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Speaker 1: Well what's mine, what's yours is mine? Yeah, and what's

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Speaker 1: almost everything that wasn't shared items, you know, so far

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound abnormal.

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Speaker 1: It does sound abnormal. Yeah, my sister still if I

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Speaker 1: begged my parents for a three DS for my twelfth birthday.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like the parents are not setting you up

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Speaker 1: There's no boundaries here. Also, it's like if I give

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Speaker 2: It's my phone for me.

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Speaker 1: I can take it anytime I want, and you have

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Speaker 1: to give it to me. What I've basically just made

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Speaker 3: Yes, I require my phone to code, oh okay, and

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Speaker 1: But it's your phone, right, But but I can have

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Speaker 1: which was a lot. When my aunt found out after

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Speaker 1: seeing my parents forcibly take my three DS out of

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Speaker 1: blatant favoritism. They returned my three DS immediately then blame

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Speaker 3: That's hilarious, being like, well, if you would have worked

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Speaker 3: hard enough to buy another three DS, this would have happened.

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Speaker 1: Or if you maybe hid this from your eye, then

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Speaker 3: I just it's crazy, Like, uh, if if you know that,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's to that would prevent.

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Speaker 1: This, but then that is more expensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but just don't make the gift of three ds,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know three ds. Also, like the three D

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Speaker 3: Now let's discouraging this gift. We're not going to disparage

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Speaker 1: Well, you think the three DS was all that.

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Speaker 2: When it came out, It was a revolutionary, it was

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Speaker 2: Really, Oh, super smash bros. And three DS great? Were

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Speaker 4: I didn't have a three DS, but I saw it

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Speaker 2: No, it was actual big deal. It's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: Well, they returned my three D immediately, but then blamed

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Speaker 1: so the parents learned less them Okay, Instead, my parents

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Speaker 1: But it's a surprise gift. So like op only gets

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Speaker 2: Well, he knows he knows how to play the game.

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Speaker 1: That is, you know, the world is a playing game.

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Speaker 1: Also, thanks for the five gifted memberships. We appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 3: More like everything everything the other kid has, it has

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Speaker 3: It feels like the parents did the opposite of what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brenda Pereda says the opposite, though says Op seems

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Speaker 1: You heard you heard the device from Joseph from the source,

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Speaker 1: on several of mine other people's birthdays. My brother made.

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Speaker 1: With the dollar donation. We got some more donuts that

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Speaker 1: I think it's sick in Mexico. I got sick on

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Speaker 1: Also, I had three kids. One is autistic one Aspergers.

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Speaker 3: It's one autistic one. Oh, which is Asperger's three kids

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Speaker 3: Which, yeah, I mean, I think whenever you have the

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Speaker 1: So the parents understand what birthdays are. Yeah, my parents

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it just sounds like the the brother like, would

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Speaker 1: Well, the it is learning that I can always get

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Speaker 2: The parents are essentially teaching him if you just be

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Speaker 1: Which is kind of sick. What a good deal? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what a great deal. I don't have to do anything

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I was an informed child, that's a

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Speaker 1: great deal. That's a great deal. You know, Donald Trump

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Speaker 1: And as we all know, we should be modeling our lives.

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Speaker 3: Right after the guy who is notoriously one of the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I refuse that because I wanted to blow

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Speaker 1: completely okay. They called me a spoiled brat at first,

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Speaker 1: Yet again, Good and stated how much he had noticed

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Speaker 3: It's like it by not addressing this too, the parents

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Speaker 1: Yeah dude, what a Yeah. Also, jenks Angel says, w aunt, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Is that the same? Yeah? You know they had Swiss

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Speaker 1: Yeah, funny, and we're sharing every one of them with you.

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Speaker 5: The middle of no zero negotiations, right, read that book

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Speaker 1: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: But hey, let's just read The water Horse.

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Speaker 1: that made it a lot worse because several of my

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Speaker 1: basically saying what heck is wrong with you? And suddenly

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Speaker 2: Little social engineering.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know, like that's that's what the world is

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Speaker 2: Ways rains and social engineering.

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Speaker 1: Grains like like like grain is in't like like the sickle,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true, it's all. It's all a lot

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Speaker 3: of grains, a lot of grain. I think rice is rice, grains.

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Speaker 3: There's grains, right, rice, Rice is grain. Rice is grain.

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Speaker 1: And then we got oats yep. Yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: You guys had you for thirty seconds about grains. You guys,

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Speaker 2: that's my that's my fault. I'll take that one.

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Speaker 1: It is the building block of society.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the pyramid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, the building block Without grain, where would we be?

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Speaker 2: We could still be building?

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Speaker 1: You know, Wheat is the.

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Speaker 1: We just yeah, you're right. I'm just saying, wheat is

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Speaker 1: Is the most prosperous. We know this, but you know

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Speaker 1: it is. It is the most prosperous. Yea. Anyway, what

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Speaker 2: Yeah? What the heck is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: And suddenly I was ungrounded. I didn't get an apology either.

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Speaker 1: My dad just walked to my room his arms crossed,

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Speaker 1: That was it. I thought my party was still canceled

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Speaker 1: That's good. That's a whis a good.

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Speaker 2: That is a good compromise.

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Speaker 3: However, I I do think that the reveling in your

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Speaker 3: Your brother being and your birthday doesn't exist anymore, Like

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Speaker 1: It's from what I'd seen. Everyone was incredibly unhappy with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as they should.

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Speaker 1: So they ended up doing the surprise party to try

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's censoring that because it's a bad word in Spanish. Actually,

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Speaker 1: There must be a way to include spaces in these

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Speaker 2: We could, but then we wouldn't have funny moments like this.

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Speaker 1: Yes, uh, what little of the reputation they had left,

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Speaker 1: And that day, just to accommodate me, I got dinner

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Speaker 3: Wow, I mean, yeah, put your foot down. Maybe put

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Speaker 2: You're just they're ruining both of the kids.

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Speaker 3: You're ruining both of your kids because one is becoming

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Speaker 1: When you do do it, can you, like, what are

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Speaker 4: Do you let's hear it. No, no, Sam, Let's see

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Speaker 4: how would you punish your children?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: I've got some ideas.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I like, like you you got grounding?

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Speaker 2: Will you try and read them a story and not

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Speaker 2: read it fully?

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Speaker 1: You would do grounding? Uh? You would? You would take

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, them out into the middle of the woods

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Speaker 3: with an hap and you say, find your way home.

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Speaker 3: This is I'm going to teach you a lesson in

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Speaker 1: I was literally totally Spies said, I'm glad I don't

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Speaker 1: have to say it because I'm not going to say that.

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Speaker 1: But spray bottle, spray cat is that is? That? Is

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Speaker 1: that child abuse?

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Speaker 2: Is that a spray bottle? I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: They literally make like super well no free sponsors, but

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Speaker 1: What super soakers?

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Speaker 2: Tell me about these super soakers? Huh? You know, I

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Speaker 1: Caveman says, time out works for us. Okay, so that

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Speaker 1: that's what we got in our arsenal is time out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know We've got time out.

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Speaker 1: We got time. I didn't get these people and look

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Speaker 1: how you turned out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the one who tried to contain Yeah, person,

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Speaker 1: nearby so he could have fun in their play area,

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Speaker 1: and I heard later she spent at least an hour

444
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Speaker 1: trying to get him to come out of the play

445
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Speaker 1: a place tube structure, and he only did so because

446
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: he had to use the bathroom, then tried to run

447
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: right back in again. My parents never tried to cancel

448
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 1: my birthday again while I lived with them, though they

449
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: never again tried as hard or spent as much for

450
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 1: the remaining four year I was under their roof. My

451
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: birthday parties consisted of a local pizza parlor, a cake

452
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Speaker 1: without even my name written on it, and never again

453
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Speaker 1: anything as expensive as a new gaming system. I don't

454
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: mean to sound spoiled, but I was a bit disappointed

455
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Speaker 1: I never got a cake with my name on it again.

456
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: My aunt called my parents out on that each year,

457
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Speaker 1: and each year they claimed they forgot to get the

458
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Speaker 1: cake decorated. I'm pretty sure that the reason my name

459
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: was never written on another cake was because my brother

460
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: always refused to eat pieces of cake that had a

461
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: writing of someone else's name on it at a party,

462
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: and they couldn't put his name on any of my

463
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: cakes or it would have looked very bad for them.

464
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: But the fact that I still got a day that

465
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: was just about me at all, was not my brother

466
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: and not my brother, was still fantastic in my book,

467
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: especially because just about everything else revolved around him.

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Speaker 3: I can't, I just I cannot believe how fully the

469
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Speaker 3: parents have a name every bad behavior.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they're bad parents. Well, the thing is,

471
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: it is so just for everyone hopping in right here

472
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 1: TLDR of this story. OPI has a younger, high functioning

473
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: autistic brother who would just throw a fit every time

474
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Speaker 1: he had a birthday or anything that was given to

475
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Speaker 1: him at present or anything, and the parents completely enable

476
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: this behavior. And it's like, you have this kid who

477
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: has never had any consequences. But I also, you know,

478
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: I feel for the apparent because they wanted to ensure

479
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: that this child that needed more attention, you know, initially

480
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: got attention and like made sure that they were okay

481
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,959
Speaker 1: and stuff. But they overcorrected for sure, you know.

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Speaker 3: They were just they didn't want to have to do

483
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 3: it the hard way, Yeah, which is like working through

484
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 3: the meltdowns. They were like, all right, we're just going

485
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 3: to prevent every meltdown from ever happening by just giving

486
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Speaker 3: him everything he wants.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And to be clear, Opie is fourteen and the

488
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: breather there is six years younger to the brothers.

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00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 2: Yea in the story.

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00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but getting back to this story, so, the fact

491
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: that I still got a day that was just about

492
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: me and my brother was great. So eventually because just

493
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: about everything else have all around him. During each of

494
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: my remaining birthday parties, my brother still made a fuss

495
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: and my mom took him somewhere else to calm him down.

496
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: I was still required to share my PS four with

497
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Speaker 1: my brother, but it was still mine. Also. Caitlin Labra

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Speaker 1: K Hopkins sent two hundred stars. I appreciate you. I

499
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: don't really know where Facebook stars go and I don't

500
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: think they show up and are like donation thing. So

501
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: if you want to give to the show, just use

502
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: the donation link so we can read your your dono.

503
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: But I appreciate the stars regardless.

504
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Speaker 2: Two hundred new stars in this guy.

505
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: Two hundred new stars.

506
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Speaker 2: That's what they're gonna do. Mark Zuckerberg and a fire up.

507
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Speaker 3: A bunch of space dust into this space the galaxy sauce.

508
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 2: Two hundred new stars.

509
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 1: That is true. And Facebook can't say anything because they

510
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: changed their content regulation policies to allow for us to

511
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: say anything we want. Facebook's the best. Yeah, thanks Facebook.

512
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: That is not good.

513
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: This is like we get banned for that. And I

514
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: took it with me when I moved out eighteen the

515
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: PS four little bro did not like that and had

516
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: a huge fit till my parents went out and bought

517
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: another PS four for him. By the way, you can

518
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: listen and get a little present from us. That's right

519
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: every day. But I listen to full episodes of this

520
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: podcast on the podcast platform Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever

521
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: you listen to podcasts. You know what's great about that, Dakota.

522
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 3: It's that all you gotta search is okay, storytime. That's

523
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 3: it's so great.

524
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: And when you do, you can listen while you're cleaning, listen,

525
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: while you're like driving to work, listen while at work listen,

526
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 1: you know, and listen to us instead of you know,

527
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: your your husband or wife yelling at you. You just

528
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: tune it out.

529
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 3: You see these I have two hands, one phone in each.

530
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 3: You can stream two episodes at once, one in each ear.

531
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: Yep.

532
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 3: And is that how your brain works? No, wonder, that's

533
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 3: where my brain's at right now.

534
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: I believe you could do that.

535
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 3: I need sunglasses, guys, does anyone have sunglasses?

536
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: There's another relevant update, but really quick, like cushion, your

537
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: head just hurts.

538
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: I need sunglasses.

539
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: Also for everyone here. Uh, there is more to this story.

540
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: But we are in the middle. We're in Santa Monica

541
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: where all the fires are, and so there is ash

542
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: raining from the sky.

543
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the wind has slowed down, so now all

544
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 3: of aulates is falling.

545
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can tell. This side of my head is

546
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: like swollen almost.

547
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: But Yeah, how do Like what what would you tell? See?

548
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: Look you can tell look it is you.

549
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: A freight Dakota. You look great, Dakota, you don't. I

550
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: have a question for the people to keep us on track. Question,

551
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: So like, how do you think that these parents should

552
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: have handled this earlier? Like what do you think they

553
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: should have done?

554
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 4: You should have listened to the aunt, Yeah, but they

555
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 4: didn't take that into account. They're like whatever allah, yes, gotten.

556
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: Some uh read some things.

557
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 3: Seek outside information to help guide you to to figuring

558
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 3: out the right way to parent in this situation, because

559
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 3: it's not like it's like it's it's complex for sure,

560
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: but the solution is not just catered to one child

561
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 3: because they have autism. And it's like clearly from what

562
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: Op is described, that's a point his brother, Oh I

563
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: can just get away with whatever I want, Yeah, which

564
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 3: is like, you know, not good.

565
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Jessica Hinckley says they should have corrected the behavior

566
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: before five. But we got a little bit more of

567
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: this story. We got a little update, so Op says,

568
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: when I moved out, they finally had to deal with

569
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: how they raised my brother so spoiled because I wasn't

570
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: there to help them. With him anymore. On his recent

571
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: fourteenth birthday, he went mental on our parents for not

572
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: getting him a PS five. He's now currently grounded for

573
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Speaker 1: I don't know how long after causing hundreds or maybe

574
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: even thousands in collateral damage during his rampage. He picked

575
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: up a chair and just started destroying anything that was

576
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: in front of him with it, and my parents just

577
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: looked mentally checked out when I saw them last. My

578
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: aunt has also told me they confided in her that

579
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Speaker 1: they wished they could send my brother to military or

580
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: boarding school in the future because they can't handle the

581
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: monster they've created anymore. But there's no way they can

582
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: afford that. I'd be lying if I said I didn't

583
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: find it ironically funny. And that is where that story

584
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: And that's crazy because you know, you think you're like

585
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: creating this cute, little cute little kid that just gets

586
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: what they want, and they're like, I don't know they.

587
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 4: Thought they would like you, you know what they were doing.

588
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 4: It was they were just like, we're not going to

589
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 4: deal with any problems. We'll just keep swiping under the rug.

590
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 4: If we just keep you know, keep them happy.

591
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it.

592
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 4: And when it you know, it's it's filled up under

593
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 4: the rug and it's piling out, and now look what

594
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 4: you've made.

595
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: Literally a monster. And it's like, I think you don't.

596
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I guess like if you know, if I'm one of

597
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,719
Speaker 1: these parents, you don't see that you created a monster

598
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: until they stop being cute and start being actually destructive.

599
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: You know, it's like, oh, I just like let it.

600
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: Let the kid blow out the candles, are like, I

601
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: just let the kid have that. Like it doesn't rear

602
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: its ugly head until like late air where it's like,

603
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: oh wow, like this kid is this This kid does

604
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: not know.

605
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: I think maybe they were doing from there. I don't

606
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 2: think they knew what they were doing. And they were

607
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: just lazy.

608
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 3: I'm calling you out. O P's parents, y'all were lazy

609
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: as heck. Yeah, just saying, oh, I hate it when

610
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 3: he screams and yells, give him your thing, give give him,

611
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 3: give it to him right now, child, I can effectively

612
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: punish it.

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Speaker 4: For you again, Like, but you're you're the oldest child.

614
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 4: You know, that's your that's your baby.

615
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: Baby, bro. Get whatever he wants. But that is where

616
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: that story ends. But now where the stream ends, we

617
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: got a lot more for y'all. That's right, a lot

618
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: more for y'all coming. Thank you for staying with us

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Speaker 1: in our in our fire stream while like like the

620
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Speaker 1: stream during the fire, keeping us keeping us warm, warm

621
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Speaker 1: with your love.

622
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Speaker 2: That wasn't all in bad taste. I was keeping us

623
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Speaker 2: warm with the flames.

624
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know where the fire is right outside not

625
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: outside outside, but it's like very close.

626
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 3: Okay, when you see stuff like that, and then we

627
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: wonder why people are worried about us.

628
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: Fire is not right outside. We're safe. It is just

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Speaker 1: it's a little stressful, a little it's.

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Speaker 2: A little stress it's it's yeah, it's stressful.

631
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Speaker 1: It is.

632
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Speaker 2: It's a little stress stressful.

633
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but let's read some donos before we go into

634
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: this next story. Co do you want to hit those off?

635
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: I find the name.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Intertwined Realms, thank you for the fifty dollars in

637
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Speaker 6: the tipling. My god, so good to see your faces.

638
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Speaker 6: I've graduated with my mb A. Now I'm on to

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Speaker 6: my second bachelor's degree. Let the chaos continue.

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Speaker 3: Well, congratulations Intertwined Realms. You're you're gonna intertwine a second

641
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Speaker 3: degree into that first one, which is impressive. Actual drop bear.

642
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Speaker 3: Thanks for the five bucks. You guys have pop my

643
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Speaker 3: live stream cherry one not just for ok o p

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Speaker 3: I mean ever, whoa whoa and that stual drop Bear,

645
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Speaker 3: the only one you'll ever need.

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Speaker 2: Well, well you can't take it back now drop bears koalas.

647
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Speaker 1: But also or maybe I'm not sure. I think it

648
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Speaker 1: is low key. I think our stream is the best

649
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: stream of any stream. Like you see other streamers, it's boring,

650
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: but we're not boring, that's right.

651
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Speaker 2: We we keep it.

652
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Speaker 1: We talk about wheat, we.

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Speaker 3: Talk about grains grain stream And now I'm gonna have

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00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 3: sunglasses on indoors. Oh yeah yeah, can you show off

655
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 3: those glasses?

656
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Speaker 4: Like, do you side profile? Yeah, there's a lightsabers. You

657
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 4: see those lightsabers?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean? Maybe I gotta take a

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Speaker 2: look at these close up. No, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Those are dope.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very cool. Yeah, those are mine.

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Speaker 1: We got we got some more donos to read. Victoria Pia,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks. How is the fire near?

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Speaker 1: How close is it? Can you still not use the

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Speaker 1: air conditioner? We can use the air conditioner we got.

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Speaker 2: I replaced the filter today.

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Speaker 1: Da cooder replaces where the filters on the blue collar man.

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Speaker 1: What are the filters? How are the filters?

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Speaker 2: They they're good that I talked to them. They're all good. Okay,

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Speaker 2: they're they're filtering out. They're happy.

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Speaker 3: So they're they're in there right next to your Oh thanks,

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Speaker 3: spot perfect.

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Speaker 1: I told you ye all the carcinogens.

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Speaker 2: And the one I took out was very dirty.

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Speaker 1: Really okay, good, that's good. That means they're working. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: the fire is close, but not too close. It's like

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Speaker 1: maybe like ten blocks away or like eleven.

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Speaker 3: No, it's it's like the evacuation the you should bunk

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Speaker 3: about evacuating zone is like twelve thirteen blocks away. The

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Speaker 3: actual fire is like probably like five or six miles

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Speaker 3: through like dense metropolis. Yeah, yeah, we're we're not coming

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Speaker 3: this way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it wouldn't dare we're around, not if it knows

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Speaker 1: what's good for it. Spice Weezler sixty six. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. This is my first live stream. I've

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Speaker 1: been listening for months. I'm never disappointed. That's crazy, yes,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like sometimes we could disappoint you. Disappointing sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Low keys.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes we talk about grain too much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes I feel like I get off a stream.

691
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Speaker 3: I'm like that, wasn't that good?

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Speaker 1: Was it? No?

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Speaker 2: You're sometimes no never never, you know, there's a spectrum.

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Speaker 1: My workday is so easy and fast. Listening to all

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Speaker 1: the tea keeps me in a great mood all day.

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Speaker 1: Thanks so much, all, Hail the worm Queen. We will

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Speaker 1: give the Worm Queen your love.

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Speaker 3: L E. G.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten bucks. So glad to see our stream.

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Speaker 1: Husbands are safe. These fires have me worried every night

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Speaker 1: after stream for y'all, so stay safe.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, Thanks fan.

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Speaker 1: Cat, thanks for the five bucks. Love you all so much.

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Speaker 1: I live in Sweden and it is the middle of

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Speaker 1: the night when uh where when you are when you

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Speaker 1: are live? But today I'm sick and thought, now i'll

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Speaker 1: see you people. We're glad to see you fine people.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, swan Kot, thank you, MJ Grow. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the ten bucks. There's just one note word there for

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Speaker 1: them read MJ.

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Speaker 2: Grow.

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Speaker 3: Please just let us talk about let us talk about

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Speaker 3: our grains.

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Speaker 1: Mariah, thanks for the five bucks. And don't you worry everyone.

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Speaker 1: We're going to go back to the stories momentarily. I

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Speaker 1: got a queued up right here. We're going to get

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Speaker 1: through a last couple down nows. Maria says, thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. Howp you guys had a great day.

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Speaker 1: Mariah from Michigan, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: So we have another Mariah from Alas.

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Speaker 1: That's Maria. We got Mariah's in every area, Okay, Mariah's

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Speaker 1: in every time zone the pick and hair. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. I was op growing up with my

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Speaker 1: little brother. He's a craw happy human being. Today, lots

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Speaker 1: of baby mamas whoa doesn't page child support has a

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Speaker 1: laundry list of a criminal record. PS. Where's Alex? Alex

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Speaker 1: is gonna be coming tomorrow? You must have stories about that?

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Speaker 1: You should one hundred percent submit that our slash okay

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Speaker 1: story time on our subreddits where we read your stories

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Speaker 1: to you. Indeed, indeed, Beard's strong Face thanks for that

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Speaker 1: twenty five bucks. Hey guys, first time I've been able

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Speaker 1: to catch the live stream. Wow. Been listening on Spotify

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Speaker 1: for months now. You guys help me get through the

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Speaker 1: workday anytime.

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Speaker 2: Glad to be of help. Mister strong Face.

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Speaker 1: Whitney, We've already read it, but we're gonna read it again.

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Speaker 1: Things for fifty bucks. I feel like hot dog.

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Speaker 2: Do do really quickly.

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Speaker 3: I just want to point out, is that hot dog

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Speaker 3: doodoo or hot dog doodoo hot.

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Speaker 1: Dog do doo? I feel like I say in nineteen twenties,

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Speaker 1: like hot dog you.

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Speaker 3: Know it's like, no, I feel like hot dog is

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Speaker 3: the eppisode for the message. No. I just thought it

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Speaker 3: was funny because it's like, what is hot dog doo dooo?

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Speaker 3: But it's like hot dog do Doo's.

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Speaker 1: Like we all know what they're saying, like hot hottest,

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Speaker 1: hot dogs doo dooo, and we all know hot people

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Speaker 1: have tunny problems, so then that dodo is probably like

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Speaker 1: really syrupy and grossed.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god. I was not. That

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Speaker 2: was not.

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Speaker 1: The five bucks. Almost six months ago, I was diagnosed

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Speaker 1: with stage one breast cancer. I'm sorry. After surgery, in

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Speaker 1: two rounds of chemo, I did it. Yes, I'm cancer free. Yes,

756
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Speaker 1: way school down. Thank you so much for your support.

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Speaker 1: Love you all, Lucy, Lucy, you did it. Hearts in

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00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: the chat for Lucy. We uh we We love our community.

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00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: We love that you guys all support each other. If

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Speaker 1: you guys want to continue the conversation out to the stream,

761
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: you should go to the discord right and still chat

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Speaker 1: with each other. Panda, thanks for the five bucks. I'll

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Speaker 1: be able to watch the stream, but here's a small

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Speaker 1: token of my love for the Okay, Bam, love you all, Panderu.

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Speaker 1: I don't know Andrew left already, but just know we

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Speaker 1: love you.

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Speaker 2: We do.

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Speaker 1: We've got some more all of you. We love all

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Speaker 1: of you equally. We would have no favorite equally good birthday.

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Speaker 1: And you don't have to blow out each other's gain,

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Speaker 1: but you do all have to share, uh A. Dragon Princess,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks. Hi, Sam, Dakota and Kean.

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Speaker 1: Neville hog Bottom is fasting with me and really like

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Speaker 1: Sam's voice making happy little grunts as always love and

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Speaker 1: Dakota's laugh. Y'all are the one of the few points

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Speaker 1: of my light. Of y'all are one of the few

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Speaker 1: points of light in my life, and his joy makes

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Speaker 1: it even bright.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad that Neville hog Bottom is an official

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Speaker 3: fan as well as Dragon Princess.

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Speaker 1: Crazy freaking go Nevill hog Bottom, Dude, and Squiggly girlings

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Speaker 1: to five bucks.

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Speaker 3: You guys are awesome. Thank you, Squiggy and that little one.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for five bucks. My second live Sending love and

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Speaker 1: safety wishes from all the crazy fire I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Were We are safe. We will be safe.

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Speaker 1: Pegie, thanks for the five bucks. Here we are yet again,

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Speaker 1: but no effing school stuff. Finished the project today. So

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Speaker 1: just enjoying the stream today we'll go we love a

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Speaker 1: little just enjoy donation. And then we got some over

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Speaker 1: on YouTube. I'll make it bigger, Yeah, make it big.

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00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: Where is yesterday's saga? I want to know what happened?

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Speaker 2: Uh please?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah we had We had two more stories. Yesterday's

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Speaker 1: that was That was a crazy story. It was great.

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Speaker 1: Was that Yukon?

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Speaker 2: It was great?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you crushed it.

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Speaker 2: He did it.

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Speaker 1: Chicago Maria, thanks for being a member for ten months.

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Speaker 1: Change my name for the cause you guys formerly bb memes.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate you. Chicago Mariah. Wait hell, Chicago Mariah. We've got

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Speaker 1: all the Mariah's all over the place. Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: nights grow in our little community. If you want to

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Speaker 1: see members only live streams on Monday, Wednesday Friday, you

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Speaker 1: should join our members only community right here on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: So come on in. Join ahead, Elena, Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: Night's scroll, Oh Baked be welcome to the night. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: little army growing strong eyed Lindsay thanks to the five

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Speaker 1: New Zealand dollars. I missed the first twenty five minutes

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Speaker 1: of the stream because there was a bomb scare. Oh

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Speaker 1: no near the mall with police tape and everything. But

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Speaker 1: all good now on the bus home. Glad you're safe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get some lies. I'm good. I'm glad. It's

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Speaker 2: probably just a guy who forgot his backpack.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully, Zarry Pistacia, thanks for being am for six months.

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Speaker 1: Happy twenty twenty five Jude heading into my second hot

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Speaker 1: yoga flow of the year. Wow, already second high. I

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Speaker 1: hope you reach a shivasna. I I did some hot

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Speaker 1: yoga recently and it was lovely. I did it with

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Speaker 1: the boys, got all hot hot yoga, hot yoga with

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Speaker 1: the boys, did yoga?

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Speaker 2: Did you reach shavasna?

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Speaker 3: Did?

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Speaker 1: I got close? I got close. I did get really,

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Speaker 1: really sweaty, to the point where my matt was like

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Speaker 1: a slip and slide.

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Speaker 2: I bet everyone here wants to see a picture of that.

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Speaker 3: I I would love a picture that I'd frame it.

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Speaker 2: Oh you would, I'd frame it. If Sam's slipping slide.

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Speaker 1: If I get a wet picture of hot yoga and

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Speaker 1: take a picture, I expect to see a frame photo

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Speaker 1: in your apartment.

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Speaker 2: It'll be framed behind me on the show.

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Speaker 1: I want to, I want to, actually want to. I

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Speaker 1: want it above your hat, your your your head.

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Speaker 2: I'll wear one of those wear a hat. I wear

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Speaker 2: one of those hats that has like you can like.

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Speaker 2: I'll have it just above me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's maybe on a little like like uh spring

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Speaker 1: or something.

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Speaker 2: It'll say, Sam's slip and slide.

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Speaker 1: Right across what I want? Do I did I read

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Speaker 1: all that? I don't think I read all that. Uh

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Speaker 1: And hope you'll still be here to hang when I'm done.

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Speaker 1: Stay safe out there, you guys. We probably will. Who knows,

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Speaker 1: don't be Madola Bequest. New people joined stream Chat, Sentry, Egg,

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Speaker 1: please inform everyone of all our inside Jokes Centre. Ten

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Speaker 1: happy months to me, mj Grow, thanks for being a

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Speaker 1: member for ten months. More time for my ax day. Vixmox,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the two bucks intertwined well. Relm's member for

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Speaker 1: five months. Yeay, we appreciate you. Flip Switch Thanks for

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Speaker 1: ten bucks. Key on with the impossible tacks of keeping

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Speaker 1: the stream on track. He will never if the kid

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Speaker 1: is being a button about their siblings cake, get them

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Speaker 1: a cupcake with a single candle or something. Flipped switch.

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Speaker 1: I actually think that's a bad idea though, flip switch,

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Speaker 1: because that kind of like that doesn't teach them.

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Speaker 2: No, that might be a good compromise.

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Speaker 1: Early maybe, but I mean like.

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Speaker 2: Early early, like toddler agents.

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Speaker 3: It's like they let the kid get too old to

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Speaker 3: handle with the kid gloves. You reach a certain point

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Speaker 3: where you just have to be like, here's the reality

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Speaker 3: of the world. It's not your birthday, so you don't

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Speaker 3: get to blow out the candles on the cake. Now

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Speaker 3: go have a huge fit about it. Maybe give him

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Speaker 3: like a room where he's allowed to He.

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Speaker 2: Needs like a rage room. He needs his own rage

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Speaker 2: room where he can break whatever he wants.

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Speaker 1: One of my friends, Uh so, this is a story

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Speaker 1: I heard in Mexico. She was like saying, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was a terror as a little kid. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: I would always scream and yell when I didn't get something.

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Speaker 1: And I was in Costco screaming and yelling because I

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Speaker 3: I do want to shout out vix Mix, our resident

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Speaker 3: lunch lady, for having her act day today.

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Speaker 2: Oh this Axe data that is true. You a way

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Speaker 2: to go, vix Mix.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Ash, Thanks for the five bucks. My

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Speaker 1: dad used to always say, how does it feel to want?

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Speaker 1: I hated it as a kid, but as an adult

941
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Speaker 1: I realized he was teaching me to deal with the

942
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Speaker 1: emotion of wanting someone.

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Speaker 2: Ash something that does something. No, that's but that's good.

944
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: Yes, that feels that's a that's a great lesson.

945
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 2: In your feelings. How do you feel? What does that

946
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 2: feel like?

947
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: Separate yourself from the emotion and then look at it

948
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Speaker 1: with honor and love. You hit an out, Alexa. Wheah. Also,

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Speaker 1: we have a silent viewer in the room, our friend Alexa.

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Speaker 1: If you want to you could you? Do you want

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Speaker 1: to say? Hi?

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00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

953
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: Just give, just give.

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00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 2: Do you want to go sit on the couch? You

955
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 2: can just wave?

956
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can get away. You don't even have to

957
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 1: say anything.

958
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 2: We can just go over to Keon's camera.

959
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: You can't, I don't know if you say that you can't.

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00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: No, you can produce.

961
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: Here a how about just just give a little wave,

962
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: Just give a little wave behind Keon's one.

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00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 3: Over to where all right, No, it's gonna be too

964
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 3: confusing her, it's gonna be too much.

965
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:56,919
Speaker 1: For her to cut. Uh, just give a little wave.

966
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 2: There we go.

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00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: That's Alexa me just kidding, all right. We love Alexa.

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Speaker 1: Alexa is hanging out with us today.

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Speaker 2: Alexa.

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Speaker 1: Everyone give love to Alexa.

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Speaker 4: Yes, humans going through a lot with the fires. Yes,

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00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 4: that's okay, I still there. We don't we don't know

973
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Speaker 4: that putting it out there. I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: We don't know that. We don't know that except for

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Speaker 1: your house, except for your house.

976
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Speaker 2: We don't know. We've already established this.

977
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: We love Alexa. Put hearts in the chat for Alexa

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Speaker 1: Chat show all the stream.

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00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 2: Do you want love hearts? We can What kind of

980
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:42,919
Speaker 2: heart do you want?

981
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: What kind of heart do you want? Alexa?

982
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 2: Money hearts, green hearts, green hearts.

983
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 3: And green and the little money bags and the flying

984
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 3: monies hearts for green hearts.

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00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 2: That's a good one.

986
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: But we oh yeah, everyone's Alexis are going crazy, Kayla,

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00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: you're beautiful.

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00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: Social Security numbers don't start just yet. I'm gonna tick

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00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,919
Speaker 2: one thing.

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00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 3: And guys, if we get to one more milestone, alex

991
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Speaker 3: will tell us never mind.

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00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: That was gonna be too sad. I'm not gonna finish

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00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: that one. All right.

994
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 2: We are all right with anything, but we're good.

995
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 1: We're going to get so many green hearts. What that's

996
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: that's all that love for you, Alexa? Yes, yeah, we're

997
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: giving her. We're giving her a big hug. Let us

998
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: go into this next story. You have my husband, yep,

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00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 1: are you ready? My husband ready? My husband wi my

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Speaker 1: wheat grains my husband spoke sternly towards my sister, and

1001
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: I actually agreed with his.

1002
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 2: Decision, staying by your man.

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00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: Context. My younger sister and I did not grow up together.

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00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: We have the same biological mom, but she was put

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Speaker 1: up for adoption as a wee baby and we are

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00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: nine years apart. I found her on Facebook and tried

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00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 1: to be a big sister to her, but maybe I failed.

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00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: I don't have any other younger siblings. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from deleted on the arslash Okay storytime subreddit.

1010
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Speaker 1: So my younger sister that I've only had a relationship

1011
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Speaker 1: with for six years, just had a baby last year.

1012
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: She doesn't know who the father is, but it's between

1013
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Speaker 1: two guys, one of which she actually likes, and I've

1014
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 1: told her that he doesn't like her. Wow. Wow, we're

1015
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Speaker 1: just putting it all on the table, just.

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Speaker 2: A grab bag of like, oh, I don't know, flip

1017
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Speaker 2: a coin.

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Speaker 1: She told him about it a few weeks ago into

1019
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: her pregnancy, that he could possibly be the father. He

1020
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Speaker 1: then proceeded to ghost her and block her on all

1021
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Speaker 1: social media, hid the fact that he had a four

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Speaker 1: year old child with another woman that he was trying

1023
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Speaker 1: to get back, which she found out on social media,

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Speaker 1: and anytime she tried to contact him on social media,

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Speaker 1: he continually blocked her every single time. So anyone would

1026
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 1: reasonably assume that this man did not like her and

1027
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Speaker 1: wanted nothing to do with her, and yet she wanted

1028
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 1: to make excuses for him.

1029
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds like he's not that into you.

1030
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Speaker 1: Kimberly finds his story of my life. That's the story

1031
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: of your life, Kimberly.

1032
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, story of my life.

1033
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: God. This is also this is a crazy intro to

1034
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Speaker 1: the story really quick, like, uh, we don't need a

1035
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: TLDR yet, but dang, we're gonna keep going. So uh,

1036
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Speaker 1: it's the same old, tired story of a well meaning

1037
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,919
Speaker 1: young woman being taken advantage of but thinking she can

1038
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: change a man. But a loser is a loser. And

1039
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 1: I told her as much question, can you change men? Yeah,

1040
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: I mean let us know in the chat.

1041
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 2: Can you change man? Men can change? Can you change

1042
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 2: a man?

1043
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's it, can change? Can you change men?

1044
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: Can you change you personally? I think it takes time,

1045
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,399
Speaker 1: but I think you can. Alexa thinks she can change men.

1046
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: I think again, And I suggested that she focus rather

1047
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: on a paternity test when the baby is born. So

1048
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: I told her as much, and I suggested that she

1049
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: focus rather. Uh, she focused on a paternity test. On

1050
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: a paternity test when the baby is born. Not so

1051
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: much to prove to him, since he's not interested and

1052
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: I had no confidence that he would step up even

1053
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,479
Speaker 1: if the baby was his. But for the baby's sake.

1054
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,879
Speaker 1: That's a little bit confusing. But I'm thinking what op

1055
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: is saying is focus on the paternity test first.

1056
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 3: Oh h ah ah the him really wait, no, no way, no, no, no, no, no,

1057
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 3: no no.

1058
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: We might have an evacuation warning in our area.

1059
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but even though all our phones just went off

1060
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 3: at the exact same time for it.

1061
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: Are you sure we need to do that?

1062
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 1: Are we sure?

1063
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'll look into it.

1064
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, chat.

1065
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 3: Okay, As you can see, we are streaming in the guys.

1066
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: Should we evacuate?

1067
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 2: Probably not? I don't know.

1068
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 4: Okay, everyone's sing.

1069
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,720
Speaker 2: Being funny. Okay, we're being funny.

1070
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: We'll probably we'll think about it. Guys.

1071
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 2: It's it's we're okay.

1072
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: Let me check the let me check the fire report.

1073
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: So what now we trust the government now? No, I'm

1074
00:55:58,520 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 2: just kidding, guys, I'm just kidding.

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00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 1: Looks the the evacuation order hasn't hasn't changed.

1076
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 2: Well, it's probably was that just a prank that they

1077
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 2: pulled on us.

1078
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: The evacuation order hasn't, hasn't changed. I think it's just

1079
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: is this maybe just because we're like close to Yeah,

1080
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 1: I think it's because we're close to it.

1081
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 2: Well, we've been close to it for a minute.

1082
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 4: But I just got texting me and they're like, yo,

1083
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 4: did you get that too?

1084
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1085
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 3: Wait, maybe it's a failure of the system. It's not

1086
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,720
Speaker 3: an amber alert, it's.

1087
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 2: A uh, it's a literal evacuate.

1088
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,760
Speaker 1: It's an evacuation order from the city of Santa Monica.

1089
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: Oh guys, but we're I got guys.

1090
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 2: Everyone's yelling at us to leave.

1091
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to leave, got it? What

1092
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: do you think.

1093
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: It's an evacuation?

1094
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: Well, well, well, looky, who is it an evacuation order? No?

1095
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 3: No, okay, well here, let's do this. Ready, I'm gonna

1096
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 3: look outside.

1097
00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's see if there's fire outside.

1098
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 2: This is wearing sunglasses inside. Yeah.

1099
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: Wait, close the door, don't let the don't let the

1100
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: ashen Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1101
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 2: Man, that's not good. Get ready, how about uh, I

1102
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: don't know, I'm going home.

1103
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: I mean I'm fine. No, they're not well, We're fine.

1104
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: We can just go to we can go to well, yeah,

1105
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:39,479
Speaker 1: we can go to mom.

1106
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 3: What what.

1107
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: Hey? I fia can you guys, We're gonna go all right.

1108
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 1: To be clear, we're like we're pretty far from the fire.

1109
00:57:55,600 --> 00:58:00,080
Speaker 1: This is like we're pretty far. I don't think I

1110
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: don't think there's any cause for alarm, but uh, maybe.

1111
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 3: This is like this is the same energy as like

1112
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 3: people in Florida who have hurricane parties. Okay, it's like

1113
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 3: we're okay, We're we're all right. I mean, it's where

1114
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 3: no one's throwing a party over the fire. But it's like,

1115
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to say, we're not in mortal danger right.

1116
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: Now, Dakoda. Can you can you read? Uh? Can you

1117
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: read this? And we'll well, I'm gonna go just.

1118
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 4: I just got someone someone in like Burbank just texting

1119
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 4: me the same thing.

1120
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 2: What the same They got the same notification in Burbank

1121
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: in Burbank, Carly, what's going? What's I mean? Is this

1122
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 2: even fire related? Is this something else? She's telling me

1123
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 2: that all of La County has gotten it.

1124
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 3: I think, I think I right, So I think we

1125
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 3: just got that by mistake, right.

1126
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we are not in the evacuation area. I think

1127
00:58:58,880 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 2: it's just all of Elie.

1128
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, pack a bag.

1129
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:09,439
Speaker 3: But and guys, just let you know, if we did

1130
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 3: go right now, all we would be doing is being

1131
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 3: stuck on the highway because everyone who just got that

1132
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 3: message in all of La County will now be getting

1133
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 3: on the highway.

1134
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 2: Majority of the highways are closed.

1135
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:24,959
Speaker 1: We're okay, Well, like worst case scary. The scary days

1136
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: were the days before and go to the water. Yeah,

1137
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: we could literally run into the ocean. It literally run

1138
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: into the ocean and we'd be fine.

1139
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 2: Like we literally could. No, I'm saying we could.

1140
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: What do you mean why why.

1141
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: It's not how that works?

1142
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: Sofia, fire can't get us in the in the water?

1143
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: Does fire man explaining fire? Guys? I understand.

1144
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Sophia, I'm the one who keeps us in

1145
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 4: train and keeps us in the tracks.

1146
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 3: The scary days where the before this one, like yesterday

1147
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 3: and the day before that. Those were the days that

1148
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 3: were actually freaky and it was like the fire was

1149
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 3: so big and the winds were so strong that it

1150
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 3: was like, wow, if the wind does shift, are we

1151
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 3: going to have to evacuate? Like could this thing take

1152
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 3: out all of Santa Monica? And it's like the wind

1153
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 3: just never changed. The wind is gone.

1154
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 2: Now the wind is still here.

1155
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 3: There's a new Oh. So I think this is a

1156
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 3: mistake from LA County. I think that LA sent this

1157
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 3: message to everyone in La County, and it would make

1158
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 3: sense because La County government is super inept, so of

1159
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 3: course they don't even send out the evacuation message correctly.

1160
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, it's one of those things where

1161
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 3: they've just panicked everyone in La County into thinking they

1162
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 3: need to evacuate when they don't. To be clear, there

1163
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 3: are places where people do need to evacuate. I'm not

1164
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that that's.

1165
01:00:58,240 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 2: Not a thing.

1166
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 4: There's an evacuation warning in an evac mandate at the moment,

1167
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1168
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 2: And I'm not man splenning Sez.

1169
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm here to work, baby, I'm here because

1170
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 3: I'm a working man. No, guys, I love that I

1171
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 3: know that you're You're all very everyone. We appreciate all

1172
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 3: the love and the concern. We have a phenomenal community

1173
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: that deeply cares about us.

1174
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: I don't see any new evacuation orders.

1175
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 2: Oh oh, that one was actually scary.

1176
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 3: I just read a message that was that was funny.

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01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 2: First. What's it called first person perspective?

1178
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: Uh?

1179
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 3: From Yeah, Kaitlin fire survivor over here, trapped in my home,

1180
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 3: surrounded by smoke and flames in less than five minutes

1181
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 3: of the fire starting on the first floor of the

1182
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 3: building I lived in the third.

1183
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 2: There's an eviction order. I would go. It's better to

1184
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 2: be safe than not. I would pack a bag, and

1185
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 2: we're ready. We're ready to go. We're ready at the

1186
01:01:58,320 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 2: very least, we're ready to go.

1187
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm gonna it's like talk to John really, Yeah,

1188
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: that makes some I'm gonna should I read?

1189
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 2: I feel like now read it?

1190
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,439
Speaker 1: Yeah you can read. Yeah, well, I'm gonna quickly talk John.

1191
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it's anything.

1192
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: Read the Dons issue. But some time too, Yeah, let's

1193
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 2: talk like pause, some time I'll read the Donos. We

1194
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 2: got that like around thirty.

1195
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, the L a f. D Is saying run

1196
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 3: to the beach if you can't leave via roads. What

1197
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 3: no way, dude, there's no way. I just I'm telling you,

1198
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 3: I just looked outside. This is this is not Yeah,

1199
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 3: but this would have I would have listened to this

1200
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 3: in a heartbeat if it happened yesterday or the day before,

1201
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 3: like I would have been like, all right, no, we

1202
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 3: need to go now because those yeah, I don't know.

1203
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe we're gonna get the ember's gonna start falling,

1204
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 3: that's what that's how they spread. Yeah, but I was

1205
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 3: reading stuff this morning about all because there's no wind,

1206
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 3: the embers are just rising straight up and they're not

1207
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: that's why. So the fire is not spreading as fast

1208
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 3: anymore because there's no wind. The wind is gone.

1209
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 2: It doesn't make everything more hmm, guys, I'm sorry.

1210
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 3: I don't want to make look, I don't want to

1211
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 3: make everybody stressed. We will, we will work within what

1212
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 3: is safe.

1213
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 2: And they're gonna figure that out now. I'm not an expert,

1214
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 2: but it feels like we're okay anyway. I guess I'll

1215
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 2: read some donations.

1216
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 3: Charm, thank you for the ten dollars, evacuate us, very clear,

1217
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 3: and then a bunch of blowing smoke of OJ's. We

1218
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 3: don't want excuses, we want safety.

1219
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 2: But we're safe. There is a new fire near us.

1220
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 2: Oh that's why. Oh where is it?

1221
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,439
Speaker 4: It's kind of near us, but it's near us. Again,

1222
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 4: it's not the palace, says one. I'm gonn check right now.

1223
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 4: If people are texting.

1224
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 2: Me, where could it be? I'm checking right now.

1225
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 3: Also, tornadoes are different. That's but that and that is

1226
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 3: true tornado warnings. You've got like sixty seconds most of

1227
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:16,000
Speaker 3: the time you get a tornado warning, you've got a minute.

1228
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 2: Before that thing hits you.

1229
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 3: And this is ug is confirming what I said about

1230
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 3: the hurricane parties.

1231
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 2: It's like.

1232
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 3: And to yes, I just don't want everybody to be stressed.

1233
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 3: You don't have to be stressed for us. We're okay, well, right,

1234
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 3: everything's fine for the most part. It where we are

1235
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 3: physically right now. Fires can make tornadoes, oh, but not

1236
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 3: like real ones.

1237
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 2: Right. I'm from the Midwest, so I know about I

1238
01:04:55,760 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 2: know about the tornadoes. There's another fire in the power.

1239
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 2: I would say it's like spread more. Is it spreading south?

1240
01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:07,959
Speaker 2: It's not sane right now, because if.

1241
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 3: It's spreading south, then that is bad for us. But

1242
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 3: if it's not spreading south, I think it's going Someone

1243
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 3: said they got a message in Whittier, which is insane.

1244
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 3: It's insane, right, that's this is what I'm saying. It's

1245
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 3: like I can almost putting my money on La County

1246
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 3: messed up the the execution of this, this is this

1247
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 3: is giving me the same energy as like the the

1248
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 3: accidental like nuclear bomb warning in Hawaii where it's like

1249
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 3: everyone thought like the missile had been launched.

1250
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 2: It's because someone pressed the wrong button. Fire is going crazy.

1251
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 2: So that's different. But that's they eating fires like thirty

1252
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 2: miles away. That's but that's still for Whittier, that's still

1253
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 2: closer to me.

1254
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 3: No what Yeah, I thought Whittier was like north By.

1255
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 3: I thought Whittier was by Chatsworth.

1256
01:05:52,600 --> 01:06:00,080
Speaker 2: No, oh um, I think we're.

1257
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 3: I'm literally the meme of the dog in the living

1258
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 3: room with everything on fire, just saying this is fine,

1259
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 3: is solon.

1260
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull that up for anyone who doesn't know it, for.

1261
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 3: All our listeners. I'm showing the viewers in our stream

1262
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 3: a meme.

1263
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 2: Well wait for uh, let's do some more. Donnos just right,

1264
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 2: let me just look, guys, it's me. Oh you can't

1265
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 2: see it. That's why it's a dog.

1266
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 3: It says this is it's everything's on fire and it

1267
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 3: says this is fine, okay, but it's a I guys,

1268
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. And if I sound like I'm what is

1269
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 3: what's the word? My head hurts. So if it sounds

1270
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 3: like I'm like dismissive or kurt, I'm not. I love

1271
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 3: all of you, and I deeply. It touches me that

1272
01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 3: y'all are that concerned for us, and it touches me

1273
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 3: that we can you know, reading some of these donations,

1274
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 3: it's crazy that like we mean so much to so

1275
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 3: many people, Like it's a wild thing too, like digest

1276
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 3: and and.

1277
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 2: Compute in my brain.

1278
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 3: But also, guys, I swear if if we were in

1279
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 3: immediate danger, we would leave. We would and we are,

1280
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 3: we are, we're we're doing investigations right now.

1281
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, everyone, right now, everyone's trying to confirm everyone's getting

1282
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 4: like old.

1283
01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 3: On Thursday, the winds were expected to last until Friday.

1284
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 3: They the wind has been gone all day. Wind could

1285
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 3: be back. But thank you and Laurie, thank you. Lori says, uh,

1286
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:57,439
Speaker 3: be safe. I I almost passed from a fire. And yes,

1287
01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 3: and look my and my grandma just hopped in the

1288
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 3: chat shoot in error per La fire department.

1289
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 2: There we go.

1290
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 3: So I think we have now gotten to the bottom

1291
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 3: of it that was listed in error. And my grandma's

1292
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 3: calling me right now. Hi, Nana, you're I just I

1293
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:23,480
Speaker 3: just read your comment on the stream.

1294
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 2: This is so cute. I love you too. I will,

1295
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 2: I will, Hi Grandma. Okay, so we're all good.

1296
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 4: It looks like the fire is blowing the other way,

1297
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 4: but it's another fire that may start up with the

1298
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 4: palass wire even more.

1299
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're probably fine. We where we are right now.

1300
01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 3: Like I the entire city of Santa Monica would basically

1301
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 3: have to start burning, which is not gonna happen. Is

1302
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 3: not gonna happen. So we're okay.

1303
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:00,879
Speaker 1: Okay.

1304
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 2: So now that I.

1305
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 3: Know for a fact that we're okay, let's read this story.

1306
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm getting text right now. It's about my

1307
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 2: it's about my family's home.

1308
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well you should be good too.

1309
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 2: No, because the other fire is growing more the other way.

1310
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 3: But it's the way that the winds work out here.

1311
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 2: The wind shouldn't blow that towards your place. So the

1312
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 2: control line for that fire.

1313
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 3: Should be before your neighborhood and it shouldn't blow over

1314
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 3: it because everything is going to go towards the ocean.

1315
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys, we're still just you know, there's it's

1316
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 3: a lot, there's a lot going on here, and we

1317
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 3: are you know, we are checking our p's and q's,

1318
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 3: dot in our t's, crossing our eyes, I mean dot

1319
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:58,679
Speaker 3: in our eyes, crossing our te's.

1320
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 4: Uh.

1321
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 3: I promise if we weren't safe, we wouldn't be here.

1322
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 3: This was issued in error, as per the La County

1323
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 3: Fire Department, because it's like like we were saying, it's

1324
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 3: like the people who got these were deaf.

1325
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 2: I know the areas and the areas certain people are

1326
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 2: in are not dangerous.

1327
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that's that was like way up north

1328
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 3: in the valley, which is not well actually, because they

1329
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 3: have that fire by Santa Clarita. Yes, everyone's the smoke

1330
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 3: has gotten to me. I said, cross my eyes, which

1331
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 3: technically you do cross your eyes.

1332
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 2: If you do a capital eye. I think we're good. Okay.

1333
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:55,439
Speaker 4: I think there's another fire, but it's like in the

1334
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 4: middle of like the forest, but it's just the policitates

1335
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:00,720
Speaker 4: fire is getting big but the other way.

1336
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 3: But still, guys, it's okay, guys, it's okay. We don't

1337
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 3: need to leave that was issued in error from the

1338
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 3: from that according to l A.

1339
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah I should.

1340
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 4: I've been because a lot of since since I since

1341
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 4: I'm like the local boy near here, it's like kind.

1342
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 2: Of devastating seeing all my friends lose their houses and crap.

1343
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's.

1344
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: I gotta get my phone. You're you've lost Yeah, yeah,

1345
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 2: you you're like very.

1346
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:34,719
Speaker 1: It's close to the vest.

1347
01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 2: What all this? Because you know so many people who

1348
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 2: are really being directly impacted, and so I mean and

1349
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 2: so do I.

1350
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 3: It's like, we have friends who were evacuated on the

1351
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 3: other side of town, like for the eating fire.

1352
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got a friend who had to go down

1353
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 2: to Redondo and now it's like, yeah, friends, we had

1354
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 2: friends go to San Diego.

1355
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, which that's honestly, I feel like my other friend

1356
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 3: needs to go there because the smoke and Rodondo Beach

1357
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:00,120
Speaker 3: right now is probably insane.

1358
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 2: Why do you think we're good?

1359
01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 3: I think we're solid. Sam has returned. It was apparently

1360
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 3: La County Fire Department has said that that was issued

1361
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:17,160
Speaker 3: in error. I'm sure it was meant for certain people,

1362
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:19,880
Speaker 3: but not not for all of the people.

1363
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 1: Who got it.

1364
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 3: And I got say, guys, l a city government not

1365
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 3: very on their stuff, so it makes sense that they

1366
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:31,880
Speaker 3: accidentally sent an evacuation order to everyone in elegant. Leave

1367
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 3: it to them to make us panic, right, and now

1368
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:38,720
Speaker 3: they've made everything worse somehow again already bad.

1369
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so anyway, I think, Sam, what do you what

1370
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 2: did you guys talk about?

1371
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,479
Speaker 1: We're chunk, but we might maybe potent. We might potentially

1372
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: go up to like Palm Springs tomorrow, so we might

1373
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 1: not be in tomorrow. Well we might. We might just

1374
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:57,640
Speaker 1: like go as a squad.

1375
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 3: Oh squad and stream it and palm string yemam, is

1376
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 3: it okay? Uh?

1377
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,639
Speaker 2: Because of my family and stuff, just in case.

1378
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: Yes, Well yeah, well well we'll figure all that out.

1379
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 2: I mean, we'll talk about it after.

1380
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1381
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 2: I just want to figure it out.

1382
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 3: I guess we should make double sure that we're not

1383
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 3: in an area that was supposed to get it.

1384
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: It just I still don't think we're fine.

1385
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:24,680
Speaker 3: We're fine, we are fine, But the way that La

1386
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 3: County sent that out to literally everybody is like that,

1387
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 3: that's wrong, that was not right.

1388
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, take the story. I'm just gonna I'm gonna finish

1389
01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 1: this one, Okay, I'm gonna try to just figure out

1390
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 1: like everything fully, but I believe we're chilling.

1391
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring this back from the top. Okay, I'm

1392
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 2: gonna add uh.

1393
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:45,000
Speaker 4: I think we got like around thirty four minutes, so

1394
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go ahead and add Okay, hold on, God,

1395
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 4: let me just add that stuff for you guys. Gonna

1396
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 4: put it to thirty five minutes, make it right there

1397
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 4: on the dot.

1398
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 3: All right, folks, here we go, cod Are you ready?

1399
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 3: I am ready?

1400
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 4: Okay, Thanks for guys. We appreciate you guys being so

1401
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 4: concerning and loving it like you guys are so loving and.

1402
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 2: So oh yeah, so many cuties into chat and care

1403
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:20,599
Speaker 2: so much about us. Okay, all right, puppies, puppies, hoppy puppies,

1404
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 2: happy puppies. Where's the ax a Lottel. We need to

1405
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 2: for like a little ask a lot of like refreshers. Yeah,

1406
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,879
Speaker 2: we need to act a lot of reset really quick.

1407
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 3: One second, because I need it's not even for us,

1408
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:34,719
Speaker 3: This one's for chat.

1409
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:36,680
Speaker 2: Yes, this is we need to act a lot of

1410
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 2: reset for Chat Sea. Everyone doesn't think that we're you know.

1411
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 3: If if we could see fire, it would be so

1412
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 3: out of here. In a heartbeat, we're okay, we are.

1413
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 2: Okay, what's a cute one? I don't know wherever that

1414
01:14:56,479 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 2: one is. That one's cute. I guess what does that work? Nah? Yeah, yeah,

1415
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 2: that works for me. I like the one that's going.

1416
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 3: Ah, there we go, he's going e e ey.

1417
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 2: Uh, good old good old Axel.

1418
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 3: I'll break good old Axel lott of resec. Gotta love

1419
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 3: it all.

1420
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 4: Right, here we go, right, let me add one more

1421
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 4: minute there for everyone. Yes, everyone's worried. I'm a little worried.

1422
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 2: And duchess.

1423
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 3: The reason I'm wearing the glasses because my head hurts

1424
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 3: and they help because I've got very bright lights in

1425
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 3: front of my face and.

1426
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 2: It helps make my head not hurt. Okay, you ready, yes,

1427
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 2: do you know? Okay? Oh, we were starting from the

1428
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 2: top pretty much. I'm starting. Yeah, I'm starting over.

1429
01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:41,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like that was Yeah, I've complete I

1430
01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:42,680
Speaker 3: completely lost the.

1431
01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:45,719
Speaker 2: Entire narrative of the story. Anyway, that's okay, So okay.

1432
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 3: My husband spoke sternly towards my sister, and I actually

1433
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:53,919
Speaker 3: agreed with his decision.

1434
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 2: Agreed to disagree. Ooh like that one, Oh I do?

1435
01:15:57,640 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 2: I like that.

1436
01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 3: Comparing contrast let's hear. Let's go so context. My younger

1437
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 3: sister and I did not grow up together. We have

1438
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 3: the same biological mom, but she was put up for

1439
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 3: adoption as a baby and we are nine years apart.

1440
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 3: I found her on Facebook and tried to be a

1441
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 3: big sister to her, but maybe I failed. I don't

1442
01:16:18,120 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 3: have any other younger siblings. And by the way, this

1443
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 3: comes from a deleted user on the r slash Okay

1444
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 3: storytime sebredit So, so, my sister who's my so, my

1445
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 3: younger sister that I've only had a relationship with for

1446
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 3: six years, just had a baby last year. She doesn't

1447
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 3: know who the father is, but it's between two guys,

1448
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 3: one of which she actually likes, and I've told her

1449
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 3: that he doesn't like her oof. She told him about

1450
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 3: a few weeks into her pregnancy that he could possibly

1451
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 3: be the father, and then he proceeded to ghost her

1452
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 3: and block her on all social media and hid the

1453
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:59,600
Speaker 3: fact that he had a four year old child with

1454
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,720
Speaker 3: another other woman that he was trying to get back with.

1455
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 7: God, dang it, would you stop it right? Okay, look

1456
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 7: now we literally got an emergency where that says disregard

1457
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 7: last evacuation warning. It was for the Kenneth fire only,

1458
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 7: which is not us.

1459
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 2: Now we've got proof.

1460
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 1: All right, we're so chilling, dude. We shouldn't even be worried.

1461
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 2: Dude, I should have I where's my where's my over? Under?

1462
01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 2: For for calling that?

1463
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 3: LA?

1464
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:35,759
Speaker 1: Just messed up? Man? Stressing us all out here?

1465
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 2: You want me to? I've started it over. I ran

1466
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 2: it back from the top. Do you want to?

1467
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:41,240
Speaker 1: Did you just start?

1468
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 2: I'm like basically back where we stopped.

1469
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I can forget it from that. Okay, all right?

1470
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 2: I met the like ghost n blocker on all social media?

1471
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 1: Did we start a new recording?

1472
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:53,719
Speaker 2: Oh?

1473
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 4: Did we no any recording? But then yeah, we're still

1474
01:17:57,439 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 4: an under same recording.

1475
01:17:58,360 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 2: It's okay.

1476
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 1: So she told him about a few weeks into her

1477
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: pregnancy that he could possibly be the father. He then

1478
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:12,839
Speaker 1: proceeded to ghost her and block her on all social media.

1479
01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: Hit the fact that he had a four year old

1480
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:19,639
Speaker 1: child with another woman and he was trying to get

1481
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 1: back with, which she found on social media, and anytime

1482
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:25,480
Speaker 1: she tried to contact him on social media, he continually

1483
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 1: blocked her every single time. So anyone would reasonably assume

1484
01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 1: this man did not like her and wanted nothing to

1485
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 1: do with her, and yet she wanted to make excuses

1486
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 1: for him. It's the same old tired story of a

1487
01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 1: well meaning young woman being taken advantage of but thinking

1488
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:48,240
Speaker 1: she can change a man. But a loser is a loser,

1489
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: and I told her as much. And I suggested that

1490
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:54,639
Speaker 1: she focus rather on a paternity test when the baby

1491
01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 1: is born, not so much to prove to him since

1492
01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: he's not interested and I had no com often said

1493
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 1: he would step up even the baby was his. But

1494
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: for the baby's.

1495
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,799
Speaker 2: Sick think of the children.

1496
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 1: Think of the child.

1497
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:11,360
Speaker 2: Must think of the child.

1498
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 1: Also, thank you everyone for sticking with the with us

1499
01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 1: throughout this whole ship.

1500
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 2: That was a that was pretty wild.

1501
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 1: I understand this might not be the chill uh stream

1502
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 1: that you are used to, but we are trying to

1503
01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:29,840
Speaker 1: figure everything out. So it's all right.

1504
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:32,759
Speaker 2: As you can tell, mother Nature is being mother nature.

1505
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 2: We can't.

1506
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:37,920
Speaker 1: Mother Nature is mother and around titled mother thinking she

1507
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:40,679
Speaker 1: can get her way all the time. Yeah, to put

1508
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:42,839
Speaker 1: put mother Nature in your place.

1509
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, more industry, more pollution.

1510
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:53,759
Speaker 1: No, that's bad.

1511
01:19:56,400 --> 01:19:57,479
Speaker 2: Through all the fire we still have.

1512
01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: I personally know what it's like to live most of

1513
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:05,840
Speaker 1: your life not knowing exactly who your biological father is.

1514
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:09,640
Speaker 1: I found mine by accident, after thirty years, when I

1515
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 1: wasn't even looking. You know, That's kind of how it

1516
01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:14,680
Speaker 1: always is. You find love when you least expect it

1517
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:18,720
Speaker 1: at least expected. Sometimes romantic love. Sometimes it's fatherly love.

1518
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:21,360
Speaker 2: Indeed, you never know what brand you're gonna get.

1519
01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 1: Yep, yep. Sometimes it's friendship love.

1520
01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:27,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's tough love. Oh.

1521
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's soft loss.

1522
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's gritty like I eat nails for breakfast, sweet yeah.

1523
01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 1: On the cheek, thank you twenty three and me and

1524
01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: he didn't even know I existed. But that's a different story.

1525
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 1: I even offered to pay for the paternity tests, the

1526
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: legal version that you can use in court, not the

1527
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:47,720
Speaker 1: cheaper option at home. Because she quit her job when

1528
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 1: she was eight months pregnant. She was living in her

1529
01:20:51,400 --> 01:20:56,320
Speaker 1: adopted mom's house, and she had absolutely no plans to

1530
01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:59,720
Speaker 1: go back to school or seek gainful employment outside of

1531
01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:02,680
Speaker 1: work looking in a fast food uh to move out

1532
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 1: and raise your baby. Her adopted mother is elderly and

1533
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:09,760
Speaker 1: sickly too, so she's not a long term option at all,

1534
01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 1: and Connecticut is very expensive. I was wor connect expensive Connecticut.

1535
01:21:15,200 --> 01:21:15,600
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

1536
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 1: I think about like the Connectic you know, like the

1537
01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: Connecticut boys, like like are all don't know any you know,

1538
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:23,599
Speaker 1: like the preppy Connecticut boys.

1539
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 2: I like they wear like white sperries.

1540
01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:30,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like tan shorts yeah, and they wear like

1541
01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: a salmon colored fine yeah. Their their decked had no

1542
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:39,679
Speaker 1: sponsored in a vine like uh, his a free.

1543
01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:41,400
Speaker 2: Sponsor if we're low key kind of disparaging.

1544
01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:44,000
Speaker 1: They were disparaging vineyard vines unless you want to sponsor

1545
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:49,480
Speaker 1: us that you want to love you.

1546
01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:49,519
Speaker 3: And unless she wants to be Connecticut boys, in which

1547
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:50,680
Speaker 3: case we will.

1548
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 1: We can and we will.

1549
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm down for that.

1550
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, pull it off?

1551
01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:01,800
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yes, alright.

1552
01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: I've been swallowing my gum a lot.

1553
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:03,879
Speaker 2: Is that bad?

1554
01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 1: I was worried. I expressed that worry, and she took

1555
01:22:06,880 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 1: the offer initially, but later declined. I think she realized

1556
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 1: that going to court an establishing paternity would either crush

1557
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,840
Speaker 1: her if the baby isn't his, or put her in

1558
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 1: a situation where she doesn't have the final say about

1559
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: the baby if he decides to get involved but not

1560
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:26,640
Speaker 1: want to be with her. So she's worried about like

1561
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:29,719
Speaker 1: getting control of the baby.

1562
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to make sure you have any sort

1563
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 2: of you know what.

1564
01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 3: This might be a hot take, but at the end

1565
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:39,639
Speaker 3: of the day, I think like, whichever, regardless of who

1566
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 3: the biological father is in this situation, because it's like

1567
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:45,320
Speaker 3: a coin flip, whichever one is the better partner, make

1568
01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 3: that one the dad, right, Like I might, I might

1569
01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,240
Speaker 3: just be getting a little lazy because my head hurts,

1570
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 3: But it's like the better man should be the one

1571
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:55,839
Speaker 3: who you want.

1572
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:58,439
Speaker 1: To raise your child, right, that's how it works.

1573
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:01,679
Speaker 3: And clearly one of them is scum who didn't tell

1574
01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:04,719
Speaker 3: you about his other child and what she likes, doesn't

1575
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 3: like you, that's what she likes more. Shouldn't even want

1576
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 3: that guy. But who's lying about his kids that already exists.

1577
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:14,200
Speaker 1: That's the one she likes more, imagined the other guy.

1578
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, the other guy's probably like a cool guy. No,

1579
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 2: I don't think so, that's what he looks.

1580
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 3: Like this, Who are they cool guy? Yeah that's good. No,

1581
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 3: I would never keep my four year old child secret.

1582
01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 3: I would be proud of my child. Well, no, that's

1583
01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 3: that's the four year old cool that's the bad guy. Yeah,

1584
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:36,760
Speaker 3: the good guy. We don't really even hear.

1585
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: I thought you were calling me the bad guy.

1586
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm calling you cool ah.

1587
01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 1: Cool, cool guy.

1588
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:41,960
Speaker 2: Cool.

1589
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:44,240
Speaker 1: Well, you know what's cool liking the stream. If you

1590
01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: haven't liked the stream already, do so, because then we

1591
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:51,880
Speaker 1: can spin that wheel anyway. It might have been too

1592
01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:55,679
Speaker 1: real for her, and she ran. She said she didn't

1593
01:23:55,760 --> 01:23:57,720
Speaker 1: think it was best for her baby, and I don't

1594
01:23:57,800 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 1: understand it, but that's her baby, and I do, and

1595
01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 1: I had to respect her decision. She gave birth early

1596
01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:08,400
Speaker 1: last year, a beautiful, healthy baby, and I fly across

1597
01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:10,519
Speaker 1: the country to come and see her and meet the

1598
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 1: new family member. She was about two weeks postpartum at

1599
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 1: the time, and she was itching to spend five hundred

1600
01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 1: dollars to go to a concert in the next week

1601
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:22,760
Speaker 1: or two. I said nothing about that. I've never given birth,

1602
01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 1: so I don't know what is or isn't appropriate when

1603
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:29,360
Speaker 1: your postpartum. I was just happy that her and the

1604
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:32,479
Speaker 1: baby were doing well, and I hope she had fun,

1605
01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:33,960
Speaker 1: so I flew home.

1606
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 2: I feel like that was the right call.

1607
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 1: I feel like he's like letting sleeping dogs lie.

1608
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:41,320
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, but I'm not pregnant.

1609
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: Should they lie? Let's see. So now here's where things

1610
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:47,679
Speaker 1: turned left.

1611
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 2: Oh it's like Nascar.

1612
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 1: But before that, the second piece of constict is needed,

1613
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:57,599
Speaker 1: and I promise, I promise. So second context, my husband

1614
01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:00,840
Speaker 1: and my sister in law are eleven years part him

1615
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:04,320
Speaker 1: older and she's early twenties, and he practically parented her.

1616
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 1: Single mom had to work, pre teen left alone to

1617
01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 1: babysit most nights. We babied this girl. She was a

1618
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 1: princess that wanted for nothing. We supported her financially through college,

1619
01:25:17,640 --> 01:25:20,759
Speaker 1: helped pay her rent, even co signed on her lease

1620
01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 1: for her first apartment. Then after she moved in with

1621
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:26,519
Speaker 1: us for a short while, trying to move closer to

1622
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:30,360
Speaker 1: the city, she turned around and got knocked up by

1623
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 1: a young man. Oh my god, my phone is blowing

1624
01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: up right now. She turned around and got knocked up

1625
01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:40,800
Speaker 1: by a young man who was CouchSurfing and whose first

1626
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 1: name she didn't even know first name? That's crazy?

1627
01:25:45,360 --> 01:25:46,879
Speaker 2: Is this the never mind?

1628
01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:51,240
Speaker 1: Has anyone ever slept with someone that you didn't know

1629
01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:51,880
Speaker 1: their first name?

1630
01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:54,680
Speaker 2: Or just why you look at me, huh forgot their

1631
01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:55,200
Speaker 2: first name?

1632
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:56,519
Speaker 4: Well?

1633
01:25:56,520 --> 01:25:57,920
Speaker 2: Why was I the first thing?

1634
01:25:57,960 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 1: The glances I wasn't even glansing, but I saw your eyes. No,

1635
01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 1: I was just you know, sometimes my eyes fallen, some

1636
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:05,719
Speaker 1: of them pretty?

1637
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:10,760
Speaker 2: No, I know, I know.

1638
01:26:10,880 --> 01:26:13,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're like a crow you see something shiny

1639
01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 3: and pretty.

1640
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 2: I've never done that. Have you done that? Sam?

1641
01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:28,360
Speaker 1: No, you paused long enough for it to be a yes. No, No,

1642
01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:31,479
Speaker 1: really I don't. What do you mean?

1643
01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 2: Really? No?

1644
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 1: But I guess you would remember if you didn't.

1645
01:26:35,080 --> 01:26:35,800
Speaker 2: Right, wouldn't that?

1646
01:26:37,040 --> 01:26:37,960
Speaker 1: Have I done that? No?

1647
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:39,599
Speaker 2: You see, I haven't done that.

1648
01:26:40,200 --> 01:26:40,680
Speaker 1: I hope not.

1649
01:26:40,880 --> 01:26:45,639
Speaker 2: I could have you like? Have I forgotten any names?

1650
01:26:45,720 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 1: Now?

1651
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 2: Maybe?

1652
01:26:47,840 --> 01:26:49,600
Speaker 1: Did I forget them in the moment? No?

1653
01:26:51,120 --> 01:26:52,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if my list would be complete to

1654
01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 3: this day? Okay, well I know Keons? Would you're Keon

1655
01:26:58,280 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 3: has a list?

1656
01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:01,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sorry?

1657
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 1: And he checks to sit twice.

1658
01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:05,439
Speaker 2: He guess he's gonna find out who's naughty or not

1659
01:27:05,520 --> 01:27:06,640
Speaker 2: he honestly.

1660
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:12,240
Speaker 1: Anyway, when we found out and tried to find out

1661
01:27:12,280 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: who this young man was and try to see who

1662
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 1: his family was, et cetera, she had the nerve to

1663
01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:23,120
Speaker 1: feel offended that her family dared to ask reasonable questions

1664
01:27:23,280 --> 01:27:25,720
Speaker 1: so we can help her hold that man accountable. She

1665
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:27,599
Speaker 1: kept the baby. That was her choice, and we had

1666
01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 1: no opinion about that her body, her choice and all that.

1667
01:27:30,160 --> 01:27:32,879
Speaker 1: We never even discussed it, but to say my husband

1668
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,840
Speaker 1: was livid with her would be an understatement. We also

1669
01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:38,519
Speaker 1: found out that she was lying to us and to

1670
01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:41,360
Speaker 1: my mother in law and manipulating both sides to give

1671
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 1: her money for the same thing without the other knowing

1672
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 1: so she can pocket it. So also to be clear,

1673
01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:48,920
Speaker 1: this is a story within the story. Yes, this is

1674
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 1: a context story.

1675
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:51,799
Speaker 2: It is like a bubble inside of a bubble.

1676
01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:55,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like she also used my credit card without permission.

1677
01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:57,360
Speaker 1: It was a mess. My husband called her everything but

1678
01:27:57,479 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 1: a child of God, told her that she better not

1679
01:28:00,560 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 1: ask us or her mom for anything. We're not babysitting,

1680
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,040
Speaker 1: we're not buying a diaper, and she better go find

1681
01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:10,320
Speaker 1: that loser and figure things out if she wants to

1682
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:13,640
Speaker 1: treat us like dirt beneath her feet for caring. And

1683
01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:15,640
Speaker 1: that was that context over. So now we're getting back

1684
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 1: into the real story. That's the context story. The interior

1685
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 1: bubble has popped. The interior bubble has popped. We're in

1686
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:25,360
Speaker 1: We're in main storycare on main bubble, main, main, main

1687
01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 1: bubble territory. Yes, so.

1688
01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:30,560
Speaker 2: I literally have it up. That's insane.

1689
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:35,080
Speaker 1: So I fly home after visiting my sister and the

1690
01:28:35,120 --> 01:28:38,799
Speaker 1: new baby, and my husband asked me how she's doing,

1691
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:42,759
Speaker 1: and I tell him she's doing great. The baby's fine, healthy,

1692
01:28:42,800 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 1: and she's even going to go to a concert soon

1693
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:49,160
Speaker 1: to see a famous R and B singer expensive tickets,

1694
01:28:49,160 --> 01:28:51,439
Speaker 1: So everything was good. She was in good spirits and

1695
01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:54,040
Speaker 1: we were both happy for her. I had known about

1696
01:28:54,040 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 1: the paternity question since she was a couple weeks pregnant,

1697
01:28:57,200 --> 01:29:01,559
Speaker 1: but I did not tell anyone, not even my husband.

1698
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:05,200
Speaker 1: I decided to let it play out how it does,

1699
01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:08,240
Speaker 1: and we'd figure it out when the baby came. So again,

1700
01:29:08,280 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 1: this is like, uh, this is op basically saying like,

1701
01:29:12,720 --> 01:29:14,519
Speaker 1: we don't know who the father is. It could be

1702
01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:16,599
Speaker 1: one or one or one guy or the other. We're

1703
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:18,479
Speaker 1: just gonna let it play out. I'm not gonna put

1704
01:29:18,520 --> 01:29:19,760
Speaker 1: pressure anyway.

1705
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 3: Which I don't believe in that. I think there's should.

1706
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:23,559
Speaker 3: I think you should should have pressure.

1707
01:29:23,600 --> 01:29:25,880
Speaker 2: You should there should be some pressure to figure out

1708
01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 2: who the actual father of your child is.

1709
01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:30,639
Speaker 3: But then at the same time, I don't think if

1710
01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:34,760
Speaker 3: the actual father is garbage he that you necessarily need

1711
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:38,000
Speaker 3: to like just because it's like, oh, well, that's what

1712
01:29:38,120 --> 01:29:40,760
Speaker 3: makes sense. It's like if he's already being like I'm

1713
01:29:40,760 --> 01:29:43,280
Speaker 3: gonna block you on every platform multiple times and I'm

1714
01:29:43,320 --> 01:29:44,840
Speaker 3: gonna ghost you and I don't want anything to do

1715
01:29:44,960 --> 01:29:47,400
Speaker 3: with you, then that guy doesn't want anything to do

1716
01:29:47,479 --> 01:29:48,040
Speaker 3: with his.

1717
01:29:48,040 --> 01:29:50,679
Speaker 2: Child either, so he doesn't deserve to be with his child.

1718
01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: But where to go into the story. So but when

1719
01:29:56,360 --> 01:30:00,280
Speaker 1: my husband asked me how the baby's father feels now

1720
01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:03,640
Speaker 1: that he has a new baby, I told him I

1721
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:07,559
Speaker 1: haven't met him yet. But then a few days later,

1722
01:30:07,640 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 1: maybe it was a week, she texted me and asked

1723
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 1: me for money. Didn't say what it was for, but

1724
01:30:11,600 --> 01:30:14,040
Speaker 1: she asked for about one hundred dollars. I was actually

1725
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 1: taking a nap at the time, and my husband grabbed

1726
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:20,000
Speaker 1: my phone to get one of those six digit off

1727
01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:22,559
Speaker 1: codes for one of her accounts. When her text came through,

1728
01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:25,000
Speaker 1: he was confused as to why she was asking me

1729
01:30:25,040 --> 01:30:26,720
Speaker 1: for money when I just told him that she was

1730
01:30:26,720 --> 01:30:29,760
Speaker 1: buying expensive tickets to a concert. And he scrolled up

1731
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:32,759
Speaker 1: to see that I had sent her Apple Pay money

1732
01:30:32,800 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 1: several times before with little context or conversation, and he

1733
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:40,360
Speaker 1: was concerned given that given what recently happened with my

1734
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 1: sister in law, because she was taking money before that,

1735
01:30:43,439 --> 01:30:45,639
Speaker 1: she was only reaching out to me whenever she needed money,

1736
01:30:45,640 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 1: and in hindsight, I was the only I was the

1737
01:30:49,080 --> 01:30:52,360
Speaker 1: one always reaching out to her to genuinely catch up,

1738
01:30:52,680 --> 01:30:55,920
Speaker 1: and she did, in fact, primarily reach out only when

1739
01:30:55,920 --> 01:30:58,760
Speaker 1: she wanted something, which is a whack behavior. So he

1740
01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:00,559
Speaker 1: woke me up and asked me about it, asked me

1741
01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 1: where her man was and why I was spending so

1742
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 1: much money on her. So I told him about her

1743
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:09,120
Speaker 1: being spotty with employment at the paternity issue, that there

1744
01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:11,479
Speaker 1: was no man around, that I was worried about her

1745
01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:14,840
Speaker 1: and the baby's future, and he just wasn't having any

1746
01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:18,800
Speaker 1: of it. So he texted her from my phone. I

1747
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,200
Speaker 1: don't know if that's a move. He doesn't have her

1748
01:31:21,280 --> 01:31:23,200
Speaker 1: number and has never called her text to her to

1749
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,559
Speaker 1: her before they've met only a few times, and told

1750
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,680
Speaker 1: her something along the lines of this stops. This stops now.

1751
01:31:28,760 --> 01:31:30,960
Speaker 1: Don't ask my wife for money. If you need money,

1752
01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:33,679
Speaker 1: go get a job, or go find your baby daddy

1753
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:38,240
Speaker 1: ask that expletive for money. It's always stupid girls like

1754
01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:42,200
Speaker 1: you who make stupid choices and expect everyone else around

1755
01:31:42,240 --> 01:31:45,479
Speaker 1: you to clean up your crap. He then handed me

1756
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:47,920
Speaker 1: the phone and that was the end of it. How

1757
01:31:47,960 --> 01:31:50,040
Speaker 1: do you feel about like the husband kind of taking

1758
01:31:50,080 --> 01:31:50,680
Speaker 1: control like this?

1759
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 3: I think that could have been a little not as

1760
01:31:54,800 --> 01:32:00,880
Speaker 3: mean as he sent it. Wait, did I miss who

1761
01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 3: do you send that to?

1762
01:32:01,560 --> 01:32:05,040
Speaker 1: He sent that to the sister with the the two

1763
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:06,000
Speaker 1: possible baby.

1764
01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:07,680
Speaker 2: Did Yeah, No, you didn't need to be that mean

1765
01:32:07,720 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 2: about that.

1766
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:10,880
Speaker 1: And also, I don't know, I don't know about him

1767
01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:14,280
Speaker 1: just taking it from ope like that feels kind of Yeah,

1768
01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:17,360
Speaker 1: Techrio says, that's definitely not his place. I kind of agree.

1769
01:32:17,439 --> 01:32:18,759
Speaker 1: That feels like out of pocket.

1770
01:32:18,880 --> 01:32:23,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's it's that you're making things worse.

1771
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:25,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're actively making things harder.

1772
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:27,720
Speaker 1: He then handed me the phone and that was the

1773
01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:30,400
Speaker 1: end of it. She replied, pretty much just cussing him out.

1774
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:32,960
Speaker 1: But he wasn't interested in reading anything she said. After

1775
01:32:33,000 --> 01:32:35,280
Speaker 1: he handed me the phone, he said what he said.

1776
01:32:35,760 --> 01:32:38,280
Speaker 1: I tried to call her, but you wouldn't pick up.

1777
01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:39,880
Speaker 1: But when I talked to her about it on the

1778
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:41,559
Speaker 1: phone the next day, she sent me a long text

1779
01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:43,559
Speaker 1: message and I wasn't about to sit through all that.

1780
01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:45,960
Speaker 1: I explained to her that I didn't agree with the

1781
01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:47,760
Speaker 1: way he said it, but I did agree with him

1782
01:32:48,080 --> 01:32:50,559
Speaker 1: that she did make stupid choices, yes, which led to

1783
01:32:50,720 --> 01:32:53,559
Speaker 1: a situation that she was in, and he lash out

1784
01:32:53,600 --> 01:32:56,000
Speaker 1: mostly because of what happened with my sister in law,

1785
01:32:56,240 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 1: but he really did care. I also told her that

1786
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to send the money. She told me

1787
01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:04,920
Speaker 1: that I should check my husband because he was disrespectful,

1788
01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:07,519
Speaker 1: and I admit I was a little snippy in response,

1789
01:33:07,560 --> 01:33:09,519
Speaker 1: and maybe it's because we're a bit older, but I

1790
01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:12,840
Speaker 1: told her that we don't check people in our household.

1791
01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,840
Speaker 1: We are adults. If we have a disagreement, we talk

1792
01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:19,400
Speaker 1: about it, or you just I guess, steal each other's

1793
01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:21,000
Speaker 1: phone and then yell.

1794
01:33:21,280 --> 01:33:22,880
Speaker 2: Not contextually understanding.

1795
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:26,640
Speaker 3: That's what she's saying is when having a conversation with

1796
01:33:26,680 --> 01:33:31,000
Speaker 3: somebody that is checking, I don't I really don't like

1797
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:34,000
Speaker 3: that the husband took the phone, yes, frand got nasty

1798
01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:36,160
Speaker 3: and then when she responded, he said, I don't even

1799
01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 3: want to read it. It's like, then you you weren't

1800
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:39,240
Speaker 3: even trying to have a conversation.

1801
01:33:39,280 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 1: You just wanted to yell at her.

1802
01:33:40,600 --> 01:33:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like if you actually cared and wanted

1803
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:45,880
Speaker 3: to have a discussion, that's one thing, but like you

1804
01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 3: just wanted to be You just wanted to be mean,

1805
01:33:49,160 --> 01:33:53,280
Speaker 3: You just wanted to I don't know, it's bad bad.

1806
01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:54,920
Speaker 1: I told her that I wasn't going to get in

1807
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:56,920
Speaker 1: the middle of it. I offered to give her his

1808
01:33:57,080 --> 01:33:59,720
Speaker 1: number if she wanted to talk about talk to him,

1809
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:02,600
Speaker 1: but she declined. I think she was mad because I

1810
01:34:02,600 --> 01:34:05,360
Speaker 1: didn't agree to cuss my husband out ghetto style on

1811
01:34:05,360 --> 01:34:08,679
Speaker 1: her behalf. But that's just not something we do. Also,

1812
01:34:08,800 --> 01:34:11,000
Speaker 1: I agreed with them both. He didn't have to call

1813
01:34:11,000 --> 01:34:13,479
Speaker 1: her stupid, but he was right too. He really needed

1814
01:34:13,479 --> 01:34:16,880
Speaker 1: to start making plans, real plans, and try to help

1815
01:34:16,880 --> 01:34:20,640
Speaker 1: herself before making or asking for to support. You know,

1816
01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:22,960
Speaker 1: learn how to fish instead of always asking for one

1817
01:34:23,120 --> 01:34:25,519
Speaker 1: and all that. By the way, you can learn fish

1818
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:30,120
Speaker 1: for new episodes of this podcast by looking us up

1819
01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:34,320
Speaker 1: wherever you get your podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify. You can

1820
01:34:34,439 --> 01:34:37,200
Speaker 1: listen to us in your ear holes, while you clean,

1821
01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:41,840
Speaker 1: while you drive, while you work even you know, it's

1822
01:34:42,160 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 1: just consistent. You can have our voices everywhere, So go

1823
01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:47,479
Speaker 1: check out our podcast wherever you listen to your podcast.

1824
01:34:47,560 --> 01:34:50,320
Speaker 2: Okay, storyte on five different devices at the same time.

1825
01:34:50,439 --> 01:34:54,360
Speaker 1: Please please, that's the best way so we got a

1826
01:34:54,400 --> 01:34:55,840
Speaker 1: little bit more to this story. But what do you

1827
01:34:55,880 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 1: think about this whole like check your husband thing and

1828
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:00,680
Speaker 1: the husband's stealing the I.

1829
01:35:00,600 --> 01:35:05,200
Speaker 3: Mean low key yeah, check your husband. I wouldn't like

1830
01:35:05,360 --> 01:35:09,760
Speaker 3: let him, especially if that's my sister. Like you, Yeah,

1831
01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:10,519
Speaker 3: it's like you can't.

1832
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 2: And I actually got checked on that too, Like when

1833
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:13,600
Speaker 2: I was.

1834
01:35:13,640 --> 01:35:16,960
Speaker 3: Dating somebody and they had a sibling that they would like,

1835
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 3: you know, talk crap with, and then I talked a

1836
01:35:20,080 --> 01:35:22,000
Speaker 3: little crap with the sibling and then they.

1837
01:35:21,880 --> 01:35:24,880
Speaker 2: Were like, Hey, but that's my sister, so I can

1838
01:35:24,920 --> 01:35:27,599
Speaker 2: do that, but you can't. Yeah, like yet, it was

1839
01:35:27,680 --> 01:35:28,200
Speaker 2: more like a thing.

1840
01:35:28,240 --> 01:35:31,160
Speaker 3: It's like you're not there yet, so like the way

1841
01:35:31,200 --> 01:35:33,720
Speaker 3: the things that you say might not be able to

1842
01:35:33,800 --> 01:35:34,840
Speaker 3: roll off like that.

1843
01:35:34,960 --> 01:35:38,519
Speaker 2: But either way, uh, he did not. That was weird.

1844
01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:40,640
Speaker 3: Like I'd have my own conversation with my husband like

1845
01:35:40,640 --> 01:35:42,400
Speaker 3: what made you feel like it was the right move

1846
01:35:42,439 --> 01:35:42,880
Speaker 3: to do that?

1847
01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:45,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it does not feel at all like the

1848
01:35:45,240 --> 01:35:45,599
Speaker 1: right move.

1849
01:35:45,720 --> 01:35:48,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you're you're not. That's that was just

1850
01:35:48,320 --> 01:35:49,600
Speaker 2: the vibes were immaculate.

1851
01:35:49,680 --> 01:35:51,679
Speaker 1: It just felt like it just felt like the moment,

1852
01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:54,639
Speaker 1: but we got a bullying vibes, right there, we got

1853
01:35:54,640 --> 01:35:56,280
Speaker 1: a little bit more of this story, so I'm gonna

1854
01:35:56,320 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 1: go straight into it. So I thought we squashed that

1855
01:35:58,880 --> 01:36:01,880
Speaker 1: whole thing when I went back because a family member

1856
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:04,519
Speaker 1: passed away. She even showed up the funeral, so I

1857
01:36:04,560 --> 01:36:06,920
Speaker 1: thought it was all behind her. I apologized to her

1858
01:36:06,960 --> 01:36:09,040
Speaker 1: because I felt like I wasn't the version of a

1859
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,000
Speaker 1: big sister she probably had imagined. I always felt like

1860
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,599
Speaker 1: it was always letting her down in some way. We hugged,

1861
01:36:14,600 --> 01:36:17,920
Speaker 1: we cried, we said her goodbyes, and then she ghosted me.

1862
01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:20,960
Speaker 1: I kept reaching out, calling to send out a search

1863
01:36:21,000 --> 01:36:24,960
Speaker 1: party because she just utterly ghosted me before. Then today

1864
01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:27,120
Speaker 1: she sends a text out of the blue saying she

1865
01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 1: was done with this side of the family. We're not

1866
01:36:30,000 --> 01:36:31,800
Speaker 1: close and never will be, and she didn't want to

1867
01:36:31,800 --> 01:36:34,320
Speaker 1: have anything to do with her sister quote unquote whose

1868
01:36:34,400 --> 01:36:37,360
Speaker 1: husband doesn't respect her, and not to contact her again.

1869
01:36:37,720 --> 01:36:39,639
Speaker 1: All I could do was tell her that I would

1870
01:36:39,720 --> 01:36:41,680
Speaker 1: respect her choice, even if it ripped my heart out

1871
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:44,439
Speaker 1: reading it. Then I cried for about an hour because

1872
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:47,400
Speaker 1: I just feel like I lost my baby sister forever.

1873
01:36:48,280 --> 01:36:50,160
Speaker 1: Was I wrong? Should I have taken her side instead

1874
01:36:50,200 --> 01:36:52,120
Speaker 1: of being honest and staying out of it. Am I

1875
01:36:52,280 --> 01:36:54,800
Speaker 1: the a hole? I feel like the misstep was your

1876
01:36:54,840 --> 01:36:57,599
Speaker 1: husband taking your phone. Like I feel like that, like

1877
01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:00,120
Speaker 1: maybe you got to involved, but I feel like, really,

1878
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:03,599
Speaker 1: what did it in was husband taking the phone? For sure?

1879
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, just just made everything worse.

1880
01:37:06,840 --> 01:37:09,440
Speaker 1: Classic husband moves, classic husband moves.

1881
01:37:09,280 --> 01:37:12,559
Speaker 3: Steps in and says I'll handle this, makes everything worse.

1882
01:37:12,920 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 2: Leaves.

1883
01:37:15,479 --> 01:37:17,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I would love to know what you guys think,

1884
01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:20,639
Speaker 1: Like let us know the the chat. Do you think

1885
01:37:20,720 --> 01:37:23,679
Speaker 1: that the husband did a good move? Do you think

1886
01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:25,080
Speaker 1: Op was an a hole?

1887
01:37:26,360 --> 01:37:29,320
Speaker 3: What the husband said wasn't necessarily wrong, but it was

1888
01:37:29,400 --> 01:37:32,080
Speaker 3: just like, that's not the time or the place for

1889
01:37:32,120 --> 01:37:35,360
Speaker 3: you to like slam dunk on my sister. It's like

1890
01:37:36,680 --> 01:37:38,799
Speaker 3: it needs to come from a place of love first,

1891
01:37:38,960 --> 01:37:40,639
Speaker 3: and they definitely didn't come from that.

1892
01:37:40,920 --> 01:37:41,280
Speaker 1: Agreed