1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: It is time for us to ask the clo. This 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: runs from NYA Indicators Colo. Nya writes, I dated a 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: guy for almost three years and he told me that 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: he didn't want to get married. We broke up. Now 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: he's getting married to someone else this fall. He wants 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: to smooth things over with me. So should I meet 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: with him or wish him well and block him? 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: What you want to meet with him? 9 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: For? 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 3: H He told you he didn't want to get married, 11 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 3: then he married somebody else. What you didn't hear was 12 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 3: the clear message that I don't want to marry you. See, 13 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 3: when a man tells you listen to me, ladies. A 14 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 3: man will try not to hurt you directly, so he'll 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 3: say I don't want to get married. But what he's 16 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 3: really saying to you is I don't want to marry you, 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: because why else would he say that. He's just telling 18 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 3: you he don't want to marry you. Did he went 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 3: off and married somebody else. Now he want to smooth 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: it over, but you ain't. Why would you entertain this 21 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 3: right because all you're gonna do now is be. 22 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: Off with the role of mistress. That's what's going to happen. 23 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: Wow, that's step two. 24 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: Huh yeah, if you can take this. He worried too. 25 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's all this is. So, I mean block 26 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 3: him and going about your business. He married somebody else. 27 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 3: What he gonna explain you? Do you think a man? Yeah? 28 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: I'm really sorry I wasted your time. You know, will 29 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: man don't do that that? 30 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: Okay? He just doesn't want to be the bad guy. 31 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: Is that what it is? Hello? He doesn't want to 32 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: hurt you directly. 33 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 3: I'm trying to cry so you know, right, so you 34 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 3: know that's the good side of us. 35 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: Moving on to uh Jericho and Toledo, Jericho writes, I've 36 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: been arguing with my wife over a text that she 37 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: got from our son's barber. He knows how to get 38 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: in touch with me if he anything, but he texted 39 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: my wife instead to tell her our son left his glasses. Fellas, 40 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: should I go have a talk with him? Okay, let's 41 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: hear this one. 42 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 3: Well, Jericho, it's a couple. 43 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: Come, that's bothering you. 44 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: I was thinking he was at least eighty Your son 45 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: left his glasses down at the barber shop. I'm assuming 46 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 3: he's a teenager or something, mister j Yeah, but now 47 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 3: let me say this though. Here is the thing. How 48 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 3: does the barber have your wife's number? I don't understand that. Unyes, 49 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 3: y'all son is young. Unless y'all son is young, and 50 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 3: you drop him off to the barber shop and you say, 51 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: if anything happens, called either one of us. 52 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. 53 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 3: Along with that, Now I'm assuming that's how he has 54 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 3: a number. No, he just text her. Now you know 55 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: he got your number, but he text her. Now you 56 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 3: can run up Jericho, listened to me. Don't run up 57 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 3: on this man down at his shop. A lot of 58 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: stuff be under them capes. You not run up on 59 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 3: this man down at his shop accusing him of something 60 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 3: he didn't do. 61 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 2: Now, listen to me. 62 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: If the text were anything other than hey, your son 63 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: left his glasses, then I understand. 64 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 2: But that's all you got. 65 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 3: Don't run up on this man because he said, Hey, 66 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: what you asking her about the glasses? 67 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: Boy? You gave me both the numbers, and you. 68 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 3: Know what, he could have just text the number, not 69 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,119 Speaker 3: realizing it was her or you and just said, hey, 70 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 3: your son left his glasses. 71 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: It ain't worth it, bro it ain't worth. 72 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: Notice, he addressed the fellows shouldn't go have a talk 73 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: with him because you guys are always talking about run 74 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: ride down there dot com. 75 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: And you, but this ain't a ride down that dot 76 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: Com moment moment. I ain't fighting nobody, ain't Jericho. 77 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: Why why? 78 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 4: Right? 79 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Carl and Hackensack. Carl says, 80 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 1: I'm dating a female that drinks socially and loves to 81 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: hang out. If we go to dinner, she wants to 82 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: go to a lounge afterwards, then to an after hour spot, 83 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: and then invite people back to her house. This is 84 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: almost every weekend. Is this a red flag? 85 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: What you think, bro? What you think if you gotta. 86 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 3: Ask go to dinner, go to a club out today, 87 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: then go to an after spot and you have people 88 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 3: come over. 89 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 2: Is that a red flag? It ain't. You're standing in 90 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 2: the middle of the flame some fire. Yeah, bro, I 91 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 2: mean waving it. 92 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 3: Bro. She got too much going on, man, She got 93 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: to get some of this out of her system. She's 94 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 3: not ready. She ain't ready to settle down. She likes activity. 95 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: She's one of them people that's always seeking fun. She 96 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: needs she needs to be stimulated to have fun. 97 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: And doesn't want to be alone. 98 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, activity already. I'll go here gonna wear her down. Boy, 99 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: she gonna look all way for her time. Wow. 100 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: After party, after party, after the party, after the after party. 101 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, speak easy, all right. Last one, Steve, This 102 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: is from Paula and Anniston. Paula writes, my boyfriend invited 103 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: my dad to my birthday party. After I told him 104 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: my parents don't make well. My dad brought his wife. 105 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: My mom said she'll never forgive us for inviting my dad, 106 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: and she stormed out, Why can't my mom move on 107 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: with her life? 108 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 4: Why did your husband invite boyfriend boyfriend? Why your boyfriend 109 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 4: invite to daddy and he bought his wife? 110 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: Man, you know, listen got mad and. 111 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 3: The mom got mad, probably probably because the reason for 112 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: the divorce could be his ways. Now he gonna bring 113 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 3: one of his ways to the who is now his wife. 114 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. Now, the mother says she's not gonna forgive. 115 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: Who them her daughter and her boyfriend. She said she'll 116 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: never give us for inviting my dad, and she stormed out. 117 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 3: I think your boyfriend should go over to your mom 118 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: and apologize and said and just say, hey, look, it's 119 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: my bad. I did it, not not not your daughter. 120 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: I did it because I didn't know the gravity of 121 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 3: the situation, and I had no idea he'd bring his wife. 122 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,239 Speaker 3: I was just trying to bring both of her parents 123 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: over for my girl's birthday. It was an honest mistake. 124 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 3: I'm really, really sorry. Please forgive us. I didn't do 125 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: it to hurt you. You got to the boyfriend gotta 126 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 3: go over there and lay that pology down, because you 127 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,119 Speaker 3: do owe the woman an apology. 128 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: If she lets him in, because she says she'll never 129 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: forgive me. 130 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: Well, but she got to open up though. Mama, come on, 131 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: now you're old. What if they get married? What Mama 132 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: not gonna go to the wedd and the daddy can't. 133 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 3: Go to the That's what I'm saying, Mamma, you need 134 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 3: to let this bo You're getting old. You don't need 135 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 3: to carry this already. Ain't got no husband now, you 136 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 3: ain't gonna have no kids. 137 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show.