1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: Hi Brian, Hi Katie, and Hi listeners. Well another week, 2 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: another wonder woman. Yes, and here in Los Angeles. I'm 3 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: very happy to have you in my hometown. And believe me, 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,319 Speaker 1: I'm happy to be here because it's nineteen degrees in 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: New York City right now, it's like here anyway. We 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: just finished chatting with actress and activist Laverne Cox, who 7 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: was so nice to come in on a Sunday morning 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: and spend some time with us. I've interviewed Laverne before, 9 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: and she is so smart, she's compassionate, she's thoughtful, she's 10 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: extraordinarily well versed on the issues, and per usual, it 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: was a real treat talking to her today. Yeah, I 12 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: totally agree. I mean, like a lot of people, I 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: was first introduced to her in her role as Sophia 14 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: on Netflix's show or in Just the New Black, which 15 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: is one of my favorite shows. She's one of my 16 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: favorite characters. I just love her in that show. And 17 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: she's also been in some reality shows like I Want 18 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: to Work for Ditty, which is something you know, one 19 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: of your favorite shows that was on v H one 20 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: back in two thousand eight. Yeah, these people just got 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: to live my dream Anyway, if you know Laverne, you 22 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: likely also know that she's transgender. She's a prominent spokeswoman 23 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: and activist for l g B t Q causes, and 24 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: she actually helped to inspire you, Katie, to make your 25 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: documentary on gender for National Geographic. That's right, she did, 26 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: and as you'll hear in the course of our conversation, 27 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: it was all because of an encounter we had on 28 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: my talk show a few years ago, and she has 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: since really become my guiding light as I've set out 30 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: on a journey to understand and educate myself about transgender issues. 31 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: And I think this conversation is for everyone, but for 32 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: our listeners who need a primer or even just a 33 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: refresher on being trans in America what it means, I'd 34 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: highly recommend watching Katie's documentary Gender Revolution. I'd say that 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: even if you weren't my Brian, my co host, or 36 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: you could check out the corresponding episode of this pod cast, 37 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: which is number nineteen from back in February of last year. 38 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: We began our conversation this morning in Los Angeles by 39 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: talking about how Laverne and I met about four years ago. 40 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: We have an interesting backstory if you will, so just 41 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: for our listeners, And I'm not embarrassed to talk about 42 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: it because I think it's important to ollan the fact 43 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: that I screwed up and what I learned from my mistakes. 44 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: With your help, but a few years ago on my 45 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: talk show is doing something with the right spirit of 46 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: trying to help people understand transgender issues, which really wasn't 47 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: being talked about very much at that moment in time. 48 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: I think was back in two thousand and fourteen, and 49 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,959 Speaker 1: not four years ago. I know it was that crazy 50 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: years ago this this month. Actually it aired four years 51 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: ago this month. Well, Carmen Career came on the show. 52 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: Carmen Career as a trans model, and she was interested 53 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: in being the first Victoria's Secrets trans model. And she 54 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: came on and in a very awkward and inappropriate moment, 55 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: I asked her about her private parts. You're still your 56 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: your Your private parts are different now, aren't they. I 57 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: don't want to talk about it because it's it's still 58 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: it's really personal, and I don't know. I didn't quite 59 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: understand how offensive that was to someone. Of course, it 60 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: would be offensive if someone asked me, and clearly it 61 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: was offensive to Carmen of you know, understandably. So Laverne 62 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 1: saved the day and came out and we had a 63 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: conversation about it. But it really exploded in the trans community. 64 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: People were really upset about it, angry with me, and 65 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: it was mortifying and I was so embarrassed. And later 66 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: on in the season, Laverne came back and we actually 67 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: sat down and had a long conversation about why that 68 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: was so inappropriate. And I remember the producer's Laverne, they 69 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: did not want me to do that. They were like, no, 70 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: don't talk about it. I said, no, I want to 71 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: talk about it. Tell me your impressions when you saw 72 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: Twitter exploding with all that venom towards me. I'm just 73 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: curious what your reaction was, Katie, Oh, it was. It's 74 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: such as that was an intense timing. You're taking me back. 75 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: First of all, I want to say that publicists producers 76 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: often say don't talk about something and that, and that 77 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: if you talk about an issue that controversy, that it 78 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: sort of perpetuates and so, but then when you don't 79 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: talk about it, then there we don't really get a 80 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: chance to have the educational moment. We don't get to 81 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: have the teachable moment is the way you you put 82 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: it at the time, and so I was so excited 83 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 1: that you were willing and open to talk about it. 84 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: And I think about the moments I've had, because we 85 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: think when you're a public figure, you're constantly putting yourself 86 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: out there, and you're going to quote unquote make mistakes 87 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: or get things wrong and upset people, and that's deeply, 88 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: deeply painful. And I felt that. I felt that even 89 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: though we weren't talking, I felt like how painful it 90 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: was for you um to be going through that and 91 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: to have the courage to be on television and to 92 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: say I made a mistake and what can we do 93 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: to rectify that? It's like so hard to do and 94 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: it's so painful. But I think that, and as I 95 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,239 Speaker 1: saw the speech I made in London at the Attitude 96 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: Awards about that's for me feels like this model of 97 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: how we can go forward. It's going to be painful, 98 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: it's going to hurt, but if we can be accountable 99 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: and be teachable, then we can begin to model that 100 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: for other people. So when it all happened, though at 101 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: the time, what was exciting for me is that my 102 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: whole life. I've been watching UM TV talk to have 103 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: done presentations about TV talk shows that have since the 104 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: fifties and sixties have having conversations about trans people and reduced, 105 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: not even necessarily reducing us to surgeries and transition and 106 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: body parts. But what I said on the show is 107 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: when we focus on that, that becomes the only takeaway. 108 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: But because because it sensationalizes our identities, and having watched 109 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 1: those interviews over the year, I've never really seen anyone 110 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: on television pushed back and say maybe we should be 111 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: having a different conversation. So what was really exciting for 112 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: me is that Karmen and I got the opportunity to 113 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: UM to talk back and say maybe we should be 114 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: having a different conversation. And so I think when I 115 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: saw Twitter exploding, what was exciting for me is is 116 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: that because of social media and because of that moment, 117 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: Carmen and I were to have with you because you 118 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: we pre shot that so you didn't actually have to 119 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: air that, right. That's that's that's actually a little interesting 120 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: factoid about the whole situation. You know, my producer said, 121 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: do you want to take that out? Because you know 122 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: it made me look foolish and and and deservedly so. 123 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: And I said, no, keep it in because I think 124 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: it's a maybe a question that other people would have 125 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,679 Speaker 1: asked or at least thought about. And I want people 126 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: to understand that being a trans person is much more 127 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: than your anatomy, you know, it has has very little 128 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: to do with it. And of course I've been so 129 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: educated since Laverne because of my documentary. But I also 130 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: think the conversation has changed. I feel, I mean, certainly 131 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: there's there people have there's still an educational thing that 132 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: still needs to happen around trans folks. Is someny misunderstandings 133 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: and misconceptions about it. But I feel like with journalists 134 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: now it's different. I feel it's really different. And so 135 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: that moment feels really pivotal. And I'm I'm so grateful 136 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: to you for that moment. I'm grateful that you didn't 137 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: edit it out. I'm grateful to the community who pushed back. 138 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: And I'm sure it was really painful for you the 139 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: way in which some some folks in my community pushed back. Um, 140 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: but sometimes that's a necessary part of it, is I mean, 141 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: it is interesting when it comes to a social movement 142 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: sort of you have to bottle up and release that anger, 143 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: and I think it's part of the process, but I 144 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: so appreciate it. You mentioned that speech that you gave 145 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: it the Attitudes Inspiration Award last fall. We actually pulled 146 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: a clip because it was so nice and I was 147 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: so grateful of Earns. So let's listen for a second. 148 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: It important that we begin to look for models of 149 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: transformation and encourage that, and when the way we got 150 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: there with Katie is that I was willing to have 151 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: conversations with her with love and empathy. I do not 152 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: believe that we can get to that transformation by publicly 153 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: shaming people. And so for people who didn't watch these 154 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: shows and didn't follow this controversy as closely as some did, 155 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: particularly in the trans community, what do you think of 156 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: the key lessons that people who are not trans can 157 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: take away from that back and forth? For people who 158 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: aren't trans, I mean, I think, I mean, there's so 159 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: many things. Um part of part of it, I think 160 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: is the love and empathy piece that's so often every 161 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: what I've learned, especially over the last years, that not 162 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 1: everyone is coming from a place of good intentions. I 163 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: think with Katie, it was clear that you were you 164 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 1: have great, good intentions and it's got some things a 165 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: little off. And so then when the intentions are clear, 166 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: that we can begin to approach people with love and 167 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: empathy and find way ways to communicate our message better. 168 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: And I'm sure with that approach, I mean, can you 169 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: feel when you change hearts and minds? Do people say 170 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: to you, you know, thank you? I under I mean, 171 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: I I've been one of those people. Can you see 172 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: their hearts opening up and their minds changing with this 173 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:23,079 Speaker 1: approach I have, I have, and and learning doesn't always 174 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: happen in the moment. It often it's incremental. But I think, 175 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: I mean, part of what I get to do as 176 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: an artist too, is that when you as an actor, 177 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: that's the work of being an actor is having empathy, 178 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: having empathy for a character, characters that I play. I 179 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: can never sort of approach a character with like I 180 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: don't like this person. I always have to find a way, 181 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: even if the character has done some reprehensible things, to 182 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: empathize with her um and find a way in So 183 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: that's the work of being an artist is to is 184 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: to have empathy and love for the characters I play 185 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: into hopefully convey that to audiences, and so that's the 186 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: work that I do as an artist, and so I 187 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: think that hopefully we'll translate into the work I do elsewhere. 188 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: Being an artist is what informs everything that I do. 189 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: And UM, they're the legacy of revolutionary artists. Progressive artists, 190 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: through their work and their activism, have proceeded that way, 191 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: and so I have a wonderful legacy to look to. 192 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: We've seen a similar journey of understanding happen around the 193 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: issue of marriage equality. UM. Understanding around trans issues is 194 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: probably a little bit behind where marriage quality is, but 195 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: that was maybe the fastest social change in America than 196 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: anybody can remember. Part of it had to do with 197 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: the change in calling it marriage equality as opposed to 198 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: gay marriage. How you talk about it, how you kind 199 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: of find the way into people who are maybe instinctually 200 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: not as understanding or haven't come across these people as 201 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: much as you know as much as some others. Um, 202 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: do you think there are things that the trans community 203 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: has done or still needs to do in order to 204 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 1: make further progress. There's a lot that we have to do. 205 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: And UM, there's fewer trans people than there are a 206 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 1: game lesbian people. UM. The way the way you've alluded 207 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 1: to change in the conversation from quote unquote gay marriage 208 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: to marriage equality. Having the conversation differently it's key, and 209 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: that's a lot of what I'm the work that I'm 210 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: trying to do is to shape the conversation in a 211 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: different way. But I mean, trans people are under attack 212 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: right now in this country. There's we connect there's just 213 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: the list of like really legislative things that are happening, 214 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: policy things that are happening around with ending you know, 215 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: guidelines for trans kids, um, anti trans bathroom bills introduced 216 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: in state legislatures all over the country, transfolk stums. There's 217 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: a fight for us to be able to serve openly 218 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: in the military right now. Um it really it goes 219 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: on and on and on. There's t seventeen with the 220 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: deadliest year on record for trans people in trans of 221 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: being murdered. Um our lives are on the line. So 222 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: a lot of it is about it's an intersectional issue. 223 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: So when we talk about trans stuff, and it gets 224 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: complicated because it's not just a gender thing, it's a 225 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: race thing, it's a class thing. It's an act this education, 226 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: it's an access to housing and jobs and so all 227 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: of those things sort of are diminishing our left dances. 228 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: Sexual assault. I was going to say, it's it's a 229 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: crying thing, and I want to talk about intersexuality. I 230 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: want to talk about sort of being under assault in 231 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: this Trump administration, in the current policy in a second. 232 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: But before we do that, Laverne, I want to talk 233 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: about your story, your life story, because it's so fascinating 234 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: and I'm sure was harroin when you were younger. You 235 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 1: were born in Mobile, Obama, you were raised by a 236 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: single mom. You never met your dad. Um, I met 237 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: my dad once. You did when you were how old? Um? 238 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: I think I was in third grade. I was in 239 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: third grade. Do you remember that? I do. I'm not 240 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: going to talk about it, really. I think there's some things, 241 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: the whole circumstances leading up to that that we're really 242 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: really painful. And I've worked through all that with my mom, 243 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: and so I don't respect to my mother and my family. 244 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: I can't talk about all I totally understand. But yes, 245 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: once I met my my logical product you had and 246 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: I you have an identical twin brother, yes, and just 247 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: just one brother, just one sibling. Yeah, And um, I'm 248 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: just curious what it was like growing up. I think 249 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: about you and Mobile, Alabama. I know you attempted suicide 250 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: when you were eleven years old. Paint a picture for us, 251 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 1: leave learn about what life was like. I mean, I 252 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: have a lovely therapist now. She reminds me often that 253 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: it's both and so like. Yes, I was bullied. Um. 254 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: I was chased home from school practically every day, and 255 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: kids wanted to beat me up. I got beaten up 256 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: a lot. I was a very fast runner. I didn't 257 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: feel safe anywhere. But I was also a really creative kid. 258 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 1: I started dancing when I walked, and I begged my 259 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: mother to put me into dance classes, and finally, when 260 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 1: I was in third grade, she found a free program 261 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: where I could study dance. And that I believe that 262 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: dancing saved my life. I did. I have quit wrap 263 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: dance routines and like competed in talent shows all over 264 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: the Southeast, and there's still trophies in my house back 265 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: in Alabama. He said, I know you have said it 266 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: saved your life. Yeah. Being creative and I was a 267 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: good student. I've read constantly. We were walking distance from 268 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: the Mobile Public Library, so I was at the library 269 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: all the time reading I was, I was a total 270 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: nerd as smart as you are. He's probably smarter, really, 271 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: he's smarter. My brother is brilliant. He's really really smart. Um. 272 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: And by the way, if you haven't watched or Just 273 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: a New Black, you can meet LaVerne's brother. He's definitely 274 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: playing a character though. My brother is punk rock and 275 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: god he was. He defines find himself as a practicing him, 276 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: a sexual who is Negro goth, punk rock, um and 277 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: a free black man. He's um, He's a he's he's 278 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: a musician and an artist and his work is very 279 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: in Lamar is his name in lamar dot com. If 280 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: people care about his work. He really sort of hates. 281 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: He hates that he didn't Orange A New Black because 282 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: people It's so funny because if you google most famous, 283 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: well known trans people, there's like before. People always want 284 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: to see what trans people like before, and people have 285 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: a photo of my brother and then me said by side, 286 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's kind of hilarious. But they have a 287 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: photo of him from or Just a New Black, and 288 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: he doesn't even look like that in real Lafe. Here 289 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: it's like eyeliner or any long hair. But that's the 290 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: character he played. That's the character he played. Yeah, my 291 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: character pre transition. But but when when did you When 292 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: did you start struggling with your gender identity? I you 293 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: do you remember from the very he didn't. It wasn't 294 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: a struggle for me. It was a struggle for everybody else. 295 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: I was all. I was always feminine, I was always 296 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: you know, I really thought that boy, there was no 297 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: difference between boys and girls, cause everyone was telling me 298 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: I was a boy, and I knew that I was 299 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: a girl, so I didn't think there were any differences. 300 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: And then there was a therapy moment in third grade. 301 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: I've talked about this little talked about this a lot. 302 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: My third grade teacher, Miss Ridgeway. I called my mother 303 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: on the phone and say, your son will end up 304 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: in New Orleans wearing your dress if you don't get 305 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: him to therapy right away. So I went to therapy, 306 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: and there was there was this whole sort of I 307 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: guess we would call it reparative therapy around my gender 308 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: expression at the time that was trying to trying to 309 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: fix me. And up until that time, I didn't think 310 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: that there was really a difference between boys and girls. 311 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: I knew that I was being bullied. I knew that 312 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: people were um. People called me all kinds of anti 313 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: gay slurs. They called me a girl, and I think, 314 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: I said, said, the interesting the irony of my life 315 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: is that before I transition, kids called me a girl, 316 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: and after I transition, people call me a man um 317 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: And so, my gosh, it was just it was intense, 318 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: but I feel like was everyone else's problem I and 319 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: then it became and it's something I internalized. I internalized 320 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: a tremendous amount of transphobia and I was like, I 321 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: can't be this. And it wasn't until I moved to 322 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: New York and met real trans people that I was 323 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: able to accept trans people and then accept myself. But 324 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: it was a problem for everybody else. Leante and Price 325 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: my idol. She's an offer singer and she when she 326 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: talks about race, she said, it's not it's not the 327 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: black people's problem, it's everybody else's problem. And that's really 328 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: how I see it with with the gender stuff. And 329 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: I think for for me, I had to sort of 330 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: get find access to medical care and find ways to 331 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: survive because it's hard. It's as smart as you think. 332 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: On my be I was working in a restaurant, a 333 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: drag queen restaurant before Orange the New Black sort of 334 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: became a sensation and or in New York City. And 335 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: I have a college degree and I was writing, you know, 336 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: articles for Huffing Compost, and I kind of a smart chick. 337 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,199 Speaker 1: But a lot of people wouldn't have hired me. You know, 338 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: I couldn't really get a job. There's a lot of 339 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: people who wouldn't have hired me. It's brilliant, as I 340 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: might seem, um, And there's a lot there's a lot 341 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,360 Speaker 1: of trans people out there who are brilliant, who can't 342 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:27,239 Speaker 1: get jobs because they're trans. And you were inspired, at 343 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: least in part by a trans woman named Candice Kane. 344 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: For people in our audience who don't know who she is, 345 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 1: can you describe her and tell her tell us the 346 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: impact she had in your life. Candice Kane. I love 347 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: Candice Kane. Um. She's a New York City legend, and 348 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: she's a trans woman. And a lot of people got 349 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: to know horn Caitlyn Jenner's reality show I Am Kate, 350 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: But before that, in two thousand and seven, she became 351 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: the first openly transgender actress to have a recurring role 352 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: in a prime time TV show, and their show is 353 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: Dirty Sexy Money. That was eleven years ago, and that 354 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: moment made me believe that it was possible to be 355 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: openly trance and have a career as an actor. I've 356 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 1: been At this point, I had a degree in dance. 357 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: I studied acting and dance in college. I had done 358 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,479 Speaker 1: a number of independent films and been and just been 359 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 1: going to acting class every week, you know, and turning 360 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: and turned to student Susan Batson studio in New York City, 361 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: and I mopped the floors and answered the phone, so 362 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: I can get acting classes for free. Thank you, Susan. 363 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: It's had a little scholarship. And so it was being 364 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: an actress something I've been. I committed myself to, you know, 365 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 1: just and just doing the grind in New York, doing 366 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: the off railway theater or student films or whatever I 367 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 1: could do, just to work. And when I saw that 368 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: moment from Candice, I was like, this is the moment, 369 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: and that I sent out postcards. I love this story. 370 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: By the way, was this sending out postcards from New 371 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: York or from mobile? It was I was in New York, Okay, 372 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: So it's already in New York. I went to college 373 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: in New York and Um sent out postcards to agents 374 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: and casting director. It's like five and I was like, 375 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,640 Speaker 1: Laverne Cox is the answered all your transender acting? Because 376 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 1: I mean there was sort of a niche for being 377 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: trans and being an actor. Not a lot of great 378 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: parts at the time, but there were there was something 379 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,439 Speaker 1: mostly sex workers and crying victims. Um. It's not funny, 380 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 1: but it kind of is. UM. And then the manager 381 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: that I have now to this day, pa Heloppo, is 382 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: one of the four meetings I got from that those 383 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: five postcards. That's amazing. I mean, that's a real lesson, 384 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: by the way, an ingenuity and persistence and just putting 385 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: yourself out there that you sent all these postcards out 386 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: and you got four meetings from the meetings. I had 387 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 1: a commercial agent for a minute that didn't work out, 388 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: but then I got a legit acting agent. Um. Pa 389 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: Heloppo is my agent for many years now. He's my manager, 390 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: and he saw something in me. And for there were 391 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: many years I didn't work at all. Over the eleven 392 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: years that we've been together. That would be like, my guys, 393 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: why had he not dropped me? You know? If you 394 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 1: have an agent, you have a client and they're not working. 395 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: But he just saw something and then he stuck with 396 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: me and it's kind of worked out well. It certainly has. 397 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: I mean, you did a number of appearances on Lawn Order, 398 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: I know, and then you did some reality shows, some 399 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 1: independent films. You produced a documentary, produced a couple of 400 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: documentary and one one in particular about the lives of 401 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: seven trans children. I've seven trans youth um the time 402 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 1: they were between the ages of twelve and twenty four. 403 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of all of them right now. Um 404 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: Zoe Luna just had her HBO show about her KISA. 405 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: She's she was twelve when we interviewed her. Shane hen 406 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: Niece has been in and a Kinneth cole ad and 407 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: he got a full scholarship to Columbia at grad school 408 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: after the Tea World. I'm just oh, I can't anyways, 409 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 1: all of them are really fantastic and I'm so proud 410 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 1: of all of them. Think I mean again, I know, 411 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:28,239 Speaker 1: I know, I'm kind of like totally fan girling on 412 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 1: poor Laverne, but think about what you were able to 413 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: do for these young people by helping them adjust, by 414 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 1: giving them attention and by kind of launching their careers. 415 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: I think what we I try not to be too 416 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 1: arrogant about what I did. I think what we were 417 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 1: able to do with Laverne Costumes and the tea where 418 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: and you can watch the documentary on on YouTube or 419 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: on Logo TV, is that we gave them a platform 420 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: and tell their stories. And then UM, with that, what 421 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: were they able to do on top of that? What 422 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 1: I learned, and I had this conversation with every one 423 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: of them, that this is an opportunity for you to 424 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 1: have a platform. Now it's time to hustle. And what 425 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: I learned from having done reality TV when I did 426 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: a show called I Want to Work for Ditty in 427 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, and that was UM that's directly 428 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: because of Candice Cane. That was the next year because 429 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: I sort of put myself out there in a new way. 430 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: I learned that reality television was a platform. But then 431 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 1: now it was time for me to hustle and to 432 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: um really capitalize on that. And so that's what I've 433 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: I've tried to do in a way that's respectful to 434 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 1: myself and to the art and what I want to do. UM. 435 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 1: But that was what I said to the young people, 436 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: So then it was on them. But I mean, let's 437 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 1: be honest, giving them a platform change their worlds. I hope, so, 438 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: I hope, so I will. Shane has told me that 439 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: it has, and a few of the young people have 440 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 1: told me that it has been transformative for them, So 441 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: that that makes me happy. Let's take a quick break. 442 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of our fascinating conversation with 443 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: this week's wonder Woman, Laverne Cox. And now back to 444 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: our conversation with Laverne Cox. Your big break when most 445 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: people in this country first clapped eyes on Laverne Cox 446 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: was when you got the role on Orange, just the 447 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: New Black. How did that come about and how has 448 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: that changed your life? It's funny because right before I 449 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: booked Orange, I was thinking maybe I was done acting. 450 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: Maybe I'd been a number of independent films that've done 451 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: some TV, and I's thinking maybe I was done and 452 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,120 Speaker 1: hadn't booked anything for going on a year. We're still 453 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: working in the restaurant. I still working at Lucky Change 454 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: the restaurant every week. And then I got the audition 455 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: and I did two scenes, one from the pilot episode 456 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 1: of orange and one from the episode three, the famous 457 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: duct tape flip flops um seen from season one. In fact, 458 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm glad you mentioned that because we have a clip 459 00:22:54,000 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: from that since you did the perfected with this. All right, 460 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: well let's listen to you. We'll just remind people I 461 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: made my own commer. Don't Carrious last their team due 462 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: me italics are very in the season. I remember that 463 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: scene so well, Laverne, when you heard about this role, 464 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: were you just thinking, oh God, this is going to 465 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: be so fantastic? Were you trufidacious? You know. I was 466 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: at an event with my manager Paul, and he said, 467 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: I have an audition for you. It's set in a 468 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: women's prison. You're a hairdresser and women's for women's prison. 469 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: I was like, that sounds it sounded really intriguing. He 470 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: said it was a web series and this is so 471 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: there were no streaming television shows, there were web series. 472 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: So I was just like, okay, a web series. Cool. 473 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: And then I got the pilot scripts and it was 474 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: brilliant and um Gingi Cohen. I was a huge fan 475 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: of Weeds, like huge and I love her by the way, 476 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: I love her too, A creator and exactly and then I, 477 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: um did the audition, got the part. I was screaming. 478 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: I was on this treat and I started screaming, and 479 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: I was hopeful that people might watch it. But I 480 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: was just so excited to be working. I was I 481 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: dedicated my life to being an actor, and it's a 482 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: really hard thing to do, to be an artist, and 483 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: so I was just happy to have a job. And 484 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 1: then it turned into this thing where like episode three 485 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 1: was my character's backstory and Jodie Foster was directing, and 486 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 1: that was a dream come true. And um, did you 487 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 1: have a moment when you thought, Wow, this is really clicking, 488 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: this is this is something special season one? It was 489 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: just what I love about Season one of our show 490 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: is that it was so about the work, and I 491 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 1: was just so excited to do the work to really 492 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 1: that I've been training for all these years. And then 493 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: there was a moment I think episode and it's the 494 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: rat battle scene, episode six or so of season one, 495 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: and I looked around and it was room full of 496 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: women of all ages and backgrounds and sexual orientations and 497 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: and I'm in the middle there, and I just was like, 498 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: this is the coolest thing I've ever seen in my life. 499 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody's gonna wash it or care, 500 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 1: but this is awesome and I did honestly think anybody 501 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 1: would watch it. I knew it was good and special, 502 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: but I just had never seen anything like it, and 503 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 1: so I was like, where does this fit in the marketplace? 504 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: You know? And then it's on Netflix. I was just 505 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: my my dream really was. I was like, I hope 506 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,640 Speaker 1: casting directors watch it and see that I can act, 507 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: and maybe I'll get another job. That was my real 508 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: People didn't think of Netflix is the behe meth that 509 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: it's become, spending seven billion dollars a year on content 510 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: and all the rest. But let me ask you, since 511 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 1: you first appeared and broke through on that show, how 512 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: do you think opportunities for transactors have changed? Gosh, it's 513 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: a it's a mixed bag. When I talked to my 514 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: transplants who are actors, there are more roles than there 515 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: used to be in the roles are different. Um. I'm 516 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: so excited about Ryan Murphy's news show Post is coming 517 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: out of this summer. There's six transgender series regular unlesshow 518 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: all trans women of color and they're so talented. Um, 519 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: and what is it about. It's about the ballroom community 520 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: in New York City in the nineteen eighties, like that 521 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: movie Paris Is Burning if you saw that, it's about 522 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 1: these balls that are sort of competitions where people vogue 523 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: and people sort of have different categories like realness and faith, 524 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: et cetera. So it's the sort of drag trans lgbt 525 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: Q balls of color that Madonna's vote comes out of 526 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: that community. And it's really when um our current president 527 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: was building all these huge buildings and so that you know, 528 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 1: New York was changing a lot in the late eighties 529 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: as well, So that that's the backdrop of the of 530 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: the of pose which is so excited about it. So 531 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: that's exciting for for people in the trans community. But 532 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: how has it been a mixed bag? Well, there's still 533 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: a lot of casting ritchers aren't calling us stand for 534 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 1: roles that are not trans. Well that's the thing, right, 535 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: is the real victory going to be when you don't 536 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 1: have to play a trans person but you get to 537 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 1: play a woman. I just get to play characters and 538 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: it doesn't and the gender identity doesn't matter. I think 539 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: that is the victory. More opportunities and I think but 540 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: there's so many trans stories that need to be told 541 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 1: as well, and so more trans folks directing and writing 542 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: and working behind the scenes is actually really crucial to 543 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: to pose his credit. There's two to right trans writers, 544 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 1: and there's some trans people directing and working on the crew. 545 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: Um of a show I did and CBS called Doubt, 546 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 1: we had a trans writer. And I have a show 547 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: um in development at ABC now called Spirited, Um that 548 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: is not a trans character, and um that's the lead 549 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: of So hopefully that that pilot will be in the pipeline. 550 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: It's but you feel like they're You feel like you 551 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: need to have both both stories of trans people but 552 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: also trans people being cast without regard to their gender. 553 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 1: Because if you're right for the part, it shouldn't matter. 554 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: I've always said, if it doesn't involve minstrual cycles or pregnancy, 555 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: I should be able to play it. And then the 556 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 1: question is does the character become trans when I play 557 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: the character. I'm as a black actress, whenever I play 558 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: a character, the character becomes black. And do it just 559 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: the character become trans when I play her, even if 560 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: it's not written that way. UM, So that's an interesting 561 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: question that will so that we'll see. Well to that point, 562 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: you have cis gendered men, that is, people who were 563 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: born as men playing a signed mail at birth, assigned 564 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 1: mail at birth and identify as male. Thank you for 565 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: them being cast as trans women. Yes, I e. Jeffrey 566 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 1: Tambor on Transparent, although you know he made Jared Letto, 567 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: I E Eddie Redmain. Who are you know? UM? I 568 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: was about to say, all lovely people, but now how 569 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: do you feel about that? Though you know, um, there 570 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: is certainly a push now in UM, in the trans 571 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: community and beyond to cast trans people to play trans characters. 572 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: Transmpone jobs I said earlier than our employment rate is 573 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: about four times in national average UM. And Jen Richard's 574 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: a brilliant writer actress. She argues that when sphysically, when 575 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: cis gender men, non transgender men are cast to play 576 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: transferred to women at least to violence against us because 577 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: it sends the message that, she contends, that trans women 578 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: are really men. So Jared Letto beautifully plays this trans 579 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: character in Dallas Bias Club and then arrives at the 580 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: Oscars and Golden Globes with a beard. And so folks 581 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: men who find themselves attracted to trans women then see 582 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,719 Speaker 1: this guy with a beard amidst in this message, their 583 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: trans women are really not women at all, but men, 584 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: and so she contends that that leads to balance against 585 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: So I think the other piece of that is that 586 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: men who are attracted to trans women need to deal 587 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: with their internalized homaphobia and transphobia. What's been so exciting 588 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: for me as a transactress playing a transparacter and Orange 589 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: a New Black is that people have audience members have 590 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: not just empathized with the character that I played, but 591 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: they find themselves empathizing with the actors who plays her, 592 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: and so there's been so much I think it's inarguable 593 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: that there's been so much change because of that part 594 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: that I got to play, and people connecting with this 595 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: character and then connecting with the actress on a human level. Well, 596 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: think how much how many people have been educated by Sophia, right, 597 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: I mean, it broke through this whole notion of gender 598 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: identity and it just got right to the heart of 599 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 1: the person, which can I think is the most persuasive 600 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 1: tool possible. Right, you have to be able to see 601 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: people as human beings, and I think, according to a 602 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: study from Glad of Folks, in the United States do 603 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,080 Speaker 1: not know someone trans and so what what we you 604 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: and the media is how folks get to know trans 605 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: folks exactly. It's crucial. It's it's life saving and or 606 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 1: or life threatening if the representation in the media does 607 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:16,719 Speaker 1: not accurately and multidimensionally depict who trans people really are. 608 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: One of the people I featured in my documentary was 609 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: Gavin Graham. You can't see right now, but Laverne just 610 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 1: kind of made a little prayer sign and held it 611 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: up to her face because Gavin is an extraordinary person. 612 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: How did you first get to know Gavin? I, you know, 613 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: I became aware of his case in Gosh, and it 614 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: would have been, um, we should say, by the way, background, 615 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: by the way, guess Gavin came out as transgender in 616 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: high school in Virginia. His county's school board said that 617 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: he couldn't use the boys restroom. So apologies for the interruption, 618 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 1: but now that's fine. Um, well, initially he was allowed, 619 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: and then parents found out and said we can't do this, 620 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: and everything was fine. Gavin was going to the boys room, 621 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 1: the kids didn't have any there was no issue. And 622 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: then the school board finds out and sayest know what, 623 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 1: this can't happen, and they had a big hearing. By 624 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 1: the way, and just just before we talk a little 625 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: more about Gavin, we have a clip from what I 626 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: thought was one of the most moving moments of my 627 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: documentary is when, by the way, we didn't film it. 628 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 1: It was when Gavin spoke before the school board and 629 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: there was a whole group of people, and he was 630 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: fifteen years old, and he was so composed and so extraordinary. 631 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 1: Let's listen to what he said. I've been aware of 632 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 1: who I was since I was a very young kid, 633 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: and it's taken me a very long time to be 634 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: able to be myself and be okay with that. The 635 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 1: person I am now being able to have all of 636 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: my rights in full is such a massive dynamic difference 637 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: from the person I was just last summer. I would 638 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: like to say two of that. If the evidence said 639 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: that me using the boy's room would be catastrophic, I 640 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: would not be advocating for myself, regardless of my personal 641 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: emotions over this issue. I look only at the facts 642 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: as one should in an issue that for poor separation 643 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 1: of church and state and feelings of state. That clip 644 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: makes me cry every time I hear at Laverne and 645 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: so you heard about Gavin's situation. Did you reach out 646 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 1: to him? I did, Actually, I really my friend Chaise Strangia, 647 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: who were the a c LU de Laurier. The a 648 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 1: c l U is handling Gavin's case, and it was 649 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 1: a major it was gonna be a major decision, or 650 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: it was it would have been the first time the 651 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: Supreme Court would have heard an issue about transgender rights. 652 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: And so I sent him a video message and then 653 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: we arranged to meet to meet Gavin. It was like 654 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: a week after the Grammys a year ago, I remember, 655 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: and I just I was moved by everything I had 656 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 1: read about him and the videos I've seen about him, 657 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: and then he's when I met him. He's so smart 658 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 1: and so calm and composed. It's amazing. I freak out. 659 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I just when I all think it's attention 660 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 1: is on me and I get such anxiety, and he 661 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 1: seems so calm and his mom um. It's amazing. I 662 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 1: think it's over fifty percent of trans kids when they 663 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: have families, art their lives are completely different in terms 664 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: of positive outcomes for them being who they are. Because 665 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: we should just mention how high the suicide rate is 666 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: among trans children and trans youth. Yeah, it's over over 667 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: forty one of trans people have attempted suicide, and I 668 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: think it's of trans youth have a have attempted suicide, 669 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: and so it's I think sometimes people want to sort 670 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: of suggest that we're mentally ill. But if you live 671 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: in a culture that tells you constantly and sends messages 672 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: to you constantly that you are mentally ill, that you 673 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,160 Speaker 1: are a deviant, that you shouldn't exist, and that every 674 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: message you're receiving constantly from everyone around you and from 675 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 1: the media is that you shouldn't exist and that you 676 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: are pariah, it is really hard to love yourself. It 677 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: is really hard to think that you have a right 678 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: to exist. And that's what I want. That's what I 679 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,479 Speaker 1: want trans kids to know that you have a right 680 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: to exist and that you're anointed, that you are beautiful, 681 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: and that you're here for a reason, and that you 682 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: have to find a to survive um so you can 683 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,400 Speaker 1: fulfill that reason for being here. The Supreme Court decided 684 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: not to hear Gavin's kid They decided not to hear 685 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: Gavin's kids because the current administration. The Justice Department rescinded 686 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: the Obama you're a guideline around how transgender kids should 687 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: be treated in school. And and so when the Justice 688 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 1: Department rescinded those guidelines, then there was no case. There 689 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,879 Speaker 1: was no case. What did those guidelines say the guys? 690 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: So basically a lot of people thought they were about bathrooms, right, 691 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: So they did say that, you know, trans kit should 692 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 1: be able to use the bathroom that's consistent with their 693 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,800 Speaker 1: gender identity. But it also talked about prefer name, it 694 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 1: talked about how other kids should treat them in school. 695 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: So it was a whole host of guidelines. It was 696 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 1: really abou making making sure that trans kids were safe 697 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: in schools and that they were treated in a way 698 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: that was respectful to them so they could learn. Education 699 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: is the reason I'm sitting here, and people should have 700 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: safe schools. And that was just the first, I think 701 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: thing that the Trump administration did that has started to 702 00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 1: erode the progress that had heretofore been made before was selected. Yeah, 703 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 1: not just for trans people, but for across the board 704 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 1: the Justice Department. Even though people have to remember that 705 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,759 Speaker 1: the current administration has not been very successful legislatively, but 706 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 1: in terms of the Justice Department. They have been very 707 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:16,359 Speaker 1: successful rolling back mandatory minimum so many um progressive things 708 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: that the Obama administration um did, so we got to 709 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: continue to resist what. In fact, back in July, President 710 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: Trump tweeted the transgender individuals will not be allowed to 711 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: serve in the US military. Has that been implemented? So? Um, 712 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 1: Remember that was so crazy because ostensibly President Trump had 713 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 1: cleared this with his military leaders, but then they said 714 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 1: he never talked to them, ostensibly meaning he didn't right 715 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: and then suddenly and then that changed, right. So after 716 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: after the tweet, the guest Department of Defense got some 717 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 1: policy together to basically try to ban on transiple And now, 718 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: mind you, trans people have just been able to serve openly, barely, 719 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: and it was something that like Obama, but luckily at 720 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: this point to judges have said that this is unconstitutional 721 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 1: and there's no reason to ban trans people. I think 722 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: it's probably gonna end up at the Supreme Court. So 723 00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: that meantime, what's happening to transgender people who are currently 724 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: serving in the military. It's my from my understanding, they 725 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: should be treated with kindness and respect. But again, it 726 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 1: sends a message when the leader of the Free world. 727 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 1: I feel that I use that term loosely. Now, UM, 728 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: let the records show there are some more quotes tackling 729 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: UM says that you shouldn't have a right to serve 730 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: your country. And what other things have happened in the 731 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: last year Laverne that have really kind of put trans 732 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: people in the crosshairs? UM. I think over twenty states 733 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 1: have passed about fifty pieces of legislation that basically criminalized 734 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 1: trans people using the bathroom that is consistent with their 735 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 1: gender agentity. Fifty pieces of legislation. A number of those 736 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: pieces of legislation have been struck down, notably in Texas, 737 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: but a lot of people think that um HB too. 738 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: In Carolina, a lot of people thought that that was repealed. 739 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,279 Speaker 1: It actually wasn't. They basically made a new bill that 740 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: basically had institute the same kind of discrimination against trans 741 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: people because they wanted to basically get their corporate folks back, 742 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: And so a lot of people think that that's settled. 743 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: In North Carolina, it actually isn't. The a c l 744 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: U and other organizations are still I think it's lamb 745 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 1: I Legal are still suing the state of North Carolina 746 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 1: because they're trying to criminalize trans people going to the 747 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: bath This has had a profound impact on politics. The 748 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 1: governor of North Carolina who signed the infamous bathroom band 749 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: like with Anymore, Yeah, he lost his race. I think 750 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: he's still around, but he's no longer governor exactly um 751 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: largely as a result of the backlash on this issue. 752 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: And last year we saw Danica Rome I think that's 753 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 1: how you pronounced her name in Virginia be the first 754 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,880 Speaker 1: openly trans person elected and seated in the US State House. 755 00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 1: And Andrea Jenkins was the first only transgender black woman 756 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 1: to be elected shows a Life to the Minneapolis City 757 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: Council and met Andrew. I've met Andrew. We did a 758 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: panel when I was a mini in Minnesota, like a 759 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: couple of years ago. And now Chelsea Manning has filed 760 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: to run for Senate in the state of Maryland, and 761 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,840 Speaker 1: more of our controversial character having nothing to do with 762 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: first I mean, I think it says a lot that 763 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,279 Speaker 1: we've seen this happen and that that must be a 764 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 1: positive in a year that's been full of a lot 765 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 1: of negatives. I think what has happened because of the 766 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 1: current administration is that a lot of folks UM, various 767 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: backgrounds are choosing to run for office and are winning. 768 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 1: And that I think if if there's anything positive that 769 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,800 Speaker 1: has come out of UM this current administration, is that 770 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: folks have woken up. And I think a lot of 771 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,839 Speaker 1: folks got complacent under my beloved President Obama. I love him, 772 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: we miss you, we missed you, Obama's UM. I think 773 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 1: a lot of those got very complacent and didn't realize 774 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: that UM a lot of basic civil liberties were at stake. 775 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,799 Speaker 1: And I think that it's very clear now. The last 776 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,240 Speaker 1: time I checked, and I'm sure the numbers higher, eleven 777 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: thousand women were running for office. Uh. And I think 778 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: that brings us to sort of the me too movement. 779 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,280 Speaker 1: And I'm curious what you think of this movement, Laverne. 780 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: If you believe it is intersectional enough, that is so 781 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,839 Speaker 1: it's really talking about race, it's talking about gender, it's 782 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: talking about gender identity, uh, not just white women in 783 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 1: Hollywood and or beyond even and and that if you 784 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: think it's expansive enough, So what are your thoughts. I 785 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 1: think we can always be more intersectional, we can always 786 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:43,279 Speaker 1: um include more in color. Really, yeah, I mean intersectionality 787 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 1: really for people I don't just experience the world as 788 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 1: a trans woman. I experience the world as a black 789 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: person and as and I have multiple identities and and 790 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: having a social movements. It's funny, as I've been doing 791 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 1: a lot of rereading of Bell Hooks and a lot 792 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: of black feminists from you know, the seventies and eighties, 793 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,720 Speaker 1: and and really for over thirty years that um, women 794 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,359 Speaker 1: of color, queer women have been critiquing, um a lot 795 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,960 Speaker 1: of second way feminism that you know, thirty years ago, 796 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 1: black feminists were like, we need to expand this idea 797 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: of womanhood and we cannot um use biological essentialism to 798 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,760 Speaker 1: have conversations about women. That we have to be inclusive. 799 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 1: So that conversation has been happening for a really long time. 800 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,280 Speaker 1: So I never doubted, I mean, I don't think anyone 801 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,799 Speaker 1: can hear her and and doubt how well informed well 802 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 1: read you are on these issues. I mean it's unbelievable 803 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 1: but any but But so that conversation has been happening 804 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 1: for a really long time, and I mean we just 805 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: I think what we have to look at. I mean 806 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,520 Speaker 1: with Weinstein, for example, I remember all these actresses came 807 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: out and said, you know that he had, you know, 808 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: assaulted him and done the things that he's accused of doing. 809 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: First person he challenged was Lupitte Niango, a black woman. 810 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: When he all these other women, he didn't say anything, 811 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 1: he didn't say that I didn't do it, he'd But 812 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,479 Speaker 1: the first person challenge it was was Lapie and the Ongo. 813 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 1: And I think there this can't be a coincidence. Her 814 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 1: blackness can't be a coincidence. I noticed when some trans 815 00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 1: women have come forward and said that they have been 816 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 1: sexually assaulted, there's been a different tenor in terms of 817 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: the ways in which they've been believed as opposed to 818 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 1: other women who are not trans. It's it's all very 819 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: very tricky because there's a lot of there's a lot 820 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 1: of trauma. I think when we're talking about sexual assault 821 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 1: and sexual harassment, I think it's really really important to 822 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,319 Speaker 1: talk about the healing that has to happen if you've 823 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: been a victim or survivor, and it's one of I 824 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: think the worst things that can happen to someone, if 825 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 1: not the worst, UM, and so all the healing that 826 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 1: has to happen, and UM, what's exciting is that. UM. 827 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I've been rereading you know, UM, some of 828 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 1: my belthooks and talking back, she says, one of the 829 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 1: most useful tools that women have, and it's not just 830 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: women who've been victims of sexual assault and harassment, is 831 00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 1: our voice to be able to speak up and to 832 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 1: speak out. And so it's amazing that that I think 833 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 1: we were just the country was just ready for that. 834 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 1: But UM, I think we still need to. UM. And 835 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 1: it's not just because I and I. It's not just 836 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: about including trans women, including women of color, including folks 837 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: with disabilities or folks are incarcerated, including all these folks, 838 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 1: But it's like, what does it mean to have these 839 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: folks in leadership positions and decision making roles. I'm finding myself, UM, 840 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: I'm very blessed that be in the position I'm in, 841 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 1: but I'm trying to be critical of it, and I'm 842 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: trying to really think about all the folks out there 843 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 1: who don't have the platform I have, and what do 844 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: they need and what would they want me to say 845 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 1: when I'm in in these positions, And so much of 846 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:44,720 Speaker 1: it is about having not just the tokenized Hollywood trans 847 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: woman lover and cox in the in positions. UM, and 848 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,840 Speaker 1: it's seats with seats at the table. But having diverse 849 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,799 Speaker 1: and other folks who don't have the saying privileges I have, well, 850 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 1: it seems to me that you know, we have to 851 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,280 Speaker 1: start moving from outrage to policy changes and putting systems 852 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: in place and all. So obviously attitudes sometimes I think 853 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 1: laws precede attitudes. If you look at the civil rights movement, right, 854 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't a popular thing to enact certain 855 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,840 Speaker 1: pieces of legislation, but it was the right thing, and 856 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 1: then attitudes followed and somewhat. I mean, I think if 857 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 1: you look at that, that's a really good example that 858 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: we had the vote Civil Rights Act, in the Voting 859 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,640 Speaker 1: Rights Act um that were past and then black folks 860 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 1: that did not end racism in America. Ironically, you know, 861 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: black folks are incarcerated crazy rates, profile by police, et cetera. 862 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: That's for sure. But I think if sometimes if if 863 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: leaders wait for public uh sentiment to be on their side, 864 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: that sometimes they'd be waiting for a very long time 865 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,120 Speaker 1: to at least take the first step of enacting legislation. 866 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 1: That's that is hopefully eventually one day fingers crossed going 867 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 1: to change hearts and minds. But where should we go 868 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 1: from here. Um, I think it's been so extraordinary to 869 00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 1: see people being able to express their them elves, use 870 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 1: their voices, exhibit their outrage. But at some point do 871 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 1: we need to then take it to the next step. 872 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 1: And in Hollywood, by the way, there is this initiative 873 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 1: called times Up um that may be a part of 874 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: moving forward on these issues. But but but what are 875 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,320 Speaker 1: they going to do other than raise money for a 876 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 1: legal defense fund for you know, I mean and and 877 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,800 Speaker 1: not just Hollywood. But how can policies and change and 878 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,800 Speaker 1: how can we put systems in place so that it 879 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 1: is better for that woman who's working on an assembly 880 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 1: line at a factory in Iowa. That's part of it. 881 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: Rosa Clemente, who's been doing a lot of work around 882 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 1: Puerto Rico, we have to remember their Puerto Ricans, Um. 883 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: The island is still mostly without power and without clean 884 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 1: drinking water. She reminded me when we met that that 885 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: protests are important, but then we have to do the 886 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 1: organizing after the protests, and so the organizing is about 887 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 1: policy and hopefully systemic shifts. Um. So I was at 888 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 1: times that meeting this past week, and and so the 889 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,240 Speaker 1: Legal Defense Fund, it's wanted of things at times episduring. 890 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 1: There's other things, other work too. That's that's that's on 891 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 1: the horizon that that you'll find out more about later. 892 00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: That it's about those policy shifts, and I think really 893 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:15,319 Speaker 1: it's how do we make workplaces safe for everyone? Anti 894 00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:21,279 Speaker 1: sexual harassment policies have existed in of UM organizations for 895 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,839 Speaker 1: a very long time, but so much of that it's 896 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: about not getting sued, but it doesn't change the culture 897 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 1: in those organizations. So we have to be able to 898 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 1: change the culture and then who's in power. A lot 899 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: of folks think that it's about having diverse leaderships, that 900 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 1: we have more women and leadership positions, and more people 901 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: of color and just more diversity and so so so, 902 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 1: and hopefully that can begin to change the culture so 903 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: that it's not okay to interrupt women and meetings and 904 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 1: so it's not okay. What is no, that's man's plain. Well. 905 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm doing this whole thing for National Geographic and one 906 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 1: of my hours is on gender and equality in Hollywood 907 00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 1: and Silicon Valley and beyond. And there's something called he peating, 908 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:02,800 Speaker 1: and that means if you're at a meeting and a 909 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 1: woman has this suggestion and everybody is like, yeah, yeah, yeah, 910 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: it kind of blows her off. Then the man says it, 911 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 1: and so there's this hepeating. There's this thing called he 912 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,839 Speaker 1: peating that men do where a woman makes a point 913 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 1: and everyone ignores her and then the guy thank you 914 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 1: for that. It's the same thing and thank you for 915 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:23,000 Speaker 1: the illustration. But anyway, but but I do think that 916 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 1: those kinds of cultural shifts instead, so that not that 917 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 1: we're in these things are important. I think sometimes people 918 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 1: think that liberals get sort of you know, want to 919 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,800 Speaker 1: police language and and want to say you can and 920 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: can't say. This is not about that, It's about how 921 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: do we begin to change the culture. Because those cultures 922 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: influence policies and influence the ways in which people are 923 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 1: treated and they feel safe or not, and the workplates 924 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,240 Speaker 1: are on the street, or there may be sexual harassment policies, 925 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 1: but I don't think they've been taken seriously. I think 926 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: that when they have like diversity training or sexual harassment awareness, 927 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 1: that most people just roll their eyes. And now I 928 00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: think those times have changed. But do you think that 929 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: more men should be invited into the conversation, Because I 930 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,759 Speaker 1: think right now, at this juncture, I think there are 931 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: a lot of men who are so fearful, and I 932 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,840 Speaker 1: think that some of them believe like we need to 933 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 1: spend this time listening, but at some point we need 934 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:17,760 Speaker 1: men to join forces with women and not just listen. 935 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 1: So do you feel like they've been shut out of 936 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,239 Speaker 1: the conversation too much? I think we have to be 937 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:27,239 Speaker 1: really careful not to foreground men's voices. I think we're 938 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,800 Speaker 1: talking about white sister gender men's voices in a in 939 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,960 Speaker 1: a in a movement that needs to be about women 940 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 1: coming to voice and women having a space so that 941 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,279 Speaker 1: we can't foreground those voices. But men, we can't really 942 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,360 Speaker 1: top all of the patriarchy without um men being engaged 943 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: in that. I think a friend Matt mcgory does so 944 00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: much work around Black lives matter and around having conversations 945 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 1: with white people around their own racism, and so I 946 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 1: think men need to be having conversations with each other, 947 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 1: and I know some incredible guys who are doing that work. 948 00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,640 Speaker 1: UM list of course listening to women of all from backgrounds, 949 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:04,040 Speaker 1: trans you know, women with disabilities, listening and then having 950 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 1: conversations with other men and saying and saying this is 951 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,880 Speaker 1: no longer acceptable to talk about women this way and 952 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,239 Speaker 1: to have conversations, and then what can we do to 953 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: change policies, to change hearts and minds? And then how 954 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: can we interrogate ourselves. I think a lot of men 955 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,840 Speaker 1: to what I've come to realize this movement has been 956 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,839 Speaker 1: really intense for me. I got to, um, I can't 957 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 1: BlimE me when I talked about this, because I'm not 958 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 1: maybe ready to fully talk about it. But I got 959 00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: to confront a man that I had had a sexual 960 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 1: encounter with that the encounter was consentual, but then something 961 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 1: happened that wasn't consentual, and I was able to recently 962 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: recently confront him about that. And what was interesting for 963 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 1: me in the confrontation is that he had no idea. 964 00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:47,239 Speaker 1: He had no idea that his behavior was predatory, that 965 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: he didn't have consent. And I think so often the 966 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,839 Speaker 1: idea of consent is something that that that that men 967 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,360 Speaker 1: aren't really clear about. And I I'm very clear that 968 00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 1: what happened was not consentual and it was not okay, 969 00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: and I was able to assert that to him. But 970 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 1: that's a different kind of conversation. What does consent look like? UM? 971 00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 1: A woman I know name who's who teaches um sex 972 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,879 Speaker 1: and in New York and she teaches kids, she's having conversations, 973 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 1: you know, in middle school, really early on about what 974 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,640 Speaker 1: consent is and looks like. And we have to be 975 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: really careful about the messages we're sending to our young 976 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,560 Speaker 1: people of all genders about what consent is. And so 977 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 1: those kinds of conversations men should be having with themselves, 978 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 1: with um, with each other, and then ultimately with women 979 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: and then listening more and then we all have to 980 00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 1: be engaged in changing the culture. Is it just too 981 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,680 Speaker 1: early to kind of push that, as you say, foreground 982 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 1: their voices. No, we should not be foregrounding voy I don't, 983 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean and I love I love ground 984 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 1: exactly foregrounding so that we because it's the problem is 985 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 1: that for far too often we've listened to men and 986 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,719 Speaker 1: not listen to women. Were at a point now when 987 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 1: women when women are finally being believed and something heard 988 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,840 Speaker 1: and her, and we have to continue that we have. 989 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:05,360 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that we're that doesn't mean because I 990 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 1: love man, doesn't mean we hate man, doesn't mean that 991 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 1: we want to sort of demonize men. But we have 992 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,920 Speaker 1: to foreground the voices and experiences of women. And then 993 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,279 Speaker 1: I think to whether it's not just women who are 994 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,800 Speaker 1: experiencing sexual assault either. Anthony Rapp, we have to remember, 995 00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 1: came forward with some really important information about a well 996 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:27,240 Speaker 1: known actor that we all know, and um, Terry Crews 997 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 1: and other other men have come forward and and so 998 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 1: that they too have been and I know a lot 999 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 1: of men and just personally who have experienced sexual assault. 1000 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 1: So um, it's a conversation that we all need to have. 1001 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:42,359 Speaker 1: But then there's there's something about power and accountability. I think, 1002 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 1: for so long as it was just okay to do 1003 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,280 Speaker 1: this stuff and time's up, I feel like we should 1004 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:52,520 Speaker 1: also just talk briefly about pay inequality. You know. A 1005 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,399 Speaker 1: big story this will air a couple of weeks after 1006 00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: this whole incident, but that got a lot of attention 1007 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:03,960 Speaker 1: is Michelle Williams versus Mark Wahlberg. And I found that 1008 00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 1: really upsetting but also so interesting on a multiple levels 1009 00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:12,399 Speaker 1: because I think at per usual, Michelle Williams was trying 1010 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 1: to be super accommodating and saying, I'll do whatever it takes, 1011 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 1: so I'll, you know, skip my holiday, all right, I'll 1012 00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 1: go to Italy over Thanksgiving or whatever, and then she 1013 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: have the same representation as Mark Wahlberg, who got paid 1014 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,239 Speaker 1: one point five million dollars. O'Brien told me earlier that 1015 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 1: there was some stipulation in his contract that he had 1016 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 1: approval over the replacement actor. Blah blah blah. But the 1017 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,359 Speaker 1: fact of the matter is, I mean, the man held 1018 00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: it up so that he could get a bunch of money, 1019 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: and the woman said, oh, yeah, sure, I'm happy to 1020 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,160 Speaker 1: be accommodating, and you know, do this whenever you want 1021 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: to get paid a thousand bucks, which I think speaks 1022 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 1: to eighty dollars a day perum, which which which speaks 1023 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:52,120 Speaker 1: to I think women and are are discomfort in speaking 1024 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: up and demanding things and trying to be liked and 1025 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 1: being the good person versus Mark Wahlberg, who of course 1026 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 1: eventually gave the money to the Times Up movement and 1027 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,160 Speaker 1: to the Legal Defense Fund there. But I mean, why 1028 00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 1: does this keep happening and how do you ussure in 1029 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 1: a major paradigm shift for that. There's so many issues there, 1030 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 1: and I can when I when I hear that, I 1031 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:17,839 Speaker 1: know I can relate to, especially being still feeling new 1032 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,840 Speaker 1: to the entertainment industry and feel like, I'm just so 1033 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: lucky to be here that I don't want to do 1034 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 1: anything to piss people, and I don't want to do 1035 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,440 Speaker 1: anything to piss anybody off. So I'm like, what do 1036 00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 1: you need? And always trying to arrive and and be 1037 00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:34,600 Speaker 1: easy to work with and eating and agreeable and never difficult. 1038 00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,840 Speaker 1: And so that's something I really really deeply relate to. Gosh, 1039 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: I think there's so many issues. There's so much that 1040 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,880 Speaker 1: we probably don't even know about. In terms of the 1041 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,880 Speaker 1: contract negotiations. I'm excited that the money is going to 1042 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 1: Time's up. Um, I'm excited that that's happening. Um. I 1043 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: think Michelle Michelle Williams is a brilliant, brilliant artist. Her 1044 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,160 Speaker 1: body of work is so compelling. Her statement around this 1045 00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 1: is has been absolutely just magnanimous and inspiring. I I 1046 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,320 Speaker 1: just love I love her. I don't know her personally, 1047 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,400 Speaker 1: but I love the way that she's gone about all this. 1048 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 1: But part of this is I think women starting to 1049 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 1: become accustomed to owning some power, you know, and and 1050 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 1: not being so worried and being able to demand things 1051 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 1: and not be afraid what that says when it comes 1052 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 1: to And I think I think it's Susie Orman who 1053 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 1: said that we need to talk about money more in general, 1054 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: so that we are having conversations how much are you making? 1055 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,359 Speaker 1: You know, so that we should be openly having conversations 1056 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,960 Speaker 1: about transparency are other people getting? And then so what 1057 00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 1: should I be asking for? So so that that's part 1058 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 1: of it. But there's something I really get that desire 1059 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 1: to be like what do you need? You know? They 1060 00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 1: were reshooting the film because of um the actor who 1061 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 1: they needed and needed to know. But I don't. I 1062 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 1: don't know for a reason. But like, so I get 1063 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 1: where Michelle was coming from. Let me do whatever I can't. 1064 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 1: I get it. I really do alaudatory in a way. 1065 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,600 Speaker 1: On the other hand, it's like why should we be 1066 00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,719 Speaker 1: pleasers and why should we be so helpful? Or maybe 1067 00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,480 Speaker 1: the men should be more helpful. Yeah, I was going 1068 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 1: to say, is that a good thing? A bad thing? 1069 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: It's so confusing. Oprah talked about how often talks about 1070 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,520 Speaker 1: her how her life changed when she let go of 1071 00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:17,040 Speaker 1: her disease to please and I'm I'm still learning that, 1072 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 1: um but really choosing them. Burne Brown says her boundary 1073 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 1: mantras use discomfort over resentment, so we're setting boundaries and 1074 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,840 Speaker 1: and um not being in a space of like constantly 1075 00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,040 Speaker 1: wanting to please, but so that we can assert ourselves 1076 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,560 Speaker 1: and feel and understand our value. I don't I don't 1077 00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,160 Speaker 1: know Michelle personally, and I think she I don't know her, 1078 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 1: but I think she knows her value with I think 1079 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: four Oscar nominations in this body of work. But um, 1080 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:50,360 Speaker 1: she's just not a jerk anyway. In closing right, Okay, No, 1081 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:51,960 Speaker 1: but you know what I mean, she's like, I mean, 1082 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 1: she's a mench Yeah, she's a mention. She's a mention. 1083 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: Any who, Um, are there other projects you're working on 1084 00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,760 Speaker 1: that you can talk about? Freak Show right, Freak shows 1085 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,839 Speaker 1: out now, Freak shows in theaters and on demand. It's 1086 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:07,320 Speaker 1: a beautiful UM movie set in high school about a 1087 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:11,000 Speaker 1: young kidney Billy Bloom, who is kind of gender non binary, 1088 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,840 Speaker 1: likes to dress and fantastic costumes at school and it 1089 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 1: gets bullied and it ends up running for homecoming Queen 1090 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:19,880 Speaker 1: UM and it's a really beautiful story. I have a 1091 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:23,360 Speaker 1: teeny tiny part in your. Trudy Styler directs and Bette 1092 00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:25,719 Speaker 1: Midler has a wonderful role in it. So folks can 1093 00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:27,960 Speaker 1: I think in l a New York City freak show 1094 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,400 Speaker 1: now or on demand. It's you can just get it anywhere. 1095 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,640 Speaker 1: It's fantastic. I love that movie. Um and your model 1096 00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:40,160 Speaker 1: for model, Oh my god, that's crazy. Beyonce chose me 1097 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,680 Speaker 1: to be one of the faces of her autumn winter 1098 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: campaign for Ivy Park. The posters are still in top 1099 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 1: shops all over the world. I still get it's an 1100 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 1: active it's an active where it's her at leisure line. 1101 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 1: It's amazing. I was an Ivy Park fan even before 1102 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:57,360 Speaker 1: I was modeling for it. Thank you, Beyonce. That's you. 1103 00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: Are you and be like this, I just did the 1104 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,400 Speaker 1: thing where your fingers are together, like you're super tight. No, 1105 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,359 Speaker 1: I've met Beyonce once. She was about to give birth 1106 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,440 Speaker 1: when we shot the ad campaign, so I've only met 1107 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: her once. We're not tight like that. Um, you know, 1108 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,640 Speaker 1: you've got to be a lot more Hollywood. You gotta say, 1109 00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 1: we're very very close, you know. I don't do that 1110 00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,440 Speaker 1: whole thing of like, should I be more Hollywood. I'm 1111 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 1: just gonna be Lavernet. It's actually very refreshing. But she 1112 00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: she's so I mean. I've interviewed her a couple of times. 1113 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,160 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her for years, but in the early 1114 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,560 Speaker 1: days of Destiny's Child and then when she started on 1115 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,920 Speaker 1: her solo career, I had the pleasure of interviewing her 1116 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:38,840 Speaker 1: and I just I just adore her. I think she 1117 00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,279 Speaker 1: is so great and we're so talented. It's ridiculously be 1118 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,640 Speaker 1: She's still the queen of us all. I have a 1119 00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 1: few queens, and Beyonce's one, and I remain a genormous fan. 1120 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,440 Speaker 1: Who's your other queen? Um? Oh my god, I have 1121 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:56,640 Speaker 1: many queens, Oprah, Um, Leon, Team Price, Violet Davis, Um. 1122 00:56:57,960 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 1: When you look ahead at this year, you know what 1123 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 1: what a What are your hopes and dreams? It was 1124 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 1: funny you were saying you wanted that role and a 1125 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 1: continuing role that one year, and then Orange is a 1126 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:11,919 Speaker 1: New Black popped up. What are your goals? I want 1127 00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,320 Speaker 1: to get better at being an artist and being an actress. 1128 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 1: I got to work on I'm Gonna be in the 1129 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,200 Speaker 1: next season of Orange, and they wrote some really beautiful 1130 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,080 Speaker 1: material for me and I I want to get better 1131 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:24,040 Speaker 1: at what I do. I think being an actor is 1132 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:28,040 Speaker 1: very difficult. In doing it well, um, it's difficult, but 1133 00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:30,960 Speaker 1: it's also a lifelong pursuit and something that you can 1134 00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 1: get better, get older, and get better at. So I 1135 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:34,920 Speaker 1: want to continue to expand all the notes. New show 1136 00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 1: called gland Masters that's coming out on Lifetime. It's a 1137 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 1: it's a competition reality show from makeup artist UM Kim 1138 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 1: Kardashian West is one of the executive dos. I'm a 1139 00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: co executive producer as well, and I'm also a host 1140 00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: and judge and We're looking for the next big breakout 1141 00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 1: star in the beauty industry. It's it's on Lifetimes premering February. 1142 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of it. I've seen a lot of 1143 00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 1: the episodes and the contestants are incredible. You really understand 1144 00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,520 Speaker 1: that makeup isn't just I'm not wearing makeup today. I 1145 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: thank god. I love having my makeup three days. But 1146 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 1: the makeup is not just about looking pretty. That it's 1147 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,280 Speaker 1: an art. And these makeup arts we have on the 1148 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: show really show you that. And the challenges that we 1149 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,160 Speaker 1: give them. Um, you illustrate that and it's fun. It's 1150 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: so much fun. So you're not only doing all your 1151 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 1: acting stuff, You're like turning into a mogul. I'm trying 1152 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 1: to do continue to do what I love and do 1153 00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 1: and I love a lot of different things, and so 1154 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm trying to sort of go with the passion and 1155 00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 1: being a space of of joy and multidimensionality. I'm not 1156 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: just one thing, and so I'm getting to explore all 1157 00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:38,480 Speaker 1: of these different sides of myself and showing the world 1158 00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 1: that they can do that as well. I think that's great. Well, 1159 00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 1: I just you know, I adore you. So I'm so 1160 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: happy that you came by on a Sunday no Less 1161 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 1: to visit with us. This has been so much fun. 1162 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,400 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see how you edit this because 1163 00:58:55,480 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 1: we've talked a lot of big thank you this week 1164 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: to the Invisible Studios in l A for today's recording, 1165 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,720 Speaker 1: and our usual thanks to the lovely and talented Gianna 1166 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,040 Speaker 1: Palmer for producing the show. We love Gianna, and we 1167 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,840 Speaker 1: love Jared O'Connell for mixing it. Oh gosh, I don't 1168 00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 1: want to leave anyone out. We love Nora Richie, our 1169 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: assistant producer, and Alison Bresnik on social media, Emily Beena 1170 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,760 Speaker 1: over at Katie Currect Media, we love you too, and Beth, 1171 00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,120 Speaker 1: my assistant. I can't forget her. We love her a 1172 00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,440 Speaker 1: lot because she puts up with me every day. Beth's 1173 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,360 Speaker 1: a wonder woman in her own right. Mark Phillips wrote 1174 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 1: our theme music. I would say I love you, Mark, 1175 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 1: but I don't even know you. And Brian and I 1176 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: are the show's executive producers. Talk to you next week, 1177 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,520 Speaker 1: and thanks so much for listening, everyone,