1 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: tip is to talk on Thursday to plan on Friday 4 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: before you do your weekly planning. You can have a 5 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: conversation with anyone whose schedule will affect yours that will 6 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: allow you to plan more strategically. Longtime listeners know that 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: one of my core time management rules is to plan 8 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: on Fridays. I think every busy person needs a designated 9 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: weekly planning time when they think about the upcoming week 10 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: and think about what they need and want to do. 11 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 1: Fridays tend to be a good time for this, as 12 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: they are generally slower. You can think about the upcoming 13 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 1: week and if you want, and then you can hit 14 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: the ground Monday ready to go. But life tends to 15 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,839 Speaker 1: be a team sport, and so one of the first 16 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: questions people ask me about this is when they should 17 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: talk to other people about their schedules. If they plan 18 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: on Friday, do they need to call their spouses during 19 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: this time, chat with their managers during this time, text 20 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: with their teens. If you want, you can do all 21 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: of these things, and I often do wind up reaching 22 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: out to people as part of my planning. For instance, 23 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 1: I might see that I have time to run our 24 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: walk on a particular morning, so I'll text a friend 25 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: about getting together. But a quick text isn't going to 26 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: get someone's entire schedule sent to you if you need that. 27 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: For instance, let's say your teenager has a job but 28 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: can't drive himself to his workplace yet. If you are 29 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: going to be responsible for some of these rides, then 30 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: you will need to know your child's work schedule as 31 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: you plan your week. Or perhaps your spouse sometimes has 32 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: to cover an evening shift, or would like to go 33 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: help a relative with a project on the weekend. These 34 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: things will all affect your schedule, and of course, if 35 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: you'd like to do things as a family during the 36 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: course of the week, you will need to talk about 37 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: what those things are. You can train people to send 38 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: you their schedules or to upload their work schedules to 39 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: a family calendar, and if that works, amazing, But I 40 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: also know that might be expecting a bit much of 41 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: someone who is, say, fifteen years old. I am also 42 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: taking a wild guess that if you are listening to 43 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: before breakfast, you might be more adept at keeping schedules 44 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: straight than other people in your family, which might include 45 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: your spouse. He meant to tell you about the weekend 46 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 1: meet up with Grandma, but he forgot, and your manager 47 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: is something else entirely. She probably isn't going to sit 48 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: down and spell out everything for you that might affect 49 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,839 Speaker 1: your workflow over the next week, so you can get 50 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: in the habit of asking people about their schedules. If 51 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: you will be planning on Friday, then try to have 52 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: a conversation on Thursday with anyone whose schedule will affect yours. 53 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 1: Ask your manager if she says anything big happening next week, 54 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: or if there are deadlines or new projects you should 55 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: be aware of. Talk with your spouse about his or 56 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: her work schedule and personal commitments. If you have family 57 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: dinner on Thursdays, talk with your kids about what they 58 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: have going on next week and what you should know about. 59 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: Hopefully this will nudge the thought of, oh, yeah, my 60 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: manager wanted me to cover an extra shift next Saturday. 61 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: These conversations don't have to be long or drawn out. 62 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: You are just trying to get through the next seven days. 63 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: But once you know about any big things going on 64 00:03:55,200 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: in other people's schedules, you can plan more strategically, and 65 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: you can also feel fine drawing a boundary around what 66 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: you will and won't do. If someone forgets to tell 67 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: you about something when you specifically asked about this, then 68 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: that person may need to come up with their own solutions. 69 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: You help when given the chance to help. If not 70 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: given the chance, well that might be on them. I 71 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: send my family's schedule around on Friday after I've created it, 72 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: and it often does prompt some back and forth. Still, 73 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: at that point, maybe someone sees something else that needs 74 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 1: to be added or taken off, and at that point 75 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: it is still fine. It's the last minute stuff that's 76 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,119 Speaker 1: a lot harder. But having a conversation on Thursday before 77 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: you plan on Friday can help keep everything running on time. 78 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and 79 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our time. Thanks for 80 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: listening to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, 81 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: you can reach me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. 82 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartMedia. For more podcasts 83 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: from iHeartMedia, please visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or 84 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: wherever you listen to your favorite shows,