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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. This is

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Speaker 1: the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much for finding us.

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Speaker 2: On a weekend. Yeah, on a weekend, and this.

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Speaker 3: Is just a little treat. Okay.

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Speaker 1: When it says classic, these are ones that we have

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Speaker 1: dug up from the vault because we have done thousands

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Speaker 1: of second games, so.

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Speaker 4: You maybe probably have not even heard these ones.

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Speaker 5: Black people are always think they're new, and we're like,

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Speaker 5: that's a classic.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: A lot of you guys have bing these, but not

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Speaker 2: everyone is as.

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Speaker 1: Committed as you yet totally, it's definitely split fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 1: I mean, no matter what, we just hope that you

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Speaker 1: enjoy this. We've got two back to back to just

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Speaker 1: make sure that you get all your tasks, all your

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Speaker 1: chores done with one pod.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so.

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Speaker 5: You can't get your stuff done without us. Yes, you

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Speaker 5: know it. That's right.

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Speaker 3: So it all starts right now.

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Speaker 5: I will say there's not much that really rattles Brook

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Speaker 5: anymore because four hundred years of radio experience, she's seen

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Speaker 5: and done pretty much everything.

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Speaker 4: Oh say it again, Jah, she was ir when Station

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Speaker 4: one start.

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Speaker 5: Well that's what she thought till today when she was

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Speaker 5: put in the most dramatic, uncomfortable situation of her entire

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Speaker 5: radio career.

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Speaker 3: You are even exaggerating.

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Speaker 5: All because our listener said, Brook, please, you need to

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Speaker 5: talk to this person for me.

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Speaker 3: But I don't have boundaries, so I didn't say no.

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Speaker 5: And I probably should have. Did Brook handle it with

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Speaker 5: poison class or did she crumble under the immense pressure.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna find out when we do your second date

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Speaker 5: update right after this second date update. We've heard of

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Speaker 5: people getting stood up at the start of the date. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: just never showing.

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Speaker 3: It's not cool, feels so bad.

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Speaker 5: I've been stood up at the end of a date

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Speaker 5: where night's over, we say goodbye, and then they just

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Speaker 5: leave that. Oh you're standing at the door, so rude.

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Speaker 3: That's the events.

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Speaker 5: At least linger for a second before you run away.

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Speaker 5: But it's a whole different thing to get stood up

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Speaker 5: while you're still in the middle of a date.

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Speaker 3: I know a lot of people go into the bathroom

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Speaker 5: This is different. This isn't like an excuse yourself to

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Speaker 5: the bathroom mid dinner, then slip out the back situation.

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Speaker 5: This one's more personal. Apparently that's what happened to one

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Speaker 5: of our listeners Dana recently, so let's talk to her. Dana,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry to hear this happen to you. How you

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Speaker 5: doing I'm.

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Speaker 7: Not doing well. I'm a little piss off right now.

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Speaker 5: To be honest, it's understandable.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even really get how whatever you're

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking one of those on me at the second bar.

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Speaker 2: Let's drive separate see it ever, to learn more.

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Speaker 5: About what happened on this date, Dana tell us the situation.

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Speaker 7: So I got stood up on a vacation dates.

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Speaker 3: A vacation date, like when you met somebody at a resort, you.

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Speaker 7: Mean, not particularly. I had met this guy, Sean on

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Speaker 7: one of the apps. I don't know if it was

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Speaker 7: travel mode or you know, his search options were everywhere,

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Speaker 7: but we connected. Okay, he's super cute, he's athletic, all of.

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Speaker 4: Us on the app.

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Speaker 7: Just so you know, well, I had a high hope. Okay,

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Speaker 7: good and honestly, like we really got along. We were

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Speaker 7: talking a lot, We're even talking on the phone. And

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Speaker 7: after a couple of weeks he he wanted to fly

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Speaker 7: me to LA which is where he.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now, is that like a green flag for you

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Speaker 7: Have you?

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Speaker 3: Have you done it before?

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Speaker 7: I haven't. At first, I was a little scared, but

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Speaker 2: I've heard both like amazing stories and horror and.

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Speaker 5: It's a red flag that his entire family is waiting

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Speaker 5: at the air I'm just assuming that's how it went.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, though, Yeah, did you go?

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Speaker 3: Did you get on the plane?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? I took the invitation, but obviously I was feeling nervous, like,

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Speaker 7: how was I going to go about this? You know,

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Speaker 4: To get you a hotel or did you offer for

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Speaker 7: No, I mean I set the boundary pretty quickly, and

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear them. You see him?

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Speaker 7: So it all turned out really well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: No, I mean like when I finally met him, he

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Speaker 7: looked like his photos. We hung out all day long.

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Speaker 7: He showed me around the city.

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Speaker 3: That's so cute.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we had a nice dinner. We went dancing. I

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Speaker 5: Like, Okay, well, I don't understand then, because at the

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Speaker 5: start you said you're really pissed, So how does that

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Speaker 7: Well, because the next day, after this great date, we

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Speaker 7: It's really hard to get into, and I was really

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Speaker 7: excited about it. And that morning I was hanging out,

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Speaker 7: I went on to the pool and I texted him.

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Speaker 7: You know, I was just trying to be like, let's

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Speaker 7: feed up early. That's hard to get into. You know,

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Speaker 7: I don't live here, so I don't know how long

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Speaker 9: No no response, Oh man, are you like I would

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Speaker 9: be kind of like, oh, something must have happened, you

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Speaker 9: know what I mean, Like, you wouldn't assume that somebody

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Speaker 9: would fly you all the way out there and then just.

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Speaker 5: Not did she right? Yeah? Did you ask?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: So I texted him again, there's still no response. I

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Speaker 7: I text him again, like where is he and asking

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Speaker 7: ever respond? He responded later that evening and he said,

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry I've been unresponsive. I've had some devastating news.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, did he share? I mean god, I mean

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Speaker 7: He did not share.

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Speaker 5: That's too vague.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like my favorite sports team loses, I'm devastating.

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Speaker 3: You assume really bad, like someone in the family died,

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Speaker 5: Okay, so you immediately believe him. As soon as he

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Speaker 2: Are you the word devastating?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just like vocabulary.

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Speaker 3: You don't give him the benefit of the doubt in

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Speaker 5: Never never give them the benefit of the doubt. We

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Speaker 5: will take advantage every time.

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Speaker 5: I at least would say, well, I hope no one

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Speaker 5: passed away or whatever you're going through, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: I'm here for you, and then he should say something next.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So, yeah, what happened. Where did the conversation go

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 7: I didn't hear from him after that, and I just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't hear from him, and I'm really wondering, like,

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Speaker 3: And if you still haven't heard from him.

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Speaker 7: No, And it's really confusing. And this is why I'm pissed.

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Speaker 7: It's because we had such a great date that it

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Speaker 7: makes no sense that he would just, you know, say

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Speaker 7: there's devastating news, not share with me what it is.

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Speaker 7: And then he stood me up. Yeah, how oh, this

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you flew into a new city, he

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Speaker 3: Did you ever see his house?

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Speaker 7: No? I didn't, but I didn't want to see a house.

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Speaker 3: I just wondering if maybe there's like a second family.

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Speaker 1: Or a family he's married, or you know, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just I mean, there's so much you don't know

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Speaker 4: I didn't even think about that.

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Speaker 7: I did my preliminary Google search of this person. I

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Speaker 5: Did you check the local papers about any devastating news

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Speaker 4: Devastation column?

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Speaker 3: I love that column.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how you checked the news.

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Speaker 5: Why don't you google some devastating information in the Los

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Speaker 5: we come back, we'll try and get you your second

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Speaker 5: date update with with the guy who stood you up

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Speaker 5: devastating news but doesn't elaborate. Should that be a red flag?

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Speaker 5: The ladies in the room surprisingly said no, I think

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Speaker 5: you need to hear the person believe him. They said,

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Speaker 5: men don't lie about devastating news.

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Speaker 3: Benefit of a doubt, Jeff, that was my exact words.

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Speaker 5: Tomato, tomato.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 5: Lexus gives him credit just for using a big word

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Speaker 5: with lots of letters.

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Speaker 2: You can't lie if you're saying devastating.

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Speaker 4: So what is it sending him flowers and flying him

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Speaker 4: to her?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 4: I feel so mad?

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Speaker 5: That's so kind. Bottom line is Dana was left hanging

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Speaker 5: in the middle of a vacation dating. The guy flew

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Speaker 5: her ound to La and now he hasn't even responded

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Speaker 5: to her for two weeks after he just ditched her.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's wild. I think that he's got

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, it's not just devastating. You would have elaborated.

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Speaker 1: Days later, he's saying, She's like all the devastating news,

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Speaker 1: the kids are still.

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Speaker 3: In this house.

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Speaker 5: That would be tragic. So understandably, Dana wants answers here.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna call him. His name is Sean, right, Dana, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 5: I just want to make sure we have that.

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Speaker 3: And how mad are you are you? Because you said

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Speaker 7: I mean, if we can get him on the phone

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Speaker 7: and I can talk to him like my time is valuable.

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Speaker 7: I came to a different city to see him, like,

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Speaker 3: You got a good story. Yeah, you do it for

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Speaker 7: Good luck.

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Speaker 10: Hello, Hi?

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Speaker 5: Is this sorry? We're looking for Sean? Sean there, No,

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Speaker 7: Can I take a message for you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Well well hold on?

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Speaker 1: Well okay, I think we just need to ask who's this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, who's this?

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Speaker 7: Who is this?

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Speaker 6: Or there's several of you.

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Speaker 5: Well, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: Is this Shawn's number?

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Speaker 6: Did he sign up for something?

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Speaker 4: Are you a family member of Seawan's?

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Speaker 7: I mean, okay, I don't have all the Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Can we put her on hold? Yeah? Okay, we got her.

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Speaker 2: That to be the truth.

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Speaker 1: I was like, worst case scenario.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were wrong.

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Speaker 5: We're kind of called it here. Not it's not an

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Speaker 3: What my wife is a second is the family?

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Speaker 7: How am I supposed to respond to this?

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Speaker 1: Well, this is the first time we will not be

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Speaker 4: We can't do this.

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Speaker 7: No, this is awful.

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Speaker 7: First, I have been cheated on before, and the fact

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Speaker 3: Do you want to tell her? Do you want to

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Speaker 5: Unfortunately, it's not surprising because unfortunately a lot of guys

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Speaker 3: Of it, the coward's way out.

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Speaker 5: I'm not opposed to it. Number two wouldn't be Number two,

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Speaker 3: She's to do it calmly. If she's gonna do that, it's.

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Speaker 5: have Brooke speak to the white for Dana. Brook has

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Speaker 2: Do your kids cheating? Don't you want to help?

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Speaker 4: And when we started the call, you literally asked, when

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 7: I think that if Brook can set this up, I

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's a good choice, Dana. I feel like this

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Speaker 3: The opposite of even you can the marriage.

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: We are not breaking up this marriage. That man is

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's gonna really, You're gonna really do it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, somebody has to. This woman has to.

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Speaker 7: Know Brook, tell her the truth.

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Speaker 4: Come on, I got your back here.

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Speaker 5: Excuse devastating news. Let's make it a real.

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Speaker 2: Thing word for me forever.

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Speaker 5: Now, all right, let's punch the wife back up. Okay, Hello, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 3: I didn't get your name. What's your name, Niki? Hi, Nikki.

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Speaker 4: It's a pretty name.

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Speaker 3: So you're probably wondering why we're calling.

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Speaker 1: How we got your husband's phone number. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you not great news on that front. Okay, because the

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Speaker 5: Update, typically very fun segment.

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Speaker 1: So typically people go on a first date and when

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Speaker 5: They were a funny hat?

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense, Snicky?

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Speaker 6: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Why we got your husband's phone number. We didn't realize

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Speaker 7: Yeah okay, I mean we trade off weeks, we do

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait wait wait yeah, that's fine. Are

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Relieved?

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Speaker 5: I am relieve.

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Speaker 7: I thought Nikky, I was giving you the whole world

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Speaker 1: But it turns out when you're saying you have an

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Speaker 5: Yeah, could you pass some of the is that all?

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Speaker 5: Could you write down some of how that how that

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Speaker 7: I am not talking you through this.

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Speaker 6: Can I go?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 8: You know?

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Speaker 1: Can you hear my heart beat over the radio?

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Speaker 6: Very work out?

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Speaker 3: I was so nervous.

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Speaker 5: You know, Nikki, thank you so much. We don't want

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Speaker 3: This is one of those the more you know, the

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Speaker 5: Okay, so Nicky's gone. Hey, Dana, good news. Yeah, you

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Speaker 4: You're one of many women.

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Speaker 7: My jaw.

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Speaker 4: I forgot. She was so great.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking it that Sean didn't let you know that

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Speaker 2: I know it was devastating. He had his weekends mixed up. Yes,

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Speaker 3: How about a girls night me for some cocktails?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I was obligated just to offer. That's just what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I've never been so relieved at polyamory.

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Speaker 8: And freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I who did not I have that on

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Speaker 4: I think it was more dramatic for Brook than anyone

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Speaker 1: I think the person dating the husband is thinking, Okay.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: These are the types of wholesome good news stories that

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Speaker 5: jeff I hope kt LA runs a story tonight local

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Speaker 5: married man dates two dozen women, wife is thrilled Disney

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Speaker 8: And Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Certain topics in the dating world are just considered taboo.

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Speaker 5: Just don't bring them up because you're playing with fire,

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Speaker 5: And I've never seen this particular topic mentioned on any

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's so exciting.

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Speaker 3: You have your chance get you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: It's great second chances.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you blew your shot the first time, and now

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Speaker 3: I've never not taken it.

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Speaker 2: Tell you your.

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Speaker 3: Please, you're telling me we have a married person.

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Speaker 8: On the phone.

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Speaker 5: Happiness too, Brooke. Always remember you're talking about me. One

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Speaker 5: of our listeners had an accidental run with an old

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Speaker 5: love interest of his and now he's come to us

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Speaker 5: for some help. His name is Jason. Jason. Welcome to

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Speaker 5: the show.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, Jason, as my fingers that you're single, buddy.

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Speaker 6: I am all right.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, off to a good start.

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Speaker 4: Exadly we would have probably kept going. Yes, conscious feel better.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So apparently you ran into some sort of old

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Speaker 5: love interest from your past. Tell us about her.

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Speaker 6: Well, it's a it's a girl that I used to

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Speaker 6: work with. Her name's Cassy. And you know, I must

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Speaker 6: have asked her out half a dozen times, you know,

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Speaker 6: back when we worked together.

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Speaker 5: Oh you did?

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Speaker 3: You did shoot your shot a lot for the shot?

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Speaker 7: Was?

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Speaker 6: She kind of always acted like she thought I was joking,

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Speaker 6: you know what I mean, like she didn't take it seriously.

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Speaker 1: Well that she was probably doing that to save your feelings.

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Speaker 6: Maybe it didn't feel good either way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what was her response always?

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Speaker 6: Well, she always would just be like, oh, you're so funny,

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Speaker 6: or you know, we worked together, you know that sort

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Speaker 6: of thing. And well then she left, right she got

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Speaker 6: a different job about seven years ago, and I guess

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Speaker 6: roughly a week ago I ran into her at Target. Okay,

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Speaker 6: I was like, hey, you know, and you know, we

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Speaker 6: kind of shared some old inside jokes and caught up.

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Speaker 6: You know, how you you.

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Speaker 3: Didn't just ask her out right there?

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Speaker 2: I'm wondering if you're the reason she switched off.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, you're getting ahead of me, because I did.

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Speaker 6: I did ask her out.

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Speaker 2: Oh you did.

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Speaker 6: I didn't really mean to even ask her out, like

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Speaker 6: on a date date, because initially she was like hesitant,

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Speaker 6: and I was like, let's just go get some drinks,

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Speaker 6: you know, catch up just like friends. And yeah, and

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Speaker 6: we did.

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Speaker 1: And uh, okay, did you say just like friends when

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Speaker 1: you proposed this? Uh?

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Speaker 6: Not really? I was like, it's just drinks, all right, Okay.

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Speaker 5: Is there a way to make make drinks just friends?

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Speaker 5: Like I just want to go out for friend drinks

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Speaker 5: with you know?

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Speaker 1: I just I was wondering if that's what he said

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Speaker 1: to her when when he asked her out, because then

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Speaker 1: obviously we know why she isn't friends.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, right, right, Well I kind of did it

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Speaker 6: in the way that I guess just as friends unless

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Speaker 6: you say yes and minutes more, you know what I

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Speaker 6: mean that that kind of thing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, leave the door open for whatever possibilities happened

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Speaker 5: that night, that's okay.

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Speaker 6: And so she takes me up on it, gives me

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Speaker 6: your number, I get, we get a The date didn't

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Speaker 6: really go all that well because I was nervous.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're up in your head?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Oh yeah, I was so on my head. So

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Speaker 6: like the one reference I had of us together and

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Speaker 6: like knew was that target. So I just kept talking

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Speaker 6: about stuff that I found at Target.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, well, hold on, Like, maybe there's some good

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Speaker 5: stuff you found.

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Speaker 1: If you talked about Yeah, but I'm guessing that he's

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Speaker 1: not going to Target for the fun stuff men go for,

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Speaker 1: like vitamins and cream.

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Speaker 4: You're so right.

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Speaker 5: What did you find there, Jason?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I mean I found lots of stuff from household items

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Speaker 6: to cereals that they don't have at my regular grocery store.

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Speaker 5: Like, oh, secret cereals is a hot topic.

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Speaker 4: I love cereal back off.

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Speaker 1: That sucks too, because you've spent seven years going over

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Speaker 1: in your head what you would have done differently, and

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Speaker 1: then your moment comes and all you can talk about

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Speaker 1: is cereals at targets.

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Speaker 4: It does sound that.

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Speaker 5: Target would be happy with that, though, like they would

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Speaker 5: consider that a major romantic win.

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Speaker 6: You might be overselling it a little bit. I wouldn't

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Speaker 6: say that I've spent like the last seven years, like

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Speaker 6: constantly thinking about that. Okay, just like what I saw

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Speaker 6: or was like this is perfect.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, Okay, that's good. I don't I don't

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Speaker 5: think that sounds like a total disaster of a day.

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Speaker 5: It's just one funny moment.

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Speaker 6: Look, she was laughing. She acted like she was interested

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Speaker 6: in what I was saying.

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Speaker 2: So she acted That's the keyword there, like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like she laughed at every other joke that

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Speaker 1: he made when he asked her out, Jason, is.

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Speaker 5: It possible that she was just like pretending to be

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Speaker 5: interested and have more fun than she really was.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I will say that I was definitely

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Speaker 6: a lot more confident in how well it went before

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Speaker 6: this conversation.

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Speaker 5: We do have that effect on people, So don't look

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Speaker 5: at yourself for that.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: She gave me the normal laughs and asking questions, even

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Speaker 6: about different stuff, and so I thought she was interested.

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Speaker 6: And I shot her at the text message the next

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Speaker 6: day like, hey, had a lot of fun yesterday, would

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Speaker 6: you like to hang out again sometime? And she just

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Speaker 6: responded with that's not how this works.

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Speaker 5: That's not how what works.

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Speaker 6: I don't well, I don't know what this is.

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Speaker 5: Was did you ask her? She meant yeah, I was like, well, not.

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Speaker 6: How what works? And she just has not responded at all.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't want to get into it.

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Speaker 3: She's like, she's like, he's an idiot.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she's like saying that's not how this works, Like

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Speaker 5: this isn't a romantic situation that's developing here.

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Speaker 3: Could I hope yeah, just yeah.

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Speaker 5: It depends on how you read it. You could take

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Speaker 5: it different ways. The only way to know is to

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Speaker 5: actually reach out to Cassie or she's like, that's how

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Speaker 5: this works. You need to have a ring buddy with

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Speaker 5: the target. But okay, so how long has it been.

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Speaker 6: It's been a week?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okayount of time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's reach out to her and find out what

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Speaker 5: she means and hopefully get you out on another hot

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Speaker 5: target date with her when we come back to do

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Speaker 5: your second date update right after this second date update.

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Speaker 5: If you go out on a date and text them

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Speaker 5: afterwards asking them out again, they write back, that's not

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Speaker 5: how they works. What does that mean? You know?

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Speaker 3: But when you say it like that, it sounds like

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Speaker 3: a threat.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, it's a mystery. Does it mean you

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Speaker 5: texted too soon? Does it mean we're not a romantic

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Speaker 5: thing at all?

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Speaker 3: Do you mean that you need to try harder?

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Speaker 5: Does it mean you need to read the prologue of

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Speaker 5: the Da Vinci Code upside down at exactly noon in

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Speaker 5: the shadow of the Chrysler building and the answer will

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Speaker 5: reveal itself to you. How did you say, Wow, I'm

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Speaker 5: just throwing out a guest there. We're hoping to find

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Speaker 5: out because this one's a little bit different. Jason, our

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Speaker 5: listener has known the girl whereabout to call, going back years.

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Speaker 5: They used to work together, asked her out many times

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Speaker 5: until she finally said yes. The other day at Target,

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Speaker 5: went out on one date, and afterwards he got that strange,

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Speaker 5: mysterious text. That's not how this works.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting because you said you were so nervous,

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Speaker 1: but she sounds so confident.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean I felt like I was doing okay because

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Speaker 6: she was laughing, smiling, and then when she didn't respond,

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Speaker 6: I was I started questioning everything.

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Speaker 1: I didn't call it a date, like she might not

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Speaker 1: know it's a date.

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Speaker 3: Let's get some answers, Jeff, get that Da Vinci codebook out.

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Speaker 5: And we're going to be very very clear with her.

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Speaker 5: We're going to say a romantic date the Hawkeye recently yes,

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Speaker 5: with lots and lots of kissing, in.

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Speaker 3: Action, any of that.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm just saying for the next one, we're going

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Speaker 5: to make sure it's very clear that he's not in

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Speaker 5: the friend zone.

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Speaker 2: We ask I'm sorry, We're gonna go.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna send you out on a romantic hot date.

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Speaker 6: Don't scare her. This sounds more awkward than I was

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Speaker 6: by myself.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know this show, Jason.

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Speaker 8: Listen.

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Speaker 5: We'll try and dial it back just a little bit.

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Speaker 5: But I'm calling her right now. Hopefully she answers. Here

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Speaker 5: we go. Hello, Hey, we're We're gonna speak with Cassie.

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Speaker 7: This is her.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Sorry, sound weird Therehi Cassie, Good morning. This is

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Speaker 5: a whole radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 5: the Morning. Oh my GOSHU Hi, Okay, wait, do you

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Speaker 5: know the show?

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Speaker 7: I kind of like, what is happening?

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Speaker 5: Well, this is a second date update. We heard that

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Speaker 5: you went out recently to drinks with one of our

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Speaker 5: listeners named Jason. An old I'm not gonna say that

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Speaker 5: an old coworker.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but why answer like that.

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Speaker 7: I feel like that's kind of between him and me.

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Speaker 3: Well, he he is clueless, so I don't think anything

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Speaker 3: is between.

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Speaker 7: You and him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we heard that you guys went out the other day,

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Speaker 5: and we just want to know how it went from

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Speaker 5: your perspective.

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Speaker 3: Like, were you excited?

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Speaker 5: Do you have a good time?

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Speaker 6: I mean, like I guess like the date was okay,

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Speaker 6: But I just.

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Speaker 7: Feel like, I don't know, that's just like more of

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Speaker 7: a me and him thing.

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Speaker 6: To talk about.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 5: What is well?

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Speaker 7: I've been like putting it off because I don't really

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Speaker 7: know how to say it to him.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, have you had a crush on him

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Speaker 1: for years and you finally want to tell him?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 5: What I got there's definitely one thing that you were pinpointing,

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Speaker 5: like there's something that he did wrong. I mean I

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Speaker 5: think he should now Okay, look, Cassie, I normally don't

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Speaker 5: do this, and we'd usually find out a little bit

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Speaker 5: more before I tell you that he's on the phone listening,

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Speaker 5: but he is. What? Yeah there, Hi?

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Speaker 7: What are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. You just haven't said anything for like

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Speaker 6: six days, I guess, so, like what gives? Why won't

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Speaker 6: you talk to me?

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Speaker 7: I just I didn't appreciate your text?

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Speaker 6: What was what was wrong with the text? Did I

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Speaker 6: say something that was offensive? I just asked if you

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Speaker 6: wanted to hang out?

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Speaker 7: It was just a text, Like, Jason, is that really

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Speaker 7: all I am to you? Just a text? No call,

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Speaker 7: not in person, nothing, just a text.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm sorry, I just I don't know. I

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Speaker 6: didn't think about going beyond a text, and that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: That's what you're supposed to say. No, You're much more

684
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 3: than just a text to me.

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00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want to be clinging it.

686
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 2: Yes, because I like you too much?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I mean did you want me to just

688
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 6: show open at your house after us not seeing each

689
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 6: other for that long? I just thought it would be

690
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 6: the proper way because I wasn't sure, you know, if

691
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 6: you wanted another date.

692
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 7: But like, I feel like I deserve romance and deserve

693
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 7: more than that, So I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Can I ask you again? Then?

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Speaker 8: Oh? I like that?

696
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 7: I don't know, can you Okay.

697
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 5: No pressure here, Jason, you got this.

698
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 4: And you may want to wait and ask her later.

699
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 3: Bro, she wants she wants it now.

700
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 5: Just deliver a super romantic question. Go ahead.

701
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Speaker 3: Do you have music?

702
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 5: You got this? I believe.

703
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 6: Oh, just let me get it out. Just let me

704
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 6: get it out, Cassie. Would you like to go out again?

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00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 7: Jason? Don't say it like that.

706
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: I mean she set you up. She told you exactly

707
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 3: what she needed. Romance.

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00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 5: Ye, try it again, Jason, more romantic?

709
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 6: OKAYSI do you want to go out? With me again, no.

710
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 2: Information about why you like hers.

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00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 5: Credit for that?

712
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 7: Do you hear you? Then it's not do you want?

713
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 6: What is it? It is because I want to.

714
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 7: But it's will ill.

715
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 3: Is just like an English thing where we're getting.

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Speaker 6: Okay, if I got to say it exactly with the

717
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 6: words that you want, okay.

718
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 7: Okay, I don't hear it from your heart.

719
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 6: Okay, that is from my heart. Like I've just I've

720
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 6: done it so many times. I've asked you, like five times.

721
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: What do you want from this man?

722
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: He told us that he asked you what a dozen

723
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: half a dozen times when you work together, and you

724
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 1: turned him down every time.

725
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 7: Well, I didn't realize it was such a burden for

726
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 7: you to ask me out.

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00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 4: Jason romantic, but he didn't phrase.

728
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 5: That very well.

729
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: Know she was this high maintenance. It's a pretty high maintenance.

730
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 7: Can you just please stay out of our business right now?

731
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 7: Like it's not involving you at all.

732
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you sound like such a pleasure.

733
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 5: We're supposed to try to make a romantic connection.

734
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: He think Jason sounds like a cool dude, you know,

735
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: like he wants to hang out crying.

736
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 3: He's doing all the things.

737
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 5: I'm supporting him, Jason, take some of what Brooks said

738
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 5: and use that towards Cassie now.

739
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 6: As do you want to go out with me? I

740
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 6: want to go out with you a lot, a lot,

741
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 6: a lot. I just want to know if you do.

742
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 5: That was the best one yet he put some some

743
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 5: more into that emphasis, I'm going to pass.

744
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you had her past twelve time.

745
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 5: She just wasn't feeling it. She wasn't feeling it like

746
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 5: he really really meant it, and it was from the heart.

747
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 5: He said that he's.

748
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: Been thinking about her on and off for the last see.

749
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: No matter what she was gonna say.

750
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 5: No, what you should have said is I've been pondering

751
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 5: about you deeply and romantically.

752
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 8: Love me.

753
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 7: I think I've definitely had enough of you strangers commenting

754
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 7: on my love life now, so I'm going to hang

755
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 7: up on you now by Oh that's our only hope.

756
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like we should have tried harder to

757
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 5: stop her, but I didn't feel like it. She's EXHAUSTI

758
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 5: h We're getting a lot of texts in at seven eight, five,

759
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 5: nine two saying you actually dodged a bullet by seeing

760
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 5: her again.

761
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 3: That's say a whole missile.

762
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 5: Can you think maybe you could let it go now?

763
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 8: Yeah?

764
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 6: Well, I definitely don't feel like, uh, I don't think

765
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 6: there's anything I could do with that. I just I

766
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 6: think that there was no possibility and it woul probably

767
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 6: would have been better for her to just say no.

768
00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 8: No.

769
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 3: That sounded like it was from your heart.

770
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, shoo? Should we call her back right now?

771
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 6: OK?

772
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 5: Now you're in the.

773
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 8: Mode brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

774
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,439
Speaker 5: Does Chris Hemsworth ever have to go through crap like this?

775
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 4: I don't think so.

776
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 5: I feel like if you're super good looking, that conversation

777
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 5: never comes up. No girl is saying to a hems Worth, O,

778
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 5: can you like ask me out like better and like

779
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 5: like put some actual heart into it?

780
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 4: Can I get more accent?

781
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: I'm actually pretty sure they just grunts.

782
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 5: Yes, And God blessed Jason because he tried the question

783
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 5: seven nine different ways whole thing.

784
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 3: When he gave up, it was almost like she was

785
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 3: messing with him.

786
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 5: It's not Honestly, I know we're supposed to try to

787
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 5: help facilitate a connection between these people, but we are

788
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 5: all happy that that one did not work out.

789
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: I can't believe he kept trying. Yeah, pick up your dignity. Man,

790
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 3: you can't do this anymore.

791
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 5: And if you have problems picking up your own dignity,

792
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 5: we can help pick it up for you, at least

793
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 5: a little bit. Yeah, email us, we'll call that person

794
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 5: who's not calling you back. Go check out all of

795
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Speaker 5: our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Broke

796
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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey