1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: with her radio Welcome to the Almost same As podcast 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: Wango Tango. Addition, we got a lot of Bachelor faives 4 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: in attendance at this Wango Tango. We got Claire, Carly, Kendall, Blake, 5 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: h Blake, m Hannah, Dylan, Michelle, Nate, Heather and Becca. 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: Yeah they're all here. It's Bachelor infested here at Wango 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: Tango where Yeah, I know right, we had fast you know, 8 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: and thanks to Hyundai for making this happen, This Whango 9 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: Tango Extraordinaire podcast. Hyundai is all about talking about evolving 10 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: your journey. You know, Ben and I have talked numerous 11 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: times in this podcast over the palast like I don't 12 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: know six months about how we've evolved our journeys since 13 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: being on the show. I mean obviously and then my 14 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: husband we got married, well actually we were friends for 15 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: a long long time. We got married, we had a baby, like, 16 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: we moved away. Lots of evolving h same with Ben. 17 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: You know, look at like where his life has come 18 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: because of the show. And now I am joined with 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: somebody else who has been has had quite the journey 20 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: and Bachelor Nation quite the journey almost a decade long. 21 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: Almost right, it's Claire Crawley. That's insane. It's good. Right, 22 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: So today, guys, today's our anniversary. The anniversary Claire I 23 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: actually met a whole seven years tomorrow because he came 24 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: in like a day late into Paradise. But today we 25 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: felt like a lifetime by the way, which oh my gosh, 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: I can't believe. It was twenty four hours on and 27 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: everybody's like coupled up, everybody's taken, we're wasting your time. 28 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: And I was like, say less, guys, okay, I'm out. 29 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: At least let me bungee jump. Okay. It's like everyone's 30 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,559 Speaker 1: taking except for Jared, who he's taken in Ashley's mind, 31 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: but you can definitely get the wrap. But if I 32 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: got a good bungee jump out of it, I'm good 33 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: and some friends. So that seven years ago today, and um, 34 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: Claire was on you know, the whole season before that. 35 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: So eight years, eight years in this franchise. Talk about 36 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: how your journey has evolved, Like it hasn't been for 37 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: the positive because you know, we've seen a lot of 38 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: what people may say are like I don't want to 39 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: even say they're not failures, but their relationships that have 40 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: not gone the distance for you, how do you how 41 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: do you classify your your journeys? I would first of 42 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: all say that to be in my world considered a 43 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: failure would be to not try and be left with 44 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: what ifs. People on the exact though that I can't 45 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: stand living a life with what ifs in them. I 46 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: am exactly the same way, So I to be honest, 47 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: even the ones that have not worked out, the relationships, 48 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: the chances that the goes on the shows, everything that 49 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: has quote unquote not worked out, has really been in 50 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: my best benefit for my higher self, if that makes sense. 51 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 1: And I look at everything like it divinely is meant 52 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: to be that way. So whether it's for a day, 53 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: whether it's for us just um one season of an whatever, 54 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: an episode or whatever, or an entire relationship, even if 55 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: it didn't work out to me, I got something from it. 56 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: I learned something from it. And even my and I 57 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: can say this, my worst relationships, I have got stuff 58 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: from them to serve me for my great or good 59 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: and it has made me in relationships the person I 60 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: am today. There's a lot of things that I work on, 61 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: but it also shows me and reflects to me what 62 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: I do need to work on and where I lack 63 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: for myself and and how I can come back better 64 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: for the next person. And it's only setting me up, 65 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: I believe for success. What do you feel like you 66 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: learned the most of the most from from your last relationship? 67 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: Be ending with you? What have I learned the most? 68 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: Um and like what I'll tell you exactly what I 69 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: learned to go for I learned truly that. I mean, 70 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: there's a lot of things I learned, but the biggest 71 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: thing would be that I'm trying to figure out how 72 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: to say this in the right words, but it's it 73 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: was for my greater good. I I somehow I was 74 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: in such a low spot after the pandemic, right before 75 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: the show started filming that you know how it was 76 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: with like isolation and being alone. I was alone for 77 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: four months, literally alone alone. Yeah, and I was like 78 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: in a house by yourself because you were going to 79 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: visit your mom or you weren't able to. I wasn't 80 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 1: able to glass. It was really really hard, to be honest, 81 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: and it was hard for everybody, but for me, it 82 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: just was this intense sense of like loneliness and so 83 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: when I met Dale, when I went on the show, 84 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: when when I met all the guys, it was this 85 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: need for connection and I found that. I found that 86 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: and so the biggest thing I learned though it was 87 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 1: it was always like I need a partner. I don't 88 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: want to be alone. But throughout that, in the depths 89 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: and the hardest parts of that relationship, everything that I 90 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: went through, I went through a lot of it alone 91 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: and not I mean I have friends, I have my 92 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: family and stuff. But it was certainly it was the 93 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: self work that got me to where I'm at today, 94 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: and that was like the biggest lesson for me is 95 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: that I can depend on myself. I can take care 96 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: of myself in the best way possible. What was your 97 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: biggest heartbreak? Was it? Dale? I don't think that that's 98 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: a heartbreak trying and going for what you want and 99 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: going after what Like I'm not a woman who sits back. 100 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: I think that's an obvious thing. Like I go for 101 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: what I want, and I think that's an asset in anything. 102 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: If I go for that and work, I go for 103 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: that in life, I go for that. If it's fighting 104 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: for something I believe in, I go for it. And 105 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 1: if it's somebody I I'm you know, forty yours, you know, 106 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: forty years old, so it's like I'm actually forty one. 107 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: So forty is easier to say though. But if it's 108 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: something that I want, to go for it and at 109 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: that time, that's what I wanted and I went for 110 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: it and I got that. So that's not a failure 111 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: to me. Oh, absolutely not. I love that answer. I 112 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: love that answer. So, Um, Matt, Matt James is also 113 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: somebody that you weren't exactly. Um, you weren't a relationship 114 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: with him, that's for sure. So he was supposed to 115 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: be you know, he was supposed to be on your season. 116 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: He was castid to be on your season. Um, but 117 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: before your season even started filming, they actually just went 118 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: and announced him to being the Bachelor. I guess they 119 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: you know, they knew him through Tyler. They really wanted 120 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: him to be the Bachelor. But you guys have had 121 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: a lot of drama. But I feel like you've never 122 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: met in real life. I've never met him, so how 123 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: and how and why is there so much drama? Can 124 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: give a little backstory on this cameo situation because it 125 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: all started when he was on cameo before filming your 126 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: season and before he was announced the Bachelor. Yeah, I I, 127 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: to be honest, if held back a lot with what 128 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: information I do have and what has been presented with me. 129 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: And I will say this is that having the opportunity 130 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: if it was a bonus or good or bad thing, 131 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: but I had the opportunity of those four months before 132 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: going on this season to see who these guys were 133 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: and see who was coming on the season. And it 134 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: was unique, like that's never happened before. But I got 135 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: that opportunity. And what also came with that is DM 136 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: every single day of this I'm this person's girlfriend or 137 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: I know this about that guy. And there was a 138 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: lot of stuff that I just you just blow aside 139 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: and you're just kind of like, I get it whatever. 140 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: But there was nobody that I had more messages from 141 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: than him about him. Um, I actually got yeah, I 142 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: actually got videos of him talking about me in a 143 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: negative way and directly from him, but from other people. 144 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: Nothing directly from him, But I got a lot, I 145 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: mean well over thirty different from the same story from 146 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: different women and different people that were parting with him 147 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: and going out with him. So that initially rubbed me 148 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: the wrong way. And the stuff he was saying that 149 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm not going to repeat um was it was hurtful 150 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: and it wasn't okay. And I thought, I don't want 151 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: him to take up a spot of somebody that really 152 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: I would want to be there for me. And if 153 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: they knew, the show knew and he knew that he 154 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: just wanted to be the next Bachelor, fine, all good. 155 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: I would never have a problem with that. Go get it, 156 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: you know. But it's how he was talking about me 157 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: and things he was saying about me that I was 158 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: not okay with a man coming on the season taking 159 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: up a spot who was doing that? Do that on 160 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: somebody else's time. And his whole defense of being on 161 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: cameo was that he was a former football player and 162 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: he was doing it for charity. He was also part of, 163 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: you know, the quarantine crew with Tyler. Do you believe 164 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: that it was all going to charity or that was 165 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: that was his intention on cameo. I don't know or 166 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: care either way. You I mean, I don't care either way. 167 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: I feel like if that's the situation, that's the situation, 168 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: then you should probably on your cameo say that that's 169 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: going to charity and not have your title as the 170 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: bachelor and and use his title was the bachelor. Yeah, 171 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: I mean when I saw it when he was sent 172 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: to me, so it it just rubbed me the wrong way. 173 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: Like I said, So, whether he's a good I'm sure 174 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,559 Speaker 1: he's a great human being, I'm sure he's a great guy, 175 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: a great boyfriend. I have no idea, but it just 176 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: was not something I wanted on my season. There was 177 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: no beef. I just didn't want. I had a choice 178 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: of who my options are today, you know, and that 179 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: would not be one of them. Well, especially somebody who 180 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: calls me their mom. So we'll leave that right there. Okay, okay, 181 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: we'll leave that there. And would you guys ever be 182 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: open to speaking together on a public platform since you 183 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: guys kind of do end up talking about each other 184 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: separately on different podcasts and TV shows. Honestly, at this point, 185 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: it's been I feel like over two years. Like I said, 186 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: there's no drama on my part of it, but I 187 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: think my name keeps getting attached to it and he 188 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, if he like wrote a book and 189 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: talked about me and all that kind of I don't know. 190 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: I don't know that's that's what gets you views and 191 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 1: looks and reads. Then by all means use my name, 192 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: but I don't. I mean, it's just to me, it's 193 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: so far dead that I could. I'm just indifferent to it. 194 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: Claire's not unsure whether or not she would sit down 195 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: on a podcast with Matt, but maybe one day it'll happen. 196 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: Who knows. Why do we have to though I don't 197 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: know the guy I'm not. Nobody says we have to 198 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: be friends, and it's that's okay. You know, it's not 199 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:49,839 Speaker 1: a negative thing or a bad thing, and I would 200 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: be um, i'd really be getting the fans mad. If 201 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: I didn't ask you about your dating life, you can 202 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 1: was the last time you kissed a guy? That's I'll say, 203 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: because that was a question I wanted to say last 204 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: night when we had our girls night, and I didn't 205 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: get around to asking you specifically. Okay, my question is 206 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: why do you want to know that? Well, because that'll 207 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: kind of allude to like when the last time you 208 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: kind of had a crush on a guy or like 209 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: a date. That's true without you actually having to give 210 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: a name. I don't think a kiss equates oh so 211 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: more scandalous probably if you don't ask me because I'm 212 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: trying to kid. But my my dating life is not lacking. Okay, good, 213 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: you're good. So it's been recent that like you're getting 214 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: some action. Okay, great, all right, sounds good. She's she's 215 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: not making like some sexy claar faces. All right, Claire, 216 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: thank you for joining us again today on this special 217 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: Hundai episode. We really really appreciate it. Thank you for 218 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,839 Speaker 1: having me. Next up, I am joined by Hannah and Dylan, 219 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: one of our one of my fellow Bachelor in Paradise 220 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: couples that are still together after three years. The years guys, yeah, 221 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: rengrats an amazing you know, I said, I keep saying it. 222 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: People aren't like, Okay, actually we've got It's been seven 223 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: years today since I met Jared on the Saturday on 224 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: the sands of Bachelor Paradise. Congrats, that's that's a big deal. 225 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,959 Speaker 1: It's a big deal. Yeah. When we start the sixth, 226 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: the six on my dad's first day. Yeah, so you 227 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: guys three years ago. Yeah, well, I mean, oh, you 228 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: guys met beforehand. Oh that's known information. We were not 229 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: briefly before, but that was it. We got like a 230 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: group dinner with not now very local spot called there 231 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: are some like bachelor people and stuff like that. It 232 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: was Craig. It was a joke. Well, okay, now if 233 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 1: we talked about l A landmarks, you guys just moved 234 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: after you bought a house. I feel like within the 235 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: past two years in the San Diego area. It had 236 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: a great patio. Everybody was talking about how much I 237 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: love the patio on Instagram and then all of a sudden, 238 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: guys were like, we moved, Where did you move and why? 239 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: So we moved honestly, like four minutes away from our house. 240 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: Now it's like four or five minutes. Yeah, it's a 241 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: really close drive. Um. It was just timing, like with 242 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: the market, honestly, like we weren't looking, um, but we 243 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: kind of saw it and we're like, oh wow, this 244 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: is cool. And at the same time, our realtor was like, hey, 245 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: by the way, somebody's like kind of interested in look 246 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: buying in this neighborhood. This is the neighborhood, and they 247 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: wanted one story, which is what we had. And it 248 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: was just honestly like the perfect I don't even want 249 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: to say storm. It kind of worked out perfectly. We 250 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: we missed our backyard. We loved it, but like our 251 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: new house. Were just like so happy about it, Like 252 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: it was just like a really really cool timing thing. Honestly, 253 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: we have a movie theater in the new house. So 254 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: it flooded. Update as of last week. We don't know 255 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: really we're figuring that all this week. But it got flooded, 256 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: so we moved all of the movie seats and stuff 257 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: and the floor was like really what Yeah, pretty depressing, 258 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: but hopefully it was fixed this week. Okay, great. Dylan's 259 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: on that. I was like, Dylan, and you do that 260 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: kind of stuff, and I'll handle like decorating. Yeah, I'm decorating. Yeah, exactly, decorating, 261 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: doing logistics and stuff like let him decorate at all, 262 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: because I really don't like Dara touching. But no, we 263 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: have interior designers that he was working with, and the 264 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: ideal I deal with it. And at first Dylan was 265 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: involved a little bit and like on the meetings and 266 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: stuff like that, and then he was like and I 267 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: really don't want to do this, like I want you 268 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: to do this, I don't feel comfortable doing it. And 269 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: I was like, alright, perfect, let's go. So I've been 270 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: taking it over. I try to make a conscious effort 271 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: to not be involved. Well, just live in a nice place. 272 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: That's all that matters. It's hard to I told him, 273 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: I don't really care. What if it was paining, could 274 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: be fun. Well, now it comes to, you know, setting 275 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: up something else beautiful that would be your wedding. You 276 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: guys went to Italy recently to pick out a wedding spot. 277 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: You went to like Cuomo, did you go to Venice? 278 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: We're in Venice from Floridance, Monico Can santra Pez. Oh, 279 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: you guys went the whole country tour. We went for it. 280 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: So what are we deciding on? And when? I mean, 281 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: it's so beautiful and it's definitely an option to do 282 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: like Lake Como, But um, I feel like we need 283 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: to look at spots in California to validate everything, just 284 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: because it's hard to get people to like go over 285 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: season stuff, which is totally understandable. Um, it's not a no, 286 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: but we're like we should at least see some spots 287 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: here and at least validate for like, okay, like we 288 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: could totally make it work here or like maybe like 289 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: Honeymoon out there pen Field Mediterranean and yes, totally totally. 290 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: We did the honeymoon in Italy in peace and it 291 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: was both of them. So we've we've been wanting to 292 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: go to Greece. Yeah, I'm trying to get hand in 293 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: a Planet surprise grease trip for me for my birthday 294 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: in two weeks. And your Greek? I am Greek. Have 295 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: you ever been there? Yes? Okay, but I was younger, 296 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: so I don't really count it. Okay, all right, Well, um, 297 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: wedding planning, like, do we have a date, do we 298 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: have like a time period? You have a have a date? 299 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: Heart exclusive? No? No, we don't have a date, like no, 300 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm saving that for Instagram. Very bad business. I mean 301 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: it's it's literally just um going to depend on if 302 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: we find a location. Like the location thing I think 303 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: is literally literally going to assuming months from when we 304 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: find the location. That's great timeline. So yeah, exactly what 305 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: we did. Yeah, I feel like something like that because 306 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: Newport Rood Islands. Yeah, yeah, would you ever do it? 307 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: And you guys are mischiean? What's your where are you 308 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: from from? Wisconsin? Orange County? I know, but where do 309 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: you guys have that lakehouse? Wisconsin? Yeah? I know, we 310 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't do it there I wouldn't be. I don't know 311 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: if we would do it there, but I feel like 312 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: it could be a vibe. No, it does rain a 313 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: bit too. The rain thing would be a little riskue 314 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: yea yeah, yeah. Wedding venue TVD theme, it's been decided 315 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:08,679 Speaker 1: it's carnival themed. Along with that, we'll see it's fun dress. 316 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have no clue. Did you have 317 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 1: like a moment where you were like, this is the 318 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: dress we like? Actually, I don't know if my dress 319 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 1: was Um, I just I did and I was like, 320 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 1: it's too much, it was too expensive, and then I 321 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: said yes to another dress which ended up being my 322 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 1: rehearsal I mean my my reception dress, because I went 323 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: back and I got the dress that I thought was 324 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: too expensive. Yeah, so yes, yes, I don't know if 325 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: I I don't know if I'll have that wow moment. 326 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: I don't really know. It's my body too, so like 327 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: we made it a sweetheart when it wasn't actually a sweetheart. 328 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: So you made it what you wanted sleeves and we 329 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,199 Speaker 1: took off the sleeves like, yeah, you made it, you 330 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 1: made it how you wanted. I can't tell if I'll 331 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 1: be one of those people. I don't know. I'm ever 332 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: it's the best time, it's the most fun. I'm gonna 333 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,360 Speaker 1: go for it. We'll see, I don't know. I hope 334 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 1: we see it all on Instagram. Obviously, not the dress, 335 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: but like all the dress drying on you, absolutely because 336 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: you are a sherry Hill model and I mean I 337 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 1: love sherry Hill dresses. It'll all be on Boucher in Paradise, 338 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: filmed live. Everyone can come. Are they having you guys? 339 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: Come back and make a little cameo? No little cameo 340 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: if your students. No, they are not. Unfortunately, I don't know. 341 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: I actually didn't tell you that. I'll tell you. I'll 342 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: tell you now, but maybe you know. What's funny is 343 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: that we're doing a trip to I say, I sound 344 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 1: like such a paradive orta pray to for Riorda and um, 345 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: we're actually doing it like June sixte and that's probably 346 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:44,959 Speaker 1: when they're filming. But it's funny. We didn't plan it. 347 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: It's just for his birthday, so it's just funny time. 348 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 1: And they'll be like, oh flights, yeah, come down, we'll 349 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,239 Speaker 1: see a little bit. We'll see, we'll see Dylan has 350 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: something definitely not going, definitely not coming. We're gonna have 351 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: ourround vacation. Okay. He wants his birth to be like chill, 352 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: which is understandable, very very good, John Free, drama free, 353 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: be day. You guys are gonna have kids with great 354 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: hair potentially, and I have I think gray hair, great hair. 355 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: And I also just want to say that it's really 356 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: cool that, like I can confidently say that we're going 357 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:22,479 Speaker 1: to have like another Bachelor Paradise married couple easily. That's happening. 358 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: It's happening, alright, Thank you, thank you. Next up, we 359 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: have Heather Martin. Heather Martin, as you guys may remember, 360 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: was on Colton season and then made a brief appearance 361 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 1: on Matt James season. Heather, Hey, So, okay, so you're 362 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: on our podcast yesterday. So we caught up a little bit. 363 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 1: Then you guys check out Art Girls Night episode. So 364 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: much fun. We talk otherhood dating, um, all kisses, and 365 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: Heather's like, please don't ask me about because it again 366 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: and don't worry. I am not going to do that. Um, 367 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: But what I am going to ask you is how 368 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: is your bestie Hannah Brown? Because I feel like you 369 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 1: are probably the closest Bachelor Men Nation member to Hannah. Yeah, 370 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: Hannah has been really good. Hannah's like in a relationship, 371 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: like serious relationship, probably leading towards marriage. Is that I'm thinking, 372 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: and she's thinking. I think, Yeah, I know, Hannah isn't 373 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: really I think she's like very settled. She's in Santa Monica. 374 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 1: She's just happy. She's really really happy, which makes me happy. 375 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: That's good. What do you guys usually do when you 376 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: have your girls? Nice? So, Hannah, both of us are 377 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: just like we could sit on the couch were probably 378 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,199 Speaker 1: That's what I always imagine Hannah Brown hangouts to be 379 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 1: like totally my kind of girl. Hang out. We could 380 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: like all day we like wake up, watch a movie, 381 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: eat yeah, he talk yeah, we like talk another movie yeah, 382 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: and then eat again and then hang out, talk movie 383 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 1: and then eat again. I never Yeah, You're just like 384 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: so happy, you know, just like hang out. It's great. 385 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: What's your day to day life? Like? Are you still 386 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 1: in San Diego? I'm in San Diego, North County, San Diego, 387 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 1: San Diego. Yeah. We're just like chilling. Nothing crazy. It's 388 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: like I feel like I never have anything like crazy 389 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 1: need to report. But except for when I asked you 390 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 1: about boys. You want to tell me about boys. I 391 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: know about like your celebrity stalking. I have a lot 392 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: of celebrity stalking, but not boys. Dating is hard. I like, 393 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: I wish I never had a date ever again. I 394 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: hate it. Well, okay, so when was your last date? Um, 395 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: she's like, so long ago. I don't want to talk 396 00:21:55,920 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 1: about this year. Okay, yeah, I just not that good. No, 397 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 1: I did it someone for a bit of time. It's 398 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: just very a lot. There's just a lot. Why, so 399 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: many reasons? Wait? Why so? I actually asked me so 400 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: many questions my job, Um, you have great teeth, thank you? Questions. 401 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: There's just like so many details. So I'm like, I 402 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: just want to be like a normal Like was he famous? No, 403 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 1: just like a lot. But I talked to Jared about 404 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 1: this and I was like, I can't tell you Jared 405 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: after the podcast on his podcast, and I was like, 406 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: because this guy like really doesn't like being talked about publicly. 407 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: It's just like the situation like doesn't like I can't 408 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: like it. I can't talk about it. Like it's like 409 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: there's like I feel like she's like's like there's like 410 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: three hours of conversation. I don't know. It's complicated. It's complicated. 411 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 1: He's like a vampire, so I talking about it. Yeah, 412 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: he's in the a he's killed some people. I can't 413 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: talk about it. I'm not dating anyone right now, but yeah, 414 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 1: it's hard. It's because, like you know, it's a Bachelor 415 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,479 Speaker 1: podcast or Bachelor Nation members and it's just like everybody 416 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 1: wants to know about relationships. And she's like show, like, 417 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,479 Speaker 1: actually tell me how to date. I don't know, like 418 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: I know either, because like you do know. I mean 419 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: you're married and a child, but like thing is jar 420 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: and I really like are dating was like being friends 421 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, once we became people 422 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 1: who were dating, we were like married. I feel like 423 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: actually honestly, like you're like you're like thinking that that's 424 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,879 Speaker 1: the way you'd like you're my inspiration. I'm not kidding, 425 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: Like I've told me sisters, and like actually like the 426 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: anomaly where it's like you just like you like you 427 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: like some one and it's just like it's like not normala, 428 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: definitely not normal. That it was way it was way 429 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: too hard, but also like way too easy, and we 430 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: ended up dating. It was so easy, and then I 431 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 1: didn't even have to like try to get him down 432 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: on one day. It was just like we've been together 433 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: three months and now you you're proposed it just worked out, 434 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: but like you're the normally to the rule, Like it's 435 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:29,719 Speaker 1: like he's just not that into you. I am one 436 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: thousand persin actually, So I don't want any girls out 437 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: there being like like that's what's going to happen to me, 438 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,400 Speaker 1: Like no, I am the chick flick, Like I don't 439 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: know how it happens. I got the Chicken's inspiring. I 440 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 1: think it makes me feel like Okay, it's like I 441 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: want people to believe in chicken flicks and all that, 442 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: but I also want to have a sense of realism. 443 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: But like you is that it's not realistic, I know. 444 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 1: But like you, you didn't want today, so like it 445 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: happened the way you want to do, even manifesting at 446 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: the third time, it's like all a whole bunch of 447 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: contradictory advice here, But I think at the I think 448 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: really like thinking positive thoughts, thinking everything eventually is going 449 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 1: to work out and fall into place the way you 450 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: wanted to is really the key to making things happens. 451 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 1: Like a little you know, you gotta of course have 452 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: Like ever, I'm not talking about I'm talking about relationships here. 453 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm not so much talking about like your career, because 454 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: of course with your career totally have to aspire before 455 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: imagine dream big, but also be really your relationship. Well yeah, 456 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: it's both. That's just who you are. You're very sweetiates 457 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: it's really really nice. Okay, well, Hoather, thank you for 458 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: all your sweetness. You're always just that is what you are, 459 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 1: your sweetness. I hope that we see you again. You know, 460 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: why aren't you first stand in Paradise? You should? You 461 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: think it's for you where you asked no, but it's 462 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: just not for me, Like it's just not a thing 463 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: that I will do. Okay, yeah, all right, it's not. 464 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it's for me either, but and it 465 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: obviously but I didn't work out there, but it worked 466 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: out later, you think, Thank you, thank you. We're back 467 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 1: and we are joined by Kendall Long and her new 468 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 1: boyfriend Mitch, which we were all just like so very 469 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 1: thrilled that she has like this new love in her life. 470 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: And you are so cute together, and you're so tall. 471 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 1: He is a tall man. Yeah, you're perfect height now 472 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: you're six four what or something like that. You guys 473 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: are so cute. Yesterday on the podcast, on our Girls 474 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: Night podcast, we talked all about how kendall Um felt 475 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,640 Speaker 1: when she first saw you, and like she was really 476 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: turned on by your nerdy This your first impression of Kendall. 477 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:56,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is interesting and curious, gorgeous obviously, Um 478 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: yeah that I mean, of course beauty, and you know, 479 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: we it was it was a relatively laid back environment 480 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: so we could actually talk, which you know, when you're 481 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 1: going out on a Saturday night, that's not you know, 482 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 1: always what you get when you're in a club and 483 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: it's crazy loud, you can't really interact like that. While 484 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: we were in a place where we could talk, and 485 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: we were going through her book actually and like asking 486 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 1: each other questions perfect exactly. So it's just a perfect 487 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,199 Speaker 1: mingling experience. And I could tell pretty much immediately like 488 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: you know, she's smart and you know, lots of lots 489 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: of great thoughts behind her. It's beautiful, she's not just pretty. 490 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 1: We just connected on like a lot of similar topics, 491 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: which is really cool. I think I don't even know 492 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: what we were talking about that whole night, but a 493 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: lot of it was. I think like I just noticed 494 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: immediately that you were somebody that challenged me in um, 495 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 1: just like things that you researched, the things that you 496 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: were curious about, like your curiosity. Was a man that 497 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: really stood out to me. So I liked that about you. Okay, 498 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: So how did you ask her out on your first date? 499 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 1: Let's see, I probably we hung out that night. We're dancing, 500 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 1: a lot, lots of fun, lots of dancing. We actually changed, Oh, 501 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 1: we switched outfits on the dance floor, you'd like exchanged. 502 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: I had an ugly sweater on, had an ugly sweater on. 503 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: It was near Christmas. This ugly sweater was to reindeer 504 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 1: humping or something. I don't know. I saw his sweater. 505 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,199 Speaker 1: I didn't really process what was on it. I was like, like, 506 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: your grandma made it, and he's like, my grandma made it, 507 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, it's too reindeer humping. Um. And 508 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 1: then I was wearing this white card again. And so 509 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: on the dance floor we switched outfits. Yeah, and I 510 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: was cold, so it worked out perfectly. Um. And then 511 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: we exchanged numbers yeah. Yeah, and I'm a dork. So 512 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: I just immediately like, all right, when we're hanging out next, 513 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: what are we doing? Where are we going? He didn't 514 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: play any games to wait the next day. You texted 515 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: her that night probably as soon as I get the 516 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: phone number, it's like, here's my name, text me. He 517 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 1: was actually very forward. We were on the dance floor 518 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: and he's just like, what would you say? You're like something? 519 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, you're like, because I'm interested in you. 520 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, I like how forward he is? 521 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: So that was nice, creepy like for you know, it's 522 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: really horrible to say, but if you're attracted to the 523 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: person you like the forwardness that it's difficult. That's true. 524 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: I was glad he was forward because I was very 525 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: intrigued after our Europa conversation about the moon off of 526 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: Jupiter that had aliens on it. So, so, what's the 527 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: nerdiest date you guys have been on? Because I know 528 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: that there's like an appreciation for nerd life here. Well, 529 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: I feel like the every time we hang out, I 530 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: mean we've barely watched any TV together. We barely like 531 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: when we are together, we're just talking about anything and 532 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 1: everything that comes into our mind. Recently, we went on 533 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: a road trip to NAPA and Mitch like podcast lined 534 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 1: up for us to listen to and to discuss on 535 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 1: our way to not but he's like, okay, so I 536 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 1: had this podcast forgot what it was. It was a 537 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: six hour drive. The podcast was only an hour and 538 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: a half and we didn't finish it. We didn't finish 539 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: the podcast, so we like like pose it and we're like, 540 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: let's discuss this, and so it's just so fun each 541 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: other's brain candy, Yeah, basically as well as I candy. Oh, 542 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 1: he's my arm candy for arm candy candy involved, so happy. 543 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: So do you know anything about Kendall's um like history 544 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor franchise? Just from what I've heard obviously 545 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: since we've been dating, But I didn't really follow did 546 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: much of things the crap out of her when you 547 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: found out? I know, I I stayed away from that 548 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: because I don't know if it's old fashioned or just weird, 549 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,239 Speaker 1: but I just wanted to like get to know her 550 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: for how she was and how she how we actually 551 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 1: interacted because you never really know what's out there, right, 552 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 1: So um, yeah, no, I stayed away from the from 553 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: the Google's okay, So I know we have to get wrapped. 554 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: But I do need to ask you, because I asked 555 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: Candle this question yesterday. What kind of future steps do 556 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: you guys see each other taking all of the big ones? 557 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 1: What a way to wrap up this podcast. I am 558 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: thrilled for you guys. Thank you so much for coming on. Honestly, 559 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: you know, an outsider to this bachelor world. It's it's 560 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: a fun one. I've I've been enjoying it, honestly great. 561 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. We've really enjoyed your hard launch. Oh hard launched. 562 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was the thing before, Like 563 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: you hard launched. I was like, yes, thank you. Thank 564 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: you so much to hund for making this amazing episode happen, 565 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: and to all of you almost same as listeners out there. 566 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: We love you so so much. Hyundai, thanks for setting 567 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: me up with that cool ride on my way to 568 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: way and go Tango. I'm about to go hopping it 569 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 1: right now and cruise back to the hotel. See yeah bye. 570 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: Followed the Bennon Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on I 571 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: Heart Radio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.