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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shaitey. I am just

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Speaker 1: a Ryan. What's up? What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for being here.

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, thank Yeah. Everybody should be like nice

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Speaker 1: and full and happy or mad? Right, I'm mad because

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Speaker 1: they got into a fight with their family, right like

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Speaker 1: happy Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, like I'm never coming back again.

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Speaker 1: I love those family moments.

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Speaker 2: I wish I had something like that. You know what,

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Speaker 2: I actually have had my brother years ago. He would

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Speaker 2: always be good for a moment like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he likes storm out the house.

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Speaker 3: Has he ever stormed out?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if he ever stormed out, but he

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Speaker 2: would make things just very tense.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you can cut that dientcher with a knife, honey.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then it would like carry over for like months,

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Speaker 2: where like he stopped talking to people.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love that. Okay, So, as a matter if

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Speaker 1: I I want to ask the folks right now, send

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Speaker 1: us your crazy current like this. Just this past Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: they had me like family drama over Thanksgiving. Yes, give

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Speaker 1: us the tea. We want the story, so like email

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Speaker 1: that to us.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that would be fun. Yes, And I've had plenty

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Speaker 2: of those with like Wand's family when we.

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Speaker 1: Just yeah, my sister has stormed out a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, normally sometimes when back when I was younger

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Speaker 1: and I had a very hot temper, it was me

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Speaker 1: really oh yeah, but I mean I would eat first.

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Speaker 1: Of course you got a hot temper, I used to Yes, anyway,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on, so no, no, no, anyway, what I did,

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Speaker 1: I used to have a very hot I mean I

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Speaker 1: would get angry very quickly and then just like say

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Speaker 1: what I had to say I had and then I

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Speaker 1: didn't have a filter. Yeah. Now I have a filter.

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Speaker 1: I don't get that angry, and I'm a much better person. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: Like at what age did these were my twenties or

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Speaker 1: the twenties was like rip rain yeah yeah yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was on fire.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like for me, well I think I've

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Speaker 2: said this, well, I don't know. Sometimes it's still here.

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Speaker 2: But when once I had kids, I really kind of.

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Speaker 1: Like calm down. Yes, absolutely, I definitely calm down. Yeah. Yeah. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's your shady moment? Any shady moment? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I mean okay, so I'm talking to you right now

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Speaker 2: on like less than one hour cumulative of sleep.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're working on fumes. Yeah, fumes. I'm

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Speaker 1: on fumes.

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Speaker 3: And it is because that.

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Speaker 2: Juan Dixon, what did he do? Has no consideration for

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Speaker 2: people sleeping? So okay, he he he's in his basketball season.

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Speaker 3: His team is going on a road trip, all right.

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Speaker 2: So they're on a two game road trip, which means

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Speaker 2: they're gonna be gone you know, one, two, three.

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Speaker 1: Probably like four or five days, all right.

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Speaker 2: So you know he's he always waits till the last

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Speaker 2: minute to pack. So he comes into the bedroom midnight. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I got a pack, but I'm tired. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: lay down for a second.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So is that is that a second for somethings?

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Speaker 1: That code for robbing? You packed my clothes? No? No, no,

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Speaker 1: I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Like he's so particular, like so particular, So I can't

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Speaker 2: help him there. But he but and keep this in mind,

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Speaker 2: he had to leave the house by six am because

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Speaker 2: they were flying out this morning. Right, okay, so twelve

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Speaker 2: you haven't packed and you're laying down in the bed.

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Speaker 2: Not good, right, It's not for a few minutes with you, okay.

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Speaker 2: So he sets he sets an alarm, okay for like

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Speaker 2: forty five minutes. I don't Yeah, I don't even know

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Speaker 2: what the time was, so, you know, I doze off,

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Speaker 2: and what feels like a few minutes later he was

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Speaker 2: the alarm.

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Speaker 1: He's not turn it off.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, turn your alarm off, or I'm like,

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Speaker 2: get up right, He's like, all right, just give me

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Speaker 2: a little more, give me a little more time whatever.

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Speaker 2: A few minutes later, he doesn't get up. He doesn't

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Speaker 2: get up. I swear the whole entire night. His alarm

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Speaker 2: went up, like he snoozed his alarm the entire night.

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Speaker 1: Oh we'd have been fighting, yes, And I'm like, so,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, can you turn your alarm? Can you get up?

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Speaker 2: Turn your alarm? He's he has a nerve to say, Robin,

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Speaker 2: I'm cool, I.

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Speaker 1: Said, but I'm not. Yes, you're literally sleeping through.

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Speaker 3: This breaking alarm.

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Speaker 1: I'm cool, Like I'm fine, Yes, okay, you know, not

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Speaker 1: the only one in the.

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Speaker 3: Room, sir, I said, But I'm not.

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Speaker 1: What then that's funny, right, Actually that's actually that's actually absurd.

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Speaker 1: But we love why so we won't like trash. It's insane.

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Speaker 2: He had the nerve so so so, and I'm the

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Speaker 2: type like I can't just fall back to sleep. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's like you, if I'm awaken in the middle of

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Speaker 2: fall back to sleep. So it's like I will finally

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Speaker 2: fall back to sleep. And then it said, and I'm like, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Get I would have rolled up and punched him. I

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Speaker 1: straight up, what have I smacked the living daylights out

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Speaker 1: of him?

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Speaker 2: So then he had the nerve to say was He's

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Speaker 2: like oh, And then of course, like once he does

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Speaker 2: get up and starts packing, he's all talking and has

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Speaker 2: the light on.

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Speaker 1: And you know, the light fine, I put it.

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Speaker 3: I put a little eye mask on that ship was.

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Speaker 2: Annoying, Like I don't really wear sleep masks, especially because

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Speaker 2: my lashes, you know, the extensions.

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Speaker 3: That was uncomfortable. So I'm all tossing and turning.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's just a mass. It's a mask.

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Speaker 2: Then on top of that, right, so his colm blue

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Speaker 2: to story, But my brother in law and the baby

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Speaker 2: were here.

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Speaker 1: Are they still here?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, they'll cut out in January, okay, But he

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Speaker 2: spent the night because my brother in law was on

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Speaker 2: the coaching staff and they were both going to the

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Speaker 2: you know, the airport together, but his wife was on

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Speaker 2: a trip, not coming back till tonight.

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Speaker 1: Where's the baby?

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Speaker 2: So then I had to wake up extra early to

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Speaker 2: get the baby ready for daycare.

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Speaker 1: This is just a mass okay, So basically you have

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes asleep. Okay, hear the baby Wan Dixon and

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Speaker 1: your brother in law.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is a mask, which is and I'm like

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Speaker 2: the whole night, I'm like, oh my gosh, i gotta

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Speaker 2: work tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Go to podcasts. I'm not even gonna know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We got so much right, so right now it's disclaimer.

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Speaker 1: Whatever comes out of Robin's mouth, just blame it on

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Speaker 1: the lack of sleep, yes, okay, yes.

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Speaker 3: I'm present or extra cranky, yes, blame it on that.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So let me give you my reasonably shady moment

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Speaker 1: of the week. Okay, Okay, So you don't have three girls.

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Speaker 1: They're in high school. This week is spirit week, right,

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Speaker 1: so every day they have to dress up as something. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so first day they two days ago, and they participate, yeah,

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Speaker 1: full on Okay, at the whole school, full on participate.

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Speaker 1: Really because it's like all girls, they all get into it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying the school is all girls. So they get in,

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Speaker 1: they get into it. Adores the vice president of her class.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, okay, making sure they're all until she's

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Speaker 2: like picking the themes.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. So theme for the first day was be

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Speaker 1: your favorite celebrity. Grace decided she was going to be

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Speaker 1: this woman and she needed like a blond wig. She

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Speaker 1: on a shirt that said the Real Housewives Potomac. Okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: she was meet okay, And I thought that was so cute,

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Speaker 1: right until she started talking Oh no, and she was

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Speaker 1: like right on the street is oh not on the street,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, that's right, That's what I'm talking about. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. It was so shady and so horrible. I

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Speaker 1: had a knife, and leave my house and stop it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. And so like I'm sure all day long,

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Speaker 1: and then she she would send me pictures of herself

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Speaker 1: with like her friends of all day and listen, she

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Speaker 1: kept that blonde wig on her head all day. She

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Speaker 1: was so excited. And I was like, if word on

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Speaker 1: the street comes out of your mouth one more time, no,

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Speaker 1: we gonna fight up here. You see what you did?

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Speaker 1: You did it, I did it. You did it.

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Speaker 2: That's hilarious. Okay, wait, so did she look like you

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Speaker 1: I mean she, out of all three of my kids,

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Speaker 1: but she was It was actually nice because she was

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Speaker 2: So do you think she was she saying that at

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Speaker 2: school to her friend. I'm sure I am so.

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Speaker 1: She said all of her teachers loved it, like they were.

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Speaker 1: They were excited about it, she said, even an older

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Speaker 1: day she saw Grace and she was like, I really

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Speaker 1: liked your costume. You really look like your mom. And

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Speaker 1: Grace was like very happy. So that I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: nice that she loves me enough to do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was super shady.

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Speaker 1: That's funny way, But we have a super exciting special

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Speaker 1: guest to today, y'all get ready to get ready, to

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Speaker 1: get ready, get runner. Who is it? Okay? So, like

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Speaker 1: I said, we have this super special sing guest on

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Speaker 1: this show. Y'all. Okay, let me give him his first

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Speaker 1: his credentials. Okay, So he's a more House grad. He

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Speaker 1: is a pastor extraordinaire. Actually, he's the best pastor preacher

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Speaker 1: on the planet, on the planet, on the planet. Put

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Speaker 1: all your money on it. I will put all my

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Speaker 1: money on it.

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Speaker 3: He is.

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Speaker 1: He's actually the senior pastor of New Birth Missionary Baptist

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Speaker 1: Church in Atlanta, Georgia. He's the only guy I've ever married,

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Speaker 1: the only one, Yes, the only one. And he is

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Speaker 1: the father to all three of my kids.

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Speaker 3: Do you think he will he will continue to be

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Speaker 3: the only one ever.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. We shall see, but he is. He

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Speaker 1: is the father to all three of my kids. Y'all

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Speaker 1: know him as passed to Jamal Harrison Bryan. He is

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Speaker 1: in the belt ding. What is going on? Past up?

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Speaker 4: Oh good, Robin asked Zella.

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Speaker 5: I made a promise to her about some ice Chipsla,

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Speaker 5: What is.

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Speaker 1: That with the ice chips? He said, When we get older,

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Speaker 1: he's gonna be the way feeding the ice chips. As

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Speaker 1: I'm laying in the bed like an valid, he's feeding

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Speaker 1: me like I don't know if that's a good Is

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Speaker 1: that a compliment?

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Speaker 4: And what is that? That's a big compliment?

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Speaker 4: So let me say this to you, Robert, Let me

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Speaker 1: I said, what are you gonna white? Mind? I mean,

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Speaker 1: The ice tip you just that's that's your limit. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Tupac or Biggie Bicky Fantasia or Jennifer Hudson Fantasia, Kobe

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Speaker 1: Or Thanksgiving, Christmas? Atlanta or Baltimore. What you got?

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Speaker 4: You gotta pick who's listening.

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Speaker 5: This was all a lie from her day, right. Her

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Speaker 5: John Maxwell said this Robin that if you want to

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Speaker 2: Who Now did you did you always feel that way

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Speaker 4: No, it's perrier water. It is an acquired taste.

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Speaker 5: It is shocking, Cornell West uh said, Uh, the most.

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Speaker 4: Painful thing you'll ever do is be hated on by

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Speaker 5: And so to go through the blows is not robbing

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Speaker 5: Is people who you're trying to represent on a global stage.

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Speaker 5: And you're doing it and you're not twerking. You're doing it,

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Speaker 5: and you're not being vogue or profane. You're raising your children,

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Speaker 4: You are made to feel bad because you do well. Uh.

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Speaker 5: And it really just shows how toxic many of our

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Speaker 1: Damn that was good, right, Okay, sot Alright, but Jamal,

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Speaker 4: Oh, no doubt about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. The old thing is that hurt people, hurt people.

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Speaker 5: And I heard a quote this way. Haters are people

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Speaker 5: who don't know how to say they love you. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: And so instead of beating me up, they hate Jamaal.

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Speaker 4: How did you do this?

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Speaker 5: But we're not used to men towards ship, We're not

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I like you know. I can say that

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Speaker 5: No, let me say to you, Gizelle one in that vein,

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Speaker 4: And you have done.

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Speaker 5: It in a very graceful fashion that in many ways

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Speaker 5: Their haters was burning crosses in their front yard, were

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Speaker 5: You know, I wasn't coming to you Grace Angel and

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Speaker 4: It's just the reality of the space.

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Speaker 5: That this is the safest hour as a civil rights

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Speaker 4: Can't and I'll take.

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Speaker 1: It, okay, So come on that vein. I think the

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Speaker 3: Where was it replayed for him to get a hold

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Speaker 1: God only knows, Georgia.

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Speaker 6: I need you to know the slave Nick ro y'all

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Speaker 1: That was amazing, Jamal, that's that's you know, typical best

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I'm frustrated, but I'm excited that people of

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Speaker 4: And so I think that people are really mobilized.

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Speaker 5: One thing about black people, if they feel like there's

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Speaker 4: So I think that people are mobilized.

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Speaker 5: And it were just unearthed yesterday that if one hypothetically

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Speaker 5: of it went to Hershelwalker. Oh wow, ninety of those

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Speaker 5: So they've been pumped, pimping him at a level that

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Speaker 1: Wow. Speaking speaking of Trump, you know, he just decided

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Speaker 1: he was gonna run again. Don't you want to, like

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Speaker 1: sing the song for Frozen? What's that? Let it go,

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Speaker 1: Let it go, Let it go, Let it go. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like there is no wind in his sales.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 5: I think he is a gift to the Democratic Party

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Speaker 5: who's thinking about running, because he is such a megalo

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Speaker 5: I think him staying in the race is going to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it will keep me entertained.

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Speaker 1: I will say that.

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Speaker 2: I can I tell you, without Trump on my TV

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Speaker 1: This is very true. I am looking forward to that. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: And if you didn't see the did Jamal takedown of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now let's let stand on that. On that topic,

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Speaker 2: I think it's the one thing. One advantage about Warnock

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Speaker 1: So you know, we were here Maryland.

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Speaker 2: We're pushing for our Maryland candidates, but we can tell

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Speaker 2: off a box for herschel Walker like I don't.

440
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: I just that is the.

441
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 4: Most asa Georgia. Yes, this guy can't conjugate a bird.

442
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: It's just it's pathetic. I listen.

443
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: I was listening to him the other day and I

444
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 2: was like, I cannot believe that this is reality. But

445
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: now at least we can focus all of our attention

446
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 2: on making sure he does not get elected.

447
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 1: True, true, true. Okay, moving on, So, Jamal and I

448
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 1: have three beautiful daughters, Grace, Angel and a Door. I

449
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 1: love them so much and I'm actually proud of my kids,

450
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 1: like I think that they are amazing.

451
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 3: They are beautiful amazing, respectful.

452
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: They are kind, they are I just learned this. I

453
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 1: learned this morning, Jamal. I don't know if you if

454
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, there's that Grace takes a class and right

455
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: now currently that is like I don't know what it's called,

456
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 1: but it's like she helps students with special needs. Oh nice.

457
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: So but the class is about like her tutoring them

458
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 1: and her helping them. And I felt like at her age.

459
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: If I when I was her age, there's no way

460
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 1: in hell that I would have the patience to do

461
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: something like that. I credit Jamal. I think she got

462
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: her patience from you. You know, Jamal is very compassionate

463
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: and he's he has a gift for just giving service

464
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: and service. So thank you you gave that to Grace

465
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: because she is. I saw her interact with one of

466
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: the young ladies that go to school has with special needs,

467
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: and Grace was just like so amazing with her. So

468
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: I give you all that, mister Bryant. Now I feel

469
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: like we're able to co parent very well. I'm going

470
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 1: to toot my own horn a little bit and say that,

471
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 1: you know, when Jamal and I were first getting a divorce,

472
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: I decided that however, mad I was at him was

473
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: not as important as him being in my kid's life. Right, absolutely,

474
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: What would you think is our greatest gift to our kids?

475
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 5: Jamal were Number one, you are an amazing mother and

476
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 5: I am eternally indebted for the incredible way that you

477
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 5: have modeled in front of our girls. And I don't

478
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 5: want people to think we've just arrived here.

479
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 4: This was not an easy road to get to where

480
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 4: it is that we are.

481
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 5: We were intentional about doing family counseling with the girls

482
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 5: and with Giselle and I because it was here a

483
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 5: shama for a minute, but it was, but we were

484
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 5: really committed for the sake of the girls.

485
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 4: On how it is that we were modeled before each other.

486
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 4: So we've been divorced for twelve years, a.

487
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: Long time, long time, but he's still here.

488
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 4: He's twelve years and twelve years.

489
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 5: I can only think of one major blow up that

490
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 5: we've had with the girls present, and I'm just thankful

491
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 5: on God one that you have been mindful of my

492
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 5: presence and how it is that you have navigated co

493
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 5: parenting long distance, which is a whole different all of wax,

494
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 5: but it's been greater.

495
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 4: So every day is Mother's Day. And that's really why

496
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 4: I'm nice to you, okay.

497
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 1: And I appreciate that. And this is for people that

498
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: are going through divorce right now, I said to Jamal,

499
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: because Jamal travels a lot. You know, I don't know

500
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: what your calendar and your schedule is now, but at

501
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: the time, Jamal would be booked a year out for

502
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: you know, going around the world. He's he's a preacher international.

503
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: He wants me to say that he's a globe trotting preacher.

504
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: And I knew because of his schedule that he couldn't

505
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 1: have a consistent schedule with the girl, like we couldn't

506
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: do every other weekend or anything like that. So I

507
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: said to him, look, anytime it is, it has something.

508
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: Anytime there is a moment that has something to do

509
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: with the girls, if it's a vacation, if it's a dinner,

510
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 1: if it's or whatever, you are invited, okay. And so

511
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: I always left the window open for him to jump

512
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: in whenever he could, and he does. He jumps in

513
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: all the time.

514
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 2: That's beautiful, I mean. And unfortunately, so many relationships or

515
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 2: the parent they can't get along and they can't.

516
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: Look at the bigger picture.

517
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: Which is the children when they go through a divorce.

518
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: And so I definitely think you all are an example

519
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 2: for so many people in this world. Yeah, people hold

520
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: on the bitterness and anger and it's like, you know,

521
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: it's just like you just got to let that go

522
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 2: and look at the big picture, which is the kids.

523
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love my kids more than I will ever

524
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: be mad at that man. And now I'm not mad

525
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: at him, no more so any way. Okay, so a

526
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 1: couple of things, Oh, a couple week he said this week.

527
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: You know, Jamal is good about not bragging on himself,

528
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,959
Speaker 1: but there's a little brag. I want to do. You

529
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: feed the community. When the COVID first started, New Birth

530
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: was very intentional about feeding the community. You have fed

531
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: how many I'm saying it wrong, you have done how many?

532
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 4: How many?

533
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 5: So in the in the pandemic, we started giving out

534
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 5: groceries and just a month ago we hit one million

535
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 5: families that we give groceries to in the last years.

536
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 5: And it is great and it is embarrassing to know

537
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 5: that food and security is that diar.

538
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 4: And we're just talking about one metropolitan Eric.

539
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 5: For Thanksgiving, we're given out five thousand turkeys. While that

540
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 5: sounds good in one way and another way, it's sad

541
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 5: that it has.

542
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 4: To be done. Yeah.

543
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 2: Now we said one million groceries two years, families, one

544
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,959
Speaker 2: million family, one million bags of groceries in two years.

545
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's fantastic.

546
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: That's fantastic. I remember when I was when we were

547
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: married and I was the first Lady of the Primate Temple,

548
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: the Women's Ministry would that.

549
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: You know what, I know my next question, the Women's

550
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 2: Ministry would decided to has his hands over his.

551
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: Space, right space. We decided to feed as many families

552
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: as we could and literally go to their house knock

553
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: on the door the food.

554
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 5: Wow.

555
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: So I had like a bus. I had security. I

556
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: was pregnant at the time with one of them kids

557
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: I have, and I was going knocking on doors. So

558
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: it's like I was in the hood of Baltimore knocking

559
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: on doors. You did not know what was going to

560
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: open the door. So all kinds of things was opening

561
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: the door as I was.

562
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 4: We forgot about it.

563
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, obviously we were blessing them, but it

564
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: was such a blessing to me to be able to

565
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: give them what the Church gave them and for me,

566
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: like they would invite me in. It would be like

567
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: a weed infested smelling house. And they would invite me in,

568
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: and I would prag with them a little bit, and

569
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: I would say Happy Thanksgiving. But we made sure that

570
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: we gave them food from Thanksgiving to Christmas. Wow. So right,

571
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: enough food for to last at least a month. Wow.

572
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: So yes, that's what I did as first lady at

573
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: a POM. That is fantastic.

574
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: So look, speaking of Jaselle being first lady at Empowerment Temple,

575
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: tell us Jamal, how was Jazelle as a first lady?

576
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 1: There's a par.

577
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 5: No, no, no, So Giselle was not a Mother Teresa first

578
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 5: lady in her head, she was a Michelle Obama first lady.

579
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I was so.

580
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 4: Yes, she was coming in waving.

581
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: Uh Obama before Obama. That is such a lot I

582
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: was not waving to the crowd.

583
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 5: Was great she was. She was the black princess die.

584
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 5: She did a great job.

585
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 4: Wow.

586
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: Okay, well while we're on that that note.

587
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 5: She did our first women's conference. Yes, she did a

588
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 5: whole lot of mentoring. A lot of the young girls

589
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 5: came to her for mentoring. A lot of the young

590
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 5: ladies who had come to Baltimore to go to either

591
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 5: Copping or Morgan really pulled on her.

592
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 4: She wrote a whole lot of AKA letters. Half of

593
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 4: the ak's in Baltimore. Wow, got letters from joselle Oh.

594
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: Wow, listen, I was the bomb. Okay even back then.

595
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: Now now now, I want to say, there's some things

596
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: that I missed not being married to Jamal Brian.

597
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, which is one of the things.

598
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: I used to complain about. I think I now miss it. Okay, Okay.

599
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, Jamal travels a lot,

600
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: so he would have to get his his suits and

601
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: his ties and his shirts together before he would go

602
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: on his trips. So he would always be like, wake

603
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: me up out of my sleep. Now you want to

604
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: be sleep, and when you're sleep, leave me alone, right,

605
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: But he would wake me up. I turn on all

606
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: the lights. He would say, Giselle, does his suit go

607
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: with this tie? But does his shirt go with this tie?

608
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: When this suit? Okay, wait a minute, wait a minute,

609
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: wait a minute, let me get three other ties. Okay

610
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: did these three ties go with this five shirts? I

611
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: mean it was like, so you miss this. Now I'm

612
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: just saying giving.

613
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 5: You half in the store what she misses that I

614
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 5: was picking her clothes out.

615
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 4: That's what she missed when I was taking her clothes out, Robbing.

616
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 4: She wasn't in no blow somebody when I don't pick

617
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 4: it out?

618
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, the same that.

619
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 4: We brought this off.

620
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 5: This.

621
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 4: I need you to be a witness, Robbin. You gotta

622
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 4: be a with jam.

623
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: Was my first stylist.

624
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 4: Truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, Robbing.

625
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 4: When I first met you? Where did I meet you?

626
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: You met me at the N double A C.

627
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: When did I first meet you? Robin?

628
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: Oh rob oh okay yes as sex, yes, true, very true.

629
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: Yes that sex.

630
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, So she does not miss picking out my tis.

631
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 4: She misses me dressing her. Yes, but she's not going

632
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 4: to give convention to Okay.

633
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: Okay, this is this is a breaking moment. Yes, Jamal

634
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: Bryant was my first stylist. Really, yes, and my last

635
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: right and you're only and my only yes, okay.

636
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: See one of my I had one of my questions

637
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: for Jamal was how does he go about picking his

638
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: outfits out? Because you know, you look nice and sharp now,

639
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 2: but I've seen sometimes you have, like, you know, a

640
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: pink tie and a pink, silky.

641
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: S about them Detroit player suits you had, Okay, you

642
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: had some plenty of Detroit player suits.

643
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 2: Ok do you have a tailor and you're just like,

644
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 2: give me one of every color, give me everything in

645
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: every color, in every print.

646
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: Water shade is coming.

647
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 4: It's a work in progress.

648
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 5: So when I was a US in Detroit, uh, that's

649
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 5: when I started wearing gatos. So when I met Jizelle,

650
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 5: I had different colored Gatos for every suit. Jazelle threw

651
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 5: my gators out. Yes, I've tried to purge. I've tried

652
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 5: to purge that part in and walk backwards.

653
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: Okay, it's a working yes, But I mean they were like,

654
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: they were like, it's like a whole green suit with

655
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: the match of green, gatas orange suits with that match

656
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: of orange. He had this one white leather.

657
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 4: He wasn't ready.

658
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: It's definitely not ready. I don't know you were killing them,

659
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: but they weren't ready. White leather trench coat. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: wait for him to go white, a trip leather. I

661
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: threw that thing in the trash can. I said, I

662
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: can't do this.

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Speaker 4: You ain't never saying a trench coat in white ripping.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: Twenty years later, I was ahead of my time.

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Speaker 1: White leather. Oh cause, okay, So where is that bat?

667
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: I threw it in the trash can Jamal Bryant's it's gone.

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00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: Okay, that thing probably costs fourteen thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: It is gone. I couldn't take it. But no, I

670
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: feel like you have come a long way and I

671
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: love you. Do you do rock the dashiki situation? Sometimes?

672
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: I see you on the Instagram? So, so do you

673
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: like dashiki? A suits?

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Speaker 4: Get you a man that could do bothse?

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00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: Did you a man that can do both? Is that

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00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: what he's but to answer your question, he has tailors

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00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: upon tailors upon Taylors.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, I believe that.

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00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, See, I'm not a really good cook, so

680
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't I didn't really whine and dine

681
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: in Jamal by my home cooking? Right? But what was

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00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: your the favorite part of you?

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00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 4: Let me tell you that. I gotta tell you this.

684
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 4: Do you know what our first fight was in marriage?

685
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: What was that? I have no idea?

686
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 4: When are you going to the Supermarke?

687
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: You didn't know.

688
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 4: She was coming back with chips and start getting a

689
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:46,919
Speaker 4: home cooked meals so the Girls was born?

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00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, but yeah, in my defense, in

691
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 1: my defense, Jamal, you like to go to restaurants to eat.

692
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: You like to do that.

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Speaker 5: Well, when we're sitting in the same house, you got

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Speaker 5: Robin this is two thousand.

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00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,720
Speaker 4: Wasn't no uber, No, there was no brother.

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00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: This is the just.

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00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 4: Got off a motor two way pages something.

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00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: Okay, this was actually gonna be my last question to you,

699
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 1: and we might finish it just for what he just said.

700
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: But anyway, okay, so what was the best part about

701
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: being married to Jiselle? Because you're the only person on

702
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: this planet that has been married to me.

703
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 4: There's a reason there's a be a whole other show.

704
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: Give it to you.

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00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 5: No, no, no, Jouzelle pushed me to be better and

706
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 5: she's the only one outside of my parents who has

707
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 5: spoken into my life to really push me to go

708
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 5: to another level. I preached at a conference at my

709
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 5: home church one day and I thought I.

710
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 4: Killed that job. I mean, I thought Star Wars the

711
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 4: Force was with and Giselle.

712
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 5: We got in the car and Jaseelle's like, you have

713
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 5: really stopped growing?

714
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 4: Oh do you really think just the best that you

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00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 4: can do?

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00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

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00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 4: I was high level offended. Wow, but really seriously for

718
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 4: it to really go to another point.

719
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 5: And then when does herschel Walker video went virabl I

720
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 5: saw Jaseelle maybe a week after that, and she said.

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00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 4: This is your vein why did you leave that you

722
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 4: need to stay and what it is that you are.

723
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 5: Good at and be your best And a lot of

724
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 5: people don't really have authentic friends that can push you

725
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 5: to be better. And so the thing that I value

726
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 5: about Giselle, She's always pushed me to be better, even

727
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 5: if she's pushing me over the cliff without a parachute.

728
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to leave it at that. That was

729
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: such a nice way to end. I want everybody know

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Speaker 1: Jamal Briant is one of my favorite people on Earth.

731
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: Oh that's nice, Yes, one of my favorite people on Earth.

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00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 4: Put that one. Don't do that because rapping is sitting there,

733
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 4: not one of not one of the Don't do that.

734
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: You're not the I have to that.

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00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 4: Don't do that. Don't do that because rapping is the truth.

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00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 4: You're one of the truth.

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00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 1: Okay, I have I have Grace Angela, my favorite one

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00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: of the four.

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00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 5: Time.

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00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: It's okay, I can say that you you are in

741
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: the top five. Okay, a favorite people.

742
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 4: I have three kids.

743
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 3: I have three kids, three kids.

744
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: I have two parents. I have three kids.

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00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 2: I have two parents. Yes, so you you beat out

746
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 2: one parent.

747
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: Yes, gee geez.

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00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 4: Anyway, thank you for letting me come on the show.

749
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: Yes, we're gonna send you a reasonably said shady sweatshirt.

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00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: We would like to youse for you to wear it

751
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: Sunday morning at church. We want to see us represented

752
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 1: as you preach the Gospel of the Lord. Wouldn't that

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00:38:55,400 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: be beautiful? I'm aware from midd Bible study. Okay, thanks, Okay,

754
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: on that note, we will we will let you go.

755
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 1: We know that you are very busy. Love you to death,

756
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: not Rob I'm gonna speak for myself. Love you to death,

757
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: Jamal Bryant, Thank you, Jamal.

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00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 3: It's been a pleasure.

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00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: It has been a pleasure.

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00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 3: We appreciate your work in the community and we do

761
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: miss you.

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00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: Up.

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00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 1: Oh that was actually that was my last question. So Jamal,

764
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: did he took me around the world? Like we went

765
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: to Egypt, we went to Greece, we went to here, Africa,

766
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: we went to Why didn't you take me to Wakanda?

767
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 1: Like what in our relationship. It didn't allow you to

768
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: take me to Wakanda.

769
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 4: I couldn't find the flight. Had I found a flight,

770
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 4: I sure would.

771
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: Have been there. Okay, that's gonna be our next trip.

772
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: He's taking me to get some I gotta get my

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00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: RANI Okay.

774
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 4: All right, and goodbye.

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00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: Thank you, Jamal. Oh my gosh, that Jamal Bryant is

776
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: a man. Oh my gosh. Yeah.

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00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 2: I would say you definitely probably get about thirty percent

778
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 2: of your shadiness from him.

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00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: No, forty forty Yes, Okay, he's extremely shady. Yeah, yeah,

780
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,479
Speaker 1: but people don't know how shady he is.

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00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, it's funny.

782
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: He's a I was going to talk about this while

783
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: we were on. Jamal reads like a book a week,

784
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: so he's very smart. He's very well read. He loves

785
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: using his big words. Yeah. But then he also has

786
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: like a just a comedic side to him, which is

787
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: which is nice to It's a nice balance. But that

788
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: makes for a great pastor.

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00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, because you want to you you don't

790
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 2: want to sit there and just be bored and be

791
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: entertained as wow, this is true.

792
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: I want to get the word and be entertained. So

793
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 1: that's awesome.

794
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 3: So that was But I appreciate him taking time out

795
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 3: of his busy day to talk to us.

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00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I appreciate his perspective on haters, like the

797
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: haters are not coming and burning. The blogger steaks in

798
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: our yard. It's just a blogger. If all we got

799
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: to be worried about is a blogger. Yeah, good, that's

800
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: Bob Briant. It's funny. But anyway, don't ever forget to

801
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: live your life, either reasonable or sure Heydi or bo Fye.

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00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,360
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