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Speaker 1: Kiki's got one go yes, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: So I am trying to be a good sport, a

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Speaker 4: good friend in all the things, and support Kaylin in

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Speaker 4: her Halloween efforts.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: She has expressed that she plans to celebrate Halloween and

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Speaker 4: she would like for us to do it as a team,

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Speaker 4: and so I'm like, okay, I'm going to get on board.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 4: I'm running into an issue though, because why are all

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Speaker 4: of the adult Halloween costumes sexy? Like can't wait, Like, who,

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Speaker 4: what's wrong with the world? Because I just want to

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Speaker 4: be a regular scarecrow or something. Looking up scarecrow costumes,

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Speaker 4: she got on three Uh what is his knee hat boot? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she got on fish net stockings. Like what scarecrow?

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Speaker 7: Is this that?

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Speaker 1: I'm okay?

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Speaker 4: Maybe I can be poison ivy. She has on an

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Speaker 4: evening gown with a V deep deep V cut.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what a yes?

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Speaker 4: Are all these costumes so sexy? Bro?

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Speaker 1: Can I just be a nurse? Like I just want

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Speaker 1: to be a nurse?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, you can't know. You certainly can't be

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Speaker 2: a nurse. No, that that one's not No, it has

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Speaker 2: to be sexy. Everyone knows that.

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Speaker 4: Every one of these costumes is sexy. I'm talking about

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Speaker 4: Super Mario, you know, I'm Batwoman, Daphne from Scooby Dude.

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Speaker 4: You know everybody is sexy, And can I just be Tinkerbelle?

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Speaker 1: I'm over this? Like can we?

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be sexy on Halloween. I just

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Speaker 4: want to be scary or like a little ugly costume.

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Speaker 4: Why are all of these costumes so sexy?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 1: I think that's that's what Halloween has become.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's become like, take whatever you want

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Speaker 2: to do and then make it sexy and then that's Halloween.

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Speaker 4: I don't want this, can I like even the referee

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Speaker 4: for it? Wonder Woman a baseball player? Why she got

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Speaker 4: on a two piece? I'm looking at super Woman's clappers.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see this. It's so annoying.

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Speaker 4: And you know, I'm a fluffy, a fine woman, so

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Speaker 4: I need some coverage. You want to be out here

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Speaker 4: trigger treating with the kids and my thighs out and

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Speaker 4: it's just so much and I'm over it, like I'm

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Speaker 4: about I don't even know. Maybe I need to look

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Speaker 4: up the men costumes. Yeah, like why does Scooby Doo

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Speaker 1: It's like.

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Speaker 2: It's like a police officer costume, except you're wearing that

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Speaker 2: Kim Gardashian thong?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Why like why, oh my goodness, sexy Oscar the Grouse.

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Speaker 1: We will make anything sexy. You did say you wanted

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Speaker 1: to be a man of some sort.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I cannot just be a man because at this

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Speaker 4: point these costumes is it's just not giving what it's

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Speaker 4: costumes too, especially if you have children. It's insane.

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Speaker 1: Sexy skunk.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I need to look this up. I need to

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Speaker 2: what it's like a black neglige with a tail or

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Speaker 3: What She's got a black tube dress on with some

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Speaker 3: a tiny dress and uh yeah, she's a sexy skunk.

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Speaker 4: They've made the FedEx worker costume sexy like this is

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Speaker 4: getting out of hambro I can't be a construction worker.

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Speaker 4: I can't be a strawberry, you know, Arsen look at

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Speaker 4: butt pas and I don't know why we're doing this.

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Speaker 3: So am I going to show up in a costume

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Speaker 3: on Friday at our live show and it's gonna just

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to work with you, but at this point

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Speaker 4: I might just dress up and spree it because any

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Speaker 4: other options unless I want to be half naked.

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Speaker 1: It's cold down here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I guess we know what what Calin's going

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Speaker 2: to be sexy skunk. I mean she laser focused on

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Speaker 3: So yeah, well I'm just wow, Plena, you love Lee,

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: I will be Michael Myers this year.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I got face mask?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I got it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I got the face mask and I got the

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Speaker 7: what is it?

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Speaker 1: It's like a garage guy the jumpsuit. Yeah, like a

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Speaker 1: mechanic in a mechanic shop. Yeah, so don't want to

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Speaker 1: borrow that. I got you, guys. I also have chunky.

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Speaker 1: I got it all.

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Speaker 2: And it's either sexy or it's like wildly inappropriate. I

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Speaker 2: feel like, for example, you can get a breathalyzer costume,

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Speaker 2: but it has the breathalyzer thing like for a guy

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Speaker 2: like down there, see and like you do walk around

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Speaker 2: with that like why, like it's not necessary?

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Speaker 1: I mean, sexy corn on the cob, Jason, look at this?

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Speaker 1: Corn leads for.

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Speaker 7: Like the bedroom because I'm the link sexy corn.

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Speaker 1: We've been maybe for two years, you know we Yeah, let.

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Speaker 2: Me tell you when I see it. When I see

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Speaker 2: a corn on the cob, that's what I know, it's time.

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Speaker 2: It's it's definitely time.

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Speaker 8: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Uh none, costume, Wait till I see you a picture

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Speaker 2: Not a sexy Yeah, isn't that an oxymoron?

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Speaker 1: Sexy?

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Speaker 2: None?

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Speaker 1: It's stay or go all right? Uh? Julian, Julian, how

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Speaker 1: are you doing? Good morning?

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Speaker 8: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: So this is stair go and people hit us up

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Speaker 2: on all the various social platforms. Fret your radio, Frets

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Speaker 1: That's basically what this segment is. So what's going on

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Speaker 1: with this guy?

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Speaker 2: This is a guy that you recently were asked out

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Speaker 2: by and you're excited about it.

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Speaker 1: But there's a problem, so he explained.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so recently, I've been talking to this guy that

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Speaker 9: I'm really really interested.

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Speaker 10: He's so cool, very sweet, very down to earth, my

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Speaker 10: kind of guy. He's like the male version of me,

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Speaker 10: which I think is really really cool.

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Speaker 2: He's great, if I do say so myself. He's a

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Speaker 2: lot of these basically just like me, which is why

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Speaker 2: I like him so much. Okay, all right, fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so.

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Speaker 10: We've been talking, we've been flirting. I'm so into it.

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Speaker 10: But the second he asked me out, I kind of panicked.

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Speaker 10: And the reason I panicked is because about sometime last year,

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Speaker 10: for about three months, I was casually hooking up with

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Speaker 10: his friend. But it was just hooking up. I never

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Speaker 10: then that was it. It was more like friends with benefits.

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Speaker 10: That's the best way I could describe that as friends

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Speaker 10: with benefits.

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Speaker 9: And the guy that I'm currently about to go out

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Speaker 9: and then the guy that I'm seeing might say to me, well,

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Speaker 9: why didn't you tell me that earlier? I had to

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Speaker 9: hear it from him, so that puts me in an

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Speaker 9: before it even starts and just.

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Speaker 1: You know, be like whatever, No, I have a few questions.

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Speaker 1: That's not my happiness, you know, right, But I have

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Speaker 1: a few questions. So this was hooking up.

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Speaker 2: There was there was no you didn't you weren't in love,

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Speaker 2: you weren't dating, There was no really death to it.

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Speaker 2: It was just it was what it was. It was

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Speaker 2: surface correct, Yeah, okay, And then how close are these guys, they're.

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Speaker 10: Best friend since childhood, they met in elementary school.

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Speaker 2: Oh great, and I think he know, he probably knows.

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Speaker 2: How do you know for a fact he doesn't know?

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Speaker 2: I mean, because like I don't know, I know who

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Speaker 2: my best friends are getting with for the most parts,

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Speaker 2: and I can tell you that if my best friend

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Speaker 2: pops up with a girl that I hooked up with, uh,

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Speaker 2: you know, more than once or twice even maybe, then

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Speaker 2: I probably would say something to them because I don't

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Speaker 2: want them to feel like they don't have the information

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Speaker 2: from me. So but okay, So what makes you think

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Speaker 2: he doesn't know?

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Speaker 10: I mean, he's never brought it up to mean.

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Speaker 2: Is that something you're like, Hey, you know, I love

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Speaker 2: that you slept with my friend for three months, Like

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Speaker 2: I love that about you, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It would be a strange thing to bring up, But

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Speaker 2: like I guess, if I saw something going where somewhere

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Speaker 2: with someone more serious and I knew about this, I

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Speaker 2: And wouldn't you guys agree? Maybe you don't, but eight

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Speaker 2: So I like that because if you don't say anything

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Speaker 2: it's still not fair for him to judge you based on,

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Speaker 2: So I suppose you could establish you know, the air

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Speaker 2: of or not the error that you're being transparent, right,

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Speaker 2: and again, you like this guy, you haven't known him

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Speaker 2: by this. It's going to be catastrophic. Yeah, but let

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Speaker 2: me take some phone calls on this street. Let's see

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Speaker 2: what other people I have to say.

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Speaker 1: Paulina, what you're doing over there?

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Speaker 7: You guys love giving your power away and it really

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Speaker 1: I hate to see you.

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Speaker 7: You guys know how I feel when there's a fight

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Speaker 1: Because like you might screw up. You need that AMMO

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Speaker 2: It is so it is so unhealthy, Polana, to hang

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Speaker 2: onto these nuggets so that you can deeply cut someone

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Speaker 2: I love you so much. That is such an awful

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm working on it. I am in therapy.

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Speaker 7: My up it to twice a week at this point because.

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm at.

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Speaker 7: But I only say that because people like to. I

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Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. You have to like be.

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Speaker 2: Get each other, Like we have to auge the level

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Speaker 2: Not every time you disagree, do you need to be

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Speaker 2: But what you're never gonna move past is when it's

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Speaker 2: like you never wash the dishes, Paulina. Yeah, you know what,

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Speaker 2: and I bang your best friend. You know you're right,

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Speaker 2: that's how it would go. Yeah, the big stuff you

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Speaker 2: don't know. Let me take some phone costs, Julianne, have

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Speaker 2: I hate the fact that you harbor this stuff because

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Speaker 1: And I don't want that to happen to you.

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Speaker 7: And I'm not like trying to hurt people, but I'm

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Speaker 1: Like something big. Then I think it's always good to

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Speaker 1: What if he doesn't chat? I hope he doesn't.

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Speaker 3: He probably won't like just like a liar holding something

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Speaker 7: Well, if it's like something I would use later, you

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Speaker 2: Why Why are you holding onto things too? Why I

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Speaker 1: I don't like it at all. It's so toxicy, it's

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Speaker 2: I say this only from the perspective of my care

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Speaker 6: Person off?

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Speaker 11: Paulina?

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Speaker 5: You're hilarious, But I do agree with Fred. But with

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Speaker 5: Like I'm telling you she's she's doing some work over there.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, now you're like you're trying not to hurt him,

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Speaker 1: Knew you know it's funny.

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Speaker 2: You know that that's not good information for me to

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Speaker 5: Well, then that's when you meet Paul Leiner's method of

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Speaker 1: Mom. Keep my mom's name out of your mouth. I

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Speaker 2: God, people, you guys are ruthless, Like when did I?

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Speaker 2: I am not the most sensitive human being, but like,

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Speaker 1: Julie, Yes, hey for going. Good morning stire goo.

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Speaker 2: So this woman she called us because she met a

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Speaker 2: but I don't know how much I should disclose because

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Speaker 1: What do you think.

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Speaker 11: I would ask the friend with benefits if he said anything,

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Speaker 11: did you tell him? Because I want to date him

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Speaker 2: I don't know how i'd feel about that further communication

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Speaker 11: Really puts him on the spot. So if he does

442
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Speaker 11: know and it doesn't bother him, now it's awkward because you're.

443
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

444
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Speaker 11: It depends on how much and how long was she

445
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,679
Speaker 11: with the guy the friends with benefits? Was this like

446
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,400
Speaker 11: a one off or was this a round?

447
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,280
Speaker 2: I said a few months to a couple of months,

448
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:09,959
Speaker 2: I think is what she said. Yeah, so it was,

449
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 2: but she insists that there was nothing more.

450
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 11: So right, but they had to have had some level

451
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Speaker 11: of friendship if they were hooking up on a regular

452
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Speaker 11: basis for several months. So I think i'd still reach

453
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Speaker 11: out and see where things you're at with him? Is

454
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Speaker 11: he dating somebody now? Has he said anything?

455
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

456
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,159
Speaker 11: I would I would want to know.

457
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Speaker 1: Before fair enough, Thank you, Julie, no problem.

458
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Speaker 2: I hate to say this would bother me, but it

459
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Speaker 2: would And that's not mature of me, because everybody has

460
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,600
Speaker 2: a past, including me. But I wouldn't love it, and

461
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 2: it I want to believe that it wouldn't stand in

462
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Speaker 2: the way of the person that I'm supposed to be with,

463
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Speaker 2: But I wouldn't love it. I would not love the

464
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 2: fact that my best friend knows what I know and

465
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Speaker 2: that this could be the person that I'm with forever

466
00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,400
Speaker 2: that I cherish the most and and I share that

467
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Speaker 2: with him.

468
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't love it. Yeah, that's honest,

469
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 1: for sure.

470
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Speaker 2: But I think I think that's a little bit immature

471
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 2: because again, like you could go through my inventory and

472
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 2: find things you don't like either, if you chose to,

473
00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: but I didn't know you then, So hey, Kylie Ki,

474
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:14,879
Speaker 2: good morning.

475
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Speaker 1: Hi Kylie, what do you think stare go?

476
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Speaker 8: She should say, but she really needs to communicate that

477
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:25,160
Speaker 8: with you know, the student too, hopefully soon to be boyfriend.

478
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,679
Speaker 8: I actually met my boyfriend on the dating app, and

479
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 8: on our first date, he kind of let me know

480
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 8: that he was still close with a lot of friends

481
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Speaker 8: he actually met on the apps that just they didn't

482
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Speaker 8: work out, but you know, they were still talking and

483
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 8: hanging out and we've been together for four years and

484
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 8: we're still you know, a part of that friend group.

485
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Speaker 8: So I think that the communication is just really key.

486
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Speaker 8: She just needs to tell him and if he really

487
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Speaker 8: likes her, I mean he'll choose d you know, be

488
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Speaker 8: in a relationship with her.

489
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Speaker 2: Yeah sure, yeah yeah, fair enough, good advice. Thank you,

490
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Speaker 2: have a good day.

491
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Speaker 8: Thank you guys.

492
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Speaker 1: All Right, I don't know final say Kiki, tell him,

493
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: don't tell him. Man, I'm thinking about what Paulina said.

494
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: We might need to have some ammost you.

495
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 2: Guys stop it. But well, you guys, I started to

496
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: sound like Cayman. Now, now you guys, knock it off. Yeah, now,

497
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 2: you guys, that is the wrong thing to do. I

498
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: got a text right when I started talking. It made

499
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 2: me laugh, like I need to put my phone away

500
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,679
Speaker 2: when we're doing this program. It's too distracting from me.

501
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 2: Like I'm getting real time commentary on people. I got

502
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: people texting me now going uh, since when did you

503
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 2: become the moral police.

504
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not the role police. I just say it.

505
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Speaker 2: I don't you know what it is. It's that my mom,

506
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: my mom, who I love more than anything. She fights

507
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: that way where she waits, she holds onto the bomb

508
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,159
Speaker 2: and then she'll she'll drop the bomb when she's losing

509
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 2: the argument and wants it to be over, and then

510
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 2: she'll say the thing you know, and you're like ah,

511
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 2: and then you're you know, you're paralyzed. You can't do anything,

512
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 2: and it's like this tastes a terrible way to fight

513
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 2: because then you have to undo the thing that you

514
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 2: said before you get back to the issue, which is

515
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 2: why I don't like to get like a knockdown drag

516
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 2: ass with people. And people call that in the fight

517
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 2: or flight argument. They call that the flight, but I

518
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 2: they do yeah, well, but I mean people are like, well,

519
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 2: you're you're a guy. You run from arguments, you don't

520
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 2: like conflicts, Like, no, I'll do the conflict, but I'm

521
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: really mad. I don't understand what we have to just

522
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 2: scream at each other because and just say whatever comes

523
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Speaker 2: to mind, because then it's like, okay, Then when we

524
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: finally you're reconvene, then we got to talk about all

525
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 2: the stuff that we said that had nothing to do

526
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: with the fight and get past that and then address

527
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 2: the fight, which was probably about a fork and the

528
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: sink or something, you know, And then it's like, yeah,

529
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 2: but you remember when you slept with so much, and

530
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 2: it's like, oh ah, and then you got to undo that,

531
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 2: you know. And maybe the point is that you're never

532
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: gonna undo it depending on what you say. But maybe

533
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 2: you want to be able to do undo it, but

534
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: you can't.

535
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 3: You gotta fight fair, is what I always try and say.

536
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 3: It's not easy, but it's certainly a good tool to have.

537
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 2: That's what Caitlyn always says. She's always said, I do

538
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 2: like you going when you go to her house. She's

539
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: got one of those in this house things we fight fair.

540
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, incursive yeah, yeah, no, yeah, it's got it

541
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: from epsy.

542
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

543
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: Next, yeah, right, that one. I want to welcome a

544
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 2: very famous special guest. Her name is Caitlin. Good morning, Caitlin.

545
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: Good morning. Now, Caitlin.

546
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 2: People might know you because you have gone wildly viral

547
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 2: in the last I don't know how what has it

548
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 2: been forty eight seventy two hours. It's just a few

549
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 2: days since you became since and people don't necessarily know

550
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about yet, but I mean, this has

551
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 2: been what less than a week?

552
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, it's.

553
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 6: Been since Friday, so just a few days.

554
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Speaker 2: So Caitlyn is Lila's mom and Lilah is two years old.

555
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 2: And you've probably heard of this, of this duo because

556
00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 2: Taylor Swift donated one hundred thousand dollars to your GoFundMe

557
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 2: for your daughter who is battling a rare form of

558
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 2: brain cancer stage four. But this, this is the mom

559
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 2: and daughter duo that you've been hearing about that's gone viral.

560
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: So first of all, we're wishing the best Tolilah. And

561
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: I understand she had surgery and now she's going through

562
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Speaker 2: some treatment. But what's the most importantly what is the prognosis, Like,

563
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 2: what's the outlook?

564
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 6: Oh so well, thank you for praying for us and

565
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 6: thinking about us. The prognosis isn't the greatest our. Doctors

566
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 6: don't really like to talk about it too much because

567
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 6: it's you know, it brings us down. But she has

568
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 6: about a forty percent survival of the next five years.

569
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 6: Over the next two years is when her chances of

570
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 6: death are like way higher. The most deaths occur in

571
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Speaker 6: the first two years of diagnosis, so the odds are

572
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Speaker 6: not in our favor at this moment.

573
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 2: But it's why you know, you having the resources that

574
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 2: you need to get the best care for Lilah are

575
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 2: so important, which I'm sure is where the gofund me

576
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 2: came from. And so Taylor saw the video of your

577
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 2: little girl singing along to a song and saying that

578
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: that was her friend.

579
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Speaker 1: That's how this all started, right, Yeah.

580
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 6: It all started with Sila. She's just amazing.

581
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Speaker 2: Okay, so you listened to Taylor while you were pregnant

582
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 2: with her, and so you're saying, I've read that she

583
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: is a Swiftie from birth. But how did the video

584
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 2: come about? What did she say? And then when did

585
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 2: you find out that Taylor had donated?

586
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so the video.

587
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 6: Started because I was just listening to Taylor's new album

588
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 6: and Lyla heard it and she says, that's Taylor Swift.

589
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 8: Mom.

590
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 6: I was like, oh, see it is, and she's like,

591
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 6: I really want to listen to it. So I set

592
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 6: up the iPad for her on the new music video

593
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 6: for her, and I just heard filming because I film

594
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 6: everything she does, and she's just dancing along and out

595
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 6: of nowhere, she looks at the video of Taylor and

596
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 6: she goes, that's my friend, and it kind of took

597
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 6: me by surprise. I didn't realize what she said. I'm like,

598
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 6: did you just say she's your friend. He's like yeah,

599
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 6: and it just went viral from there. Everyone started tagging Taylor.

600
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 6: I didn't expect anything to come of it. I just

601
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 6: wanted to, you know, show Lila. And on Friday, my

602
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 6: husband called me up and he's like, Taylor Swift just

603
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 6: gave us one hundred thousand dollars. Like that's how he

604
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 6: opened the conversation.

605
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,360
Speaker 1: Wow, that is amazing.

606
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 2: So so she must have seen the video then, and

607
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 2: it is the cutest video. Leila is a beautiful little girl.

608
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 2: And and so that was I think it was what

609
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 2: and it's sixty thousand of one hundred thousand, that was

610
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: your goal, I believe if I have that right. And

611
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: then she donated one hundred thousand dollars and then since

612
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 2: then Swift Tisa started to donate and as of this morning,

613
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 2: he was like at three hundred and thirty thousand dollars, right, correct.

614
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, So our goal I think was a right around

615
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 6: sixty thousand, and we had a little bit over fifty

616
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 6: rays before Taylor donated. Once she donated, like, we were

617
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 6: just blown away. I didn't think anything more would come

618
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 6: of it. And then the Swifties have almost doubled her

619
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 6: donation now in less than forty eight hours, and it

620
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 6: has been insane.

621
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: That is amazing.

622
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 2: And I did see you online yesterday, and I hate

623
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 2: that you even have to address this, Caitlin, but you

624
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: gotta love the internet, and I say that fantastically. Everyone's

625
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 2: got to have an opinion. And so you obviously have

626
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 2: blown past your goal by a lot, and there's been

627
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 2: a lot of generosity out there, and this has all

628
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: happened so quickly. But I saw that you made a

629
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 2: video and I hate that you even had to make

630
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: it addressing the people who are saying, well, are you

631
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 2: going to give this money to other people? First of all,

632
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 2: I think you should be able to process this. Second

633
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: of all, and you made this point and our show

634
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: we in the Chicagoland area, We work with a lot

635
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,479
Speaker 2: of different organizations who deal with children with pediatric cancer.

636
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: And you have no idea the resources that you will need.

637
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: And you were given this blessing of over three hundred

638
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 2: thousand dollars and I'm sure that you'll find a way

639
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: to pay it forward, but you might need that.

640
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: That's right.

641
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 6: And the thing is is that we don't know how

642
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 6: much treatment's going to cost at the end of all

643
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 6: of this, and we don't know what treatment she's going

644
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 6: to need surpass what we're doing already. I know that

645
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 6: our insurance has been built at least a million dollars

646
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 6: for only one round us one of sure five that

647
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 6: she has gone through, So I know that it costs

648
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 6: a lot, and I don't know how much is covered.

649
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 6: We don't have a bill at the beginning, right. It

650
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 6: takes months for insurance to process things. So when we

651
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 6: started our GoFundMe, we don't like asking for things. We're

652
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 6: very you know, prideful people. We didn't want to ask

653
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 6: for help. So we actually originally started our gofunding with

654
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 6: achul of five thousand dollars because you're like, well, we

655
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 6: don't know what we need. That will probably help us

656
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 6: just we'll see, like food and groceries while we're going

657
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 6: through this, And while our community rallied behind us and

658
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 6: supported us, and we realized how many more expenses it

659
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Speaker 6: was going to be, we slowly started raising it and

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Speaker 6: we just kind of capted at sixty but it wasn't

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Speaker 6: because that's how much we needed.

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Speaker 11: That was just what we were comfortable, you know, like asking.

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Speaker 6: Or we don't want to be trying to ask for

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Speaker 6: too much. We don't want to take advantage of anyone,

665
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Speaker 6: but treatment in itself, like we don't know how much

666
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 6: the cost is.

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Speaker 2: Right, so you have far surpassed your goal, and Taylor

668
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: helped you do it, and the swiftiest helps you do it.

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Speaker 2: But I mean the idea that you don't have to

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Speaker 2: justify to anybody what you do with this money or

671
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Speaker 2: how much you I don't think people have any idea

672
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,479
Speaker 2: to your point, how much it costs to fight this,

673
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Speaker 2: and you know, the travel that you may incur, or

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Speaker 2: the specialists that you may visit, or who knows, maybe

675
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: somewhere across the world they have a better solution for Lilah,

676
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 2: your daughter, and if and now you have the resources

677
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: to be able to do that. And I'm certain that

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Speaker 2: not only are you raising awareness right now, but I

679
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: think also I'm sure you'll find a way to pay

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00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 2: it for it. But I saw you yesterday having to

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Speaker 2: justify this, and I hated to see it because I

682
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 2: don't think you should have to worry about that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thank you. It's we are eventually going to do something.

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Speaker 6: We have tons of like, even if it's not a money,

685
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 6: terry thing. We are going to pay it forward and

686
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 6: someway once we are in that position to do so.

687
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Speaker 3: You take your blessing, just focus on that little one

688
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Speaker 3: and get through this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, And this is Caitlin and her daughter.

690
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: Lylah is the two year old in the viral video

691
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Speaker 2: that you've probably seen. Taylor Swift donated one hundred thousand

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00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 2: dollars to the campaign. Now, I don't know if I've

693
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: read this or not, but have you heard from Taylor

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Speaker 2: directly in any way since all of this, I'll be

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Speaker 2: aside from one hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 6: No, we haven't heard anything from Taylor, nor do I

697
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Speaker 6: expect to a lot of people keep saying, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 6: you're totally going to meet her. I have no expectation

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Speaker 6: for her to ever say anything. She has blessed our family.

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Speaker 6: She has done more than enough and more than I

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Speaker 6: could ever even imagine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, look we all we wish you the best.

703
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: We wish Lyah the best. Such a beautiful little girl

704
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: in an amazing story. And you know, people are going

705
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 2: to say what they want about Taylor and about the Swifties,

706
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: but she is generous and she is thoughtful, and she

707
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 2: does step up, and so does her fan base. I'm

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00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: surprised they have any money left, by the way, after

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Speaker 2: buying all all.

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00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: The stuff, you know.

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00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we hope to keep in touch of there's

712
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 2: anything that we can do here to help you, please

713
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 2: let us know. And obviously wishing you and your family

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00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 2: the very best, and thanks for taking the time to

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Speaker 2: talk to us.

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Speaker 6: Thank you so much for sharing your story. I really

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00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:16,959
Speaker 6: appreciate it.

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00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: Of course, all us to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be strong, have a great morning, and we will

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00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: post the uh, we'll post that video if we haven't already,

721
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 2: and then let's post the GoFundMe too if anybody wants

722
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: to help out in any way there as well.

723
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Speaker 1: And I mean, what an amazing story.

724
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: And and the strength of that mom, you know, to

725
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: be able to tell the story over and over again.

726
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: And of course the internet has got an internet. Stop it, guys,

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00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: stop interneting.

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00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I mean that's If that doesn't show where

729
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 3: we're at in our world, I don't know what does.

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00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 3: She does not need to defend or explain her blessing.

731
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 3: She's going through probably the worst thing that a family

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Speaker 3: or a person can go through, so knock it off where.

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Speaker 2: Does Yeah, yeah, And you know, in Chicagoland we work

734
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: with Cal's Angels. We've worked with which is an organization

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00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: that that that is in place to help families who

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Speaker 2: are battling pediatric cancer. And over the years, I've learned

737
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: so much about how little research and how little treatment

738
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: there is, and how little attention pediatric cancer gets and

739
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 2: how expensive. Ronald McDonald House another organization that we work

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Speaker 2: with that's providing, you know, a place for people to

741
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 2: live while they're seeking treatment. Across the country and across

742
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: the world. I mean, these are there's just so many

743
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: aspects of this that people don't think about. How much

744
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: is the treatment, how much will insurance cover? How much

745
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 2: of that battle are you going to win? If you've

746
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 2: ever tried to fight the insurance company. You know, do

747
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: you have access to experimental treatment to save your kid's life,

748
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 2: how much is that gonna cost?

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Speaker 1: You have a queer job, you know to be with

750
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Speaker 1: the kid?

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00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: You know, right where where is this treatment taking place?

752
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: Is it is it down the street, is it in

753
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: a different city, is it a different part of the country.

754
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 2: How much is it going to cost to get there?

755
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: You know, is it in a different part of the world.

756
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 2: So unfortunately she she will probably need all of that money,

757
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 2: and obviously we're wishing them the very best Showbizhelle a

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00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: little bit late, we'll do that next. Six hundred bucks

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00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: in the showdown, Waiting at the phone, Why did somebody

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Speaker 2: get ghosted? And more and were commercial free? Next, as

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