WEBVTT - REASONABLE REWIND: Shady Preacher w/ Jamal Bryant

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shaitey. I am just

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<v Speaker 1>a Ryan. What's up? What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for being here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, thank you, thank Yeah. Everybody should be like nice

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<v Speaker 1>and full and happy or mad? Right, I'm mad because

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<v Speaker 1>they got into a fight with their family, right like

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<v Speaker 1>happy Thanksgiving?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, like I'm never coming back again.

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<v Speaker 1>I love those family moments.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I had something like that. You know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I actually have had my brother years ago. He would

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<v Speaker 2>always be good for a moment like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but he likes storm out the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Has he ever stormed out?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if he ever stormed out, but he

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<v Speaker 2>would make things just very tense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you can cut that dientcher with a knife, honey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then it would like carry over for like months,

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<v Speaker 2>where like he stopped talking to people.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love that. Okay, So, as a matter if

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<v Speaker 1>I I want to ask the folks right now, send

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<v Speaker 1>us your crazy current like this. Just this past Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>they had me like family drama over Thanksgiving. Yes, give

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<v Speaker 1>us the tea. We want the story, so like email

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<v Speaker 1>that to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that would be fun. Yes, And I've had plenty

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<v Speaker 2>of those with like Wand's family when we.

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<v Speaker 1>Just yeah, my sister has stormed out a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, normally sometimes when back when I was younger

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a very hot temper, it was me

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<v Speaker 1>really oh yeah, but I mean I would eat first.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you got a hot temper, I used to Yes, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>we're moving on, so no, no, no, anyway, what I did,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to have a very hot I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>would get angry very quickly and then just like say

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<v Speaker 1>what I had to say I had and then I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have a filter. Yeah. Now I have a filter.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get that angry, and I'm a much better person. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like at what age did these were my twenties or

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<v Speaker 1>the twenties was like rip rain yeah yeah yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I feel like for me, well I think I've

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<v Speaker 2>said this, well, I don't know. Sometimes it's still here.

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<v Speaker 2>But when once I had kids, I really kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like calm down. Yes, absolutely, I definitely calm down. Yeah. Yeah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your shady moment? Any shady moment? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean okay, so I'm talking to you right now

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<v Speaker 2>on like less than one hour cumulative of sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, we're working on fumes. Yeah, fumes. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on fumes.

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<v Speaker 3>And it is because that.

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<v Speaker 2>Juan Dixon, what did he do? Has no consideration for

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<v Speaker 2>people sleeping? So okay, he he he's in his basketball season.

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<v Speaker 3>His team is going on a road trip, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're on a two game road trip, which means

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<v Speaker 2>they're gonna be gone you know, one, two, three.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably like four or five days, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know he's he always waits till the last

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<v Speaker 2>minute to pack. So he comes into the bedroom midnight. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I got a pack, but I'm tired. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>lay down for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So is that is that a second for somethings?

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<v Speaker 1>That code for robbing? You packed my clothes? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he's so particular, like so particular, So I can't

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<v Speaker 2>help him there. But he but and keep this in mind,

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<v Speaker 2>he had to leave the house by six am because

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<v Speaker 2>they were flying out this morning. Right, okay, so twelve

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<v Speaker 2>you haven't packed and you're laying down in the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Not good, right, It's not for a few minutes with you, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So he sets he sets an alarm, okay for like

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<v Speaker 2>forty five minutes. I don't Yeah, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>what the time was, so, you know, I doze off,

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<v Speaker 2>and what feels like a few minutes later he was

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<v Speaker 2>the alarm.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not turn it off.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, turn your alarm off, or I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>get up right, He's like, all right, just give me

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<v Speaker 2>a little more, give me a little more time whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>A few minutes later, he doesn't get up. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>get up. I swear the whole entire night. His alarm

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<v Speaker 2>went up, like he snoozed his alarm the entire night.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we'd have been fighting, yes, And I'm like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, can you turn your alarm? Can you get up?

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<v Speaker 2>Turn your alarm? He's he has a nerve to say, Robin,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cool, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Said, but I'm not. Yes, you're literally sleeping through.

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<v Speaker 3>This breaking alarm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool, Like I'm fine, Yes, okay, you know, not

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<v Speaker 1>the only one in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Room, sir, I said, But I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>What then that's funny, right, Actually that's actually that's actually absurd.

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<v Speaker 1>But we love why so we won't like trash. It's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>He had the nerve so so so, and I'm the

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<v Speaker 2>type like I can't just fall back to sleep. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you, if I'm awaken in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>the night, it really takes me a long time to

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<v Speaker 2>fall back to sleep. So it's like I will finally

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<v Speaker 2>fall back to sleep. And then it said, and I'm like, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Get I would have rolled up and punched him. I

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<v Speaker 1>straight up, what have I smacked the living daylights out

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<v Speaker 1>of him?

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<v Speaker 2>So then he had the nerve to say was He's

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<v Speaker 2>like oh, And then of course, like once he does

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<v Speaker 2>get up and starts packing, he's all talking and has

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<v Speaker 2>the light on.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, the light fine, I put it.

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<v Speaker 3>I put a little eye mask on that ship was.

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<v Speaker 2>Annoying, Like I don't really wear sleep masks, especially because

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<v Speaker 2>my lashes, you know, the extensions.

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<v Speaker 3>That was uncomfortable. So I'm all tossing and turning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's just a mass. It's a mask.

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<v Speaker 2>Then on top of that, right, so his colm blue

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<v Speaker 2>to story, But my brother in law and the baby

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<v Speaker 2>were here.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they still here?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, they'll cut out in January, okay, But he

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<v Speaker 2>spent the night because my brother in law was on

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<v Speaker 2>the coaching staff and they were both going to the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the airport together, but his wife was on

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<v Speaker 2>a trip, not coming back till tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's the baby?

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<v Speaker 2>So then I had to wake up extra early to

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<v Speaker 2>get the baby ready for daycare.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just a mass okay, So basically you have

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes asleep. Okay, hear the baby Wan Dixon and

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<v Speaker 1>your brother in law.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, this is a mask, which is and I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>the whole night, I'm like, oh my gosh, i gotta

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<v Speaker 2>work tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to podcasts. I'm not even gonna know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>We got so much right, so right now it's disclaimer.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever comes out of Robin's mouth, just blame it on

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<v Speaker 1>the lack of sleep, yes, okay, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm present or extra cranky, yes, blame it on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So let me give you my reasonably shady moment

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<v Speaker 1>of the week. Okay, Okay, So you don't have three girls.

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<v Speaker 1>They're in high school. This week is spirit week, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so every day they have to dress up as something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so first day they two days ago, and they participate, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>full on Okay, at the whole school, full on participate.

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<v Speaker 1>Really because it's like all girls, they all get into it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying the school is all girls. So they get in,

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<v Speaker 1>they get into it. Adores the vice president of her class.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's like, okay, making sure they're all until she's

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<v Speaker 2>like picking the themes.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah. So theme for the first day was be

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite celebrity. Grace decided she was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>this woman and she needed like a blond wig. She

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<v Speaker 1>on a shirt that said the Real Housewives Potomac. Okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>she was meet okay, And I thought that was so cute,

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<v Speaker 1>right until she started talking Oh no, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like right on the street is oh not on the street,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, that's right, That's what I'm talking about. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. It was so shady and so horrible. I

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<v Speaker 1>was so angry with her. I was like, okay, I've

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<v Speaker 1>had it, Like after twenty minutes. I was like, I've

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<v Speaker 1>had a knife, and leave my house and stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. And so like I'm sure all day long,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she she would send me pictures of herself

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<v Speaker 1>with like her friends of all day and listen, she

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<v Speaker 1>kept that blonde wig on her head all day. She

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<v Speaker 1>was so excited. And I was like, if word on

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<v Speaker 1>the street comes out of your mouth one more time, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we gonna fight up here. You see what you did?

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<v Speaker 1>You did it, I did it. You did it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's hilarious. Okay, wait, so did she look like you

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<v Speaker 2>kinda yeah, kind of sort.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she, out of all three of my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>looks the most like me, So yes, I mean she did,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was It was actually nice because she was

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<v Speaker 1>so excited to do it. But I think she was

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<v Speaker 1>excited to be shape of course, and she came up

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<v Speaker 1>with that r oh. She's like, Mammy, I'm gonna be you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, okay, this is so nice. And

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<v Speaker 1>then that thing got she got into sell mode.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you think she was she saying that at

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<v Speaker 2>school to her friend. I'm sure I am so.

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<v Speaker 1>She said all of her teachers loved it, like they were.

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<v Speaker 1>They were excited about it, she said, even an older

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<v Speaker 1>lady that's like the chairman of the board. The next

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<v Speaker 1>day she saw Grace and she was like, I really

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<v Speaker 1>liked your costume. You really look like your mom. And

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<v Speaker 1>Grace was like very happy. So that I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>nice that she loves me enough to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she was super shady.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny way, But we have a super exciting special

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<v Speaker 1>guest to today, y'all get ready to get ready, to

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<v Speaker 1>get ready, get runner. Who is it? Okay? So, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, we have this super special sing guest on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. Y'all. Okay, let me give him his first

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<v Speaker 1>his credentials. Okay, So he's a more House grad. He

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<v Speaker 1>is a pastor extraordinaire. Actually, he's the best pastor preacher

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<v Speaker 1>on the planet, on the planet, on the planet. Put

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<v Speaker 1>all your money on it. I will put all my

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<v Speaker 1>money on it.

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<v Speaker 3>He is.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually the senior pastor of New Birth Missionary Baptist

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<v Speaker 1>Church in Atlanta, Georgia. He's the only guy I've ever married,

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<v Speaker 1>the only one, Yes, the only one. And he is

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<v Speaker 1>the father to all three of my kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think he will he will continue to be

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<v Speaker 3>the only one ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. We shall see, but he is. He

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<v Speaker 1>is the father to all three of my kids. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know him as passed to Jamal Harrison Bryan. He is

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<v Speaker 1>in the belt ding. What is going on? Past up?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh good, Robin asked Zella.

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<v Speaker 5>I made a promise to her about some ice Chipsla,

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<v Speaker 5>What is.

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<v Speaker 1>That with the ice chips? He said, When we get older,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be the way feeding the ice chips. As

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<v Speaker 1>I'm laying in the bed like an valid, he's feeding

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<v Speaker 1>me like I don't know if that's a good Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a compliment?

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<v Speaker 4>And what is that? That's a big compliment?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that means you are He is with you forever ever.

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<v Speaker 2>One look, let me tell you what one asked me

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<v Speaker 2>the other day. It's a little graphic. He said, are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to white my butts?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>So let me say this to you, Robert, Let me

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<v Speaker 4>say to this do you Robin? I wouldn't even.

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<v Speaker 5>Have my feelings hurt to ask Jazelle that question. I

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<v Speaker 5>already know the answer. But that nurse is coming in

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<v Speaker 5>five second.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, what are you gonna white? Mind? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the two ways, right, Jamal, you gonna wipe mine?

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<v Speaker 4>I want to get that nurse.

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<v Speaker 1>The ice tip you just that's that's your limit. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have some first, we have some get to

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<v Speaker 1>know you rapid fire questions. Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 1>Tupac or Biggie Bicky Fantasia or Jennifer Hudson Fantasia, Kobe

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<v Speaker 1>Bryant or Michael Jordan h.

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta go with Michael Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Or Thanksgiving, Christmas? Atlanta or Baltimore. What you got?

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta pick who's listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone listening Baltimore and Atlanta or listening.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, I'm with Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're in Atlanta. Okay? Reasonable or shady?

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmmm, reasonable?

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<v Speaker 1>Reasonable?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you're a lying Do you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't agree with that because I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted y'all to know I know this man for a

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<v Speaker 1>very long time. Half of my shadiness I get from

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<v Speaker 1>Jamal Bryants in the other half from your dad.

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<v Speaker 5>This was all a lie from her day, right. Her

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<v Speaker 5>dad is the black siin fel dry humor up. But

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<v Speaker 5>he's gonna shak you in.

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<v Speaker 3>The shower, Yes, not shake you in the shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave my dad out of this. First and foremost, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you You are a preacher, extraordinary and you like

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<v Speaker 1>say whatever it is that you feel is in your

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<v Speaker 1>heart or on your mind, and sometimes that allows for

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<v Speaker 1>the haters to hate on you because you know you

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<v Speaker 1>stand on whatever it is that you believe. So over

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<v Speaker 1>the years, you know, Rober and I feel like, I mean, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a whole lot of hate that comes our way.

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<v Speaker 1>The evolution of hater ration. Okay, because before social media,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know I can speak from experience with just

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<v Speaker 1>being around you, you know, you would get hate in

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<v Speaker 1>the streets of Baltimore by other preachers. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>were like the Golden Child. Your church was growing by

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<v Speaker 1>leaps and bounds and there's wasn't So how do you

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<v Speaker 1>deal with haters? Then the evolution of hating, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like the social media hate of it all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>John Maxwell said this Robin that if you want to

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<v Speaker 5>be like to sell ice crank, that anything that you

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<v Speaker 5>do outside of that is going to be controversial. And

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<v Speaker 5>we have gotten to a place where we think to

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<v Speaker 5>be famous, to be successful, it's anonymous with being adored.

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<v Speaker 5>And the reality is there is nobody in public space

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<v Speaker 5>who doesn't get there without critique. And so, whether you're

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<v Speaker 5>dealing with politics or an athlete or an entertainer or

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<v Speaker 5>a preacher, if you put yourself upfront, doctor King said,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're upfront and nobody is kicking your behind, you're

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<v Speaker 5>really not needing well. And so I think it's really

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<v Speaker 5>the mus tests of finding out who your value is.

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<v Speaker 2>Who Now did you did you always feel that way

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<v Speaker 2>or did you have to did you have to develop that?

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's perrier water. It is an acquired taste.

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<v Speaker 5>It is shocking, Cornell West uh said, Uh, the most.

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<v Speaker 4>Painful thing you'll ever do is be hated on by

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<v Speaker 4>people you love. Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>And so to go through the blows is not robbing

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<v Speaker 5>white supremacists threaten you. It ain't people from the tea.

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<v Speaker 4>Party who have you.

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<v Speaker 5>Is people who you're trying to represent on a global stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>And you're doing it and you're not twerking. You're doing it,

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<v Speaker 5>and you're not being vogue or profane. You're raising your children,

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<v Speaker 5>loving your husband, doing what it is the ideal of

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<v Speaker 5>our people. And then you've got to fight through what

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<v Speaker 5>James Baldwin called survivors killed.

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<v Speaker 4>You are made to feel bad because you do well. Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>And it really just shows how toxic many of our

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<v Speaker 5>people think.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn that was good, right, Okay, sot Alright, but Jamal,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like something so you feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>get the we as in as in the black community

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<v Speaker 1>gets the most hate from the black community. It just

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<v Speaker 1>hurts the most.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, no doubt about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. The old thing is that hurt people, hurt people.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>And I heard a quote this way. Haters are people

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<v Speaker 5>who don't know how to say they love you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>so a lot of people who hate you really want

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<v Speaker 5>to you. A lot of people who hate you I

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<v Speaker 5>want to take your place. And so you've got to

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<v Speaker 5>see what is their level of brokenness. You opened up

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<v Speaker 5>just I'll talking about they hated you because your church

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<v Speaker 5>is growing in NAIs is not and a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>people we attack who we should be learning from.

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<v Speaker 4>And so instead of beating me up, they hate Jamaal.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you do this?

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<v Speaker 5>But we're not used to men towards ship, We're not

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<v Speaker 5>used to legitimate friendships. It's really the straight bullets of

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<v Speaker 5>social media that when I followed you on Facebook, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>called a friend. You did not frame me, you followed me,

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<v Speaker 5>and it has reduced what is the value of what

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<v Speaker 5>real friendship is?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I like you know. I can say that

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<v Speaker 1>because because we've talked a lot about how you and

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<v Speaker 1>I both deal with social media and just hate and

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<v Speaker 1>it just rolls off our back. I want to say

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<v Speaker 1>that forty percent of that I got from Jamal just

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<v Speaker 1>being with him when he was first starting out and

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<v Speaker 1>pastoring his church, and just all the negativity that would

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<v Speaker 1>come his way. He just didn't care at all, like

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<v Speaker 1>it just didn't affect him. And I appreciate it because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he would just keep it moving and be

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<v Speaker 1>greater and greater every Sunday. He was just greater than

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<v Speaker 1>the next Sunday. So thank you, sir, You gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a little something something out here in these streets.

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<v Speaker 5>No, let me say to you, Gizelle one in that vein,

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<v Speaker 5>how proud of you I am. And I don't mean

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<v Speaker 5>that in any condescending way. My greatest fear when you

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<v Speaker 5>went on the reality television was how were you going

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<v Speaker 5>to be able to handle that level of scrutiny and attack.

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<v Speaker 4>And you have done.

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<v Speaker 5>It in a very graceful fashion that in many ways

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<v Speaker 5>I have been surprised about.

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<v Speaker 4>But Giselle and I.

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<v Speaker 5>Robin met not in church but working in the NAACP.

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<v Speaker 5>So the people who I looked up to were Doctor King,

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<v Speaker 5>was Malcolm X, was Adam Clayton Powell who were speaking

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<v Speaker 5>out and Giselle.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at the contrasts.

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<v Speaker 5>Their haters was burning crosses in their front yard, were

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<v Speaker 5>shooting at their wife. All I got to deal with

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<v Speaker 5>is a blogger. It's light emparrassing to the people who

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<v Speaker 5>I look up to and what they had been doing.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I wasn't coming to you Grace Angel and

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<v Speaker 5>Door Black, and we got to leave at midnight the

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<v Speaker 5>blog because it was just.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just the reality of the space.

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<v Speaker 5>That this is the safest hour as a civil rights

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<v Speaker 5>leader to be hated. If the only thing that you

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<v Speaker 5>got to be afraid of is a keyboard, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't and I'll take.

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<v Speaker 1>It, okay, So come on that vein. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>whole world saw your takedown of Hershelwalker, like the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>of your sermon in what you talked about Hershel Walker

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<v Speaker 1>and the fact that we don't need him. That thing

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<v Speaker 1>went viral. Andy Cohen saw it. He texted me at

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<v Speaker 1>eightyclock in the morning. I didn't think that Andy listened

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<v Speaker 1>to a black preacher. You're probably the first black preacher

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<v Speaker 1>Andy has ever listened to.

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<v Speaker 3>Where was it replayed for him to get a hold

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<v Speaker 3>of that who God only knows?

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<v Speaker 1>God only knows, Georgia.

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<v Speaker 6>I need you to know the slave Nick ro y'all

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<v Speaker 6>not used to don't live here no more. We can't

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<v Speaker 6>think by ourself, function for ourself, and vote bysell Why

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<v Speaker 6>because we don't need a walk god A.

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<v Speaker 1>That was amazing, Jamal, that's that's you know, typical best

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<v Speaker 1>preacher and the whole planet. That's what he does. But

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<v Speaker 1>but now that we have not one in Georgia, are

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<v Speaker 1>you frustrated with the fact that Hershel Walker and Warnot

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<v Speaker 1>they got to run again?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I'm frustrated, but I'm excited that people of

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<v Speaker 5>Georgia have done it before. When Raphael first got elected,

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<v Speaker 5>we had to go to a runoff because Giselle different

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<v Speaker 5>from Maryland. You don't win in Georgia because you have

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<v Speaker 5>the highest amount of votes. You have to have fifty

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<v Speaker 5>plus one percent. So Raphael had over i think fifty

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<v Speaker 5>thousand more votes.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I think that people are really mobilized.

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<v Speaker 5>One thing about black people, if they feel like there's

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<v Speaker 5>a fight, they're coming to watch it.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think that people are mobilized.

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<v Speaker 5>And it were just unearthed yesterday that if one hypothetically

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<v Speaker 5>gave to Hershel Walker's campaign one hundred dollars, only ten

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<v Speaker 5>of it went to Hershelwalker. Oh wow, ninety of those

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<v Speaker 5>dollars went to Trump. What And so they just hit

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<v Speaker 5>the press today that he wasn't even getting his money.

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<v Speaker 5>So they've been pumped, pimping him at a level that

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<v Speaker 5>herschel Walker didn't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Speaking speaking of Trump, you know, he just decided

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<v Speaker 1>he was gonna run again. Don't you want to, like

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<v Speaker 1>sing the song for Frozen? What's that? Let it go,

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<v Speaker 1>Let it go, Let it go, Let it go. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like there is no wind in his sales.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's a rap and he's the only

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<v Speaker 1>one that doesn't know it.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he is a gift to the Democratic Party

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<v Speaker 5>because it slows down everybody else who is a Republican

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<v Speaker 5>who's thinking about running, because he is such a megalo

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<v Speaker 5>maniac and his ego makes him delusional about facts. That's

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<v Speaker 5>how the midterms didn't go in the way that the

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<v Speaker 5>Republicans thought, because these were all Trump candidates. And so

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<v Speaker 5>I think him staying in the race is going to

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<v Speaker 5>lower the money for the Republicans and lower the enthusiasm

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<v Speaker 5>of that base.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it will keep me entertained.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I can I tell you, without Trump on my TV

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<v Speaker 2>screen every day, I didn't have as much to laugh about.

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<v Speaker 1>This is very true. I am looking forward to that. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And if you didn't see the did Jamal takedown of

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<v Speaker 1>a Hersha Walker. Just google it, child, get your entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now let's let stand on that. On that topic,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's the one thing. One advantage about Warnock

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<v Speaker 2>and Walker running again is that now we can focus

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<v Speaker 2>all of our attention on bringing attention to that very

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<v Speaker 2>important race in Georgia.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we were here Maryland.

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<v Speaker 2>We're pushing for our Maryland candidates, but we can tell

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<v Speaker 2>everybody you know repeatedly to vote for Warnock because I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know who in the right mind can check

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<v Speaker 2>off a box for herschel Walker like I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I just that is the.

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<v Speaker 4>Most asa Georgia. Yes, this guy can't conjugate a bird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's pathetic. I listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I was listening to him the other day and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I cannot believe that this is reality. But

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<v Speaker 2>now at least we can focus all of our attention

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<v Speaker 2>on making sure he does not get elected.

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<v Speaker 1>True, true, true. Okay, moving on, So, Jamal and I

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<v Speaker 1>have three beautiful daughters, Grace, Angel and a Door. I

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<v Speaker 1>love them so much and I'm actually proud of my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think that they are amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>They are beautiful amazing, respectful.

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<v Speaker 1>They are kind, they are I just learned this. I

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<v Speaker 1>learned this morning, Jamal. I don't know if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's that Grace takes a class and right

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<v Speaker 1>now currently that is like I don't know what it's called,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like she helps students with special needs. Oh nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So but the class is about like her tutoring them

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<v Speaker 1>and her helping them. And I felt like at her age.

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<v Speaker 1>If I when I was her age, there's no way

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<v Speaker 1>in hell that I would have the patience to do

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. I credit Jamal. I think she got

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<v Speaker 1>her patience from you. You know, Jamal is very compassionate

0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:46.600
<v Speaker 1>and he's he has a gift for just giving service

0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:49.960
<v Speaker 1>and service. So thank you you gave that to Grace

0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:53.000
<v Speaker 1>because she is. I saw her interact with one of

0:23:53.040 --> 0:23:55.840
<v Speaker 1>the young ladies that go to school has with special needs,

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>and Grace was just like so amazing with her. So

0:23:58.720 --> 0:24:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I give you all that, mister Bryant. Now I feel

0:24:06.040 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>like we're able to co parent very well. I'm going

0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:12.439
<v Speaker 1>to toot my own horn a little bit and say that,

0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:14.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, when Jamal and I were first getting a divorce,

0:24:15.119 --> 0:24:20.439
<v Speaker 1>I decided that however, mad I was at him was

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:25.440
<v Speaker 1>not as important as him being in my kid's life. Right, absolutely,

0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 1>What would you think is our greatest gift to our kids?

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<v Speaker 5>Jamal were Number one, you are an amazing mother and

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<v Speaker 5>I am eternally indebted for the incredible way that you

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:42.880
<v Speaker 5>have modeled in front of our girls. And I don't

0:24:42.960 --> 0:24:46.280
<v Speaker 5>want people to think we've just arrived here.

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:48.920
<v Speaker 4>This was not an easy road to get to where

0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:49.960
<v Speaker 4>it is that we are.

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<v Speaker 5>We were intentional about doing family counseling with the girls

0:24:57.880 --> 0:25:02.119
<v Speaker 5>and with Giselle and I because it was here a

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:07.560
<v Speaker 5>shama for a minute, but it was, but we were

0:25:07.880 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 5>really committed for the sake of the girls.

0:25:11.200 --> 0:25:16.040
<v Speaker 4>On how it is that we were modeled before each other.

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<v Speaker 4>So we've been divorced for twelve years, a.

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<v Speaker 1>Long time, long time, but he's still here.

0:25:22.160 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Speaker 4>He's twelve years and twelve years.

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<v Speaker 5>I can only think of one major blow up that

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:33.040
<v Speaker 5>we've had with the girls present, and I'm just thankful

0:25:33.080 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 5>on God one that you have been mindful of my

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<v Speaker 5>presence and how it is that you have navigated co

0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:48.520
<v Speaker 5>parenting long distance, which is a whole different all of wax,

0:25:48.800 --> 0:25:49.560
<v Speaker 5>but it's been greater.

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:52.760
<v Speaker 4>So every day is Mother's Day. And that's really why

0:25:52.800 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 4>I'm nice to you, okay.

0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:59.439
<v Speaker 1>And I appreciate that. And this is for people that

0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:03.480
<v Speaker 1>are going through divorce right now, I said to Jamal,

0:26:03.520 --> 0:26:06.159
<v Speaker 1>because Jamal travels a lot. You know, I don't know

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:08.720
<v Speaker 1>what your calendar and your schedule is now, but at

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 1>the time, Jamal would be booked a year out for

0:26:11.720 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, going around the world. He's he's a preacher international.

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:17.200
<v Speaker 1>He wants me to say that he's a globe trotting preacher.

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<v Speaker 1>And I knew because of his schedule that he couldn't

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:26.199
<v Speaker 1>have a consistent schedule with the girl, like we couldn't

0:26:26.200 --> 0:26:28.159
<v Speaker 1>do every other weekend or anything like that. So I

0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:33.040
<v Speaker 1>said to him, look, anytime it is, it has something.

0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Anytime there is a moment that has something to do

0:26:35.160 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 1>with the girls, if it's a vacation, if it's a dinner,

0:26:38.119 --> 0:26:42.919
<v Speaker 1>if it's or whatever, you are invited, okay. And so

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I always left the window open for him to jump

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:49.040
<v Speaker 1>in whenever he could, and he does. He jumps in

0:26:49.080 --> 0:26:49.600
<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's beautiful, I mean. And unfortunately, so many relationships or

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:57.200
<v Speaker 2>the parent they can't get along and they can't.

0:26:57.359 --> 0:26:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Look at the bigger picture.

0:26:58.280 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 3>Which is the children when they go through a divorce.

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:02.960
<v Speaker 2>And so I definitely think you all are an example

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:05.680
<v Speaker 2>for so many people in this world. Yeah, people hold

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 2>on the bitterness and anger and it's like, you know,

0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:10.280
<v Speaker 2>it's just like you just got to let that go

0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:12.320
<v Speaker 2>and look at the big picture, which is the kids.

0:27:12.400 --> 0:27:14.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I love my kids more than I will ever

0:27:14.359 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 1>be mad at that man. And now I'm not mad

0:27:16.560 --> 0:27:19.560
<v Speaker 1>at him, no more so any way. Okay, so a

0:27:19.560 --> 0:27:25.879
<v Speaker 1>couple of things, Oh, a couple week he said this week.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Jamal is good about not bragging on himself,

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.959
<v Speaker 1>but there's a little brag. I want to do. You

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<v Speaker 1>feed the community. When the COVID first started, New Birth

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:41.280
<v Speaker 1>was very intentional about feeding the community. You have fed

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 1>how many I'm saying it wrong, you have done how many?

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 4>How many?

0:27:46.320 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 5>So in the in the pandemic, we started giving out

0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:55.560
<v Speaker 5>groceries and just a month ago we hit one million

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:59.080
<v Speaker 5>families that we give groceries to in the last years.

0:27:59.440 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 5>And it is great and it is embarrassing to know

0:28:04.160 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 5>that food and security is that diar.

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 4>And we're just talking about one metropolitan Eric.

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 5>For Thanksgiving, we're given out five thousand turkeys. While that

0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.840
<v Speaker 5>sounds good in one way and another way, it's sad

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 5>that it has.

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 4>To be done. Yeah.

0:28:22.240 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 2>Now we said one million groceries two years, families, one

0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:32.959
<v Speaker 2>million family, one million bags of groceries in two years.

0:28:33.119 --> 0:28:35.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's fantastic.

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 1>That's fantastic. I remember when I was when we were

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>married and I was the first Lady of the Primate Temple,

0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the Women's Ministry would that.

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 2>You know what, I know my next question, the Women's

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:52.479
<v Speaker 2>Ministry would decided to has his hands over his.

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Space, right space. We decided to feed as many families

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>as we could and literally go to their house knock

0:28:59.040 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 1>on the door the food.

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 5>Wow.

0:29:01.400 --> 0:29:03.440
<v Speaker 1>So I had like a bus. I had security. I

0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:05.400
<v Speaker 1>was pregnant at the time with one of them kids

0:29:05.400 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I have, and I was going knocking on doors. So

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like I was in the hood of Baltimore knocking

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:12.640
<v Speaker 1>on doors. You did not know what was going to

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:16.720
<v Speaker 1>open the door. So all kinds of things was opening

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>the door as I was.

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 4>We forgot about it.

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I mean, obviously we were blessing them, but it

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 1>was such a blessing to me to be able to

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.160
<v Speaker 1>give them what the Church gave them and for me,

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 1>like they would invite me in. It would be like

0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>a weed infested smelling house. And they would invite me in,

0:29:33.320 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>and I would prag with them a little bit, and

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I would say Happy Thanksgiving. But we made sure that

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 1>we gave them food from Thanksgiving to Christmas. Wow. So right,

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 1>enough food for to last at least a month. Wow.

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 1>So yes, that's what I did as first lady at

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:49.480
<v Speaker 1>a POM. That is fantastic.

0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:52.960
<v Speaker 2>So look, speaking of Jaselle being first lady at Empowerment Temple,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us Jamal, how was Jazelle as a first lady?

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<v Speaker 1>There's a par.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, So Giselle was not a Mother Teresa first

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 5>lady in her head, she was a Michelle Obama first lady.

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I was so.

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.720
<v Speaker 4>Yes, she was coming in waving.

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Uh Obama before Obama. That is such a lot I

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 1>was not waving to the crowd.

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 5>Was great she was. She was the black princess die.

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 5>She did a great job.

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well while we're on that that note.

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:35.760
<v Speaker 5>She did our first women's conference. Yes, she did a

0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 5>whole lot of mentoring. A lot of the young girls

0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 5>came to her for mentoring. A lot of the young

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 5>ladies who had come to Baltimore to go to either

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:48.840
<v Speaker 5>Copping or Morgan really pulled on her.

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 4>She wrote a whole lot of AKA letters. Half of

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 4>the ak's in Baltimore. Wow, got letters from joselle Oh.

0:30:56.640 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 1>Wow, listen, I was the bomb. Okay even back then.

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Now now now, I want to say, there's some things

0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that I missed not being married to Jamal Brian.

0:31:05.920 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, which is one of the things.

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I used to complain about. I think I now miss it. Okay, Okay.

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 1>So you know, like I said, Jamal travels a lot,

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 1>so he would have to get his his suits and

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 1>his ties and his shirts together before he would go

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:24.520
<v Speaker 1>on his trips. So he would always be like, wake

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:27.080
<v Speaker 1>me up out of my sleep. Now you want to

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 1>be sleep, and when you're sleep, leave me alone, right,

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 1>But he would wake me up. I turn on all

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>the lights. He would say, Giselle, does his suit go

0:31:35.720 --> 0:31:38.440
<v Speaker 1>with this tie? But does his shirt go with this tie?

0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:40.800
<v Speaker 1>When this suit? Okay, wait a minute, wait a minute,

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:43.160
<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, let me get three other ties. Okay

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>did these three ties go with this five shirts? I

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>mean it was like, so you miss this. Now I'm

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 1>just saying giving.

0:31:51.520 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 5>You half in the store what she misses that I

0:31:55.360 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 5>was picking her clothes out.

0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:03.000
<v Speaker 4>That's what she missed when I was taking her clothes out, Robbing.

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 4>She wasn't in no blow somebody when I don't pick

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 4>it out?

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, okay, the same that.

0:32:10.840 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 4>We brought this off.

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 5>This.

0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:15.800
<v Speaker 4>I need you to be a witness, Robbin. You gotta

0:32:15.840 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 4>be a with jam.

0:32:16.760 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Was my first stylist.

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 4>Truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, Robbing.

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 4>When I first met you? Where did I meet you?

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>You met me at the N double A C.

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:28.600
<v Speaker 4>When did I first meet you? Robin?

0:32:28.840 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh rob oh okay yes as sex, yes, true, very true.

0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Yes that sex.

0:32:37.000 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, So she does not miss picking out my tis.

0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:44.280
<v Speaker 4>She misses me dressing her. Yes, but she's not going

0:32:44.360 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 4>to give convention to Okay.

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is this is a breaking moment. Yes, Jamal

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Bryant was my first stylist. Really, yes, and my last

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 1>right and you're only and my only yes, okay.

0:32:59.400 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 2>See one of my I had one of my questions

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 2>for Jamal was how does he go about picking his

0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:06.920
<v Speaker 2>outfits out? Because you know, you look nice and sharp now,

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>but I've seen sometimes you have, like, you know, a

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 2>pink tie and a pink, silky.

0:33:11.800 --> 0:33:15.120
<v Speaker 1>S about them Detroit player suits you had, Okay, you

0:33:15.160 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 1>had some plenty of Detroit player suits.

0:33:17.120 --> 0:33:19.800
<v Speaker 2>Ok do you have a tailor and you're just like,

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 2>give me one of every color, give me everything in

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 2>every color, in every print.

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>Water shade is coming.

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 4>It's a work in progress.

0:33:31.840 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 5>So when I was a US in Detroit, uh, that's

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 5>when I started wearing gatos. So when I met Jizelle,

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:42.880
<v Speaker 5>I had different colored Gatos for every suit. Jazelle threw

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:46.920
<v Speaker 5>my gators out. Yes, I've tried to purge. I've tried

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.240
<v Speaker 5>to purge that part in and walk backwards.

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's a working yes, But I mean they were like,

0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 1>they were like, it's like a whole green suit with

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>the match of green, gatas orange suits with that match

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>of orange. He had this one white leather.

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 4>He wasn't ready.

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:09.359
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely not ready. I don't know you were killing them,

0:34:09.400 --> 0:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>but they weren't ready. White leather trench coat. I couldn't

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>wait for him to go white, a trip leather. I

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 1>threw that thing in the trash can. I said, I

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:17.600
<v Speaker 1>can't do this.

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 4>You ain't never saying a trench coat in white ripping.

0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:23.160
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no.

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 4>Twenty years later, I was ahead of my time.

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 1>White leather. Oh cause, okay, So where is that bat?

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I threw it in the trash can Jamal Bryant's it's gone.

0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that thing probably costs fourteen thousand dollars.

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 1>It is gone. I couldn't take it. But no, I

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 1>feel like you have come a long way and I

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 1>love you. Do you do rock the dashiki situation? Sometimes?

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I see you on the Instagram? So, so do you

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:54.920
<v Speaker 1>like dashiki? A suits?

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 4>Get you a man that could do bothse?

0:34:57.840 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 1>Did you a man that can do both? Is that

0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:02.920
<v Speaker 1>what he's but to answer your question, he has tailors

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:04.320
<v Speaker 1>upon tailors upon Taylors.

0:35:04.320 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, okay, I believe that.

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:09.799
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Okay, See, I'm not a really good cook, so

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I don't I didn't really whine and dine

0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:15.759
<v Speaker 1>in Jamal by my home cooking? Right? But what was

0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 1>your the favorite part of you?

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:22.719
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you that. I gotta tell you this.

0:35:23.120 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 4>Do you know what our first fight was in marriage?

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>What was that? I have no idea?

0:35:29.520 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 4>When are you going to the Supermarke?

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>You didn't know.

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 4>She was coming back with chips and start getting a

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:46.919
<v Speaker 4>home cooked meals so the Girls was born?

0:35:47.280 --> 0:35:52.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Okay, but yeah, in my defense, in

0:35:52.880 --> 0:35:55.839
<v Speaker 1>my defense, Jamal, you like to go to restaurants to eat.

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 1>You like to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, when we're sitting in the same house, you got

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<v Speaker 5>Robin this is two thousand.

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<v Speaker 4>Wasn't no uber, No, there was no brother.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the just.

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<v Speaker 4>Got off a motor two way pages something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this was actually gonna be my last question to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we might finish it just for what he just said.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, okay, so what was the best part about

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<v Speaker 1>being married to Jiselle? Because you're the only person on

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<v Speaker 1>this planet that has been married to me.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a reason there's a be a whole other show.

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<v Speaker 1>Give it to you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, Jouzelle pushed me to be better and

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<v Speaker 5>she's the only one outside of my parents who has

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<v Speaker 5>spoken into my life to really push me to go

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<v Speaker 5>to another level. I preached at a conference at my

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<v Speaker 5>home church one day and I thought I.

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<v Speaker 4>Killed that job. I mean, I thought Star Wars the

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<v Speaker 4>Force was with and Giselle.

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<v Speaker 5>We got in the car and Jaseelle's like, you have

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<v Speaker 5>really stopped growing?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh do you really think just the best that you

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<v Speaker 4>can do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>I was high level offended. Wow, but really seriously for

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<v Speaker 4>it to really go to another point.

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<v Speaker 5>And then when does herschel Walker video went virabl I

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<v Speaker 5>saw Jaseelle maybe a week after that, and she said.

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<v Speaker 4>This is your vein why did you leave that you

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<v Speaker 4>need to stay and what it is that you are.

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<v Speaker 5>Good at and be your best And a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>people don't really have authentic friends that can push you

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<v Speaker 5>to be better. And so the thing that I value

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<v Speaker 5>about Giselle, She's always pushed me to be better, even

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<v Speaker 5>if she's pushing me over the cliff without a parachute.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're going to leave it at that. That was

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<v Speaker 1>such a nice way to end. I want everybody know

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<v Speaker 1>Jamal Briant is one of my favorite people on Earth.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's nice, Yes, one of my favorite people on Earth.

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<v Speaker 4>Put that one. Don't do that because rapping is sitting there,

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<v Speaker 4>not one of not one of the Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not the I have to that.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't do that. Don't do that because rapping is the truth.

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<v Speaker 4>You're one of the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have I have Grace Angela, my favorite one

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<v Speaker 1>of the four.

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<v Speaker 5>Time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, I can say that you you are in

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<v Speaker 1>the top five. Okay, a favorite people.

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<v Speaker 4>I have three kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I have three kids, three kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I have two parents. I have three kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I have two parents. Yes, so you you beat out

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<v Speaker 2>one parent.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, gee geez.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, thank you for letting me come on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we're gonna send you a reasonably said shady sweatshirt.

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<v Speaker 1>We would like to youse for you to wear it

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday morning at church. We want to see us represented

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<v Speaker 1>as you preach the Gospel of the Lord. Wouldn't that

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<v Speaker 1>be beautiful? I'm aware from midd Bible study. Okay, thanks, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>on that note, we will we will let you go.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that you are very busy. Love you to death,

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<v Speaker 1>not Rob I'm gonna speak for myself. Love you to death,

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<v Speaker 1>Jamal Bryant, Thank you, Jamal.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 3>We appreciate your work in the community and we do

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<v Speaker 3>miss you.

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<v Speaker 4>Up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was actually that was my last question. So Jamal,

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<v Speaker 1>did he took me around the world? Like we went

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<v Speaker 1>to Egypt, we went to Greece, we went to here, Africa,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to Why didn't you take me to Wakanda?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what in our relationship. It didn't allow you to

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<v Speaker 1>take me to Wakanda.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't find the flight. Had I found a flight,

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<v Speaker 4>I sure would.

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<v Speaker 1>Have been there. Okay, that's gonna be our next trip.

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<v Speaker 1>He's taking me to get some I gotta get my

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<v Speaker 1>RANI Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, and goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Jamal. Oh my gosh, that Jamal Bryant is

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<v Speaker 1>a man. Oh my gosh. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say you definitely probably get about thirty percent

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<v Speaker 2>of your shadiness from him.

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<v Speaker 1>No, forty forty Yes, Okay, he's extremely shady. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but people don't know how shady he is.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a I was going to talk about this while

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<v Speaker 1>we were on. Jamal reads like a book a week,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's very smart. He's very well read. He loves

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<v Speaker 1>using his big words. Yeah. But then he also has

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<v Speaker 1>like a just a comedic side to him, which is

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<v Speaker 1>which is nice to It's a nice balance. But that

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<v Speaker 1>makes for a great pastor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, because you want to you you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to sit there and just be bored and be

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<v Speaker 2>entertained as wow, this is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get the word and be entertained. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was But I appreciate him taking time out

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<v Speaker 3>of his busy day to talk to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I appreciate his perspective on haters, like the

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<v Speaker 1>haters are not coming and burning. The blogger steaks in

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<v Speaker 1>our yard. It's just a blogger. If all we got

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<v Speaker 1>to be worried about is a blogger. Yeah, good, that's

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<v Speaker 1>Bob Briant. It's funny. But anyway, don't ever forget to

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<v Speaker 1>live your life, either reasonable or sure Heydi or bo Fye.

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