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Speaker 1: As so often, am I the a hole for yelling

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Speaker 1: at my sister because my mom secretly gave her forty

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Speaker 2: This is okop, home of the craziest story on Earth.

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Speaker 2: I'm Sam and Sophia. What would you do if mom

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Speaker 2: gave you forty thousand dollars?

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Speaker 3: Keep it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I know you Golden siblings syndrome. Well, hey, everyone to

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Speaker 2: provide some context, let me share a bit of background.

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Speaker 2: I thirty five female, am the oldest of four siblings,

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Speaker 2: with my middle sister Sally thirty two female, and her

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Speaker 2: twin brothers of both twenty male. Money was always tight

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Speaker 2: while we were growing up, and to make ends meet,

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Speaker 2: my dad worked.

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Speaker 4: Two or three jobs a date.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of chops, and my mom worked night shifts,

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Speaker 2: leaving us with limb time with our parents during the week.

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Speaker 2: So everyone they're working at all hours of the day.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Moving and grooving, Moving and groove and shout out to

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Speaker 2: our movers and groovers in the shop in the chap

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Speaker 2: Fiberdfolios book says, lick the stream. If you're not licking

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Speaker 2: that stream, what are you doing? And Daddy Jesse common

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Speaker 2: in quick with that twenty five dollars tip and also

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Speaker 2: Susan Martin early tip with two bucks. Keep the stream going.

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Speaker 3: As the Tootsie Pop owl says, how many licks to

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Speaker 3: get to the.

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Speaker 2: Center of the streams wheel goal? That is what they say.

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Speaker 2: But what this person says is since my parents were

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Speaker 2: busy working, I took on a significant role in raising

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Speaker 2: my siblings and managing household from a young age. I

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Speaker 2: started working at sixteen, doing waitress jobs while also taking

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Speaker 2: care of housework, household chores, and looking after our pets.

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Speaker 2: My dad always appreciated my efforts, but my mom didn't

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Speaker 2: show the same recognition. She offered favored Sally, treating her

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Speaker 2: as the golden child who could do no wrong. And

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Speaker 2: remember Op is thirty five. Sally is thirty two, so

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Speaker 2: three years younger, which I feel like usually the younger

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that. That sounds kind of strange,

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, despite this, Sally and I are close, which is

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Speaker 2: true about Sophia and I, although she lacks street smarts, hey,

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Speaker 2: an understanding of the real world. Hey, fast forward to

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Speaker 2: the present. I worked hard throughout my twenties. Sophia has

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Speaker 2: an understanding of the real world.

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Speaker 3: I am an understanding of the real world.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I worked hard throughout my twenties alongside of my husband,

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Speaker 2: diligently saving money. Meanwhile, Sally and her husband face frequent

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Speaker 2: financial struggles. My mom would often ask me to lend

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Speaker 4: And actually, in.

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Speaker 3: The morning, I think that's kind of like the older

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I kind of I see it the same way.

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Speaker 2: Like I love I treated Sophia to some coffee this morning,

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Speaker 2: and I love doing that.

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Speaker 3: And I love.

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Speaker 4: And Raven Kitty.

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Speaker 2: I love when you don'tate ten dollars to the SAH

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Speaker 2: League first time live streaming. Love you guys, even gang. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're keeping it even for y'all. So, yeah, find up

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Speaker 2: putting the bills for dinners and drinks. Despite being a

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Speaker 4: So Sally's making.

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Speaker 3: Cash, but she's not spending it wisely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which I feel is I feel like it changes

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Speaker 3: I think it does. Yeah, if she's just constantly like money, money, money, See,

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Speaker 3: I know, I just don't pay for I Like, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to pay for any sort of extra expenses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sophia, Sophia, actually it manages her money very well

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Speaker 2: and she does not evade the irs. But I evade

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Speaker 2: the irs thanks to the ten bug tip. Just joined

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Speaker 2: the live watching what while putting an optic on a rifle?

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Speaker 4: I love America?

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Speaker 3: Is that why are you're evading the irs?

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Speaker 2: I mean that use her name and that that comment

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Speaker 2: just makes sense. Like, well, when my husband and I

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Speaker 2: but got but is the younger sibling and got preferential

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Speaker 3: House, not even like a loan.

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Speaker 2: She just gave a gave, just gave the richer sibling

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, well I was shocked as my mom had

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Speaker 2: Yeah well, I mean again, it has more has more

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Speaker 3: How do you guys?

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think about the jazzy background? Is

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Speaker 2: it too loud?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: It is?

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Speaker 3: It just a jazz music playing right now.

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Speaker 4: The jazz music is playing.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like I like the jazzy stream. Let

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Speaker 2: us know what you think if you like it or not.

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Speaker 4: I feel like hear the jab.

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Speaker 2: It feels like a little bit more relaxing anyway. Forgetful Sophie,

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Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. Bought my bro and as

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Speaker 2: girlfriend dinner last night. Deaf a thing you do for

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Speaker 2: So lucky Sam, I am the lucky.

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Speaker 3: Ok to be. To be fair, Sam may have bought

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Speaker 3: me a coffee this morning, but I made him dinner

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Speaker 2: She did and it was delicious.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: And then we watched Jurassic Park, well I watched, sim

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Speaker 2: I fell asleep to it.

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Speaker 8: Well, as if you have a sibling, where like you

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Speaker 8: do all the nice things, but they're just kind of there.

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Speaker 5: What do you do in that scenario?

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Speaker 2: You just still love them because they're you're sibling.

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Speaker 5: You just love them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, fat pitching Pie, thanks for the three but tip, So,

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Speaker 2: getting back into the story, I chose not to confront

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know about that. I don't know about

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Speaker 2: So uh oh, he's like, I am going to I'm

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Speaker 2: our grandma's death, with explicit extra instructions not to tell

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Speaker 3: Ooh no, no, no, no, So she's lying. The mom

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and gave it. I think just to the

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Speaker 2: most trouble with that's not money, but like, you don't

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Speaker 4: Historically not you know, not spent money wise.

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Speaker 3: Especially an inheritance. I don't think you can divvy up that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that feels a little unfair. I feel well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I would love to know what you guys think. Put

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Speaker 2: your answers in the chat. Do you think, uh, it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know.

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Speaker 2: Put your answers in the chat. Also, how do we feel.

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Speaker 3: Do we like the it seems somewhat mixed.

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Speaker 2: We do a poll, Yeah, yeah, do you like the jazz?

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Speaker 4: Want to do it?

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Speaker 2: Very slight, very very slight.

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Speaker 3: How about y'all like, take ten minutes and if you're like,

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Speaker 3: I hate this jazzy vibe, we'll come back to it.

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Speaker 3: We'll say get it, We'll get it out of here.

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Speaker 2: And it looks like everyone so far is saying bad

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Speaker 3: No, I like it. I don't like.

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Speaker 2: Cal Hedron Hadden says bad mom, and sister mom is

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Speaker 2: So our argument I argued that it wasn't fair for

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Speaker 3: True.

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Speaker 2: Our argument continued all the way home, with Sally expressing

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Speaker 3: Well maybe, well, maybe then you should buy a smaller house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like not like a crazy expensive house and a

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Speaker 3: That's what I'd call.

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Speaker 2: Uh red flag, Yeah, red flag. Later that night, I

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Speaker 2: It's by understanding my frustration. I plan to speak to

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Speaker 2: am I the A hole for yelling at my sister

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Speaker 2: and making her cry? There isn't edit but wall We're

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Speaker 2: going to get an edit. Let us know. Is Op

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Speaker 2: the a hole for yelling at her sister and making

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Speaker 2: holary that our own trial right now. So who is

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Speaker 2: the a hole? You got Op, we got Op's sister,

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Speaker 2: and we got the mom.

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Speaker 3: Mom.

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Speaker 2: Let us know he's the a hole. Put your answers in.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to read this edit. So Hi, everyone just

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Speaker 2: wanted to say thanks for the replies. It means a lot.

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Speaker 2: My immediate action now is to stop giving my sister money.

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Speaker 2: She already called asking if I would go see a

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Speaker 2: and she will pay me back next week. I told

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Speaker 2: She took it pretty okay, It was a little shocked,

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Speaker 2: didn't press the issue. There are some big updates happening

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Speaker 4: Op not the a hole.

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Speaker 2: Tia Vetti says mom and sister Kat just says Mom's

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Speaker 4: Oh uh, Lena go down a little bit? Uh riley Uh.

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Speaker 2: Lena Covenant says, honestly, everyone sucks here. I guess you're

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Speaker 4: So seems like we're kind of mixed. Yeah, seems we're

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think that the mom is definitely

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Speaker 2: She's the a Is she the A hole for taking

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Deb's can says, Mom is the a whole. Sister

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Speaker 3: is wait hold can you go up? Sister doesn't know

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Speaker 2: I think the sisters the a hole for wanting to

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Speaker 3: She just seems very inconsiderate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think the sister is the A

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Speaker 3: You know, yeah, I think the mom's setting her up,

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Speaker 3: but I think the sister is inconsiderate and how she

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, let us know what you think. It

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Speaker 2: for sure. It seems like not many people think, oh,

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Speaker 2: I think everyone agrees that the sister is spoiled for sure. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but let's get in too the relevant comments and TLDR

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Speaker 2: is right above the bar. My mom gave my sister

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Speaker 2: from me, so relevant comments. Why is consequence four thousand

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Speaker 2: and five says now a hole, But it's time you

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Speaker 2: is because you bail her out. Stop bailing her out,

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Speaker 2: Stop enabling your sister, and honestly, stop enabling your mom.

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Speaker 2: Tell your brothers as well what your mom did, because

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Speaker 2: thanks for thanking my brothers in this situation too. They

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Speaker 2: both joined the military out of high school. Start pretty

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Speaker 2: I think you are genuinely upset. You lashed out. Your

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Speaker 2: It may not feel like it is, but it's pretty

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Speaker 2: obvious there is some resentment for your parents accommoding someone

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Speaker 2: my husband said the same thing. He suggests therapy to

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Speaker 2: help me through my feelings is a great idea. I

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Speaker 2: guess I didn't realize my true feelings until they came

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Speaker 2: like OP is realizing. Yes, there's like a lot of

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Speaker 2: resentment that has built up.

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Speaker 3: Because of the way the mom has been treating the kids.

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Speaker 2: But not what's interesting is it's not resentment against the mom.

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Speaker 2: It's resentment against the sister for how the mom's treating

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Speaker 2: this sister. Yeah, which is I think a little.

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Speaker 3: Bit of like jealousy in a way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, an interesting side effect of favoritism. So then

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Speaker 2: a love scare Carrot says, you know that your mother

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Speaker 2: can give her money to whoever she wants, period. What

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Speaker 2: you are really angry about is never having been recognized

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Speaker 2: for your parent fiction and now for being punished by

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Speaker 2: missing out on a gift for doing well. If you're

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Speaker 2: let her know you have been underappreciated. So now she

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Speaker 2: will not step up and pay anymore. You will always

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Speaker 2: ask for separate bills. You won't look after her when

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Speaker 2: she ages good luck and that you are done, let

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Speaker 2: her marit it in that not the ahole. But it

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Speaker 2: is really not about the money. So I guess it's

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Speaker 2: like OPI is like say that you're not going to

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Speaker 2: little harsh. I don't know if I would do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but also we have different relationships with.

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Speaker 2: Our Yeah, brown eye Chick says, now this comminated it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I don't think. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I agree with that comment. Yeah, I agree, And then

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Speaker 2: Squarebat says if apologizing, I think you should go no

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Speaker 2: or low contact with your parents. That Opie responds, my

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Speaker 2: dad is great. He left my mom a year ago

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Speaker 2: because of her bs and even growing up, Dad always

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Speaker 2: acknowledged how hard I work to help with my siblings,

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Speaker 2: my mom. For my mom, I've been low contact since

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Speaker 2: it sounds like the real issue is Opie and the

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Speaker 2: and it seems like the mom's favoritism has pushed Opie

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Speaker 2: away from her sister. Yes, and really it sounds like

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Speaker 2: she just wants to be close to her sister.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I don't think that the bond between her and

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Speaker 3: her sister is like fully broken. I think it just

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Speaker 3: needs they need to put in some work and talk

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Speaker 3: it out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it sounds like Opie is willing and ready

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Speaker 2: to put it to work. But there is an update.

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Speaker 2: There is a big, fat, juicy, thick update. But before

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Speaker 2: we get to it, I think we got something old

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Speaker 2: Nation darnations scroll all the way down. Okay, we already

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Speaker 2: did those. We already did that one. Heidi Browning's for

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Speaker 2: the one dollar heading to the Allergist. I posted an

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Speaker 2: update on the not a pick Me Airline stewardess story

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Speaker 2: on Discord. It's so wholesome. Maybe we can cue that

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Speaker 2: up and then Lee Cheese thanks for the two dollars.

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Speaker 2: The jazz music reminds me of Olive Garden.

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Speaker 4: I've been to an Olive Garden.

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Speaker 2: I like Olive Garden.

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Speaker 3: Never been.

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Speaker 2: Do we like the jazz music in the background.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been about ten minutes. Yeah, we're putting as

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Speaker 3: ye sat you marinated on it for ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: Say I like it or I hate it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Let us know. Yeah, uh, Caitlin says. I sent out

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Speaker 2: the cheese and meat. Yes, we got it, and we

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Speaker 2: got your note. It was so cute. We really appreciate it.

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Speaker 8: It's behind it's We did open it up four because

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Speaker 8: I thought there were cheese in it and I got

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Speaker 8: really scared. But there's no cheese in it, but we

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Speaker 8: are going to open it on the stream. We got

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Speaker 8: two packages.

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Speaker 2: I sent out the cheese. Oh, by the way, did

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Speaker 2: you and Sofia like the cookies and shirts we did.

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Speaker 2: We loved it, and then the thanks for the one

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Speaker 2: dollar tip. Check your discord notifications. Also hello King narwhal

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Speaker 2: prints and also rightley, hello to all of you. Okay, so,

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Speaker 2: oh wow, we're like very split. So it put one

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Speaker 2: for jazz, two for no jazz, and all you have

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Speaker 2: to do is put the number now, so you don't

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Speaker 4: It sounds like Lucy Major.

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Speaker 3: You said, we all hate it, but it's actually.

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Speaker 2: Kind of it's actually gonna split one forty five percent

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Speaker 2: of people like the jazz, fifty five percent of people

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Speaker 2: do not the jazz. Okay, now sixty fifty eight Okay,

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Speaker 2: so it is somewhat split, but there they are. I

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Speaker 2: think more people are and jazz than proach. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: all right, all right, we have heard you. Should we

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Speaker 2: remove the jazz.

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Speaker 5: We'll let it cook for a little bit.

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Speaker 2: We'll let it cook for a little bit longer. Oh

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Speaker 2: my god, did we break the stream?

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Speaker 5: I need a new freaking computer so bad.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, y'all are wow, y'all are going so fast

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Speaker 2: that you're breaking the chat. We're getting a new computer

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Speaker 2: today to handle.

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Speaker 4: You in here. All right, stop voting.

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Speaker 3: We've had John.

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Speaker 4: Jazz so jazz.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, Oh my god, it's shaky.

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Speaker 2: Quicking in the boots. All right, let's get into the update.

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Speaker 2: And for everyone who's just joined in the stream, John

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Speaker 2: is here, John's here, Sophia, do you want to take

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Speaker 2: your place next to me?

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Speaker 3: Or should I become producer?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe Sophia should become producer? Cool sounds good? All right,

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Speaker 2: welcome John into the street.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 7: I think because I just entered the stream, I need

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Speaker 7: a little teal d R.

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Speaker 2: Actually, well we can help with that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also the jazz no jazz has gotten so close. Look

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Speaker 2: at forty fifty percent, that's crazy. Wait do I need

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Speaker 2: a thing? Or do Sephia need a thing? So welcome John,

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Do you want to or is this connected

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Speaker 2: to anything? Can y'all hear me? Can y'all hear me?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Hellop?

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Speaker 2: So the TVR is basically Op's mother, Gay op sister

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Speaker 2: forty thousand dollars secretly, yeah, forty thousand dollars to help

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Speaker 2: buy a new house. The sister is notoriously bad with

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Speaker 2: money and has overspent and like as for handouts from

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Speaker 2: everyone in the family and and makes more money than

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Speaker 2: everyone in the family as a lawyer. No, so not

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Speaker 2: only does she make more money, but literally uh like

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Speaker 2: like will will will literally just spend it.

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Speaker 4: All well out the rich. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's pretty it's pretty annoying, And so Ope

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Speaker 2: yelled at the sister for essentially taking taking that. What

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Speaker 2: we've realized in going through this is actually the what

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Speaker 2: it feels like is op has already gone low contact

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Speaker 2: with the mother, So the relationship isn't that great, but

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Speaker 2: the sister relationship there, like Opie wants a relationship with

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Speaker 2: a sister, Yeah, and this preferential treatment is causing resentment

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Speaker 2: from Ope to the sister.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like, you can be an idiot with money

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Speaker 7: and I can still have a good relationship with you,

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Speaker 7: but just don't do it in a way where it's

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Speaker 7: like unfair to me.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also, the jazz War, the jazz it's fifty fifty great

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00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: jazz Wolf twenty crazy it's fifty to fifty. Would you

448
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 2: guys want some other like music instead like lo fi?

449
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: Nothing do you guys want? That's crazy that it's fifty

450
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Speaker 2: to fifty.

451
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Speaker 4: Dude, this is amazing. Wow.

452
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 2: Okay, the jazz war is insane. Okay, so how about

453
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 2: how about lo fi?

454
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Speaker 4: Can we do?

455
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: Can we put a pole for lo fi versus No Lofi?

456
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 2: I think low fi would be maybe less polarizing than jazz.

457
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,439
Speaker 4: Bro jazz gets to people going the devil's music.

458
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 3: What if we did low fi jazz?

459
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa?

460
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: What?

461
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 4: Cold down?

462
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 3: All right?

463
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 2: We're doing a new poll for low fi versus no locos?

464
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 4: Right, all right?

465
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 3: But what about low five versus?

466
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 2: Oh, low fi versus jazz? Oh, there you go. That's something.

467
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 3: Three options, low fi, jazz, nope music at all.

468
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 2: So all right, we're gonna get into this update. So sorry,

469
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: I've been on the road for work, takeing some much

470
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: needed rest. First off, I reached out to my sister

471
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 2: Sally and apologized for yelling at her. She assured me

472
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 2: there was no need to apologize. Expressed feeling bad about

473
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: the situation. Later that week, Sally and her husband invited

474
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Speaker 2: me over for dinner to talk things out. During our conversation,

475
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 2: they both apologize for not disclosing the money and keeping

476
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 2: it a secret. They confess that despite their efforts to

477
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 2: save for a house independently, Sally had accumulated a significant

478
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 2: amount of undisclosed.

479
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 4: Debt undisclosed, undisclosed.

480
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Speaker 2: I guess an amount of debt that we do not

481
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Speaker 2: know about.

482
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 3: Just undisclosed as to where it was coming.

483
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 2: From, making it impossible for them to purchase a home

484
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Speaker 2: without the money Mom provided.

485
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Speaker 4: Well.

486
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Speaker 2: I believe Sally's assertion that our mom offered the money

487
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: without being directly asked. I can't shake the feeling that

488
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 2: there's more to the story givens, given Sally's knack for

489
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: subtly seeking assistance, because what would happen is Sally would

490
00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 2: be like, Hey, let's go to this spendy dinner. My

491
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: car got declined, and then oh he would the worst, Yeah,

492
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: the worst. I explained to them that while their apologies

493
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 2: were appreciated, the fundamental issue remains that they deceived me

494
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: and I only found out by mistakes, suggesting they had

495
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 2: no intention of coming clean. I emphasized the importance of

496
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 2: trust in a relationship. I then asked if our brothers

497
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 2: were aware of the situation, which they were not. I

498
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: urged Sally to inform them, which she did. Both brothers

499
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 2: were understandably upset, primarily directing their anger towards our mom,

500
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 2: and sought further details Sally relayed the same information to

501
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 2: them as she had to me. Also, right, how loud

502
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: is this music? It should be like barely perceptible?

503
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Speaker 3: It was.

504
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Speaker 5: Ah, okay, al right, guys.

505
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,679
Speaker 2: How is it loud?

506
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

507
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 2: Their main question echoed mine. Why had our mom chosen

508
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 2: to assist Sally and not any of us. They encountered

509
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: and recounted instances where they had openly discussed financial struggles.

510
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 2: This is one of the reasons they joined the military,

511
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 2: and my husband and I have openly discussed money with

512
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: their parents and made significant sacrifices to save her homes.

513
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 2: Yet our mom hadn't offered financial aid to any of us.

514
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: Contemplating whether to confront our mom directly, I ultimately decided

515
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: that she might not be forthcoming with me. Instead, I

516
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 2: had Sally call her with my present on speakerphone to

517
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 2: post the questions. The bottom line, Sally plans to start

518
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 2: a family, whereas my brothers and I are child free

519
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: by choice. Sally is the only one intending to give

520
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: our mom grandchildren.

521
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Speaker 3: That's that's annoying.

522
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 2: Lobster lady says, barely audible music makes me want to

523
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: claw my own skin off, claw your own skin off

524
00:26:52,680 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 2: lobster ladies herself. Yeah, shall be meat. Oh my gosh.

525
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 2: The music, yeah, see if people are like what music?

526
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 4: Anyway? So I had Sally confront her.

527
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: The mom is basically intending to give the own gang children.

528
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 4: What off do people want?

529
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 2: The music is equivalent to Chinese water torture music on

530
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 2: what's happening?

531
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry if if if a person was getting tortured

532
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 3: and then they had two objects Chinese water torture or

533
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 3: really audible jazz jazz.

534
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Speaker 2: I feel like people are like, there's some people that

535
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: are like, oh, I kind of like the jazz and

536
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: the people like Z.

537
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 4: Let me ask you this, what if I don't got

538
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 4: that swing?

539
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they don't got that.

540
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 4: They're they're not swinging. They're not squares guys swinging all right.

541
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: Well, upon hearing that, I couldn't hold back my frustration

542
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 2: and my hurt, I confronted our mom, expressing how her

543
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 2: favoritism felt like a betrayal. Initially resistant, she eventually relented,

544
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 2: admitting that Sally's future plans factored into her decision to

545
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: help her purchase a house. Mom said things like, Sally

546
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 2: is going to give my grandkids, so needs a house. Oh,

547
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: give me my grandkids. So needs a house. Child free

548
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 2: couples travel so much, you never really are home anyway,

549
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: so you don't need a house, et cetera. I wish

550
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: I could say I delivered a great comeback, but in

551
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: reality I was overcome with emotion and left in tears.

552
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: So TLDR.

553
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: Op's mom gave the money to Opie's sister because Opie's

554
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: sister is having kids, and Op's mom feels like someone

555
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: with kids needs the money more than someone without kids.

556
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 4: Mom is like, I only invest in baby factories.

557
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, which is just the comment of her being like,

558
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 3: you don't have kids, you don't need a house.

559
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: I agree the whole travel thing doesn't make sense, but

560
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: I do feel like it is a much harder financial

561
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 2: situation when you have a kid than when you don't.

562
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 4: Does she have one yet?

563
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 9: She doesn't, but she's thinking about the kid.

564
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 4: It's just like the idea, like what if she does

565
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 4: have the kid?

566
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 3: Okay, But the thing is that the mom is specifically

567
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 3: favoriting this daughter and like uplifting her just because she's

568
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 3: like giving her a kid, So it seems like.

569
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: She was favoriting the daughter before that, though, I know.

570
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 3: But it's just weird for the other kids.

571
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you this. I mean, and I

572
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: want to ask everyone. Background music is extremely obnoxious and debilitating,

573
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: says Sharon Weeds.

574
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 4: That's so funny.

575
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: All right, all right, well we're toning down the jazz.

576
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: It was just an idea, y'all.

577
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

578
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: Should we turn it off? Yea, all right, we'll turn

579
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: it off. The jazz jazz is off ended anyway. My

580
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: question is, but if Opie's sister did have a child,

581
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: would she be more entitled to that money?

582
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 3: So I just don't think it's fair for the mom

583
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 3: to give away inheritance money.

584
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I have so I dated someone who whose parents

585
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: said they would give a significant sum of money to

586
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 2: the first child that had kids.

587
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 3: That, like, why are you paying your kids done?

588
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: Because they want BRANCHI I don't, And having a child

589
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 2: is a financial burden.

590
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 7: I don't care about. We've talked about inheritance before. I

591
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 7: don't care. Like, I'm not huge on inheritance, but I

592
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 7: think if there's a child in the picture, that changes it,

593
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 7: because it's like, okay, if you need that, it's it's

594
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 7: truly for the benefit of a child, especially if she

595
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 7: blew all her money up to that point. Obviously, it's

596
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 7: still an enabling so that's still an issue. But I

597
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 7: feel like the mom is like just using this to

598
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 7: like prod and poke and twist the knife like it feels.

599
00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 4: It feels petty.

600
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it also feels like the mom had favoritism before

601
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 2: the kids, and this is just like an excuse to

602
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 2: favorite the child more.

603
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 3: I personally think that if you can't afford to have kids,

604
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: and you're in the like and you're in the situation

605
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 3: where like you get to choose to have kids, then

606
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 3: you should wait until you can afford to have those kids.

607
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree.

608
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 3: And I don't think it's fair for the mom to

609
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 3: I do, but I do how are you going to

610
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: keep your marriage together with all kids? What's to stop

611
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 3: it from crumbling?

612
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 2: Blue Alki says she's really just making excuses for herself.

613
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: Abby Rose says, I agree with Sophia. Yeah, I think

614
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 2: I think that. I think I agree with it. I

615
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: do think though, if someone like if a couple is

616
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: going to have kids, giving I would probably give that

617
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: couple financial support over someone who didn't have kids.

618
00:31:56,040 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if they're all experiencing but they're both dren.

619
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 3: We're experiencing financial issues. Neither kids had kids.

620
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that that's what's messed up. That's what's messed up.

621
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

622
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 3: I think it should have been because it's I think

623
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 3: it's different because it's specifically inheritance that was supposed to

624
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 3: go to all of them.

625
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: Roly Polly coming out of the pocket.

626
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 4: Did I see that? I think I'm gonna say it.

627
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, so good.

628
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 3: I'm trying to create the rhyme while changing it.

629
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 4: Yeah right.

630
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 2: I agree with Sam, but not using inheritance money. I

631
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 2: agree like inheritance money should be split equally among the children,

632
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: especially if there wasn't like a specific decree from the grandparent. Also,

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Speaker 2: dollars tip. Happy Tuesday. I hope your day is going well.

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Speaker 4: Chris Tinfoyle had thanks for the ten dollars super chat.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying I.

638
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Speaker 2: Love me some good jazz, but this is elevator jazz music.

639
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650
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Speaker 2: I watch y'all every day, but almost never make the

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Speaker 2: live show. Well go, you're here for the live show.

656
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Speaker 2: We do have a little bit more of this story,

657
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: but the following day, Sally visited me to talk more,

658
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Speaker 2: but I didn't want to talk about it anymore. I've

659
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Speaker 2: resigned myself to the fact that further probe won't yield

660
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Speaker 2: any solace and I have my answer. I did, oh,

661
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 2: and we actually do have a little bit more info.

662
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Speaker 2: So I spoke to my brothers alone after all this

663
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: and told them everything. They said it was very unfair.

664
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: Turns out the youngest brother's girlfriend is two weeks pregnant.

665
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Speaker 2: They had not told anyone yet as it's so early,

666
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: and they are now considering not telling mom at all

667
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Speaker 2: at all. Unbelieve if anyone deserves that money, it would

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Speaker 2: be the people that are actually pregnant.

669
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 3: But that's the thing. It seems like the mom.

670
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 4: Is just favoriting.

671
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 3: He's just favoring because she didn't go to each of

672
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Speaker 3: her children and ask, hey, do you need financial support?

673
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: Is there any way I can help you? Are you

674
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 3: playing on cabin kids? Any of those type of questions,

675
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,760
Speaker 3: And it was just here.

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Speaker 2: You that I think specifically, what's hard about this situation too,

677
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: or makes it more obvious that this person shouldn't have

678
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: the money, is just how bad that person has been

679
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 2: with money. Yeah, like Op's sister has been terrible with

680
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 2: money for years.

681
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 3: She is an unidentified amount of.

682
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 4: Debt, an unidentified amount of debt.

683
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 2: She should not be having kids right now.

684
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 4: No, that's a crazy thing, so you can identify.

685
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: I tend to fight your debt. But finishing this story out.

686
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 2: The following day, Sally visited me to talk more about

687
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 2: I didn't want to talk anymore. I've resigned myself to

688
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 2: the fact that further probing won't yield any solace. I did, however,

689
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 2: inform Sally that I won't be footing the bill for

690
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 2: outings anymore. If she wants to dine out, it's her

691
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: turn to treat me, or will opt for home cooked

692
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 2: meals at our place. Regarding our mom, I've maintained very

693
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 2: limited contact with her for years, and it may be

694
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 2: time to cut ties all together.

695
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 4: For now.

696
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: Both my husband and I have blocked her on all

697
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: communication channels, and there are some relevant comments, But I

698
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: want to know from y'all what do you think about

699
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 2: how OP handled the communication with Sally. What do you

700
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 2: think about what the mom did by basically saying, I'm

701
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 2: only going to give this person to someone who is

702
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: considering children, even though her other children are having children

703
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 2: children literally right now. Yeah, let us know what you think.

704
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 2: I would love to know when you're in the in

705
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 2: the chat. But Joe, what you think?

706
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Speaker 7: Well, one, I think the mom it's it's clearly like

707
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 7: petty favoritism and just like she's she's using the money

708
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 7: as a means to like f with the other children

709
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 7: and try to have this like you know, compete, like

710
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 7: like you said your example, or you're like getting people

711
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 7: to compete to start to start having children, which is.

712
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty insane, pretty insane, and also like perverse incentives,

713
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: very strange, very strange, because like yeah, that I don't

714
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 2: know who knows what what environment that brings the child into,

715
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: but I feel like it like ends up being like

716
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 2: Game of Thrones with the children buying for attention.

717
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 4: That's true, I will give you an air.

718
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: Child. Kitchen Much had a great comment. She said that

719
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: maybe it's a Rumpel stilt skin situation where the daughter

720
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 3: owes someone a child.

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Speaker 4: That is so that's yeah, that's what she needs to

722
00:36:59,280 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 4: have a child.

723
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 5: Wow.

724
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 2: Yes, I think the mom is unfair. Probably go no

725
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: contact with mom sister is just like dumb and ignorance.

726
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 2: But I think that a relationship can be repaired. Yeah,

727
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 2: and it's sounds like op he wants to repair it.

728
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 4: But let's get into the relevant comments.

729
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 2: So mouse Attack says I said it in your last post,

730
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 2: the military is an attractive option for people who have

731
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 2: few resources. Otherwise, your mom was the bottleneck who drove

732
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 2: them there. Not to mention that her parenting style extreme

733
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 2: favoritism is probably a factor in three of her four

734
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: kids not wanting children. Funny how that works. She gives

735
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 2: you and your brothers a negative view of nuclear families

736
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 2: and then rewards her favorite for being the only one

737
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 2: who wants one. Sally should give your expecting brother twenty

738
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: K or joining her reproduction camp, or your mom can

739
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: shell out another forty k if she has it. Sounds

740
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: like Sally doesn't have it too. It probably spend the

741
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 2: money immediately.

742
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 4: She spent the money on the house, right out of

743
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 4: her budget.

744
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 2: Yeah so dumb, OPI responds, Yeah, I've mentioned it in

745
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: the past to Mom. The reason I don't want kids

746
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: now is because I've raised a family, your kids. And then, finally,

747
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 2: to close the story out, we have one more comment,

748
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: or do I nine two seven zero says it also

749
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: might help to look at it this way. Your mom

750
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 2: gave Sally a significant amount of money. She will hold

751
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: it over Sally's at head for the rest of her life.

752
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 2: She will annoy her to no end. At least I'd

753
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 2: assume inserting her unwanted opinion at any moment, because let's

754
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 2: face it, she deserves to. Your sister will go running

755
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: to money Mommy for money, and either your mom will

756
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: hand it to her and leave herself destitute, or she

757
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: won't give it. And now your sister is saddled with

758
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: a baby that's one hundred percent more expensive than forty

759
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. And if your sister decides to stand up

760
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 2: to her or cut her off, I can assume your

761
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: mom will play the victim card and turn the rest

762
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: of the family excluding you and your siblings against your sister.

763
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: And will Howard when we'll hound her until she gives in?

764
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: And Opie responds all very true. One thing my brother

765
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 2: said during the phone call was that Sally is now

766
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 2: responsible or mom as she ages that. The forty k

767
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 2: means Mom lives with Sally or Sally out in her home.

768
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: So basically this is like forty thousand dollars investment in

769
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,320
Speaker 2: a future living with Sally.

770
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 7: I mean that's pretty good, ROI right there. You take

771
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 7: care of me for life?

772
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:18,919
Speaker 4: Pretty good?

773
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 8: Yeah?

774
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like the mom is pretty stinky.

775
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 4: Stinky Mommy is stinky, and I do not.

776
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 2: I guess I don't like a false op for getting

777
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 2: pretty frustrated with that.

778
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't at all.

779
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 2: I don't think so I don't think OP is the

780
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: A hole. I definitely think the mom is the a hole.

781
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 2: The sister is the a hole by being ignorant and

782
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: not knowing how to spend money. And I feel like

783
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:50,479
Speaker 2: the mother's actions kind of made Sally a complicit a hole,

784
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: you know, yessiocracy association.

785
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, but plus, also.

786
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 4: Wasn't she going to dinner and then like being like, oh,

787
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Speaker 4: cannon A.

788
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:04,240
Speaker 2: Hold definitely for that. That's basically, oh, my card got declined?

789
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 2: Can you pay for this lobster that I ordered?

790
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 4: Honestly, I think she's more on purpose giving it than ignorant.

791
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I actually think I think I agree

792
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 2: with you. But also, our first wheel spin is at

793
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 2: five hundred likes. We're at four hundred and twelve dice

794
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 2: and there are one hundred and fifty people into the stream,

795
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 2: And what the heck are we doing? I'm good, what

796
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: the heck are we doing? Join the stream? Freaking get

797
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 2: on here?

798
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

799
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: And signal imagination thanks for the five buck plot twist

800
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 2: turns out the sister is actually infertile and can have kids.

801
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 3: That would be a plus, that would be a pot us.

802
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 5: Truly, she just took the money and.

803
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 2: Ran and forgetful Sophie Wow, younger sib not telling mom

804
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 2: about baby that that was crazy. Yeah, where it's like, oh,

805
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 2: the person who actually has a baby isn't getting any help. No,

806
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: Stanley Costa, thanks for the one dollar tip. You guys

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Speaker 2: missed my dono, but here it is again. Stanley Coasta,

808
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Speaker 2: thanks for the donation, Thank you and the last donation

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Speaker 2: and read my wholesome story A Sunshine eight to one.

810
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Speaker 2: Is it on our separate at r slash okayp show?

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00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 2: Maybe Riley will add it to the stream and also

812
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Speaker 2: do you guys like bracelets and what are your favorite colors?

813
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 3: You like bracelets?

814
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: I feel like blue, green and purple for me?

815
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, let me go blue as well?

816
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 3: Whoa you changed up yesterday?

817
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 5: It was gold?

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00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 4: I know it is you don't feel that. I don't

819
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Speaker 4: want I don't want them to put together gold gold

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00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 4: bracelet just blue. Yeah exactly, I don't want to.

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Speaker 2: And Tina oser Coc thanks for the two fifteen. Thank

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Speaker 2: you Tiffy for the membership Spitty Tiffy gave ten memberships

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Speaker 2: earlier and then super sweety twenty one thanks for the

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Speaker 2: five bucks. Shout out to you all, I can't believe

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00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 2: it's been over a year since I've been watching your videos.

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Speaker 4: Heck, yeah, that's awesome. Let's go. You guys have come

827
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Speaker 4: such a long way. Thank you.

828
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Speaker 2: Thank you for supporting us for a year. It's really

829
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Speaker 2: cool to see how awesome the community has come, you know.

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Speaker 2: And just I mean, we're doing this for three years now,

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00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: but the last year I feel like there's been a

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Speaker 2: lot of depth.

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Speaker 7: The last three months connecting with you guys like this

834
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Speaker 7: has been a dream, been incredible.

835
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Speaker 4: It's been awesome.

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Speaker 2: And Amy, thanks for the two dollars sheep chat. Are

837
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 2: you including Riley and things yet?

838
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 4: What do you mean?

839
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,280
Speaker 2: Of course every haircut I have in the future we'll included.

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Speaker 2: And then five bucks. Thank you, thanks Asuna for the

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00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 2: five bucks. I appreciate you. But with that, I think

842
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Speaker 2: that concludes that story.

843
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 4: But it includes it.

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00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 7: Poll going dartsool. This next story, Oh my god, let's

845
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 7: get into it, ladies and gentlemen. What is the story

846
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 7: I should be reading.

847
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 4: Again?

848
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: We have a wheel spin and thirty likes. We're aund

849
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 2: four hundred and seventy two. What are we doing if

850
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: we're not like we got on the on the wheel?

851
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Speaker 5: Should we do the poll for the Low Low fine jazz.

852
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 4: I feel like people just hate the music.

853
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe we should just turn it off. I thought

854
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Speaker 3: it was off.

855
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 4: Is it not off? It is? Now? It is off? Now, Okay,

856
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 4: it's off.

857
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 2: Some people like the low five.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Well, well we'll figure it out. Thanks

859
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 4: for the feedback. The Hey we listen.

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Speaker 2: We're listening, guys, all right, an mkat, thanks for the

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00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 2: ten dollars tip. Let's go one more hour.

862
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll see.

863
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 5: Also on the next break, we have some packages back there.

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00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 2: Oh heck you maybe after's story after.

865
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Speaker 4: Yah, let's do it for forty two.

866
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 5: All right?

867
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 7: Am I the ahole for calling one of my brothers

868
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 7: cruel for lying and the other for what he named

869
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 7: his son?

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00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 3: Oh what is your name his son?

871
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 2: Now that is a question I want to know.

872
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 4: Guess in the chat. Guess in the chat.

873
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, this comes from deleted who says for for context,

874
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Speaker 7: I'm twenty one mail and both my brothers are twenty

875
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 7: four mail and this is on a throwaway.

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00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 4: Growing up, my oldest brother, Lazaar was the black sheep

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00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 4: of the family.

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00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 7: A pretty great name, right, and he was one of

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00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 7: those kids that talked back, got into fights and used

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00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 7: to run around with a bad crowd, so it's not

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00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 7: a surprise. Our dad focused on me and my brother Vladimir.

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00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 4: What name I feel like in Russia?

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00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're probably Russian.

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00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know War was a Russian name.

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00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 9: But and our sisters, I think I've heard Lazard is

886
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 9: the last name I've never heard as a first name.

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Speaker 7: Let them let us know, guys, what you said of

888
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Speaker 7: Bazaar and our sisters eighteen female and twenty female more

889
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 7: than him, uh, since we didn't cause trouble and actually

890
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 7: did good in school. So basically, the dad was like,

891
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 7: Lazar the oldest is a lost cause. Let me just

892
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 7: like invest all my energy in all of my youngest

893
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 7: kids because they're actually going to do something with their lives.

894
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 5: So sad, it's so sad. Oh my god, I'm kind

895
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 5: of I'm kind of on.

896
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 2: I I want him to succeed. Yeah, that sucks.

897
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:01,359
Speaker 4: Well.

898
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 7: Lazarre would always complain that our dad never loved him,

899
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 7: damn like it, and he never tried with him, but

900
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 7: that wasn't true. Anyways, he got his act together when

901
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 7: he met his new girlfriend and now wife, Carmen, and

902
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 7: they got married.

903
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 2: Congrats, and also congrats to everyone forgetting to that first

904
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 2: wheel spin five hundred, like, oh yeah, after the story

905
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 2: in the wheel, after the.

906
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 4: Story, let's go, let's go, got his life together.

907
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 7: He didn't invite us to the wedding, makes sense, saying

908
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 7: that he wanted it just to be him and his

909
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 7: close friends, which put more of a stranger.

910
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 4: Because he was the black sheep of the family, his

911
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 4: whole family.

912
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:42,720
Speaker 3: His dad said, you're a lost cause.

913
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, Lazarre the loser.

914
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 2: I mean, you were tapping into that kid's childhood memories

915
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:52,399
Speaker 2: right there.

916
00:45:58,760 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 8: Yeah.

917
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 7: At the beginning of last year, he and I started reconnecting,

918
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 7: and through that he started working on his relationship with

919
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 7: all the family. Soon after, his wife Carmen and Lazar

920
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 7: got pregnant, and obviously we were thrilled since this would

921
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 7: be the first grand kid of the family. During this pregnancy,

922
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 7: Lazar kept hinting that the baby, should it be male,

923
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:24,919
Speaker 7: would be named after someone everyone uh, would be named

924
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 7: after someone very close to him. He then added it

925
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,720
Speaker 7: would start with a V. And everyone in the family

926
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 7: got excited, thinking his son's name would be either vlad

927
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 7: or dad's name or Vladimir or brother's name.

928
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 4: Oh, those are two different names. I did.

929
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 7: I thought it was like Jonathan and John. I thought, too,

930
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 7: that's crazy, But I'm I'm just John.

931
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 4: Like on the birth.

932
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 7: Certificate, there's no John. There's no Athen no athen no

933
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 7: out of my face with that, Yeah, that's not a vibe.

934
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,479
Speaker 7: Gone straight to the point, straight to the point. Okay,

935
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 7: but no, come to the baby being born. He announced

936
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 7: that he was naming it Vasily Vasily v a s.

937
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 3: This is another these are just Russian or these are Russian.

938
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 7: Names v A s I l Y Vasily Vasily vas

939
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 7: Vasily after his deceased friend of the same name. His

940
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 7: boys congratulated him him and one of them, Mark was

941
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 7: in tears at this.

942
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 4: Oh, because it's like it's their friend.

943
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,479
Speaker 7: It's like like a good a good friend in the group.

944
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,760
Speaker 7: The whole thing broke my brother's heart. Since he can't

945
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 7: have kids. He thought Lazarre was honoring him. My dad

946
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,240
Speaker 7: told him it was cruel for playing with their feelings

947
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 7: like this.

948
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 2: Oh, because like he set it up, like, oh, maybe

949
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: you're gonna be named after this kid.

950
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 4: It did kind of seem like that.

951
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 2: Why would you Why did you say? I think he

952
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: I think it probably was intentionally set up that way. Yeah,

953
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 2: maybe it was a little twisted, little twist of the knife,

954
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 2: like you.

955
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 3: You hated me as a child. No, I can't.

956
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 4: I was just gonna try to. Yeah, child, it would

957
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 4: be lassy. That's pretty good there.

958
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 3: I think.

959
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 2: My child, Nicole had and says autocorrected wrote vasectomis.

960
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 5: Not that hold on chat?

961
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 7: Well, uh, the dad said he He told him it

962
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 7: was cruel for playing with their feelings like this, to

963
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 7: which Lazar acted dumbfounded, saying he didn't promise them anything.

964
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 4: They've been low contact and the worst part is Lazarre

965
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 4: could care less. He said that they're overreacting and that

966
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 4: Vassili was like a brother to him. I finally texted

967
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 4: him after he made a post about introducing his son

968
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 4: to Vassili's grave. I told him he was being cruel

969
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 4: and that he knew that he was implying, and he

970
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 4: knew what he was implying the whole pregnancy. He just

971
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 4: told me to f off and blocked me. Carmen, his

972
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 4: wife did so too. Damn. Now he just doesn't give

973
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 4: a ship's.

974
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 3: Just like I'm being my kid after.

975
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 7: After my friends passed away, despite my pos brother and father.

976
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, also it seems like if he's acting super shocked,

977
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 3: maybe maybe it's how op he's telling it, you know,

978
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 3: like maybe op he's like, oh yeah, he let he

979
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 3: let us off.

980
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 2: It's a good point, maybe because we're we're definitely getting

981
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 2: it from perspective. Yeah, quila's are too.

982
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 7: Can we can we start a poll? I'd be curious

983
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 7: of petty petty or not? Like is the brother secretly

984
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 7: being petty or not?

985
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 4: Yeah?

986
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess the first question is do we think

987
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 2: it was intentional that the brother was trying to be petty?

988
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 2: And then once we understand that, is the brother the

989
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: ahole for being petty? I think I I'm thinking petty

990
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 2: right now, I'm thinking petty.

991
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 4: I'm thinking it's I'm.

992
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 3: Thinking is petty though I don't think he's there.

993
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, I agree.

994
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 3: Because his family treated him so poorly.

995
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 4: We'll get get voting. We're about to hit hit a

996
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 4: little break. We're gonna do a break down.

997
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 7: So now I'm starting to doubt my decision. I really

998
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,839
Speaker 7: want to be in my nephew's life and I don't

999
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 7: want this to ruin that.

1000
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 4: So am I the a hole? So maybe maybe we

1001
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 4: can start with that question.

1002
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, is op petty or not petty?

1003
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no ops, not the petty one.

1004
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 2: Is lazare petty or not petty? You can just put

1005
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 2: one or two in the Chattle Register.

1006
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 4: Let us know.

1007
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 2: I'm going to say if if Op is telling it

1008
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 2: as it is, and Lazar was like, I'm having a

1009
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 2: kid and I'm going to be naming it after someone

1010
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 2: in the family who has a or someone who has

1011
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: a v name and knows both his brother who is sick?

1012
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 4: Is that true?

1013
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,879
Speaker 2: No? Who just can't have a kid, Oh, who can't

1014
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 2: have a kid. Yeah, his fathers have a kid. His

1015
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 2: balls are sick, and his father is just his father.

1016
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 4: It is just his father. I think.

1017
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 2: I think knowing that information and saying it in that

1018
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 2: way sets it up for both of them to think

1019
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 2: that it would be because why would he Why would

1020
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 2: he say that, because like the friend is dead, so

1021
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 2: it's not like he's like surprising the friend.

1022
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 4: Like wouldn't wouldn't wouldn't he just say he was.

1023
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 3: Surprising his other friends because his other friends were like

1024
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 3: crying about it. They was like, oh my god, he's

1025
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:37,280
Speaker 3: named it after Vasili.

1026
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: There was that, but why would you But like like

1027
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: like why would you if you if you put it

1028
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 2: out to the whole family saying like I'm going to

1029
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 2: name my kid a V name, Like I feel like

1030
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 2: that sets up everyone with a V name for disappointment.

1031
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 2: And it seemed like the way that OPI wrote it,

1032
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 2: I was reading it as he was like really trying

1033
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 2: to like, yeah, I'm.

1034
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 4: Naming him a V names, It's gonna be good.

1035
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 2: And it could be that Op is writing from a

1036
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 2: perspective that is like yeah, like it's from Yeah, it's world.

1037
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 2: But based on what we know from Ope, I'm going petty.

1038
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 4: Where are you going? I am also going petty? What

1039
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 4: about you, Sophia? You also think it's petty?

1040
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 3: It's tricky because I think there's a world where Lazar

1041
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 3: like wasn't even thinking about his family. Was I don't know,

1042
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:32,959
Speaker 3: maybe he made a post about it was like naming

1043
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 3: my child after a V name because he didn't even

1044
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 3: invite his family to his wedding. So there's a world

1045
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: where he wasn't even thinking about his family and then

1046
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 3: his family got their own hopes up. I'll go based

1047
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 3: off of what Ops telling us, because that's all we

1048
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 3: can go off of petty, Okay, but justify.

1049
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 2: And based on y'all's votes, you voted one for Petty.

1050
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 2: Sixty seven percent of you think Petty. I think, I

1051
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 2: think so, I think we have anyway agree all right,

1052
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 2: but now we have to ask whether it's justified or not.

1053
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 2: Is there more to the story. There is a little more,

1054
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: so maybe we save justified or not for the end.

1055
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 4: Let's get into it.

1056
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 7: So, first of all, have been comment from uh sorry,

1057
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 7: Omi Kazuki, but we have something to coman beggar from

1058
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 7: Miss Jaybird who donated a hundred bucks via the donation

1059
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 7: tip link. Might I add to get another hour big

1060
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 7: shout out Miss Chamber.

1061
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 4: Miss gaber Is that have we seen, Miss Jaberber?

1062
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 3: Miss have we?

1063
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:38,399
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1064
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 4: ear holes, in our little eye holes. It's beautiful holes

1065
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 4: out of my eyes. I love it.

1066
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 2: And Chris Tinfoil had thanks for the twenty dollars hit

1067
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 2: my youngest daughter as a twenty dollar bill. And it's

1068
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Speaker 2: outside waiting for the ice cream truck to come back

1069
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1070
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1071
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 2: cream truck two and ice cream.

1072
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 3: Now I would love for an ice cream truck to

1073
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 3: to pop around.

1074
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 4: That would be great. And thanks to Lillian Brown for

1075
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 4: the ten buck tip.

1076
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 7: Lazar could be Lozar the czar or the ruler instead

1077
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 7: of loser. You are dropping some interesting wordsmith over here.

1078
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:18,839
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1079
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1081
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1082
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1083
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1084
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1085
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:36,640
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1086
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1087
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1088
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1089
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1090
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1093
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1094
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1095
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1098
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Speaker 7: I can't do that with my throat these days. All right,

1099
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Speaker 7: ladies and gentlemen, Shall we get into these all the comments?

1100
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 7: Uh zoom riley so oh me Kazuki says, growing up

1101
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,800
Speaker 7: my oldest brother Lazarre with the black sheep of the family.

1102
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 7: He was one of those kids that this is quoting.

1103
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 7: I believe what he said. He was one of these

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Speaker 7: kids I talked back on to the fights and used

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Speaker 7: to run around with the bad crowd. So it's not

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Speaker 7: a surprise our dad. Wow, I didn't catch that.

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Speaker 4: It's not a surprise our dad focused on me and

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Speaker 4: my brother Vladimir. Sounds like slip.

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Speaker 2: He is like just to die.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he's justifying how the dad.

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00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 4: Treated laz Are one hundred.

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Speaker 7: Our dad focused on me and my brother Vladimir and

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00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:01,320
Speaker 7: our sister's eighteen and twenty female more than him, since

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00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 7: we didn't cause any trouble and actually did good in school.

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00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 7: This reeks of missing missing reasons. There's something being left

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Speaker 7: out here, a reason to why he acted the way

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00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 7: he did, which I completely agree.

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Speaker 3: I think, so.

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Speaker 4: The catalyst point.

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Speaker 2: It is the catalyst that is a great point, because

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00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 2: people don't just act up for no reason.

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Speaker 4: And I did not miss all.

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Speaker 7: I missed all the little things like we were actually

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Speaker 7: doing good in school and he it was not a

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Speaker 7: surprise that our dad.

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Speaker 2: Focused me says so snobby. Wow, I feel like getting

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Speaker 2: it all in the second round.

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Speaker 3: And I think there's also a world where Lazar might

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Speaker 3: have had like, you know, difficulties in school.

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Speaker 4: Literally something like that, and like dyslexia, yeah truly, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: And he wasn't getting any help, and then you know,

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Speaker 3: it was falling behind, and then his dad just took

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Speaker 3: off focus of him, and then he was back out.

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Speaker 3: It could have been something like.

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00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 4: That, and then it's a vicious cycle, you know, one

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Speaker 4: hundred percent.

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Speaker 7: And so this actually I'm realizing this now. So this

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00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 7: is basically like quoting and then replying and just kind

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00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 7: of yea, yeah, Lazarre would always complain that our dad

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00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 7: never loved him and he tried and he never tried

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00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 7: with him, but that wasn't true. Anyways, he got his

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Speaker 7: back together when he met his girlfriend now wife, Carmen

1143
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 7: and they got married. Uh, the commenter says, and you

1144
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 7: didn't list anything about your dad that showed your dad

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00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,959
Speaker 7: actually did love him and that he did try.

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00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 4: You just moved past it, exactly. Don't tell, I don't tell.

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00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 7: Quoting soon after Carmen and Lazar got pregnant, and obviously

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00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 7: we were all thrilled since this would be the first

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00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 7: granted of the family. During this pregnancy, Lazar kept hinting

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00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 7: that the baby should have been male, would be named

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00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 7: after someone very close to him if he added, and

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00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 7: then he added, it would start with the V and

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00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 7: everyone got the Everyone in the family got excited, thinking

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00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 7: it would be either lad or Vladimir, after our dad

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00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 7: or brother. So you all just assumed that he would

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00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 7: name his kid after people who treated him as the

1157
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 7: black sheep? Yeah, which, yeah, does it makes sense?

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00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't make sense at all.

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00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 7: But no, come to the baby being born. He announced

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00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 7: that it was Vassili, So he didn't lie about anything.

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00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 7: You all just assumed what he was talking about. This

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 7: is true, This is true. The whole thing broke my

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00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 7: heart since he can't The whole thing broke my brother's

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00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 7: heart since he can't have kids. He thought that Lazarre

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00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 7: was honoring him. Why would he honor someone he treated

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00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 7: him as a black sheep, which I did think the

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00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 7: first time, like, why would you do that? My dad

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00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 7: told him it was cruel for playing with their feelings.

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00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 7: What do you mean he acted dumbfounded. Can you point

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00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 7: out where he promised any of you anything exactly? Yeah,

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00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 7: I mean he never he never did that.

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Speaker 4: He never did that.

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00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 3: He never said that.

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00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 2: But I I if it's like the whole thing about

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00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 2: I stand by where we said before, So.

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00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 4: Do I, so do I.

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00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 7: They've been low contact on the worst part is Lazar

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00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 7: could care less and he said that they're overreacting and

1179
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 7: that the Facilla was like a brother to him. I

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00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 7: will fail to see where your brother is in the

1181
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 7: wrong hair. Basically like, yeah, he's going to contact because

1182
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 7: you guys suck. I finally texted him after he made

1183
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 7: a post about introducing his son to Vassili's grave. I

1184
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 7: told him that he was being cruel and that he

1185
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 7: knew what he was implying throughout the whole pregnancy. Okay,

1186
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 7: so let me get this straight. You all treated him

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00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 7: as a black sheep, an outcast, and thought that he

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00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,919
Speaker 7: would honor any of you by naming him by naming

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00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 7: his son after them. Really sounds like Lazarre is making

1190
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 7: the wise choice of cutting you all out of his life.

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00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 7: Now I'm starting to doubt my decision. If you really

1192
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,959
Speaker 7: want to be in the nephew's life, and I don't

1193
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:45,959
Speaker 7: want this to ruin that too late.

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00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 4: You are the a hole. Yeah, some cutting.

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00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 2: Words, yeah, you know, because I think n Op's perspective,

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00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 2: we are actually getting a lot of a holary. Yeah right,

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00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 2: and especially we're getting that on the second ready, Also,

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Speaker 2: y'all coming through a donation, last second, a bunch of

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Speaker 2: donations to read. Do we have more to this story?

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Speaker 4: We have one final comment and then we'll and then

1201
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 4: we'll read this out.

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Speaker 2: My god, Tia, we have another hour. We have a

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01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 2: wheel spind de doo. That's right, let's maybe finish that comment.

1204
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 2: We'll go to the donations, and then we'll do the update.

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Speaker 4: Keep coming, y'all. So last final bit useful anywhere?

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Speaker 7: Thirty ninety one says definitely missing reasons, and then she

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01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 7: brushes it off all lightly by saying her brother says

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01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 7: dad was ever there for him, but it wasn't Uh

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01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 7: dad was never there for him, but it wasn't true.

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01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 4: Yeah right.

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Speaker 7: You just you just said that your dad focused on

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01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 7: the younger kids, not the older brothers. So yeah, the

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01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 7: dad wasn't there for him. Delusional. You're the ahole, major

1214
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 7: a hole, Go apologize.

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Speaker 2: I agree, with that. Yeah, I agree. I agree with

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01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 2: everything that op said. I don't think that or sorry,

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01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 2: everything that the comment said. Yes, I don't think there

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01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 2: was any comment on whether or not it was intentionally petty, yes,

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01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 2: because I think maybe it is understood that it was

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01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 2: intentionally petty. But like the commentary is basically saying, like,

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01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 2: look at all the reasons that this was probably true,

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01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:18,880
Speaker 2: why this was justified?

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Speaker 7: Maybe everyone's you could say slightly like like lazars, maybe

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01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 7: like slightly the a whole but low key like not

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01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 7: justified per se. I don't know if it's like even

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01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 7: the right way to approach it, but it's like he

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01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 7: was treated pretty terribly.

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Speaker 2: Treated like yeah, and like naming naming his kid in

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01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: a and like like you, the question is did he

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01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: use his kids naming as a way to be petty?

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01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 2: And like is that good?

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01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 4: Is it justified?

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01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: Is it understandable?

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01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 4: For sure? But is it an a whole move? Is

1235
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 4: an ahole move?

1236
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 2: Maybe slightly slight maybe, but it's like he was treated

1237
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 2: so terribly understood understandable.

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01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I'm just like, it's not like

1239
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 3: he was like I'm naming my kid after a v

1240
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 3: name that if we were to believe, said, you know,

1241
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 3: and then named his kid some random v name. He's

1242
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 3: still named it after someone very important to him in

1243
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 3: his life.

1244
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 2: For sure.

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01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 5: But it's like.

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01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 4: It would be like if all right, this is what

1247
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 4: it would be like.

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01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 2: It would be like I'm gonna give someone in this

1249
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: room whose name starts with as a big present, and

1250
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 2: then I give it to like on, I give it

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Speaker 2: to my friends Slime.

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01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 3: And you're like, oh my god, Like I'm going, oh no,

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01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't think of an accurate I would

1254
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 3: love to do. But it's like he named it after

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01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 3: his friend who dies Slime.

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01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 4: Slime dies Slime so much, Okay.

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01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 3: Was your close friend gives it to himself?

1258
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go.

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01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I think it's a petty but understandable.

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01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 3: But I think there's a world where he like, we

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01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 3: live in a society. We live in a society where

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01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 3: Slime is his close personal friend and died.

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01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's still like if I was saying, and

1264
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 2: you thought I was going to get you the present.

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01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 5: I don't think I've got it.

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01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 2: You know what they say about assuming that's right coming

1267
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: for me, I'm going to give a present to someone

1268
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 2: close to me than Sam gives it to the woman

1269
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 2: he's dating.

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Speaker 7: True, Okay, so just to close, just to close it out,

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01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 7: here's what I think Lazaru wanted to name his baby

1272
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 7: that anyways, and maybe have a little petty choices like, oh,

1273
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 7: I'm already naming my kid this.

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01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 2: Let me mess with them a little bit. I think

1275
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 2: petty understandable and I don't necessarily super fault.

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Speaker 4: RP. Hey, let's go ki maybe. Yes, So we got

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01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 4: some donations that we that, we got a realization and

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01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 4: we do have another. An update for the story is

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Speaker 4: all done. That's okay.

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Speaker 2: So we have a wheel spin coming up, yes, which

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01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 2: we will do very soon as we hit five hundred likes.

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01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 2: What should the next wheel spin be? At eight hundred,

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Speaker 2: eight hundred, we got eight we had nine hundred people

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Speaker 2: in this synd so we're gonna do a wheel spin

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01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 2: in a sack. But first, John, please the pleasure of

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01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 2: reading these donations.

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Speaker 4: Yes, the first one I believe is Reba Riley. If

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Speaker 4: you could, or do we do? We already hit the

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Speaker 4: one with the.

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Speaker 7: Very top Samantha eye. Okay Smith the ten buck tip

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Speaker 7: to Sophia. Savia answer your question, is it hard working?

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Speaker 7: For the post office as a mail carrier all today.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh. It all depends what office you're at, how

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Speaker 4: you're at, how is Amazon?

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Speaker 3: Uh for that area?

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Speaker 4: For that area? Thank you.

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Speaker 7: I work in a small office as I drive my

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Speaker 7: own vehicle, so it's not too bad for me. Samanthy,

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Speaker 7: We're good to hear. It's not too bad for you.

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Speaker 2: All the slides rip slime, Yeah time, last time, I

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Speaker 2: miss you.

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Speaker 7: Considabra for the one buck tip. Sam You're my favorite.

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Speaker 7: But these streams with y'all here are always the best ones.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Hopefully we could get another hour. I donate more if

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Speaker 7: I could. Okay, op is part of my daily routine nowadays.

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Speaker 7: Let's go, Cassie. We appreciate you. Joson Kimmeler for the

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Speaker 7: twenty five buck tip on the donation, like amazing. Here's

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Speaker 7: hoping for one more hour. Jocelyn shall receive y'all came through.

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Speaker 4: Who do we got next?

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Speaker 2: We're made in Aoki, I think, says something with her.

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Speaker 7: Remember here we go two sell right the two months,

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Speaker 7: big big celebration. If they knew Lazar, they'd know that

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Speaker 7: he would name the child after his family, because his

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Speaker 7: family is terrible.

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Speaker 4: Of course, he named him after his only best buds.

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Speaker 4: Makes a lot of sense, honestly.

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Speaker 7: Brittany, I see you, Lynn with a twenty buck tip

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Speaker 7: on the donation link. Here's to another hour once again.

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Speaker 4: Cheers to it. We hit it.

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Speaker 7: Twenty five buck tip on the donation link from Eva Diva.

1322
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 7: No words enough said.

1323
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 4: We love it.

1324
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 7: MJ Grow with the twenty buck tip. Sorry, I'm late

1325
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 7: that we forgive you. We forgive you, lol Alita with

1326
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 7: a two buck tip. Can we get a quick Gary

1327
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 7: Vee impersonation for old time sake? Uh?

1328
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 4: What are you not flipping things? Lowelita?

1329
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 7: Like, could you just like find a desk and put

1330
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 7: it on a bus and then flip it for one

1331
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 7: thousand dollars?

1332
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 4: Need school marions, the Facebook marketplace and a can do attitude.

1333
01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 4: Love y'all so much.

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 7: We love you, Lolita, Tia Ravina again tip We're sorry

1335
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 7: broken today record breaking night?

1336
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 4: Are we?

1337
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 7: Are we predicting a record breaking This is a Tuesday stream? Whoa,

1338
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 7: It's crazy.

1339
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 5: Stays and Tuesday.

1340
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 3: What happens in Tuesdays stays on Tuesdays.

1341
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 7: Mixed Emotions with the five gift the donations. Heck yeah,

1342
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 7: thank you, for that, uh Winnar's hobby for twenty tip

1343
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:31,040
Speaker 7: for wits for Wittnar's okayist wife.

1344
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 2: Ever at the attitude, that's the that's the adjectively, WI.

1345
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 7: Said, the attitude, I say one, Riley, take your dessert

1346
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 7: notification settings. We can hear pinging sometimes I just fixed

1347
01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 7: it us know there looking out and Lazarre is justified.

1348
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 4: Blaz are justified from the story.

1349
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, and then tire more in for the one month

1350
01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 7: celebration for being a member, uh a one month of

1351
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:03,919
Speaker 7: little silly citizenship.

1352
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 2: Heart.

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01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 7: Y'all have become my favorite YouTubers. I watch you more

1354
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 7: than I watched Smash. Now, y'all, it's not a.

1355
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 4: Competition, but what it is, and we're coming for that.

1356
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 7: And everyone watch while you're watching your other YouTubers play

1357
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 7: us in the background.

1358
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,719
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, we're coming for everybody. We're coming sending shots.

1359
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 4: But I think we.

1360
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 2: Reached a spin goal with five hundred, like EX think

1361
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 2: we did.

1362
01:08:31,000 --> 01:08:34,640
Speaker 4: We could be time to snip.

1363
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 11: Here.

1364
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 4: You get it, baby, spin it.

1365
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 5: Hard move.

1366
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 8: Okay, so let me tell you what it means, sammy boy.

1367
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,640
Speaker 8: The next story we read, you all are going to

1368
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 8: have to pick if op is or is not the

1369
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:02,759
Speaker 8: A hole and stick by that the whole time. Based

1370
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 8: on only the title. You have to go hard mode on.

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01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 4: Like we cannot change our opinions, we have to continue

1372
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:15,799
Speaker 4: to defend it. Yeah, that is awesome to spin the wheel.

1373
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 2: Got that from Sydney Kidney City with that Kidney is

1374
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 2: shout out to you and I believed Kitty. I've been

1375
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 2: seeing you in the discord. Hilarious, amazing, amazing. Also, if

1376
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 2: you haven't already joined our discord, we have many things

1377
01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 2: coming very soon and things already there, so you should

1378
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 2: join the discord. There's a link in the description like

1379
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 2: this angry bro air coming for me.

1380
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 5: Well an m J.

1381
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 2: Grow thanks for the two bucks Riley received.

1382
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 4: We did get potential person check it soon.

1383
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 2: Maybe after this story.

1384
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 3: All right, let's get it right.

1385
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 4: So we have to choose our side.

1386
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 2: This is fun.

1387
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 3: Am I the A hole for refuse to change the

1388
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 3: ownership of the house I bought for my parents.

1389
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 4: Hmmm, I'm refusing. I'm gonna go a hole. I'm gonna

1390
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 4: go to a I'm gonna go, I'm gonna go.

1391
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:21,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm going to be with John on this sinking.

1392
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 8: Shovel down A hole and I have a okay story

1393
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 8: time about a house at the end of the story.

1394
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 4: All right, what have we got for you?

1395
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 1: All right?

1396
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 3: So Spiritual Cup sixty seven sixty nine says hello, this

1397
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 3: is hello there. This is my first account. I'm not

1398
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 3: familiar with Reddit and it's formattic.

1399
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 2: Get the f out of here, exactly right?

1400
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 4: Dare you come to this space without educating yourself first?

1401
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 2: All right?

1402
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 3: All right, I only read am I the A hole

1403
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 3: post on Facebook YouTube? This will be my first post.

1404
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 3: I apologize in advance for the long post and my

1405
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 3: mediocre English.

1406
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank got.

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01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:19,520
Speaker 3: I thirty three female owned multiple businesses.

1408
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 5: I'm not sorry.

1409
01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:29,480
Speaker 3: I'm not really rich, but since I'm single and childless,

1410
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 3: I have a lot of spare money. I also saved

1411
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 3: a lot. I also saved a lot for my retirement

1412
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 3: since I don't plan to marry and have children. I'm

1413
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 3: the youngest of my siblings and the one that made

1414
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 3: most money. My elder siblings sacrificed a lot for me

1415
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 3: to get education since my father passed away when I

1416
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 3: was seventeen. I'm forever grateful for them.

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01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 4: My step.

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01:11:55,880 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 12: John Nor let you read.

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01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 3: My stepfather, Dan sixty eight male fake name has.

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01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 2: Ten children lying to us now fake names? What arekas real?

1421
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 3: Has ten children?

1422
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 9: Wow?

1423
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 3: With his previous wife. His previous wife passed away from

1424
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 3: cancer years ago. Dan and my mother Susan no no,

1425
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 3: no camera on me.

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01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:41,240
Speaker 13: Can't do it Dan, Dan, I hear him and my

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01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 13: mother Susan fifty eight female.

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01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,679
Speaker 3: Fake name was introduced when I was twenty. I don't

1429
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 3: like his family. His children are greedy. It's selfish.

1430
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 2: Wow, hating on children, innocent children.

1431
01:12:56,160 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 3: Job in my country. I've lost my place in my country.

1432
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 3: It's our culture to give money to our parents after

1433
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 3: we start working. Poor. Dan was a school principal, but

1434
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:10,879
Speaker 3: he loaned a lot of money out for his children,

1435
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 3: making sure they won't be trapped with the student debt.

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01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 2: In the end, I was like, oh, he wants to

1437
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 2: trap children with student debt.

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01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 3: That's what it sounds like. In the end, his monthly

1439
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 3: pension money will be deductive from the bank to pay debts,

1440
01:13:22,280 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 3: with a little left for their expenses. Luckily, my parents

1441
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 3: have a farm and that helped them to earn money.

1442
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 3: My step siblings always ignored him when he asked for money,

1443
01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 3: and my siblings were always the one that sent money.

1444
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 3: Oh and my siblings were always the one that sent money.

1445
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,919
Speaker 3: My step siblings would always ask for vegetables and chickens

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01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:44,360
Speaker 3: from the farm for free. They didn't even come inside

1447
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 3: Dan's house, which is considered rude. Yeah, they just took

1448
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 3: the things they needed and left. They just stole the

1449
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 3: chickens in the middle of the night and got out

1450
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 3: of there. That's not what happened. Sorry, they just they

1451
01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 3: rarely came by to visit them, and when they did,

1452
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 3: they rarely buy groceries. I worked hard to earn money

1453
01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 3: for my family. I figured, if I have money, I

1454
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:10,839
Speaker 3: can solve all of their problems and make their worries

1455
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:12,719
Speaker 3: and sadness from poverty go away.

1456
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 2: Oh savior much Yeah for real, get a grip and

1457
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:18,679
Speaker 2: look at me. I've got chickens.

1458
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, hello, I got.

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01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:29,840
Speaker 3: Chickens three years ago. I bought a house for them

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01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 3: and renovated it to their liking.

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01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:36,240
Speaker 2: WHOA, why don't you donate that to the orphans?

1462
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,640
Speaker 4: Huh? The orphan headed hold on.

1463
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 2: Giving it the people who already have chickens, Like, can

1464
01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 2: the rich get richer?

1465
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 3: They already they already had chicken And wait, no, I'm

1466
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 3: on the side.

1467
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 4: I support OPI I don't know, dude, I have to be.

1468
01:14:58,200 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 2: Said swiper, no swiping?

1469
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:07,799
Speaker 3: Where was I three? Whoa Donald? Almost broke some stuff?

1470
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 3: Three years ago. I bought a house for them and

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01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 3: renovated it to their liking. The house is even bigger

1472
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 3: than my house and Dan's previous house. They can keep

1473
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 3: their dogs, fishes, chickens and ducks. Dan is a good person.

1474
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 3: He helped me and my siblings when we were very poor.

1475
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:30,559
Speaker 3: I paid for the house maintenance, hired housekeepers, and bought

1476
01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 3: groceries every month.

1477
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:33,640
Speaker 4: We get it, you're rich, we get it.

1478
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 3: I gave them pocket money every month too. I made

1479
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 3: sure they would never lack for anything or need to

1480
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 3: work hard again. And all they needed to do is

1481
01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:47,600
Speaker 3: to relax in their old age. My step siblings Ugh

1482
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,880
Speaker 3: started to come frequently, stayed there at weekends and ate

1483
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 3: the groceries I bought. All the groceries are high quality.

1484
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 4: You don't want people to get it.

1485
01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 2: That's crazy ops starving starving of course, to give houses

1486
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:07,719
Speaker 2: away to parents and not orphans. Wants children to die

1487
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 2: in student debt and wants people to starve. Yeah, classic

1488
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,679
Speaker 2: class whole behavior. Truly, I only buy.

1489
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 3: The best for my parents.

1490
01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 4: It we get it.

1491
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 3: Hell, they don't even cook. They expect my mother to

1492
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 3: cook for them. If not for the two housekeepers, my

1493
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 3: mother would be tired keeping classkeepers.

1494
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 2: I bet, I bet that's how yo that that actually

1495
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 2: is legitimately crazy.

1496
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 4: That's a lot, that's a lot.

1497
01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 3: If not for the two housekeepers, my mother would be

1498
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 3: tired keeping the house clean because all of them are

1499
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:48,719
Speaker 3: lazy butts uh their children through snacks on the floor.

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01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 3: How old are these kids? I don't know these like

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01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 3: actual children.

1502
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 2: I potentially but two housekeepers.

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01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 3: Me and my siblings appeared amakobo with my stepsiblings, but

1504
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 3: we expressed our disapproval behind their backs. We know they

1505
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 3: do the same. Oh, it's a war. They're two faces,

1506
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:08,560
Speaker 3: after all. They even asked for some money from my

1507
01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 3: stepfather sometimes, the pocket money that I gave to them

1508
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 3: every month.

1509
01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 4: The pocket money.

1510
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 2: They can afford two housekeepers, but she can't give pocket

1511
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 2: money to the children that need it.

1512
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 3: Wow, my stepfather will always give some of his money

1513
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:26,760
Speaker 3: every time, much to my frustration. They're literally chef, accountants,

1514
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:30,680
Speaker 3: managers and teachers. That's the step the step siblings are.

1515
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 3: A week ago, I came back alone to my hometown

1516
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 3: and stayed in my parents' house. I came to see

1517
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,480
Speaker 3: if my parents lack anything in the house.

1518
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:40,879
Speaker 2: But they don't because I provide everything.

1519
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 3: To see that. Two dogs and two cats. Three of

1520
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 3: my stepsiblings were there with their family. We all talked

1521
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:53,840
Speaker 3: for a bit in the living room, and then the

1522
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 3: topic of the house ownership came up. Apparently my stepbrother

1523
01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 3: thought that house was in Dan's name. I told them

1524
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 3: the house is still in my name because I'm so rich.

1525
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 3: They got upset and passive aggressively said I don't trust

1526
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 3: or care about Dan or my mother. I asked, why

1527
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 3: does it matter since Dan and my mother live a

1528
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 3: comfortable life and I would never kick them out. Dan,

1529
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 3: being a passive aggressive individual himself, shut them out and

1530
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 3: praised me.

1531
01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:29,959
Speaker 4: And I deserve all the praise because I saved everyone

1532
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 4: in the family. Kiss my feet, Dan, wash my.

1533
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:37,760
Speaker 3: Feet, Dan kiss my baby toe, saying that I'm not

1534
01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 3: his daughter, but still do more. They were offended and

1535
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 3: went home that night. They have been making passive aggressive

1536
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 3: posts about being controlling on Facebook ever since. My siblings

1537
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 3: made passive aggressive posts as well. Most of it are

1538
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:56,560
Speaker 3: mocking quotes about reading shameful people. Am I the a

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Speaker 3: hole for refusing to change ownership of the house. Does

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Speaker 3: it matter when I managed everything in the house and

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Speaker 3: there is an update massive.

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Speaker 7: Right after that, already already huge. But let me let

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01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 7: me clarify how much of an op.

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01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 4: So give it.

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01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:17,840
Speaker 7: Basically, Opie is disgustingly rich, disgusting, two housekeepers rich. Yes,

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01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 7: probably robbed people, but we can put that aside. Yeah,

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01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:25,519
Speaker 7: and chicken money has Chicken money insane and has been

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01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 7: providing a house for uh Opie's mom and Dan the

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01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:33,760
Speaker 7: stepdad disgusting right right, so.

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Speaker 2: But has only been providing the house as a means

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01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:40,760
Speaker 2: to say that they're providing the house. Look at me,

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01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 2: providing the house and giving away so I could write

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01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 2: Reddit posts about it.

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01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:47,360
Speaker 4: Yes, and a crew praise.

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01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 7: And didn't and didn't even truly give them the house,

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01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 7: just letting them live there. Yeah, while keeping the deed

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01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 7: to themselves, keeping all the interest further to their gredients.

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01:19:57,520 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh exactly. I mean, what is it a big

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01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:04,679
Speaker 2: thing to invest in real estate?

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Speaker 4: Hm? Hm? Literally right off? Tax right off? Bernie made off?

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01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, connection, I think, So do you deserve praise for

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01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 2: basically patting your own pockets to further expand your housekeeper

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01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:20,800
Speaker 2: army and your flock of chickens, I think not. Or

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01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 2: do you deserve to die cold and a load in

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01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 2: a prison? Of course because you're Ale? So I think

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01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 2: this person is unredeemable.

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01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:29,599
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:33,080
Speaker 2: Uh, you should eat them to the max. And if

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01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:34,880
Speaker 2: anyone doesn't know, we're on hard mode.

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Speaker 3: Uh And I say that the ale?

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01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:43,280
Speaker 4: Why m yeah? Why how could you? Yeah?

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01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 3: Go ahead?

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01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 4: Could you support this deplorable.

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01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:52,120
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because I'm not the asshole, oh pie. Opie's

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01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 3: family obe sticky step siblings are taking advantage of poor Dan,

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01:20:57,120 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 3: poor poor Dan, literally poor Dan financially poor.

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01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 4: We would agree he's poor Dan, and.

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01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 3: Op he's just trying to keep him afloat, and Dan

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01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 3: Dan is on O P's side, So it's clear that

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01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 3: the issue of like who owns the house is not

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01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,479
Speaker 3: really an issue. The step siblings are just upset because

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01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 3: they can't take advantage of Dan, and that's there.

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01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 7: You have it. You're wrong, Yeah, yeah, I mean Satan

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01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 7: knows how to trick people. Yeah, that means he's good

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01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:36,559
Speaker 7: at tricking people. Yeah yeah, so yeah, OPI's the a hole.

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01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 7: What do y'all think is the A hole?

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01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 3: Are not the a You better stick to your answer

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01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 3: answer no.

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01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 4: Go back sies.

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01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sean, it says we don't like hard mode. I

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01:21:46,760 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 2: don't care too bad. Get well, uh it was like, oh, okay,

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01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:04,280
Speaker 2: so we it's calibrating. It's calibrating. It's calibrating, its calibrating.

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Speaker 3: Come on, there's an update.

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01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 2: Oh there is an update.

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01:22:09,280 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 3: This isn't the end of the story.

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01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 2: All right, but constant h Thanks for the twenty five

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01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 2: dollars tip for worn Queen's new chair.

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Speaker 4: Where is it? We're trying, we are stacking on on

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Speaker 4: do things.

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Speaker 2: Also, we changed it so you can just put one

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Speaker 2: or two in the chat and it will register as

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01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:27,679
Speaker 2: a vote.

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01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 4: That's right, So a new thing.

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01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 2: Rachel, thanks for the ten dollar tip in the chat

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01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 2: for a Charlotte Dobra collab.

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Speaker 4: We'd love to do that. She's going to be in

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01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 4: Cali soon for dcn Oh, are we going to VidCon?

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01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:45,360
Speaker 2: I think we might the chat her respect to the fandom. Yeah,

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01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 2: we would love to clap with Foxy Cathings for five bucks.

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Speaker 4: I'm here.

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01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 2: I had a lot to do today, but I still

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01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 2: made it. Listening from the car rush hour traffic. Thanks

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01:22:53,479 --> 01:22:56,200
Speaker 2: for listening and thanks for the ten dollars tip. One

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Speaker 2: more hour to keep me saying while uploading my listings

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Speaker 2: and Osmond Storm thanks for the five bucks I'm getting.

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01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 2: I'm betting. Lazaar said the name was going to start

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Speaker 2: with a V online and the family that assumed it

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01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 2: was about that is what I said.

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01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 3: I agree that.

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Speaker 4: Could be true. It looks like the not the a

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01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:26,839
Speaker 4: holes have it so far would be wrong. Wrong, you fools?

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01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:32,320
Speaker 2: What do we say this morning about calling people.

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01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 4: Oh, shrews? True?

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01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:39,920
Speaker 3: Because I was saying instead of calling women bees shoes,

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01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 3: which don't I mean, don't call a woman a shrew?

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01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 7: Real?

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01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 3: True? Better, it's better than yeah, Okay, let's do update.

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01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 4: Let's do it.

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01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 3: Let's do it truth as in like a little shrew,

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01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:58,640
Speaker 3: true as in the Taming of the Shrew by William Shakespeare.

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01:23:58,920 --> 01:23:59,559
Speaker 3: Have you heard of him?

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01:23:59,680 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 4: Nope?

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01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:03,400
Speaker 3: A hole correct?

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01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,880
Speaker 4: You know who probably has o P because rich and

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01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 4: has two maids and chicken money. Let's not forget the

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01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:14,759
Speaker 4: chicken money days.

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01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 5: Hello, Hi, Hi, Every time was slow? I remember that Hi,

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01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 5: whenever you were like Hi.

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01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 2: What's that? What's that? That song by Hobo Johnson where

1640
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:30,400
Speaker 2: it's like Hi.

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01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:32,840
Speaker 3: Hobo Joe Sam's hit comic book.

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01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:33,719
Speaker 4: That is true.

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01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 2: Wow, that's some deep lore, deep lore.

1644
01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 3: I know my story is a bit boring, but I'll

1645
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 3: give an update. Nonetheless, Yeah, you're the because you're boring me. No,

1646
01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 3: you're not the to me.

1647
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 4: You want the a hole to me. Stop boring Spiffy TV.

1648
01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:52,920
Speaker 3: That is true. Ten Things I Hate About You is

1649
01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:56,360
Speaker 3: based off Taming of the Shrew. Hello, I know my story.

1650
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:58,719
Speaker 3: I said that I was planning to visit my parents

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01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 3: in my hometown this week with my siblings to talk

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01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 3: to Dan about my step siblings behavior. Turns out Dan's

1653
01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,080
Speaker 3: already talked to them in their family group chat. My

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01:25:09,200 --> 01:25:13,400
Speaker 3: step siblings were angry. Six step siblings threatened to leave

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01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:18,280
Speaker 3: the group chat and stop contacting him. Dan said, so

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01:25:18,520 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 3: be it. They didn't do it, cowards. I will make

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01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:26,400
Speaker 3: it short. Number one step siblings spread rumors about me

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01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 3: being someone's sugar baby. But oh he's paying for everything.

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01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:35,799
Speaker 2: Interesting But how but how? Probably taking it from orphans?

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01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:37,280
Speaker 4: True?

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01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,440
Speaker 3: Probably taking sugar from babies.

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01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly, the lollipops from the babies, the candy. The

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01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 2: babies are candyless because it's disgusting. Banish them, says Love Bubbles.

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01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:53,720
Speaker 4: Banish them.

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01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 3: My nosey aunt heard about the rumor and told my

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01:25:57,080 --> 01:26:00,280
Speaker 3: mother and Dan, telling them how ridiculous the rumor was.

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01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 2: Well making fun of an aunt for having a nose.

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01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:07,320
Speaker 2: Wow pee, people can be more than their nose.

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01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:08,040
Speaker 4: Two.

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01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:12,639
Speaker 3: Dan snapped in the group chat and disowned them all

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01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 3: ten of his kids. Whoa wow, he kicked six of

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01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:18,840
Speaker 3: my step siblings that spread the rumor out of the

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01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 3: group chat. Wait did he he disowned all of them

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01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:23,320
Speaker 3: but only kicked six out?

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01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 4: Bro?

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01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah like hard doing like control A and delete. It

1677
01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:31,400
Speaker 2: is like yeah, bam, I'm done.

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01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 3: Number three. The four youngest stepsiblings remain in the group

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01:26:36,240 --> 01:26:40,080
Speaker 3: for now. For now, Unlike the elder siblings, they lost

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01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 3: their mom when they were young, so they see my

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01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 3: mother as their mom. Apparently, their elder siblings borrow m

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01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:52,519
Speaker 3: coerce m money from them every month. They also decided

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01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:56,280
Speaker 3: to go no contact with their elder siblings. Me and

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01:26:56,400 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 3: my family blocked the six greedy demons. Thank you for

1685
01:27:00,560 --> 01:27:03,440
Speaker 3: the encouraging words from the demons.

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01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 2: Nice day wow op.

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01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:11,759
Speaker 3: Yeah Angel, Angel says dishonor on you and your cow.

1688
01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 4: Yeah from mulan really yeah good. I like one. Yeah.

1689
01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:19,400
Speaker 2: I stand by what I said at the very beginning,

1690
01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:24,559
Speaker 2: Op Massive a hole, greedy demon, greedy demon, crazy, crazy

1691
01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:27,160
Speaker 2: thing to say. I can't believe you would say it's

1692
01:27:27,200 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 2: such a thing. You are what you say people exactly.

1693
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1694
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:33,120
Speaker 3: The problem is that I know I'm supposed to be

1695
01:27:33,200 --> 01:27:34,920
Speaker 3: doing not the A hole, but you guys are making

1696
01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:39,559
Speaker 3: a hole really fun. The dock side to.

1697
01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:42,479
Speaker 4: Come we have.

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01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 5: Man, So was that it?

1699
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:50,920
Speaker 4: I believe that was it?

1700
01:27:51,040 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 2: What do you all think? Is story op the A

1701
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 2: hole or not the ahole? I feel like we the

1702
01:27:56,439 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 2: chat was wrong, and you said, I feel like the

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01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:01,400
Speaker 2: chat's for wrong. The chat is freaking.

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01:28:01,479 --> 01:28:05,360
Speaker 4: We might have to assassinate O P myself. Yeah, Joy,

1705
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:10,240
Speaker 4: I'm there, I'm right there with you. Yeah.

1706
01:28:10,360 --> 01:28:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have one goal and it is define OP

1707
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:18,080
Speaker 2: and steal their chickens. One goal eliminate a holes. Oh bam,

1708
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:21,960
Speaker 2: goals barred. But yeah, the chat was completely wrong. I

1709
01:28:22,040 --> 01:28:28,880
Speaker 2: know nine it's not the uh definitely a hole living

1710
01:28:28,960 --> 01:28:31,679
Speaker 2: up to your name of sillies. Yeah, because you're being silly.

1711
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 2: You'd be in Philly and not in the cute way

1712
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:35,000
Speaker 2: that we usually call you.

1713
01:28:35,080 --> 01:28:35,800
Speaker 4: In the mean way.

1714
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:37,960
Speaker 2: That's what we don't call you ever, except right now

1715
01:28:38,080 --> 01:28:38,639
Speaker 2: I say.

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01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:41,080
Speaker 3: Not the a whole good riddance to those six kids.

1717
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:43,280
Speaker 3: They were probably losers anyway.

1718
01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, classic OP trying to create more orphans in this

1719
01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:50,880
Speaker 2: world though. Honestly, Yeah, let's let's abandon more children.

1720
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:54,120
Speaker 4: So I can steal from them. So I can steal.

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01:28:57,080 --> 01:28:58,240
Speaker 5: I only steal from.

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01:28:58,120 --> 01:29:03,040
Speaker 4: People once they become orphans. Oh man, Yeah, it's easy

1723
01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:03,639
Speaker 4: to steal.

1724
01:29:03,479 --> 01:29:05,679
Speaker 3: The series of unfortunate events.

1725
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:08,680
Speaker 2: Yeah dude, so orphans are the easiest people to steal from.

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01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:08,960
Speaker 4: OP.

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01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 2: He knows that and is exploiting count orphans.

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01:29:12,760 --> 01:29:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:29:13,000 --> 01:29:18,799
Speaker 2: Count, but also gump Life. Thanks for the two bucks

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01:29:18,880 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 2: we have, Muriel Strass, thanks for twenty five dollars tip

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Speaker 2: on the Tipper League.

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01:29:24,240 --> 01:29:24,720
Speaker 5: No less.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all. I found the channel about a month

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Speaker 2: ago and have at least in every di since I hope.

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Speaker 2: I work from home and y'all are the only thing

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Speaker 2: that keeps me saying sometimes, yeah, that's crazy, because we

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01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:37,000
Speaker 2: are insane most of the time.

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Speaker 3: Someone in the chat says, let Riley speak, Riley, what

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01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 3: do you have to say?

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01:29:41,800 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 4: Well, guess what, ladies and gentlemen, he's not here. Go

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Speaker 4: ahead and say it.

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01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:50,080
Speaker 2: Yes, say it, say Riley, and there you go. I

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Speaker 2: can't even say something silence mayel Stra, Rachel the Axe

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Speaker 2: Hatchet thanks for the twenty eight dollars. Tip on behalf

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Speaker 2: of Nicole Hatten and Kimberly, Guy Soul, Rachel the ax

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Speaker 2: Hatch and come in we wus steal.

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Speaker 4: Donating on behalf of people. Thanks for Guy, thanks for

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Speaker 4: coming through.

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Speaker 2: You want me to scroll for you, but rather gonna

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Speaker 2: come back in a second. Can quant the worm Warrior

1751
01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:13,519
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks. What's your budget for chairs?

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Speaker 2: I can online shop honestly, anything that's comfy. Just let

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Speaker 2: us like Sofia just needs a good la.

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Speaker 3: For an ergonomic chair. I liked those Ady HD chairs

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Speaker 3: that were ergonomic that people.

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01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:26,160
Speaker 4: Would they have like fidget spinners.

1757
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:29,880
Speaker 3: No, they had so so. I mean, you guys know

1758
01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:31,840
Speaker 3: I like to sit cross leg and I like to

1759
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:34,160
Speaker 3: put my knees up, you know, and they have like

1760
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:38,280
Speaker 3: a little place for you to put your feet like

1761
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:42,200
Speaker 3: It's like there's imagine like like a chair and then

1762
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 3: a slightly lowered chair.

1763
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 2: A chair and a slightly lower I could not possibly imagine.

1764
01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:48,720
Speaker 4: I can't do that, honestly, I'm not.

1765
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 2: You can think about all these rich people chairs.

1766
01:30:51,080 --> 01:30:56,719
Speaker 4: All the time. A chair within a chair, there's enough chair.

1767
01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:59,920
Speaker 2: Don't got that. Scroll down? Did we get all of them?

1768
01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:00,280
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1769
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 4: Wait, scroll on a little bit.

1770
01:31:02,000 --> 01:31:07,880
Speaker 2: Cheat Constants, What does con say? Twenty five dollars tip

1771
01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:10,200
Speaker 2: Constant h for the worm Queen's new chair. Where is it?

1772
01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 3: Is it?

1773
01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:13,040
Speaker 4: Working on it? We're working on it.

1774
01:31:13,160 --> 01:31:16,960
Speaker 2: Send us, send us the ideas and the disk the discord.

1775
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:18,040
Speaker 4: Please please do it.

1776
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:21,120
Speaker 3: Send it in my chair, in my my discord.

1777
01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:25,640
Speaker 7: But shout out to Lord Milky Giant's Milk for the

1778
01:31:25,800 --> 01:31:29,560
Speaker 7: five gifted memberships. Heck yeah, we love to see it.

1779
01:31:29,960 --> 01:31:34,240
Speaker 7: And Winnar's Hubby for the four twenty tip. Also hilarious

1780
01:31:34,240 --> 01:31:35,559
Speaker 7: that you keep doing the four twenty tip.

1781
01:31:35,680 --> 01:31:36,680
Speaker 4: I see you? Uh?

1782
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 7: Is the A whole chicken capitalist and poultry profiteering making

1783
01:31:42,520 --> 01:31:43,679
Speaker 7: vowel orphans?

1784
01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:46,439
Speaker 2: If you think about it, If that isn't the most

1785
01:31:46,600 --> 01:31:52,120
Speaker 2: accurate chat message that I've ever seen, wars on the money,

1786
01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:53,320
Speaker 2: That is so funny.

1787
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:55,519
Speaker 3: We're on the A whole side. Wish I'm not because

1788
01:31:55,520 --> 01:31:57,479
Speaker 3: I'm not the A hole all the way and I

1789
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:00,519
Speaker 3: stick to my guns. But like if I were to

1790
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 3: think about it, because I like to think about different perspectives,

1791
01:32:04,880 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 3: I would say A whole because you're supporting the meat

1792
01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:11,920
Speaker 3: industry you're supporting.

1793
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:13,880
Speaker 2: Why are you supporting the meat industry if you have

1794
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 2: your own chickens?

1795
01:32:15,160 --> 01:32:16,360
Speaker 4: Shoot, yeah, I get wrecked.

1796
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:19,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, not the a hole I'm supporting. You know you're

1797
01:32:19,360 --> 01:32:22,280
Speaker 3: on my side now, not the ahole, I know.

1798
01:32:22,479 --> 01:32:25,240
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm never on your side. Okay.

1799
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:26,120
Speaker 5: Story time?

1800
01:32:26,400 --> 01:32:28,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah right, it's an okay story time.

1801
01:32:29,160 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 8: We have a storm here, I think Sunday night, remember

1802
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:34,600
Speaker 8: that there was like something on top of the.

1803
01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:38,559
Speaker 4: House and it was shaking.

1804
01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 5: What was all that shaking about, Sophia that you were

1805
01:32:42,120 --> 01:32:42,559
Speaker 5: talking about?

1806
01:32:42,680 --> 01:32:46,720
Speaker 3: Freaking chat freakings. Oh, it was like eleven o'clock at night,

1807
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:50,880
Speaker 3: and Sam's running around all over the roof like like

1808
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:54,160
Speaker 3: he's a roof constructor in the middle of the.

1809
01:32:54,240 --> 01:32:56,240
Speaker 4: Night, running all around, running all.

1810
01:32:56,200 --> 01:32:59,679
Speaker 3: Around, and I was I was texting. I said, hey,

1811
01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:02,559
Speaker 3: get off the roof because you're keeping me up.

1812
01:33:03,800 --> 01:33:05,360
Speaker 4: Yes, I was running.

1813
01:33:05,600 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 3: You don't have to say anything, Sam, I didn't need that.

1814
01:33:08,360 --> 01:33:10,320
Speaker 5: I didn't need you to discuss what were you doing

1815
01:33:10,360 --> 01:33:10,680
Speaker 5: out there?

1816
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 4: No running, running, running, Riley?

1817
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:17,840
Speaker 3: What are you doing this to me? Why are you

1818
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:18,960
Speaker 3: doing this to be Riley?

1819
01:33:19,240 --> 01:33:21,519
Speaker 5: Because I didn't feel anything, And Sophia was like, what's

1820
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:22,880
Speaker 5: all that running. I thought it was just all in

1821
01:33:22,960 --> 01:33:23,320
Speaker 5: her head.

1822
01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:27,599
Speaker 3: What it was directly above my my roof. My roof

1823
01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:30,880
Speaker 3: was literally shaking because there was like running.

1824
01:33:35,439 --> 01:33:36,759
Speaker 5: Because they were running around.

1825
01:33:38,320 --> 01:33:40,639
Speaker 3: They were running around, running around.

1826
01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:43,400
Speaker 4: Stop practicing.

1827
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:45,480
Speaker 3: Alone.

1828
01:33:48,320 --> 01:33:53,880
Speaker 2: Great anyway, Anyways, gumble Ie thirteen like, so two bucks, Sam,

1829
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:56,160
Speaker 2: don't get on the roof. There could be chickens that

1830
01:33:57,120 --> 01:33:58,200
Speaker 2: have roof chicken hawks.

1831
01:34:04,560 --> 01:34:06,960
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. Maybe my

1832
01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:10,400
Speaker 4: favorite Riley instant comeback of all time. I can't even

1833
01:34:10,439 --> 01:34:13,040
Speaker 4: lie to you. I can't even lie to you. Oh

1834
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:20,600
Speaker 4: my god, read the next story, Open up gifts. It

1835
01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:28,639
Speaker 4: is time for okay packages. Yeah, John's got a big

1836
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 4: package for you.

1837
01:34:29,840 --> 01:34:31,559
Speaker 5: Oh wait, you just stuck someone.

1838
01:34:32,920 --> 01:34:34,600
Speaker 4: Oh terrified me.

1839
01:34:34,720 --> 01:34:41,400
Speaker 3: I was like, no, careful John, John, John John, jot see.

1840
01:34:41,320 --> 01:34:45,280
Speaker 4: I thought you were joking in here here here. It's

1841
01:34:45,360 --> 01:34:46,479
Speaker 4: it's too late. It's too late.

1842
01:34:46,520 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 7: I've got it covered right, not singing We're Goodny Doki, Hi,

1843
01:34:52,720 --> 01:34:56,599
Speaker 7: Hi John, Riley, Sam, and uh, last, but not least, Sophia.

1844
01:34:56,800 --> 01:34:58,760
Speaker 7: I hope all of you enjoy all the treats. I

1845
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:01,599
Speaker 7: watch all of you all all the time, and I'm

1846
01:35:01,680 --> 01:35:02,880
Speaker 7: always ready for more content.

1847
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:03,679
Speaker 4: Smiley face.

1848
01:35:04,120 --> 01:35:07,200
Speaker 7: If you all have any special request for more goodies

1849
01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:10,679
Speaker 7: from me, just let me know, or if you want

1850
01:35:10,760 --> 01:35:12,800
Speaker 7: more from something that I've sent, just let me know

1851
01:35:12,840 --> 01:35:13,160
Speaker 7: as well.

1852
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:15,360
Speaker 4: I wish I could meet all of you in person.

1853
01:35:15,520 --> 01:35:18,160
Speaker 4: I feel like all of us would mesh well if

1854
01:35:18,240 --> 01:35:20,920
Speaker 4: you all would ever let me meet y'all. I would

1855
01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:23,320
Speaker 4: love to take you all out to dinner. But anyways,

1856
01:35:23,439 --> 01:35:25,719
Speaker 4: hope you all enjoy love Caitlin. PS.

1857
01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:31,480
Speaker 7: Sorry for the horrible handwriting, caitlynt.

1858
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:31,599
Speaker 3: Is literally seen Sam's handwriting.

1859
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 4: Have you seen my handwriting?

1860
01:35:33,200 --> 01:35:34,479
Speaker 3: I've seen Riley's handwriting.

1861
01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 4: I won't even I won't even go there, But Kalyn.

1862
01:35:37,600 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1863
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:39,400
Speaker 3: I just wanted to call everyone.

1864
01:35:39,120 --> 01:35:43,280
Speaker 7: Out true truly, but Caitlin, thank you so much for

1865
01:35:43,600 --> 01:35:46,000
Speaker 7: your beautifully kind words, an amazing note.

1866
01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:54,200
Speaker 5: We have that the ice packs, We're down for it.

1867
01:35:54,360 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 4: We have pit smoked summer sausage.

1868
01:35:57,439 --> 01:36:06,439
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, Wisconsin, right, big of cookies, cookies, I believe, yes,

1869
01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:12,639
Speaker 10: you want us to send the mustard dill sauce okay

1870
01:36:13,479 --> 01:36:16,920
Speaker 10: for maybe sauce for our sausage, or win the mustard man,

1871
01:36:17,680 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 10: the mustard man, and.

1872
01:36:19,920 --> 01:36:30,439
Speaker 4: Then finally, but not least finally whatever fucking me. Try

1873
01:36:30,560 --> 01:36:32,160
Speaker 4: not to docks anyone.

1874
01:36:33,439 --> 01:36:34,120
Speaker 3: No, don't worry.

1875
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:36,839
Speaker 5: Make sure you never got do anything.

1876
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:37,679
Speaker 4: Liar.

1877
01:36:38,080 --> 01:36:38,400
Speaker 5: Alright.

1878
01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:46,440
Speaker 4: It is a T shirt that says Tinfoil Hat Squad.

1879
01:36:48,880 --> 01:36:51,960
Speaker 3: Shirt shirt.

1880
01:36:52,680 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 2: I imagine. No, potentially you have to wear what I

1881
01:36:57,240 --> 01:36:59,799
Speaker 2: throw at you. I have a large, I have a large.

1882
01:37:00,760 --> 01:37:02,559
Speaker 2: You have tinfoil hat squad.

1883
01:37:02,600 --> 01:37:03,519
Speaker 4: This is really large.

1884
01:37:04,080 --> 01:37:04,479
Speaker 7: I got.

1885
01:37:07,040 --> 01:37:07,240
Speaker 3: There.

1886
01:37:07,320 --> 01:37:10,320
Speaker 2: We go also, Drip Drop, thanks for the fifty dollars tip.

1887
01:37:10,400 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 2: I just got my braces put on glad.

1888
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:13,000
Speaker 4: I caught alive.

1889
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 2: Hopefully we get another hour. We're getting close.

1890
01:37:14,960 --> 01:37:18,280
Speaker 4: We're going close. And Jenny Career, thanks hip.

1891
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:21,719
Speaker 2: It's Trickster. The trickster voice effect on TikTok is Sam's

1892
01:37:21,920 --> 01:37:23,519
Speaker 2: voice smooches to you all.

1893
01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:26,599
Speaker 4: Does anyone know about the trickster voice? This is awesome.

1894
01:37:26,640 --> 01:37:28,240
Speaker 2: This is an awesome shirt. Thank you so much.

1895
01:37:30,200 --> 01:37:32,280
Speaker 5: Whenever we go out and about we can wear tinfoil

1896
01:37:32,320 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 5: hats and the shirts.

1897
01:37:34,560 --> 01:37:36,679
Speaker 4: Dude, people will be like, those guys know something.

1898
01:37:37,160 --> 01:37:40,000
Speaker 3: Those guys, they know something.

1899
01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:46,160
Speaker 4: Kaitlin, Caitlyn, I am so sorry Kaitlyn. Guys f in

1900
01:37:46,240 --> 01:37:46,880
Speaker 4: the chat for me.

1901
01:37:47,040 --> 01:37:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's from Kaitlyn and Caitlin. We appreciate you.

1902
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:53,519
Speaker 4: We appreciate you so much. My god, we love this

1903
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:55,439
Speaker 4: po box thing. This is awesome, amazing.

1904
01:37:55,560 --> 01:37:57,760
Speaker 2: It's like Christmas and we never know what we're gonna get.

1905
01:37:57,800 --> 01:38:00,240
Speaker 2: We could get a large sausage we have more, or

1906
01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:05,160
Speaker 2: a nice letter. I think we have more, but you

1907
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 2: know what else we have more of, including extra large sausage.

1908
01:38:09,960 --> 01:38:17,400
Speaker 4: Now we have another story, Riley, tell me, please is

1909
01:38:17,439 --> 01:38:18,080
Speaker 4: what don't we mean?

1910
01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:20,200
Speaker 3: Tell me what's the story?

1911
01:38:20,400 --> 01:38:20,720
Speaker 4: What is it?

1912
01:38:21,040 --> 01:38:28,439
Speaker 2: Four for four? Yes, okay, ope, I got something for y'all,

1913
01:38:28,680 --> 01:38:30,080
Speaker 2: but you know who else has something for us?

1914
01:38:30,120 --> 01:38:31,559
Speaker 4: Baby Godzilla? A five buck tip?

1915
01:38:31,600 --> 01:38:33,680
Speaker 2: Why did I tune into the show and Riley is

1916
01:38:33,800 --> 01:38:35,759
Speaker 2: yelling about big cocks?

1917
01:38:35,960 --> 01:38:37,000
Speaker 4: Nothing, nothing different?

1918
01:38:37,880 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 2: What do you mean that's a regular schedule, you know.

1919
01:38:42,360 --> 01:38:44,679
Speaker 2: But let's get into the story.

1920
01:38:44,800 --> 01:38:49,400
Speaker 4: So my sister treats me like garbage and my parents

1921
01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:51,080
Speaker 4: have done anything about it?

1922
01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:52,720
Speaker 3: What do I do?

1923
01:38:53,479 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 4: So much?

1924
01:38:54,080 --> 01:38:57,439
Speaker 3: Just my nose got real like I was gonna I

1925
01:38:57,439 --> 01:39:00,360
Speaker 3: thought I was gonna sneeze right then I feel I

1926
01:39:00,400 --> 01:39:01,479
Speaker 3: still feel like everything's scared.

1927
01:39:03,680 --> 01:39:07,960
Speaker 2: And this comes from Lapis sixty nine. I twenty female

1928
01:39:08,040 --> 01:39:10,000
Speaker 2: have a little sister, sixteen females.

1929
01:39:09,680 --> 01:39:12,880
Speaker 5: Okao submitted, okop submitted oh, why do you.

1930
01:39:12,920 --> 01:39:13,439
Speaker 4: Ever read that?

1931
01:39:13,640 --> 01:39:18,679
Speaker 2: This comes from our slash okop show our subreddit on Reddit.

1932
01:39:18,840 --> 01:39:20,479
Speaker 2: If you want to simmit a story there and he

1933
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:22,720
Speaker 2: want us to read it, go to reddit dot com

1934
01:39:22,840 --> 01:39:25,799
Speaker 2: slash r wait, slash our slash okop show.

1935
01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:26,840
Speaker 4: Our slash KP show.

1936
01:39:26,920 --> 01:39:28,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, go check it out. Or you could just

1937
01:39:28,400 --> 01:39:29,720
Speaker 2: google our slash camp show.

1938
01:39:29,800 --> 01:39:35,280
Speaker 4: Go check it out. We are number seventeen of all

1939
01:39:35,400 --> 01:39:36,360
Speaker 4: podcasts on Reddit.

1940
01:39:36,400 --> 01:39:40,559
Speaker 7: It's going crazy. Yes, it's going crazy. It's going crazy,

1941
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:42,720
Speaker 7: and we're about to go crazy reading stories from it.

1942
01:39:42,760 --> 01:39:44,080
Speaker 3: I feel like we could get to fifteen.

1943
01:39:44,479 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 2: I think we should. I think we should. Anyway, I

1944
01:39:48,080 --> 01:39:50,360
Speaker 2: twenty female, have a little sister, sixteen female. When I

1945
01:39:50,680 --> 01:39:53,719
Speaker 2: was five, I got a little sister. I guess they're

1946
01:39:53,840 --> 01:39:57,799
Speaker 2: like five years apart. I felt like the happiest person

1947
01:39:58,080 --> 01:40:00,680
Speaker 2: in this world. I promise when I came out, I

1948
01:40:00,720 --> 01:40:03,800
Speaker 2: honestly have no memory of you coming out. Damn, I

1949
01:40:03,880 --> 01:40:08,200
Speaker 2: have no memory of life before Sophia, and I wish

1950
01:40:08,240 --> 01:40:12,560
Speaker 2: I did. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I felt like a

1951
01:40:12,680 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 2: person in this world. I promised always care for her

1952
01:40:15,920 --> 01:40:19,280
Speaker 2: and do anything to make her happy. But that changed

1953
01:40:19,280 --> 01:40:24,720
Speaker 2: when she got older, When she was in daycare, she

1954
01:40:24,920 --> 01:40:28,000
Speaker 2: used to start bothering other kids to make them upset.

1955
01:40:28,479 --> 01:40:31,479
Speaker 2: She could see the joy, yo, you could see the

1956
01:40:31,680 --> 01:40:35,200
Speaker 2: joy in her face making others upset and angry. My

1957
01:40:35,320 --> 01:40:37,519
Speaker 2: parents never talked to her about her behavior, so.

1958
01:40:37,720 --> 01:40:39,759
Speaker 4: Only grew and grew.

1959
01:40:40,520 --> 01:40:43,639
Speaker 2: When we got older, she kept taunting me and breaking

1960
01:40:43,800 --> 01:40:46,720
Speaker 2: everything I have and saying things like I will make

1961
01:40:46,800 --> 01:40:50,000
Speaker 2: you not trust all information you ever have by giving

1962
01:40:50,040 --> 01:40:57,400
Speaker 2: you false facts concerning Remember when you told me once

1963
01:40:57,760 --> 01:40:59,720
Speaker 2: that I'm going to tell you I've been telling you

1964
01:41:00,400 --> 01:41:02,600
Speaker 2: facts so you don't trust any information.

1965
01:41:02,200 --> 01:41:04,200
Speaker 3: About I did not say it like that.

1966
01:41:04,720 --> 01:41:06,200
Speaker 4: I the story time.

1967
01:41:06,800 --> 01:41:11,360
Speaker 2: Anyway, I have early memories. I have early memories of

1968
01:41:11,479 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 2: her destroying the house and furnitures, but never got punished

1969
01:41:15,479 --> 01:41:17,720
Speaker 2: or talked to. Mostly I would be blamed for it

1970
01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:20,920
Speaker 2: and get punished. She would walk around proudly and laugh

1971
01:41:21,000 --> 01:41:23,920
Speaker 2: at me for being punished, almost like it's like if

1972
01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:27,000
Speaker 2: you like, stub your toe and yell Sam, and then

1973
01:41:27,040 --> 01:41:28,040
Speaker 2: your parents get mad at you.

1974
01:41:30,080 --> 01:41:30,640
Speaker 3: I don't think so.

1975
01:41:32,000 --> 01:41:35,800
Speaker 2: I don't think she would walk around proudly and laugh

1976
01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:39,639
Speaker 2: at me for being punished. She always had that smirk

1977
01:41:39,760 --> 01:41:42,559
Speaker 2: on her face whenever she looked at me. The True

1978
01:41:42,640 --> 01:41:47,719
Speaker 2: Horror started when she turned twelve. Okay, just say everything

1979
01:41:47,920 --> 01:41:53,000
Speaker 2: I own. She took clothes, food, makeup, stuff for my computer,

1980
01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:56,120
Speaker 2: the two thousand sick white Honda, and menymore.

1981
01:41:56,520 --> 01:41:59,160
Speaker 3: Just to remind you, this is an OKOP story.

1982
01:42:02,240 --> 01:42:06,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is not the story. I love my sister

1983
01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:06,760
Speaker 4: very much.

1984
01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:10,679
Speaker 3: No, no, I mean that we should be more care caring.

1985
01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:18,000
Speaker 2: Oh well, he's saying that they her sister is being rude. Yes,

1986
01:42:18,400 --> 01:42:20,360
Speaker 2: so I'm not saying anything bad about OP. No, I know.

1987
01:42:21,880 --> 01:42:22,760
Speaker 4: So what are you trying to say?

1988
01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:25,000
Speaker 3: Should support your sister?

1989
01:42:27,880 --> 01:42:28,360
Speaker 4: I love you?

1990
01:42:28,439 --> 01:42:31,160
Speaker 2: So this is all jokes, but okay, story time for

1991
01:42:31,280 --> 01:42:35,840
Speaker 2: after about Sophia making me question my reality? Anyway, Oh,

1992
01:42:38,520 --> 01:42:42,240
Speaker 2: Rachel the axe hatchet with one hundred dollars tip.

1993
01:42:42,160 --> 01:42:44,280
Speaker 3: One more hour, Mickey Orndorf.

1994
01:42:44,920 --> 01:42:46,880
Speaker 2: We got to make up for the king's absence. King

1995
01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:48,040
Speaker 2: Frederick is on vacation.

1996
01:42:48,640 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 4: Let's go.

1997
01:42:49,080 --> 01:42:51,720
Speaker 2: Also, I tried the donor link several times, but it

1998
01:42:51,760 --> 01:42:54,840
Speaker 2: wouldn't work. Well, thanks for finding away life.

1999
01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:55,599
Speaker 4: It finds a way.

2000
01:42:56,920 --> 01:42:59,479
Speaker 3: Gold Boom life. No, he goes life.

2001
01:43:00,760 --> 01:43:03,679
Speaker 4: Friends away the True Horror.

2002
01:43:03,720 --> 01:43:06,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so anyway, uh, stuff for my commuter and many more.

2003
01:43:06,120 --> 01:43:08,280
Speaker 2: I kept telling my parents to talk to her, but

2004
01:43:08,439 --> 01:43:10,599
Speaker 2: of course they didn't. At the time, I was starting

2005
01:43:10,600 --> 01:43:12,960
Speaker 2: to get very self conscious about my body and hated

2006
01:43:13,000 --> 01:43:17,080
Speaker 2: how I looked. I struggled at school because ADHD and slexia.

2007
01:43:17,240 --> 01:43:20,000
Speaker 2: I had social anxiety and was a very awkward and

2008
01:43:20,160 --> 01:43:23,600
Speaker 2: weird teenager. I had a lot of trauma that was

2009
01:43:23,680 --> 01:43:26,479
Speaker 2: thrown into my childhood. I started spiraling into depression and

2010
01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:28,519
Speaker 2: did things to myself I never wish I did. My

2011
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:32,519
Speaker 2: sister saw her opportunity and started to try to make

2012
01:43:32,560 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 2: herself look better than me. She was always much more

2013
01:43:35,840 --> 01:43:38,519
Speaker 2: curvier but skinnier than me, and she had better grades

2014
01:43:38,560 --> 01:43:41,200
Speaker 2: than me and got very popular at her school. Every

2015
01:43:41,320 --> 01:43:43,559
Speaker 2: time she saw me, she used to say, Look how

2016
01:43:43,720 --> 01:43:46,840
Speaker 2: skinnier I am. I have perfect scurves. Look how many

2017
01:43:46,880 --> 01:43:49,160
Speaker 2: friends I have? Did you go up and wait?

2018
01:43:49,960 --> 01:43:52,719
Speaker 3: Horrible? Yes, I'm sorry. Your sister's so awful.

2019
01:43:52,880 --> 01:43:55,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes me feel like very grateful to have

2020
01:43:55,520 --> 01:43:56,080
Speaker 2: a great sister.

2021
01:43:56,720 --> 01:43:56,920
Speaker 3: Ah.

2022
01:43:58,160 --> 01:44:00,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, all in real talk, My sister's a real dalk

2023
01:44:00,840 --> 01:44:04,920
Speaker 2: real talk. She took my pants and destroyed them with

2024
01:44:05,160 --> 01:44:10,880
Speaker 2: holes and God when my sister that's crazy. Of course

2025
01:44:10,920 --> 01:44:12,680
Speaker 2: it may be jealous, and I hated myself even more

2026
01:44:12,800 --> 01:44:14,759
Speaker 2: when I sort of turn fifteen, she got even meaner.

2027
01:44:14,840 --> 01:44:17,160
Speaker 2: Every clothes I had, she took them and stewed them

2028
01:44:17,200 --> 01:44:18,040
Speaker 2: to fit her body.

2029
01:44:18,520 --> 01:44:21,120
Speaker 5: That is, she sewed them.

2030
01:44:21,560 --> 01:44:24,760
Speaker 4: That's the level of effort going into that way. That

2031
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:27,000
Speaker 4: takes so much. Yeah, that takes skill.

2032
01:44:27,080 --> 01:44:27,559
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

2033
01:44:27,840 --> 01:44:29,920
Speaker 3: It's hard to sew things to fit your body.

2034
01:44:30,120 --> 01:44:30,759
Speaker 4: That is true.

2035
01:44:31,040 --> 01:44:31,360
Speaker 2: It is.

2036
01:44:31,680 --> 01:44:31,880
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2037
01:44:32,360 --> 01:44:35,479
Speaker 2: She took my parents and just shook my pants and

2038
01:44:35,520 --> 01:44:36,800
Speaker 2: destroyed them with holes of mud.

2039
01:44:37,040 --> 01:44:39,360
Speaker 4: She took my favorite and mud. Yeah.

2040
01:44:39,560 --> 01:44:42,760
Speaker 2: I took my favorite white shoes and walked around with

2041
01:44:42,920 --> 01:44:45,439
Speaker 2: them so they got super money. The worst of all,

2042
01:44:45,600 --> 01:44:47,600
Speaker 2: she took some money I had saved up for a

2043
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:50,440
Speaker 2: long time to buy clothes or herself.

2044
01:44:50,600 --> 01:44:55,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Wow, she sounds awful, sounds horrendous.

2045
01:44:55,520 --> 01:44:58,080
Speaker 2: Also, Terry says, that's creepy, low key. It's it's like

2046
01:44:58,320 --> 01:45:02,040
Speaker 2: it's going there above like just like I mean, sibling.

2047
01:45:02,120 --> 01:45:07,560
Speaker 2: This is like like psychopathic behavior. She even wanted me

2048
01:45:07,640 --> 01:45:10,360
Speaker 2: to feel more hurt, so she started telling my private

2049
01:45:10,439 --> 01:45:12,320
Speaker 2: life to her friends, calling me names and called me

2050
01:45:12,439 --> 01:45:14,840
Speaker 2: lazy because I stopped cleaning up after her and driving

2051
01:45:14,920 --> 01:45:17,360
Speaker 2: her around with my car. They used to laugh at

2052
01:45:17,439 --> 01:45:19,160
Speaker 2: me when they sat in my car while I was

2053
01:45:19,280 --> 01:45:22,720
Speaker 2: driving them and my sister to our house today, she

2054
01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 2: broke the washing machine and cabinet door. My mom got angry,

2055
01:45:25,920 --> 01:45:27,639
Speaker 2: but didn't want to punish her or have a serious

2056
01:45:27,680 --> 01:45:30,080
Speaker 2: talk to her. She walked back to her room like

2057
01:45:30,200 --> 01:45:32,880
Speaker 2: nothing happened and called her best friend. While mom and

2058
01:45:32,960 --> 01:45:35,720
Speaker 2: dad had to clean up after her, I had to

2059
01:45:35,960 --> 01:45:38,680
Speaker 2: also throw away my favorite pajamas that I got when

2060
01:45:38,680 --> 01:45:42,040
Speaker 2: I was fourteen. Okay, let's pause real quick right here. Yeah,

2061
01:45:42,320 --> 01:45:45,360
Speaker 2: this is like like like the initial start was like, oh,

2062
01:45:45,479 --> 01:45:46,479
Speaker 2: Sophia has done that to me?

2063
01:45:46,600 --> 01:45:48,120
Speaker 4: Ha ha ha knows what I'm saying.

2064
01:45:48,200 --> 01:45:49,840
Speaker 3: It was getting more and more consernble.

2065
01:45:50,240 --> 01:45:53,679
Speaker 2: Like Initially it's like, oh, like like classic sibling rivally

2066
01:45:54,040 --> 01:45:58,120
Speaker 2: like funny stuff behavior. But this this, there's a point

2067
01:45:58,160 --> 01:46:00,160
Speaker 2: where it just transcends it and it goes like like

2068
01:46:00,240 --> 01:46:03,000
Speaker 2: psychopathic and just sadistic.

2069
01:46:03,240 --> 01:46:04,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, insane, And I.

2070
01:46:04,439 --> 01:46:06,560
Speaker 2: Feel like we've gotten into sadistic territory.

2071
01:46:07,200 --> 01:46:10,679
Speaker 3: People, sisters with sisters. How have you ever.

2072
01:46:10,600 --> 01:46:16,000
Speaker 4: Experienced sisters sisters with sisters? Yeah?

2073
01:46:16,120 --> 01:46:19,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, op, I mean this is this is from our slash,

2074
01:46:20,560 --> 01:46:23,439
Speaker 2: this is our own community. OPI I am so sorry.

2075
01:46:23,640 --> 01:46:26,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry you're going through this and I'm hoping that

2076
01:46:27,240 --> 01:46:29,600
Speaker 2: things get better, but if they don't, I'm hoping we

2077
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:33,439
Speaker 2: can maybe help in some way by giving advice because

2078
01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:35,599
Speaker 2: this is this is really hurtful.

2079
01:46:36,240 --> 01:46:37,320
Speaker 3: Your sister is a shrew.

2080
01:46:37,720 --> 01:46:41,439
Speaker 2: Your sister is a shrew, and luckily op is twenty,

2081
01:46:41,600 --> 01:46:44,080
Speaker 2: so maybe can kind of get out of the situation

2082
01:46:44,240 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 2: by like leaving it somehow because OPI is older. But yeah,

2083
01:46:50,200 --> 01:46:51,160
Speaker 2: really really bad.

2084
01:46:51,760 --> 01:46:55,040
Speaker 3: Diamond says her sister broke a glass jar over her head.

2085
01:46:55,160 --> 01:46:58,000
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so it gets worse. It gets worse, and

2086
01:46:58,120 --> 01:46:59,559
Speaker 2: we're going to get into it. We're going to get

2087
01:46:59,560 --> 01:47:03,280
Speaker 2: into it. But before we do, on a happier note,

2088
01:47:03,800 --> 01:47:06,920
Speaker 2: we just got another hour. We got well another hour,

2089
01:47:07,600 --> 01:47:10,639
Speaker 2: so let's read some donations before we go back and help.

2090
01:47:10,720 --> 01:47:13,840
Speaker 2: Ope chat, I mean, any advice to anyone who's been

2091
01:47:13,880 --> 01:47:15,960
Speaker 2: in this situation. We'd love to hear it, and we'll

2092
01:47:15,960 --> 01:47:18,960
Speaker 2: read some of it later. But yeah, we drip drop.

2093
01:47:19,000 --> 01:47:21,840
Speaker 2: We already got fifty other tip thanks again for and

2094
01:47:22,840 --> 01:47:24,360
Speaker 2: what you're getting your braces on or off?

2095
01:47:24,560 --> 01:47:24,800
Speaker 4: Was it on?

2096
01:47:24,960 --> 01:47:28,400
Speaker 2: I think getting your braces one to get.

2097
01:47:29,080 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 4: Let us know.

2098
01:47:31,120 --> 01:47:36,280
Speaker 2: White Diamond Angle says five five eleven tip, Hey me

2099
01:47:36,320 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 2: and my mom love listening to you guys every day

2100
01:47:38,280 --> 01:47:40,040
Speaker 2: when heading to work. She says, you guys are her

2101
01:47:40,160 --> 01:47:44,200
Speaker 2: favorite podcasts. If you say Hi Diana and Baby.

2102
01:47:44,000 --> 01:47:47,960
Speaker 4: Mar Hello baby, thanks for the support life.

2103
01:47:48,160 --> 01:47:50,120
Speaker 2: Thanks to the ten bucks my mom made me and

2104
01:47:50,200 --> 01:47:54,200
Speaker 2: my bro tin file hats as kids adorable like for seriousness,

2105
01:47:54,560 --> 01:47:58,560
Speaker 2: like serious, seriously cospiracies. Dang, that's crazy, Caitlin. All the

2106
01:47:58,600 --> 01:48:01,439
Speaker 2: tips of the recipe for the cookies should be in

2107
01:48:01,520 --> 01:48:03,719
Speaker 2: the box appreciated. And oh I did see that, Caitlin.

2108
01:48:03,960 --> 01:48:06,920
Speaker 2: The second box should be there Friday. And John, I'm

2109
01:48:06,960 --> 01:48:10,880
Speaker 2: not interested interesting enough to be stocked, Kaitlin, don't sell

2110
01:48:11,040 --> 01:48:15,680
Speaker 2: yourself shorts that recipe it's stock worth is correct, No,

2111
01:48:15,840 --> 01:48:18,479
Speaker 2: just kidding. Please don't stalk her. V I want to

2112
01:48:18,479 --> 01:48:19,360
Speaker 2: read some donations.

2113
01:48:19,640 --> 01:48:20,920
Speaker 4: Sure, sleep a nights.

2114
01:48:20,920 --> 01:48:23,240
Speaker 3: Thanks for the one buck tip. I'm sure Sophia had

2115
01:48:23,280 --> 01:48:23,560
Speaker 3: told you.

2116
01:48:23,680 --> 01:48:23,920
Speaker 4: John.

2117
01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:27,719
Speaker 3: However, Trash two point zero has been blocked since Thursday

2118
01:48:27,800 --> 01:48:31,439
Speaker 3: last week. Getting ready for work right now, love everyone

2119
01:48:31,600 --> 01:48:37,599
Speaker 3: being for being the sweetest. Yes that was nights. Uh yeah,

2120
01:48:37,800 --> 01:48:38,960
Speaker 3: well you know you were there for that.

2121
01:48:39,120 --> 01:48:41,720
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, but we're we're we're doing beautiful now. Yes, thanks,

2122
01:48:41,720 --> 01:48:42,840
Speaker 7: sleeps Nights. We appreciate you.

2123
01:48:43,080 --> 01:48:46,120
Speaker 3: Yes, and Rachel the ax Hatche do we read on.

2124
01:48:46,240 --> 01:48:47,640
Speaker 4: No, well, let's read it again, all right.

2125
01:48:47,680 --> 01:48:50,160
Speaker 3: Thank you for one hundred donation.

2126
01:48:50,400 --> 01:48:51,000
Speaker 4: We appreciate it.

2127
01:48:51,040 --> 01:48:52,400
Speaker 2: That deserves two shoutouts.

2128
01:48:55,520 --> 01:48:59,559
Speaker 3: Uh acn Wayzy, thank you for the two bucks. Let

2129
01:48:59,640 --> 01:49:01,040
Speaker 3: it go, Sam, it's a Honda.

2130
01:49:01,880 --> 01:49:03,960
Speaker 4: That Honda was sick. I love that.

2131
01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:07,040
Speaker 3: I love that Honda. I would have kept that Honda forever,

2132
01:49:07,320 --> 01:49:10,280
Speaker 3: but my parents sold it. Thank you for the twenty

2133
01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:14,040
Speaker 3: five buck tip here for fun for the one more hour.

2134
01:49:14,439 --> 01:49:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were there and we got there.

2135
01:49:16,560 --> 01:49:19,720
Speaker 3: Video grapha. Thank you for the fifty buck it's gone.

2136
01:49:20,200 --> 01:49:23,559
Speaker 3: Don shown. Just watched the whole stream at two times

2137
01:49:24,080 --> 01:49:27,280
Speaker 3: and finally caught up. I like the background.

2138
01:49:26,960 --> 01:49:30,240
Speaker 2: Music's see some people liked it, but like more people.

2139
01:49:30,600 --> 01:49:34,000
Speaker 2: Vehemiently was listening to it at two k speet.

2140
01:49:34,080 --> 01:49:34,840
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah.

2141
01:49:37,320 --> 01:49:39,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. Jeter Shutter says, I missed my Honda.

2142
01:49:39,240 --> 01:49:40,439
Speaker 4: I get it too. The Hana was great.

2143
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:43,880
Speaker 3: That great, it's great. Thank you Rachel the ax Hatchet

2144
01:49:43,880 --> 01:49:46,280
Speaker 3: for the fifty bucks on behalf of all those who

2145
01:49:46,320 --> 01:49:49,200
Speaker 3: can't donate one more hour, let's go. We love you all.

2146
01:49:49,600 --> 01:49:53,240
Speaker 2: Rachel the axe Hatchet really comes literally just and also

2147
01:49:53,360 --> 01:49:56,000
Speaker 2: like I like the like donating for the people like

2148
01:49:56,560 --> 01:49:57,320
Speaker 2: it's too beautiful.

2149
01:49:58,280 --> 01:50:00,800
Speaker 3: It's the great thing ever Nocturnal slitherin. Thank you for

2150
01:50:00,840 --> 01:50:02,840
Speaker 3: the ten buck tip. Love you all. The story makes

2151
01:50:02,880 --> 01:50:05,080
Speaker 3: me realize that my older sister was not as bad

2152
01:50:05,160 --> 01:50:05,960
Speaker 3: as I thought she was.

2153
01:50:06,160 --> 01:50:08,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it could always be worse worse.

2154
01:50:09,360 --> 01:50:12,120
Speaker 3: Patria B. Thanks to the five Gifted membership.

2155
01:50:13,720 --> 01:50:14,599
Speaker 2: That's what's super sick too.

2156
01:50:14,840 --> 01:50:15,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love to see it.

2157
01:50:16,040 --> 01:50:19,679
Speaker 2: That's five people about to plunge into like one hundred

2158
01:50:19,720 --> 01:50:23,799
Speaker 2: hours worth of life, but not of oka the bowels.

2159
01:50:24,600 --> 01:50:27,360
Speaker 3: Thank you Signal Imagination for the my bucks. Hey, my

2160
01:50:27,479 --> 01:50:30,840
Speaker 3: sister was just like that. Also, No, that sucks so sorry.

2161
01:50:31,120 --> 01:50:34,599
Speaker 3: Also did the text line did oh? Also did text

2162
01:50:34,680 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 3: the line for how my sister got pregnant right after

2163
01:50:37,479 --> 01:50:42,000
Speaker 3: I got gave birth the saga the saga oh intriguing.

2164
01:50:41,680 --> 01:50:46,040
Speaker 2: Wow, Riley can maybe uh get on putting that in

2165
01:50:46,160 --> 01:50:46,960
Speaker 2: the cue yarn.

2166
01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:50,240
Speaker 3: Also thank you Princess a Pasta for the ten buck donation.

2167
01:50:50,520 --> 01:50:53,519
Speaker 3: On behalf of my big siss I apologize for her

2168
01:50:53,600 --> 01:50:56,760
Speaker 3: creepy behavior she was fixated on, as she calls it,

2169
01:50:57,000 --> 01:50:59,840
Speaker 3: being besties with you all. I'm making her write a

2170
01:51:00,080 --> 01:51:02,960
Speaker 3: written apology for disrespecting your boundaries.

2171
01:51:04,240 --> 01:51:07,559
Speaker 4: Wait is that? Wait? Is that? Ope?

2172
01:51:09,080 --> 01:51:09,479
Speaker 5: I don't know.

2173
01:51:10,400 --> 01:51:13,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not to wait on behalf of my big

2174
01:51:13,479 --> 01:51:17,800
Speaker 2: siss apologize for creepy behavior she was fixated on as

2175
01:51:17,840 --> 01:51:23,960
Speaker 2: she calls being beat. Oh something else, yummy, Maine. Thanks

2176
01:51:24,000 --> 01:51:26,439
Speaker 2: for the one dollar tip. Almost a thousand people watching

2177
01:51:26,479 --> 01:51:27,719
Speaker 2: it only six hundred likes.

2178
01:51:29,120 --> 01:51:31,559
Speaker 3: Like you over a thousand people?

2179
01:51:31,800 --> 01:51:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2180
01:51:32,080 --> 01:51:36,679
Speaker 5: Do you want us to spin the or what goal

2181
01:51:36,800 --> 01:51:38,120
Speaker 5: is at eight hundred likes?

2182
01:51:38,479 --> 01:51:42,200
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you everyone for donating and getting us to

2183
01:51:42,280 --> 01:51:45,400
Speaker 2: another hour. It's Tuesday, so it could be one of

2184
01:51:45,439 --> 01:51:48,680
Speaker 2: those streams. It could be one of those streams. We're

2185
01:51:48,720 --> 01:51:50,840
Speaker 2: gonna kind of switch gears. We're going to go back

2186
01:51:51,000 --> 01:51:55,639
Speaker 2: into this story again. This is from the okyop community,

2187
01:51:55,880 --> 01:51:59,800
Speaker 2: from any for everyone who's just coming in. Basically, Op

2188
01:52:00,160 --> 01:52:06,320
Speaker 2: sister has been increasingly more not just mean, like yeah,

2189
01:52:06,439 --> 01:52:11,400
Speaker 2: it's like statistic. Yeah rule, Ope's older her sister. Oh,

2190
01:52:11,400 --> 01:52:17,400
Speaker 2: PE's twenty, her sister's sixteen, and yeah, I feel like

2191
01:52:18,920 --> 01:52:22,960
Speaker 2: I feel like this is becoming a problem and it

2192
01:52:23,280 --> 01:52:26,840
Speaker 2: probably should be elevated to your your your parents parents.

2193
01:52:26,920 --> 01:52:29,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, she'd definitely get the parents involved. Yeah, if you

2194
01:52:29,680 --> 01:52:30,280
Speaker 3: haven't already.

2195
01:52:30,400 --> 01:52:34,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, but I think we're we're getting to the

2196
01:52:34,560 --> 01:52:37,960
Speaker 2: thing is like what Op says is the biggest problem

2197
01:52:38,120 --> 01:52:40,000
Speaker 2: is my parents who never showed her how to be

2198
01:52:40,760 --> 01:52:43,840
Speaker 2: or its others and put no effort into raising her. Yeah,

2199
01:52:44,120 --> 01:52:45,960
Speaker 2: so yeah, let's get it, let's go back. I had

2200
01:52:46,000 --> 01:52:48,000
Speaker 2: to also throw away my favorite pajamas that I got

2201
01:52:48,040 --> 01:52:50,120
Speaker 2: when I was fourteen. She made holes in my pajamas

2202
01:52:50,160 --> 01:52:53,000
Speaker 2: and got it so dirty I couldn't wash the stains

2203
01:52:53,040 --> 01:52:54,360
Speaker 2: off of them, which.

2204
01:52:54,240 --> 01:52:55,759
Speaker 4: I guess is like the mud and the holes.

2205
01:52:56,120 --> 01:52:56,160
Speaker 9: No.

2206
01:52:56,360 --> 01:52:59,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes I hear about like sibling relationships like this or

2207
01:52:59,280 --> 01:53:01,599
Speaker 3: like sibling may me not you know, to this extent,

2208
01:53:01,880 --> 01:53:03,280
Speaker 3: But I'm like, wow, that was crazy?

2209
01:53:03,360 --> 01:53:08,160
Speaker 4: Is that yusef? Was that the yusif? Are yusuf? Maybe

2210
01:53:09,200 --> 01:53:09,560
Speaker 4: it might be.

2211
01:53:09,720 --> 01:53:11,800
Speaker 2: I love you Sam and John so happy to see

2212
01:53:11,880 --> 01:53:13,040
Speaker 2: Okop thriving.

2213
01:53:13,360 --> 01:53:14,479
Speaker 4: Well, text me if that's you.

2214
01:53:15,960 --> 01:53:19,720
Speaker 2: Thinking of that's you. She walked back to her room

2215
01:53:19,840 --> 01:53:22,200
Speaker 2: like nothing happened. Okay, so yeah, going back to it.

2216
01:53:22,640 --> 01:53:24,280
Speaker 2: I couldn't watch the stands off. I told her I

2217
01:53:24,360 --> 01:53:27,920
Speaker 2: felt very disrespected and that I want her to respect

2218
01:53:28,040 --> 01:53:32,560
Speaker 2: my things. She looked at me and said, yes, I

2219
01:53:32,800 --> 01:53:36,960
Speaker 2: am disrespecting you with yikes. So she knows what she's

2220
01:53:37,000 --> 01:53:38,200
Speaker 2: doing and she's doing it on purpose.

2221
01:53:38,400 --> 01:53:40,479
Speaker 4: Yikes, big yikes, bigger yikes.

2222
01:53:40,680 --> 01:53:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, the biggest problem is my parents, who never showed

2223
01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:46,400
Speaker 2: her how to be towards others and put no effort

2224
01:53:46,479 --> 01:53:48,680
Speaker 2: in raising her to be respectful. But they also put

2225
01:53:48,760 --> 01:53:50,800
Speaker 2: years of trauma on me. I was never allowed to

2226
01:53:50,840 --> 01:53:53,000
Speaker 2: be different from them and have different opinions. I was

2227
01:53:53,080 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 2: not allowed to be depressed, and they would be mad.

2228
01:53:54,760 --> 01:53:55,360
Speaker 4: At me if I was.

2229
01:53:55,439 --> 01:53:57,720
Speaker 2: I remember my dad yelling at me because I told

2230
01:53:57,760 --> 01:53:59,680
Speaker 2: him I was depressed. They refuse to let me go

2231
01:53:59,720 --> 01:54:02,479
Speaker 2: to there, even when I begged for it. I wasn't

2232
01:54:02,479 --> 01:54:04,439
Speaker 2: allowed to tell people how my parents treated me or

2233
01:54:04,479 --> 01:54:07,320
Speaker 2: I would be in trouble. They also hated anyone I

2234
01:54:07,400 --> 01:54:10,000
Speaker 2: dated and was against me being together with a Muslim.

2235
01:54:10,400 --> 01:54:12,240
Speaker 2: But my sister wants me to go back to my

2236
01:54:12,360 --> 01:54:14,800
Speaker 2: toxic X, even though she knows all the abuse he

2237
01:54:14,840 --> 01:54:16,800
Speaker 2: did to me. They hate my boyfriend that I've been

2238
01:54:16,840 --> 01:54:19,040
Speaker 2: dating for two years. He's been standing up for me

2239
01:54:19,280 --> 01:54:21,760
Speaker 2: when my family treats me wrong. Maybe they hate him

2240
01:54:21,920 --> 01:54:23,840
Speaker 2: because because he stands up for you, he stands up

2241
01:54:23,880 --> 01:54:25,880
Speaker 2: for you and also gets you out of this reality

2242
01:54:25,960 --> 01:54:29,720
Speaker 2: distortion field where you think this treatment is normal, which

2243
01:54:29,760 --> 01:54:34,800
Speaker 2: it totally isn't. Opeople, he supports me in any He

2244
01:54:34,960 --> 01:54:37,680
Speaker 2: always helps me to be a better person. He supports

2245
01:54:37,760 --> 01:54:40,560
Speaker 2: me in any decisions I make and helps me move forward.

2246
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:43,560
Speaker 2: I feel truly at home with him. We live, sadly

2247
01:54:43,640 --> 01:54:45,760
Speaker 2: not in my country, but he lives in my neighbor country,

2248
01:54:45,920 --> 01:54:48,320
Speaker 2: not too far away. I can't move to him yet

2249
01:54:48,320 --> 01:54:51,000
Speaker 2: because of work, which it feels like. Hopefully you can

2250
01:54:51,080 --> 01:54:54,280
Speaker 2: do that as soon as possible. If this situation with

2251
01:54:54,360 --> 01:54:59,080
Speaker 2: your family keeps just going to the pooper, Yeah, I

2252
01:54:59,120 --> 01:55:04,600
Speaker 2: couldn't find the words stage other than thatus horrendous situation.

2253
01:55:05,680 --> 01:55:08,520
Speaker 2: I can't move with it yet, but I will one

2254
01:55:08,640 --> 01:55:10,520
Speaker 2: day when I have enough money in a more stable career.

2255
01:55:10,760 --> 01:55:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry if my writing is weird. I've been struggling

2256
01:55:12,560 --> 01:55:15,000
Speaker 2: with it two years, probably also because I have dyslexia.

2257
01:55:15,280 --> 01:55:18,480
Speaker 2: Your writing was fine, Your sister is not fine, So

2258
01:55:18,560 --> 01:55:21,160
Speaker 2: all right for everyone who's just joining the stream again,

2259
01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:25,160
Speaker 2: OPI has a sister that has been increasingly more cruel,

2260
01:55:25,680 --> 01:55:30,600
Speaker 2: basically going at so as far as to cut all

2261
01:55:30,640 --> 01:55:33,680
Speaker 2: of her clothes, make them money so she can't wear them.

2262
01:55:34,160 --> 01:55:38,080
Speaker 2: Talk about how she has more friends and OP body

2263
01:55:38,160 --> 01:55:45,080
Speaker 2: shame OP compare basically excel against OP for the purpose

2264
01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:49,280
Speaker 2: of hurting Ope. So I guess my question to chat

2265
01:55:49,560 --> 01:55:52,480
Speaker 2: if anyone has gone through any of this, One, I'm sorry,

2266
01:55:52,600 --> 01:55:55,000
Speaker 2: And two what would you do in this situation? Like

2267
01:55:55,880 --> 01:55:59,240
Speaker 2: Opie's sister sixteen, op is twenty, the parents seem to

2268
01:55:59,320 --> 01:56:03,840
Speaker 2: not really care? Yeah, what can what can op do?

2269
01:56:04,680 --> 01:56:07,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, John, I'm curious, Like, what what do you think?

2270
01:56:07,560 --> 01:56:07,720
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2271
01:56:07,800 --> 01:56:09,680
Speaker 7: I mean, Etherel just said I had to go no

2272
01:56:09,800 --> 01:56:14,120
Speaker 7: contact with my older sister. She used me and tore

2273
01:56:14,240 --> 01:56:18,920
Speaker 7: me down. So I wonder if this is kind of

2274
01:56:18,960 --> 01:56:21,800
Speaker 7: a situation of so we she to be clear, she

2275
01:56:22,360 --> 01:56:24,560
Speaker 7: she's trying to move out right now and then move

2276
01:56:24,600 --> 01:56:26,440
Speaker 7: in with her boyfriend. It's like saving up and working

2277
01:56:27,040 --> 01:56:27,960
Speaker 7: towards that point.

2278
01:56:29,080 --> 01:56:31,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, So she has a boyfriend that's in

2279
01:56:31,280 --> 01:56:35,640
Speaker 2: her neighboring country. She doesn't have enough movie to not

2280
01:56:35,760 --> 01:56:38,560
Speaker 2: have enough money to move there, but her plan is

2281
01:56:38,720 --> 01:56:42,440
Speaker 2: to move there as soon as possible. Yeah, I mean,

2282
01:56:42,520 --> 01:56:44,040
Speaker 2: but she doesn't have enough money, like like she can't

2283
01:56:44,040 --> 01:56:45,000
Speaker 2: do anything quite yet.

2284
01:56:44,920 --> 01:56:47,880
Speaker 7: Right right at this moment, I mean, I think that's

2285
01:56:48,080 --> 01:56:50,560
Speaker 7: a good I think moving away and saving up and

2286
01:56:50,640 --> 01:56:52,040
Speaker 7: working towards That is a great plan.

2287
01:56:52,400 --> 01:56:54,480
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, it might be like you have to kind of

2288
01:56:55,480 --> 01:56:59,240
Speaker 3: like go under the radar for now, you know, kind

2289
01:56:59,280 --> 01:57:04,640
Speaker 3: of like try and keep it like I guess, stay

2290
01:57:04,680 --> 01:57:07,400
Speaker 3: away from that as much as you can, but don't

2291
01:57:07,480 --> 01:57:09,000
Speaker 3: rock the boat until you can leave.

2292
01:57:10,720 --> 01:57:15,720
Speaker 2: There will be cats. Had an interesting point, hopefully you

2293
01:57:15,800 --> 01:57:17,040
Speaker 2: have extended family.

2294
01:57:17,000 --> 01:57:19,320
Speaker 3: Yeah you go, Yeah, if you and anyone else that

2295
01:57:19,360 --> 01:57:20,480
Speaker 3: you could stay with, yeah.

2296
01:57:20,360 --> 01:57:23,720
Speaker 2: Go to I mean it sounds like you're adults, like

2297
01:57:23,800 --> 01:57:26,040
Speaker 2: your parents aren't helping you, but I imagine there is

2298
01:57:26,240 --> 01:57:29,600
Speaker 2: some adult in your life, an aunt or something that, Yeah,

2299
01:57:29,760 --> 01:57:34,360
Speaker 2: could that that could be like maybe like help you

2300
01:57:34,400 --> 01:57:36,240
Speaker 2: get on your feet. Yeah, before you can like move

2301
01:57:36,280 --> 01:57:40,360
Speaker 2: into with your girlfriend or your your boyfriend, but there

2302
01:57:40,440 --> 01:57:42,760
Speaker 2: has to be maybe someone in your family or an

2303
01:57:42,760 --> 01:57:45,320
Speaker 2: adult in your life that you can talk to about this,

2304
01:57:45,480 --> 01:57:48,160
Speaker 2: because staying in this situation is not going to be

2305
01:57:48,240 --> 01:57:50,840
Speaker 2: healthy for you. So trying to get out as soon

2306
01:57:50,880 --> 01:57:55,080
Speaker 2: as possible. Yeah, I think that's like the best advice

2307
01:57:55,160 --> 01:57:56,280
Speaker 2: that that we've gotten.

2308
01:57:56,480 --> 01:57:58,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, And I would say to OPI is now twenty

2309
01:57:59,120 --> 01:58:02,560
Speaker 7: Yeah at this point, maybe see I don't I don't

2310
01:58:02,600 --> 01:58:04,440
Speaker 7: know where where you live, but also see maybe there's

2311
01:58:04,480 --> 01:58:07,000
Speaker 7: like often like free resources, free therapy.

2312
01:58:06,800 --> 01:58:08,200
Speaker 4: Like things of that nature.

2313
01:58:08,240 --> 01:58:10,920
Speaker 7: Maybe just search and see maybe maybe I don't know

2314
01:58:10,960 --> 01:58:13,400
Speaker 7: if your government provides any programs, but just do some

2315
01:58:13,520 --> 01:58:16,240
Speaker 7: research and see if you can get any any resources there.

2316
01:58:16,360 --> 01:58:18,920
Speaker 4: And oh, that's a gender shutter. Was that the one

2317
01:58:18,960 --> 01:58:19,520
Speaker 4: you were looking at?

2318
01:58:19,640 --> 01:58:22,280
Speaker 7: No, start with family and then look at resources like

2319
01:58:22,360 --> 01:58:25,840
Speaker 7: United the United Ways is a charity that I guess

2320
01:58:25,880 --> 01:58:28,360
Speaker 7: you can go to like get supportive services for I was.

2321
01:58:28,360 --> 01:58:30,960
Speaker 3: Going to point out Nomi's thing to gray rocking, which

2322
01:58:31,000 --> 01:58:33,000
Speaker 3: is the term we learned, which is kind of just

2323
01:58:33,120 --> 01:58:37,320
Speaker 3: kind of like a like stonewalling them and not responding,

2324
01:58:38,040 --> 01:58:41,360
Speaker 3: like not giving in to their attempts to get attentions.

2325
01:58:41,000 --> 01:58:45,360
Speaker 2: Which is a good practice in theory, but it's so.

2326
01:58:45,600 --> 01:58:50,200
Speaker 3: Like like to do in practice being yeah the measure,

2327
01:58:50,320 --> 01:58:53,280
Speaker 3: don't try not to like give into that their attempts

2328
01:58:53,280 --> 01:58:54,240
Speaker 3: to like get a rise.

2329
01:58:54,080 --> 01:58:58,520
Speaker 7: Out of you, because yes, yeah, Also you're remember of

2330
01:58:58,600 --> 01:59:01,720
Speaker 7: the Okay fam coming yeah to the discord and like

2331
01:59:02,000 --> 01:59:04,440
Speaker 7: you know, hanging a lot of friends.

2332
01:59:04,640 --> 01:59:04,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2333
01:59:04,880 --> 01:59:08,040
Speaker 2: I think, like what's great about this community is like

2334
01:59:08,600 --> 01:59:13,400
Speaker 2: there's so many people that have been through similar shit

2335
01:59:13,960 --> 01:59:17,800
Speaker 2: like to be frank, and I think there's a lot

2336
01:59:17,840 --> 01:59:20,240
Speaker 2: of support that you can you can get from from

2337
01:59:20,320 --> 01:59:22,480
Speaker 2: talking to people that have been in your situation, and like,

2338
01:59:22,600 --> 01:59:25,840
Speaker 2: we're definitely not the only community like this, but I

2339
01:59:26,240 --> 01:59:29,640
Speaker 2: I like, you're part of the Okay fam. So I

2340
01:59:29,720 --> 01:59:31,880
Speaker 2: feel like the discord has been a great way for

2341
01:59:32,040 --> 01:59:34,440
Speaker 2: people to to get seek advice, like all.

2342
01:59:34,360 --> 01:59:36,440
Speaker 7: The amazing friendships and everything that have come out, Like

2343
01:59:36,480 --> 01:59:37,400
Speaker 7: it's a great support.

2344
01:59:37,120 --> 01:59:38,920
Speaker 2: For baby Godzilla says, we have an advice channel on

2345
01:59:38,960 --> 01:59:42,720
Speaker 2: the Discord. Yeah, I feel like so also this this uh,

2346
01:59:43,040 --> 01:59:44,800
Speaker 2: this post is on our subreddit.

2347
01:59:45,520 --> 01:59:47,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if you want to give advice to that

2348
01:59:47,600 --> 01:59:48,440
Speaker 3: yeah person.

2349
01:59:48,240 --> 01:59:53,680
Speaker 2: Directly directly, it's Lappias sixty nine and it's on our

2350
01:59:53,760 --> 01:59:56,680
Speaker 2: slash Okop show. I think it's like around from April fifteenth.

2351
01:59:56,840 --> 01:59:59,600
Speaker 2: But yeah, go go go search it on our subreddit.

2352
01:59:59,640 --> 02:00:00,600
Speaker 4: Maybe give some.

2353
02:00:02,280 --> 02:00:06,560
Speaker 2: Some love and some advice and then op, if you're listening,

2354
02:00:06,760 --> 02:00:09,960
Speaker 2: maybe join the discord and get some advice from there.

2355
02:00:11,360 --> 02:00:13,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, this is I'm one of the reasons we

2356
02:00:13,560 --> 02:00:16,840
Speaker 2: love this community so much that people can actually get

2357
02:00:16,840 --> 02:00:19,960
Speaker 2: support here. But that's where the story ends, unfortunately, that

2358
02:00:20,080 --> 02:00:24,240
Speaker 2: is where it ends. Yeah, but ope, thanks again for

2359
02:00:24,280 --> 02:00:28,000
Speaker 2: your spinning your story and also thank you everyone who

2360
02:00:28,160 --> 02:00:33,520
Speaker 2: has been donating. We got some Prince of Apasta for

2361
02:00:33,600 --> 02:00:35,560
Speaker 2: the two dollars donation, Rachel the x Hatchet for the

2362
02:00:35,640 --> 02:00:37,880
Speaker 2: five dollars. Can we get a shout out for Sophia

2363
02:00:38,000 --> 02:00:41,600
Speaker 2: Callen for all her supports Tavia Callen, thank you, shut up,

2364
02:00:41,680 --> 02:00:44,120
Speaker 2: I've got you, Mama Sleepless and Witner's Hobby. Thanks for

2365
02:00:44,160 --> 02:00:44,920
Speaker 2: the four to twenty?

2366
02:00:45,120 --> 02:00:47,440
Speaker 4: Are you the a hole? How do you like this stream?

2367
02:00:47,920 --> 02:00:53,040
Speaker 2: Because we are only like sixty six likes away from

2368
02:00:53,040 --> 02:00:53,960
Speaker 2: another wheel spin.

2369
02:00:54,040 --> 02:00:57,200
Speaker 3: And how many people are in this there are now

2370
02:00:57,360 --> 02:01:00,760
Speaker 3: on three. I'm deeply disappointed.

2371
02:01:00,800 --> 02:01:05,560
Speaker 2: I'm disappointed. So feachless, come onless in here and like

2372
02:01:05,640 --> 02:01:09,400
Speaker 2: the strain if you want another wheel spending signal imagination Seattle.

2373
02:01:10,280 --> 02:01:14,120
Speaker 2: I like that signal imagination thanks to the ten bucks.

2374
02:01:14,200 --> 02:01:16,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes the extend family that you hope will give you

2375
02:01:16,440 --> 02:01:19,320
Speaker 2: support turns out to be flying monkeys that support the

2376
02:01:19,400 --> 02:01:23,120
Speaker 2: people abusing you. Speaking from experience, that's true, Like like

2377
02:01:23,240 --> 02:01:25,000
Speaker 2: sometimes they can go back and be like do you

2378
02:01:25,080 --> 02:01:27,040
Speaker 2: hear what your child said to me?

2379
02:01:27,320 --> 02:01:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah? So yeah, I guess an adult that you trust?

2380
02:01:33,320 --> 02:01:36,280
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but you know.

2381
02:01:36,280 --> 02:01:39,600
Speaker 4: Who I trust? I trust John to give me this

2382
02:01:39,720 --> 02:01:42,400
Speaker 4: next story. Whoa, whoa, whoa whoa he yo a.

2383
02:01:42,560 --> 02:01:46,880
Speaker 2: Yo thirty eight s one and get ready for this,

2384
02:01:46,960 --> 02:01:50,920
Speaker 2: ladies and general kit dishonored on those who haven't liked

2385
02:01:50,960 --> 02:01:51,360
Speaker 2: the stream.

2386
02:01:52,120 --> 02:01:56,440
Speaker 4: Like the stream. This is ridiculous, ridiculous, and I won't

2387
02:01:56,520 --> 02:01:58,240
Speaker 4: stand for it's ridiculous.

2388
02:01:58,520 --> 02:02:02,960
Speaker 7: Well you know what, elselo, Sam, What am I've able

2389
02:02:03,400 --> 02:02:05,840
Speaker 7: for letting my husband feel emasculated?

2390
02:02:06,160 --> 02:02:07,240
Speaker 4: That's pretty ridiculous.

2391
02:02:08,400 --> 02:02:10,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like I think all men.

2392
02:02:14,720 --> 02:02:17,800
Speaker 2: I'm not like down for just like you know, a

2393
02:02:17,920 --> 02:02:21,720
Speaker 2: masculating for a masculating sake. But I do think there

2394
02:02:21,960 --> 02:02:26,640
Speaker 2: is a place for letting your feminine side come in

2395
02:02:26,800 --> 02:02:31,160
Speaker 2: a little bit. Yeah, yes, we were, we were, We were, Yes,

2396
02:02:31,240 --> 02:02:32,840
Speaker 2: we were last night when Sophia was making me a

2397
02:02:32,880 --> 02:02:33,520
Speaker 2: delicious dinner.

2398
02:02:33,760 --> 02:02:38,640
Speaker 3: Yeah no, I don't think that. Shoot we're playing right

2399
02:02:38,680 --> 02:02:40,280
Speaker 3: into the stairs again.

2400
02:02:45,280 --> 02:02:48,320
Speaker 4: I did not even realize his own.

2401
02:02:50,320 --> 02:02:51,400
Speaker 3: In the kitchen.

2402
02:02:52,640 --> 02:02:56,760
Speaker 4: Women. Anyways, this comes from throwback a masculator.

2403
02:02:57,000 --> 02:03:02,919
Speaker 3: Throw back, a masculator throwing bad baby context.

2404
02:03:03,120 --> 02:03:05,160
Speaker 7: I'm thirty three male and my husband is thirty one male.

2405
02:03:05,360 --> 02:03:07,920
Speaker 7: I'm currently on maternity leave for our second child, female

2406
02:03:08,000 --> 02:03:11,520
Speaker 7: cagarettes due to a complicated delivery and my status as

2407
02:03:11,520 --> 02:03:14,960
Speaker 7: a junior associate. My firm extended my leave to ninety

2408
02:03:15,120 --> 02:03:20,240
Speaker 7: days concluding next Friday. My libido has been nearly non existent.

2409
02:03:20,880 --> 02:03:23,640
Speaker 7: I also had a drop in libido after our first child,

2410
02:03:23,760 --> 02:03:25,680
Speaker 7: three female, was born, which is.

2411
02:03:25,720 --> 02:03:28,240
Speaker 2: A thing that I've heard happens pregnancy, hormones, all that

2412
02:03:28,280 --> 02:03:28,960
Speaker 2: stuff kind.

2413
02:03:28,840 --> 02:03:31,720
Speaker 4: Of makes kind of makes sense if I just delivered

2414
02:03:31,760 --> 02:03:32,400
Speaker 4: a baby.

2415
02:03:32,200 --> 02:03:35,720
Speaker 2: Bro, I just fucking shot out like a six to

2416
02:03:36,000 --> 02:03:38,720
Speaker 2: nine pound cuman. I don't know, if I don't know

2417
02:03:38,800 --> 02:03:41,680
Speaker 2: if I want anything entering that. Yeah, come on, I

2418
02:03:41,760 --> 02:03:45,800
Speaker 2: mean needs a break. But also, sex is a very

2419
02:03:45,800 --> 02:03:47,960
Speaker 2: important thing in a relationship and should be addressed.

2420
02:03:48,280 --> 02:03:56,520
Speaker 7: M talk about it unintentionally, unintentionally neglected my husband who

2421
02:03:56,640 --> 02:03:59,640
Speaker 7: values physical intimacy as a love language, and I haven't

2422
02:03:59,720 --> 02:04:04,880
Speaker 7: been receptive. My concerns and intensified when my husband, Derek,

2423
02:04:05,200 --> 02:04:10,400
Speaker 7: suggested Derek to become a stay at home mom instead

2424
02:04:10,440 --> 02:04:11,920
Speaker 7: of returning to work.

2425
02:04:12,600 --> 02:04:19,600
Speaker 3: I hate that. I hate that. I smell stench. I do, Okay.

2426
02:04:19,760 --> 02:04:22,040
Speaker 2: Also, I feel like this should be talked about before

2427
02:04:22,240 --> 02:04:22,839
Speaker 2: the children.

2428
02:04:23,160 --> 02:04:26,400
Speaker 3: Yes, you should be bringing it up after the kids

2429
02:04:26,440 --> 02:04:29,200
Speaker 3: are born. Nor should it be something that you're bringing

2430
02:04:29,280 --> 02:04:32,080
Speaker 3: up and like, there is a conversation that can be

2431
02:04:32,200 --> 02:04:35,440
Speaker 3: had if you're finding like it really hard to manage

2432
02:04:35,840 --> 02:04:38,880
Speaker 3: going back to work and having a kid. But it

2433
02:04:38,920 --> 02:04:41,120
Speaker 3: shouldn't be like the husband being like, well you should

2434
02:04:41,160 --> 02:04:43,040
Speaker 3: just quit because we had another story. But that's just

2435
02:04:43,160 --> 02:04:44,600
Speaker 3: like just quit, just be a stay home mom.

2436
02:04:44,800 --> 02:04:45,000
Speaker 11: Yeah.

2437
02:04:45,240 --> 02:04:47,640
Speaker 2: No, And it sounds like like from what we have

2438
02:04:47,960 --> 02:04:50,120
Speaker 2: there was an expectation that she was going back to work.

2439
02:04:50,240 --> 02:04:51,760
Speaker 4: Yes, because she was about to go back to work.

2440
02:04:52,520 --> 02:04:53,840
Speaker 3: There's more.

2441
02:04:54,160 --> 02:04:55,480
Speaker 2: So can we add a minute to the stream?

2442
02:04:55,520 --> 02:04:56,160
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I.

2443
02:05:00,560 --> 02:05:03,160
Speaker 2: Freaking how many swear words have I said?

2444
02:05:03,520 --> 02:05:07,080
Speaker 3: Well, you said to me, Frank, this is uh you

2445
02:05:07,240 --> 02:05:09,800
Speaker 3: said we want when you guys were both mocking doing

2446
02:05:09,880 --> 02:05:12,960
Speaker 3: that imitation that was too Oh wow.

2447
02:05:13,040 --> 02:05:15,560
Speaker 4: You should you should call me out on it a minute.

2448
02:05:15,640 --> 02:05:18,600
Speaker 5: You guys are doing your things, you should you should.

2449
02:05:18,360 --> 02:05:21,040
Speaker 2: Say swear Jarsanku, Yeah, thank you.

2450
02:05:21,280 --> 02:05:24,040
Speaker 5: Switch Yeah.

2451
02:05:24,160 --> 02:05:26,320
Speaker 3: Little Duck says that needs to be a conversation, but

2452
02:05:26,440 --> 02:05:29,760
Speaker 3: not a you should one sided Combo agreed.

2453
02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:31,520
Speaker 2: Big that's a d facts.

2454
02:05:31,600 --> 02:05:32,760
Speaker 4: That's the one crew.

2455
02:05:32,960 --> 02:05:34,080
Speaker 5: I agree with you.

2456
02:05:35,560 --> 02:05:37,920
Speaker 7: While we both earned six figures, my income is a

2457
02:05:37,960 --> 02:05:40,760
Speaker 7: corporate lawyer surpasses his salary as an engineer.

2458
02:05:40,960 --> 02:05:45,080
Speaker 4: Because he's a shrew. He's a shrewd, little shrew.

2459
02:05:48,560 --> 02:05:52,120
Speaker 3: That's probably conspiracy theory. I don't know where the hats are,

2460
02:05:52,800 --> 02:05:57,240
Speaker 3: but conspiracy theory. He wants her, she wants her to

2461
02:05:57,360 --> 02:06:00,760
Speaker 3: quit because he feels emasculated because she is the breadwinner.

2462
02:06:00,840 --> 02:06:06,240
Speaker 2: Oh god, I agree, Yeah, yeah, I mean I think

2463
02:06:06,280 --> 02:06:09,880
Speaker 2: he's trying to take what little manhood he has and

2464
02:06:10,040 --> 02:06:13,160
Speaker 2: support it off the ground, pick it up, well, no, no,

2465
02:06:13,640 --> 02:06:16,840
Speaker 2: probably pick it off the side of his shoe. No,

2466
02:06:17,400 --> 02:06:20,640
Speaker 2: I mean off the ground. His manhood is small. It

2467
02:06:20,760 --> 02:06:22,840
Speaker 2: on his it's on his list.

2468
02:06:23,760 --> 02:06:24,400
Speaker 4: It is a button.

2469
02:06:24,480 --> 02:06:30,680
Speaker 2: It's like a button. It's on his waist, the waste button.

2470
02:06:31,200 --> 02:06:34,000
Speaker 4: Anyway. Wow, that was one of my favorite exchanges.

2471
02:06:34,400 --> 02:06:34,760
Speaker 5: All Right.

2472
02:06:37,080 --> 02:06:41,520
Speaker 4: He proposed that he will apply for a post, that

2473
02:06:41,640 --> 02:06:42,080
Speaker 4: he will.

2474
02:06:42,000 --> 02:06:45,520
Speaker 7: Apply for a promotion, and by eliminating the need for

2475
02:06:45,640 --> 02:06:49,120
Speaker 7: daycare and a nanny and making budget adjustments, asserts he

2476
02:06:49,240 --> 02:06:52,839
Speaker 7: can adequately provide for our family under this new arrangement.

2477
02:06:53,000 --> 02:06:54,920
Speaker 7: We can dissect this later, but there could be a

2478
02:06:54,960 --> 02:06:57,280
Speaker 7: scenario where he's like, oh, hey, we could work things

2479
02:06:57,320 --> 02:06:59,839
Speaker 7: around where it like, because sometimes we've seen in stories

2480
02:07:00,120 --> 02:07:02,240
Speaker 7: it literally doesn't make as much sense for people to

2481
02:07:02,280 --> 02:07:04,640
Speaker 7: work because the daycare is more expensive or whatever.

2482
02:07:05,600 --> 02:07:08,960
Speaker 3: If he's making less, then he should be the one saying.

2483
02:07:09,280 --> 02:07:12,640
Speaker 2: What it sounds like he's saying is I'm going to

2484
02:07:12,720 --> 02:07:15,880
Speaker 2: make less, but if you take care of the kid

2485
02:07:16,000 --> 02:07:18,240
Speaker 2: full time, then we're wanting to pay for daycare.

2486
02:07:18,520 --> 02:07:21,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. We literally had this exact same story yesterday, or

2487
02:07:21,600 --> 02:07:23,440
Speaker 3: not the exact same sorry, like very similar.

2488
02:07:24,960 --> 02:07:26,360
Speaker 4: It's a small pp energy.

2489
02:07:26,800 --> 02:07:29,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no. There should not be an expectation

2490
02:07:30,040 --> 02:07:32,680
Speaker 3: for either parent to have to stay at home.

2491
02:07:33,800 --> 02:07:35,000
Speaker 4: And also it should be like.

2492
02:07:35,080 --> 02:07:37,200
Speaker 2: A conversation if you if you are going to have

2493
02:07:37,400 --> 02:07:39,839
Speaker 2: kids and are there really any setup?

2494
02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:41,920
Speaker 4: Is okay? Yeah, but you got to talk about it.

2495
02:07:42,040 --> 02:07:44,720
Speaker 3: No exactly if one of those parents wanted to be

2496
02:07:44,760 --> 02:07:46,280
Speaker 3: a stay at home parent, but you have to have

2497
02:07:46,360 --> 02:07:49,160
Speaker 3: the conversation. You cannot expect your partner to just go

2498
02:07:49,280 --> 02:07:49,840
Speaker 3: along with it.

2499
02:07:50,360 --> 02:07:50,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2500
02:07:50,760 --> 02:07:54,400
Speaker 7: Well, initially I declined his proposal. I'm also in line

2501
02:07:54,440 --> 02:07:56,800
Speaker 7: for a promotion to a senior associate at my job

2502
02:07:57,200 --> 02:07:59,520
Speaker 7: in our eight year relationship and for your marriage. He

2503
02:07:59,600 --> 02:08:02,400
Speaker 7: understands the importance of my career to me, just as

2504
02:08:02,440 --> 02:08:04,160
Speaker 7: I respect his career aspiration.

2505
02:08:05,160 --> 02:08:08,120
Speaker 2: I sense there's gonna be some stinkiness coming out soon.

2506
02:08:08,240 --> 02:08:14,280
Speaker 4: Is that I see I see you in the chat.

2507
02:08:14,400 --> 02:08:15,480
Speaker 4: If you know where this is going.

2508
02:08:15,720 --> 02:08:19,520
Speaker 7: I emphasize that with both of our anticipated promotions, we

2509
02:08:19,640 --> 02:08:23,040
Speaker 7: could secure a better future for our daughters. He cautioned

2510
02:08:23,120 --> 02:08:26,760
Speaker 7: me against rushing my decision and attempted intimacy.

2511
02:08:27,440 --> 02:08:33,000
Speaker 4: Oh what, babe, babeb you know what, let's not talk

2512
02:08:33,040 --> 02:08:37,920
Speaker 4: about this promotion. That's how about you give me a raise?

2513
02:08:41,280 --> 02:08:45,440
Speaker 7: Oh my god, all this big money talk, but I'm

2514
02:08:45,520 --> 02:08:53,800
Speaker 7: ready to put my money where my mouth is. Anyways,

2515
02:08:54,240 --> 02:09:00,360
Speaker 7: he cautioned me, Oh wait, let me sure. I I

2516
02:09:01,360 --> 02:09:05,240
Speaker 7: found his approach off putting and declined even cuddling. That

2517
02:09:05,400 --> 02:09:07,800
Speaker 7: is the weirdest time to initiate.

2518
02:09:09,840 --> 02:09:10,840
Speaker 3: Very strange time.

2519
02:09:11,040 --> 02:09:11,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2520
02:09:12,000 --> 02:09:12,240
Speaker 3: Current.

2521
02:09:12,600 --> 02:09:16,920
Speaker 7: Consequently, he spent last night in the guest room. After

2522
02:09:17,000 --> 02:09:19,080
Speaker 7: a challenging night with the baby, I confronted him this

2523
02:09:19,200 --> 02:09:22,960
Speaker 7: morning about his lack of assistance. To my surprise, I

2524
02:09:23,080 --> 02:09:29,560
Speaker 7: found Derek trembling and sobbing, expressing feelings of abandonment and emasculation.

2525
02:09:30,480 --> 02:09:34,920
Speaker 7: He referred to our diminished intimacy since our first daughter's

2526
02:09:35,000 --> 02:09:38,080
Speaker 7: birth and a perceived power and balance due to my

2527
02:09:38,360 --> 02:09:39,800
Speaker 7: career success.

2528
02:09:44,840 --> 02:09:46,240
Speaker 4: Really really causing on here.

2529
02:09:47,080 --> 02:09:49,640
Speaker 2: I do think if there is a diminished intimacy and

2530
02:09:49,720 --> 02:09:51,680
Speaker 2: it hasn't been talked about. I think it's still it's

2531
02:09:51,680 --> 02:09:52,800
Speaker 2: an important thing to talk about.

2532
02:09:54,080 --> 02:09:56,720
Speaker 4: Yes, totally, is it not? Is it not?

2533
02:09:57,400 --> 02:09:59,080
Speaker 2: I would love to know what the chat thanks to

2534
02:09:59,480 --> 02:10:02,040
Speaker 2: everyone's called H'm sninky. I think there's an element of

2535
02:10:02,160 --> 02:10:04,720
Speaker 2: stinkiness that I want to separate the stinkiness.

2536
02:10:05,120 --> 02:10:07,000
Speaker 3: Last that, he said, I need I need to hear

2537
02:10:07,080 --> 02:10:07,400
Speaker 3: it again.

2538
02:10:08,040 --> 02:10:14,120
Speaker 7: He referred to our diminished computer guys, Sam has Oh,

2539
02:10:16,880 --> 02:10:17,440
Speaker 7: we're coming.

2540
02:10:18,360 --> 02:10:19,880
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I didn't know what to say I was

2541
02:10:19,880 --> 02:10:21,760
Speaker 3: talking about. For a second, I thought he was doing

2542
02:10:21,840 --> 02:10:26,120
Speaker 3: the like Batman computer pewter?

2543
02:10:26,680 --> 02:10:27,240
Speaker 5: What does he say?

2544
02:10:27,520 --> 02:10:29,840
Speaker 4: Computer open? What?

2545
02:10:30,120 --> 02:10:30,160
Speaker 1: No?

2546
02:10:30,480 --> 02:10:30,520
Speaker 3: No?

2547
02:10:30,800 --> 02:10:30,840
Speaker 1: No?

2548
02:10:30,920 --> 02:10:30,960
Speaker 7: No?

2549
02:10:31,640 --> 02:10:31,680
Speaker 5: What?

2550
02:10:35,960 --> 02:10:36,240
Speaker 3: Okay?

2551
02:10:36,360 --> 02:10:38,760
Speaker 5: Okay, right, are taking over?

2552
02:10:39,000 --> 02:10:39,200
Speaker 10: Yeah?

2553
02:10:39,840 --> 02:10:42,200
Speaker 3: Here we go taking over. Wait, I have to be

2554
02:10:42,240 --> 02:10:42,560
Speaker 3: over here.

2555
02:10:42,960 --> 02:10:45,160
Speaker 4: Let me let me read that. We can talk about it.

2556
02:10:45,280 --> 02:10:45,760
Speaker 3: I needed that.

2557
02:10:46,360 --> 02:10:51,160
Speaker 7: He he referenced our diminished intimacy since our first daughter's birth,

2558
02:10:51,320 --> 02:10:54,560
Speaker 7: and a and a perceived power amounance due to my

2559
02:10:54,760 --> 02:10:55,520
Speaker 7: career success.

2560
02:10:56,480 --> 02:11:01,000
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so number one. I think I think Sam's read.

2561
02:11:01,040 --> 02:11:03,160
Speaker 3: I think there's like an element of you need to

2562
02:11:03,200 --> 02:11:05,800
Speaker 3: have a conversation about reduced in intimacy. If that's something

2563
02:11:05,840 --> 02:11:10,920
Speaker 3: that's important in your relationship. However, However, the way that

2564
02:11:11,040 --> 02:11:15,400
Speaker 3: he's bringing it up pretty stinky because he's bringing up like, oh,

2565
02:11:15,480 --> 02:11:16,680
Speaker 3: I'm being emasculated.

2566
02:11:19,040 --> 02:11:27,839
Speaker 4: It hurt me slaughing too hard. I'm so excited.

2567
02:11:28,000 --> 02:11:30,240
Speaker 5: We can chat as much as you want, which is,

2568
02:11:31,120 --> 02:11:31,880
Speaker 5: you guys can.

2569
02:11:32,040 --> 02:11:45,480
Speaker 4: Break our boys in their computers computer watching right now,

2570
02:11:45,520 --> 02:11:45,880
Speaker 4: so I can.

2571
02:11:46,000 --> 02:11:49,120
Speaker 3: I can say it. Someone put the Batman quote in

2572
02:11:49,160 --> 02:11:51,520
Speaker 3: the chat, the ones like computer, so I can say

2573
02:11:51,520 --> 02:11:54,840
Speaker 3: it computer computer in the chat.

2574
02:11:55,480 --> 02:11:55,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2575
02:11:55,720 --> 02:11:57,879
Speaker 3: But I think I think that he's still stinky.

2576
02:11:58,480 --> 02:12:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there is stinky, and I think.

2577
02:12:00,960 --> 02:12:02,200
Speaker 3: We missed our conversations.

2578
02:12:02,880 --> 02:12:03,760
Speaker 4: But I'm just gonna.

2579
02:12:05,200 --> 02:12:08,800
Speaker 2: I think their stinkiness and I think this is like

2580
02:12:08,920 --> 02:12:12,160
Speaker 2: what fragile masculinity they literally looks like. Yes, the fact

2581
02:12:12,200 --> 02:12:16,680
Speaker 2: that like he believes that if he isn't seen as

2582
02:12:16,720 --> 02:12:19,120
Speaker 2: this masculine person, his whole world crumbles.

2583
02:12:19,560 --> 02:12:24,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's too much, too much, Yeah, it's too much,

2584
02:12:24,400 --> 02:12:25,280
Speaker 4: but we got more.

2585
02:12:25,480 --> 02:12:31,320
Speaker 7: Okay, he feels redundant in our family, amplifying his feelings.

2586
02:12:31,000 --> 02:12:32,640
Speaker 4: Of an adequacy laid off.

2587
02:12:35,000 --> 02:12:38,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, we noticed you've been a little shrew at work lately,

2588
02:12:39,000 --> 02:12:42,400
Speaker 7: and we only hire big boys, so you're out he

2589
02:12:42,480 --> 02:12:43,440
Speaker 7: eventually can pun.

2590
02:12:43,920 --> 02:12:46,000
Speaker 4: Guys, what was your pun?

2591
02:12:46,600 --> 02:12:47,080
Speaker 3: Laid off?

2592
02:12:48,440 --> 02:12:50,320
Speaker 2: Oh, because he's not getting.

2593
02:12:53,440 --> 02:12:54,840
Speaker 4: Good classing the chatter sovia.

2594
02:12:55,080 --> 02:12:57,000
Speaker 5: I was confused what with word?

2595
02:13:00,360 --> 02:13:06,400
Speaker 4: But he eventually composed himself and left for work to

2596
02:13:06,440 --> 02:13:07,400
Speaker 4: make it his sex joke.

2597
02:13:13,920 --> 02:13:14,680
Speaker 5: She's learning?

2598
02:13:16,840 --> 02:13:17,120
Speaker 4: Sorry.

2599
02:13:18,240 --> 02:13:18,360
Speaker 8: Uh.

2600
02:13:18,520 --> 02:13:21,560
Speaker 7: He eventually composed himself and left for work, visibly upset

2601
02:13:21,640 --> 02:13:24,800
Speaker 7: and distant. He barely acknowledged the breakfast I prepared and

2602
02:13:24,880 --> 02:13:25,880
Speaker 7: didn't kiss me goodbye.

2603
02:13:30,160 --> 02:13:31,280
Speaker 4: True uh he.

2604
02:13:31,920 --> 02:13:34,920
Speaker 7: As of now, he hasn't responded to any text or calls.

2605
02:13:35,160 --> 02:13:37,280
Speaker 7: I recently received a message from my mother in law

2606
02:13:37,320 --> 02:13:39,240
Speaker 7: acquiring why Derek is at her house.

2607
02:13:40,680 --> 02:13:44,320
Speaker 3: I don't know, Wait, who's Derek? Sorry?

2608
02:13:47,880 --> 02:13:51,200
Speaker 7: She's concerned that there might have been a dispute, as

2609
02:13:51,280 --> 02:13:55,080
Speaker 7: he hasn't communicated with her either, and we have some

2610
02:13:55,240 --> 02:13:55,880
Speaker 7: relevant comments.

2611
02:13:55,920 --> 02:13:57,480
Speaker 4: But ladies and gentlemen, we need to we need to

2612
02:13:57,520 --> 02:13:58,000
Speaker 4: talk about this.

2613
02:13:58,280 --> 02:13:58,920
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it.

2614
02:13:59,160 --> 02:14:02,120
Speaker 3: Let's talk about Oh, is.

2615
02:14:04,160 --> 02:14:07,080
Speaker 4: Is Derek in the right here? No?

2616
02:14:07,440 --> 02:14:12,360
Speaker 3: No, no, at Derek is a stinker and not a thinker,

2617
02:14:12,840 --> 02:14:13,320
Speaker 3: not at all.

2618
02:14:13,560 --> 02:14:20,200
Speaker 2: Dang nice Sophia. Yeah, I think I think like that

2619
02:14:20,600 --> 02:14:23,840
Speaker 2: This is like a classic fragile masculinity thing.

2620
02:14:25,040 --> 02:14:31,840
Speaker 4: Fragile masculinity, and I think, yeah, classic fragial I feel like.

2621
02:14:34,280 --> 02:14:37,600
Speaker 2: There it's just like I mean, if OP wants to

2622
02:14:37,960 --> 02:14:40,400
Speaker 2: continue this relationship, there just has to be some talks

2623
02:14:40,440 --> 02:14:44,800
Speaker 2: breaking down that he still has value even if he's

2624
02:14:44,840 --> 02:14:50,160
Speaker 2: not like providing for the for the family in like

2625
02:14:50,240 --> 02:14:53,880
Speaker 2: a financial way, or if you don't want any association

2626
02:14:53,920 --> 02:14:58,000
Speaker 2: with him because he's stinky, break him down further, break

2627
02:14:58,080 --> 02:14:58,440
Speaker 2: him down.

2628
02:14:58,600 --> 02:15:01,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, and to what you were saying earlier, like it

2629
02:15:01,280 --> 02:15:04,400
Speaker 7: could have been a completely different story if he was like, hey,

2630
02:15:04,560 --> 02:15:09,000
Speaker 7: you know, uh, physical touching into is my love language,

2631
02:15:09,120 --> 02:15:11,560
Speaker 7: and I did want to bring it to the table

2632
02:15:11,640 --> 02:15:13,320
Speaker 7: and see, like how you're feeling and if this is

2633
02:15:13,400 --> 02:15:16,080
Speaker 7: something like we could we could do more, and then

2634
02:15:16,400 --> 02:15:19,240
Speaker 7: actually sat and listened to what was going on with

2635
02:15:19,360 --> 02:15:21,720
Speaker 7: his wife, that would be a totally different story. Yes, right,

2636
02:15:21,760 --> 02:15:24,320
Speaker 7: if he's like, hey, here, if he communicated, If he communicated,

2637
02:15:24,320 --> 02:15:24,600
Speaker 7: here's the.

2638
02:15:24,600 --> 02:15:26,040
Speaker 4: One I need I have. I just wanted to bring

2639
02:15:26,080 --> 02:15:28,520
Speaker 4: it to the table and like, see if this is

2640
02:15:28,880 --> 02:15:29,640
Speaker 4: something we could do.

2641
02:15:29,760 --> 02:15:31,480
Speaker 2: But it's therapy, therapy.

2642
02:15:32,120 --> 02:15:35,240
Speaker 3: It sounds like he initiated sex. She was like, we

2643
02:15:35,520 --> 02:15:38,960
Speaker 3: just had an argument and then he like made her

2644
02:15:39,080 --> 02:15:41,840
Speaker 3: feel bad, like with a bunch of random stuff. He

2645
02:15:42,000 --> 02:15:44,360
Speaker 3: was like, we you're we have a lack of intimacy,

2646
02:15:44,960 --> 02:15:47,120
Speaker 3: you have big more money than me, and just like

2647
02:15:47,360 --> 02:15:49,160
Speaker 3: brought all of these things together.

2648
02:15:49,800 --> 02:15:55,200
Speaker 5: Maybe he was doing that thing James does James remember, It's.

2649
02:15:55,040 --> 02:16:00,600
Speaker 4: Like, hey, oh it's not that at all.

2650
02:16:01,000 --> 02:16:04,440
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, I don't understand. I just know she

2651
02:16:04,520 --> 02:16:05,320
Speaker 5: said no cuddling.

2652
02:16:05,440 --> 02:16:09,440
Speaker 4: Even so Riley is so innocent. Oh my gosh. Yeah.

2653
02:16:09,480 --> 02:16:11,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I think what he is expressing right now

2654
02:16:11,600 --> 02:16:14,560
Speaker 2: is he's super insecure and was trying to control her

2655
02:16:14,760 --> 02:16:17,360
Speaker 2: out of his insecurity.

2656
02:16:17,880 --> 02:16:19,800
Speaker 3: I think maybe I feel like he was trying to

2657
02:16:19,840 --> 02:16:22,880
Speaker 3: guilt her into having like sex with him. Yeah, in

2658
02:16:23,000 --> 02:16:25,840
Speaker 3: that moment a little bit, Which is not to say

2659
02:16:25,880 --> 02:16:29,120
Speaker 3: that he's like the concerns of we have less intimacy

2660
02:16:29,920 --> 02:16:32,560
Speaker 3: are not valid, but it's just the way that he's

2661
02:16:32,600 --> 02:16:33,240
Speaker 3: presenting them.

2662
02:16:33,400 --> 02:16:37,920
Speaker 2: Well yeah, Well he's acting like a victim, and I

2663
02:16:38,240 --> 02:16:41,680
Speaker 2: don't think he's actually trying to repair anything, because if

2664
02:16:41,720 --> 02:16:43,520
Speaker 2: he was trying to repair something, he was like, hey,

2665
02:16:43,879 --> 02:16:46,240
Speaker 2: I have these feelings of like a lack of intimacy

2666
02:16:46,640 --> 02:16:51,880
Speaker 2: and like emasculation. I realize that these are problems with me,

2667
02:16:52,240 --> 02:16:54,440
Speaker 2: not with anything. You're doing, and I would like to

2668
02:16:54,520 --> 02:16:58,640
Speaker 2: go to therapy myself and together try to resolve through

2669
02:16:58,720 --> 02:17:02,000
Speaker 2: some of these feelings because I realize I have outdated

2670
02:17:02,680 --> 02:17:05,160
Speaker 2: uh frameworks of how people should be in a relationship.

2671
02:17:05,360 --> 02:17:07,720
Speaker 2: That would be the fragrant fellow way to move through

2672
02:17:08,200 --> 02:17:09,280
Speaker 2: your fragile masculinity.

2673
02:17:09,360 --> 02:17:10,920
Speaker 3: But if you said it like that, he wouldn't need therapy.

2674
02:17:12,240 --> 02:17:13,440
Speaker 4: That No, that's not true. You could.

2675
02:17:13,480 --> 02:17:16,879
Speaker 2: You could intellectually know that you have all these problems

2676
02:17:17,080 --> 02:17:24,120
Speaker 2: and not actual emotionally know how to Yeah, anyway, I

2677
02:17:24,240 --> 02:17:27,039
Speaker 2: think he needs I think we need need some therapy.

2678
02:17:27,480 --> 02:17:27,959
Speaker 3: Therapy.

2679
02:17:29,400 --> 02:17:33,600
Speaker 4: Business catastrophe eighty five three says no, not the ahole.

2680
02:17:34,080 --> 02:17:34,480
Speaker 4: I Ope.

2681
02:17:34,879 --> 02:17:37,720
Speaker 7: If he's feeling redundant in his family, then maybe he

2682
02:17:37,760 --> 02:17:39,520
Speaker 7: shouldn't be neglecting his duties as a.

2683
02:17:39,520 --> 02:17:42,240
Speaker 4: Father talking on him like skipping out to his.

2684
02:17:42,280 --> 02:17:45,160
Speaker 3: Mom's Yeah to mommy and leaving her with the kid.

2685
02:17:45,360 --> 02:17:47,720
Speaker 4: Yeah. True, you can own kids right to.

2686
02:17:49,680 --> 02:17:50,200
Speaker 3: Three year old.

2687
02:17:51,200 --> 02:17:54,119
Speaker 7: You can only be made redundant if you're not contributing

2688
02:17:54,200 --> 02:17:58,080
Speaker 7: in areas where your participation is necessary. And a great

2689
02:17:58,480 --> 02:18:02,440
Speaker 7: and a great way to spex is an an an

2690
02:18:02,520 --> 02:18:06,000
Speaker 7: impossible goal is to exhaust your spouse by checking out

2691
02:18:06,040 --> 02:18:06,720
Speaker 7: of baby care.

2692
02:18:07,360 --> 02:18:07,560
Speaker 3: Wow.

2693
02:18:07,560 --> 02:18:08,280
Speaker 4: Another great point.

2694
02:18:08,920 --> 02:18:10,640
Speaker 7: You have not failed in any way as a partner

2695
02:18:10,760 --> 02:18:14,200
Speaker 7: by having a temporarily diminished desire for physical intimacy and

2696
02:18:14,520 --> 02:18:18,040
Speaker 7: respecting his love language doesn't reply or doesn't require you

2697
02:18:18,600 --> 02:18:20,040
Speaker 7: to give up your bodily autonomy.

2698
02:18:20,440 --> 02:18:26,120
Speaker 2: There's also like there's no way the intimacy would be

2699
02:18:26,280 --> 02:18:31,200
Speaker 2: good even if she like like like there, if he's

2700
02:18:31,280 --> 02:18:35,360
Speaker 2: coming at it from this this very I don't know,

2701
02:18:35,640 --> 02:18:37,360
Speaker 2: like please like hook up with me.

2702
02:18:37,480 --> 02:18:37,800
Speaker 4: Please.

2703
02:18:38,400 --> 02:18:41,280
Speaker 3: He's like he's on the floor sobbing.

2704
02:18:41,400 --> 02:18:44,080
Speaker 2: Like you have to respect your partner for the intimacy

2705
02:18:44,120 --> 02:18:46,800
Speaker 2: to be there, and like I feel like there's there's

2706
02:18:47,200 --> 02:18:50,279
Speaker 2: like there's this lack of respect that's kind of happening

2707
02:18:50,320 --> 02:18:54,440
Speaker 2: in both ways. Yeah, less so from op, but like

2708
02:18:54,520 --> 02:18:56,640
Speaker 2: in terms of like he's acting in a way that

2709
02:18:56,680 --> 02:19:02,440
Speaker 2: would make her respect him less. Oh, I see by

2710
02:19:02,520 --> 02:19:05,720
Speaker 2: being a stinky mane Jenny Brown, he has not owed

2711
02:19:05,760 --> 02:19:06,320
Speaker 2: your intimacy.

2712
02:19:06,760 --> 02:19:09,480
Speaker 3: Icy, he's not worthy of her respect in worthy.

2713
02:19:10,120 --> 02:19:13,440
Speaker 2: But it's and love almost says angry. Uh, intimacy isn't

2714
02:19:13,480 --> 02:19:16,119
Speaker 2: always great, Like I don't think it's even angry. It's

2715
02:19:16,160 --> 02:19:19,600
Speaker 2: more like pity intimacy and pathetic intimacy.

2716
02:19:21,360 --> 02:19:22,880
Speaker 4: There's something wrong in your marriage.

2717
02:19:22,959 --> 02:19:24,760
Speaker 7: It won't be fixed by you giving up your career

2718
02:19:24,800 --> 02:19:28,040
Speaker 7: in independence, he's trying to manipulate your feelings and decrease

2719
02:19:28,120 --> 02:19:30,800
Speaker 7: the success and earning potential of your children's parents.

2720
02:19:31,000 --> 02:19:32,520
Speaker 4: But he can feel like a big man.

2721
02:19:33,120 --> 02:19:34,880
Speaker 7: Really think about what he's trying to take from you

2722
02:19:35,040 --> 02:19:37,240
Speaker 7: and make your family sacrifice to serve his ego.

2723
02:19:37,640 --> 02:19:40,800
Speaker 4: Another great point, It is not rational, it is nonsensical.

2724
02:19:41,000 --> 02:19:44,160
Speaker 7: You guys need therapy together, and he needs therapy by himself,

2725
02:19:44,280 --> 02:19:50,560
Speaker 7: because this isn't okay, not the ale agreed, Agreed. Opie says,

2726
02:19:51,120 --> 02:19:53,720
Speaker 7: Derek didn't help last night, but he is usually helpful

2727
02:19:53,800 --> 02:19:58,160
Speaker 7: in carrying the baby when she is crying, or massaging

2728
02:19:58,240 --> 02:20:00,440
Speaker 7: my back before he falls asleep. He also so helps

2729
02:20:00,480 --> 02:20:04,440
Speaker 7: with minor househol chores. Sounds like OPI's defending him, but

2730
02:20:04,520 --> 02:20:05,240
Speaker 7: the defense does.

2731
02:20:05,160 --> 02:20:07,320
Speaker 3: Not say, Yeah, that doesn't even make sense because we

2732
02:20:07,520 --> 02:20:11,000
Speaker 3: know that both of them are working and she is

2733
02:20:11,120 --> 02:20:14,800
Speaker 3: the breadwinner. Why is he only supporting with minor chors.

2734
02:20:15,080 --> 02:20:18,320
Speaker 4: That's true, he should be supporting major chores. Yeah, especially

2735
02:20:18,360 --> 02:20:20,840
Speaker 4: if they're both working. Great, that's a great point.

2736
02:20:20,920 --> 02:20:23,880
Speaker 7: And she's making more money once again with and I

2737
02:20:24,000 --> 02:20:26,920
Speaker 7: know we always say this, and I don't know, two

2738
02:20:27,040 --> 02:20:31,800
Speaker 7: six figure salaries, like let's get someone into help.

2739
02:20:32,000 --> 02:20:35,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Opie uh.

2740
02:20:36,200 --> 02:20:38,800
Speaker 7: OPI on if she emasculated her husband in the past

2741
02:20:39,200 --> 02:20:41,560
Speaker 7: and what was his reaction, Opie says, no, this is

2742
02:20:41,600 --> 02:20:43,800
Speaker 7: the first time he has complained. He had a very

2743
02:20:44,000 --> 02:20:47,240
Speaker 7: he had been a very supportive husband before, genuinely interested

2744
02:20:47,280 --> 02:20:49,800
Speaker 7: in my career. The first time he proposed I'd become

2745
02:20:49,840 --> 02:20:52,160
Speaker 7: a state at home mom was a week ago, and he,

2746
02:20:52,840 --> 02:20:56,920
Speaker 7: excuse me, only mentioned feeling emasculated this morning. Chris eighty

2747
02:20:57,000 --> 02:21:00,160
Speaker 7: two eight six eight says, did he not marry aman

2748
02:21:00,200 --> 02:21:02,160
Speaker 7: who is a lawyer or on track to becoming one?

2749
02:21:02,560 --> 02:21:05,680
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm taking it that this isn't a new career. Yeah,

2750
02:21:05,760 --> 02:21:08,920
Speaker 7: it's like if you're going and becoming a lawyer. And

2751
02:21:08,959 --> 02:21:12,800
Speaker 7: OPI said previously like he knows that there's a mutual

2752
02:21:12,959 --> 02:21:14,840
Speaker 7: two way street of like, hey, we're working on her

2753
02:21:14,879 --> 02:21:17,520
Speaker 7: careers and it's like, so you just want me to

2754
02:21:17,640 --> 02:21:18,920
Speaker 7: up and drop it for yeah.

2755
02:21:18,760 --> 02:21:25,960
Speaker 3: I wanted anything is masculated, then maybe maybe marrying a

2756
02:21:26,120 --> 02:21:28,240
Speaker 3: lawyer lady to go.

2757
02:21:28,720 --> 02:21:32,760
Speaker 2: I also feel like he it's like he she's not

2758
02:21:32,920 --> 02:21:36,680
Speaker 2: expecting that he give up his career, Like that's not

2759
02:21:36,760 --> 02:21:40,440
Speaker 2: the expectation. Like literally, it's just like let's both work

2760
02:21:41,120 --> 02:21:44,120
Speaker 2: and both support the child. Like that's like, it's crazy

2761
02:21:44,200 --> 02:21:46,920
Speaker 2: that it's not like he's like, hey, now you like

2762
02:21:47,160 --> 02:21:50,320
Speaker 2: you go support the child. No, she's not even saying that.

2763
02:21:50,680 --> 02:21:52,680
Speaker 2: She's not saying that. It sounds like they are just

2764
02:21:52,800 --> 02:21:55,440
Speaker 2: doing what they kind of seem like maybe they talked

2765
02:21:55,480 --> 02:22:01,920
Speaker 2: about beforehand. Yeah you're yeah, I think one more thing,

2766
02:22:02,080 --> 02:22:04,480
Speaker 2: one more thing. They've had a kid for three gears. Yeah,

2767
02:22:04,720 --> 02:22:09,200
Speaker 2: so there is a status quo. Yeah, that's what's crazy too.

2768
02:22:09,320 --> 02:22:14,440
Speaker 4: It's wild how people just like snap and change. It's insane.

2769
02:22:15,680 --> 02:22:20,400
Speaker 2: Also, we do have a wheelspin coming, Yes we do, Opie.

2770
02:22:20,520 --> 02:22:22,160
Speaker 2: I was still in law school when we met.

2771
02:22:22,640 --> 02:22:25,640
Speaker 7: Derek even helped me with my student loans so that

2772
02:22:25,720 --> 02:22:28,200
Speaker 7: way we're both debt free when we got married. So

2773
02:22:28,760 --> 02:22:31,720
Speaker 7: they're in a great position. So there is an update,

2774
02:22:32,440 --> 02:22:36,880
Speaker 7: ladies and gentlemen. Yes, but at this point, what do

2775
02:22:36,959 --> 02:22:42,920
Speaker 7: we advise therapy is it's a divorce, not.

2776
02:22:43,040 --> 02:22:48,480
Speaker 3: Quite yet divorce, But I think it's it's an inkling

2777
02:22:48,600 --> 02:22:52,640
Speaker 3: on the horizon. If they don't if they don't get robuts.

2778
02:22:52,320 --> 02:22:57,040
Speaker 2: To therapy, if it is unaddressed. You are heading towards divorce.

2779
02:22:57,120 --> 02:22:59,200
Speaker 2: But I would actually love maybe to do a poll

2780
02:23:00,120 --> 02:23:06,400
Speaker 2: divorce or therapy. Yes, put it in the poll, or

2781
02:23:06,600 --> 02:23:09,760
Speaker 2: put it they put it in the poll. But while

2782
02:23:09,760 --> 02:23:12,440
Speaker 2: we're setting that up, should we get into the update?

2783
02:23:13,080 --> 02:23:13,640
Speaker 3: The update?

2784
02:23:14,240 --> 02:23:17,360
Speaker 7: So last night I wrote a post and am I

2785
02:23:17,400 --> 02:23:19,320
Speaker 7: have a whole regarding a situation that was bothering me.

2786
02:23:19,400 --> 02:23:21,360
Speaker 7: And two nights ago we had a discussion and he

2787
02:23:21,400 --> 02:23:23,640
Speaker 7: threw a tantrum. That night he slept in the guest room,

2788
02:23:23,680 --> 02:23:26,200
Speaker 7: and yesterday he went radio silent and finally spent the

2789
02:23:26,280 --> 02:23:27,280
Speaker 7: night at his parents' house.

2790
02:23:27,800 --> 02:23:28,720
Speaker 4: He said nothing to me.

2791
02:23:29,000 --> 02:23:30,720
Speaker 7: Was my mother in law who told me I was

2792
02:23:30,760 --> 02:23:33,640
Speaker 7: a little pissed by his attitude, but also concerned if

2793
02:23:33,800 --> 02:23:37,160
Speaker 7: I was in the wrong. Well, I, thirty three, female,

2794
02:23:37,240 --> 02:23:39,960
Speaker 7: am on an extended maternity leave. I'm doing well, and

2795
02:23:40,040 --> 02:23:42,280
Speaker 7: I have an opportunity to become a senior associate at

2796
02:23:42,280 --> 02:23:44,400
Speaker 7: the firm where I work. And my husband, thirty one

2797
02:23:44,440 --> 02:23:47,320
Speaker 7: male Derek Oh not his real name, is an engineer.

2798
02:23:47,480 --> 02:23:49,200
Speaker 7: I thought that was I'm sad.

2799
02:23:49,640 --> 02:23:50,920
Speaker 4: We are doing financially great.

2800
02:23:50,920 --> 02:23:53,320
Speaker 7: We were both earning six figures, although my current earnings

2801
02:23:53,360 --> 02:23:54,119
Speaker 7: are slightly higher.

2802
02:23:54,200 --> 02:23:54,400
Speaker 2: Than his.

2803
02:23:54,800 --> 02:23:57,000
Speaker 7: Derek has been very supportive of my career, and while

2804
02:23:57,040 --> 02:23:59,240
Speaker 7: he is not an equal partner in parenting for our

2805
02:23:59,280 --> 02:24:02,600
Speaker 7: two daughters, three female and twelve weeks, he has been

2806
02:24:02,720 --> 02:24:06,000
Speaker 7: very helpful at home. But last week he proposed that

2807
02:24:06,080 --> 02:24:09,160
Speaker 7: I should not return to work my leave extends, my

2808
02:24:09,240 --> 02:24:11,440
Speaker 7: leave ends next Friday, and become a stay at home mom.

2809
02:24:11,520 --> 02:24:13,000
Speaker 7: At first I thought it was a joke, but he

2810
02:24:13,080 --> 02:24:15,480
Speaker 7: kept mentioning it, bringing up arguments such as applying for

2811
02:24:15,520 --> 02:24:18,480
Speaker 7: a promotion himself and saving on daycare and nanny expenses

2812
02:24:18,680 --> 02:24:21,840
Speaker 7: along with other adjustments to make it financially feasible. Again,

2813
02:24:22,080 --> 02:24:25,040
Speaker 7: I didn't think he was serious. Two nights ago, he

2814
02:24:25,120 --> 02:24:28,879
Speaker 7: brought up the topic again. He also talked about traditional

2815
02:24:29,000 --> 02:24:36,080
Speaker 7: gender roles, oh he's and how our daughters would benefit

2816
02:24:36,240 --> 02:24:37,240
Speaker 7: from a stay at home mother.

2817
02:24:39,200 --> 02:24:40,640
Speaker 4: Pu pee you.

2818
02:24:41,760 --> 02:24:45,320
Speaker 7: I felt disgusted by his words ah, and when he

2819
02:24:45,400 --> 02:24:48,680
Speaker 7: tried to approach me, I rejected his advances and didn't

2820
02:24:48,680 --> 02:24:50,160
Speaker 7: even let him hug me or cuddle me.

2821
02:24:50,840 --> 02:24:53,000
Speaker 2: I wonder if this is changing people's votes as we're

2822
02:24:53,000 --> 02:24:53,320
Speaker 2: hearing this.

2823
02:24:53,560 --> 02:24:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what Yes live, changing live.

2824
02:25:00,000 --> 02:25:02,120
Speaker 7: I devors. That's when he went to the guest room.

2825
02:25:02,360 --> 02:25:04,360
Speaker 7: I couldn't sleep that night due to attending to our

2826
02:25:04,400 --> 02:25:07,200
Speaker 7: infant daughter. When I went to Uh. When I went

2827
02:25:07,280 --> 02:25:12,679
Speaker 7: to complain yesterday morning for sake shaking and sobbing, he expressed.

2828
02:25:12,280 --> 02:25:14,840
Speaker 4: That he's always shaking his sobbing, always shaking it off.

2829
02:25:15,000 --> 02:25:16,560
Speaker 2: He wants to be such a real man, but he's

2830
02:25:16,560 --> 02:25:17,760
Speaker 2: always like sniffling.

2831
02:25:18,120 --> 02:25:21,360
Speaker 3: I'm super supportive of men crying. I think you need

2832
02:25:21,440 --> 02:25:23,440
Speaker 3: to do that, but this guy is like, he's going

2833
02:25:23,480 --> 02:25:24,039
Speaker 3: back and forth.

2834
02:25:24,280 --> 02:25:27,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, let's do traditional gender roles.

2835
02:25:27,120 --> 02:25:30,720
Speaker 4: But I'm so shack cry better. Uh.

2836
02:25:30,879 --> 02:25:33,280
Speaker 7: He expressed that he had been feeling redone it and emasculated.

2837
02:25:33,360 --> 02:25:35,000
Speaker 7: He then left for work without saying much. It didn't

2838
02:25:35,000 --> 02:25:39,080
Speaker 7: come home this morning. He finally wrote to me, apologizing

2839
02:25:39,160 --> 02:25:41,000
Speaker 7: for his tantrum and promising.

2840
02:25:40,640 --> 02:25:43,160
Speaker 4: We would talk about this face to face. He told

2841
02:25:43,200 --> 02:25:45,520
Speaker 4: me not to call, and he has been brief and

2842
02:25:46,000 --> 02:25:48,240
Speaker 4: monosyllabic on his texts.

2843
02:25:48,440 --> 02:25:53,760
Speaker 2: Okay, well, the first fragrant thing that he's done is say,

2844
02:25:53,920 --> 02:25:54,680
Speaker 2: let's talk about it.

2845
02:25:55,440 --> 02:25:56,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's been monosyllabic.

2846
02:25:57,480 --> 02:26:00,640
Speaker 4: Well, yes, but at least he's wanted to talk about it.

2847
02:26:00,760 --> 02:26:04,320
Speaker 2: One. I'm giving him one thing he's done a litany

2848
02:26:04,360 --> 02:26:06,440
Speaker 2: of bad things, but it was just like also that

2849
02:26:06,680 --> 02:26:09,400
Speaker 2: the it's gone from therapy to divorce.

2850
02:26:11,120 --> 02:26:12,600
Speaker 3: I'm leaning towards divorce now too.

2851
02:26:12,840 --> 02:26:15,520
Speaker 5: And you can change your vote if you just press one.

2852
02:26:15,560 --> 02:26:17,280
Speaker 5: You can change it to if you press two.

2853
02:26:17,320 --> 02:26:20,800
Speaker 4: Earlier polls are amazing. I love mass keep voting because

2854
02:26:20,800 --> 02:26:21,280
Speaker 4: we got more.

2855
02:26:22,280 --> 02:26:24,960
Speaker 7: Many comments on the original post labeled him as a

2856
02:26:25,040 --> 02:26:28,480
Speaker 7: massive red flag. Oh, he says he isn't. He has

2857
02:26:28,520 --> 02:26:31,640
Speaker 7: been a very supportive partner and helpful parent. This tantrum

2858
02:26:31,720 --> 02:26:33,440
Speaker 7: is out of character for him. Derek is not a

2859
02:26:33,520 --> 02:26:36,640
Speaker 7: mama's boy. Other commas suggests that I might have neglected him.

2860
02:26:37,000 --> 02:26:38,040
Speaker 4: There is some truth to that.

2861
02:26:38,360 --> 02:26:42,160
Speaker 7: His language is physical, but my libido has diminished since

2862
02:26:42,200 --> 02:26:44,360
Speaker 7: the birth of my first child and halted during the

2863
02:26:44,400 --> 02:26:48,840
Speaker 7: second semester of the last pregnancy. He has expressed some dissatisfaction,

2864
02:26:49,240 --> 02:26:52,600
Speaker 7: but we have compensated with other forms of intimacy. Some

2865
02:26:52,840 --> 02:26:55,960
Speaker 7: advice suggested that I should not, that I should not

2866
02:26:56,040 --> 02:26:56,680
Speaker 7: quit my job.

2867
02:26:57,120 --> 02:26:57,560
Speaker 4: I won't.

2868
02:26:57,879 --> 02:27:01,520
Speaker 7: That's non negotiable. There are our suggestions that this is

2869
02:27:01,560 --> 02:27:04,320
Speaker 7: a mental health crisis. I think that could be the case.

2870
02:27:04,760 --> 02:27:07,400
Speaker 7: I certainly haven't checked on Derek seriously to see how

2871
02:27:07,440 --> 02:27:10,680
Speaker 7: he was doing. This could explain the meltdown, but not

2872
02:27:10,760 --> 02:27:13,480
Speaker 7: his proposal. I'm not sure if I'm asking for any advice.

2873
02:27:13,720 --> 02:27:16,120
Speaker 7: I'm hopeful that this evening we can at least solve

2874
02:27:16,360 --> 02:27:19,680
Speaker 7: the immediate problems and agree on seeking therapy and there

2875
02:27:19,840 --> 02:27:21,000
Speaker 7: is an update.

2876
02:27:21,240 --> 02:27:22,040
Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen.

2877
02:27:22,120 --> 02:27:27,119
Speaker 2: WHOA, but is this like, are we disrespecting a possible

2878
02:27:27,360 --> 02:27:28,520
Speaker 2: mental health crisis? Yeah?

2879
02:27:28,640 --> 02:27:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I totally think it's a possibility.

2880
02:27:31,760 --> 02:27:34,520
Speaker 2: You know, and you know, like we're only getting what

2881
02:27:34,640 --> 02:27:37,040
Speaker 2: we can from this Creddit story. Obviously, the person who's

2882
02:27:37,080 --> 02:27:41,560
Speaker 2: experienced this will know better, yes, and also has the

2883
02:27:41,720 --> 02:27:46,560
Speaker 2: rest of the relationship to compare against, which is why, like,

2884
02:27:48,280 --> 02:27:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm kind of always in favor of therapy for a divorce,

2885
02:27:53,680 --> 02:27:57,840
Speaker 2: because like, if you've had a great tenure relationship and

2886
02:27:57,920 --> 02:28:02,039
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden some changes and someone asks

2887
02:28:02,080 --> 02:28:05,560
Speaker 2: for something crazy sorry for spitting on Yustavia, it could

2888
02:28:05,640 --> 02:28:09,120
Speaker 2: be a reflection of a mental health crisis, and so like,

2889
02:28:09,800 --> 02:28:12,720
Speaker 2: although it's fun to just go divorce straight from the

2890
02:28:12,800 --> 02:28:15,000
Speaker 2: get go, weve ace, we got we look, we love

2891
02:28:15,040 --> 02:28:17,959
Speaker 2: a good divorced chan. I'm I think I'm still firm

2892
02:28:18,000 --> 02:28:21,200
Speaker 2: in my my idea that he may be red billed.

2893
02:28:22,400 --> 02:28:26,040
Speaker 2: He may be having a mental health crisis. The only

2894
02:28:26,120 --> 02:28:30,280
Speaker 2: way to truly find out is to go to therapy,

2895
02:28:30,640 --> 02:28:36,440
Speaker 2: both individual and couples, and then from that point understand.

2896
02:28:36,200 --> 02:28:38,039
Speaker 3: If this is an ongoing thing.

2897
02:28:38,200 --> 02:28:41,120
Speaker 2: This is an ongoing thing. Is this a core belief

2898
02:28:41,200 --> 02:28:44,120
Speaker 2: that he's just never revealed or is this just a

2899
02:28:45,480 --> 02:28:48,160
Speaker 2: momentary lapse in judgment or mental health?

2900
02:28:48,600 --> 02:28:50,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, well we have the answer.

2901
02:28:52,000 --> 02:28:56,199
Speaker 2: Oh we do, oh says you stay firm, sam.

2902
02:29:00,680 --> 02:29:03,600
Speaker 4: Omg omg o MGMG.

2903
02:29:04,360 --> 02:29:07,520
Speaker 7: Those of you who commented that Derek might have been

2904
02:29:07,800 --> 02:29:12,720
Speaker 7: influenced by red pill ideology US spu off red pill,

2905
02:29:13,160 --> 02:29:17,360
Speaker 7: red pilled last night. Yeah, let's see where the oh

2906
02:29:17,480 --> 02:29:19,439
Speaker 7: it's people want it was divorced.

2907
02:29:22,000 --> 02:29:22,480
Speaker 4: Last night.

2908
02:29:22,520 --> 02:29:24,880
Speaker 7: He had a talk with his parents. This afternoon, My

2909
02:29:25,000 --> 02:29:26,880
Speaker 7: father in law called me to check on me and

2910
02:29:26,920 --> 02:29:29,640
Speaker 7: give me a heads up on what they discussed. Father

2911
02:29:29,640 --> 02:29:33,920
Speaker 7: in law recognizes some talking points from Manisphere videos and

2912
02:29:34,080 --> 02:29:37,280
Speaker 7: asked Derek directly what kind of content he had been

2913
02:29:37,360 --> 02:29:41,240
Speaker 7: consuming lately. He scolded Derek for the absurdity of wanting

2914
02:29:41,320 --> 02:29:43,760
Speaker 7: to be a manly man. I also love that the

2915
02:29:43,840 --> 02:29:47,880
Speaker 7: father in law is like talking to him like this.

2916
02:29:48,280 --> 02:29:50,959
Speaker 7: He's like, son, stop trying to be such a manly

2917
02:29:51,080 --> 02:29:54,760
Speaker 7: man with your silly little videos. The fact that this

2918
02:29:54,840 --> 02:29:56,800
Speaker 7: guy is probably pretty old, the fact that he knows

2919
02:29:56,840 --> 02:29:59,400
Speaker 7: what the Manisphere videos are is yeah, dude, he's cued in.

2920
02:30:00,320 --> 02:30:01,480
Speaker 2: Maybe he's been red pilled.

2921
02:30:01,600 --> 02:30:06,119
Speaker 7: Oh, but he's against his son, his own son who's

2922
02:30:06,120 --> 02:30:08,800
Speaker 7: been red pilled, and running to his parents' house for

2923
02:30:08,879 --> 02:30:13,480
Speaker 7: what was essentially a tantrum. I would have paid see that. Anyhow,

2924
02:30:13,840 --> 02:30:16,360
Speaker 7: it was unacceptable that he wasn't home with his wife

2925
02:30:16,440 --> 02:30:23,920
Speaker 7: and kids, and for context, a great great agreed. My

2926
02:30:24,080 --> 02:30:27,000
Speaker 7: in law's sixty two male and fifty eight female, were

2927
02:30:27,080 --> 02:30:30,600
Speaker 7: a traditional family. Father in law worked in the trades

2928
02:30:30,680 --> 02:30:32,720
Speaker 7: and mother in law was a secretary but became a

2929
02:30:32,760 --> 02:30:35,360
Speaker 7: housewife when my sister in law was born. Mother in

2930
02:30:35,440 --> 02:30:37,760
Speaker 7: law volunteered at church and in the community, and had

2931
02:30:37,840 --> 02:30:40,840
Speaker 7: many side businesses. They encouraged sister in law to seek

2932
02:30:40,879 --> 02:30:44,160
Speaker 7: a career and taught Derek to seek equal partnership in

2933
02:30:44,360 --> 02:30:47,800
Speaker 7: his relationships. I had no probably fitting in with the family,

2934
02:30:48,120 --> 02:30:51,680
Speaker 7: as I was what they expected for their son. Anyhow,

2935
02:30:51,959 --> 02:30:55,240
Speaker 7: Derek finally came home in the early evening, very apologetic

2936
02:30:55,480 --> 02:31:00,880
Speaker 7: and claiming to have been misguided by certain content. I

2937
02:31:01,959 --> 02:31:05,839
Speaker 7: could sense that he wasn't genuinely remorseful, and sincere.

2938
02:31:06,080 --> 02:31:08,279
Speaker 2: I decided to since he wasn't generally.

2939
02:31:09,840 --> 02:31:13,240
Speaker 4: So he's coming back and he's apologizing, but she's like, buddy,

2940
02:31:14,040 --> 02:31:14,840
Speaker 4: I don't know about that.

2941
02:31:15,400 --> 02:31:15,920
Speaker 2: I know.

2942
02:31:17,560 --> 02:31:19,960
Speaker 4: Not a very sigma move if you ask me.

2943
02:31:20,640 --> 02:31:23,920
Speaker 2: Okay, a true sigma sticks by his opinion.

2944
02:31:26,080 --> 02:31:26,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2945
02:31:27,680 --> 02:31:30,080
Speaker 7: I decided not to confront him, but rather ask him

2946
02:31:30,240 --> 02:31:33,480
Speaker 7: what he really felt and how neglected he truly felt.

2947
02:31:34,160 --> 02:31:37,000
Speaker 7: Even if the specific ideas about a trade wife came

2948
02:31:37,080 --> 02:31:41,200
Speaker 7: from wife trade wife, thank your traditional wife came from

2949
02:31:41,280 --> 02:31:44,480
Speaker 7: Redpool videos, he might have been influenced by being vulnerable.

2950
02:31:44,879 --> 02:31:47,600
Speaker 7: I opened that door and he tried to follow it,

2951
02:31:48,000 --> 02:31:54,119
Speaker 7: but I realized he wasn't. I mean, he does have issues,

2952
02:31:54,280 --> 02:31:57,800
Speaker 7: but he isn't just a victim of those circumstances. Some

2953
02:31:57,959 --> 02:32:00,760
Speaker 7: of you suggested that I might have prevented Derek from

2954
02:32:00,840 --> 02:32:03,760
Speaker 7: taking a more active role in running our home. We

2955
02:32:03,920 --> 02:32:06,240
Speaker 7: agreed that we both should go to therapy to address

2956
02:32:06,320 --> 02:32:08,560
Speaker 7: our individual issues and seek couple's.

2957
02:32:08,240 --> 02:32:11,880
Speaker 4: Therapy to keep our marriage a flood win. Okay, so

2958
02:32:12,040 --> 02:32:13,680
Speaker 4: they win, that's true.

2959
02:32:14,000 --> 02:32:17,600
Speaker 7: And Derek also promised no more tantrums, and we agreed

2960
02:32:17,760 --> 02:32:19,920
Speaker 7: that I would return to work when the leave is over.

2961
02:32:19,959 --> 02:32:25,920
Speaker 4: How did he say that he was any more be

2962
02:32:26,040 --> 02:32:28,000
Speaker 4: a good masculine boy?

2963
02:32:29,200 --> 02:32:32,880
Speaker 3: Boy boy, I want to watch boy? Why do you

2964
02:32:33,080 --> 02:32:45,560
Speaker 3: block him from You're done?

2965
02:32:47,040 --> 02:32:49,600
Speaker 4: I am cautiously optimis success. This will work.

2966
02:32:50,440 --> 02:32:53,040
Speaker 7: I think Derek is sincere in his compromises, but he

2967
02:32:53,200 --> 02:32:55,800
Speaker 7: is not sincere in his remorse. This could go either way.

2968
02:32:56,000 --> 02:32:58,680
Speaker 7: For now, he will stay at home and there is

2969
02:32:58,720 --> 02:33:04,280
Speaker 7: an edit to and in some relevant comments that will

2970
02:33:04,320 --> 02:33:05,280
Speaker 7: close us out huge.

2971
02:33:06,200 --> 02:33:09,000
Speaker 4: But will this work? Yes or no?

2972
02:33:11,800 --> 02:33:12,680
Speaker 3: I don't think it'll work.

2973
02:33:13,840 --> 02:33:18,280
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe he was just like super impressionable and

2974
02:33:19,120 --> 02:33:20,800
Speaker 2: I don't know mental health christiness.

2975
02:33:21,040 --> 02:33:23,840
Speaker 3: She said she thinks the apology wasn't sincere.

2976
02:33:23,920 --> 02:33:26,480
Speaker 4: Sincere Yeah, potentially not.

2977
02:33:27,080 --> 02:33:28,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just still go to therapy and

2978
02:33:29,120 --> 02:33:32,120
Speaker 2: like see it out. But it's not looking great.

2979
02:33:32,879 --> 02:33:33,640
Speaker 4: It's not looking great.

2980
02:33:33,720 --> 02:33:33,879
Speaker 10: Yeah.

2981
02:33:34,000 --> 02:33:38,199
Speaker 4: I have a feeling. I'm just the nature of these stories.

2982
02:33:39,600 --> 02:33:44,280
Speaker 4: I have a feeling like it's gonna end.

2983
02:33:45,160 --> 02:33:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, But I think so so naughty Life

2984
02:33:47,840 --> 02:33:49,840
Speaker 2: says no, therapy only works if you work on it.

2985
02:33:50,200 --> 02:33:53,720
Speaker 2: So I think what is really a indicator is go

2986
02:33:53,959 --> 02:33:56,320
Speaker 2: to like a month or two a therapy if you

2987
02:33:56,480 --> 02:33:58,960
Speaker 2: see no effort from your husband. Then I think that

2988
02:33:59,240 --> 02:34:01,840
Speaker 2: is like an indicator that you should difforce because it's like, oh,

2989
02:34:01,920 --> 02:34:03,720
Speaker 2: this is not gonna get better, it's to get worse.

2990
02:34:03,879 --> 02:34:07,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, and and to like therapy for like on a

2991
02:34:07,280 --> 02:34:10,800
Speaker 7: p side, because it was individual and couples therapy. Then

2992
02:34:10,840 --> 02:34:13,040
Speaker 7: it's like op has her own dedicated time to like

2993
02:34:13,120 --> 02:34:16,080
Speaker 7: work through her stuff. And then you know there's a

2994
02:34:16,240 --> 02:34:18,400
Speaker 7: chance that Derek does on his end as well, So

2995
02:34:19,480 --> 02:34:21,840
Speaker 7: that could come out. But what else has come out

2996
02:34:21,959 --> 02:34:28,640
Speaker 7: is some some donations, his update, let's do it. Where

2997
02:34:28,640 --> 02:34:31,440
Speaker 7: are we starting? Oh, here we go, MJ grow two bucks.

2998
02:34:31,600 --> 02:34:35,640
Speaker 7: Baby trap So saying like the husband was baby trapping her.

2999
02:34:35,760 --> 02:34:39,359
Speaker 7: Possibly there still is more in the story. Signal Imagination

3000
02:34:39,440 --> 02:34:42,840
Speaker 7: sixteen says, I feel like there's an unhealthy stigma about women,

3001
02:34:43,400 --> 02:34:46,960
Speaker 7: uh being stay at home parents because supposedly women are

3002
02:34:47,080 --> 02:34:48,520
Speaker 7: more quote unquote nurturing.

3003
02:34:48,800 --> 02:34:52,279
Speaker 5: So basically, yeah, basically.

3004
02:34:52,640 --> 02:34:54,120
Speaker 4: Is it is it saying like.

3005
02:34:55,680 --> 02:34:58,120
Speaker 7: Like, oh, there's a stigma on women who want to

3006
02:34:58,400 --> 02:35:02,960
Speaker 7: be stay at home moms or the other way around.

3007
02:35:03,640 --> 02:35:06,400
Speaker 7: I feel like there's an unhealthy stigma about women being

3008
02:35:07,000 --> 02:35:07,440
Speaker 7: I think.

3009
02:35:07,280 --> 02:35:09,480
Speaker 3: It's just the idea that women should be the stand

3010
02:35:09,480 --> 02:35:10,280
Speaker 3: alone exactly.

3011
02:35:10,360 --> 02:35:10,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3012
02:35:10,680 --> 02:35:13,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is the age old thing that we've we

3013
02:35:13,600 --> 02:35:14,240
Speaker 3: fight against.

3014
02:35:14,879 --> 02:35:17,440
Speaker 7: It's and we've talked about a thousand times this podcast.

3015
02:35:17,520 --> 02:35:21,880
Speaker 7: Figuring out a equal and equitable setup in your partnership.

3016
02:35:22,120 --> 02:35:24,480
Speaker 3: It is totally fine to want to be a stay

3017
02:35:24,520 --> 02:35:27,240
Speaker 3: at home parent, but that needs to be a conversation

3018
02:35:27,600 --> 02:35:28,959
Speaker 3: that you have with your partner.

3019
02:35:28,800 --> 02:35:31,640
Speaker 4: Yes, and a setup that both of you are happy,

3020
02:35:31,720 --> 02:35:33,560
Speaker 4: if not thrilled, yes with.

3021
02:35:34,360 --> 02:35:35,920
Speaker 3: You must birth be on board.

3022
02:35:36,120 --> 02:35:37,600
Speaker 4: That's right, m J go with.

3023
02:35:37,560 --> 02:35:41,040
Speaker 7: Another five bucks. He cannot blame her for his lack

3024
02:35:41,080 --> 02:35:46,600
Speaker 7: of feeling less than a man. It's it's nothing we uh,

3025
02:35:47,440 --> 02:35:49,880
Speaker 7: it's not. It's not our job to make him manly.

3026
02:35:50,760 --> 02:35:51,760
Speaker 4: Yeah is that what say? Yep?

3027
02:35:52,680 --> 02:36:01,400
Speaker 7: Riba computer file on stinky Man. There we go, Rachel

3028
02:36:01,440 --> 02:36:03,840
Speaker 7: the excaga for the two bucks. Sophia made a sex joke.

3029
02:36:03,959 --> 02:36:05,040
Speaker 7: I'm so proud, guys.

3030
02:36:05,160 --> 02:36:09,440
Speaker 4: We all are claps in the chat, claps in the chat.

3031
02:36:09,560 --> 02:36:10,359
Speaker 4: Riley's excited.

3032
02:36:11,040 --> 02:36:14,160
Speaker 7: We're made an aochi for the two to four tip.

3033
02:36:14,840 --> 02:36:18,360
Speaker 7: Fia is so wholesome. Uh, No one got the joke.

3034
02:36:18,480 --> 02:36:21,199
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly, She's so wholesome. We didn't know, we weren't

3035
02:36:21,200 --> 02:36:21,560
Speaker 7: ready for.

3036
02:36:21,600 --> 02:36:24,560
Speaker 5: It, and blew what didn't expect it from you?

3037
02:36:24,640 --> 02:36:24,680
Speaker 2: This?

3038
02:36:24,800 --> 02:36:26,680
Speaker 4: We didn't expect it. We didn't expect it.

3039
02:36:26,959 --> 02:36:29,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's right, But do another one to see if

3040
02:36:29,240 --> 02:36:31,879
Speaker 7: we do another one in this stream and see if.

3041
02:36:31,800 --> 02:36:34,080
Speaker 4: We catch it this time. Okay, we'll be aware. It's

3042
02:36:34,120 --> 02:36:34,920
Speaker 4: got to be so clever.

3043
02:36:35,200 --> 02:36:39,400
Speaker 7: It's got to be the most witty witch. Yeah time

3044
02:36:39,600 --> 02:36:42,720
Speaker 7: Bluicky twelve for the ten eighty two tip. He's just

3045
02:36:42,840 --> 02:36:46,360
Speaker 7: trying to raise the bar lol. Who was probably made

3046
02:36:46,400 --> 02:36:49,400
Speaker 7: a little bit made fourteen minutes ago. I'm not sure

3047
02:36:49,560 --> 02:36:52,080
Speaker 7: that joke is referencing too, but I love it. And

3048
02:36:52,240 --> 02:36:55,640
Speaker 7: five bucks from Lossandra Rivera sounds like she is losing

3049
02:36:55,720 --> 02:36:56,440
Speaker 7: respect for him.

3050
02:36:57,720 --> 02:37:01,320
Speaker 4: That is hard to recover from it. Yeah, very much.

3051
02:37:01,400 --> 02:37:05,520
Speaker 11: Just getting the ick, getting the ick and Lord Milky

3052
02:37:06,120 --> 02:37:11,680
Speaker 11: the Milkman himself Giant's Milk with a giant gift of

3053
02:37:11,959 --> 02:37:14,519
Speaker 11: five gifted memberships.

3054
02:37:14,879 --> 02:37:18,560
Speaker 4: We love you, Lord Milky, thank you for your generous gift.

3055
02:37:18,640 --> 02:37:19,040
Speaker 3: I love you.

3056
02:37:19,879 --> 02:37:23,920
Speaker 4: But shall we get into this generous gift of the story.

3057
02:37:24,160 --> 02:37:28,640
Speaker 7: Yay. Edit not much of an update, as there have

3058
02:37:28,840 --> 02:37:32,040
Speaker 7: been not many recent developments. We are trying to return

3059
02:37:32,080 --> 02:37:35,120
Speaker 7: to normalcy that we used to enjoy. I will address

3060
02:37:35,240 --> 02:37:39,840
Speaker 7: some questions and some comments. Some have accused me of

3061
02:37:39,959 --> 02:37:43,160
Speaker 7: yawning on the stream. Some have accused me of dismissing

3062
02:37:43,240 --> 02:37:46,560
Speaker 7: Derek's concerns and referring to them as a tantrum quote unquote.

3063
02:37:46,840 --> 02:37:49,240
Speaker 7: In reality, it was Derek that used them in his

3064
02:37:49,879 --> 02:37:51,360
Speaker 7: text apology yesterday morning.

3065
02:37:52,080 --> 02:37:55,640
Speaker 3: Also, she wasn't saying his concerns were the tantrum. She

3066
02:37:55,760 --> 02:37:58,760
Speaker 3: was saying him crying and sobbing on the floor was

3067
02:37:58,800 --> 02:38:02,280
Speaker 3: a tantrum. Also running or going to running to his parents'

3068
02:38:02,320 --> 02:38:04,800
Speaker 3: house and leaving her to defend her children.

3069
02:38:05,080 --> 02:38:05,600
Speaker 4: Exactly.

3070
02:38:06,800 --> 02:38:09,480
Speaker 7: I simply continue to use it the term he used tantrum,

3071
02:38:09,760 --> 02:38:12,400
Speaker 7: even though I know better. I was asked if he

3072
02:38:12,600 --> 02:38:17,800
Speaker 7: is still consuming those podcasts? Hope not, short of confiscating

3073
02:38:17,879 --> 02:38:20,720
Speaker 7: his phone, which I can't do. It's too soon to

3074
02:38:20,840 --> 02:38:22,279
Speaker 7: confirm a change.

3075
02:38:22,040 --> 02:38:25,560
Speaker 4: In his habits. Uh. You know what, Sophia, what I

3076
02:38:25,680 --> 02:38:29,160
Speaker 4: think there's a podcast that he should listen to, is it?

3077
02:38:29,280 --> 02:38:29,520
Speaker 5: Okay?

3078
02:38:30,040 --> 02:38:33,520
Speaker 4: It's okay, oph You know what we do on this

3079
02:38:33,600 --> 02:38:37,480
Speaker 4: podcast before we do we respect women.

3080
02:38:38,400 --> 02:38:44,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's right, Okay, you disrespect women.

3081
02:38:45,160 --> 02:38:47,000
Speaker 4: Got to talk to us, that's right. And we're not

3082
02:38:47,000 --> 02:38:48,640
Speaker 4: gonna be too friendly, are we. Riley No, we're not,

3083
02:38:48,840 --> 02:38:53,080
Speaker 4: are we, Sophia. That's right, that's right, Sophia, We're not.

3084
02:38:53,840 --> 02:38:58,640
Speaker 4: Okay anyways, Actually.

3085
02:38:58,600 --> 02:39:06,000
Speaker 3: Actually, actually I was disrespected Just this morning, John bullied me.

3086
02:39:10,959 --> 02:39:11,600
Speaker 4: I was bullying.

3087
02:39:11,920 --> 02:39:12,800
Speaker 3: John was bullying me.

3088
02:39:14,480 --> 02:39:18,360
Speaker 7: I'd been to it now, Okay, story time, point the

3089
02:39:18,400 --> 02:39:25,720
Speaker 7: fingers at me disrespecting women. Well, let me disrespect your

3090
02:39:25,720 --> 02:39:28,640
Speaker 7: comment and get back to the story. So uh, I

3091
02:39:28,720 --> 02:39:31,400
Speaker 7: haven't got it watching those videos. But it's not something

3092
02:39:31,440 --> 02:39:34,640
Speaker 7: I had noticed before regarding red flags. Up until recently,

3093
02:39:35,040 --> 02:39:38,080
Speaker 7: Derek was an ideal husband. I don't know when he changed.

3094
02:39:38,280 --> 02:39:41,000
Speaker 7: I was dealing with my own postpartum issues and couldn't

3095
02:39:41,040 --> 02:39:43,119
Speaker 7: tell if he had changed or if I was overreacting.

3096
02:39:43,560 --> 02:39:49,879
Speaker 7: So yes, he exhibited his red flags lately, but he hasn't.

3097
02:39:49,640 --> 02:39:53,040
Speaker 4: Always been this way. I'm trying here, guys. Some have

3098
02:39:53,160 --> 02:39:58,039
Speaker 4: suggested that Derek might be cheating. Do you think that's WHOA.

3099
02:40:00,080 --> 02:40:00,200
Speaker 3: Think?

3100
02:40:00,280 --> 02:40:00,320
Speaker 1: So?

3101
02:40:00,520 --> 02:40:05,080
Speaker 5: Andrew Tate does say the more the merrier, is that

3102
02:40:05,200 --> 02:40:06,520
Speaker 5: what he says? I don't know that.

3103
02:40:07,320 --> 02:40:07,680
Speaker 4: I don't know.

3104
02:40:07,959 --> 02:40:08,880
Speaker 5: He probably does say that.

3105
02:40:09,560 --> 02:40:11,000
Speaker 4: No way he says that. Did he say that?

3106
02:40:11,120 --> 02:40:12,240
Speaker 5: I don't know. I just saw it.

3107
02:40:12,280 --> 02:40:13,920
Speaker 8: He had a video of like him with two girls

3108
02:40:13,959 --> 02:40:16,240
Speaker 8: in his It was some dude like, look at this

3109
02:40:16,440 --> 02:40:19,160
Speaker 8: and it's like Andrew Tate waking up with like two

3110
02:40:19,160 --> 02:40:19,800
Speaker 8: girls in his bed.

3111
02:40:19,800 --> 02:40:20,640
Speaker 5: And I was like what.

3112
02:40:20,879 --> 02:40:23,119
Speaker 8: And he's like kickboxing and it's like a WHO montage

3113
02:40:23,160 --> 02:40:24,600
Speaker 8: video and I'm like, all right.

3114
02:40:24,720 --> 02:40:28,200
Speaker 2: You're like, wow, due, this is a man outing himself

3115
02:40:28,240 --> 02:40:32,480
Speaker 2: right now, Like I watched this video.

3116
02:40:32,520 --> 02:40:33,879
Speaker 4: Here's all the details of exactly.

3117
02:40:35,080 --> 02:40:37,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't like Andrew Tait.

3118
02:40:39,400 --> 02:40:42,000
Speaker 8: I will say he gave me one piece of advice,

3119
02:40:46,200 --> 02:40:49,160
Speaker 8: one piece of advice, and that's the only advice I

3120
02:40:49,160 --> 02:40:50,040
Speaker 8: will ever take from him.

3121
02:40:50,680 --> 02:40:54,120
Speaker 4: What it was disrespect women, No no, no, no, no,

3122
02:40:54,200 --> 02:40:55,160
Speaker 4: no no, no, no, no no.

3123
02:40:55,840 --> 02:40:59,880
Speaker 8: It was whenever in my days of being single, if

3124
02:41:00,080 --> 02:41:02,520
Speaker 8: someone if you want to see, if someone's interested in you,

3125
02:41:02,879 --> 02:41:04,520
Speaker 8: you go up to me, you say, hey, what's your name?

3126
02:41:04,879 --> 02:41:06,360
Speaker 8: They're like, oh, my name is this? If they ask

3127
02:41:06,440 --> 02:41:08,680
Speaker 8: what your name is, then you're good. If they don't

3128
02:41:08,720 --> 02:41:10,560
Speaker 8: ask what your name is, you walk away.

3129
02:41:13,120 --> 02:41:14,680
Speaker 3: I mean, such simple advice.

3130
02:41:15,840 --> 02:41:17,240
Speaker 5: That's the only advice he could give me.

3131
02:41:17,720 --> 02:41:20,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, he doesn't have any other good advice,

3132
02:41:20,080 --> 02:41:21,440
Speaker 3: So I guess you have to take what you get.

3133
02:41:22,200 --> 02:41:23,400
Speaker 5: That's the only thing I can get.

3134
02:41:23,879 --> 02:41:27,800
Speaker 3: We don't support bad people in this stream.

3135
02:41:29,280 --> 02:41:32,800
Speaker 4: Did we finish the story? Not for everyone who joined

3136
02:41:32,840 --> 02:41:34,240
Speaker 4: the stream, TLDR for everyone.

3137
02:41:34,840 --> 02:41:39,840
Speaker 7: So basically, uh, Opie's husband out of nowhere kind of

3138
02:41:39,840 --> 02:41:43,040
Speaker 7: started getting stinky. He was basically crying, literally crying and

3139
02:41:43,120 --> 02:41:44,920
Speaker 7: saying like, hey, we haven't been intimate in a while,

3140
02:41:45,080 --> 02:41:48,160
Speaker 7: and I feel unmasculated because you make more than me

3141
02:41:48,400 --> 02:41:53,080
Speaker 7: and all that. So uh then he later a few

3142
02:41:53,120 --> 02:41:55,360
Speaker 7: days later, went to his parents house and stayed out

3143
02:41:55,360 --> 02:41:58,560
Speaker 7: there for a minute. We have found out the interrogation

3144
02:41:58,680 --> 02:42:01,400
Speaker 7: of the husband's parents that he was red pilled.

3145
02:42:01,720 --> 02:42:05,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, they actually water tortured him with jazz music to

3146
02:42:05,720 --> 02:42:06,200
Speaker 3: get it out.

3147
02:42:06,800 --> 02:42:09,119
Speaker 7: It was really it was a really brutal I can't

3148
02:42:09,160 --> 02:42:11,960
Speaker 7: imagine someone doing Yeah, that is that is inhumane.

3149
02:42:12,320 --> 02:42:14,280
Speaker 3: He was screaming and crying on the floor and he

3150
02:42:14,440 --> 02:42:16,960
Speaker 3: was like I was watching it you day.

3151
02:42:17,200 --> 02:42:19,240
Speaker 4: He was trying to drip his skin off.

3152
02:42:21,560 --> 02:42:22,280
Speaker 3: Jazz music.

3153
02:42:25,520 --> 02:42:26,640
Speaker 10: And uh.

3154
02:42:26,840 --> 02:42:29,480
Speaker 7: He did come back and has agreed to a couple's

3155
02:42:29,520 --> 02:42:31,400
Speaker 7: therapy and individual therapy.

3156
02:42:32,360 --> 02:42:35,800
Speaker 4: Now we are maybe going to see doesn't improve, that

3157
02:42:35,959 --> 02:42:36,600
Speaker 4: is the big question.

3158
02:42:39,080 --> 02:42:42,640
Speaker 3: I think it won't. I think he's gonna double double down.

3159
02:42:43,640 --> 02:42:43,720
Speaker 7: And.

3160
02:42:45,800 --> 02:42:49,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's stinky. Doubling down on a stench.

3161
02:42:49,240 --> 02:42:49,400
Speaker 2: Well.

3162
02:42:51,160 --> 02:42:51,280
Speaker 4: Uh.

3163
02:42:51,480 --> 02:42:54,280
Speaker 7: Some of us suggested that Derek might be cheating. While

3164
02:42:54,320 --> 02:42:57,160
Speaker 7: I don't think that that's the issue, I can't be certain.

3165
02:42:57,200 --> 02:43:00,520
Speaker 7: A couple of months ago, I would have sworn that

3166
02:43:00,840 --> 02:43:04,440
Speaker 7: was impossible. However, it's not my main hypothesis.

3167
02:43:04,680 --> 02:43:06,360
Speaker 4: A few of you has suggested that happen.

3168
02:43:06,440 --> 02:43:08,080
Speaker 2: It's now my main hypothesis.

3169
02:43:08,400 --> 02:43:09,800
Speaker 4: It's not my main hypothesis.

3170
02:43:09,959 --> 02:43:13,000
Speaker 7: Yes, a few of you have suggested that having a

3171
02:43:13,040 --> 02:43:15,520
Speaker 7: stay at home parents, specifically the mother, is beneficial for

3172
02:43:15,600 --> 02:43:19,120
Speaker 7: our children, and that I shouldn't reject the idea so vehemently.

3173
02:43:19,520 --> 02:43:21,880
Speaker 7: Both Derek's job and mine allow us to work from

3174
02:43:21,920 --> 02:43:23,480
Speaker 7: home a great deal of the time, and we are

3175
02:43:23,520 --> 02:43:27,400
Speaker 7: financially able to hire a permanent daytime, daytime nanny or

3176
02:43:27,560 --> 02:43:30,440
Speaker 7: secure good daycare. My promotion will reduce some of my

3177
02:43:30,560 --> 02:43:33,880
Speaker 7: aufice time, but I could still be home for nearly

3178
02:43:34,120 --> 02:43:38,920
Speaker 7: two weekdays. Derek's potential promotion would requile would require full

3179
02:43:38,959 --> 02:43:42,119
Speaker 7: time office hours. The first time he mentioned that possibility,

3180
02:43:42,800 --> 02:43:45,840
Speaker 7: he was against taking it because his salary increased wouldn't

3181
02:43:45,879 --> 02:43:49,440
Speaker 7: compensate for his time away from the girls. That's one

3182
02:43:49,480 --> 02:43:51,520
Speaker 7: of the reasons I was so dismissive when he first

3183
02:43:51,560 --> 02:43:54,279
Speaker 7: proposed that I quit my job and he take the promotion,

3184
02:43:54,480 --> 02:43:57,400
Speaker 7: as it contradicted what he had expressed before.

3185
02:43:57,560 --> 02:43:59,280
Speaker 2: And it literally gives her a less time with her

3186
02:43:59,320 --> 02:44:02,040
Speaker 2: children exactly, I'm sorry. It literally gives her more time

3187
02:44:02,080 --> 02:44:05,520
Speaker 2: with her children to take the promotion and him less time.

3188
02:44:07,800 --> 02:44:10,120
Speaker 2: His promotion gives him less time with his children. Yes,

3189
02:44:10,280 --> 02:44:12,480
Speaker 2: her promotion gives her more more time with her children.

3190
02:44:12,520 --> 02:44:15,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, so she's like they are being cared for. If

3191
02:44:15,560 --> 02:44:18,240
Speaker 7: that's really what you're saying. Yeah, which we found out

3192
02:44:18,440 --> 02:44:20,400
Speaker 7: kind of wasn't some Ma Elevan commas that close this

3193
02:44:20,480 --> 02:44:24,400
Speaker 7: out existing Watch thirty eighty four says, you bring in

3194
02:44:24,520 --> 02:44:27,200
Speaker 7: more money and do a majority of the parenting. Have

3195
02:44:27,360 --> 02:44:34,240
Speaker 7: fun being a single mother while married? Oh Ma Goward

3196
02:44:34,560 --> 02:44:36,880
Speaker 7: Opie says, I never had the impression that I was

3197
02:44:36,920 --> 02:44:40,280
Speaker 7: a married single woman or that Derek was just another kid.

3198
02:44:41,440 --> 02:44:44,240
Speaker 7: He is not an equal partner, but he has been

3199
02:44:44,400 --> 02:44:47,040
Speaker 7: very helpful. I feel like Opie is always like, no, no, no,

3200
02:44:47,320 --> 02:44:49,039
Speaker 7: he's fine. He just doesn't do anything.

3201
02:44:49,200 --> 02:44:51,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's not an equal partner. Are you kidding me?

3202
02:44:52,200 --> 02:44:52,760
Speaker 4: But it's fine.

3203
02:44:52,879 --> 02:44:55,880
Speaker 2: He's not an equal partner. Is such a telling phrase?

3204
02:44:56,120 --> 02:44:58,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like, I don't. I never thought of him

3205
02:44:58,640 --> 02:45:01,080
Speaker 3: as like another child. But he he's not like my partner.

3206
02:45:01,520 --> 02:45:02,720
Speaker 2: He's like a moody teenager.

3207
02:45:03,680 --> 02:45:06,160
Speaker 3: Like he's a great guy, but he's like, you know, screaming,

3208
02:45:06,280 --> 02:45:06,720
Speaker 3: crying on the.

3209
02:45:06,720 --> 02:45:09,720
Speaker 2: Floor, like a moody teenager. But he's great, trust me,

3210
02:45:10,600 --> 02:45:11,400
Speaker 2: he is usually.

3211
02:45:11,720 --> 02:45:13,520
Speaker 7: He is usually aware of what is going on in

3212
02:45:13,600 --> 02:45:16,360
Speaker 7: the household and handles about forty percent of the child

3213
02:45:16,800 --> 02:45:20,600
Speaker 7: related tasks outside of the nannies hours, and thirty percent

3214
02:45:20,720 --> 02:45:21,720
Speaker 7: of the household chores.

3215
02:45:21,879 --> 02:45:24,640
Speaker 4: We have a weekly help for laundry and other heavy tasks.

3216
02:45:24,640 --> 02:45:25,720
Speaker 4: So actually, maybe like.

3217
02:45:25,800 --> 02:45:28,440
Speaker 2: The specific percentage, we're breaking it down.

3218
02:45:28,480 --> 02:45:30,920
Speaker 4: We're breaking it down, breaking it down. We're getting a

3219
02:45:30,959 --> 02:45:33,360
Speaker 4: promotion to make metrics out of our out of our

3220
02:45:33,440 --> 02:45:33,920
Speaker 4: take care.

3221
02:45:34,120 --> 02:45:38,359
Speaker 2: Naughty life, says she. It's not equal. She's in denial.

3222
02:45:38,480 --> 02:45:41,440
Speaker 2: Could she be impossibly in denial that it's not little?

3223
02:45:41,959 --> 02:45:43,920
Speaker 2: It feels like maybe there's a little bit of denial.

3224
02:45:44,080 --> 02:45:47,800
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe he was like just good enough in the

3225
02:45:48,000 --> 02:45:51,440
Speaker 7: past for her to like, yeah, the past for everything,

3226
02:45:52,320 --> 02:45:54,800
Speaker 7: and now his true stinky colors are flying into our

3227
02:45:54,879 --> 02:45:55,680
Speaker 7: nostril cavities.

3228
02:45:55,760 --> 02:45:56,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did, That's what I feel.

3229
02:45:56,879 --> 02:45:57,279
Speaker 5: I agree.

3230
02:45:57,879 --> 02:45:59,800
Speaker 7: I make most of the decisions at home, but I

3231
02:45:59,840 --> 02:46:02,920
Speaker 7: think I think it's more because I prefer to do

3232
02:46:03,120 --> 02:46:06,800
Speaker 7: things to go as I plan, rather than because he

3233
02:46:06,920 --> 02:46:11,720
Speaker 7: is uninvolved. In retrospect, he has been less involved than

3234
02:46:11,840 --> 02:46:14,520
Speaker 7: usual for the past few weeks. That is tough and

3235
02:46:14,600 --> 02:46:18,560
Speaker 7: the top commentary Little HARRISA says, how is it okay

3236
02:46:18,720 --> 02:46:21,080
Speaker 7: for a father to leave home and request his wife

3237
02:46:21,200 --> 02:46:23,560
Speaker 7: not contact him when he has very young kids in

3238
02:46:23,640 --> 02:46:24,000
Speaker 7: her care.

3239
02:46:24,480 --> 02:46:26,440
Speaker 4: Agitated Pilot thirty fifty five says, I.

3240
02:46:26,440 --> 02:46:29,680
Speaker 7: Think your husband is trying to regain his power by

3241
02:46:29,800 --> 02:46:33,800
Speaker 7: weakening you financially. Career wise, he'll be the powerful one

3242
02:46:33,959 --> 02:46:36,520
Speaker 7: and you'll have to live your life under the threat

3243
02:46:36,560 --> 02:46:38,080
Speaker 7: of financial crisis at his whim.

3244
02:46:38,280 --> 02:46:42,440
Speaker 2: I would be very suspicious that he's not smart enough

3245
02:46:42,480 --> 02:46:43,440
Speaker 2: to be that manipulative.

3246
02:46:45,160 --> 02:46:45,800
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know.

3247
02:46:46,080 --> 02:46:51,720
Speaker 2: No, Noah a freaking idiot. Yeah so Calsaff says he

3248
02:46:51,800 --> 02:46:53,959
Speaker 2: can be less involved divorce.

3249
02:46:55,920 --> 02:46:58,119
Speaker 7: Love that Okay, so this is the end of the story. Yeah,

3250
02:47:00,160 --> 02:47:04,240
Speaker 7: at this we we actually didn't get like the full

3251
02:47:04,520 --> 02:47:06,640
Speaker 7: long term, Like we didn't get the he's been in

3252
02:47:06,720 --> 02:47:08,520
Speaker 7: therapy and like it's better or it's worse.

3253
02:47:08,760 --> 02:47:11,040
Speaker 3: It seems like he's just kind of bad and no

3254
02:47:11,160 --> 02:47:11,680
Speaker 3: peace like it.

3255
02:47:12,040 --> 02:47:14,120
Speaker 2: It sounds like he's continuing to be the same. Yeah,

3256
02:47:14,920 --> 02:47:17,840
Speaker 2: and she's like, okay with him, all right?

3257
02:47:19,800 --> 02:47:20,240
Speaker 4: Doesn't it.

3258
02:47:21,760 --> 02:47:26,080
Speaker 2: When someone says he's not an equal partner? Is that

3259
02:47:26,280 --> 02:47:28,199
Speaker 2: not just like a massive red flag?

3260
02:47:28,480 --> 02:47:28,720
Speaker 8: Yeah?

3261
02:47:29,040 --> 02:47:31,640
Speaker 4: Is that? Like that just feels like a massive red.

3262
02:47:31,480 --> 02:47:33,280
Speaker 2: Flag, Like I could see like, oh, he like doesn't

3263
02:47:33,320 --> 02:47:36,039
Speaker 2: take care of the kids as much, but he works

3264
02:47:36,160 --> 02:47:37,320
Speaker 2: hard and provide to the family.

3265
02:47:37,440 --> 02:47:38,280
Speaker 4: So it bounces out.

3266
02:47:38,400 --> 02:47:39,800
Speaker 2: But what she's saying is no, no, no, no, no,

3267
02:47:40,640 --> 02:47:45,800
Speaker 2: not an equal partner? Like what does he provide? What

3268
02:47:45,840 --> 02:47:48,520
Speaker 2: does he bring to the table? Yeah, it feels like.

3269
02:47:48,560 --> 02:47:49,960
Speaker 4: Maybe not much. It's small meat.

3270
02:47:50,320 --> 02:47:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, dick game not great. That's the old It's like,

3271
02:47:52,840 --> 02:47:54,720
Speaker 2: what's the point. I can't even see it on the table.

3272
02:47:54,760 --> 02:47:56,680
Speaker 2: He's not even a trophy husband, that's right, you know,

3273
02:47:57,240 --> 02:47:59,320
Speaker 2: Like if if you're gonna be useless, at least be

3274
02:47:59,440 --> 02:48:01,600
Speaker 2: cute through and like, like me.

3275
02:48:03,080 --> 02:48:03,800
Speaker 4: Useless and cute.

3276
02:48:03,840 --> 02:48:09,200
Speaker 7: I'm adorable and cute, useless and cute. No, but yeah,

3277
02:48:09,240 --> 02:48:11,120
Speaker 7: so basically, do we think this is going to end

3278
02:48:11,120 --> 02:48:11,800
Speaker 7: a divorce prodict?

3279
02:48:12,120 --> 02:48:12,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, it feels like it.

3280
02:48:13,600 --> 02:48:18,039
Speaker 2: But she's she's a nile. Well, it's a river in.

3281
02:48:20,480 --> 02:48:20,760
Speaker 4: Is it that?

3282
02:48:21,120 --> 02:48:21,280
Speaker 2: You know?

3283
02:48:21,360 --> 02:48:24,200
Speaker 3: What's a wheel in l a?

3284
02:48:25,680 --> 02:48:25,720
Speaker 1: What?

3285
02:48:25,920 --> 02:48:30,280
Speaker 4: Ao? It is time to spend that weird?

3286
02:48:34,840 --> 02:48:39,520
Speaker 5: Here we go, here we go, let's go.

3287
02:48:44,280 --> 02:48:50,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's that one? What is that? What is it?

3288
02:48:50,480 --> 02:48:50,520
Speaker 1: No?

3289
02:48:51,440 --> 02:48:51,560
Speaker 7: Oh?

3290
02:48:51,640 --> 02:48:53,480
Speaker 5: It was memes, but we already didn't memes. Well we

3291
02:48:53,520 --> 02:48:54,960
Speaker 5: could do memes again. You guys want to do memes.

3292
02:48:55,000 --> 02:48:55,760
Speaker 4: I want to do memes.

3293
02:48:55,959 --> 02:49:00,720
Speaker 5: Okay, the streams memes, memes, memes.

3294
02:49:00,760 --> 02:49:03,800
Speaker 3: One second, we're doing opin up packages.

3295
02:49:04,240 --> 02:49:06,360
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, open up the packages. I get

3296
02:49:06,360 --> 02:49:06,720
Speaker 5: the memes.

3297
02:49:06,879 --> 02:49:10,480
Speaker 4: And also next wheel spin at what thousand?

3298
02:49:10,720 --> 02:49:11,840
Speaker 2: I was thinking eleven hundred.

3299
02:49:12,360 --> 02:49:14,039
Speaker 3: It was not even eleven hundred people.

3300
02:49:13,840 --> 02:49:18,320
Speaker 2: Here, Well there's new people, that's true. Yeah's how to

3301
02:49:18,360 --> 02:49:19,640
Speaker 2: put the joker to the fair episode?

3302
02:49:20,480 --> 02:49:23,240
Speaker 3: No freeways, Thank you, I was looking for that earlier.

3303
02:49:23,920 --> 02:49:27,040
Speaker 2: All right, Uh, we are going to open up a

3304
02:49:27,120 --> 02:49:31,240
Speaker 2: package and look at some memes. Also win our hubby.

3305
02:49:31,320 --> 02:49:33,280
Speaker 2: Thanks for the four to twenty tip. What they need

3306
02:49:33,440 --> 02:49:37,359
Speaker 2: is two housekeepers and they may maybe take six figures.

3307
02:49:37,480 --> 02:49:38,800
Speaker 2: But what is that in chickens?

3308
02:49:39,080 --> 02:49:42,400
Speaker 4: That's the real question. Yeah. I like the version. Did

3309
02:49:42,440 --> 02:49:44,040
Speaker 4: we read the other ones? We did not?

3310
02:49:44,680 --> 02:49:46,800
Speaker 2: J grow Thanks for the one ninety nine, please open

3311
02:49:46,840 --> 02:49:48,280
Speaker 2: more packages. That what John's doing right now.

3312
02:49:48,320 --> 02:49:48,960
Speaker 4: So we're doing right now?

3313
02:49:49,000 --> 02:49:53,519
Speaker 2: And then or did the Giants Milk don't donate an addition.

3314
02:49:53,440 --> 02:49:55,400
Speaker 3: Additional gifted members?

3315
02:49:56,600 --> 02:50:01,120
Speaker 7: Giants Milk Wow again with five We love it. We

3316
02:50:01,280 --> 02:50:03,200
Speaker 7: love the gift to donate. It helps, it helps the community.

3317
02:50:03,200 --> 02:50:03,680
Speaker 4: It's so great.

3318
02:50:04,360 --> 02:50:07,120
Speaker 7: Lessandro Rivieria sound I would thinks about five bucks tip

3319
02:50:07,200 --> 02:50:10,520
Speaker 7: sounds like she's losing respect for him, and that is

3320
02:50:10,560 --> 02:50:12,840
Speaker 7: hard to recard from read that earlier. But yeah, it's

3321
02:50:12,920 --> 02:50:14,920
Speaker 7: so poignant, so poignan. I had to read it twice.

3322
02:50:15,400 --> 02:50:18,119
Speaker 7: All right, ladies and gentlemen, are we ready for this package?

3323
02:50:20,320 --> 02:50:20,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

3324
02:50:21,240 --> 02:50:21,680
Speaker 8: What is it?

3325
02:50:21,800 --> 02:50:22,200
Speaker 7: What is it?

3326
02:50:22,560 --> 02:50:23,959
Speaker 4: I love that I can open this one easily?

3327
02:50:24,920 --> 02:50:25,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

3328
02:50:25,840 --> 02:50:26,240
Speaker 4: Napped?

3329
02:50:26,440 --> 02:50:28,160
Speaker 3: Is it the candies from Mexican?

3330
02:50:28,480 --> 02:50:34,840
Speaker 4: It is Presca? Give me a candy, Give me candy,

3331
02:50:34,959 --> 02:50:37,520
Speaker 4: Give me a candy candy? Who's it from?

3332
02:50:37,800 --> 02:50:38,039
Speaker 7: Where?

3333
02:50:38,600 --> 02:50:38,720
Speaker 2: Uh?

3334
02:50:40,840 --> 02:50:41,320
Speaker 4: Did that same?

3335
02:50:43,720 --> 02:50:43,959
Speaker 3: Damn?

3336
02:50:45,600 --> 02:50:47,039
Speaker 4: Wait? Is this what we had?

3337
02:50:47,280 --> 02:50:48,520
Speaker 5: It's from this one?

3338
02:50:48,800 --> 02:50:50,240
Speaker 4: Is this m J? Grow?

3339
02:50:50,520 --> 02:50:50,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3340
02:50:51,240 --> 02:50:56,920
Speaker 4: Grow, let you. I'm about to pop this bad boy

3341
02:50:57,000 --> 02:50:57,640
Speaker 4: in my mouth.

3342
02:50:57,720 --> 02:51:00,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna throw this in my mouth. Is this what

3343
02:51:00,480 --> 02:51:02,800
Speaker 2: we had with or my our friend the other day?

3344
02:51:04,400 --> 02:51:05,000
Speaker 4: With your theme?

3345
02:51:05,760 --> 02:51:05,880
Speaker 9: Oh?

3346
02:51:05,959 --> 02:51:08,160
Speaker 4: My God, I think it's maybe somewhere a little different.

3347
02:51:09,120 --> 02:51:10,160
Speaker 5: Why do you keep doing this?

3348
02:51:11,560 --> 02:51:14,400
Speaker 4: And fine? Is it?

3349
02:51:14,480 --> 02:51:14,640
Speaker 2: Though?

3350
02:51:15,080 --> 02:51:17,720
Speaker 4: It's not fine when I seem to remember sitting sit down.

3351
02:51:19,640 --> 02:51:21,599
Speaker 4: It's only not fine.

3352
02:51:23,040 --> 02:51:24,440
Speaker 5: When you do it, but it's not okay when I

3353
02:51:24,560 --> 02:51:24,720
Speaker 5: do it.

3354
02:51:25,320 --> 02:51:29,080
Speaker 2: Yes, one of the reason is because it negatively affects me.

3355
02:51:30,959 --> 02:51:33,720
Speaker 5: What do you mean that some people? This is so.

3356
02:51:35,400 --> 02:51:39,000
Speaker 2: Your docs negatively affected me, but my docs doesn't negatively

3357
02:51:39,000 --> 02:51:39,360
Speaker 2: affect me.

3358
02:51:41,840 --> 02:51:44,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't put the mics down. If you're gonna

3359
02:51:44,320 --> 02:51:45,600
Speaker 5: eat candy, put the mics down.

3360
02:51:45,720 --> 02:51:48,960
Speaker 4: If I docksed you, okay, and it negatively affected you,

3361
02:51:49,040 --> 02:51:49,680
Speaker 4: then that would be bad.

3362
02:51:51,200 --> 02:51:54,240
Speaker 5: The doctors candy down? Who is it you? You put

3363
02:51:54,280 --> 02:51:56,520
Speaker 5: the put the mic away? There we go, all right,

3364
02:51:57,080 --> 02:51:57,560
Speaker 5: it's hurt.

3365
02:51:59,560 --> 02:52:00,600
Speaker 3: Also really yummy.

3366
02:52:00,959 --> 02:52:04,880
Speaker 8: El oh, shut up, thank you for the five geted memberships.

3367
02:52:05,760 --> 02:52:08,320
Speaker 8: Another buddy, let's go. And then Wizzard hugged me. What

3368
02:52:08,440 --> 02:52:11,320
Speaker 8: they need is to oh you already said, that's wow?

3369
02:52:11,520 --> 02:52:14,040
Speaker 8: All right, hey, no more, no more, no more, no more?

3370
02:52:14,080 --> 02:52:16,440
Speaker 7: Good MJ grow that's like these are delicious. These are

3371
02:52:16,720 --> 02:52:22,039
Speaker 7: so good and also like strawberry. I've only done watermelon

3372
02:52:22,640 --> 02:52:24,280
Speaker 7: so fire, so good.

3373
02:52:24,600 --> 02:52:24,840
Speaker 3: Thanks.

3374
02:52:25,040 --> 02:52:26,800
Speaker 4: Sorry, the mic is making noise. It was low.

3375
02:52:27,080 --> 02:52:28,120
Speaker 2: All right, delicious.

3376
02:52:28,600 --> 02:52:31,960
Speaker 4: Where are we at now, MJ grow Thanks for some memes? No, no,

3377
02:52:32,000 --> 02:52:35,920
Speaker 4: I'm taking this up. Memest, show the memes.

3378
02:52:36,160 --> 02:52:38,080
Speaker 5: You got broke one second? The bar got broken again?

3379
02:52:38,320 --> 02:52:38,440
Speaker 1: Oh?

3380
02:52:38,640 --> 02:52:39,119
Speaker 4: Got broken?

3381
02:52:39,240 --> 02:52:39,360
Speaker 2: Well?

3382
02:52:39,440 --> 02:52:42,000
Speaker 5: Actually it's good now all right, let's show some memes.

3383
02:52:42,879 --> 02:52:44,000
Speaker 3: Show me the meme.

3384
02:52:45,920 --> 02:52:51,720
Speaker 4: Oh my god, drip drop drop with the one hundred

3385
02:52:52,000 --> 02:52:55,640
Speaker 4: dollars tip, eighteen minutes left, let's get another hour.

3386
02:52:56,720 --> 02:53:01,600
Speaker 2: My goodness, drip drop, beautiful drop, come in. Sorry, sorry

3387
02:53:01,680 --> 02:53:04,520
Speaker 2: for the candy slashing. It's just it's so delicious, it's

3388
02:53:04,600 --> 02:53:06,480
Speaker 2: so good like this is this is the best candy

3389
02:53:06,520 --> 02:53:07,200
Speaker 2: I've had in a sack.

3390
02:53:09,280 --> 02:53:12,600
Speaker 4: Showing some meme. Oh that's funny.

3391
02:53:15,240 --> 02:53:21,280
Speaker 2: That without kidneys. Yeah, it was always ten minutes late.

3392
02:53:22,560 --> 02:53:23,680
Speaker 5: What you got credit card for?

3393
02:53:24,080 --> 02:53:27,480
Speaker 3: I had credit card fraud. The French stole my money.

3394
02:53:27,680 --> 02:53:30,800
Speaker 5: And then he made this one from stole my money.

3395
02:53:31,160 --> 02:53:32,960
Speaker 3: French stole my hair. Looks great?

3396
02:53:34,400 --> 02:53:35,760
Speaker 2: Should that me herding Germans?

3397
02:53:36,200 --> 02:53:36,360
Speaker 8: Yes?

3398
02:53:36,600 --> 02:53:43,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, f the French. Oh my god, they.

3399
02:53:43,360 --> 02:53:46,080
Speaker 3: Stole my money. I love that meme. That's my favorite meme.

3400
02:53:46,840 --> 02:53:50,760
Speaker 4: You watch that TikTok? Wait what was that?

3401
02:53:50,959 --> 02:53:51,080
Speaker 1: Oh?

3402
02:53:51,120 --> 02:53:52,960
Speaker 3: Because I asked Riley, I said, did you watch the

3403
02:53:53,000 --> 02:53:53,840
Speaker 3: TikTok I sent you?

3404
02:53:54,040 --> 02:53:59,560
Speaker 5: And then Riley went and the right guy, Oh wait,

3405
02:53:59,560 --> 02:54:00,080
Speaker 5: you can't.

3406
02:54:00,200 --> 02:54:00,880
Speaker 2: Are you sending me?

3407
02:54:01,240 --> 02:54:03,320
Speaker 4: Are you are any of you sending me tiktoks anymore

3408
02:54:03,360 --> 02:54:05,679
Speaker 4: because you don't read them? Because TikTok.

3409
02:54:07,000 --> 02:54:10,480
Speaker 2: Text to me. But I texted in the group to

3410
02:54:10,600 --> 02:54:13,840
Speaker 2: exist some delicious memes and no one said anything.

3411
02:54:16,080 --> 02:54:16,720
Speaker 3: I liked them.

3412
02:54:16,959 --> 02:54:17,800
Speaker 4: I touch look at this.

3413
02:54:18,680 --> 02:54:20,920
Speaker 2: I want to sheep farm in bake but lazy. That's

3414
02:54:20,959 --> 02:54:24,400
Speaker 2: why you to exist in my life? Oh yeah, that

3415
02:54:24,440 --> 02:54:26,480
Speaker 2: one said Tofyo was like I want I want a

3416
02:54:26,520 --> 02:54:28,560
Speaker 2: cottage core life, but I don't want to do any work.

3417
02:54:30,120 --> 02:54:34,080
Speaker 3: Ten ten doctors recommend okay, squint, name some doctor phil

3418
02:54:34,320 --> 02:54:35,959
Speaker 3: doctor doctor o.

3419
02:54:37,640 --> 02:54:38,120
Speaker 5: A donation?

3420
02:54:41,720 --> 02:54:42,240
Speaker 4: Great memes?

3421
02:54:44,120 --> 02:54:44,879
Speaker 1: What are you doing?

3422
02:54:47,080 --> 02:54:51,240
Speaker 3: Why the form? The form?

3423
02:54:52,640 --> 02:54:53,800
Speaker 5: I thought that was me on the ground.

3424
02:54:53,840 --> 02:54:58,760
Speaker 8: That's so funny because showing it off.

3425
02:54:59,480 --> 02:55:02,840
Speaker 2: If you have a joined our discord, join the discord?

3426
02:55:03,000 --> 02:55:03,480
Speaker 4: What is this?

3427
02:55:04,760 --> 02:55:16,359
Speaker 5: That's me? Everybody damn done.

3428
02:55:17,640 --> 02:55:17,840
Speaker 7: Like that?

3429
02:55:18,200 --> 02:55:18,400
Speaker 4: Like that?

3430
02:55:18,480 --> 02:55:19,560
Speaker 3: These are all from yesterday.

3431
02:55:24,080 --> 02:55:28,280
Speaker 4: Oh that was me popping in for two seconds yesterday. Yep. Late.

3432
02:55:32,480 --> 02:55:35,840
Speaker 2: What if one sibling loves more than other, just love them?

3433
02:55:37,959 --> 02:55:40,320
Speaker 4: That was quick jazz.

3434
02:55:42,080 --> 02:55:47,240
Speaker 3: Jazz no Jazz Noodles. I won't it's from Coca Panda.

3435
02:55:47,320 --> 02:55:49,160
Speaker 3: Someone make a jazz no jazz noodles.

3436
02:55:50,000 --> 02:55:55,920
Speaker 4: Sam just trying to change things up. Sam just self mutilation.

3437
02:55:56,240 --> 02:55:57,119
Speaker 4: Jazz is min.

3438
02:55:58,720 --> 02:56:02,160
Speaker 3: That's my favorite. I think so good, So.

3439
02:56:02,360 --> 02:56:06,080
Speaker 4: Timely man, you guys are making quick. These are good.

3440
02:56:06,200 --> 02:56:07,720
Speaker 3: These are my I think this is These have been

3441
02:56:07,760 --> 02:56:08,520
Speaker 3: my favorite so far.

3442
02:56:08,800 --> 02:56:17,640
Speaker 2: Thaz are and reads the most traumatic story.

3443
02:56:18,360 --> 02:56:20,000
Speaker 4: Chose a whole get that care out of my.

3444
02:56:34,320 --> 02:56:41,080
Speaker 2: Names waiting, Sophia stumps down, Sam okay story six Honda,

3445
02:56:41,920 --> 02:56:50,840
Speaker 2: Oh man, that's funny, laid off sound of Sam running.

3446
02:56:55,520 --> 02:56:56,240
Speaker 4: That's a deep one.

3447
02:56:56,640 --> 02:56:57,840
Speaker 5: Wow.

3448
02:56:58,120 --> 02:57:02,039
Speaker 4: That orange anything with the orange shirt is a deep cut. Wow.

3449
02:57:07,280 --> 02:57:09,560
Speaker 3: Now just make that the kung Fu Panda meme of

3450
02:57:10,160 --> 02:57:11,920
Speaker 3: jazz no Jazz noodles.

3451
02:57:12,120 --> 02:57:14,880
Speaker 2: If you have more memes, please make them.

3452
02:57:14,920 --> 02:57:18,600
Speaker 4: We love them fast and also also, I.

3453
02:57:18,640 --> 02:57:22,040
Speaker 2: Would just like to say, if you go deep, deep

3454
02:57:22,160 --> 02:57:24,240
Speaker 2: into the barrels of our catalog. We've been making these

3455
02:57:24,320 --> 02:57:26,280
Speaker 2: videos for three years. There was about a time when

3456
02:57:26,400 --> 02:57:29,200
Speaker 2: John and I were just making it in a room alone. Yeah,

3457
02:57:29,240 --> 02:57:32,760
Speaker 2: and I bet you there's some mimable moments that we

3458
02:57:32,840 --> 02:57:34,000
Speaker 2: haven't thought about in years.

3459
02:57:34,240 --> 02:57:35,040
Speaker 4: Super memable.

3460
02:57:35,280 --> 02:57:37,720
Speaker 7: Maybe no one should look at them there. You know,

3461
02:57:37,800 --> 02:57:43,400
Speaker 7: there's there's one thing that uh a joke super early

3462
02:57:43,520 --> 02:57:48,800
Speaker 7: on involving boxes that I don't want to give it

3463
02:57:48,840 --> 02:57:54,119
Speaker 7: away taking the boxes and then oh, I don't want

3464
02:57:54,120 --> 02:57:54,720
Speaker 7: to give it away.

3465
02:57:54,800 --> 02:57:56,800
Speaker 4: But I have a challenge for all of you. The

3466
02:57:57,000 --> 02:57:59,360
Speaker 4: boxes is your clue dude that we did We did

3467
02:57:59,400 --> 02:58:01,480
Speaker 4: that for a while too. Yeah, and now that that

3468
02:58:01,680 --> 02:58:06,240
Speaker 4: is that is a early early one, so early reoccurring meme.

3469
02:58:06,440 --> 02:58:09,400
Speaker 4: So someone find that and make a meme for the

3470
02:58:09,440 --> 02:58:11,960
Speaker 4: next time we do the meme review. Also, we're very

3471
02:58:12,000 --> 02:58:16,480
Speaker 4: close to one more hour. You gotta read some tips down.

3472
02:58:16,640 --> 02:58:16,840
Speaker 3: Tip.

3473
02:58:17,520 --> 02:58:18,920
Speaker 2: I just got to say thanks again for the one

3474
02:58:18,959 --> 02:58:22,320
Speaker 2: hundred buck tip. Maybe the donation link job no less

3475
02:58:22,400 --> 02:58:25,600
Speaker 2: drip drop Johnny take it away from here.

3476
02:58:25,800 --> 02:58:30,600
Speaker 4: MJ grow two bucks. There's way more. I'm guessing more candies, cud.

3477
02:58:30,840 --> 02:58:32,160
Speaker 2: The candy is so good.

3478
02:58:32,440 --> 02:58:36,280
Speaker 7: Fire Jojo forty five x for twenty twenty five buck

3479
02:58:36,320 --> 02:58:38,880
Speaker 7: tip on the donation link. Hi everyone, Hey Jojo, you

3480
02:58:39,040 --> 02:58:42,280
Speaker 7: rock one buck tip from stan Lee Costa. If we

3481
02:58:42,400 --> 02:58:44,240
Speaker 7: all donate one dollar, we'll get another hour.

3482
02:58:45,280 --> 02:58:47,440
Speaker 4: Math. That's math. That's all I'm saying.

3483
02:58:47,680 --> 02:58:51,520
Speaker 7: That's all you're saying, uh, Baby god Zig, Gabby b

3484
02:58:52,160 --> 02:58:54,680
Speaker 7: Hi okop, thanks for the five buck tip. I hope

3485
02:58:54,720 --> 02:58:56,920
Speaker 7: you guys can give opinions on my okop Reddit post

3486
02:58:57,040 --> 02:59:00,560
Speaker 7: under GBN animal lover. Uh, we love you all and

3487
02:59:00,760 --> 02:59:03,959
Speaker 7: hope someone gives us another hour. Well, Gabby, we're really close,

3488
02:59:04,040 --> 02:59:04,440
Speaker 7: and thank you.

3489
02:59:04,480 --> 02:59:07,359
Speaker 4: For sending your story. We're starting to grab a ton.

3490
02:59:07,440 --> 02:59:10,800
Speaker 2: From seventy people. Don't one dollar? We get another hour?

3491
02:59:10,920 --> 02:59:13,959
Speaker 4: Were there? Uh baby Godzilla? Thanks on a five bucks tip.

3492
02:59:14,040 --> 02:59:16,720
Speaker 4: We now have fan rolls that show up on the side.

3493
02:59:16,959 --> 02:59:18,640
Speaker 4: We can see who the fans are online. Is that

3494
02:59:18,840 --> 02:59:21,240
Speaker 4: we were talking about earlier with the badges. We're over,

3495
02:59:21,480 --> 02:59:21,840
Speaker 4: We're over.

3496
02:59:21,959 --> 02:59:23,680
Speaker 5: We just let me add that twenty gifted.

3497
02:59:24,360 --> 02:59:25,080
Speaker 3: We are at.

3498
02:59:25,120 --> 02:59:28,240
Speaker 4: Another hour risk.

3499
02:59:29,840 --> 02:59:34,240
Speaker 3: Tweveland just tipped one hundred dollars. I hope to.

3500
02:59:34,560 --> 02:59:39,040
Speaker 4: Something give you all juicy stories. Oh my goodness, we

3501
02:59:39,840 --> 02:59:41,120
Speaker 4: got Let's go back.

3502
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Speaker 7: Let's go okay, yeah, let's let's go back in order

3503
02:59:48,320 --> 02:59:49,200
Speaker 7: and get everyone there.

3504
02:59:49,280 --> 02:59:50,960
Speaker 4: They're they're just dous here. We did get Thank you,

3505
02:59:51,440 --> 02:59:54,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Okay, we're gonna get to it.

3506
02:59:54,920 --> 02:59:58,600
Speaker 7: Uh fifty bucks from a slily Tovez. Please no more chewing.

3507
02:59:58,760 --> 03:00:00,600
Speaker 7: I love you guys, one more hour place, thank you

3508
03:00:00,640 --> 03:00:04,959
Speaker 7: for fifty dollars donation. Insane shoutout Pumpkin for the two bucks.

3509
03:00:05,040 --> 03:00:07,360
Speaker 7: Please like and subscribe Shadow Pumpkin, I couldn't have said

3510
03:00:07,360 --> 03:00:07,520
Speaker 7: it better.

3511
03:00:07,879 --> 03:00:10,280
Speaker 2: So if you haven't liked to stream, what are you doing?

3512
03:00:10,320 --> 03:00:11,480
Speaker 2: You even want to spend the wheel more?

3513
03:00:12,879 --> 03:00:15,080
Speaker 3: I have a really fun spin the wheel idea on there.

3514
03:00:15,280 --> 03:00:16,920
Speaker 2: I've loved every spin the wheel so far.

3515
03:00:17,320 --> 03:00:21,080
Speaker 4: Those hard it's a great idea, hard money idea.

3516
03:00:21,160 --> 03:00:22,320
Speaker 3: But I made up an idea.

3517
03:00:22,640 --> 03:00:23,800
Speaker 5: Ooh, maybe we.

3518
03:00:23,840 --> 03:00:26,000
Speaker 2: Land on it, and also subscribe if you haven't subscribed already,

3519
03:00:26,040 --> 03:00:28,599
Speaker 2: come on, we do it, shouts.

3520
03:00:28,240 --> 03:00:29,960
Speaker 7: If you take me with a ten twenty nine donation,

3521
03:00:30,400 --> 03:00:33,240
Speaker 7: come on one more hour. I have a I have

3522
03:00:33,360 --> 03:00:36,280
Speaker 7: half a game of bowling left. Are you going right now?

3523
03:00:36,760 --> 03:00:38,400
Speaker 3: Are you like bowling? And then you come back and

3524
03:00:38,520 --> 03:00:39,480
Speaker 3: watches that?

3525
03:00:39,720 --> 03:00:43,600
Speaker 2: If you are, can you please send the picture of that? Yes,

3526
03:00:44,160 --> 03:00:47,000
Speaker 2: send a picture of the stream and you bowling, because

3527
03:00:47,080 --> 03:00:48,680
Speaker 2: I have I don't know what that looks like. That

3528
03:00:48,720 --> 03:00:51,840
Speaker 2: would be amazing. And then Tweveland again for the one

3529
03:00:51,959 --> 03:00:55,520
Speaker 2: hundred dollars donation. One hundred dollars just incredible and.

3530
03:00:56,000 --> 03:00:59,680
Speaker 4: John what through the donation link through the donation.

3531
03:01:00,080 --> 03:01:02,199
Speaker 3: Don't so naous, it's just too.

3532
03:01:02,160 --> 03:01:03,520
Speaker 4: Amazing, amazing.

3533
03:01:03,720 --> 03:01:08,160
Speaker 7: I'm overwhelmed and more overwhelmed with Christian foil Hat gifting

3534
03:01:09,480 --> 03:01:14,000
Speaker 7: two zero twenty gifted memberships. Most gifted memberships have the

3535
03:01:14,040 --> 03:01:17,320
Speaker 7: streams so far in one go heck yeah, Christian Foyle,

3536
03:01:17,640 --> 03:01:18,960
Speaker 7: awesome way to donate to the stream.

3537
03:01:19,000 --> 03:01:21,160
Speaker 4: We love it. M Kat, thank you for the for

3538
03:01:21,240 --> 03:01:22,520
Speaker 4: the donation. For the one buck.

3539
03:01:22,600 --> 03:01:24,760
Speaker 7: Let's go when we're hour and we got there, We

3540
03:01:24,840 --> 03:01:28,680
Speaker 7: got there and then uh, Tia Rovetti, one hundred dollars.

3541
03:01:29,400 --> 03:01:33,960
Speaker 2: Not my bedtime yet, keep going, Tia, We're doing it.

3542
03:01:34,360 --> 03:01:38,280
Speaker 2: This this feels reminiscent. I feel like we're getting to

3543
03:01:38,440 --> 03:01:43,560
Speaker 2: the ridiculousness of our previous seven hour streams.

3544
03:01:43,720 --> 03:01:46,280
Speaker 3: I we'll need to leave.

3545
03:01:47,400 --> 03:01:50,720
Speaker 2: I feel like we're getting tuged. I'm buckled in. John's

3546
03:01:50,760 --> 03:01:52,640
Speaker 2: buckled in. We're buckled. We're buckled.

3547
03:01:53,080 --> 03:01:54,400
Speaker 4: If it comes to that, if it comes to that,

3548
03:01:54,480 --> 03:01:56,680
Speaker 4: we'll see, we'll see. Talk to Sam.

3549
03:01:56,760 --> 03:01:59,440
Speaker 3: Wanted to go see Jazz. I don't know if that's happening.

3550
03:02:01,000 --> 03:02:04,040
Speaker 4: Five buck tip for the Royal family. Thank you, Riba,

3551
03:02:04,520 --> 03:02:06,840
Speaker 4: thank you, I appreciate it's.

3552
03:02:07,000 --> 03:02:11,520
Speaker 7: Thanks VIDEOGRAPHO for the one hundred dollars donation absolutely incredible,

3553
03:02:11,600 --> 03:02:13,240
Speaker 7: and VIDEOGRAPHA has has.

3554
03:02:13,160 --> 03:02:18,400
Speaker 2: Been out there can talk about. I feel like almost

3555
03:02:18,480 --> 03:02:21,360
Speaker 2: like almost every stream I've seen videograph.

3556
03:02:21,160 --> 03:02:23,520
Speaker 7: I cannot remember a stream without VIDEOGRAPHO coming in and

3557
03:02:23,560 --> 03:02:24,720
Speaker 7: supporting and being an amazing unit.

3558
03:02:25,040 --> 03:02:25,680
Speaker 3: Can't remember one.

3559
03:02:26,280 --> 03:02:28,879
Speaker 7: I should get. I should get Discord. You absolutely should

3560
03:02:29,000 --> 03:02:31,080
Speaker 7: so I can post a scary picking story. I have

3561
03:02:31,240 --> 03:02:33,720
Speaker 7: to go with Uh, I have to go with it.

3562
03:02:33,879 --> 03:02:37,920
Speaker 7: Everyone said I need to sage my house after this happened.

3563
03:02:37,959 --> 03:02:39,560
Speaker 7: Loll VIDEOGRAPHO do.

3564
03:02:39,600 --> 03:02:41,880
Speaker 2: It right now, Discords free, do it just you can,

3565
03:02:42,080 --> 03:02:44,279
Speaker 2: like you could just click the link in our description

3566
03:02:44,840 --> 03:02:46,080
Speaker 2: and join join the discord.

3567
03:02:46,120 --> 03:02:46,760
Speaker 4: What are you doing there?

3568
03:02:46,800 --> 03:02:49,200
Speaker 7: You're part of the family videograph You can make memes

3569
03:02:49,280 --> 03:02:52,280
Speaker 7: and we'll lead them. Thanks for to two buck tip

3570
03:02:52,320 --> 03:02:55,640
Speaker 7: from Skulls and Unicorns. Thank you for the one buck

3571
03:02:55,680 --> 03:02:58,400
Speaker 7: tip from Mac. I'm broke, but I love you all guys. Uh,

3572
03:02:59,360 --> 03:03:02,520
Speaker 7: meet a bear, meat and greet all, buy all drinks.

3573
03:03:03,000 --> 03:03:05,240
Speaker 7: I'm wearing a barrier shirt right now.

3574
03:03:05,560 --> 03:03:09,400
Speaker 2: We are planning very very soon do a pop up event.

3575
03:03:09,560 --> 03:03:11,120
Speaker 3: So we're going to pop up.

3576
03:03:12,840 --> 03:03:15,959
Speaker 2: Yeah that's right, Yeah, I.

3577
03:03:18,640 --> 03:03:18,920
Speaker 4: Want to.

3578
03:03:19,280 --> 03:03:21,680
Speaker 3: I'm actually, speaking of your shirt, John, how many Rolling

3579
03:03:21,720 --> 03:03:22,600
Speaker 3: Loud shirts do you have?

3580
03:03:23,879 --> 03:03:26,960
Speaker 7: I feel like I got a little There was like

3581
03:03:27,040 --> 03:03:30,320
Speaker 7: a box that was fairly priced, and then I got

3582
03:03:30,360 --> 03:03:32,279
Speaker 7: a new and you know what I like to do, sofia.

3583
03:03:32,200 --> 03:03:33,640
Speaker 3: The nice shirts. I'm just wondering.

3584
03:03:33,680 --> 03:03:35,440
Speaker 4: I get a new thing, I like to wear it

3585
03:03:35,720 --> 03:03:37,200
Speaker 4: because it's fun.

3586
03:03:38,320 --> 03:03:40,520
Speaker 3: I'm not shaming you, it's just it's not even like

3587
03:03:40,560 --> 03:03:43,120
Speaker 3: you've been wearing the same shirt over it's just like

3588
03:03:43,200 --> 03:03:47,279
Speaker 3: wearing different Rolling Loud shirts. How many Rolling Loud shirts

3589
03:03:47,440 --> 03:03:49,680
Speaker 3: does one person one, John have?

3590
03:03:50,000 --> 03:03:52,760
Speaker 2: I have four in a sweater now, okay, because of

3591
03:03:52,920 --> 03:03:55,200
Speaker 2: my god, we're one we're one hundred dollars away from

3592
03:03:55,280 --> 03:03:56,440
Speaker 2: another hour.

3593
03:03:56,720 --> 03:03:59,960
Speaker 4: My god, that's crazy going. Okay, let's let's let's get

3594
03:04:00,240 --> 03:04:00,840
Speaker 4: all the nights d.

3595
03:04:01,000 --> 03:04:03,760
Speaker 3: I was invited to go to uh to go do

3596
03:04:04,160 --> 03:04:05,959
Speaker 3: what's it called when you answered.

3597
03:04:05,840 --> 03:04:07,520
Speaker 4: Questions unfinished thoughts?

3598
03:04:07,680 --> 03:04:11,800
Speaker 3: No, when you go to answer questions damn wait, I

3599
03:04:11,879 --> 03:04:16,119
Speaker 3: have the text pulled up for the donation. Yeah, yeah,

3600
03:04:16,120 --> 03:04:18,440
Speaker 3: I was invited to trivia and it doesn't seem like that's.

3601
03:04:18,360 --> 03:04:19,280
Speaker 5: Kind of Oh.

3602
03:04:19,720 --> 03:04:22,120
Speaker 4: I was like, where is this? I never Tuesday?

3603
03:04:22,480 --> 03:04:24,720
Speaker 3: I never make plans on a Tuesday, So don't come

3604
03:04:24,800 --> 03:04:27,680
Speaker 3: at me because y'all always make plans on a Tuesday.

3605
03:04:28,480 --> 03:04:29,920
Speaker 4: I never make plans on a Tuesday.

3606
03:04:30,000 --> 03:04:31,400
Speaker 5: I didn't even say I agreed to it.

3607
03:04:31,560 --> 03:04:32,879
Speaker 2: I just said Tuesday.

3608
03:04:33,000 --> 03:04:33,880
Speaker 3: I was invited.

3609
03:04:34,400 --> 03:04:35,240
Speaker 4: What is Tuesday?

3610
03:04:35,640 --> 03:04:36,400
Speaker 3: Who is Tuesday?

3611
03:04:36,440 --> 03:04:37,240
Speaker 2: Which is Tuesday?

3612
03:04:37,480 --> 03:04:38,360
Speaker 4: But this stream?

3613
03:04:38,680 --> 03:04:41,520
Speaker 7: Shout out Eric for the twenty buck tip, All hail

3614
03:04:42,000 --> 03:04:48,280
Speaker 7: the when Queen, and shout out Kitana Montana for the

3615
03:04:48,320 --> 03:04:50,440
Speaker 7: five buck tip on the donation link to fight against

3616
03:04:50,440 --> 03:04:51,800
Speaker 7: stinky men and stinky women.

3617
03:04:52,200 --> 03:04:55,600
Speaker 4: Every one, stay clean and fresh. Five dollars for some

3618
03:04:55,800 --> 03:04:57,160
Speaker 4: soap scrub dub dub.

3619
03:04:57,440 --> 03:05:01,039
Speaker 2: It'll be funny if at least a soap fragrant fellows.

3620
03:05:01,920 --> 03:05:04,119
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I would love or a candle.

3621
03:05:09,160 --> 03:05:10,440
Speaker 12: My brain is breaking.

3622
03:05:11,440 --> 03:05:12,400
Speaker 5: What is happening?

3623
03:05:13,120 --> 03:05:13,800
Speaker 4: The bar broke?

3624
03:05:14,000 --> 03:05:14,360
Speaker 5: Keep going?

3625
03:05:14,440 --> 03:05:15,240
Speaker 3: The bar broke?

3626
03:05:15,320 --> 03:05:20,480
Speaker 4: Okay, keep going? My cat failed clown school. Uh, just

3627
03:05:20,560 --> 03:05:21,320
Speaker 4: going out a little.

3628
03:05:21,120 --> 03:05:23,960
Speaker 5: Bit from Riley. Let me go do that, guys, everyone,

3629
03:05:24,040 --> 03:05:25,800
Speaker 5: the bar broke. Let me fix it. Yeah, the we're

3630
03:05:25,800 --> 03:05:26,560
Speaker 5: going for another hour.

3631
03:05:26,760 --> 03:05:31,320
Speaker 7: Yes, I've got a petty revenge roommate story in my drafts.

3632
03:05:31,360 --> 03:05:32,480
Speaker 7: Do you think you guys would read it?

3633
03:05:32,600 --> 03:05:33,039
Speaker 4: Love you all?

3634
03:05:33,080 --> 03:05:33,280
Speaker 2: Worm.

3635
03:05:33,360 --> 03:05:36,360
Speaker 7: Queen Sophia is supreme worl my cat failed clown school.

3636
03:05:36,560 --> 03:05:38,520
Speaker 7: Please submit it to our slash o Campa. We would

3637
03:05:38,520 --> 03:05:40,640
Speaker 7: love to see it because also we love seeing what

3638
03:05:40,800 --> 03:05:43,000
Speaker 7: other people in the community think of your story as well,

3639
03:05:43,640 --> 03:05:46,560
Speaker 7: So please send it in We would love to peep it.

3640
03:05:47,120 --> 03:05:50,320
Speaker 4: The Rachel the Axe Hatchet, I've gifted.

3641
03:05:50,120 --> 03:05:54,040
Speaker 7: Memberships, given to the community, giving back to the community.

3642
03:05:55,200 --> 03:05:58,160
Speaker 4: Alexis for the idiot, said tip high from the Philippine.

3643
03:05:58,760 --> 03:06:03,640
Speaker 7: Hello, and then Rachel the ax Hatchet, dang near back

3644
03:06:03,680 --> 03:06:07,760
Speaker 7: to back one hundred dollar donation, Ladies and gentlemen, one

3645
03:06:07,840 --> 03:06:13,440
Speaker 7: hundred dollars donation will occur the greatest, the greatest, Thank

3646
03:06:13,480 --> 03:06:16,080
Speaker 7: you Rachel for being incredible as you always are just

3647
03:06:16,160 --> 03:06:16,680
Speaker 7: by existing.

3648
03:06:19,400 --> 03:06:22,240
Speaker 4: I know the one hundred dollars for videographo.

3649
03:06:22,760 --> 03:06:26,039
Speaker 7: Also I need two faith colors and two faith animals

3650
03:06:26,120 --> 03:06:29,480
Speaker 7: from all four of you for a thing video grapho.

3651
03:06:29,560 --> 03:06:30,400
Speaker 4: What should we do right now?

3652
03:06:30,720 --> 03:06:31,080
Speaker 5: There you go?

3653
03:06:31,440 --> 03:06:36,520
Speaker 2: Okay, you go first? Uh blue and yellow because U

3654
03:06:36,600 --> 03:06:40,680
Speaker 2: c LA colors. Let's go, and two faith animals, Uh,

3655
03:06:42,640 --> 03:06:44,480
Speaker 2: chameleon and.

3656
03:06:47,040 --> 03:06:47,320
Speaker 4: Whale.

3657
03:06:48,560 --> 03:06:52,240
Speaker 3: You can think of two animals purple and green? Two

3658
03:06:52,440 --> 03:06:56,040
Speaker 3: can too, Can's classic for you classic? But I can't

3659
03:06:56,040 --> 03:07:00,400
Speaker 3: think of the can for t can for Halloween when

3660
03:07:00,400 --> 03:07:02,800
Speaker 3: you're twelve. I can't think of a second animal.

3661
03:07:03,360 --> 03:07:07,480
Speaker 2: Any animals. I won't think of any no lemur, that's good.

3662
03:07:07,480 --> 03:07:11,040
Speaker 2: One monkey, what's the flying fang?

3663
03:07:11,080 --> 03:07:13,760
Speaker 4: One sugar sugar baby, sugar baby.

3664
03:07:13,879 --> 03:07:15,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, sugar baby, I'll.

3665
03:07:15,400 --> 03:07:21,560
Speaker 7: Do that, okay, I will take hippopotamus, platypus blue and

3666
03:07:21,840 --> 03:07:22,680
Speaker 7: red mm.

3667
03:07:23,959 --> 03:07:26,880
Speaker 8: I like rhinos and I also like Chinese dragons, but

3668
03:07:26,959 --> 03:07:30,280
Speaker 8: you can do And I love navy and green. I'm

3669
03:07:30,280 --> 03:07:31,520
Speaker 8: filling a navy and green for Oh.

3670
03:07:31,640 --> 03:07:32,920
Speaker 3: I guess an animal is a worm?

3671
03:07:34,680 --> 03:07:36,720
Speaker 4: Is that that animal?

3672
03:07:36,920 --> 03:07:37,120
Speaker 10: Yeah?

3673
03:07:37,600 --> 03:07:41,320
Speaker 5: If that's so, I like a dragon worm and can.

3674
03:07:41,720 --> 03:07:42,280
Speaker 2: Worm can.

3675
03:07:45,480 --> 03:07:47,360
Speaker 4: Are cool? Videographa.

3676
03:07:47,400 --> 03:07:49,080
Speaker 2: Thank you again for supporting the stream.

3677
03:07:49,160 --> 03:07:50,440
Speaker 4: We appreciate you big donation.

3678
03:07:50,680 --> 03:07:53,360
Speaker 7: Guys, you want to take away the rest there out

3679
03:07:53,440 --> 03:07:55,200
Speaker 7: of the gutierres.

3680
03:07:56,000 --> 03:07:59,160
Speaker 2: The whole gang is here. Watch your first seven hour

3681
03:07:59,280 --> 03:08:02,680
Speaker 2: stream today. You guys are so excited. John missed out,

3682
03:08:03,120 --> 03:08:06,720
Speaker 2: Sam yelled in horror, and Sofia was delusional. Riley read

3683
03:08:06,760 --> 03:08:08,560
Speaker 2: for the first time. I love you guys. Yeah, the

3684
03:08:08,640 --> 03:08:13,199
Speaker 2: seven hour streams always just like, just go into anarchy.

3685
03:08:13,320 --> 03:08:14,720
Speaker 4: It's true, it is, it's true.

3686
03:08:14,760 --> 03:08:18,640
Speaker 2: It's a beautiful anarchy. Mister Mingus fat Cats, thanks for

3687
03:08:18,680 --> 03:08:21,320
Speaker 2: the two buck tip and through the tipink tiplink no

3688
03:08:21,480 --> 03:08:26,600
Speaker 2: less and if you want to donate through the tiplingk

3689
03:08:26,640 --> 03:08:29,360
Speaker 2: so YouTube doesn't take thirty percent, you can go into

3690
03:08:29,680 --> 03:08:32,800
Speaker 2: our description. Thank you from New Zealand have gotten me

3691
03:08:32,840 --> 03:08:35,240
Speaker 2: through some difficult stuff. Well we're glad that we could

3692
03:08:35,240 --> 03:08:37,520
Speaker 2: help you with that, looking forward to my divorce party

3693
03:08:37,560 --> 03:08:40,440
Speaker 2: in a few weeks to divorce all Hail the worm Queen.

3694
03:08:41,040 --> 03:08:42,600
Speaker 2: If there is a juicy story you want to share

3695
03:08:42,600 --> 03:08:44,280
Speaker 2: behind that, you should submit it to our summrate so

3696
03:08:44,280 --> 03:08:44,720
Speaker 2: we can read it.

3697
03:08:45,120 --> 03:08:45,760
Speaker 11: And then.

3698
03:08:48,200 --> 03:08:52,440
Speaker 2: Lissandra Rivera thanks to the two bucks. Y'all messing with

3699
03:08:52,720 --> 03:08:56,520
Speaker 2: John today? When do we not all on on the minute?

3700
03:08:57,360 --> 03:09:01,880
Speaker 3: I have a story to tell. This morning, I was

3701
03:09:02,520 --> 03:09:07,120
Speaker 3: dutifully doing my okayop tasks. I had finished them all,

3702
03:09:07,560 --> 03:09:11,680
Speaker 3: and John was getting on my behind about it. He's like, oh,

3703
03:09:11,920 --> 03:09:15,800
Speaker 3: you haven't done this and this. He was bullying me.

3704
03:09:16,280 --> 03:09:20,959
Speaker 2: We were bullying Sophia because all right, but honestly, when

3705
03:09:21,040 --> 03:09:25,040
Speaker 2: Sophia joined the okop team, there are two things that

3706
03:09:25,160 --> 03:09:28,480
Speaker 2: we need them to download that every person that has

3707
03:09:28,560 --> 03:09:30,080
Speaker 2: joined the okop team has done.

3708
03:09:31,360 --> 03:09:32,560
Speaker 3: No one informed me of this.

3709
03:09:33,200 --> 03:09:38,480
Speaker 8: One of them, and you fought it and you still

3710
03:09:38,520 --> 03:09:39,480
Speaker 8: fight it till this day.

3711
03:09:40,080 --> 03:09:42,840
Speaker 4: Do you download it? Yes, but you don't use it? Yes?

3712
03:09:42,959 --> 03:09:43,160
Speaker 1: I do.

3713
03:09:43,720 --> 03:09:45,240
Speaker 5: Bryant's put the sop in there.

3714
03:09:45,959 --> 03:09:48,600
Speaker 4: Anyway, we're gonna get back to stories because we've been

3715
03:09:48,720 --> 03:09:51,360
Speaker 4: bully drop.

3716
03:09:51,560 --> 03:09:53,039
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks. I feel like I caused

3717
03:09:53,080 --> 03:09:55,520
Speaker 2: a riot and stole two hours of your lives. Hey,

3718
03:09:55,680 --> 03:09:58,840
Speaker 2: we will gladly sacrifice two hours for the okay gang?

3719
03:09:59,040 --> 03:09:59,920
Speaker 3: What are two hours?

3720
03:10:00,400 --> 03:10:01,920
Speaker 4: The tom Let's thanks for the.

3721
03:10:01,959 --> 03:10:09,200
Speaker 2: Five gifted memberships. We appreciate you. Oh Stelenna become a

3722
03:10:09,240 --> 03:10:11,320
Speaker 2: member of the Little Sillies. My day feels incomplete when

3723
03:10:11,320 --> 03:10:13,360
Speaker 2: I don't hear voices and thanks Little Sillies for the

3724
03:10:13,360 --> 03:10:16,360
Speaker 2: free memberships. Stelenna were thank you, thankful for you for

3725
03:10:16,440 --> 03:10:17,160
Speaker 2: being a new member.

3726
03:10:17,240 --> 03:10:20,439
Speaker 4: And it looks like continuing it with the one month anniversary.

3727
03:10:20,640 --> 03:10:23,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well the anniversary we're going to have for

3728
03:10:23,600 --> 03:10:26,280
Speaker 2: everyone who continues for two months and our Little Sillies

3729
03:10:26,320 --> 03:10:28,200
Speaker 2: we're gonna have like some special things for you coming soon.

3730
03:10:28,640 --> 03:10:28,879
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3731
03:10:28,959 --> 03:10:32,840
Speaker 2: And finally, before we get back to the stories, the

3732
03:10:32,959 --> 03:10:35,240
Speaker 2: Yorkshire Mermaid with the two buck tip two am over here.

3733
03:10:35,320 --> 03:10:40,280
Speaker 4: Sofia, you old mount your mom My Old Mount is

3734
03:10:40,360 --> 03:10:40,920
Speaker 4: ready to send.

3735
03:10:41,080 --> 03:10:43,039
Speaker 3: Yes, what is that I told you about it? It's

3736
03:10:43,120 --> 03:10:46,240
Speaker 3: the the British cider that I had when I was

3737
03:10:46,320 --> 03:10:48,440
Speaker 3: in the UK, or it's the well it's actually a

3738
03:10:48,440 --> 03:10:49,240
Speaker 3: New Zealand sider.

3739
03:10:49,320 --> 03:10:50,920
Speaker 2: I haven't had a chance of the post office yet,

3740
03:10:50,959 --> 03:10:52,640
Speaker 2: but we'll try to get it soon. Big love to

3741
03:10:52,720 --> 03:10:54,200
Speaker 2: you all and the worm army.

3742
03:10:54,360 --> 03:10:57,880
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. The Yorkshire mermamate. I cannot tell

3743
03:10:57,920 --> 03:10:58,840
Speaker 3: you how excited I am.

3744
03:10:59,040 --> 03:11:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what, we're excited for?

3745
03:11:01,200 --> 03:11:03,520
Speaker 4: What two more hours.

3746
03:11:04,520 --> 03:11:06,640
Speaker 2: Hours of the stream. That means we are at least

3747
03:11:06,680 --> 03:11:09,760
Speaker 2: going to eight twenty over here.

3748
03:11:10,000 --> 03:11:12,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me tis my friend real quick.

3749
03:11:13,400 --> 03:11:15,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what we've gotten into.

3750
03:11:16,280 --> 03:11:18,560
Speaker 2: We haven't quite got it into delirium, but we have

3751
03:11:18,760 --> 03:11:25,120
Speaker 2: gotten into canceling plans time. Yes what, Yeah, let's have

3752
03:11:25,200 --> 03:11:27,240
Speaker 2: it on tap. Let's have it on tap just in case. Yeah,

3753
03:11:27,280 --> 03:11:29,600
Speaker 2: we have gotten to canceling plans time, which is when

3754
03:11:29,640 --> 03:11:31,520
Speaker 2: we get into a delirious stream. That is the first

3755
03:11:31,680 --> 03:11:33,800
Speaker 2: that is like the one of the horsemen of.

3756
03:11:33,800 --> 03:11:36,800
Speaker 4: The yes stages of delirious stream.

3757
03:11:36,920 --> 03:11:39,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that that is the first thing that happens

3758
03:11:39,879 --> 03:11:43,680
Speaker 2: at the Canary and the Cold Mine, Cold Mine when

3759
03:11:43,760 --> 03:11:46,280
Speaker 2: Sofia and everyone else starts canceling plans.

3760
03:11:47,320 --> 03:11:49,400
Speaker 3: Usually I don't have to cancel plans because i't have

3761
03:11:49,440 --> 03:11:52,480
Speaker 3: plans to cancel. But I was just invited earlier today

3762
03:11:53,080 --> 03:11:55,640
Speaker 3: to cancel I mean two plans, But now I have

3763
03:11:55,720 --> 03:11:56,080
Speaker 3: to cancel.

3764
03:11:56,120 --> 03:11:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm going to cancel my plans. We are canceling plans.

3765
03:11:59,480 --> 03:12:01,400
Speaker 4: I'm going to do nothing because I had.

3766
03:12:01,800 --> 03:12:05,440
Speaker 2: Because the stream is going to go.

3767
03:12:06,600 --> 03:12:10,240
Speaker 7: But always some comments too, Sophia Klan Uh if they're

3768
03:12:10,280 --> 03:12:13,160
Speaker 7: not fun, Let's see what do you got to tell me?

3769
03:12:13,240 --> 03:12:13,440
Speaker 4: Guys?

3770
03:12:13,480 --> 03:12:18,600
Speaker 7: Okay, Little Silly's Fangirl says, uh, yeah, what's the update

3771
03:12:18,680 --> 03:12:21,800
Speaker 7: on the new rebranding and whatnot? Okay, So Little Silly's

3772
03:12:21,800 --> 03:12:27,480
Speaker 7: fangle Sam has been hard at work, our designer, absolutely

3773
03:12:27,920 --> 03:12:33,400
Speaker 7: just going so deep and trying to see what amazing

3774
03:12:33,440 --> 03:12:35,080
Speaker 7: branding we could come up with for y'all.

3775
03:12:35,200 --> 03:12:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, it is coming. There is a rebrand coming.

3776
03:12:38,040 --> 03:12:40,440
Speaker 2: It's gonna be very cool. Some of you have been like,

3777
03:12:40,800 --> 03:12:43,480
Speaker 2: where are Sophia and Riley on the branding? I just

3778
03:12:43,560 --> 03:12:49,200
Speaker 2: says Sam and John we agree, we are uh we

3779
03:12:49,400 --> 03:12:52,199
Speaker 2: we are in the throws.

3780
03:12:52,480 --> 03:12:53,040
Speaker 4: Of changing it.

3781
03:12:53,400 --> 03:12:55,240
Speaker 2: So you're getting an inside coop.

3782
03:12:56,120 --> 03:12:59,000
Speaker 7: And duchess Cassanda says, on John, at least you have us,

3783
03:12:59,240 --> 03:13:01,280
Speaker 7: You have plans to over six hundred people here on

3784
03:13:01,360 --> 03:13:01,760
Speaker 7: the stream.

3785
03:13:02,400 --> 03:13:05,000
Speaker 4: That's right. See, I made plans with six hundred of

3786
03:13:05,040 --> 03:13:07,320
Speaker 4: my friends. There we go take that.

3787
03:13:08,040 --> 03:13:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, John's loyal, but you know what I'm loyal to?

3788
03:13:11,280 --> 03:13:14,520
Speaker 2: What this next story.

3789
03:13:15,720 --> 03:13:16,680
Speaker 3: For thirty eight?

3790
03:13:20,920 --> 03:13:24,480
Speaker 2: Well, thirty eight s two Little Silly's fangirl says, so deep?

3791
03:13:25,000 --> 03:13:26,000
Speaker 2: Dang straight?

3792
03:13:27,440 --> 03:13:31,480
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, you know it's so deep. Would I be

3793
03:13:31,600 --> 03:13:35,360
Speaker 3: the a hole for telling my husband to drop his

3794
03:13:35,560 --> 03:13:38,480
Speaker 3: female friend because of a text she sent?

3795
03:13:39,040 --> 03:13:40,720
Speaker 4: Was it a guys?

3796
03:13:40,760 --> 03:13:47,959
Speaker 3: Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, this comes straight from our slash.

3797
03:13:47,680 --> 03:13:52,440
Speaker 2: Okay, oh, our slash okop show our little community on Reddit.

3798
03:13:52,920 --> 03:13:54,160
Speaker 2: It's mid a story there if you want.

3799
03:13:54,080 --> 03:13:55,400
Speaker 4: It to be read from.

3800
03:13:57,280 --> 03:14:00,960
Speaker 3: Am wishes or throw our a crazy one. I don't

3801
03:14:00,959 --> 03:14:05,840
Speaker 3: know which one. Okay says So I'll start by saying,

3802
03:14:05,959 --> 03:14:09,400
Speaker 3: I'm generally quite a secure person and I've never felt

3803
03:14:09,480 --> 03:14:11,520
Speaker 3: like I had any issues around this until i read

3804
03:14:11,560 --> 03:14:15,440
Speaker 3: a message message a message sent to my husband yesterday,

3805
03:14:15,520 --> 03:14:19,560
Speaker 3: and I'm kind of spiraling. Ok Sorry, this may be long.

3806
03:14:20,240 --> 03:14:23,760
Speaker 3: For some backstory, my husband does downhill biking, has done

3807
03:14:23,800 --> 03:14:26,400
Speaker 3: since he was very young, knows his stuff. He's out

3808
03:14:26,400 --> 03:14:30,200
Speaker 3: there every day, generally rides with the same group of guys,

3809
03:14:30,320 --> 03:14:33,400
Speaker 3: but they mostly stick to weekends. My husband goes out

3810
03:14:33,440 --> 03:14:35,840
Speaker 3: every day of the weekend, oh, every day of the week,

3811
03:14:36,280 --> 03:14:38,600
Speaker 3: luckily because his job allows him to every.

3812
03:14:38,440 --> 03:14:40,720
Speaker 2: Day of the week mountain biking, though that takes a

3813
03:14:40,720 --> 03:14:41,199
Speaker 2: couple hours.

3814
03:14:41,320 --> 03:14:44,039
Speaker 3: I'm also realizing that this is not from an okop

3815
03:14:44,920 --> 03:14:48,200
Speaker 3: A little silly. This is a submitted story, but it

3816
03:14:48,320 --> 03:14:49,400
Speaker 3: was like from another thing.

3817
03:14:49,560 --> 03:14:50,400
Speaker 4: Which is cool too.

3818
03:14:50,760 --> 03:14:53,280
Speaker 2: If you guys see stories from other subreddits that you

3819
03:14:53,360 --> 03:14:55,600
Speaker 2: want us to read, put it in our sas okop

3820
03:14:55,760 --> 03:14:56,720
Speaker 2: Show or the discord.

3821
03:14:57,240 --> 03:15:00,960
Speaker 3: I just realized that's why there were two different things. Continue.

3822
03:15:01,560 --> 03:15:03,880
Speaker 3: If he's out on his own, generally weekdays, and the

3823
03:15:03,959 --> 03:15:06,120
Speaker 3: dogs are free, he'll take the dogs. They love it.

3824
03:15:06,920 --> 03:15:09,200
Speaker 3: So around six months ago, he was out in the

3825
03:15:09,280 --> 03:15:12,600
Speaker 3: morning with the dogs and ended up coming home earlier

3826
03:15:12,720 --> 03:15:15,400
Speaker 3: than usual. While he was out, he found this girl

3827
03:15:15,440 --> 03:15:18,360
Speaker 3: who fell off and had badly injured her arm slash wrist.

3828
03:15:18,879 --> 03:15:21,680
Speaker 3: As you can imagine, he's done the same numerous times.

3829
03:15:21,879 --> 03:15:23,760
Speaker 3: Knew exactly what to do and where to go to

3830
03:15:23,840 --> 03:15:24,280
Speaker 3: get seen.

3831
03:15:24,879 --> 03:15:27,280
Speaker 2: Quickly right now, he's a freakrant fellow helping rine.

3832
03:15:31,240 --> 03:15:33,440
Speaker 3: He got her to the car park, packed the dogs

3833
03:15:33,480 --> 03:15:35,400
Speaker 3: and bikes up, and took her to the GP, who

3834
03:15:35,480 --> 03:15:39,360
Speaker 3: referred her to hospital, and he came home all good.

3835
03:15:40,320 --> 03:15:42,280
Speaker 3: Around a week after this, one of the guys he

3836
03:15:42,400 --> 03:15:45,000
Speaker 3: rides with sent him a screenshot of a post in

3837
03:15:45,080 --> 03:15:48,400
Speaker 3: a Facebook group that was made for people specifically who

3838
03:15:48,480 --> 03:15:52,000
Speaker 3: build and maintain the bike trails. It went something like,

3839
03:15:52,760 --> 03:15:56,840
Speaker 3: I'm looking for someone called insert husband's name here who

3840
03:15:56,959 --> 03:15:58,680
Speaker 3: helped me last week when I fell and got me

3841
03:15:58,760 --> 03:16:03,160
Speaker 3: to a hospital. He drove husband's truck and had three dogs,

3842
03:16:03,400 --> 03:16:06,480
Speaker 3: then listed our dog's names. She had posted in a

3843
03:16:06,520 --> 03:16:08,640
Speaker 3: few groups before being linked to the group for the

3844
03:16:08,680 --> 03:16:11,520
Speaker 3: trail builders who my husband goes out there with. My

3845
03:16:11,720 --> 03:16:14,920
Speaker 3: husband isn't on social media, so he said he could

3846
03:16:14,920 --> 03:16:17,840
Speaker 3: send her his number. She texted him to double check

3847
03:16:18,000 --> 03:16:20,360
Speaker 3: she had the right person. He said it was and

3848
03:16:20,440 --> 03:16:22,320
Speaker 3: that he was glad she was feeling better and he

3849
03:16:22,440 --> 03:16:23,440
Speaker 3: was happy to help.

3850
03:16:23,920 --> 03:16:27,680
Speaker 2: Is it possible that she's doing this to try to

3851
03:16:28,120 --> 03:16:28,560
Speaker 2: date him?

3852
03:16:29,040 --> 03:16:33,000
Speaker 3: Could be? Could be? She offered him money or to

3853
03:16:33,160 --> 03:16:36,680
Speaker 3: take him to lunch uh oh, which he declined and

3854
03:16:36,879 --> 03:16:40,120
Speaker 3: just said again that he was happy to help. They

3855
03:16:40,240 --> 03:16:43,080
Speaker 3: text back and forth every now and then, her initiating,

3856
03:16:43,160 --> 03:16:46,039
Speaker 3: and it's mostly hey, how are you hope you're well?

3857
03:16:46,200 --> 03:16:49,840
Speaker 3: Et cetera. Until she starts getting better and can write again.

3858
03:16:50,160 --> 03:16:52,400
Speaker 3: It turned oh, until she starts getting better and can

3859
03:16:52,440 --> 03:16:56,200
Speaker 3: write again, when it turns to hey, we should hit

3860
03:16:56,240 --> 03:17:01,720
Speaker 3: the trail sometime. Na without dute horn for him, he's

3861
03:17:01,920 --> 03:17:06,360
Speaker 3: very good. Used to ride ride competitively when he was younger,

3862
03:17:06,520 --> 03:17:08,240
Speaker 3: saying with much of the guys he rides with.

3863
03:17:08,600 --> 03:17:10,039
Speaker 2: Okay, so he's a great mountains, he's a.

3864
03:17:10,120 --> 03:17:16,520
Speaker 3: Great Not to toot his horn, maybe a little. Most

3865
03:17:16,560 --> 03:17:18,960
Speaker 3: people at the park know who they are, and generally

3866
03:17:19,040 --> 03:17:20,920
Speaker 3: if they hear them coming, we'll just get to the

3867
03:17:21,000 --> 03:17:21,920
Speaker 3: side and watch.

3868
03:17:21,720 --> 03:17:23,160
Speaker 4: Them pass get out of his way.

3869
03:17:24,959 --> 03:17:27,520
Speaker 3: He tries to decline her offer in a way not

3870
03:17:27,720 --> 03:17:31,000
Speaker 3: to offend her, but there's no way she can keep

3871
03:17:31,120 --> 03:17:36,160
Speaker 3: up with them. Oh, shade, there's a section that's just

3872
03:17:36,280 --> 03:17:39,119
Speaker 3: big jumps to practice on. He says, maybe next time

3873
03:17:39,160 --> 03:17:40,760
Speaker 3: he's on those, he'll give her a shout and they

3874
03:17:40,760 --> 03:17:43,920
Speaker 3: can meet up there. Eventually that happens, and he gives

3875
03:17:43,959 --> 03:17:46,880
Speaker 3: her a few tips, which then turns into her texting

3876
03:17:46,959 --> 03:17:50,560
Speaker 3: him more often about biking, asking for him to tutor her,

3877
03:17:50,760 --> 03:17:52,040
Speaker 3: and just general stuff.

3878
03:17:52,280 --> 03:17:55,720
Speaker 4: She her not tutor, just tutor.

3879
03:17:56,720 --> 03:17:57,280
Speaker 2: She's flirting.

3880
03:17:58,800 --> 03:18:01,760
Speaker 7: She's like, give me some tips the persistences, yeah, and

3881
03:18:01,879 --> 03:18:03,840
Speaker 7: like finding all the excuses to get together.

3882
03:18:03,959 --> 03:18:07,279
Speaker 2: Kimberly Fine says she's for sure trying to write again.

3883
03:18:08,680 --> 03:18:11,760
Speaker 4: Bottom I want to.

3884
03:18:11,840 --> 03:18:16,040
Speaker 3: I won't make the joke, but I just know she

3885
03:18:16,200 --> 03:18:18,160
Speaker 3: wants the no.

3886
03:18:18,320 --> 03:18:18,880
Speaker 4: I don't want to.

3887
03:18:24,040 --> 03:18:25,600
Speaker 3: She wants the jip.

3888
03:18:34,160 --> 03:18:36,760
Speaker 4: Of us one of us us.

3889
03:18:40,560 --> 03:18:41,840
Speaker 3: I need a shock blanket.

3890
03:18:44,320 --> 03:18:45,800
Speaker 4: We have officially traumatized.

3891
03:18:46,440 --> 03:18:49,840
Speaker 3: Apologize to everyone in the stream, five hundred and eighty

3892
03:18:49,920 --> 03:18:52,360
Speaker 3: nine of you. It seems like four hundred people left.

3893
03:18:54,440 --> 03:18:57,760
Speaker 2: I was like, the biggest exodus that we've ever had.

3894
03:18:57,920 --> 03:19:04,320
Speaker 3: Did you leave? I hope not. Eventually that happens and

3895
03:19:04,400 --> 03:19:08,600
Speaker 3: he gives her a few tips, which then tur nice,

3896
03:19:10,240 --> 03:19:13,279
Speaker 3: which then turns into her texting him more often about biking,

3897
03:19:13,440 --> 03:19:15,920
Speaker 3: asking for him to tutor her, and just general.

3898
03:19:15,680 --> 03:19:19,920
Speaker 2: Stuff, asking him to way, asking her to tutor him

3899
03:19:20,320 --> 03:19:20,600
Speaker 2: or him.

3900
03:19:22,720 --> 03:19:26,000
Speaker 3: This goes on for the next couple months. There seems

3901
03:19:26,000 --> 03:19:28,800
Speaker 3: to be a friendship starting. I've never once had any

3902
03:19:28,879 --> 03:19:31,400
Speaker 3: concern about this and was quite happy for him to continue.

3903
03:19:31,959 --> 03:19:35,440
Speaker 3: And they do So yesterday Monday, he went out with

3904
03:19:35,520 --> 03:19:38,440
Speaker 3: the dogs and bumped into her. Said they spoke for

3905
03:19:38,520 --> 03:19:40,680
Speaker 3: a while and went on a cycle with the dogs

3906
03:19:40,720 --> 03:19:44,640
Speaker 3: to wind down before he came home. She started texting

3907
03:19:44,720 --> 03:19:47,119
Speaker 3: him when he got home, and I can see these

3908
03:19:47,160 --> 03:19:51,560
Speaker 3: messages coming through the iPad as I was using it.

3909
03:19:52,840 --> 03:19:56,680
Speaker 3: To be clear, he's not hiding the texts. He openly

3910
03:19:56,800 --> 03:19:59,520
Speaker 3: leaves his phone lying around, no pascod, let's her daughter

3911
03:19:59,560 --> 03:20:02,720
Speaker 3: play on it, happy for me to use it, doesn't

3912
03:20:02,720 --> 03:20:05,520
Speaker 3: get weird or secretive about it in the slightest. He

3913
03:20:05,680 --> 03:20:08,480
Speaker 3: knows the iPad and laptop or linked to his phone

3914
03:20:08,560 --> 03:20:10,600
Speaker 3: and it can all be seen by anyone using them.

3915
03:20:10,879 --> 03:20:14,600
Speaker 2: So basically it's like she's he's not trying to hide

3916
03:20:14,640 --> 03:20:17,240
Speaker 2: any messages from her, but she's seeing a Hella messages

3917
03:20:17,280 --> 03:20:17,800
Speaker 2: from this girl.

3918
03:20:17,920 --> 03:20:19,400
Speaker 4: This is odd, This is weird.

3919
03:20:20,080 --> 03:20:20,440
Speaker 3: Weird.

3920
03:20:22,920 --> 03:20:26,320
Speaker 2: Also, everyone in YouTube, how many people are in there? Yeah,

3921
03:20:26,800 --> 03:20:28,360
Speaker 2: because it said it went down a couple of hundred,

3922
03:20:28,440 --> 03:20:29,680
Speaker 2: but I think maybe we were.

3923
03:20:29,840 --> 03:20:32,959
Speaker 3: Maybe there's just an air maybe or maybe everyone just left.

3924
03:20:35,160 --> 03:20:38,440
Speaker 3: It's her. Oh, he has never given me any cause

3925
03:20:38,680 --> 03:20:41,960
Speaker 3: for concern. It's her intentions. I'm not too short on

3926
03:20:42,160 --> 03:20:46,240
Speaker 3: at this point. So anyway, the dogs. We have three

3927
03:20:46,480 --> 03:20:51,160
Speaker 3: working gun dogs used in the fields, regularly working gun dogs.

3928
03:20:52,400 --> 03:20:52,640
Speaker 4: Wow.

3929
03:20:52,760 --> 03:20:54,959
Speaker 3: And while they can look like they're running riot down

3930
03:20:55,000 --> 03:20:57,760
Speaker 3: these trails, they're extremely well trained and tuned in to

3931
03:20:57,840 --> 03:21:01,119
Speaker 3: whatever my husband is doing, which he comes more apparent

3932
03:21:01,200 --> 03:21:03,720
Speaker 3: when he's not on the trails and they're following, watching

3933
03:21:03,800 --> 03:21:06,800
Speaker 3: his every move. These texts started on about the dogs

3934
03:21:06,840 --> 03:21:10,199
Speaker 3: for a bit when she sent us text and the following,

3935
03:21:11,560 --> 03:21:16,360
Speaker 3: you like a slave looking to please their master, like.

3936
03:21:16,680 --> 03:21:20,119
Speaker 4: With uh this face, oh, with a smirky face.

3937
03:21:20,600 --> 03:21:22,560
Speaker 3: That is a really weird thing to say.

3938
03:21:22,840 --> 03:21:23,920
Speaker 4: That's what the girl.

3939
03:21:24,560 --> 03:21:27,279
Speaker 2: If you've got that smirky face on like a slave

3940
03:21:27,400 --> 03:21:32,560
Speaker 2: driving about her. The dogs already bad, already pretty bad.

3941
03:21:32,720 --> 03:21:34,920
Speaker 2: But when you add this smirky face.

3942
03:21:35,600 --> 03:21:39,680
Speaker 3: Very strange that that that is the band Just like

3943
03:21:40,240 --> 03:21:42,240
Speaker 3: who says that phrase?

3944
03:21:43,680 --> 03:21:45,600
Speaker 2: People that are whack dude, Like, that's so weird.

3945
03:21:45,680 --> 03:21:50,520
Speaker 3: Lissandros Rivera says, we gained fifty because joke, I see,

3946
03:21:51,360 --> 03:21:56,320
Speaker 3: you see, and we will be creating.

3947
03:21:56,720 --> 03:22:00,320
Speaker 2: I don't know it's it disappeared, but someone said hubby

3948
03:22:00,440 --> 03:22:02,360
Speaker 2: just could be completely ignorant because he's so in love

3949
03:22:02,360 --> 03:22:04,600
Speaker 2: with his wife that is realized that this girl's flirting.

3950
03:22:04,680 --> 03:22:07,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, bell conkling slave narrative is whack.

3951
03:22:07,360 --> 03:22:09,240
Speaker 4: I agree, correct, Icky?

3952
03:22:09,560 --> 03:22:12,600
Speaker 7: Is this maybe also the first time that she's sending

3953
03:22:12,720 --> 03:22:15,680
Speaker 7: this was she like hinting, hinting, hinting, and now finally

3954
03:22:15,800 --> 03:22:19,320
Speaker 7: kind seems like it like she still has.

3955
03:22:19,280 --> 03:22:21,000
Speaker 3: The excuse of oh, I'm talking about the dogs, but

3956
03:22:21,120 --> 03:22:21,320
Speaker 3: like that.

3957
03:22:21,560 --> 03:22:22,960
Speaker 2: What still weird?

3958
03:22:23,520 --> 03:22:28,240
Speaker 3: Weird? These texts are okay? I said that, Admittedly I

3959
03:22:28,360 --> 03:22:32,600
Speaker 3: don't care for emoji. Admittedly I don't care for oji's

3960
03:22:32,760 --> 03:22:36,560
Speaker 3: and the texting guard people use nowadays, the texting garb.

3961
03:22:37,520 --> 03:22:41,200
Speaker 3: I don't even know what the face means. Frank, you

3962
03:22:41,280 --> 03:22:41,760
Speaker 3: know what I mean.

3963
03:22:41,879 --> 03:22:42,320
Speaker 4: It's sexual.

3964
03:22:42,520 --> 03:22:43,080
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

3965
03:22:43,320 --> 03:22:45,000
Speaker 2: If you're sending that, you're trying to get some.

3966
03:22:45,879 --> 03:22:48,560
Speaker 3: But something about this made me feel icky, and I

3967
03:22:48,640 --> 03:22:51,000
Speaker 3: feel like there's an undertone going on here. There is,

3968
03:22:51,520 --> 03:22:56,520
Speaker 3: there is, he replied, but seemed to ignore that last comment. However,

3969
03:22:56,720 --> 03:22:59,040
Speaker 3: this caused me to think, Slash look back on her

3970
03:22:59,120 --> 03:23:02,680
Speaker 3: communication and feel like I've noticed a few red flags.

3971
03:23:03,120 --> 03:23:08,600
Speaker 3: Number One, she always initiates m he's into him. Number Two,

3972
03:23:09,720 --> 03:23:12,000
Speaker 3: if she doesn't get a reply, she seems to keep

3973
03:23:12,200 --> 03:23:17,800
Speaker 3: sending messages until he relies for him she's desperate. Number three,

3974
03:23:18,280 --> 03:23:22,560
Speaker 3: Not once has she ever referenced or acknowledged the fact

3975
03:23:22,600 --> 03:23:24,800
Speaker 3: that he's married or has a family. Even when he

3976
03:23:24,879 --> 03:23:27,360
Speaker 3: mentioned that he has been away for my birthday or

3977
03:23:27,520 --> 03:23:30,039
Speaker 3: that he's going to our daughter's dance show, she'll change

3978
03:23:30,080 --> 03:23:32,520
Speaker 3: the subject as if she's pretending we don't exist, or

3979
03:23:32,600 --> 03:23:34,160
Speaker 3: to close down any mention of us.

3980
03:23:34,320 --> 03:23:37,440
Speaker 2: Oh, so he's he's fully expressing that he's happily married

3981
03:23:37,480 --> 03:23:39,000
Speaker 2: with children, But she's like, I'm not.

3982
03:23:39,280 --> 03:23:41,080
Speaker 4: I'm not sure she is picking up on it. He

3983
03:23:41,280 --> 03:23:44,520
Speaker 4: is actively ignoring it. Yeah, maybe you don't on it.

3984
03:23:44,600 --> 03:23:46,760
Speaker 2: He's just saying, oh, I'm going to I'm going to

3985
03:23:46,840 --> 03:23:49,200
Speaker 2: go see my wife for her birthday, and then she

3986
03:23:49,320 --> 03:23:49,920
Speaker 2: just ignores that.

3987
03:23:50,280 --> 03:23:56,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, very strange. Number four. She often makes excuses for

3988
03:23:56,560 --> 03:23:58,360
Speaker 3: them to meet up one on one.

3989
03:24:00,320 --> 03:24:01,760
Speaker 5: Wants you want him?

3990
03:24:02,280 --> 03:24:04,120
Speaker 3: I'm sure there's more, but I don't want to scour

3991
03:24:04,200 --> 03:24:06,520
Speaker 3: through every message and feed into this more than I

3992
03:24:06,560 --> 03:24:09,400
Speaker 3: already have in case it's nothing. It's not nothing, But

3993
03:24:09,600 --> 03:24:11,720
Speaker 3: am I crazy for thinking there may be something going

3994
03:24:11,800 --> 03:24:14,240
Speaker 3: on with her? I don't want to bring it up

3995
03:24:14,280 --> 03:24:16,520
Speaker 3: in case it's nothing, and I look like I'm paranoid.

3996
03:24:16,680 --> 03:24:18,879
Speaker 3: But it just isn't sitting right.

3997
03:24:19,320 --> 03:24:20,720
Speaker 2: She's trying to steal your man.

3998
03:24:21,720 --> 03:24:26,600
Speaker 3: She is trying to steal You can smell something, Oh

3999
03:24:26,800 --> 03:24:29,440
Speaker 3: smells freaking stinky.

4000
03:24:29,560 --> 03:24:34,360
Speaker 4: Like a stinky woman's sticky.

4001
03:24:35,360 --> 03:24:35,960
Speaker 5: Stick sticks.

4002
03:24:36,120 --> 03:24:37,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty stinky.

4003
03:24:38,160 --> 03:24:43,120
Speaker 3: I'm also regnant and the hormones are doing their thing.

4004
03:24:43,520 --> 03:24:46,240
Speaker 2: It's not even hormones like this is obviously Yeah, she's

4005
03:24:46,280 --> 03:24:49,360
Speaker 2: given out the kimberly finds his fish market.

4006
03:24:50,720 --> 03:24:53,160
Speaker 3: Should I say something or leave it and monitor there

4007
03:24:53,280 --> 03:24:56,760
Speaker 3: this more closely for bits? Or is this the effect

4008
03:24:56,800 --> 03:24:59,800
Speaker 3: of a thirty something pregnant mom whose husband seems to

4009
03:24:59,840 --> 03:25:03,520
Speaker 3: be aging like a fine one and any female he

4010
03:25:03,600 --> 03:25:06,440
Speaker 3: meets doing what he loves being in amazing shape due

4011
03:25:06,440 --> 03:25:07,000
Speaker 3: to the hobby.

4012
03:25:08,680 --> 03:25:09,640
Speaker 5: Can you do that face.

4013
03:25:12,760 --> 03:25:13,480
Speaker 4: And meme it?

4014
03:25:14,560 --> 03:25:18,959
Speaker 2: I am feel like it is not crazy. I feel

4015
03:25:19,000 --> 03:25:22,119
Speaker 2: like she sud talk. Just talk to your husband say obviously,

4016
03:25:22,160 --> 03:25:26,400
Speaker 2: this girl is trying to get in your mountain biking

4017
03:25:26,520 --> 03:25:30,840
Speaker 2: pants and maybe you should stop hinding her like you're doing.

4018
03:25:30,959 --> 03:25:35,000
Speaker 3: There are some relevant comments, but for all that, those

4019
03:25:35,120 --> 03:25:39,960
Speaker 3: fifty new people that that I welcomed in a little tea,

4020
03:25:40,000 --> 03:25:45,279
Speaker 3: oldr Opie is uneasy about husband's friendship with another woman.

4021
03:25:46,080 --> 03:25:49,760
Speaker 2: Because she is sending smart faces like this she's sending.

4022
03:25:52,920 --> 03:25:53,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, what do you think?

4023
03:25:53,760 --> 03:25:54,160
Speaker 4: What do you think?

4024
03:25:54,680 --> 03:25:57,080
Speaker 2: What should OPI do? And what should I mean? The

4025
03:25:57,160 --> 03:25:57,920
Speaker 2: husband is clueless?

4026
03:25:57,959 --> 03:26:00,320
Speaker 3: Oh I forgot wait no, no, sorry, this is not okay?

4027
03:26:01,240 --> 03:26:03,160
Speaker 3: Fan smitted but it's yeah yeah yeah.

4028
03:26:03,120 --> 03:26:07,000
Speaker 4: But what should what should hop you do? Oh?

4029
03:26:07,200 --> 03:26:09,760
Speaker 3: He should talk to her husband and say, hey, I'm

4030
03:26:09,800 --> 03:26:11,959
Speaker 3: gonna I'm like a little bit uncomfortable on how she's

4031
03:26:12,120 --> 03:26:14,360
Speaker 3: talking to you. Maybe shut this down a little bit more.

4032
03:26:14,480 --> 03:26:16,279
Speaker 3: I know, like you're not doing anything wrong.

4033
03:26:16,200 --> 03:26:20,920
Speaker 5: But easy, easy, throw the phone and water done?

4034
03:26:21,600 --> 03:26:22,920
Speaker 4: Maam can messaging?

4035
03:26:23,360 --> 03:26:23,800
Speaker 5: Messaging?

4036
03:26:24,200 --> 03:26:27,039
Speaker 7: You're good messages stop so she can't mess it? Well,

4037
03:26:27,040 --> 03:26:28,600
Speaker 7: what happens when he gets a new phone and he

4038
03:26:28,680 --> 03:26:29,560
Speaker 7: does the the.

4039
03:26:29,720 --> 03:26:32,880
Speaker 4: iCloud sink put it into the water again. I just

4040
03:26:33,040 --> 03:26:35,480
Speaker 4: keep putting his watery?

4041
03:26:35,720 --> 03:26:36,920
Speaker 2: Yes, what do you think, John?

4042
03:26:37,240 --> 03:26:39,640
Speaker 7: I think that she should go to the husband. The

4043
03:26:39,720 --> 03:26:42,200
Speaker 7: only tricky part here is that she was reading the

4044
03:26:42,320 --> 03:26:46,600
Speaker 7: texts on the iPad. So does she be honest?

4045
03:26:47,000 --> 03:26:50,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, because it's like it's it would be

4046
03:26:50,320 --> 03:26:53,320
Speaker 2: different if she's like I was suspicious, So I went

4047
03:26:53,360 --> 03:26:55,560
Speaker 2: through all of your messages. It was it was like

4048
03:26:55,959 --> 03:26:58,480
Speaker 2: it's the we've had this philosophy I think before. I

4049
03:26:58,480 --> 03:27:00,560
Speaker 2: think we've all agreed to it where it's like, uh,

4050
03:27:00,720 --> 03:27:03,040
Speaker 2: you know, like when like police can't enter a thing

4051
03:27:03,120 --> 03:27:06,160
Speaker 2: without a warrant, but if they see a legal activity

4052
03:27:06,240 --> 03:27:07,879
Speaker 2: through a crack in the door, then they can enter.

4053
03:27:08,360 --> 03:27:10,960
Speaker 2: So it's like she saw weird activity through the crack

4054
03:27:11,000 --> 03:27:13,920
Speaker 2: in the door, which was these messages coming up continuously

4055
03:27:13,920 --> 03:27:16,120
Speaker 2: on the iPad. She looked in a little bit, but

4056
03:27:16,280 --> 03:27:19,560
Speaker 2: only because there was weird texts from this woman coming

4057
03:27:19,600 --> 03:27:21,800
Speaker 2: to the iPad. So I think she just looked through

4058
03:27:21,800 --> 03:27:24,200
Speaker 2: the door. And now she's like, hey, I saw these

4059
03:27:24,280 --> 03:27:29,040
Speaker 2: messages on the iPad. Just wanted like it feels like

4060
03:27:29,120 --> 03:27:29,760
Speaker 2: she's flirting with you.

4061
03:27:30,120 --> 03:27:31,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

4062
03:27:31,879 --> 03:27:32,800
Speaker 2: I want to know what y'all think.

4063
03:27:32,840 --> 03:27:32,960
Speaker 4: Though.

4064
03:27:33,040 --> 03:27:35,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think there's any issues in the relationship.

4065
03:27:35,160 --> 03:27:36,760
Speaker 3: It's just an issue about this girl.

4066
03:27:36,879 --> 03:27:37,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, agreed.

4067
03:27:38,000 --> 03:27:40,560
Speaker 3: But what.

4068
03:27:42,160 --> 03:27:44,800
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you scared dude, Sam and bugs?

4069
03:27:44,840 --> 03:27:45,040
Speaker 3: Sam?

4070
03:27:45,200 --> 03:27:47,760
Speaker 4: Bugs, I had to flip a effing.

4071
03:27:47,520 --> 03:27:52,320
Speaker 5: Couch today so we could find some freaking spider. I

4072
03:27:52,400 --> 03:27:54,680
Speaker 5: don't like spiders. I'm not gonna help you flip it over.

4073
03:27:54,800 --> 03:27:58,560
Speaker 3: Okay, Literally, Sam Riley are like not into spiders, and

4074
03:27:58,640 --> 03:28:01,280
Speaker 3: I always have to take out this by is that

4075
03:28:01,480 --> 03:28:01,840
Speaker 3: is true?

4076
03:28:01,920 --> 03:28:04,600
Speaker 8: Okay, I don't mind. If there's a snake, any other

4077
03:28:04,720 --> 03:28:07,040
Speaker 8: kind of rodent, I'll be on that. Spiders if you

4078
03:28:07,120 --> 03:28:08,640
Speaker 8: take care of those, much appreciated.

4079
03:28:09,080 --> 03:28:11,440
Speaker 3: I'm I'm the spider catcher in the household, dude.

4080
03:28:11,480 --> 03:28:14,680
Speaker 5: I've caught birds, I've caught mice, all those things. Done.

4081
03:28:15,080 --> 03:28:17,080
Speaker 3: I want I would rather not have to catch the

4082
03:28:17,120 --> 03:28:17,400
Speaker 3: my house.

4083
03:28:17,480 --> 03:28:17,880
Speaker 4: Yeah done.

4084
03:28:18,000 --> 03:28:18,920
Speaker 5: I will trade you for that.

4085
03:28:19,240 --> 03:28:21,720
Speaker 3: I'll trade you spiders for camera not over here, No, no, no,

4086
03:28:21,840 --> 03:28:32,800
Speaker 3: no dead because people always try to kill the spiders.

4087
03:28:32,879 --> 03:28:35,920
Speaker 3: But I just want to take them outside. You know,

4088
03:28:35,959 --> 03:28:37,199
Speaker 3: I want to keep them alive.

4089
03:28:37,280 --> 03:28:40,879
Speaker 4: Anyway, keep them, keep them. It is a mosquito hawk.

4090
03:28:41,800 --> 03:28:43,720
Speaker 3: You know that means they're dead.

4091
03:28:43,800 --> 03:28:45,720
Speaker 2: Don't kill those? What do you mean, don't kill those?

4092
03:28:46,160 --> 03:28:47,359
Speaker 3: Kill mosquitoes?

4093
03:28:47,440 --> 03:28:49,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want it in my face.

4094
03:28:50,560 --> 03:28:52,039
Speaker 5: It's dead. Let's read.

4095
03:28:53,600 --> 03:28:57,640
Speaker 3: He's dead. Going to keep reading? All right? Relevant comments?

4096
03:28:58,160 --> 03:28:58,680
Speaker 4: Where was.

4097
03:29:01,840 --> 03:29:06,280
Speaker 3: Ben usually rat to you? I am kind of like

4098
03:29:06,360 --> 03:29:10,400
Speaker 3: your husband. I do a lot of helping people in

4099
03:29:10,480 --> 03:29:12,360
Speaker 3: a different vein, though, and there are a lot of

4100
03:29:12,520 --> 03:29:14,720
Speaker 3: rather lonely and awkward people out there who just keep

4101
03:29:14,760 --> 03:29:17,640
Speaker 3: messaging once they have my contact info. Men and women.

4102
03:29:18,480 --> 03:29:20,840
Speaker 3: I think you've handled this with grace, but I think

4103
03:29:20,879 --> 03:29:23,360
Speaker 3: it's totally reasonable for you to have a combo with

4104
03:29:23,440 --> 03:29:26,400
Speaker 3: hubby and just say, dude, she's pretty pushy and you're

4105
03:29:26,400 --> 03:29:29,080
Speaker 3: not doing anything wrong. But I'd appreciate it if you'd

4106
03:29:29,160 --> 03:29:31,000
Speaker 3: shut her down and just tell her that you're not

4107
03:29:31,200 --> 03:29:33,480
Speaker 3: in a position to be a coach and your ride

4108
03:29:33,520 --> 03:29:37,040
Speaker 3: time is focused, so you can't help her. She sounds

4109
03:29:37,080 --> 03:29:39,760
Speaker 3: a little starstruck and needy, but he's not doing anything

4110
03:29:39,800 --> 03:29:42,240
Speaker 3: wrong here, so I wouldn't make it a big hairy deal.

4111
03:29:43,280 --> 03:29:45,480
Speaker 3: Oh pee, thank you. I just don't want to be

4112
03:29:45,520 --> 03:29:49,200
Speaker 3: the preger wife who's demanding he blocks women because I'm

4113
03:29:49,200 --> 03:29:51,960
Speaker 3: making things up in my head. Lizard Petty says he

4114
03:29:52,160 --> 03:29:55,800
Speaker 3: ran into her quote unquote while he was out walking

4115
03:29:55,920 --> 03:30:00,400
Speaker 3: his dogs. Quote un This is no quotes on the dogs.

4116
03:30:01,040 --> 03:30:03,120
Speaker 3: Was that a plan? Meaning does she live near you?

4117
03:30:03,480 --> 03:30:03,640
Speaker 11: Ah?

4118
03:30:03,760 --> 03:30:06,640
Speaker 3: Hell nah, that's stock her behavior. He needs to cut

4119
03:30:06,680 --> 03:30:07,320
Speaker 3: her off now.

4120
03:30:07,360 --> 03:30:11,120
Speaker 2: Oh whoa she ran him?

4121
03:30:11,200 --> 03:30:11,400
Speaker 5: Yeah?

4122
03:30:12,480 --> 03:30:13,879
Speaker 2: Oh so it could be that she is.

4123
03:30:14,000 --> 03:30:16,320
Speaker 3: Trying to like well because she literally went through all

4124
03:30:16,400 --> 03:30:20,119
Speaker 3: of these like Facebook channels to find him. Op says,

4125
03:30:20,320 --> 03:30:22,240
Speaker 3: no the bike park, he was up with the dogs

4126
03:30:22,240 --> 03:30:25,960
Speaker 3: when she spotted them and called over, called and over. Honestly,

4127
03:30:26,040 --> 03:30:27,800
Speaker 3: I have no idea where she lives. I know very

4128
03:30:27,840 --> 03:30:30,120
Speaker 3: little about her other than she's much younger than me.

4129
03:30:31,760 --> 03:30:35,840
Speaker 3: Inevitable Rate says, totally not on topic, but what are

4130
03:30:35,879 --> 03:30:38,199
Speaker 3: gun dogs? Sounds like your husband is just being nice,

4131
03:30:38,560 --> 03:30:41,760
Speaker 3: but that chick is being scandalous. Sometimes men don't pick

4132
03:30:41,879 --> 03:30:43,320
Speaker 3: up on this stuff, so I'd bring it to his

4133
03:30:43,400 --> 03:30:46,360
Speaker 3: attention and talk about how you both should handle this

4134
03:30:46,480 --> 03:30:52,360
Speaker 3: psycho disrespectful woman. And then OPI says, hoton dogs. Ours

4135
03:30:52,400 --> 03:30:54,800
Speaker 3: are used weekly for flushing slash retrieven.

4136
03:30:55,480 --> 03:30:55,840
Speaker 4: Thank you.

4137
03:30:56,480 --> 03:30:58,240
Speaker 2: What what is flushing like?

4138
03:30:58,320 --> 03:30:59,200
Speaker 3: Flushing them out? Oh?

4139
03:30:59,360 --> 03:31:01,080
Speaker 4: Flushing up the prey.

4140
03:31:01,480 --> 03:31:02,720
Speaker 2: I thought it was a stinky race.

4141
03:31:03,480 --> 03:31:06,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, dogs, woman, thank you.

4142
03:31:07,000 --> 03:31:09,680
Speaker 3: I've had enough comments to make me feel confident enough

4143
03:31:09,760 --> 03:31:13,120
Speaker 3: that I'm not being dramatic. We'll be talking to him

4144
03:31:13,160 --> 03:31:15,240
Speaker 3: about it once our daughters are in bed tonight and

4145
03:31:15,360 --> 03:31:18,160
Speaker 3: go from there. And there are some more top comments,

4146
03:31:18,959 --> 03:31:21,800
Speaker 3: excluding wheels is it sounds like your husband is uninterested

4147
03:31:21,840 --> 03:31:24,240
Speaker 3: in her and she's pushing boundaries. Tell your husband you

4148
03:31:24,280 --> 03:31:27,640
Speaker 3: feel uncomfortable. He may welcome a chance to strategize how

4149
03:31:27,680 --> 03:31:30,760
Speaker 3: to push her away. More clearly, it would probably help

4150
03:31:30,800 --> 03:31:32,320
Speaker 3: if he told her he was busy with his wife

4151
03:31:32,360 --> 03:31:35,080
Speaker 3: and children and not interested in connecting, although he's sure

4152
03:31:35,200 --> 03:31:37,720
Speaker 3: she'll find a group to bike with a good blocker

4153
03:31:37,879 --> 03:31:40,800
Speaker 3: if he feels he needs to. He sounds like a

4154
03:31:40,879 --> 03:31:43,880
Speaker 3: great guy. Congrats on the coming baby, and there is

4155
03:31:44,879 --> 03:31:49,960
Speaker 3: an update, juice jeezy, But are there any donations?

4156
03:31:50,560 --> 03:31:53,720
Speaker 2: There are? And also we're at nine hundred and seventy

4157
03:31:53,760 --> 03:31:56,200
Speaker 2: seven links. We get to eleven hundred, we will spin

4158
03:31:56,320 --> 03:31:58,720
Speaker 2: that wheel. So do you want to spend the way

4159
03:31:58,840 --> 03:32:06,520
Speaker 2: or not spinning? Asking for a personality swap. Oh, John's

4160
03:32:06,520 --> 03:32:09,520
Speaker 2: been saving some heat right, let me remember my heat.

4161
03:32:11,160 --> 03:32:12,040
Speaker 4: I remember my heat.

4162
03:32:12,760 --> 03:32:14,959
Speaker 3: And Satia thanks for the ten buck tip. I'm tipping

4163
03:32:15,040 --> 03:32:18,800
Speaker 3: because Sophia wants the tip. You're reminding me of my

4164
03:32:18,879 --> 03:32:24,840
Speaker 3: greatest my greatest sacrifice, my greatest down my downfall, my.

4165
03:32:24,959 --> 03:32:28,160
Speaker 2: Shake coming on with the thing. It's bouncing all over

4166
03:32:28,240 --> 03:32:28,560
Speaker 2: the place.

4167
03:32:29,400 --> 03:32:31,760
Speaker 3: Oh, now, there's only one hundred and forty four broken.

4168
03:32:31,920 --> 03:32:32,880
Speaker 2: It's it's broken.

4169
03:32:33,040 --> 03:32:34,959
Speaker 3: We know there's not only one hundred and forty four

4170
03:32:35,040 --> 03:32:40,360
Speaker 3: people here. Um, Rachel the acts hutch it, thank you

4171
03:32:40,560 --> 03:32:43,160
Speaker 3: for the twenty bucks. My youngest daughter, Athena is turning

4172
03:32:43,240 --> 03:32:45,240
Speaker 3: five years old tomato and wants to hear you guys

4173
03:32:45,240 --> 03:32:47,920
Speaker 3: sing her happy birthday. We shall we shall do that.

4174
03:32:49,400 --> 03:32:57,800
Speaker 2: Happier birthday, Happy birthday, Happy birthday, dear.

4175
03:32:59,480 --> 03:33:04,200
Speaker 4: Happy. That was great.

4176
03:33:04,240 --> 03:33:07,680
Speaker 3: Have you birth Aena tomorrow, adamly gle Tierra Is. Thank

4177
03:33:07,720 --> 03:33:10,480
Speaker 3: you for the two bucks. Y'all erupted my Queen Squared

4178
03:33:10,560 --> 03:33:17,440
Speaker 3: bottle for all of your This was my tears. Eric,

4179
03:33:17,520 --> 03:33:19,680
Speaker 3: thank you for the one buck tip. My wife just said,

4180
03:33:19,720 --> 03:33:21,480
Speaker 3: Sam and Sophia are carbon copies.

4181
03:33:22,959 --> 03:33:24,480
Speaker 4: You don't say, wait, hold on, hold on.

4182
03:33:27,640 --> 03:33:31,840
Speaker 3: There was just so much tanner than me. I know,

4183
03:33:32,560 --> 03:33:35,920
Speaker 3: I only burn Rachel the ice oh the one No,

4184
03:33:36,040 --> 03:33:37,800
Speaker 3: I didn't Rachel the x hatcha. Thank you for the

4185
03:33:37,840 --> 03:33:40,000
Speaker 3: five buck donation. The only way to get my ten

4186
03:33:40,120 --> 03:33:41,959
Speaker 3: year old daughter in the room quickly is to tell

4187
03:33:42,000 --> 03:33:46,480
Speaker 3: her there is a bug. She's obsessed. I love that.

4188
03:33:46,600 --> 03:33:48,040
Speaker 3: I love when kids are obsessed with bugs.

4189
03:33:48,040 --> 03:33:49,480
Speaker 4: It's so much fun, so adorable.

4190
03:33:50,160 --> 03:33:53,920
Speaker 8: Oh did you guys have the the things where you

4191
03:33:53,959 --> 03:33:57,600
Speaker 8: could like catch bugs and stuff those little like kids. No,

4192
03:33:58,000 --> 03:33:59,800
Speaker 8: you don't, dude, they were so cool. You could like

4193
03:34:00,040 --> 03:34:02,400
Speaker 8: capture bugs and magnifone and like studium and stuff.

4194
03:34:02,480 --> 03:34:07,200
Speaker 3: I never had one of those kids weird. Well, well,

4195
03:34:07,480 --> 03:34:11,160
Speaker 3: well there's only a boxy cat. Thanks for the two bucks,

4196
03:34:11,280 --> 03:34:13,800
Speaker 3: t LDR. I just got back from dinner. I can

4197
03:34:13,879 --> 03:34:14,240
Speaker 3: give you that.

4198
03:34:14,800 --> 03:34:17,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, what is the t ld r.

4199
03:34:17,680 --> 03:34:21,880
Speaker 3: T ld R Op's husband met this girl on the

4200
03:34:22,000 --> 03:34:26,760
Speaker 3: trail and she's been texting him NonStop and being kind

4201
03:34:26,760 --> 03:34:30,679
Speaker 3: of flirty. The husband is totally, you know, not reciprocating,

4202
03:34:31,360 --> 03:34:34,040
Speaker 3: but Op, he's feeling a little suspicious and wants to

4203
03:34:34,080 --> 03:34:36,080
Speaker 3: know if she should bring it up to her husband.

4204
03:34:36,720 --> 03:34:37,920
Speaker 3: And I think she's planning to do it.

4205
03:34:38,120 --> 03:34:38,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

4206
03:34:39,120 --> 03:34:40,960
Speaker 2: And Megan Rojas, thanks for the ten buck tip. I

4207
03:34:41,040 --> 03:34:42,840
Speaker 2: love when you are all here.

4208
03:34:43,080 --> 03:34:43,640
Speaker 4: We love it too.

4209
03:34:44,560 --> 03:34:46,120
Speaker 2: And Baby Got's Lanks for the five buck tip. I

4210
03:34:46,160 --> 03:34:48,360
Speaker 2: would call the woman on the husband's phone and tell

4211
03:34:48,400 --> 03:34:49,160
Speaker 2: her to knock it off.

4212
03:34:49,240 --> 03:34:51,280
Speaker 4: That just be being an a hole. Honestly, that sounds

4213
03:34:51,280 --> 03:34:51,760
Speaker 4: like a good idea.

4214
03:34:51,800 --> 03:34:53,280
Speaker 3: I don't right, knock it off.

4215
03:34:53,920 --> 03:34:57,800
Speaker 2: Let's get back into this story. Also, YouTube's going haywire.

4216
03:34:58,000 --> 03:35:00,240
Speaker 3: So yeah, apparently there's only one hundred and forty for me.

4217
03:35:00,320 --> 03:35:02,800
Speaker 2: I don't think that's true though. Yeah, if you're here,

4218
03:35:03,040 --> 03:35:03,600
Speaker 2: comment here.

4219
03:35:03,800 --> 03:35:09,640
Speaker 3: Yeah in the chat attendants, Yeah, take it attendance, who's here? Okay,

4220
03:35:09,800 --> 03:35:11,360
Speaker 3: well let's get into this update.

4221
03:35:11,680 --> 03:35:13,680
Speaker 8: So sorry schools and unicorns. I still have my kids

4222
03:35:13,680 --> 03:35:15,040
Speaker 8: sitting in my window and still use it.

4223
03:35:15,200 --> 03:35:15,760
Speaker 5: That's amazing.

4224
03:35:15,879 --> 03:35:16,879
Speaker 3: I love that it's so fun.

4225
03:35:17,600 --> 03:35:20,320
Speaker 2: Okay and take tap back, Tap says, if your account

4226
03:35:20,360 --> 03:35:22,680
Speaker 2: is broken, can we spin the wheel at one hundred viewers? No?

4227
03:35:24,320 --> 03:35:28,200
Speaker 3: No, because we still have our likes. Yeah, like the stream,

4228
03:35:28,840 --> 03:35:33,279
Speaker 3: like the stream. Anyone who's here first up next update.

4229
03:35:34,040 --> 03:35:37,439
Speaker 3: So my last pist got a little lot more responses

4230
03:35:37,480 --> 03:35:39,240
Speaker 3: than I thought it would. I wasn't going to post

4231
03:35:39,240 --> 03:35:41,200
Speaker 3: an update, but feel like I owe it to all

4232
03:35:41,280 --> 03:35:44,039
Speaker 3: the people telling me to trust my gut. We owe

4233
03:35:44,080 --> 03:35:46,119
Speaker 3: it to all you one hundred and forty four people.

4234
03:35:46,320 --> 03:35:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's definitely more than that. I'm still selling one

4235
03:35:49,840 --> 03:35:51,080
Speaker 2: hundred and forty four years right now.

4236
03:35:51,240 --> 03:35:51,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

4237
03:35:52,360 --> 03:35:56,360
Speaker 3: For those asking why my hand husband hasn't been more

4238
03:35:56,400 --> 03:35:58,720
Speaker 3: abrupt with her in a nutshell, he always tries to

4239
03:35:58,800 --> 03:36:01,760
Speaker 3: keep the peace and played how well known he is

4240
03:36:01,879 --> 03:36:04,040
Speaker 3: in our town. He comes from a well known family

4241
03:36:04,080 --> 03:36:06,280
Speaker 3: in our area and was a downhill writer in the

4242
03:36:06,360 --> 03:36:12,080
Speaker 3: UCI and features in various YouTube channels toot his horn.

4243
03:36:12,600 --> 03:36:15,800
Speaker 3: People come here specifically for the bike trails and typically

4244
03:36:15,840 --> 03:36:18,360
Speaker 3: wherever he goes, there's usually a handful of people who

4245
03:36:18,480 --> 03:36:21,480
Speaker 3: recognize him and want to say hello, she has a stalker.

4246
03:36:22,640 --> 03:36:25,400
Speaker 3: It's not a huge town, everyone knows everyone, kind of place,

4247
03:36:25,520 --> 03:36:28,200
Speaker 3: and like anyone. He would never want people to come

4248
03:36:28,240 --> 03:36:31,080
Speaker 3: away from any interaction with him with a sour taste

4249
03:36:31,160 --> 03:36:34,040
Speaker 3: in their mouth. After our daughter was in bed, I

4250
03:36:34,120 --> 03:36:36,480
Speaker 3: spoke with my husband, told him my thoughts, and he

4251
03:36:36,720 --> 03:36:41,400
Speaker 3: agreed she was being inappropriate and that he and that

4252
03:36:41,560 --> 03:36:44,200
Speaker 3: he in no way had done or said anything that

4253
03:36:44,200 --> 03:36:47,080
Speaker 3: would indicate he was alright with it. He hoped by

4254
03:36:47,160 --> 03:36:49,520
Speaker 3: ignoring it, she would get the hint and leave him be,

4255
03:36:50,320 --> 03:36:53,040
Speaker 3: but did not did not. He didn't want to make

4256
03:36:53,080 --> 03:36:56,120
Speaker 3: things awkward or embarrass anyone, and admitted he probably should

4257
03:36:56,160 --> 03:37:00,720
Speaker 3: have said something. So after reading everyone's comments, there were

4258
03:37:00,879 --> 03:37:05,000
Speaker 3: loads of amazing ways people suggested shutting her down, which

4259
03:37:05,080 --> 03:37:07,320
Speaker 3: in hindsight, would have been an amazing way to stop

4260
03:37:07,360 --> 03:37:10,840
Speaker 3: her in her tracks. However, he didn't want to ruffle feathers,

4261
03:37:11,040 --> 03:37:13,560
Speaker 3: so we went with the we're starting to get ready

4262
03:37:13,560 --> 03:37:15,920
Speaker 3: for the baby and have lots to do slash prepare

4263
03:37:16,600 --> 03:37:18,920
Speaker 3: and simply don't have the time or energy to be

4264
03:37:19,000 --> 03:37:21,120
Speaker 3: spent on the bikes or meetups. And he will be

4265
03:37:21,240 --> 03:37:24,000
Speaker 3: unavailable to her for the foreseeable future.

4266
03:37:24,320 --> 03:37:28,240
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, so now he's putting his foot down.

4267
03:37:29,360 --> 03:37:32,800
Speaker 4: That's good, that's good, putting the pedals to the middle. Yeah.

4268
03:37:33,240 --> 03:37:34,720
Speaker 3: Now there's only seventy people here.

4269
03:37:35,680 --> 03:37:37,920
Speaker 4: Bro it's YouTube YouTube.

4270
03:37:38,760 --> 03:37:40,279
Speaker 2: We broke YouTube, broke YouTube.

4271
03:37:42,040 --> 03:37:43,280
Speaker 4: That's right, good job, guys.

4272
03:37:43,640 --> 03:37:47,199
Speaker 3: He typed it up, handed it for me for my approval,

4273
03:37:47,320 --> 03:37:53,880
Speaker 3: and I hit send. Minutes later, his phone pings and

4274
03:37:54,080 --> 03:37:56,760
Speaker 3: I am in the kitchen. He's in the living room,

4275
03:37:56,800 --> 03:37:59,320
Speaker 3: and I see his eyebrows raise and he just looks

4276
03:37:59,400 --> 03:37:59,600
Speaker 3: at me.

4277
03:38:00,000 --> 03:38:02,320
Speaker 4: Who what's going on?

4278
03:38:02,560 --> 03:38:04,560
Speaker 3: I go over and he just hands me the phone.

4279
03:38:05,240 --> 03:38:10,240
Speaker 3: The fing neck on this girl astounds me, She replied, Okay,

4280
03:38:10,920 --> 03:38:12,760
Speaker 3: do you think we could meet up quickly tomorrow?

4281
03:38:14,080 --> 03:38:17,720
Speaker 4: Bro get a freaking hitde My heart.

4282
03:38:17,800 --> 03:38:23,000
Speaker 3: Sank and I knew exactly what that meant. I burst

4283
03:38:23,080 --> 03:38:24,840
Speaker 3: into tears in my head.

4284
03:38:24,959 --> 03:38:25,520
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

4285
03:38:28,120 --> 03:38:29,480
Speaker 3: To meet up and smooth him?

4286
03:38:30,560 --> 03:38:32,400
Speaker 2: Okay, in my.

4287
03:38:32,520 --> 03:38:36,800
Speaker 3: Head, this was the start of my world crumbling. Oh wait,

4288
03:38:36,879 --> 03:38:38,480
Speaker 3: why what my husband?

4289
03:38:41,720 --> 03:38:42,600
Speaker 2: They had already met?

4290
03:38:42,800 --> 03:38:42,840
Speaker 4: No?

4291
03:38:43,000 --> 03:38:45,640
Speaker 3: No, no, no, because why would the husband give her

4292
03:38:45,760 --> 03:38:46,160
Speaker 3: the phone.

4293
03:38:48,760 --> 03:38:51,360
Speaker 5: I can't take this no more. Gotta get straight to

4294
03:38:51,440 --> 03:38:52,000
Speaker 5: the pruse.

4295
03:38:51,840 --> 03:38:53,520
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I don't think anything happened. I think

4296
03:38:53,560 --> 03:38:54,520
Speaker 3: she's being delusional.

4297
03:38:54,720 --> 03:38:55,280
Speaker 5: We need to read.

4298
03:38:56,200 --> 03:38:58,640
Speaker 3: My husband tried calming me down and asked me what

4299
03:38:58,760 --> 03:39:01,320
Speaker 3: i'd liked him to do block her there and then

4300
03:39:01,480 --> 03:39:03,600
Speaker 3: or ask what she wants to see him for. I

4301
03:39:03,680 --> 03:39:05,440
Speaker 3: wish I just told him to block her, but for

4302
03:39:05,560 --> 03:39:08,440
Speaker 3: some reason I wanted to know more, Opie. I think

4303
03:39:08,600 --> 03:39:12,920
Speaker 3: at this point you are like you were making yourself hurt,

4304
03:39:13,080 --> 03:39:15,240
Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, I feel like you should just cut

4305
03:39:15,280 --> 03:39:18,800
Speaker 3: her off because there's no point why she should be said.

4306
03:39:18,720 --> 03:39:21,080
Speaker 2: OPI is just spiraling. I feel like that's happening.

4307
03:39:21,440 --> 03:39:23,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because this isn't the end of your world. Your

4308
03:39:23,480 --> 03:39:26,119
Speaker 3: husband hasn't done anything. It's just this flirty lady.

4309
03:39:26,280 --> 03:39:28,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, naughty life says. The pregnancy hormones are causing her

4310
03:39:28,680 --> 03:39:29,200
Speaker 2: to freak out.

4311
03:39:29,600 --> 03:39:33,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think they need to cut this off, he replied,

4312
03:39:33,640 --> 03:39:37,640
Speaker 3: asking what meeting up would achieve. She just says there's

4313
03:39:37,640 --> 03:39:39,360
Speaker 3: stuff she would like to talk to him about face

4314
03:39:39,400 --> 03:39:41,960
Speaker 3: to face. I felt like I was literally being punched

4315
03:39:42,000 --> 03:39:44,360
Speaker 3: in the chest and being winded at this point. He

4316
03:39:44,440 --> 03:39:46,320
Speaker 3: eventually gets to the point across that he's not going

4317
03:39:46,360 --> 03:39:47,920
Speaker 3: to meet with her. And drags it out of her.

4318
03:39:48,520 --> 03:39:50,840
Speaker 3: She tells him that at some point feeling started that

4319
03:39:50,959 --> 03:39:53,640
Speaker 3: turned into fantasies, and that basically he could do whatever

4320
03:39:53,680 --> 03:39:55,520
Speaker 3: he wanted to her, that I didn't need to know

4321
03:39:55,560 --> 03:39:57,280
Speaker 3: about it, and she would be happy to keep it

4322
03:39:57,360 --> 03:40:00,200
Speaker 3: that way. As she put it, our thing. It was

4323
03:40:00,280 --> 03:40:02,560
Speaker 3: more graphic than I'm willing to type. I felt like

4324
03:40:02,600 --> 03:40:04,680
Speaker 3: I was still keeping a level head on it until

4325
03:40:04,760 --> 03:40:07,640
Speaker 3: this point. I lashed out, got very very angry, started

4326
03:40:07,720 --> 03:40:12,440
Speaker 3: crying uncontrollably. My body was vibrating with angry. I barely slept,

4327
03:40:13,040 --> 03:40:17,760
Speaker 3: woke up crying, felt absolutely horrible all day today. I've

4328
03:40:17,800 --> 03:40:20,320
Speaker 3: already got in touch with her friends who run these

4329
03:40:20,360 --> 03:40:22,840
Speaker 3: Facebook groups she joined, and asked them to remove her

4330
03:40:23,320 --> 03:40:26,520
Speaker 3: and make sure she doesn't join again. My husband replied

4331
03:40:26,600 --> 03:40:28,680
Speaker 3: last night and told me it's sordid. I don't have

4332
03:40:28,720 --> 03:40:31,000
Speaker 3: to worry about her. I didn't see the text he sent,

4333
03:40:31,160 --> 03:40:33,760
Speaker 3: but it's there on the iPad, But I can't bring

4334
03:40:33,840 --> 03:40:36,440
Speaker 3: myself to even open the eye message app after seeing

4335
03:40:36,480 --> 03:40:36,840
Speaker 3: what I said.

4336
03:40:36,840 --> 03:40:39,359
Speaker 5: Wait, wait, wait, so what did she text like some graphics?

4337
03:40:43,160 --> 03:40:45,400
Speaker 2: I honest done anything wrong.

4338
03:40:45,320 --> 03:40:49,760
Speaker 3: That I think OPI is kind of hurting herself a

4339
03:40:49,800 --> 03:40:52,200
Speaker 3: little bit here. I think OP should have just blocked this.

4340
03:40:52,240 --> 03:40:53,800
Speaker 2: Girl because it's a pregnancy hormone.

4341
03:40:54,080 --> 03:40:55,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, block.

4342
03:40:55,640 --> 03:40:57,800
Speaker 3: My husband replied last night and told me, oh, I

4343
03:40:57,840 --> 03:40:59,800
Speaker 3: said that it's not fair that someone thinks they can

4344
03:40:59,840 --> 03:41:01,959
Speaker 3: just do something like that, regardless of how it's going

4345
03:41:02,000 --> 03:41:05,280
Speaker 3: to impact an entire family. Currently, I don't want him

4346
03:41:05,320 --> 03:41:07,120
Speaker 3: leaving the house. I don't want him to ever go

4347
03:41:07,360 --> 03:41:08,320
Speaker 3: back to the trails.

4348
03:41:08,440 --> 03:41:11,680
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, don't take his I don't want the.

4349
03:41:11,720 --> 03:41:13,720
Speaker 3: Dogs even going up there. The fact that she has

4350
03:41:13,800 --> 03:41:16,440
Speaker 3: even touched my dogs makes me sick. Okay, I think

4351
03:41:16,600 --> 03:41:19,240
Speaker 3: ope he's taking maybe because of these hormones. I think

4352
03:41:19,280 --> 03:41:20,760
Speaker 3: ope he's taking a little bit too far.

4353
03:41:21,360 --> 03:41:22,039
Speaker 5: So there we are.

4354
03:41:22,240 --> 03:41:24,240
Speaker 3: I still feel like my life's slipping away from me,

4355
03:41:24,400 --> 03:41:27,160
Speaker 3: like someone's trying to steal it. My confidence is shattered,

4356
03:41:27,240 --> 03:41:30,560
Speaker 3: my eyes sting, my head hurts from crying, don't feel

4357
03:41:30,600 --> 03:41:32,680
Speaker 3: like eating. Don't think I've ever felt as low as

4358
03:41:32,680 --> 03:41:36,200
Speaker 3: I do just now. Husband's trying his best to comfort me,

4359
03:41:36,280 --> 03:41:38,200
Speaker 3: but it will take a while. I guess he feels

4360
03:41:38,320 --> 03:41:41,640
Speaker 3: very guilty, despite me telling him he's done nothing wrong.

4361
03:41:42,600 --> 03:41:44,640
Speaker 3: I can't believe how quickly my life just changed with

4362
03:41:44,680 --> 03:41:48,720
Speaker 3: a stupid text. So thank you to everyone telling me

4363
03:41:48,840 --> 03:41:50,600
Speaker 3: to believe my gut and everyone else who took the

4364
03:41:50,640 --> 03:41:53,240
Speaker 3: time to comment. Edit. I just want to add I'm

4365
03:41:53,280 --> 03:41:55,720
Speaker 3: not controlling my husband. I'm not holding him a hostage.

4366
03:41:56,320 --> 03:41:58,360
Speaker 3: He had to take them out today. The bike park

4367
03:41:58,440 --> 03:42:01,880
Speaker 3: is almost in our backyard. Just describing how I feel.

4368
03:42:02,320 --> 03:42:04,400
Speaker 4: Just now, wait, can you scroll up really quick?

4369
03:42:04,440 --> 03:42:07,560
Speaker 2: There was someone who's talking so Titiana as really Yeah,

4370
03:42:07,920 --> 03:42:10,440
Speaker 2: Titania says, I think it's hard for people who haven't

4371
03:42:10,480 --> 03:42:13,480
Speaker 2: been pregnant to understand how vulnerable you feel. I'm usually

4372
03:42:13,600 --> 03:42:15,880
Speaker 2: very independent, but when pregnant, I feel like my body

4373
03:42:16,040 --> 03:42:18,720
Speaker 2: is not my own and so emotional, which I think

4374
03:42:18,879 --> 03:42:20,880
Speaker 2: is why it's pretty harmful.

4375
03:42:20,920 --> 03:42:22,879
Speaker 3: No, it's not, Yeah, OPI is definitely not the Ahle

4376
03:42:22,920 --> 03:42:26,879
Speaker 3: at all. But I think that, like, I think that trying,

4377
03:42:27,000 --> 03:42:29,080
Speaker 3: like looking up these texts and doing all that you know,

4378
03:42:29,280 --> 03:42:32,200
Speaker 3: is only making it worse for yeah, like making her

4379
03:42:32,240 --> 03:42:35,560
Speaker 3: spiral more. There's a tiny bit of left of this

4380
03:42:35,640 --> 03:42:38,920
Speaker 3: update like it. She feels like it's a personal attack

4381
03:42:39,000 --> 03:42:41,000
Speaker 3: on me and my family, And I know this happens

4382
03:42:41,040 --> 03:42:43,000
Speaker 3: all over the world. My eyes were never open to it.

4383
03:42:43,440 --> 03:42:47,959
Speaker 3: This man's baby is about to burst out of my Bobby, Bobby, Bobby, Bobby, Bobby.

4384
03:42:49,240 --> 03:42:51,680
Speaker 3: All Right, I don't feel attractive in any sense of

4385
03:42:51,760 --> 03:42:53,960
Speaker 3: the word right now. I feel I'm well within my

4386
03:42:54,120 --> 03:42:57,119
Speaker 3: rights to be a little distraught after seeing a text

4387
03:42:57,160 --> 03:43:00,280
Speaker 3: from a much younger, much fitter girl describing in graphic

4388
03:43:00,360 --> 03:43:02,400
Speaker 3: detailed the things she wants my husband to do to

4389
03:43:02,400 --> 03:43:05,600
Speaker 3: her t L d R. And there are some relevant comments.

4390
03:43:06,160 --> 03:43:09,879
Speaker 3: Wife finds inappropriate text between husband and a female friend

4391
03:43:10,040 --> 03:43:14,279
Speaker 3: and feels betrayed. But there are some relevant comments.

4392
03:43:14,720 --> 03:43:18,240
Speaker 2: Also Before we get into the relevant comments, everyone who

4393
03:43:18,360 --> 03:43:21,800
Speaker 2: is concerned about the numbers on the stream YouTube is

4394
03:43:21,840 --> 03:43:25,120
Speaker 2: having a problem, because Tara Dexter, who is celebrating her

4395
03:43:25,200 --> 03:43:29,200
Speaker 2: one month okop our Little Silly's membership, says currently on

4396
03:43:29,240 --> 03:43:32,880
Speaker 2: Twitter and everyone is having problems with YouTube. Even streams

4397
03:43:32,959 --> 03:43:36,960
Speaker 2: are going down to zero views. Wow, this is a

4398
03:43:37,080 --> 03:43:40,720
Speaker 2: YouTube reporting problem. I believe everyone is still actually here.

4399
03:43:40,920 --> 03:43:41,920
Speaker 3: I believe you all exist.

4400
03:43:42,000 --> 03:43:43,760
Speaker 4: I believe it all exists. Well broke it.

4401
03:43:44,040 --> 03:43:47,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, you guys literally broke all of YouTube because there's

4402
03:43:47,160 --> 03:43:47,760
Speaker 7: no there's.

4403
03:43:47,560 --> 03:43:49,920
Speaker 3: Only seventy three people because you've been shotting.

4404
03:43:50,120 --> 03:43:52,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Foshy Cat thanks for the two dollars. She's

4405
03:43:52,080 --> 03:43:53,760
Speaker 2: a stinky shrew lmao, she is.

4406
03:43:53,760 --> 03:43:54,959
Speaker 4: A stinky agreed.

4407
03:43:55,440 --> 03:43:59,320
Speaker 2: We're made in Aoki. One dollar tip streams broken because

4408
03:43:59,360 --> 03:44:01,680
Speaker 2: Riley doesn't get his new PC sound.

4409
03:44:03,080 --> 03:44:04,879
Speaker 4: That's why we're getting there. We're getting there.

4410
03:44:05,000 --> 03:44:06,920
Speaker 2: I five legs. So the two bucks just got off work.

4411
03:44:07,000 --> 03:44:10,440
Speaker 2: Surgery took long, but made it. Are you Are you

4412
03:44:10,720 --> 03:44:16,119
Speaker 2: a surgeon? Are you watching Okopa while doing surgery on humans.

4413
03:44:17,480 --> 03:44:19,840
Speaker 5: That physically and emotionally.

4414
03:44:19,520 --> 03:44:23,160
Speaker 4: Very skulls and unicorns? Thanks to the five dollar shuper chat?

4415
03:44:23,240 --> 03:44:25,600
Speaker 2: I still have my kit sitting on my window and

4416
03:44:25,680 --> 03:44:26,240
Speaker 2: still use it.

4417
03:44:26,920 --> 03:44:27,720
Speaker 4: Do we do all the other ones?

4418
03:44:29,320 --> 03:44:29,560
Speaker 2: Thank Ca?

4419
03:44:29,840 --> 03:44:33,520
Speaker 3: Indeed we did did, Let's finish them up.

4420
03:44:34,200 --> 03:44:34,920
Speaker 5: How did you get this one?

4421
03:44:35,360 --> 03:44:35,520
Speaker 4: Yes?

4422
03:44:36,760 --> 03:44:40,200
Speaker 3: Relevant comments brief Horror says you'll be all right and

4423
03:44:40,320 --> 03:44:42,480
Speaker 3: honestly take comfort that this is probably a lot of

4424
03:44:42,520 --> 03:44:46,520
Speaker 3: pregnancy hormones. And your husband loves the absolute soul out

4425
03:44:46,560 --> 03:44:46,720
Speaker 3: of you.

4426
03:44:47,879 --> 03:44:48,000
Speaker 13: Uh.

4427
03:44:48,240 --> 03:44:51,040
Speaker 3: He handled it well so well, public figure or not,

4428
03:44:51,360 --> 03:44:54,560
Speaker 3: and he's by your side. He's been transparent and upfront

4429
03:44:54,680 --> 03:44:58,959
Speaker 3: and kind. She tried to crash the party and failed miserably.

4430
03:44:59,280 --> 03:45:02,280
Speaker 3: He's all your and he wants it to stay that way.

4431
03:45:02,640 --> 03:45:04,840
Speaker 3: I hope you feel better and can do some rationalizing

4432
03:45:04,959 --> 03:45:05,600
Speaker 3: in the meantime.

4433
03:45:05,920 --> 03:45:08,560
Speaker 2: If anything, it's proven that he wants even one.

4434
03:45:08,640 --> 03:45:09,320
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, babe.

4435
03:45:09,360 --> 03:45:11,520
Speaker 2: Oh Shanferd says she's a vet tech. That's awesome. Who

4436
03:45:11,640 --> 03:45:13,360
Speaker 2: oh lord, that's so dope.

4437
03:45:13,600 --> 03:45:16,760
Speaker 3: Socks fan says, your life didn't change, You're fine if

4438
03:45:16,840 --> 03:45:19,920
Speaker 3: nothing else got life got better because you now know

4439
03:45:20,080 --> 03:45:22,560
Speaker 3: that your husband would rather be loyal to you than

4440
03:45:22,680 --> 03:45:25,800
Speaker 3: carry on a secret affair with some hornball side piece.

4441
03:45:26,560 --> 03:45:31,720
Speaker 3: Women pursued marry men, men pursued married women. It happens,

4442
03:45:31,920 --> 03:45:34,560
Speaker 3: but your spouse is rock solid, so make sure your

4443
03:45:34,640 --> 03:45:38,119
Speaker 3: actions match your words pertaining to how he did nothing wrong.

4444
03:45:38,680 --> 03:45:41,960
Speaker 3: Good luck with the baby, and Cranky Southerner says, did

4445
03:45:42,000 --> 03:45:44,200
Speaker 3: your life really change because you found out someone wanted

4446
03:45:44,200 --> 03:45:46,119
Speaker 3: to sleep with your husband and would do so despite

4447
03:45:46,160 --> 03:45:47,840
Speaker 3: the fact that he's married and he has a family.

4448
03:45:48,360 --> 03:45:50,040
Speaker 3: Do you think she's the only one who would be

4449
03:45:50,080 --> 03:45:52,160
Speaker 3: willing to do that? Do you think there are no

4450
03:45:52,320 --> 03:45:54,360
Speaker 3: men out there that would be willing to sleep with you?

4451
03:45:56,600 --> 03:45:58,880
Speaker 3: Your marriage works because you and your husband made a

4452
03:45:58,959 --> 03:46:01,760
Speaker 3: commitment to one another. That commitment is what your lives

4453
03:46:01,800 --> 03:46:04,640
Speaker 3: together are built upon. It's a promise, really, that you

4454
03:46:05,080 --> 03:46:07,360
Speaker 3: made to each other and it looks like both of you.

4455
03:46:07,840 --> 03:46:10,640
Speaker 3: Both you and your husband are committed to keeping that promise.

4456
03:46:11,120 --> 03:46:14,800
Speaker 3: It's only natural that other people will find other partners attractive.

4457
03:46:15,240 --> 03:46:17,280
Speaker 3: They see in our partners the same thing we see

4458
03:46:17,320 --> 03:46:19,760
Speaker 3: in our partners. Some of those people will have no

4459
03:46:20,000 --> 03:46:23,000
Speaker 3: qualms about destroying a marriage or a family if it

4460
03:46:23,080 --> 03:46:26,360
Speaker 3: means they get to satisfy their desires. The only thing

4461
03:46:26,400 --> 03:46:28,440
Speaker 3: that stands in their way is the promise you and

4462
03:46:28,520 --> 03:46:30,720
Speaker 3: your husband made to each other. The only thing that's

4463
03:46:30,720 --> 03:46:33,320
Speaker 3: different now is that you know the name of one

4464
03:46:33,360 --> 03:46:36,080
Speaker 3: of the people willing to destroy your family for her desires.

4465
03:46:36,760 --> 03:46:39,480
Speaker 3: Your husband seems intent on keeping his promise to you.

4466
03:46:39,640 --> 03:46:42,080
Speaker 3: I really don't think you have anything to worry about.

4467
03:46:43,480 --> 03:46:46,199
Speaker 2: That is a beautiful comment. Yeah, that is a beautiful comment.

4468
03:46:46,200 --> 03:46:47,800
Speaker 2: I hope it's put so pets a little bit.

4469
03:46:47,920 --> 03:46:48,520
Speaker 3: Yes, I think so.

4470
03:46:48,720 --> 03:46:51,520
Speaker 2: I think so, But I mean, yeah, I don't think

4471
03:46:51,640 --> 03:46:57,120
Speaker 2: anything changed in your relationship from realizing that, like whoa

4472
03:46:57,680 --> 03:47:01,039
Speaker 2: crazy thing someone wants to hook up and with your

4473
03:47:01,240 --> 03:47:05,119
Speaker 2: super fit, hot mountain biker.

4474
03:47:04,920 --> 03:47:07,560
Speaker 4: Mountain biking husband that has shown that he wants.

4475
03:47:07,400 --> 03:47:10,440
Speaker 8: To be loyal Like obviously, I will say people that

4476
03:47:10,720 --> 03:47:12,440
Speaker 8: do mountain bike that I know are pretty hot?

4477
03:47:13,520 --> 03:47:13,720
Speaker 4: Yeah?

4478
03:47:13,879 --> 03:47:14,560
Speaker 3: Are pretty what?

4479
03:47:14,879 --> 03:47:15,360
Speaker 4: Pretty hot?

4480
03:47:15,360 --> 03:47:15,480
Speaker 2: Hot?

4481
03:47:16,680 --> 03:47:18,280
Speaker 4: We got you?

4482
03:47:18,360 --> 03:47:19,440
Speaker 3: Got one in our house.

4483
03:47:19,600 --> 03:47:22,039
Speaker 4: We got one in our house. One mountain biker