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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go. This is from Louise and Racine.

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Speaker 1: Louise writes, I have a trip planned, and my husband

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Speaker 1: has his panties in a bunch because he can't go.

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Speaker 1: We've been married forty years and this is the first

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Speaker 1: girl's trip I've ever been on. We've never been apart

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Speaker 1: for five straight days. Should I take him with me

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Speaker 1: or not?

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Speaker 2: Hell? No, I'm gonna sit down somewhere wa Washington football season.

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Speaker 2: Gotch a game? Five days without your wife? Dog, go

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Speaker 2: somewhere or do something.

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Speaker 3: Get you some cigah, Sit down in the backyard, be quiet,

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Speaker 3: enjoy your peace. Forty years, I ain't never been apart

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Speaker 3: for five days. What I'm not gonna be married that

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Speaker 3: long and not be apart for five days.

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Speaker 2: I'm not. We're not gonna make it. We gonna make it.

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Speaker 2: He's not gonna make it that five days. He's not

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Speaker 2: gonna we had forty years.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the lovet.

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Speaker 3: I've been married since I was two, so I've been

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Speaker 3: married for forty three years. Forty three years I've been married,

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Speaker 3: mm hmm. But in that it's been to three different people.

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Speaker 3: You spread it out, that's fine. I spread spread it out.

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Speaker 3: I keep a running total. I get time for credits, credits, time,

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Speaker 3: I won't time serve credits.

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Speaker 2: Can't just have me in it and don't give me time.

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Speaker 3: I know I won't out, but I was still in it,

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Speaker 3: so just give me credit. So I don't know how

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Speaker 3: y'all have been together forty years. Ain't never been apart

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Speaker 3: for five days? You must because should I take him

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Speaker 3: with me?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Hell?

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Speaker 4: Now you need some time, lady. You need time for

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Speaker 4: your girl.

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Speaker 2: What's your girl?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You need? Everybody need time off?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, all right, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Shanda and Brooklyn, Shanda writes, my daughter

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Speaker 1: is being teased because her daddy is dating a lie

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Speaker 1: at her school. I can't say anything to him because

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Speaker 1: he'll get mad and stop paying child support. If I

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Speaker 1: go to the school, the lady will get fired. Do

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Speaker 1: I take a risk and call her daddy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, let me explain something to y'all. Don't know if

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Speaker 2: you understand how child support work.

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Speaker 3: If you call her daddy and he get mad and

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Speaker 3: he stopped paying the child's reput, then he get to

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Speaker 3: go to court, and that's called contempt.

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Speaker 2: You can go jail for not paying child sip.

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Speaker 3: Now she's being your daughter being teased because her daddy

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Speaker 3: is dating somebody at the school, one of the other

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Speaker 3: parents or the teacher or something.

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Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: See, the mother is using an excuse because the girl

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Speaker 3: is being teased.

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Speaker 2: What they saying, what the kids are saying.

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Speaker 3: Your daddy likes somebody other than your mom or your daddy.

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Speaker 2: He's dating with gim teacher.

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Speaker 3: Your daddy is sleep deep been with to put us

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Speaker 3: up on whatever.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's true. Daddy up there winning that if that'd

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Speaker 2: have dropped.

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Speaker 3: You off with Lord, look at him bringing it. Daddy

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Speaker 3: up at the school. He getting some mocked, the little

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Speaker 3: drop off some pickles.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're teasing the baby though.

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Speaker 2: That's me. Baby ain't getting teased that bad. If it

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Speaker 2: sounded like what you just saw, it's get under your

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Speaker 2: skin right there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's cause for concern for sure. Yeah, she

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Speaker 4: shouldn't the baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, what you want to do, What you're gonna

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Speaker 3: say to the daddy because he ain't gonna stop datingly?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't think that's her concern. Again, it's because

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Speaker 1: her child is being teased.

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Speaker 2: Your teacher is your mama saying it? You know, I

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Speaker 2: finny get an e now now that's all I means

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Speaker 2: that you'll come back to the teaser.

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Speaker 4: All right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Montes and Juniper, Jupiter Montes says, Sunday,

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Speaker 1: I got into a scuffle with someone over a football bet.

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Speaker 1: My wife is disappointed in me for fighting, and she's

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Speaker 1: been talking to me like a child because I currently

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Speaker 1: am not working. It was only one hundred dollars that

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Speaker 1: I lost. Should I have lied to my wife instead?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well you see once? Should I have lied? Always?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Best question?

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Speaker 2: What what did the truth get you?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 4: She's talking to him like a child?

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Speaker 2: What did the truth?

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Speaker 4: Nor?

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Speaker 2: Should I have lied? Why would you not?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: And if you don't want to lie, done to you?

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Speaker 3: And if you don't want to lie, yeah, don't say nothing.

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Speaker 2: What you even tell about the fight for?

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Speaker 1: Because maybe maybe he came home looking crazy?

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Speaker 4: He already does. Well, see now he's out there.

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Speaker 3: He needed to quit betting because he ain't working right

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Speaker 3: and he can't fight.

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Speaker 4: Things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you two things. You need to be careful of

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Speaker 3: betting and fighting and when you ain't working, especially if

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Speaker 3: he lost the hunting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he did, see.

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Speaker 3: I think that's what the argument, because he came home

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Speaker 3: bruised up my work fault and ain't working and lost

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Speaker 3: the hunting.

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Speaker 1: That's probably This is what I wanted to ask you, though,

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Speaker 1: Colo she's talking to him like a child.

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Speaker 4: What does that sound like?

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Speaker 3: Getting ran up down there and got your beat and

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Speaker 3: then lost hundred dollars, And now you're coming back up

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Speaker 3: in at the house. Were already in here struggling and

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Speaker 3: ain't got grocery school, and you just took your stupid

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Speaker 3: being down there and then got your tail whipped and

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Speaker 3: lost a hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: And we needed that hundred dollars to put these groceries

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Speaker 2: up in here.

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Speaker 3: These kids ain't eating this stuff right here, and you

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Speaker 3: were this and now they having popsicles for dinner. And

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Speaker 3: while you're sitting up there here, that set up here

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Speaker 3: and lost a dog one hundred dollars with your stick

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Speaker 3: behind like you getting the betting money you ain't even got,

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Speaker 3: And that was the hundred I gave you. And what

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Speaker 3: you were supposed to do, You're supposed to go down

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Speaker 3: there and put it on that light deal. But now

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Speaker 3: you went down there and bet your money. You done

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Speaker 3: lost a hundred, got you a little stupid behind whipped?

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Speaker 3: What you mean, Craig always jumping on you? Quit betting.

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Speaker 3: You can't whoop Crig. You can't whoop nobody down. It

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Speaker 3: don't make no sense.

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Speaker 4: Good Lord a mighty'll do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They eating popsicles for dinner, dinner, got.

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Speaker 3: All these kids in here now, everybody hung because you

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Speaker 3: down here betting and you ain't worth it?

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Speaker 4: Should he go to his room, set up and here?

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Speaker 2: And what is your betting on the cowboys?

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Speaker 1: For?

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Speaker 2: I told you.

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Speaker 4: All right? Thank you, Celo.

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Speaker 1: Last one from Raynelle and Charlotte Ranelle says, my husband

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Speaker 1: said he was hanging.

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Speaker 4: Get out the freezer.

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Speaker 2: You don't get no more pops.

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Speaker 4: You're talking to him about the baby. I'm talking to

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Speaker 4: the husband like a child anymore. Hundred dollars, hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: Yeah didn't it? Yeah, it did, so it did.

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Speaker 3: Stop watching them cartoons and get out here and find some.

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Speaker 4: Work, all right. We want to We want to thank you, Celo.

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Speaker 3: Don't ask me about this PlayStation no more this half

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Speaker 3: of the hour, will I No, I don't know where

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Speaker 3: the joystick is because I'll be at

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