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Speaker 1: What's up everyone? Welcome back to another exclusive episode of

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. We are graced with none other than

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Speaker 1: the very special Noah and Abigail or Abigail and Noah,

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Speaker 1: the newly engaged couple from Bachelor Paradise Season seven.

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Speaker 2: Our season, Serena, Yeah, correct, our season, a very successful season,

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Speaker 2: a lot of engagements, a lot of couples, a lot

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Speaker 2: of babies, a lot of fur babies coming out of

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Speaker 2: that season. And we are so happy to have you

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Speaker 2: guys here, and we are so excited for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yes, congratulate to hear.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, see you guys in a while.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, we so you know, full transparency. Serena and

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Speaker 1: I used to talk about how we just didn't think

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Speaker 1: you guys were gonna make it, and then.

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Speaker 4: All of a sudden, well, I'm glad to be able

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Speaker 4: to do an interview with you because you clearly out

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Speaker 4: of your league league I stumbled on my league.

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Speaker 3: So what are we doing here?

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Speaker 2: You know, two very lucky men on this podcast.

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Speaker 1: Lucky man.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, we overcame the odds. We're super excited, all right.

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Speaker 2: So we I knew a little that a proposal was

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Speaker 2: in the works because when I saw Abigail in Cabo.

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Speaker 2: There was a little chitter chatter that something may be coming,

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Speaker 2: but we didn't know when. And obviously we have no

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Speaker 2: behind the scenes info on how this all came to be.

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Speaker 2: So let's just start from the beginning. Noah, when did

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Speaker 2: you know you were going to propose to Abigail?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean probably after we've been dating for I don't

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Speaker 4: remember when. It was like a year and we sat

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Speaker 4: there and stared at each other in my bed and

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Speaker 4: said I love you. I was like, okay, all right,

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Speaker 4: this isn't just like a show love. I'm going to

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Speaker 4: figure out how to propose. At some point took a.

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Speaker 1: Whole was was it you guys stared at each other.

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Speaker 1: Was it just like I love you, I love you?

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Speaker 1: Or do you guys just keep saying it?

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Speaker 3: Just said it like fifty times?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, just over and over.

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Speaker 4: We try to against ourselves that we loved each other.

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Speaker 4: We both paused, we looked at each other and she

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Speaker 4: said it.

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Speaker 3: I said it. We'd already said it a million times,

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Speaker 3: but it kind of clicked, you know.

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Speaker 4: I don't even remember that, but that's when I was like,

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Speaker 4: all right, I'm going to marry this girl. But then

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Speaker 4: obviously we went out to California. I was doing travel nursing,

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Speaker 4: got the ring, worked with KSAR. They were amazing, and

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Speaker 4: then didn't tell my parents until probably a week before.

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Speaker 3: We're from the Midwest, so I gotta, like, you know,

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Speaker 3: call my parents, call her parents.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, but how what was that time period from

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Speaker 1: the week before to when you got the ring?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, so we're gonna be out in San Diego

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Speaker 4: till September.

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Speaker 3: Abbey got a house, We're going to go back.

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Speaker 4: I'm thinking I got time, you know, I got a month,

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Speaker 4: month and a half to figure this out.

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Speaker 3: I'm chilling. Then she got a dog. Yeah, got a dog.

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Speaker 4: And then she was like, I want to leave like

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Speaker 4: in maybe two weeks, week and half. I was like what,

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Speaker 4: So I already had the ring.

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Speaker 3: I've been hiding the ring.

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Speaker 4: So then it was like, all right, game time, how

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Speaker 4: do I pull this off? So it was literally like

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Speaker 4: a two day span of got a house on the

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Speaker 4: in La Hooya facing the beach, convinced her I was

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Speaker 4: going to play pickleball.

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Speaker 3: She really had no idea.

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Speaker 4: We just said we're going to meet for dinner like

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Speaker 4: a send off, have some wine, playing monopoly, deal cute pictures.

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Speaker 4: San Diego was great, you know, because we're leaving. So

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Speaker 4: she showed up and we had people hiding in all

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Speaker 4: the rooms bonge of our friends. So she's like trying

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Speaker 4: to explore this house. And like I walked around the

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Speaker 4: corner and my twin was there. He was like So

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Speaker 4: then it was like, all right, we're just doing it,

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Speaker 4: you know. So I had I went to Trader Joe's

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Speaker 4: and bought a million flowers, sprinkling them all over the rooftop.

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Speaker 4: Some candles didn't get to do the full presentation because

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Speaker 4: they showed up thirty minutes early, so we just kind

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Speaker 4: of just threw the flowers at somebody else's roof. Start

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Speaker 4: walking up the stairs and she's like drinking her Celsius energy,

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Speaker 4: drinking the camera, like looking around like, oh.

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Speaker 1: This is so cool, this roof is cool. I'll not

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Speaker 1: to cut you off.

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Speaker 5: No, we were having wine on the roof.

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Speaker 1: Was Abigail you so you had at this point you

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Speaker 1: have zero idea.

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Speaker 5: Zero idea?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, it sounds like you tried to ruin

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Speaker 2: this proposal unknowingly every time.

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Speaker 4: I knew ruin it the whole time, and I was thinking,

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Speaker 4: I want to propose.

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Speaker 3: I always said I want to propose to her before

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Speaker 3: she moved to Oklahoma, you know, like my state. We

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Speaker 3: want to get a life together.

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Speaker 4: So that was like my timeline in my head, and

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Speaker 4: it just got pushed forward forward forward to where it

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Speaker 4: was like, all right, we're just going to do it.

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Speaker 4: So I think she thought I was already either going

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Speaker 4: to do it and I just maybe we're just going

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Speaker 4: to be dating for six years that you you know.

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Speaker 3: But I mean we only.

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Speaker 6: Had two days left in col at that point, and

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Speaker 6: I was like, there's no way he can put it

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Speaker 6: together that quickly, Like we have the dog moving, we're.

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Speaker 3: To call me the minute man, you know what I'm

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Speaker 5: So I closed the.

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Speaker 3: Chapter, probably for a different reason.

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Speaker 6: It's not gonna happen in California, So I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 6: probably gonna happen in Alcoholma. I had an idea it

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Speaker 6: would happen this year. I just didn't know when because

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Speaker 6: you never talked about it. So I didn't have any idea,

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Speaker 6: and then man, it happened.

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Speaker 4: Well, I was gonna worst case scenario we'd do in Oklahoma.

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Speaker 4: I round up all the cows, were surrounded by nature,

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Speaker 4: you know, good old fashioned. So it was a quick

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Speaker 4: kind of aggressively because we're walking up the steps and

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Speaker 4: don't want her to just be sitting there with like

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Speaker 4: a Celsius in this camera. Yeah, And then we kept

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Speaker 4: walking up and all you could see was one of

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Speaker 4: the photographer's head just like floating, and she was like,

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Speaker 4: it's someone up there, and then her face was dropped

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Speaker 4: and there's like flowers everywhere, super pretty, like twenty minutes

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Speaker 4: like rainy all day and like lit up.

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Speaker 3: The sky nuts so pretty.

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Speaker 2: I saw it.

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Speaker 4: I thought it would be to be honest, I was like, wow,

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Speaker 2: Against all odds the sky.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to say yes to yourself?

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Speaker 3: At this point, I literally was like, who set this up?

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Speaker 1: This is so so beautiful.

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Speaker 2: At what point did you, like clue and you were

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Speaker 2: about to get engaged? Because I saw a video I

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Speaker 2: don't know where it was, but it was like a

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Speaker 2: video of your proposal that was like taken did you

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Speaker 2: and you were already crying, like walking up the stairs

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Speaker 2: at that point. When were you like, oh shit, he's

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Speaker 2: gonna propose to me right now.

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Speaker 6: It was when the videographers had popped around. So I'm

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Speaker 6: you have to like go around the corner. It's like

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Speaker 6: top of the roof when you first walk out. And

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Speaker 6: so I thought we were going to the gonna have someone.

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Speaker 6: They walked to dinner and he like grabbed my camera

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Speaker 6: and my drink had on my hand and like a.

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Speaker 3: Little aggressive, I know, but well, so we.

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Speaker 6: Had to take our shoes off before we went into

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Speaker 6: like maybe no drink, I don't know, no drinks whatever.

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Speaker 6: And I was like, oh sorry, and he like kind

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Speaker 6: of smiled and like started walking me up. I was like,

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Speaker 6: that's kind of weird. And then I saw the big

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Speaker 6: it like clipped. I was like, okay, it's happening right now,

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Speaker 6: and I started balling. I did not think I was

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Speaker 6: gonna cry bye, sorry, like crying.

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Speaker 3: Ugly crying the whole time.

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Speaker 6: I was like, I feel like now like ugly crying,

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Speaker 6: but cover as much as I can.

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Speaker 1: No, well, okay, because I know felt like for for myself.

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Speaker 1: Like when I got and I actually got down on

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Speaker 1: one knee, like the nerves really kicked in once. Once

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Speaker 1: you got down on one knee, How were you nervous?

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Speaker 1: Like what was going through your mind?

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Speaker 3: Joke? Don't compare us, We're not the same.

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Speaker 2: You had not listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna well that's fair.

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Speaker 1: I believe. I believe was he Were you nervous?

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Speaker 4: No? I was definitely a little nervous because I was like,

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Speaker 4: I got one shot at this, and I'm kind of

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Speaker 3: So I'll just tell you.

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Speaker 1: You reminded us that about one hundred and fifty times

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Speaker 1: in Paradise. God.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I know, I didn't make it on

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Speaker 3: the show once of my line. Yeah no, So once

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Speaker 3: I was like, I just got to be as natural

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Speaker 3: as I can, Like in my head, we've already done this, right,

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Speaker 3: I already feel like we're already there.

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Speaker 4: So now I just got to not look like an

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Speaker 4: idiot because I'm not going to be like, can we

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Speaker 4: run that back? So I paused. We paused for like

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Speaker 4: thirty seconds. I said, I may be dumb, but I

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Speaker 4: ain't stupid. That line I was like, yeah, and I said,

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Speaker 4: the stupidest thing for me to do would not marry you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like the ring, so I.

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Speaker 4: Made it like I can't mess that up because that's

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Speaker 4: just I just got to get it done with. I

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Speaker 4: just got to say something hopefully makes sense, and then

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Speaker 3: I was nervous. I really didn't feel it.

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Speaker 4: I didn't feel any different until maybe it was the

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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift concert, which we'll get into. But uh, we

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Speaker 4: got back from Taylor Swift last night and I told

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Speaker 4: every single person very confidently, I feel no different being

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Speaker 4: an engaged man verse dating. We're already there, we're already comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Then I got home last night, I was like, I'm engaged.

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Speaker 5: I know you're already you already want to.

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Speaker 4: Wear yeah yeah, and I'm like, let's get married. So

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Speaker 4: I definitely feel different. I was a little bit nervous,

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Speaker 4: but no, not like you. I wasn't trembling.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you had a little more time.

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Speaker 1: I was First of all, I was sweating because it

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Speaker 2: And yeah, you hate is that what you were trembling?

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Speaker 5: You had?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was nervous. You know, this was the cameras.

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Speaker 4: And Joe's racing. Joe's racing the clock. I'm not racing

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Speaker 3: And it worked out, worked out way better than I thought.

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Speaker 2: Just like forgot about that.

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Speaker 4: I was like, ill, Yeah, I mean I'll definitely try

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Speaker 2: And then I feel like anytime you try to like

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Speaker 6: The weekend that we went to the horse racing because

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Speaker 6: But then the reason I didn't think it was happening

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Speaker 3: I want to talk about this. By the way, I

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Speaker 6: But I was packing, well, I was packing all week

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, she thought it would happen at the race horses,

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Speaker 1: And how were How were Abigail's parents? They were happy?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, her parents They're amazing. They were like

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Speaker 4: And it was like, hey, I'm not talking about Tulsa.

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Speaker 4: But then yeah, this last week, she's like having second doubt.

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Speaker 4: I'm like being all mysterious and like disappearing and like.

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Speaker 1: You, Yeah, I feel like I feel like you still.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like you still could help.

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Speaker 2: It was like, I'm going to use this proposal to

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Speaker 2: and she's going to be so happy and the ring

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Speaker 3: But then after the fact, I'm like so glad it's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's it's truly just a few moments and

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Speaker 4: now it's like all right, Like you're such a relief.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now you get to enjoy it, Like the planning

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Abigail, how do you feel about Noah explaining your

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Speaker 5: We'll talk later.

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Speaker 4: One could argue life to be described by just a

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about the So it happens, like, I guess

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Speaker 1: who's there? Like you said you mentioned Thomas, So I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming Becka and Thomas are there, Like, who's with you? Guys?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? You're just getting drunk having a

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Speaker 2: And I saw you posted like thanking Beca and Thomas

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Speaker 4: They were paramounts in it for at least me because

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Speaker 4: Like in my head, I always wanted to propose on

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Speaker 6: And Thomas knows so many people in San Diego, it's crazy.

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Speaker 4: And Becca was like beca distract her and then make

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Speaker 3: No, it was great.

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Speaker 4: It was great, and it carried on because there was

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Speaker 4: We're supposed to drive across the country today, and we

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Speaker 4: Her last concert followed up following up the engagement, so

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Speaker 5: I was like, hunt over so tired.

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Speaker 6: I was like Okay, I's why I go through all

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow, is Noah the best? The best guy ever? We'll

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Speaker 5: Is at Taylor Swift tickets.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: I hate to set the standard the way I did it.

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Speaker 4: I really do because I don't think I can maintain this.

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Speaker 4: But the standard set.

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Speaker 2: So it's pretty good. Engage with one day, surprise Taylor Swift,

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Speaker 4: This is the first night we actually got more than

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Speaker 4: so we're not doing much, but where everything's like calm.

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00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,880
Speaker 4: I haven't even looked at texts from people, Like it's

441
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,640
Speaker 4: just been go, go go Taylor Swift. I understand why

442
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 4: she has a cult following. I'm the newest member. It

443
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 4: was insane. Yeah, and it's just been nuts. Like the

444
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 4: last yeah, two days have been absolutely nuts. And now

445
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:54,720
Speaker 4: it's like all right, I like process.

446
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 6: I still feel like I'm engaged. I just need to

447
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 6: I'll like, look at my hand. I'm like, oh, there's

448
00:19:59,000 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 6: a rock on it.

449
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,600
Speaker 3: She's with their ring. Do you sleep with your ring?

450
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,120
Speaker 2: I don't sleep with any jewelry on, Like I take

451
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,640
Speaker 2: jewelry off. But some girls do sleep in their joey,

452
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,880
Speaker 2: But you don't sleep in any jewelry typically.

453
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 6: Do you like my necklaces? I do my earrings jone.

454
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,439
Speaker 6: The first time I slept with it on because I

455
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,360
Speaker 6: did not want to take it.

456
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,680
Speaker 2: Off, and so I slept with mine on. I think

457
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,159
Speaker 2: the first like five nights yecause then they took it

458
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,439
Speaker 2: away or three nights whatever, because then they take it

459
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 2: away from us in paradise. But then once I got

460
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,199
Speaker 2: it back, I don't sleep with it on.

461
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,119
Speaker 5: I was just more worried, like I don't know, just

462
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:39,240
Speaker 5: like it is it gonna bend? I don't know.

463
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 1: This is cheap ass ring, like it's not going to bed.

464
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 3: Do you think of hoops? I heard holed last week?

465
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: So what are you guys? What are you guys thinking

466
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,920
Speaker 1: about as far as wedding, because you mentioned you're ready

467
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 1: to get married. How long you think you're going to

468
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 1: take any idea?

469
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 6: I am trying not to think about it the first

470
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 6: week and stressed thinking about it.

471
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 3: I mean, we haven't really talked about it a whole lot, but.

472
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 4: I've decided based off the last twelve hours that I

473
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 4: just want to do a closed wedding with like my family,

474
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 4: not even any groomsmen, and just have a huge reception.

475
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 1: Nice. I think that that's we talked about my decision

476
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 1: as of the last twelve hours.

477
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 2: So right, Abigail is just being informed of this right now.

478
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 2: So Abigail has already planned your wedding as well.

479
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:41,360
Speaker 1: What about what about.

480
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 5: You know you're more than welcome through Well, see.

481
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 1: What would you say? Would you say? I think it

482
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 1: was trash talk over there, Abigail.

483
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 5: I just he wants to take the rains we're planning.

484
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 5: We'll see how far we get with that. But you're

485
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 5: more than wow.

486
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 3: Work this weekend shot.

487
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: Just say the guy plans a beautiful engagement Taylor Swift

488
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: tickets and.

489
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 3: She's unrealistic standard for men.

490
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 1: Still, Yeah, she's still.

491
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 2: Just a matter if you could do it twice, Noah,

492
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 2: Avocail doesn't know about it.

493
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 3: I don't need to do it twice. It worked once.

494
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 2: That is true.

495
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 3: The wedding is.

496
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 4: I don't want to do a super long engagement because

497
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 4: I am gonna, like I just want to get be

498
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 4: done with it, but I don't want to just rush through.

499
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 2: So I bet you guys get married next year, like

500
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 2: around this time.

501
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 3: Joe, that's that we break up.

502
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: So I'm actually curious, go and read it. Yeah, just

503
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: like this is a Joe Reddick collab right here there.

504
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: Break it up for sure.

505
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 3: I know how just talks trash to me? What's that?

506
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 1: It's me and those those chat rooms? What about? Okay?

507
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: So whatever, I know, And it makes sense that you

508
00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: really haven't thought about the wedding.

509
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 2: We okay, wait, but you you guys have like a

510
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: like Abigail, you have like a vision of what kind

511
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: of wedding you want.

512
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, so definitely going with what Noahs said.

513
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 6: Definitely keeping it smaller, like on the smaller side, like

514
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 6: under one hundred people, Like we only have ten people

515
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 6: at our engagement night, and it just felt like so

516
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 6: much to try to talk to everybody and like sharing

517
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 6: that ascitement and it was only ten people, so I

518
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 6: couldn't imagine trying to.

519
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 5: Do it like a three hundred person wedding.

520
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 6: And then also just like we're working on a house too,

521
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 6: so just that project with planning. I'm just like, Okay,

522
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 6: well I don't have it.

523
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 5: I don't know.

524
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 6: It's just it's a lot of money and what not

525
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 6: for two milli bit projects in.

526
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 5: One year or so.

527
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 4: Joe, I'm still trying to recover from physically paying myself

528
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 4: at Taylor.

529
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 3: Swift just got engaged.

530
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 4: We're driving across the country at midnight tonight and turning

531
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Speaker 4: into a full chip and Joeanna games renow.

532
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 3: Do you think you're I'm not thinking about the wedding.

533
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: Do you think you're going to pee your self? Driving

534
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: to Oklahoma?

535
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 4: You're talking to an ICU nurse that's got just folies

536
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 4: all over the house. I'm slinging in ivy and throwing

537
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 4: a catherin no twenty hours maybe.

538
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so the house. So you guys bought a

539
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: house in Tulsa and now you're gonna and the goal

540
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: is to fix it up? Is that what you're doing?

541
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 4: So Abby got a house in Tulsa, and you also

542
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 4: have property. I've got a few properties in Tulsa, and

543
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 4: I used to do Reno's, so I'm gonna try to

544
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 4: pick that back up.

545
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 3: I enjoy it.

546
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 4: And yeah, so we're gonna be doing that, but the

547
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: main focus is her house, making it all nice.

548
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: Has being him and Becca's house. Any do you any

549
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: tips from them on how that's been going.

550
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,479
Speaker 6: Maybe she was like, don't let him start a view

551
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 6: projects until he finished shows long because they have a

552
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 6: bunch of like unfinished projects in the house.

553
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh yeah, talk and started touching that. I

554
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 5: can tell.

555
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 6: Okay, now he's working on this, So we're going to

556
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 6: try to go one room time.

557
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 5: Yeah.

558
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 4: Abby's just now realizing this as we're trying to pack.

559
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 3: I'm like a squirrel.

560
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 4: So we're going to go alls, have things laid out,

561
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 4: and very systematically try to do it because yeah, when

562
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 4: we go back, I'm not going.

563
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 3: To be doing a whole lot of nursing.

564
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 4: It's going to pretty much main focus be different house renovations. Squirrel,

565
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 4: different house renovations, and obviously trying to move into that space.

566
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 2: I feel like Abigail is going to go grocery shopping

567
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 2: and come home and no one's just going to have

568
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: like ripped in the dry wall, like walls knocked down,

569
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: like floorboards ripped up like in every room and like

570
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 2: what's going on? You're like, oh, hey, like just starting

571
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: the redouse.

572
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Speaker 1: Well, realistically, like timeline, what do you think because I'm

573
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: just curious, like, how long do you think you're going

574
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: to be able to get this done in the house?

575
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, work wise, I think we could finish it a

576
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 6: few months.

577
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 5: Is more. We have no pieces of furniture to our name.

578
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 6: We have no like silverware, towels, nothing, so we're just

579
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 6: like starting from square one.

580
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 5: So I think just like ice.

581
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 3: Actually yeah, yeah.

582
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 6: It will be definitely very much our home, but I

583
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 6: think we're gonna move in right away when we get

584
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 6: to Oklahoma. We're not doing any super major meno stuff,

585
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 6: but in terms of like being finally done and feeling

586
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 6: like a home, I'm hoping a year.

587
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: For it to be ready.

588
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: Joe.

589
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, like guest room setup as well.

590
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 4: I think I think I think six months of dedication,

591
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 4: but I think the first three months we'll have it, uh,

592
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 4: I mean to good standards, and then it's just like

593
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 4: finishing touches, you're always adding stuff.

594
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: Are you any like outside contractors or are you just

595
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: like I'm I'm gonn Abigail, I'm Noah, we could do

596
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 1: this ourselves. I was like a squirrel.

597
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: I guess I did grow up doing it. And yeah,

598
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 3: that whole life. I hated it.

599
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 4: Now it's like, I actually do know what I'm doing,

600
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 4: and I've done it a few times already, so I'll

601
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 4: do it a lot. But also my families from there,

602
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 4: we're like Yellowstone out there.

603
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't compare yourself to Yellows.

604
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I would love to I would love I

605
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: would love to come. That's what one of the places

606
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: I've never been to in the United States is, I've

607
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: never been to Oklahoma.

608
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you and everybody else, do.

609
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 2: You think you'll get married in Oklahoma or do you

610
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: not know?

611
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 6: I think we're leaning towards it because I also think

612
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 6: it would be really fun because not a lot of

613
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 6: our friends, like you guys, have never been to Oklahoma.

614
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 6: So I feel like when we talk about Oklahoma, I

615
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 6: think a lot of people think like we're riding in

616
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 6: a wagon, or we're living on a farm or whatnot.

617
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 6: So I think it would be really fun to celebrate

618
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 6: in Oklahoma.

619
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 5: Because that's where we're laying down roots.

620
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 6: But then also get all our friends there and kind

621
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 6: of have them see what our life is like, maybe

622
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 6: convince some people to move to Alklahoma.

623
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 5: But kind of just being a picture, this is our life.

624
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: Do you want to move to Oklahoma?

625
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: No, you're good for investment anybody, yes, would consider an

626
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: investment property out there?

627
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: No, it is. It is a great place. It's the

628
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 3: people are super nice, chill. It's a great place to

629
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 3: settle down.

630
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 4: And if you wanted to have a family, like your

631
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 4: money goes a lot further there.

632
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And so you can get bougie.

633
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 4: Lifestyle as actually for pretty cheap, can be comfortable, or

634
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 4: you can get some land if you want, and you know,

635
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 4: do all that.

636
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 2: A few reasons I say automatic, No is really just

637
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 2: one because we've never been there, so like I would

638
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: be like, I don't know what to me.

639
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 5: I never thought I was going to move to Alcoholma.

640
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: It's very Canadian.

641
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 2: And two we are at the time in our lives

642
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 2: we are right now, we are very much city people.

643
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: Whereas like, like the same way, you could never envision

644
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: yourself living in New York, Noah, Like, I don't know

645
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: if I could ever envision myself living somewhere that was

646
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 2: not near a major city, but who knows, who knows?

647
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: Differ, Noah's like a squirrel. I'm like a chameleon.

648
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 4: I feel like, well, listen. It's like a different kind

649
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 4: of grind and lifestyle. Joe likes to go try out

650
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 4: his different drinks and foods and take little thirst traps

651
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 4: and stuff like that.

652
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 3: Around the city. Honestly, don't stop. They're getting better, thank you.

653
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 3: It's just different.

654
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 4: It's just that's not really what we want right now.

655
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 4: But it's fun and it's cool. But I'm I'm I

656
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 4: don't know, I'm not the moon are set down, Yeah,

657
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 4: I just want to settle down in a different.

658
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 1: Way, will you miss?

659
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 2: Uh?

660
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: San diego?

661
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, looking at my hair?

662
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, when are you going to cut it?

663
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 2: When are you gonna cut your hair?

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Speaker 3: I was gonna cut it.

665
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 4: I was gonna surprise Abby and have it cut for

666
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Speaker 4: the proposal.

667
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, just make her black out.

668
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that obviously didn't happen.

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Speaker 5: What he's doing with that, dude.

670
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 6: After looking at some older photos like that transition face

671
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 6: from like the shorter the longer hair, I was like, Okay,

672
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 6: maybe let's just keep it the longer.

673
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 3: I I was gonna get it cut.

674
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 4: I had it set up and everything, and I got

675
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 4: like three compliments in the same day because I was

676
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 4: wearing this certain kind of bun, I guess, and I

677
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 4: was like, I can't.

678
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 3: I can't do it. So I'm just like.

679
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: The people like Noah with the long hair. You got

680
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: to give the people that they want here. I mean,

681
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Speaker 2: you know what, Abigail, I'm convinced though, you're just like

682
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: used to it, and also like you have spent so

683
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: much time with.

684
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Speaker 3: Him now and it looks good.

685
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 2: I will never I will not pipe down.

686
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: He likes how it looks Okay, just leave it at that.

687
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 3: Trying to convince her that she doesn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying she just like it. I'm just saying like,

689
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Speaker 2: I feel like you've had it for so long, and

690
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,959
Speaker 2: she spends so much time with you in love with

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00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 2: the long hair, like she just she's attached to it.

692
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 2: But I'm not saying you don't look good. I'm just saying, like,

693
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: I think she's just like grown to love this long hair.

694
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 4: Listen, I'm a realistic man. I know it's overdue. It's

695
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 4: been overdue for a while. Okay, haven't got around.

696
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Speaker 5: Very similar hair it though, like we actually have like

697
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 5: the same color.

698
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: You know, what's your dog?

699
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 5: Yeah?

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00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 3: I just.

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00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: I was like, you look like Maki.

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00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: You are an athletic Abigail, do you have a strong

703
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: opinion on if Noah, like, do you want traditional tuxedo?

704
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: Or you're gonna let Noah do his own thing fashion fun?

705
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: What does do my own thing means?

706
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: Well, it's going to be it's whatever. Are you a

707
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: traditional tuxedo guy? When you guys get married, do you

708
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: see yourself wearing a traditional talks?

709
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 6: So I think we're too casual for like a really

710
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 6: formal wedding.

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00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 5: I just don't think that's like us.

712
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 6: But he definitely needs to talk to me about what

713
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 6: he's going to be wearing. We're not going to do

714
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 6: like yepping way out.

715
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 3: There to be simple, classy elegance.

716
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: Nothing, You're not going to see me in a bow tie.

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Speaker 1: No I wanted to wear. So I've kind of done

719
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: my own thing with he's for the wedding. But Serena

720
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: was really strongly against me wearing a white bow tie,

721
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: and I really wanted to wear.

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00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: White color though, what's your what are the rest of

723
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 3: the colors?

724
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: Well, for for the actual wedding.

725
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 3: If it's only a white bow tie and nothing.

726
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: Else, that's all. That's really all I wanted to do.

727
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you're I mean, you look good in a

728
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 4: bow tie kind of it's it's me Joe, you know,

729
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 4: like Italian like you look it.

730
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: Was a terrible, terrible impression. But yeah, like I want

731
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: to go I really want to go that traditional Like

732
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: James Bond Black talks with.

733
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: A black bow tie and he tried to switch to

734
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 2: a white bow tie and I agreed with, Yeah.

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00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: That was a white bow tie. Huh.

736
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 3: That look goofy.

737
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: That was the only thing stance on that black.

738
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 3: Is just so sleek, especially on you have black hair.

739
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: Just do the whole thing.

740
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: Thank you.

741
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: How about kids?

742
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 3: Should you announce it? You guys know your produce.

743
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: No, that'd be great, that'd be great if you actually

744
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 2: could give us a decision right now.

745
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 4: I don't want to have kids, I think. I mean

746
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 4: we've talked about it. I don't want to have kids

747
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 4: until later.

748
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I'm twenty eight, early thirty.

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00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean have no say have you Have you

750
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: talked about how many kids you want?

751
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 6: So I always said I want to see how the

752
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 6: first childbirth goes, Like that's the part that scares me

753
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 6: the most, Like if I have a really.

754
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 5: Traumatic childbirth, we'll talk again after that.

755
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 6: But I think right now, we're thinking between two and four,

756
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 6: and you would love twins.

757
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I come from eleven kids, so I think nothing's

758
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 4: sort of like fifteen continue to continue the tradition. No,

759
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 4: I think yeah, five is a max. I would love

760
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 4: twins and like, you know, a little princess daughter.

761
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,719
Speaker 2: But don't twins usually skip a generation, so you're not

762
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: Wouldn't it be your kids that are likely to have

763
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: twins because you're a twin know what?

764
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 4: Okayamous science, I'm just trying to manage expectations here, but

765
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 4: we like, my mom's brothers are twins and she still

766
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 4: had twins. But she also had eleven kids. There's a

767
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 4: lot of twins in her family line, and by the

768
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 4: time we have kids, we'll probably just be able to

769
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 4: click like a couple. Buttons and I have twins, so

770
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 4: I won't be mad if I don't have twins.

771
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 3: That's just that would be nice.

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00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: My dad is a My dad's a triplet and has

773
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: twin sisters, so yeah, there's.

774
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 2: A chance, good chance we're getting twins.

775
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, this was lovely catching up. We're gonna let

776
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: you guys go because we've taken up a lot of

777
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: your time and you have to drive twenty four hours

778
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 1: to twenty two hours, pack, do your whole thing, Abigail,

779
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 1: I really do. I wish you the best.

780
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,240
Speaker 2: Good luck on that drive.

781
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: But no, guys, honestly, we're we're so happy for you.

782
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: We can't wait to see you at our wedding.

783
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 2: And yeah, you could take notes on everything that you

784
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: love and everything you despise at our wedding and rug.

785
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 3: Me won't won't be hard watching.

786
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 2: Joe at least try to hide the no pad no up.

787
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, we we love you, guys. Excited for the wedding.

788
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,959
Speaker 4: We're hoping, you know, we go make Tulsa home base

789
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 4: and then you know, if we want to come out

790
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 4: to California for a month or Chicago.

791
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 3: For a couple of weeks, we can tour New York.

792
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 3: I'm saying, we can travel around.

793
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 4: We're just gonna go make a home base and then

794
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 4: kind of also travel around and have fun.

795
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: Nice Well yeah you got MOCKI but no kids, so

796
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 2: you can do that and that's I feel like the

797
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: fun of it all. And it's going to be I'm

798
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: excited to see all the rennos, the new Chip and

799
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 2: Joanna Gain of Bachelor Nation come to life.

800
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 4: I am excited too, and I'm excited for however many

801
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 4: other dogs advocates.

802
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 2: But yeah, and you probably won't know in advance. Didn't

803
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: you decide, like that day you went and got a.

804
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 3: Filled we're getting a dog, I say, twenty four hours later.

805
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 2: Wow, you had a big few weeks. You got a house,

806
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 2: you got a dog. Yeah, you got engaged, and now

807
00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 2: you're moving. That's crazy.

808
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: If you guys want to do something, if you guys

809
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: want to do something for I keep saying this, I

810
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: really want to do something for New Year's I want

811
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: to go.

812
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 2: I know we're going to go to Japan with them.

813
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: Maybe let's really want to Okay, we'll talk off off

814
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 1: I mean the the Mexico trip.

815
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. I thought you'd be better. I

816
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 4: thought you'd be more fun. I thought you'd be I feel.

817
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: The same way about it. I feel the same way

818
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: about you.

819
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 3: I'm willing to get another shot at least your at

820
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: least your cool.

821
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: I actually thought we had a great time, though I

822
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: was with the territory.

823
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 3: Well that's all.

824
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,919
Speaker 6: We'll let you guys figure out.

825
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: You know what this podcast is done. You know it's

826
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 2: been on a high note.

827
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 5: Let's end it now, all right.

828
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: Noah and Abagail, thank you so much into our listeners. Uh,

829
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,919
Speaker 1: we love you guys. Thank you for listening to these

830
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: exclusive interviews and episodes. I hope you guys really like them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 2: No and Abigail thanks again and listeners, we will see

833
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 2: you soon. Be sure to tune in next week for

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00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 2: our Mental All recap and we will have new episodes

835
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Speaker 2: dropping every week, so be sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 3: Thank you bye, thanks for having us on