1 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to another episode of I Saw What 2 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: You Did. My name is Millie to Jericho, I'm Daniel Henderson, and. 3 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on everyone? 4 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: What's going on with you? Oh? 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: You know, I am not a person who routinely says 6 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 2: things like this, but I need a vacation. I am 7 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: so tired. This year has wrecked me. Yeah, in every 8 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: possible way, and I absolutely need a fucking vacation. 9 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: Well, the holidays are coming up, No, but we're gonna 10 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: have any time off or anything or. 11 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll have some time off, but it's hard to 12 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: I hate traveling at the holidays, like it's only it's 13 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: the only thing I want to do. Is like, when 14 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: it's a family holiday, my instinct is get the fuck 15 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 2: out of town. Yeah, And it's possibly because I spent 16 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 2: so many years, you know, not doing holidays with my family. 17 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: Like I did holidays with them for the first eighteen years, 18 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: and then I left and I'm like, I'm too poor 19 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: to come home and I can't do Christmas. And then 20 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 2: when I was married, we did holidays with his family 21 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 2: a lot because they got along. 22 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: And I liked them. 23 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: And yeah, I just feel like I'm used to being 24 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: pretty alone on the holidays, so I'd rather travel, But 25 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: then all you other motherfuckers are in the airport going 26 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 2: to see your dumb families. 27 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: Sure flights are delayed. 28 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 2: And it's fucking chaos. So it's hard to But it's 29 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: hard to think about getting away. But I do need 30 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 2: a vacation, and I think even if I can't leave 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: for like the Christmas holiday break, I might go after 32 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: Christmas on a week vacation. I have a friend who 33 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 2: lives in London, and she's looking for a house sitter 34 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 2: because she and her family are going away, So I 35 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: might go to London and then travel from there and 36 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 2: just kind of take some time off. But it's also 37 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: it's hard because I'm like, I love traveling to cities 38 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: when I go on vacation, Like it's one of my 39 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 2: favorite things to do is just go to a new 40 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: city and explore and just hang out and you know, 41 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: not overplan and just kind of exist in a different 42 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: space for a week. It's my favorite thing to do. 43 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: But more and more lately, I'm considering the beauty of 44 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: the kind of warm weather. 45 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: Vacation, like beachy vacation. 46 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: I've had a couple of friends like I've never really 47 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: done it, and I usually when I have time off 48 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: and I go somewhere, I'll go to a city. But 49 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: I've had a couple of friends in the last couple 50 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 2: of months, like one who went to Mexico for her 51 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: birthday and another friend did something really cool, and it 52 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 2: just all it has me considering, like maybe the warm 53 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: weather vacation is not a bad idea. And my friend 54 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 2: who did something, she went on a Mediterranean cruise. Her 55 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: one of her oldest college friends won a cruise. I'm like, 56 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 2: I guess j LO had some kind of promotion going okay, 57 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 2: and so they he entered and actually fucking won. 58 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 59 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 2: Wow, that is actually and she wasn't like on the 60 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: cruise or anything, but he actually fucking won. And so 61 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: they went on a and he brought her and they 62 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 2: went on a Mediterranean cruise together, like around Barcelona and 63 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: Madrid and like all these places. And the cool thing 64 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: is it was a virgin cruise, like virgin cruise lines. 65 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 2: Yes there are no fucking kids allowed, yep. And I've 66 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: never been on a cruise, but that sounds fucking tight. 67 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: And she's like, you're forced to relax because the WiFi sucks. 68 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: Like you have to chill, You've got everything you need. 69 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: And it has me kind of considering not just a 70 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 2: warm weather vacation, but the beauty of a cruise, which 71 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: I never thought I would do. 72 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh dude, I've been on several and I got 73 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: back from one. I literally just got back from one. 74 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on record I think cruises are fucking 75 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: fun of shit. You have to surrender to the vibe. 76 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: That is the absolute key. If you go on a 77 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: cruise and you want it to be like your apartment 78 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: in Brooklyn type of thing where you're like, well, I 79 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: want to get my you know, single origin coffee, and 80 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: I want to go to a bookstore, and I want 81 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: to be around intellectuals and be moody. You don't. Don't 82 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: go on a cruise like you have to get into 83 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,559 Speaker 1: the mindset of being in an all inclusive environment, because 84 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: that's really I think what it sounds like you want, 85 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: which is what I want. Weirdly enough now in my 86 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: old age, is I love this all inclusive experience vacation 87 00:04:58,800 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: experience like a. 88 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, like it sounds tight because put it this way, 89 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: we are people who take care of everyone around us. 90 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: No one takes care of us ever. 91 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 92 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: No one is ever ever taking care of me and 93 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 2: saying like hey, I'll make you dinner or hey like oh, 94 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: you know, no one caters to. 95 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: My needs except for me. Yep. 96 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: So it sounds fucking dope to be in a place 97 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: where someone is like, hey, we got you, you can 98 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: just chill Like, I don't know what that feels like, 99 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: because I'm always taking care of other people. 100 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: Yes see, I feel the exact same way because I 101 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: love traveling. I love going to cities that I've never 102 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: been to and places I've never been. But guess who 103 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: is the one that always makes the arrangements. I'm out 104 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: there renting the cars, booking the airbnbs, like coming up 105 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: with the things to do. And it's just my personality. 106 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: I have an older sister personality. I just I just 107 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: am all about that organization. I'm also not the type 108 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: of person that like does know where they're staying that 109 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: because that I feel like, I think my type a 110 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: personality when it came to booking vacations with me and 111 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: my friends, came from the fact that I was always 112 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: traveling with people who like didn't care enough to like 113 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: finesse the details that they were saying, Oh, let's just 114 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 1: like figure out a hotel when we get there. Bitch, 115 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: what what? 116 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: No? 117 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: Never? I need to know? Oh completely, how does that even? 118 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: Fucking what? 119 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 2: See? This is the other thing, Like these are people 120 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 2: I have my trust issues, would never allow it. Yes, 121 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 2: I have trust issues and trauma, and I'm like, I 122 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 2: gotta know what's happened in my day. 123 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. 124 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 2: Like at least where I'm sleeping, I have freedom, like 125 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: I have, you know, I can get free. Let's put 126 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 2: it that way and relax and like I said, go 127 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: to a city and just chill and kind of I 128 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 2: don't need a day to day itinerary, but I got 129 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: to know where I'm fucking sleeping and I have to 130 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 2: know how I'm getting there. 131 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean listen, when I was in my twenties, 132 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: I went on a lot of road trips. I I 133 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: you know, bought a lot of like dan By flights 134 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: to New York and San Francisco and all these places 135 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: where it wasn't exactly clear where we were going to stay. 136 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: And I think that it was just because people didn't 137 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: have any money and they they didn't want to plan 138 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: things out, and so it would be the kind of thing. 139 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: We'd be like, well, let's just drive to Memphis and 140 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: then when we get to town, we'll just figure out 141 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: a place to eat and figure out a place to stay. 142 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: And I was always like, I don't like this. I 143 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: feel very uncomfortable by this. And then the weirdest part 144 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: would always be that by doing that, you just pay more. 145 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: So if you walk up to a hotel or a 146 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: motel or whatever, let's get serious, it was always like 147 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: a ramata or like you know it like a five 148 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: star hotels in or worse or I have stayed in 149 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: some very questionable places, but it ends up being more 150 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: expensive when you do it that way. Or like the 151 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: other thing, which is that like let's just see if 152 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: my friend is around and we'll just crash at their house. 153 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I with that shit. 154 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: And also like I always get the shit end of 155 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 2: the stick when it comes to those arrangements. So it's 156 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: like and we're just gonna go and wait and see 157 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 2: and figure it out when we get there. I'm sleeping 158 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: on the floor always like I'm always the one who's like, well, 159 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: you're by yourself, and you don't take a lot take 160 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: up a lot of space, so you get the shittiest bed, 161 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: the shittiest couch, the shittiest situation. 162 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 163 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 164 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: And because because of that, I just want control. And 165 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: so I ended up booking a lot of vacations for 166 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: me and my friends because it's like I said, I 167 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: just have that, have that in me. So you're absolutely right. 168 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: And the other thing that I'm bad about too is 169 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 1: that I'm with you. I want a vacation that is 170 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: not tied to work or family obligations, because those aren't vacations. Yes, yes, 171 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: And when when I first went on one for the 172 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: first time, I was a total snob, Like I was like, 173 00:08:56,720 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: oh God, like it's so corny. It's like a flowing, 174 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: you know, adult daycare center, and it's the food is 175 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: going to be terrible, and it's so cheesy, and I 176 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: hate sunshine and I only read Charles Perkowski books and 177 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: leave me Alone or whatever. I mean. I was just like, 178 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: I have such a grump about it. But then I 179 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: don't know, you get on the boat and then you're like, 180 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: like you said, forced to relax. Water is very peaceful, 181 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 1: the weather is fucking great, and I just was like, Yo, 182 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: this is pretty sweet and it is all inclusive, because 183 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: you're right, you don't have to fucking plan a thing. 184 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: I mean, if you want to go on like an excursion, 185 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: like if you want to get off the boat in 186 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: port and go see some ruins or whatever, you can 187 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: do that. But it's a guided tour. You're not left 188 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: to your own devices. Uh, you wake up, you don't 189 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: have to plan a tour. You don't have to plant 190 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: a tour. You basically get on the boat. There's scheduled activities, 191 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: you could go to them or not. You can go 192 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 1: to a spy and go to a gym. You can 193 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: go get food anytime you want to. You can have 194 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: a fancy dinner, you can have a shitball dinner. 195 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 2: I'm definitely curious, especially after my my and this is 196 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: a friend who I also never thought would go on 197 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 2: a cruise and she loved it, and we're both the 198 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 2: same age and same situation, and I think that there's 199 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 2: a lot about it that is very curious for me. 200 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: I put it this way, I like the idea at 201 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: this point in my life of a vacation that truly 202 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: allows me to relax, and I think a warm weather 203 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 2: vacation is a good way to do that. I'm dubious 204 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 2: about cruises still for a couple of main reasons. One is, 205 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: I'm definitely fearful of giving money to you or being 206 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: part of a company that exploits people, especially like if 207 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 2: you're going to like foreign countries and landing at different ports, 208 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: and like the whole economy system is fucked up by 209 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: the cruise culture, and like I'm very wary of that. 210 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: But I also I feel like cruises are just like 211 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 2: floating disease makers, like fucking Legionnaire's disease, and that I 212 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,719 Speaker 2: don't know if you ever watched that HBO documentary is 213 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: The Last Trip when COVID hit and it fucking wiped 214 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 2: out that cruise shit, And I'm like, do I want 215 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 2: to be confined with people on a boat where like 216 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: it's it's the weird dichotomy of I would love to 217 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: be in a place where I'm forced to relax and 218 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 2: I can't go anywhere, but I'm completely freaked out by 219 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: the fact that I would not be able to go anywhere. 220 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that is a fear, you know, like 221 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: you gotta go on a nice boat. I think that's 222 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: the key. Don't go on a shipball cruise. Go on 223 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: like a nicer you know, pay a little extra, go 224 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 1: on a Viking river cruise. Are you fucking joking? Like 225 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: those things look so fucking sweet. If Viking River Cruises 226 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 1: wanted to sponsor this podcast, I would do so many 227 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: fucking ads for them. I don't even care, Like, as 228 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: long as I could get a crack on getting on 229 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: that boat. I mean they advertised on Dalton Abbey. That's 230 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: that's where I first, you know, figured them out, and yes, yeah, 231 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: I've gotten like I've sent away for brochors for their 232 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: cruises and I get them in the mail and it's 233 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: like a fucking playgirl. I'm just like, yes, this, this 234 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: catalog is here. I'm gonna spend the entire evening looking 235 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 1: at it. And it's like, oh, here's like a fucking 236 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: beautiful cruise around the southern tip of South America. And 237 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: you get to go, you know, to all these like 238 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: different locations, and the food is amazing, The rooms look amazing. 239 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: Every every room on a Viking boat has apparently like 240 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: a sliding glass door where you can go out onto 241 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: your balcony and look at the fucking beautiful scenery. I'm like, 242 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: they're very expensive. I mean That's the caveat is that 243 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this costs, like this is the car 244 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm paying for, I'm buying a car, right, you know. 245 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: But I honestly think if you're retired and you're just 246 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: fucking chilling out and you've got cash to go on cruises, 247 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: fucking do a cruise, you don't have to think. And 248 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: that's the that's the appeal. But there are drawbacks to 249 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: literally every mode of travel. I mean, you could go, yeah, 250 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: book your own trip to France and get robbed on 251 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: the first day, or you could go on a cruise 252 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: and get fucking diarrhea on the first day. I don't know. 253 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 2: It's very you know, and those are the choices, those 254 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 2: are the primary choices of travel or. 255 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: Saying, as as I'm getting older, I think that the 256 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: idea of me going to like either an all inclusive 257 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: resort or a cruise is not as corny. 258 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: As I always thought it was, you know what I mean, Yeah, 259 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 2: I completely agree, and I think it's it's important to 260 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 2: note that that it's like, because of where we are 261 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 2: in life, these are things that become more enticing. Like 262 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 2: the cruise that my friend took. She's like, not only 263 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 2: are there. They're no children allowed, Like they're not even allowed, 264 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,079 Speaker 2: so there will never be a child on the boat. 265 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 2: But also I guess there are on different cruises, like 266 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: you can buy drinks packages and shit like that, and 267 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 2: you couldn't. I guess on Virgin you can't buy drinks packages, 268 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 2: so you have to pay for each drink you have, 269 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 2: which cuts down on the like frat boy quality of it, 270 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 2: because every commercial I see for a cruise, I'm like, 271 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: this is a fucking frat party on the sea. 272 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: Like I don't want to be part of that. 273 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to be in a fucking wave pool 274 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 2: with someone who just shit their pants or puked or 275 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: like you know, then they're trying to take care of 276 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: their kids and they're drunk and sunburnt and like that 277 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 2: does not look appealing to me. Like so sorry, but 278 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: the idea of like you can't get wasted just because 279 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: you paid for it three months ago is very appealing 280 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: to me. 281 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, listen, I think that. I, like I said, 282 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: I've gone on cruises for work, I've gone on cruises 283 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: for pleasure. I actually went on a Mediterranean cruise with 284 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: my mom and dad a few years ago, and it 285 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: was actually pretty sweet. We like we basically went to 286 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: like I mean it was the port was in Rome, 287 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: and we went to like Palma Majorca. I went to 288 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: fucking Monico. When would I ever go to Monaco. I'd 289 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: be like, it's just not a place where I thought, Oh, 290 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna spend spend a week in Monaco. I 291 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: was like, damn, I'm in Monaco. And I went to Barcelona. 292 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: It was great. 293 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 2: And not since you stopped professionally gambling, I mean, once 294 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 2: you put down those poker ships, there's no reason to 295 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 2: go to Monaco. 296 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: Listen, ever since I hung out my race car boots, 297 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: I don't go to Monte Carlo anymore. And oh no. 298 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 2: Also, I gotta say, it's possible you're on board with 299 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 2: this cruise idea because you have never seen Titanic. Once 300 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 2: you watch Titanic, it is it is all I can 301 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: think about, even every time I even consider a cruise, 302 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, Titanic happened, and that shit was tight, Like 303 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: they had fucking like there were the rooms that ship 304 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 2: where the equivalent of like one hundred thousand dollars today, 305 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: Like that ship was laid out and then they had 306 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: steerage and they had everyone working underneath and like toiling 307 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 2: in the decks, and when that ship went down, everybody went, 308 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: the rich, the poor, the workers, like the travelers, everybody 309 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: fucking went. 310 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I will say that. Okay, so I've never seen Titanic, 311 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: but I will say this, like, when you're actually on 312 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: the boat, the boat is so like inconceivably big that 313 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: it does feel like you're in a mall, like and 314 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: in a weird way, you're like, Oh, what if this 315 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: entire mall just like sank into the ground. I guess. 316 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: I mean that's maybe the feeling is that if like 317 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 1: you're in a mall, you don't think, oh, i'm this 318 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: it's going to fall into the earth, there's a sinkhole 319 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: that's gonna suck in this tire mall down or whatever. 320 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know, being on the ship, I thought 321 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 1: I was going to freak out about that, but it 322 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: was really like more just like it feels like very substantial, 323 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: like you're in a building. So there's a little less fear, 324 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: at least for me. But I will say I did 325 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: see the movie Triangle of Sadness before I went on 326 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: this cruise this time, the one I just went on 327 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: which was not the move. It is not the movie 328 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: you want to say before a cruise, So. 329 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 2: I say. 330 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: For other reasons, but you. 331 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 2: Know, ohly shit, no I feel, but I do feel 332 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 2: like fundamentally it's also I'm noticing that the bigger conversation 333 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 2: here for me too is that like as I what's 334 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: different for me as I get older, and I'll try 335 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 2: anything once. But I also I think that there's a 336 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 2: real desire. I have a real desire to truly relax 337 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 2: and I can't really get that at home. And when 338 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: I travel on my own, usually I plan so much 339 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: ahead of time, but by the time I get there, 340 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 2: it's like it takes a few days is for me 341 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 2: to relax and then I go home the next day 342 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 2: because it's like I just want to make sure my 343 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 2: hotel is tight. I just want to make sure everything's okay, 344 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 2: Like I just want to make sure this airbnb isn't 345 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,719 Speaker 2: gonna fuck me over and get me gimme keys all 346 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: over the place. But I definitely I have to there 347 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 2: are a lot of mental leaps I have to make 348 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 2: to get to a point of relaxation because I've shifted 349 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 2: class in my life, so I still very much have 350 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 2: poverty brain, and I'm still very aware of the fact 351 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 2: that I used to be the person working in, you know, 352 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 2: the service industry, and it's really weird to not to 353 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 2: be taken care of. I think that's that's a bigger 354 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 2: shift for me, and that's something that I talk about 355 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: in therapy all the time. Don't worry, but I'm not 356 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: used to being taken care of, and I have a 357 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: real problem with it because all I see is, you know, 358 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 2: myself in those roles and kind of feeling like, well, 359 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 2: people treated me like shit and it was really hard 360 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 2: to get by and I wasn't making enough money to 361 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 2: live and it's like, you know, so that's kind of 362 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 2: always on my mind, not just with cruises, but with anything. 363 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 2: Anytime I go anywhere. I'm just very aware of my 364 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 2: surroundings and the people who are working to give me 365 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: a chance to relax, and I feel like it's you know, 366 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 2: it's not always I'm not a dick. I'm actually really 367 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: overwhelmingly nice when I travel. 368 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: For that reason. 369 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: My therapist laughs that makes She's like, she asked me, 370 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: she do you do you make your own bed when 371 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: you're at a hotel, And I'm like, yeah, she's like, what, like, yeah, 372 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 2: like I keep it pretty tight and I, you know, 373 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 2: clean up around the sink and I She's like, what 374 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 2: the fuck? And I'm like, but you know, every once 375 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 2: in a while, every couple of days, I will let 376 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: them clean the room and I leave a tremendous tip 377 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 2: because I do not like the fact that somebody has 378 00:19:58,600 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 2: to come in and clean up after me. 379 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, listen, you just said a mouthful. I 380 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: mean it's like, I mean, that's I mean, at the 381 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: end of the day, I think about just how many 382 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 1: Filipinos are in the hospitality industry, and there are members 383 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: of my family that work in hotels and on cruise ships, 384 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: and you know, it's it's hard for me too to 385 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: think about. And that's that's the kind of like, that's 386 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: the thing that is hard for people like us, who 387 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: are very conscious of of other people and care about 388 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 1: other people in order to really relax and be pampered, 389 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: to be the like pampy. You know, like there's a 390 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: pamper and you know it's usually been you, but now 391 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: when it's your turn, how does that exploit someone? And 392 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 1: is that the right thing to do? But it's I 393 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I don't know how to answer 394 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,239 Speaker 1: that question for you. 395 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 2: Obviously for me, trust me, neither does my therapists because 396 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: she's like, man, it's. 397 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: Just go take care of your get taken care of. 398 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 2: But I'm like, we have so much more work to 399 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 2: do on this, Dana, like a lot, and even in 400 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 2: my day to day life, like this is something that 401 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: doesn't just extend the vacation, but like in my day 402 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,120 Speaker 2: to day life, I've had to learn how to ask 403 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: for help and I've had to learn how to, you know, 404 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 2: just really open myself up to the concept that I'm 405 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: worthy of any kind of care. And I think that's 406 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 2: what is all. I mean, it's it's fucked up that, 407 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 2: like we'll go from talking about this fun cruise and 408 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 2: here I am bringing it to this low moment. But 409 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 2: I think that it's just something that's always part of 410 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,199 Speaker 2: my process when I decide to go somewhere, like I 411 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 2: never was able to if I didn't go on a 412 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 2: vacation when I was a kid, Like I didn't have 413 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: family vacations or anything like that. I couldn't afford to 414 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 2: go anywhere as an adult for a very long time. 415 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 2: And when I did, I traveled in the most dirt 416 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 2: dirt bag way possibles. Like I would, you know, hop 417 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 2: in my car and stay at those motels and feel 418 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 2: unsafe and like be constantly stressed out. But I kind 419 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: of had to just in my life and general meet 420 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 2: myself where I am at every moment, and right now 421 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 2: I'm in a moment where I feel like, Okay, things 422 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 2: have happened. I've worked very hard. I've made things happen 423 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 2: in my life in a way that I never imagined, 424 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 2: and now I have a little bit more freedom and flexibility. 425 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: But I still don't know how to relax. 426 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 2: So I can't enjoy anything I've worked for until I 427 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: figure out how to fucking relax. 428 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I yeah, I agree. I mean that's 429 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: just something that you're It's just going to be something 430 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: you work on. 431 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 2: You know. 432 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: I have to remember that I deserve care and I'm 433 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: worth it. In order for me to be the best 434 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: that I can be at all of these things that 435 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: I do, I have to take care of myself. And 436 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,959 Speaker 1: you know, I'm very like I never that never occurred 437 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: to me as a young person. I just thought you 438 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 1: grind and you just like are miserable, and then hopefully 439 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: you have a lot of money one day. Now, I'm like, no, 440 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: it's not about that. It's about like, you know, taking 441 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: time for yourself and like, you know, figuring out a 442 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: way to you know, decompress. And maybe you know, the 443 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: whole all inclusive resort like pampering spa cruise life, right 444 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: is one thing. But maybe it's that you literally just 445 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: go book a fucking nice house in the woods alone 446 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: and just fucking chill like it. You don't have to 447 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 1: have other people like waiting on your hand and foot necessarily, 448 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: but it's just, you know, a way for you to 449 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: not have to make decisions every five seconds. 450 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, because guess what, I live that in that house already, 451 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 2: Like that is my day to day book experience. 452 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: I'm alone in a house in the woods. 453 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 2: But like you said, the shift being if I do 454 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 2: that in a place that I don't have to look 455 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:51,879 Speaker 2: around and be like, oh fuck, I got to replace 456 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 2: the tile, then it's a little bit easier for me 457 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: to just be to just be in a place is 458 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 2: what I'm striving for. And I think that cruises are 459 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 2: appealing to me and I'll try anything once. And my 460 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 2: friend had such a great experience and she and I 461 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: are so similar and never thought we'd be on a cruise. 462 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,879 Speaker 2: And her friend that she went with actually is a 463 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 2: performer at Disney and like, you know, he's part of that, 464 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 2: Like he usually works on cruises and like works on 465 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 2: these ships. So it's like it was nice to see 466 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 2: them be able to kind of let go and enjoy 467 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 2: themselves in a space where they would. 468 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: Normally be working. 469 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: And I feel like, oh, well, that's there's something appealing 470 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: there where it's also it's possible to do in a 471 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 2: way that isn't purely exploitative of anyone or purely forced 472 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 2: upon me to like to still carry the weight of 473 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: the world on my shoulders while I'm there, Because that's 474 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,399 Speaker 2: the thing that also makes me worry, is like, if 475 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 2: I go to an all inclusive resort a cruise, am 476 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 2: I going to be worried the whole time that I'm 477 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: like contributing to some fucking horrible societal issue. But there 478 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: are places you can go where that doesn't happen, and 479 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 2: there are trips you can take where that's not the case. 480 00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 2: And I think it's just up to me to do 481 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,239 Speaker 2: the work finding out what that is. 482 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know, I don't know, like not everything 483 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 1: is white lotus, you know what I mean. Like, it's 484 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: like like if a company is ethical and they pay 485 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: their people enough and give them enough benefits, then they 486 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: have pride and what they do. And having pride and 487 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: what they do also could mean pampering you, you know, 488 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: when I wait at tables. I mean, yes, I was 489 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: young and like fucking like hated a lot of customers 490 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 1: because they were rude and stuff. But I also had 491 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: pride in what I did, Like I wanted to be 492 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: a good server, and I wanted to have good ser 493 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: give good service and make people feel you know, good 494 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: eating at restaurants. So it's that thing where I'm like, 495 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's not it's you're just gonna have 496 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: to like do the homework about it. And I'm sure 497 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: there's it's nothing as perfect, you know, but I feel 498 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: like at least you're in the space where you are 499 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: recognized it, recognizing it maybe being something that like comes 500 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: from like a trauma from a childhood, and maybe yeah, 501 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: talking about that is going to help with that a 502 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: little bit. 503 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 2: So absolutely, even if I just try it once and 504 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 2: see what it's like to be taken care of and 505 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 2: you know, in whatever way I decide that looks. I 506 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: think it'll be interesting to see how I react to 507 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: that and kind of see if I can get there 508 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 2: and truly relax, because I know I need it. Like 509 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 2: I can feel my shoulders are up by my ears 510 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: like ninety percent of the day, Like I'm just so tense, 511 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 2: and so I can kind of feel that I need 512 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 2: to relax for my own health, Like I need to 513 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: figure out a way day to day, And that's kind 514 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: of what I'm striving for now, is like a day 515 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: to day relaxation, a day to day like meditation or 516 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 2: just like just literally calming down for ten minutes every day. 517 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 2: I have an acupressure mat that I lay on and 518 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 2: it doesn't hurt, like you can feel it, but it 519 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 2: doesn't hurt, but it just kind of like is supposed 520 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: to stimulate your blood flow. 521 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,639 Speaker 1: And it costs like twenty bucks. 522 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 2: I got it, you know, like a local store and 523 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 2: like a local hippie store, and it just kind of 524 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 2: like just being able just being forced to lay down, 525 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: Like forcing myself to lay down for ten minutes and 526 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 2: just not think about anything is a good exercise for me. Yeah, 527 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 2: and trying to relax every day. So I think that 528 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 2: it's I can get there. I can get and like 529 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,719 Speaker 2: I said, I'll try anything once. I love the notion 530 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 2: of Look, I've never One thing I've never done in 531 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 2: my life is puke over the side of a boat. 532 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 2: I've been on several. I used to go fishing all 533 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: the time, but I'm pretty cool on a boat because 534 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: I'm usually not drinking. So there's I cannot believe that 535 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 2: I have never puked off the side of a boat. 536 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that could happen. Listen, You're never It's always possible. 537 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 1: Life is filled, life is filled with possibilities. I'm sure 538 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 1: you could puke off of a boat. 539 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 2: I'll take that Viking cruise and I'll just slide that 540 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 2: door open and puke in a feword I don't care. 541 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: Listen, I'm telling you right now, I can so see 542 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 1: you on a Viking cruise. I can see myself on 543 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: a Viking cruise. If Viking sees us together on a 544 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 1: Viking cruise and wants the spots this podcast, please get 545 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: in touch with us. I saw what you did pot 546 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: at jmail dot com. I swear to God like that 547 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: is a dream, like truly a dream to go in 548 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: one of those things. I just need to come up with, 549 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: like sixty grand and uh, we'll be on our way. 550 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: We can go to fucking They do these cruises that 551 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: are like thirty forty five days. 552 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 2: What. 553 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 1: Yes, they're long ass cruises, man, but you get to 554 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: go to all these great spots and it's like, I 555 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: don't know, now I sound like a commercial for Viking, 556 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 1: but I'm just saying I want to go that bad. 557 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 1: It just looks incredible, and I feel like, you look 558 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: it up. That's your speed, dude. Like it may it 559 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: may not be that you need to go on like 560 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: the Carnival Kathy Lee Gifford cruise. Maybe you need to 561 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 1: go on this Viking thing, you know what I mean? 562 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 2: That sounds dope. I'm gonna look it up. I'll look 563 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 2: at those state rooms. I'll see what's happen and in 564 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 2: I'll see what kind of kind of fucking waterways we're 565 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 2: going to be in. 566 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: Yes, and for God's sakes, take a vacation. You really 567 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: deserve it. After everything that you've done this year with 568 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,239 Speaker 1: your grandma, with work, with the podcast, with everything, you 569 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: deserve a vacation. I'll tell you that right now, as 570 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 1: somebody who knows you and talks to you often. You 571 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: deserve that, thank you, and you do too. 572 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 2: We've been through a fuck a lot this year too, 573 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: and guess what, I can kind of foresee us going 574 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 2: on some kind of vacation together in the future because 575 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 2: Pulp is going back on tour. 576 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm I'm there, Like, just tell me when, 577 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: just someone and where. 578 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 2: Cannot wait. They are my favorite band. I cannot fucking 579 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 2: wait and they're playing right. They announced their first parcel 580 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: of dates. It's all UK, but different parts of the UK. 581 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: But I mean, shit, we can go to Wales, fun 582 00:29:59,080 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 2: go to Dublin. 583 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: It's all out. I'll definitely go to Dublin. I'll go. 584 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: I'll go to Ireland or Scotland never I've never been 585 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: to either. I would love to go. I'll even book 586 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: Airbnb's there. I'll do the leg work that is a 587 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: vacation there where I would like, actually want to plan it. 588 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: I don't need an all inclusive Scotland vacation to say. 589 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 2: Hell no no, I just want I need to know 590 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 2: where I'm going to sleep. 591 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: I need to know. 592 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 2: I kind of need to know that there are seats 593 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 2: at the concert, even if I'm not in it all 594 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 2: the time. 595 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: I need to know that it's available to me. 596 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like that's kind of where I am 597 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 2: at this point in my life, which I've never thought 598 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 2: I would say. But I'm kind of not considering a 599 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 2: concert without chairs. 600 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: Oh, trust me, Like I I better be sitting down. 601 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: I want to fly all the way to the UK 602 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 1: to sit down a. 603 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 2: Concert and listen to music that I could hear right 604 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 2: now on my phone. 605 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I listen if I If they play the 606 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: His and Hers album, I'll stand from my chair, no doubt. 607 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 2: But I want to be able to have the chair. 608 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 2: It has to be there, exactly. I want to stand 609 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 2: for the songs that are meaningful enough to me, which 610 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 2: is most of them. M hmm. But come on, His 611 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 2: and Hers different class. This is hardcore. They're live albums. 612 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 2: That fucking that documentary that a Stilloscope put out a 613 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 2: few years ago that I watched multiple times a year. 614 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 1: Shit, If Jarvis wants to play some from his solo jams, 615 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: that black Magic song Man play black Magic as an encore, dude, 616 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: I'll be. 617 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: There black Magic further complications like fucking bring it. 618 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 619 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 2: Oh, I just I'm very excited. I can't wait. I 620 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 2: think we should go. I think we should planet or 621 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 2: maybe get one of our friends to plan it so 622 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 2: we can relax, and they just send us the details. 623 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: Do we know any travel agents? Do those still exist? 624 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: Travel agents? 625 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 2: Probably for like super people, damn, But we should look 626 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 2: into it. There's probably you know what, I guarantee that 627 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 2: there's probably someone in their twenties who's like, let's bring 628 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 2: back travel agents. 629 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: Oh god, that would be fucking brilliant. 630 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 2: Like you have an influencer thing. 631 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 1: Get a storefront and a shopping mall, like a little 632 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: a little strip mall. Put up some like posters of Acapoco. 633 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 1: I'll be there, I love it. 634 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 2: Put up a hang in there posters and posters of 635 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 2: Aca Polco. 636 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: World's greatest Grandpa mug. I'm there. 637 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 2: I guarantee someone has tried to figure out how to 638 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: disrupt travel agents and they're on it. There's some app 639 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 2: right now that's like, let us be your travel They 640 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: call it a travel concierge. 641 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: I bet shit, I'll what if it's me? What if 642 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: this is my second act? What if because listen, I 643 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: know want to plan vacations. We've just established that I will. 644 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to look at least off of space the 645 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 1: minute we stop recording. 646 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 2: Well, then let's get into these fucking movies so we 647 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 2: can get you into the next phase of your life. 648 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,959 Speaker 1: Oh, this next phase is gonna be so fucking sweet. 649 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: We got a great theme. 650 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's an oldie, but a goodie bringing 651 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 2: it back because it's just that fun it is. And 652 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: our theme this week is DJ play my motherfucking song. 653 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Look, you'll be happy to know that 654 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: this time my song from my movie plays many times. 655 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 2: In the film, and this time my song plays instrumentally 656 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 2: at different moments throughout the film, but in full only 657 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 2: at the end. 658 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: Ha. We've swapped. We've swapped places. The last time we 659 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: did this episode, you know our movies where She's having 660 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 1: a baby and Far and Away, and so we're back 661 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 1: this time. I think this episode is gonna be great 662 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 1: because personally, these were two huge songs in my childhood, massive, 663 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:28,240 Speaker 1: massive smash hits. And here's the weirdest part about that too, 664 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: is that, first of all, never saw your movie until 665 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 1: just now, so it's a brand new watch for me. 666 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we'll talk about it. And I never 667 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: saw my movie until maybe like a year or two ago. 668 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 1: For the first time. So I never watched these movies, 669 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 1: but these songs were like so fucking big. 670 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 2: Right completely, And that's how it used to be, is 671 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 2: like the song carried so much weight that the movie 672 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: was almost the secondary thought. Like this song was such 673 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 2: a huge marketing tool that like whether you saw the 674 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 2: movie or not, they're like, eh, yeah, well I'll get 675 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 2: you on the soundtrack, Like you'll have to buy the 676 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,359 Speaker 2: soundtrack for this song. 677 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if this is true about your song, 678 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: but my I think my song for my movie was 679 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,720 Speaker 1: written for the movie specific. So yeah, so is mine 680 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 1: for sure. Dude, your song is so epic it's fucking unreal. Oh, 681 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 1: we are going to get into holy shit. No, this 682 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: is gonna be a great episode because we're gonna talk 683 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 1: a lot about music, which we love to do. We 684 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: love talking about music, so. 685 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 2: Hand in hand, we love music, we love movies. I 686 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 2: just I have to say too, watching these films, which 687 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 2: I did, is a true double feature. This week, I 688 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 2: watched them back to back in one one evening, and 689 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 2: I just fucking love movies so much, Like even when 690 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 2: they're not the best movie in the world, I just 691 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 2: love storytelling. 692 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,959 Speaker 1: And I just I love movies. I fucking love movies. Yeah, 693 00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:01,279 Speaker 1: me too. These were fun. They very much evocan era. 694 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: Two different things, right, because one is like about you know, 695 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: basically high school kids and the others about adults, sexy adults, 696 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:15,719 Speaker 1: and both had this like total like both were just 697 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: so the idea of me being a little kid and 698 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: thinking forward into life, being like, what are what's high 699 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:23,840 Speaker 1: school going to be? 700 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 2: Like? 701 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: What are my adult years going to be? 702 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 2: Like? 703 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 1: These are the types of movies that would inform that, 704 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: Like even though I never saw them, but they just 705 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: have this like weird kind of vibe to them where 706 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I just thought your movie was like the 707 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 1: Pinnacle of Adulthood. Like I was, like, I never saw it, 708 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: but just watching the video, which has a lot of 709 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: clips from your movie, I was like, wow, that's what 710 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: being an adult. An adult is this song. 711 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,719 Speaker 2: It's all like sweaty and sexy and like in Mexico. 712 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 2: Looking at the adults would be like just being in 713 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 2: Mexico and be and sweaty and sexy wearing. 714 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: A lot of linen. Yeah, and then you know, my 715 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 1: movie is a very typical kind of you know, like 716 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 1: an eighty It's a very classic sort of eighties sports 717 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: coming of Age movie, and I was like Madonna and 718 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 1: Matthew Modine. I guess that's how high school is gonna be. 719 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: So I mean it is. 720 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 2: I had such a crush on Matthew Modine. It started 721 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: with this movie, which I saw like on WPIX channel 722 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 2: eleven one day, probably like in an afternoon, and I'm like, 723 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 2: he is so cute. And then Gross Anatomy, which I 724 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 2: fucking loved. I watched it all the time. It was 725 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 2: always on HBO. And then he did that, Oh he 726 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 2: was in Full Metal Jacket, which of course I saw 727 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 2: when I was a child. 728 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 1: And Bertie. Do you remember Bertie? I don't think I 729 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: saw Bertie. Oh god, he was just so fucking cute. 730 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 2: He was in Memphis Bell. Let's not forget Let's not. 731 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 1: Forget about That's like the first thing I got to say. 732 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 1: And luckily I'm going first to Sweet because I got 733 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 1: a lot to say. 734 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 2: I do think he has always been so adorable to me. 735 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we're gonna get into it because he is 736 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,280 Speaker 1: obviously the star of my movie this week. So you ready, 737 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:18,240 Speaker 1: you're ready to talk about these two classic soundtrack films. 738 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 2: I'm fucking ready because I also, I cannot believe, and 739 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 2: we'll talk about it. I cannot believe it took me 740 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 2: so long to realize that Madonna couldn't sing, cannot carry 741 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:31,280 Speaker 2: a tune. 742 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 1: This is going to be discussed in just the most excellent, excellent, 743 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: So my movie for the theme DJ play. My Motherfucking 744 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 1: Song is a movie from nineteen eighty five. The screenplay 745 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 1: was by Darryl Poniscan was based on a book of 746 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: the same name by Terry Davis. It was directed by 747 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,800 Speaker 1: Harold Becker, and it's called Vision Ques. The Girl of 748 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: my dreams have center my own roof, see her every 749 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: David just thinks I'm a kid, immature, dumb jus, all 750 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 1: of which is more or less true. Vision quest. Oh 751 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: my god, we gotta talk about that vision question. Okay. So, 752 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 1: to be honest, I wrestled get it. 753 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, like I was a 754 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 2: wrestler in high school. 755 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 1: No, No, like what? 756 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 2: No? 757 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: I just simply wrestled with two different options for this week, Okay, 758 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,400 Speaker 1: Because when it comes down to it, there was actually 759 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: two Madonna ballads that I was obsessed with growing up 760 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 1: that came from movies that I had never seen. Right, 761 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 1: So The first one was Lived to Tell, which was 762 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 1: from at Close Range, which I've still never seen, by 763 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 1: the way. Fuck, it's like, got Sean Pett and Christopher 764 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 1: walk in and it's like Madonna's in that forties dressed 765 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 1: and she's like talking about home or I don't know, 766 00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: something like that like that. That's the video IM And 767 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 1: then like intercut with that was like Sean Penn and 768 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: Christopher walking in, like with in a roadhouse or something. 769 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: I don't even remember. MTV really informed a lot for me, 770 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: like I was a kid. 771 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 2: Good. But but I think with Out Close Range was 772 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 2: that based on a play I can't remember. 773 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,320 Speaker 1: But I actually think it might be like a true 774 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 1: crime or something. I don't know, damn, yeah haven't. 775 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 2: I don't think I've watched it, or at least if 776 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 2: I have, I don't remember it and I haven't seen 777 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,600 Speaker 2: it in a long fucking time. 778 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so why don't we put that in an episode. 779 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 1: We'll have to do that as an episode. That'll be 780 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: a first wash for both of us. But anyway, so 781 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: that so Live to Tell and then this song which 782 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: comes from a vision quest and I mean, I don't ever, 783 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't really know why I never saw this movie 784 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,399 Speaker 1: because I mean, it was such a common It's such 785 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 1: a common thing in the eighties, like these coming of 786 00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 1: age sports movies, right, But I do remember seeing the 787 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 1: video about three hundred thousand times on MTV, and of 788 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: course they had clips from the movie, like to the 789 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 1: point where I thought, maybe it's seen the movie because 790 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: I just saw the video so so often, do you 791 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 1: know what I mean? And I totally understand. Yeah, Like 792 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:26,280 Speaker 1: I watched the video you know, on YouTube this morning 793 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: and was like that they really showed pretty much the 794 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 1: entire movie in this video, so now we don't watch it. Yeah, 795 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: it was it was a promotional tool for the film, obviously, 796 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: which is why they did all that. But I was like, wow, 797 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,319 Speaker 1: I never actually saw the film, and now I know 798 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 1: that crazy for you is it was in thirteen going 799 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 1: on thirty, and it's been in a lot of other stuff. 800 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 1: But like, the whole reason why I even thought about 801 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,240 Speaker 1: the movie was because of the song. And like I said, 802 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,359 Speaker 1: the song was written for the film by these two songwriters, 803 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,400 Speaker 1: and it was written for Madonna, who at the time 804 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: was just starting out for the most part, like like 805 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 1: a version out her huge fucking life changing album was 806 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,279 Speaker 1: released around the same time as this film, and it 807 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:19,400 Speaker 1: was kind of interesting too because this song was written 808 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 1: for her, written for Vision Quest, but it was also 809 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 1: the first time that she had released a ballad as 810 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: a single because most of her songs were dance songs 811 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: at the time. And so what ended up happening was 812 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,240 Speaker 1: the song got played on a lot of like adult 813 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 1: contemporary radio stations. Yeah, and it kind of like pushed 814 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:46,439 Speaker 1: her career forward because it was like she had rain, 815 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 1: she could sing slow love songs and dance songs, and 816 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 1: so it just was like it just kind of broadened 817 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 1: her fan base a little bit. But I have to say, 818 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 1: as a girl, there are two two songs that I 819 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: thought were the most romantic songs ever, and I used 820 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 1: to listen to him on repeat like hundreds of times 821 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:15,439 Speaker 1: Rush Rush by Paula Abdul and this song and buts 822 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 1: An is Crazy for You. Like those two songs I 823 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 1: would just listen to on repeat like a sad little 824 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: girl that wanted a boyfriend so bad. 825 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 2: Okay, we again, parallel childhoods. I vividly remember laying on 826 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 2: my bed at like seven years old, eight years old, 827 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 2: listening to Crazy for You and thinking, oh my God, 828 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:52,479 Speaker 2: I know what love is. Say, you know, I want 829 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 2: to be in love because of this song and just 830 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,400 Speaker 2: thinking it was the fucking jam. 831 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: I don't what brings that out in us? 832 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 2: This is that high fidelity question what comes first the 833 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 2: music or the misery? Like what the fuck was I 834 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 2: doing at eight years old? Later on my bed listening 835 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 2: to Crazy for You, I'm repeat like a fucking maniac. 836 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,920 Speaker 1: Oh yes, And and to be honest with you, like, 837 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: I don't even really know where my feelings were being 838 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 1: directed at, do you know what I mean? It's like 839 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 1: could have it could have been a boy at my school, 840 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: could have been this cast of Memphis bell I don't know. 841 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 1: I just wanted a boyfriend. I wanted to be in love, 842 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,840 Speaker 1: you know, just the idea of like story, you know, 843 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,400 Speaker 1: these songs are stories about people like wanting to be 844 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 1: with people, and I just thought, oh, I want that too, 845 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,280 Speaker 1: but I don't. I'm just like now I'm just crying 846 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 1: with my little Fisher Price radio like. 847 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 2: Because I'm like, looks that marketing team was tight. They're like, 848 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 2: what we need to do is get one of those 849 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 2: thick plastic Fisher Price discs and just fucking brail this 850 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 2: fucking song into into. 851 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 1: The grooves and let little kids get sad because I 852 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: actually still have the forty five for Crazy for You, 853 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 1: like I haven't. It's in my living room right now, 854 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 1: and and like I just was like, I mean, you're 855 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 1: you've gotta be fucking dead to not like this song. 856 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,279 Speaker 1: I mean, it's so like dreamy and like sexy but 857 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,400 Speaker 1: like romantic, and like, I mean, they fucking nailed it that, 858 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: Like the people that wrote the song, they really nailed it. 859 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 2: Fucking nailed especially because Madonna cannot sing in this song 860 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 2: or in general. 861 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 1: Oh, we're gonna talk about that, because the thing is 862 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 1: is that this play, this song plays in many points 863 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 1: of the film. You know. The one thing that's very 864 00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,319 Speaker 1: notable about Vision Quest is that Madonna was actually in 865 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 1: the movie. She She's in the scene where Louden goes 866 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: to the bar and sees Carla out and Madonna's playing 867 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,840 Speaker 1: in the bar, and she actually performs that song Gambler. 868 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 1: So she does two songs, Gambler and for You and 869 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,839 Speaker 1: the song. So what ends up happening is after this 870 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: the song plays anytime Loudon and Carla are together, essentially, 871 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,720 Speaker 1: and they took the actual live track that she sang 872 00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,640 Speaker 1: in the bar, which I gotta say, I don't think 873 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 1: it's on key. I don't know. You don't have to 874 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 1: be bashful about that. It isn't It absolutely is not 875 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 1: on key at all. But the actual recorded version is Okay, 876 00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,719 Speaker 1: it's just that live version. So but in that way 877 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, why do they keep playing the 878 00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:46,080 Speaker 1: version she just sang because she sang a y and 879 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:48,320 Speaker 1: this is annoying. 880 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 2: And look, I several Madonna songs just litter my life. Like, 881 00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that her inability to sing has prevented 882 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,520 Speaker 2: me from enjoying her music. I'm just saying it took 883 00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 2: me a lot long time to realize she's off key 884 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,360 Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, Like a lot of what she puts 885 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 2: out is what the kids now call a vibe. 886 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:09,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. 887 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 2: Like she had a lot of fucking attitude and a 888 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 2: lot of energy. And when I was a kid, I 889 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 2: loved her because I'm like, this motherfucker is rebellious, like 890 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,279 Speaker 2: that desperately seeking Susan moment where she raises her arms 891 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 2: up and she's got the pit hair, and I'm like, 892 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 2: she had a whole thing going on, and singing was 893 00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 2: like a part of it. Yeah, that pushed her into 894 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 2: our pop cultural lexicon, but it wasn't the thing she 895 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,200 Speaker 2: was the best at. 896 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: Now, I feel like there were certain songs that she 897 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:44,279 Speaker 1: has in her in her discography, if you will that 898 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,279 Speaker 1: when she gets at a higher register, it's kind of 899 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 1: like like you're like, Okay, Madonna, don't go that high. 900 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 1: You're not Christina Aguilero or Mariah Carey, like you know 901 00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like, if you just stay at 902 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: this kind of like low fun key, you're fine. But 903 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: if you try to know, it's a little wobbly, and 904 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 1: I feel like there's that crazy for you. It's those 905 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,439 Speaker 1: notes that, yes, you get a little get a little bent, 906 00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:11,960 Speaker 1: I guess. But that's like every time they'd play the 907 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,800 Speaker 1: song in vision quest, I'd be like, it just flinched. 908 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,560 Speaker 1: I would just flinch slightly. 909 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 2: I know that version, that version in particular, You're like, 910 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,920 Speaker 2: the song gets me there, but the version of the song. 911 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,919 Speaker 1: The live one. Wow. 912 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:30,920 Speaker 2: Also, I kind of love that. I know this is 913 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 2: turning into a Madonna episode. I don't mean it to be, 914 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 2: but I kind of love in the like a Prayer 915 00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 2: era when that song came out and she had like 916 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:42,240 Speaker 2: that professional chorus like a professional choir of black singers 917 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,839 Speaker 2: behind her in the like a prayer song. 918 00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 1: And I'm like, why are you playing yourself like this. 919 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,800 Speaker 1: You've got actual singers. 920 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,719 Speaker 2: Behind you who are doing a shitty great, like a 921 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,799 Speaker 2: fucking great job, and you're up here shitting all over 922 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 2: the place. 923 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 1: Exactly her two longtime backup singers that are like in 924 00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 1: the holiday. Yeah, they're like holiday celebration coming again. I 925 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 1: love those two. Love those two. She couldn't just push 926 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,319 Speaker 1: a little bit more work on them, and they're like, 927 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: you got me right now, Oh my god, but I 928 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: love it. Listen. I after, after I was done writing 929 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 1: my notes for this episode, I went on a Madonna terror. 930 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 1: I've been listening to my Donna for like three days, dude. 931 00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 1: I was like, lot you slave. Bonita is a fucking 932 00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:38,760 Speaker 1: jam shit. Yeah, well it's. 933 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 2: Hard not to do when you find the fucking song 934 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,359 Speaker 2: from the movie and you're like, now I'm transported back 935 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,520 Speaker 2: to a place, which is what movie soundtrack, the movie 936 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 2: theme should do. They should transport you to the moment. 937 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:50,399 Speaker 1: And I didn't. 938 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 2: I didn't hate your movie. I thought it was weird that, like, 939 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 2: like Matthew Modine plays such an earnest character in this film, 940 00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 2: and like the one thing I wish they did, which 941 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,960 Speaker 2: I know was impossible because you know, it was nineteen 942 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,280 Speaker 2: eighty five, is focused on the fact that he clearly 943 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,799 Speaker 2: had an eating disorder and was like constantly telling people 944 00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 2: that he felt like he was going crazy, and nobody 945 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:12,319 Speaker 2: listened to him. 946 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 1: Oh yes, I mean, listen, there's a couple of things 947 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,280 Speaker 1: that are very of the era that we need to discuss, 948 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 1: and one of them is the fact that he is 949 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:29,839 Speaker 1: disturbingly putting himself through hell, like he's like, I mean, 950 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna get into it when I get into the synopsis, because, 951 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,960 Speaker 1: like I said, if you haven't seen this movie, I 952 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 1: kind of can't blame you, because it's the thing where 953 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,360 Speaker 1: I just I never saw it as a kid. I 954 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,880 Speaker 1: think I just was so like fixated on the song 955 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 1: and then I just forgot to watch the movie. But anyway, 956 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,960 Speaker 1: if you want a synopsis of the film, okay, Vision 957 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:54,399 Speaker 1: Quest is about a high school athlete who is completely 958 00:50:54,719 --> 00:51:00,480 Speaker 1: and utterly obsessed with winning the county wrestling championship, but 959 00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:07,280 Speaker 1: he gets slightly derailed when he meets this alluring older lady. 960 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: And that's the synopsis. Of the film. And what we 961 00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 1: talked about just now is that Matthew Modine, who is 962 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:20,719 Speaker 1: the star of many, many great films, including Married to 963 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 1: the Mob, which, by the way, we did a commentary 964 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 1: track for the Fun City Editions Blu ray of Married 965 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 1: to the Mob. 966 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 2: I just watched it the other night, and it was 967 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 2: so weird to hear Mike like our voices coming out 968 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 2: of it tell oh my. 969 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: God, I can't but I'm like, it's so well done. 970 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,400 Speaker 2: All the extras are great. It's so well done. They 971 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 2: did a beautiful job with that reissue. And yeah, he 972 00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,000 Speaker 2: is hilarious in that movie and so weird and I 973 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:47,480 Speaker 2: loved it. 974 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also kind of the same type of guy. 975 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,840 Speaker 1: He's a very kind of earnest I think we talked 976 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 1: about this, maybe in that commentary or maybe when we 977 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,160 Speaker 1: did there's another movie that we did in his right, 978 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 1: I don't remember, but maybe it was what we were 979 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,000 Speaker 1: talking about, Memphis Bell. He has kind of this like 980 00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,319 Speaker 1: very like aw shucks quality to him, Like he's very 981 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 1: Jimmy Stewart type, right. And uh, Also, I have to 982 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 1: say when that DVD came out and he was retweeting 983 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 1: our names as part of like the Special Features. I 984 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 1: was what shitting Okay. 985 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 2: Wait, I deactivated my Twitter account. I did not know that. 986 00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:30,759 Speaker 1: Matthew Modine is out here promoting this blu ray where 987 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:35,319 Speaker 1: we're involved. So we're about like a degree away from 988 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,640 Speaker 1: Matthew Modine at this point. I can't handle it. Matthew, 989 00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 1: if you're out there, are you out there? Do you 990 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: want to be on a podcast? Please? I guess I 991 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,319 Speaker 1: can't handle it. Are you fucking kidding me? No? Why 992 00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:51,200 Speaker 1: would I be kidding you? Listen, I gotta say, I know, 993 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 1: why would you be kidding? 994 00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:58,040 Speaker 2: You're like, why why would I? I believe his wife is. 995 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: Italian something possibly? Yeah, I love that. 996 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,719 Speaker 2: I think I think they've been married for a very 997 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:08,800 Speaker 2: long time. They have kids and everything. But I think 998 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:12,920 Speaker 2: she's I don't know, I'm gonna find out. But she 999 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 2: is a brown woman. And I think they've been married 1000 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 2: for forty two fucking. 1001 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 1: Years, dude. 1002 00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:23,239 Speaker 2: And there's something that I now can identify, is like 1003 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 2: I can innately identify when I like a white guy 1004 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 2: because he is a brown wife. So even before I 1005 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,440 Speaker 2: knew this information, I'm like, Matthew Modine seems cool to me. 1006 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,319 Speaker 2: I don't know why. And then I found. 1007 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,319 Speaker 1: Out it's because he has a fucking brown wife. Yeah. 1008 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:40,960 Speaker 1: I mean I saw him on the street in New 1009 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,440 Speaker 1: York about fifteen years ago and he drives a prius. 1010 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 1: I was like, this motherfucker is solving climate change. 1011 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 2: We love him, We love tweets. He used to tweet about, 1012 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 2: like fucking like when there was a school shooting or 1013 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 2: like an he's in it, like he's in the world, 1014 00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:55,640 Speaker 2: Like he's not like stepping back. 1015 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: But he's also fucking cool. 1016 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's got a cool wife and beautiful like 1017 00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:06,479 Speaker 2: just they're a beautiful couple. There's something real cool about him. Yes, 1018 00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 2: And if he wants to come on the pod, I'd 1019 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,800 Speaker 2: be down, and I will apologize to his children in advance. 1020 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,839 Speaker 1: Your dad's hot. He's great in this film, by the way, 1021 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:19,719 Speaker 1: Like he really is, Like he really does seem like 1022 00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,920 Speaker 1: the kind of character that he plays, right. Yeah, So 1023 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 1: he plays the lead character of the film. He plays 1024 00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:31,279 Speaker 1: this character named Loud and Swain. What a name, by 1025 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: the way. He is this eighteen year old high school wrestler. 1026 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:39,239 Speaker 1: He lives with his dad in Spokane, Washington, Okay, and 1027 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 1: he has a job at night where he delivers room 1028 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 1: service at a hotel. But here's the thing. Right off 1029 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 1: the bat in this movie, it's very known that he 1030 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,799 Speaker 1: has this focus mission, and what he wants to do 1031 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,759 Speaker 1: is he wants to lose as much weight as he 1032 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 1: can so he can be in the same weight class 1033 00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 1: as like the current county wrestling champion. This kid name 1034 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:09,400 Speaker 1: Shoots Shoot Shoot, Shoot, Shoot Shoot. And what you find 1035 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 1: out very quickly is that Shoot is like the moby 1036 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 1: Dick for Louden in this film, right like, and when 1037 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:23,920 Speaker 1: you fucking see the Shoot guy, he's carrying a log 1038 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,719 Speaker 1: up these stadium stairs and he has the body of 1039 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 1: this like twenty seven year old marine. Yeah, and you're going, 1040 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 1: how the hell is this gonna happen? How the hell 1041 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: is is Matthew Modine gonna kick this guy's asset wrestling? 1042 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,719 Speaker 2: And now, did you have a wrestling team at your 1043 00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 2: high school? I? 1044 00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 1: Yes, we did, but I that was such a mysterious 1045 00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 1: world to me. 1046 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I feel, because I did not have 1047 00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:54,440 Speaker 2: a wrestling team at my high school, and so it 1048 00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:58,440 Speaker 2: always seems like a very strange sport or like mysterious 1049 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 2: or curious is I don't know, it was like a 1050 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,560 Speaker 2: very curious sport. So anytime they showed any scenes of 1051 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 2: them like in the gym or the coach talking to them, 1052 00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is just so unknown to me. They 1053 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,880 Speaker 2: remember those scenes. There were a couple of scenes and 1054 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 2: the I'm not going to ruin the end, but there 1055 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,880 Speaker 2: are a couple of scenes during a fight where they 1056 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:17,439 Speaker 2: put their head, like their cheeks on each other's back 1057 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,760 Speaker 2: when they're ready to go, like when they to start 1058 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,279 Speaker 2: the match, like they kind of have to lay their 1059 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 2: head on each other's back. And I'm like, this is 1060 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,320 Speaker 2: really interesting to look at, right. 1061 00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:28,719 Speaker 1: So, like, okay, you've got Louden, who is trying to 1062 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 1: lose weight to be in this like one hundred and 1063 00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,480 Speaker 1: sixty eight pound weight class, which again is this is 1064 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,239 Speaker 1: a world that I don't know much about. I'm like, damn, 1065 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:39,400 Speaker 1: that's crazy because Matthew Madean is already pretty lean and 1066 00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:44,000 Speaker 1: he's especially in this movie when he's young, and so 1067 00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 1: because of that, You're like, wow, he is like trying 1068 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,080 Speaker 1: to lose even more weight to yeah, fight this guy. 1069 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 1: And it's like he's doing all this stuff, which is 1070 00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:59,080 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it's so disordered and it would basically 1071 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 1: kill anyone. But like an eighteen year old guy. Right, 1072 00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:05,360 Speaker 1: It's like he's working out, he's not eating, he's jogging 1073 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,239 Speaker 1: in one of those like sauna suits. Yeah, and it's 1074 00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:13,080 Speaker 1: like all of this like excessive workout stuff and this 1075 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,400 Speaker 1: like really bad. 1076 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 2: Runs everywhere, Like he just runs everywhere. 1077 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then it's like he's just standing around and 1078 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 1: he just starts doing push ups and shit, and he's 1079 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 1: giving himself bloody noses because he's just like going too hard. 1080 00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 1: Uh Yeah, I feel like that. It was really hard 1081 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: to watch. 1082 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,760 Speaker 2: Actually, And if that, if that movie, if this movie 1083 00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:33,360 Speaker 2: were made today, I think that would be addressed in 1084 00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 2: a much bigger way. 1085 00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,600 Speaker 1: Absolutely, Like I said, very very of the time. Right. 1086 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,440 Speaker 1: And but here's the thing. Everybody on his wrestling team 1087 00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:43,920 Speaker 1: is like, this guy is a total fucking idiot. This 1088 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 1: is there's no way, there's no way he's gonna win, 1089 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,080 Speaker 1: and he is a maniac of the highest order by 1090 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,600 Speaker 1: doing any of this. I can't even believe. 1091 00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 2: He's in the same weight class as Shoot. When you 1092 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 2: look at the two of them, you're like, how is 1093 00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:57,640 Speaker 2: this possible? Well, that's what that's what I was saying. 1094 00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,160 Speaker 1: I was like, Shoot looks like, you know, like in 1095 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,919 Speaker 1: his late twenties, or way thirties. He looks like he's 1096 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 1: in the military. He's just jacked, and I'm kind of like, Okay, 1097 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:10,040 Speaker 1: I guess they're both gonna way the same. Wait, I 1098 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 1: don't know. This guy looks like he's rippling with muscles. 1099 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 2: I also, I don't know what weight class he was in. 1100 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:19,080 Speaker 2: But are we gonna mention that not only was Forrest 1101 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 2: Whittaker in this film, but his character's name is ball Dozer. 1102 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: Ah, I had no idea that was that. 1103 00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:33,240 Speaker 2: Young Forrest Whittaker plays a character called Balldozer. 1104 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,919 Speaker 1: I had literally no idea that was his name. Thank 1105 00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: you for telling me that. I just feel like I 1106 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:41,520 Speaker 1: need I need to put that out there. 1107 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 2: Absolutely, it is wild to watch this, like him getting 1108 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,440 Speaker 2: ready for this fight and him training. 1109 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:52,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and like listen, so his entire, his coach, 1110 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 1: his wrestling team is like absolutely no. But he does 1111 00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 1: manage to make a friend and it's this dude named 1112 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 1: Cooch spelled Kuh by the way, get your mind out 1113 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: of the gutter. Coach is played by Michael Schaffling. Okay, 1114 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:15,520 Speaker 1: the man, the legend himself. At the time, Michael Schaffling 1115 00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:21,600 Speaker 1: had just filmed Sixteen Candles okay, and to that end, 1116 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 1: he's pretty much the exact opposite character from Jake Ryan 1117 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: in this movie. Okay, In Vision Quest, he plays his 1118 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 1: characters like this punk rock kid. He's from a bad home. 1119 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: He has a mohawk and a flannel shirt with a 1120 00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 1: sleeves ripped off, the very road warrior. And not for nothing. 1121 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 1: I fucking love this guy. I love Coach. Look, he's 1122 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:46,960 Speaker 1: on a motorcycle. 1123 00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 2: He will not stop telling you that he's half Native American. 1124 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,200 Speaker 1: Listen, we're gonna get to that in just a second, 1125 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 1: because that he is the He is basically the character 1126 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: that introduces Loud into the concept of the Vision Quest, 1127 01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 1: which is what the movie is named after. In the book, 1128 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: uh and Couch says that he's half Native American, but 1129 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 1: guess what he lied? He actually lied. He's just simply 1130 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 1: a white dude. But as a guy who's like a 1131 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 1: weird spiritual jock in an eighties movie that carries around 1132 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 1: like a dirty duffel bag on a motorcycle. I fucking 1133 01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:31,439 Speaker 1: love him. I love Cooch like I love good I do. 1134 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,800 Speaker 1: Like he's just that guy. He's just like that punk 1135 01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:37,440 Speaker 1: rock you know, kind of spiritual like you know, right, 1136 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: around a motorcycle, like he's he's actually like a good 1137 01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,920 Speaker 1: foil for loud In because he's just kind of like 1138 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 1: he's always trying to ground him in some kind of reality, 1139 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 1: but then also ends up like encouraging him to see 1140 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 1: this match through because it's like, you know, obviously, you 1141 01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 1: guys go look up what a vision quest is. I 1142 01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 1: think we we sort of know the general idea of it. 1143 01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:04,720 Speaker 1: But you know, he's basically telling uh loud and like, hey, 1144 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 1: this is like a big deal, Like this could be 1145 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:08,560 Speaker 1: a big deal for you. This could change your life. 1146 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,840 Speaker 1: It's not just you being an idiot and wanting to 1147 01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:14,440 Speaker 1: prove some weird shit. This could be good, you know, 1148 01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:16,400 Speaker 1: like you have to go through something hard in order 1149 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 1: to have the experience or whatever. 1150 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:20,800 Speaker 2: So and I like that because you kind of expect 1151 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:24,440 Speaker 2: this character based on all the eighties jock movies that 1152 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 2: we've seen. You expect this character to be such a dick, 1153 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,120 Speaker 2: but then he actually comes around to being a little 1154 01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 2: bit supportive and like instantly is just like, yeah, you 1155 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 2: can fucking do it. Like let's he's very supportive in 1156 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,960 Speaker 2: a teamweight teammate maate way that we rarely see it 1157 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:39,960 Speaker 2: in eighties film. 1158 01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,560 Speaker 1: Definitely. And if, like I said, if you loved Jake 1159 01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 1: Ryan but you just want him to have a mohawk, 1160 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:48,720 Speaker 1: this is your movie. It certainly was for me. I 1161 01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:51,360 Speaker 1: was like, damn, I don't know how we could have 1162 01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,480 Speaker 1: improved on Jake Ryan, but we did it. And here 1163 01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 1: we are just give just give him a dirty ass 1164 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 1: duffel bag. 1165 01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 2: Jake Ryan Mermaids and then quit the biz. What a trinity. 1166 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. So at some point Loudin meets this girl named Carla, 1167 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: and she's played by Linda Fiorentino, okay, and she gets 1168 01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,640 Speaker 1: introduced to the film. She's her car breaks down at 1169 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:19,600 Speaker 1: his dad's shop. His dad is is played by Ronnie 1170 01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:24,280 Speaker 1: Cox of Deliverance fame. Carla is three years older than Louden, 1171 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:29,320 Speaker 1: a real cougar. I guess like those three years means 1172 01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,360 Speaker 1: so much at this age. She So, Carla's on her 1173 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,520 Speaker 1: way to San Francisco because she wants to be an artist, 1174 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:40,440 Speaker 1: and as Michael Stipe says, she is three miles of 1175 01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 1: bad road. Like she actually tells Louden, I've been twenty 1176 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 1: one since I was fourteen. Oh good, And I mean 1177 01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,680 Speaker 1: she is out there by herself trying to drive across 1178 01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,000 Speaker 1: the country. You know, her car breaks down. She's like 1179 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,240 Speaker 1: the she gets introduced and she's like yelling at a 1180 01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 1: grown man, and she's got like a tough, little round 1181 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,600 Speaker 1: bomber jacket. She's like real hot, and I'm like, she's 1182 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:11,840 Speaker 1: from Trenton, New Jersey, liked. And this is the kind 1183 01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:14,200 Speaker 1: of gal that Louden does. I mean, he's like, she's 1184 01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:17,520 Speaker 1: twenty one and she's not like anybody I've ever known, 1185 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 1: like m He's in love with her almost instantly. And 1186 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,240 Speaker 1: the weirdest part is that she's got nowhere to go 1187 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 1: because her car broke down, So guess what. She ends 1188 01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 1: up staying with Loudun and his dad. 1189 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 2: Which again a remake of this movie now is that's 1190 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:36,360 Speaker 2: a horror movie now, like you're in a house with 1191 01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 2: two men to sis he men, you're driving across the country, 1192 01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:44,600 Speaker 2: nobody knows where you are, you getting murdered. But I 1193 01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 2: like that in this, in this more innocent time, they 1194 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,880 Speaker 2: were like, she could just live here, and let me 1195 01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 2: tell you, she wastes no time. He gives her his room, 1196 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 2: his bedroom to stay in, and it's really bare like 1197 01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,160 Speaker 2: when she gets in there, it's like single bare light 1198 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:03,200 Speaker 2: bulb like nothing, no decoration. She wastes no time putting 1199 01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 2: her mark on that room. And it made me realize 1200 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:09,040 Speaker 2: that pussy willows were the pompous grass of the eighties. 1201 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,560 Speaker 2: They were fucking everywhere. You could not turn your head 1202 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 2: in a room without seeing a fucking branch. Pussy below branches, 1203 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 2: just stick it out of something. In the eighties. 1204 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 1: Ah, Listen, she was like, uh, I can't sit in 1205 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,440 Speaker 1: this house with these two boys without putting up some 1206 01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,240 Speaker 1: pussy willows. Let me also make me feel like a woman. 1207 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:30,840 Speaker 2: Throw a fucking gauzy scarf over a lamp because it's 1208 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:31,440 Speaker 2: the eighties. 1209 01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:37,920 Speaker 1: Listen, Like for Carla comes in real tough, but we 1210 01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,320 Speaker 1: all know she's a sensitive artist, and she's just putting 1211 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:42,280 Speaker 1: up a little bit of her front because she's had 1212 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: a hard life. And you know what ends up happening 1213 01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,600 Speaker 1: is she's the Every day she sits in this house, 1214 01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: loud and becomes more and more of a horny dork, 1215 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:57,080 Speaker 1: and suddenly his obsession with Carla is starting to sidetrack 1216 01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:02,160 Speaker 1: this mission to beat shoot Okay. Now, at the same time, 1217 01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 1: Carla has been hanging out with one of Loudon's teachers, 1218 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,600 Speaker 1: which suffice to say, really freaks him the fuck out, 1219 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,720 Speaker 1: and Loudon has this like weird, maybe it's because he's 1220 01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 1: starving himself. Maybe his brain is just like completely scrambled 1221 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 1: eggs right now because he like really like freaks out 1222 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:23,920 Speaker 1: about this. I mean he actually kind of attacks her 1223 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,880 Speaker 1: at one point, which is really disturbing. Uh. But then 1224 01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,720 Speaker 1: at some point they like travel to see his grandpa 1225 01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,680 Speaker 1: and then they hook up after, which was like, okay, 1226 01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 1: uh that those sequences happened like really close together, and 1227 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, uh huh, I don't know, I don't know 1228 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:39,840 Speaker 1: what She's. 1229 01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:44,400 Speaker 2: A choice, yeah, the choice. They weren't really focused on 1230 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 2: what she was thinking. 1231 01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 1: Yes, uh, but you know what, like what ends up 1232 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,160 Speaker 1: happening is they hook up, and then even more disturbing, 1233 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:57,280 Speaker 1: Louden confronts his teacher and basically is like, hey, thanks 1234 01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:00,760 Speaker 1: for not fucking her. Cool teach, see you later. And 1235 01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:07,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, what so wild? What can you imagine doing that? 1236 01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:09,440 Speaker 1: By the way, like going up to your teacher when 1237 01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,560 Speaker 1: you're like in high school and being like, thanks for 1238 01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:12,880 Speaker 1: not fucking my girlfriend. 1239 01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:17,240 Speaker 2: I can't imagine having the balls. I can't imagine being 1240 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:21,280 Speaker 2: in the situation to do so, Like yes, these are adults. 1241 01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:24,640 Speaker 1: You're still you're still going to class, yes, And that 1242 01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: teacher is basically like, okay, bye, Like this is weird 1243 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:33,720 Speaker 1: dude get away. So you know, obviously Carli has to 1244 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:36,720 Speaker 1: tell loud In at one point, get over me, just 1245 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,120 Speaker 1: make the way, wrestle this guy. See this through. You've 1246 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,919 Speaker 1: already gone this far. Let's just get it done right, 1247 01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: And he's like, I don't know, this sucks. I just 1248 01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:48,040 Speaker 1: want to be with her. I can't think of anything else. 1249 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: And then you know, he starts talking to the cook 1250 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:53,080 Speaker 1: at the restaurant in the hotel and his name is Elmo. 1251 01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 1: He's like a real tough like dude with like marines, 1252 01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:58,720 Speaker 1: tattoos and stuff. And he's like finally that he's like, 1253 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,440 Speaker 1: go for it, kid, like this big pep talk involving Pele, 1254 01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:06,760 Speaker 1: and it's like, go do it. You have already starved yourself. 1255 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:11,080 Speaker 1: You might as well fucking beat this, you know, fucking 1256 01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: batty guy from the other school. And I won't give 1257 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,840 Speaker 1: it away, but guess what. It has a very eighties 1258 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:22,840 Speaker 1: sports coming of age movie ending, as you can imagine. Also, 1259 01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,520 Speaker 1: I have to say this we talked about there's a 1260 01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:28,760 Speaker 1: lot of wrestling stuff. In this movie, there's a lot 1261 01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,640 Speaker 1: of these like weird kind of like wrestling team rituals 1262 01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,960 Speaker 1: where they're like jump they do the thing where they're 1263 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 1: like laying down on the floor and then some guy 1264 01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:39,040 Speaker 1: gets up and has to like hopscotch over the dudes 1265 01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,280 Speaker 1: and then go lay down in the next open spot. 1266 01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:46,360 Speaker 1: Oh good, it's so weird. I've never seen anything like that. Also, 1267 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:50,200 Speaker 1: the thing that haunted me the most and will continue 1268 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:53,640 Speaker 1: to is that peg board thing that they have in 1269 01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:58,600 Speaker 1: the gym. What the hell was that? How fit do 1270 01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:02,400 Speaker 1: you have to be to fucking do that peg board thing? 1271 01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,760 Speaker 2: And that wasn't It didn't appear to me to be 1272 01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 2: a double That was Modine. 1273 01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:12,320 Speaker 1: Okay, if we ever get Modine on this podcast, that 1274 01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,440 Speaker 1: is like one of the first questions I'm gonna ask him. 1275 01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,639 Speaker 1: It's like, did you actually do that peg board where 1276 01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,600 Speaker 1: you had to pull your entire body weight up on 1277 01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:22,000 Speaker 1: these like pegs and climb up to the top, Like, 1278 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:26,640 Speaker 1: I can't imagine being that fit ever, No, No, I 1279 01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:28,960 Speaker 1: hang from those pegs. 1280 01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,439 Speaker 2: On the bottom rung. I'm gonna crack those pegs off 1281 01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:31,920 Speaker 2: in the hole. 1282 01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,840 Speaker 1: Yes, I couldn't even get it up one. 1283 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like she hear me just hanging with my 1284 01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 2: body weight and just giving up instantly. 1285 01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:42,240 Speaker 1: I would just crack them off in the fucking hole 1286 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:46,120 Speaker 1: dually down. The wooden dolls just split and then we're 1287 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 1: both like on the map being like, can I have 1288 01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,639 Speaker 1: a hand card to wheel me out of this gym? 1289 01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:53,599 Speaker 1: Right now? I can't move? 1290 01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 2: Can you just pick up one of these remember those 1291 01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,160 Speaker 2: mats that I used to have in the eighties, Like 1292 01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,280 Speaker 2: they would fold out in threes and fours? 1293 01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:03,080 Speaker 1: Uh huh? 1294 01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:04,719 Speaker 2: Can you just like get me one of those mats 1295 01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,240 Speaker 2: and pop just open a couple of them, pop me 1296 01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:08,519 Speaker 2: on it and just slide me out. 1297 01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, Or you could make it a little ten and 1298 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: I'll just live here. 1299 01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 2: I will. 1300 01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:15,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have to be better. Well, I have 1301 01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:20,080 Speaker 1: to say, I mean, we this movie is very eighties. 1302 01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: It is enjoyable. I mean it's not like the best 1303 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,559 Speaker 1: movie of all time, but it's very enjoyable. Matthew Modine 1304 01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:29,720 Speaker 1: is such a cutie. You got young Forced Whittaker. You 1305 01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:34,639 Speaker 1: also have young Daphne Zuniga, my queen. She's in this film. 1306 01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,120 Speaker 1: And also you know, There's Crazy for You is the 1307 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:41,040 Speaker 1: obvious huge hit of the film, but there's also, like 1308 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,439 Speaker 1: so many other eighties movies on the soundtrack Lock there's 1309 01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 1: that Journey song not for Nothing. There's that song Hard 1310 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:58,479 Speaker 1: in My Heart by corn Or Flash. When I was 1311 01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,680 Speaker 1: a kid, I thought that song was literally like a 1312 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:05,560 Speaker 1: song that like sexy women who lived in like penthouses 1313 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 1: in New York City would would listen to while they're 1314 01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:10,599 Speaker 1: like getting ready for their date. They're like zipping up 1315 01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:14,679 Speaker 1: the side zipper of their leather skirt with their matching 1316 01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,160 Speaker 1: sweater that had like shoulder pads in it and shit, 1317 01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:22,040 Speaker 1: and then they do that like Duran Duran rio blush 1318 01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 1: like streak, and then it's like that song the saxophone 1319 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:29,880 Speaker 1: of that hard in My Heart is playing when they're 1320 01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,840 Speaker 1: getting ready. I mean, that song is epic for me. 1321 01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 2: To those kinds of moments, those eighties rocker girl moments. 1322 01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:41,439 Speaker 1: For sure, yes, but but for me obviously it had 1323 01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:45,439 Speaker 1: to be about crazy for you, and absolutely it's the best. 1324 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,479 Speaker 1: It's so it's still one of the most romantic songs 1325 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,240 Speaker 1: I love. I listened to it all the time, even 1326 01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 1: though Madonna singing those high notes TVD, TVD, but the 1327 01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:56,720 Speaker 1: songs still rocks. 1328 01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,559 Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, I listen to my song all 1329 01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:01,000 Speaker 2: the time too. 1330 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:05,320 Speaker 1: I listen to your song and have a fucking breakdown 1331 01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:06,160 Speaker 1: every time. 1332 01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:12,160 Speaker 2: Oh, let's get let's get into it. So my film 1333 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,759 Speaker 2: was released in nineteen eighty four. The screenplays by Eric Hughes. 1334 01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:19,920 Speaker 2: It was directed by Taylor Hackford, who is mister Helen Mirren. 1335 01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:24,439 Speaker 2: And my film is Against All Odds? What is it? 1336 01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:28,360 Speaker 1: You don't like exactly? Football players, tacos or beer. I 1337 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:37,800 Speaker 1: like tacos and I like being against all odds. 1338 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,000 Speaker 2: Just like the hardest fucking name for a movie that 1339 01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:44,280 Speaker 2: is basically about people fucking and tumbes in Mexico. Like, 1340 01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,080 Speaker 2: I think against all Odds and I'm like, it's gonna 1341 01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:47,960 Speaker 2: be about sports, gonna be up race cars, it's gonna be. 1342 01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:48,960 Speaker 1: Up fucking monsters. 1343 01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:54,040 Speaker 2: No, it's about an heiress and a football player. 1344 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:54,879 Speaker 1: Wow. 1345 01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,960 Speaker 2: So this movie is actually a remake of a film 1346 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,080 Speaker 2: called Out of the Past with stars who old butt 1347 01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:03,839 Speaker 2: whole eyes himself for Robert Mitcham. 1348 01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:07,400 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, he ain't just always a piece of shit, 1349 01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:15,120 Speaker 1: but kind of. I mean, he's not a murderer, I 1350 01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:18,600 Speaker 1: guess a murderer of children. 1351 01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 2: Yeah he's not. He's not a child murderer in this 1352 01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,760 Speaker 2: in this out of the past. So will we will 1353 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 2: give him that, because that is saying a lot for 1354 01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:29,640 Speaker 2: old mitche old butt, whole eyes Mitcham. But Taylor Hackford, 1355 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,759 Speaker 2: who I don't know if people know, is mister Helen Mirren. 1356 01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,679 Speaker 2: He has directed a lot of things. He directed Officer 1357 01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,639 Speaker 2: and a Gentleman. This movie was actually his first movie. 1358 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:41,040 Speaker 2: After Officer and Gentlemen, he directed White Knights, which is 1359 01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 2: where he met Helen Mirren during an audition for the 1360 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 2: film Ray and he directed the video for My Song, 1361 01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:55,320 Speaker 2: which is the Phil Collins Absolute Jam Against All Odds 1362 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 2: slash take a Look at Me Now. Now. 1363 01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:01,240 Speaker 1: The other thing. 1364 01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:04,160 Speaker 2: About Taylor Hackford that I think is worth mentioning is 1365 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,360 Speaker 2: back in two thousand and nine he did sign a 1366 01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:10,400 Speaker 2: petition in support of Roman Polanski after Polanski was arrested 1367 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:13,200 Speaker 2: in Switzerland. So I kind of want to say, fuck 1368 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:18,360 Speaker 2: this guy, but just putting that out there, just putting 1369 01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:18,960 Speaker 2: that out there. 1370 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:23,400 Speaker 1: And he didn't go to school for film. 1371 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,880 Speaker 2: He's kind of started. I just thought this was interesting too. 1372 01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:27,880 Speaker 2: He started using a Super eight camera while he was 1373 01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:31,160 Speaker 2: in Bolivia with the Peace Corps, which I think is 1374 01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 2: just wild. So he came to film in a really 1375 01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 2: organic way. And then he made a movie that gave 1376 01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:43,000 Speaker 2: us a power ballad that didn't necessarily create the genre 1377 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:57,040 Speaker 2: but absolutely dominates it. 1378 01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:10,200 Speaker 1: I mean, can you think of another? I mean this 1379 01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:14,479 Speaker 1: was like the absolute eighties power ballad for me, Like 1380 01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:19,240 Speaker 1: I will never not think of my childhood listening to 1381 01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:19,719 Speaker 1: this song. 1382 01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:26,400 Speaker 2: Absolutely just pure domination. It was written for the movie specifically. 1383 01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:27,920 Speaker 2: It plays at the end. Like I said, it plays 1384 01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:30,920 Speaker 2: instrumentally throughout, but it plays at the end. It won 1385 01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:34,759 Speaker 2: a Grammy in nineteen eighty five. It was Phil Collins's 1386 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:39,880 Speaker 2: first number one song. And there is like there's a 1387 01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,880 Speaker 2: there's a Mariah Carey version, which I haven't listened to 1388 01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:47,320 Speaker 2: what I know, but like I'm reading this Wikipedia entry 1389 01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,559 Speaker 2: and I'm like, wait what, And so there's a Mariah 1390 01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:52,320 Speaker 2: Carey version that she does with Westlife. 1391 01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:53,040 Speaker 1: The British boy band. 1392 01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:57,160 Speaker 2: Yes, And I can't listen to it. I can't even 1393 01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:58,360 Speaker 2: entertain listening to it. 1394 01:14:58,640 --> 01:14:59,120 Speaker 1: I can't. 1395 01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:00,960 Speaker 2: But it's out there if you want to. It's out 1396 01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,160 Speaker 2: there if you want to dig in. But this song 1397 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 2: is so powerful and so intense. And there is also 1398 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,719 Speaker 2: there's an episode of This American Life, episode three thirty 1399 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:16,840 Speaker 2: nine called Breakup and Starlely Kine listened to all these 1400 01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,160 Speaker 2: sad songs to get over a breakup and decides to 1401 01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:23,839 Speaker 2: write and record one. But she heavily talks about how 1402 01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:27,880 Speaker 2: this song against All Odds was like a song that 1403 01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:31,880 Speaker 2: she actually quoted during the breakup because they used to 1404 01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:33,519 Speaker 2: listen to it together and like. 1405 01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:35,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did she what do you know what part? Yeah? 1406 01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:37,679 Speaker 1: How could you just let me walk away? 1407 01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:42,439 Speaker 2: Like that's the part that she says during the breakup. 1408 01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, my god, that's wild. That's wild. Oh. 1409 01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:50,360 Speaker 2: But that even better is she actually talks to Phil 1410 01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:55,360 Speaker 2: Collins about the song, and he's recently divorced. His divorce 1411 01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:59,160 Speaker 2: was like finalized on his birthday, so this song was 1412 01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:02,120 Speaker 2: written during his first divorce, and it's one of the 1413 01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:05,040 Speaker 2: first songs that he wrote by himself because when he 1414 01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,519 Speaker 2: was in Genesis, he was like the singer and the drummer, 1415 01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,479 Speaker 2: but he didn't write the songs. And then he's been 1416 01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 2: divorced three times. So by the time he's talking to 1417 01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:16,840 Speaker 2: Starley Kin, he's like, yeah, tell me about it. 1418 01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:18,880 Speaker 1: This song. I basically wrote this. 1419 01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:22,719 Speaker 2: Song and it ended up being like a fucking portent 1420 01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:24,040 Speaker 2: for my goddamn life. 1421 01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:28,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is crazy. 1422 01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is wild. You have to, like you haven't 1423 01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:35,200 Speaker 2: already heard that episode, It is worth listening to episode 1424 01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 2: three thirty nine of This American Life. But yeah, he 1425 01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:40,840 Speaker 2: wrote this song during his first breakup and his I 1426 01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,360 Speaker 2: guess his first wife took his kids and they went 1427 01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:45,960 Speaker 2: back to England or something like. He was living somewhere else. 1428 01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:49,400 Speaker 2: He was recording and traveling and he's just like, how 1429 01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:52,640 Speaker 2: could you take my kids? Like it was intense to 1430 01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,160 Speaker 2: listen to him talk about it, But then it kind 1431 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 2: of answers one of my main questions, which is like, 1432 01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,559 Speaker 2: why is this song so good because the movie is not. 1433 01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:02,280 Speaker 1: The movie is not. 1434 01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:07,000 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this movie is a pure vehicle 1435 01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 2: for Jeff Bridges looking as hot as humanly possible. 1436 01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:14,559 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I could I could not agree with 1437 01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:18,559 Speaker 1: you more that. Okay, there's a part of me that 1438 01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: wonders if Jeff Bridges was being objectified in this movie. 1439 01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:25,160 Speaker 1: That's how hot he was. Like there are times where 1440 01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:28,880 Speaker 1: he's literally just like sitting around with his shirt open, 1441 01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:34,040 Speaker 1: showing that that those washboard tanned abs. 1442 01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:36,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm just gonna answer that for you right now. 1443 01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:38,800 Speaker 2: He was one hundred percent being objectified. 1444 01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:41,920 Speaker 1: Yes, because this movie. 1445 01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,639 Speaker 2: Suffers from a little something I like to call eighties excess. 1446 01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,599 Speaker 2: There is way too much going on in this movie. Yes, 1447 01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:51,160 Speaker 2: And it was they basically to my in my mind, 1448 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:54,360 Speaker 2: just said, all right, there's too much going on. You know, 1449 01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:59,040 Speaker 2: let's just focus on Bridges and his being tanned and hot. 1450 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:04,240 Speaker 1: Look, uh, I fucking love to see it. Not gonna 1451 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,679 Speaker 1: lie because you know, here's a guy who I'm like, Oh, 1452 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,519 Speaker 1: this is the guy is like the hottie in the film, 1453 01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:14,600 Speaker 1: and they're trying to get his shirt off at every 1454 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:19,280 Speaker 1: chance they could, and I'm here for that shit, like absolutely, 1455 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,200 Speaker 1: and also too, if you only know Jeff Bridges is 1456 01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:26,879 Speaker 1: the fucking dude, you're like, oh, this guy was a 1457 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,880 Speaker 1: total hunk. He had that beard, He's wearing all those 1458 01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:33,400 Speaker 1: like Banana Republic clothes and shit, and like he's like, 1459 01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, Aviator sunglasses. Listen. I went on record on 1460 01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:40,320 Speaker 1: the Big Chill episode and thought, I was like that 1461 01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:44,599 Speaker 1: classic male look of like the khakis and the fucking 1462 01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:48,880 Speaker 1: like white button up shirts. I'm like, I can't help it. 1463 01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:52,599 Speaker 1: I love that shit. And he is wearing the fuck 1464 01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 1: out of these clothes. 1465 01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:55,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you only know him as the dude, you 1466 01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,360 Speaker 2: better do your homework because there is so much more 1467 01:18:58,439 --> 01:18:59,240 Speaker 2: to know about him. 1468 01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was beautiful in this movie. Like I was 1469 01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:06,479 Speaker 1: like really surprised by because, like I said, I've never 1470 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:10,920 Speaker 1: seen this movie before ever first watch, and I was stunned. 1471 01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:13,160 Speaker 1: He was like in that kind of like Paul Newman 1472 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:15,639 Speaker 1: kind of way where I was like, they are really 1473 01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:16,639 Speaker 1: showing him off. 1474 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:19,519 Speaker 2: Good for him, sun bleached hair, like they really went 1475 01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 2: for it, and he is the star of the show. 1476 01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:26,120 Speaker 2: He plays this character named Terry Brogan who is a 1477 01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 2: professional football player who gets cut from his team because 1478 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:35,240 Speaker 2: of politics and eighties excess and gets embroiled in this 1479 01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:39,479 Speaker 2: scheme with a former football player played by James Woods, 1480 01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:42,840 Speaker 2: who we do not like in the movie and in 1481 01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:49,679 Speaker 2: real life for me, but he's played by James Woods, 1482 01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:54,880 Speaker 2: and he basically goes to meet this old friend, Like 1483 01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:57,400 Speaker 2: this friend requests a meeting, so he goes to see him, 1484 01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:01,160 Speaker 2: and James Woods is like, look, I was this woman 1485 01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:06,960 Speaker 2: Jesse Weyler who's played by Rachel Ward, and she took 1486 01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:09,160 Speaker 2: fifty thousand bucks from me and then fucked off, and 1487 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,640 Speaker 2: I need you to find her, and you don't have 1488 01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:13,120 Speaker 2: to bring her back you just have to tell me 1489 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 2: where she is. And Brogan's like, I've just been cut 1490 01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:18,559 Speaker 2: from the team. They're not gonna pay me. They're fucking 1491 01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:22,680 Speaker 2: me around, because again, there's eight plot lines in this movie, 1492 01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,120 Speaker 2: so I'll do it. So he takes his money to 1493 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:29,120 Speaker 2: like he gets paid to basically find this woman and 1494 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:33,640 Speaker 2: she just so happens to be the daughter of the owner. 1495 01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:33,880 Speaker 1: Of the team. 1496 01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:38,639 Speaker 2: Who is Jane Greer, classic movie actress Jane Greer. 1497 01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, was she out of the past? I think she 1498 01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:41,840 Speaker 1: wasn't out of the past. 1499 01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:43,120 Speaker 2: I think she was an out of the past. 1500 01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:43,519 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1501 01:20:43,560 --> 01:20:46,639 Speaker 2: So she's like reprising for this at a different role obviously, 1502 01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:48,920 Speaker 2: but like kind of cool to see her in this. 1503 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:50,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, this one as well. 1504 01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:55,360 Speaker 2: And she so Rachel So the Rachel Ward character Jesse 1505 01:20:55,439 --> 01:20:59,320 Speaker 2: Wiler has, she's already like this rich girl, but now 1506 01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 2: she's stolen from this kind of gangster because James Woods 1507 01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 2: like owns a nightclub and is into gambling and like 1508 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:07,519 Speaker 2: that's what he decided to do with his post football career. 1509 01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:11,080 Speaker 2: So Jeff Bridge, He's like goes talk to her mom, 1510 01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,040 Speaker 2: and her mom's like, yeah, she might think she's hiding, 1511 01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:15,400 Speaker 2: but she's accessing her trust fund. I know for a 1512 01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:21,679 Speaker 2: fact she's in Cosmmeo Mexican. So he goes down there 1513 01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:26,479 Speaker 2: and finds her, and she hates football players. She's being 1514 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:28,559 Speaker 2: like very spoiled bratty, and she's like, I didn't take 1515 01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:32,280 Speaker 2: that guy's money, and I hate football players. But ps, 1516 01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,840 Speaker 2: why don't you come out to my house? You can't 1517 01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:38,479 Speaker 2: leave without seeing it. It's the most beautiful spot in Mexico. 1518 01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:40,720 Speaker 2: I'm living out here like Hank Hill. I've got no 1519 01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:44,880 Speaker 2: electricity and only propane. And they fuck and they start 1520 01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:49,200 Speaker 2: this relationship where he's just like, oh, ps, forget about 1521 01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 2: what I've been charged and paid to do, which is 1522 01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:56,200 Speaker 2: to find you and report back to Jake. I am 1523 01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,719 Speaker 2: going to Jake, who I also get into Porsche races 1524 01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:06,560 Speaker 2: with on the fucking streets of La Oh weirdest. Stressful, stressful, stressful, 1525 01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,040 Speaker 2: especially because I recognize a lot of those roads, and 1526 01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:14,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I can't, I can't. But he decides like, 1527 01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:16,519 Speaker 2: fuck it, I'm just gonna be with you and we'll 1528 01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:20,880 Speaker 2: make it work and we'll go to Fuckingchinitza and we'll 1529 01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,960 Speaker 2: have a whole new life and fuck all these people 1530 01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:26,000 Speaker 2: who are looking for you. I'm on your side now. 1531 01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:31,959 Speaker 2: And there's also this subplot of like environmentalism and opening 1532 01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:34,040 Speaker 2: like a spot on a canyon. 1533 01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 1: And like it's just too much. 1534 01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 2: It's too much going on. But suff is to say 1535 01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:46,280 Speaker 2: that Alex Carris, who plays Hank Sully, who is Brogan's 1536 01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:50,360 Speaker 2: one of Brogen's coaches on the football team, he is 1537 01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:53,680 Speaker 2: also embroiled in this somehow because at first you're like, oh, 1538 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:55,559 Speaker 2: he's just a football coach who's like taking care of 1539 01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:57,960 Speaker 2: his players and is on their side. And then you 1540 01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:02,759 Speaker 2: learn once he shows up to this like pyramid they're 1541 01:23:03,600 --> 01:23:07,040 Speaker 2: running around with a gun and tries to fucking kill him, 1542 01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:10,240 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, he also works for Jake Wise. So 1543 01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:16,200 Speaker 2: now because Brogan didn't bring Jesse back, you've got Jake 1544 01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:19,639 Speaker 2: being like, I'm gonna send your fucking coach to come 1545 01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:23,120 Speaker 2: get you. It's very convoluted, and I'm gonna come get 1546 01:23:23,160 --> 01:23:26,880 Speaker 2: you while you're in are in full coitus in the 1547 01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:30,479 Speaker 2: sweat room. I mean this, this movie is basically as 1548 01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:32,679 Speaker 2: close to porn as Jefferds as ever gonna get. 1549 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:40,960 Speaker 1: A imagine going to a tomb and in some like 1550 01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:45,599 Speaker 1: historical section of a foreign country and seeing two people 1551 01:23:45,640 --> 01:23:48,920 Speaker 1: fucking and then no, and then realizing it's your friend. 1552 01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:55,519 Speaker 1: Like the way that he rolls up on him is 1553 01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:59,680 Speaker 1: very chill considering the circumstance. 1554 01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I see you fucking I'm gonna turn around 1555 01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:03,680 Speaker 2: and give it your privacy. 1556 01:24:04,760 --> 01:24:09,879 Speaker 1: And then I'm gonna try to shoot and kill you. Also, 1557 01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:13,160 Speaker 1: you said in the episode not too long ago with 1558 01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:17,519 Speaker 1: Kurt brown Oler about how funny Grandpa is in your 1559 01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:22,240 Speaker 1: wheelhouse romantically. Now for me, it's Webster's dad. 1560 01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:28,720 Speaker 2: I mean, who knew Alex Carris first and foremost how 1561 01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:30,880 Speaker 2: I was introduced to Alex karras or even h he 1562 01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,200 Speaker 2: was a fucking professional football player back in the day. 1563 01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:39,040 Speaker 1: He was Webster's dad exactly. He adopted a little black boy. 1564 01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:43,920 Speaker 1: It's like now I'm at the age where I'm like 1565 01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:47,160 Speaker 1: Webster's dad is hot, Like this is a hot guy, 1566 01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 1: Like if he was on a dating app, I would 1567 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:53,439 Speaker 1: definitely swipe right on him. 1568 01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:57,640 Speaker 2: Oh no, I mean, I'll give you. 1569 01:24:57,680 --> 01:24:58,439 Speaker 1: I'll give that to you. 1570 01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:04,439 Speaker 2: I was more focused on Jeff Bridges fucking in a 1571 01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:11,000 Speaker 2: stone sweat room, but I'll give it to you. 1572 01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:16,320 Speaker 1: I'm getting in addition to Jeff Bridges being like a 1573 01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:23,519 Speaker 1: male Adonnis a shirtless himbo hunk. I actually think that 1574 01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:27,160 Speaker 1: Alex Carris in this era is a hottie. I mean 1575 01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:29,200 Speaker 1: back in the day, I was like, oh, he's a dad, 1576 01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:33,080 Speaker 1: he's Webster's dad. He is a guy with a mustache. 1577 01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:35,600 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, eh, he could get it. He 1578 01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:40,040 Speaker 1: seems age appropriate now. Yeah, looking bike on this movie. 1579 01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:45,080 Speaker 1: You know my wheelhouse right now is funny grandpa. He's 1580 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:48,200 Speaker 1: on the younger end of the spectrum. And that's fine. 1581 01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:51,200 Speaker 1: I'll take a young funny grandpa. Like you had your 1582 01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:51,799 Speaker 1: kid when. 1583 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:53,559 Speaker 2: You were eighteen. They had their kids when they were twenty. 1584 01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:54,840 Speaker 2: You're a young grandpa. 1585 01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it always cracks me up how he just 1586 01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:00,599 Speaker 1: discovers them in the tomb. Oh my god. You know, 1587 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,120 Speaker 1: it's just like, oh, what's up. I didn't even realize 1588 01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:04,439 Speaker 1: that you were in Mexico at all. 1589 01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:10,320 Speaker 2: And then when when when Brogan runs out and. 1590 01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:11,559 Speaker 1: He's like, what the fuck are you doing here? 1591 01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:14,280 Speaker 2: Dude, Like, not only did you just catch me fucking 1592 01:26:14,360 --> 01:26:18,280 Speaker 2: but what are you doing here? Hi? This can't be 1593 01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:20,000 Speaker 2: a coincidence, so what the fuck? 1594 01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:22,040 Speaker 1: Oh, it's wild? 1595 01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:24,599 Speaker 2: And then the movie, Believe It or Not, gets more 1596 01:26:24,680 --> 01:26:28,720 Speaker 2: involved from there, like it just goes into like espionage 1597 01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:32,000 Speaker 2: and fucking running away and basically, I will save you 1598 01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:35,880 Speaker 2: the full synopsis and just say that by the end, 1599 01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:38,479 Speaker 2: by the end of this film, Jesse has made a 1600 01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:42,519 Speaker 2: deal that as long as Broken will be safe, she'll 1601 01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:44,840 Speaker 2: kind of fall in line and do her duties and 1602 01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:48,559 Speaker 2: you know, be the good daughter and all that shit 1603 01:26:48,640 --> 01:26:52,360 Speaker 2: and kind of, you know, she just agrees to basically 1604 01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:54,559 Speaker 2: live a life that she never wanted to live to 1605 01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:55,599 Speaker 2: save Broken. 1606 01:26:56,720 --> 01:27:00,879 Speaker 1: And so the song, the song again and stall odds 1607 01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:03,080 Speaker 1: it is. 1608 01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:08,559 Speaker 2: This song is the king of emotional upheaval. Like, I 1609 01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:10,439 Speaker 2: don't know how you listen to this song and you 1610 01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:16,439 Speaker 2: do not get emotional. So if you're sad, it's like, oh, 1611 01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:19,240 Speaker 2: do you want to cry while a middle aged man 1612 01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:22,280 Speaker 2: goes hard to the point of screaming about a breakup. Yes, 1613 01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:27,680 Speaker 2: you do, because the build up in this song and 1614 01:27:28,200 --> 01:27:30,760 Speaker 2: the crescendo is part of the perfection, Like the way 1615 01:27:30,800 --> 01:27:33,920 Speaker 2: it just inches up from like I'm thinking about it, 1616 01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:35,799 Speaker 2: I'm sad, I'm quietly singing. 1617 01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm singing a little bit more. 1618 01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:39,519 Speaker 2: Here's all my fucking emotions, Like I am pouring my 1619 01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:41,400 Speaker 2: heart out in this song. 1620 01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:46,320 Speaker 1: Dude, when he finally is like, ah, so understand, and 1621 01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:50,160 Speaker 1: he like, he just he I can't form the words 1622 01:27:50,200 --> 01:27:55,519 Speaker 1: like now he's just having like a guttural co Yes, 1623 01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:57,439 Speaker 1: he's having a Joe Cocker moment. 1624 01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:03,639 Speaker 2: He goes Joe Cocker like the scale of like singing 1625 01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:06,200 Speaker 2: a song to I don't know, but if I feel 1626 01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:07,880 Speaker 2: it's passionate. I don't know what you're saying, but it's 1627 01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:10,519 Speaker 2: passionate tiptop Joe Cocker scale. 1628 01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:14,200 Speaker 1: Also, I don't know if you've noticed this, I shured 1629 01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:19,040 Speaker 1: in in the song, he goes from saying against the 1630 01:28:19,080 --> 01:28:27,040 Speaker 1: odds to sing against all odds, all odds, where I'm like, damn, 1631 01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:29,040 Speaker 1: it's like the last time he says that. He says 1632 01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:31,960 Speaker 1: it's against all odds, and I'm like, that means he's 1633 01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:37,559 Speaker 1: really fucking He's like realizing that shit ain't coming back. 1634 01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:42,200 Speaker 1: This is over. It's against all odds, not just the odds, 1635 01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:45,360 Speaker 1: not just the odds, which he says very calmly in 1636 01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:47,720 Speaker 1: the beginning, like you know you're coming back to me. 1637 01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:51,160 Speaker 2: It's against the odds means it could happen. And then 1638 01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:53,760 Speaker 2: by the time he's screaming at the end, he's like, 1639 01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:55,080 Speaker 2: oh fuck, you're. 1640 01:28:54,920 --> 01:28:58,160 Speaker 1: Not coming back. This is never gonna. 1641 01:28:57,880 --> 01:29:05,240 Speaker 2: Happen all fuck, it's deep. That is some philosophically deep shit. 1642 01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:08,519 Speaker 2: And it's also like, if you're not sad and you 1643 01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:11,320 Speaker 2: and you're listening to this song, it's just kind of like, 1644 01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:13,080 Speaker 2: do you want to go hard to the point of 1645 01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:15,960 Speaker 2: screening just because it's a Wednesday? 1646 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:20,519 Speaker 1: Like this is the song for you? I have to 1647 01:29:20,560 --> 01:29:25,320 Speaker 1: be honest, I think, you know, now, having finally finally 1648 01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:31,240 Speaker 1: watched this movie, I feel like the movie maybe doesn't 1649 01:29:31,400 --> 01:29:32,800 Speaker 1: rise to the occasion of. 1650 01:29:32,760 --> 01:29:36,559 Speaker 2: The song exactly. You know, it really doesn't. It doesn't 1651 01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:38,479 Speaker 2: because it's too convoluted. 1652 01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:40,679 Speaker 1: Too convoluted, But also like I guess maybe I thought 1653 01:29:40,680 --> 01:29:43,000 Speaker 1: that the movie was going to be as gut wrenching 1654 01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:45,120 Speaker 1: as the song, and it really is just kind of 1655 01:29:45,120 --> 01:29:47,240 Speaker 1: like a Neoa War. I mean, obviously it's like a 1656 01:29:47,320 --> 01:29:48,960 Speaker 1: remake of Out of the Past, but it's that thing 1657 01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:51,320 Speaker 1: where I'm like, yeah, I just thought it was gonna 1658 01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:56,519 Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, something like much sadder and 1659 01:29:56,680 --> 01:30:00,000 Speaker 1: much more gut wrenching. And it's because the song told 1660 01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:00,840 Speaker 1: it would be. 1661 01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:05,760 Speaker 2: Yes and the video, which Taylor Hackford also directed. The 1662 01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:08,320 Speaker 2: video for the song, which features so many moments from 1663 01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:10,679 Speaker 2: the film you're like, Oh, they're gonna have like an epic, 1664 01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:11,879 Speaker 2: intense breakup. 1665 01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:12,960 Speaker 1: It's gonna be heart wrenching. 1666 01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:15,640 Speaker 2: And by the time it happens, you're like, oh, she 1667 01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:17,960 Speaker 2: just kind of gives in to being a rich fucking woman. 1668 01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:21,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. Even at the end when that neon triangle shows 1669 01:30:21,800 --> 01:30:24,439 Speaker 1: up and then like all three characters are like at 1670 01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:29,120 Speaker 1: every corner of the triangle, I'm like, what the fuck 1671 01:30:29,280 --> 01:30:29,639 Speaker 1: is that? 1672 01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:31,920 Speaker 2: Okay, this is something else. It has to be said. 1673 01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:37,439 Speaker 2: This video is eighties perfection, like a neon triangle rising 1674 01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:43,800 Speaker 2: above water. What was everyone high in the eighties? Yes, 1675 01:30:44,240 --> 01:30:46,880 Speaker 2: what the fuck was going on in that video? But 1676 01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:51,559 Speaker 2: it is just Phil Collins just belting it out and 1677 01:30:51,560 --> 01:30:53,760 Speaker 2: he's like, look, I know I have a receding hairline. 1678 01:30:53,800 --> 01:30:54,080 Speaker 1: I know. 1679 01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:56,400 Speaker 2: You know me as the that's the drummer from Genesis. 1680 01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:59,400 Speaker 2: Here's where my fucking life is right now. Here's who 1681 01:30:59,439 --> 01:31:02,599 Speaker 2: I am as a man in the world. I am 1682 01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:06,000 Speaker 2: this guy. I'm heartbroken, i am sad. 1683 01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:08,640 Speaker 1: And I want you to know about it. Yeah, I'm 1684 01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:14,280 Speaker 1: wearing this giant blazer, like a giant blazer. Did you Okay, 1685 01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:17,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure you thought this too. Correct me if I'm wrong, 1686 01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:19,840 Speaker 1: But did you not think Phil Collins was like the 1687 01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:22,080 Speaker 1: oldest guy in the world when you were a kids. 1688 01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:25,240 Speaker 2: When I was a kid, watching this video and listening 1689 01:31:25,240 --> 01:31:27,280 Speaker 2: to this song, I'm like, he has to be sixty. 1690 01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:30,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, this is like someone's dad and 1691 01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:35,599 Speaker 1: he's a famous pop star. Yeah, and now I'm pretty 1692 01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:37,040 Speaker 1: sure we're older than he was. 1693 01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:41,200 Speaker 2: And that really absolutely, I would not be surprised to 1694 01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:42,760 Speaker 2: be like, oh, he was like thirty six when he. 1695 01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:47,000 Speaker 1: Wrote that song. Yeah, that was like that whole this 1696 01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:52,240 Speaker 1: whole movie, this whole song Phil Collins. These were all 1697 01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:57,120 Speaker 1: things that I would just observe as a child and 1698 01:31:57,240 --> 01:31:59,680 Speaker 1: just imagine that this was what being an adult, an 1699 01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:04,400 Speaker 1: adult was like, I'd be like, yeah, this movie adults 1700 01:32:04,400 --> 01:32:08,760 Speaker 1: listening to the song after Divorce, Phil Collins singing it Like. 1701 01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:11,200 Speaker 1: I just was like so informed by all of these things, 1702 01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:13,599 Speaker 1: because of of course, we've talked about this, like we 1703 01:32:13,600 --> 01:32:17,400 Speaker 1: were obsessed with adulthood, We wanted to be older. We 1704 01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:21,759 Speaker 1: were always like, you know, moving towards like older forms 1705 01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:25,000 Speaker 1: of entertainment, like movies that were not for kids and 1706 01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:27,720 Speaker 1: TV shows that weren't for kids. So of course this 1707 01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:30,960 Speaker 1: was like fucking catnip to me. I was like Phil 1708 01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:35,400 Speaker 1: Collins singing in a triangle with in a blazer with 1709 01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:40,200 Speaker 1: or standing hairline about some fucking two people on a 1710 01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:44,280 Speaker 1: beach make it out Like I was like, I'm in sold. 1711 01:32:45,080 --> 01:32:48,519 Speaker 2: Also, Phil Collins and that blazer walked so that Steve 1712 01:32:48,560 --> 01:32:55,080 Speaker 2: Harvey and his blazers could fly. I do not think 1713 01:32:55,080 --> 01:32:57,439 Speaker 2: it's a coincidence that both men ended up shaving their 1714 01:32:57,439 --> 01:33:02,760 Speaker 2: heads yeah and pop it on those big shoulder pad blazers. 1715 01:33:03,200 --> 01:33:05,640 Speaker 1: No, I just I just think that this song is 1716 01:33:06,960 --> 01:33:07,599 Speaker 1: so much. 1717 01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:10,720 Speaker 2: Better than the movie, and and it's more evocative of 1718 01:33:10,760 --> 01:33:14,320 Speaker 2: emotion than the movie actually gives us. And it is 1719 01:33:14,520 --> 01:33:18,120 Speaker 2: a standalone hit for a reason. Yeah, because it is 1720 01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:23,560 Speaker 2: an epic again epic power ballad. I believe it dominates 1721 01:33:23,600 --> 01:33:26,759 Speaker 2: over all other power ballads. And to me, it's Phil 1722 01:33:26,800 --> 01:33:30,479 Speaker 2: Collins's best song. I think it is his best solo song. 1723 01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:34,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not counting the one Easy Lover. We can't 1724 01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:37,240 Speaker 1: count Easy Lover because it was a it was a 1725 01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:41,480 Speaker 1: duet because that song is fucking unbelievable. 1726 01:33:42,080 --> 01:33:45,800 Speaker 2: Absolutely, but those are the rules, Like if solo, it's 1727 01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:48,040 Speaker 2: this duet of course is easy Lover? 1728 01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:51,320 Speaker 1: Yes? Well, and that's that's an interesting concept too. And 1729 01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:53,360 Speaker 1: I think this is like both of our films, right, 1730 01:33:53,520 --> 01:33:56,960 Speaker 1: is when the song becomes more than the movie, And 1731 01:33:57,000 --> 01:33:59,000 Speaker 1: that has happened many times. I mean it's kind of 1732 01:33:59,000 --> 01:34:02,959 Speaker 1: that way with Bodyguard. It might be that way with Titanic, 1733 01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:05,240 Speaker 1: although I've never seen it, so don't get on my case. 1734 01:34:06,479 --> 01:34:10,200 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying like, sometimes the song like becomes 1735 01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:14,240 Speaker 1: bigger and more everlasting than the movie that it's from, 1736 01:34:14,760 --> 01:34:16,400 Speaker 1: and then when you go back and you watch the 1737 01:34:16,439 --> 01:34:19,080 Speaker 1: movie that it's from, You're like, oh, this is just okay. 1738 01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:20,680 Speaker 1: This is just an okay film. 1739 01:34:21,160 --> 01:34:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, this is just passable compared to the 1740 01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:26,799 Speaker 2: emotion that I felt listening to these songs. 1741 01:34:27,479 --> 01:34:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know, and I gotta be honest. I 1742 01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:32,720 Speaker 1: mean in this film, I mean it has good bones, right, 1743 01:34:32,760 --> 01:34:35,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's like a remake. It has you know, 1744 01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:40,600 Speaker 1: original noir you know actors. I mean not just you know, 1745 01:34:41,280 --> 01:34:44,559 Speaker 1: Jane Greer, but then Richard Widmark, who was a noir guy. 1746 01:34:45,040 --> 01:34:48,679 Speaker 1: He plays that weird character like her uncle, like yeah, 1747 01:34:48,720 --> 01:34:51,560 Speaker 1: which I'm like they introduced him and his whole storyline 1748 01:34:51,600 --> 01:34:54,200 Speaker 1: way later that it was too late, and then I 1749 01:34:54,240 --> 01:34:58,759 Speaker 1: was like a henchman. I didn't understand. I didn't understand 1750 01:34:58,760 --> 01:34:59,920 Speaker 1: what this guy was about. 1751 01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:03,880 Speaker 2: Susie Kurtz is in it, and she ends up having 1752 01:35:04,080 --> 01:35:09,400 Speaker 2: a bigger role, but when you first meet her, you're like, huh, I. 1753 01:35:07,200 --> 01:35:10,559 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it was all this like weird stuff that 1754 01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:14,519 Speaker 1: you know. The movie I guess maybe didn't didn't make 1755 01:35:14,520 --> 01:35:16,479 Speaker 1: a lot of sense for me, but you know, there 1756 01:35:16,479 --> 01:35:20,320 Speaker 1: are moments where, again like that, it was like Jeff 1757 01:35:20,400 --> 01:35:26,400 Speaker 1: Bridges looking extremely attractive and kind kind of the only 1758 01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:32,760 Speaker 1: thing I might remember about this movie. Unfortunately, it's the 1759 01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:37,200 Speaker 1: song and him being shirtless for no good reason. 1760 01:35:38,840 --> 01:35:44,120 Speaker 2: And just you know, just running him shirtless and running. 1761 01:35:45,400 --> 01:35:48,160 Speaker 1: Like that's enough. I'm fine. I'm fine with that. 1762 01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:51,920 Speaker 2: You've got on to make incredible, award winning films. You're 1763 01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:55,640 Speaker 2: allowed to speaking of relaxation, Jeff Bridges, You're allowed to 1764 01:35:55,680 --> 01:35:57,360 Speaker 2: relax and just have a fuck movie on the beach 1765 01:35:57,400 --> 01:35:57,920 Speaker 2: in Mexico. 1766 01:35:58,240 --> 01:36:02,400 Speaker 1: Absolutely, you deserve it. You deserve it. Listen, Daniel. I mean, 1767 01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:06,000 Speaker 1: I am so fucking happy that I do a podcast 1768 01:36:06,040 --> 01:36:09,000 Speaker 1: with you about movies, because you really do make me 1769 01:36:09,080 --> 01:36:12,600 Speaker 1: watch stuff that I have like not to say that 1770 01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:14,800 Speaker 1: I would have never seen a movie this movie, because 1771 01:36:14,800 --> 01:36:17,479 Speaker 1: I did obviously have a curiosity to see it because 1772 01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:21,840 Speaker 1: it's just an eighties film. But like I you forced 1773 01:36:21,840 --> 01:36:24,120 Speaker 1: me to watch it finally, and I'm actually happy that 1774 01:36:24,200 --> 01:36:26,920 Speaker 1: I did. I'm glad I watched it. Yeah, and that 1775 01:36:26,960 --> 01:36:27,880 Speaker 1: makes me happy too. 1776 01:36:27,920 --> 01:36:30,320 Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's the same like I'm 1777 01:36:30,360 --> 01:36:32,280 Speaker 2: always introduced to things that I'm like, oh, I always 1778 01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:34,880 Speaker 2: meant to watch that, or I'd heard about that, and 1779 01:36:34,960 --> 01:36:37,880 Speaker 2: so like I've definitely seen Vision Quest, but if I 1780 01:36:37,920 --> 01:36:40,240 Speaker 2: also know that, like you have introduced me to a 1781 01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:43,960 Speaker 2: wealth of films that I would otherwise not have watched 1782 01:36:44,040 --> 01:36:46,840 Speaker 2: or haven't watched yet. And it's just always it's always fun. 1783 01:36:47,000 --> 01:36:47,960 Speaker 2: It's always fun. 1784 01:36:48,360 --> 01:36:49,800 Speaker 1: Well, when it comes down to it, I feel like 1785 01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:51,800 Speaker 1: Phil Collins forced us to watch this. 1786 01:36:51,840 --> 01:36:56,560 Speaker 2: Movie truly, truly because the way the man's singing is 1787 01:36:56,640 --> 01:36:58,679 Speaker 2: damn heart out. I'm like, there's got to be something 1788 01:36:58,720 --> 01:37:01,080 Speaker 2: intense going on in this movie. And what is going 1789 01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:04,400 Speaker 2: on is Jeff Ridges is tan and shirtless, and we 1790 01:37:04,439 --> 01:37:07,040 Speaker 2: all need to know that that is part of his background. 1791 01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:10,120 Speaker 2: He's not just true grit, he's not just the old man. 1792 01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:14,120 Speaker 2: He's not just fucking Lebowski. He says, a hot motherfucker 1793 01:37:14,200 --> 01:37:17,040 Speaker 2: running on the beach shirtless and goddamn Mexico. 1794 01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:19,800 Speaker 1: And this fucking Prime. 1795 01:37:21,120 --> 01:37:23,439 Speaker 2: Wow dude, and he looks really tall in this movie, 1796 01:37:23,479 --> 01:37:26,519 Speaker 2: Like I guess I never realized he was tall. He 1797 01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:30,360 Speaker 2: looks tall in this movie. Yeah, yeah, look, you gotta 1798 01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:32,200 Speaker 2: get on this. But this was this was a blast 1799 01:37:32,240 --> 01:37:35,840 Speaker 2: to do. I love these DJ playing my motherfucking song episodes. 1800 01:37:36,360 --> 01:37:40,960 Speaker 2: And our next episode next week is it's something else. 1801 01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm mixed sited. 1802 01:37:43,680 --> 01:37:46,400 Speaker 2: I do not know if people are gonna guess this 1803 01:37:46,439 --> 01:37:48,479 Speaker 2: theme or not, but I cannot wait to see what 1804 01:37:48,520 --> 01:37:49,960 Speaker 2: they think the theme is. 1805 01:37:50,200 --> 01:37:52,000 Speaker 1: This is gonna be a weird double feature if you 1806 01:37:52,040 --> 01:37:54,080 Speaker 1: sit down for both of them at the same time. 1807 01:37:54,120 --> 01:37:57,960 Speaker 1: But damn, they're both good movies, so why the fuck not. 1808 01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:02,479 Speaker 1: The movies for next week are Midnight Cowboy from nineteen 1809 01:38:02,560 --> 01:38:07,639 Speaker 1: sixty nine and Beetlejuice from nineteen eighty eights. What the 1810 01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:12,400 Speaker 1: fuck the fuck? But it's gonna like two great films. 1811 01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:14,080 Speaker 1: No idea how they're coming together. 1812 01:38:15,400 --> 01:38:18,880 Speaker 2: Sometimes it doesn't hit me until we're doing this part 1813 01:38:18,920 --> 01:38:20,679 Speaker 2: of the show, like here are the movies next week, 1814 01:38:20,720 --> 01:38:22,640 Speaker 2: where I'm like, I put myself in the position of 1815 01:38:22,680 --> 01:38:25,680 Speaker 2: the audience trying to guess the theme, and I hear 1816 01:38:25,800 --> 01:38:28,600 Speaker 2: Midnight Cowboy and Beetlejuice and I'm just spinning out. I 1817 01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:29,719 Speaker 2: don't know what the hell to think. 1818 01:38:31,840 --> 01:38:33,320 Speaker 1: Well, I love it, I love it. 1819 01:38:33,360 --> 01:38:35,240 Speaker 2: I wait, I love it too. 1820 01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:38,040 Speaker 1: Listen. 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We 1837 01:39:25,240 --> 01:39:27,759 Speaker 2: should make one, we should get we should totally make. 1838 01:39:27,600 --> 01:39:29,720 Speaker 1: One well, so we can get Casey on that in 1839 01:39:30,560 --> 01:39:32,200 Speaker 1: five seconds, I think you would be thrilled. 1840 01:39:35,000 --> 01:39:36,600 Speaker 2: Our producer can do anything. 1841 01:39:37,240 --> 01:39:40,720 Speaker 1: He'll be like, he'll be the jelly Bean, like Madonna's 1842 01:39:40,760 --> 01:39:43,080 Speaker 1: producer for Crazy For You'll be like the our jelly 1843 01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:45,200 Speaker 1: bean and he'll just like make a power ballad for us. 1844 01:39:45,800 --> 01:39:49,839 Speaker 2: You're like a small request, Casey, become jelly Bean Benita, 1845 01:39:50,400 --> 01:39:52,040 Speaker 2: real quick, real. 1846 01:39:51,960 --> 01:39:55,840 Speaker 1: Quick, until next week, See you soon. 1847 01:40:03,240 --> 01:40:05,960 Speaker 2: This has been an exactly right production, produced and mixed 1848 01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:09,120 Speaker 2: by Casey O'Brien. 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