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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Wills Adams,

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Speaker 1: and this is Bachelor and Paradise Unplugged. The beach is

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Speaker 1: officially closed the summer, and our cast has returned to

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Speaker 1: hash out some unfinished business. I think we have to

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Speaker 1: start with introductions of all these beautiful people that I

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Speaker 1: had to serve drinks to two fortnights. Let's start with Andrew, Hello, Alex.

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Speaker 2: Dale, Spencer, Jess, Jeremy.

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Speaker 3: Babe, Shiny Boy, Brian Yappy, and the guy who I

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Speaker 3: think should be the next Golden Back.

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Speaker 1: All right, we got to start with the most important thing,

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Speaker 1: which is Jeremy, why do you hate old people? The

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Speaker 1: most important thing is talking about the two couples who

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Speaker 1: ended up winning not only money, but you found love.

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Speaker 1: Give us the update, Andrew, Alex, what's going on.

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Speaker 4: Everything's going really well. You know, we've been in hiding

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Speaker 4: for a while. Uh, the disguises were out, so it

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Speaker 4: was great.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: We we still navigated through, you know, watching the show

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Speaker 4: and also just kind of like dating outside of the show,

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Speaker 4: and I think that was very important to us. I

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Speaker 4: was like, yeah, go ahead, text all your hoes that

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Speaker 4: you had before.

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Speaker 6: I was no, I'm serious.

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Speaker 4: I was just like, make sure, just be like, make

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Speaker 4: sure you let everyone know, like, hey, you know, I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna pursue something with this guy. And I was like,

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Speaker 4: I think that was just the most important thing, just

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Speaker 4: like translate paradise into real life, because paradise is, you know,

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Speaker 4: it's a bubble.

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Speaker 7: It's kind of tough.

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Speaker 8: Like I don't get to wake up in here every day.

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Speaker 8: She like lives in La I live in Chicago. So yeah,

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Speaker 8: you want to say, baby, I think you covered it.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's been lovely and in that short period of

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Speaker 9: time that we've had, I feel like I've helped you

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Speaker 9: grow and You've helped me grow so much and I'm

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Speaker 9: so thankful for that. Yeah, so it's been doing going

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Speaker 9: really really well.

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Speaker 1: On a personal note, I mean I get to see

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Speaker 1: everyone's love story kind of unfold behind the bar, and

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Speaker 1: I do think that you guys had the cutest story

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Speaker 1: and I think a lot of it.

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Speaker 10: We didn't pay him.

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Speaker 1: We didn't pay him because it was such a funny, awkward,

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Speaker 1: cute like burn and I just got to say, like

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Speaker 1: I love you too, don't worry, I'm gonna get to you.

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Speaker 1: But like watching your guys love story unfold in front

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Speaker 1: of me was like really really cute, and I'm just

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Speaker 1: I just want you guys to know that I'm rooting

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 4: The crazy thing was is when we had our chat

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Speaker 4: before I decided who was going to go on a

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Speaker 4: date with, I remember talking to you and you were like,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm so awkward, I'm super nervous.

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Speaker 8: And I'm just like, oh, this is like this is perfect.

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Speaker 8: Like now I feel like I know who you are.

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Speaker 4: You're not like putting up some like guard or trying

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Speaker 4: to come off your best self like in a different way.

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Speaker 8: Like it was, but that was super nice. And then

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Speaker 8: like when we when I.

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Speaker 4: Belined to you in the morning and talked about it,

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Speaker 4: I think I just knew right then and there like

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Speaker 4: that's what like I wanted to pursue, and what I

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Speaker 4: and like be ourselves and it just felt perfect.

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Speaker 10: And you wanted a weird girl.

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Speaker 8: I do like a weird girl.

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Speaker 1: You guys are perfect. Speaking of perfect couples, I mean

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Speaker 1: we got to talk about the Golden Retriever that looks

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Speaker 1: like Clark Kent Spencer and Jess. You guys congratulations. You

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Speaker 1: want some money and you guys got engaged. How are

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Speaker 1: you guys doing I'll let you take this. Can we

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Speaker 1: see the ring? You heard it here first of the rings.

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Speaker 11: So it is getting resized right now. Don't worry, guys,

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Speaker 11: we are still engaged. No, but we're doing so good.

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Speaker 11: We have really honestly enjoyed this time of like hiding

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Speaker 11: and just getting to spend time with each other. It's

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Speaker 11: obviously hard, you know, staying hidden. There's so many things

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Speaker 11: we want to do and experience together, but we really

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Speaker 11: just try to take this time for what it is,

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Speaker 11: and we're so excited to get out there in the

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Speaker 11: on a red eye flight straight to Tennessee for him

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Speaker 11: to see my hometown and meet the rest of my

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Speaker 11: family and the rest of my friends. And it's gonna

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Speaker 11: be so much fun. Also, spoiler alert, I am moving

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Speaker 11: to Dallas.

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Speaker 1: Everyone.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so at the beginning of the year, I'm.

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Speaker 10: Gonna move to Dallas.

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Speaker 11: We just feel like it's the besting for a future

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Speaker 11: right now, and we're super excited.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she has met my whole family.

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Speaker 1: We went back.

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Speaker 6: They have disowned me, mate, they have disowned me and

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Speaker 6: she is now their daughter, So I'm I'm without family. No,

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Speaker 6: but I've been able to meet her parents yet because

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Speaker 6: Irwin is it's a real small town. Small town, we

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Speaker 6: So we're going there asap, and you know, it's just

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Speaker 6: been the best time to people have time just her

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Speaker 6: and I. I cannot wait to actually live a normal

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Speaker 6: haven't been on.

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Speaker 11: Did the grocery store? Like, we just want to go

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Speaker 11: to the grocery store and pick out groceries together.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, grocery store morning, while let's go on a day.

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Speaker 6: Let's like actually be able to date normally. I think

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Speaker 6: is the thing I'm looking most forward to.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys ever think that you would find your

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Speaker 1: person on some weird, wacky no, Oh my god, wait, this.

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Speaker 11: Is actually really funny. I had a trip planned with

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Speaker 11: my boss and some of her girlfriends that I was

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Speaker 11: literally I had it planned. I was supposed to leave

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Speaker 11: like May twenty second or something. I ran out of close.

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Speaker 11: I had another trip planned. I didn't think that this

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Speaker 11: w what ever happened for me in a million years.

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Speaker 11: And then I met Spencer and he changed my life.

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Speaker 6: And I'm a romantic in that case scenario the way

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Speaker 6: in my best case scenario, I was like, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 6: I meet someone that I can like date outside of

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Speaker 6: this and we see if we can make something work.

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Speaker 6: But then there's always the logistics going on your head

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Speaker 6: of most likely we're not going to be in the

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Speaker 6: same city. Uh, Paradise is a little bit of a bubble,

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Speaker 6: and dating outside of that is differently. And then I

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Speaker 6: met her, so that all changed. Yeah, it all changed

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Speaker 6: instantly there. So I knew after the first day I

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Speaker 6: was either going to spend my whole time Paradise getting

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Speaker 1: So I gotta say okay real quick, just for everyone

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Speaker 1: out there watching and listening, I very rarely cry. I

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Speaker 1: have a black heart and no soul. But when you

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Speaker 1: said I can make more money, but I can't make

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Speaker 1: more Jessica Taylor got me too. It was the line

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Speaker 1: of the season. I have to say, well done, dude.

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Speaker 12: True.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's go through all the other couples, see the

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Speaker 1: other ones that were engaged. Kathy and Keith. Yea, when

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Speaker 1: I go on with you guys, I got a ring.

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Speaker 6: It's just on the wrong hand.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no ring, no ring.

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 5: We're still great friends. I mean, we met each other

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Speaker 5: back in February an iHeart event there and we became

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Speaker 5: much more than it, you know, I mean the experience.

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Speaker 5: I know, you know, you read all the comments and

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Speaker 5: everybody they go, why are they still on it? You know,

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Speaker 5: it's for love, and I'm a big batterer and Paradise fan,

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Speaker 5: and I really believe it's for I'm gonna cry now too,

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Speaker 5: and I believe it's for love as well. And so

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Speaker 5: I knew that we needed to go at some time.

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Speaker 5: But I really enjoyed my time with you, Kathy.

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Speaker 8: We had a great time, and I just want to

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Speaker 8: say that.

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Speaker 13: They're at our age. There's different kinds of love. And

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Speaker 13: I love Keith. He's been such a good friend to

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Speaker 13: me and we continue to be friends, and we both

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Speaker 13: are looking for romantic love, but we have each other

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Speaker 13: as great friends and that's really important too.

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Speaker 14: Well.

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Speaker 1: It was very fun to watch you guys on TV.

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Speaker 5: I love these couples here. I love you guys. I

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Speaker 5: love you guys so much. I mean I talked to

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Speaker 5: Ale Psyche a lot. I think, out of everybody, I

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Speaker 5: love you so much, one of your hosy and I want.

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Speaker 1: To apologize for the statement I made about you drinking

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Speaker 1: all my booze. It was true.

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Speaker 5: My daughter texted me she watched that show, and my

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Speaker 5: daughter texts me, she's like, Dad, at least you were

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Parisa, Brian, what's going on with you? Guys?

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Speaker 8: I want to start.

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Speaker 15: It was a good run, you know, it was a

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Speaker 15: good Yeah, and it's a great experience.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, that I wouldn't take back. I think life just

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Speaker 16: kind of gotten away from me running my restaurant. Distance

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Speaker 16: is tough, but we're still you know, good close.

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Speaker 7: Friends and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we'll get back to you.

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Speaker 6: I know more is coming.

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Speaker 1: So Jonathan Lea, what's going on over there? You guys

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Speaker 1: still friend zoned each other making tiktoks or what's happening?

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Speaker 10: Pretty much?

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Speaker 17: I mean, we were friends before, and I think it

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Speaker 17: kind of just brought us closer.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we got to go through.

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Speaker 17: Like I told her after we got off, I'm like,

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Speaker 17: if I was in that position with anybody, else, I

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Speaker 17: don't think I would have had half as much fun.

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Speaker 17: I mean, I think anybody could tell if you guys

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Speaker 17: know me outside of it, just wasn't loving my time

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Speaker 17: about halfway through, so when I'm getting there and then

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Speaker 17: when Leay got there, after we kind of fixed our friendship,

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Speaker 17: like everything just started to get better and we had

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Speaker 17: a lot of fun. And then we left the show

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Speaker 17: on the best terms possible and spend a lot of

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Speaker 17: time together watch episodes, chat about everything, and.

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Speaker 8: She's kind of just helped me get through everything, and

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Speaker 8: I think vice versa.

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Speaker 18: Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't have had it any other way. Honestly,

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Speaker 18: I know I talked all the time about we should

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Speaker 18: feel in love. I think that everything like really was

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Speaker 18: meant to happen the way that it did. And I'm

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Speaker 18: so grateful for Jonathan, And yeah, we're just the best

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Speaker 18: of friends. We support each other. I help him wingman

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Speaker 18: his lady, he helps me out, you know, so like

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Speaker 18: a good dynamic going on here.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I got to say one thing that America

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Speaker 1: was robbed of was your interviews. You were the weirdest person. Well,

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Speaker 1: if we do on our paradise, hope you come back

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Speaker 1: because you deserve to find someone there.

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Speaker 18: If I'm still single by a year from now.

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Speaker 1: Please Sean Alicier, are you guys still hot and heavy?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you guys?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, well we saw you for the fourth of July.

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Speaker 20: It was a good run. Yeah, but no, everything she

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Speaker 10: To that, So I feel like that's been fun.

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Speaker 1: Well, congratulations she died. Definitely not least we have Dale

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Speaker 7: We're in a great place. I can say kind of

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Speaker 21: Restarted a little bit after paradise, because the biggest thing

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Speaker 21: Fast forward, she hasn't met my family or anything yet.

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Speaker 21: South Dakota is Yeah, it's South Dakota, So you know,

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Speaker 21: We've talked about all the things, whether it's San Diego,

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Speaker 7: And never me. We both had meltdowns, that's true, but

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Speaker 21: But I think that like is a is a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 21: I think a lot of times on some of these shows,

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Speaker 21: And the thing I love about Kat so much is

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Speaker 7: And like that's not something that like scares me, you know.

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Speaker 21: And I'm also the same way. It's like Dale and

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Speaker 21: But I think anyone that you know, it's been on

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Speaker 7: So everything else, like we'll figure out.

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Speaker 21: We didn't win the prize, but you know, I think

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Speaker 22: Oh he said it all. Georgie approves. My little kitty

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Cat, you're not a rookie to Paradise. It's

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Speaker 22: Well, I will say I was very hesitant coming back

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Speaker 22: Didn't know anything about anyone. I came in without any

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Speaker 7: So it was great.

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Speaker 14: Well.

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Speaker 1: Obviously things were a lot different this paradise. All of

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Speaker 1: I was wondering what your thoughts of the challenges were

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: Honestly, it's funny because I see the comments online and

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Speaker 1: But I enjoyed them.

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Speaker 11: I thought they were really good for our relationship. There's

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Speaker 11: We got to learn things about each other that maybe

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Speaker 1: We got to see how.

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Speaker 11: Each of us you know, handle conflict, handle losing, which

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Speaker 11: was at times it was tough, you know, okay with it? Yeah, No,

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Speaker 11: I love the challenges. I thought that it brought us

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Speaker 6: Yeah, all second everything the beautiful woman's my loft set.

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Speaker 1: You guys are already married, my father in law and

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Speaker 6: I will say, I can't imagine our relationship being where

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Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, whatever, grow up.

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Speaker 14: like I just got to kind of like, I don't know,

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00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 14: it's like hard when you're processing all these things and

443
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 14: then like there's Cockroad just calling up your legs and

444
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 14: you're like, how am I supposed to send people home?

445
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 14: I don't know, There's a lot, you know, there's a

446
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 14: lot to process, and I feel like I really enjoyed

447
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 14: having all the Goldens there because it just felt like

448
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 14: my mom and my dad were there, and I just

449
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 14: was able to like be with them and get advice

450
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 14: from them and.

451
00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 10: Laugh and not feel stressful.

452
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 14: And I like would love when Kathy would like do

453
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 14: these random quizzes with us and it was like take

454
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 14: all of our minds off of everything. She'd be like,

455
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 14: would you rather have a shark but your toe or like,

456
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 14: I don't know. So I feel like having the Golden

457
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 14: there really positively impacted my experience and I probably would

458
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 14: have gone home earlier just from like mental stress. And

459
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 14: I loved the challenges. I think it was really important

460
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 14: for all of our relationships. But I think the environment

461
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 14: is a really stressful environment and you're processing a lot

462
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 14: and you're not always in the best headspace, and so

463
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 14: I feel like for me, at least, having the goldens

464
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 14: there was really necessary. And I kind of feel like

465
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 14: they should get their own paradise.

466
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: Or I don't disagree with that Golden there listen like

467
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,239
Speaker 1: the challenges. I wasn't really sure how this is all

468
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: gonna work and what it was going to look like.

469
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: But as someone who was there the day that you

470
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: guys all showed up, you guys were such a vibe change. Yeah,

471
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 1: like we need and it's so weird that, like you

472
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: think that the youngs would be the ones bringing all

473
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: the energy in. It was all the Goldens who really

474
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: like injected the beach with so much energy. And I'm

475
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: just so thankful that you guys showed up.

476
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 6: Could I say something about I would also like to

477
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 6: say that whenever Keith or Kathy or any of the

478
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 6: Goldens gave us their perspective on things happening, whether it

479
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 6: be within our relationship, paradise as a whole, especially with

480
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 6: both Keith and Kathy forming this beautiful friendship. I know

481
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 6: for all the romantic couples, she was my focus whenever

482
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 6: she was around, which is no secret to anyone here,

483
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 6: And it was like that for a lot of for

484
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 6: all the romantic couples. Right, You're trying to build this

485
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 6: relationship here, and both Keith and Cathy got to see

486
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 6: everything from the outside, and they got to see it

487
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 6: with an eye that has experienced so much more life

488
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 6: than any of us. So whenever Keith or Kathy said anything,

489
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 6: and whenever they say anything, I hold it with a

490
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 6: lot more gravity. And I love them very much, and

491
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 6: I'm so beyond grateful your makeup.

492
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 13: And it's just when you get to be our age,

493
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 13: you realize how important relationships are and the little things

494
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 13: don't matter.

495
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 6: And you have to get to be our age.

496
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 13: To know how important people are. And that's why on

497
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 13: the show, when Keith and I said we didn't care

498
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 13: about the money, we didn't because at our Age, it's

499
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 13: it's a connection with you, guys. It's a connection with

500
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 13: people that matter. And seeing your happiness it made my year.

501
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 5: I also want to say, no, it's I just want

502
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 5: to thank all of you for welcoming us as well.

503
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, Jeremy didn't like us in the beginning.

504
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 5: I'm joking. I'm totally joking.

505
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 8: I'm not joking.

506
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 13: And Jeremy are fighting, but tears are over now I'm

507
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 13: coming after you. So I gave you a chance last night,

508
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 13: Jeremy to tell me how much you love me.

509
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 8: No, what does Jeremy say?

510
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 13: I didn't want the Golden to home. I just hated

511
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 13: the Golden Jeremy.

512
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 4: Say that.

513
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: I didn't like them at first.

514
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 8: Yes, how much do you love me?

515
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 13: Jeremy put it publicly.

516
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 22: I think it's.

517
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 14: Important to know that me, Kathy and Jeremy are all tauruses.

518
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 14: So we are incredibly suborned and.

519
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:46,719
Speaker 10: Honestly down this hill.

520
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 13: But here's something I will back down because I have

521
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 13: agent wisdom. I am so happy to see you guys

522
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 13: in love.

523
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 10: That we have some young and transferring over.

524
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm happy for you guys.

525
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: That's what matters.

526
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 5: No, I just want to Fish. I just want to

527
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 5: thank you for accepting us in here, because you didn't

528
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 5: have to do that at all, and you know, you

529
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 5: allowed us to be us. And I keep in touch

530
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 5: with a lot of your people in here, and I

531
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 5: have new friends and yeah, yeah, I actually yeah, but Cat.

532
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 5: I saw Cat at stage coach before even the show,

533
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 5: but she gave me cred. I walk in and I

534
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 5: don't know who came up like, Oh, you're the dude

535
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 5: that saw You're the dude that was at t Pain.

536
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 10: I was like, oh my god.

537
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 11: Cat said she met you at tea Pain and you

538
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 11: were like.

539
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 5: I was like, you seemed like for the day.

540
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, real quick, Dale, can you explain to me what dead.

541
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 7: It is and what it means what it ended? Ceased

542
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 7: to exist?

543
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 15: Uh?

544
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 21: No, longer in existence, finish. I've been like hearing that

545
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 21: for like ten plus years. New York people all over

546
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 21: know know the thing. Locker rooms people knew, knew it also,

547
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 21: you know, the rose probably brought a little.

548
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: Vocabulary Oh you're blaming me now.

549
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 7: Both. But yeah, that was just a moment where I

550
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 7: was feeling probably a little too good. But dude, I

551
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 7: was like pulling up the chair thinking like we're gonna

552
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 7: have this like deep roman, I was like, where's this

553
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 7: come from?

554
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 21: But the reality is, like, you know, in this environment,

555
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 21: in these stages, you're like you go into these situations

556
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 21: thinking you know how you're gonna handle everything. But the

557
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 21: reality is, especially when feelings are involved, certain triggers and

558
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 21: certain things can affect you and the other person may

559
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 21: have done nothing wrong or had no.

560
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 7: Context or anything.

561
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 21: And I've said this to Kat before, you know, in

562
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 21: that moment, I thought it was a really great thing

563
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 21: for us because it was a realization for me that, like,

564
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 21: the reality is, I cared for all my friends and

565
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 21: everything on the beach, but no one could affect me

566
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 21: in the way that Kat could have.

567
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 7: And she didn't even have to, like she didn't even try.

568
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 21: It was just like, because I cared so much about

569
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 21: us being good and whatever trigger came up and wherever

570
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 21: that came from, that was an indication to me that like, okay,

571
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 21: a I was wrong with how I handled the situation,

572
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 21: a difference in communications versus like timing and emotions.

573
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 7: But after the fact, we.

574
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 21: Moved through it very very quickly and it was a

575
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 21: big moment for me. And honestly, I stand by whatever

576
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 21: I'll say.

577
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 22: I accidentally used it in my vocabulary like way too often.

578
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 22: I think I said it on the phone the other

579
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 22: day and my girlfriend was like.

580
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 23: What did you just say?

581
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: Why are you saying that? I was like, I don't

582
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: even know.

583
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 10: It's like it's like a thing.

584
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 7: Now in New York. That's a thing.

585
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 22: But I will say, like if anyone understands like being

586
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 22: triggered or defensive in that environment, it's definitely me. So

587
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 22: I definitely feel like I understood where something's happen. It

588
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 22: always comes back to like how you move through it afterwards,

589
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 22: and I think, yeah, it shows you about people.

590
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, if you do good.

591
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: Way Bailey and Jeremy. Obviously, timelines are important but hard

592
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: to kind of like adequately represent on a TV show

593
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: that's a lot of stuff's happening in the very short

594
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: windows of broadcast time. I wanted to get your guys'

595
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 1: thoughts on kind of like when did the connection start,

596
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: How are you guys feeling in the beginning of your relationship.

597
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 23: Yeah, I think the connection started on the first day.

598
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 23: You know, we kind of just sat next to each

599
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 23: other as a couch like this and started chatting and

600
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 23: we hit things off and things were still new, and

601
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 23: it really just developed for you know, a long time.

602
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 23: Obviously we both went on other dates and something's happening

603
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 23: between and by the time the composition, like we were

604
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 23: pretty locked in on each other, and like Jess was.

605
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 19: Saying, the challenges and stuff really helped and really just

606
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 19: helped develop our relationship and we were at a really

607
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 19: strong point to the point where, like, you know, I

608
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 19: asked her would be my girlfriend before I left, which

609
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 19: I would not have done unless I meant it, And

610
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 19: it just gave us like a fresh opportunity just like

611
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 19: really like talk things over and start fresh after paradise

612
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 19: and see where things headed. And to you know, my surprise,

613
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 19: they were even better when when you left a beautiful beach.

614
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, I feel like.

615
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 14: In the beginning we were also trying to just like

616
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 14: suss out you know, you're you're just processing so many

617
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 14: things and you're also just like you you don't want

618
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 14: to lock in like on the first, you know, first night,

619
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 14: because you're just like, what's about to happen?

620
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 10: Who's coming in? But I feel like we both did

621
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 10: a really good job of constantly like choosing each other.

622
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 14: Wait, that was not sorry, it was I feel like

623
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 14: for us, like I didn't want to leave Paradise with

624
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 14: any regrets, and I wanted to make sure that, like

625
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 14: the whole point of Paradise is that you experienced so.

626
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 10: Many things that you wouldn't normally do in the outside world.

627
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 14: And I feel like, normally we're both very much people

628
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 14: that just like you're clocked in on one person, and

629
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 14: that's just how we both normally date. And I feel like,

630
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 14: at least for us and for me at least, I

631
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 14: really wanted to make sure that, like, as long as

632
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 14: I kept wanting to choose Jeremy after I think that

633
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 14: was the most important thing of like figuring that out.

634
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 14: And then obviously after like three or four weeks paradise time,

635
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 14: which is like I don't know, seven days after three

636
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 14: or four weeks, and you're like, okay, you know, like

637
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 14: I did a normal week time of all of this,

638
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 14: and I feel like I still know how my feelings

639
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 14: are and I still feel I still know where I'm

640
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 14: feeling drawn to, and I think that's kind of at

641
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 14: least what those That's what I was going for, Like

642
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 14: I wanted to go to whoever I was drawn to

643
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 14: the most, and every single time that was Jeremy for me,

644
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 14: and so I feel like that's what helped further our connection.

645
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 10: And then I think going on our one on one.

646
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,479
Speaker 14: Date, I think everyone can say when you finally get

647
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 14: to go on a one on one date, you're like, oh,

648
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 14: this just like when you go on that date with

649
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 14: your person, You're like, I feel like our relationship really

650
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 14: got to.

651
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 10: Go over all those hills that we were.

652
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 14: Kind of battling also, so I feel like that was

653
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 14: I think the night that we both really felt like

654
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 14: we really locked in at that moment and obviously went

655
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 14: in the competition. The first challenge was really important too.

656
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 14: It just showed how much stupid knowledge we knew about

657
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 14: each other, and then from there we were able to

658
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 14: just really get deep on our date, and I feel

659
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 14: like that.

660
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 10: Was really important.

661
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 14: Those are important conversations that we need to have with

662
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 14: each other, because yeah, it's kind of like what Jessa

663
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 14: is saying, like, you know, you can only talk about

664
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Speaker 14: so many things, and sometimes it's hard to get deep

665
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Speaker 14: at first, and so yeah, I feel like that was

666
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Speaker 14: a really big turning point for us.

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Speaker 1: You know a thing that I always talk to fans

677
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:29,720
Speaker 1: about is I think that everyone needs to give everyone

678
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: that comes on the shows a little bit of grace

679
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: because you're really exposing yourself to millions of people and

680
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: their judgments and probably the most for YouTube from this

681
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: last season, and I imagine that navigating a relationship post

682
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: show was tough with the online chatter and fans being

683
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: upset with things that happened, and I wanted to get

684
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: your guys' take on how you're able to navigate kind

685
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Speaker 1: of post show up until now.

686
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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was tough.

687
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Speaker 19: I mean, yeah, listen, Like I've made some stupid mistakes

688
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,720
Speaker 19: that me and her have obviously talked about a million

689
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 19: times during the show before it aired, walad aired that

690
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 19: you know, I wish I could take some of them back,

691
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 19: and unfortunately, like that's how you're judged. And at the

692
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 19: end of the day, like you know, we're pretty thick skin,

693
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 19: and we know what we have. We know what we

694
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,720
Speaker 19: had on the show, we know what we've had since

695
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 19: everyone who knows us here knows what we have, and

696
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 19: we just try not to let people get to us.

697
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 19: And like obviously, you know, I wish that I'm not

698
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 19: judged off of you know a few minutes, Yeah, where

699
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 19: I acted like a child in front of tens of

700
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Speaker 19: millions of people. But I need to live with that,

701
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 19: and you know, it's something that we've talked about and

702
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 19: I'm just happy that I have her, and that weren't

703
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:44,479
Speaker 19: a good place.

704
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: Let's go back to that kind of infamous phone call situation. Listen,

705
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: I think that everyone out there needs to have a

706
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 1: little bit of empathy because a lot of things were

707
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: happening at that moment, and I know that, like in

708
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: that interview, you were upset because of Bailey going on

709
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: a date with Andrew, So put us in time and

710
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 1: place and like what was going through your mind and

711
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: through your heart.

712
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 19: Yeah, obviously, like looking back and watching the show back,

713
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 19: I shouldn't have been upset because I did go on

714
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 19: a day like a day before. I think the reason

715
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 19: why I was initially like really annoyed was that, you know,

716
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 19: she kind of said that she was here for me,

717
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 19: and in my mind it wasn't like, oh, I'm here

718
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 19: for you until someone else comes in. But like, looking

719
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 19: back on it, I'm like, if I should go on

720
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 19: a date, like she should be allowed to go on

721
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 19: a date too, And I'd gone. I'd known Bailey for

722
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 19: only a few days at that point. I went on

723
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 19: a good date with the other girl and.

724
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 8: And and I did have a good time.

725
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Speaker 19: So it was just like a tough decision. And then

726
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 19: like when you hear stuff like that, and then I

727
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,359
Speaker 19: feel I felt like in the moment, obviously we've talked

728
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 19: about it, In the moment, I felt betrayed. And then

729
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 19: that kind of just like sticks in the back of

730
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 19: your head. So then even like when when she came

731
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 19: back and chose me, it was still like in my

732
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 19: mind for a few days after that.

733
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Speaker 1: And Bailey, for you watching it back, it's got to

734
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: be tough. And I remember being in your guys issues

735
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: having to watch back hard moments for you. What was

736
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: going through your mind when you're having to watch a

737
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 1: show back.

738
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Speaker 14: Yeah, I feel like, and I've said this a few times,

739
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 14: like it was really hard to watch this entire season back. Honestly,

740
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 14: I feel like in the moment of Paradise, I gave

741
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 14: so much grace because I totally understand. I think it's

742
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 14: a really difficult space to be in, and it's still

743
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 14: difficult to watch it back, But I also understand where

744
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 14: everyone's minds are. I think it's really easy to feel insecure.

745
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 14: I think it's really easy to doubt things. I think

746
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 14: it's really easy to feel stressed. I think there's just

747
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 14: so many emotions that you're processing, and unfortunately you don't

748
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 14: have a phone like to desensitize you or to you know,

749
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 14: distract you from anything. Like you really have to go

750
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 14: head on with all of your emotions and everything that

751
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 14: you're feeling, and the comments are hard to watch because

752
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 14: I think most people that are starting their relationship don't

753
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 14: have to watch it back from the beginning and see

754
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 14: their partner having those moments of doubt or you know,

755
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,919
Speaker 14: still juggling different people, and that's kind of how normal

756
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 14: relationships work, Like when you start talking to somebody, you

757
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 14: don't know that they're not talking to other people. And

758
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 14: I think it's really easy to just want Paradise to

759
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 14: feel like these amazing, beautiful love stories that are like unicorns,

760
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 14: but like that, like they're unicorns, you know what I'm saying,

761
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 14: Like it is, and so I feel like for us

762
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 14: coming out of it, it did just feel like kind

763
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 14: of we got through a lot of the challenges that

764
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 14: normal relationships would face in the beginning, and I think

765
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 14: that's kind of how we've processed a lot of those moments.

766
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 14: And obviously I wasn't caught off guard by much.

767
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 10: We had a lot.

768
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Speaker 14: We've had so many deep conversations about anything, about everything

769
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 14: that was said and just everything that we went through,

770
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 14: and so it's still hard to watch those things because

771
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 14: you know, like where we are now and how in

772
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 14: love we are. It's like you have those moments where

773
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 14: you're just like sad that that happened. But I also

774
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 14: feel like that was just such a small part of

775
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 14: our story and it's not like what sticks in the

776
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 14: back of my head every day.

777
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Speaker 19: That makes yeah, And I will say that, like one

778
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 19: thing that I definitely wish I would have changed is

779
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 19: like when I was like just like talking out my ass,

780
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 19: which I do a lot, I wasn't. I wasn't doing

781
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 19: it in the headspace like, oh, you know, if Bailey

782
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 19: and I are together, like I should be way more

783
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 19: thoughtful of like what she thinks watching this back. It

784
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 19: was kind of selfish and I was just like living

785
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 19: in the moment and it was still in the beginning,

786
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 19: so I had no idea that we would actually be together.

787
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 19: And unfortunately, like that is what our story was made.

788
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 19: And I couldn't be happier for you know, justin Spencer

789
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 19: and Alex and Andrew, but to our credit as well,

790
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 19: we had a great love story. And because of like

791
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 19: a few days of things that happened, it really like

792
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 19: overtook everything. And I think that was the hardest part

793
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 19: for us, which was really you know, tough for both

794
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 19: of us, but especially Bailey. Is that we had this

795
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 19: amazing love story that like I never thought i'd find

796
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 19: someone on the beach, she never thought she would, and

797
00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 19: no one really got to see that.

798
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Speaker 21: Yeah, I agree with that because I was Jeremy's roommate

799
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,919
Speaker 21: and you know, regardless of what was going on, Even

800
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 21: watching it back, you know, there's so many conversations that

801
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 21: happened in the night, and but even just the way

802
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 21: how affectionate he was with her, and you know, there

803
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,919
Speaker 21: was no doubt that you know, they loved and cared

804
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 21: for each other. And uh, you know, so even just

805
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 21: as a friend and someone else going through the experience

806
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 21: and watching it back, it was very very hard for me,

807
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 21: and I think, you know, there's a lot of situations

808
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 21: within you know, the show that you didn't get to

809
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 21: see some of those moments, but they were down for

810
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 21: each other, you know, with without question.

811
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Speaker 1: I got to ask, like, what do you think would

812
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: have happened if Susie had come back?

813
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 19: I probably would have been like, oh fuck, yeah, what

814
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 19: did I do?

815
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 1: By show of hands? Because this is a question that

816
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: gets asked a lot online is who knew about this

817
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: whole thing before Bailey did?

818
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 14: Well?

819
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 6: There was levels Yeah, okay, let me here's what I

820
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 6: will say. While we're on the beach. There are rumors

821
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 6: that travel around about anything and everything all day every day.

822
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 6: There's rumors of new people coming, there's rumors of this

823
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,919
Speaker 6: person kissed that person. There's rumors of this person said

824
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 6: this to that person. If all of us spent all

825
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 6: of our time taking upon ourselves to go and let

826
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 6: everyone know about all the rumors about them, A, it

827
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 6: would cause you're wronglus ninety plus percent of the time.

828
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 6: First off. Second off, you're focused on your person and

829
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 6: your connection.

830
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 12: And so.

831
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 6: When you hear a rumor about something happening, I was

832
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 6: hearing twelve plus rumors a day, as was everyone here

833
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 6: about everyone. So this whole miss or online of it

834
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 6: being everyone else's responsibility to go and do something, It's

835
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 6: just like it's a little frustrating to have that responsibility

836
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 6: thrust upon you when A it's a rumor, when you're

837
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 6: hearing all these rumors already, and B I'm spending all

838
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 6: my time getting to know her respectfully to everyone here,

839
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 6: and I love I hope everyone here has an awesome life.

840
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 6: I think it takes so much bravery to come on

841
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 6: a television show. I think It takes so much bravery

842
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 6: to put yourself in front of millions of people. At

843
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 6: the end of the day, just here alone, there's sixteen people.

844
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 6: For twenty four to seven we were filmed. They have

845
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 6: to capture that in what like fourteen hours. It's sorry,

846
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 6: twenty four hours of television, all of our stories, everything

847
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 6: that happened. So it just seems a little unfair to

848
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 6: thrust that upon anyone.

849
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Speaker 10: Well, I will say I knew about I guess a convert.

850
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Speaker 22: I knew that something happened in an interview room right

851
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 22: watching it back Jeremy. Unfortunately, if I knew all of

852
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 22: the things that I saw, then I would have probably

853
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 22: given you, like maybe twenty four hours before I told Bailey.

854
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 22: The thing is is that I think a lot of

855
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 22: us are learning things in real time that we were

856
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 22: unaware of to the extent, And so it did fall

857
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 22: on Brian to be the one to tell you based

858
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 22: on the fact that that was said to him. And

859
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 22: I don't want to speak for anybody, but I'll say

860
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 22: for myself, like I only knew about the phone call,

861
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 22: if that like, and still it was like word of

862
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 22: mouth where their mouth still didn't know. And I was

863
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 22: also told that you were aware of it, so that

864
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 22: it was your responsibility to handle it, right, so if

865
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 22: I but again, I would never. I never wanted Bailey

866
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 22: to feel embarrassed, and unfortunately, I think some of the

867
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 22: things that were said did embarrass her. I understand that

868
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 22: you guys want to handle your relationship.

869
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:42,760
Speaker 19: You didn't want her to feel embarrassed.

870
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,800
Speaker 22: Yes, the last thing I wanted was for her to

871
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 22: like watch it back and feel embarrassed based on what

872
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 22: was said. But I just didn't know that things were

873
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 22: said to the way they were.

874
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 10: And I'm not coming at you.

875
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 22: I'm just I want to give like because I'm also

876
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 22: getting a lot of hate online because of it, and

877
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 22: I don't want to be that I will own it. Like,

878
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 22: if I knew what I saw after like, I would

879
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 22: have probably said something to her or at least said

880
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 22: something to you directly and said this is your responsibility

881
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 22: to handle and I just didn't know the extent. I

882
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 22: don't think there was mal intent. I also think you're probably.

883
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 11: Just whispering around like, oh my god, Bailey knows me.

884
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 10: This is something for me to talk about. I don't

885
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 10: know what I don't know what you think. But here's

886
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 10: the thing.

887
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 14: I will say this a thousand times. The first person

888
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 14: that should have told me should have been Jeremy always.

889
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 14: He should have told me every day of the week.

890
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 14: I don't like denounce that or anything. I think the

891
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,720
Speaker 14: hard part is, like I know the kind of person

892
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 14: that I am, and so even when, like when Brian

893
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 14: sent me the secret rendezvous note, I obviously had every

894
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 14: single intention that I was going to tell Parsa after

895
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 14: I had time to process it, because when you're in paradise,

896
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 14: the only person that you can really trust is your

897
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 14: I mean like I mean like I trusted my, like

898
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 14: my who I'm sharing a room with, who is Alex

899
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 14: and Jeremy. Do you know what I'm saying, So, like

900
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 14: that's who I'm trusting the most, and I feel like

901
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 14: that's where I don't know. That's how I processed it.

902
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 14: I got the note and my first thought was like, oh,

903
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 14: let me talk to Jeremy about this, because like I

904
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 14: didn't know what the intention was. I thought it was

905
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 14: sneaky and it came in a sneaky way. And I've

906
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 14: told Brian I apologized for that because if I had

907
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 14: known what was happening, I would have definitely don't I

908
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 14: still wouldn't have done the secret rendezvous because you don't

909
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 14: know how things are going to be spun, and I

910
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 14: wouldn't have felt comfortable with that, but I still would have.

911
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 14: You know, I wouldn't have talked to Jeremy about.

912
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 10: It if I would have known it was in a

913
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 10: sneaky way. I think this is hard.

914
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 14: I don't blame everyone, and I gave everyone so much

915
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 14: grace while I was there because I understand it is

916
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 14: such a tough situation to want to go outside of

917
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 14: your relationship and have to tell someone something. I also

918
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:46,479
Speaker 14: know the kind of person I am, so I would

919
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 14: have done that no matter what for any of my

920
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,959
Speaker 14: friends at any moment. I'm that doesn't matter. It's okay

921
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 14: that other people wouldn't, and I just I can only

922
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 14: speak to how I am as a person and what

923
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 14: I would do. There's obviously moments where you just have

924
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 14: laps judgment and it's okay. I think the hard part

925
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,879
Speaker 14: for me, at least outside of this, has just been

926
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 14: certain people's actions after that fact. Because there, I gave

927
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 14: grace to everyone. I was not mad at the girls.

928
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 14: I told you guys, I'm not angry with you, and

929
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 14: the only reason I blamed it on the Girls is

930
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 14: because I did not want Brian to get under fire

931
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 14: for it, because Jeremy had no idea it came from Brian. Now, no,

932
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 14: I think it's hard. You watch it back and you're like,

933
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 14: I wish my boyfriend told me. I mean, Alex, I

934
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 14: love you so much, but I wish that my roommate

935
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 14: and my best friend would have told me, because like

936
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 14: I left Paradise as Alex is my best friend and

937
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 14: we're sharing a room every single night together, and I

938
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 14: know you don't like to be involved in drama, and

939
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 14: it wouldn't have.

940
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 10: I don't think it would have had to be a

941
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 10: whole dramatic.

942
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 14: Thing, and you know, and I get it, So I'm

943
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 14: not mad at you about it, obviously, Like Andrew, the

944
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 14: tweets were. The tweet was what really, honestly, like really

945
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 14: hurt my feelings because I just gave everyone grace and

946
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 14: I know it's a difficult to situation, so even outside

947
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 14: of it, I even knew the hate was going to pass,

948
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 14: like I process it that night of like watching everything back,

949
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 14: and I have received so much hate this season.

950
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 10: It's been really really horrible. And those of my friends

951
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 10: that have been there.

952
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 14: For me, know that I have really just been like

953
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 14: very just keeping to myself because it has been really

954
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 14: hard to process at all.

955
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 10: I didn't want to bring.

956
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 14: Anyone else more hate because I have known what that's like.

957
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 14: Because also like I received hate on Grant season two,

958
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 14: so like, obviously I wasn't gonna call Brian any mean

959
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 14: names he's already getting at that point, he was already

960
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 14: getting a ton of hate, and I didn't want him

961
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 14: or pre Sick getting more hate.

962
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 10: Like I think that's kind of how I tried to

963
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 10: move with every podcast.

964
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 14: You do and the things that you say, like all

965
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 14: of our words unfortunately hold weight, whether we like it

966
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 14: or not.

967
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 10: So I think that that's a really it's just it's hard.

968
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 10: It's really hard.

969
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 14: And I'm not mad at everyone, I think for me,

970
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 14: like I wanted to all have each other's backs, and

971
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 14: that's how I was trying to act. And that's why

972
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 14: I didn't speak ill about anyone in any moment, even

973
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,439
Speaker 14: when it's like silly to make jokes about other people,

974
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 14: you know what I mean, Like that wasn't my intention,

975
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 14: and yeah, and I'm and I wasn't mad at the

976
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,439
Speaker 14: girls in that moment. And I still gave everyone grace,

977
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 14: and I still give everyone grace now because it obviously

978
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 14: should have been Jeremy that told me first.

979
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 10: And that's really all I can All I can say.

980
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: Is, yeah, well some of that someone that's hold on

981
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: someone is getting a lot of heat online, is Alex right, Like,

982
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 1: so a lot of this is directed towards you looking back,

983
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: would you have done anything differently or how do you

984
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 1: feel about it now as you look back.

985
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 9: So I've already owned up to it from the start,

986
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 9: even before it aired to Bailey, and I apologize multiple times,

987
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 9: and I should have told you from you know, the

988
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 9: phone call one thing that you know, I'll say it

989
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 9: didn't hurt my feelings. You know, I considered you a

990
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 9: really good friend Jeremy before going in. And when you

991
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 9: told me about the phone call, you know, you kind

992
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 9: of said, we've talked about it. It's good and kind

993
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 9: of like letting you know, to like stay out of

994
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 9: it type of thing, because you guys never told you

995
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 9: that they were in front of the island and it

996
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 9: just said you had just talked to Bailey and you said,

997
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 9: you know, I've talked to her. I said that you

998
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 9: should tell her and you said.

999
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 10: I've I mean, could have the table.

1000
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 19: I might have said like, I'll take care of it,

1001
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 19: but I never said that. I told I talked to

1002
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 19: her about it.

1003
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 9: Not about the phone call, but you said you're talking,

1004
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 9: We're good. That's what I'm saying, So basically kind of like, anyways,

1005
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 9: it doesn't matter.

1006
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 19: I should have told you, yeah, maybe like we're good,

1007
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 19: like I'm going to talk to her about it.

1008
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 4: I never I don't understand, like why she told you

1009
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 4: and you didn't do anything with the information as all saying,

1010
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 4: So if everyone told you, why is it?

1011
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:41,919
Speaker 8: Why is everyone taking flack for something?

1012
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 10: No, I don't think that. I don't think that.

1013
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 4: I just feel like, and here's the thing with the tweet.

1014
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 4: It wasn't directed to bring hate to you. My thing was,

1015
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 4: I'm sitting here with my partner. She's destroyed. I'm not

1016
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 4: going to sit here. Why you had any ample time

1017
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 4: to get on Twitter and be like, hey direct hate

1018
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 4: at me or I don't know my responsibility Twitter, Instagram,

1019
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 4: whatever the case. My thing is, you never took accountability.

1020
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 4: You never once apologized to Alex for everything going on,

1021
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 4: reached out. Nobody wanted to be in.

1022
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 8: This situ I'm that sure happy hour, I do not listen.

1023
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 8: I took accountability. Bro, you never talked to her? What

1024
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 8: time did you ever text her?

1025
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 10: One time?

1026
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 8: Dude, I've been getting tens of thousands of.

1027
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 12: You.

1028
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 8: I reached out to you.

1029
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 4: You reached out when you knew you were about apologize

1030
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 4: every week.

1031
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 14: Wait, here's the thing I'm gonna tell you. In Chicago,

1032
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 14: we had the most fun trip to Chicago. So I

1033
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,240
Speaker 14: think that's why I was so caught off guard because

1034
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,839
Speaker 14: we and Alex I'm going to say this, I didn't

1035
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 14: know that Jeremy was the first person to tell you

1036
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 14: about the call, and so I think that's why it

1037
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 14: threw me off when I watched it back. But in

1038
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 14: regards to us having like apologies and everything, I don't

1039
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 14: want you to catch the flag for it. Obviously you

1040
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 14: called me when you you know you and Andrew called

1041
00:50:58,239 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 14: me while I was in Portugal when you realize that

1042
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 14: like you were receiving some hate for it.

1043
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 10: But I know I'm not saying that it's bad.

1044
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: And what we had.

1045
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 9: Had an air we message every day.

1046
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 10: Like episode we all had a group message and we

1047
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:15,799
Speaker 10: talked about things.

1048
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 9: So I'm just going to say one thing one thing

1049
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 9: that did, and I obviously wanted to I don't want

1050
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 9: to rehash it because I obviously love you. What I

1051
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 9: was going to say is what hurt my feelings is,

1052
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 9: you know, we had talked it out and we you

1053
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 9: guys came to visit us in Chicago, and I thought

1054
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 9: we were good, and it did really was surprising to

1055
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 9: me and caught me off guard that I learned publicly

1056
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 9: that it was brought up again, and it felt like

1057
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 9: the blame was put on me on a podcast, and

1058
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 9: that you didn't care about the phone call, but it

1059
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 9: was more me not telling you, and you're so allowed

1060
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 9: to feel that way, but it just felt like there

1061
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,320
Speaker 9: was no accountability towards Jeermy, and that really hurt me

1062
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 9: because I wish that could have been put been said

1063
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 9: privately because we had talked.

1064
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 10: Now I understand.

1065
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 14: All I'm going to say is I said up the

1066
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 14: podcast that Jeremy should have been the first person to

1067
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 14: tell me. I also said on the podcast they asked

1068
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 14: me what I would do in that situation. They didn't

1069
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 14: ask me who I was. Though everyone gets to say

1070
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 14: how they're feeling, I also get to say how I'm feeling.

1071
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 14: The reason that it hurt is because I'm every single

1072
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,879
Speaker 14: night looking across from you. I We're sharing so many

1073
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 14: secrets about our life, We're sharing everything, and I just

1074
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 14: thought that you actually had my back the entire time.

1075
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 14: So and that's why it hurt, because I'm watching it back, like, yeah,

1076
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 14: this is my boyfriend, but like at that point, I

1077
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 14: knew him for like ten twelve days, So yeah, I'm

1078
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 14: sorry if that that's why. And even after I left,

1079
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,959
Speaker 14: I did, I wasn't even mad about it. I swear

1080
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 14: to God, Like even when I did the Happy Hour past,

1081
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,280
Speaker 14: like I said, I wouldn't do that. But I understand

1082
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 14: that people are in difficult situations. People don't want to

1083
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 14: be built, yeah, don't want to be dragging to drama,

1084
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 14: and I totally get that and understand it. I am

1085
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 14: so sorry that everyone had to receive hate. Anyone that

1086
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 14: knows me knows that. Unfortunately, Paradise was not an amazing

1087
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 14: experience for me, and every single day I was not

1088
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 14: in a good mental health headspace, especially after I had

1089
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 14: to send Leslie and Gary home.

1090
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 10: I was just going through it.

1091
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 14: So I understand in the moment, people not acting the things,

1092
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 14: not wanting to act on rumors, and I have never

1093
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 14: blamed anyone for that. Unfortunately, what did hurt is the

1094
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 14: tweet because I was like, I have been wanting to

1095
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,800
Speaker 14: protect all of my friends, these people that I've been with,

1096
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 14: these like I don't want them receiving any more hate.

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00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 14: I know how it feels.

1098
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 10: So I am so publicly because I just felt I

1099
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 10: wasn't trying to I'm not.

1100
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even I'm not upset with you at all,

1101
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 4: or I'm not I'm not Like if the tweet wasn't

1102
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 4: at you, my thing was is still.

1103
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 8: Literally at you.

1104
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 20: Like when we were on the show, everybody was going

1105
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 20: after Brian when this all happened.

1106
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 8: Now everyone's after Journey.

1107
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 20: Make it makes sense because you guys watching it, Brian

1108
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 20: and I have.

1109
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 8: A conversation, and you know what the energy was.

1110
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 4: That was not the energy towards you, saying I said,

1111
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 4: if you would have told you man and man, you

1112
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 4: hang out with him, you work out with him, you

1113
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 4: go eat with him, you're always in his room. As

1114
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 4: a guy that feels like that's a friend of mine,

1115
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 4: I would would have loved you to come to me

1116
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 4: and be like, hey, if you don't tell her, I

1117
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 4: will go tell that was a conversation that had with you,

1118
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:12,799
Speaker 4: and I said you should treat prease it better.

1119
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 8: That's all I said to you.

1120
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 7: That was what context.

1121
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 1: Treat her better though, like in what contruct you you were.

1122
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 8: You were angry with and you your way you've verbalized

1123
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 8: and talked to her. I just didn't like you never

1124
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 8: witness it though.

1125
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: You can't talk about this situation without talking about Brian,

1126
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:28,240
Speaker 1: and I want to hear your thoughts about this whole situation.

1127
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 16: Yeah, I just think there's a crazy energy shift right

1128
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 16: now in the room. I know that rose ceremony, I

1129
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 16: was the only one targeted. So is my relationship with

1130
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 16: Parisa specifically what Andrew just said, like the way I

1131
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 16: treated her, and like things that were completely taken out

1132
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 16: of context with even like Spencer had spoke to me

1133
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 16: towards the end of the season, like listen, he's like,

1134
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 16: I think a lot of things were taken out of

1135
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 16: context that I might not have actually seen that I

1136
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 16: just heard through rumors, twelve rumors a day, and like

1137
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 16: truthfully that that was the case between us, Like I

1138
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 16: wasn't mistreating her in any other way, Like you know,

1139
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 16: we've had her ups and downs and things like that,

1140
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 16: but that became like a primary focus, and I became

1141
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 16: a primary target when it's being completely taken off of

1142
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 16: everybody who hasn't actually said something to the person that can.

1143
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:10,879
Speaker 10: I just say one more thing.

1144
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 9: So the reason I didn't tell you Bailey's because we,

1145
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 9: me and Jeremy had a friendship outside of this, and

1146
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 9: you had even told me you were very interested in

1147
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 9: Bailey before coming in, so I knew that. And when

1148
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 9: the whole date with Andrew happened, he was very upset, obviously,

1149
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 9: and you came to me and you did say, you know,

1150
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 9: you know me the best, like who should I pick?

1151
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 9: And I said, I don't know Bailey, you know, outside

1152
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 9: of this that much. We weren't really close, but I said,

1153
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 9: I've grown to love her really well, and I think

1154
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 9: you guys would pair really well. And I know you

1155
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 9: were angry the next day when she went on a

1156
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 9: date with him, and I understood that as like, you know,

1157
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 9: maybe your ego was bruise, and I gave you kind

1158
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 9: of grace knowing that you really really liked her and

1159
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 9: you had told me that, so I when you when

1160
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 9: the whole phone call thing, I did tell you to

1161
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 9: tell her, but the reason I didn't tell you was

1162
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 9: because I didn't want to jeopardize something that I thought

1163
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 9: would be really, really well And that's the only reason

1164
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 9: I didn't tell you. If I felt there was any

1165
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,320
Speaker 9: vindictive thing or well intent, I would have told you.

1166
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 14: I never yeah, And I never thought that you were

1167
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 14: keeping it from me because of all these random conspiracies

1168
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 14: about whatever about you know about you and it like

1169
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 14: it's not that I and and that's why, honestly, I

1170
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 14: I just wanted everyone to leave this, all of us

1171
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 14: being friends, and that's what I thought we did leave with,

1172
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 14: you know what I'm saying.

1173
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 10: And so I'm not mad at you for it.

1174
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 14: I'm so sorry that you receive hate, and I'm sorry

1175
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 14: that we didn't reach out, But I think it's just

1176
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 14: because we've been receiving.

1177
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,399
Speaker 10: So much hate.

1178
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 14: It's really just been way too overwhelming for me. Like

1179
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 14: I haven't been able to do like, yeah.

1180
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 10: I haven't been able to.

1181
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 19: Thank you to Dale and to Spencer and Sean and

1182
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 19: lean and Jonathan for reaching out.

1183
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 8: And that's crazy because.

1184
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 14: I did see that, and so I think I was

1185
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 14: just very thrown off obviously by the tweet. And I

1186
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 14: was just like, oh, I was thinking that like we were.

1187
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 10: Good, but I had nothing.

1188
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 14: I didn't and I know I wasn't even with anyway, like,

1189
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,240
Speaker 14: and I told you I texted you that morning because

1190
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 14: I was so grateful that you reached out to me,

1191
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 14: and I was so thrown off after getting scented. I

1192
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 14: was like, oh, like maybe I was, like, you know,

1193
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 14: placing so much hold on these friendships and they weren't

1194
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 14: actually like translating, and so I'm sorry. I just wasn't

1195
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 14: in the place to be able to talk to each

1196
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 14: because it really did throw me off because I was

1197
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 14: just like, it does just feel like your world is

1198
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 14: crashing down, and I'm really sorry that people receive hate

1199
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 14: because like I think we can all test to it.

1200
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 14: It's horrible and sometimes people take things way too far.

1201
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 14: And I wanted us to be able to I came

1202
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 14: here and I didn't really.

1203
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 10: Have any bad intent.

1204
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 14: I honestly wasn't even going to talk about it if

1205
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 14: it wasn't going to be brought up, because like, I

1206
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 14: just don't think it's necessary and I don't want you

1207
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 14: guys receiving and I don't want any of anybody receiving hate.

1208
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 10: And it's it's just it's really shitty and.

1209
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: I want to get on a word to use, but

1210
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: it's a podcast, you can say. I want to get

1211
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: some opinion about some opinions from other people, like Alicia.

1212
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: It seems like you want to say something about the situation. Well,

1213
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 1: you and Sean I always got something good to say.

1214
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 18: No, I stand by Bailey.

1215
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 19: I think.

1216
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 12: I can vouch for Bailey's character. She's a very genuine person.

1217
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 12: I've been friends with her before this season, and I

1218
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 12: know who I'm looking at when I see her, so

1219
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 12: that's all that I see. And I see Jeremy, the

1220
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 12: guy that I've met who truly loves her. And I

1221
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 12: think like every relationship, it comes to a point where

1222
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 12: you're going to be tested one way or another, and

1223
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 12: this was a very bizarre way for them to be

1224
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 12: put to the test, but I think it's queer. At

1225
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 12: the end of the day, they both tremendously care for

1226
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 12: each other and they have each other's back, And as

1227
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 12: a friend of Bailey, I support her.

1228
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 10: No matter what, and I hope that they're both happy.

1229
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 12: And you guys look like you're killing it, so you

1230
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 12: have my full support, and.

1231
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 14: I feel like I want us all to be able

1232
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 14: to move on from this and not have it like

1233
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 14: looming over our heads. And I'm not mad, you know,

1234
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 14: like I feel like I have to release like any

1235
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 14: hurt or anything on everyone, like you know, it just

1236
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 14: it has to be released so that we can all

1237
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 14: move on from this, because I want it to be

1238
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 14: for something that we can all be connected.

1239
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 10: I want us to all be friends after this. And yeah,

1240
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 10: it's obviously hard.

1241
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 14: I don't know.

1242
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: Hey, you're looking for the perfect gift for the Bachelor

1243
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: fan in your life. Check out the new Bachelor Nation shop.

1244
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: Visit shop dot Bachelornation dot com. Well, it's gonna get

1245
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: harder because I have fan questions now, all right?

1246
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 6: Are these fans or the terrible people that sit behind

1247
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 6: a freaking screen?

1248
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: This is an Donna Adams at a o L dot com.

1249
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: That's my mom. Uh fan question, Brian, did you ever

1250
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: have any any other intentions going into the secret rendezvous?

1251
01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: If you could do it all over again, would you

1252
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: still tell Bailey the truth?

1253
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 16: There were no other intentions going into the secret Rendezvous

1254
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 16: and now I stand by what I did.

1255
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: And then follow up, why did you take so long

1256
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: to be vocal to others about your conversation.

1257
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 16: With Bailey because I knew the repercussions. Unfortunately, I knew

1258
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 16: how the crowd around me would react. Obviously, clearly after

1259
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 16: the viewership's response, their reactions are different, but I knew

1260
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 16: how they would react in the time we were on

1261
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 16: the island, so I was hesitant, but at the same time, again,

1262
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 16: I own what I did.

1263
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: This is a fan question kind of for everyone. Why

1264
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 1: was everyone so nervous about Brian doing the same thing

1265
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: to them that he did to Jeremy. Were there more

1266
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: secrets that people didn't want revealed.

1267
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 21: I don't think that that was a big thing. Like

1268
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 21: Brian was my homie and I'm close with Brian right now.

1269
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 21: Like my thing was because I feel like a lot

1270
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:07,920
Speaker 21: of times I was like, hey, let me know what

1271
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 21: the deal is so we can work it out.

1272
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 7: But it was never about Brian did nothing wrong. I

1273
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 7: was just like, bro, just let me know what the

1274
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 7: deal is so you know I can support you.

1275
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 21: Obviously, Jeremy was my roommate and we had talked about

1276
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 21: the situation and everything, so I didn't think about like

1277
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 21: something that like it would be done to me per se.

1278
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 21: I just it was more probably like, are you like

1279
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 21: if you know I'm in your corner, like, you know,

1280
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 21: just let me know what the deal is. But I

1281
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 21: can understand from his situation too, because it's a hostile environment.

1282
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 21: You don't want to be sent home and then you're

1283
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 21: you're trying to build this relationship. But I don't think

1284
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 21: it was more about like a malicious thing. I was

1285
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 21: just like keeping one hundred with me, you know, if

1286
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 21: I'm your boy.

1287
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like we could probably do three

1288
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 1: podcasts just on this one thing, but I think it's

1289
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: I think it's probably time to move on. Brian back.

1290
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: Your nation is dying to know what is your favorite color?

1291
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: And why was it so hard for you to let

1292
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: Parisa know?

1293
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 15: Yeah, Brian, you.

1294
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 7: Know, Leah helped me out with this today.

1295
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 16: My favorite color is future.

1296
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 12: Color.

1297
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 8: I don't even know what fusia looks like, but that's

1298
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 8: my favorite color.

1299
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 10: He was confused. He was confused.

1300
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: Wonderful now, you know, Teresa, Let's talk about your relationship

1301
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: with Brian. How did you guys first connect and tell

1302
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 1: us about the beginning days of that relationship.

1303
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 15: When I stepped on that beach, Brian really stood out

1304
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 15: and he was very outgoing, very tall.

1305
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 7: That caught my attention and thanks for the compliment, and.

1306
01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 15: Yeah, like I just kind from there, I just wanted

1307
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 15: to get to know him. And I also at that time,

1308
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 15: I liked that I didn't know him. I didn't know

1309
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 15: a lot of people here, so I liked that like

1310
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 15: going in blind, where then I can kind of just

1311
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Speaker 15: like fill in the blanks to get to know him

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01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 15: instead of having like this a bias mindset.

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Speaker 1: Now, you guys left together, But what's the relationships at

1314
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 1: us now?

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01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 15: Well, we tried, and it just came down to, really

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01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 15: I feel like having different schedules. I think also too,

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01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 15: I wanted something different in a relationship compared to what

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01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 15: Brian wanted, and nothing wrong with that. I feel like

1319
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 15: a lot of this comes down to compatibility. That's okay.

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01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 15: And yeah, I mean we tried, and it just got

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01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 15: to a point of like, okay, I think we just

1322
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 15: need to like wave our white flag and kind of

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01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 15: just move on.

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01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 8: All right.

1325
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: So you guys gave it the old college try. It

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01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: didn't work out. But are you guys both single? Like

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01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 1: what's going on in your lives relationship wise?

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01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 15: Well, I I'm seeing someone now and and yeah, I

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01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 15: mean it was, I mean it's it was.

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Speaker 10: I don't know, it was the whole process. Everything was

1331
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 10: just so hard.

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Speaker 15: It was hard and confusing, and I guess, yeah, I

1333
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 15: mean I reached a point where, I mean, like anybody,

1334
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 15: when you just keep trying and trying, like you just

1335
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 15: you hit that wall and you're like, Okay, well, I

1336
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 15: mean I can keep trying, keep wasting time, and or

1337
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 15: I just just move on. And I mean I'm not

1338
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 15: getting any younger, and neither is he.

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01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: So, Brian, Brian, watching it back, is there anything that

1340
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: you wish you would have done differently when it came

1341
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: to your relationship with Parisa.

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01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 16: I think that the vip VIP suite and maybe I

1343
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 16: could answered what my favorite color was.

1344
01:04:59,160 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 6: I just made one up.

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01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 16: Yeah, I could have done that. It was a long

1346
01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 16: day in feathers man, in that outfit that.

1347
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 15: We were in, which I totally understand, but I will

1348
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 15: say just at the end of the day, like it

1349
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 15: was a long day for all of us. We were

1350
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 15: all hot, all hungry, all in feathers for hours, and yeah,

1351
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 15: I mean that was just a moment that was It

1352
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 15: was tough because like that was a huge thing, especially

1353
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 15: to win. Yeah, when the vip VIP suite is huge,

1354
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 15: and yeah.

1355
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 22: I.

1356
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Speaker 7: Had a moment and I did it. Yeah, I will.

1357
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: I will say this though I read exactly what went

1358
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: down as they've been on camera all day. They were

1359
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: told they get to go to a VIP suite, they're

1360
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 1: still filming us, and then you got salty. That's how

1361
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: I read it. Yeah, just because I know how the

1362
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: sausage is made.

1363
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 16: Like we thought we were actually gonna enjoy Yeah.

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01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 15: I was just I was hoping that we could just

1365
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 15: we could have adapted to the situation and know, like

1366
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 15: if we could just put a smile on for the

1367
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 15: last you know, ten minutes, then it's like, okay, then

1368
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 15: we we get what we worked hard for and what

1369
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 15: we want and now we can enjoy it. It was

1370
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 15: just a moment of like we're adapting. Would have been

1371
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 15: really nice, but it's but I will, like we are

1372
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 15: all living for the first time. It's okay, this was

1373
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 15: a new experience for all of us. And I want

1374
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 15: to say, like, I don't it was a mistake whatever,

1375
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 15: But I don't want that to ever be held against

1376
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 15: someone and then they are labeled as that forever. And

1377
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 15: it's all that matters is that we look back, we

1378
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 15: recognize things, and then we use that to grow and

1379
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 15: you know, next time, like if any situation like this

1380
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 15: ever happens, it's like okay, like we're going to exhale,

1381
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 15: adapt to it, and just move on.

1382
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 7: And just tell them your favorite color.

1383
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 20: Yeah.

1384
01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would have been the easiest man. All right,

1385
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation, that's going to do it. For Part one

1386
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 1: of Bachelor and Paradise Unplugged, make sure to stay tuned.

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01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: Part two of our Pas Paradise reunion will be airing Friday,

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01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: September fifth, and streaming everywhere you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 13: You'll see you soon,