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Speaker 1: Hi, Amber, Hi, Lelah. Welcome to an Unlikely Affair. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to an unlikely Affair. My worlds are officially colliding. This

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Speaker 1: is the happiest I have been in a very long time.

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Speaker 2: I have Amber obviously my co host. Hi, babe, Hi, I.

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Speaker 3: See we brought all the personalities today.

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Speaker 2: I'm really uncloud nine recently. I'm so happy for you. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I know how to take it.

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Speaker 2: I'm very giddy.

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Speaker 1: I've got Britney Cartwright, hello, gorgeous, and I've got Coperna. Who.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling right now? Janet? Good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got a great night sleep last night, all

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Speaker 4: by myself and in a bed a.

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Speaker 5: Little and you were getting sassy and over ok.

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Speaker 2: You guys, we went.

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Speaker 1: We went to the Unlikely Affair party last night in

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Speaker 1: Sace Alito?

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Speaker 2: Is that you say itso? And Janet did.

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Speaker 1: Get spicy in the uber but to be fair, to

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Speaker 1: be defend, to go for it, you asked the uber

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Speaker 1: driver to pull over for a third time to connect

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Speaker 1: to the music on a bridge at ten pm, but.

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Speaker 5: He never pulled over.

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Speaker 4: He pulled over two times before.

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Speaker 5: I don't remember that.

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Speaker 6: That's why the third I was like third strike, we're

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Speaker 6: going home.

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Speaker 5: Some music because that was a long rod.

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Speaker 1: That was Oh you were playing it though, right in

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Speaker 1: here and you're going if you were looking at.

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Speaker 2: You're like, I stay my own names. Yeah, worry me.

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 4: I was like, stay pussy one more time.

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Speaker 2: And I and ubers, Yeah, we love you.

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Speaker 4: See, I'm afraid of what you guys do alone when

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Speaker 4: I'm not there.

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Speaker 1: We have fun when you're not around, you have some

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Speaker 1: we have some fun when mom comes around.

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Speaker 4: Fun squash the nice reasonable volume would be good.

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Speaker 5: Why did Why did we have to pull over three

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Speaker 5: times for it?

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Speaker 3: So we did?

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Speaker 6: I wouldn'tnock connect to third the first two times. You

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Speaker 6: started to ask him to connect and then you're like,

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Speaker 6: I gotta tag this photo really quick, hold on and

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Speaker 6: he's like, I gotta keep going.

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Speaker 3: He looked exhausted when he dropped this off.

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: I was like, we got it.

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Speaker 4: That was like, who's uber rating? Is this destroying right now? Yours?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Ihearts so good. Sorry, guys.

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Speaker 5: I'm always nice about it though, so they probably still

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Speaker 5: liked it.

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Speaker 2: You. You were very funny and dairy. Janet was.

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Speaker 4: I was in the high a ninety to go home.

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Speaker 4: He was like not the third.

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Speaker 1: Amber was in her spiral over the Epstein files.

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Speaker 2: Valid you have so valid, You're so seen and I

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Speaker 2: got you. We're right here. Thank you, so you Amber.

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Speaker 1: You've met Brittany and Janet before, and have we spent time?

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Speaker 2: Reminded me? Have we spent time together?

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Speaker 3: I'm only at maybe like birthday parties, right, yeah?

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Speaker 2: Maybe like once.

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Speaker 6: The first time I remember I was spending a lot

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Speaker 6: of time together was when Camera was a baby, and

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Speaker 6: immediately upon walking to Laalas, you were like give me

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Speaker 6: and You're like baby whisperer. And then I was like great,

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Speaker 6: and I was like, as long as she's good, I

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Speaker 6: think I let you go for like an hour.

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Speaker 4: Really yeah, you were like holding Cameron for forever and

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Speaker 4: I loved it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for letting me hold your baby. I've

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Speaker 3: been known to still people's baby on the street. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you need help, Like I'm the worst. On the plane too,

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Speaker 3: I'm like baby screaming and I'm like, here, let me

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. You're the best. You're the dream on the plane.

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Speaker 1: I would give you my baby.

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Speaker 2: On your plane.

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Speaker 1: So it's very, very Obviously you know Britney because we

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Speaker 1: did vander Pump Rules together. But it's so crazy to

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Speaker 1: like have the four of us in this room together.

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Speaker 1: When season four a Vanner Pump, I was very hard

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Speaker 1: to stomach for a lot of people, and then I

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Speaker 1: was labeled the home wrecking whore. And now, obviously Brittany

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Speaker 1: is one of my dearest friends, and we all found

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Speaker 1: common ground and became friends. But now, how the fact

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Speaker 1: that Amber is in the mix, it's just such a

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Speaker 1: I have these moments all the time where I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what a beautiful, full circle moment. I opened the shower

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Speaker 2: She's like, I'm peeing. I was like, you are very

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Speaker 2: comfortable with each other.

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Speaker 1: How did this happen from going like having this narrative

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Speaker 1: that was spun and you you guys both know that

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Speaker 1: you at.

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Speaker 2: Some point have no control over your narrative.

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Speaker 1: Once you're you sign up for a reality TV show,

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Speaker 1: whatever's out there is out there, and you have to

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Speaker 1: fight very hard to correct it, and for the most

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Speaker 1: part it falls on deaf ears. So you just throw

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Speaker 1: your hands up and you're like, whatever people want to

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Speaker 1: run with, I'm fine with it so in that long

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Speaker 1: winded speech, I'm very happy to have everybody in this

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Speaker 1: room together.

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Speaker 2: I'm thrilled about it, and we want to talk about marriages.

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Speaker 1: We've had like very in depth conversations about what everyone's

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Speaker 1: going through. And I think the number one thing people

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Speaker 1: want to know for you, brit is it hard for

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Speaker 1: you to start dating knowing that you're still legally married

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Speaker 1: to Jack.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I really I don't feel like I've like

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Speaker 5: actually been dating dating Okay, you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: Like I've been kind of like I forget that brand

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Speaker 5: didn't exist it. Honestly, I hate that I just said that,

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Speaker 5: but like I forgot that I like actually was in

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Speaker 5: a relationship whenever I was just talking. I didn't mean

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Speaker 5: like I forget like whenever I just said that sentence,

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Speaker 5: I completely didn't even think that I was in like

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Speaker 5: a very short lived actual relationship Like that just doesn't

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Speaker 5: even seem like it happened anymore.

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Speaker 2: It was very fast, it was and it was in my.

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Speaker 5: From my home, so it kind of was just like

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Speaker 5: something fun. But yeah, I think, honestly, I think once

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Speaker 5: my divorce is final, it's gonna open up new doors

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Speaker 5: for me in a weird way, Like a lot of

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Speaker 5: stuff I do is in private, right you know?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I do know.

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Speaker 1: Did you amber find that like it was hard to

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Speaker 1: start dating because in California, as we all know, it

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Speaker 1: takes like six months and that's just for a regular

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Speaker 1: old divorce to happen six months, six months to a year.

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Speaker 1: A year. Yeahs a very long time. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I guess depending on what you feel most comfortable with,

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Speaker 2: Was it hard for you to start dating after no marriage?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I did it probably a very unhealthy

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Speaker 3: I went within two weeks I had met someone and

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Speaker 3: I was like ran into the arms of someone.

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Speaker 2: Is that the guy that you were engaged to too? Yes?

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Speaker 4: That was two weeks? Yeah, yeah, damn.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes I wish I had something like that though, because

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Speaker 5: it would like take my focus off of all the

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Speaker 5: bull crap I have to deal with all the time.

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Speaker 3: It was in a way, but after now being out

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Speaker 3: of that relationship for three years, I realized I did

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Speaker 3: not grieve my marriage. Yeah, I really didn't. And I

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Speaker 3: find that that is one of the most important things.

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Speaker 2: And you know, for me, there was a lot. There

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Speaker 2: was a lot to grieve.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't just a typical like Okay, everything's clean and dry.

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Speaker 2: We just fell out of love. There was a lot of.

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Speaker 3: Trauma and many years of dysfunction, and I just I

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Speaker 3: did it wrong. I would highly not recommend doing what

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Speaker 3: I and really giving myself the time to like stop

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Speaker 3: and briefe. But there was also a lot of healing

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Speaker 3: that I learned by being in a relationship in the

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Speaker 3: beginning that oh there are decentish people out there, and

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Speaker 3: I can give my heart to someone. At some point,

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Speaker 3: I just did it not in the best best way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Jannon always says that my standards are very low, Like.

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Speaker 6: You've gotten so much better seeing red flags, and now

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Speaker 6: I'm like so proud of you. When when you recognize

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Speaker 6: red flag and you do then you're like, I can't

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Speaker 5: But meaning like when she says that, she's meaning like,

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Speaker 5: because I compare something that any man should be already

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Speaker 5: doing in a relationship anyway, and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: he's like this, he's like that, And she's like, you

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Speaker 5: just don't have anything good to compare it to.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, that's bare minimal.

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Speaker 2: That would that my experience?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like it's a lot of women's experience.

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Speaker 1: We're so conditioned to think that, like the just like

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Speaker 1: is they deserve a gold star.

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Speaker 2: It's like, no, they should be making you feel special.

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Speaker 2: Your time is.

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Speaker 1: Valuable and you're worth giving time to. And I feel

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Speaker 1: like once I because it was like nine months after

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Speaker 1: I left our ex to where I actually.

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Speaker 5: But like.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like we were in like a I wish maybe

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Speaker 1: I would have stayed sexually active throughout the whole thing,

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Speaker 3: It was like we're like more like the Mormons were.

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Speaker 3: As you took him from me, but thank you, by

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Speaker 3: the way, thank you he took for me.

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Speaker 2: But by the way, if the new girls listening, thank you.

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Speaker 4: And you're welcome to the club whenever you're done.

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Speaker 5: And you know what I always say, there's always a

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Speaker 4: I love it, always love it. Is that her name

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Speaker 4: or is that the name? You can that's he?

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Speaker 2: That's her name? I Alicia.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's like one of them you have as ley.

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Speaker 1: Name for oh, but I like her. I like her

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Speaker 1: a lot. I hear she focks around on him. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: she's the smartest bit.

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Speaker 2: She's on her dated. We should be doing that. I

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Speaker 2: know she should write book.

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Speaker 1: There was a time, let me tell you, he was

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Speaker 1: out of town and there was the finest football player

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Speaker 1: who had slid into my d MS. He was like

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Speaker 1: six six. He still plays in the league. He's had

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Speaker 1: like eighteen years of a career. And he was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: just wait. So he and he would like invite me

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Speaker 1: his family barbecues, like he was like normal. But I

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Speaker 1: was seeing your ex and there was one night and

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Speaker 1: I was fully sober at this point. There was one

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Speaker 1: place and I let. I took my ring off. You

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Speaker 1: I took my I left my ring at home and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna go see Oh, yes, I

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Speaker 5: I don't look at Reddit. Shit, Reddit can kiss my ass, but.

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Speaker 5: He had all I had all his passwords, I had everything.

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Speaker 5: And then obviously after I found out he cheated on me,

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Speaker 5: And then honestly, because his dad passed away and I

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Speaker 4: That like brought us back together.

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Speaker 5: Don't know if we would have got married and everything

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I.

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Speaker 5: Was done for long a while, and people think that

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Speaker 1: No, And I also don't think you were given time

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Speaker 5: I know people say that to me. I hate that

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Speaker 5: you are not my wife.

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Speaker 1: No, and when your heart is involved, that is a

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Speaker 2: Like you ignore a lot of things, you never lot

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Speaker 3: So of course justify a lot of things. Yes, excuses

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Speaker 2: And then your gay.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and manipulation and.

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Speaker 1: Everything I know so it's very easy, Like I can

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Speaker 2: You can't see it when you're in it.

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Speaker 4: Totally.

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Speaker 1: Jennet, you have one of the most beautiful marriages than

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Speaker 1: you that I've ever seen. Thank you, and I hope again.

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Speaker 1: I didn't watch season one of The Valley. I didn't

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Speaker 1: find that reality TV, in that spotlight on your marriage

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Speaker 6: I think whatever is really going on in real life,

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Speaker 6: reality TV amplifies it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So for Jason and I, you know, before the show,

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Speaker 4: You know, so and so did this. I'm so upset.

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Speaker 6: Now Jason like has a newfound I guess like invested

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Speaker 4: About what's going on in that sense.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So for us, it opened up a lot more

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Speaker 6: Like you know, did you guys have a good time?

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Speaker 6: Was there any like beef? You know, stuff like that.

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Speaker 6: He likes to know kind of where I'm at with

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Speaker 4: I love that and too, our pillow talk.

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Speaker 5: Ye always, I'm like, Jason can hang out with us

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Speaker 6: I can be very emotional, Like I always like what

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Speaker 6: And he gives me like the calm logical advice, which

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Speaker 6: I'm like instead of just you know, blocking them out everything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, so lot did you guys, you and Janet

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so how I know Brittany as we started

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Speaker 2: Okay, and Janet? When did you and I? Actually I

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Speaker 6: Very young, yeah, and drunk, so it's been Yeah. The

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I still and he'd tried to annoy it,

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Speaker 5: heck doesn'tmit it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the three of us were at like a bar

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Speaker 4: Probably about James and stuff that was going.

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Speaker 2: It's called dime.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I went there a lot to get wasted.

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Speaker 2: It was a hell of a time.

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Speaker 5: People don't realize that Janet's been around for so long,

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Speaker 5: Like you even if you watch Vanner pump Roulls, like

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Speaker 6: But just yeah, everybody's you know, birthdays or big events

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Speaker 4: It always intimidated me a little bit.

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Speaker 5: But honestly, I like that about people, Like I don't

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Speaker 5: have been around.

446
00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,959
Speaker 6: Other people bring around h I'm not going to make

447
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,920
Speaker 6: a scene, but I will eat a lot in the background.

448
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 5: There are a lot of like little clips.

449
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 6: I feel like where I'm just like mowing food in

450
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,399
Speaker 6: the background of total.

451
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 1: So, Janet's been in the mix for a really long time,

452
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:16,159
Speaker 1: and there was just something about Janet that I just

453
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 1: you're the.

454
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,680
Speaker 2: Funniest person on the planet.

455
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:19,200
Speaker 4: Thank you.

456
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,959
Speaker 1: There are certain people who make a party right, and

457
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 1: I feel like you're one of them. If you say

458
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 1: you can't come, I'm bummed. My gaze, they make a party.

459
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,679
Speaker 1: Oh they're the best, honestly, my little group. I'm like,

460
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 1: if anyone can't make it, we're like we're like friends.

461
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 1: You know, ensemble cast. You can't create that show without Phoebe.

462
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about show, I'm talking about my life. Yeah, yeah,

463
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 1: I look at.

464
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:42,840
Speaker 2: It that way.

465
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 1: So I'm just so it is weird though, coming on

466
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 1: to a show where I'm like, hold on, yeah, so

467
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,640
Speaker 1: this is your.

468
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 2: Pane, It's a day wonder what the is? It's never

469
00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 2: been a day Wanner in my life.

470
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 4: That's wild.

471
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,919
Speaker 2: And so this is your first this is your first season.

472
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 1: This is my season where I'm okay full time on

473
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 1: the Bellley, But I've never been a day war Er

474
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: on vander Pump, on this show.

475
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 2: Nothing.

476
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,639
Speaker 6: You kind of were though, I know, I guess like

477
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 6: as a friend, but you were at the first thing

478
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 6: that we filmed all as a cast together, which was

479
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 6: my birthday at Britney's house.

480
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the carnivals you have a title car though,

481
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 1: that's how they gauge it.

482
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 2: Okay, So I will never be an OG of this

483
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:21,400
Speaker 2: show either.

484
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 3: So were you guys skeptical at all by Lala coming on?

485
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 5: No? I wanted Lala on. I wanted la On Shorts

486
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 5: specifically to come on.

487
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 2: I didn't know that, Yes.

488
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 5: And you actually talked to me about it, and you

489
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 5: were because you were worried, remember you like, were am

490
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 5: I gonna like fit in with everybody? I remember like

491
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 5: having that conversation, and I was like, You're going to

492
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 5: get to know these people so much more just because

493
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 5: you're going to be sending actually actual time with them,

494
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 5: because we're going to be filming together. So you might

495
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 5: not feel like you know everybody in the beginning, but

496
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 5: you will eventually.

497
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, on it once the conversation, because I mean the

498
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: conversation of me joining the show had been floating around.

499
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: For like over a year.

500
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

501
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: And then when it was like we actually have a

502
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 1: paper in front of us, like an offer, and I

503
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 1: went to Brittany and I was like, I just I

504
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 1: asked those questions, but I also wanted to know, like,

505
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: is this okay with you?

506
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 2: Because even though it is an ensemble cast.

507
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:25,119
Speaker 1: Without Jackson Brittany, the show would not be picked up, right, Like,

508
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: they're the ones that they're the names behind it, and

509
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 1: you know, put our names and then right, and then

510
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 1: you hope that the people that are attached to it

511
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 1: are interesting enough to like make a name for themselves

512
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: on their own. So I just wanted to make sure

513
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 1: with Brittany, like, are you cool with me kind of

514
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: coming into this dynamic? You're very kind about it. Obviously

515
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: you were like sure.

516
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure.

517
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,640
Speaker 5: Like me, so that'd be nice.

518
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 4: Was the opposite.

519
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 6: I liked both of you too much, Like I was

520
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 6: afraid same thing when you were like, hey, would you

521
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 6: do this show? Like we're you know, putting names down?

522
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 6: Do you at least talk to producers? These friendships have

523
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 6: existed before the cameras, So my fear was are the

524
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 6: cameras going to change that dynamic?

525
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 5: You know?

526
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 6: Are we going to be forced to have conversations we

527
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 6: you know, wouldn't have otherwise? Is it going to damage

528
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 6: these friendships at all? So any fear I had of

529
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,239
Speaker 6: Lala coming in it was the same fear I had

530
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 6: of joining this show, which was the friendships come first,

531
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 6: and I would much rather never be a part of

532
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 6: the show and have those friendships for the rest of

533
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 6: my life than have any sort of damage come from them.

534
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 4: And like have the show.

535
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 2: It still worries me.

536
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't worry me with you because you and I

537
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: met on a show, so like we know your cast mates, yes,

538
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: and we have our friendship friendship.

539
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're not a friendship at beginning, so we like

540
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 5: know the drill.

541
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: But when it comes to you, when it comes to Michelle,

542
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: like I do get nervous because just having cameras adds

543
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 1: another element. It's like, if you had this concern, why

544
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't you bring it up to me off camera? And

545
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, I really wish I could answer that,

546
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,719
Speaker 1: but I don't know how because like we've signed up

547
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: for this, and I want to be I want to

548
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: be authentic and and not ruin storylines. But I also

549
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: don't want to blindside you because I really love you.

550
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: And what's hard is, as you know, like I'm I'm

551
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: such an open book that I forget that other.

552
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: People like still have private lives like I don't.

553
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 5: I don't I think if you sign up for reality TV,

554
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 5: that's that's a line that you that you signed like

555
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 5: you you have to share your life, yeah, or don't

556
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 5: do reality TV.

557
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 1: Fully, I agree with you, but I think some people

558
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: when you first sign up for it, that is a

559
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 1: tough pill to swallow, and you you don't quite know

560
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: how to differentiate between the two. And I always say,

561
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: you know, there's it's reality versus reality and the world

562
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 1: sometimes Clyde, but you have to be able to say, like,

563
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: even though this is happening for real, it's like not

564
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: real because it's going into a a into a producer's

565
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: hands to like mold it and flip it and make

566
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: get entertaining for somebody.

567
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 5: But it's real, like our conversations are real. There are everything.

568
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 5: But like normally I would just like maybe like call

569
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 5: Janet right away and be like I just want you

570
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 5: to know bahlah blah. But while that three months is happening,

571
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 5: I won't have to wait until we have a scene together.

572
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 5: But it's still very real. But that's our job and

573
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 5: we're lucky to have our job, so I take it seriously.

574
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 4: Too, And that was the hardest part for me.

575
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 6: I feel like season one, I would try to call

576
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 6: you after every scene I feel like, or every moment

577
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 6: that was filmed and just be like, okay, so this

578
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 6: just and you were like, we'll talk about it tomorrow.

579
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't talk about it now and talk about

580
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 5: it again tomorrow. Like it doesn't feel authentic to me,

581
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 5: so like it's not people call me all the time.

582
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,159
Speaker 5: I'm like, just wait until you see me tomorrow to

583
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 5: tell me because.

584
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 4: Now I feel like I've gotten way better at that.

585
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 5: But you're also brand new, like you were how it works.

586
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 5: We've been doing this for ten years, law law, but

587
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 5: like now there are three seasons in so like they're

588
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 5: getting you know, that's not a short amount of time,

589
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 5: Like they're the ways of really patients.

590
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 3: Ye.

591
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,959
Speaker 6: Now I'm like, okay, I know that when cameras are

592
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 6: set up tomorrow, we'll have this conversation. Yeah, Like same thing,

593
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 6: Like we can't call each other immediately like we would

594
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 6: if we weren't filming in that moment.

595
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 4: We just have to wait and to that.

596
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 6: In the same way that like Jason and I's marriage,

597
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 6: I feel like it amplifies whatever you have. We had

598
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,479
Speaker 6: beautiful friendships off camera before we started filming, and all

599
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 6: of those I feel like we're amplified in a good way.

600
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 6: Once cameras are around because you spend more time together

601
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 6: when you're filming, and you know, get to create new

602
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 6: you know, memories, new trips, new stuff. So you know,

603
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 6: any fear I had of like, well, the cameras destroy this,

604
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 6: it's like it's only going to destroy.

605
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 4: What could already be destroyed.

606
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 5: I love that.

607
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 4: Yeah.

608
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 5: I think for me too with reality TV, since we're

609
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 5: talking about like that kind of stuff, like I'm not

610
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 5: I'm the person who will let anything go, Like I

611
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 5: won't confront things. I would rather just let it like

612
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 5: I would rather overthink about it in my head and

613
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 5: not really like say anything. But I think like having

614
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 5: the cameras there and having to confront a lot of

615
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 5: things that like maybe I would never bring it up

616
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 5: or say something like it kind of made me a

617
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 5: stronger person. Y.

618
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like is this really that important to bring

619
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 3: it up when cameras are rolling, Like if you you know,

620
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: you could say it behind closed doors, but sometimes I

621
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: would imagine you want to say, like is this really

622
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 3: that important?

623
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 2: Am I really upset?

624
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 3: Right?

625
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, you know how you were talking about your

626
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: your story is just as important and you take on

627
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: the role of like the script you're reading and I

628
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: don't want people to take this as like I'm not

629
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: La La, because I am. But I feel like i'm

630
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: very much like learned from Utah, where like I don't

631
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: want confrontation and I pick my battles when I have

632
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: a camera on, and it's like you pick every fuck

633
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 1: in battle for me.

634
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 2: It is so empowering.

635
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: So when people say like you're so confident, I'm like,

636
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: that bitch is confident like me.

637
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 2: Not so much.

638
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: Like if you were to like be mean to me

639
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: right now, I would like make it okay and like

640
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: go hi.

641
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 5: I don't know.

642
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, really, I don't I don't know if

643
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 2: you would how would you be someone mean to me? Well, just.

644
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: On reality TV because you've been acting for so long

645
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: taking on another role how you see it, But this

646
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: is you're taking on yourself as the role.

647
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 3: Right.

648
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: First of all depends on the day.

649
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 3: Right, Some days I wake up and I'm like, I'm

650
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 3: gonna fucking come for your jugular, And other days I'm like,

651
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 3: you know what we're gonna practice forgiveness today? I know

652
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 3: because that's that's what I learned in the mor matuch

653
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 3: or that's what my new spirituality are. Being sober we

654
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: take pauses now, but sometimes you know this, I could

655
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 3: be good one day and then the next day I'm

656
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 3: calling you and I'm like bitching and crying and screaming,

657
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 3: and You're like, oh, she's sucking on one.

658
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: I'm ill like this motherfucker on fire. I'm like, yeah,

659
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: I got the guest.

660
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 5: Yeah. Sometimes, and I think we're like that though, yeah, yeah,

661
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 5: just because we have to. Like there's days where I'm like,

662
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 5: I don't know if I can do this today, but

663
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 5: you just have to do it, you know, like you

664
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 5: just it's through it. Yeah, And that's what I mean.

665
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 5: I said, it made me stronger because like you're you're

666
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 5: still like doing things that like maybe I would be

667
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 5: seeing on my couch and like overthinking things instead, but

668
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 5: instead I'm like, I'm kind of always having a conversation

669
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 5: with lah Lah, like you hurt my feelings when you

670
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 5: said this blah blah blah, instead of like overthinking it

671
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 5: by myself. Right, yeah, right, yeah, right, even if you

672
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 5: don't want to, you know, kind of opens doors.

673
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: Isn't it hard to talk about sex on camera?

674
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 6: It was at first, and there are definitely still times

675
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 6: because you also get so close with the crew, like

676
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 6: the sound guys, the camera guys, like the assistance, everybody

677
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 6: who's there, like you get to know and like, but

678
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 6: not well enough for me to like go up to

679
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 6: like the sound. I'd be like, I don't give blow jobs,

680
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 6: or like you maybe or like say something like you

681
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 6: know to them.

682
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 2: Do you give blow jobs?

683
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 4: I do, just not to completion?

684
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: Is that like a new thing?

685
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 5: Always?

686
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 3: It's been always okay, always. That takes a lot of communication,

687
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 3: by the way, Yeah, I would love to hear how

688
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: that conversation is. Yeah, how does that conversation Jason being

689
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 3: like can I and me being the no, thank you.

690
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 5: Do it for a while. But job is what you

691
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 5: do to like get warmed up. That's so like if

692
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 5: they got off, I'd be pissed because that I'm like

693
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 5: ready to have exactly in my mouth.

694
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, like I every time before, but what but not

695
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 6: you know, I'm like, then we have sex?

696
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 5: Yeah exactly?

697
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: Is that even?

698
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 3: Would you guys do that with a with a stranger

699
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: like on a say, third or fourth day blow job?

700
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes.

701
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 4: They know what they're getting into.

702
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 5: Like, oh, I'm a lot freakier than people will know

703
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 5: what you know.

704
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 6: Yesterday we found the best real housewife tagline.

705
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: Name I know what's up with this bitch?

706
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he has the best.

707
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 4: Real housewife tagline that we discovered yesterday.

708
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 2: What is it?

709
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 5: Maybe a southern bill but I'm freaky as hell? Isn't

710
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 5: that good?

711
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: That's so good? I love it.

712
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, this podcast, that's the only thing with me talking

713
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 5: about that kind of stuff. Is like my parents like

714
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 5: I don't care about you guys, or like people like

715
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 5: my friends are like whatever I think about like my

716
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 5: people back home.

717
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 3: My mom, she's like, well, why do you have to

718
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: I said, Mom, I'm about this podcast. Just yeah, about

719
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 3: sexual stuff. I'm super comfortable talking about sex. I'm an actress.

720
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 3: I've done it on like I I told all of

721
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 3: this before on a podcast. It's like, sometimes I'm more

722
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: comfortable performing sexual stuff on camera because I'm playing a

723
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 3: character in my own life. And Mom's like, what I

724
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 3: don't like just because it makes some people uncomfortable.

725
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 2: I find it. Actually that's like a it's a blessing.

726
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: It's a gift because there are a lot of women

727
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 3: who want to talk about sexual things, but they either

728
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 3: get ashamed or they get embarrassed, and it's like we

729
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 3: shouldn't be embarrassed.

730
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 2: No, and I feel that way. I and I.

731
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 3: You know, that's why I think that we like talking

732
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 3: about float jobs, float jobs, eating ass.

733
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: It needs to be spoken. I don't do that either.

734
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't say I don't think you do that.

735
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: There's no way I eat. Yeah, there's certain.

736
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 5: Things we don't need to discuss on the podcast.

737
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 6: Oh my, that's a yes, because she would say no otherwise.

738
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, for real, you guys are some No. But yeah,

739
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: but I have to be I have to be fucking

740
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: into you. Oh yeah, I could ever do that. So no.

741
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: Brittany and I when we started talking about like talking

742
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: to these younger guys, she was like, I feel like

743
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: we can teach them, to teach them.

744
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, I know we could.

745
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 5: Yeah.

746
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: They're over there looking at us like we're going to

747
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 2: do what to my balls? I'm like, buddy, that's the thing, and.

748
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 4: Her ass is next?

749
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 2: Can I tell you?

750
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys, this is a public service

751
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: announcement on the topics of eating booty. I just want

752
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: to say it is a must that both parties shower first.

753
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: All right, there we go.

754
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 5: My mom better not listen to this.

755
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna.

756
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 5: From listening to this.

757
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: Which is so funny because my mom is like, I

758
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: don't need to listen to the podcast because I get

759
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: the live version.

760
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 5: We talked about before. You're very open with your mom

761
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 5: about that, But.

762
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: People think I'm weird.

763
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: People are like, this is not normal, and I'm like,

764
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: the woman shoved me out of her vagina. If I

765
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: can talk about sex to a bunch of fucking strangers,

766
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: I can talk about it with my mother.

767
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: I am actually starting to talk to your mom about

768
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: that stuff because I'm like, hey, Lisa, I have a

769
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 3: question for you.

770
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: I would never go to my.

771
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 5: Mom yeah either, Yeah, like my mom and I are

772
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 5: so close, but it's just something I just like hit.

773
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 5: I don't want to know what hers doing anything. I

774
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 5: would rather keep that that part separate.

775
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can tell you all about me like you not.

776
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 2: You can talk to Claude, though I.

777
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 6: Can my mom like jokingly, like I feel like or

778
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 6: if I guess if I had a really serious, like

779
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 6: marital sex issue, like I would I would go to her.

780
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 4: But yeah, it's one jokes.

781
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 5: Where we're from. You just like the South I'm from, well,

782
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 5: Kentucky is like the cutoff so like, but we're connected

783
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 5: so Ohio, Kentucky bordering states. Yeah, we like that's just

784
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 5: we just don't do that.

785
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 6: I like make a joke about sexyphia mom and if

786
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 6: there was something like wrong with me or you know

787
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 6: what I mean like that, I like like I could

788
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 6: talk to my mom about my vagina, like I was

789
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 6: experiencing something that was interfering with my sex.

790
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 5: Well that's different. But yeah, yeah, it's mostly.

791
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 4: Jokey stuff with my mom.

792
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: Okay, that's female health.

793
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

794
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 4: She also lives so close to us.

795
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 6: I'm like, I don't want her in her house to

796
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 6: back yard work. Well we just share walls. There's like

797
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 6: no I know, but is it like.

798
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: Don't come in the house because Jason and I are

799
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: going to have fun or like can you take the kid?

800
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 2: What is that like?

801
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 4: It's not like we're doing afternoon delights.

802
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 2: Let's be real.

803
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 1: Why not?

804
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 2: Wait?

805
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 5: Why not? That's my favorite thing right now.

806
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 6: He's a full time lawyer, Like he wouldn't take off

807
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 6: work for sex.

808
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,479
Speaker 4: We can do it when it is off time.

809
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: Have you tried?

810
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 4: No, I'm trying.

811
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 6: I like it right in the evenings or actually I

812
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 6: would prefer morning before we start our days.

813
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:27,479
Speaker 4: If we're up to I would get.

814
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 3: Dressed up and pretend like I'm his secretary and knocking

815
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 3: the store out, like mister.

816
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we love a good role played. Oh my,

817
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: heck yeah the best. You should like meet him out

818
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: at a bar and then like a lace outfit that

819
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: has the vagina cutouts.

820
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 6: It's just yeahs And I feel like that's where we

821
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 6: have like our more romantic moments like that, and it

822
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 6: feels like like first date kind of situation. Know what

823
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 6: you and Jason should get because he would love this

824
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 6: because he's like so sexy but like a little awkward,

825
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 6: which makes like doesn't realize which is the hotter. Yes,

826
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 6: you should get that thing that you put in the

827
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 6: underwear and it's a vibrator and he can click it

828
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 6: wherever you guys go.

829
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 2: And I go out to dinner.

830
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 4: I do think he would like that.

831
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 2: He would like it and you would like it too.

832
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 2: Is there one for the guys?

833
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 3: Like you could have a penis ring on him and

834
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 3: then you could.

835
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you totally could.

836
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 6: You could do he would like that part of it.

837
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 6: I feel like he would like to have the control

838
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 6: of the butt.

839
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: So don't do that.

840
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: He would get don't do the penis part.

841
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 6: He knows I would totally take advantage of the button.

842
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 6: I'd be like zooming him every time the waiter came here.

843
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, that would be.

844
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: That was such a good impression.

845
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 6: Today, you know, Valentine's Day is coming up, so maybe

846
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 6: I need to look into this, you must, I think,

847
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 6: I I think I'm sold.

848
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: Okay, Right, So this morning.

849
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: Janet came over to eat her bagel in mine in

850
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: Amber's room, and we were having a conversation about what

851
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: sex really actually means. And I for many years have

852
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 1: well I've I've gone completely cold, no sex, like full

853
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: celibacy and then like just fucking everything that I see.

854
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 3: And we noticed on the car ride over here today, how.

855
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: But there's there hasn't been in probably five years, maybe

856
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: even beyond that, because I really don't count my ex

857
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: And that's not throwing shade, that's just very much how

858
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: it was. But I haven't had intimacy in a long time.

859
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: And I don't think sex equals intimacy.

860
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 2: But what a.

861
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 1: Woman who's in like a partnership or a marriage like you, Janet,

862
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: where it's like, how.

863
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 2: Does that four play start?

864
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: Because you think about four plane, you're like, oh yeah,

865
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: fingerbait me, Oh yeah, but I'm like as a as

866
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: a woman, and I don't know how you are, Brittany, but.

867
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,959
Speaker 2: Yes you are. But I love this energy needs like.

868
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: Softness, and I need you to like like touch my

869
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: bum like give me hugs and let me know like

870
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 1: it is on tonight.

871
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 4: That's important.

872
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: Like what is the foreplay that you and Jason?

873
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: What do you communicate with him to let him know

874
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: like we're having sex tonight?

875
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 6: You know, early on in our relationship, I feel like

876
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 6: it would be like we get into bed and he'd

877
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 6: be like, do you want to have sex? And it'd

878
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 6: be like, I mean as so much as that sells

879
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 6: me on it, like really like but like Jason very

880
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 6: much takes notes, and our sex life is very important

881
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,959
Speaker 6: to us. When we go like more than a week

882
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 6: or two, we both start like just picking at each other.

883
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 4: And then once we do it, we're.

884
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 2: Like, oh I do like you yeah, like how about that?

885
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 6: So he takes notes like if I'm like, hey, this

886
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 6: is what I'm needing, he very much will do it.

887
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 6: And so one of the things I feel like early

888
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 6: on is like the foreplay for me starts like how

889
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 6: about like a lingering kiss? Like when you come out

890
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 6: for your lunch break, or like just take a second

891
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 6: to like, you know, tell me I look cute, or

892
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 6: just those little moments. Then all day I'm like thinking

893
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 6: about you, or I'm thinking about that kiss, or I'm

894
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 6: thinking about like kind of touched my butt when I

895
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 6: was like doing the dishes or like something like that. Like, Yeah,

896
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 6: it's those little moments that then for the rest of

897
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 6: the day, I'm like, God, that was really cute, and

898
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 6: like I'm kind of like, you know, like giddy over him.

899
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 6: And then when we get into bed, it's like he

900
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 6: doesn't have to ask. I'm like I'm right there. I'm like,

901
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 6: you're ready, ready to go. I'm like, oh my gosh,

902
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 6: I can't stop thinking about that kiss you gave me earlier.

903
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: Like it's a slow up.

904
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a very slow like little crumbs where

905
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 3: you eventually get to the end of the week or whatever.

906
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 2: Your sex. Yes, I just rip each other's clothes off.

907
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, So because Britt, you and I get no, but.

908
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: You and I like yeah no.

909
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 5: Like I love that par and Jyson have that because

910
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 5: that was something that was missing in my and I

911
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 5: talked about it very openly on the show and everything

912
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 5: like after I had my son, it was like non

913
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 5: existent and then you like start resenting your partner totally, right,

914
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 5: and like that's so real.

915
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 1: So you and I talk about sex in a very

916
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: similar way. Yeah, sorry, surey, But do you think that

917
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: once it's time to get into an actual partnership, like

918
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: do you crave those types of things?

919
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 2: Or are you and I just the type of we're like, yeah,

920
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 2: bend me over, fuck me because that's how you and

921
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: I talk, you know.

922
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 1: But so I'm like, are we in a maze of

923
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: life where it's like that's just what we want.

924
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,720
Speaker 5: We're not in a relationship, so like we're very different.

925
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you had a sexual like then we would

926
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 3: need the like yeah, we would need the build up

927
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 3: and the whatever.

928
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 5: Right now, we're just like give it to any baby.

929
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 2: Like boom boom boom.

930
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 4: I feel like I still have those ones.

931
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 6: It's normally like after a night of drinking Jesse, I

932
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 6: come home the next morning, I'm like, let's not talk

933
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 6: about that.

934
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, were we not us?

935
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: Only imagine Brittany with some drinks in her I really

936
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: feel like she turns into like full cowgirl. Yeah you

937
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,240
Speaker 1: know that makes me so happy.

938
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 2: You as you should.

939
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys for not only flying out to San

940
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: Francisco to support an Unlikely Affair and party. That was

941
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: so nice of you. I rock with you guys so hard.

942
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 1: I adore you both. Thank you for being on the podcast.

943
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: Amber. You know how I feel about you, baby reverse Cowgirl.

944
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: You better believe it.

945
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: You guys, thank you so much for listening to another

946
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: episode of an Unlikely Affair.

947
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 2: We're going to catch you next week. Thanks guys.

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Speaker 4: Bye,