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Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's

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Speaker 1: Edge Podcast with Kelly Henderson. All right, we are back

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Speaker 1: with Marvin Lookerson, our master astrologer. This is like my month, Marv,

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Speaker 1: it's cancer season. It's what cancer season? Yeah, you don't

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Speaker 1: know that. I mean I have a friend of mine

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Speaker 1: that has a whole When he has a birthday, he

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Speaker 1: celebrates it the whole month. Oh, maybe that's what I

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Speaker 1: should do. So I think that's what you should do.

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Speaker 1: It's the celebration today. Then here's choosing our coffee right now. Cheers, cheers,

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Speaker 1: here's to the birthday month. Yes, I like this the

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Speaker 1: birthday month. Well, it is cancer season, like we said

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Speaker 1: and said the new meon that's happening. Uh, it's what

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Speaker 1: day is it happening? It's this weekend right the tent yep. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so at one o'clock in the morning, one o'clock, so

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Speaker 1: while we're sleeping literally on my wait, one o'clock in

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Speaker 1: the morning on the tenth okay, so the day before

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Speaker 1: my birthday. I don't know what that means, but it

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Speaker 1: just feels like it's going to be like a whole

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Speaker 1: new awakening and you opening. Well, so you need to

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Speaker 1: be you need to come get a birthday reading. Oh

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you did birthday readings. Oh, come and

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Speaker 1: everything of course obviously. Um, well, so let's talk through.

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Speaker 1: It's a cancer new moon, and you've been sending me

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Speaker 1: all these little tidbits. And what I said to you

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Speaker 1: this morning was that little note that you sent that

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Speaker 1: you broke it down even further. Nothing sums me up more.

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Speaker 1: So there's a lot happening that I think any cancer

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Speaker 1: is listening will relate to specifically. But the new in

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Speaker 1: effects everybody, right, It's a certain cancer energy that's coming

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Speaker 1: in that every I mean you know this is uh summer, okay,

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Speaker 1: every everybody experiences at everybody experiences every new moon at

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Speaker 1: some section of their life, just like every other sign. So, um,

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Speaker 1: but in cancer is is really really important. Um you know,

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Speaker 1: Uh most people see cancers as emotional and uh where

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Speaker 1: their emotions on their shoulder. Just knock it off, go

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Speaker 1: ahead and knock it off and then they go cry.

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Speaker 1: So but the moment, but cancer, uh is a very

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Speaker 1: very spiritual sign. And we're going to talk um extensively

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Speaker 1: about that because we have to understand why we're emotional

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Speaker 1: and um So, cancers, Uh, they're major. UM keywords is

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Speaker 1: I feel nobody feels more deeper than the cancer. Nobody

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Speaker 1: feels more emotional than a cancer. And so when you

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Speaker 1: talk about cancer, um, we have. It's the second projection

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Speaker 1: of our personality, who we are. The first projection is

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Speaker 1: an air reason, it's all instinctive, it's just naturally who

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Speaker 1: I present myself to be, uh to the world. Well,

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Speaker 1: for cancer, this is the constructed personality, and it's constructed

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Speaker 1: by way of you imagining your own self image. You know,

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Speaker 1: we cannot do anything if we don't imagine ourselves being that.

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Speaker 1: We cannot attract anything, we cannot have anything unless we

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Speaker 1: can see ourselves being, doing and having. So it's very

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Speaker 1: important to have a good strong self image. And the

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Speaker 1: way to start with a good strong self image, obviously

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Speaker 1: is a good emotional security, stability, a home, the internal home,

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Speaker 1: the external home, which is what cancer represents. Um. So,

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Speaker 1: I like to start out with the symbolism of cancer.

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Speaker 1: You know, Um, this is where astrologers see the entry

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Speaker 1: point of the soul. Okay, so that makes it pretty

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Speaker 1: dag gone important. If the soul enters in the area

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Speaker 1: of cancer, then it's a spiritual sign that's not thought

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Speaker 1: of like that. So um. But the Egyptians um the

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Speaker 1: symbol was the scare a beetle, which was the sacred

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Speaker 1: totem referring to the soul. And so uh, they began

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Speaker 1: their year on the sign of cancer. So the year

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Speaker 1: begins in the summer with the Egyptians. Now with the Greeks,

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Speaker 1: they use it as tortoise in the crab. And of

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Speaker 1: course most people know um, cancer is being the crab. Well,

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Speaker 1: there's a hard shell and a soft shell to a

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Speaker 1: to a cancer, and um a crab. If you just

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Speaker 1: look at the characteristics of a crab. They love to

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Speaker 1: of danger they run back to their shell and hibernate

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Speaker 1: and get covered. That's very that's very cancer. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: there's a bigger you know, there's an explore exploratory uh

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Speaker 1: So when we look at cancer, it's ruled by the moon.

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Speaker 1: We know the moon rules the tides. We know the

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Speaker 1: indicative of how cancers work. The emotions move in, move out,

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Speaker 1: us today's experiences to define the present now, which is

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Speaker 1: not a good not a good thing. We're forever trying

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Speaker 1: is represented by repression, suppression, hurts, pains, things we didn't

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Speaker 1: well up in cancer. So cancer represents the feminine principle.

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Speaker 1: This is actually the merger point for the masculine ego

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Speaker 1: and the feminine, the mind, divine mother. So with this merging,

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Speaker 1: the conscious and the unconscious together. So you know, when

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Speaker 1: you do all in other words, when you're all thinking,

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Speaker 1: when you think of the unconscious mind, you're thinking of

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Speaker 1: that is what we naturally do. Our ego takes the

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Speaker 1: connected spiritually, that's right, okay, connected with what you're connected

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Speaker 1: with the human condition. You're connected with who you think

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Speaker 1: is the thing. Feelings and emotions don't lie right, Our

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Speaker 1: the need is to begin listening to the feelings, which

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Speaker 1: is then the psychic impressions, the intuitive impressions. And this

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Speaker 1: difficult things. Say again, go ahead, So we become cancers

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Speaker 1: are very relationship oriented. And why would that be so necessary?

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Speaker 1: that feminine principle, that nurt surring principle, that um, that

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Speaker 1: all that energy. Right, And that's what that's what I've

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Speaker 1: So you see how you can disperse. You disperse you're

426
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: you're crazy making in your head with the emotions that

427
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: you're feeling in your gut. By aligning with spirit. I

428
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 1: mean you know when you realized that no human being

429
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: has direct influence or non direct influence on your life,

430
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: your plan, and your revolution. No human being can block

431
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: you from what is divinely yours. And that's where we

432
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: get into trying to control and manipulate if we just

433
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: realize they have no control of my success or failure.

434
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: And that also goes back to getting validation everything externally,

435
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 1: Like if you're getting it internally and you're connected to source,

436
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: I think you're very clear on no person, it's no relationship,

437
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: no work, dynamic, no nothing is going to get in

438
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: the way of your purpose, your reasoning for being here,

439
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 1: or your peace to be honest, right, And the more

440
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: you align with spirit, yeah, well then the more you

441
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: are alignment with your being guided towards with your soul

442
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: and using your plan. So you ultimately are going to

443
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: as you clear out the emotions, you begin to live

444
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: in the moment, and now you can have the feelings

445
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: of life and understand reality from your truth, your divine self.

446
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: How does it feel? It don't feel good? Ones must

447
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: not be true for me. It can be true for you,

448
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: but it doesn't have to be true for me. See.

449
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: It takes away polarity, Okay, because that's why you cancer

450
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: is to learn to be subjective. This I often tell people,

451
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 1: and this is your world. I just live in it.

452
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: I want them to feel it's their world. It's not

453
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: my world. I'm trying to help them figure out their

454
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: world because they have the tools, the power, and the

455
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: ability to do so. Yeah. So we have to understand.

456
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:26,959
Speaker 1: And the last thing with cancer is sentimentality. You become sentimental. Yes,

457
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: when you become sentimental, you're using the past, and that

458
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: creates an attitude of thought and a judgment that's been

459
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: brought up by the feeling. Okay, so sentimentality is no good.

460
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: You're sentimental, ah, and that's so sweet. So the sentimentality

461
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: brings up the past because you wanted to be consistent

462
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: so you can feel secure, because if you're not secure,

463
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: you're going to explode on something. Okay, So that's the

464
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 1: point and this and and the wonderful thing about this

465
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: is this is coyote on the southern um um wing

466
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: of the medicine wheel, which I can't you see? We

467
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: trick ourselves. We go through all these follies, just like

468
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: Wiley coyote trying to catch the road runner, over and

469
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: over and over, sabotaging themselves. And what do emotions do?

470
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: Over and over and over? We sabotage ourselves with them.

471
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: We keep going through the same thing. And so we

472
00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: have to learn how to become subjective, how to come

473
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: into alignment with spirit. And that's how the soul becomes

474
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: more dominant in your life. And that's the only truth

475
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: and the soul, as we we learned from the Angel

476
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: of Victory and triumph. God works only in the present.

477
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: What God works only in the present? I mean, I

478
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: heard you. I'm just processed. What is your needs? Your

479
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: wishes in your dreams are the experience of the past

480
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: or the future or our dreaming of what? Maybe don't

481
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 1: you think the soul and God have could possibly bring

482
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: you something better than you could ever imagine. And if

483
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: you imagine it, don't you think the souls in charge

484
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:10,959
Speaker 1: of that imagination? M m yeah. So if God only

485
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 1: works in the present, you're only getting information in the present.

486
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 1: It would behoove you to stay in the present moment

487
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: out of emotions, Diffuse the emotions, recognize your opportunity to

488
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: grow from whatever um whatever experiences that you have that

489
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: bring up old emotions. Okay, it's this is an opportunity. Yeah,

490
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: So all problems and solutions are in the now. That's

491
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: the Angel of victory and time. So when you want

492
00:40:54,400 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: to accomplish something and cancers, they're the best money makers.

493
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: I've been saying for years and years and years. They're

494
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: the best business people in the Zodiact because they can

495
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: attract abundance like nobody's business because they have that psychic

496
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: internal power. And when they get their imagination and alignment

497
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: with that power, with that information from the soul, well

498
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: you can't be stopped. And so what that angel teaches

499
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: is the energy of tenacity. If you need more money,

500
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: then you just simply say, my abundance is coming to me.

501
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: If you have a relationship problems. You say, this relationship

502
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: is healed if you are not healthy, you said, is

503
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: being stored. So you see when people talk to angels,

504
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: they go in and they make requests. Well, angels are

505
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: not for requesting. Angels are full, are doing in the moment,

506
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 1: and so that's why it's so important to live moment

507
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: the moment, breath the breath, and process life as it comes. Okay,

508
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: and then you have the other angel is one of

509
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 1: creative wisdom. And when the energy of wisdom flows from

510
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: the divine consciousness, now you're listening to their soul self,

511
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: you're high yourself, and it flows into the subjective subconscious

512
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 1: and the objective conscious mind. So now you're in total

513
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 1: alignment with source. So you're getting you're getting information that's

514
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: being sent to the both of you mentally and your feelings,

515
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 1: and so you can recognize sudden truths and insights that's

516
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: coming out of the soul, that's coming from spirit. Let's

517
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 1: talk about this new moon then, since we've described so

518
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 1: much of the cancer energy and all of the dynamics

519
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: that come with that, what can people be looking for

520
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: this next weekend with this new moon coming in. Well,

521
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: this is a very interesting new moon. Uh, it's got

522
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of power in it. Um Uh.

523
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: One of the things is, um, there's a lot of

524
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 1: force of will and determination to achieving goals, and they

525
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 1: encompass ruthless pursuit of goals. So I mean you can

526
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: just um trying to accumulate power to you can make

527
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 1: things be the way you want them to be. So

528
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: we've got to all be watching out for power plays

529
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: in ourself and from others, how we're dominating others or

530
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: how we're being dominated. Um. We've got to we've got

531
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 1: to discover the feeling of oppression of others about that

532
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: the way that we're trying to control others to ye,

533
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: and how they're trying to control us. Um. And then

534
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: we've got a the Venus Mars conjunction that happens on

535
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: thet in just a few days. Talk a little bit

536
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: about that. This is creating new relationship patterns to help

537
00:44:54,640 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: us grow beyond old values and insecurities. M hm. So

538
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: if you don't, if you don't come to terms with those,

539
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 1: well then you bring them into the next cycle, which

540
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: is two years. Um. We have a great opposition to that.

541
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: So relationships are not going to respond in our expected way. Okay,

542
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: there's a demand for change in our relationship patterns. There's

543
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: a lot of rebellion against the status quo. So we

544
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: all get into a relationship expecting it to stay the

545
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: same or be secure or change. M hm. And that

546
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: doesn't work out very well because we're human, right, what

547
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: do you mean? Give me some more detail about that. Like,

548
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out very well because for him human meaning,

549
00:45:55,320 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 1: it brings what Well, there's an old there's old kind

550
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: of a silly joke, but it's uh, it's very true.

551
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: Women marry men thinking they can change them, been merry

552
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: women thinking they won't change. Right, Neither one of those

553
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: are true. We evolve, we grow. There's a change in

554
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: our hearts and our feelings. You see, when we're become

555
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: supportive and objectified of somebody else living their life on

556
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: their terms the way they are. Well, then we've got

557
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: to decide whether we enjoy their processes, their revolution, and

558
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: then we can say, oh, I like to spend a

559
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: lot of time with them because I enjoy how they

560
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: go through life, instead of trying to say, hey, don't

561
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: do that because that you know back, yeah, right, So

562
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: we've got to break free from past relationship experiences. Yeah,

563
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 1: and we've got a lot of energy that's breaking it up,

564
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 1: that's doing just that well. I mean there's a crumbling

565
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: of norm to the past and the status quo. Yeah.

566
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: So you see what happens with expectations. Expectations always always

567
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: result in unborn resentment. And so we've got to let

568
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: go of expectations. We've got to let go of our needs,

569
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,439
Speaker 1: desires and dreams. It is what it is. You either

570
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: love it for what it is or move on. Yeah,

571
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: and love yourself as God loves you, because you are

572
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: a unique expression of God. Why should you love yourself

573
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:06,720
Speaker 1: any less than that? That's the point. The full moon

574
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: um will have a little bit of a scorpio feel, okay,

575
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: which means there's going to be a little bit of

576
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: a hidden agenda to everything. So you can only feel

577
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: those when they come up. And then if they bring

578
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: up an emotion, you need to process them. Are those

579
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 1: their issues? Or did I have motivation intention? Here? See

580
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: that's the way I always caveat somebody by what my

581
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: wife saying something to me or accusing me of something.

582
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 1: Did I have any motivation or intention in that? And

583
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: if I had an inkling of motivation or intention. Well,

584
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,399
Speaker 1: then it's mind the process. Why did I do that?

585
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 1: What's motivating me, what's driving me out my past? What's

586
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 1: this emotion about? Yeah, see, this is taking responsibility for

587
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: oneself and nobody has nobody has the power to do

588
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: that better than a cancer. And that's what they have

589
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: to move towards. Well, I agree, you don't need anybody

590
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: to understand you. Also, I think it's interesting to think

591
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: about because the way you just described that was do

592
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: I asking yourself the question do I have any motivations

593
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 1: or intentions? And what I've learned in life is that

594
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: not everyone is that one self aware nor willing to

595
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: look at that stuff. Like a lot of humans that

596
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: I've encountered in my life seemed more content to just

597
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, I don't know what, I

598
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: don't care, you know, Like, but maybe they're not growing

599
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: and evolving in the capacity that say I would want

600
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: someone who I am in a relationship to be growing

601
00:49:54,080 --> 00:50:01,760
Speaker 1: and evolving. Well, I think that we just have to Um.

602
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: You know, I'm big on not forming opinions and positions

603
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: because you can only form them out of the prejudice

604
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 1: of your past. Okay, see the point. And so this

605
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 1: new moon is going to be about displaying confident and

606
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 1: poison awkward and social situations. It's about achieving popularity even

607
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: while one breaks the mold, knowing that knowing what people

608
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: say behind one's back, but winning them over with charm

609
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: and savvy is not a good way to think about it.

610
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: You don't have to like me, but I'm gonna win

611
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: you over to where you'll like me anyway. And in

612
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: the full moon on the we do need to do

613
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: what I said, learn to love ourselves. Health is one

614
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: is loved by God before we can accept the love

615
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: of others. Seeing where things need to be headed. Yeah,

616
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: so that's the full moon at the end of the month,

617
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: that's the full moment. I feel like this new Man

618
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,240
Speaker 1: is sort of teeing us up for that full man situation.

619
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: It seems like a little bit of the same dynamic

620
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: of learning to love yourself without the need for external validation.

621
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: Then also just looking into your motivations, the power struggles

622
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,959
Speaker 1: you mentioned between people, maybe what you're trying to force

623
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: on to other people. I think those are really good

624
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: awarenesses to think about. It sounds like, well, and you

625
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: got to watch him, because look, we can all go

626
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: through emotional explosions. Who amongst us doesn't have an emotion? Right? Right? Oh?

627
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 1: That many saints walking on earth. Yeah, but it's like

628
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: Saint Germaine said, it's pretty difficult down here. Even a

629
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: saint could set something in motion, energy and motion that

630
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't be good, That there would be karmen do. So

631
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: you see, all we're doing is confronting and trying to

632
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: become unified as a soul guided spiritual being. You know,

633
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 1: too many metaphysicians come in and try to say, well,

634
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing all those spiritual things, why isn't my life easy?

635
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: Because this is a human life. You're a spiritual being already,

636
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: but you've gotta process as a whole spiritual being, and

637
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 1: so you have that takes work, takes two years, and

638
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: so that's that's what you're doing, is cancer, And that's

639
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: the opportunity that cancer is giving you, is to recognize

640
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: those feelings and amos and dissolve them for yourself because

641
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: nobody will understand you. Yeah except your favorite astrologer. That's true.

642
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 1: That's true. Okay, we're running out of Tom Mark, So

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00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: let's get to the breakdowns for each sign because I

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00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: know people love this part when you give them a

645
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: little insight, and so what a little snippet. Huh. We

646
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: we know that cancers are going to have a good month.

647
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: They're going to be feeling good about themselves. They should

648
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: go out and uh shop, do some uh what my

649
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 1: wife calls retail therapy, and so uh feeling good about

650
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: the self will be a big deal for cancer this month.

651
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: For geminis Um, they're going to notice the emotions around

652
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 1: their possessions and value is more okay. For Taurus is uh,

653
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: they're going to be communicating much more from feelings and

654
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: emotions than typically for our aries, it's time to relax,

655
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:20,399
Speaker 1: let go pull into the cancer shell, get some privacy,

656
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: enjoy the home. For Pisces letting other knows how they

657
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 1: really feel, just on load and for Aquarius, putting emotions

658
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: second to the immediate needs okay. And for capricorn Um,

659
00:54:50,600 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: internalize the connection between partnerships. Mm hmm, internalized can in

660
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: actions with partnerships. Okay, I feel I have great love

661
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 1: for you, Kelly. Oh this is a big one for

662
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: a Capricorn then, right, yeah, because they're all in their

663
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: head all right. For Sagittarius experience emotional psychology of beliefs.

664
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: What do you mean, why do they believe what they believe?

665
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: What's the psychology behind what they believe? I actually love

666
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: that first, Sagittarius, because they're so go, go, go, fun, fun, fun. Well,

667
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 1: they never stopped to think about why they think what

668
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: they think and believe what they believe. Because and because

669
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a this is an argumentator, opinionated individual.

670
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: I mean, if you tell them that their belief is wrong,

671
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: well then they can get really emotional about out it

672
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: this month because they've got to evaluate why they believe

673
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: what they believe. What are they coming up with? This?

674
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 1: For Scorpio, the mental emotional need to kind of get

675
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: away from the grind. You know, Uh, there's a lot

676
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: of truth here, But the point is is truth is

677
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 1: only good when you can share with people that can

678
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: get an understanding. And if they can understand, well then

679
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: you're not going to beat the hell out of them

680
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: to understand. So sometimes you have to step back into

681
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 1: that crab shell, nurture yourself, get an alignment, go vertical,

682
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 1: and just realize it's not important. It's only important that

683
00:56:51,600 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 1: you stay connected and in alignment and for friends, okay,

684
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: and for Libra, people will notice their emotional nature much

685
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: more when they're dealing with people because it's relationships. So

686
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: relationships are going to be exposing some of their emotional

687
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: nature and bringing up some deep emotional feelings inside of them.

688
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: And for virgo um feelings, friendships could start taking on

689
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: that protective and supportive of their emotional needs because that's

690
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: at eleventh house of friends. So there's an emotional need

691
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 1: this month, uh for connections with friends because friends are

692
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: like minded people and so they just need to absorb

693
00:57:51,400 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: that understanding amongst themselves. And for Leo, uh, they need

694
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: to um withdraw and keep their emotions and stay grounded.

695
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: Oh they don't. In other words, Leo's try to have

696
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: a lot less drama than normal go vertical being alignment

697
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: and just settle with yourself because you're you know, this

698
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: is your twelve thousand as us, your place of undoing.

699
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: So when Leo's get emotional, this is not a good thing.

700
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: It's sabotage self sabotage. Wow, well, it sounds like a

701
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: lot of introspection and also staying in touch with yourself

702
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: for every Luckily, this is a great time to be

703
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: subjective and love yourself. You see so many people feel

704
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 1: like they need to be objective about them about others,

705
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: and they need to be object to about themselves. Forgive yourself,

706
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: love yourself. And then you learning discrimination. Who do I

707
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 1: want to participate? Who I don't want to participate? There

708
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: you go discernment discrimination two vital keys to understanding life

709
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: and people. Well, if you guys want the bigger breakdown

710
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: that Marvin I do you know kind of prior he

711
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 1: sent me an outline. If you guys want that, they

712
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: can find that where Marv on my website astro marv

713
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: dot com in the blog. Okay, and we actually talked

714
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: about this a little bit before you and I started recording.

715
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: But you do these medicine wheel breakdowns that I think

716
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: people who are more intensely into astrology would really appreciate.

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00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: You'll also put that on a blog, right, yes, because

718
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: cancer is ruled by Woodpecker and have it and some

719
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 1: people are gonna be like, what what is it? Well,

720
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: I got to pick their interest exactly and the breakdowns

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01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: really do make it a lot more clear. So all

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01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: of that is on astro marv dot com. If people

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01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: want to see for a session or for their own reading.

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01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: They reach out to you at Marvin Marvin at astro

725
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 1: marv dot com. They can come in person, we can

726
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 1: do zoom sessions and um you make Marvin happy. All

727
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: this information is the description of this podcast. Marv. Thank

728
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,439
Speaker 1: you so much. I'm so excited to see this cancer month.

729
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling it. I'm feeling good. All right. I

730
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: couldn't have a greater wish for you, Miss Galli. Thanks Marv,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you guys for listening. Thanks for listening

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