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<v Speaker 1>Jim Boles second dat Up Day. One of the first

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<v Speaker 1>things you think about when you take a woman out

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<v Speaker 1>on a day is I wonder how many miles she's

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<v Speaker 1>got put on her tires? What about that? Literally every

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<v Speaker 1>guy thinks that. And Darryl, who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second Day update today, knew exactly how many miles

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<v Speaker 1>she had on her tires. I don't understand what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? Next day? Tell you about that in just

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<v Speaker 1>a second. But first let's meet Darryl. What's up, Darryl?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Hey? I'm doing how about you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Not too bad? I don't know. I think I may

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<v Speaker 1>have bald tires, but I don't really know what we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Yeah, I'm sure your tires are fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I mean, I trust her. She says that

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<v Speaker 1>her tires have been, you know, put through the mud

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<v Speaker 1>a few times with me. Who knows? You know what

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<v Speaker 1>if the tire analogy, it's driving where we get to

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<v Speaker 1>the tired thing? Daryl tell us about the girl you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call to day. What's her name? Her name's Destiny.

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<v Speaker 1>Destiny all right, and where did you meet Destiny? You

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<v Speaker 1>met online? We were going back and forth and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a car guy, so I was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>her about mine, and then she says, Oh, I've actually

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<v Speaker 1>needed to get my tires rotator for a while. I'm thinking, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this might be a real good time to make this

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<v Speaker 1>date happen. So, you know, I had a coupon to

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<v Speaker 1>a shop I know, a guy that works at get

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<v Speaker 1>our tires rotate, because I said, hey, we both can go.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell her, you know, I made it a surprise. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold up, what was the surprise the tire rotation or

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<v Speaker 1>the coupon the tire rotation? Nice surprise? There a tire

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<v Speaker 1>rotation for her first date? Yeah, I mean, because like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody likes chocolate and flowers. Cool, but it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a good date idea. You know, it's not something you

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<v Speaker 1>know basic, you know, it's like, here's something you need

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<v Speaker 1>I could take care of you, you know, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>much free popcorn in the lobby as you'd like. Was

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<v Speaker 1>she super excited about getting her tires rotated? On your date.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was going to be a cool surprise,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing too big. But when I told her, she flipped

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<v Speaker 1>out like she won the lottery. Okay, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea. Then, Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I rolled the dice and hit the nail

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<v Speaker 1>on the head. I guess what was your date? Just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting at the shop waiting for her tires to be done? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we both dropped our cars off at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>so that gave us about an hour you know, go

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere in there and buy and grab something to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you were first telling me about this,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's pretty lame. But the more I

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<v Speaker 1>thought about it, they were genius. I feel like it is. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the actual date, like, when you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>getting food together before the tires were done? Was that good? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We were eating and it was going really well. It

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<v Speaker 1>was super nice to actually meet this girl in person.

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<v Speaker 1>Good And you know, she kept thanking me and thanking

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<v Speaker 1>me for the tire rotation, of course, and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take care of it. She didn't need to know it

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<v Speaker 1>was with a coupon. Hey, anyway, you get your tire

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<v Speaker 1>rotation paid for is a good way. That's yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was thinking. Yeah, it's a good way. Just

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<v Speaker 1>let her know you date Darryl. I will keep you

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<v Speaker 1>in tred all the time. Tread will never be worn down.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was a conversation and stuff. I mean, other

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<v Speaker 1>than all that, you feel like you connected with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Mostly we just talked about movies, and we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of music we like. Okay. We also talked

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<v Speaker 1>about like our family. She's got a big family and

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<v Speaker 1>I do too, so that's something we're able to relate. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any like weird moments you know what? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was one, but it wasn't I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>judge her for you know, it's not fair. Well could

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<v Speaker 1>you possibly judge her for well? So we got back

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<v Speaker 1>to the place we were a little bit early, so

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<v Speaker 1>we were staying in around We're waiting for them to

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<v Speaker 1>finish up, and she picks a cigarette up off the

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<v Speaker 1>ground and start smoking it. No, that is something you

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<v Speaker 1>can judge a person for it. That didn't bother you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was weird to me, but I mean, I don't smoke, so,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know what that fiction was? It

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<v Speaker 1>a pre smoked cigarette that had been put out or

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<v Speaker 1>was it just maybe somebody's random new cigarette fell out

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<v Speaker 1>of the pack. From what I saw, pretty sure somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else that gave that cigarette that good okay, picked up

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<v Speaker 1>a cigarette butt and then smoked that. And the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>smoking is usually like a no go for a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people. Smoking other people's tossed cigarette would be a

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<v Speaker 1>big nog for most people. And her defense, cigarettes are expensive,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean, even if you're a smoker, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that that's cool. Man. Really, it was no big

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<v Speaker 1>deal for me. I mean I didn't want to judge

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<v Speaker 1>her on it. Did the first date, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>still got a lot of figuring each other out to do. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean that's pretty cool. And accepting that that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bother you. I don't know if most people could

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<v Speaker 1>do that. How did the date end? Did you get

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss? Dirty? Mouth? Was a dirty mouth? Dirty? It's true? Yeah? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>we just kind of ended it, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a nice good bye again. She was like, oh, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for the tire rotation. You're the best, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, old gee. You know we ended it

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<v Speaker 1>with a hug. You know, I didn't want to take

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<v Speaker 1>it too fast or too far and blow the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing apart. You know. So, wait, but she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back obviously? Are you mad? Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she used you for tire rotations? I would if it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a surprise, you know, Oh yeah, because she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what was coming. She didn't see it coming. But

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<v Speaker 1>I am a little like, you know what happened? It

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<v Speaker 1>went really well? Yeah? Okay, and you know you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really have any idea why no. Yeah, that's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be disturbing cause somebody who would pick up a cigarette

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<v Speaker 1>button smoke it and they have some sort of issue

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I mean that would hurt That would hurt

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot. She's like that, yeah, like what is

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with me? All right, Daryl, we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, Okay, thank yeah, hang on rooking Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the mornings. You know. Sometimes we'll make the joke

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<v Speaker 1>from time to time in these second date updates that, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the person's not calling you back because they're dead. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well today I think that could actually be true. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would she be dead? Because Daryl, who's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. Update today told us about the

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<v Speaker 1>woman he went out with. Her name's Destiny, and during

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<v Speaker 1>their first date, she actually picked up a cigarette, bought

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<v Speaker 1>off the ground, lit it, and smoked it. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming she must have contracted something from that and it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably passed away, Darryl, So this could be a very

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<v Speaker 1>sad phone call. Just getting you prepared for it. Okay, yeah, Darrel,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you have anything to worry about. Anyone

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<v Speaker 1>who's hard enough to do that casually and not think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a thing. I think he'd lived through anything. That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are making a big deal out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know how big of a deal it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do, man. I hope she just picks up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Okay, Okay, Well, just to recap for everybody

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<v Speaker 1>who might be tuning in right now, Darrell went out

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<v Speaker 1>with Destiny. They met online. They actually went and got

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<v Speaker 1>their tires rotated because she said she needed to have

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<v Speaker 1>it done. He had a coupon, so they dropped their

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<v Speaker 1>cars off and then they went to go get something

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<v Speaker 1>to eat. He said, they had a good conversation about

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of music they like. Their family all that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, and then after they went back to

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<v Speaker 1>the tire shop, that's when she smoked the cigarette button.

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<v Speaker 1>But he still said he didn't judge her for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't called him back in a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna call it right now and see we

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<v Speaker 1>can get your answer, Daryl, Are you ready as surely?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. This is gonna be the weirdest start of

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<v Speaker 1>a love story if this works out, once upon a time.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go. I'm dialing on the phone number. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>How can I speak to Destiny? Please speaking? Is this Destiny?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? This is jew Bil from brook and JEWBWL

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. No, not from Brooklyn. I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>was from Brooklyn though I like to play, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not from Brooklyn. From brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. A radio show. Yes, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why are you calling me? Well, I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners actually emailed us about you

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<v Speaker 1>about me? Yeah, what email about me? What about me? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show. It's called the

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. That's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody and then end up not calling

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<v Speaker 1>them back after they can actually email us, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call that person and see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what we're wrong. And we got an email about

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<v Speaker 1>you from a dude named Darryl. Yeah, yeah, oh Goddill

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<v Speaker 1>emailed you about me. Yes, that he liked you a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but now you're not calling him back or anything. He

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<v Speaker 1>sounded like a really nice guy when we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us about you guys getting your tires rotated.

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<v Speaker 1>In the very beginning, I actually thought he was a

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<v Speaker 1>really cool dude. I mean, we had a pretty decent date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I got my tires rotated, which is always

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<v Speaker 1>a plus. Yeah. However, it was around after a lunch

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<v Speaker 1>he did something that was absolutely a deal breaker for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just it was just a no go. You enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>yourself all the way up until that point. Yep. Literally

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<v Speaker 1>he did something that's just not It's just a deal breaker. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what's a deal breaker for you? He was biting

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<v Speaker 1>his fingernails and I cannot stand that. I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>was biting them, he was ripping them off with his teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>It was totally disgusting. Wait, that's it. That he was

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<v Speaker 1>a major, like there's jerks underned nails, like the fingernails. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know where his hands have been? Destiny, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>kind of has like habits that people might think are

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gross, like buying your fingernails or whatever. You do.

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<v Speaker 1>Realize how I could sound a little judge. I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's beyond growth and it's not Judge. That's just disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not I mean, that's just the fact of life.

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<v Speaker 1>There's germs and fingers, go wash them, don't have them

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<v Speaker 1>in your mouth. It's not biting your nails like that's

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, come on, Okay, so it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you have any sort of bad habits like that,

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<v Speaker 1>that somebody else have any bad habits. I'm completely normal.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't do anything weird. Okay, that is

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<v Speaker 1>really weird that you say that, Destiny, or maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>just not very self aware. We all have weird things.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't you can't think of one thing that you

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<v Speaker 1>do that could also be considered disgusting by somebody else. Uh, Nope, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty cool. God, I mean I don't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. You don't buy your fingernails, nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, to do all those things. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a habit that a lot of people don't like, destiny.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that. Sometimes I'll do these phone calls and the

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<v Speaker 1>other person will be on the line listening, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I forget to tell my god, yeah, you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>picking up one to put him down there, Darrell Darrel

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the other line and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Are you serious? Yes, Darrel? You there. Really

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<v Speaker 1>We had a cool time. We chilled, got these tires rotated,

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<v Speaker 1>we ate, and you're like, oh, he bites his fingernails. Nah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what you got? That's exactly what I'm saying, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're a cool guy. Everything was good, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's a no go. There's so many germs that are

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<v Speaker 1>on one hand and you're just biting away at them,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he gives it it act completely grow. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many germs right on a hand. But I

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<v Speaker 1>saw you pick a half smoked cigarette off of the

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<v Speaker 1>ground and put that in your mouth and smoke it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I was like, Okay, well, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's first day and she's really really cool. By Saxony's up,

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<v Speaker 1>I can give her a pass on that but you

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<v Speaker 1>can't even give me a pass on biting my finger nails.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't believe that picking up a cigarette off the

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<v Speaker 1>ground it's more disgusting and more jeremy than him biting

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<v Speaker 1>his fingernails. Yeah, I believe that. I think everybody believes that. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's not equal. I mean, I don't know about most people,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do tend to wash my hands. And not

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<v Speaker 1>only that, Destiny, he knows where his hands have been.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know where that cigarette but has been or

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<v Speaker 1>what it's laying in. For God's sakes, don't judge me

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<v Speaker 1>for finding a cigarette and it's been barely used to

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<v Speaker 1>lighting it up, and she's smoking it from time to time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not fair. It's not fair. But what's not fair

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<v Speaker 1>is to be like, oh, I pick up a cigarette,

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<v Speaker 1>I smoke street cigarettes for some guy who who bites

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<v Speaker 1>his fingernails. Yeah, Destiny, can you see kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>double standard on that hypocrisy in it? All right? Let's

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<v Speaker 1>be real with that, all right? So, yeah, I picked

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<v Speaker 1>up the cigarette off the ground. But guess what. The

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<v Speaker 1>nicotine makes it a little fire that it burns all

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<v Speaker 1>the germs. There's what science are you talking about? I

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<v Speaker 1>have to stop you on that one. It's true. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's completely true. Look it odd. No, No, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to think about the particular person that was smoking that cigarette,

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<v Speaker 1>who had that scirt in their mouth. That could have

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<v Speaker 1>been some weird old drug addict. You know, it could

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<v Speaker 1>have been from prostitute it. So you know, not everything's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get cooked up because of the nicotine in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the fire. You're an idiot. He's an idiot. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm not gonna keep going back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>with it. He's an idiot. The judger on the filter.

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<v Speaker 1>That filter isn't on fire. It doesn't make sense. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>miss marty pants, did you go to college or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I just smoked a lot of cigarettes in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is disgusting. It's definitely more gross than biting fingernails,

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<v Speaker 1>because you could have told me that. Yeah, and Destiny

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<v Speaker 1>Daryl didn't even judge you for that. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people would see somebody pick a cigarette butt off the

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<v Speaker 1>ground smoke it, and then that would be a deal

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<v Speaker 1>breaker for them. But Daryl was like, Okay, maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I can get past it. Listen, you guys called me. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously he liked me, you look past it. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>look past that's a deal breaker, and I'm done. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I should ask you this, Destiny, I should ask you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Then would you like to go on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Darryl? Will pay for serious? No? Oh my god, Daryl,

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<v Speaker 1>I you can't be sad about this one, right, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I mean, I'm a little bummed out because

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<v Speaker 1>we really connected and I was like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never really the judge person. I guess who knew that

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<v Speaker 1>I went out with the judgy person? Hey, Daryl, how

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<v Speaker 1>my sticking your finger to your mouth? I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>get poisoning or something. At least i'll know where my

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<v Speaker 1>hands has been. Are we done yet? Yeah? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your time, Destiny, appreciate it. Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>don't call me every again, Daryl by Oh right, well

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<v Speaker 1>that was I was kind of a nightmare. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was. Wow. That's not at all how I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was gonna gop. I don't think any of us

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<v Speaker 1>that way. Yeah, well, hey, I mean, jubile. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have any listeners that like bite their fingernails or hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe they're adults and can just say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd appreciate if you didn't do that, but I like

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<v Speaker 1>as a person, So let's make this work. And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you've been something that own their own cigarettes. Texting if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go out with Daryl Fingers though in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, text in at seven eighty five nine two says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go out with Darryl. I don't bite my nails

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't smoke herpy cigarettes, sperking Juble in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning talking about today's second date update if you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>this dude Darrell wanted to call a girl named Destiny.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually went out and got their tires rotated because

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<v Speaker 1>they met online. They were talking about how she needed

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<v Speaker 1>retires rotated. He had a coupon. They did that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they hung out for about an hour while that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and then before they left, she actually picked a cigarette

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<v Speaker 1>up off the ground, a cigarette butt and smoked it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that wasn't really an issue for him. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of weird, but cool. He was cool about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We got her on the phone, though, and she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him again because he bites

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<v Speaker 1>his nails and crazy and he was so and she

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<v Speaker 1>also said that you can't get any sort of disease

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<v Speaker 1>or anything else from smoking a cigarette butt that you

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<v Speaker 1>found because the nicotine and the flame from the fire

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<v Speaker 1>to light the cigarette kills any bacteria that's on the

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<v Speaker 1>outside of the filter. That doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 1>Will say, I heard that a lot of your knowledge

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<v Speaker 1>when when you know people would smoke. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a myth. I don't think that's, of course it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a friend, we have a good friend who

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<v Speaker 1>was homeless, and he would pick up use cigarette butts

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, he would do he would take the

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<v Speaker 1>tobacco out of them and then reroll a new cigarette

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<v Speaker 1>with new paper like it's not that's not even a

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<v Speaker 1>thing for him, dude, And he doesn't have a house

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<v Speaker 1>to live, that cancer thing wouldn't happen. Maybe yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I've only had one experience with somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>picked up cigarette butts and then let them and smoke them.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was a girl I lost my fforginity too.

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<v Speaker 1>It was on the show. She was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>was on the phone. Maybe remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second it up, they don't have to do

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<v Speaker 1>his email of the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back,