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Speaker 2: Since I am currently kind of sort of famous to

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Speaker 3: I recently joined a.

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Speaker 2: one hand, it's totally inappropriate to try to strike up

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Speaker 2: a conversation with any naked stranger in the gym locker room, like,

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Speaker 2: that is okay. But on the other hand, I knew

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Speaker 2: I wasn't going to give strangers access to my personal

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get robbed, and besides, I.

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Speaker 3: Really hate the rug Patrick picked out.

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Speaker 2: Similarly, I recently decided to quit Snapchat because an acquaintance

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Speaker 2: Then someone sent me a message asking did you and

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Speaker 3: You haven't posted a picture of him in nine weeks.

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Speaker 2: I'd find myself in the middle of a dinner and

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Speaker 1: And suddenly I'd like, I think, Shit, I've got to.

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Speaker 3: Owed them something.

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Speaker 2: I think this is a symptom of a double standard

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Speaker 2: for Internet celebrities. The fans feel like they've given you

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Speaker 2: that your work should be repayment enough. I occasionally still

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Speaker 2: email about how to make it as a YouTuber. Hey,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the Blackout Tips Podcast. I'm your host Rod,

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Speaker 2: joined us always by my co host Karen, and we're

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Speaker 3: Ready do some feedback.

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Speaker 2: You can find us on Spotify, Okay, Spotify, Spotify, Spotify,

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Speaker 2: And of course feedback is when we cover all the

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Speaker 2: In the meantime, I tell all my friends and family

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm going TikTok. I don't understand what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was looking for you know, look, I'm

444
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Speaker 2: turning my TikTok to my new Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

446
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Speaker 1: If it's some Instagram models or something over there, I'm

447
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Speaker 1: on it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, trust somewhere, but jail. You know, he was acting

449
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Speaker 2: stingy with the with the acts.

450
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Speaker 4: Man.

451
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Speaker 2: I was like, give me specifics because you keep saying

452
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 2: it's all these big titty mamas and stuff on there,

453
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Speaker 2: and I want to see it.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

455
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Speaker 2: I'm not shamed like some of y'all. I want to

456
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Speaker 2: see it and that's what I'm there for, you know

457
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Speaker 2: what it is. And I couldn't find any I was

458
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Speaker 2: on TikTok. I kept seeing you know, buff dudes flipping

459
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Speaker 2: over bikes in slow motion, and shit, it was people

460
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Speaker 2: trying to be funny.

461
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Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is jail covi Han

462
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Speaker 1: talking about?

463
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Speaker 2: But uh, Paula hit me up and was like, I

464
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Speaker 2: got TikTok and I got some big old titties. I

465
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Speaker 2: was like, you know what followed? Okay, because that's how

466
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Speaker 2: I get down a man of my word. But thank

467
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Speaker 2: you for all the kind words for the podcast. And

468
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Speaker 2: I know, man, twenty twen has been such a rough

469
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Speaker 2: year for so many people.

470
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Speaker 3: But you know, you even get to live.

471
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 2: And or you get to dine, so you got to

472
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Speaker 2: get out here and try to make it through. And

473
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Speaker 2: I'm glad you appreciate our Gallos humor because it's really

474
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 2: you know, honestly, it's really what we do.

475
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 3: The Gallows humor.

476
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Speaker 1: All this shit is really sad, but you gotta find.

477
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Speaker 3: Some fun in it, you better, all right?

478
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Speaker 2: We had comments on our website Tips Giving Pod Giveaway podcast,

479
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: so I put the audio for the premium people who

480
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Speaker 2: couldn't be there, but the actual crowdcast is still up.

481
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 2: You can still go watch that one because we're not

482
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Speaker 2: gonna make it an actual podcast episode, so you don't

483
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: have to worry about that being on Spotify or whatever,

484
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: but you can go listen to it. We play music

485
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 2: and games, and we had a talk to our fans directly.

486
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Speaker 1: Every people came on screen with us told us what

487
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Speaker 1: they felt.

488
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Speaker 2: We are so thankful for our fans, what they felt

489
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Speaker 2: thankful for and all that stuff.

490
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Speaker 1: So we had a couple of comments.

491
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Speaker 2: Wan Ganghi says, thanks, Rod, I was really bummed about

492
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Speaker 2: missing this.

493
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Speaker 1: But double Time paid for twelve of ours is a loud.

494
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Speaker 3: Voice winki face emoji. Listen.

495
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 2: I know that black Out Tips has got some loyal fans.

496
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Speaker 2: I don't think we got shipped on Double Time paid though,

497
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Speaker 2: and I really don't feel like you know, oh oh.

498
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Speaker 3: I understand double double time pay wins every time.

499
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Speaker 2: I hope you don't think we offended at all, because

500
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 2: we are absolutely not offended at all.

501
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Speaker 3: We're not paid for double time.

502
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Speaker 1: Yeah, two times handed your business.

503
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Speaker 2: You can listen, We'll be okay, okay, because the double

504
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Speaker 2: Time pay hit listen. Very few things as motherfucking influential

505
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Speaker 2: is at that time and a half and that double

506
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Speaker 2: time holiday pay Trey Wright saying thank you Rider Karen

507
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: so much for this fun episode. Man, the love was

508
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: felt by all of us, and I personally can't thank

509
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 2: y'all enough for how you have helped me in my

510
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: own life, whether it's dealing with personal issues, the pandemic,

511
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 2: or just want to be a decent human being in

512
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 2: the world that isn't so decent. You guys helped me

513
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: stay sane in the insane world. Thanks so much for

514
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: that much love always, Trey, Thanks Trey, appreciate you. Let's

515
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Speaker 2: get into the actual episodes of the week. Podcast Side

516
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Speaker 2: Chicks was our feedback episode. No comments on this one,

517
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 2: but we did have a poll, and a poll had

518
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Speaker 2: a comment on it. Will you take the coronavirus vaccine? Yes,

519
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Speaker 2: but after it's been out a while. Yes, soon as

520
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Speaker 2: it's out or no, never care.

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Speaker 5: Yes as soon as is out. Because a nigga is tied.

522
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Speaker 4: My views have changed because initially I was like, nigga,

523
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to see because I was one of

524
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Speaker 4: them people. I was like, oh Trump pushing this.

525
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Speaker 5: Oh it's gonna be on some bullshit like that.

526
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Speaker 4: I don't, I mean, and I felt that I and

527
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Speaker 4: to an extent, I felt justified in that because I

528
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Speaker 4: was like, he don't tell you shit, how do I

529
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Speaker 4: know he not trying to do then this is no

530
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Speaker 4: prior to the election and all that shit. I was like, Oh,

531
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Speaker 4: he just pushing this shit out just to try to

532
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Speaker 4: get the vaccine.

533
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Speaker 3: Out before and all that other bullshit.

534
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Speaker 1: So I was like nine.

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Speaker 4: But then once I heard Fauci and some of the

536
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Speaker 4: other people that I actually trust, they got some goddamn

537
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Speaker 4: common sense talking about it, I was like, Oh, okay, okay,

538
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 4: because I know if y'all get shot and died, that's

539
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,679
Speaker 4: gonna be different than me, you know. But it's like

540
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Speaker 4: y'all gonna y'all have access to a wind before the

541
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Speaker 4: average person, so you know, for me, And it's so

542
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 4: many different versions of it, so I'm like, uh, yes,

543
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Speaker 4: it is a sped up process, don't get me wrong,

544
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 4: but it's a sped up process because so many people are.

545
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Speaker 3: Dying, you know.

546
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Speaker 4: And even and even once after these vaccines get out bleed,

547
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Speaker 4: trust they're gonna start working on cures like something where

548
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Speaker 4: they could go, here is a shot, and this is

549
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Speaker 4: a cure, or either they gonna make it, whether the

550
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Speaker 4: vaccine is like a once a one shot every so

551
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Speaker 4: many times a year or years where you don't have

552
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Speaker 4: to have the boosters and all that stuff. This is

553
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Speaker 4: gonna be a continual process.

554
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will be first in line. I'll push, let

555
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: it down and fly the stairs to get to this first. Honestly,

556
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 2: even when it was Trump, I was gonna take it

557
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: first because it's not him making.

558
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Speaker 3: He didn't do.

559
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: Shit with this, like just because he talks a good game,

560
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Speaker 2: but you have to know he's a liar. I keep

561
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Speaker 2: telling people this nigga is a war on reality. So

562
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Speaker 2: he have you thinking stupid shit because he is lying

563
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Speaker 2: all the time. So you go, oh, I don't want

564
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Speaker 2: to know if vaccine, if Trump got something to do

565
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Speaker 2: with it, he don't got shit to do with it. They

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Speaker 2: sit up, They're like, no, we the scientists also don't

567
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Speaker 2: want him involved.

568
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Speaker 3: No, they don't. Like They're like, please stay.

569
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Speaker 2: The fuck away and shut the fuck up, you know

570
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Speaker 2: what I mean. Like, I'm glad that Biden won the

571
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Speaker 2: election in a large part because sanity will return to

572
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Speaker 2: a lot of people who are acting who got gas

573
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Speaker 2: lit by this dude, and they'll be able to finally go,

574
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Speaker 2: oh yeah, of course I would take a vaccine.

575
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Speaker 3: I take my flu shot every fucking year.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna, you know, because of what people with

577
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Speaker 2: everyone who goes I'm.

578
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Speaker 1: A wait a while, or I'm not gonna take it.

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Speaker 2: All you're really saying is I want to get coronavirus

580
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: and die. I want to get sick. That's all you're saying.

581
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Speaker 2: Because those are the options. It's not like we have

582
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: a bunch of options in here. The options are you

583
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Speaker 2: get protected and you can go back to your normal life,

584
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: or you live like this for fucking ever, or you

585
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: get sick, and then with the numbers that are about

586
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: to go up, you may even get sick doing the

587
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 2: right shit and eventually, so yeah, motherfucker's gonna have to

588
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 2: go ahead and get it, dog.

589
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 3: I know they think they're not going to.

590
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Speaker 2: And what's gonna be funny is when it come out,

591
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: it's gonna flip the polarity on it, cause a lot

592
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: of people going, I don't know, I'm gonna get it.

593
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 2: But when you're gonna find out, this ain't gonna be

594
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Speaker 2: enough for everybody to get it. So it's about to

595
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: really flip up on motherfuckers, and it's gonna be it's

596
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Speaker 2: gonna be a lot of people that went I don't

597
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Speaker 2: know if I feel like getting it to like, can

598
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Speaker 2: I get it? I hope I should get this shit.

599
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Speaker 2: Oh they got it today. Oh I heard you know,

600
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: I just got up. It's gonna be like a PS five,

601
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Speaker 2: I just got it. I just gotta text alert that

602
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 2: they got some they got some astro centacor.

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Speaker 3: Down there at the motherfucking doctor. I'm gonna be right back.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to get you had to get the app.

605
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 4: The robot's gonna come and just buy and buy them

606
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 4: all up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't know, Like because the other thing

608
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: is once the vaccine hit jobs are gonna be like

609
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Speaker 2: come to work now, shit like that.

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Speaker 3: Like it's not like it's I'm gonna care if you

611
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Speaker 3: got a shot. They're gonna be like, look, most of

612
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 3: you got it, bring your ass back to work. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Not to mention, there's a lot of people where the

614
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: numbers have gone up because evictions and the economy and

615
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: stuff have driven people's numbers up. They haven't been in

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Speaker 2: situations where it's a privilege to be able to social isolate.

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Speaker 1: That's really what this is about. It's a privilege to

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Speaker 1: be able to.

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Speaker 2: Social distance and isolate in a large part. Now, some

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Speaker 2: people look that privilege in the face and go whatever,

621
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go out here and tonuk its some fucking

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Speaker 2: telephone polls. But a lot of us have been privileged

623
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Speaker 2: to be able to live this way. But jobs and

624
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Speaker 2: companies are not gonna let.

625
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Speaker 3: People do this forever.

626
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: That at some point they're gonna be like, it's a vaccine,

627
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Speaker 2: either fucking get it or don't, and I bet I

628
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Speaker 2: guarantee you another thing.

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Speaker 3: A lot of.

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Speaker 2: Companies gonna put that shit in their motherfucking like employment

631
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Speaker 2: like requirements like you can't come I'm in here without

632
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Speaker 2: this fucking vaccine because what we don't want is an

633
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Speaker 2: outbreak at our job. So I just think people are

634
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: not thinking very smartly because we let this man drive

635
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Speaker 2: our country crazy. So we're saying shit that we This

636
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Speaker 2: is why I say it's not that much difference between

637
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Speaker 2: like MAGA and the woke people on the left. It's

638
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 2: a lot of that shit is a circle, like it's

639
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: overlapping because a lot of that mentality is the same.

640
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: Don't trust the government, only listen to this person or

641
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Speaker 2: that person.

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00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: Like a lot of that shit.

643
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: Is the same. We're just listening to different people.

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Speaker 5: That's true.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't even think about that, but yeah, eventually

646
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 4: it is gonna They was like, look, we either if

647
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 4: they gonna be like, if you are a current employee,

648
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Speaker 4: you got x amount dates to get this shit, that

649
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 4: you're gonna lose your job, And then they're gonna be

650
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 4: like any new and higher you got to take that shot.

651
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 4: I could see them putting it in their bilocks.

652
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Speaker 3: So it's like, we don't want this foolishness. You know,

653
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Speaker 3: I want to get it.

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Speaker 2: Nurses, yes, and teachers, people like I'm not even on

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Speaker 2: some like like I'm joking about I push the old

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Speaker 2: lady down. I mean, obviously I want to get it

657
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: as soon as I can get it, but like, and

658
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Speaker 2: for our society to work, honestly, all the people that's

659
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: talking about I don't want to get it.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't even be able to get in line to get.

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Speaker 1: It because you you.

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Speaker 2: Just gonna have to keep risking this rona for a

663
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Speaker 2: little bit longer. Because we got a whole lot of

664
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Speaker 2: people that's doing a lot of work for the public

665
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: that should be priority number one. In addition to being

666
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: able to be super spreaders because of their jobs, whether

667
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: you're a bus driver or MTA worker or whatever, you

668
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 2: also are highest at risk because.

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Speaker 1: Of your jobs.

670
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Speaker 2: And I do think those people should get it before me,

671
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 2: before can before a lot of people, you know, people

672
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Speaker 2: that older, people that are risk, people that live in

673
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: these living centers and stuff where we have outbreaks that

674
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: kill forty fifty sixty one hundred people. Those people deserve

675
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Speaker 2: to get it first. So it's you know, it's like

676
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: a tongue in cheek thing to be like, are you

677
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: gonna get it? But your ays need to get it.

678
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Speaker 4: I add, and then for some job, even if they

679
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 4: have converted to allow you to stay at home, I

680
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Speaker 4: can still need to be in the requirement that go.

681
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Speaker 3: We don't give a damn if you're at home and.

682
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: Not you bet, that's almost nobody works completely remotely. It's

683
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 2: still gonna be like we have accompanying, meaning we have

684
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: some function, the Christmas party. It's gonna be reasons they

685
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 2: want to see you in person sometimes.

686
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: So anyway, the poll was yes.

687
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Speaker 2: After it's been out for a while, seventy percent of

688
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 2: people think they're gonna wait till.

689
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 3: It's been not a while. Yes, soon this is out.

690
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,479
Speaker 2: Thirty percent of people are like me and you, and

691
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 2: one percent basically said no, never man, you know, feel.

692
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 3: Luck to them.

693
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: Ali Marjoe says, you are absolutely correct when it comes

694
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: to Mama's and Grandmama's not passing down to full recipe.

695
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: You know what's interesting with this The polls often have

696
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: answered have comments that relate to the shows, and the

697
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: shows often have answers on the website have have comments

698
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 2: that relate to the poll.

699
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: It's so weird that it gets reversed.

700
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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is that makes us happen,

701
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 2: but okay, so anyway, I've seen both my mama and

702
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: my grandma do this with my own eyes. When I

703
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 2: was little, I heard my mama tell one of her

704
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 2: friends how to make sauce for meatballs. She left out

705
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 2: like two ingredients and added one that she didn't even use.

706
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: When she hung up, I asked.

707
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: Her why she did that. She said, Hell, they ain't

708
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: finna have my recipe that I figured out with their

709
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: little sauce. Their little sauce will be all right, I

710
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: bet everybody at that baby shower have meat balls and

711
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,479
Speaker 2: taste of like miss Pumpkins, but was missing something.

712
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: Shaking my damn head.

713
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: Ain't that how they do? I'm on to these old ladies, Okay,

714
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: I know y'all ain't passing down to dress the recipe.

715
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Speaker 3: I know what's up. Not selickt grandma.

716
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: Oh oh, so I'm supposed to put brown sugar in

717
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: these in these collar greens, that's word, that's what's in here.

718
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 2: I ain't been eating these all my life. I know

719
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: what you're doing. Episode twenty two, twenty.

720
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Speaker 3: Seven Will Smith fault. We had one comment by I.

721
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: Believe it's a verol e kid e k. I hope

722
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: I said that right. I probably did not, and I'm sorry.

723
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: Thank you for your discussion about guilt and shame in

724
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 2: this episode, such an important topic. I finally watched Red

725
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: Table Talk, motivated by your praise for it.

726
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 3: Here, Rod.

727
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 2: I had been reluctant to watch it because it's on

728
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 2: Facebook and I tried to stay off that platform, and

729
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: the idea of watching the full episode of a show

730
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 2: on there was very unappealing.

731
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: But I was wrong.

732
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Speaker 2: Hey, let me give you a for those that I

733
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 2: guess if you have an Xbox, maybe some smart TVs

734
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: maybe this works on that too.

735
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 3: But what I do?

736
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 2: I have an app on my Xbox called Facebook Watch,

737
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 2: and you can go on to Facebook Watch app and

738
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 2: watch stuff.

739
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: Like Red Table Talk.

740
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: I follow some other content creators, Supreme Dreams One and whatnot.

741
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: And that way you don't have to actually be on Facebook.

742
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 2: You're not interacting with people and leaving comments or reading

743
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 2: what people.

744
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: Have to say.

745
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 2: You can just watch it for yourself and you don't

746
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: even need to like see what so and so said,

747
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: or who liked or disliked this?

748
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 5: Right, that's good, But.

749
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 3: I was wrong.

750
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 2: This show is so good even watch the Entanglements episode,

751
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: which really wasn't as embarrassing as the means that led

752
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 2: it to believe. It was actually so beautiful and honest,

753
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 2: I really admire Will and Jada so much after watching Rod.

754
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: Have you watched the Brene Brown episode of Red Table Talk?

755
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: I wondered if you've read her books or watched her

756
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 2: ted talk or interviews. She is a shame researcher that

757
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 2: explores widespread assumption about vulnerability, how people misunderstand it as weakness,

758
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 2: or how leaders like managers can exploit it use it inappropriately, etc.

759
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 1: She has this quote from.

760
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 2: Theodore Roosevelt that she uses in her book Daring Greatly

761
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 2: about the Man in the Arena that I think resonates

762
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 2: with what I hear you all saying about how to

763
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 2: move through the world and communicate with other folks. A

764
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 2: copy and paste below in case you're interested, but basically

765
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 2: Brown says, it comes down to if you're not in

766
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: the arena, if you're not doing the work and put

767
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 2: yourself out there for the same type of criticism you

768
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,959
Speaker 2: are trying to give, then your opinion does not matter

769
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: to me anyway.

770
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Speaker 3: Thank you for your continued.

771
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: Conversations about Shane Giltkom and for making it funny. It

772
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 2: is absolutely all Will Smith's fault us. First of all,

773
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: I have not read Brene Brown. I've heard of her,

774
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 2: I haven't seen her Red Table Talk. I did queue

775
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: it up to watch after I read your comment earlier,

776
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 2: so I will save it and watch an episode. Oh,

777
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: let me know if you're interested in Brene Brown and

778
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: haven't read in her stuff yet. I've been wondering if

779
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 2: I should give you all some of her books in

780
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 2: audio and ebook formats.

781
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Speaker 3: Yo.

782
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 2: I'll add it to my Amazon wish list, so you

783
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 2: can send it. I know Amazon will let you send

784
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: it via Kendle through our email address to blackoutistat gmail

785
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 2: dot com. People do that all the time, and uh yeah,

786
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 2: I'll add it to my list.

787
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Speaker 3: Man.

788
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Speaker 2: You know, I'm always looking for something that's a little

789
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: more introspective and makes me think. Also, did you see

790
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: the family medical results Red Table Talk episode Jada had

791
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: a parasite. What apparently eight percent of the population has

792
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: parasites even though they're rich. The whole family has stomach problems.

793
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 2: Got me thinking about my own.

794
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 3: Gut Flora and Roosevelt quote.

795
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 2: It is not the critic who counts, Not the man

796
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: who points out how the strong man or woman stumbles.

797
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,240
Speaker 3: Or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.

798
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: The credit belongs to the man who is actually in

799
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,280
Speaker 2: the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat

800
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:18,720
Speaker 2: and blood, who strives valiantly, who airs, who comes short

801
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 2: again and again because there is no effort with our

802
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 2: error and shortcoming, But who does actually strive to do

803
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 2: the deeds, who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who

804
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best

805
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: knows in the end, the triumph of high achievement and

806
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 2: who at the worst if he fails, at least he

807
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:38,720
Speaker 2: fails while daring greatly.

808
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: That's a dope quote. I had not heard that before,

809
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,359
Speaker 3: but yeah, that's a I mean, that's some real shit though.

810
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: I do think that's kind of what a lot of

811
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: what our internet culture has turned into.

812
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 3: Just people that.

813
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: Everyone says they know better than the people who are

814
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,959
Speaker 2: doing the thing, because the experts in the field, because

815
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 2: I'll never be expected to do it, you know, I

816
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 2: don't even And I try to keep that in mind

817
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 2: when I talk about shit too. Like sometimes I know

818
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: people think, I go, I don't even know that they

819
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 2: think this. I assume they think this because I see

820
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 2: what other people think and say and stuff on Twitter

821
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 2: and on the podcast and shit. But I know there's

822
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: an idea that or there's an atmosphere out there that

823
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 2: I don't want to match of. I'm gonna go just

824
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: as hard on everybody as y'all do, because one, I

825
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 2: think it's corny, and it becomes this thing where we're

826
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: trying to outdo the next person with how hard and

827
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 2: cynical we can see everything.

828
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 3: So I think that's a big thing for me.

829
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 1: That I try to avoid.

830
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 3: And then the other thing.

831
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 2: Is I try to be aware of the fact that

832
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 2: I don't know everything.

833
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 3: And I think what people lose.

834
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,959
Speaker 2: Sight of is they'll say these platitudes but they don't

835
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:55,439
Speaker 2: mean them.

836
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: They'll say shit like nobody's perfect.

837
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 2: But then when someone expresses a fucked up opinion and

838
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 2: they lose their fucking minds as if they've never heard

839
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 2: a fucked up opinion before, or is it that or

840
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 2: if that whole person is now a piece of trash

841
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: to be discarded like a product, like one of the

842
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: reason I don't really one of the reasons I think

843
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: it's funny when people bring up cancel culture, especially those

844
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: to say it's not real, because you know, there's a

845
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: bunch of reasons why it's real, but it's not as

846
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 2: effective as you will, like agree, But if it was

847
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 2: as effective as you will, like, that's that's.

848
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 3: Not a world I want to live in.

849
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: I don't like. I actually don't look forward to the

850
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 2: world where we just say this person is quote unquote

851
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 2: canceled and it really does mean that, you know, So

852
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 2: I like, I kind of do think that people should

853
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: be able to fuck up, And I think also distance

854
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: from the fuck up can lead people to either a

855
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,959
Speaker 2: think about how they fucked up and come back and

856
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 2: maybe even improve or get better.

857
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 3: But then b it. Lets you know how.

858
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 2: Not important some of this shit is that you're attached to, right,

859
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 2: And I think I think we should keep that in mind,

860
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 2: where it's like, I don't agree with this person. Here's

861
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 2: why this point that they're making is fucked up. I

862
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,879
Speaker 2: don't think anything's wrong with pointing that out. But then

863
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 2: it's like we have to take it to the next level,

864
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 2: and there's like such a performative reactionary.

865
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 3: Community that people are trying to find.

866
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 2: And that's why you end up because what happens is

867
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:21,439
Speaker 2: we have turned consumption into virtue. And what I mean

868
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: by that is we are now saying the things I

869
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 2: consume are what make me a virtuous person, good or bad.

870
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,240
Speaker 2: So if I eat Chick fil A, I am bad.

871
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 2: If I don't eat Chick fil A, I am good.

872
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: That's why people lie when someone that they like fucks up,

873
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 2: and they lie and go.

874
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,240
Speaker 1: That person was never good.

875
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: You know, Kevin Hart makes some stupid ass jokes or

876
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 2: whatever his last special and then goes on clubhouse and

877
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: gets into it with some people on Twitter and the

878
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 2: issues a video and they go, I never thought he

879
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: was funny.

880
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 3: Never.

881
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, so this dude don't made billions of

882
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 2: fucking dollars somehow because no one thought he was funny, right,

883
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: Kanye West? Kanye West Grammy winning Platinum Artists multiple times,

884
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: because no one ever liked his music.

885
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 3: We always knew he was whack. You know.

886
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: It's that kind of thing where it's like.

887
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: You could it's because we're virtue signaling, because we're looking

888
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 2: to other people to go, look at me, Look how

889
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 2: much better I am than the Kardashians.

890
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: Because I hate them.

891
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: I must be a great person If I can point

892
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 2: out that they're a flaw person, that makes me a

893
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 2: flawless person. And when I do present a flaw, I

894
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: get I get dog pout on, you know. And for

895
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 2: most people, they can afford to live that way because

896
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 2: they will never be on the Summer Jam screen never.

897
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 3: They don't.

898
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 2: They're not they are not what's the best word to

899
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: put because I don't want to put a value judgment

900
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: on it, but just they're not.

901
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:51,280
Speaker 1: Popular.

902
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 2: They're not popular enough, they're not viral enough to be

903
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: considered a person that needs to be held to some

904
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: higher standard than what we hold other people too. But

905
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 2: everyone is a person, so there is no real like

906
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 2: if you have a million people who listen to your opinion,

907
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 2: or a thousand people, or one hundred people or ten

908
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: or one, your opinion is your opinion. But there's a

909
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: certain level people get to where we go no, no, no,

910
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 2: you can't have that opinion because I liked you, or

911
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 2: I want to like you, or I heard of you,

912
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 2: and now you know, you don't get to have the

913
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:30,720
Speaker 2: opinion you had when you had one hundred people.

914
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 3: But that's not how people work.

915
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: You know, everything they've gotten they've gotten there by the

916
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 2: fact that they're like that. So you know, So anyway,

917
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: all that stuff to kind of say, like, I think

918
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 2: that's why we end up in these situations where people

919
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: are so attached to like this person must be an evil,

920
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 2: cynical person, like this is the worst way to take this.

921
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 2: This must be how this person is. And it's like

922
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to subscribe to that because there's too

923
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 2: much of that out there. And I do think on

924
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 2: a deeper emotional level, I think it is harming us.

925
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 2: I think it is emotionally fucking up our brains. I

926
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 2: think too much of that. We have swung the pendulum

927
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 2: too far the other way. It went from like forgiveness

928
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 2: porn to where a motherfucker can be like I called

929
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 2: her a nigger, but I don't have a racist bone

930
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 2: in my body. It went from that and it's like,

931
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: well do you forgive them? Like we went all the

932
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 2: way from there where we were like that's cool, we

933
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: know that's wrong. Leave that person alone and that person

934
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 2: is fucked up to all the way to this other

935
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: end where somebody does something beautiful like this, Where did

936
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 2: both parties feel like they got closure?

937
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 3: Where you know?

938
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 2: And of course there's a product. It's a TV it's

939
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: a TV show, so it's a product. It's not like

940
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 2: we walked in their house and eavesdropped on them. They're

941
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: showing both of them are showing us what they want

942
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 2: us to see. So but it's like we walked into

943
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: a scenario like that where we can't even allow that

944
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: there could be multiple things that work here.

945
00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 3: It's like, nope.

946
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: Will Smith is an evil, light skinned man that at

947
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: twenty one years old, knew he would ruin this thirty

948
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 2: four year old woman's career. Knew she was being beaten

949
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: behind the scenes, knew about her contract dispute, knew hated

950
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 2: her because she was dark skinned and he was going

951
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 2: to destroy her. And now he just wants y'all to

952
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 2: like him because he want to do this reunion. It's like,

953
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 2: that is one way to look at that, the most

954
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 2: cynical possible way of looking at that, in my opinion,

955
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 2: and that becomes the narrative for a lot of people because,

956
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 2: as the therapist said in that interview well with Will Smith,

957
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: she was like, people's stories serve a purpose. So the

958
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 2: question I always look at is what does that story

959
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:40,919
Speaker 2: hold up for you?

960
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 5: Yes?

961
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, what structures are held in place by you?

962
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: Going I have to walk into this and walk out

963
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: of it?

964
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: Saying Will Smith is an evil piece of shit, and

965
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: Janet Hubert who said a bunch of wild shit over

966
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 2: the twenty seven years, and you'll never hear people bring

967
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 2: this shit up anymore. But we'll we go. We don't

968
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 2: need to talk about that. Those moments were fine, you

969
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 2: know what I mean? And that's the things I've learned

970
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: from conflict is not abuse. It's the things like these

971
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 2: are the things I've had to learn. You know, like

972
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: learn dealing with you once. Once I dealt with somebody

973
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 2: who was a narcissist that targeted me. It changed the

974
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 2: way I look at shit, you know, because I was like,

975
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 2: let me back up, Maybe maybe there's more complexity to

976
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 2: this story than just me going good versus bad.

977
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: You know, so all that shit combines for me, yes.

978
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 4: And everything isn't that couldn't dry. But people want things

979
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 4: to be that simple because the simpler it is, the

980
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 4: more you can pick size, the more you can pick teens.

981
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 4: And people have taken that team's thing from social media

982
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 4: and they have driven it into sometimes their real lives

983
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 4: where things are just very, very simplified, even though they

984
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 4: know people are very complex, you know, just like when

985
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 4: people you say that birthrue signal. A lot of people

986
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 4: do that when it comes to billionaires and millionaires. You know,

987
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,240
Speaker 4: they feel like, oh, you're a billionaire. All of a sudden,

988
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 4: you were an even motherfucker and.

989
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 3: You got that money. You you beat a kid to

990
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 3: get that money. That's not always true, but we just

991
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 3: people just make that a slump. Think it was last week.

992
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: I was like, Yo, one of the dumbest fucking takes

993
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 2: I've ever seen in my life was Dolly Parton's a

994
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,959
Speaker 2: good person because she gives away enough money that she's

995
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: not technically a billionaire.

996
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 3: But I'm like, so a nine.

997
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: Hundred millionaire, it's somehow virtuous if she had if somehow,

998
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 2: let's say, before she gave the money away when she

999
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 2: was a billionaire, we decided she's a good person. But

1000
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,959
Speaker 2: she wouldn't have given away just enough to get under

1001
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: a billion she's a bad person. Like or maybe the

1002
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 2: fucking money doesn't mean you good or bad, right, Maybe

1003
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 2: what you do as a human being determines what kind

1004
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 2: of fucking person you are, And maybe we should be

1005
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 2: looking at that and not just as people's pockets, because

1006
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 2: it's not that fucking simple. It's not as simple as

1007
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 2: someone's a celebrity, therefore they're a bad person.

1008
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 3: The one's famous they're for the they're a bad person.

1009
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 3: Like that's not fake.

1010
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: But you know why we believe that.

1011
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 2: You know why people promote that because it means that

1012
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 2: since they don't have that money, they.

1013
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 3: Are a good person.

1014
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 2: If you flip how the people judge folks, what they're

1015
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 2: essentially saying is because I am not these things, I

1016
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 2: am a good person. And everyone who is these things

1017
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: is a bad person, So you're life skinned bad person.

1018
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: I'm not life skinned good person. You're you're tall bad person.

1019
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 3: I'm not tall. You know you're rich.

1020
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 2: And it's like, it's not that simple because I don't

1021
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 2: had short, broke, not light skinned.

1022
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: People do fucked up shit to me too, sir. Everybody has.

1023
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 2: You don't know. People are individually kind of uh out

1024
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 2: there for the for them on their own, and you

1025
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 2: have to find out individually how they are. There is

1026
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 2: no collective rule, but you know what exists that functions

1027
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 2: on those collective rules and understandings.

1028
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 3: The Internet.

1029
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 2: The Internet has made it so simple, so we like

1030
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: to lean into that because because the Internet isn't nuanced.

1031
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: Right on Twitter, you either block them or you mute them,

1032
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: or you don't.

1033
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 2: There's no in between stage, Like I want to see

1034
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 2: some of the things they say, but not all the

1035
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 2: things they say, right, So you either have to go

1036
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: completely one way or completely to others. It's just the

1037
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: way that things are. That is how people want to

1038
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,240
Speaker 2: set up rules for life.

1039
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 3: Oh this, you know what?

1040
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 2: I thought so and so as a good person, But

1041
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: then I saw them listening to a Kanye West album

1042
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 2: and I'm like that.

1043
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: So they're a bad person now, well or what?

1044
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 2: It doesn't really like that to me doesn't really register

1045
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 2: on good or bad, you know. So I think that

1046
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 2: we're trying to escape that, we're trying to escape that messness,

1047
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 2: that murkiness. And I love that our show walks into

1048
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 2: that messingess and mrkinness and goes nah, because even with

1049
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: the Will Smith Janet Hubert thing, I walked away and said,

1050
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 2: there's a world where, you know, Will Smith really is

1051
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 2: just a complete asshole and just manipulated everybody.

1052
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 3: There's also a.

1053
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,760
Speaker 2: World where Janet Hubert could be the asshole and manipulate everybody.

1054
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 2: Only thing I know is from what I saw in

1055
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 2: the interaction the same way everybody else did. And what

1056
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: I thought was, Wow, this is refreshing media content because

1057
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 2: it's unlike most media content, and most people at this

1058
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 2: point worship the grudge like it's a deity, and we

1059
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: want everyone to worship the grudge with us, and we

1060
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 2: actually get a little disappointed when someone does let something

1061
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 2: go because it's like, damn, do I have to let

1062
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 2: it go? How do I find a way to hold

1063
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 2: on to it while they let it go? And found

1064
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 2: healing in peace.

1065
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 4: Yes, because at the end of the day, what I've

1066
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 4: realized about a lot of shit is that people are

1067
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 4: addicted to judgment.

1068
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 3: That's all it is.

1069
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 4: For a lot of people, they are very judgmental to everybody.

1070
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 4: Their husbands, their wives, the significant others, their children, everybody

1071
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 4: can be judged with them because the second the critique

1072
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 4: that they put out Because the thing is, when you online,

1073
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 4: particularly if you online a lot, you have a personality,

1074
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 4: and your personality comes out being get fakeer.

1075
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 3: Real, But you have a personality online, and.

1076
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 4: So the critique that you put out there, and the

1077
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 4: nastiness and the fits role that you put out there

1078
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 4: towards celebrities, towards just normal common people, when people turn

1079
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 4: around and come at you with the ounce of that

1080
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 4: same critique, people fall apart. Well, then the thing is

1081
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,359
Speaker 4: you are addicted to the judgment because the judgment makes

1082
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 4: you feel superior. The judgment makes you feel better. And

1083
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 4: I'm not above that. I'm not saying that I am,

1084
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 4: but I try to be aware of this and ask myself,

1085
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 4: why is this thing that important to me?

1086
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 3: Or why do I feel this way?

1087
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 4: Do I feel this way because I feel justified and

1088
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,479
Speaker 4: whatever this is, or do I feel this way?

1089
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 3: Because I actually feel.

1090
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 4: Better because I can look down on this person and

1091
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 4: have some form of judgment towards this person because I

1092
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 4: don't participate in whatever the behavior is.

1093
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, And the main thing I took away from that

1094
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: thing is I don't know one hundred percent of what

1095
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: they know and don't know about each other.

1096
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 3: Correct. I'm allowing for the.

1097
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: Idea that there's a bunch of shit at play, But

1098
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 2: to me, it felt like they both kind of were right.

1099
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 2: They both had a point and for the things, you know,

1100
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: my own projections and own conjecture from watching that, I.

1101
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: Was like, I can see how that situation.

1102
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,479
Speaker 2: Can happen, and I can see why it's no, it's

1103
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 2: nobody's actual like quote unquote fault in the way that

1104
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: people see fault like where it's like yes, because at

1105
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 2: twenty one, most of us could have made that similar mistake,

1106
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 2: similar misunderstanding, and you actually do have to get older,

1107
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 2: and you actually do have to know and make some

1108
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 2: other relationships and read and learn some other things before

1109
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,319
Speaker 2: you can even see that kind of shit, Before you

1110
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: can see what you didn't see, you need the ability

1111
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: to see that shit later, and a lot of times.

1112
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: It's when it happens when you late in life, you

1113
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 2: don't you know, there's a lot of us that only

1114
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 2: through hindsight can look at that and be like, damn,

1115
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 2: I was wilding at that age. I didn't even think

1116
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 2: of it, but I was kind of dismissive of this shit.

1117
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: Some people can go back two years and be like,

1118
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 2: I was very dismissive of people who made this point,

1119
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 2: and now I look back and I'm like, fuck, I

1120
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: really didn't know what the fuck I was talking about.

1121
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: And the things I said at that moment and the

1122
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 2: things I did and treated people at that moment were

1123
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 2: probably really fucking harsh because I did not know better.

1124
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 2: And that's the grace I would give everybody at that

1125
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 2: fucking age. It's wild to hear people that believe in

1126
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 2: prison reform trying to doom people to like it's like

1127
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 2: they don't believe in And that's why I say, it's

1128
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: always incongruent to me when I hear people ranting and

1129
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 2: raving about prison abolition and prison reform and shit, I'm like,

1130
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: you full of shit because you believe in the social.

1131
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 3: Death penalty for people.

1132
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 2: I literally believe in one faux pas, fucks you up forever,

1133
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 2: you know. Like one of the people I was talking to,

1134
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 2: they was like, well, I believe that he did this

1135
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: at twenty one years old or whatever, and I was like,

1136
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 2: I think he did it too. I think he even

1137
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 2: told you he did it right. Now, here's the question

1138
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 2: I have. Is twenty one supposed to doom him for

1139
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 2: life that he made them mistake?

1140
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 5: Like?

1141
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 3: Is are we supposed to stay here forever?

1142
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 2: Like he's supposed to be fifty be like, but remember

1143
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 2: when you was twenty one?

1144
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: Because to me, I don't want to exist in that world.

1145
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 1: Fuck that shit.

1146
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 2: Because it's the same way I don't think the box

1147
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 2: should be on a fucking application for somebody to get

1148
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 2: a job.

1149
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 3: I don't think we should have a social box on people.

1150
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 3: That's like, but you.

1151
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 2: Used to have this opinion or you used to do this,

1152
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:20,439
Speaker 2: Like yes, and I'm apologizing for it, and twenty nine

1153
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: years later, I'm like, I'm wrong and I've made, you know,

1154
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,919
Speaker 2: amends with this person. Well, fuck that shit. That means

1155
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 2: you worship the grudge. You just don't you want to

1156
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 2: hold onto that.

1157
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 5: Yes.

1158
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 4: And it's also one of those things too, is that

1159
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 4: the people that are talking are around will Smith age

1160
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 4: or you know, get give give a give a few

1161
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,320
Speaker 4: years away. Nigga, nigga, do you remember yourself at fucking

1162
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 4: twenty one and how immature you was at twenty one?

1163
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 4: When I was twenty one, I wasn't concerned about marriage

1164
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 4: and four one ks and real jobs and kids. I

1165
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 4: was not concerned about that at twenty one. I would

1166
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 4: could give a goddamn about somebody talking to like.

1167
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 2: That, Honest to god, if it's so funny, because when

1168
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 2: you listen to people get so self righteous about the shit,

1169
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 2: it's like, dog, if I if I had a film

1170
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 2: of your life, right, if I had the ability to

1171
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 2: go back in your life and every person you've ever

1172
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 2: touched and go so at twenty one, what kind of

1173
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 2: things were they saying to you about your gender and

1174
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 2: your sexuality?

1175
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 3: What kind of things were they saying to.

1176
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 2: You about, uh, you know, your immigration status? Like what

1177
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 2: they was on point and woke every moment of their life.

1178
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 2: They you know, when you never had a bitch at work,

1179
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 2: because we've all had that bitch at work. It's a

1180
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,760
Speaker 2: running joke, the bitch from work, and we never stop

1181
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: and think what was going on in her life to

1182
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 2: make her be that way.

1183
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 3: Right, not once, not once.

1184
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 1: All of us have that person at work.

1185
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 2: We don't fuck with or whatever that they didn't like us,

1186
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 2: they were mean, they came around ruining the day. We

1187
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 2: have never once said, you know what, let me go

1188
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 2: and go by her desk.

1189
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 3: And go, hey, it's something going on in your house.

1190
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 2: Not the mission. They might not want to. I mean,

1191
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 2: she's a grown woman, so she want to tell people

1192
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,359
Speaker 2: they was what was happening in her house? She she

1193
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 2: wasn't going to. It's not nobody could make her do that.

1194
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 2: But the idea that there's an expectation of that is

1195
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,479
Speaker 2: only so you can carry this torch for burning. Will

1196
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,720
Speaker 2: smith Y, that's crazy because you know you don't believe

1197
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 2: in that. You know you've had to run in with

1198
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 2: the person. You're like, this motherfucker is an asshole, Like

1199
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 2: they hate everybody at work. Get them the fuck out

1200
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:31,879
Speaker 2: of here. Why did they even keep her here? Damn

1201
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 2: just fired this motherfucker.

1202
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 3: What a dick.

1203
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 2: We all have had that person, and yet now it's like,

1204
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 2: but why didn't you stop by her house and say

1205
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 2: what is going on? Like, no, none of us do that.

1206
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 2: Let's be realistic. Here, you know, and so like I said,

1207
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 2: and that's me giving what's funny as people don't see this,

1208
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,439
Speaker 2: that's me giving both of them a benefit.

1209
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: Of the doubt.

1210
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:54,919
Speaker 3: Right, only time will tell.

1211
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's me giving both of them the benefit of doubt,

1212
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 2: because I think what's happening is people are done.

1213
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: And that's why I said it was almost gracious of.

1214
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,760
Speaker 3: Will Smith and his company and Red.

1215
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 2: Table Talk to do all this shit because they literally

1216
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:10,800
Speaker 2: made it be like anything Janet Hubert has ever done

1217
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,280
Speaker 2: or said is water under the bridge.

1218
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 5: Right.

1219
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 2: We're not gonna ask for no explanation all the way

1220
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 2: to move. We're not gonna cite any any specific event.

1221
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 2: We're not gonna say, hey, you blame me for your

1222
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 2: son's suicide attempt. We're not We're not gonna say any

1223
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: of that. We're just gonna leave it at that and

1224
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 2: just go.

1225
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 3: You hold the floor.

1226
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,439
Speaker 2: You That's why I said to me it was magnanimous

1227
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 2: because essentially what he said is because people are gonna

1228
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 2: walk away with this and still blame me if I'm

1229
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 2: putting this out. I know this right, It's not like

1230
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 2: I'm stupid. I'm a fucking media star and stuff too.

1231
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 2: People are gonna walk away from this and still say

1232
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 2: fuck me, And you know what, that's fine.

1233
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna eat that and that I couldn't do it.

1234
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 4: That that's one thing about life and going through life,

1235
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 4: and something that's very very hard because most people, no

1236
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:06,280
Speaker 4: matter how.

1237
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 5: Hard they are, want to be accepted.

1238
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 4: And it's very hard for people to deal with the

1239
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,280
Speaker 4: fact that no matter what you say and no matter

1240
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 4: what you do, somebody is always gonna have a fuck

1241
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 4: you on the other end of it, like no matter that,

1242
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 4: and that's a very hard peal for people to swallow.

1243
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 4: And because people know this, they take that fuck you

1244
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 4: that they've been told in their lives and they projected

1245
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 4: out to other people and they feel like the unforgiveness,

1246
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 4: the harshness, the cruelness.

1247
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 5: Of the world.

1248
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 4: They take that internally and they projected outward. They projected

1249
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 4: onto celebrities. Why because I don't have to look this

1250
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 4: celebrity in the eye, I don't have to have these

1251
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 4: personal interactions instead of me taking personal accountability, like I said,

1252
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 4: doing a lot of that self reflection which I keep

1253
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 4: talking about, instead of me cutting people off of doing

1254
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 4: what I need to do to get my life in

1255
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 4: order I'd rather deal with this chaos and project this

1256
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 4: chaos outwork.

1257
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 2: I thought one more thing out there too, because I'm

1258
00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 2: empathetic to this and sympathetic to this for a lot

1259
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 2: of people, it's like black women never get to be

1260
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 2: this way right because the world is so fucked up.

1261
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: So it's like, we're gonna just have this woman's back

1262
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 2: because she's a black woman, and we are gonna skip

1263
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 2: because too often is everybody else gets to kind of

1264
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 2: act the ass whenever they're done wrong and we have

1265
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 2: to look the other way because they had the privilege

1266
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,439
Speaker 2: of not being a black woman. So it's like, yeah,

1267
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 2: they were acting up, but you know what, he was angry,

1268
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 2: he was you know, and so here's a chance to say,

1269
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 2: you know, and like I said, Will Smith essentially gave

1270
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: her that. I don't know how people keep missing that

1271
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 2: part of the equation because he could have just as

1272
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 2: easily doctored the.

1273
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 1: Shit to make him like this bitch crazy but wacky wacah.

1274
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 2: You're like, no, you set up there was like everything

1275
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 2: you say is right and I'm sorry, my bad and

1276
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 2: even shit he didn't know, I'm sorry for shit he

1277
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 2: didn't know. So so like he ate that shit in

1278
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 2: a way that don't you never see black and get that.

1279
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 2: The last time I saw that was actually on the

1280
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 2: Red Table Talk when they had Jordan what's her name

1281
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 2: there that used to be your Kardashian friend and she

1282
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,959
Speaker 2: kissed Tristan Thompson at a party, and they said, Jordan Woods, Yes,

1283
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 2: she kissed Tristan Thompson at a party. And they set

1284
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 2: up there and let her be like, I'm the victim here.

1285
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 3: Period.

1286
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: They didn't. There wasn't no girl, you what the fuck

1287
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 2: is wrong with you? It was just like, yep, and uh,

1288
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 2: this is what happens. Sometimes people make mistakes and they

1289
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 2: need to chill out like that.

1290
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 1: That's why I liked that space.

1291
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's still a product, and

1292
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 2: I understand what we're getting, all right. The poe is

1293
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 2: have you has your significant other ever thrown away some

1294
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:40,439
Speaker 2: leftovers you really wanted to eat?

1295
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 3: No know what's so funny? Yes?

1296
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: Yes, and we broke up, Yes, and we stayed.

1297
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 2: Together and worked it out.

1298
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 3: No, they've never done that. And I don't have a

1299
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 3: significant other.

1300
00:59:56,120 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 5: Care I don't.

1301
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:02,919
Speaker 3: I don't.

1302
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 4: I don't think I know if you've eaten something that

1303
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 4: I don't want it.

1304
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 5: But I don't think you ever thrown away anything that

1305
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 5: I want it.

1306
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 2: Interesting, but I did throw some shit away over twenty

1307
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 2: something years together. Interesting.

1308
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't think.

1309
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 2: Of any It's almost like it ain't happen anyway.

1310
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 3: I know I would throw some shit out in a heartbeat.

1311
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: Yes, and we broke up. Six percent of the audience

1312
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,360
Speaker 2: broke up with the person. I don't blame you. I'ma

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Speaker 2: be honest I thought about it.

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Speaker 3: Thirty percent says yes, and we stayed together and worked

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Speaker 3: it out.

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll see. I'm working on it now the way

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Speaker 1: I see.

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01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 2: And forty one percent said they don't have a significant other,

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01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 2: and twenty five percent said no, they've never done that.

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Speaker 3: Oh you lucky signs of guns. Oh I could just

1321
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 3: live in your shoes.

1322
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 2: Dre says my ex never threw away left overs that

1323
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 2: I wanted, but she definitely is eating them.

1324
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 3: Shaking my head.

1325
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 2: I mean eating them to me is better than throwing

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01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 2: them away. Throwing them away is no one got to

1327
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 2: enjoy this delicious uh dumplings.

1328
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 3: Nobody nobody got that enjoyed me.

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01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 2: It's the trash dumplings.

1330
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 3: Now you see what I'm saying.

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01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 2: I can understand almost eat my food because it's like, well,

1332
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: my food was delicious and even I was looking.

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01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 3: Forward to it.

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01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 2: So I get while you want to eat it because

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01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: it's because we both like delicious foods. But throwing it

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01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 2: in the trash is that's that's just a slapping the

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01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 2: face of everything you staying for.

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01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll start asking because I said I have a

1339
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 4: bad Uh.

1340
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know why you made this think of

1341
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: it was about you, Karen?

1342
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 3: Why else did you ask the pond?

1343
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean no one knew it was about you

1344
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 2: until you started saying it was about you.

1345
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 4: Well, I'm telling them myself, yes it was me, because,

1346
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 4: like I said, I have a clock that ticks, and

1347
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 4: after I see that dish so many times are like, dude,

1348
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 4: this nigga.

1349
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 3: Walk this or not. Literally swear to God, y'all.

1350
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 2: I got the food that night, she threw it away

1351
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 2: next morning because I've been sitting in here so long.

1352
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 2: It hasn't been sitting here so long. That's a lie.

1353
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 2: Survey says, that's a goddamn lie.

1354
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 3: No, that was my fault. Onto the podcast, that one

1355
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 3: right there was completing my fault.

1356
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 5: But that ain't normally, you know, the.

1357
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 4: Situation, Like I said, I'm gonna do better and ask.

1358
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 4: I had gotten the habit of asking the one time

1359
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 4: I don't ask.

1360
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 2: That's what happened, and thirty y'all actually did stay together and.

1361
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 3: Work it out. Wow, okay, all right?

1362
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 2: He so Ev He says, I only voted no because

1363
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 2: he doesn't throw my throw my leftovers away, but he

1364
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: sure has hellasim next time, I'm gonna put some sugar

1365
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 2: avery p in though, well, Eve, you enjoy that whatevers

1366
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 2: if you don't eat them, and then you just got p.

1367
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 3: Leftovers, guess just the price you gotta pay.

1368
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 2: Episode episode twenty and twenty eight, ask Interfearence. He says,

1369
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 2: those storytime YouTube videos have made.

1370
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 3: Many people huge on YouTube.

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01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: I've seen a few. They're very entertaining.

1372
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 2: Crazy thing is this woman probably would have gotten away

1373
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 2: with it if she didn't steal from someone with seven

1374
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 2: hundred and fifty thousand subscribers.

1375
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: Smaller content creators of color are starting.

1376
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 3: From on the regular. Yeah, yep.

1377
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 2: There was a controversy in the makeup community where Patrick Starr,

1378
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 2: a huge makeup Girl with Girl with millions of followers,

1379
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 2: was accused of stealing from a black woman who also

1380
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 2: did make up videos but had a smaller following. She

1381
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 2: did a Yeah I think we talked about this on

1382
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 2: the show a long time ago. She did a style

1383
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 2: called trap editing.

1384
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 3: Yep, yep. It was a big thing.

1385
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 2: The stealing won't stop until YouTube actually starts protecting smaller

1386
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 2: content creators. Yeah, I mean it's weird too, because, yeah,

1387
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna be tough. It's gonna be tough because like

1388
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 2: with trap editing, that might not be something you can

1389
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: quote unquote copyright in the way that people think. And

1390
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 2: in many cases, what these smaller YouTubers want is not

1391
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 2: even you can't use it.

1392
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 5: It's give me my credit, oimes. It's credit.

1393
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 3: You know, that's not a hard that's not a hard.

1394
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 2: Thing to give people like you have to willfully be

1395
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 2: a dick to be like I refuse to give you

1396
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 2: credit for this thing. And people are gonna know where

1397
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 2: I got it from in a lot of cases, or

1398
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 2: even worse, they'll never know where I got it from.

1399
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 3: So it's just, you know, I'm fucking you.

1400
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 2: You know, you know nobody was doing this before you,

1401
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: and now I'm doing it in my bigger videos and

1402
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 2: people going look at this innovation and it's like, yes,

1403
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 2: I am fucking you because I refuse to just give

1404
01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 2: you credit.

1405
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: It's such an asshole thing.

1406
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 2: But you know what, it goes back to the entitlement

1407
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 2: we talked about, because even creators do it to other creators.

1408
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 2: You know, a lot of times I'll talk about conversations

1409
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 2: and stuff and topics out hear from other podcasts. I

1410
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 2: always make a point to mention the podcast you know,

1411
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 2: good or bad normally well.

1412
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 3: Sometimes not bad.

1413
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 2: If it's bad, I try not to put their name

1414
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 2: in shit, to be honest, I don't want no beef.

1415
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 2: But if it's good, I always try to be like

1416
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 2: this is where I heard this, Go check it out.

1417
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 2: Because given credit is currency too, you know, we don't

1418
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 2: have to. I might not be able to throw some

1419
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 2: money at you for for like, yo, this is a

1420
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 2: great episode, but I can be like our fans even

1421
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 2: better than money. Our fans will go listen to it

1422
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 2: and some of them will stay. And now you've gained

1423
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 2: more fans. That's a big thing, you know what I mean.

1424
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 2: It's not gonna ask you to do labor. I would

1425
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 2: never pace on his labor like that necessarily, but still

1426
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 2: that's that's the thing. That I think if people skip

1427
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 2: over a lot of times, giving people credit is not

1428
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 2: It's not hard, and like, what the fuck you think?

1429
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 2: Everybody think you came up with this everything on your channel.

1430
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, that was fucked up.

1431
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: Have you ever masturbated in the cemetery?

1432
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 3: Yes? Or no?

1433
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 5: Karen no?

1434
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 3: Okay? Uh have you No? I have not.

1435
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 2: One of my audience says no, even though many left comments.

1436
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 2: Kim Docks says, wow, wow really side note, I've begun

1437
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,919
Speaker 2: saying this just like that Kune nigga, and I gotta

1438
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 2: say it releaves tension to stress. You gotta try anyway.

1439
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 2: The pole questions and wild are wild right now.

1440
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 3: Lol.

1441
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 2: Getting wet or heard at the cemetery is demon tom

1442
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 2: y lool do you boo boo?

1443
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 3: Yeah? I don porn thing?

1444
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,960
Speaker 2: Ms Bond says, did pub pornhub lay everybody off? I

1445
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 2: don't know, ha ha. Are they celebrating Ebony Friday? I

1446
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 2: don't know, probably or Black Friday?

1447
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 3: Your preference.

1448
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 2: Leslie says no, but I've hooked up in a church

1449
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: pocketing line.

1450
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: Oh, Leslie, do tell you?

1451
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 2: Freak Shay says I won't and would never, but I'm

1452
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 2: sure I've interrupted a few ghosts, sexy times, ghosts be

1453
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 2: getting it in and nobody can convince me different.

1454
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: That's what I do.

1455
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 2: If nobody can see me like I'm just gonna be

1456
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 2: having sex in the afterlife. Mind your business, don't be

1457
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 2: sauncing me.

1458
01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 5: Uh.

1459
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 2: The International International Mister Leather episode was twenty two hundred

1460
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 2: and twenty nine. We talked to Jack Thompson International Mister

1461
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 2: Leather twenty nine.

1462
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 3: Team that was Dash Dash Dash because they ain't been

1463
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: able to crown a new one yet. Ms.

1464
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 2: Barnes says, I love this interview. One of the many

1465
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 2: reasons why I love y'all so much is that we

1466
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 2: get I get to learn something new every time I

1467
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 2: did not know about Mister International Leather competition. I really

1468
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 2: enjoyed the interview with Jack and got to talk to

1469
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 2: his husband Jeff in the chat for a spell. Thank

1470
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 2: you again for the spot owned interview. Thank you, we enjoyed, Jackie.

1471
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 3: It was great.

1472
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 1: Marty says, I laught so hard at the intro with Rod.

1473
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 2: Changed it up and said, with your host, Rod and

1474
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,920
Speaker 2: Caeren was taking my surprise, as was I, so her

1475
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,360
Speaker 2: reaction was so funny. A little throwback to keep you

1476
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 2: on your toes Car. I also enjoyed this interview. I

1477
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 2: learned a lot. It was great to hear such a

1478
01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 2: candid question about different aspects and subsets of the LGBTQ world.

1479
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 2: Learning is always key to better communication and tolerance. I

1480
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 2: felt like I learned a lot more, a little more

1481
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 2: than I knew before. So I hear someone a family

1482
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 2: member most likely say something bigger than the ignorant, I

1483
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 2: can say, wait, hold on, that's not what you think.

1484
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 3: Cheers Jack.

1485
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, no doubt, no doubt.

1486
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. I really enjoyed the interview.

1487
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 2: It's kind of interesting because I always walked this line

1488
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 2: where we I don't want to bring some on on

1489
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 2: the show and make them only a resource for like information,

1490
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 2: like tell.

1491
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 3: Us about this, tell us about that.

1492
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:23,080
Speaker 2: And I hope that people get the humanization and the

1493
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:27,759
Speaker 2: just discussion between friends too part of it, because I think,

1494
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 2: in a weird way, that's more important than having people

1495
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 2: on to be resources for information. And I would say

1496
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 2: that about anybody, not just you know, an activist or

1497
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 2: what like when we had l Joy on the show,

1498
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 2: we talked about life stuff too, because I think it's

1499
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:46,320
Speaker 2: important to not just be like, here's this black woman,

1500
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 2: Now tell us about voting, you know, and I think

1501
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 2: a lot of shows are that, yep, and I don't

1502
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 2: like those interviews, you know. And then the other thing

1503
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 2: is I just didn't want to do some type of crass, ass,

1504
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 2: bullshit interview that people dude, So I do.

1505
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 3: Research and whatnot.

1506
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 2: Because I don't want to be asking some basic ass,

1507
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 2: intrusive or offensive questions to somebody, but just because they

1508
01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 2: come on the show and there and they're different from you,

1509
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 2: because I think that's whack too.

1510
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 1: When I listen to a show and they're.

1511
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 2: Like, hey, we got this person on and anyway i'll

1512
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 2: hear you gay tell us about sucking dick or whatever,

1513
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 2: You're like, what the fuck?

1514
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 3: Like, what kind of question is that? You wouldn't ask

1515
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 3: that of someone else on the show.

1516
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: If they were just head So right, we try to

1517
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 1: do that.

1518
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:32,599
Speaker 2: But the other thing about Jack though, is he's an

1519
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 2: open book because of his activism and his platform. So

1520
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 2: it's dope having him on to be able to say, like, Okay,

1521
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 2: can you talk to us about the stigma of living

1522
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 2: with HIV and you know, the misinformation that's out there

1523
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 2: because a lot of people I know, I didn't even

1524
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 2: think of it because I was conditioned to grow up

1525
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 2: thinking HIV ooh scary. I was never told like people

1526
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 2: like when it changed over, They're like, no, people live

1527
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:03,479
Speaker 2: with HIV. People can have they can have an HIV

1528
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: positive designation, but also be unable to pass it on

1529
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 2: to somebody else because they have so little of it within,

1530
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 2: because that's how far technology and medicine has come, you know.

1531
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,679
Speaker 2: So those things I think are important for the audience

1532
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:21,640
Speaker 2: to hear because I know I didn't know all that

1533
01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:25,040
Speaker 2: shit same and then the other thing I didn't want

1534
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 2: to do is just come on and be like, let's

1535
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 2: do LGBTQ news.

1536
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 1: So here's some terrible shit that's happening in the world.

1537
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 2: So you know, it was we wanted to have fun,

1538
01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:34,919
Speaker 2: and hopefully people got to have fun.

1539
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 3: I three my favorite part was talking about Star Wars

1540
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 3: the poll.

1541
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: Have you ever masturbated by a Popeyes? Karen No, okay,

1542
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: all right?

1543
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,679
Speaker 2: Yes, three percent of the audience, which means ninety seven

1544
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 2: percent of y'all.

1545
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 3: Have not masturbated by pop Eyes. MS.

1546
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 2: Bond says, I mean that sandwich is good, though, but

1547
01:10:57,720 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 2: let me take it to the house, all right.

1548
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 3: Would have loved to hear from the one person who

1549
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 3: said they did.

1550
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 2: And then the last episode of the week was The

1551
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 2: Great Adventures of the Press Girl with our Girl Brandy Brown.

1552
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 2: Comedian Marty says, I once again fell behind with episodes,

1553
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 2: so I played this one as I was falling asleep

1554
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 2: with the intention of re listening tomorrow.

1555
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 1: Somehow, at some point I had a realization.

1556
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 2: I set up in bed and said, wait, is this

1557
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,799
Speaker 2: Brandy the comedian I follow on Twitter?

1558
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: And it is. She's the best.

1559
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 2: And now I guess I started following her because of

1560
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:33,760
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. Well, I'm such a fan from all

1561
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 2: her cat tweets I'm literally cat sitting right now, to

1562
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 2: the Minnesota State Fair tweets, to the Jessica Fletcher murder

1563
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 2: she wrote tweets as well as her jokes and life

1564
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 2: observations and the rewatch of Scandal this year.

1565
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: I was also very.

1566
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 2: Moved by her thoughts and experience of the George Floyd

1567
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 2: George Floyd protests in Minneapolis. Well, this episode completely encapsulates

1568
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 2: everything that makes me a fan. Is a real treat

1569
01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 2: to hear her voice, and I've enjoying this very fun,

1570
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 2: ever more interesting conversation. Still listening, but I had to

1571
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 2: comment before I missed the window of opportunity, seeing as

1572
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 2: how it's one am and I'm always so late to

1573
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 2: submit feedback. A wonderful ending to another great week episodes.

1574
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, you. We appreciate you, and uh yeah,

1575
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:16,320
Speaker 3: we appreciate Brandy.

1576
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:21,719
Speaker 2: She's a very fun runner for a while now virtually

1577
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 2: and whatnot, so you know, it's cool catching.

1578
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 3: Up with her.

1579
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,599
Speaker 2: And the poll is have you been able to date

1580
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 2: during the pandemic because we talked to her about dating

1581
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 2: in the pandemic and getting on the apps. Yes, no,

1582
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 2: or I'm not currently looking Okay, No, okay, no, you

1583
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 2: have not been able to date.

1584
01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:42,799
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not currently looking.

1585
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 3: So Karen apparently is looking but has not been able

1586
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 3: to date. I'm not even looking. Okay, you're looking on dating?

1587
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:51,560
Speaker 3: What my bad? Well, you know the truth, knowingly be

1588
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:52,559
Speaker 3: the first thing to jump out.

1589
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 2: No. No, fourteen percent say yes they have been dating

1590
01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 2: been able to date during the pandemic, which makes it

1591
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 2: I wonder if it's retreads is it new people.

1592
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:02,880
Speaker 3: I wonder how that.

1593
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:04,800
Speaker 2: Goes, because I think it will be easier for me

1594
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 2: to be like I guess I can kind of trust

1595
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 2: this motherfucker. I already fucked with, then for a whole

1596
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 2: new person, but who knows. Then again, I mean, what

1597
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 2: if that the old person? The reason don't fuck with them,

1598
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 2: know most because they was a line piece of shit.

1599
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

1600
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 2: Thirty four percent say no and fifty one percent say

1601
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 2: I'm not currently looking. Dre says, I ended a long

1602
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:24,879
Speaker 2: term relationship eight years in the fall of twenty nineteen,

1603
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:27,719
Speaker 2: so my plan was to take some time to myself

1604
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 2: and maybe get back out there dating in the Springs

1605
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 2: last summer twenty twenty. Then when COVID happened, I realized

1606
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 2: that I'm just going to put dating on hold until

1607
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 2: hopefully this is over. Shae says, for several reasons I have.

1608
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 2: I need to be able to smiff my partner. You

1609
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 2: can't make sure your partner don't smell like, oh, sniff

1610
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,759
Speaker 2: my partner. You can't make sure your partner don't smell

1611
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,919
Speaker 2: like another bitch. If you got a mask on standing

1612
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 2: six feet away.

1613
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 3: Fucks if your sense of smelling.

1614
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 2: That's true, Shay, that is true. No one really thinks

1615
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:00,040
Speaker 2: about that. But if you get COVID, you have no

1616
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 2: sense of spell. So you want to know if they

1617
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 2: smell like another bitch until you get the COVID from

1618
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 2: them and you go, You've been around some COVID bitches.

1619
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I see.

1620
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 1: What's going on.

1621
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 2: Something's going on five and the money.

1622
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 3: Let me smell yo, dick if I can ms. Barn says.

1623
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 2: So I made the decision in October to day, and

1624
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 2: I have talked to the most guys in the past

1625
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 2: few months, and I talked in the past eighteen to

1626
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 2: twenty years, even went out on a few dates social distance.

1627
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 2: Of course, I never thought that in the year of

1628
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:34,879
Speaker 2: my Lord twenty twenty, in the middle of a whole pandemic,

1629
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 2: there's someone who will study my ass.

1630
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 3: Lol. You know, but you know what thing.

1631
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:43,560
Speaker 2: I'm wondering though, for a lot of people that appreciate

1632
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 2: boundaries in their space and shit, this might be the

1633
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 2: the pandemic might be the fucking come up.

1634
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 3: Cause they was like, I don't have to deal with

1635
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 3: you touching me.

1636
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 4: You know, doubt some people like that, like I don't

1637
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 4: have to deal with you touching me invading my space.

1638
01:14:57,439 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 3: Like you know what, we got to get know each other, nigga,

1639
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 3: the opera? Are we fucking on? The first date? Thing

1640
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:03,679
Speaker 3: is over?

1641
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:06,880
Speaker 2: Yes, it is you know, it's like, no, I'm not

1642
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:10,439
Speaker 2: fucking with you on the first date. I'm good. Like

1643
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 2: a matter of fact, it's over because you asked, you.

1644
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 5: Know, ain't that the truth?

1645
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,879
Speaker 1: So anyway, I just thought that was interested.

1646
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 2: We did get one voicemail seven O four five five

1647
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 2: seven zero one eighty six the voicemail line riding Karen.

1648
01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 6: It's CHRISA at Prosscry on Twitter, just checking in with

1649
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 6: y'all real quick. I just have to say that, first

1650
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 6: of all, it was so special to have the show

1651
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 6: with Jack Thompson. You know, so many of us got

1652
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 6: to meet him at the List show in twenty eighteen,

1653
01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 6: and then you know, after meeting him, I connected with

1654
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 6: him on Facebook and so when he became international mister Leather,

1655
01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 6: I was definitely part of the celebration online. So to

1656
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 6: hear the back story was just a special So thank

1657
01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:03,680
Speaker 6: you for that. I also want to say, you know

1658
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 6: how I'm always working on trying to be funnier. You know,

1659
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 6: the chat room is, you know, full of people who

1660
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 6: are funnier than me, and uh so I don't always

1661
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:17,839
Speaker 6: say things as a joke, but I did a racist

1662
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 6: joke during Guess the Race that was striking enough for

1663
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 6: you to pause on it and be like, that was

1664
01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,560
Speaker 6: the professor who said that, I won't tell you.

1665
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 3: That was a very proud moment for.

1666
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 6: Me to do a joke that made you pause. So

1667
01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 6: what a special show. Thank you both for everything. Congratulations

1668
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 6: again to Jack, and congratulations to y'all on by the

1669
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 6: side slator later.

1670
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, it was surprising and I

1671
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:53,639
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna out you. That's why I said, just a professor.

1672
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 2: Several professors listen to the show, despite what you probably

1673
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 2: would think, but several professors listenin too.

1674
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 4: We've been like, oh you gotta you got degrees with

1675
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 4: letters in behind them.

1676
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:06,760
Speaker 2: I just didn't want to put nobody name to it

1677
01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 2: in case somebody was trying to look for somebody later.

1678
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:10,599
Speaker 3: But since you put it out.

1679
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: There yourself, it was hilarious.

1680
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 3: It is I was.

1681
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, Okay, we got people

1682
01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 2: here risking their.

1683
01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 3: Lives to get these jokes off and we love it

1684
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:20,679
Speaker 3: all right.

1685
01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 2: We got emails COVID song shut the fuck up and

1686
01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:28,280
Speaker 2: put on the mask, Hey, Rod and Cam.

1687
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 1: I just wanted to show this COVID nineteen hit single

1688
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 1: and link below the info. Oh man, I can't play this.

1689
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:37,240
Speaker 2: Sorry, I can't play it, but it's probably if it's

1690
01:17:37,240 --> 01:17:38,559
Speaker 2: not copyright, we don't own it.

1691
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: Can't play it, you know, at least not here.

1692
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 3: Check out the pregame next week. Maybe we'll hear it there.

1693
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:54,800
Speaker 2: But it's infuriating to read about the simple things that

1694
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,799
Speaker 2: the countries are doing and how they are living normal lives.

1695
01:17:57,880 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 1: I doubt the half the half.

1696
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 2: Of the country voted for Trump will cooperate with any

1697
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,800
Speaker 2: of the steps they have worked for other countries. I

1698
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 2: know every day I hear people in my community complain

1699
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 2: about how the government is trying to make us their puppets.

1700
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 2: We are now the shithold country that come Trump complained about, right, yep, yep,

1701
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:21,200
Speaker 2: John Wright saying article on COVID hospital, Oh yeah, I did.

1702
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:23,280
Speaker 3: Read this article. It's from the Atlantic as long as hell.

1703
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, we we we've talked about the the hospital

1704
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 2: nightmare that and shit is about to get way worse.

1705
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:37,760
Speaker 5: Still going up, y'all.

1706
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:42,120
Speaker 2: Buckle up, y'all, batten down. You know, like we're almost there.

1707
01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 2: We've been doing this thing. It'll be a year in

1708
01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 2: a few months, but hopefully we're nearing the end of this.

1709
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 2: You know, like this is one of those things where

1710
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 2: you hear about the sacrifices of like the greatest generation

1711
01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:55,960
Speaker 2: and shit, and I'm like, I, shit, ain't even as

1712
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:57,400
Speaker 2: bad as them, but.

1713
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 3: Like, we gotta do something to live through this pandemic. Man,

1714
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 3: come on, we gotta do it.

1715
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 2: Grayson Wright saying, hey, y'all, I'm bad guy that sent

1716
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 2: you the beat. Karen said it was pretty neat, and

1717
01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 2: I thought that was pretty neat, But I wanted to

1718
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 2: ask how you felt about the following After I listened

1719
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 2: to y'all talk about Jennit and will reunion and the

1720
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 2: difference between approaching something from a place of guilt or shame,

1721
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:21,360
Speaker 2: I heard someone talking about on NPR.

1722
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 3: About the same reunion.

1723
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 2: She articulated that Will's damage was irreparable to black female

1724
01:19:26,040 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 2: actresses and that there was no way to know what

1725
01:19:29,120 --> 01:19:32,639
Speaker 2: was lost for black female actresses during that those twenty

1726
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 2: seven years.

1727
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 3: I guess for uh Jened she.

1728
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,480
Speaker 2: Said that Will did not go far enough to provide reparations.

1729
01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 2: I feel like that, firstly, it is hard to know,

1730
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:44,080
Speaker 2: and secondly might be a bit unfair. I felt like

1731
01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,719
Speaker 2: they are framing the situation that happened in a different

1732
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 2: time in today's context. I've been hurt before and wanted

1733
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 2: someplace to put that blame and anger. But eventually I

1734
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 2: realized that the blame of anger was a weight I

1735
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 2: carried around. I feel Janet might be in a similar situation,

1736
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 2: and reunion seemed like a perfect place for that cathartic

1737
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 2: experience to get to a place of that happened and

1738
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 2: that's okay, what do y'all think, stay allsom Grason, Well, I.

1739
01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 4: About to say it's something we kind of have explained before,

1740
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 4: because it's one of the things where there are a

1741
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 4: lot of people that have been hurt, just like Janet has,

1742
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 4: and they and they're mad, and they're angry, and they're

1743
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 4: justified in their anger.

1744
01:20:23,960 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 5: And what happens is.

1745
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:28,439
Speaker 4: That resolving this means that they have to let it

1746
01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 4: go too, and they refuse to let it go, you know,

1747
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:33,840
Speaker 4: because now it's not about Jenet no more. It's about you.

1748
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 3: It's about the you personally.

1749
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 4: After a certain point, it's no longer about the two

1750
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 4: people involved, because this is between Janet and Will.

1751
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 5: This has nothing to do with all us individual people.

1752
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 4: That have lived all these different lives, that have had

1753
01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:52,719
Speaker 4: all these different circumstances projecting, and a lot of times

1754
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 4: people are just projecting, and a lot of times people

1755
01:20:57,400 --> 01:20:59,680
Speaker 4: have not dealt with their own forgiveness, they have not

1756
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 4: up with their own insecurities, you know, And these these

1757
01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 4: feelings are justified. And I do understand what Roderick is

1758
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:10,400
Speaker 4: as bought up when it comes to dark skinned black women,

1759
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 4: you just being at the bottom and everything being powered

1760
01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 4: on you and things like that, I completely, one hundred

1761
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 4: percent understand. But the reality of it is that at

1762
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 4: some period of time, you have to take accountability and

1763
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:26,719
Speaker 4: responsibility for your own actions.

1764
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 3: You just have to.

1765
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:28,720
Speaker 5: No matter who you are.

1766
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:31,679
Speaker 4: Nigga, you're forty five, nigga, you're fifty, nigga, you're sixty, nigga,

1767
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:35,840
Speaker 4: you're seventy, at some period of time, you, as an

1768
01:21:35,840 --> 01:21:39,360
Speaker 4: individual person has got to take accountability for your Yes,

1769
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:40,120
Speaker 4: it's fucked up.

1770
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,160
Speaker 3: No it's not fair, No it's not right.

1771
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:43,679
Speaker 1: No, you won't get closer.

1772
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:47,720
Speaker 3: I understand your hurt, I understand your pain. I understand.

1773
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes it was.

1774
01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 3: Terrible and it was a tragic thing that happened to you.

1775
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 4: But at some period of time, it's a it's a

1776
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 4: point of personal responsibility. And I think for a lot

1777
01:21:58,040 --> 01:21:59,679
Speaker 4: of people that run away from that, and it's easier

1778
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 4: to jet and blame everybody else then to be then

1779
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 4: to have personal responsibility. And this is what happened, in

1780
01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:09,719
Speaker 4: my opinion, when you treat celebes mascots, because the second

1781
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 4: the mascot can't be a mascot no more, you have

1782
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:15,559
Speaker 4: to justify them continue to be a mascot, even though

1783
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 4: they might have moved on.

1784
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely feel a few ways about it.

1785
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 2: I think number one, I mean a lot of what

1786
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 2: you said, I do kind of agree with what the

1787
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 2: idea that it's like she was still gonna be a

1788
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:34,679
Speaker 2: dark skinned sitcom actress, older sitcom actress, regardless of Will

1789
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:38,960
Speaker 2: Smith would have said, no, fuck it, keep her. We're

1790
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 2: negotiating for all the things that she would have been

1791
01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:43,559
Speaker 2: the fresh Prince of Bella, her mother for seven years.

1792
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:46,760
Speaker 2: So what I did this week was I looked up

1793
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: some other women of similar stature at that time, you know,

1794
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 2: like Joe Marie Payton, who played Harriet Winslow. She didn't

1795
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 2: go on to become you know, some super famous person.

1796
01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 2: She's she keep a job, but so did Jane and Hubert,

1797
01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 2: you know, Marla gives from two to two seven. You know,

1798
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:16,000
Speaker 2: she kind of becomes almost like a character actress and

1799
01:23:16,160 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 2: other things. But like a lot of times, you become

1800
01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:22,800
Speaker 2: synonymous with that role. No one else even on the

1801
01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:26,639
Speaker 2: on the show Fresh Friends, none of the other actors

1802
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:32,240
Speaker 2: Karen Parsons did, like Major Pain and the Ladies Man Like,

1803
01:23:32,439 --> 01:23:35,919
Speaker 2: no one from that show other than Will Smith became

1804
01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:37,679
Speaker 2: such an uber talent.

1805
01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 1: Even on Fonzo Vieria, I think that's his name.

1806
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:45,760
Speaker 2: He ends up doing like uh State Farm commercials.

1807
01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 1: And America Homes video.

1808
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:53,240
Speaker 2: So what happens here is and this is why I say,

1809
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:56,839
Speaker 2: you know, the grudge is so powerful you can fixate

1810
01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:59,640
Speaker 2: on the grudge, and now he becomes the thing that

1811
01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 2: kept me from being a star, like I would have

1812
01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:07,640
Speaker 2: been an Oscar winning star. And I think some of

1813
01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:11,040
Speaker 2: that speaks to her ego and also her confidence in herself.

1814
01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:13,360
Speaker 2: Is not all ego is bad, but some of that

1815
01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:14,919
Speaker 2: speaks to your own experience.

1816
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 3: I was gonna be this at twenty one.

1817
01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:19,400
Speaker 2: Will Smith didn't even know he was gonna be Will Smith.

1818
01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:21,599
Speaker 2: He didn't think he was going to be He thought

1819
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 2: this was a thing to do to get out of

1820
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 2: debt because rat was drying up, he lost out, spend

1821
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:28,640
Speaker 2: all his money, he was in debt. This is not

1822
01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:33,520
Speaker 2: this Like what happens is we let hindsight become the storyteller.

1823
01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 2: We're like, oh, he knew he would be a fucking

1824
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 2: multi movie star and he said, fuck this woman, she's

1825
01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:42,640
Speaker 2: in my way, and that's how and he sinisterly connived

1826
01:24:42,680 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 2: his way with a conspiracy to get to the top.

1827
01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:47,599
Speaker 2: It's like, no, Ma, he did the same thing most

1828
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 2: of us do at that age, when somebody at work

1829
01:24:49,479 --> 01:24:50,960
Speaker 2: getting on your motherfucking nerves.

1830
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:51,600
Speaker 3: That's it.

1831
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:54,360
Speaker 2: We do not think deeper than that. And you find

1832
01:24:54,400 --> 01:24:57,040
Speaker 2: out later maybe you should think deeper than that. Maybe

1833
01:24:57,040 --> 01:25:00,479
Speaker 2: what you did hurt somebody. And so I think that's

1834
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 2: a big part of it. As far as restoration and restitution,

1835
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 2: I think that's up to Janey Hubert to say yes, like,

1836
01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:11,040
Speaker 2: this is why I talk about this fucking grievance worship

1837
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 2: and grievance.

1838
01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:13,320
Speaker 1: Porn, like because it comes about you.

1839
01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:16,280
Speaker 2: We insert ourselves into these people's stories and be like,

1840
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:19,519
Speaker 2: you can't let this go until you get blank.

1841
01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:21,280
Speaker 3: What would make it right?

1842
01:25:21,680 --> 01:25:22,080
Speaker 5: Nothing?

1843
01:25:22,479 --> 01:25:24,800
Speaker 3: You know, cause if you because it's still twenty.

1844
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:26,719
Speaker 1: Seven years she spent on this grudge.

1845
01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 2: So if he could, he could give her a job

1846
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,280
Speaker 2: tomorrow and there's still gonna be people being like not enough.

1847
01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:33,600
Speaker 1: He could give her a million dollars, she would have

1848
01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:34,440
Speaker 1: been a billionaire.

1849
01:25:34,479 --> 01:25:37,040
Speaker 2: She would have never gotten you don't know, you know,

1850
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 2: to me, it's almost like that I knew a kid

1851
01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:44,320
Speaker 2: when I was in high school and he had a

1852
01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:48,920
Speaker 2: he had some issues, mental health issues, and he drank

1853
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 2: to kind of subside that stuff, like, you know, he

1854
01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:55,559
Speaker 2: would talk to himself and stuff like we knew something

1855
01:25:55,600 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 2: more serious was at play, but this is nineteen nineties

1856
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:04,320
Speaker 2: something like, it's early nineties. All the shit we know

1857
01:26:04,439 --> 01:26:07,960
Speaker 2: now that so some oh therapy, mental health and you know,

1858
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 2: get a diagnosis. We didn't have all that, you know

1859
01:26:11,160 --> 01:26:14,040
Speaker 2: at the time, or at least that's it wasn't common thing,

1860
01:26:15,400 --> 01:26:16,880
Speaker 2: And so he just became the dude to talk to

1861
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,280
Speaker 2: himself at the basketball court. That kind of kind of wild.

1862
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 2: But he was good at basketball, and he made the

1863
01:26:23,960 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 2: basketball team because he was tall and athletic. But his

1864
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:33,960
Speaker 2: once again, like his drinking showing up late, he's emotional

1865
01:26:33,960 --> 01:26:39,400
Speaker 2: outburst that he would have it basically got him off

1866
01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:42,439
Speaker 2: of the team like that because the way the team works.

1867
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:46,400
Speaker 2: Is if you're the one sticking out, they don't say

1868
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:47,960
Speaker 2: you have mental health issues.

1869
01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:49,040
Speaker 3: They don't say.

1870
01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 2: Why are you drinking? Why were you late to practice?

1871
01:26:53,240 --> 01:26:55,519
Speaker 2: It's something going on with your home life, you know.

1872
01:26:57,040 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 2: You know, at one point, I remember meeting his brother

1873
01:26:59,240 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 2: and I thought his brother was kind of abusive towards him,

1874
01:27:01,960 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 2: you know, And none of that shit mattered to the

1875
01:27:05,080 --> 01:27:08,879
Speaker 2: people on the basketball team because the basketball team's job.

1876
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:13,120
Speaker 1: Is to play basketball, and so is it right? Nah?

1877
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:16,680
Speaker 2: And maybe that coach looks back thirty years from then and.

1878
01:27:16,640 --> 01:27:20,559
Speaker 3: Goes, you know what, I was wrong. I you know, I.

1879
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:23,160
Speaker 2: Didn't recognize that you had more going on, or I

1880
01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:25,720
Speaker 2: thought it didn't matter, because the only thing that matter

1881
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,040
Speaker 2: is playing basketball and winning basketball games. But now, as

1882
01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 2: an older person that has a chance to look now,

1883
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:33,160
Speaker 2: keep in mind, this is kind of a different scenario

1884
01:27:33,160 --> 01:27:35,799
Speaker 2: because the coach is older than the players. In high school,

1885
01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:38,120
Speaker 2: this would be like literally the youngest nigga on the

1886
01:27:38,120 --> 01:27:40,040
Speaker 2: team talking about I realized, now it's the start of

1887
01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:40,400
Speaker 2: the team.

1888
01:27:40,439 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 3: I should have you know.

1889
01:27:41,479 --> 01:27:44,040
Speaker 2: So it's like that's a little bit more unrealistic, But

1890
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 2: the point being, I can see how all that stuff

1891
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 2: happens at.

1892
01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:50,800
Speaker 3: The same time.

1893
01:27:50,840 --> 01:27:53,360
Speaker 2: And I knew this kid, and he did blame that

1894
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:55,960
Speaker 2: coach and blame that team. And I remember talking to

1895
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:58,519
Speaker 2: my brother about him being like, but wasn't he drunk

1896
01:27:58,560 --> 01:27:59,160
Speaker 2: and showing.

1897
01:27:59,000 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 3: Up late for the thing?

1898
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,960
Speaker 2: Wasn't he getting an attitude with the coach and yelling

1899
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 2: at him and shit? And he was like, yeah, but

1900
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 2: far as he concerned, it's the coach fault. He would

1901
01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 2: have been Michael Jordan, but the coach got him off

1902
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:13,960
Speaker 2: the team. And every last person hear me tell that story.

1903
01:28:14,240 --> 01:28:16,639
Speaker 2: Know somebody, I'm not saying they have mental health issues,

1904
01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:18,280
Speaker 2: but you know somebody that says, I would have been

1905
01:28:18,320 --> 01:28:20,920
Speaker 2: Michael Jordan if it wasn't for that coach.

1906
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,040
Speaker 3: Right, everybody knows that kid. We all grew up with

1907
01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 3: that kid.

1908
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,640
Speaker 2: And I feel like, in a way, that's kind of

1909
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 2: the Ganet hubor equation for people is she would have

1910
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 2: been insert biggest star in the world here, but if

1911
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:40,240
Speaker 2: it wasn't for that, And then you look at the

1912
01:28:40,360 --> 01:28:42,600
Speaker 2: all the case studies of the likelihood of that, it's like,

1913
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 2: maybe not, you know what I mean, And then maybe

1914
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 2: she doesn't get bigger than she is now, But you know,

1915
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:53,520
Speaker 2: she also would have been on that show for seven seasons,

1916
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:56,480
Speaker 2: which is still a good check and a good opportunity

1917
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:59,160
Speaker 2: and a household name. And you know, like I said,

1918
01:28:59,200 --> 01:29:00,519
Speaker 2: no one else on that sh show that was on

1919
01:29:00,560 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 2: her for seven seasons really made the lepe to mega

1920
01:29:04,040 --> 01:29:07,360
Speaker 2: star except for Will Smith, you know. So you know,

1921
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 2: it's just hard for me to believe, I mean, family matters.

1922
01:29:10,160 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 2: None of them, did it, Not Eddie Winslow, not not

1923
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:17,439
Speaker 2: even Steve Rkle, JELLEL. White, like you know, and once

1924
01:29:17,479 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 2: again the woman who play Harriet Winslow had a similar

1925
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:22,760
Speaker 2: issue with Jaelle White on the set. Lord thought she

1926
01:29:22,880 --> 01:29:25,080
Speaker 2: was like this, why is everybody on this niggas dick?

1927
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:27,519
Speaker 2: Because the show is basically Steve Urkle.

1928
01:29:27,320 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 5: Show gets into Yet yeah, same.

1929
01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:30,679
Speaker 3: Thing with Fresh Friends.

1930
01:29:30,720 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 2: It's the friend it's just fucking Will Smith show. And

1931
01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:35,519
Speaker 2: everybody that's not down with that gonna end up having

1932
01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 2: to go. So, you know, I just think it's easy

1933
01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:40,320
Speaker 2: to reform this stuff, but we live in this time

1934
01:29:40,360 --> 01:29:44,400
Speaker 2: where like it's grievance porn and everyone's so woke now

1935
01:29:44,439 --> 01:29:48,880
Speaker 2: that we can't say obvious shit like okay, maybe she

1936
01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:51,759
Speaker 2: wouldn't have been that. It doesn't make any it doesn't

1937
01:29:51,760 --> 01:29:53,920
Speaker 2: make it right the way that shit happened on the set.

1938
01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:56,519
Speaker 2: It's like, no, in order to be right, we have

1939
01:29:56,640 --> 01:29:58,240
Speaker 2: to say she would have went on to be Viola

1940
01:29:58,320 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 2: Davis Valla.

1941
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:02,880
Speaker 1: Davis never did TV before she did.

1942
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:05,439
Speaker 2: Broadway until she until she was ready to do movies.

1943
01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:06,719
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1944
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:09,559
Speaker 1: Like that stop gap matters on your career path is

1945
01:30:09,560 --> 01:30:10,000
Speaker 1: while a lot.

1946
01:30:09,880 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 3: Of people refuse to do it. You know, That's why

1947
01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:12,519
Speaker 3: you say a lot.

1948
01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 2: Of movie stars refuse to do TV, because then you're

1949
01:30:14,360 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 2: stuck on TV all the time. Like it's just a

1950
01:30:16,760 --> 01:30:19,000
Speaker 2: lot of moving parts here. I think what matters the

1951
01:30:19,040 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 2: most is that she felt aggrieved and Will Smith validated

1952
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:27,559
Speaker 2: admitted that and said my bad. And I think and

1953
01:30:27,600 --> 01:30:29,840
Speaker 2: they hugged it out at the end, and I'm able

1954
01:30:29,920 --> 01:30:34,120
Speaker 2: to leave it there, like yeah, that's on y'all.

1955
01:30:34,040 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 4: And a lot of people can't. And at some period

1956
01:30:36,360 --> 01:30:38,400
Speaker 4: of time, it is not about them. It's about you

1957
01:30:38,520 --> 01:30:40,519
Speaker 4: and what's going on in your personal life and how

1958
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:43,040
Speaker 4: you feel about that nigger that did something you in

1959
01:30:43,080 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 4: your life, Like like it boils down, it's no longer

1960
01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:49,439
Speaker 4: about them and it becomes about you, and nobody wants

1961
01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:50,160
Speaker 4: to admit that.

1962
01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:52,360
Speaker 3: At some period of time it is not about them.

1963
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's weird too because like they act like

1964
01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:57,160
Speaker 2: if he hadn't done this, she wouldn't be a dark

1965
01:30:57,160 --> 01:31:00,240
Speaker 2: skinned black woman in Hollywood. She still would have to

1966
01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:03,000
Speaker 2: deal with all that shit, even with Will Smith never

1967
01:31:03,080 --> 01:31:08,080
Speaker 2: having being like, all right, then she can go. That

1968
01:31:08,160 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 2: doesn't change, like, it doesn't change the monster that that

1969
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:11,519
Speaker 2: field is.

1970
01:31:11,600 --> 01:31:13,479
Speaker 1: It's not a fair field in the first place.

1971
01:31:13,720 --> 01:31:17,000
Speaker 2: A woman like that does that talented when she was white,

1972
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 2: would probably already be started in some other shit, Like

1973
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,360
Speaker 2: she wouldn't even have to be the sitcomm on. It's like, no,

1974
01:31:23,880 --> 01:31:27,920
Speaker 2: this woman is thirty four, she's a fucking classically trained dancer,

1975
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:30,519
Speaker 2: she's a great actress, blah blah blah. But those same

1976
01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:35,200
Speaker 2: things can destroy you in Hollywood because then it becomes well,

1977
01:31:35,200 --> 01:31:37,639
Speaker 2: you're the thirty four year old, confident, dark skinned black

1978
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:39,719
Speaker 2: woman that says we should get paid what we're worth

1979
01:31:39,840 --> 01:31:42,800
Speaker 2: and your ass gotta go. Ain't nobody supposed to believe

1980
01:31:42,840 --> 01:31:43,760
Speaker 2: that looking like you?

1981
01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 3: What you think this is?

1982
01:31:45,320 --> 01:31:45,759
Speaker 2: Friends?

1983
01:31:45,800 --> 01:31:46,439
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

1984
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 2: You know what's really fucked up? Because everyone looks at

1985
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:53,080
Speaker 2: him eating a shit from Janet. I'm like Will ate

1986
01:31:53,280 --> 01:31:56,639
Speaker 2: shit from the people who actually make decisions on that show,

1987
01:31:57,920 --> 01:32:00,360
Speaker 2: because ain't nobody. I ain't heard not one person bring

1988
01:32:00,439 --> 01:32:02,400
Speaker 2: up Quincy Jones. I ain't heard one person bring up

1989
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:05,920
Speaker 2: a showrunner or nothing. Everyone keeps on Will Smith, Will Smith.

1990
01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:07,960
Speaker 2: And I'm like he did a lot of people a

1991
01:32:08,000 --> 01:32:10,040
Speaker 2: favor because he could have just came on there and

1992
01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:13,880
Speaker 2: been like, I don't make them decisions. You never told

1993
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:16,080
Speaker 2: me this shit, and I don't make those decisions. I

1994
01:32:16,120 --> 01:32:18,720
Speaker 2: was twenty fucking one, you were thirty four. You were

1995
01:32:18,840 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 2: acting kind of stink. People didn't know what was going on.

1996
01:32:21,560 --> 01:32:23,880
Speaker 2: You just started acting stink on the set and people

1997
01:32:23,920 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 2: and it wasn't just me. Multiple people have was like,

1998
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:29,479
Speaker 2: you gotta get the fuck out of here. You had

1999
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 2: every all these people that worked on that set. No

2000
01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:34,160
Speaker 2: one has ever come to her defense. It's been like,

2001
01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:37,040
Speaker 2: you know what they did her dirty? You know what

2002
01:32:37,280 --> 01:32:40,280
Speaker 2: she she you know that was we love working with her.

2003
01:32:40,320 --> 01:32:41,000
Speaker 2: That's fucked up.

2004
01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:42,439
Speaker 3: No everybody got the same.

2005
01:32:42,520 --> 01:32:44,960
Speaker 1: So like, he ate that shit for everybody.

2006
01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:47,200
Speaker 2: A lot of people duck their heads on this one,

2007
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:50,439
Speaker 2: and he like a man ate that shit and let

2008
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:52,479
Speaker 2: or like an adult ate that shit and let people's

2009
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 2: shit on him and all that. That's good, Dude, I

2010
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:57,800
Speaker 2: don't think I got it in me. I would have

2011
01:32:57,800 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 2: had to at least exclaim out side of the shit. Yeah.

2012
01:33:00,240 --> 01:33:05,040
Speaker 4: And it's also one of the things to where for

2013
01:33:05,680 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 4: a lot of people, they don't know what happened when

2014
01:33:09,120 --> 01:33:11,639
Speaker 4: the camera's went rolling, they don't know the compass like,

2015
01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:12,280
Speaker 4: like I said, this.

2016
01:33:12,320 --> 01:33:13,440
Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing.

2017
01:33:13,600 --> 01:33:16,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people do know. That's what's fucked up.

2018
01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:19,639
Speaker 2: A lot of people do know, but they're not gonna

2019
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 2: say nothing because.

2020
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:22,520
Speaker 1: It's fucking it will fuck up the narrative.

2021
01:33:22,439 --> 01:33:23,920
Speaker 2: Right, And I don't blame them, by the way, I

2022
01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:26,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't say shit either because they made some level of

2023
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:31,320
Speaker 2: peace leave it alone. But this, like all that information

2024
01:33:31,479 --> 01:33:33,639
Speaker 2: about what happened on the set didn't come from Will Smith.

2025
01:33:34,720 --> 01:33:37,320
Speaker 2: So it's just it's just crazy that, like like I said,

2026
01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:39,920
Speaker 2: it's a beautiful piece of media, a lot of people

2027
01:33:40,320 --> 01:33:43,840
Speaker 2: were able to like kind of skip over everything that

2028
01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:46,000
Speaker 2: we've learned in twenty seven years to be like, nope,

2029
01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 2: it was just this man trying to destroy a black

2030
01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:51,160
Speaker 2: woman and finally she got some semblance of acknowledgment.

2031
01:33:51,479 --> 01:33:58,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, And and and for some people, uh, I understand

2032
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 4: their anger and them being upset. But sometimes people want

2033
01:34:04,320 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 4: to excuse everything she did and just put everything.

2034
01:34:08,080 --> 01:34:08,519
Speaker 5: Just like she.

2035
01:34:08,560 --> 01:34:11,920
Speaker 4: They're doing exactly what she's doing every because she and

2036
01:34:12,000 --> 01:34:14,679
Speaker 4: a lot I've seen this on the internet. Dark skinned

2037
01:34:14,680 --> 01:34:17,640
Speaker 4: black women can't do nothing wrong. She can act to

2038
01:34:17,680 --> 01:34:19,800
Speaker 4: ass she can act the food. She could be homophobic,

2039
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:23,479
Speaker 4: she she could be transphobic. But because she is a

2040
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:27,920
Speaker 4: black person, a black woman, and because society is just wrong,

2041
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:32,800
Speaker 4: there's nothing that she can do that we're going to

2042
01:34:32,880 --> 01:34:35,639
Speaker 4: hold her account before and I've seen this way too

2043
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:37,160
Speaker 4: many times online.

2044
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:38,320
Speaker 5: Now that shit good on.

2045
01:34:38,280 --> 01:34:39,280
Speaker 1: My she skipped.

2046
01:34:39,360 --> 01:34:41,760
Speaker 2: I mean, that's the thing, because that's black women saw

2047
01:34:41,840 --> 01:34:44,880
Speaker 2: often hit with the brunt of shit when they don't

2048
01:34:44,880 --> 01:34:48,560
Speaker 2: deserve it. Agree, people feel like we gotta protect them,

2049
01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:51,160
Speaker 2: but in some ways it can be almost patronizing.

2050
01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:53,200
Speaker 1: And I'm just trying to stand in.

2051
01:34:53,160 --> 01:34:56,240
Speaker 2: The like at least what I see as the truth,

2052
01:34:56,400 --> 01:34:58,200
Speaker 2: rather than to be like, I gotta play a team.

2053
01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:01,080
Speaker 2: You know, I don't like it's like, whenever I say

2054
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:03,160
Speaker 2: something about black men, it's not because I'm like, you

2055
01:35:03,200 --> 01:35:05,120
Speaker 2: know what, black men have hurt me so bad, I'm

2056
01:35:05,160 --> 01:35:07,240
Speaker 2: gonna say mean things about black men. It's like, no,

2057
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:10,040
Speaker 2: that's how I see it, you know, And it doesn't

2058
01:35:10,080 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 2: erase privilege or any of that shit, But it's just

2059
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:15,360
Speaker 2: how I see it, you know, where it's like, yo,

2060
01:35:16,880 --> 01:35:19,879
Speaker 2: black men a lot of times can be extremely arrogant

2061
01:35:19,960 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 2: and insensitive and da da da da, and we can

2062
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 2: be abusive to our own community and stuff. That's not

2063
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:28,360
Speaker 2: to score me points so high five because I'm teen

2064
01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:30,840
Speaker 2: black women or teen black men. I don't play those

2065
01:35:30,880 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 2: I don't like playing those games. Just here's the situation.

2066
01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:35,680
Speaker 2: Here's how I see it, And at the end of

2067
01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:40,040
Speaker 2: the day, it did my heart. It's good watching and

2068
01:35:40,080 --> 01:35:41,960
Speaker 2: I know it sounds weird, but I mean it watching

2069
01:35:41,960 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 2: a black woman basically get to go up there and

2070
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,240
Speaker 2: people be like, it really don't matter what you did, right,

2071
01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:48,519
Speaker 2: you know what, because at the end of the day,

2072
01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:51,439
Speaker 2: I take responsibility for my part in this and and shit,

2073
01:35:51,800 --> 01:35:54,280
Speaker 2: So no matter how bad it got, you know, I

2074
01:35:54,320 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 2: didn't know nobody was gonna do something to your fucking family.

2075
01:35:57,120 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 2: You know, he knew, you know, he could not have

2076
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:03,880
Speaker 2: possible fucking thought that, you know that, But you got people.

2077
01:36:03,640 --> 01:36:06,000
Speaker 3: Out there like he should have known. I'm like, nobody

2078
01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:06,400
Speaker 3: knows that.

2079
01:36:07,160 --> 01:36:10,519
Speaker 2: But it's like if I don't like somebody, if someone

2080
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 2: said some wild shit to me on the podcast and

2081
01:36:12,439 --> 01:36:14,679
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, fuck them, and they're like, you know,

2082
01:36:15,040 --> 01:36:17,799
Speaker 2: one of your people on Twitter said fuck me, I'm.

2083
01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:20,640
Speaker 3: Like, how the fuck I'm sunna know that? You know

2084
01:36:20,680 --> 01:36:21,120
Speaker 3: what I mean?

2085
01:36:21,360 --> 01:36:23,640
Speaker 2: Like, at some point you gotta look at me for

2086
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 2: me and the rest of your life. For the rest

2087
01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:28,920
Speaker 2: of your life, you blame me for your fucking your

2088
01:36:29,040 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 2: child tried to commit suicide and your first thought was

2089
01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:35,639
Speaker 2: to go on Instagram and blame me a lot. That's

2090
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:38,360
Speaker 2: enough for most people. All them people you're talking at

2091
01:36:38,400 --> 01:36:42,439
Speaker 2: Yin Yang, most of them would have been like fuck

2092
01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:44,920
Speaker 2: you for that period, no matter what I did to you,

2093
01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:48,080
Speaker 2: cause you know that wasn't fair. Most of them couldn't

2094
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:50,719
Speaker 2: handle that bit. This nigga ate that shit for twenty

2095
01:36:50,800 --> 01:36:53,240
Speaker 2: something years. So, like, you know, I just thought that.

2096
01:36:53,680 --> 01:36:57,519
Speaker 2: I just thought people was being real, real weird about it.

2097
01:36:57,600 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 2: But like I said, we have to understand that vine.

2098
01:37:00,760 --> 01:37:02,960
Speaker 2: We're coming from an environment where black women very rarely

2099
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 2: get heard, validated, scene forgiving, or acknowledged, and so for

2100
01:37:10,400 --> 01:37:13,040
Speaker 2: him to even do that for a lot of people, No,

2101
01:37:13,160 --> 01:37:15,479
Speaker 2: it's not enough because it's never enough. It's not enough

2102
01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:19,240
Speaker 2: until she's the billionaire or the millionaire or whatever Will Smith

2103
01:37:19,320 --> 01:37:21,280
Speaker 2: is and he's the broke one. That's the only way

2104
01:37:21,320 --> 01:37:24,120
Speaker 2: it'll be enough for them. And the thing is they

2105
01:37:24,160 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 2: don't have to be enough of them. It was enough

2106
01:37:26,080 --> 01:37:28,120
Speaker 2: for Janet Hubert and that's all that.

2107
01:37:28,080 --> 01:37:30,040
Speaker 3: Matter, right, And that's the only person that matters.

2108
01:37:30,080 --> 01:37:31,759
Speaker 4: And to go back on what I was saying before,

2109
01:37:32,520 --> 01:37:35,160
Speaker 4: the thing is because I look for things in nu once.

2110
01:37:35,320 --> 01:37:37,439
Speaker 4: So that's what I was saying about the dark skinned

2111
01:37:37,520 --> 01:37:40,160
Speaker 4: black women and me being a dark skinned black woman myself.

2112
01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:41,840
Speaker 3: I realized that a lot of.

2113
01:37:41,960 --> 01:37:46,000
Speaker 4: Black women, particularly online, they put a cloak over themselves

2114
01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:50,760
Speaker 4: to hide themselves against accountability. And so I think some

2115
01:37:50,880 --> 01:37:53,599
Speaker 4: people they don't want to be accountable, and so they

2116
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:55,799
Speaker 4: feel like she shouldn't be accountable for anything.

2117
01:37:56,520 --> 01:37:58,960
Speaker 1: And you know what, that's an online thing, correct.

2118
01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:01,840
Speaker 2: But also you know why I recognize that and why

2119
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:04,360
Speaker 2: I push back against that kind of shit because that's

2120
01:38:04,360 --> 01:38:09,720
Speaker 2: what black men do. My group, straight straight black men

2121
01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:12,879
Speaker 2: are always going in these ways. I am a victim,

2122
01:38:13,200 --> 01:38:15,920
Speaker 2: so in these other ways, you can't ever acknowledge the

2123
01:38:15,920 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 2: shit I do, right, and until I've been made whole

2124
01:38:19,720 --> 01:38:22,640
Speaker 2: fuck everybody. I get to do whatever I want, you know,

2125
01:38:22,720 --> 01:38:25,439
Speaker 2: And that's the argument they always make. It's the same argument,

2126
01:38:26,080 --> 01:38:29,920
Speaker 2: you know, and I think that shit is a very shallow,

2127
01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:34,719
Speaker 2: reductive argument. I think it's not smart. I saw someone

2128
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:37,080
Speaker 2: on Twitter make a great point.

2129
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:38,839
Speaker 3: Fuck, I forget.

2130
01:38:39,479 --> 01:38:41,800
Speaker 2: I'm only forgetting who tweeted this, but I'm not trying

2131
01:38:41,800 --> 01:38:43,639
Speaker 2: to do it on purpose. But they said something like,

2132
01:38:44,040 --> 01:38:45,720
Speaker 2: if you're in a room full of black women and

2133
01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:49,240
Speaker 2: they disagree with you, then you know you're probably wrong black,

2134
01:38:49,320 --> 01:38:51,840
Speaker 2: or you wrong or something. And they say that it's

2135
01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:54,160
Speaker 2: kind of like a joke. And this black woman responding

2136
01:38:54,360 --> 01:38:57,200
Speaker 2: was like, not necessarily depend on the topic.

2137
01:38:58,040 --> 01:39:03,599
Speaker 3: And then he was like, you know, uh, I forget

2138
01:39:03,640 --> 01:39:05,439
Speaker 3: what he said back to her. It wasn't mean her.

2139
01:39:05,600 --> 01:39:08,519
Speaker 2: It was a very nice conversation, but she was like

2140
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:10,600
Speaker 2: people responded back to her and so like, bitch, you

2141
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:12,600
Speaker 2: picked me da da da da. And she was like,

2142
01:39:13,040 --> 01:39:16,000
Speaker 2: see that even in your replies, that's the point when

2143
01:39:16,000 --> 01:39:18,519
Speaker 2: we start and uh. And I think she was a

2144
01:39:18,560 --> 01:39:21,040
Speaker 2: PhD person too, but she was and I believe this wholehearted.

2145
01:39:21,120 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 2: It took me a while to see this, but when

2146
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:26,760
Speaker 2: we started treating a marginalized group as they can do

2147
01:39:26,880 --> 01:39:27,400
Speaker 2: no wrong.

2148
01:39:27,840 --> 01:39:30,599
Speaker 3: All we've really done is dehumanize them.

2149
01:39:31,040 --> 01:39:33,080
Speaker 2: We set them up for failure. I no longer see

2150
01:39:33,120 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 2: you as human. I see you as a status symbol.

2151
01:39:35,160 --> 01:39:38,160
Speaker 2: So if I say, like it's impossible for a person

2152
01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:39,200
Speaker 2: who was tranced to.

2153
01:39:39,439 --> 01:39:41,720
Speaker 3: Do something fucked up, then I haven't. Then I have.

2154
01:39:42,080 --> 01:39:44,800
Speaker 2: I have just as much dehumanized you as saying that

2155
01:39:45,040 --> 01:39:48,200
Speaker 2: it's impossible for you to do anything good, because that's

2156
01:39:48,240 --> 01:39:49,880
Speaker 2: not how her humanity works.

2157
01:39:50,320 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 4: Me.

2158
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:53,599
Speaker 2: Seeing you as equal and human means that when when

2159
01:39:53,640 --> 01:39:57,160
Speaker 2: you do things one way or the other, I get

2160
01:39:57,160 --> 01:39:58,080
Speaker 2: to look at it that way.

2161
01:39:58,360 --> 01:39:58,800
Speaker 3: I don't get.

2162
01:39:59,080 --> 01:40:01,920
Speaker 2: I don't just excuse because because of that, And I

2163
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:03,120
Speaker 2: don't want to play those.

2164
01:40:02,960 --> 01:40:05,479
Speaker 1: Type of group groups and games because we're grown.

2165
01:40:05,840 --> 01:40:09,439
Speaker 2: So if if someone black comes to my house and

2166
01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:12,160
Speaker 2: steals my TV, I don't go. If my TV's not

2167
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:14,160
Speaker 2: stolen because they were black, I'm like, that's fucked up.

2168
01:40:14,200 --> 01:40:16,439
Speaker 2: You stole my TV and they go, but I'm black,

2169
01:40:16,479 --> 01:40:18,519
Speaker 2: I'm like, Nigga, that's still fucked up.

2170
01:40:19,280 --> 01:40:21,160
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? You like, you don't that,

2171
01:40:21,439 --> 01:40:23,840
Speaker 3: you don't get that that's not okay.

2172
01:40:23,320 --> 01:40:25,599
Speaker 4: And that's what you get into the nuance. Yeah, because

2173
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Speaker 4: social media functions black and white. That's how you get

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Speaker 4: a lot of these ridiculous arguments.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it is what it is, man.

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Speaker 2: And like I said, I think the other part of

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Speaker 2: this that people look at or didn't even want to peep,

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Speaker 2: is that it was weighing on this nigga too. Yes,

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Speaker 2: it was obviously bothering him because he's been twenty seven years.

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Speaker 1: He could have just as easily said.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do this reunion, or man, I

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Speaker 2: ain't talking no fucking Janet Hubert, fuck y'all, Like he

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01:40:53,280 --> 01:40:55,320
Speaker 2: could have just as easy said that, but there was

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Speaker 2: something inside of him that wanted that too, that absolution

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01:40:59,080 --> 01:41:01,439
Speaker 2: and to let her know she was heart and a.

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Speaker 3: Lot of times that takes work.

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01:41:03,160 --> 01:41:06,120
Speaker 2: It takes having to do therapy and have people tell

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Speaker 2: you like, here's these other perspectives you're not considering.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's one of those things where.

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Speaker 5: People want to be heard.

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Speaker 4: And you were saying, like everybody wants their story, you know,

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Speaker 4: everybody has the version of their story. And so I

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01:41:21,600 --> 01:41:27,880
Speaker 4: think that those things matter to people. And her being

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01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:32,120
Speaker 4: her mattered to a lot of black women, her being hurt,

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01:41:32,240 --> 01:41:34,400
Speaker 4: her being just to let it out all the table

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Speaker 4: and everybody going from here for we can move on.

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Speaker 5: Because the thing is truth be told.

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Speaker 4: The average person desires that type of grace and mercy.

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Speaker 4: The average person wants that, but they know that for

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Speaker 4: whatever reasons, either they won't allow personally they can't forget themselves,

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Speaker 4: or either they will never have that closure.

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Speaker 3: So it's a wait.

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01:41:59,520 --> 01:42:02,640
Speaker 2: And also, she gave him grace and mercy. Correct, it

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01:42:02,720 --> 01:42:06,200
Speaker 2: wasn't one sided. Like I said, it's beautiful to me

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01:42:07,960 --> 01:42:11,240
Speaker 2: in a glass case in an isolated room. I thought

2206
01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:13,920
Speaker 2: what they did was beautiful. There's nothing like that on TV.

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01:42:14,280 --> 01:42:16,479
Speaker 2: People don't even do that shit on their podcast. People

2208
01:42:16,520 --> 01:42:19,599
Speaker 2: don't ever do that shit personally in their personal lives.

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01:42:19,880 --> 01:42:21,639
Speaker 2: Like when people do that stuff, they do it behind

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01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 2: closed doors and they'll tell nobody right and you just

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01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:26,080
Speaker 2: look up and go, damn, you're still with him after

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01:42:26,160 --> 01:42:29,240
Speaker 2: all that shit. Nobody ever talks about that shit. But

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01:42:29,320 --> 01:42:31,120
Speaker 2: you know what, it's a way of life. A lot

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01:42:31,160 --> 01:42:33,800
Speaker 2: of us have had to go. A person made a

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01:42:33,840 --> 01:42:36,080
Speaker 2: mistake and I forgave them, or vice versa. I made

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01:42:36,120 --> 01:42:39,519
Speaker 2: a mistake and this person forgave me. And I think

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01:42:39,880 --> 01:42:43,680
Speaker 2: it's so whack that we rebel against us at this

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01:42:43,800 --> 01:42:46,880
Speaker 2: point because, like I said, dependingmum swung too far the

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01:42:46,920 --> 01:42:48,439
Speaker 2: other way. I hate to keep harping on this, so

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01:42:48,439 --> 01:42:50,400
Speaker 2: I want to move on, but it's just too much.

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01:42:51,120 --> 01:42:53,599
Speaker 2: Brittany says Hi, y'all is Brittany from Fort Worth, Texas.

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01:42:53,640 --> 01:42:55,479
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if this email make it in for

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01:42:55,520 --> 01:42:58,240
Speaker 2: feedback episode this week. I need, but I just wanted

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01:42:58,240 --> 01:43:00,320
Speaker 2: to let you know. You guys know that this has

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01:43:00,320 --> 01:43:02,960
Speaker 2: been a wonderful TVGWT week. I enjoyed the guest and

2226
01:43:03,000 --> 01:43:05,599
Speaker 2: tips giving was so fun. It made my day at

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01:43:05,640 --> 01:43:08,080
Speaker 2: work a lot more enjoyable. Karen and Ride, y'all been

2228
01:43:08,080 --> 01:43:09,839
Speaker 2: making it a lot easier to go through this pandemic.

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01:43:09,920 --> 01:43:12,200
Speaker 2: And even though my torture is time, working through my

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01:43:12,240 --> 01:43:15,720
Speaker 2: torture is time working at Amazon, y'all inspired me to

2231
01:43:15,800 --> 01:43:18,120
Speaker 2: lead that job and pursue something I actually wanted to do.

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01:43:18,280 --> 01:43:20,439
Speaker 3: Okay, come on, we love to see it.

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01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:22,240
Speaker 2: We'd love to see it go and get you something

2234
01:43:22,320 --> 01:43:24,920
Speaker 2: you want to do anyway, Love you, guys, Thank you

2235
01:43:24,960 --> 01:43:28,160
Speaker 2: for all your last Thank you, thank you will, says

2236
01:43:28,160 --> 01:43:31,759
Speaker 2: the Dynamic duo. Hey, y'all, your tips given episode felt

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01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:32,840
Speaker 2: like a family event.

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01:43:32,960 --> 01:43:34,080
Speaker 1: So glad I caught it live.

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01:43:34,120 --> 01:43:36,960
Speaker 2: The playlist was on point, and Karen straightening up those

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01:43:37,000 --> 01:43:38,559
Speaker 2: imaginary kids was too good.

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01:43:39,240 --> 01:43:40,240
Speaker 5: I couldn't help himself.

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01:43:40,320 --> 01:43:40,679
Speaker 3: Y'all.

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01:43:40,760 --> 01:43:42,960
Speaker 2: I wanted to commend you both on your interviews during

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01:43:42,960 --> 01:43:45,320
Speaker 2: guest episodes. You guys allow your guests the room to

2245
01:43:45,400 --> 01:43:46,919
Speaker 2: let us into their worlds of perspective.

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01:43:46,920 --> 01:43:48,920
Speaker 3: It's a beautiful thing, y'all. Be blessed.

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01:43:48,920 --> 01:43:50,479
Speaker 5: Peace will thank you.

2248
01:43:51,400 --> 01:43:55,799
Speaker 2: And lastly, Mss Barnes says, hello riding Karen. I'm behind

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01:43:55,800 --> 01:43:57,680
Speaker 2: on a few things, so allow me to get caught up. One,

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Speaker 2: congratulations on the Spotify deal. You and Karen so rich.

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01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:02,679
Speaker 2: Deserve everything good that comes your way, and I'm crying

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01:44:02,720 --> 01:44:03,479
Speaker 2: to it's joy for.

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01:44:03,439 --> 01:44:03,880
Speaker 3: Both of you.

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01:44:04,040 --> 01:44:05,120
Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Two.

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Speaker 2: I am finally caught up on love Craft Country. And

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01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 2: when I tell you that I needed to digest each

2258
01:44:09,720 --> 01:44:12,280
Speaker 2: episode on his own versus trying to bench good Lord,

2259
01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:14,720
Speaker 2: your recaps are spot on. That will be the only

2260
01:44:14,760 --> 01:44:17,479
Speaker 2: recaps I listened to as you expertly break down each

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01:44:17,520 --> 01:44:18,240
Speaker 2: episode as.

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01:44:18,120 --> 01:44:20,040
Speaker 3: Richly as the show deserves. Three.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, I was watched to the wine Gods on Thursday night.

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Speaker 3: Lol.

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01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:26,920
Speaker 2: I started drinking at four pm when I had dinner

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01:44:27,240 --> 01:44:29,160
Speaker 2: and got rid of all to build more wine.

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01:44:29,800 --> 01:44:30,719
Speaker 3: I cannot thank.

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01:44:30,560 --> 01:44:33,880
Speaker 1: You a care for hosting all of us on Thanksgiving.

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01:44:34,320 --> 01:44:36,479
Speaker 2: I got what, I got to see what the good

2270
01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:39,720
Speaker 2: folks looked like in the chat, got to laugh, won

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01:44:39,800 --> 01:44:43,160
Speaker 2: a free movie, and overall just had a damn ball.

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01:44:43,200 --> 01:44:44,559
Speaker 2: Thank you for putting up with.

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Speaker 3: My wine drunk ass girl.

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01:44:46,320 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't no problem. We wasn't sitting.

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01:44:48,160 --> 01:44:50,559
Speaker 3: Around thinking you was oh my god, not mss bares.

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01:44:51,040 --> 01:44:52,559
Speaker 3: We enjoyed it. I was drinking.

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01:44:52,840 --> 01:44:53,720
Speaker 5: I was drinking too.

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01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:55,240
Speaker 3: I had a ball, still drinking.

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01:44:56,600 --> 01:44:57,479
Speaker 5: Oh them little things.

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01:44:57,560 --> 01:44:58,960
Speaker 3: It's good, the buzz balls.

2281
01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:02,960
Speaker 2: Or have you thought about putting together at dating app

2282
01:45:03,000 --> 01:45:08,639
Speaker 2: for a single? Tippers hat Jackie smiling? How many times

2283
01:45:08,640 --> 01:45:10,599
Speaker 2: did I say how to him? The first is real?

2284
01:45:10,680 --> 01:45:14,320
Speaker 2: Out here in these quarantine streets, I have not and

2285
01:45:14,439 --> 01:45:17,200
Speaker 2: definitely would not want to feel responsible.

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01:45:16,640 --> 01:45:17,320
Speaker 3: For any of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Like I mean, we have gotten people have gotten

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01:45:21,560 --> 01:45:25,080
Speaker 2: together from within the community of the blackout Tips to

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01:45:25,520 --> 01:45:26,360
Speaker 2: varying degrees.

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Speaker 3: I know a couple that got married and stuff. Some

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01:45:30,560 --> 01:45:32,120
Speaker 3: that have like very seriously dated.

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01:45:32,160 --> 01:45:34,519
Speaker 2: I know a couple that like, don't talk to each

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01:45:34,520 --> 01:45:36,160
Speaker 2: other on the streets no more so, you know, I

2294
01:45:36,320 --> 01:45:38,120
Speaker 2: just try to stay out of their business and keep

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01:45:38,160 --> 01:45:40,840
Speaker 2: them out of mind. And what I definitely don't want

2296
01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:43,920
Speaker 2: to be is Will Smith in thirty years apologizing because

2297
01:45:43,920 --> 01:45:46,799
Speaker 2: somebody had a bad match on the on the site.

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01:45:46,880 --> 01:45:51,280
Speaker 2: I'm good, yeah, you know, on Tippers Meter, tip Tippers

2299
01:45:51,360 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 2: mingo some shit.

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01:45:52,960 --> 01:45:55,120
Speaker 1: Now and now my ass is out here getting sued.

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01:45:55,160 --> 01:45:57,280
Speaker 3: I'm good. Any who.

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Speaker 2: God bless you, Roder Karen, and thank you again. And

2303
01:46:00,040 --> 01:46:01,360
Speaker 2: if you find it in your heart, please do it.

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01:46:01,439 --> 01:46:05,080
Speaker 2: Christmas special, go Arby's, Miss Barns Well go Arvy's is

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01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:07,559
Speaker 2: definitely doing a lot to undo all that good will.

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01:46:09,240 --> 01:46:11,800
Speaker 1: But uh, you know, we might have to do a

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01:46:11,840 --> 01:46:15,200
Speaker 1: tip Miss. Hopefully we'll get some more movies to give away.

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Speaker 3: Between now and Christmas.

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01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:20,240
Speaker 2: But uh yeah, I mean, look, if we still locked down,

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01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:22,040
Speaker 2: which we probably will.

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01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:25,080
Speaker 5: Be maybe twenty two, we'll be here for it.

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01:46:25,080 --> 01:46:28,360
Speaker 2: And people are still doing socially distant holidays, maybe we'll

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01:46:28,360 --> 01:46:31,760
Speaker 2: do it a Christmas special and play some more games.

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01:46:31,800 --> 01:46:32,799
Speaker 2: I know I had a good.

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01:46:32,640 --> 01:46:34,759
Speaker 5: Time, you know, Oh, it was so much fun.

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01:46:34,840 --> 01:46:35,040
Speaker 3: You know.

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01:46:35,320 --> 01:46:38,040
Speaker 2: Normally I would be talking sports and politics and stuff

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01:46:38,040 --> 01:46:41,799
Speaker 2: with my parents and watching people play spades and watching

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01:46:41,840 --> 01:46:43,080
Speaker 2: the football game in the other.

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Speaker 3: Room, and like the chat room had a good time.

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Speaker 5: If y'all show back up, we'll show back up.

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01:46:47,400 --> 01:46:50,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, hopefully if everybody's healthy and okay, we'll be

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01:46:50,800 --> 01:46:54,120
Speaker 2: doing we can do something for Christmas because like I said, man,

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01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:56,600
Speaker 2: I enjoyed myself a lot. If you didn't get to

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01:46:56,640 --> 01:46:59,519
Speaker 2: watch it live, go back and check out the tips miss, I.

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01:46:59,479 --> 01:47:01,360
Speaker 1: Mean the tip giving special.

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01:47:01,400 --> 01:47:04,920
Speaker 2: It's still on crowdcast and you can just go sit

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01:47:05,000 --> 01:47:08,240
Speaker 2: down and watch it and watch us play games and

2329
01:47:08,320 --> 01:47:10,600
Speaker 2: get to know some of the people and faces in

2330
01:47:10,640 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 2: the chat and hopefully you know, follow us and become

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01:47:14,080 --> 01:47:18,120
Speaker 2: part of the community. So all right, we are taking

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01:47:18,160 --> 01:47:22,040
Speaker 2: a week off, okay for premium people. I probably we

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01:47:22,120 --> 01:47:24,200
Speaker 2: probably still will figure out a way to do a

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01:47:24,200 --> 01:47:27,719
Speaker 2: pregame and Boss Deep because we skipped it this week. Yes,

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01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:30,080
Speaker 2: so we'll probably get that in at least one time

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01:47:30,720 --> 01:47:34,920
Speaker 2: on the vacation quote unquote, and we may do a

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01:47:34,920 --> 01:47:39,800
Speaker 2: look smack and good and that's about it. So all right,

2338
01:47:39,880 --> 01:47:45,280
Speaker 2: y'all check us out, follow us on Spotify. We appreciate y'all,

2339
01:47:45,520 --> 01:47:49,160
Speaker 2: and uh yeah, if you have questions on your sign

2340
01:47:49,280 --> 01:47:51,879
Speaker 2: up for the the.

2341
01:47:51,880 --> 01:47:55,200
Speaker 1: Black Friday deal and stuff, just hit us.

2342
01:47:55,160 --> 01:47:58,200
Speaker 3: Up at gmail. The Blackout Tips at gmail dot com.

2343
01:47:58,240 --> 01:47:59,439
Speaker 3: I'll try to walk you through it.

2344
01:47:59,720 --> 01:48:03,040
Speaker 2: If you have any issues with the site fucking up

2345
01:48:03,160 --> 01:48:06,080
Speaker 2: or something like that, let me know. I got y'all,

2346
01:48:06,600 --> 01:48:10,679
Speaker 2: and we'll figure it out. Okay, all right, y'all, Until

2347
01:48:10,760 --> 01:48:11,280
Speaker 2: next week.

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Speaker 5: I love you,