 00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: he going for the kiss and the kiss and I 744 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,919 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, did I totally just read 745 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: that moron? And did I, you know, initiate the kiss? 746 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 1: So no, you did not read that kiss. It was 747 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 1: a long kiss. And I mean I was yelling at 748 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: the screen like kiss her. It is the moment. Kiss her, Okay, 749 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 1: it is, I'm gonna kiss her. Kiss her now. Um 750 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 1: with the first night too, with like first night's the 751 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 1: best night. It's just it's just so much fun as 752 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 1: a viewer because you're you're meeting, well for the first time, 753 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 1: the actual lead. You're meeting him. Then we're meeting these 754 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: women and then we're seeing how creative they get with 755 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: these little instances. But for you, you're meeting Matt, but 756 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,799 Speaker 1: then you're also getting to meet these ladies. So who 757 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 1: did you bond with the first night? Because I will 758 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 1: say the ladies that I bonded with the first night 759 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 1: are the ladies that I'm still close with to this day. Yeah. No, 760 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: I think I honestly left out with how many amazing 761 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: women ended up on this season because I don't think 762 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 1: I could have gone through this entire experience without them. 763 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: But Maggie, Marilyn, and Alisha were in my limo, so 764 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 1: they were the first woman that I got to meet, 765 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: and you know, they were to still nice right away, 766 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 1: if you know, if anything, they really put me at ease. 767 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: I think it's just so nice when you just have 768 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,879 Speaker 1: such a warm energy around you before you go into 769 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: something really crazy. But no, I think that night, I 770 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 1: think those were kinds of the women night. Just got 771 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: a tear towards two on the first night because they 772 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: were just who I have met first. But no, I 773 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 1: think all the women throughout the night, we just all 774 00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 1: had conversation because I mean, at the end of the day. 775 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: We all had a common ground, you know, we have 776 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 1: never met each other before, which is the fact that 777 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 1: we are the only thirty women in the world going 778 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: through this experience right now. I think we just bonded 779 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 1: over that right away. And I mean, it obviously was 780 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 1: very overwhelming at times, but it was just so easy 781 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: just to say on the couch and just be like, 782 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 1: oh my god, this moment so crazy, like how are 783 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: you doing? So now I think I think Match is 784 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 1: really locked out with this entire rocious I've never met 785 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 1: that many nice moment, especially when we're all competing for 786 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,959 Speaker 1: the same guy. I like to hear that. That's good. 787 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: I feel like people so often watch the show, and 788 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,319 Speaker 1: of course you have the fan favorites, which I think 789 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,800 Speaker 1: you definitely are. You have the villains, But at the 790 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 1: end of the day, for the most part, there are 791 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 1: so many beautiful friendships that form from this show that 792 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 1: I think most people overlook and don't think like, are 793 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 1: actually real. I do want to ask you this though, 794 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: and this is something that we had asked all of 795 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: the men from last season, because obviously we're in the 796 00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: middle of a pandemic. There's this quarantine, so this I'm 797 00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: assuming was probably one of your first moments when you 798 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,320 Speaker 1: you know, you get out of the actual quarantine and 799 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,200 Speaker 1: don't have to be masked up, you can finally re 800 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 1: around and hug other people. What was that like for 801 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 1: you coming out of this quarantine and into this so 802 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 1: called safe bubble with Matt and all the women. I mean, 803 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 1: it was amazing. I think just the traveling to get 804 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,920 Speaker 1: where we were in the quarantine process. I think it 805 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: really just made all of us just really appreciate just 806 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,239 Speaker 1: that human connection of you know, hugging somebody talking to 807 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:39,319 Speaker 1: somebody reading their lips when they're talking. So I think 808 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: it really just made us really appreciate all the efforts 809 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 1: that went into this bubble and making it safe for 810 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 1: us to date in a way that we're used to, 811 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: and especially for me because you know, it's just wearing 812 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: a mask in journal it's very hard because I do 813 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 1: rely on lip reading. And so the fact that I 814 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: could just talk to Matt, you know they're first time 815 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,719 Speaker 1: without a mask on and not have to you know, 816 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 1: ask him what, you know, the very first time I'm 817 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 1: meeting him, because you know, you just really want that 818 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 1: you know, moment to be as special as possible. Um, 819 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 1: so no, I think this whole experience was very nice 820 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: to deal without masks, um and then wars hard leading 821 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 1: the bubble and coming back to everybody wearing masks and 822 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 1: just trying to adjust to almost like our new normal 823 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,919 Speaker 1: in a way. Um, you know, the bubble was really 824 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 1: nice just to be able to date without the mask. Yeah, 825 00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 1: well you were doing more than just lip reading with 826 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: that at night. That's right, let's look to the talking. Well, Abigail, 827 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: I mean, thank you for opening my eyes up to that, 828 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 1: because I never thought about how wearing a mask can 829 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: affect a whole community, you know what I mean? And 830 00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 1: I like you really, I'm literally sitting back like, wow, 831 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 1: it didn't even cross. So thank you so much for 832 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,080 Speaker 1: sharing that. That's that's so true, and I'm glad that 833 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 1: you were able to like set that aside for you know, 834 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 1: how many weeks were you on eight nine able to 835 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: set that aside? Did you feel because getting the first 836 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,800 Speaker 1: impression Roles is a gift and a curse, you know, typically, 837 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 1: and that's your nation, did you feel like you kind 838 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 1: of had a dagger on your back after getting the 839 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,399 Speaker 1: first impression Rose because people knew you were one to watch, 840 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,160 Speaker 1: because you impressed Math the first night. Um. Yeah, no, 841 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: I look definitely get what you mean by is it 842 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: blessing her? Is it a curse? Um? I think if anything, 843 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,799 Speaker 1: it was more. I think it just impacted myself more 844 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 1: than anyone else towards me, if that makes sense. I 845 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,759 Speaker 1: think all of us we just kind of had the 846 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: general consensus of we're just going to focus on our 847 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,880 Speaker 1: relationship with Matt and trying not to compare it with 848 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 1: the other women. Um. But you know it was hard 849 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 1: for me at times. You know, just when you come 850 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 1: out got strong, you know, you kind of get in 851 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: your head up, Okay, can I keep up this momentum 852 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,359 Speaker 1: because you know he is going to be dating other women. 853 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: Can I keep up that moment you know, momentum with him? 854 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 1: And so yeah, no, it was hard, Um, you know, 855 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,799 Speaker 1: but I try to hold on to that high as 856 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,240 Speaker 1: long as I could, um, and just re mind myself. 857 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,080 Speaker 1: You know, we did click, you know, we did have 858 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:18,239 Speaker 1: that cameras straight and there is a reason why I 859 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 1: did make that first impression on him. So it made 860 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 1: me really motivated at the same time just to keep 861 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 1: going no matter how hard it got. And so yeah, 862 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 1: I know, it's definitely a blessing and a curse, but 863 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to change it or anything. Yeah, you should appreciate. 864 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 1: Do you still have your rose from that night? Or 865 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,839 Speaker 1: did you get the roses? They let us keep them, 866 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: but they're real roses. They die. And I don't know 867 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 1: how to say that because one girl was like, well 868 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: you can hate it upside down, like if the water 869 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,880 Speaker 1: goes back down the stem or something. But honestly, I 870 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: just gave up. Yeah, I kept in mind when I 871 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 1: was on the Bachelor, I kept mind in my diary 872 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 1: and then I opened it up months later and they 873 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 1: were all moldy and I was like, well, this is 874 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 1: very fitting for what I'll transpired later on. Yeah, man, 875 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 1: take him like, hold onto it because he is such 876 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 1: a cute rose. But yeah, so while so back to 877 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 1: the rose. Obviously you got the first one. So while 878 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 1: you were off with Matt and that beautiful moment was happening, 879 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 1: we see a lot of drama amongst different groups of girls. Um, 880 00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 1: so would you say that that behavior foreshadows some of 881 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: the storylines that will still be seen or do you think, 882 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 1: like in terms of the girls who had the drama 883 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 1: between them, like does that transpire or what are your 884 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: thoughts on that? Yeah, No, I mean there was Stepite 885 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,480 Speaker 1: lay a lot of drama. I think I experienced the 886 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,320 Speaker 1: most drama I've ever had in my life, and that 887 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, span a time. So I think you guys 888 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:55,560 Speaker 1: will definitely be seen more at that. Um. But I think, 889 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 1: but I think at the end of the day, Um, 890 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 1: I think Matt knows what he is looking for, and 891 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 1: you know, hopefully he's able to kind of see pass 892 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 1: that just because sometimes they aren't important conversations to have, 893 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: but other times it is just noise that he just 894 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 1: needs to tune out and just be focused on why 895 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: he stare at the end of the day. Um. Yeah, No, 896 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: the jama is definitely not gonna end after the first night. 897 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,719 Speaker 1: Two people I want to talk about, based on what 898 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 1: we've seen in the previews, Queen Victoria. What are your 899 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 1: thoughts on her? Is she a queen a more of 900 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: a jester? Um? So my first impression of her, so 901 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: I arrived before she did, and I was saying, now 902 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 1: the couches and she walks in and she goes to 903 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 1: Queen has arrived, and of course you know I want 904 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: to hear that. I'm just like, what is this girl? 905 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: Doing like what it like? Who does she think she is? 906 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,160 Speaker 1: And so you know, she's definitely a character for sure. 907 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 1: She definitely knows what she m like. I definitely commend 908 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 1: that for her. Um. But yeah, no, she's she's definitely 909 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: a Queen of the South Court jester. Um. And the 910 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:17,319 Speaker 1: other one is who is the escort? Good question, um, 911 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 1: I mean you'll definitely have to tune in and find 912 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,239 Speaker 1: out about that. I know that there was a lot 913 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:29,359 Speaker 1: of drama around that. Um. I actually did not hear 914 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 1: about a lot of it till later. UM. I think 915 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,880 Speaker 1: in a weird way of being, you know, a perka 916 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,959 Speaker 1: not being able to pick up everything and a group 917 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,840 Speaker 1: setting is you know, I just don't always get myself 918 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 1: involved in kind of drama conversations. UM, So in a 919 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 1: rare way, it was kind of nice for me to 920 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:47,920 Speaker 1: not be included, just so I could really us on 921 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 1: my relationship with mat Um. But no, that's definitely a 922 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 1: very interesting UM kind of turned it events that it 923 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: took for sure, because I had never experienced anything. I thought, wait, 924 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 1: I have to ask this about a character that we 925 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 1: saw quite a bit during the premiere, and that is 926 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 1: not MJ with the curly blonde hair. But the other MJ, 927 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: the sparkly purple vibrator. Now, is that some theme that 928 00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: we see continue throughout the season as we go or 929 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 1: is it a one and done kind of night for 930 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,680 Speaker 1: the for the vibrator. Um. So m J, the purple 931 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,760 Speaker 1: sparkly wid Um, she made a long night appear. Okay, 932 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: we won't be seeing any more of her. So one 933 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 1: night stand, one night stand. Yeah, she took the hand 934 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: and she stayed back. Okay, good good. Um. Who had 935 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 1: your favorite limo entrance? Who had the favorite Who is 936 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 1: your favorite limo entrance? My favorite limo and entrance? Um. 937 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 1: I was in the limo with Alicia and her ballerina 938 00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 1: Ritine when she came out, and that was just beautiful 939 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 1: to watch. Um. You know, I've never seen ballet in 940 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 1: person before. Um, and she just did it still flawlessly. Um. 941 00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 1: So that was really that was really cool to watch 942 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, Matt's not a fan of the ballet, 943 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: is he not. Yeah? I was shocked. That was a 944 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 1: shocker to me. I was like, oh gosh, I and 945 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,279 Speaker 1: and this is what's interesting too, and I and maybe 946 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 1: you can give some insight on this. You're especially being 947 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 1: a fan of the show. So it's like, not only 948 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: are you an insider, it's like, you know the history 949 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 1: of the show. I was shocked at the number of 950 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,800 Speaker 1: women that did not get to talk to Matt the 951 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 1: first night. Normally the lead makes an effort, at least 952 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,160 Speaker 1: as of late, makes an extreme effort to talk to 953 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:53,240 Speaker 1: almost everybody, and it seems like half the girls didn't 954 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 1: talk to Matt. Is that the case and why was that? Um? 955 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 1: I think it was a little under half, But I 956 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 1: still felt like a lot of women didn't get to 957 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 1: talk to him that night because I think you know, 958 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: when you go into at the beginning of the night, 959 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 1: you kind of just have the mindset of, Okay, I'm 960 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,319 Speaker 1: not going to panic. I'm going to get my time 961 00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: with him. You know, how about I just get a 962 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,240 Speaker 1: drink me and go a little bit kind of calm nerves. 963 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: But then time just flies by so quickly on those 964 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: kind of nights. I mean it's one hour or two hours, 965 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,280 Speaker 1: and then it's like, okay, thang like the role STREMONI 966 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,800 Speaker 1: is happening in you know, the next thirty minutes, And 967 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: so I think a lot of girls just kind of 968 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:35,560 Speaker 1: maybe lost sight of time or just didn't make a 969 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 1: enough of a kind of an urgency to talk to him. 970 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, I was really shocked to how many women 971 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,719 Speaker 1: didn't get to talk to him. And I mean, I 972 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,239 Speaker 1: totally feel for that because it is frustrating to go 973 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,279 Speaker 1: through this, you know, entire process and then just never 974 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,640 Speaker 1: be able to, you know, explore if you get to 975 00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 1: hit it off with him by away or not. Going 976 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:01,000 Speaker 1: back to the first impression roles in that moment, you know, 977 00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,399 Speaker 1: you sit down, you have your conversation, you have this kiss, 978 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,040 Speaker 1: and then he gets up and leaves, leaves you sitting 979 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,480 Speaker 1: on the couch. Did you think he was coming back? 980 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,840 Speaker 1: Or in that moment where you like, oh, shoot, is 981 00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,279 Speaker 1: that when you thought did I read this wrong? Or 982 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: did you think he was maybe coming back with the rows? 983 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:23,960 Speaker 1: I definitely thought I read the entire situation wrong, just 984 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,320 Speaker 1: because you know, when he started the night, he just 985 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,600 Speaker 1: seemed so genuine and so serious about this entire process, 986 00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,400 Speaker 1: and you know, we had our conversation, we had our moment, 987 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,759 Speaker 1: and when he got up, I was like, oh my gosh, 988 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 1: I totally read that wrong, Like is he uncomfortable? Like 989 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,759 Speaker 1: did he wish out? Did happen? Did he had to 990 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: take a step back and just you know, kind of 991 00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 1: remove himself from the situation. So my heart kind of 992 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 1: sank a little bit. And so when he did come 993 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,959 Speaker 1: back with the rows, I was like, Okay, I'm okay, 994 00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: I kind of know where this is going now, But No, 995 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: I was freaking out. I could. I think part of 996 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,720 Speaker 1: it was I just never expected to be that person 997 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,520 Speaker 1: at the end of the night. So it wasn't something 998 00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 1: that I was trying to go after in a sense, 999 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,439 Speaker 1: you know, I was just wanting to make the most 1000 00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,400 Speaker 1: of the night, just see if I can hit it 1001 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 1: off with, you know, the Bachelor, And so no, I 1002 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,319 Speaker 1: definitely thought it was going to take a different term, 1003 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:27,600 Speaker 1: but I'm really glad that it didn't. Yeah, it's always 1004 00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,040 Speaker 1: the best when you're not expecting it. Always the ones 1005 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 1: who think it's going to happen for them it never does. 1006 00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,320 Speaker 1: But when you're not expecting it, it just makes it 1007 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,800 Speaker 1: that much more rich and sweet when it does. And 1008 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 1: then you start to think, tell me, if this is 1009 00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: what you thought, You're like, oh my gosh, this is 1010 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 1: real and this could really happen. No, a hundred percent, 1011 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,160 Speaker 1: because I think just the entire time that you're getting 1012 00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: ready you know, at home, like when you're packing, then 1013 00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: even you know, traveling to where filming is gonna be. 1014 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,200 Speaker 1: I think you do kind of have that out in 1015 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,360 Speaker 1: the back of your mind of can this work for me? 1016 00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 1: You know, because ultimately we all know what's at the 1017 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,239 Speaker 1: end of this, and we all want to you know, 1018 00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,879 Speaker 1: what comes at the end of this, and you see 1019 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 1: so many success relationships come out at this. But at 1020 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 1: the same time, you know it is a fast process, 1021 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,600 Speaker 1: and you do wonder, you know, never meeting the person, 1022 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: you know, having somebody that's never been on the show 1023 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,520 Speaker 1: before that we don't know that much about can this 1024 00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,680 Speaker 1: work for me? And you know, going through the night. 1025 00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:31,319 Speaker 1: I think that's part of the reason I just felt 1026 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:36,040 Speaker 1: so overwhelmed was because I started getting attracted to him 1027 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,319 Speaker 1: really quickly when I wasn't expecting it. And then when 1028 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 1: the first impression Rose happened, it was like, holy cal 1029 00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 1: like he sees me, like he wants me here. Absolutely yeah, 1030 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,439 Speaker 1: I know. That definitely hit the nail on the head, 1031 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 1: you know, just like this one, you know, is real. 1032 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,000 Speaker 1: I can't forget Rachel. You got the first impression Rose too, 1033 00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 1: So I'm in the press and of two incredible women 1034 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 1: right here. Impressive women and very impressive women. Um okay, Abigail. 1035 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,120 Speaker 1: So before we get into a game, we normally ask 1036 00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,080 Speaker 1: all of our guests on the show what your rose 1037 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: and your thorn of the experience was. Now, since we 1038 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 1: only have seen one episode, we're gonna ask you just 1039 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 1: for night one, what was your rose and what was 1040 00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,279 Speaker 1: your thorn? Uh, don't let that stop you, Abigail, just 1041 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,919 Speaker 1: give it. Just get to us for the whole reason, Dirt, 1042 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:34,040 Speaker 1: just set yourself free. Um. You know, I think the 1043 00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:37,520 Speaker 1: rose of good Night was I mean, obviously Matt Um. 1044 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 1: You know, I think he just exceeded my expectations and 1045 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:44,080 Speaker 1: every way, and I think he just made me really 1046 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,759 Speaker 1: excited just to kind of kick off the process with him, 1047 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: you know, got Night. Um, I was really excited about 1048 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: him after god Night, and then you know, I think 1049 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 1: just a thorn of it was seeing you know, I 1050 00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 1: think there was eight women go home, just because you know, 1051 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 1: you do talk to them that night, you do kind 1052 00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 1: of form a relationship with them, and it's just a 1053 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:08,360 Speaker 1: harsh reminder of there's only going to be one person 1054 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: at the end of this, and there's going to be 1055 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,880 Speaker 1: more goodbyes to come. And so you know, you're writing 1056 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:17,120 Speaker 1: this high of meeting this really incarible guy, but you 1057 00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:20,000 Speaker 1: also kind of have that moving fear of well, what 1058 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: if it's not me at the end of this. You know, 1059 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,400 Speaker 1: what if I really opened up myself and it's not me. 1060 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 1: So it's a lot of emotions that night. I mean, 1061 00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 1: that's really what I remember. Yeah, absolutely, Okay, Abigail, the 1062 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,920 Speaker 1: time has come. So we've had so much fun getting 1063 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 1: to know a little bit more about you and your 1064 00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,240 Speaker 1: journey through the first night and getting the first impression 1065 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: Rose and all of that. But while we have you here, 1066 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,239 Speaker 1: we of course need to know about the rest of 1067 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,320 Speaker 1: the girls from this season, because they still remain a 1068 00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:57,800 Speaker 1: mystery to us, and obviously you're privy to more information 1069 00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:00,800 Speaker 1: than we are at this point. So in order to 1070 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: learn about the rest of the women this season, we 1071 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 1: are going to play a little game called the Rose 1072 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,560 Speaker 1: Goes Dot Dot Dot. Okay, So here's how it works. 1073 00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 1: We will ask you a list of super superlative questions 1074 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 1: and you need to answer which one one of the 1075 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 1: women from this season best fits that description. Okay, So 1076 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:25,920 Speaker 1: just have fun with it. It's just us, girls, and 1077 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,320 Speaker 1: the great thing is Here's the thing, Abigail. It's only 1078 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,440 Speaker 1: in the first episode, so we don't even know who 1079 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 1: these women are outside of you, We don't remember them. Okay, 1080 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 1: all right, so I'll start off with the first one. 1081 00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 1: The Rose goes too, that's I probably should have put 1082 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: the two in there. Okay, who is the funniest in 1083 00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: the house? Um? Chelsea? Great? Great? Can't wait? Can't wait 1084 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 1: for him? Don't remember her? Can't wait? I need I 1085 00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:59,320 Speaker 1: need face cards in this moment, so I remember. Oh, 1086 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 1: I don't what Chelsea is. Chelsea has the short hair. Yes, 1087 00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 1: she's the model. Yes, I knew Chelsea. He apparently waits 1088 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:11,520 Speaker 1: a small world, you know. I don't know why I 1089 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 1: said apparently. I actually have met Chelsea. She was modeled 1090 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,400 Speaker 1: for Randy rom in Fashion Week. Randy rom do a 1091 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:21,480 Speaker 1: lot of the dresses for the bachelorettes and for in 1092 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 1: the finale for the women on The Bachelor, Randy Randy Room. 1093 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 1: Did you see me trying to get the did you 1094 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 1: wear a Randy Robin? Did you? I love? Yes? Her 1095 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,480 Speaker 1: dress was phenomenal, Oh my gosh, incredible. All right? Next up, 1096 00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:46,080 Speaker 1: the Rose goes to who cries the most? Who cries 1097 00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 1: the most? Um? Probably give that to Sarah. Sarah. Sarah's 1098 00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 1: the caretaker. Wow, I remember that right, Oh seriously, san Diego, 1099 00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: she was the previous newscaster, the reporter, border caretaker. Her 1100 00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,880 Speaker 1: package really stood out to me. Okay, she chrisms, all right, Okay. 1101 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 1: The rose goes to who had the worst limo entrance? 1102 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:21,440 Speaker 1: Who had the worst limo entrance? Um, oh that's hard. 1103 00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 1: I think I just love all of them. Um the 1104 00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,920 Speaker 1: worst limo insurance. Well, at the time, I didn't know 1105 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 1: if Serena s meant to fall or not, so I 1106 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,080 Speaker 1: was like, actually terrified that she actually tripped and fell, 1107 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 1: and then she was like, no, it was planned. So 1108 00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 1: at the time I thought that was the worst one 1109 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,040 Speaker 1: because I was like, oh my god, that's so embarrassing. Um, 1110 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 1: But now she she she totally bof it. That would 1111 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: have been me going up those stairs a thousand percent 1112 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:52,000 Speaker 1: totally would have all right. The rose goes to who 1113 00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 1: had the best wardrobe? Um, who had the best a wardrobe? 1114 00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 1: I think free probably one of the best word jobs, Sarah. Okay, 1115 01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,560 Speaker 1: the rose goes to who did you find the most surprising? 1116 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 1: Who did I find the most surprising? Um, I'll get 1117 01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:18,120 Speaker 1: that to Victoria the Queen the Queen in a positive 1118 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,280 Speaker 1: or a negative way? Um, I mean, I guess you 1119 01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: guys will make your own kind of conclusion on that, 1120 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:31,480 Speaker 1: but I mean she surprised me in a good way. Okay, okay, alrighty. 1121 01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:36,840 Speaker 1: The rose goes too, who throws the best shade? It 1122 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 1: grows the best shade? Um like talk about other people 1123 01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:46,800 Speaker 1: or just kind of con dish it out and pitty 1124 01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 1: quick on their feet. Yeah, I probably get back to Katie. Okay, 1125 01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:59,320 Speaker 1: I mean, the rose goes to who would you want 1126 01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 1: to be stuck on a desert island with. I would 1127 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:07,320 Speaker 1: choose my roommate, Mikey Maggie to be stuck on island with. No, 1128 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:09,640 Speaker 1: She's just so much fun. I thought you were going 1129 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:17,560 Speaker 1: to say, Matt James. Well, I mean obvious first, and 1130 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:20,760 Speaker 1: you can say yourself for any of these two. Um okay. 1131 01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:24,600 Speaker 1: Next one, the rose goes to who called it like 1132 01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:28,440 Speaker 1: it is or like it was? I should say, Um, 1133 01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:36,240 Speaker 1: I would say m Jay Okay, yeah, not the Purple Vibrator. 1134 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:43,160 Speaker 1: No no, uh no, I'm James. She always spoke her mind. 1135 01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:49,360 Speaker 1: Oh okay. The rose goes to who was the messiest 1136 01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:56,840 Speaker 1: my roommate Mikey, Maggie's getting a lot of these. The 1137 01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:01,560 Speaker 1: rose goes to who ate the most, who ate the most? Um? 1138 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,320 Speaker 1: I probably get that to Rachel um, just because I 1139 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,800 Speaker 1: would always hear her talk about since we would have 1140 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:09,880 Speaker 1: like three meals and I'm like a late night meal 1141 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,320 Speaker 1: and she it was just funny how she always raped 1142 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:16,040 Speaker 1: about the late night meals. So the late night meals 1143 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,920 Speaker 1: are the best, That's what we literal I don't remember. Oh, 1144 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:24,320 Speaker 1: we loved those meals. Chicken tenders, French fries, pizza, whatever 1145 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,480 Speaker 1: you wanted. It was the best. Maybe it changed after 1146 01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:31,440 Speaker 1: but I don't remember. We had so much down to him. 1147 01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,160 Speaker 1: All we all we cared about was the food. I 1148 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:38,280 Speaker 1: feel like true. Who Oh. The rose goes to who 1149 01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:42,320 Speaker 1: was the most outgoing? Who was the most outgoing? Um? 1150 01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:49,680 Speaker 1: I would probably get that too, Serena pee. The rose 1151 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:57,040 Speaker 1: goes to who got the most turned up turned out? Um, 1152 01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:01,680 Speaker 1: I'll get that to Serena see oh okay. Um. The 1153 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 1: rose goes to who was the loudest? Who is the loudest? Um, 1154 01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:14,000 Speaker 1: get back to m Jay very good way. M h okay. 1155 01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 1: The rose goes to who was the voice of reasons 1156 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:25,160 Speaker 1: of reason? Uh, Mike, Okay, maybe all right. Last one 1157 01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 1: maybe the best one. Maybe an obvious answer, Um, the 1158 01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:34,320 Speaker 1: rose goes to who loved the camera the most? Who 1159 01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: love the cameras? Um, Victoria the Queen. Yeah yeah we 1160 01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:44,480 Speaker 1: figured yeah, hands down, we got a night one. Yeah, 1161 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:48,160 Speaker 1: we figured that one. Oh, Abigail, you so much fun 1162 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,880 Speaker 1: to talk to you. You are so sweet, so nice. 1163 01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 1: We tried to get you to, you know, shout some tea, 1164 01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,440 Speaker 1: but you were very loyal to the women that you 1165 01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 1: spent these weeks with. Um, which is great, which is great, 1166 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:05,160 Speaker 1: really great characteristic. You're just as lovely as you were 1167 01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,480 Speaker 1: on camera watching you last night. So thank you so 1168 01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 1: much for taking this time to stop by. It's been 1169 01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 1: an absolute pleasure. Abigail, thank you so much. Now, one 1170 01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,320 Speaker 1: last question before you go, how far do you go? 1171 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:22,480 Speaker 1: Can then find out? It's so weird to think that 1172 01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: it's the premiere of the Bachelor, Like it's so weird 1173 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: that she's doing her premiere party and that we just 1174 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 1: had this, like we just I felt like we just 1175 01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,920 Speaker 1: did this a couple of weeks ago with clar and Taitia. 1176 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 1: We really did we really did it. It's weird because 1177 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,760 Speaker 1: when when we do a new season. I feel like 1178 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 1: we're starting over. It's like not that it's our premiere night, 1179 01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,439 Speaker 1: but it's like, okay, here we go first night because 1180 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 1: we normally gets talked to these guests. Yes, which we 1181 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,400 Speaker 1: will have Matt James on the podcast very soon. Just 1182 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 1: you wait, you guys, and it'll be a very interesting interview. 1183 01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 1: What do you think Abigail seems too nice for the season, 1184 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:08,320 Speaker 1: because from what we're getting from the previews, it seems 1185 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 1: like she stayed out of a lot of the drama 1186 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,280 Speaker 1: and it seems like that was a great decision by her. 1187 01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,680 Speaker 1: Oh totally, she I mean, she was one of my 1188 01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 1: favorites watching last night. Like I will say that she 1189 01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:24,280 Speaker 1: comes across as just genuine and sweet and obviously a 1190 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 1: little nervous and like not made for TV, which I 1191 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: feel like I always love watching people like that because 1192 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 1: I feel like it's more genuine like she I think 1193 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 1: genuinely is there. I hate to say this, but for 1194 01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,880 Speaker 1: the right reasons, as opposed as it is some other people. 1195 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 1: And so yeah, I mean, she's a sweetheart. I am 1196 01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:45,560 Speaker 1: excited to see more of her. But again, like I 1197 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,440 Speaker 1: think this season, I mean, as we've heard, it's been 1198 01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,600 Speaker 1: the most tears, probably one of the most traumatic, and 1199 01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,920 Speaker 1: so I really hope that she can stay removed from 1200 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,040 Speaker 1: that and really just focus on her love story with Matt, 1201 01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 1: because he, like out of all the girls, I think 1202 01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:01,480 Speaker 1: he had one of the strongest actions with her. Yeah, 1203 01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:04,240 Speaker 1: it was very obvious. I really enjoyed their talk with 1204 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 1: one another, because what was troublesome is that I saw 1205 01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,680 Speaker 1: a lot of the women talk about how infatuated they 1206 01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:12,560 Speaker 1: were with Matt and how great he looked, but there 1207 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:16,840 Speaker 1: was depths of the conversation that he had with Abigail, 1208 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:19,760 Speaker 1: so you know, and I can see why, you know, 1209 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,160 Speaker 1: from from getting to talk to her. And it makes 1210 01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 1: sense that as we saw the trailer for the rest 1211 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,959 Speaker 1: of the season at the end of this, we didn't 1212 01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,240 Speaker 1: really see Abigail in it, and I don't think that's 1213 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,680 Speaker 1: because she doesn't make it far. I think that's because 1214 01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,040 Speaker 1: she's drama free, So kudos to her. What were your 1215 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:39,720 Speaker 1: thoughts on seeing the teas for the remainder of the season. 1216 01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:43,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Well, we obviously saw the teas at 1217 01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:46,160 Speaker 1: the end of tatious season, and they left out a 1218 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:50,400 Speaker 1: lot of it because I think I was most shocked 1219 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,439 Speaker 1: at them bringing people back, like this new girl comes 1220 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:55,880 Speaker 1: in god knows when at what week, and I had 1221 01:06:55,920 --> 01:07:00,240 Speaker 1: like total flashbacks to uh, Caitlin Bristow season and when 1222 01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 1: Nick came back. But also we see Heather Martin, who 1223 01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 1: was on Colton season. Let's talk about that, like, let's 1224 01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:10,840 Speaker 1: talk about that, Let's talk about it, let's get into it, 1225 01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:15,240 Speaker 1: because I forgot about Heather. But you know what, I'm 1226 01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:20,240 Speaker 1: actually not surprised by this because why Because I mean, 1227 01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:24,080 Speaker 1: I stay in touch with Hannah Brown, and she made 1228 01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 1: a comment like when I first moved out to California. 1229 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:30,320 Speaker 1: She because she obviously knows Matt and she's best friends 1230 01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:33,040 Speaker 1: with Heather. She made a comment at least she refers 1231 01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:35,400 Speaker 1: to Matt as one of her best friends, but go ahead, Yeah, 1232 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:39,400 Speaker 1: but so she knows them both fairly well, and she 1233 01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:42,920 Speaker 1: made it seem like their lives and their faith are 1234 01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:45,720 Speaker 1: so much on the same level. And she's like, yeah, 1235 01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:47,560 Speaker 1: I could see it. It makes sense to me, Like 1236 01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 1: I was trying to set them up. So when I 1237 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,880 Speaker 1: saw Heather, I was shocked, but I was like, m 1238 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,840 Speaker 1: makes sense. And I'm sure you know, Anna, I was 1239 01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,240 Speaker 1: probably talking to someone here and there to get her in. 1240 01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 1: But but It's interesting because I felt like Heather on 1241 01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:05,760 Speaker 1: Colton season. I mean, she was obviously what was her 1242 01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,080 Speaker 1: story lie like that she had never been kissed, and 1243 01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:10,720 Speaker 1: she was a little bit more quiet and reserved and 1244 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 1: out of the drama and not really in the thick 1245 01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:15,000 Speaker 1: of things, like did it make for this great, crazy, 1246 01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 1: dramatic TV. But now we see her against the other women, 1247 01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:23,080 Speaker 1: crying and the obviously the women are rubbed the wrong way, 1248 01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:26,560 Speaker 1: so it'll be, I think, a very very different experience 1249 01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:28,760 Speaker 1: from what she experienced a couple of years ago on 1250 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:33,880 Speaker 1: The Bachelor versus this season. It made absolutely no sense 1251 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 1: for me that she popped up on the show. My 1252 01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:43,200 Speaker 1: first thought was, wait, don't we know her? Oh wait, 1253 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:47,000 Speaker 1: oh yeah, that girl was on another season before. Oh 1254 01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:51,880 Speaker 1: my gosh, where are her friends? Who was Obviously you 1255 01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,559 Speaker 1: had to bounce this idea off someone, And what doesn't 1256 01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,040 Speaker 1: make sense to me is, Okay, maybe she and Matt 1257 01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:00,439 Speaker 1: James did have a connection off camp or in the 1258 01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:05,360 Speaker 1: real world. Obviously it either didn't pop off or for 1259 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,120 Speaker 1: whatever reason, it didn't work. So you now think it's 1260 01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 1: a good idea to come on a television show to 1261 01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:12,720 Speaker 1: get to know him when you could have got like 1262 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:14,679 Speaker 1: having a chance to get to know him in real life. 1263 01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:19,000 Speaker 1: It obviously didn't work. You're best friends with Hannah. Hannah's 1264 01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 1: best friends with Matt. If she can't make it happen, 1265 01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:22,599 Speaker 1: why do you think that you're going to be able 1266 01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:26,960 Speaker 1: to go on it? Just it she was there for 1267 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,600 Speaker 1: the wrong reasons. I'll just say, I'll just say it 1268 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:31,720 Speaker 1: what it is. It's like, why would you It'd be 1269 01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,920 Speaker 1: different if Heather did not know Matt at all? Right? 1270 01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,280 Speaker 1: This isn't Becca Tilly coming back to meet Ben who's 1271 01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:42,200 Speaker 1: never met Ben before and knows that he's a good 1272 01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,639 Speaker 1: guy and wants the opportunity to get to pursue him 1273 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,400 Speaker 1: on the same page as these other women. This is 1274 01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,920 Speaker 1: a girl who had full access to Matt James. But yeah, 1275 01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:53,240 Speaker 1: you decide to come on a show to meet him 1276 01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:56,639 Speaker 1: when you've been through this experience before. Let me ask 1277 01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: you this, because I've thought about this. She doesn't have 1278 01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:04,320 Speaker 1: friends like so pretender to lead again and somebody comes 1279 01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:07,800 Speaker 1: in week three, Week four? Would you keep them or 1280 01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:10,479 Speaker 1: would you say no? I have a great group of 1281 01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:12,360 Speaker 1: a lot of men left still that I didn't want 1282 01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,160 Speaker 1: to get to know respect for them. I'm not going 1283 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:16,960 Speaker 1: to keep you around. What would you do? It depends. 1284 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:20,600 Speaker 1: If it was Heather, I'd send her home. Heather, you 1285 01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 1: like you know me already in real life. We've met, 1286 01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,960 Speaker 1: we've hung out, we have a mutual best friend. I 1287 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:31,320 Speaker 1: would send somebody home that I knew. I mean, I 1288 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,680 Speaker 1: kind of had that all my season. The kid that 1289 01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:36,920 Speaker 1: I used to babysitt as a camp counselor came on 1290 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:40,080 Speaker 1: the show. I can't see like I already knew you. Yeah, 1291 01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:42,920 Speaker 1: not necessarily, it's not the same. He didn't have the 1292 01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:45,200 Speaker 1: chance to get to know me as an adult. But still, 1293 01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:48,479 Speaker 1: I just I couldn't separate the two. Yeah, if it 1294 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:53,000 Speaker 1: was somebody knew like Taitia had four men come on, 1295 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,120 Speaker 1: I guess she didn't really started a season, so that's different. 1296 01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:58,240 Speaker 1: But it would depend. I would send Heather home. See 1297 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 1: I send Heather home. I get that too. On my cut, 1298 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:02,800 Speaker 1: I feel like we're drinking up so many like old 1299 01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:06,200 Speaker 1: memories that I blacked out for a while. But my 1300 01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,200 Speaker 1: night one, there was a guy from Minneapolis that I 1301 01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:12,160 Speaker 1: knew and who had met like three or four times 1302 01:11:12,360 --> 01:11:14,840 Speaker 1: before starting, and so I sent him home night one 1303 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,120 Speaker 1: because I was like, we had the opportunity for you 1304 01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:18,479 Speaker 1: to get to know me and for me to get 1305 01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:20,559 Speaker 1: to know you, and it obviously didn't work out those 1306 01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 1: three or four times that we met. So why are 1307 01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:24,559 Speaker 1: you doing it now? And so I he went home 1308 01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:28,000 Speaker 1: night one like if I were Hannah, I would have 1309 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:33,320 Speaker 1: been like, Heather girl, No, Heather's beautiful. You have an 1310 01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 1: opportunity to meet all these other men, and you had 1311 01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,160 Speaker 1: an opportunity to get to know Map before. It's just 1312 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,960 Speaker 1: even if she didn't, let's just say she did. Okay, 1313 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,240 Speaker 1: she didn't get a chance to know Map before going 1314 01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:45,479 Speaker 1: on a show, on the show like this, when you 1315 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:49,519 Speaker 1: do have a mutual best friend. I just I was like, 1316 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:55,040 Speaker 1: what is happening? I hope he sends Row. Sorry, we'll 1317 01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:56,960 Speaker 1: have to wait a few weeks, I think to find out. 1318 01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:58,559 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't like it. I would have rather 1319 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:03,240 Speaker 1: seen somebody else come back. Just it. It's it's what 1320 01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:05,760 Speaker 1: other parts of the of this tears are stuck out 1321 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:14,200 Speaker 1: to you? Um, I I the drama. I expect Matt crying. 1322 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:18,240 Speaker 1: I'm really interested to hear you know why what was 1323 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:21,320 Speaker 1: behind his tears? Because it wasn't like a tear falling down. 1324 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:25,640 Speaker 1: It was that ugly cry and obviously something rocked him 1325 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,479 Speaker 1: to the point where he couldn't control his emotions. So 1326 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 1: that more so stood out to me because I'm very 1327 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,280 Speaker 1: curious as to what was the reasoning behind those tears. Yeah, 1328 01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:37,000 Speaker 1: that those tears don't come from one of the women, 1329 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:42,120 Speaker 1: That's what I feel. Well, something happens or maybe he's 1330 01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 1: you know, telling a story or something. Yeah, I think 1331 01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:48,920 Speaker 1: And we saw this in the premier well obviously we're 1332 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,599 Speaker 1: talking about the PRAM, but we saw this last night 1333 01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:53,599 Speaker 1: where he keeps saying, like, you know, I'm not one 1334 01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,560 Speaker 1: to open up and be vulnerable and like get to 1335 01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:59,240 Speaker 1: that point, and so honestly, I think this is maybe 1336 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,679 Speaker 1: not the best setting to do that, to like really 1337 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:05,320 Speaker 1: find those deep emotions that are lurking within you. But 1338 01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,799 Speaker 1: I mean, I can only hope that the overall experience 1339 01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:10,759 Speaker 1: was a good thing for him to kind of finally 1340 01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 1: get to that point, not to hit rock bottom, but 1341 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 1: to just really feel all of those emotions that he, 1342 01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:19,640 Speaker 1: you know, has supposedly bottled up and kept hidden for 1343 01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:24,040 Speaker 1: so long. So yeah, I'm intrigued to see what else 1344 01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:28,200 Speaker 1: is in store. Yeah, hopefully it doesn't feel like another 1345 01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:34,439 Speaker 1: super long season like last time. But yeah, Yeah, it's crazy. 1346 01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:36,600 Speaker 1: We started with what thirty girls were already down to 1347 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:40,200 Speaker 1: now twenty two, I think, and it's only just to begun. 1348 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:44,280 Speaker 1: So I think with that, we just gotta gotta keep 1349 01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:47,160 Speaker 1: you guys hanging next week. We're so pumped because not 1350 01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:48,880 Speaker 1: only is this a brand new season, but we're able 1351 01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,439 Speaker 1: to share all of these fabulous women with you all. 1352 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:54,439 Speaker 1: And we have a big guest coming next week. It's 1353 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,280 Speaker 1: Sna actually not one of these women, but it is 1354 01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: mister Matt James himself. So we cannot wait to pick 1355 01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,560 Speaker 1: his brain, sit him down and really get more in 1356 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,799 Speaker 1: depth with who he is, and ask the right questions, 1357 01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,240 Speaker 1: maybe get him to spill some tea with us rage 1358 01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 1: and we will because this isn't your five to ten 1359 01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:13,040 Speaker 1: minute interview that has to be cut and put together 1360 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:15,680 Speaker 1: in a piece for the media. This is a podcast 1361 01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:19,200 Speaker 1: where we get to have conversation at great length and 1362 01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,920 Speaker 1: we can ask him all that you see details. So 1363 01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,840 Speaker 1: now that we're giving you notice that we're having him 1364 01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:26,679 Speaker 1: come on the podcast, that means you need to send 1365 01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,000 Speaker 1: in your questions and you need to let us know 1366 01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:32,839 Speaker 1: what you would like to hear about, you know, Matt James, 1367 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,519 Speaker 1: and maybe you have questions directed to him, maybe you 1368 01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,840 Speaker 1: have questions about the women. Maybe you know something about 1369 01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:39,200 Speaker 1: the women that you want to share with us. 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It is long overdue. 1380 01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:11,080 Speaker 1: So please, you know, tell your friends, tell your neighbors, 1381 01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:13,560 Speaker 1: tell anybody who's willing to listen that they need to 1382 01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:18,000 Speaker 1: support Matt James and this season. Watch it and tune 1383 01:15:18,040 --> 01:15:20,800 Speaker 1: in here for all the two c details after you 1384 01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 1: watch the episodes. Bie guys, Bye guys,