1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to How to Money. I'm Joel, and today I'm 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: talking gen Z versus the old money Rules with Lillian Zang. Okay, 3 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: let's talk about money and the youths today. While a 4 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: lot of personal finance advice is evergreen and helpful to 5 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: folks of all ages, it's also important to reach people 6 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: where they are and in the way they like to 7 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: consume information. As a middle aged dad, I hope to 8 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: stay relevant for a long time to come, but I 9 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: don't think I'll have the same street cred as my 10 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: guest today, so I wanted to have Lillian Zang on 11 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: to talk about the particular hurdles gen Z faces on 12 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: the financial front and the new money rules Lillian thinks 13 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: they should follow. Lillian, I promise not to tell you 14 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: to get off my line. Thank you for joining me 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: today on the podcast. 16 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: Thank you, Joel. I'm super excited to be here today 17 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: and speak to you. 18 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 1: I'm so glad to have you. First question I ask 19 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: everybody who comes on, is what do you like to 20 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: splurge on? Craft Beer is my big splurge, But hey, 21 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: it's okay because I'm saving and I'm investing for my future. 22 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm not blowing at all on beer. What's your splurge. 23 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: My splurge personally is definitely on convenience, so things that 24 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: make my life easier or help me save time. And 25 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: so one thing is I live near San Francisco, and 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 2: if you know anything, abouts up the hills there are insane, 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: so I really try to avoid driving there, So I 28 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 2: really like to splurge on ubers while I'm in the city. 29 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: In terms of other splurges, I like to splurge on 30 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: food meal prep kits to help me not think about 31 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: cooking as much, and also economy plus or premium flights 32 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: for me and my family so we can travel more comfortably. 33 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so meal prep kits is that we tried. I 34 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: think we got like an intro offer to one, and 35 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: we tried it, and the kids kind of rebelled against it. 36 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: And it's probably for the best because it is ultimately 37 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: it's cheaper right to go get source your own food 38 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: to the grocery store and coc your own meals. But 39 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: is it a way to like sneakily avoid going out 40 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: to eat as much which would save you money. 41 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: I think that's an interesting question because if you look 42 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: at the meal prep kits, the cost per meal is 43 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: actually not that less than a restaurant meal, Okay. But 44 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: I also like it because it gives me ideas for 45 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 2: different recipes that I can perhaps replicate after I try 46 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: the meal kit. If I like something from the meal kit, 47 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 2: I can just source those own ingredients afterwards. 48 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: Okay. So that's kind of smart. You're like learning the 49 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: recipe playbook through the meal kits, and then you're like, great, 50 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: now I know how to make some extra stuff. It's 51 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: like a tutorial of sorts in the kitchen. I think 52 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: of it that way. 53 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: Oh. Yes, definitely gives me some more ideas for what 54 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 2: to diversify my palate. 55 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. I like that all right. Your parents, 56 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: by the way, they emigrated to the US from China 57 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: in the nineteen eighties. Can you talk to me about 58 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: how that impacted your childhood and then ultimately your views 59 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: on personal finance too. 60 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. So my parents immigrated here in the eighties from 61 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 2: China during closely after the Cultural Revolution in China, which 62 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 2: was a very difficult time for a lot of the 63 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 2: citizens there at the time, and so they felt a 64 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: lot of the post educational effects economic effects, and that's 65 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: what drove a lot of people to the United States 66 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: at the time, including my parents, and so when they 67 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 2: came here, they had to start from zero in terms 68 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: of their education in this back home didn't count towards 69 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: education received in the US, so they had got to 70 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: college here. They were hustling really hard to get their 71 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: degrees here, which is so admirable. And when they had me, 72 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: I was born in two thousand. We grew up in 73 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: the Midwest and eventually moved to California for more job 74 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: opportunities when I was in first grade, and I remember 75 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: that it was really difficult for my dad sometimes when 76 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: it came to certain job opportunities because he wasn't a 77 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: native English speakers, So I think it was just a 78 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 2: bit more friction there in terms of how that shape 79 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: my upbringing with money. I remember my parents didn't really 80 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 2: talk to me about money in terms of educational way, 81 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 2: but I heard it through their own conversations and arguments 82 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 2: about money in terms of like a scarcity mindset, the 83 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: fear of it that it could run like run out 84 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: one day, or that the fear we did have enough 85 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: accumulated job opportunities, things like that. So even though he 86 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: didn't really speak about money, in the household directly, I 87 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 2: had a lot of subconscious thoughts about it that have 88 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: stayed with me into my early adulthood. And we could 89 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 2: go into more of that later. 90 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's interesting that you say arguments, because in 91 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: my house there were arguments about money. Growing up and 92 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: being in the room across from my parents' room, I 93 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: heard those many nights. My parents wonderful people. They are. 94 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: I admire them more than anyone else I know, But 95 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 1: that's still influenced in a meaningful way the way I 96 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: think about money and not wanting to have money issues 97 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: to argue about with my future spouse. Do you think 98 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: that that seeped into you as well, hearing kind of 99 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: money fights and money problems and you're like, I don't 100 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 1: want that to be me. 101 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: Oh, definitely. I remember hearing a lot of arguments when 102 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 2: I was younger, and even just being more hyper aware 103 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 2: that money was this like important construct in high school 104 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: and in college, and I just remember just thinking like, oh, 105 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 2: I never want to feel like I'm struggling or have 106 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 2: those types of anxious thoughts into my adulthood. And so, 107 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 2: going back to your point, I think that drove a 108 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: lot of my future career decisions and mindset in college, 109 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: which we can definitely dive deeper into, but definitely influence 110 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 2: sort of the way that I approached like work and 111 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 2: money growing up. 112 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, what particular experiences shaped your personal finance philosophy the most? Then, 113 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: so that maybe sparked a desire to increase your knowledge. 114 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: But then where did you turn right as you're trying 115 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: to figure out because personal finance most of the time 116 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: has not been especially when you were in high school, 117 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: it will be, I think for future generations more widely taught. 118 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: But where'd you get the information that you needed to 119 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: be able to succeed with money? 120 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? So, actually this is an interesting question because I 121 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: actually became very hyper aware of money from the conversations 122 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 2: from my parents but also in my own childhood endeavors. 123 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:00,039 Speaker 2: So for context, I actually ran a small business for 124 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: a couple of years from like middle school to high school. 125 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,679 Speaker 1: Was it was this your Etsy business. 126 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: This was my Etsy business that I talked about in 127 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 2: the introduction of the book, like the very first page, 128 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: this is my Etsy business. And so from a very 129 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: young age, I actually had allowance money and spending money. 130 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: So my parents never actually really provided me an allowance 131 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: as a kid. I just kind of made my own 132 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: allowance as a kid, and so I became very hyper 133 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: aware that it was very difficult to earn a dollar. 134 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 2: I knew the value of a dollar when I was 135 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 2: a kid. I was like, oh, like, this is tough, 136 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: Like it's not easy to make money. At least when 137 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: I was younger, I thought that, and growing up I 138 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: didn't really learn about like investing or stocks. For my parents. 139 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: The only thing they really taught me was to not 140 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: spend your money on unnecessary things and making sure you 141 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: save money. So those were the main things I learned 142 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: from my parents. I actually didn't really understand what a 143 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: stock was until I got to university, which I think 144 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: made me feel a little behind compared to some of 145 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: my peers. But I actually learned a lot of my 146 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: personal finance knowledge in college through YouTube videos. And this 147 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 2: is especially when YouTubers like Graham Stephen and like Andre Jick. 148 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 2: They were like extremely popular. I think they're still very popular, 149 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: but it was like the super high heydays. I also 150 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: learned through a personal finance course at Berkeley. Actually, the 151 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 2: professors there I've been teaching the course for maybe close 152 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: to two decades at this point, So it was a 153 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: pretty foundational course I took in college, but I know 154 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: not many schools have that sort of educational opportunity. But 155 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: besides from that, like books as well, like books and 156 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: online media i'd say are my main two sources at 157 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: the time. 158 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: I love the story about your Etsy store, and I 159 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 1: think there's so much value for young people, Like when 160 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: we talk about high school jobs. The value is partially, yes, 161 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: in the money that you're earning, but it's in that 162 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: attachment of realizing that work is what leads to money, 163 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: which most of the time that's the case. Obviously, the 164 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: further along you get in your investing career, you have 165 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: the ability for your money to work harder for you 166 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: than you have to work for it, which is really 167 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: cool too. But there's this power I think when young kids, 168 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: young people earn money and then they have to make 169 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: saving for spending choices. I see that in my own 170 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 1: kids as well, as they're getting into that age where 171 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: they have choices to make with the money in their 172 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: account and they're like, how much money do I have 173 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: my account? Let me take a look. Okay, so I'm 174 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: going to plan and I go out with my friends, 175 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: I can get some boba tee or whatever, but then 176 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to get that other thing 177 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: I really want. What was that like for you, having 178 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: money as an early teenager, as a young teenager, and 179 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: then having to make those choices for yourself what you 180 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: wanted to do with it. 181 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you said, it really wasn't about the money. 182 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: Like as a kid, it is very exciting that you 183 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: have like free will to spend it how you like, 184 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 2: but it's mostly to see and practice a lot of 185 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: those habits when you were young, so by the time 186 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 2: you get to your adulthood, you have a sense of 187 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: what's going on instead of having to start from scratch. 188 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 2: And that was the case for me. I'd say, when 189 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: I was doing this whole Etsy business thing, I wasn't 190 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 2: really thinking about the future that much, to be honest, 191 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: Like I had some pocket cash that was good in 192 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 2: my childhood years, and I would spend it on like 193 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: stationary or search and shoes, like art supplies I wanted 194 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 2: that were more high end things like that. And by 195 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 2: the time I got to university, I had just like 196 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 2: a deeper understanding and appreciation of what it takes to 197 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 2: manage your finances properly and having more clarity as I 198 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 2: went through internships and starting my full time career after university, 199 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: and so that's been my journey so far with that. 200 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: Do you think personal finance is different for gen Z 201 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: than it is for previous generations. There's so much talk 202 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: about generational differences, and I'm just curious to know your take. Personally, 203 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: I don't know how difference it is personal finance for 204 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: gen Z than it is for millennials or Gen xers. 205 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 2: I think the foundational principles and the tactical strategies are 206 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 2: actually quite very similar. I'd say some of the main 207 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 2: differences are, of course technology. So with so much information 208 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 2: that's floating around, I see people and peers typically fall 209 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 2: into two buckets. The first bucket is that there's so 210 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: much information available that it's easier than ever to get 211 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 2: started early, to open accounts when you are at a 212 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: younger age and having to go to a bank physically. 213 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 2: That's the group of people and that's what I personally 214 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,719 Speaker 2: identified with, that it was easier to get into it. 215 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 2: And the other subgroup of people that I find for 216 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 2: my generation is that because there is so much information 217 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: out there, people feel very overwhelmed and don't know where 218 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 2: to start, and they just like don't start altogether because 219 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 2: it's just too much. And personally for me, I realized 220 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 2: this problem really early on, and that's why I strive 221 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 2: to provide clarity for my audience who is watching, and 222 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: especially the book that I wrote to help condense a 223 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: lot of that knowledge, so people know there is one 224 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 2: place to look instead of being more overwhelmed. So that's 225 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 2: how I think it kind of fits in here. 226 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: When we're talking about the generational divides, Like every young 227 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: generation gets labeled as bad with money. I remember as 228 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: a millennial coming out of college and it was like 229 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: millennials are idiots and they're never gonna get live up 230 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: to their parents' example and they're never going to be 231 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: okay with money. They just don't know what they're doing. 232 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: And it's interesting, like I feel like I started to 233 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: see those headlines about gen z too, but I'm seeing 234 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: a lot different sort of the take and it seems 235 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: like from what I can tell that gen Zers are 236 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: quite intent to learn about money. They're then some of 237 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: the statistics spare this out too, right, They're investing at 238 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: an earlier age and talking about money seems less taboo. 239 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: Why do you think gen Z seems to be a 240 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: little more open about money, or maybe at least just 241 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: the headline writers and the people who are writing those 242 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: news stories aren't antagonistic towards gen Z. 243 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: I think gen Z are more open to different perspectives 244 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: and sharing what's going on with their personal lives as 245 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 2: well as their financial lives. And it's mostly because of 246 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: the rise of social media, Like on TikTok it's so 247 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 2: casual to see someone just talking about how much that 248 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: they have and how they're planning to pay that off, 249 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: and people really like to see the journey of going 250 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 2: from one place to a different and more developed version themselves. 251 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 2: I think that is really interesting, And you brought a 252 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 2: good point that there are news articles coming out with 253 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: how millennials were painted turned in picture, and I think 254 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 2: gen Z they feel a sort of different pressure in 255 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: terms of, like you said, gen Z is investing more. 256 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: There's a trend that more people are learning about it, 257 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: which is really good. But the main issue that I 258 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: personally see is because of how Covid had played out 259 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: the job market with AI generally, how wages are not 260 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: really keeping up and job growth in general, even though 261 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: a lot of gen Zers are intent to learning these things, 262 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 2: a lot of the economic factors and just how the 263 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: way the world works now makes it harder for people 264 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 2: like me to get ahead versus gen X or earlier 265 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 2: generations where you can get by on one income and 266 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: still live really comfortably. I think it's just harder. The 267 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: means a more difficult now. 268 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I think you're right. I think it is 269 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: just like we get well. I want to get into 270 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: this later, buying a house. It is a different paradigm 271 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: than it was in twenty ten, and it's different than 272 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: it was in the nineteen seventies, and so it's that 273 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: is a hurdle for sure. The gen Z faces that 274 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: other generations did not face in the same degree. The 275 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: same thing is true the cost of college. So I 276 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: want to get into those specific topics in just a 277 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: little bit. Let's talk about investing though there's I love 278 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: that gen Z is more interested in investing, and I 279 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: think some of the you know, the apps to make 280 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: it easier to invest at your fingertips. The robin hoods 281 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: of this world are have certainly incited some of that excitement, 282 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: but there's also a downside to more investing interest, right, 283 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: and that is pursuing riskier strategies. And I think we've 284 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: also seen gen Z do that, p taking some really 285 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: risky investing endeavors. So what are you how do you 286 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: think about teaching the next generation about investing, and how 287 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: do you, yeah, what's your take on maybe some of 288 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: the investing the ways that they're they're going about investing. 289 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 2: Personally? For me, I am a lot more risk averse, 290 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 2: i'd say than the average gen Zer. Most of my 291 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 2: portfolio is in broad market ETFs, and I have some 292 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: tech stocks that are like singular stocks from like the 293 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 2: company I work at, as well as some other ones. 294 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 2: But I personally don't really partake much in like you know, 295 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 2: like options day trading, not even that much crypto, to 296 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: be honest, And I'd say that is something for gen 297 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: Zers to recognize. I think a lot of my peers 298 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 2: are seeking short term gains like get rich quick or 299 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 2: get rich tomorrow, and I see that trend a lot, 300 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: but I think we tend to forget to zoom out 301 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 2: for the bigger picture to understand like why you're investing 302 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 2: in the first place. And for a lot of people, 303 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 2: especially if you're more forward looking in terms of your future. 304 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 2: It's less about short term gains for tomorrow, but more 305 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 2: about how you can build sustainable wealth over time and 306 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 2: letting that give you more options and freedom later on, 307 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 2: because when you really come down to it, money is 308 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 2: just a way to enjoy your life and to provide 309 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: for the life that you want to live. And so 310 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: that's my personal philosophy and just encouraging more people to 311 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 2: think long term rather than quick quick wins. 312 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: Do you think that's maybe where the disconnect is sometimes 313 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: for gen z gets. It could be the lack of 314 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: personal finance education, but can also be the lack of 315 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: clarity I guess for why they're investing. And it feels 316 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: like maybe the sort of yolo mentality rules the day, 317 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: where hey, I see other people getting rich. Somebody else 318 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: invested in Nvidia last year or Bitcoin five years ago. 319 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:58,360 Speaker 1: I've got to find another way to make bank quickly, 320 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: or I'm behind my peers. Is Is it that sort 321 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: of Is that part of maybe the reason for some 322 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: of the risk here investing habits of the gen z 323 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 1: is espousing and they're may be not as on board 324 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: the train of the get rich slowly bandwagon that maybe 325 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: you and I would be on. 326 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 2: Oh yes, of course, the media definitely influences the way 327 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 2: we think about our investing decisions. Like I remember several 328 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 2: years ago with like like dogecoin and AMC where some 329 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 2: of the top headlines, remember the pump and dumps. I 330 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 2: think it's la fomo, like if you get in at 331 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 2: this time, you will get this result, which tends to 332 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 2: be what is getting played out on the media and 333 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 2: on you know, social media. Everyone's sharing their own perspectives 334 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 2: and there are a lot of people sharing how maybe 335 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: they made X amount of money through x investment, and 336 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 2: you should get in right now so you can also benefit. 337 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 2: But a lot of times those are typically things that 338 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 2: when people promote them, the only person that really benefits 339 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 2: are the people who are promoting them because they got 340 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 2: in early. Right by the time you see it, it's 341 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 2: probably already over. So I think it's just la le 342 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 2: fomo and things like that, and just not having clarity, 343 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,159 Speaker 2: like you said, not knowing your reason or why. It 344 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 2: could also be due to like age naturally, like if 345 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 2: you're in your early twenties, you're probably not thinking about 346 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 2: what your life looks like at age. I don't know, 347 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: like fifty or beyond, and so it's just like lack 348 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: of goal setting and clarity, which is what I'm trying 349 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 2: to help promote to more of my peers. 350 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's almost like we understand, we know in some 351 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 1: part of remote part of our bodies or brain that 352 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: we will someday be old, but it's really hard to envision, 353 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: and so it's hard to empathize with our future self 354 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: and save and invest with that long term reality in mind. 355 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: I've got more, a lot more I want to get 356 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: to with you, Lilian, including like, hey, what what are 357 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 1: the old money rules? Why do we need to ditch them? 358 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: And what are the new money rules we need to 359 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: put in their place. We'll get to more with Lilian 360 00:19:54,359 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: right after this. We're back from the break, still talking 361 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: with Lilian Zang, talking about gen Z's perception of finances 362 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 1: and the reality of the money issues they have to 363 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: face these days that are different right than prior generations. 364 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: Some things are evergreen, some things remain the same, Some 365 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: things are very macro economic based, and I want to 366 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: get into some of that stuff with you, Lilian. We 367 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: briefly touched on like some of the economic pessimism I 368 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 1: think that exists among young adults. Do you see that 369 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 1: as like realistic, Hey, there's this things aren't as good 370 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: as they used to be. Think I don't have it 371 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 1: like my grandparents had it? Or do you think that 372 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: sort of mindset is limiting maybe their ability to build 373 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: their future. 374 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen several sides of this, so, like you said, 375 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 2: because previous generations have had it a lot more, I guess, 376 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 2: to put it simply than gen Z facing right now. 377 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people fall into i'd say 378 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 2: a quote Yolo mindset where it's like, oh, like this 379 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,959 Speaker 2: seems impossible, or I'll never be able to get to 380 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 2: where I envision my life to be. So I'm just 381 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 2: not going to think about the future. I'm just going 382 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: to save. I mean, I'm just going to spend and 383 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: enjoy my life today. That's what I tend to see 384 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 2: a lot. And then there's another group of people who 385 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 2: I think this is where I more fall into myself, 386 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, I know I have to you know, 387 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 2: work harder, but also planning if you start planning early 388 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 2: and educating yourself early and how financial literacy works and 389 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 2: how you can shape your future into something that is 390 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: more attainable for yourself. Then you can put together a 391 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,360 Speaker 2: plan and figure out what are the steps I need 392 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 2: to take or prioritize to set myself up for a 393 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 2: future where a lot of these things could be possible 394 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 2: in the next few years, five or ten years down 395 00:21:58,960 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 2: the line. 396 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: So do you think some of the yolo people you 397 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: run into it's not that they're not investing or planning 398 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: because they don't have the resources. I know that is 399 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: obviously true for many Americans, But would you say it's 400 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: more true that or yeah? From your perspective, are you 401 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: encountering people who could make the same decisions that you 402 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: make or that you encourage other people to make, but 403 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: they're just they have a different mentality and they don't 404 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: necessarily they're not thinking along those long term lines. 405 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know plenty of high earners in my 406 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 2: peer group that have the means to plan for the future, 407 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 2: but they're just not prioritizing it because they want to 408 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 2: live in the now, which is also valid. You want 409 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 2: to enjoy yourself now and plan for the future, But 410 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people miss the future part. 411 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you're right, and I think it makes sense, 412 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: Like it's easier to be like the future will take 413 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 1: care of itself. I can think about that later, especially 414 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: especially when you're in your twenty so many people really do. 415 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: It's at forty when people start to think about investing 416 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: and they're like, I guess I should start saving for retirement. 417 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 1: But by then, as you know, they've missed out on 418 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: a decade and a half or more of compounding returns. 419 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: And so by the time Lily and you hit age forty, 420 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: you're going to be well on your way. You might 421 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: not even have to invest another dollar for the rest 422 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: of your life. That goes to some of the coast 423 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: fire you talk about right, whereas they have to get 424 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 1: started and they have to work double time in order 425 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: to make that happen. 426 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's really interesting. I've seen several stories 427 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: around this where you either work really hard when you're young, 428 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 2: or you work even harder when you're older. 429 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 1: Choose your pain, right, choose your pain. So Charlie Munger, 430 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: who the late Charlie Munger, business partner of Warren Buffett, 431 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: He used to say that the first one hundred thousand 432 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 1: dollars is the hardest to get. You already have your 433 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: first hundred k stashed away. What did you do, and 434 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: how do you suggest other young people attack that goal 435 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 1: of trying to get that first six figure nest egg 436 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: invested in set. 437 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 2: Aside, Yeah, I think this is a very nuanced question 438 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 2: because it doesn't acknowledge that people come from different backgrounds 439 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: or certain stead of privileges that you may have if 440 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 2: you come into saving for this goal. And I'd be 441 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 2: very cognizant about how I phrase this because I personally, 442 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 2: as like a disclaimer, didn't graduate with any student loans, 443 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: so I started out as like net zero, which is 444 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: I think more rare in today's economy. Sure, I want 445 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 2: to just preface that because I think it's something that 446 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 2: all of people acknowledges, like their inherent privileges when they 447 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 2: come into this journey. And everyone is different, so don't 448 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: feel behind if someone is doing something, because you're always 449 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 2: on your own journey. 450 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 1: I'd say yeah. 451 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 2: In terms of my own personal journey, I mostly I'm 452 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 2: a big saver, So, like I mentioned in my pre 453 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: a shpiel, my money mindset came a lot down to 454 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 2: savings and like spending little as money as possible when 455 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: I was younger, so I did a lot of that, 456 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 2: like the internship money that I made from my internships 457 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 2: during college. I tried to save as much as it 458 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: as I could. I had like a roth ira that 459 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 2: I opened in college, so I started contributing to that 460 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 2: when I was making a decent income from my internship money. 461 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: So not only was the internship, by the way, getting 462 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 1: you experienced so you get an awesome job when you graduated, 463 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: you're also making money funneling that money into a wroth ira. 464 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 1: And gosh, think about money that's tossed into a wrath 465 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: in your late teens or early twenties while you're in college, 466 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: and what that's going to be worth. Money that will 467 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 1: never be taxed again when you reached that you know, 468 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: age of fifty nine and a half. 469 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh, of course, it's so powerful. And I think it's 470 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 2: always great to get started early. Even if you don't 471 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 2: think that this money is a significant sum, it still 472 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 2: adds up over time. You'd be surprised how much it 473 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 2: grows over time. For sure. 474 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: I know I was looking at and it's one of 475 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: those things that you get told, but it's really hard 476 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: for it to actually like compute in your brain when 477 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: you're in your twenties. Because I know it was hard 478 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: for me. I was like, because of the job I 479 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 1: was in, I was hearing it all day every day, like, 480 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: this is the power of compounding returns. And I was like, cool, 481 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: I guess I'll do it, even though I don't really 482 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 1: know what this is going to look like fleshed out. 483 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 1: But once, once you've been investing for twenty years, then 484 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: you really see the power of compounding returns. You're looking 485 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: at it in the face. But until then, it's just 486 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 1: a mental exercise. And when you actually see your returns 487 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,479 Speaker 1: out pacing your contributions, that's when you're like, oh, this 488 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: is what they were talking about and the light the 489 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: light went off earlier, like or went on earlier, but 490 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 1: it feels like it's amplified, you know, twenty x once 491 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: you're actually seeing it as you log into your account. 492 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 2: Oh yes, for sure. I spent only like five years 493 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 2: out for my first start investing. Even within like five years, 494 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 2: I've already seen a lot more growth than what I imagine 495 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: it to look like. 496 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is just can accelerate I think the process 497 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: because that gets you excited about continuing to make those 498 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: max those accounts out and continuing to grow wealth. So 499 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: you said that you graduated with no student loan debt. 500 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 1: When you're speaking to younger gen zers, do you warn 501 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,639 Speaker 1: them about the downsides of taking on too much student 502 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: loan debt? How do you help young people because it 503 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: seems like the way the perception of a college degree 504 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: has soured at least a little bit in our country, 505 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 1: and I think the main reason isn't because people think 506 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 1: college is a waste of time. I think they think 507 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: it costs too much money. So how do you help 508 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: young people think about that trade off of expensive education 509 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: and degree that can help you make more versus taking 510 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: another path. 511 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really interesting question because it's a really 512 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: big problem in our country. And I think the caveat 513 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: is that a lot of eighteen year olds are signing 514 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 2: loan paper in which they have no idea what the 515 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 2: terms mean or what it actually means in terms of 516 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 2: consequences when they sign that at your ripe age of 517 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: like sixteen, seventeen eighteen, which is honestly a little crazy 518 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 2: if you think about it. And something that I really 519 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 2: encourage people to think about is to work backwards in 520 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,719 Speaker 2: the sense of think about even if you don't know 521 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 2: what you want to do exactly, perhaps choose or center 522 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 2: on like a field that you can do research on 523 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,439 Speaker 2: in terms of something that you could be interested in 524 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: pursuing after college and working backwards to see what those 525 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 2: careers pay on average. And there are a lot of 526 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 2: resources nationwide and on the federal website that shows like 527 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 2: a breakdown of like the average pay for specific roles 528 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 2: and doing the math on how much money you have 529 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 2: to earn per year to pay off x amount of 530 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 2: debt that you're taking on. And so it's really down 531 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 2: to just like numbers and math, because what I see 532 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 2: really often that comes up on social media on the 533 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 2: news is people take on like six figures or a 534 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 2: really large sum of student loan debt and then they 535 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 2: realize the career that they're in won't be sufficient to 536 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 2: help pay out that debt in a reasonable time frame. 537 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: That's the biggest caveat What. 538 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: Would you say to someone who says, but I really 539 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 1: like want to be an artist or like, there's some 540 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: careers that are just an engineer of some type is 541 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 1: easier to assess what the salary is going to be. 542 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: But even when I graduated, podcasting didn't exist, I knew 543 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to work in long form audio, but like 544 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,959 Speaker 1: it's really hard to know sometimes what your job is 545 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 1: going to look like. So I guess from that standpoint 546 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: if someone's saying, but I really want to pursue this thing, 547 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: and it's incredibly difficult to know exactly what direction it's 548 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: going to take me, but I'm compelled to to take 549 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: this course of study. How do you help them maybe 550 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 1: think how much debt they should be willing to take on. 551 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 2: It's not a black and white picture, like you don't 552 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 2: have to give up your passion to do something else 553 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 2: and vice versa. And I am more of like a 554 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 2: very logical and practical person. So if I were in 555 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 2: like the shoes of someone who was conflicted about what 556 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 2: feel to go into, I would personally major in something 557 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 2: that is more broad and that can apply to different fields, 558 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 2: and then minor in something that is more concentrated or 559 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: focused on your particular like passion areas. So you have 560 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 2: the best of both worlds where you can use your 561 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 2: degree for more like of a broader economic thing, and 562 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: then your passion falls into it and you can always 563 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 2: pursue different passions, like even outside of your course of study, 564 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 2: like for example, my whole Etsy shop thing, I also 565 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: really like art. Actually also thought about art school for 566 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 2: a while and I decided against that. But that's like 567 00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 2: a whole like personal conversation. But it was definite, Are well, I'm. 568 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: Sure you are filtering through a bunch of those things, 569 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: the cost of school, What am I going to get paid? 570 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: I like art? Can I still do art from a 571 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: personal perspective that's fulfilling without making it my day job? 572 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: I mean those are all important questions right where you 573 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: wrestling with stuff like that? 574 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, definitely. I think when I was in high school, 575 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 2: I was more tunnel vision. I was more stubborn. I'm like, oh, 576 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: I really want to do this. But then I realized, 577 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: like when you're when you're working, like if you're working 578 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 2: on your passion, it could feel like a job eventually 579 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 2: because you have to do that, like you know, as 580 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 2: your career or like the means to sustain yourself and 581 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 2: your family. And something that I think was really interesting 582 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,239 Speaker 2: for me is because I like more of like the 583 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 2: artistic side of things. I pursue things like marketing or 584 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 2: content creation where it made sense very practically, but also 585 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: allow me to use and flex more of those creative 586 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 2: muscles in my brain. In a way in which work 587 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 2: feels more like play now. Yeah, so kind of like 588 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 2: integrating your passion into your work, not directly pursuing your 589 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 2: passion is what I would personally steer my peers towards. 590 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: A lot of wisdom in there, Lily, And I like that. 591 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: So your book The New Money Rules, like when you're 592 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: talking about the you're kind of talking about the old 593 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: way of doing things versus the new way of doing 594 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 1: things in different categories, And the one about budgeting was interesting, 595 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 1: and you talk about loud budgeting and you hinted at 596 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 1: this earlier when we were talking about kind of social media, 597 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: what are the perks of loud budgeting? And I don't 598 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: know what, what are the new rules of budgeting versus 599 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: the old ones? 600 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, So, in terms of the loud budgeting trend for context, 601 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 2: this was a really popular TikTok trend in like late 602 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three early twenty twenty four, when there was 603 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 2: like a whole like deinfluencing era on TikTok. Like basically, 604 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 2: the premise of loud budgeting is sort of like sharing 605 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 2: your goals with your friends or your peers or in 606 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 2: this case TikTok with the audience of strangers, like what 607 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 2: your financial goals are, like your debt payoff goals, your 608 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 2: spending goal, savings goals, et cetera. So it was just 609 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 2: more of like a really fun and open conversation about 610 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: how people approach spending their money and how that can 611 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 2: inspire you to also create more of a plan or 612 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 2: set more goals and intentions with your spending. And I 613 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 2: think for gen Z it can come across as like 614 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 2: a quote restrictive topic like budgeting is not the most 615 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 2: fun word to think about because it feels like, oh, 616 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 2: I have to put guard rails down on how to 617 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 2: spend my money or put restrictions on myself. 618 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: For so much I know exactly. 619 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 2: It feels like dread and people don't really want to 620 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 2: think about that. But my whole premise in the book 621 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: and that I mentioned directly too, is I like the 622 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 2: idea of feeling more empowered and having clarity on where 623 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 2: I'm spending on. Am I spending on things that bring 624 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: me value and joy? Or do I open my credit 625 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 2: card segment one day and not even remember what I 626 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,240 Speaker 2: spent the money on, Like that's the biggest thing for 627 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 2: me personally, and that I share with my audience too. 628 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 2: Tracking your expenses, your income, and just having a general 629 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 2: plan of like how you want to spend your funds 630 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: is just a great way to be more do you 631 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:20,760 Speaker 2: have more clarity on your spending, seeing if your values 632 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,280 Speaker 2: aligned with how you're managing your money, and just having 633 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: more confidence for future planning, especially since money is still 634 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 2: a big part of our everyday lives, even though we 635 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 2: don't really want to discuss or think about it. 636 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 1: On the career side of things, when I think about 637 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: my parents' generation, they had a couple of jobs, and 638 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: I feel like even their parents had one, maybe two jobs, 639 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 1: like over the course of their career. It seems like, 640 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: based on predictions, the gen Z folks are going to 641 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: be well. They already are far more likely to job 642 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,320 Speaker 1: hop but then some estimates say that they're going to 643 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 1: have like sixteen or seventeen jobs and maybe like five 644 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,760 Speaker 1: or more careers, which is kind of hard to fathom. 645 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: And the job market seems like it's moving quicker than 646 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,359 Speaker 1: ever in various directions, and it's kind of hard to 647 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 1: know where you're going to be five or ten years 648 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: from now. And there probably will be similar to the 649 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 1: podcasting thing, there will be new career opportunities that open 650 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: up that didn't exist before. How do you help gen 651 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 1: Z or what is your advice to gen Z to 652 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: help them navigate this kind of more fluid job market 653 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 1: that we're experiencing. 654 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, So there has been an interesting term that's been 655 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,280 Speaker 2: floating around, I think quite recently. It's called the concept 656 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 2: is called a portfolio career, in which your career is 657 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 2: now defined by one job or necessarily even one industry, 658 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,840 Speaker 2: but how your skills can be spread across different types 659 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,839 Speaker 2: of industries to create a career that's not just like 660 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:56,280 Speaker 2: one particular job. In that case, that something I think 661 00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 2: like gen X and previous generations have been more clear cut. 662 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 2: They just have one job and they're like good. But 663 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 2: I think gen Z is more creative and they like 664 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 2: to find different ways to exercise their skills and to 665 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: monetize different hobbies or passions to create more opportunities for 666 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 2: themselves and to provide for the people they care about 667 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 2: around them. 668 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: So those skills and abilities are going to be put 669 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,320 Speaker 1: to use in a bunch of different ways throughout their career. 670 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: So focus more on the skill building and less on 671 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: this specific path that set before me. I'm going to 672 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 1: walk down it. 673 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: Yes, especially with the Internet and the media and just 674 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 2: a lot of other opportunities depending on what fuel you're in. 675 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 2: If your skills are flexible across different types of work, 676 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 2: then you're not confined to one thing. Especially within the 677 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:54,920 Speaker 2: job world, layoffs some more common these days, and so 678 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 2: that's something that I've been watching a lot in terms 679 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 2: of how that affects my own personal planning. So my 680 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: peers that I see, they're not putting all their eggs 681 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 2: in one basket, especially in today's economic environment, and how 682 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 2: there are more opportunities to do more types of career 683 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 2: moves than was when there was less technology available to 684 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 2: be more flexible with these things. 685 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: Which makes me think now about side hustles for small businesses, 686 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: and yet one I think usually prioritizes quick income. The 687 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: other is a more long term approach, and it seems 688 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: like you're taking the build a small side business approach 689 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 1: that could eventually eclipse my day job. How do you 690 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: and I just think that there's just a limited upside 691 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: in most side hustles unless you are perpetually willing to 692 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 1: trade time for money, and that can work for a season. 693 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 1: It's hard to make it work for a decade. How 694 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 1: do you thread that needle of like building something on 695 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: the side versus pouring more into your day job versus 696 00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:58,240 Speaker 1: side hustling. 697 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 2: So, like you mentioned, there are two main types of 698 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 2: side hustles. The first one is trading your time for money. 699 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 2: So this include things like ubers, door dash babysitting, dog walking, 700 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 2: very common, I guess, like side gigs amongst the communities today, 701 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 2: where if you need the money right away and you 702 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,360 Speaker 2: have extra time, you can do things to get extra cash. 703 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 2: But those skills and those experiences won't compound on top 704 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:30,320 Speaker 2: of each other unless you make it into a business 705 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 2: in which your inputs and your skills will compound over time. Personally, 706 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 2: I've never done well. I've done a few of the 707 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 2: first examples, like tutoring and teaching people, and I think 708 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,440 Speaker 2: that was great When I was in college, when I 709 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 2: didn't have, you know, that much experience, I was still 710 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 2: building up my skills, like teaching was a skill that 711 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 2: I was interested in, you know, developing as a college student. 712 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 2: And when I got into my full time career, that 713 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 2: is actually my main priority in terms of my day 714 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,399 Speaker 2: job and just making sure that I'm like continuously learning 715 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 2: new skills and growing in that aspect. But also my 716 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 2: other side business is my whole like content creation, media 717 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,240 Speaker 2: portion of it where I'm using the skills in marketing. 718 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 2: In my day job, I work in marketing and funneling 719 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 2: that skill into a different entity, and so I can 720 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 2: apply those skills to something that can grow over time 721 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: and is not limited by like trading your time for 722 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 2: a specific hustle like I mentioned in the first hustle category. 723 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: What would you say to a gen Z follower of 724 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: yours who wants to buy a house but feels like 725 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 1: it's impossible. Is buying a house still like part of 726 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 1: the American dream is still a necessity to feel like 727 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,879 Speaker 1: you've made it in the United States of America? Or 728 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, should we just be content to rent 729 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 1: because it's so much cheaper than buying, especially in almost 730 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 1: everywhere in the country. 731 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 2: So one of the old rules that I mentioned in 732 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 2: the book actually is that previous generations. I hear this 733 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 2: from my parents all the time. It's like, you must 734 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:15,800 Speaker 2: buy a house right away or else something bad will happen, 735 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 2: or you're not investing your money wise, like you don't 736 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,359 Speaker 2: buy a house right now. That's like an old rule, 737 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,959 Speaker 2: I'd say, because a lot of gen z we don't 738 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 2: really relate to that anymore, especially like you said, like 739 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 2: high housing prices, and it's just much more difficult, especially 740 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 2: I'm looking at like Bay Area, San Francisco is just 741 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,799 Speaker 2: like insane how much housing prices grew just in the 742 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 2: past five years. Yeah, and the idea of owning a 743 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 2: house as a single person is a lot more daunting. 744 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: And I think for a lot of us, including myself, 745 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 2: we are okay and content with renting and that it's 746 00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 2: not the end of the world. There are other means 747 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 2: to build wealth while you are in that stage of 748 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 2: building your career or trying to figure things out. But 749 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 2: I also say, I think I'm also seeing a really 750 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 2: interesting trend and I think this was also more apparent 751 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 2: five years ago too. Is like the whole idea of 752 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:16,800 Speaker 2: like digital nomadding and not being tied down to one place. 753 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 2: That seems like a lifestyle that a lot of people 754 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 2: are interested in. But uh, I think you just have 755 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 2: to adjust your expectations, like you either have to be 756 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 2: willing to put in a lot of effort and planning 757 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:33,360 Speaker 2: and work, or adjust your expectations where you're okay with less. 758 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 2: I think that's like the two main solutions that a 759 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 2: lot of people end up having to choose between. 760 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,040 Speaker 1: I like that adjust your expectations if you don't want 761 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: to put it in the work to get there, If 762 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 1: you're expectations are adjusted downward, you'll be a little bit 763 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 1: less disappointed. I think when you don't buy that house 764 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 1: at the appointed time that you assumed you should. I've 765 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 1: got just a few more questions I want to get 766 00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 1: to with you, Lilyan, including like how you think about 767 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 1: financial freedom today as a twenty five year old. We 768 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:12,319 Speaker 1: get to that and more right after this. Right we're 769 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: back still talking with Lillian Zang talking about the new 770 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:20,240 Speaker 1: money rules for gen Z, and I just love this conversation. 771 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: I like that we're discussing how gen Z's perception I 772 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: guess really of financial freedom of what it looks like 773 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: to be successful in this country has really changed and 774 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: morphed from the way prior generations see it. And in 775 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,240 Speaker 1: many ways, I feel like I'm somewhere in the middle 776 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 1: where I totally see some of those skewed expectations in 777 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 1: a good way, Like, yeah, the old way of doing 778 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 1: it is a little cliche and I want to create 779 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 1: my own definition of success, and I feel like gen 780 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 1: Z is taking that to another level and I think 781 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 1: it's really it's really neat and interesting to see. I'm curious, Lily, 782 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,800 Speaker 1: and how do you define financial freedom for yourself today 783 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 1: and how has that definition evolved specifically over the past 784 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,400 Speaker 1: six or seven years that you've really been engaging in 785 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 1: the personal finance space to the level you have. 786 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 2: Oh. Yeah, I definitely think it's evolved quite a bit. 787 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,360 Speaker 2: When I was first starting out versus now, and I'd 788 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,760 Speaker 2: say when I was first starting out, I really didn't 789 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,959 Speaker 2: have much confidence in terms of my abilities per se 790 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 2: to I guess make it in today's world in terms 791 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,360 Speaker 2: of it was just very uncertain, like I didn't know 792 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 2: what my career would look like. I just didn't know 793 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 2: what my future was going to hold, and so it 794 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:39,359 Speaker 2: had very scarcy mindset of like, oh, I must save 795 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,759 Speaker 2: as much as I can and just like that's my 796 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 2: one and only goal. And so I think that was 797 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 2: a double edged sword because I was a very anxious, 798 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 2: like young adult trying to manage my own expectations and 799 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,960 Speaker 2: what I think the world wanted from me. And that 800 00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 2: was like one side, But the other side is that 801 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 2: it really gave me the foundation of just like getting 802 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 2: my ducks in a row and learning everything very early 803 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 2: and very quickly. And so by time now it's been 804 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 2: a couple of years since I've first got into this 805 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 2: journey more passionately per se and now I've built up 806 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 2: like a foundation where it's like, Okay, I see where 807 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 2: all my prep work leading up to this point has 808 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 2: helped me in my financial journey, and one of my 809 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 2: main goals going forward is just being able to enjoy 810 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 2: the present as well as the future. I feel like 811 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 2: when I was first starting out, I was very focused 812 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,359 Speaker 2: on I guess like money as the main end goal. 813 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 2: But as time goes on, I realize like money is 814 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,319 Speaker 2: just a means to live your life to the way 815 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 2: that you desire or expect, and that the object of 816 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 2: money itself is not the reason why we're doing all 817 00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 2: these things, Like money is not the reason for all 818 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 2: of these things at the very end of the day. 819 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,120 Speaker 2: And so that's kind of how my psychology around this 820 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 2: has expanded or matured over the last couple of years, 821 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 2: and I'm gaining a lot more clarity about myself and 822 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 2: what I hope my future will look like, and you know, 823 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 2: just be able to provide and protect the people around 824 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 2: me is also very important to me as well. 825 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: You mentioned a scarcity mindset. I'm curious to hear, like 826 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,360 Speaker 1: how it sounds like it was beneficial in some ways 827 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: but limiting also, So how do you get past that 828 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: if you feel like you're butting up against that scarcity mindset? 829 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 1: I feel like that kind of that can create people 830 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,920 Speaker 1: who are perpetually frugal and unable to think, which can 831 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: be a great thing, but it can be unable then 832 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:52,360 Speaker 1: to really think about the bigger level levers that you 833 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 1: can pull in terms of wealth building, business building, Like 834 00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: it can be so easy to let that scarcity mindset 835 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 1: be a low ceiling that keeps you capped in what 836 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 1: you're able to accomplish. 837 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 2: Of course, so when I was first starting out this journey, 838 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 2: a lot of my anxieties came from having as very 839 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 2: specified I guess like income that was working with and 840 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 2: being like, oh, like this is all I have, Like 841 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,839 Speaker 2: I must, you know, save as much as possible from 842 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 2: this you know, one source. But then, as was mentioning 843 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 2: earlier with the whole like side hustle slash business stuff. 844 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,839 Speaker 2: As I was gaining more experience in my media side 845 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,759 Speaker 2: of the business I was working on, I began to 846 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 2: open my eyes more as opportunities just kind of like 847 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,839 Speaker 2: started to fall into my lap in a way. As 848 00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,240 Speaker 2: I like put my skills, I put myself out there more, 849 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 2: I just started like seeing stuff kind of like flow 850 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,280 Speaker 2: in my direction. And that's like kind of like exposure therapy, 851 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,799 Speaker 2: where it's like the more things you try and the 852 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 2: more things you are open to like try doing. It's 853 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:03,799 Speaker 2: like for me, the light bulb moment was when some 854 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 2: of my first like advertisers reached out to me. I 855 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 2: was like, oh, like, I was just being myself on 856 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 2: this platform and people are asking me for opportunities, which 857 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 2: was really mind blowing to me when I was like 858 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,720 Speaker 2: a twenty two year old, twenty one year old college student. 859 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 2: And that just opened my mind up that like, opportunities 860 00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 2: can come to you because at the end of the day, 861 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:31,000 Speaker 2: money is just an exchange of value, of perceived value 862 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 2: that others find in yourself and your skills. And that's 863 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 2: where the switch happened for me. 864 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,879 Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Okay, so you're twenty five, 865 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,439 Speaker 1: You've already made a lot of financial progress, medium term, 866 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 1: long term financial goals, like what's on your horizon. 867 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 2: Definitely, I'd say owning real estate at some point is 868 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 2: a i'd say medium to long term goal. After that, 869 00:47:56,239 --> 00:48:01,880 Speaker 2: I'd say most of my lifestyle expands are relatively regular, 870 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 2: so I don't really upgrade my lifestyle in terms of 871 00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 2: that much. But I would love to be able to 872 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 2: just spend more on like certain travel experiences, like certain 873 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 2: like business class flights one day without having to think 874 00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,480 Speaker 2: about it. That would be like a really awesome goal 875 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 2: in the future. But we'll see. And I'd also love 876 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 2: to keep expanding like my businesses in the future as well, 877 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,439 Speaker 2: which I would consider a financial goal in a way. 878 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:32,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, what's last question. What's one small money move 879 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 1: that somebody who's listening can make this week that will 880 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 1: matter ten years from now, because again we're trying to 881 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 1: make that what's that connection between the thing I can 882 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 1: do now to future me. That's like it's hard to 883 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: draw that line sometimes. Would you tell somebody if it 884 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 1: was like one thing that you can do right now. 885 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd say something that has helped me and a 886 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 2: lot of my friends is automating your savings and paying 887 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 2: yourself first. So in a way, for example, if you're 888 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 2: getting a direct deposit, have some of that money be 889 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 2: routed to your savings account hyoled savings account automatically, because 890 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,319 Speaker 2: that immediately allows you put funds a wait for your 891 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 2: future self or investing that money into a brokerage, if 892 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 2: that is something that you are doing and having less 893 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 2: incentive to spend whatever you see in your checking account. 894 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 2: Because I know with social media in POLS blind that 895 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,120 Speaker 2: is a really big thing a lot of people my 896 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,280 Speaker 2: age are facing. So I'll definitely recommend the automation aspect. 897 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 1: All Right, Lillly, and I've really enjoyed our conversation. Thank 898 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: you for joining me. Where can listeners find out more 899 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: about you and about your brand new book. 900 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 2: So, my brand new book, The New Money Rules, has 901 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 2: been published in November, so it's recently out. You can 902 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 2: find it everywhere books are sold, and you can find 903 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 2: me on Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn YouTube, any place. My name 904 00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 2: is Lilian Saying, and so you find me me there. 905 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 1: Lovely, Lilian, thank you again so much. I appreciate it. 906 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 2: Thank you, Joel. 907 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: All Right, that was such a fun conversation with Lillian. 908 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm excited to for other people to read her book, 909 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 1: and in particular young people. And so if you know 910 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 1: of a gen zer who needs practical money advice but 911 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 1: that's targeted specifically towards them, I think Lillian's book is 912 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 1: a great place to start, especially like with the holidays 913 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 1: coming up, You're like, oh, man, most people don't want 914 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,319 Speaker 1: to receive a personal finance book, but they definitely don't 915 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 1: want to receive one from a boomer that was written 916 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. So this is probably a better option 917 00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,720 Speaker 1: if you're trying to give the gift of a personal 918 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,279 Speaker 1: finance book. But I think there were there were so 919 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 1: many things that are worth highlighting from this conversation. I 920 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,919 Speaker 1: loved when Lilyan talked about having money as a kid, 921 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 1: and it gives you that ability to practice right to 922 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 1: see how you get money into your life and then 923 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 1: to practice using it. I think that's really that's really important. 924 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: And you know, I feel like on the podcast we 925 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 1: typically talk smack about social media. We use it in 926 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: very you know, austere ways, in particular the how to 927 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 1: Money Facebook group. That's the place I'm most keen to 928 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 1: engage and I love seeing people ask questions and help 929 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:21,799 Speaker 1: each other. But for the most part, I think of 930 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: social media as a negative in the vast majority of 931 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 1: our lives, as a time suck, and as something that 932 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 1: can just push us towards envy. There's just a lot 933 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: of downsides from using social media regularly. But one of 934 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,400 Speaker 1: the things Lilian said was that social media makes it 935 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,360 Speaker 1: easier to be open, and I do think from that 936 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 1: standpoint when she's talking about the loud budgeting phenomena and 937 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 1: how that has been a really good thing where people 938 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,839 Speaker 1: are able to say out loud, hey, these are things 939 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm struggling with, or hey, here's what I'm trying to accomplish, 940 00:51:53,960 --> 00:52:00,000 Speaker 1: and it adds that level of accountability. When you're vocally open, 941 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 1: when you're putting your face out there and your desires 942 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: and your hopes out there, there is something that happens 943 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,040 Speaker 1: inside of you when you say it out loud to 944 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,239 Speaker 1: everyone you know and even people you don't know, that 945 00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 1: can I think make it more likely that you're going 946 00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,319 Speaker 1: to achieve those goals. So maybe, just maybe that's a 947 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,640 Speaker 1: positive social media. I wasn't expecting to walk away from 948 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,799 Speaker 1: this conversation with just I mean so many things, even 949 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,360 Speaker 1: that last thing when we talked about exposure therapy, and 950 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,879 Speaker 1: she said, the more things you try, the more you're 951 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:31,320 Speaker 1: going to find out about yourself and developing those skills, 952 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: they're going to translate across the spectrum when it comes 953 00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,279 Speaker 1: to your job. I think it's good advice for gen 954 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,360 Speaker 1: Z in particular as you're building up your human capital, 955 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,359 Speaker 1: but it's great advice for all of us people of 956 00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 1: all ages to never stop learning and to make sure 957 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,240 Speaker 1: that you're not just building a career with a company, 958 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 1: but that you're building yourself as a human so that 959 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:58,520 Speaker 1: you have more opportunity and the ability to use those 960 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:02,919 Speaker 1: interests and the abilities you've gained over time, that those 961 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:08,080 Speaker 1: would translate into jobs with many employers in different industries 962 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 1: that you would be more than happy to work in. 963 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:12,640 Speaker 1: It makes you more valuable, and that means that you 964 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: can pivot in a way that maybe most people wouldn't consider, 965 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:20,919 Speaker 1: especially in a slightly weird job economy. I think gets 966 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: great advice. So all right, I hope this episode was helpful. 967 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,280 Speaker 1: As always, thank you for listening. You can find links 968 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 1: to Lillian's book and some for socials up on our 969 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 1: website at howtomoney dot com. Until next time, Best Friend, 970 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 1: out