WEBVTT - Exclusive: Bachelor in Paradise Unplugged Part 1 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.920 Hey, everyone, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Wills Adams, 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:10.040 and this is Bachelor and Paradise Unplugged. The beach is 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:13.200 officially closed the summer, and our cast has returned to 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:17.280 hash out some unfinished business. I think we have to 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:20.159 start with introductions of all these beautiful people that I 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:36.880 had to serve drinks to two fortnights. Let's start with Andrew, Hello, Alex. 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:55.360 Dale, Spencer, Jess, Jeremy. 0:00:53.000 --> 0:01:18.440 Babe, Shiny Boy, Brian Yappy, and the guy who I 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:20.600 think should be the next Golden Back. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.080 All right, we got to start with the most important thing, 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:37.600 which is Jeremy, why do you hate old people? The 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:40.720 most important thing is talking about the two couples who 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:44.000 ended up winning not only money, but you found love. 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:48.040 Give us the update, Andrew, Alex, what's going on. 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:54.200 Everything's going really well. You know, we've been in hiding 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:57.800 for a while. Uh, the disguises were out, so it 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:58.240 was great. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:01:58.440 You know. 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:01.600 We we still navigated through, you know, watching the show 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:04.640 and also just kind of like dating outside of the show, 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:06.880 and I think that was very important to us. I 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.480 was like, yeah, go ahead, text all your hoes that 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:09.160 you had before. 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:11.880 I was no, I'm serious. 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:13.640 I was just like, make sure, just be like, make 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.079 sure you let everyone know, like, hey, you know, I'm 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.280 I'm gonna pursue something with this guy. And I was like, 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:20.000 I think that was just the most important thing, just 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:24.359 like translate paradise into real life, because paradise is, you know, 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:24.880 it's a bubble. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:25.520 It's kind of tough. 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:27.240 Like I don't get to wake up in here every day. 0:02:27.320 --> 0:02:30.160 She like lives in La I live in Chicago. So yeah, 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.919 you want to say, baby, I think you covered it. 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:37.320 Yeah, it's been lovely and in that short period of 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:39.160 time that we've had, I feel like I've helped you 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.359 grow and You've helped me grow so much and I'm 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:45.359 so thankful for that. Yeah, so it's been doing going 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:46.040 really really well. 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:48.040 On a personal note, I mean I get to see 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.160 everyone's love story kind of unfold behind the bar, and 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.400 I do think that you guys had the cutest story 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:55.280 and I think a lot of it. 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:57.880 We didn't pay him. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:01.880 We didn't pay him because it was such a funny, awkward, 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:05.359 cute like burn and I just got to say, like 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:07.880 I love you too, don't worry, I'm gonna get to you. 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:11.000 But like watching your guys love story unfold in front 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:12.919 of me was like really really cute, and I'm just 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:14.720 I just want you guys to know that I'm rooting 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:15.000 for you. 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:22.400 The crazy thing was is when we had our chat 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.320 before I decided who was going to go on a 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:27.120 date with, I remember talking to you and you were like, 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.279 I'm sorry, I'm so awkward, I'm super nervous. 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.600 And I'm just like, oh, this is like this is perfect. 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.040 Like now I feel like I know who you are. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.640 You're not like putting up some like guard or trying 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.680 to come off your best self like in a different way. 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:43.040 Like it was, but that was super nice. And then 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:43.920 like when we when I. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.880 Belined to you in the morning and talked about it, 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.320 I think I just knew right then and there like 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.840 that's what like I wanted to pursue, and what I 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.040 wanted to do was just kind of be around you 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:56.080 and like be ourselves and it just felt perfect. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:57.640 And you wanted a weird girl. 0:03:58.320 --> 0:03:59.360 I do like a weird girl. 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:05.240 You guys are perfect. Speaking of perfect couples, I mean 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.880 we got to talk about the Golden Retriever that looks 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:15.040 like Clark Kent Spencer and Jess. You guys congratulations. You 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.760 want some money and you guys got engaged. How are 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:20.880 you guys doing I'll let you take this. Can we 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:29.560 see the ring? You heard it here first of the rings. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.479 So it is getting resized right now. Don't worry, guys, 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:35.920 we are still engaged. No, but we're doing so good. 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:41.000 We have really honestly enjoyed this time of like hiding 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:43.280 and just getting to spend time with each other. It's 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:46.760 obviously hard, you know, staying hidden. There's so many things 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.479 we want to do and experience together, but we really 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:51.080 just try to take this time for what it is, 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.560 and we're so excited to get out there in the 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:58.160 real world and go on some dates. We're actually getting 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.440 on a red eye flight straight to Tennessee for him 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.480 to see my hometown and meet the rest of my 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:06.919 family and the rest of my friends. And it's gonna 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:11.840 be so much fun. Also, spoiler alert, I am moving 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:12.400 to Dallas. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:12.960 Everyone. 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:17.400 Yeah, so at the beginning of the year, I'm. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:18.320 Gonna move to Dallas. 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.719 We just feel like it's the besting for a future 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:22.920 right now, and we're super excited. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:26.960 Yeah, she has met my whole family. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:28.159 We went back. 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:34.360 They have disowned me, mate, they have disowned me and 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:37.760 she is now their daughter, So I'm I'm without family. No, 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:40.920 but I've been able to meet her parents yet because 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:44.440 Irwin is it's a real small town. Small town, we 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.520 got a couple thousand people there, so if we would 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:49.520 have gone there would have been hard to stay under wraps. 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.280 So we're going there asap, and you know, it's just 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:54.960 been the best time to people have time just her 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:58.320 and I. I cannot wait to actually live a normal 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.880 life and be able to go on a date. We 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:01.600 haven't been on. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:05.120 Did the grocery store? Like, we just want to go 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:07.080 to the grocery store and pick out groceries together. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:10.360 Yeah, grocery store morning, while let's go on a day. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:14.520 Let's like actually be able to date normally. I think 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.440 is the thing I'm looking most forward to. 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.440 Did you guys ever think that you would find your 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:23.159 person on some weird, wacky no, Oh my god, wait, this. 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.720 Is actually really funny. I had a trip planned with 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:28.640 my boss and some of her girlfriends that I was 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:30.960 literally I had it planned. I was supposed to leave 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:34.000 like May twenty second or something. I ran out of close. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:37.200 I had another trip planned. I didn't think that this 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:39.160 w what ever happened for me in a million years. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.359 And then I met Spencer and he changed my life. 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:48.360 And I'm a romantic in that case scenario the way 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:52.159 in my best case scenario, I was like, yeah, maybe 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.120 I meet someone that I can like date outside of 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:55.680 this and we see if we can make something work. 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:58.720 But then there's always the logistics going on your head 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:01.240 of most likely we're not going to be in the 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.760 same city. Uh, Paradise is a little bit of a bubble, 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:08.240 and dating outside of that is differently. And then I 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.840 met her, so that all changed. Yeah, it all changed 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.120 instantly there. So I knew after the first day I 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:18.679 was either going to spend my whole time Paradise getting 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.160 to know her, or I was getting on the flight 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:21.920 back to Dallas. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:25.400 So I gotta say okay real quick, just for everyone 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:28.440 out there watching and listening, I very rarely cry. I 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:32.640 have a black heart and no soul. But when you 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:35.440 said I can make more money, but I can't make 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:39.920 more Jessica Taylor got me too. It was the line 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:41.920 of the season. I have to say, well done, dude. 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:43.000 True. 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:46.000 Well, let's go through all the other couples, see the 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:49.920 other ones that were engaged. Kathy and Keith. Yea, when 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:51.960 I go on with you guys, I got a ring. 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:53.160 It's just on the wrong hand. 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:55.400 Yeah, no ring, no ring. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:55.840 No. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.240 We're still great friends. I mean, we met each other 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:02.120 back in February an iHeart event there and we became 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:05.040 really good friends there and it just has even grown 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.239 much more than it, you know, I mean the experience. 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:10.360 I know, you know, you read all the comments and 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.760 everybody they go, why are they still on it? You know, 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:15.680 it's for love, and I'm a big batterer and Paradise fan, 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.080 and I really believe it's for I'm gonna cry now too, 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.320 and I believe it's for love as well. And so 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.160 I knew that we needed to go at some time. 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:25.160 But I really enjoyed my time with you, Kathy. 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:26.920 We had a great time, and I just want to 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:27.280 say that. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:32.640 They're at our age. There's different kinds of love. And 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.520 I love Keith. He's been such a good friend to 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:38.840 me and we continue to be friends, and we both 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:42.439 are looking for romantic love, but we have each other 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.920 as great friends and that's really important too. 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:45.680 Well. 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:47.720 It was very fun to watch you guys on TV. 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:52.480 I love these couples here. I love you guys. I 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.120 love you guys so much. I mean I talked to 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.760 Ale Psyche a lot. I think, out of everybody, I 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:06.320 love you so much, one of your hosy and I want. 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.200 To apologize for the statement I made about you drinking 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:11.880 all my booze. It was true. 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:15.439 My daughter texted me she watched that show, and my 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.800 daughter texts me, she's like, Dad, at least you were 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:18.640 authentic on the show. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:23.760 Yeah, Parisa, Brian, what's going on with you? Guys? 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:25.640 I want to start. 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:28.040 It was a good run, you know, it was a 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:32.280 good Yeah, and it's a great experience. 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:36.199 Yeah, that I wouldn't take back. I think life just 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:39.920 kind of gotten away from me running my restaurant. Distance 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.920 is tough, but we're still you know, good close. 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.480 Friends and. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:50.160 Yeah, okay, we'll get back to you. 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:52.080 I know more is coming. 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:56.040 So Jonathan Lea, what's going on over there? You guys 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:59.760 still friend zoned each other making tiktoks or what's happening? 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:01.640 Pretty much? 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:05.160 I mean, we were friends before, and I think it 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:06.360 kind of just brought us closer. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.120 Yeah, we got to go through. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.760 Like I told her after we got off, I'm like, 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:12.280 if I was in that position with anybody, else, I 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:13.960 don't think I would have had half as much fun. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.240 I mean, I think anybody could tell if you guys 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:19.440 know me outside of it, just wasn't loving my time 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:24.440 about halfway through, so when I'm getting there and then 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:28.040 when Leay got there, after we kind of fixed our friendship, 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.640 like everything just started to get better and we had 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:31.880 a lot of fun. And then we left the show 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:34.439 on the best terms possible and spend a lot of 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:36.920 time together watch episodes, chat about everything, and. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:38.959 She's kind of just helped me get through everything, and 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:40.000 I think vice versa. 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.920 Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't have had it any other way. Honestly, 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:45.199 I know I talked all the time about we should 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:48.839 feel in love. I think that everything like really was 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:50.839 meant to happen the way that it did. And I'm 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:54.560 so grateful for Jonathan, And yeah, we're just the best 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:58.600 of friends. We support each other. I help him wingman 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.160 his lady, he helps me out, you know, so like 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.840 a good dynamic going on here. 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:10.640 Well, listen, I got to say one thing that America 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:19.400 was robbed of was your interviews. You were the weirdest person. Well, 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:21.120 if we do on our paradise, hope you come back 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:22.839 because you deserve to find someone there. 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:26.440 If I'm still single by a year from now. 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:31.320 Please Sean Alicier, are you guys still hot and heavy? 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:32.320 What's going on with you guys? 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:34.840 Yeah, well we saw you for the fourth of July. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.079 Yes, but that was fun. I hosted you at my 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:37.720 country club. 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:43.800 We definitely love Paradise with a great relationship and continued 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:46.520 it on the outside. We've kind of been faced with 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:48.480 a little bit of distance. I would say, I've had 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:51.559 some opportunities come up in LA and I've pursued them, 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:54.719 and that's something that we've discussed. I'm not willing to 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.320 compromise my career goals for a heterosexual man, and Sean 0:11:58.360 --> 0:11:58.839 supports that. 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.000 So we love each other. 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:04.400 I think we're best of friends and more than anything else, 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:07.360 just the best of teammates, and we respect and care 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:08.000 for one another. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:09.040 Yeah. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:11.959 It was a good run. Yeah, but no, everything she 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:15.000 said was correct. I think you know, distance is really tough, obviously, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:16.600 and you know, when you put it in the grand 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:18.880 scheme of things of like Paradise. We've known each other 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.640 for like twenty six days prior to leaving together, and 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.160 you know there's certain things within your career, your life 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.119 that you got to take advantage of. I mean, opportunities 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:29.680 don't happen that often, so you know, at the end 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:31.080 of the day, like I have my career, she has 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:32.920 her career, and like it makes it tough with the distance, 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:34.800 but we did walk away with the best of friends. 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.439 So very happy to leave Paradise. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.520 With that nice. Well, I want to take congratulations on 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:40.839 winning the Masters this year than you. 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:43.640 If you're not first, you'll last. 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:48.720 So Jeremy Bailey, what's going on with you? Guys? 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.280 Yeah, I feel like, similar to like Alex and Andrew, 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:54.319 we definitely restarted our relationship. I think we were really 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:56.840 happy with the foundation and the things that we really 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:59.640 got to know about each other in Paradise, and I 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:02.400 feel like we've honestly spent so much time with each 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:05.200 other this summer, just traveling back and forth. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.319 We went to Portugal, he met my mom and my 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:08.400 sister over there. 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:11.160 And we traveled around a little bit, and I've been 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.040 in New York for majority of the summer. I think 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:16.680 a lot of people that posted spoilers can attest. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.160 To that, So I feel like that's been fun. 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:22.400 We have been trying to do the disguise thing, but 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.480 you know, you can only wear a wig so much 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.920 before your wig gives out. So I feel like we've 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.280 just really loved being with each other every day. And yeah, 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:33.839 we definitely have some exciting plans for later this year. 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:41.280 And yeah, so yeah, I feel like we're in a 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.480 really good place and really happy with each other and 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.679 meeting families and I feel like that's all you can 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.000 really ask for. And friends and he's not all my 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:51.199 best friends. I'm meeting his best friends. So yeah, we're 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:51.720 really happy. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:58.520 Well, congratulations she died. Definitely not least we have Dale 0:13:58.559 --> 0:13:59.880 and Kat. How are you guys doing. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.439 We're in a great place. I can say kind of 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:05.640 the same thing you all both said. 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:11.040 Restarted a little bit after paradise, because the biggest thing 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:14.640 is understanding, like lifestyles, I travel a lot and it's 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.520 not always the easiest, but you know, my my intent 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:19.480 was early on to make sure that I was spending 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:22.600 as much time in San Diego as I could so 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:26.640 that we could just get a sense of the relationship. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:30.800 Fast forward, she hasn't met my family or anything yet. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:35.360 South Dakota is Yeah, it's South Dakota, So you know, 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.600 it's stepping off that planer in that airport. But you know, 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:42.360 I had the the chance to spend time with her family, 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:45.440 which was amazing. And you know, our goal is just 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:49.080 to build this relationship as strong and as tight as possible. 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:51.160 We've talked about all the things, whether it's San Diego, 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.800 I mean even recently, Like you know, we're just open. 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:57.360 We want want to be together, we want to do 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.960 this the right way. And I think like throughout Paradise, 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:04.760 we we had a very real natural arc of how 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:10.360 relationships go. We had the worries early on, we had 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:13.520 the triggers that popped up. We had the moments where 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.880 we had to manage meltdowns, we had to you know, 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.600 stand up for our partner. 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:24.960 And never me. We both had meltdowns, that's true, but 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.680 you know, deaded and uh the bugs. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.600 But I think that like is a is a beautiful thing. 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.160 I think a lot of times on some of these shows, 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:38.920 like people are so afraid to to to just be. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.600 And the thing I love about Kat so much is 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:45.960 that she's messy, she's imperfect, but she's beautiful in every sense. 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:51.320 And like that's not something that like scares me, you know. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.840 And I'm also the same way. It's like Dale and 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:56.600 then Dale comes out I was drinking too much rose. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:00.640 But I think anyone that you know, it's been on 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.880 the show kind of understands, like how I'll ride for 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:06.120 somebody and I know that like Kat will ride for me. 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.880 So everything else, like we'll figure out. 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:10.640 We didn't win the prize, but you know, I think 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:13.400 on the challenge side, we still yeah, you know, we're 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:14.680 ten toes down and held it down. 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:14.880 You know. 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.760 Oh he said it all. Georgie approves. My little kitty 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:20.960 approves too, so that's what really matters. Yeah, yeah, No, 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:24.360 he's took it away. He's it's been wonderful. Family's met him, 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:25.560 everything's been really good. 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:26.000 Nice. 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:29.520 Yeah, well, Cat, you're not a rookie to Paradise. It's 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:34.440 your second venture to the beach. I got to get 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:37.720 your thoughts. One why did you come back? And two 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:39.360 what'd you think about the new digs. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.640 Well, I will say I was very hesitant coming back 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:46.440 to this because of just you know, it's it's hard 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:49.040 to put yourself back in a situation where it didn't 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:51.360 work out well the first time. So like I was 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.840 very hesitant to come back and make myself vulnerable and 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:58.120 all the things. But the opportunity presented itself, and I 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.320 said why not. I was in a really good in 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.360 my life. I feel a little bit more secure in myself, 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.880 and they did promise there was going to be air conditioning, 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:05.760 so I. 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:10.119 That was like my very first question, and I just 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:11.400 kind of I also. 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:14.400 Didn't know anything about anyone. I came in without any 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.200 background of anybody, haven't watched, and that's very different than 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:20.880 the time before. So I thought this would be kind 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:22.680 of an opportunity to see where that can go and 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:25.399 just come in like fresh, and if it didn't work out, 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:27.320 I could always leave, So I had the autonomy to 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:29.600 do that and just wanted to see what was going 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:31.560 to happen. And as far as the setup, it's so 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:35.840 much better. I actually at one point said I felt 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:37.960 like cars on vacation, which is crazy because it's still 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:40.840 in the tropics and I don't vacation in the tropics. 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:43.920 And so it was just overall and I think the 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:47.000 cast in general everyone was just very like, honestly, probably 0:17:47.040 --> 0:17:49.520 the most authentic I've been around, and that makes it 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:52.119 such a more real experience and that's when you can 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:53.520 form like real relationships. 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:55.240 So it was great. 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:59.000 Nice Hey Vachelination. I got a date card for you 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:03.040 on the ultimate group day. Join me and our newly 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.280 engaged couple here Jess and Spencer, Jesse, Hannah and so 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:10.080 many more for the first ever Bachelor Nation vacation at sea. 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:12.879 You won't want to miss the onboard cocktail parties that 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:17.200 I'll be hosting, hot tubs, panels, screenings, and events. It's 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:19.080 all at sea too. Sign up to be among the 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:22.879 first to book your cabin at Bachelor Nation Vacation at 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.120 c dot com. We'll see you there. 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:32.520 Well. 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:36.359 Obviously things were a lot different this paradise. All of 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:40.040 a sudden, money was involved in these challenges as well, Jess. 0:18:40.080 --> 0:18:42.959 I was wondering what your thoughts of the challenges were 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:44.240 in their relationship tests. 0:18:44.520 --> 0:18:44.720 Yeah. 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.840 Honestly, it's funny because I see the comments online and 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.680 people are like, oh, these challenges suck, weh blah. 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:51.919 But I enjoyed them. 0:18:52.000 --> 0:18:54.280 I thought they were really good for our relationship. There's 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.320 only so many things that you can talk about in 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:58.360 scenarios you can kind of make up in your head. 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:01.080 Whereas we were kind of actually put to the test. 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:03.760 We got to learn things about each other that maybe 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:06.120 we wouldn't learn until way later down the road. 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:07.760 We got to see how. 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:13.240 Each of us you know, handle conflict, handle losing, which 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:22.040 was at times it was tough, you know, okay with it? Yeah, No, 0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:24.800 I love the challenges. I thought that it brought us 0:19:24.840 --> 0:19:27.760 closer together together, and it gave us an opportunity to 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:29.000 just like work as a team. 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:32.640 Yeah, all second everything the beautiful woman's my loft set. 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:37.720 You guys are already married, my father in law and 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:40.159 our wedding said. The only two words you need to 0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:42.040 remember are yes and dear. 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:47.280 I will say, I can't imagine our relationship being where 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:49.919 it is right now if we have just been sitting 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:53.800 on a beach for a month. You know, the fact 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:56.840 that we had these challenges that did bring up, you know, 0:19:56.960 --> 0:20:01.399 potential conflict scenarios of where you might see yourself in 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:04.359 the future, what you're looking for in a relationship that 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:07.240 would last outside of paradise. And yeah, I think the 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:09.720 competitions were overall a huge plus. 0:20:09.960 --> 0:20:13.160 Dale, What did you think do you like the competitions? 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:15.919 I I I like the competition. I mean taking an 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:23.560 l was was definitely hard. Yeah, yeah, I mean, but 0:20:23.920 --> 0:20:28.040 I think the competitions were were great. Honestly, because at 0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:33.440