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Speaker 1: j Big Homi, Kodak, Shot Jones And it's time for

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Speaker 1: another episode of Big Facts Friday. What's up? What's up?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Homies? What's up? Family? Everybody feeling beautiful? Day?

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Speaker 1: Is a life amazing really good? Yeah, life is wonderful,

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Speaker 1: amazing good to be alive and healthy and here free

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Speaker 1: and anyway? What's our? What's our? What's our word for today?

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Speaker 1: What are we building on today? What's the Okay? Our

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Speaker 1: word read today is conundrum? And conundrum is a difficult

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Speaker 1: question or riddle, especially one using a play on words

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Speaker 1: and the answer or a difficult choice or decision that

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Speaker 1: must be made. So what's some examples of a conundrum? Um?

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Speaker 1: Is the glass half empty or half fool? Yep, because

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Speaker 1: that's like a riddle. Question? Okay? To be or not

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Speaker 1: to be? Question? Is the question? What is the answer? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: a conundrum that I was that I was looking at

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Speaker 1: or whatever is whether or not you tell the truth

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Speaker 1: to your partner or spouse about certain things to make

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Speaker 1: them feel comfortable within themselves. So do you tell the

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Speaker 1: truth to your spouse about if you cheated, not really cheating,

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Speaker 1: but if you like their hair, or if they if

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Speaker 1: you think that they put on some pounds or some

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Speaker 1: that conundrum that's just a lot, is it a lot?

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Speaker 1: Of It's a lot if you if you don't like

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Speaker 1: But if you say you don't like that, but it's

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Speaker 1: not a malicious lot. But if you say you don't

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Speaker 1: like the hair, and it brings on a bigger issue

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Speaker 1: to the truth, the truth set you free, and then

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Speaker 1: they can't handle how many people are really find to

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Speaker 1: an argument at home every night? Avoid argument? You could

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Speaker 1: avoid it like, so would you rather walk around and

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Speaker 1: the avoidance of tippy toeing against people feelings and lying

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Speaker 1: to yourself and others or around? No, for sure, But

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, don't make it an abbot of just like

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Speaker 1: the instance of the hair, Like just because you don't

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Speaker 1: like the hair doesn't mean that somebody else or somebody

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Speaker 1: else might like it. Like that I tell the truth,

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Speaker 1: but I don't like that because you gotta you still,

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Speaker 1: we gotta walk around together. But she cooked me something

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Speaker 1: good because if she started making it all the time,

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Speaker 1: I'm ana helper making we need you probably need I

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Speaker 1: like it. I like the last tell you did, but

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Speaker 1: some more seasoning. I ain't even gonna say it Nash.

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Speaker 1: If it Nash, you know what I'm saying. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is good because you made it with love. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all ever had like on your birthday, like christmhen somebody

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Speaker 1: most commundrums the president, any politician anything, Scientists for sure, doctors,

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Speaker 1: how should they can't figure it out? That's a riddle,

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Speaker 1: Chemo would be a conundrum because chemo, you have to

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Speaker 1: trying to find period with minimal side effects is a conundrum.

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Speaker 1: a conundrum. And enigma is like a mystery or a

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Speaker 1: problem is similar to a conundrum. But a conundrum has

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Speaker 1: difficult choice or decision. Yes, that means you got to

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Speaker 1: politicians have many conundrums, doctors, scientists have many conundrums. But

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Speaker 1: we have conundrums, right, Yeah, But wouldn't it be like,

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Speaker 1: what's a conundrum for you? Can be could not? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Could it not be a conundrum for me? Because isn't

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Speaker 1: it sation? Sure, a conundrum could be choosing your outfit

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Speaker 1: And that's just like that could be the same. Lying

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Speaker 1: some people, And I'm just saying like some people might

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Speaker 1: some people, cheating could be conversation. Some people, cheating could

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Speaker 1: be going out with What do you consider cheating? Starting up?

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Speaker 1: What do you start cheating? What you mean is it

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Speaker 1: Thinking that that's what she did is not controlling that

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Speaker 1: have y'all have a y'all have an understanding that we

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Speaker 1: don't think about other ship. We don't physically and act

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Speaker 1: like if a if a girl walked, if a stripper

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Speaker 1: come right here and started dancing, all you mean, married

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Speaker 1: how And that's like cheating, right right, I guess because

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Speaker 1: you gonna then when you don't want to come tell

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Speaker 1: the nigga? Well, you know guess what he said to me.

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Speaker 1: he voted to say, I'm gonna try. But when about

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Speaker 1: what I mean in close quarter together. We don't staying

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Speaker 1: slept lights straight up? This ain't that? Am I right around? No? No,

420
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: you're right. The out of your mindset is different. You know.

421
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 1: Here they would fully agree with her. They just kind

422
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: of more like light boys walking up on every homeboy,

423
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: like looking them up and down. And I'm home boys

424
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: don't do that. But like I could sit there and

425
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: have conversations with my home all of that, and I

426
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: don't feel like, I mean, I don't know I agree

427
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm kind of stiff. I don't

428
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: be if I don't feel like I'm friendly, So I

429
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: don't feel like Nick's gonna come to me and say

430
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: anything to me. But at the same time, I don't

431
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: feel like if a woman is fine and fly and

432
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: she's having conversation with the man at this point, he

433
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: could fuck But what's the conversation about. And if it

434
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: ain't about the beaches or the work, what we're doing,

435
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: why what we're gonna get? Person? Why the fucking metal?

436
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: What I ate last night? Don't ask me if my

437
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 1: day was. Yeah, well we should have emotional no personal interaction. No, no, no,

438
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 1: I gotta I got I gotta doAnd hey, I agree

439
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: with everything, but I gotta kind of disagree with that

440
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: because me, like, okay, like me and my friends are

441
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: homeboys or whatever. Like we talk about all kind of ships,

442
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: but not different though. I'm talk about answer a colleague,

443
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: a colleague, friends you work with, like you're actually friends

444
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,959
Speaker 1: with these people. That's different, and you work with your friends,

445
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: that's different. I'm talking about if I come in this motherfucker,

446
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 1: these these women been behind these cameras and ship. I'm

447
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 1: not talking to these women about ship, but what's going

448
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: on here, So what did they go to lunch? And

449
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: they're talking about what they feel to do with the

450
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: other person this weekend. We're going on talking to my

451
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: wife on my phone. Why the funk am I saying

452
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: with somebody else? Like talking right on with my crew talking?

453
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 1: I feel I feel you just said. That's just how

454
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I look at it. Yeah, there are because I have

455
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: been trained like that. I have been trained like that.

456
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 1: Like I can't be sick, bro, this ship is just crazy.

457
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: But you can't do certain ship, especially when you've been

458
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: in a toxic relationship. Yeah, everybody a little different, but

459
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: I agree with you. Let let's bring this back real

460
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: quick because y'all making me mad. Switch comunks up to God.

461
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: But of the that's one of the biggest conundrus. But

462
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: I know y'all probably gonna agree with me, and y'all

463
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: probably gonna think of nigg on some bullshit. But I

464
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: just I just know what that ship. I just know

465
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: me I could come out. That's a friend. That don't

466
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: mean you don't want the fun. I'm just wait to

467
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: my opening. That's waiting on your opening, man, and wait

468
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: and waiting just like damn. I'm waiting for her to

469
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: do it. Wait, just letting life go back. Eventually, ship,

470
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: she's gonna be an opportunity. No, she's gonna come. You're

471
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: gonna beat up being so nice. You remember her birthday

472
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: or happy birthday. Damn, I ain't even remember all like

473
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: dis nigga for kidding exact exactly you Damn there in

474
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: the relationship this man, Yeah, yeah, damn he did that again.

475
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: Now he did that. He I just you know what

476
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm just telling you what you're worth every day.

477
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: You deserve better. I'm not f going to that. You're

478
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: not like line pushing out line. I'm just telling you. Smile, queen,

479
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: keep your keep, you fix your clown all that ship

480
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: broa banquets, kicking on, trying out, trying to trimming. No,

481
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: you're not tripping. I thank you, sir, and old she saying, no,

482
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: the ain't right. But certain women already know that, right,

483
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: facts facts, Certain women already know that if you want,

484
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: if you got them, got one of the teeth. Is

485
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: teaching your teeth of that white not a teach She

486
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: ain't afraid to lose you. No better, she's scouting anyway.

487
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: Like from the beginning to me, some people, some people

488
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: will airy as I've traveled, not just say not to

489
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: pick on them, but as you travel, some people are

490
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: aired you why are you looking at me when you're saying? Then,

491
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: as you travel the world, you know that some people

492
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: are just airing, just naive as they don't really mean

493
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: and they might slip into some bullshit, but they're just

494
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: Naive's fun. That's some people. Some women be a fell

495
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: in love with a nigger, bro jacka you being optimistic

496
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: about their friendship? I am crying. So they should speak period,

497
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: Yeah they speak. This is this is the work atmosphere.

498
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna do everything that a man is supposed

499
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: to do for you. Okay, that's how I feel. Yeah,

500
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: I don't Know's just put me in that situation that

501
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: she she's like that, like she friendly. M Yeah, you

502
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: got a nigga, not even with women friendly. You can

503
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: see your friend I don't know, but you can see

504
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: yourself friendly when you when you do got a nigger.

505
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: And I think she friendly with the people she want

506
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: to be friendly with you probably, I don't know. Like

507
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: I got certain like friends right that I would say that, um,

508
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: I would consider friendly. I got certain homeboys that make

509
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: say something like slick ship. Like, but we've been doing

510
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,479
Speaker 1: that since high school. We ain't had sex, but they

511
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: had the chance. I mean, I guess they would, but

512
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: there just don't let your wife go drinking with her

513
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: just when you when you have a nigga doll like

514
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: certain ship, even though it might have been platonic. Certain ship. Certainly,

515
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: even certain platonic ship isn't acceptable when you have a

516
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: nigga or when you're in a relationship, especially when you're

517
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: dealing with a crazy nig I agree with you got

518
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: you got to just possessive over their possession. Yeah, I agree,

519
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: Like if you are possessible what it did, so certain

520
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: compliments you can't even receive that Like for me, like

521
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: one of my homeboys, being that I'm in a relationship,

522
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't even talk to him right now because I

523
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: know the nigga gonna say some slick ship. And I

524
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: know if my nigga said or here, but you're really

525
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: keeping him on the back burning end and k you

526
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: want to sun him to that's what you know, Okay,

527
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: but still your boy. But being comfortable in a relationship

528
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: with him being your boarding what you mean you say

529
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: she said, you're not talking to him because you know

530
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: when you gonna say something, talk to him based off

531
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: of the ship that he'll say. So why are you

532
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: keeping him around if you know? Okay, so when you

533
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: get with of your nigga or whatever. Okay, now, when

534
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: you're and your dude get into it, then you you're

535
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: gonna be talking to you. I don't call him when

536
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: we are that's bullshit. I feel like that makes me

537
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: a bullshit bit. I'm not gonna call him when we

538
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: at oys. I'm saying when I'm in a relation, when

539
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: you with the relationships, that's what happened to go south?

540
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: It can it be your boy game? Yeah, when we're not,

541
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: When I'm not in a relationship, my friend come back. Okay,

542
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: when your friend come back? When he back, that means

543
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: he's a potential funck. No, it's not if you know

544
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: where to fuck you, right, I guess. So why y'all

545
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: being freend get a niggas young sory? You know he

546
00:32:55,800 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: won't as long as you Yeah, it's cheating because look back,

547
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: if I don't do nothing that by dealing with him. No,

548
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't, I said in a relationship, So I don't

549
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: don't see him. But when I'm not in a relationship

550
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: that nigga not like, But did you got to cull

551
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: him off to be in a relationship? That mean y'all

552
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: in a relationship? No, it does not feel the same way,

553
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: because why why won't you? You got certain people that's

554
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: been your friend for so long, they just don't get

555
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: hold you with like, I just don't get friendships that

556
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: more important to your relationship though it's not. That's why

557
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: you cut the ship off on your in a relationship.

558
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: You didn't cut it off your boy. What boy? We

559
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: don't talk my boy? Eventually he's going to be your boy. Boy. No,

560
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: he not your toys. I expect your man and be

561
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: comfortable with that. Though you wouldn't be comfortable with me.

562
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: I said, we don't talk, so I I mean my

563
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: niggle watched the show. If y'all out, if y'all don't

564
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: run into him, you gonna treat like your boy, almost

565
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: treating like what's okay? You know, saying a man, it's up,

566
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: this is my boy though you know for real? Though,

567
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: I mean people, I don't think everybody don't know bullshit.

568
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: I mean people just move different. I don't heard about

569
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 1: some relationships and how they move and it ain't nowhere

570
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,240
Speaker 1: near my ship, but maybe I ain't. You just got yeah, exactly.

571
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: You just gotta with stop, just like when me and

572
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: my friends. Not to cut you out, just like with

573
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: me and my friends. Like I know this might sound

574
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: crazy or whatever, but the way that we greet each other,

575
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: like smacking on the They smacked me on the ass

576
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: about nothing. It's not nothing sexual or no chip like that.

577
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 1: But it's just like when I got into that che

578
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: like that, that's cheating and they got girlfriends. And that's

579
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It had have to stop. But he

580
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: had to say somebody because he said something to me like,

581
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: don't be doing that. But but that's just how But

582
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: she was supposed to put it into that though. Okay,

583
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: So at the end of that's like you like it,

584
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 1: you change. Note she stopped. It's not gonna just automatically

585
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: just just stop cold. Let you stop. Now, that's a

586
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: big fact. I get stop that everything. Who ever thought

587
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: to playing like that? When you're playing like that, this

588
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: nigga crazy and he is crazy. So that's why I

589
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: cut off. Man, I know that. That's what I'm trying

590
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: to tell you. So at the end of the day,

591
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: and I had I really respect that though, because I

592
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: just put myself in your shoes. Like a matter of fact,

593
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: I ain't even brough him to be in the call

594
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: with niggas because I know that's just how I am

595
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 1: doing around with you. Know what I'm saying that, don't

596
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: go like that, bro, even though we know and everybody know,

597
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 1: but still he don't know. They ain't gonna never know.

598
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna never understand why you got a male friend. Damn.

599
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: It's crazy how life's biggest conundrum cheating What I think

600
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: you can have to talk about me? Now? You talking

601
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: about your friends, You talk to your friend about your man, Well, no,

602
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't. Didn't gonna get you back with me. I have.

603
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: That's all I got is male friends because I don't

604
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: have any old friends. So it's like what it is

605
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: your dude is dealing with ann. But on the other

606
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: end of that, if i'm your your your male friend,

607
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear you talk about your because

608
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to funk. I don't give a funk about you,

609
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: gonna listen to nothing anything. I don't bigger diary for

610
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 1: that pusson. I don't really give a funk. I don't

611
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: know what you're telling me that you're not your ear

612
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: don't But then again, I got back to what you

613
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: said in the previous episode about a nigga knowing what

614
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: he got before he even gets her. But you think

615
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: about it, don't matter what I got. It don't matter

616
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 1: what I got. Cut the nigga and I am. I'm

617
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna have you and your feelings sometimes that

618
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what you might do due to your feelings.

619
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: But you want to drive you, but you want to

620
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: know that I could drive you, but you want to

621
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: know that it ain't gonna go that far. I don't

622
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: know what that some people want. Some anything is possible,

623
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: and do whatever you're gonna do, but you're gonna know

624
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: that I'm not going to fuck you. Ain't gotta fun.

625
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: You don't understand. You ain't gotta be fun. You don't

626
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: even get emotions, don't even emotional. Cheat y'all what you're saying.

627
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: But it's just like it's flirting cheating. No no, oh, well,

628
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: I gotta telling, And then what does it lead? Because

629
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: you're bored? She flirting? Three? What's the definition of firing?

630
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: If you ask a woman what. You could ask a

631
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: one what she's looking at and that could be flirting, right, Huh.

632
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: You can ask a women like, why are you looking

633
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: at me like that? She could take that as you're flirting?

634
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: Is that chet It depends on your It depends on

635
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: your intent because you couldn't be saying what the fun

636
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 1: you're looking at me for? And she was like, I

637
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: like that type of ship. Now I'm not talking about that.

638
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: You can just walk up to somebody like why are

639
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: you looking at me like that? But why she would

640
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: looking like that? But you asked them why are you

641
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: looking at me like that? And she just said I

642
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: thought that I knew you from somewhere? But would that

643
00:38:55,800 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: be flirting? Is flirting because you look question? Damn? They

644
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: look like somebody I know? But that's my damn okay,

645
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: but look, my question is it was? It depends on

646
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: because it's no because you you you. But I asked

647
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: her in a way like you would make her feel

648
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: some type of way. Father been like, hey baby, you

649
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 1: already eat food. You're looking at me like you want

650
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: to eat me. I'm crying. Yeah, flirting is advertising you

651
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: because you bought are you? If you don't mind me

652
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: asking Sunday big. So yeah, I'll see and see. That's

653
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: another thing. Two years your cat except some best friend. Yeah,

654
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: we try a relationship, you know, women go out, we

655
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: get Florida at all the time. I phone numbers. Oh

656
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: keep guys, when you saw I don't let me ask

657
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: you one question. Man, When you say when, okay, when

658
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: you when you say phone numbers, that's not expect or

659
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 1: Oh you're just collecting the numbers. No, she's yes, she said, Oh,

660
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: you mean like somebody slides you an unsolicited phone number

661
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 1: while you're out, and you rip it up in their

662
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 1: face and say, hey, Mary, she's saying, she saying she

663
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: will take it for what it is and then I'm

664
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: not about to use this. I feel I get the

665
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: married years myself, but I have done things because taking

666
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: a number and give you another two different things. But

667
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: it's a difference exactly, she said. Different what she's sayingship

668
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: they have trusted and things that they know. In my relationship,

669
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I've done things that I'm not trusted.

670
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: So if I'm not trusted, I can't trust it. So

671
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: you can't can't trust yourself? You Yeah, yeah, because of what?

672
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: Because of that you've done? Yes, it's like you're basically

673
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 1: projecting your insecurity about your trust onto Schanta. No exactly,

674
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: And I'm and I'm looking at it pestimistic and looking pestimistic.

675
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: You and another dude can't do that, but in the

676
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: bad because you thinking about that's how I am if

677
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: I'm working with a female. If yes, you're judging off

678
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: the way that you think, So how else can I judge? Well,

679
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: everybody like that, I get it. That's gonna saying I'm

680
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: talking about to me, I can't say what nobody else

681
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: relationship is. You know what I'm saying. Because she may

682
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: get she may get flirted on and make her want

683
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: to be with her husband in a different way. I

684
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I can't say that for everybody. Wasn't

685
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: that was saying he'll watch the type of his wife

686
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: getting sucked. And I can't say what other people do

687
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: in their relationship. All I can speak on is Yeah,

688
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: that's why I say it's it's situation by situation. We

689
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: have boundaries, right, So that's just what it is. Man,

690
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: I don't it's subjective. Let's go to another subject of conundrum.

691
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 1: So what's another conundrum that's not cheating because chea didn't

692
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: seem to be the biggest, the biggest, that's the biggest,

693
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: the biggest, they're just they're just the biggest to us.

694
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: I guess it's some ship. Yeah, yeah, there's other conundrums,

695
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: but I think cheating is a big if we we

696
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: was in front of thousands of people, they all have

697
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,919
Speaker 1: something to say and a difference, something to say. There's

698
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: no one answer to that ship. We just saw that fact,

699
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: no one answer to it. No. I respect that queen,

700
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: I respects, but you have to be in a different space,

701
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: like I said, you have to be in a different

702
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: space in your relationship. Another conundrum is stealing. She just

703
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: kind of well, not as grudge as stealing. So stealing,

704
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: what do you mean feeling from corporation? Yeah, that's that's

705
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 1: what I'm just getting ready to a lot of people,

706
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people that still or that misappropriate funds

707
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: or whatever, feel like if they're taking from a corporation,

708
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: like the robin Hood syndrome, Like if they're taking from

709
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: a corporation, the corporation can stand it as opposed to

710
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: them stealing out of their grandma's person. Like that question. Uh,

711
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 1: it's more dilemma. It's a moral conundrum, yeah, I think. Yeah,

712
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: so that that goes along with the moral compass that

713
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: we talked about earlier, the moral conunction do you still

714
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: do you not? Still? Who do you quote unquote still scammers?

715
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you're a scammer, are you scamming

716
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: every average, everyday person? Scam the motherfucker's scam Bank of America? Well, Fargo,

717
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: don't scan the motherfucker. That's that's trying to get back

718
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: this make a batter guy ship. But he gave his

719
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 1: last ship to you. Now you're gonna take an info

720
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: and take him everything he don't got. Don't be wrong

721
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: and wrong? He said, wrong is wrong. Wrong. Wrong is

722
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 1: a collunctive that's subjective, that's subjective wrong. Don't you don't

723
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: you get that feeling with you're doing something wrong? Some

724
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: people don't, like we just talked about land time. Yea,

725
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: because what's wrong? Because somebody has been wrong? They whole

726
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: life and it started the wrong life. That's that's that's

727
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: the ship that's been happening. I don't even saying that.

728
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, what's wrong to you? What might not

729
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: be wrong to me? Yeah, that's true. Based upon He

730
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: may be wrong to me that you throw trash out

731
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 1: the wonder because I might be what you call it environmentalist,

732
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: but you feel like, man, get this out by car.

733
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: That's mean and you don't think that that's wrong? Literally yes, right,

734
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 1: or just dunking dough that ship, I mean more compass.

735
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: We're not get big showing a cheat on that man.

736
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 1: You know, she just be kicking it. I don't cheat.

737
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: Women don't cheat. Who kicking it's? Black women don't cheat.

738
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: We sure don't. You're that's some bullshit, you know. I

739
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: don't mean women don't. So the people with the black

740
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: women that we don't see cheat don't cheat. They don't cheat.

741
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: We see man, I see man like it just fucked up.

742
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: Man like the world makes you kind of pestimistic man ship,

743
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: you know, I seen it like that makes you know

744
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: she did that. I've seen a woman cheating a hard

745
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: man in the cloud while man was in the cloud.

746
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I don't saying can go both ways

747
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: cheat like that man. That's an opinion. Women, do you

748
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: think she cheated? They probably didn't already say like oh

749
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: we're on some open ship, or he probably didn't do

750
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 1: some dumb ships. Women cheat. Everybody cheat. You're making up something. Now,

751
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: Black women don't cheatin. Not to say that all the

752
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: lot of everybody ever woman cheat than it does for

753
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say some is harder for

754
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: for women, noted for women to go all the way.

755
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: But I don't think I'm saying that It just take

756
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: the right nigger. It take a lot more talk. She

757
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: ain't met the right nigga. So you keep not allowing,

758
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: but you keep accepting friendliness. What does she get friendly

759
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: with the right person? What's she shots with the right person? Facts,

760
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 1: she's gonna cheat, She's gonna phoe school. There's there's a

761
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: key to every lot, But there is there more than

762
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: one that's different the more than when you start accepting

763
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: dates and gifts and compliments overly, that's engaging, texting and

764
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: sending pictures, emojis and ship Yeah, y'all got PTSD, y'all

765
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: yack up, y'all beginning the relationship right? How does relationship

766
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: starts friends? Is there more? Is there more than one

767
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: key to every life? Is the more than one key

768
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: to every life? Is there more than one key to

769
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: every lock? Yeah? It depends on what the lock started

770
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: the lot making that ship if the story you can

771
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: pick the lock on a locker, but I say that

772
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: home crazy. It's hard to pick got a god dollar?

773
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: What's your question? Show there's more than one. I feel

774
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: like that the hen is bro. So you think I'm

775
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: gonna be one hunter? You think your wife don't see

776
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: her type every day? She wake up, especially type three

777
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: thousand times. So you're saying you're a woman, don't see

778
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: her type every day? She was more than type though.

779
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:28,479
Speaker 1: The luck is open, open all the way. Like every

780
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: woman definitely looks if they see a guy that's like

781
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: they're gonna look. Every woman definitely gonna do that. What

782
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying the lock. The lock remains locked when it's

783
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: not too accessible. Bro, when you make yourself accessible, that

784
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: means you want to be paid. I give you that. Yes, yes,

785
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: I give you that. I get that. You can see

786
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 1: your type and be still still like you're well married

787
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: on me, but you still can't know what you're attracted

788
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: to right and respect what you got by having up

789
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: having your having your you know what I'm saying, your

790
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: aura about yourself like that's she like you can see

791
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: a woman she got had a ring going on there.

792
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: You can tell she into what she got? She cool,

793
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 1: she good? You can see a woman next she could

794
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 1: I see her opening? Right, guy? Yeah, you can the

795
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: door like question to every look because all of us

796
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: have a lot. This is the conundrum and all of

797
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: us have a door. Yeah, I feel like it's the

798
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: key to it. But it's the only way the key

799
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 1: gonna get turned. Right, It's gotta be out there to

800
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: get turned. That makes the world. It's the woman. It's

801
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: the man and the woman. If you want to go,

802
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: you're gonna go. If you don't, you're not no matter

803
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 1: how you feel, like how you feel, but they're not.

804
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 1: But I feel like you can. You can treat yourself

805
00:49:55,840 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: into into places by trying to be cool. M m.

806
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: You can treat yourself into a situation when you fall

807
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: in love somebody don't be intentional, right right, unless you

808
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: just go out on a date with him. But like

809
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: I said, you could be working with somebody. You could

810
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: be around somebody every day and start to love that

811
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: person as a friend and then depending on how they

812
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: treat you. You know, like you said, dude, you know

813
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: that he wanted he wanna he want to take things

814
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: to another level. But I'm just saying, you know, if

815
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: he could he wants to Okay, cool, what if he

816
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: say the right ship one thing or do the right

817
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: thing that you can't overlook because y'all already I'm built

818
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: the relationship right you're under staying this show, My boy.

819
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: We are and I'm built that that we that we

820
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 1: have a mutual friendship like this is a friendship. We

821
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: are friends. I catch you at the right vulnerable time.

822
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: Who just say, what's gonna happen? How many times you

823
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: think of this? Feel like that was a mistake? Wake

824
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: up running because you don't drop this cost of me

825
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: going there? Set on the nigga dick about why that situation?

826
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: How did yeah my bad beat me up? I got yeah,

827
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: we didn't trick some this ship. I don't some of

828
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: that's rock. It's been tracking Sprinceles and everything. How you

829
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: you know what this ship gon leaves? I'm crying because

830
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: don't lick her and Sprisser's and rock and daily on block,

831
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: consume Goo snail, don't get that ship, make start throwing.

832
00:51:54,120 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: Get your man? Where am I tripping? Liquor conundrum? Still

833
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: on tripping man? You all got the well, got the

834
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:11,920
Speaker 1: revote studio. Now y'all got boozed like guy, y'all got

835
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 1: lights and big as counting that even Nigga booze spirits

836
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: whole other conundrums. Spirits is a whole other conundrum. Yeah,

837
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 1: that looks like alcohol. They say, if you blame it

838
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 1: on the alcohol, out the real person. Really what's already there?

839
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: You believe that, I totally believes. But they get drunk.

840
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: But you don't want to say that. You shouldn't need

841
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: that to look a courage Yea, you didn't want to

842
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: say that, So I believe you. You can't change on

843
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: my brow. Drunk boy, you yeah, you take your girl out.

844
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: She gets drunk until you get drunk. She started acting different,

845
00:52:53,800 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 1: that's her. But she did that around you, just the

846
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: real deal. That's her, bro, take a mental picture of that.

847
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: That's how she when she's not around she controlled that,

848
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Control that stiffness around you

849
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: that look at make she loose. That's how she got

850
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:26,839
Speaker 1: with the with the girls. She'd be at the red

851
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: lights working on the headlights. But ain't nobody the same

852
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: away from the mate. I'm gonna give you here, Yeah, facts,

853
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: how M right? Right, huh, well you say when you

854
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: say same you somebody, you're not doing the same activities

855
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't normally do. You're not as kind from

856
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: walking down the street with goddamn three and see if

857
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: fine bits on my damn walking down streaking my bitch,

858
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm looking at at that ship from the front holder.

859
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm not fitted turned back and look at You're different.

860
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: You gotta imagine what this ship might look like your youth.

861
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: You gotta figure out something to do. You gotta drop

862
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: you just look oh ship right wrong? So you're different.

863
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: You're not flirting in front of your man. You're not

864
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: accepting compliments period. You're crazy, like too crazy. You're mad

865
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: when you do that round, you're like when I went

866
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: right here, you know you'll be got there, jous. So

867
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: the telund is how you acting around you? How you

868
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: acting when you're at your shorty No but trust y'all

869
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: women around freends, let them hang out that all night.

870
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: Let's see you out because not how trust your woman exactly,

871
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 1: Trust your woman, trust your heart, trash your woman, trust

872
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,439
Speaker 1: your guard, trust your wanting. No, trust your heart, trust

873
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: your woman, that woman in heart and listen to this

874
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 1: what's going on. Listen to your woman. She's trying to

875
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: set it up. She's gonna run off and do all

876
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: types of crazy. You knew. I was like, that's when

877
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: you met me. That was just sending it up. What

878
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: did you go you sign? Where's the coda? Trust your woman?

879
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: I don't sign that woman being innocent to improven guilty

880
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: though it's definitely ship. It's proved me you're innocent, not

881
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: some good ship innocent. You know your girls like that

882
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: before she became your girl. Now if you know she

883
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: gonna fold. You know you just said before the show

884
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: that it depends on relationship. Bro, If you're starting a

885
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: relationship from the ground up, you gotta tr You gotta

886
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: trust me to some extent to start building with them.

887
00:55:54,640 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: To somebody, I'm kicking it and then y'all been six

888
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: months that you ain't knowing him, but six months you've

889
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: gotta trust him a little bit. Relationship, it has to

890
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: be some type of trust there. If you didn't want

891
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: to have some type not ultimate trust is game. Do

892
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: you think every relationship comes with insecurities? For sure? Yeah,

893
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: because that's life. You're gonna have insecurity. Okay, due to

894
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: human natures and the way we was raising the things

895
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: we've seen women crying. I've never done this before, but

896
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: she taking them boes off. I've never done this to

897
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: him before, but she getting naked and got damn, you're

898
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: gonna suck it like that? Usually don't do this. You're special.

899
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't tell nobody heard that before, Like, come on, man,

900
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: this is whole nundrum. This is a whole nun drum.

901
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't want I'll have a question

902
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 1: before we before why is it that like men could

903
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,359
Speaker 1: be out here sucking and now here we go, men

904
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: could be out here fucking and sucking I mean sucking

905
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: and licking on whatever, sucking and licking on they want to. However,

906
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 1: loan they want to and it's not a big thing.

907
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: But a woman she has to have all her sex.

908
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: She got me the freak is the sloppi ist, all

909
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: that ship. But she can't do that with more than

910
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: one person. You know what I'm saying, Like if a woman,

911
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 1: a woman can't say, oh, I've had sex with like

912
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: you can't because it's something out there that except that

913
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,919
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this nigga that don't except that something

914
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: is cool with that. It's I mean, I guess. I

915
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: guess like it's just been it's been like that, like

916
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: from the beginning of time, Like the woman is held

917
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: to a different standard than the man is held to,

918
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: especially when it comes to marriages, relationships, all that ship

919
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: because back in the day, like fucking women are supposed

920
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: to be nurturers and women supposed to be nurturals. Man,

921
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: that's what happened man, all the it's just hurn different.

922
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: Like you gotta think a woman and a man could

923
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: be married for sixty years. What the grandkids gonna say,

924
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: we're going over our grandma house, We're going over mom

925
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: going on my mom out. You're another here to say

926
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to my dad's house and we stay together.

927
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 1: Who else is it? Female? Who else is So that

928
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: means who's the one to show morals and show teach

929
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: that type of shoot your backbone on the phone and

930
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: then not supposed to have them. They do, but they

931
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: kind of relaxed for me. That's your Like if you're

932
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: riding down street, see nae, look at a nigga pistle,

933
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: you right down street? Seal wanna look at that nashtay pissed?

934
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: Am I right? A wrong ship? Different? We can't be woman.

935
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 1: We gotta pull over, nigga, pull on side of the

936
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: street and piss and then ain't that Yeah even though

937
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: my I pull on, let my wife piss on the

938
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: side of the spreadway. But I'm just saying she exposed,

939
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: may could be exposed on higling that you come to

940
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: your deck up. Woman gotta squat do all that right? Yeah,

941
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: which one little nash. Yeah, we can't act like motheruer's

942
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: are saying now like ship different men and women of

943
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: conundr the biggest you know what I mean, that's the

944
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: that's the essence of a conundru female female. Yeah, well,

945
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: I don't know about masculinity and femininity. It's just oh,

946
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: I guess some people have different opinions on what a

947
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 1: man of woman should do or whatever the cases. But

948
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: some things are just kind of understood, like the man

949
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 1: is supposed to be the provider and then don't get

950
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,439
Speaker 1: it right, that's what y'all want, So the man don't

951
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: want the woman to have it together and be the backbone. Naturally,

952
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 1: it's different and differences. We come from a different era though,

953
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: don't look at it like that. But they're trying to

954
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: maintain a piece of that Wow, women do have more

955
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: rights and ship and our any more than they were

956
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 1: back in the fifties and six. We come from an

957
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 1: era where we wanted our women to be more like correcta.

958
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,439
Speaker 1: No matter what Correca did on King or whatever, nigga

959
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 1: to look of it was she ain't remarried, she ain't

960
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: di she ain't that. You know what I'm saying. That's

961
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 1: who That's what we was modeled behind. They the rules

962
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: have reversed, like the women taking care of these nigga's.

963
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: So I can't do that but treat you like a bit.

964
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: I should may have more than one nigga. You're a bitch,

965
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 1: right right, Yeah, that's heavy. But the we come from

966
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: brand Dad ain't playing by grandmama. Man, We opened what

967
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: he has or whatever. Grand Mama never stayed out period,

968
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: right that of my goddamn not call home a couple

969
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: of nights. You never seen Grandma sleeping nowhere else. He

970
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: never really saying the house like that. No, I'm just

971
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: saying like, that's when we come from. So those are

972
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: more that we can't break, is man. But they go.

973
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: It all goes back to got said. Even with the

974
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: toxic ship, it's all about what you came up on

975
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:05,959
Speaker 1: and what you saw, that's what we saw. But these

976
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: the kids nowadays, a younger generation. But I can't say

977
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: that they're wrong. Different They was raised by about different

978
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: ships differ. That's what they saw. They saw maybe their

979
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: mom having different niggas in and out the house or

980
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, whatever, and not having a

981
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: dad present to ensure the household, to make their mom

982
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: the provider and the nurturer and all that ship. So

983
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 1: they don't know about that kind of ship. But they

984
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: didn't just start though. It's just it's just it's just

985
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: just magnified more now. But it just didn't just start

986
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: like it's been going on. But it was from the

987
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: pond before. Except it's what you call sure not accepted,

988
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: but it's praised. You wanna say it praised to be

989
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, hot girl? Uh, you know

990
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's praise like because at the end

991
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: of the day, if you look at it, how can

992
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: they not everywhere? How can they not Niggas ain't Nigga's

993
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: first priority. Ain't the household no more? It's some shoes

994
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: called what it is that? So how can I respect

995
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: you how them women usould respect the man no matter what.

996
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: They ain't gonna got to make you them being paid.

997
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't even pack a cigarette and a paint on Friday.

998
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: The rest of this ship go to my wife. You

999
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, That's just how it how it

1000
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: used to be. But it ain't that. No, but I

1001
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: feel like the role of the woman, the woman has changed,

1002
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: not since the role of the woman has changed his

1003
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 1: then too, Like they're not saying that like back then

1004
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: women couldn't get a bank account but without a due.

1005
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: Now these motherfuckers, some some of these women making more

1006
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: than niggas on their own hold on exactly exactly. So

1007
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: like the road that like the traditional ship we grew

1008
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: up on, that ship ain't the same. No, no, so

1009
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 1: you can't. It's a connunity as to be seeing him

1010
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: trying to figure that out. You can't be asking what

1011
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: I feel like. You can't be asking a woman to

1012
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: be submissive if you're not taking care of the home's exactly,

1013
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: if you're not taking care of your your duties and

1014
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,919
Speaker 1: responsibilities that may not provided, you can't ask a woman

1015
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: to be submissive. And that, like as much of niggers

1016
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: hate that minute that comes with being an earner, somebody

1017
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 1: that's gonna take care of bills. Make sure your women straight.

1018
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: She shouldn't be. She shouldn't be, she shouldn't have to

1019
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 1: be exactly being kept. You gotta be worrying about what

1020
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: the light's gonna be on next month and next month

1021
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: or not exactly. We got to the bottom of the

1022
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: canunsdrums today on Big Facts Friday and the final words, um,

1023
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: all kylie women cheat? How don't cheat? Let's put that

1024
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: out there. I don't cheat. The whole set is a hater,

1025
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 1: but I don't cheat. You should you cheated? I never

1026
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 1: told you? She was saying she cheated. She got dude,

1027
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 1: she got oh yeah, not now, No, not the one.

1028
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: You gotta get that one that you don't want, You

1029
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: don't She probably had one to want it, but this

1030
01:03:54,480 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: ain't that the keys of the lock. Thank you? There

1031
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: you go. Okay. Then we finished talking to the full

1032
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 1: of chick count what's upright? Look at these big somewhere else?

1033
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: Like are we working on what time of facts? Check

1034
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: us out online Triple w dot, Big Facts pot dot Com,

1035
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: at Big Facts Pod, and at Big Facts Friday or

1036
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: Friday's Big Friday Friday at Big Facts Friday, Salute to y'all.

1037
01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:40,439
Speaker 1: We appreciate your tuning in. It's Big Facts, don't cat

1038
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: Fitch