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Speaker 1: another episode of Big Facts Friday. What's up? What's up?
Speaker 1: What's up? Homies? What's up? Family? Everybody feeling beautiful? Day?
Speaker 1: Is a life amazing really good? Yeah, life is wonderful,
Speaker 1: amazing good to be alive and healthy and here free
Speaker 1: and anyway? What's our? What's our? What's our word for today?
Speaker 1: What are we building on today? What's the Okay? Our
Speaker 1: word read today is conundrum? And conundrum is a difficult
Speaker 1: question or riddle, especially one using a play on words
Speaker 1: and the answer or a difficult choice or decision that
Speaker 1: must be made. So what's some examples of a conundrum? Um?
Speaker 1: Is the glass half empty or half fool? Yep, because
Speaker 1: that's like a riddle. Question? Okay? To be or not
Speaker 1: to be? Question? Is the question? What is the answer? Um? Well,
Speaker 1: a conundrum that I was that I was looking at
Speaker 1: or whatever is whether or not you tell the truth
Speaker 1: to your partner or spouse about certain things to make
Speaker 1: them feel comfortable within themselves. So do you tell the
Speaker 1: truth to your spouse about if you cheated, not really cheating,
Speaker 1: but if you like their hair, or if they if
Speaker 1: you think that they put on some pounds or some
Speaker 1: ship like that. Sometimes a little white live will keep
Speaker 1: the peace. And I feel like in certain sense ways
Speaker 1: like that the piece is more important than truth because
Speaker 1: that conundrum that's just a lot, is it a lot?
Speaker 1: Of It's a lot if you if you don't like
Speaker 1: their hair and you say I like your hair's a lot.
Speaker 1: But if you say you don't like that, but it's
Speaker 1: not a malicious lot. But if you say you don't
Speaker 1: like the hair, and it brings on a bigger issue
Speaker 1: to the truth, the truth set you free, and then
Speaker 1: they can't handle how many people are really find to
Speaker 1: tell the truth about some ship like that and have
Speaker 1: an argument at home every night? Avoid argument? You could
Speaker 1: avoid it like, so would you rather walk around and
Speaker 1: the avoidance of tippy toeing against people feelings and lying
Speaker 1: to yourself and others or around? No, for sure, But
Speaker 1: I'm saying, don't make it an abbot of just like
Speaker 1: the instance of the hair, Like just because you don't
Speaker 1: like the hair doesn't mean that somebody else or somebody
Speaker 1: else might like it. Like that I tell the truth,
Speaker 1: but I don't like that because you gotta you still,
Speaker 1: we gotta walk around together. But she cooked me something
Speaker 1: eating I don't like it. I'm gonna be like this
Speaker 1: good because if she started making it all the time,
Speaker 1: I'm ana helper making we need you probably need I
Speaker 1: like it. I like the last tell you did, but
Speaker 1: look up on YouTube, but recipe belt, Yeah, we need
Speaker 1: some more seasoning. I ain't even gonna say it Nash.
Speaker 1: If it Nash, you know what I'm saying. I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is good because you made it with love. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all ever had like on your birthday, like christmhen somebody
Speaker 1: to get you a gift, you don't really funk with it,
Speaker 1: and now you make it tell on your face like
Speaker 1: you don't sunk with it, but you tell them I
Speaker 1: love it, like I tried, Like when people get when whenever,
Speaker 1: like I wouldn't give a funk what it was like
Speaker 1: whenever somebody gives me something, no matter what it is,
Speaker 1: I try. I don't want to say I try to
Speaker 1: be appreciative. I am appreciative because for me, it's about
Speaker 1: the counts. But if it's something that like I don't need,
Speaker 1: or something that I'm not really excited about, I like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't hurt anybody's feelings or whatever, but like making
Speaker 1: them think that, you know, like this was a bullshit gift.
Speaker 1: I just write it out. So you said the thought
Speaker 1: that counts. But sometimes you know, when people didn't put
Speaker 1: any kind of thought into a gift, like you just
Speaker 1: got me something to say, you got me something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I still try to like to play it off.
Speaker 1: You don know what about don't get you the man?
Speaker 1: You were, you living in your truth. There was no
Speaker 1: conundrum there. I don't really got to guess how you
Speaker 1: was thinking. But see, when the nigga not give me something,
Speaker 1: I'm cognizant of the fact that nine times out of
Speaker 1: tend I probably wasn't expecting anything from that nigga anyway,
Speaker 1: So anything from that particular person would have been a
Speaker 1: pleasant surprise. And nothing is already expected. But if nigga
Speaker 1: gets you some ship he was getting that he just
Speaker 1: had on some giving away ship, like and they get
Speaker 1: you some ship he got from like uh a McDonald's toy. Motherfucker,
Speaker 1: you got this anyway, like you got you got, you're
Speaker 1: gonna throw PTSD. So I get you some bullshit ya know,
Speaker 1: you want to get it off your test. I mean
Speaker 1: just in just in the past, like you know, for
Speaker 1: Christmas and ship. You know, people get some ship, like
Speaker 1: I know you just got this somebody just gave you
Speaker 1: on some giving away ship. What what? What my bad y'all?
Speaker 1: What what what job? Y'all think? Is faced with the
Speaker 1: most commundrums the president, any politician anything, Scientists for sure, doctors,
Speaker 1: because doctor's got to come and give you bad news,
Speaker 1: but yet you gotta still have hope and faith that
Speaker 1: it ain't that bad. Sometimes nobody's scientists because they ship
Speaker 1: they're trying to come up with and and what else
Speaker 1: you call it vaccines, and then they probably come up
Speaker 1: with the cure in the vaccine, but they probably sunk
Speaker 1: up some other ship exactly. Yeah, and then you got
Speaker 1: your ethical dilemmas like that, like damn if I get
Speaker 1: this person like the sit that be caught in side
Speaker 1: effects ship, Yeah, it's gonna cure your diarrhea, but it's
Speaker 1: gonna get your heart disease. Counsel is a comundrum, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how should they can't figure it out? That's a riddle,
Speaker 1: you know what you mean. Problem, But it's a problem.
Speaker 1: That's a really that they're still trying to figure out.
Speaker 1: Chemo would be a conundrum because chemo, you have to
Speaker 1: take chemo to try to cure the cancer. You're gonna
Speaker 1: lose your hair, you're gonna be sick on some other ship,
Speaker 1: and it's gonna like funk up some other stuff. But
Speaker 1: it's gonna get rid of the cancer. But you're still
Speaker 1: gonna have all these It's like, trying to find a
Speaker 1: cure for counsel is a conundruy, yes, And whether or
Speaker 1: not to take chemotherapy, trying to find cures, not just
Speaker 1: trying to find period with minimal side effects is a conundrum.
Speaker 1: And if you think about like the experiment experience treatment,
Speaker 1: you're saying trying to find treatment without with minimum side effects.
Speaker 1: She was she was kind of on with the world
Speaker 1: leader thing because like world leaders have to be what
Speaker 1: they call diplomatic. So it's like in every instance, I
Speaker 1: could go float them up, but if I go do that,
Speaker 1: then they can do that to them. And then we
Speaker 1: got allies like those are really deep conundrums they got
Speaker 1: to figure out, like we'll be like, why don't you
Speaker 1: just go handle that? I can't just go ahead. They've
Speaker 1: got a lot of politics. Politics period is a heavy conundrum. Politics,
Speaker 1: I think would be more so of an enigma than
Speaker 1: a conundrum. And enigma is like a mystery or a
Speaker 1: problem is similar to a conundrum. But a conundrum has
Speaker 1: a solution, you just have to figure out what it is.
Speaker 1: And enigma most of the time isn't solvable. So in
Speaker 1: the conundrum to be clear, has to have some type
Speaker 1: of choice affiliated with it, though like some type of
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think conundrum because I looked
Speaker 1: it up in another word for its mystery and riddle mystery,
Speaker 1: so maybe it's in the same Yeah, but an enigma
Speaker 1: isn't like there's no resolution to an enigma. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: is that that's the difference from this It is resolution
Speaker 1: to a lundrum. You can actually but you make a
Speaker 1: choice to resolve. Now it's two ways. It's a question
Speaker 1: and it's a riddle. This decision right, it's a riddle
Speaker 1: though did say something about riddle liddle, like like a
Speaker 1: difficult choice or decision. Yes, that means you got to
Speaker 1: make a choice. Yeah, you have to decide one way
Speaker 1: or the other. You have to pick a side. But
Speaker 1: in an enigma, there's no side to pick, right, So
Speaker 1: politicians have many conundrums, doctors, scientists have many conundrums. But
Speaker 1: on a day to day basis, just living our life,
Speaker 1: we have conundrums, right, Yeah, But wouldn't it be like,
Speaker 1: what's a conundrum for you? Can be could not? Wait?
Speaker 1: Could it not be a conundrum for me? Because isn't
Speaker 1: it sation? Sure, a conundrum could be choosing your outfit
Speaker 1: for the day, if there's outfits up there that could
Speaker 1: be a really big thing for you, in a really
Speaker 1: complex thing and like riddle like but you eventually have
Speaker 1: to make a choice to solve it, right, But for
Speaker 1: somebody else they might just grasp ship, throw it on whatever,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think food, the
Speaker 1: food you eat, can be conundrums, right, Some people make
Speaker 1: that a big thing. They look at menus and it's
Speaker 1: a big thing and they spend longer looking at food
Speaker 1: menus and idols than they do even Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it just depends on this person. In the moral conundial,
Speaker 1: that comes with like relationships and cheating and stuff. Like somebody.
Speaker 1: You could be in a relationship with somebody and they
Speaker 1: could say, I want you to be completely honest, you
Speaker 1: don't want you to hurt me, blah blah blah. But
Speaker 1: you know you just cheated yesterday. You don't want to
Speaker 1: come to them and tell them you cheated on them
Speaker 1: yesterday because you know that could hurt them so that
Speaker 1: they come into the moral aspect of it. That's one
Speaker 1: one relationship. Oh don't because I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's a it's a long tree. I mean I think
Speaker 1: that what you said, that can that kind of stretches
Speaker 1: into loyal to a little bit how you feel experience.
Speaker 1: But but yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's it can
Speaker 1: stretch into loyalty end of the day. Some people how
Speaker 1: moral it's subjective, right yeah, okay, so yeah, we'll just
Speaker 1: say that because some people more it might be ain't cheating, right, yes,
Speaker 1: some people. I ain't cheating until I get caught. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I mean then it may become a conundrum when
Speaker 1: I get caught. Yeah, for sure, it's you get caught,
Speaker 1: or some people can be just look, I'm cheating but
Speaker 1: I'm doing it in a way that they don't even
Speaker 1: come nowhere near you, so you don't even know I'm cheating.
Speaker 1: And that's just like that could be the same. Lying
Speaker 1: is lying, cheating and cheating no matter what some people, Okay,
Speaker 1: some people, And I'm just saying like some people might
Speaker 1: feel like ship I get cought cheating and and to
Speaker 1: some people, cheating could be conversation. Some people, cheating could
Speaker 1: be going out with What do you consider cheating? Starting up?
Speaker 1: What do you start cheating? What you mean is it
Speaker 1: cheating just when you start talking somebody else? Or is
Speaker 1: thinking about it? Once you think about it, you cheating? Period? Agree?
Speaker 1: I agree for your brain from there starting to you
Speaker 1: were starting, she don't even think about it, don't even
Speaker 1: come to their mind. That's a lie. Once you do
Speaker 1: you when you feel in your mind or something that
Speaker 1: you're not comfortable that you wouldn't tell your partner or whatever,
Speaker 1: that's cheating. I disagree. Now, the deeper you get into
Speaker 1: that is they don't want you, They didn't want you.
Speaker 1: Thinking that that's what she did is not controlling that
Speaker 1: have y'all have a y'all have an understanding that we
Speaker 1: don't think about other ship. We don't physically and act
Speaker 1: other ship, I think, because you can't, it's cheating. That's
Speaker 1: like if a if a girl walked, if a stripper
Speaker 1: come right here and started dancing, all you mean, married
Speaker 1: or not, you're gonna look at her as she is
Speaker 1: different though, if you looking looking at her, looking at
Speaker 1: looking at her and not cheating, I had to have
Speaker 1: a look you're looking at I want? Okay. So if
Speaker 1: you're look at a woman and you see her and
Speaker 1: be like that, my woodfucker, that's cheating. But sometimes, but
Speaker 1: sometimes you setime. If she's right there and in your
Speaker 1: head you're thinking I would fun, I want to, but
Speaker 1: that's what I wanted. Let's again, it's not me. So
Speaker 1: if the stripper bitch came shaking her ass whatever whatever,
Speaker 1: you're looking at her, she looks nice, then you strike
Speaker 1: up a conversation with this bitch and continue the conversation.
Speaker 1: That is the beginning of cheating. At the beginning, they're
Speaker 1: in the beginning face, but it also goes back. But
Speaker 1: you can cheat. Does your significant the way you look
Speaker 1: at the motherfucker? That's cheap, But does your if she
Speaker 1: looked at you the same way, that's where I started.
Speaker 1: That's the connection. This walking to motherfucker you. You got
Speaker 1: certain eyes you're looking at I'm ready I do it
Speaker 1: to you. That's what I'm saying. You're am I right
Speaker 1: old the camera crew, y'all feel free. This ain't the
Speaker 1: regular deadly y'all can speak speak y'all mind, please, she's
Speaker 1: not cheating. Don't just telling everybody up? What are you saying?
Speaker 1: We're seeing cheating the act up? What the ye you're looking?
Speaker 1: You're looking you're looking at the motherfucker like because you're
Speaker 1: really trying to be chose, you know what, time know them.
Speaker 1: But but she don't look back. She ain't going Now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look greatly, So what are you trying? So
Speaker 1: what do you consider that? Trying to like the tactically
Speaker 1: select her. You shot your shot the house or some
Speaker 1: cheating ship. You're probably gonna end up cheating. But I
Speaker 1: don't anybody but if you, if you, if you to
Speaker 1: be chosen or is that cheap? Yeah? Sure, don't say
Speaker 1: eve not because you're for the engage, y'allo? Yes ya,
Speaker 1: I'm not going all day that that like literally get up,
Speaker 1: spend three four five hours to get dressed to go out.
Speaker 1: That don't mean that she want to look up for herself,
Speaker 1: that she's going out on the proud and why why
Speaker 1: because she's doing it for her yourself. Don't mean going out.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, get fresh on that dresses. You're trying to
Speaker 1: goddamn be singing. You're trying to shot shot if you
Speaker 1: put that shirt on. And when I did, nobody say nothing.
Speaker 1: You feel some type of away that you ego. That's
Speaker 1: what she looked good. And this even works when y'all
Speaker 1: do that when you got hold on, hold on. So
Speaker 1: you're saying that if a woman got a nigger, you
Speaker 1: should be this. And she decided to get fresh and
Speaker 1: fly and go to funk out. She going out to
Speaker 1: prowd and get fresh and fly different sexy, okay, sexy
Speaker 1: with her home girls brunch, but just get dressed all
Speaker 1: day to go to brunch and what they dresses on
Speaker 1: looking flies a bit. They're not doing that for you,
Speaker 1: niggas man. But you know, like, oh, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, if you're trying to you know, if
Speaker 1: you're going there to try some extra phone numbers and
Speaker 1: we're trying to if you put if you're putting that
Speaker 1: ship on for a couple of ments. You're cheat. You're
Speaker 1: trying to bust your ego because if you know the
Speaker 1: risk when you leave the house yourself fly. When you
Speaker 1: leave a house fresh and flying, you're trying to just
Speaker 1: be flesh and fresh and flesh crest and fresh and
Speaker 1: whatever you go on the brunch. Then when you leave
Speaker 1: the house with a fucking mental invisible sticker on your
Speaker 1: forehead like I'm for sale. No you don't. I don't
Speaker 1: agree with that, because there's plenty of times you get
Speaker 1: fresh and fly, look good, take your pictures, send that
Speaker 1: ship to your nigga for you to come home and
Speaker 1: be with him. But you know what you're trying. When
Speaker 1: I was getting ready, I have, and you go out
Speaker 1: all day and don't nobody say ship to you. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna feel no part of your ego or offended
Speaker 1: that we're not talking. That's the same thing. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I'm not gonna feel no type of way.
Speaker 1: But if my home like, you look good, I'm gonna take.
Speaker 1: What does it matter if you got to go out
Speaker 1: and get attention. If you're nigga already giving you attention,
Speaker 1: you're walking out and he's like you're great, that it's
Speaker 1: mentally compliments, compliments I'm taking. I'm taking his attention for granted.
Speaker 1: I want some other attention. That it's the same ship
Speaker 1: the other I disagree. We just disagree to disagree. What
Speaker 1: they called it, they called it or they called it advertising.
Speaker 1: No counselor lated asked, was I socially cheating? So what
Speaker 1: is it? Social? It's a different type when you ain't
Speaker 1: fucking but you're doing some other ship. Yeah, but think
Speaker 1: of it. You're engaging emotionally cheating. That's the emotional cheating
Speaker 1: is talking to somebody in communication. But when you when
Speaker 1: you're in Starbucks getting your confident to tell you look nice,
Speaker 1: and you hold a conversation, you just cheat it for real.
Speaker 1: You get because you wouldn't be that you want to
Speaker 1: do that. You're in cheap mold no women because because
Speaker 1: when you got women, bro, you can see bro, when
Speaker 1: you're being slow, you got some women. They got ton
Speaker 1: of it. And what they're doing they come into the
Speaker 1: get they want. I don't see you. You got hit
Speaker 1: what you got on? Bit your change? You can't sell
Speaker 1: me cheap? How you gonna tell them money? You smelled good?
Speaker 1: Way that leads to but but you tell them like me,
Speaker 1: I should have good. I'm gonna say good. You open
Speaker 1: the door your ship. It's kind of like, if you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship is d MU, you shouldn't even open them?
Speaker 1: D ms you should you shouldn't open them? And why
Speaker 1: are you looking at making the ms, Because it's like,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, if you're in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship and you're fine, you just open that door. Yes,
Speaker 1: even if you're not sever she winked, shell fuck she looks.
Speaker 1: She if she looks. She took East Atlanta philosopher Gucci
Speaker 1: Man for that, showed her teeth because because instead of
Speaker 1: telling this nigger that you that you got a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: you could have just not responded to the d N.
Speaker 1: You opened the door for conversation that you can say
Speaker 1: if you and the in person ship is to the thing.
Speaker 1: Because if you're in person or whatever and somebody's in
Speaker 1: your face, Okay, I can see where a bitch my thing, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude, whatever, whatever. But if
Speaker 1: you're in a d M and you open it and
Speaker 1: you could have just not, that's worse than being in
Speaker 1: If you open a DM, that's worse than being yes,
Speaker 1: because you could have just not responded to the d M.
Speaker 1: They got a whole other DM that you don't need.
Speaker 1: You got to look for that message. Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: You look for that message. You told that nigga. Man,
Speaker 1: One thing about every every man know when a woman
Speaker 1: is not friendly. Yeah, that's your bottom line. Like you
Speaker 1: can already tell it on her. She even gotta be
Speaker 1: looking at me. She is not friendly. Buddy, there the
Speaker 1: areas just tell you. Yeah, she said she got a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: but she acting single. We're not get big bro. What
Speaker 1: about these schlick nigga who know what to say? You
Speaker 1: gotta man, Yeah, how long you had that problem? You smile?
Speaker 1: You told me didn't Why that's funny. That's that's not funny.
Speaker 1: Fat Hello, that's all the stock giggling. If the garage open,
Speaker 1: the nig is gonna exactly professional. Professional, that's all they take.
Speaker 1: That's all they given. Nigga. Hope. You just gave the
Speaker 1: nigga hope your pal because they're like the nigga that
Speaker 1: you're like like all that goddamn going to work with
Speaker 1: a nigga like bitch been working with work work friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that ain't change. Yeah, yeah, You've been working with
Speaker 1: this nigga all the time. So every time I pitch you,
Speaker 1: are you going in man mad? Now? He want to
Speaker 1: buy your luncheon And goddamn, it's okay, beautiful. He come
Speaker 1: in this bit more than you. He getting a more
Speaker 1: compliment thing. You flowers all this bro she getting Fuck. No, No,
Speaker 1: that does not mean that just the shoulder to shoulder
Speaker 1: to the exactly. They doesn't. But they don't did, They
Speaker 1: don't built the relationship. I hain't gonna he's your bitch
Speaker 1: more than you. I ain't it sound like or whatever,
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like black is
Speaker 1: all the way right because when women cheat, or when
Speaker 1: women step out, or when women do whatever they do
Speaker 1: and deviate from the plan or the relationship, it comes
Speaker 1: from an emotional place. And when just like he said,
Speaker 1: with the work nigger or whatever, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: with the nigga you see every day blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: you spend both of your time with this. So it's
Speaker 1: just like at the end of the day, if the
Speaker 1: nigga at home, you know you ya ya got nicknames
Speaker 1: for each other and ship and he gets he's going
Speaker 1: to be able to read your won't any ashes? Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: what's wrong to day? You're so beautiful while you're looking mad?
Speaker 1: Why are you get the COVID? Okay, let's get a girl,
Speaker 1: let's get it. And then after he was because you're
Speaker 1: gonna do this ship repeatedly, No it's not, but it's not.
Speaker 1: What's the word for us? How would you feel for
Speaker 1: what he's doing listening fact thing to a bit of
Speaker 1: his job. You have me funked up. But I'm just
Speaker 1: saying that act that she is not cheating. It's a
Speaker 1: conunsrial eat its way? What any distracting dea from the plan.
Speaker 1: He's gonna go to split the crack even further. That's like,
Speaker 1: you get money. I have a question. You got a
Speaker 1: business partner? You getting money with this business part all
Speaker 1: of us SUD and the business partner. I don't know.
Speaker 1: She started calling you at a different time. Is that
Speaker 1: cheating and you answer the phone? Is that cheating phone call?
Speaker 1: Is different than actually after presents compliments? Now, okay, she
Speaker 1: started getting about what did she start saying? DJ scream
Speaker 1: they don't do that? Okay, yeah, my wife exactly. Don't
Speaker 1: compliment me this, don't spail my right give the compliments
Speaker 1: to my wife to give to me. Read the energy
Speaker 1: when she comes around like you like him? Right, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like she's gonna be to read
Speaker 1: the energy like y'all too cool. So that's like everything
Speaker 1: like Sho has to be cool with take Jay has
Speaker 1: to be cool. I tell y'all have to be friends
Speaker 1: so we know that this is a friendly environment, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: that's just what it is. You can't I can't have
Speaker 1: a female friend that's not friends with my wife right
Speaker 1: how And that's like cheating, right right, I guess because
Speaker 1: she damn show can't have no men robbed. You are
Speaker 1: about to go eat, bro? I would give it that.
Speaker 1: How long y'all work together? You know I ain't speaking
Speaker 1: on nothing that no, Joe don't, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I ain't cool. So you know, a bitch at cool
Speaker 1: staying a friend female bro? Because you you how are
Speaker 1: you gonna then when you don't want to come tell
Speaker 1: the nigga? Well, you know guess what he said to me.
Speaker 1: You've been showing your teeth for two years. What else
Speaker 1: he voted to say, I'm gonna try. But when about
Speaker 1: the women that just work with a whole bunch of niggas,
Speaker 1: it don't matter. But when you work with a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of niggas, certain women you already know, like that's
Speaker 1: like my huger Evan Evan to be around every nigger
Speaker 1: you can think of, even Hemma. They're not giving off
Speaker 1: the vibe that they'll go. But you've seen the women
Speaker 1: that do. Especially you can already tell it, bro like
Speaker 1: she maing my trip, but you can, you can try
Speaker 1: to ays all that, but they ain't going, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean in close quarter together. We don't staying
Speaker 1: in the room together. I slept on the couch, you
Speaker 1: slept lights straight up? This ain't that? Am I right around? No? No,
Speaker 1: you're right. The out of your mindset is different. You know.
Speaker 1: Here they would fully agree with her. They just kind
Speaker 1: of more like light boys walking up on every homeboy,
Speaker 1: like looking them up and down. And I'm home boys
Speaker 1: don't do that. But like I could sit there and
Speaker 1: have conversations with my home all of that, and I
Speaker 1: don't feel like, I mean, I don't know I agree
Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm kind of stiff. I don't
Speaker 1: be if I don't feel like I'm friendly, So I
Speaker 1: don't feel like Nick's gonna come to me and say
Speaker 1: anything to me. But at the same time, I don't
Speaker 1: feel like if a woman is fine and fly and
Speaker 1: she's having conversation with the man at this point, he
Speaker 1: could fuck But what's the conversation about. And if it
Speaker 1: ain't about the beaches or the work, what we're doing,
Speaker 1: why what we're gonna get? Person? Why the fucking metal?
Speaker 1: What I ate last night? Don't ask me if my
Speaker 1: day was. Yeah, well we should have emotional no personal interaction. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I gotta I got I gotta doAnd hey, I agree
Speaker 1: with everything, but I gotta kind of disagree with that
Speaker 1: because me, like, okay, like me and my friends are
Speaker 1: homeboys or whatever. Like we talk about all kind of ships,
Speaker 1: but not different though. I'm talk about answer a colleague,
Speaker 1: a colleague, friends you work with, like you're actually friends
Speaker 1: with these people. That's different, and you work with your friends,
Speaker 1: that's different. I'm talking about if I come in this motherfucker,
Speaker 1: these these women been behind these cameras and ship. I'm
Speaker 1: not talking to these women about ship, but what's going
Speaker 1: on here, So what did they go to lunch? And
Speaker 1: they're talking about what they feel to do with the
Speaker 1: other person this weekend. We're going on talking to my
Speaker 1: wife on my phone. Why the funk am I saying
Speaker 1: with somebody else? Like talking right on with my crew talking?
Speaker 1: I feel I feel you just said. That's just how
Speaker 1: I look at it. Yeah, there are because I have
Speaker 1: been trained like that. I have been trained like that.
Speaker 1: Like I can't be sick, bro, this ship is just crazy.
Speaker 1: But you can't do certain ship, especially when you've been
Speaker 1: in a toxic relationship. Yeah, everybody a little different, but
Speaker 1: I agree with you. Let let's bring this back real
Speaker 1: quick because y'all making me mad. Switch comunks up to God.
Speaker 1: But of the that's one of the biggest conundrus. But
Speaker 1: I know y'all probably gonna agree with me, and y'all
Speaker 1: probably gonna think of nigg on some bullshit. But I
Speaker 1: just I just know what that ship. I just know
Speaker 1: me I could come out. That's a friend. That don't
Speaker 1: mean you don't want the fun. I'm just wait to
Speaker 1: my opening. That's waiting on your opening, man, and wait
Speaker 1: and waiting just like damn. I'm waiting for her to
Speaker 1: do it. Wait, just letting life go back. Eventually, ship,
Speaker 1: she's gonna be an opportunity. No, she's gonna come. You're
Speaker 1: gonna beat up being so nice. You remember her birthday
Speaker 1: or happy birthday. Damn, I ain't even remember all like
Speaker 1: dis nigga for kidding exact exactly you Damn there in
Speaker 1: the relationship this man, Yeah, yeah, damn he did that again.
Speaker 1: Now he did that. He I just you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm just telling you what you're worth every day.
Speaker 1: You deserve better. I'm not f going to that. You're
Speaker 1: not like line pushing out line. I'm just telling you. Smile, queen,
Speaker 1: keep your keep, you fix your clown all that ship
Speaker 1: broa banquets, kicking on, trying out, trying to trimming. No,
Speaker 1: you're not tripping. I thank you, sir, and old she saying, no,
Speaker 1: the ain't right. But certain women already know that, right,
Speaker 1: facts facts, Certain women already know that if you want,
Speaker 1: if you got them, got one of the teeth. Is
Speaker 1: teaching your teeth of that white not a teach She
Speaker 1: ain't afraid to lose you. No better, she's scouting anyway.
Speaker 1: Like from the beginning to me, some people, some people
Speaker 1: will airy as I've traveled, not just say not to
Speaker 1: pick on them, but as you travel, some people are
Speaker 1: aired you why are you looking at me when you're saying? Then,
Speaker 1: as you travel the world, you know that some people
Speaker 1: are just airing, just naive as they don't really mean
Speaker 1: and they might slip into some bullshit, but they're just
Speaker 1: Naive's fun. That's some people. Some women be a fell
Speaker 1: in love with a nigger, bro jacka you being optimistic
Speaker 1: about their friendship? I am crying. So they should speak period,
Speaker 1: Yeah they speak. This is this is the work atmosphere.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna do everything that a man is supposed
Speaker 1: to do for you. Okay, that's how I feel. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't Know's just put me in that situation that
Speaker 1: she she's like that, like she friendly. M Yeah, you
Speaker 1: got a nigga, not even with women friendly. You can
Speaker 1: see your friend I don't know, but you can see
Speaker 1: yourself friendly when you when you do got a nigger.
Speaker 1: And I think she friendly with the people she want
Speaker 1: to be friendly with you probably, I don't know. Like
Speaker 1: I got certain like friends right that I would say that, um,
Speaker 1: I would consider friendly. I got certain homeboys that make
Speaker 1: say something like slick ship. Like, but we've been doing
Speaker 1: that since high school. We ain't had sex, but they
Speaker 1: had the chance. I mean, I guess they would, but
Speaker 1: there just don't let your wife go drinking with her
Speaker 1: just when you when you have a nigga doll like
Speaker 1: certain ship, even though it might have been platonic. Certain ship. Certainly,
Speaker 1: even certain platonic ship isn't acceptable when you have a
Speaker 1: nigga or when you're in a relationship, especially when you're
Speaker 1: dealing with a crazy nig I agree with you got
Speaker 1: you got to just possessive over their possession. Yeah, I agree,
Speaker 1: Like if you are possessible what it did, so certain
Speaker 1: compliments you can't even receive that Like for me, like
Speaker 1: one of my homeboys, being that I'm in a relationship,
Speaker 1: I don't even talk to him right now because I
Speaker 1: know the nigga gonna say some slick ship. And I
Speaker 1: know if my nigga said or here, but you're really
Speaker 1: keeping him on the back burning end and k you
Speaker 1: want to sun him to that's what you know, Okay,
Speaker 1: but still your boy. But being comfortable in a relationship
Speaker 1: with him being your boarding what you mean you say
Speaker 1: she said, you're not talking to him because you know
Speaker 1: when you gonna say something, talk to him based off
Speaker 1: of the ship that he'll say. So why are you
Speaker 1: keeping him around if you know? Okay, so when you
Speaker 1: get with of your nigga or whatever. Okay, now, when
Speaker 1: you're and your dude get into it, then you you're
Speaker 1: gonna be talking to you. I don't call him when
Speaker 1: we are that's bullshit. I feel like that makes me
Speaker 1: a bullshit bit. I'm not gonna call him when we
Speaker 1: at oys. I'm saying when I'm in a relation, when
Speaker 1: you with the relationships, that's what happened to go south?
Speaker 1: It can it be your boy game? Yeah, when we're not,
Speaker 1: When I'm not in a relationship, my friend come back. Okay,
Speaker 1: when your friend come back? When he back, that means
Speaker 1: he's a potential funck. No, it's not if you know
Speaker 1: where to fuck you, right, I guess. So why y'all
Speaker 1: being freend get a niggas young sory? You know he
Speaker 1: won't as long as you Yeah, it's cheating because look back,
Speaker 1: if I don't do nothing that by dealing with him. No,
Speaker 1: I don't, I said in a relationship, So I don't
Speaker 1: don't see him. But when I'm not in a relationship
Speaker 1: that nigga not like, But did you got to cull
Speaker 1: him off to be in a relationship? That mean y'all
Speaker 1: in a relationship? No, it does not feel the same way,
Speaker 1: because why why won't you? You got certain people that's
Speaker 1: been your friend for so long, they just don't get
Speaker 1: hold you with like, I just don't get friendships that
Speaker 1: more important to your relationship though it's not. That's why
Speaker 1: you cut the ship off on your in a relationship.
Speaker 1: You didn't cut it off your boy. What boy? We
Speaker 1: don't talk my boy? Eventually he's going to be your boy. Boy. No,
Speaker 1: he not your toys. I expect your man and be
Speaker 1: comfortable with that. Though you wouldn't be comfortable with me.
Speaker 1: I said, we don't talk, so I I mean my
Speaker 1: niggle watched the show. If y'all out, if y'all don't
Speaker 1: run into him, you gonna treat like your boy, almost
Speaker 1: treating like what's okay? You know, saying a man, it's up,
Speaker 1: this is my boy though you know for real? Though,
Speaker 1: I mean people, I don't think everybody don't know bullshit.
Speaker 1: I mean people just move different. I don't heard about
Speaker 1: some relationships and how they move and it ain't nowhere
Speaker 1: near my ship, but maybe I ain't. You just got yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: You just gotta with stop, just like when me and
Speaker 1: my friends. Not to cut you out, just like with
Speaker 1: me and my friends. Like I know this might sound
Speaker 1: crazy or whatever, but the way that we greet each other,
Speaker 1: like smacking on the They smacked me on the ass
Speaker 1: about nothing. It's not nothing sexual or no chip like that.
Speaker 1: But it's just like when I got into that che
Speaker 1: like that, that's cheating and they got girlfriends. And that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It had have to stop. But he
Speaker 1: had to say somebody because he said something to me like,
Speaker 1: don't be doing that. But but that's just how But
Speaker 1: she was supposed to put it into that though. Okay,
Speaker 1: So at the end of that's like you like it,
Speaker 1: you change. Note she stopped. It's not gonna just automatically
Speaker 1: just just stop cold. Let you stop. Now, that's a
Speaker 1: big fact. I get stop that everything. Who ever thought
Speaker 1: to playing like that? When you're playing like that, this
Speaker 1: nigga crazy and he is crazy. So that's why I
Speaker 1: cut off. Man, I know that. That's what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to tell you. So at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: and I had I really respect that though, because I
Speaker 1: just put myself in your shoes. Like a matter of fact,
Speaker 1: I ain't even brough him to be in the call
Speaker 1: with niggas because I know that's just how I am
Speaker 1: doing around with you. Know what I'm saying that, don't
Speaker 1: go like that, bro, even though we know and everybody know,
Speaker 1: but still he don't know. They ain't gonna never know.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna never understand why you got a male friend. Damn.
Speaker 1: It's crazy how life's biggest conundrum cheating What I think
Speaker 1: you can have to talk about me? Now? You talking
Speaker 1: about your friends, You talk to your friend about your man, Well, no,
Speaker 1: I don't. Didn't gonna get you back with me. I have.
Speaker 1: That's all I got is male friends because I don't
Speaker 1: have any old friends. So it's like what it is
Speaker 1: your dude is dealing with ann. But on the other
Speaker 1: end of that, if i'm your your your male friend,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear you talk about your because
Speaker 1: I'm trying to funk. I don't give a funk about you,
Speaker 1: gonna listen to nothing anything. I don't bigger diary for
Speaker 1: that pusson. I don't really give a funk. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're telling me that you're not your ear
Speaker 1: don't But then again, I got back to what you
Speaker 1: said in the previous episode about a nigga knowing what
Speaker 1: he got before he even gets her. But you think
Speaker 1: about it, don't matter what I got. It don't matter
Speaker 1: what I got. Cut the nigga and I am. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna have you and your feelings sometimes that
Speaker 1: I don't know what you might do due to your feelings.
Speaker 1: But you want to drive you, but you want to
Speaker 1: know that I could drive you, but you want to
Speaker 1: know that it ain't gonna go that far. I don't
Speaker 1: know what that some people want. Some anything is possible,
Speaker 1: and do whatever you're gonna do, but you're gonna know
Speaker 1: that I'm not going to fuck you. Ain't gotta fun.
Speaker 1: You don't understand. You ain't gotta be fun. You don't
Speaker 1: even get emotions, don't even emotional. Cheat y'all what you're saying.
Speaker 1: But it's just like it's flirting cheating. No no, oh, well,
Speaker 1: I gotta telling, And then what does it lead? Because
Speaker 1: you're bored? She flirting? Three? What's the definition of firing?
Speaker 1: If you ask a woman what. You could ask a
Speaker 1: one what she's looking at and that could be flirting, right, Huh.
Speaker 1: You can ask a women like, why are you looking
Speaker 1: at me like that? She could take that as you're flirting?
Speaker 1: Is that chet It depends on your It depends on
Speaker 1: your intent because you couldn't be saying what the fun
Speaker 1: you're looking at me for? And she was like, I
Speaker 1: like that type of ship. Now I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 1: You can just walk up to somebody like why are
Speaker 1: you looking at me like that? But why she would
Speaker 1: looking like that? But you asked them why are you
Speaker 1: looking at me like that? And she just said I
Speaker 1: thought that I knew you from somewhere? But would that
Speaker 1: be flirting? Is flirting because you look question? Damn? They
Speaker 1: look like somebody I know? But that's my damn okay,
Speaker 1: but look, my question is it was? It depends on
Speaker 1: because it's no because you you you. But I asked
Speaker 1: her in a way like you would make her feel
Speaker 1: some type of way. Father been like, hey baby, you
Speaker 1: already eat food. You're looking at me like you want
Speaker 1: to eat me. I'm crying. Yeah, flirting is advertising you
Speaker 1: because you bought are you? If you don't mind me
Speaker 1: asking Sunday big. So yeah, I'll see and see. That's
Speaker 1: another thing. Two years your cat except some best friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we try a relationship, you know, women go out, we
Speaker 1: get Florida at all the time. I phone numbers. Oh
Speaker 1: keep guys, when you saw I don't let me ask
Speaker 1: you one question. Man, When you say when, okay, when
Speaker 1: you when you say phone numbers, that's not expect or
Speaker 1: Oh you're just collecting the numbers. No, she's yes, she said, Oh,
Speaker 1: you mean like somebody slides you an unsolicited phone number
Speaker 1: while you're out, and you rip it up in their
Speaker 1: face and say, hey, Mary, she's saying, she saying she
Speaker 1: will take it for what it is and then I'm
Speaker 1: not about to use this. I feel I get the
Speaker 1: married years myself, but I have done things because taking
Speaker 1: a number and give you another two different things. But
Speaker 1: it's a difference exactly, she said. Different what she's sayingship
Speaker 1: they have trusted and things that they know. In my relationship,
Speaker 1: I feel like I've done things that I'm not trusted.
Speaker 1: So if I'm not trusted, I can't trust it. So
Speaker 1: you can't can't trust yourself? You Yeah, yeah, because of what?
Speaker 1: Because of that you've done? Yes, it's like you're basically
Speaker 1: projecting your insecurity about your trust onto Schanta. No exactly,
Speaker 1: And I'm and I'm looking at it pestimistic and looking pestimistic.
Speaker 1: You and another dude can't do that, but in the
Speaker 1: bad because you thinking about that's how I am if
Speaker 1: I'm working with a female. If yes, you're judging off
Speaker 1: the way that you think, So how else can I judge? Well,
Speaker 1: everybody like that, I get it. That's gonna saying I'm
Speaker 1: talking about to me, I can't say what nobody else
Speaker 1: relationship is. You know what I'm saying. Because she may
Speaker 1: get she may get flirted on and make her want
Speaker 1: to be with her husband in a different way. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I can't say that for everybody. Wasn't
Speaker 1: that was saying he'll watch the type of his wife
Speaker 1: getting sucked. And I can't say what other people do
Speaker 1: in their relationship. All I can speak on is Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why I say it's it's situation by situation. We
Speaker 1: have boundaries, right, So that's just what it is. Man,
Speaker 1: I don't it's subjective. Let's go to another subject of conundrum.
Speaker 1: So what's another conundrum that's not cheating because chea didn't
Speaker 1: seem to be the biggest, the biggest, that's the biggest,
Speaker 1: the biggest, they're just they're just the biggest to us.
Speaker 1: I guess it's some ship. Yeah, yeah, there's other conundrums,
Speaker 1: but I think cheating is a big if we we
Speaker 1: was in front of thousands of people, they all have
Speaker 1: something to say and a difference, something to say. There's
Speaker 1: no one answer to that ship. We just saw that fact,
Speaker 1: no one answer to it. No. I respect that queen,
Speaker 1: I respects, but you have to be in a different space,
Speaker 1: like I said, you have to be in a different
Speaker 1: space in your relationship. Another conundrum is stealing. She just
Speaker 1: kind of well, not as grudge as stealing. So stealing,
Speaker 1: what do you mean feeling from corporation? Yeah, that's that's
Speaker 1: what I'm just getting ready to a lot of people,
Speaker 1: a lot of people that still or that misappropriate funds
Speaker 1: or whatever, feel like if they're taking from a corporation,
Speaker 1: like the robin Hood syndrome, Like if they're taking from
Speaker 1: a corporation, the corporation can stand it as opposed to
Speaker 1: them stealing out of their grandma's person. Like that question. Uh,
Speaker 1: it's more dilemma. It's a moral conundrum, yeah, I think. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that that goes along with the moral compass that
Speaker 1: we talked about earlier, the moral conunction do you still
Speaker 1: do you not? Still? Who do you quote unquote still scammers?
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you're a scammer, are you scamming
Speaker 1: every average, everyday person? Scam the motherfucker's scam Bank of America? Well, Fargo,
Speaker 1: don't scan the motherfucker. That's that's trying to get back
Speaker 1: this make a batter guy ship. But he gave his
Speaker 1: last ship to you. Now you're gonna take an info
Speaker 1: and take him everything he don't got. Don't be wrong
Speaker 1: and wrong? He said, wrong is wrong. Wrong. Wrong is
Speaker 1: a collunctive that's subjective, that's subjective wrong. Don't you don't
Speaker 1: you get that feeling with you're doing something wrong? Some
Speaker 1: people don't, like we just talked about land time. Yea,
Speaker 1: because what's wrong? Because somebody has been wrong? They whole
Speaker 1: life and it started the wrong life. That's that's that's
Speaker 1: the ship that's been happening. I don't even saying that.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, what's wrong to you? What might not
Speaker 1: be wrong to me? Yeah, that's true. Based upon He
Speaker 1: may be wrong to me that you throw trash out
Speaker 1: the wonder because I might be what you call it environmentalist,
Speaker 1: but you feel like, man, get this out by car.
Speaker 1: That's mean and you don't think that that's wrong? Literally yes, right,
Speaker 1: or just dunking dough that ship, I mean more compass.
Speaker 1: We're not get big showing a cheat on that man.
Speaker 1: You know, she just be kicking it. I don't cheat.
Speaker 1: Women don't cheat. Who kicking it's? Black women don't cheat.
Speaker 1: We sure don't. You're that's some bullshit, you know. I
Speaker 1: don't mean women don't. So the people with the black
Speaker 1: women that we don't see cheat don't cheat. They don't cheat.
Speaker 1: We see man, I see man like it just fucked up.
Speaker 1: Man like the world makes you kind of pestimistic man ship,
Speaker 1: you know, I seen it like that makes you know
Speaker 1: she did that. I've seen a woman cheating a hard
Speaker 1: man in the cloud while man was in the cloud.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I don't saying can go both ways
Speaker 1: cheat like that man. That's an opinion. Women, do you
Speaker 1: think she cheated? They probably didn't already say like oh
Speaker 1: we're on some open ship, or he probably didn't do
Speaker 1: some dumb ships. Women cheat. Everybody cheat. You're making up something. Now,
Speaker 1: Black women don't cheatin. Not to say that all the
Speaker 1: lot of everybody ever woman cheat than it does for
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say some is harder for
Speaker 1: for women, noted for women to go all the way.
Speaker 1: But I don't think I'm saying that It just take
Speaker 1: the right nigger. It take a lot more talk. She
Speaker 1: ain't met the right nigga. So you keep not allowing,
Speaker 1: but you keep accepting friendliness. What does she get friendly
Speaker 1: with the right person? What's she shots with the right person? Facts,
Speaker 1: she's gonna cheat, She's gonna phoe school. There's there's a
Speaker 1: key to every lot, But there is there more than
Speaker 1: one that's different the more than when you start accepting
Speaker 1: dates and gifts and compliments overly, that's engaging, texting and
Speaker 1: sending pictures, emojis and ship Yeah, y'all got PTSD, y'all
Speaker 1: yack up, y'all beginning the relationship right? How does relationship
Speaker 1: starts friends? Is there more? Is there more than one
Speaker 1: key to every life? Is the more than one key
Speaker 1: to every life? Is there more than one key to
Speaker 1: every lock? Yeah? It depends on what the lock started
Speaker 1: the lot making that ship if the story you can
Speaker 1: pick the lock on a locker, but I say that
Speaker 1: home crazy. It's hard to pick got a god dollar?
Speaker 1: What's your question? Show there's more than one. I feel
Speaker 1: like that the hen is bro. So you think I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be one hunter? You think your wife don't see
Speaker 1: her type every day? She wake up, especially type three
Speaker 1: thousand times. So you're saying you're a woman, don't see
Speaker 1: her type every day? She was more than type though.
Speaker 1: The luck is open, open all the way. Like every
Speaker 1: woman definitely looks if they see a guy that's like
Speaker 1: they're gonna look. Every woman definitely gonna do that. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying the lock. The lock remains locked when it's
Speaker 1: not too accessible. Bro, when you make yourself accessible, that
Speaker 1: means you want to be paid. I give you that. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I give you that. I get that. You can see
Speaker 1: your type and be still still like you're well married
Speaker 1: on me, but you still can't know what you're attracted
Speaker 1: to right and respect what you got by having up
Speaker 1: having your having your you know what I'm saying, your
Speaker 1: aura about yourself like that's she like you can see
Speaker 1: a woman she got had a ring going on there.
Speaker 1: You can tell she into what she got? She cool,
Speaker 1: she good? You can see a woman next she could
Speaker 1: I see her opening? Right, guy? Yeah, you can the
Speaker 1: door like question to every look because all of us
Speaker 1: have a lot. This is the conundrum and all of
Speaker 1: us have a door. Yeah, I feel like it's the
Speaker 1: key to it. But it's the only way the key
Speaker 1: gonna get turned. Right, It's gotta be out there to
Speaker 1: get turned. That makes the world. It's the woman. It's
Speaker 1: the man and the woman. If you want to go,
Speaker 1: you're gonna go. If you don't, you're not no matter
Speaker 1: how you feel, like how you feel, but they're not.
Speaker 1: But I feel like you can. You can treat yourself
Speaker 1: into into places by trying to be cool. M m.
Speaker 1: You can treat yourself into a situation when you fall
Speaker 1: in love somebody don't be intentional, right right, unless you
Speaker 1: just go out on a date with him. But like
Speaker 1: I said, you could be working with somebody. You could
Speaker 1: be around somebody every day and start to love that
Speaker 1: person as a friend and then depending on how they
Speaker 1: treat you. You know, like you said, dude, you know
Speaker 1: that he wanted he wanna he want to take things
Speaker 1: to another level. But I'm just saying, you know, if
Speaker 1: he could he wants to Okay, cool, what if he
Speaker 1: say the right ship one thing or do the right
Speaker 1: thing that you can't overlook because y'all already I'm built
Speaker 1: the relationship right you're under staying this show, My boy.
Speaker 1: We are and I'm built that that we that we
Speaker 1: have a mutual friendship like this is a friendship. We
Speaker 1: are friends. I catch you at the right vulnerable time.
Speaker 1: Who just say, what's gonna happen? How many times you
Speaker 1: think of this? Feel like that was a mistake? Wake
Speaker 1: up running because you don't drop this cost of me
Speaker 1: going there? Set on the nigga dick about why that situation?
Speaker 1: How did yeah my bad beat me up? I got yeah,
Speaker 1: we didn't trick some this ship. I don't some of
Speaker 1: that's rock. It's been tracking Sprinceles and everything. How you
Speaker 1: you know what this ship gon leaves? I'm crying because
Speaker 1: don't lick her and Sprisser's and rock and daily on block,
Speaker 1: consume Goo snail, don't get that ship, make start throwing.
Speaker 1: Get your man? Where am I tripping? Liquor conundrum? Still
Speaker 1: on tripping man? You all got the well, got the
Speaker 1: revote studio. Now y'all got boozed like guy, y'all got
Speaker 1: lights and big as counting that even Nigga booze spirits
Speaker 1: whole other conundrums. Spirits is a whole other conundrum. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that looks like alcohol. They say, if you blame it
Speaker 1: on the alcohol, out the real person. Really what's already there?
Speaker 1: You believe that, I totally believes. But they get drunk.
Speaker 1: But you don't want to say that. You shouldn't need
Speaker 1: that to look a courage Yea, you didn't want to
Speaker 1: say that, So I believe you. You can't change on
Speaker 1: my brow. Drunk boy, you yeah, you take your girl out.
Speaker 1: She gets drunk until you get drunk. She started acting different,
Speaker 1: that's her. But she did that around you, just the
Speaker 1: real deal. That's her, bro, take a mental picture of that.
Speaker 1: That's how she when she's not around she controlled that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Control that stiffness around you
Speaker 1: that look at make she loose. That's how she got
Speaker 1: with the with the girls. She'd be at the red
Speaker 1: lights working on the headlights. But ain't nobody the same
Speaker 1: away from the mate. I'm gonna give you here, Yeah, facts,
Speaker 1: how M right? Right, huh, well you say when you
Speaker 1: say same you somebody, you're not doing the same activities
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't normally do. You're not as kind from
Speaker 1: walking down the street with goddamn three and see if
Speaker 1: fine bits on my damn walking down streaking my bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at at that ship from the front holder.
Speaker 1: I'm not fitted turned back and look at You're different.
Speaker 1: You gotta imagine what this ship might look like your youth.
Speaker 1: You gotta figure out something to do. You gotta drop
Speaker 1: you just look oh ship right wrong? So you're different.
Speaker 1: You're not flirting in front of your man. You're not
Speaker 1: accepting compliments period. You're crazy, like too crazy. You're mad
Speaker 1: when you do that round, you're like when I went
Speaker 1: right here, you know you'll be got there, jous. So
Speaker 1: the telund is how you acting around you? How you
Speaker 1: acting when you're at your shorty No but trust y'all
Speaker 1: women around freends, let them hang out that all night.
Speaker 1: Let's see you out because not how trust your woman exactly,
Speaker 1: Trust your woman, trust your heart, trash your woman, trust
Speaker 1: your guard, trust your wanting. No, trust your heart, trust
Speaker 1: your woman, that woman in heart and listen to this
Speaker 1: what's going on. Listen to your woman. She's trying to
Speaker 1: set it up. She's gonna run off and do all
Speaker 1: types of crazy. You knew. I was like, that's when
Speaker 1: you met me. That was just sending it up. What
Speaker 1: did you go you sign? Where's the coda? Trust your woman?
Speaker 1: I don't sign that woman being innocent to improven guilty
Speaker 1: though it's definitely ship. It's proved me you're innocent, not
Speaker 1: some good ship innocent. You know your girls like that
Speaker 1: before she became your girl. Now if you know she
Speaker 1: gonna fold. You know you just said before the show
Speaker 1: that it depends on relationship. Bro, If you're starting a
Speaker 1: relationship from the ground up, you gotta tr You gotta
Speaker 1: trust me to some extent to start building with them.
Speaker 1: To somebody, I'm kicking it and then y'all been six
Speaker 1: months that you ain't knowing him, but six months you've
Speaker 1: gotta trust him a little bit. Relationship, it has to
Speaker 1: be some type of trust there. If you didn't want
Speaker 1: to have some type not ultimate trust is game. Do
Speaker 1: you think every relationship comes with insecurities? For sure? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that's life. You're gonna have insecurity. Okay, due to
Speaker 1: human natures and the way we was raising the things
Speaker 1: we've seen women crying. I've never done this before, but
Speaker 1: she taking them boes off. I've never done this to
Speaker 1: him before, but she getting naked and got damn, you're
Speaker 1: gonna suck it like that? Usually don't do this. You're special.
Speaker 1: I don't tell nobody heard that before, Like, come on, man,
Speaker 1: this is whole nundrum. This is a whole nun drum.
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't want I'll have a question
Speaker 1: before we before why is it that like men could
Speaker 1: be out here sucking and now here we go, men
Speaker 1: could be out here fucking and sucking I mean sucking
Speaker 1: and licking on whatever, sucking and licking on they want to. However,
Speaker 1: loan they want to and it's not a big thing.
Speaker 1: But a woman she has to have all her sex.
Speaker 1: She got me the freak is the sloppi ist, all
Speaker 1: that ship. But she can't do that with more than
Speaker 1: one person. You know what I'm saying, Like if a woman,
Speaker 1: a woman can't say, oh, I've had sex with like
Speaker 1: you can't because it's something out there that except that
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this nigga that don't except that something
Speaker 1: is cool with that. It's I mean, I guess. I
Speaker 1: guess like it's just been it's been like that, like
Speaker 1: from the beginning of time, Like the woman is held
Speaker 1: to a different standard than the man is held to,
Speaker 1: especially when it comes to marriages, relationships, all that ship
Speaker 1: because back in the day, like fucking women are supposed
Speaker 1: to be nurturers and women supposed to be nurturals. Man,
Speaker 1: that's what happened man, all the it's just hurn different.
Speaker 1: Like you gotta think a woman and a man could
Speaker 1: be married for sixty years. What the grandkids gonna say,
Speaker 1: we're going over our grandma house, We're going over mom
Speaker 1: going on my mom out. You're another here to say
Speaker 1: I'm going to my dad's house and we stay together.
Speaker 1: Who else is it? Female? Who else is So that
Speaker 1: means who's the one to show morals and show teach
Speaker 1: that type of shoot your backbone on the phone and
Speaker 1: then not supposed to have them. They do, but they
Speaker 1: kind of relaxed for me. That's your Like if you're
Speaker 1: riding down street, see nae, look at a nigga pistle,
Speaker 1: you right down street? Seal wanna look at that nashtay pissed?
Speaker 1: Am I right? A wrong ship? Different? We can't be woman.
Speaker 1: We gotta pull over, nigga, pull on side of the
Speaker 1: street and piss and then ain't that Yeah even though
Speaker 1: my I pull on, let my wife piss on the
Speaker 1: side of the spreadway. But I'm just saying she exposed,
Speaker 1: may could be exposed on higling that you come to
Speaker 1: your deck up. Woman gotta squat do all that right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: which one little nash. Yeah, we can't act like motheruer's
Speaker 1: are saying now like ship different men and women of
Speaker 1: conundr the biggest you know what I mean, that's the
Speaker 1: that's the essence of a conundru female female. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know about masculinity and femininity. It's just oh,
Speaker 1: I guess some people have different opinions on what a
Speaker 1: man of woman should do or whatever the cases. But
Speaker 1: some things are just kind of understood, like the man
Speaker 1: is supposed to be the provider and then don't get
Speaker 1: it right, that's what y'all want, So the man don't
Speaker 1: want the woman to have it together and be the backbone. Naturally,
Speaker 1: it's different and differences. We come from a different era though,
Speaker 1: don't look at it like that. But they're trying to
Speaker 1: maintain a piece of that Wow, women do have more
Speaker 1: rights and ship and our any more than they were
Speaker 1: back in the fifties and six. We come from an
Speaker 1: era where we wanted our women to be more like correcta.
Speaker 1: No matter what Correca did on King or whatever, nigga
Speaker 1: to look of it was she ain't remarried, she ain't
Speaker 1: di she ain't that. You know what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 1: who That's what we was modeled behind. They the rules
Speaker 1: have reversed, like the women taking care of these nigga's.
Speaker 1: So I can't do that but treat you like a bit.
Speaker 1: I should may have more than one nigga. You're a bitch,
Speaker 1: right right, Yeah, that's heavy. But the we come from
Speaker 1: brand Dad ain't playing by grandmama. Man, We opened what
Speaker 1: he has or whatever. Grand Mama never stayed out period,
Speaker 1: right that of my goddamn not call home a couple
Speaker 1: of nights. You never seen Grandma sleeping nowhere else. He
Speaker 1: never really saying the house like that. No, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying like, that's when we come from. So those are
Speaker 1: more that we can't break, is man. But they go.
Speaker 1: It all goes back to got said. Even with the
Speaker 1: toxic ship, it's all about what you came up on
Speaker 1: and what you saw, that's what we saw. But these
Speaker 1: the kids nowadays, a younger generation. But I can't say
Speaker 1: that they're wrong. Different They was raised by about different
Speaker 1: ships differ. That's what they saw. They saw maybe their
Speaker 1: mom having different niggas in and out the house or
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, whatever, and not having a
Speaker 1: dad present to ensure the household, to make their mom
Speaker 1: the provider and the nurturer and all that ship. So
Speaker 1: they don't know about that kind of ship. But they
Speaker 1: didn't just start though. It's just it's just it's just
Speaker 1: just magnified more now. But it just didn't just start
Speaker 1: like it's been going on. But it was from the
Speaker 1: pond before. Except it's what you call sure not accepted,
Speaker 1: but it's praised. You wanna say it praised to be
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, hot girl? Uh, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's praise like because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, if you look at it, how can
Speaker 1: they not everywhere? How can they not Niggas ain't Nigga's
Speaker 1: first priority. Ain't the household no more? It's some shoes
Speaker 1: called what it is that? So how can I respect
Speaker 1: you how them women usould respect the man no matter what.
Speaker 1: They ain't gonna got to make you them being paid.
Speaker 1: I don't even pack a cigarette and a paint on Friday.
Speaker 1: The rest of this ship go to my wife. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, That's just how it how it
Speaker 1: used to be. But it ain't that. No, but I
Speaker 1: feel like the role of the woman, the woman has changed,
Speaker 1: not since the role of the woman has changed his
Speaker 1: then too, Like they're not saying that like back then
Speaker 1: women couldn't get a bank account but without a due.
Speaker 1: Now these motherfuckers, some some of these women making more
Speaker 1: than niggas on their own hold on exactly exactly. So
Speaker 1: like the road that like the traditional ship we grew
Speaker 1: up on, that ship ain't the same. No, no, so
Speaker 1: you can't. It's a connunity as to be seeing him
Speaker 1: trying to figure that out. You can't be asking what
Speaker 1: I feel like. You can't be asking a woman to
Speaker 1: be submissive if you're not taking care of the home's exactly,
Speaker 1: if you're not taking care of your your duties and
Speaker 1: responsibilities that may not provided, you can't ask a woman
Speaker 1: to be submissive. And that, like as much of niggers
Speaker 1: hate that minute that comes with being an earner, somebody
Speaker 1: that's gonna take care of bills. Make sure your women straight.
Speaker 1: She shouldn't be. She shouldn't be, she shouldn't have to
Speaker 1: be exactly being kept. You gotta be worrying about what
Speaker 1: the light's gonna be on next month and next month
Speaker 1: or not exactly. We got to the bottom of the
Speaker 1: canunsdrums today on Big Facts Friday and the final words, um,
Speaker 1: all kylie women cheat? How don't cheat? Let's put that
Speaker 1: out there. I don't cheat. The whole set is a hater,
Speaker 1: but I don't cheat. You should you cheated? I never
Speaker 1: told you? She was saying she cheated. She got dude,
Speaker 1: she got oh yeah, not now, No, not the one.
Speaker 1: You gotta get that one that you don't want, You
Speaker 1: don't She probably had one to want it, but this
Speaker 1: ain't that the keys of the lock. Thank you? There
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