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Speaker 1: get to see again. Yeah, it's so nice. I like

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Speaker 1: you with glasses. Yeah, I'm wearing glasses right now. It's

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Speaker 1: That's um. He said. If I got these glasses that

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Speaker 1: I've been reading that this is the light from a screen,

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Speaker 1: whether it's your computer or your phone, could actually damage

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Speaker 1: your skin. Like now new skin products are putting like

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Speaker 1: technology light protection in them. This is a good point.

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Speaker 1: So I think everybody in here will will shake their

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Speaker 1: think we're going to find that out too. I remember

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Speaker 1: when cell phones like really started to get popular, you know,

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Speaker 1: going to create brain tumors, Like there are ladies. I

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Speaker 1: else in life. And I'm thinking an addiction to a

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Speaker 1: so many people today that hold that thing so close

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Speaker 1: And I feel like we should just kind of campaign

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Speaker 1: that's how close it needs to be to men. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why you can work on that step on iCloud.

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Speaker 1: It's not as if I like, I'm gonna lose everything

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Speaker 1: I totally believe in that in social situations, but not

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Speaker 1: during the work we've got us improving to do. If

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Speaker 1: I may, Yeah, this is Mark, thank you. My wife

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Speaker 1: down this week's episode of Bachelor and parties. Things are

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Speaker 1: ash I'm allergic to latex. You know that? No? I

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Speaker 1: go back and listen to it. Hey, Melissa Ryecroft, Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the Almost Famous Podcast. Thanks guys. It's a big

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Speaker 1: Why is that? Because I'm an You're you are o G.

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Speaker 1: only five. Yes, you've accomplished. You have three kids. I

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Speaker 1: But you have three kids and you have created this

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Speaker 1: somebody got hurt. Not thankfully, somebody got hurt on Dancing

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Speaker 1: give it to us. UM. Let's see. I I was

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Speaker 1: Life in Dallas wasn't really treating me well at the time.

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Speaker 1: I was twenty four. Who was your bachelor, Jason Jason Mesnick.

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Speaker 1: now with your husband, and Dancing with Stars happens. It

424
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: goes really well, what was your finish on Dance with Stars?

425
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 1: First time? Third and you came back for the all

426
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: time championship? Yeah, and how did you do that? You

427
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: are a dancer the Stars champions. Well know that I

428
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 1: have a trophy though. Good for you. And so now

429
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: you're entering in this whole new stage. Was something that

430
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: I think you're really passionate about. Um, you're on CMT

431
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys. Cheiler is making the team. Tell us more

432
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 1: about this. Um, Well, obviously that's where everything kind of

433
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,959
Speaker 1: started for me. When I was right out of college.

434
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: I became a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader. Um, so you're a

435
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 1: good dancer, good dancer, good faker. How about that? I

436
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:16,719
Speaker 1: can fake my way through it. Um, you should see it.

437
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: It's really awesome. I'm a good dancer. I like to

438
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 1: watch him dance. Looking at her face, Yeah, see she

439
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: likes to watch me dance. Which would make me a

440
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 1: great cheerleader because all these fifty people would love to

441
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: watch me dance. Would you wear the white short? I

442
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 1: would wear anything they want, anything they want me in,

443
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: I would wear because I'm a good dance. There's a

444
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: picture of you as a Dallas cover so hot. Mid

445
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 1: drift for me would be a little awkward. Well, I

446
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: got away from We've talked about it. I've got away

447
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: from manscaping a little bit single because well, yeah, because

448
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,959
Speaker 1: I'm single. And then based on the show that one

449
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: of the executive producers like, it's no longer cool to shave,

450
00:23:56,040 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 1: like to along Gale, Well, look at a lawn head,

451
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: his whole head. And so I just haven't in like

452
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 1: three years. And so the shorts with the middrift showing

453
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 1: might be a little much for anybody watching, But for me,

454
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,959
Speaker 1: I would feel very confident and comfortable that's all that matters.

455
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: Confidence is really of it. Are there any men on

456
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 1: the team? Not on the count never and never on

457
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: an NFL T There are? I wish I knew off

458
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: the top of my head. Really there's a group that

459
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: have men. It's interesting, right, but I think it's a

460
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: conversation people are having because the social tides they are returning,

461
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: and I feel like people are afraid to say no,

462
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: guys can't do that. It's for women. The rams and

463
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: say it's both have male teaters this year. I love

464
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 1: the voice in our ear, very amazing. I didn't know that. St. Louis.

465
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: It's new this year. Make your dreams come true. Okay,

466
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: so this is for men. So Loo's cowboys like? Um? Okay,

467
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about the show. So

468
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: this starts for you as a Dallas cow a cheerleader

469
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: years ago? How long did twelve years ago? Um? Oh? Six?

470
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 1: Twelve years ago? Twelve years ago? Good guests, man, um,

471
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,959
Speaker 1: and you go on the show, all this happens as

472
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: we just talked about, and now you're back. You're back

473
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: in Dallas on CMTS dancing or Dallas Cowboys cheeralers making

474
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: the team. Why should people tune into this, UM. I've

475
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 1: been I've been working with them now for five years.

476
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have ever seen it,

477
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 1: but I've seen it a couple of times. I think

478
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 1: the fascination with this show is that you have a

479
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: group of girls, like the Cowboys cheerleaders, and there's always

480
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: been this facade of like they're just these pretty girls

481
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: out there with pom poms. And what the show does.

482
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: It kind of pulls back the curtain and lets you

483
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 1: see it's like the inner workings of a reality show.

484
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: You know, people are so interested to know what really happens,

485
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: and so it kind of takes you through the tryout process,

486
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: and it's a three month training camp, UM, and you

487
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: get to know the girls and you root for them,

488
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: and unfortunately some of them don't make the team. You know,

489
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 1: ten girls get cut through training camp. But it's just

490
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 1: it's an interesting look at what it takes to make

491
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: a team like that. How many girls are on the

492
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: team three six. It makes me feel like I'm back

493
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: doing basketball or volleyball tryouts in high school. It's just

494
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: like I feel, it's a feeling, very unique, a very

495
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 1: unique feeling. No, both I didn't make it. No, not

496
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 1: even volleyball. Didn't really try hard for volleyball. My mom

497
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: made me do that. She's like, you're going to get

498
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: active your first year freshman year. You're gonna get active,

499
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: get active and involved. And I was like, I don't

500
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: want to be involved. Being at Dallas Cowboys sheerler is

501
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: a pretty big deal, right, It is a big deal,

502
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: especially if you're in the Dallas area, from which I am.

503
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's a it's a big thing. But

504
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: you don't make any money. It's like a novel two thing, right,

505
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: you don't get rich off of it. I mean, yeah,

506
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody really does it to become millionaires.

507
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: You know, it's supposed to be a part time job.

508
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: But the the other perks that you get from it.

509
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: With the evolution of social media and the shows, these

510
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: girls have a built in audience and they can kind

511
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 1: of do anything they want afterwards. Did you know that

512
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: Jasmine from The Bachelor was also a Dallas Cowboys I did.

513
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: I was actually working with them during trouts when Jasmine

514
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: was I think her fifth year, completing her fifth year.

515
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: Oh wow, she was there a five year A long time,

516
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: and like this isn't. I mean, you have a pretty

517
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: like talented group of women trying out for the spot.

518
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: I mean this season alone, which is crazy and I'm

519
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: gonna be super exciting to watch. There's a huge talent

520
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 1: of of rookies, as it says here season cheerleaders from

521
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: uh the NFL, NBA, and NHL, Miss America, two thousand

522
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: seventeen up professional hip hop dancers, and a former competitive

523
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 1: ice skater all trying for these spots. And this is

524
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: the crazy part of this. At the end of the day,

525
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: their fate rest in the hands of Kelly fing Glass

526
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: and you, well, Judy too, the correct you that just

527
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: rolled off the tongue so easy, that knowledge that you

528
00:27:54,520 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: have I can tell. I mean, I mean, really like

529
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: all of these people who have crazy stories, amazing backgrounds,

530
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: their pedigrees are are some of the top in the world,

531
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: and they're coming in and their fate sits in your hands.

532
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: How much pressure do you feel, Well, it's a ton

533
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: of pressure. I mean in the world of dance. If

534
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 1: it's a world that you appreciate, I mean, it's kind

535
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: of this is the highest level that you can get.

536
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: So there are girls that come from other professional teams,

537
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: We've had girls come from Broadway, we have the runner

538
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: up from Miss USA. I mean, it attracts them all

539
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: over and me now being on the other side of it,

540
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: I look at these girls, going, God, y'all are so little,

541
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: you know. They some of them are as young as

542
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: eighteen years old, you know, and they're such at an

543
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: impressionable age that I don't want to be the one

544
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: to tell them you're not going to make it. But

545
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: coming into trials, you know, there's only like eleven spots

546
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: available because you have the veterans that are returning. Most

547
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: of them are usually guaranteed to come back, some of

548
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: them don't. But there's hundreds of girls that come in

549
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: eleven spots. It's just it's the reality of it. Can

550
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: we get Ashley on the show? No way you should.

551
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: That's my childhood dream of being a cheerleader, And then

552
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: I never tried out for it because I just wasn't popular,

553
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: and I felt like you had to be the popular popular.

554
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: He's gonna shake. I'm bad at moving, poorly coordinated. I'll

555
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: do it if you do it, I mean, yeah, then

556
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: I would do it for the sake of seeing you

557
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: do it, and then not make it. And you'd probably

558
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: do way better. Yeah, we'll see. Um, what gets you like?

559
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: What gets you fired up about this show? I mean,

560
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: because it's obviously in the in the world that we're

561
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: living the day, Uh, everything scrutinized, we're really trying. I

562
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: think we're in a generation that's that's or at a

563
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: time period that's really trying to do things right. And

564
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: I know this show is really in support of healthy

565
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: eating habits, a healthy diet. Uh. You know, it's really

566
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: kind of confronting the body image conversation and trying to

567
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: make it a healthy conversation. What role do you play

568
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: in that? Um, Well, this year, I'm I'm really proud.

569
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,239
Speaker 1: In the past, you know, there has been a lot

570
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: of criticism on how much emphasis is placed on the

571
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: body and the figure and not so much on the

572
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: health part of it, and I think that's true. I

573
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: think sometimes when you're an outsider looking in, all you

574
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: see is a bunch of skinny girls that have to

575
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: fit into a uniform. And in reality, on all I

576
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: can speak for is on this squad is they don't

577
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: necessarily just want a skinny stick figure girl. I mean,

578
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: you have to be strong, you have at the beginning

579
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: of the game, five minute routine kick line, and then

580
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: you're dancing all four hours of the game, and that

581
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: takes strength and it takes stamina, you know, and you

582
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: can't be a waif who doesn't eat. Not to mention,

583
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 1: that doesn't really look good. And I don't mean to

584
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: say that, but you know, abnormally unhealthy skinny does not

585
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: look good. And so this season they really are focusing

586
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: on helping some of the girls get healthy so that

587
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: they can be good performers. I mean, that's that's huge. Really,

588
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm hearing more and more and I'm just thinking, I'm

589
00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: in for this. I think you're training for marathon. Well

590
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: I kind of stop. Stop now, I just got busy. Um,

591
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: But I mean as we as we speak, I'm drinking

592
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: and drinking something green juice that has a ton of

593
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: stuff in it, and so I think I'm pretty healthy. Yeah,

594
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: I think you are too. You just said that you

595
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: would spend your all your money at Whole Foods if

596
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: you had the opportunity. I would. And I'm still going

597
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: to try to finish this trayathlon. That's still like my athlon.

598
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: Why don't you try a marathon? That's yeah, that's not

599
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: something you can just go do, right, I'm gonna train.

600
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: I just I've been traveling for a couple of weeks. Guys,

601
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: get off my back. I'm not that's just I'm getting aggressive.

602
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm just asking. I'm feeling a little insecure.

603
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: Now I need to go out and run a little bit.

604
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: All right, Well, Melissa, thank you so much for being here.

605
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: It's Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders making the team a premier's Thursdays. Well,

606
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 1: it is a premiere yeah. Um, it is on on

607
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: CMT at ten nine Central on Thursdays, and it's the

608
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: highest rated season today. It so congratulations you're telling it

609
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: thirteen seasons, Melissa Rycroft, Congratulations on taking something that could

610
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: have been just really sad and you could have played

611
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 1: the victim and you could have just gone in the

612
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: corner quietly and cried. And instead you put your steak down.

613
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: You said I'm going to do something, and you have

614
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: and look, you could all happen for a reason. Sorry

615
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: to cut another question, but like you know how everybody says, oh,

616
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: everything happens for a reason, and like one day, like

617
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: do you really believe that, Like you probably wouldn't have

618
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: married your husband had not. For Yeah, I do, because

619
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: I don't think I ever would have cut the cord,

620
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: you know. I think I just would have been that

621
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: girl that eventually that relationship would have worn out. I

622
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: wouldn't have the career that I have either, you know, honestly,

623
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: I mean I owe everything to that one and exactly

624
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: the way it went down. Yeah, And I've even heard

625
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: an interview with Jason and Molly where Molly said she's like,

626
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if we would be together if he

627
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: had picked me right off the bat. I think a

628
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: little bit. So Yeah, I think it's like it was

629
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: kind of a lull in all of our lives and

630
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: then we come out of it going all right, there

631
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: you go little embarrassment and when just for like people listening,

632
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: because in life, the one thing about the Bachelor is

633
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: like it's just a heightened version of life. When did

634
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: you realize that, Like, when did you start to feel better?

635
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: Was it after dancing with the stars, when you like

636
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: said to yourself, oh, maybe this is happening for a reason.

637
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: When did you start to kind of feel better and go, oh,

638
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: maybe I can see why this went down. I think

639
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: it was after we had filmed our after the final

640
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: rows after everything had happened and the show is airing,

641
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: and you guys can attest to it's a really weird

642
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: time when a show is airing and it's three months

643
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: since it's actually happened to you in real life, and

644
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm essentially living in a bubble of all these emotions.

645
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: I had the happiest moment in my life getting engaged,

646
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: then the most embarrassing happened in a two week span,

647
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: and I have nobody to talk to about it, and

648
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: so you're like in this warped space. And all I

649
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: had to do from the time that the show started

650
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: airing until when every was going to find out what

651
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: happened was to kind of sit and marinate over what

652
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: the heck has just happened in my life? Um, And

653
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: you know what, that's kind of when I got some

654
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: confidence and I went, you know what, I'm kind of

655
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: done fighting for people to want me and like me.

656
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: And I can't make anybody happy if I can't make

657
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: myself happy. All that stuff that you hear, that was

658
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: the time in my life when it actually hit me.

659
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,240
Speaker 1: And it's funny because once that happened is when everything

660
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 1: in my life changed. And you you spoke a lot

661
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: of truth there. I'm sitting here thinking because you know,

662
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: a lot of our stories on the show are very similar,

663
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: and it really does make you interest like introspective and

664
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: start to think about yourself and process yourself and and

665
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 1: listen to the criticism enough to know that some of

666
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: its truth and a lot of it's not. But like

667
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: understand that you're not going to ever make everybody. Hard

668
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: thing to really like. It's one thing to say it

669
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: to yourself, it's another thing to actually like get to

670
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: a place where you believe it. If you're making everyone happy,

671
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 1: you're probably boring. Jennifer Lopez can't make everybody. Yeah, she

672
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:07,879
Speaker 1: makes me happy. She's something else. Um, Melissa, for all

673
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: of your success. Uh and like we said, it's the

674
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: highest rating season to day on Dallas Cowboys. Sheiler is

675
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: making the team. You're Dancing with the Stars champion. Uh,

676
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: you successfully completed the Bachelor franchise. Do you feel like

677
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: sitting here in this room right now is the moment

678
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: you really feel like you've made it? This is it?

679
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: I mean, this is Instagram post. Let's be honest, We're

680
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: gonna get a picture after this. Melissa Rycroft, thanks for

681
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: coming in. She's killing it. She really is. She's doing

682
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: a great job. She's so cute. Yeah she is. You're like,

683
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: I wish she was single. I mean, I can appreciate

684
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: I can appreciate a cute, a beautiful, put together, like

685
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 1: successful woman like until I could. I can appreciate her

686
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: and just say you can appreciate her. Yeah, Like I

687
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: would love for my wife to be like Melissa one day.

688
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: She has sexy mom hair. I told her just that,

689
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: Can I say that? You can't? Yeah, I'm just saying, like,

690
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: is that acceptable? We we've we've talked about this is

691
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: acceptable for me to say she has sexy mom heir? Yeah,

692
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: totally in this in this case, yes, And there's not

693
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: like a lot of people that can make that haircut sexy,

694
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: and she does. You're just talking about it. We have,

695
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: we have so much to talk about. Ashley and Melissa

696
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: were just out um earlier today talking and I overheard

697
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,840
Speaker 1: a conversation about they wear their hair. I thought it

698
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: was because they were saying their husbands and significant others

699
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: like a like in a certain style and color, and

700
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: they're like, now, we kind of gave that up, but

701
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: you're still kind of in the stage with Jared where

702
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: you're wearing your hair a certain way because he likes it, well,

703
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 1: he likes it short, and I like it short too,

704
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: but he would also be I'm sure if he'd think

705
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: it was really hot if it was super long. It's

706
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: just that that's like, but he only says that it's maybe,

707
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 1: but he says that he likes Yeah. So anybody out

708
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: there listening, make sure you email us at Ben and

709
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 1: Ashley I heard me dot com. Let us know why

710
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: you choose to wear where your hair the way you do.

711
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: I'm start to get educated. I'm trying to talk about

712
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: this because I think hair like fashion. I not right

713
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: now obviously I'm wearing the worst outfit of all time

714
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: right now. But typically I dress to look cute for

715
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,359
Speaker 1: boys as opposed to like being so fashion forward where

716
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: it's like, clearly it's for girls. So a lot of

717
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: girls will say most girls will say that they dress

718
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: for girls. I am not one of them. I will

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00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: dress the way that I think Jared thinks it's cut

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00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: ist that I dress. Yeah, But if you want to

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Speaker 1: talk about makeup, which we should totally talk about guys

722
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: preferences on makeup amounts. After we talk about something that's

723
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: going to make my stomach so grally because I'm really hungry.

724
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Speaker 1: We have a segment coming up called Chicken Nuggets, but

725
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Speaker 1: it's I don't think chicken nuggets would be in How

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Speaker 1: cute is that burger? Isn't that a TV show? Um?

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Speaker 1: I don't think they would have chicken nuggets on their mania.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's processed. They don't believe you can

758
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Speaker 1: blue Apron Better Way to Cook. Okay, so I know

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Speaker 1: that we have chicken on the line. Well you can wait,

767
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: canny way, Yeah, I think you can. All right. So

768
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: yesterday Nick Vile was over my house. We he was

769
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: doing a podcast with me, and he was like, Ashley,

770
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: you look so good right now. You look so much

771
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: better with makeup. I can't stand it when you have

772
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: like an inch of foundation on Why is your preference

773
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: when it comes to girls with makeup? Do you like

774
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: with without? Do you think that you like without? But

775
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: really they have a little bit on here's my thing

776
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: and I mean this, um, I just noticed this. They

777
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: on Instagram. All those before and after pictures kind of

778
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: creeped me out a little bit, honestly, Like it's like

779
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: before and you're like you're beautiful before, and then you

780
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 1: see the after, You're like you look like a different person. UM,

781
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: so let's ask David. David, I feel like I'm in

782
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 1: the hot seat here. Do you like girls with more

783
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: makeup or less makeups? Somebody would say that of natural beauty.

784
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: David has been un Paradise. That was so hilarious talking

785
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: about the new girls coming down and how they looked.

786
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: She was like, they haven't been in Paradise. They haven't

787
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: been Paradise Paradise. But you know, Tia and Bibbie are

788
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: totally rocking the natural look and I think it looks

789
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: so good. David, we gotta start this conversation off right. Um,

790
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: on a scale of one that now you're you're you're

791
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: an education educated guy on a A, B, C, D S.

792
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: What do you grade yourself on your performance in Paradise?

793
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that. I agree. We actually love you.

794
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: Are we watching the same completely the email we got? Um, yeah,

795
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: somebody pull up the email here, David, you and I

796
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: have to have a man chat as she's gonna look

797
00:41:55,680 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: up this email. Um, why a F I'm mean, first

798
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: of all, the you know, the I guess like the

799
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,240
Speaker 1: level of giving the cake to Jenna and then the

800
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 1: birthday dog to Jenna. I don't know it just I

801
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 1: didn't feel great. I didn't do great. I didn't develop

802
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: anything with the single person. Chelsea and I had something

803
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: good's going for a little while, but not a lot.

804
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: But did you kiss? Yeah? We didn't show any of it.

805
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: But we had a good time together, you know. Um

806
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: we did have a lot of fun and we had

807
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 1: something specially going a little bit. I liked it. Um,

808
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: just you know I didn't go in that direction. So uh,

809
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: it's kind of a passpelt right, Man. I absolutely felt David.

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00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: You know, I love you. I mean I do. I

811
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: really like you a lot. But there was these moments

812
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: during Paradise like it was a very hard relationship for

813
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: you and I as I was watching for the through

814
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: the screen, because you'd have moments where I was like,

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00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: that's the David I know and love, Like he's he's

816
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: confiding in people, and he's talking to people, and he's

817
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: he's a sounding board for for hard conversations and he's

818
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: wise and intelligent, and then you would just fff it

819
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: up bad. Sure it's hard for me to watch too

820
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: because I know there's a different person there too, and

821
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: then it's like, oh, man, who is this guy? Why

822
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 1: where does it come? From I don't know. I don't know.

823
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just not meant to be on television. They

824
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: don't say that. I don't know if I could have

825
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,919
Speaker 1: got through this year without watching you on television, David

826
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: Better on Winter Games. If they do it again, why

827
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,800
Speaker 1: do you think you're so susceptible to a producer pressure.

828
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you didn't get that dog on your own.

829
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: So here's a look, chicken, you didn't get that dog

830
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: on your But let's break this down here, get one second.

831
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: We can all blame producers. And I've said this before

832
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: and I put my I'll stand firm on this. I

833
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: never acknowledged the producers, but like, yeah, when it's something

834
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: like you giving him, giving her too, but he doesn't

835
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: need to say yes. Okay, that's that's the limma. Okay,

836
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 1: of course, of course, it's in in everybody's best interest

837
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 1: to go here's a grand idea, like you should do it,

838
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: and we could all just say yes and it would

839
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: be a crazy show. Or I don't believe in this,

840
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: I can't do this, and they'll say, okay, like totally cool.

841
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: Do you do your thing? So David, let's go back

842
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: to that question. Let's not blame producers. Let's blame you

843
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: willing to take complete responsive that's the definitely. I mean,

844
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 1: you know, sure they give you suggestions on what to do,

845
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: but you can absolutely say no. You absolutely say yes,

846
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: and whatever is within the realm of the scope of

847
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: whatever I want to do, it comfortable with. So absolutely,

848
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: you know, take responsibility for my action. But then an

849
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: answer asked this question, why are you so susceptible to

850
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: do the literally worst possible thing in a situation? Oh? Man,

851
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Actually I wish I

852
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: could have a better answer for you, but I don't know.

853
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: You're about to go take a class right now. I

854
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: didn't know that you were in school. Is it a

855
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 1: class on O to behavior economic theory? Class? What? The

856
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: University of Miami? You guys are more than welcome down here.

857
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. Did you did your mommy make your lunch? Oh?

858
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: My god, no she didn't. Unfortunately, it would be a

859
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: lot better than what I ate. Does your mommy make

860
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 1: you dinner every night? I actually cooked blue apron last night?

861
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: All right, David's how much time we got with you?

862
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: A little while with you? Okay? Cool? So are you

863
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: like enrolled in school. Yeah, I'm getting my MBA at

864
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: the University of Miami. I'll just continue to get better.

865
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: This guy's marriage material. Yeah, you are the chicken is

866
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,399
Speaker 1: marriage material. I absolutely, David, I love you, you you know that.

867
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: Like I'm so angry with you sometimes because I know

868
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: there's so much in there and you do the exact

869
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 1: things that bother me most about people. And then I

870
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: just see where your heart's at. And I talked to you,

871
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I get it, Like you don't want

872
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: to You don't want to make Jordan's life miserable either,

873
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: do you? A hundred percent? Not? I actually like the guy.

874
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: He's he's pretty funny. Okay, now you went too far?

875
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,760
Speaker 1: Do you really like it? Uh? You know, look, I

876
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: accept him for you know what he is. I would

877
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: never want to date the same person as him, but

878
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: you know, he's actually kind of funny. Well, then why

879
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 1: didn't you go out for Jenna? Yeah? Because at that time,

880
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 1: like Jenna had just walked onto the beach, a new personality,

881
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: new person there, why not trying to get to know her?

882
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 1: And she had been there for less than twelve hours

883
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: by the time that, Um, you know, I talked to her, so, um,

884
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to get to know everyone there,

885
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: tried to become friends with everyone. No, David, you gave

886
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: her a cake and then the next day you gave

887
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: her a dog. Yeah, don't back off of it, David. Yeah,

888
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: it was It was a gesture and I clearly got

889
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 1: her attention. Um, so in some respect it worked. Um,

890
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 1: but you know, I actually I really didn't know Jordan's

891
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: level of interest and her at that point, to be

892
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: completely honest, watching it back, obviously you can't see it. Um,

893
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: But I wasn't really part of those conversations there, so

894
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: that's not something I was able to say they had

895
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: a cosmic connection. What do you feel like when he

896
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: went to go dump the dog in the water? Oh

897
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: my god, I was sitting there cringing, like what did

898
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,919
Speaker 1: I just do? Oh? So you knew you were wrong there?

899
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: That's what I was wondering when you were watching him

900
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: doing that. Were you saying I missed this up or

901
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: I knew this was going to be the outcome? No,

902
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: I am not not even knew that. I knew that

903
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: that was gonna be the outcome, and I just didn't

904
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 1: know the level that he was gonna take it and

905
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: uh yeah, pretty far, David. I cannot believe that we've

906
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: watched you for two seasons and this is still the

907
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: storyline playing out, Like I know, it's so dumb, it's

908
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: so crazy. I mean, you're literally sitting on a couch

909
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: watching this poor man say you little chicken, like I

910
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: cannot seem to just get away from you, like I'm

911
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 1: not interested in making your life hell anymore, and all

912
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: you're doing is making my life it and as a result,

913
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: I am so upset. Okay, So here's here's your out

914
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: And this is where things got real. We talked about

915
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: it last week on the on the podcast. Um So,

916
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: then Jordan goes up to where everybody's sitting after this

917
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: encounter with you, and he's getting laughed at because of

918
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: this pretty funny like Well said, uh, you know, it's

919
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: one of the funniest things he's ever witnessed with his

920
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: own eyes. But George was actually upset, and so there's

921
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 1: a moment that got really real where he actually kind

922
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 1: of lashes out at the people sitting in the room.

923
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: What were your feelings watching that this little thing that

924
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: you're pulling, And then all of a sudden, it gets

925
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: real real fast. Yeah. That's that's where I was like,

926
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 1: oh man, what should I just do? And like actual,

927
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: like real emotions hit me because I felt like I

928
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: was the cause of that, you know, I felt like

929
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: I was the cause of some women being laughed at. Um.

930
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: And that's really where it, you know, went from kind

931
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: of a playful type thing to you know, actual real stuff.

932
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: And you know, I sat there as Jordan, come on, man,

933
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: you don't need to say these things. If you're mad

934
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: at anyone, bead at me Yellow, don't yell at Jubilee,

935
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: don't yell at Chelsea. Um. And you know they didn't

936
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: show it. But I went down to speech and you

937
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: had a chat with Jordan at the book. You know,

938
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't mean that, you know, for that

939
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: to happen um. And you know he apologized that showed

940
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: the apology and at that point that's when things got

941
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: really um. That was my attempted, intended action and didn't

942
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: want that consequences. I think, as as viewers here, because

943
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: David's biased outside of this one encounter for Jordan's he

944
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:30,240
Speaker 1: has the best redemption story in Paradise, I find myself

945
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,479
Speaker 1: really enjoying him and really rooting for him to find

946
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: love down there. He's been great. The only thing he's

947
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: really messed up on that he seemed to kind of

948
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: get away with when was when he was planning with

949
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: Chris um that whole audition process for Chris's girls. He

950
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: was like, you have an appetizer with her and then

951
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 1: you have dinner with her. That was the only time

952
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,959
Speaker 1: that well there's that too. Yeah, I think Ben stuck

953
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: out besides the meltdown, but like, yeah, it was overlooked

954
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 1: that he was part of that whole Chris thing. Yeah,

955
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: agreed Chris. No, I do like Chris. But the only

956
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: other thing I'll have you know, I didn't love when

957
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: he put Analyte on the back for her. I just

958
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 1: could have done better in that situation. He was honest

959
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: with her, but I never wanted to tell a woman that,

960
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:22,839
Speaker 1: you know, she's second choice. This is David, Okay, this

961
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: is where we get confused. I'll stop you here because

962
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: last week I was confused on our podcast talking to

963
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: Analyze about how these guys get away with kissing multiple people,

964
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: and how these women get away with kissing multiple people,

965
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 1: and how if you as long as you're not committed,

966
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: then it's fair game to do what you want with

967
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,240
Speaker 1: who you want, when you want. And so you're saying

968
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: that by him being honest and telling her, hey, like

969
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: I'm into you, but like not that much, that was wrong.

970
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 1: He's saying that he should say I'm in to you

971
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: but not that much, but not say blatantly you're my

972
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: second place, like you're my second choice. And you know

973
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: the way I treat Paradise, which you know, whether it

974
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: was good good, try to here that tragedy. I never

975
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 1: wanted to kick multiple people. You know, I was there

976
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: to potentially develop relationship with one person, and then you

977
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: know that's what happened. I only kissed Chelsea, you know,

978
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,799
Speaker 1: I only you know, uh went in that route, and

979
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 1: um yeah, I just felt like it was wrong for

980
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: Jordan to say, uh, you know, kind of Bernard's hype

981
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: material type thing. But you know, here you are with

982
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: Jordan's again. Yeah, this kidding with you. I wanted to

983
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: follow up on what Ashley asked about Chris, because everybody

984
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: keeps telling us Chris is a great guy. Chris is

985
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 1: so cool, but he comes across repulsive, like totally like jerky,

986
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: like what he did to Tia just seemed jerky. Yeah,

987
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: but like there's also something in his eyes that makes

988
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: me scared. You don't like the headband. The headband doesn't

989
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: help her with the headband and the crazy eye. Yeah,

990
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mean. Well, um, I really like

991
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: a person, and I think that in that environment, situation,

992
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 1: the same thing I'm attached there. It kind of lost

993
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: his mind a little bit, played into the whole storyline,

994
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 1: played into this situation, you know, kind of the same

995
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: thing happened. And you know, watching back, it's hard to

996
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: hear some of the things that he said, especially um,

997
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: you know about women and the whole meal thing, you

998
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: know that was awful, and how he treated Chia. Um.

999
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: So looking back on it, I'm sure he has a

1000
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: ton of regret. Is a good guy and does mean

1001
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: well at heart. I don't know. I just can't wait

1002
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: till we get somebody in here, Dade. I thought it

1003
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: would be you. We would ask you a question like that,

1004
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, he just sucks. I can't wait till that day.

1005
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 1: That's gonna be a good that would be one that

1006
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 1: we we promote. Then are you saying that you think

1007
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: that Leo sucks? I guess we're just trying to get

1008
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: you to say that somebody sucks. I mean in Paradise

1009
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: in Mexico, Leo definitely thought, um, you know he uh

1010
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: he did the not the great things and you know,

1011
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: and the when he got into the fight at the

1012
00:52:56,080 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: cocktail party with Joe, um, Healy went went over the top.

1013
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: I think, well, you're yeah. It's absolutely incredible to me

1014
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: how paradise brings out the most vicious of personalities, especially

1015
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating Leo. We gotta get Lee

1016
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 1: on the podcast. I gotta talk to him. You know, David,

1017
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: you and I have kind of hashed out, worked it out.

1018
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,839
Speaker 1: I was, I was upset with you. Um, we've worked

1019
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: it out now and I'm a big fan of you know.

1020
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: I have my David Rabbit's T shirt on right now.

1021
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: Actually I got your face with puppy dog ears um

1022
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: on my chest. Um, David, you're great. We appreciate you.

1023
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: We wish you would have found love. But I mean

1024
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: he's admitting that he yeah, yeah, he didn't know he

1025
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: didn't find love. And now now he's in Miami, uh

1026
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 1: at grad school, you know, looking for a nice little

1027
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: Miami woman. I think, yeah, we'll just know that we

1028
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: love to make fun of you. But then I'm also

1029
00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 1: I also say that you are a very fun person

1030
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Thanks, Thanks, and I appreciate you.

1031
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: Guys are great and anytime you want to have me on,

1032
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: I'm always always down to pop on here. You guys

1033
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 1: are great, all right, chicken nuggets Sugman always always love

1034
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: him too. I was like, yeah, I love David. I

1035
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: like David. I mean the guy. I like him because

1036
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:30,919
Speaker 1: he's like that guy that you can watch on TV

1037
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 1: and roots so for and no, you're gonna be so

1038
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: disappointed by I just know that he would be like

1039
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: a really close guy friend of mine if I were

1040
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: on these shows. And you can see it when he's

1041
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: having conversations with people like he's so out they did,

1042
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: He's so he really cares, like about what he's saying.

1043
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: I just think he gets caught up and then all

1044
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: of a sudden he does something and I bet he

1045
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 1: looks back at night and probably bangs his head against

1046
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 1: the pillow, like why did I do that? Again? Yeah,

1047
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: I just him, he was talking to him. He'd be

1048
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: like my biggest fan. I'd be like, look, I need

1049
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: to do this, and you could totally do that. You

1050
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,879
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Speaker 1: home just for you. Don't don't take this lightly. This

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Speaker 1: at ease because of things like a d T. Hey Ben,

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Speaker 1: do you remember the movie Smart House on Disney General

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Speaker 1: wore a little one of my favorites, I know, one

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Speaker 1: of the greatest that And look at the Irish and Motocross, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all those are great. I mean there's some. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ali cat Strike, Um, what don't wish upon a Star

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Speaker 1: with Katheryn Hige. That was Katherine Heigel, like the really

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Speaker 1: pretty girl. I thought she was the prettiest girl in

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Speaker 1: the entire world. She was she maybe is that's Disney movie? Yeah,

1129
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: but I was just thinking about Smart House after you.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one. And now it's now it's fingertips

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Speaker 1: actually real life, like there is nothing that that Smart House.

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Speaker 1: If we went back to go watch that movie, which

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00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: I think came out in like, I think we have

1134
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Speaker 1: all that stuff on a regular day basis. Now it's

1135
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: absolutely kind. That's kind of crazy. We thought it was

1136
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Speaker 1: so cool that they were like, hey, whatever your name is,

1137
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: can you play that song? And then like five slam

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Speaker 1: dunked funk put it up and then that's a and

1139
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 1: then it came on. I mean, that was the coolest thing,

1140
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, that is um Amazon, that's what's

1141
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 1: her name? Alexa Alex? How crazy? Okay, so let's take

1142
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Speaker 1: a second here. This is important. Let's talk Disney Channel

1143
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: movies for second. Um, if you think back, how crazy

1144
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: is it that you and I grew up in a

1145
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: time where was it week monthly there would be a

1146
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: new movie designed just for our demographic put out there

1147
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: on Disney for us all to watch, our whole generation.

1148
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: If we started talking about it would relate because most

1149
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: people watch, Oh we all bond over those throwback Disney

1150
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Speaker 1: movies and the Nickelodeon shows like Legends of the Hidden Temple.

1151
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 1: Do you remember that when it was amazed and then

1152
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: like a little zombie would pop out? What was the

1153
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: what was the Nickelodeon show where that green stuff with

1154
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: come all of you? Well, that's slime. Slime was just

1155
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: like on television slime was a constant back in the

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Speaker 1: day show you can't do that on telephone. That's from

1157
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: our generation. Atlantis Mori set was on it. You have

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Speaker 1: the hair of Christine McGlade, the host. They opened their

1159
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Speaker 1: lockers and talking and you got slimed if you said

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Speaker 1: I don't know, yes, and you got water if you

1161
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: said wet or water. Oh yeah. There was also a

1162
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Speaker 1: game show where, of course, if you got it wrong,

1163
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: they dumped the girl. You're thinking double dare, double dare.

1164
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Speaker 1: Thank you Summers. We can have we can have Mark

1165
01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: Summers call you guys anytime. Oh my god, how cool,

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Speaker 1: Absolutely incredible though. I mean, this is something I need

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Speaker 1: in my life. I have a long fight home here

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Speaker 1: coming up in a couple of days. Um, if you've

1169
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Speaker 1: watched a Disney Channel movie, maybe more than three in

1170
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Speaker 1: your life, please emails been in Ashley I heart mead

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Speaker 1: post or an Instagram post. Let us know what your

1173
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: favorite was. Oh my gosh, speaking of motocross, UM actually

1174
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: put our both hands up in the air that it

1175
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: was at the I Heart Festival two years ago that

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Speaker 1: Riley Smith and I knew his name. I was looking

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Speaker 1: at him. I was like Riley Smith from Motocross. Um.

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Speaker 1: You know, he was like the lead guy. You were

1179
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Speaker 1: just with him in Iowa. He's from He's an il

1180
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: boy playing the same golf tournament together, big deal, Riley Smith. Yeah,

1181
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: we played the same from the c W Lucy Hale show. Yes,

1182
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: you know he actually does stuff. So Riley has been

1183
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: super tight with Ryan Seacrest for like forever, like and

1184
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: you know he's like an actually legit musician. Oh yes,

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01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: I do like sings first at night at the at

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Speaker 1: the at them how you guys anytime Johnson Charity Golf Tom,

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Speaker 1: Riley Smith and I are there every every year. He's

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Speaker 1: a good Iowa boy, good looking man. Take a picture together.

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Speaker 1: He and he's now he's starting his Uh, he's still

1190
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Speaker 1: an act. He's still acting. He's taking a hustep. Look

1191
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: at this. Well. I just thought throwback, but apparently he's

1192
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: very current. We should have Mark Summers and Riley Men's studio.

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01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: I just remember being in the make up room and

1194
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 1: he was like he was he was hitting on me.

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01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm not going to try to like say it in

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Speaker 1: a nicer way. He was And I was like Riley Smith,

1197
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: my sixth grade crushes hitting on me sixth grade though

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Speaker 1: he was on motocross. What is that? That was? Did

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Speaker 1: a tournal original movie. I think he meant like he

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Speaker 1: rode bikes. Yeah, it's cut the systems like the way.

1201
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but I think it's right. I

1202
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 1: think our demographic is going to say more to interview

1203
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Speaker 1: Mark Summers or Riley Smith both. I don't know who

1204
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: Mark Somemmers is. I know Mark Somers is. He was

1205
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 1: a big Nickelodeon host. He was you don't remember big Disness.

1206
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: I was a big Disney guy. Once I got older,

1207
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: fifth grade, I moved over to Disney. Okay, Um, every

1208
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: other listening, I know you're freaking out right now in

1209
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Speaker 1: your cars and in your bedrooms, are on your you

1210
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Speaker 1: know your treadmills, you're going. Yeah. I love Disney Channel

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01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: original movies. I wish you were bad so Um, that

1212
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Speaker 1: was one of my favorite times. We gosh, I enjoyed

1213
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Speaker 1: that last five minutes. Um, I'm gonna enjoy this five minutes. Also,

1214
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Speaker 1: though we have an email from Ryan. Ryan, guys can

1215
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Speaker 1: watch The Bachelor too, he says, with confidence all capital letters.

1216
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Speaker 1: Huge fan of the show and even bigger fan of

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Speaker 1: the podcast. Thank you, that's awesome. He's even bigger fan

1218
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Speaker 1: of the podcast about the show. Do you want to

1219
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: know how much I make things stereotypical? When I saw

1220
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Speaker 1: the name Ryan, I was like, Oh, it's a girl

1221
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 1: with the name Ryan Ashley. And then and then I

1222
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: saw the second lessons learned. I have a question for

1223
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: both of you, he says. I'm probably in the minority

1224
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: in terms of viewer demographics of the show. I'm a

1225
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: male in my mid twenties and The Bachelor is probably

1226
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 1: my favorite show. I recently broke up with my girlfriend

1227
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: of many years, and watching this show and then listening

1228
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: to your podcast makes me feel a lot less alone. Dude,

1229
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 1: trust me, you're not alone, however, No, you're You're right

1230
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 1: there with us. However, none of my friends who are

1231
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 1: guys watch the show, and I feel embarrassed to tell

1232
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: them how big of a fan I am. My question

1233
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: is why is the Bachelor franchise geared more towards women

1234
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: than men? Who good question. I noticed that even most

1235
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: of your sponsors around products that are for women, but

1236
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: really for men. Why does society dictate that it's wrong

1237
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 1: for guys to like reality TV and better for us

1238
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: to like shows that are more masculine. Why do guys

1239
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: feel like they have to hide being fans of this show?

1240
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: And how can we as fans make this franchise better

1241
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: suited for the male audience? Actually take it away? Okay, well,

1242
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: how many times do we have guys come up to

1243
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 1: us and say, like, oh, my gosh, I'm a really

1244
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: big fan. My wife from my the Lion always follows

1245
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 1: my wife and my girlfriend got me into it, and

1246
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: then oftentimes they would have broken up, but the guy

1247
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: continues to watch. Like, Ryan, you are not alone out there.

1248
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: I would say that like a quarter of the people

1249
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: that come up to me to say hi as a

1250
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 1: fan of the show are guys. And I think as

1251
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 1: far as the problem that you're you're feeling, it's a

1252
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 1: very It's like that whole thing. It's like guys shouldn't

1253
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: show emotion or guys shouldn't watch emotional programming, but you should.

1254
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: I mean, if you like it, if it's entertained you.

1255
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: I guess the big question there is the why to like?

1256
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 1: Why you you watch? What's the point in watching for you?

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01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 1: Is it to take your mind off of things? Is

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01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: to connect with other people who are trying to find

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01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: the romantic partner. Um, I mean, Ryan, dude, I watched

1260
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: the show just a stigma. Here's one thing that I've

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01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: learned as I've gotten older, and I would consider myself

1262
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: middle aged. Oh my god, Well, isn't that kind of

1263
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: funny that like, Okay, you're not You're twenty nine, you're

1264
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: not middle aged. As we'd hope you wouldn't die by sixty.

1265
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 1: We'll never know, but we'd like to call this like

1266
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: quarter life, right when you're like, you're like, but that

1267
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: would be if I lived to a hundred, like third life.

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01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm getting there. One thing I've learned is when you

1269
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: stand firm, and it's something that's uncommon when you. Sean

1270
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 1: Booth told me this, When you yang when everybody else

1271
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: is yanging, you're typically cooler and you're doing the right thing.

1272
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 1: So Ryan, if all of your friends are yanging and

1273
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 1: not watching the show, we're not admitting to watching the show,

1274
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: and you're saying, I watched show and I enjoy it.

1275
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 1: I think you're on the right track. And at some

1276
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 1: point this will all turn to your benefit and they'll

1277
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: say I wish I was more like Ryan. He's so

1278
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: confident in what he does so confidently. Great. Okay, actually

1279
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: we have a super guy fan coming on the line.

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01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: But first, well, I have no way to enter this.

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01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: We gotta talk about Bowling Branch. Big men like soft things.

1282
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,320
Speaker 1: Damn it, you're always so good at this. Bowling Branch

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01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 1: makes the softest, most comfortable on organic cotton sheets that

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01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 1: you will ever sleep on. The only sell online at

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01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 1: Bowling Branch dot com. So their sheets cost less than

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01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 1: half of the designer brands and they're twice the quality.

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01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:14,680
Speaker 1: They're cutting out the middleman. So many of our sponsors

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01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: cut out the middleman so you can get high quality

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01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: stuff at a cheaper price. These are made from one

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01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 1: pure organic cotton. They start out soft and get this

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01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: to get even softer. You have something to look forward

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01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: to when you wash your sheets. Three US presidents sleep

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01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 1: on Bowling Branch sheets. They won't tell us too, But

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Speaker 1: I still think that's very, very impressive. You won't believe

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01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:40,800
Speaker 1: how comfortable cotton feels until you actually try Bowl and Branch,

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01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: and you can try them for an entire month, and

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Speaker 1: if you don't think that, they're the most comfortable sheets

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01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: you've ever slept on. And that's like a pretty grand

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01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: statement because I've slept on some really comfortable um flannel

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01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 1: sheets before you can send them back for a full refund. Yeah,

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01:07:56,920 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: you get to test drive your sheets. This is no risk,

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01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: so it's really no reason not to try them. Plus

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01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: you will get fifty dollars off your first set of

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Speaker 1: sheets at Bowling Branch dot com with the promo code

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Speaker 1: almost famous fifty dollars That is Bowling Branch b o

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Speaker 1: l l and Branch dot com promo code almost I

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Speaker 1: missed her fifty dollars off your first set of sheets

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01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 1: Bowling Branch dot com promo code almost famous for the

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01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: softest sheets you'll ever feel, you know, I actually I

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01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 1: mean this When I had just bought new sheets and

1311
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: Branch started to sponsor to the podcast, and I was

1312
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: a little bit hesitant to switch UM, but I thought, Okay,

1313
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 1: they're sponsoring us, I want to try out the products,

1314
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 1: and I did and I won't go back. And and

1315
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: so with that, I want to intro into Doug, the

1316
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: super fan of the Bachelor on the line right now,

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01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: Hey Doug, before we get started, what kind of sheets

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01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: you sleep on? Yeah, like bed sheets. I think they're

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01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: like four six hundred thread count. But my Tony was

1320
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: always rip. Okay, that happens. Wow, not not any of

1321
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:09,559
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Is just that every time I move,

1322
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,720
Speaker 1: just like the rip that my cows is on my

1323
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:16,640
Speaker 1: like my serious in my big toe. You guys need

1324
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: to go get pedicures. Maybe I have a tight and

1325
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 1: they're not. I mean, I'm forty nine, not look good?

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01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,880
Speaker 1: You have big feet? Man? Hey, Doug, how often do

1327
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: you wash your sheets? Just curious because this is an

1328
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: interesting topic for me. Wash my shoes, sheets, oh, my feet?

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01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 1: So probably about once every two weeks. My daughter has

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01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: promised stone thing your feet. You you wash your feet

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01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:52,520
Speaker 1: every two weeks. I said that was sheets over two weeks. Okay,

1332
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: your feet every two weeks. Wash your feet every day

1333
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 1: is freaking out. I'm talking like a deep scrub. But

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01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,720
Speaker 1: in terms of the sheet, um, well, first of all,

1335
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 1: I don't watch set, but I don't know. I think

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01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: it's done like every couple of days. I would imagine

1337
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:15,639
Speaker 1: your wife do your clueless you probably washed them once

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01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 1: a week. Doug? Are you friends with Amy? Okay, this

1339
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: is Doug that you all know from we've golfed with Doug.

1340
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: Familiar names. Here's the thing, real quick, I'm with you,

1341
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: but not to take this totally off subject. We gotta

1342
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 1: get back to the show a little bit. But I've

1343
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 1: always been admitting things during this podcast that come back

1344
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:38,679
Speaker 1: to haunt me and bite me in the butt. But

1345
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 1: I get where you wouldn't wash your feet every day

1346
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: because you stand in the shower. How many of us

1347
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: actually bend over and scrub? Am? I? You do? I

1348
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 1: will admit to you, Ben, I don't do it that often. No,

1349
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: it's just like they're in the mark. What about you rarely? Yeah?

1350
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 1: You wh it? You bend over and wash your feet?

1351
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 1: You do? That's crazy. I want my things to be

1352
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 1: perfect automatically. And all the soap coming up about anyways,

1353
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: And did you know you're supposed to then wash your

1354
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,360
Speaker 1: body again after you wash your hair, to clean your

1355
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 1: body from the shampoo stuff. Thank you, No way, you

1356
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 1: just to wash your body again after you I shashed

1357
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: my body last anyway, that's what you're supposed to being

1358
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 1: in California. That's a lot of water. Yeah, it's a

1359
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:32,599
Speaker 1: lot of water. I honestly, I I understand that one day, Um,

1360
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: I will probably be sitting in front of my Lord

1361
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 1: and Savior in heaven. He'll be like, Hey, you did

1362
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: a lot of things right, you did a lot of

1363
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: things wrong, and you didn't shower enough. And I'll say, dude,

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01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: you're right so and he would probably also say, Ben,

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01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: I've seen you in the shower and you do some

1366
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 1: weird stuff in there. You have a weird side of

1367
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: you that none of us have seen. But I like

1368
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 1: love to follow you around. You think are you doing

1369
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 1: in there other than that? Well, I've told you before,

1370
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 1: like I try to shower after I use the restroom,

1371
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: Like we heard all about that on somebody else's podcast.

1372
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm just yeah, they do some weird stuff. I get it.

1373
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,679
Speaker 1: I mean, that's okay, we all do, don't Doug. I'm

1374
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 1: sorry we've gotten off topic here. Enough about me, let's

1375
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: talk about you. Here's what I wanted to call Duck

1376
01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:20,519
Speaker 1: because we just had this guy email in that wants

1377
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 1: more manly men to stand up and admit they watched

1378
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. So I thought, who's the manliest man I know?

1379
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 1: Been there? It is? It is the best show out there.

1380
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 1: I mean, we have we get together as a family,

1381
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: well the kid it's getting a little riskue kids don't

1382
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:41,800
Speaker 1: watch too much. But it's the best thing ever you

1383
01:12:41,840 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: feel like it's gotten more risque recently. Yeah, a little bit.

1384
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 1: I would say, I've heard that, and I don't know

1385
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: if I agree with you. What do you break that down?

1386
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:56,560
Speaker 1: The one like per one the most recent the Bachelorette

1387
01:12:57,080 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 1: um she was making out with everybody, and we've all

1388
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: been making out with everyone. Yeah, but just remember like

1389
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 1: years ago, it didn't seem like they just made out

1390
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 1: all the time, and who knows what happens as well.

1391
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:13,600
Speaker 1: You know, it's like it was like every Bachelor she

1392
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 1: made out with. And I was like, oh my god,

1393
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: My family said the same thing. They've Yeah, my aunt's

1394
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:21,719
Speaker 1: been a big fan of the show for a long time,

1395
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: and and even recently she said it's gotten harder and

1396
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 1: harder for her to watch. I think that's a common thread,

1397
01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 1: and I don't know if I don't know what it is.

1398
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 1: And that's just not the Bachelor season that started really

1399
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:34,679
Speaker 1: during I think she started saying that right like during

1400
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 1: next season. But all was the sauciest I thought, because

1401
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 1: they kind of acknowledged she was gonna like, Amy, you've

1402
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 1: watched the show for a long time, yea. The best

1403
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,639
Speaker 1: thing about Wanting is we always watched the very first one,

1404
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:50,840
Speaker 1: because then I can pick. I tell my family it's

1405
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: going to be this guy, this guy for this guy,

1406
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 1: or likewise, it'll be this girl, this girl, this girl.

1407
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: I'll pick the top three, and they usually I can

1408
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: get two out of those that go all the way.

1409
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 1: I can. I was wrong with Colton? Do you do

1410
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:16,800
Speaker 1: you tell your friends that you watched the show? I'm selective? Wait,

1411
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: I have two important questions for Doug. One is are

1412
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 1: you watching Paradise and what do you think? And two

1413
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: I want to ask all three of you this about Colton,

1414
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: because I'm really starting to think Colton should be the Bachelor.

1415
01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 1: Will you guys think it's weird if we follow Colton's

1416
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 1: journey to losing his virginity? Oh my god. They were

1417
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: always joking about doing that with me, right, That's like,

1418
01:14:40,360 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: I don't know they were like that. I've seen him

1419
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: on air. I don't think he's He's got some issues,

1420
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: really yeah, And I just don't think you think I

1421
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 1: mean he would like probably start making out with someone

1422
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: and start crying or something. I don't know. He doesn't

1423
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: have emotional issues, you guys. He's just emotional and a

1424
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: like okay to have feelings and express them. They were

1425
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:10,760
Speaker 1: like emotion shaming him. Then he's not like most twenty

1426
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:12,800
Speaker 1: year old guys. I mean, if I was, okay, we

1427
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be like most twenty year old guys

1428
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:18,839
Speaker 1: going bonkers on that show. I mean for my birthday,

1429
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: my kids got me an application to fill it out.

1430
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: But I was like, I'm married, you guys, I yeah,

1431
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: I get it. I mean I was. I was mid

1432
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,559
Speaker 1: make out I think it was with Amanda Stanton during

1433
01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 1: my season, and I started crying. Yeah, I started welling up. Yeah.

1434
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: It was outside of her house Towns because I just

1435
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: put her kids to bed, and I realized that she

1436
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: was going to be going home, and I got really

1437
01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 1: sad because it was gonna hurt. So I was making

1438
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 1: out with her because I didn't know what else to do,

1439
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: because if you don't kiss her after hometowns when you

1440
01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 1: say goodbye, like she knows she's going home. So I'm

1441
01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 1: kissing her and I'm crying, and I get, oh, did

1442
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 1: you see no? No, no no, I went and I got

1443
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,600
Speaker 1: in the car and I was like so mad and

1444
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 1: let it out, but I did. When I was when

1445
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: I was kissing her, I started crying, which is such

1446
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 1: an awkward moment for anybody involved. I mean, maybe she

1447
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 1: heard you really don't want Colton to be the Bachelor?

1448
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 1: Is that just because your wife wants to date him completely?

1449
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 1: But I think that, I know, I just don't think

1450
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 1: he he would start gaining these growth and then I

1451
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, I think that she would just

1452
01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: be so distracted off getting further into relationship. You know,

1453
01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 1: he's I mean, he's a pretty serious guy in terms

1454
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 1: of relationships, obviously because he's still urgent. But I think

1455
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 1: that he just I don't know. I don't know if

1456
01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 1: you'd make a getafter I'm sure I want to watch him.

1457
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 1: I would watch that. So here's my plan for Colton? Um,

1458
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: as he said she'd been in their interview last week. Um,

1459
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: he's really grown up a lot throughout this process. As

1460
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I did. I feel like Colton and

1461
01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 1: my experiences on The Bachelor of really I loved each other.

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Speaker 1: I think he needs to come back to Paradise next

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01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 1: year and then he'll become the Bachelor after that all

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01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: on Nick, Yeah, yeah, for sure, I mean it it

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01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: all depends on what happened next. Doug. I want to

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01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,639
Speaker 1: sit down with you and just talk Bachelor the whole time.

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Speaker 1: But before we go, we have a couple of questions,

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Speaker 1: uh that Ashley has been anxious about asking you about. Um,

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Speaker 1: you love The Bachelor, but do you love Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about like other quote feminine shows and movies,

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01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 1: like do you love Gray's Anatomy? I've never seen it? Oh,

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Speaker 1: do you love Mama Mia? Um? I thought it was

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01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 1: pretty good. Yeah, you're talking about the play? Yeah, to play,

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01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:55,719
Speaker 1: So I'm very particular. Like I liked it. I liked

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01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:58,800
Speaker 1: most plays as long as I get a good cheat. Okay, yeah,

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01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 1: Like I didn't have a good teat so I walked out.

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01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:06,280
Speaker 1: We were in London with kids and my wife's stade. Um.

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01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: So I didn't like Mamma Mia the Broadway musical either,

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01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 1: but I really liked the first movie, not the second. Yeah,

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01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 1: you know, I don't watch too much TV except for Survivor,

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01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:24,559
Speaker 1: Bachelor Paradise. What about Magic Mike, I've never heard of it. Yes,

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01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:27,640
Speaker 1: you have magic Mike. We've all heard of it with

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01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: Channing Tatum shakes his hips, Doug, what about Magic Mike

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01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 1: double XL Yeah, very funny, thanks, Doug. Right, that tells

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01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:49,000
Speaker 1: you so much about my life that's that's one of

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01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 1: my closest friends. Yeah. It. Doug's a good dude, you guys.

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01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: I just thought that I want my dad to come

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01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: on the podcast next time we do this and recap

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01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 1: the Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise because my dad will

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01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:00,280
Speaker 1: text me and he'll be like, there's a lot of

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01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 1: awls on this season. That's just take Yeah. Yeah, Mr

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Speaker 1: Ike and A doesn't doesn't beat around the bush doctor

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Speaker 1: doctor doct Sorry my bad. Um, so you had the

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Speaker 1: doctor pretty healthy dude. Yeah, he does take a lot

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Speaker 1: of vitamins. I will tell you this. Does he put

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Speaker 1: him in his body? Yes? He puts them in his mouth?

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Speaker 1: That a boy. Um, we gotta talk about ritual then,

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Speaker 1: I bet I bet he puts a little ritual in

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Speaker 1: repeat that. One in every three of you listening right now.

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Speaker 1: The only vitamin that solves, uh, this is Ritual. They

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Speaker 1: just make any sense why all these vitamin companies wouldn't

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Speaker 1: take one more. Actually, there's two questions. I think you

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Speaker 1: should answer. This one about church, but I'll read it

1545
01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:21,960
Speaker 1: Um from Gray's and Adele. We are sophomores in college

1546
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:23,960
Speaker 1: and we've been watching The Bachelor for years. We've been

1547
01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: listening to the Almost fame As podcast since the very beginning,

1548
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 1: and we discussed the in depth every week. We both

1549
01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:32,200
Speaker 1: love you so much. Ashley is literally Grace's dream life

1550
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 1: is so nice. She's a hopeless romantic. She's crying frequently

1551
01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:40,759
Speaker 1: and excessively. She's a pisces, which is why she's crying

1552
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:46,519
Speaker 1: frequently and excessively. She added that part too, And she

1553
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 1: loves the Greatest Showman because she's creative and she loves

1554
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 1: loves stories like me. Um, They're exactly alike. We are

1555
01:22:54,160 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 1: exactly alike, and they hope that are has cross one day.

1556
01:22:58,280 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 1: I do too. Would you like to about yourself from there? Okay,

1557
01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: that's it. Naturally, we have some questions about the show. Uh,

1558
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 1: do the contestants have an opportunity to go to church?

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01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: Will on the show And we've never heard anyone discuss

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01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 1: this before, but religion seems to be an important part

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01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 1: of the lives of many contestants. Does the lead know

1562
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 1: where the this is another question. Let's up there. You

1563
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 1: talk about the church things and then the next question

1564
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:25,760
Speaker 1: is does the lead know where they're traveling? Sometimes most

1565
01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,160
Speaker 1: of the time. Um, But I think the really key

1566
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: question here is, uh, the talks on faith and church

1567
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 1: and all that. It's such an interesting topic because it

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01:23:33,560 --> 01:23:37,000
Speaker 1: really I mean, everybody, no matter if you come from

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01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 1: a faith background or not, you have some feeling on faith.

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01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:43,519
Speaker 1: You either have a faith you do not, Like everybody

1571
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: has at least asked the question, I hope, why do

1572
01:23:47,040 --> 01:23:50,599
Speaker 1: I believe what I believe? And so it's such an

1573
01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:52,760
Speaker 1: interesting topic when it comes down to the people you're dating.

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01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:55,640
Speaker 1: It's one of the most essential conversations to me. And

1575
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:57,720
Speaker 1: the questions me is what do you believe in and

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01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 1: why do you believe in it? Like, if anything I

1577
01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 1: want to I want in my life to pursue truth,

1578
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 1: whatever that is. And so that's why I follow um

1579
01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:10,360
Speaker 1: the faith background that I do. So this is this

1580
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 1: is key in every conversation with every woman, especially after

1581
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 1: kind of like night or week one or week two,

1582
01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 1: that's when these conversations start to to to happen. Um.

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01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 1: And there's some of my favorites. Now, if you can

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01:24:21,479 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 1: go to church. Now sometimes I I know there's holidays,

1585
01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:26,639
Speaker 1: if you have a Sunday off. A lot of times

1586
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:28,800
Speaker 1: you're filming on Sundays. You don't get weekends off on

1587
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:32,120
Speaker 1: the show, and so you know when when you're filming,

1588
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:34,760
Speaker 1: you actually don't get too go to church. But for me,

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01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:37,479
Speaker 1: and I guess in my in my life, church is

1590
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 1: incredibly important. I go to a great church in Denver,

1591
01:24:39,320 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 1: but I don't get to go very often because I travel.

1592
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Speaker 1: So church isn't the foundation of my faith. It's it's

1593
01:24:44,320 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 1: something I get to partake him, to be around the

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01:24:46,200 --> 01:24:48,719
Speaker 1: community of a fellow people who believe what I believe,

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01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:51,120
Speaker 1: and that's an encouraging time for me. So early wasn't

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01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: a huge issue if I went to church or not.

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01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:55,720
Speaker 1: My faith didn't falter or change. It just was I

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01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:58,680
Speaker 1: gotta out of routine. So no, typically you do not

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01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:01,280
Speaker 1: get the church. And to answer your second question, a

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Speaker 1: lot of people actually talk about faith. It's not shown.

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Speaker 1: I think for a thousand different reasons. For me, I

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01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 1: wish that was shown a little bit more because it

1603
01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:11,400
Speaker 1: gotten some of the depth of of why I invest

1604
01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 1: my life into the things I invest into, and um,

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01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 1: that was a lot of the conversations we were having.

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Speaker 1: But it's not shown because I think it's controversial. Um,

1607
01:25:18,520 --> 01:25:20,680
Speaker 1: you'd often get times, don't get the time and a

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01:25:20,760 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: show to explain everybody's you know, faith backgrounds and why

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01:25:25,560 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 1: they believe what they believe. So it's talked about, it's

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01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:29,800
Speaker 1: not shown very often. I get why. I'm not mad

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Speaker 1: about it, but I do think it's important and it's

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01:25:32,200 --> 01:25:35,000
Speaker 1: important in every season. So Grace and Adele, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for the question, and that has been a podcast.

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Speaker 1: we've learned a lot today about each other. You learned

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Speaker 1: about my hygienic habits literal about my showering technique. I

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Speaker 1: still want I want to learn more about your showering techniques.

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Speaker 1: One day we'll talk about it. We're that close we

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01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:25,280
Speaker 1: can we can show this up. And here's my point.

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Speaker 1: And this is the thing. If you're out there listening

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Speaker 1: and you're like, been so weird the guy just we

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Speaker 1: don't get him. He's so odd. He does weird stuff

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Speaker 1: in the shower. You do weird stuff too. I just

1634
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Speaker 1: want to tell you that we're all the same here.

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Speaker 1: We're all weird. We're all so weird. We're not different.

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Speaker 1: You get in that shower and you do stuff that

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Speaker 1: I don't want to watch or see. And and I

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Speaker 1: believe in a guy. But if there is a god

1639
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Speaker 1: and you question that, the only person that's that's watching

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Speaker 1: that is is the Lord above. So just know that

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Speaker 1: it's either you and nobody else. Are you and somebody else?

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Speaker 1: So when you're doing that stuff, take a step back, Astley.

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Speaker 1: Do you do weird things with pies? No? But one

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Speaker 1: of my favorite scenes in any any movies American Pie.

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Speaker 1: That's why I said, do you do things? Think about that? Well,

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Speaker 1: I can't think that that was a terrible segue, because

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Speaker 1: now I can't think of this pine any other way

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Speaker 1: other than what Well, I'm thinking about chocolate cream pie,

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Speaker 1: not about anything else. I hope that Winston Pies has

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Speaker 1: a little taste of it all. Everybody in the room

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